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Nothing you responded with is in anyway a rebuttal to what I said Correct. I'm not interested in going over the single father myth again. Nothing you say will change my mind and vice versa. Never brought up a list or undies on the floor? Why are you taking this personally? Idc about what you do. Literally just said I do all my own housework and didn’t have to be taught. Wonderful. You're in the minority. Not sure what your response has to do with the argument being made by OP that women aren’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:32 PM
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Wouldn’t know as I do all my own housework ever since I got my own place and I didn’t have to ask for anyone to teach me how to do it. Just figured it out and it was really easy. Again, exactly the same way women feel about men who "need a list" to notice his undies need to be washed. Single dads usually have better outcomes than single moms. Oh God here we go with this brainrot. And apparently a lot of women consider murdering their own children after they’re born judging by what I’m seeing all…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 09:03 PM
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So teach yourself shit like we do all the time. Lolol I swear both genders just say the same shit about eachother repackaged ad nauseum. Women say this to men all the time regarding childcare and housework. Men say this to women all the time regarding, what, idk, changing a tire?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 08:20 PM
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If it was a problem for women they'd put in the effort, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:31 PM
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They are not putting in the effort to date. They want someone to come up to them. Oh. So..exactly like it's always been since the beginning of time? Something only Gen Z men seemingly have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:00 PM
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Because now he has to pay alimony LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:21 PM
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Most dicks look about the same on porn. Idk how much information you can really get from this question as I've geniunely never seen what I'd consider a small penis on porn. That said, I don't like porn where it looks like the thing can't even fit. It looks painful and makes me cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 04:25 PM
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If there were absolutely no stipulations for women for abortion, yes I would. But again, it would have to come with major stipulations. He can only compel himself to not be financially liable. He cannot compel the woman to carry a pregnancy she doesn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:31 PM
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Abortion isn't readily available in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:28 PM
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Legally, it isn't. And in practice, this is rarely happening anyways. No sane woman is choosing to have a child with a man who is very clear he doesn't want to be a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:26 PM
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No sane legal system would allow a woman to keep a child she doesn't want. It happens every day.. Not only do they let them, they require them, and then charge them with neglect when they inevitably do a shit job. And that's the scenario all of those who oppose paper abortion seemingly neglect. Huh? That's the scenario we're talking about right now. Yes, men may have to pay a bill they didn't want to pay. Sucky for sure. Women have to use their bodies, alter their life, pay exponentially more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 07:22 PM
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My mistake, it said that in this one, which is nearly 10 years newer than the above. https://www.khrono.no/langt-faerre-studier-med-kjonnspoeng-fra-123-til-42/765543 "For engineering, the use of gender points has been a national rule. At the same time, many of the programs have highlighted that gender points have had very little significance since most engineering programs have made offers to all qualified applicants." Seems they are doing their best to equalize it as much as possible. the devel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:55 PM
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The only reason why women end up with more points is because more fields are male dominated to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:43 PM
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Ah, sorry. This is a US dominated sub. This doesn't happen in the US. That said, it says right there that they do the same for men. The only reason why women end up with more points is because more fields are male dominated to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:19 PM
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I couldn't open the first one. The second one says that the gender points have nothing to do with recruitment anyways. Everyone is already accepted. And again, men receive them to for female dominated fields. Seems equal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:14 PM
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Proof that this happens and then I will answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:07 PM
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I personally think men like this should be exposed. To friends. Family. The world. Broadcast their pictures and names right next to these posts. But no man will ever say this without hiding behind anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:58 PM
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What? Universities chose dumb men over smart women for trading to be equal? Makes sense. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:44 PM
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Women are given priority, purely due to what's between their legs. Except, that's not true. Women are not being chosen over men who score higher. They are simply ensured equal access to have the chance to be chosen in the first place. When slavery was ended, did we enslave all whites to make amends for the suffering of black people? We're enslaving young men? That sounds horrible. Wonder why I haven't heard about this? why do you support less capable women getting preferential treatment? Again, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:42 PM
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Fascinating. I think you may have thought we didn't already know this. Anywho. Since you seem to think men are oppressed and women hold all of the power, why aren't you concerned that women will turn around and do the same thing to men just for the funsies? Is this...benevolent sexism at play? You truly believe women are better humans, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:35 PM
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They aren't being punished unless you consider no longer letting young men in based on what's between their legs as punishment. Personally I prefer to live in a world that puts merit above anything else. Universities used to select a man with a 2.5 GPA instead of a woman with a 4.0 GPA. Do you understand how far that set us back as a society? Just employing a bunch of idiots instead of who was actually best suited?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:31 PM
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First of all, this post wasn't directed at you. Why you decided it is "insulting your qualities" is beyond me. What was the meaning That women are more selective than men due to their own biological functions. It is not insulting you. It is explaining why women behave differently from men. we all know that unless you are attractive women don't give two shits about them anyway Attraction is quite literally one of those qualities women select for. We went over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:28 PM
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Because back in the 60s and 70s, a woman could regularly score WELL above a man, and the university would still choose the man over the woman. Obviously something needed to be done to stop that bullshit. We want people based on merit, no? The old way was just letting people in based on what was in their pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:24 PM
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While the FBI updated this definition to be gender-neutral, many state laws still categorize female-on-male non-consensual sexual contact under alternative charges. If a woman forces a man to penetrate her, the incident is often legally categorized as "sexual battery," "abusive sexual contact," or "aggravated assault" rather than rape, masking the true number of sexual assault arrests. If it is still categorized as sexual assault, how does that mask the true number of sexual assault arrests? Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:12 PM
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Are you sure about that? I haven't seen it. What I HAVE seen is women questioning how much of a reality these claims even are. Because, I am a woman who "pitchforks" on lps posts but I will always advocate for victims, and a man who was raped is a victim and should never be held liable. It is just as bad as when women are impregnated by rape and then forced to coparent. It is deplorable on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:54 PM
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You: "I just disagreed with a debate post!" Reality: flippantly disregarded the very real, damaging concerns women have regarding casual sex because they won't fuck you specifically so it can't be true. You: "Ugh women brain!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:49 PM
