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Never. These people expect nothing but perfection from you. I believe that neither of these groups seeks happiness or comfort. They truly expect you to show any kind of weakness, for any reason, so they can relentlessly bash your ass and bitch about online on how they picked "LVM" or how she is "shit testing you".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:10 PM
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Both are real things though? Yeah, we know this as "setting boundaries". I have to do this every day with men and women alike. Should I also start a cult? The trick of it is, that's just how women's behavior looks when being blatantly honest. If they don't like it, they should behave differently instead of getting mad at trp Women don't need to do anything, because you guys are failing miserably in your goals. No one criticizes TRP because you are "extremely effective" and successful in your adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:32 PM
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It is a fair statement, I guess. My wife, for instance, resent the feminist movement by how they try to control women's motives and reasoning on their choices that are not aligned with the movement's agenda. TRP = Feminism for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:08 PM
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Ability to conquer fear is masculine. When I see a small guy standing up to a big guy, that shit is masculine. When I see a guy shaking in fear and still climbing on the rooftop, that's CHAD as fuck. Nah, I think anyone with enough motivation can conquer their fear, be a man or woman. I really don't believe in masculine traits, but I think we go through similar situations and we should unite based on this. Our values now and before are completely devoid of virtue. Honor, loyalty, self-control, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:06 PM
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Dude, this will be my last message. TRP is not a science, there is absolutely nothing to refute. Their teachings are basic stuff that all human beings with a healthy mind know with a coating of quack-science, and its community is perceived as filled with misogyny and hate-speech: https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2016/apr/14/the-red-pill-reddit-modern-misogyny-manosphere-men https://www.aljazeera.com/opinions/2020/9/6/red-pills-and-dog-whistles-it-is-more-than-just-the-internet https://www.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:43 PM
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I don't give a flying fuck if it is a turnoff. If I want to cry, I'll cry. I know this is a debate forum, and I am not trying to bash OP: But why the fuck are we worried about what women think about this? Why are we seeking their POV on how we deal with our emotions? No one fucking should do this, be a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:20 PM
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Basically, your idea of a "true man" is a disposable toolbox? They are made to be killed in wars and to overcomplicate idiotic shit that a 5 min video on youtube can teach you, like replacing car light or tire? Masculinity is not on decline. What is decline is our mental health and self-esteem. Partly because people still spreading idiotic notions of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:15 PM
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Fuck. Did you let your family know that you were going? So they could be drunk to sustain your deranged mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:51 PM
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Nah, this is basic shit you learn growing up as a man. TRP complicated things to an unnecessary degree with bullshit terms like "holding frame" and "shit tests", giving arbitrary and imaginary numbers to people, and with a blatant dumb generalization of men's and women's psych. TRP's existence is futile and damaging, and proof of that is the black pill community. TRP teachings are so shallow and pathetically broad, that could not help a huge portion of its community (hence the creation of the bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:48 PM
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Oh shit, sorry. My mistake then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:43 PM
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Yeah, but I do. Life is too short to betray myself in favor of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:32 PM
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- Stop adopting idiotic ideologies like TRP. - Focus on your mental health, financial education, and self-respect. - Understand that sex is a shallow ultimate goal. Virtue is your ultimate goal, and healthy intimate life will come from this. - Try to express yourself through your clothing and manners. - Believe that you are deserving of love and respect, even if you had a bad draw on genetics. If this is hard for you, seek professional help and don't rely on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:33 PM
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Making generalizations about large, diverse groups of people ultimately misrepresents almost all of them and that’s just not good for anyone, especially you if you’re looking for a partner. I genuinely believe that these philosophies of generalization are a huge handicap on anyone’s dating life as well as their social and emotional well being in general OP, common sense is frowned upon here. You are dealing with people that use terms like "chad" and "low-value man" unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:19 PM
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"Chad" = "meaningless word I use to define anyone able to have more sex than me". This post proved that most women have a reasonable view of financial status in relationships. I found two women that are out-of-touch leechers, and sadly, with your mentality, you will end with one of these. TRP created a bunch of "excuses of man". Is just so fucking sad to see my kin this lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:56 PM
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I'd just stay single. And if we men can manage to leave this pathetic woe-is-me mentality propagated by TRP, people like you would be single forever. Men should expect absolutely nothing from anyone. And, if all you can bring to the table is a sorry ass excuse "off cooking, cleaning and being hot", It is better for ME to stay single. I can cook for myself and clean my stuff. I'm the breadwinner of my relationship. Covid hit the segment that my wife used to work pretty hard and we are facing a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:47 PM
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You are right. Is just that some poor lost lambs use this to justify their cuntiness. If you are a virtuous is better for you in the long game. You will attract good people and will have a renewed sense of self respect. So what I am saying is: being virtuous > quick hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:38 AM
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Down to earth and reasonable. I am a fan of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:32 AM
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Might be, but is important to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:28 AM
