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-26

No offence, but you'd rather sit here in shit flinging it back at some vague monolith you characterised as feminism, starting posts with achshually the problem with feminism ?? Lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 09:13 PM
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Yeah, no bother. I'll unsub. For a left wing advocacy political sub, picking a fight with feminism seems like an incredibly bad idea. I was downvoted to oblivion here on a recent male lonlimess thread, and now I realise why. I'd choose dialogue myself or in my case, I just don't openly say I'm a feminist. You guys wanna take on half the population, best of luck.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 09:07 PM
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I didn't realise this sub is so anti-feminism or attracts people that are. That's problematic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 08:53 PM
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I'm pushing collective punishment how now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 04:21 PM
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I voiced an opinion on why I think discussions online devolve into what the OP described. It's an opinion, not fact. I haven't characterised the exact nature of those discussions, no more than than the OP has. If you have a problem with my response, it's as much a function of the OP I'm replying to as me. The manosphere would include such YouTube channels like MRA or Logical Dating for example. The content and talking points scold women for high dating standards , parse videos of women asking wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 02:27 PM
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If you want to argue points I didn't make and deflect with quips, you've got the wrong guy.. Feminism isn't a monolith, and I have issues with aspects of it. Have a nice day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 02:11 PM
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I mean, I'm Irish, so I don't know. And we are here arguing about Scouts in a thread about male loneliness, so yeah, lol indeed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:46 PM
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If challenging your worldview ruins things for you, I can't help you. You will live a long and difficult life in that case.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:38 PM
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It's access to public lands is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:35 PM
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If something is publicly funded, you have to apply equal access until recently, unless you make issue with the concept of DEI.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:32 PM
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The OP asked why so many online discussions devolved into mocking Male loneliness. My original comment is on the nature of those discussions, not the topic itself. Can you please show me where I suggest the schadenfreude aspect is certain. I postulated it, that's all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:27 PM
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I haven't called one single person an incel here. I have been attacked and the mods seem to think in fact, that it's those replying who are replying in bad faith.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:23 PM
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Where is the legal impediment to creating Boy Scouts?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:21 PM
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I've never suggested the schadenfreude is healthy, nor have I definitive proof it exists and to what extent. I have merely suggested it could exist. In so much as there is a significant problem with young girls being poisoned about young men, yes I agree it exists ,and yes I agree it's a problem. The idea that it is ok for manosphere content to blame women because feminist theory blames men is ridiculous. That doesn't mean aspects of feminist theory and practice are not problematic. But last tim…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 01:04 PM
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Burden of proof lies with you from an argumentation point of view.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 12:55 PM
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And how is this a threat to Mens only spaces?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 12:54 PM
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Tell me what bad faith arguments I have made in the post I'm referring to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 11:00 AM
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The article you linked is one Mens Shed kn the UK, where members voted to allow women in, on the basis that a wife pressured her husband. This article is not evidence of a systematic attempt to invade mens new third spaces by women. Edit; I'm being downvoted why now? Are we abandoning all common sense now in this thread?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 09:26 AM
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No, it just means you wrote out a rant based on an assumption, and we all know what assumptions do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 09:07 AM
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I'm a married man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 09:02 AM
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Do you not see the irony of how whiny you sound?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 08:45 AM
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But even if that's the case, the approach incel talking points make allows women online to throw it back in their faces. I mean, what do you expect as a reaction if women were to tum around and blame their loneliness on men being shit? I see a lot of "men are trash" sentiment that is problematic,.but that doesn't translate into women blaming men for why they are lonely? Why is that? Men as a whole come off as whining and desperate for sex when they say women need to lower their standards so men …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 08:28 AM
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The inability to secure, or lack of a romantic partner in life is tangential to why you may feel lonely and have few social interactions. Men are poorer at social networking as compared to women, and factors like atomisation, working from home , etc are all common to both sexes. The difference in reported rates of loneliness between genders are marginal and vary with age.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 08:04 AM
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You are referring to dating difficulties. Even if i subscribe to your point of view on this wrt dating, this is not relevant to the male loneliness epidemic, or at best is very peripheral to it. Men do not and should not need women to not be lonely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 07:12 AM
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Might be some blame for what? For dating difficulties or the male loneliness epidemic. Bear in mind we are talking online discussions of the latter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 07:00 AM
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It's perfectly ok to be frustrated with dating and to commiserate. But the male loneliness epidemic is not related and bringing dating into it is dumb. Furthermore, incels blame women for their lack of success with women, and by extension, the male loneliness epidemic. The result online is that women then perceive any attention around this as being blame being put on them for having too high a set of standards. We've all seen talking points. And so by way of reply, we see what the OP complains a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 06:26 AM