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You're acting like it's a zero sum game here which doesn't make any logical sense. Concerns over the negative impact to a womans health, and being more selective due to it, does not equate to "women ONLY have sex for procreation". It just means women are a bit less likely to have casual sex than men are. That's it. Deciding that women don't care about pregnancy concerns because they aren't fucking you, specifically, is faulty logic. I think you know that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:47 PM
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Yes, and? Why should men not have the choice to parent? Everyone's parenthood should be a choice. Because now he gets to control a body that is not his Complete non-sequitur. This is an illogical leap from the sentence you wrote before. Giving men the ability to opt out of parenthood does not make women "incubators". What are you talking about? If we give men the ability to choose differently from the woman (opt out when she opts in) then he will also be able to opt in when she wants to opt out.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 01:23 PM
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Yes. How is that inconsistent? Looks. if you're going to risk getting pregnant why would you want to risk that with an ugly partner that will negatively effect the child? Bad looks can also signify bad genes. It's biology. Status. If you're going to risk pregnancy why risk it with a man who wouldn't be able to support it? These are the two most important factors that play out in the entire animal kingdom. Somehow.. human women must be above that? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:08 PM
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What the hell does prostate cancer have to do with reproduction? I'm geniunely not following what you're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:04 PM
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That wasn't the the claim though. The claim was simple. Women are more selective due to the inherent higher risk they incur. This is a fact. Women are absolutely more selective. Men talk about women they would "throw a bag over her head" or "throw baby powder down there to find the wet spot". Men don't have high standards when it comes to sex because it carries less risk for them. They have more standards for marriage, because there is more risk. It's a pretty simple cost/benefit analysis. vecau…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:00 PM
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Agreed. Until that exists, we are unfortunately biologically unequal. Yes, it does suck that men are beholden to the choice a woman makes if she becomes pregnant. But also, a man will never become pregnant, he will never face that biological burden. Each side has a "positive" and a "negative" in this situation. Lastly, I do not know of any woman who chose to keep a baby where the father vocally expressed he didn't want it. This isn't actually what happens in reality. The vast majority of women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:51 PM
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The fact that this is what you're pissed off about on a post of the very real danger women face during pregnancy is something that may require some retrospection. "Women can die due to pregnancy" You: That's nice but they're cunts for having sex with the men that they're attracted to so they deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:35 PM
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Too bad they don't have a uterus like women to allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:31 PM
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And using this logic-so do men. They accept the risk of their partner becoming pregnant and having no say in whether she chooses to continue the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:22 PM
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Wtf is that reply? You really can't even do what you're suggesting lmao sperm dies the moment it hits air.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:59 PM
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Honestly, what's next? Will men start blaming women because they don't have boobs? "It's no fair our bodies are completely different" is the essence of this entire debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:56 PM
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Why does it matter how much someone's body is being used if you think it's okay to use someone's body for any reason? Bodily autonomy There is a drastic difference in someone's body physically creating a human and someone's body going to work. It is absolutely ridiculous to even equate the two If you don't like the comparison stop bringing it up Does anyone deserve any consequence just for having sex, yes or no? No, they don't. Unfortunately our biology doesn't afford us consequence free sex tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:50 PM
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It's not a zero sum game. It's a game of "women have a uterus and men do not". It ends there. It will never be equal because the consequences are biologically unequal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:47 PM
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My favorite part of this sub is when men shout at us that "no one will EVER want you". Meanwhile we're married. They're single. 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:44 PM
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If men get put on child support then they have to use their bodies to earn money. So their bodies are being effected by their decision to have sex. So both are getting physical consequences of just agreeing to have sex. No, it's still unequal. Because women also have to use their bodies to earn money. And the vast majority are paying far more than a man's $200/month child support payment. So now we have the women having to physically use her body to create the child. Her body will quite literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:41 PM
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So both men and women have consequences from just the decision to have sex. Men: Financial Women: Financial and physical Nope. Still not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:27 PM
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And who's body does that effect? Quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:26 PM
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Also all of the jobs lost in July (in the US) were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:24 PM
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The only reason for a woman to oppose this is if she feels contempt for men and wants men to suffer. Then she opposes it because it reduces the suffering of men, and she does not want that. You're not thinking outside of the box here. If we allow men to make the choice to NOT parent, that also means that we allow them to make the choice TO parent. And at that point, womens bodies will effectively become an incubator. And unlike a man signing away his rights, a woman who births a baby can't exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:10 PM
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They just want all the advantages and the freedom to do whatever they want in any situation, Maybe actually read the post? It's very obvious you didn't. To come to the conclusion that "women just want all the advantages" on a post that lists the slew of very real disadvantages that only women will ever face is wild. At the end of the day there is absolutely nothing we, as a society, can currently do to equalize the biological differences between men and women when it comes to reproduction. The f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:05 PM
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Your source? A study based on a survey that suffers from self-reporting bias. Women are statistically more likely to fall victim to social desirability bias. As a result, you should really take it with a grain of salt; as you should anything involving self-reported statistics that rely on people honestly answering about being a shitty human (cheater). Sure. I suppose your singular anecdote is probably better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:33 AM
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Women leaving marriages or committing infidelity to get with their bosses is just one example, albeit a fairly common one. Do you have a source for the commonality of women leaving their husbands for their bosses? Overall men are statistically more likely to cheat so I'm curious where you found this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:46 PM
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? I don't know what your point is? Someone calling a certain behavior insecure isn't them saying they are never insecure. Men are insecure to care about previous sex partners. Women are insecure to care about bisexuality. These aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:22 PM
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Literally yes. I said this in another comment. Women are very insecure. Add to that the knowledge that men have a higher sex drive and women cannot sexually offer what a man can, they'd rather avoid it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 02:13 PM
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Doesn't that go the same for people who find anal sex gross? Sure, it's not orientation. But, cunnilingus in general is a much less "gross" sex act than anal. Even in the straight community. Anal is much more taboo. A kink even.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:34 PM
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There's a lot to consider though. My husband is bi. We've had a lot of fun. I think I would have been less okay with it if he had actually never been with a man before. Because at that point, it is a desire that I would have felt I was holding him back from. I would think the same thing of a woman coming out bi to her husband. There is almost always a desire to experiment. To find yourself. As a woman, I can't give my husband what he desires from a man. I just can't. On the other end men have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 12:29 PM
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I would agree it would be. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:34 AM