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Imagine seeing yourself or others as an object with value. Some people are completely nuts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:24 AM
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Apparently, you didn't read the other comments where women said otherwise, and decided not only to nitpick but also to distort one of the few who would confirm your biased view on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:20 AM
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You compared me to hitler. It means I won, right? Just kidding. I took some jabs at you, but not meant to offend. But I think TRP is just a sad facade, an echo-chamber for sorrow and hate. There is nothing you can say that will change my mind. And, I'll stand by it: you and many others like you sound like out-of-touch people. I can imagine the weird looks you would receive from pretty much anyone I know if you said something blatantly dumb as "women love victimhood mentality". If I was on your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:11 AM
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Is not a problem in either case. People are free to deal with their income as they see fit. If someone pointed that you are wrong (be men or women), it is them who are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:25 AM
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At least she is seeking therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:20 AM
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And there it is, misogyny. Keep crying wolf, see where it gets you. There is no backlash in doing to so, though. TRP is so weak out of their bubble, that stating things like "this movement was sequestered by misogynist and hateful people as we can see in mainstream media" is not even a hot take. Yes because social network approval is clearly the metric upon which truth is measured. It kind of is. Is society in a nutshell. So when an ideology is relegated to the corners, is just normal people sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:14 AM
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Waiting for the FDS lurkers to justify how a value of a man can only be defined by his income and usefulness to the woman-queen, when a lot of woman here say otherwise. Although, I think they are too coward to preach misandry in open field.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:57 PM
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Dude, a lot of men posts here saying that "relationships are the death of men's financial freedom".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:53 PM
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What? I've been doing wrong this whole time? I find my wife hideously ugly, but she is funny, and I married her even though I prefer to fuck the carpet than sleep with her. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:49 PM
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Yeah, they do. But sex is not the ultimate reward for being virtuous. And although your point is reasonable, many men in this sub will use this mentality to justify becoming a piece of shit and evil by option.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:43 PM
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They were quarantined because it is non-pc to speak truthfully. Nah. This place is not PC and is thriving. r/HolUp and r/Cringetopia are non-PC, and are frequently on front page. r/JusticeServed, r/DocumentedFights and r/antifeminists, are non-PC and not quarantined. I think it is important for you to come to terms that your views are only useful inside your bubble. Any human being with a molecule of common-sense see right through you "woe-is-me" bullshit directly into your misogynistic and weak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:37 PM
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If say a woman was cheating on a man or even had another man's child, is she still entitled to the wealth accumulated during marriage? These questions are dumb as fuck, honestly. I would at least research how adultery can affect a divorce before asking something like this. https://liebenhautlaw.com/my-husbandwife-committed-adultery-how-will-that-affect-the-divorce/ For your future reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:02 PM
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You should start your rant with "based on my experience". Without this disclaimer, you seem in denial instead of just bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:46 PM
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Yeah, although I don't agree with the phrasing and think this is a widespread issue between both genders, I also understood the resentment this can cause for people. I think OP needs higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:34 PM
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Honestly, I don't think I did. Looking back it a was cheeky and poorly attempted banter on my end. You seem to be fine "simping" for woman, so you do you. But I feel this can bring problem for men and women in the long run, so I would advise to do it carefully. But again, as long as your mind is healthy, have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:17 PM
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It might be a question of maturity. I know these people exist and must be tiresome to deal with them. What age are these women you talking? I feel maturity is coming a little later for most of us. But also, although I wouldn't phrase like you did, I too think that the fact that men making themselves readily available for any woman is a huge mistake that is affecting not only our kind but also women, creating on them a sense of entitlement. FDS is an obvious example of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:13 PM
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Dude, honestly, again you guys are blowing things out of proportion. Each of us, men or woman, is out there to get the best for us, be on intimate relations or personal life. You do this while blissfully ignoring some aspects of human nature, like love, empathy, and a sense of duty. Please enlighten me on how the intricate science of TRP, that brought to us the forbidden knowledge of self-respect and boundaries (so fucking revolutionary, wow), see these aspects of human nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:01 PM
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Everything is 'misogyny' and 'hate speech' today. Those accusations are so overused that they've lost all meaning. It didn't though, right? That is why they quarantined or just straight deleted most of the red/black-pilled subs. Because women have a victimhood fetish, and so anything that can construed as even slightly negative is blown vastly out of proportion. You really don't see how saying "women have a victimhood fetish" is misogynist, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:45 PM
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Yeah, me and my wife are spending our hard earned money in a tirade of attention seeking from random people on the internet. In this sub, the biggest indicative that you hit a nerve is the good and old "you are projecting".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:25 PM
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I'll adopt your mindset. I'll bring some positivity to this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:56 AM
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I have to make clear that I don't have any bone to pick with the ideals of feminism. My main issue is with FDS and their blatant missandry. I really consider them a hate group, the same as black-pilled subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:51 AM