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That's because incels have invaded so many online spaces with their dumb manosphere talking points, so most women online assume reactionary status to those talking points......and in addition you can't help but feel there is some significant schadenfreude being felt by women who see the suffering of men at a meta level as some sort of payback for centuries of oppression of men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/25 04:51 AM
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What happened when you posted this on AskFeminists? The post as a standalone is not much use without accompanied criticism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/25 06:20 AM
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So what? Right now, rape is being used as a weapon on a massive scale in Darfur. And this isn't unique to this conflict. Women and children regularly suffer in conflicts. This isn't a Suffering Olympics where we have to decide on war being worse for one over the other. War is bad for all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 08:18 AM
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I would suggest that feminism isn't an alley yet. Yet. Neither feminism or much of what is advocated in this sub can succeed without the other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 09:31 PM
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It's probably a combination of both your algorithm and more and more AI / bot activity, as well as an increase in antipathy to men post Trumps win. Also it's worth noting that it can be reactionary to an uptick in misogyny online , which has also been trending up a lot lately. Redditt suffers from the same problems as other SM platforms in terms of its ability to polarise opinions and present them to you as standard.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/25 06:52 AM
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Social Media
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/25 10:35 PM
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Yeah, i suspect this will blow over and nothing of substance will come out of it except awareness. That's not a bad thing in itself for parents. But if you look at any data, the fathers watcing and talking about the show aren't the problem, it's the ones that aren't.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/25 11:10 AM
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I think the noise around this show may be over emphasising the SM nature of this (which is always easy to point a finger at) , and not on the aspect which we (and I as a parent of a 21 year old young man get) would rather avoid, and that's parenting. The last episode of the show was all about this, and the psychological burden of abuse and the effect it can have on generations. And if you dig into data out of US, where it all goes downhill for boys is when their father leaves, is is never presen…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/25 08:52 AM
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I know this isn't a "not all men" type of post, but what's the reply to pushback on Not All Men. Personally I find the casual manner of grouping all men together for hate purposes, whilst simultaneously not taking kindly to generalising women one of the weidest takes on gender politics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/25 06:16 PM
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Stop a lunatic Trumper from trying to pass transphobic legislation in Arkansas? Yes, I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/25 03:32 PM
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Calm down, I haven't said she has written anything objectionable. I've simply suggested that maybe asking young teenage boys to bring out their more feminine side won't resonate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 11:26 AM
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I think the author bounces around the page, desperately trying to not write "toxic masculinity" for some reason, when that's what she is getting at. Of course we need new leaders for masculinity, and we do need to re-define that, but again, as has been the bane of progressives, their messaging is all wrong. Whilst this article is written for a mature audience who's already bought into feminism, I can't help but feel they really believe this message would resonant in this form for a bunch of teen…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 11:02 AM
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I think what I said was ... don't bother discussing gender politics on Tiktok and Meta etc. What you infer beyond that (get wrecked etc etc) is on you. Mens issues haven't actually been around that long. Most of mens issues have cross- sectionality with feminism in terms of deconstructing the Patriarchy, and those that don't are in part a result of feminism : see Title 9 in the early 70s and the issues now with equality of outcome and educational outcomes by gender : a total reversal. Podcasts, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 07:25 PM
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I did offer something in another post,.Generationally, we need to teach our kids that SM is not for seeking opinion, why it isn't, and provide some alternate trustworthy sources of information (as opposed to discussion).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 06:52 PM
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Since you're desperate to get something out of me despite insulting me repeatedly, I'll leave you with this. I'm not on Mens Forum discussing gender politics. I'm on a Mens Forum telling you are wasting your time discussing gender politics. There's is a difference, see if you can spot it. And if you had wanted more on my reasoning, I'd have given it if your weren't such a dickhead. But such is life....online.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 06:32 PM
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Your story about your Mom kinda supports my point though. An actual in real life conversation is what's required. We need to arrive at a point where the default for getting opinions and taking them seriously is not Facebook, or Tiktok or Instagram. Think Dead Internet Theory, but where we as a species acknowledge its worthless for opinion dissemination, that all this chatter on Tiktok is noise. It doesn't mean going offline, it means understanding what you read is not likely true, not fact check…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 06:29 PM
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/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 06:05 PM
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I'm not doing anything m8, but good luck. All I've done is talk to my 18 year old daughter and 21 year old son about not getting sucked into this bullshit. Best of luck though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 04:43 PM
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You will fail miserably to achieve anything cohesive online, either in any kind of general / meta sense, or as an individual. It's the nature of the medium to polarise opinion and to reward exteme opinions. The focus here for instance is on lunatic comments as opposed to the issues. I know that sounds terribly defeatist, but right now a large chunk of reasonable women think all men think like incels, and a large chunk of men think women think like the comments in that reel. And we haven't even m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 04:37 PM