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Because women are grossed out by how broad heterosexual mens' sexuality is; it's disturbing to women that men want to FUCK so many women, it's gross and makes you feel not special. That feeling is amplified when he will literally fuck men and women Yep, this. Statistically, gay men are the most promiscuous. And Statistically, men think about sex more than women do. We, as women, have a girl code, so we can trust eachother for the most part. This is also why women get vicious towards a homewrecke…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:27 AM
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Why does she find it icky? Answer that. I personally find two lesbians having sex icky but two men is fucking hot. Obviously, as a straight woman, lesbians aren't a part of my pool anyways. I'm also good with anal. I bet a lot of the women who find it icky don't enjoy anal. My thoughts anyways. Just curious. Am I homophobic for finding two women having sex kinda gross? I wouldn't want to watch a singular woman pleasuring herself either, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:22 AM
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What makes the bi one unattractive? This is where men get lost. This is a perfect example of how attraction for women is more than just looks. Two men are standing next to eachother. One man works at the office up the street. The other man is in the military and is often gone for long periods of time. Which one is more attractive for a relationship for the woman? It is about lifestyle, not looks. How he will fit into her life and what she is willing to compromise on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:18 AM
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As a woman who doesn't really give a fuck (my husband is Bi) I geniunely think this is just another branch of the incel movement. Shaming women for not dating men in general wasn't working. Now they're latching onto the bleeding heart liberals for back up by introducing this bi-men discourse. I am 99.999% positive this is an incel psy-op. It follows exactly the same script. The entire thing completely ignores the fact that lesbians/bi women are not taken as seriously as gay men are. They are see…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:10 AM
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I feel like unironically using the word "gynocentrict" makes the debate pointless. It tells me I am not debating with a person in their right mind and the conversation will go nowhere. Do you agree that we will not see eye to eye on this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:48 PM
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Gynocentrists. 😂 Y'all are literally a meme in human form it's so embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:38 PM
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Where did I celebrate censorship? I stated a fact. RP is not gone from reddit. They're just over on the Psychology of Sex and Natalism subs now. I just think they are funny choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:22 PM
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I don't understand how/why men keep trying to relate dating preferences to politics. Just because some of us are supportive of the LGBTQ community doesn't mean that we are also LGBTQ and want to date them. Equally, just because we believe all humans deserve equal rights does not mean we want to fuck all of those humans. And it shouldn't mean that. Just because a woman is progressive, by no means, means she suddenly wants a feminine man who likes to wear her undies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:31 AM
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Never really had one night stands but I did have a decent amount of friends with benefits and short term flings. I don't know what you mean by the first question. Are you asking about amount of partners or are you asking about sex acts? As far as partners, I didn't want anything serious while I was in college so I kept em all at arms length. But also, I did want to have some experience to know what I liked. For sex acts? My husband gets WAY more than any other dude ever got. WAY more. Idk what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:29 PM
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Fascinating. I, too, had successful results. And I got them without having to denigrate myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:09 PM
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So because YOU were a shitty woman that complained about stupid shit you assume that is all women? Please. Stop giving the rest of us a bad name. I was the woman who just wanted my husband to notice the dishes needed to be done. He was young and dumb back then so I give him grace. He is much better now. So I suppose my anecdote cancels yours out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:05 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:02 PM
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They do when they tell their husbands that they're not doing it correctly. Now you're making things up. Not doing something at all is not the same as not doing it "correctly". Most womens complaints are heavy around the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:00 PM
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Huh? What women are doing anything close to that? I think most women just want their husbands to be an equally visible partner and parent. If she's scrubbing dishes every night while he's sitting on the couch scrolling reels there's a mismatch there, no? And why are you automatically assigning childcare and housework as the woman's job to begin with? The kid and house belongs to him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:56 PM
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I disagree. Nice chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:36 PM
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What if the woman is taking on too much to allow her the time to do those things that she wants him to do. And what if she isn't? Editing to add: Those things she "wants" him to do are just basic adult responsibilities. He should already be doing them/sharing them so this question is irrelevant. Does her house have to be pristine in order for all of this to get done? Of course not. My house is NOT pristine because nobody has time for that shit with 3 kids. But I'm also not one of those women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:13 PM
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This is weird. I don't make my kids lunches and do their laundry because I think it makes me the ideal woman. I do it because if I didn't, my kids would go without. And I love them. I do agree that women often have higher standards for extras that I find stupid as hell. Especially mothers. And if they want to do those extras it is on them. A good example of this is "Elf on the Shelf". I refused to get that damn thing because I refuse to add something to my plate for no reason. This is how I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:03 PM
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I think for women as a whole work is a novelty and a lesser evil. Not for them personally, because most will have worked all of their lives, but generationally. Their mothers and grandmothers tell them they're lucky they can go out to work; they tell them horror stories about alcoholic, abusive (often shell-shocked from Vietnam or WW2, to be fair) men, and the expectation to have 5 kids or more. Men have been working for more powerful men for centuries, unabated. Unless we're wealthy or work for…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:44 AM
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I find it interesting that most women have the complete opposite experience. Most women see work as a welcomed break. A chance to finally be around adults instead of toddlers 24/7. A breath of fresh air. Do you think it's possible that it's because when a man stays home, he still has a lot of help and effort from the other parent (for example she packs the lunches, prepares the snacks, has their clothes ready) and women don't get that same luxury? Or do you think men are simply better suited to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:20 AM
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Yeah they've all just infiltrated the psychology of sex sub 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:21 PM
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How do women lie about weight?! Don't you have eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:56 AM
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I actually make more. But I work less hours, remotely, and he's a tradesman. We are both high earning. Who wins? Additionally, there is a plethora of data that also supports womens anecdotes. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:06 PM
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"We" as in women in general. But yes. My husband and I equally share it all. We both work. We both contribute. Hence I do not understand why so many men pretend like this is not what is occurring in most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:53 PM
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In my view, women often take for granted the traditionally masculine qualities men bring to the relationship that add value, like providing financial/emotional stability, fixing things, leading, providing safety, sacrificing their own needs/desires, etc. I don’t think women realize that these responsibilities are burdensome and taxing. No, we do. Because we either do them entirely ourselves, or equally share in that responsibility. Hence; they expect men to additionally split traditionally femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:49 PM
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They aren't her beliefs We learned back in elementary school that context clues are important When they are what SHE believes. Not when she is highlighting what someone else believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:40 PM