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After discussing this topic for the last 3 hours, I've also reached this conclusion. I see people here more hurt than ill-intended. But bad can come from this hurt. ​ Anyway, good luck recallibrating in the real world :) Much appreciated, because I'll need it, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:20 AM
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We all hate some things, right? But as I've said, there are plenty of examples on mainstream media showing how TRP communities are deranging to misogyny and hate speech. I've lurked some red-pilled subs and saw this firsthand. And now I'm questioning; why is this happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:15 AM
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Yes, baseless, but not really a hot take is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:09 AM
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I came here also to take jabs at FDS, but their misandry is so normalized that they will probably say that "yes, men are loveless creatures, undeserving of affection or empathy". In the end, we all lose with this lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:08 AM
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That is my biggest question. I saw a lot of posts saying that TRP is just a place where some dudes can learn the mechanisms of dating... But how the fuck did this become the lair of misogyny and quack theories?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:02 AM
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No dude, I've read it, and it is just setting boundaries as you do with any other human being. I know it sounds really cool when you set like "hmm, I'll be holding frame" or "she is shit testing me, I'll manipulate this situation so I can reach maximum respect from her". I have to do this shit every day at work with men and women. Fuck, I actually don't remember the last time I had to set boundaries with Wifey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:58 AM
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I came here with this intent and saw a bunch of dudes completely lost to quack-science and overcomplicating simple things like self-respect and boundaries. I got frustrated as fuck, because in the end, I failed hard to see things in their POV. This post granted me more empathy towards them but also gave me a tremendous disappointment and the realization that men are ready to weaponize the sadness and insecurities of their own kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:49 AM
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Why they being hypergamous is such a big problem to TDRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:45 AM
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It won't anymore. I send my message, although I regret how phrased my post, I feel that spoke my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:41 AM
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You are right. I think men are suffering from a general lack of empathy. This is our biggest issue now, and we really need to normalize that searching for therapy, setting boundaries, and helping each other without fostering hate for other communities is the way to be not only happy in our relationships but also in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:39 AM
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Dude, I know I'll sound like an idiot to you and many people here. I know, since I've been lurking here, what you will think of me. But I won't sleep well if I don't say this. Try to find a good therapist. You talk like you "already accepted your fate", and there is peace in resignation, but things can be different if you focus your attention and money in the right direction. Consider searching for a shrink, dude. You deserve much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:32 AM
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This responds to one of my questions and it makes sense. The other question is: why misogyny is widespread issue in the red-pill community?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:26 AM
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I see, it makes sense since you are now setting boundaries healthily. But I really want to understand the relation between red pills and misogyny and why many men devolve into black-pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:23 AM
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And you don't see any problem in the fact you look every woman down, except this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:20 AM
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Yeah, I'll talk to my shrink about this. I've been lurking for some time and I had this itch growing, that I should speak my mind. I shouldn't really invest time in this, but sometimes we have to talk so we can let it go. I already feel much better, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:18 AM
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Don't need to. Cope is important. You just said how hard is life. You found your way of coping, and it seems to work, but in some posts above us, there is someone degrading themselves. Do you think this is a pleasant manner to cope with problems? Basically, since you are doing fine in this mindset, everyone else should join you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:15 AM
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Personal responsibility by not speaking my mind? And also, I am not a blue-piller. I understand the hardships faced by both men and women in dating environments. Specifically talking about men: I know many of us are struggling to adjust to this new era of relationships and dating apps. And I know many of us, unfortunately, don't feel attractive enough to be loved or wanted. I am just offering criticism of the pills theory and saying that pursuiting a good therapist is a proper replacement for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:00 AM
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Dude, you shouldn't give up. Nowadays, there are a ton of therapists online and it is much easier to get references. You really should try searching online for therapists with good recommendations. I am not a therapist, but if you need someone to talk to, just message me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:58 AM
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Dude, just out of curiosity, I went to search what is a "shit test" and "holding frames": It is boundaries. They are just setting boundaries. I understand that some people have issues with setting boundaries, and I admit, in this case, mentorship is valuable. But why, this mentorship develops into something so complex and so prone to spite and hate as the TRDP community is? Since we have black-pill communities, maybe its time to reevaluate the usefulness of the red-pill teachings?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:55 AM
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I wish I had this mindset. I just get frustrated with the lack of empathy shown here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:35 AM
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Yeah, it can be helpful. I am also much more grateful for my girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:34 AM