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My top tip here is don't use Instagram / Tiktok etc to discuss gendered issues. I would also now probably add Redditt to that list. Use real life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 03:02 PM
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What's the difference between benevolent misandry and simping?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 11:27 AM
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Turn on , tune in, log off
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/25 09:27 PM
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You cannot control this on SM except to just call it out. You will see it on MSM and TV as well though, in which case you can make complaints to any regulatory authority. Recently was watching a re run of Judge Judy and she said to a plaintiff that she regularly tried to think of one good reason for men existing and couldn't. It's not uncommon to hear this kind of thing on daytime tv.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/25 02:25 PM
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I've been permabanned there. In an exchange with the mods, the mod claimed misandry doesn't exist. The mods have systematically removed any narrative other than the OPs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 10:56 PM
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Bias or awareness?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/25 04:29 PM
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What I don't get is how putting you in jail helps pay alimony, or helps anyone at all really.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/25 08:37 AM
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My only two pieces of advice in speaking on mens rights in public forums are... 1) Do not bring it up in an existing discussion on women's rights 2) Don't allow your discussion on mens rights be derailed by feminists whataboutisms on women's rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/25 11:47 AM
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What About Men by Caitlin Moran
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 01:33 PM
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As a Gen Z guy, what really strikes me about bodycount issue, is how bizarre and normalised it has suddenly become to ask such a personal question very early on in the dating phase. When I was growing up in my early 20's, no one brought this up until some sort of relationship was established, and it was usually indirectly by gentle enquiries around past relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:02 PM
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Eh. I don't agree at all. It's not about asking it to be. It's about making it be. As men, we can choose a path where we blame everyone and everything for our problems. It's just another more subtle form of zero sum game gender politics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 01:43 PM
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Why did you think it would be reasonable to ask your boyfriend to pay your college tuition? I'm not being obtuse here. It seems to me you either wanted to move in with him or you didn't. Were your parents going to withdraw tuition fees if you moved in with him? I'm wondering why also for instance, you didn't have the money yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:30 PM
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Thanks so much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:41 PM
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I'm not sure how you've come to the conclusion that men hate providing. Why would you presume that a man's only desire is to produce children though. I've only mentioned this line of argument in response to the person I was replying to. Other reasons are no different to women's such a very human need for companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:43 PM
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Men are conditioned from a societal perspective to do this. You are correct. But you've simply rearranged that from a syntax or diction point of view. I would say this feels like men here are saying the reason they earn money is to provide for a family they also want to have. I'm not a fan of using evolutionary biology to frame modern cultural adaptations because it is a bit reductionist but ...... If males of the species have an innate desire to further their line, then why would we think a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:49 PM
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No. The figures aren't just the problem. The way which you frame this is pointless. It achieves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:41 PM
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Where are people getting these stats? Most women are attacked by people they know. Applying absolute risk like this is asinine. It achieves zero except the respective genders throwing shade at one another. It certainly doesn't help women to mitigate the risk themselves are exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:31 PM
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If you lie about it, and you get lucky, that shit will become obvious. So now, you are bad in bed and you are liar. If you don't lie about it, the response will vary. So really, lying about it only gets you to not be a virgin anymore with some certainty, and now you can't lie about it, but you will still be shit in bed. If a woman only wants sex, sure, lying about it might make some sense. If you want a relationship, don't lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:51 PM
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You've posted a Reddit thread to prove your point that most women will cheat. That prerty much sums up my argument. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:16 AM
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Have you ever heard of selection bias. If I posted a thread asking who here had been cheated on, I would only get replies from those who were. Should I then presume all women are cheaters ? This is your logic. You may say EWALT, but you have already passed the point of looking at any given situation and any woman objectively. This is why manosphere content is so toxic and counter productive. And yes, the equivalent of this is on the other side as well portraying most men as toxic. Both genders t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:06 AM
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Why would you take one YouTube video as evidence of a why or how all women reason? I see this all the time on manosphere content. An example is take a Tik Tok of a woman bemoaning the fact her ex is flourishing whilst she is struggling, give zero details as to why the relationship failed, and then present in doom laden voice over, that this is evidence of why all women all foolish leaving guys. It is beyond stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:43 AM
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I'm married a couple of decades. I think where you see value in what you do in the relationship, you may not see value in what she does, and let me tell you now, that's a disaster waiting to happen. Every relationship is different in who does what, but what's consistent in successful partnerships is value recognition and reciprocation. So when you worry about where to book to eat for date nights, she's thinking about dinner at home tonight. While your thoughts are on what movie to watch, she's p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:31 AM
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