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She’s not complaining about red pill men She is. Her flair is literally pink pill. Correct. Not red pill. Pink pill is the exact opposite of red pill. When does it become her responsibility to own her beliefs exactly? When they actually are her own beliefs. We’ve already had this argument. I could screenshot it for you if you’d like. Me too. It's literally directly above this comment thread. The fact that you keep coming for me seemingly only to help this person out of accountability for her bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:31 PM
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You're still not getting it lol. SHE does not believe red pill shit. She believes the redpill men believe it. The fact that you are having trouble differentiating the two is beyond my pay grade at this point. The men complaining about feminism are also red pill sexists. Your logic makes zero sense. Woman complains about redpill men = redpill woman Man complains about feminism = redpill man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:34 PM
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>To be honest not really. Locker room talk is only hurtful if it’s said from a place of genuine malice and isn’t funny The vast majority is from genuine malice and is not funny.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/26 01:14 PM
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>I hate gender war bullshit, and red pill girls abdicating responsibility like “oh im just repeating the men” — that’s sexist as fuck TO YOU. Have a spine. Which is exactly what I say to the boys. There really is no hope for you. Red pill girls? Okay. So the men in here who complain about feminism are...feminist men? I also never said the majority. I said LOTS of men. The internet is almost entirely red pill dudes. It's mainstream. And then you go outside, and men you think are normal, start tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:09 PM
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Dude. Stop freaking gaslighting. You KNOW men say this. First you try to play the victim blaming card "Well stop surrounding yourself with bad men" and now it's "That's the internet not reality". FFS. Men, LOTS of men, think this. And again, they were saying this 15-20 years ago before the internet became algorithms. I geniunely do not know why you are fighting this so hard it's ridiculous. I'm glad you aren't one of those men but you aren't much better when you continue to gaslight women about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:14 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Kill all men isn’t even a joke, it’s literally just a sentence. Dark humor needs to have humor in its, otherwise it’s just a gross ugly statement Understand how women feel, now? All of the male jokes. Locker room talk. It's hurtful. But we are just called weak and sensitive.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 11:41 AM
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Murder is murder just like how speeding to take someone to the hospital and speeding for joy are two different things but they're still speeding. Self defense is legal in all 50 states in one form or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:26 AM
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So when a man lies to a woman about wanting commitment in order to pump and dump, that isn't intent? Equally. When a woman falls in love with a man, marries him, and then 10 years later divorces him because he was a terrible partner, that is intent? (Standard AF/BB redpill claim)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:25 AM
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Feminists have been pushing Male collective guilt since its origins when they supported and drove many lynchings of Black men in the U.S. south Um. I'm gonna need you to source this one mate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:11 AM
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Why do some of you think that if a woman isn't getting one hundred percent of what she wants out of a relationship, regardless of if it romantic or platonic, she is being used? Because you worded it as if some men don't think the exact same way. "Why do women do this" instead of "why do people do this". Like I said, the hypocrisy between genders is just amusing. It just seems weird to gender something, in a sub where the opposite gender does the same exact thing, and much more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:12 PM
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A higher standard? Than who? My only point is that you're attacking the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:56 PM
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I mean it's literally evident from that very comment that she doesn't actually believe a womans value is lowered. She just believes men believe that. That's why she gets a "pass". "I can't change how men think". Now, if she actually believed it, and told other women they were easy and loose and whatever? Absolutely I would call her out. That isn't what is happening here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:50 PM
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And would she believe that if that isn't what has come directly from the mouths of men? Come on now. Men have been saying this. I've been married 15 years and men were saying this back when I was still single. Why are you denying that men say this? And it's even worse now with the Redpill and manosphere. I think it's sad as FUCK that so many young women feel that that is their only value. It is not that she believes that about women. It is that she believes men believe that about women. So yes. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:45 PM
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I don't know that I did.. I said "if".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:34 PM
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LMFAO So yeah. Hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:28 PM
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It seems you just struggle with context clues, then. But yes. This is a very common tactic men use in this sub. Sue me for assuming you were employing it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:28 PM
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See? Exactly like I said. I mean, that's exactly what I extrapolated from her comment. Not sure why you used it as an opportunity to shoot the messenger. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:26 PM
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I didn't read that as if she actually believed it. I read it as if that is the standard a lot of men set for women. And yes. I did come at you, because that looked like gaslighting 101. If you're being actually geniune, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:16 PM
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You literally said it wasn't manipulation and then went on a long rant about "you women". My entire point was the hypocrisy. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:03 PM
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Not true for you, maybe. AF/BB is like the North Star for redpillers though. Hence my point regarding hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:55 PM
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I'm not saying he actually manipulated her. I am drawing a parallel. A woman doing the above would absolutely be labeled as manipulation by a lot of men. AF/BB is a whole redpill topic. Are you denying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:49 PM
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Except she isn't pushing a narrative. Again, she is just reiterating the narrative that men in this sub push. Why am I advocating for women‘s intrinsic value harder than you? Strawman. I am questioning whether you actually believe this or if this is just some weird attempt to shit on a woman. Why are you coming at me for suggesting a woman is worth more than what men want to do with her? Because men like you choose to attack women for repeating what a man says instead of the man who says it. Tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:47 PM
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What do you mean? She would just do exactly what OP did. Manipulate the man to extract what she wants (money) whilst stringing him along but never actually giving him what he wants (sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:37 PM
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Come on now. I think men would feel the exact same way if a woman he was seeing just let him blow all his money on her whilst knowing the entire time he was just her Beta and she had no actual intentions to sleep with him or stay with him. If nothing else this sub is just a giant smorgasbord of hypocrisy. My goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:47 PM
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Do you know what subreddit you're in? The vast majority of men in this sub do endorse that exact narrative. There's an entire daily post dedicated to it, it's such a popular subject. Why are you attacking OP for simply reiterating what the men in this sub say? It's an odd angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:44 PM
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Because the implication is that women are children who need to be told what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:29 PM
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Men with shitty personalities only get women for a short time before their true colors come out, so that seems irrelevant to the singlehood of your friends. The vast majority of men you see in a relationship are those who do have a decent personality. Oftentimes, really smart men don't have a personality that jives with most women. Especially if they are in IT or engineering. They are much more likely to give off antisocial or "weird" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:07 AM
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I don't think I ever denied that to begin with. Another day, another man in this sub not knowing that attraction is a baseline qualifier that doesn't need to always be said. Women do prioritize more than looks though. They will absolutely (we're talking normal women not supermodels) lower their looks standards if he hits all the other bars. Men don't lower their looks standards. That is the difference. Hence, men put more value in looks. You'd never lower the baseline. Women will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:52 AM