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Help you cope with this problem in a healthful manner. Maybe showing that the problem is this individual and that neither you nor the rest of humans is comparable to this sack of shit that lied to you. Of course, a good shrink would let you come to this conclusion during the sessions. Me saying this here has no value, and that is why professional help is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:33 AM
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Really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:16 AM
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I understand that. But your goal must be your mental health. I agree good professionals are hard to find, but again, if you feel it is too hard, don't give up on this path.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:13 AM
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It is a harsh place, but what I am saying is: if you feel depressed or overwhelmed by this shit world we live in, seek professional help instead of resorting to "imaginary pills". If you can manage yourself in this dog-fucking-world, congratulations. But don't encapsulate human experience based on your view and please, make it clear to people that your opinions are completely based on your experience and nothing you can say will strengthen them enough to deal with this garbage world. They need p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:11 AM
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The problems are real, but unfortunately common (rejection, lack of self-esteem, fear of compromise, and betrayal). I know some people here were pretty unlucky with their genetics and overall comeuppance. What I am saying is that nothing of value can be offered to these people here. Red-pilled or black-pilled subs are not support groups, and I dare to say, have an adverse result in the mental state of these individuals. These people need professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:05 AM
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It is really not important if they have more problems than you. The only important thing is that (I assume) they studied psychology and can help you overcome your struggles and demons. If they can't, search for one that can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:55 AM
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There is absolutely nothing to be rebutted or criticized here. Most of your problems are generic stuff blown out of proportion and the ones that aren't cannot be helped by anyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:48 AM
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Unfortunately, this sub will draw attention from people who are struggling. And I feel people barely talk about the importance of professional help and therapy. I'll stay here a little longer, but basically, I'll end every comment on: If you feel life is too tough on you and you are overwhelmed, please consider seeking professional help. It will end up as a joke, but I feel is the best thing anyone could do for most of the conversations here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:46 AM
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Did you ever try therapy? If not, do you have the meaning of doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:34 AM
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No. Life is tough and tougher for some than others. But you won't find help from people struggling to overcome the same problem as you and without proper education to do it so. Search for professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:31 AM
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because you are so lonely and sad that you are prone to throw away dignity and money for a whiff of atention from a person who barely knows you or cares about you. instead of spending money with this, seek professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:26 AM
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If I take my GF's fulfillment as a personal duty of mine and she does the same for me, everyone will be happy. Well, we do the same thing, but honestly, it comes naturally to us. We understood pretty early that we need to help each other so both of us can have a fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:49 AM
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Imma take a random shot in the dark and say you're with someone you got with as a teenager? If so those relationships are very different from most that start after. Mainly the fact that y'all grew up together. You nailed it. And what you said made sense. Why the fuck am I even here? They shouldn't get married if they're not serious about it in the first place. All you have in this world are you balls and your word, you don't break em for no reason. Although I know your comment comes from a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:10 AM
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There is no conspiracy. There are some studies showing how some people are more privileged than others when it comes to natural traits. But that is the reason the black pill community exists? No. Most people posting in these subs have a normal appearance and would do completely fine if they didn't enter this eco-chamber of self-hatred and victimization.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:43 AM
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"Simping" kind of lost its meaning. But yes, it is bad. Worshipping someone is bad in any context and you should avoid it at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:14 AM
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Yeah, it's been 15 years of nothing but pleasure for me. I never struggled before and don't see this happening soon. /s Also, why people here are so preoccupied with divorce rates? Should people endure unhappiness just so we can keep these darn numbers down?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:11 AM
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Of course, there is a social hierarchy. But is not as simple as "alpha and beta" and most of the time the roles are heavily dependent on the environment and can heavily change. Most people discussing this doesn't have the necessary knowledge to do so and are just selling dumb ideas to insecure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:59 AM
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Must be miserable to live in an imaginary world where people are defined by numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:50 AM
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Most people here are so cynical they need to justify marriage with "is good for raising children" or berate it with "is a tool of the patriarchy / is the death of sex for men". My response was obvious, but in this sea of cynicism, it needs to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:18 AM
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Companionship, safety, a sense of being loved by someone and an ass to grab on cold nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:54 AM
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Is it really a question of "wanting"? I've been in a relationship for 15 years and I never stopped to think about why. I do what I like with the person I love. I know some people struggle with relationship, but I think this "mentality" of wanting something that is not entirely in your control is just setting yourself for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:40 AM
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