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The supermodels are dating equally rich more attractive men. Attraction is baseline for all of us. Men just put more weight into attraction and looks than women. It doesn't mean a rich guy will automatically get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:41 AM
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As far as superficial qualities absolutely. Men focus on youth and looks, women focus on stability and finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:36 AM
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i'm a bit confused, how did you jump to single moms and ONS exactly? correct however unfortunately many many women don’t get this till there single moms and wonder where the Chad went, (where are the good men) I assumed you were the same dude, as the avatars were the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:19 AM
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I feel sorry for your wife. Hope the divorce doesn't come out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:01 AM
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I mean this would imply the majority of single moms are getting knocked up via one night stands. I do not know one single mom who wasn't in a long term relationship or marriage with the father. This doesn't really check out. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:54 AM
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For me, nothing prompted it. I had a boyfriend all through highschool. We broke up. And I simply made a conscious decision to play the field in college. I did not want a relationship, as I wanted to focus on school. I also just wanted experience. I remember at most, I was just worried I would feel like I settled later down the road if I never got that experience. Lastly, I had a lot of male friends and I saw how much they cheated in college. I wasn't going to subject myself to that so I kept fee…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:04 PM
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Simply put, men fought alongside feminists to get them to where they are now. They saw the struggle and helped And a lot more men fought against it. Remember women who wanted autonomy were labeled as witches, and hung because women being independent scared men? Salem Massachusetts remembers. The same feminists who now won't raise a finger to even so much as aknowledge that men deserve rights too. I browse r/AskFeminists from time to time. They are the most supportive group of people when it come…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:25 PM
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Men have been bullied into silence by feminists who insist that any acknowledgment of men’s issues is misogyny. We’re not going to risk our jobs and reputation by stating that men who get sexually assaulted deserve support rather than ridicule. Be absolutely for real right now. First of all feminists are the main allies to men who have been sexually assaulted. Secondly, you say won't state that men who get sexually assaulted deserve support because you believe that will risk your job and reputat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:18 PM
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You’re assuming women always know exactly what they want Lol this is such a sexist thing to say. I bet you'd never say the same about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:15 PM
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LMAO Jesus Christ. That isn't how it works. What are you, 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:15 AM
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Also chiming in. I have a "high body count". Happily married for 16 years. Neither of us ever discussed it. It's really a silly measure, anyways. Most teens and young adults have low self esteem. And then they grow up and mature.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 04:17 AM
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So if it was really about sexual violence then women would be picking the bear over women too. No. Because now there's an exponentially higher chance of being mauled by the bear than assaulted. When it is a man, the chance of being assaulted is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:10 AM
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Oh its not as common but women still sexually assault more than bears It really doesn't happen. I'd be more scared a strange woman would try to rob me tbh. And in that case I'd rather just be robbed. Is it because of sexism against men and believing that women are better than men? No, it's because all women have a sexually uncomfortable experience around strange men but not strange women. And ok are you now saying sexual assault victims would be better off dead? No, I'd rather they not be sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:59 PM
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misandrist like yourself are sadly what’s wrong with society Shit like this is exactly what corrupts the word misandry. You all want us to take it seriously but continue to misapply it. Aka I’ve never never bothered to look so it’s never happened I have seen quite a bit on the topic of boys falling behind girls, and no, I have not seen it. Why would I look up such an obscure topic anyways? If it exists, you should be able to produce some examples? nor are they in a position of power where they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:15 PM
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No, I purposely ignored that. I've never seen an article like that Even if they did exist those are extremist opinion pieces Believing a man isn't fit to date you is not the same thing as believing men are beneath them as humans No one is enacting policies due to this belief And this is why women don't take misandry serious. It literally always goes back to dating. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:55 PM
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ok the goal post moves again a bit, but I’ll follow it anyways. How do you even come to that conclusion? It is part of the definition of bigotry.. now that women are graduating at higher rates then men and often making more then men there are tons of leftist articles out there claiming that men are financial losers unfit to date, as they can no longer compare to the women’s income or at least earning potential. Now you have the superiority complex you were looking for and thus this is bigotry, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:45 PM
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It's not circular. Your statement just made no sense as it isn't even a reality. Bigotry requires the bigot to believe they are superior. There is a major difference in hate based on perceiving someone as lesser than and resentment based on a history of exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:37 PM
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No theyre saying bears are safer and more predictable than men Yes, bears cannot rape. Wonder why they pick a woman over a bear if sexual assault is so fucking bad. It isn't really as common of an experience for a woman to have been sexually assaulted by another woman.. Sexual assault victims choose every day to keep living so living with the trauma is better than dying Survivors of sexual assault have a higher risk and prevalence of suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:30 PM
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Saying that men are more violent and less human than wild bears is saying that we are subhuman savages No. They're saying they would rather just die than be sexually assaulted and deal with a lifetime of trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:03 PM
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No one ever categorized all men as "subhuman savage". Plus the women "picking the bear" absolutely feel superior to men Interesting assessment. I disagree. Women "picking the bear" are just saying some men scare them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:58 PM
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I can make my husband a stay at home husband tomorrow. I earn more than him working exponentially less hours. He's aware. He doesn't want it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:56 PM
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I believe that there is a major difference in hate based on perceiving someone as lesser than and resentment based on a history of exploitation. I believe one is the result of bigotry and the other is not. Bigotry requires the bigot to feel superior. That is not what is happening here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:54 PM
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Honestly I don't think they even realize they're strawmanning. I geniunely think it is because men truly do not understand abstract concepts in the same way that women do. Like that post the other day of a man proclaiming that "women don't care about men at all" because on a separate post, women said that they do not get turned on at just the sight of an attractive man in public. A wild conclusion that no one said. But a conclusion nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:28 PM
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the main point is the sons raised in broken homes whose life outcomes are wrecked by their mothers over their mother's frivolous resentments of their fathers. This doesn't really compute. Most boys who grew up without a father, never had a father in their life to begin with. Their parents were never married and the man vanishes within the first year of life-if he even makes it that far. When it comes to divorce, no one is booting fathers out of their sons (kids) lives. I know several great men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:18 PM
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Ok- that's fine, but it directly contradicts what PieMart was saying. Women are given legal credit and appropriately acquitted when acting in self-defense, while she said they were not. And although adjusting for factors it may be true the men and women get fair sentences in this study (though overall in the criminal justice system in the present day- there is a well documented sentencing disparity adjusted for aggravating/ mitigating factors)- it still directly contradicts what she said that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:07 PM
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What is your point? This just reaffirms that hate from men is more dangerous and problematic. As women could never implement any policy that harms men in the same way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:52 PM
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The problem is that you (in general) label women speaking about personal experience of abuse or mistreatment as misandry. It isn't misandry just because it isn't a positive statement. You label any and everything that does not paint men as perfect angels as misandry. Likewise, a man describing a past relationship where she cheated on him and/or was verbally abusive isn't misogyny. A man describing an abusive mother is not misogyny. Also, misandry is such a garbage term to begin with. It means no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:43 PM
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I thought AI posts were banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:30 PM
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Lmao what minority group have black people been subjugated by?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:51 AM
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Sorry. I just don't get it. The original analogy was made by a man. It was meant to ask other men this question in relation to their daughters. It was meant to illustrate a point, not demonize men. Women (and men) have always been wary of other men around women and girls. It's nothing new. On one end, you have women sharing traumatic experiences at the hands of men. On the other end you have men PISSED OFF at women sharing their traumatic experiences at the hands of men, and pushing to remove wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:45 AM
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Black people discussing past traumatic experiences at the hands of white people is, in fact, not hatred and bigotry in the same exact way that women discussing past traumatic experiences at the hands of men is not hatred and bigotry. Again. It is super weird you would even think that. You just want victims to shut up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:40 AM
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I'm literally just explaining why your comparison doesn't work. Like I said initially, you need to keep the power differential stable to make a like comparison. Honestly it's wild how stubborn men are. This isn't a competition. Women discussing past experiences isn't hatred and bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:33 AM
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It actually isn't accepted for black people to hate all white people lol Again, let's not muddy the waters and continue to change the language. I said be untrusting. Not hate. That is because women have privilege and power in society whereas black people, as a group, largely do not. They do not. Exactly the way black people do not have privilege and power and thus, denotes something entirely different both groups say they are untrusting of the group that is and always has been (in reality) in po…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:30 AM
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No no no ya see I'm a bigot the the CORRECT PEOPLE is everything's OK. ? No idea what you're saying here. at the end of the day it's the same mindset many leftist just hate when that mirror gets held up. No. Like I said, it is the exact same mindset as black people not trusting white people. Leftists support that. They are being completely consistent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:20 AM
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Black people are called out for not trusting white people all the time wym. You will most certainly get looks trying to demonize all white people in society No. Most logical and mature thinking people do understand and it is accepted. It is really only racist white people that call it out as wrong. Similar to how it is only misogynists who call women wrong. Black people not only have a lifetime of microagressions at the very least, but also history of generational trauma. Exactly the same for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:18 AM
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since quite a few of them have had a bad experience with a minority they believe that they should also be able to vent there trauma and aren't looking for you to scapegoat there problems or experiences ethier. Except men aren't a minority. You have it flipped. It's more akin to black people not trusting white people. It's a wrong point of comparison. You need to keep the power differential stable rather than reversing it, which you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:06 AM
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Ironically, a man made up that analogy. The way that y'all equate women discussing their fear of men due to past experiences of men being literally scary and harmful, to men discussing taking womens rights away because they didn't like hearing women talk about their past scary and harmful experiences, is fucking insanity. And, if I'm being entirely honest, I do not believe any of you who make this claim. There is absolutely no way. I think, more likely, is that Trump made hating others cool agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:43 AM
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We already do. Hell, we usually end up "settling" for men slightly less attractive than us. It is men that always go for more. I mean. Men do the same exact thing in their careers. They apply for jobs they aren't even qualified for. Women on the other hand won't apply unless they meet all of the critera. What makes you think they suddenly flip flop behaviors when it comes to relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:03 PM
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Yeah. I think women who say they don't find most men attractive, are probably women who aren't entirely straight. I just don't understand how that's possible tbh. I am married and still see attractive men daily. A lot more men are attractive than not. I love men. But also, I have never in my life been "turned on" just by looking. That is what seems impossible and it seems that THAT is how men gauge "real attraction". Except women just don't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:54 PM
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For sure. I’m sorry that happened to your friends, and I really hope the friend who was pushed out of the car has gotten away from her abuser and is doing better now. I hope I didn’t come across as dismissive of reactive violence as a concept. I know that it’s real, but I do not think it is a blanket narrative that covers all of the domestic violence carried out by women. Yes thankfully she did. He was her "first everything" and unfortunately put up with a lot more than she should have. Partiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:45 PM
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I mean they're STILL like that. Even mens rights groups mainly focus on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:59 AM
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Agreed. Exactly like mens rights groups and MGTOW. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:57 AM
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Conversely, there are quite a few 30 something redpill/incel men in here who speak about being "ready to settle down" and "start a family". I wonder if OP thinks that they're too old too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:30 PM
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Not entirely dissimilar to a 19 year old kid who has never been in a LTR let alone lived on their own, trying to argue about what does and does not need to be done inside a home as a married couple with children. There's been lots of those in here lately. By the way. I am 36. I was 8 years old in 1998. I didn't start dating for another decade 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:27 PM
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You said "just as abusive". I disagree. It doesn't follow any reality I've ever been a part of One of my friends was pushed out of a moving vehicle. They were arguing because she didn't answer her phone when she was in the shower. He was much less attractive than her, and permanently paranoid. Another went missing and was found a week later in a duffle bag. Both of those women absolutely slapped their partners. It was reciprocal. Just. Not the same. Ya feel me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:02 PM
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this language at all that shows you women are just as abusive and can be just as likely to injure men. The study you linked says the opposite..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:50 PM
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This study measures acts, but gives zero context. Slapping your partner because they verbally threatened you or said something insanely sexist is not on the same level as punching your partner because she asked you where you were last night. To be clear, I have never once slapped a man. I think it's goofy and stupid. I hate women who do that. It serves zero purpose. Men should leave a woman who does so, because she probably also has a lot of other weird viewpoints (his money is mine and mine is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:41 PM
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Okay, since you think there are noble reasons to steal then replace the adult not scanning baby formula with a child putting a candy bar in their pocket. Or, I don't know, an adult putting anything in their pocket/not scanning it. Doesn't matter. Point is, it's not the same crime as stealing from a household. Also, I don't believe women are all perfect angels. I just disagree with equating the two. Like I said, the question is disingenuous. And being that you can admit causing more physical harm…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:33 PM
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Your example sucks. The intent behind stealing formula to feed your child and stealing jewelry aren’t the same. Neither is strangling your partner and shoving your partner (this is why women get lighter sentences, the intent is not the same). Glad you are starting to get it. but both are done with the intent to cause harm No. One is much more likely to be reactive and/or with the intent to protect themselves. As others pointed out they would if they could, in most cases they just can’t. Guns exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:09 PM
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Sure. It's possible. Some women don't like doing it at all. That's also valid. That doesn't really fit with the question though. OP asked why a woman would give one man head but not another. There are lots of reasons for this, and none of them have to do with "pair bonding" or "Chad". I listed two reasons. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:52 PM
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K. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamainternalmedicine/fullarticle/2814274 In the 14 states that implemented total abortion bans following the Dobbs decision, we estimated that 519 981 survivors of completed rape experienced 64 565 rape-related pregnancies during the 4 to 18 months that bans were in effect (Table 2 ). Of these, an estimated 5586 rape-related pregnancies (9%) occurred in states with rape exceptions, and 58 979 (91%) in states with no exception, with 26 313 (45%) in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:49 PM
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It's a disingenuous question and I think you know that. You are underhandedly equating the two and they aren't equal. Physical violence is never okay. And. Strangling someone much smaller than you with your bare hands is worse than slapping and shoving someone much bigger than you. Hence why these two acts receive entirely different sentences. Example. Stealing is always wrong, yes. Breaking into someone's home and taking all of their jewelry is stealing. Not scanning the formula at the grocery …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:47 PM
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Feel free. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamainternalmedicine/fullarticle/2814274 "In the 14 states that implemented total abortion bans following the Dobbs decision, we estimated that 519 981 survivors of completed rape experienced 64 565 rape-related pregnancies during the 4 to 18 months that bans were in effect (Table 2 ). Of these, an estimated 5586 rape-related pregnancies (9%) occurred in states with rape exceptions, and 58 979 (91%) in states with no exception, with 26 313 (45%) in Tex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:58 PM
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Red states in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:48 PM
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Neither does the case you linked I can pull up a dozen in the last year. You? It's increasing in totality, on the level of the entire country Lmao, exactly. Because women from red states are now saying FUCK all of that and FUCK these insane men. And traveling. Also, the repeal of RvW directly coincides with the rise of telehealth and mail order prescriptions. (Red states are trying to ban this now too). It was going to increase regardless due to those two factors alone. Technology, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:43 PM
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Absolutely. Much lower odds than being forced to carry your rapists baby so I'll take my chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:39 PM
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And there are teen boys who are raped and forced to pay child support for the baby their rapist decided to keep. That literally makes no sense. How? Even when girls under 18 have a baby, they need their legal guardians to sign off on everything. Where is a 14 year old boy getting money for child support? I agree, that is fucked and shouldn't happen. I just don't believe it's happening on any large scale. What, maybe 5 examples in the last 40 years? Come on. Again, the number of abortions increas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:33 PM
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Not everyone has access. Especially young teen girls. They are also expensive $50-$100 per pill. Also, in more conservative areas and states, pharmacists may not choose to even stock it. Again. I would rather sign a piece of paper than go through that. There was just a 14 year old girl in Indiana who had to fight for the ability to abort her rapists baby. At that point, she was 28 weeks which is way beyond the limit that most even on the left would approve on. All because she had to ask permissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:14 PM
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Ok, so you fill it as well if it's so inconsequential. Sure. It's literally just a form. Who cares. Why was she stuck carrying some rapists seed around for 9 months? Because half of the US now has total abortion bans as 'revenge'. Whether it is revenge towards the left or women themselves is irrelevant. It is still hurting women, and only women. Did it slip her mind what got her pregnant? See above.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:05 PM
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Oh wow. So you have to fill out a piece of paper. The horror. Women get stuck carrying some rapists seed around for 9 months. I'll choose signing up for something that isn't real, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:26 AM
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That’s why I’m convinced one of the biggest differences/upsets has been streamer culture going mainstream. And “anon edgelord culture” forum chats/gamer lobby style chats going mainstream. Aka women gaining visibility into how men think changed the game in just as radical of a way as dating apps did. Yep. Agreed. I refrained from saying it because it seems to really get em going. (I probably would not like the idea that I've been intentionally propaganized for the billionaires either tbh) 4/8cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:01 AM
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Quite literally, never. I've never randomly been turned on in public by a random stranger I see. I see attractive men pretty much every time I leave the house though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:26 AM
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Most are never reported..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:45 PM
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Except that most women who experiences traumatics experience where for men they choose, Incorrect. Most women who have been SA are SA by someone they know, yes. You are conflating that, with a man she chose. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:34 PM
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Men's public image has always been degraded in that way. That said, I can't empathize. Most women have had a traumatic experience with a man at some point in their lives. Oftentimes, most of the time, not a man they chose either. Men not liking hearing about that, and in turn, creating even more misogynistic spaces and ideals towards women, is effectively punishing women for being victims in the first place. This is why there will never be a compromise. Women are not going to compromise their hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:24 PM
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I never said men should have to change. It is up to the individual what they are willing to compromise on. That said, it does seem that men are more frustrated with this current reality than the women choosing to stay single are. The one who wants something more is usually the one who will act on it. The way I see it, there are three options to resolve relationship problems Do nothing. Stays single Compromise on behaviors Use force by government (revert back to women not having rights), so you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:12 PM
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What do you mean? Yes. Women are choosing to stay single. That doesn't really change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:42 PM
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I'm sorry, are you actually being serious? If your partner has a higher SMV than you, the only detriment to leaving them is now you're single (and so are they). If your partner has a much higher salary than you, when you leave, you're homeless, without an income, and without a way to feed yourself (and children) AND you're single now (WITH a lower SMV because now you have baggage)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:41 PM
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I'm totally fine with generalizations. Just not when they're illogical or otherwise completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:26 PM
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The idea of “adaptation” in this context doesn’t make sense; why should it be on men to change their personalities? Why not seek out the personality you want and then do things to appeal to it , i feel both genders should do this It doesn't have to be. I agree. Seek out the personality you want. This is what women are doing. And men call that having too high of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:24 PM
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Yeah.. Like I told the other guy, women have had a much more intimate look into the way a lot of men think and feel due to the internet and thus, rightly so, have put their guards up. The things they are seeing, being the manosphere, redpill and the like. So again, painting it as if this is on women doesn't seem right. Everything was fine until the manosphere went mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:21 PM
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I think it's valid and the obvious result of financial independence. I don't think there is anything to blame there. Women no longer need to rely on men for finances. They want a partner. Thus, their partner needs to actually be that. And not just a superficial bank account. Couple all of this with the vitriol from men that women now have a more intimate view of due to social media and it is no wonder women have felt the need to build a fort for protection. I think, more than anything, it is soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:23 PM
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What is womens part? What have women done differently in the last decade?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:16 PM
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Right. So it isn't women. It's the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:11 PM
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Behave like what? I said nothing about OP. He asked why women would do that. I gave a reason. Why are you personally offended on OPs behalf?! 😅 Also, being selfish in the bedroom isn't being bad in the bedroom. It's being selfish. Like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:14 PM
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Do you have a source on this...? It's been fairly stable since the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:08 PM
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And yet...millenial men had the same women (who want financial equality but still wants to be treated like a woman, crazy I know) and managed just fine without screeching all over the internet. Most of those men are happily linked up. Thus..something else is going on with Gen Z men..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:06 PM
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Yes I had an ex like that. I am just saying, it is another reason. It was my reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:55 PM
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And maybe, he can't last for shit so she doesn't want to waste sexual intimacy on performing for him whilst getting nothing in return. Fast way to make her feel like an object for his pleasure only. He is either selfish in bed or has stinky balls. Either way it's on him entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:55 PM
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Exactly. Plus, there is also ENM. People just don't want to be honest with eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:52 PM
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I don't ask. He just does. I refuse to live in a marriage where I have to bark orders at my husband like he's one of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:15 PM
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I appreciate that you've identified the existence of a criticism while simultaneously clarifying that the criticism remains critical of the framework through which the criticism itself is being criticized. The distinction between the distinction and the distinction of the distinction is, in many ways, distinct. My point isn't that your point isn't a point. My point is that your point points so hard at the framework that it forgets to point at what was actually said. By recursively contextualizin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:39 PM
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Yeah $90 sushi $19 coffee love island astrology the most overpriced concerts possible (the people who run these companies have testified about laughing at how they are robbing you blind in court) and traveling to other countries to post pictures as a socioeconomic status flex is very interesting. Why cant i find men who like me for me? These are my favorite comments in PPD because it comically illustrates exactly who men are picturing every time they screech about the "average" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:02 PM
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Her rebuttal is simple. It's that women are not men. We don't view sex and love the same way that men do thus, their relating sex to love via women's behavior is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:27 PM
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Seriously. I am dumbfounded reading this exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:21 PM
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That is what I meant by binding love to sex. It also almost completely erases romantic asexuality, where someone can experience romantic love without sexual attraction or interest.or romanticism that doesn't involve sex even in sexual relationships. So you didn't read to understand, then. Because SHE doesn't believe that. This is what men of PPD say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:19 PM
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This sounds like a take from someone who lives on the internet. I live in reality. I see average men with my own eyes coupled up every day. Women have always been able to do that. It's not new. And yet. They don't. Because it's fucking dangerous. Sure. 20 guys may want to take her home. But.. 5 have STDs. 4 are married. 5 are criminals. 2 are rapists. And 2 are normal, if she's lucky, albeit probably unattractive to her. And, none of these options would lead to what most women actually want, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:11 PM
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Algorithms are fascinating. I don't think I've ever seen a post about a cheating wife or girlfriend 😅😅 I'm not saying I don't believe you. I just think it's kind of funny that women are fed the exact same thing in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:11 PM
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Which is bullshit. Because now I have no closet space type shit. Now you're freaking out at 4AM because you can't find your shirt. Now you're having to run out at 10PM cause you have no clean socks. Lol. You truly don't see how that's inconsiderate? I think that's what this truly comes down to. Lack of consideration for your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:50 PM
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I don't understand this topic. Truly. I imagine most of the men posting about it are young single guys with no children? Conversely, most of the women with these complaints are married with children. You are trying to relate two entirely different worlds here. The dishes do need to be done daily. If they aren't, we don't have clean dishes to eat off of and cook with. If we don't have anything clean to cook with, we cannot feed our family. Building off this, meal making also needs to be done dail…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:34 PM
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Yes, I absolutely agree. It is certainly not all men. It is weak men. Men who oftentimes are putting up a fake persona out of fear. It is just a behavior as a woman I frankly cannot make sense of. I imagine that would make one feel like garbage. No one wants me for me. They want me for the act I put on? No thank you. It's sad for him honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:22 PM
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LMAO I'm sorry, what? Yes. How dare women want to make a good impression on a man they are interested in dating/marrying? As if this isn't just normal behavior of all humans. "How women move" cracks me up in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:11 PM
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Yes. I said he wanted commitment before I did. I was a free spirit back then. I just wanted to have fun. Which refutes another guys claim that men won't commit to the women that have sex with them. They will and they do. Especially when you reverse psychology them, intentionally or not. Do you have children? I entirely disagree with your claim. Children are a massive curveball that everyone ignores. I also think for those who do have completely dead bedrooms, those women weren't ever very sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:31 PM
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I've been married for 15 years. I am highly confused how you think that my saying my husband started out as a fuck buddy, a man I have and have always had intense carnal desire for, equates to just marrying him for a stable marriage. Also, our bedroom is not dead even with three kids. Sex happens most nights. Amazing sex. That said, after I had our second baby my sex drive went in the shitter for a solid 6 months. So yes. I do have a little bit of experience to say it had zero to do with my attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:05 PM
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I geniunely thought you were the man I originally replied to. You sure are spewing red pill talking points. Also, stop blaming dead bedrooms on women. I've seen the subreddit. It is equally women complaining. Most women are absolutely attracted to their husbands. Women can't fuck something they aren't attracted to. Dead bedrooms don't pop up for a solid decade after marriage meaning there are other factors at play. You're connecting dots that don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:23 PM
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What makes you think you know anything about what a woman does and does not care enough about? I've dated men who were models. My husbands a very rough around the edges blue collar guy. The model men were more universally accepted as attractive, sure. But I have a much more carnal desire for my husband than any of the men I dated in the past. A more manly man if you will. And yes. They were trash in bed. My husband has been rocking my fucking world from day one. Attraction is a spectrum. Certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:05 AM
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Sex is awesome and fun, why the fuck would they say no to something awesome and fun, wtf? But women should say no when they too are getting something awesome and fun? Women enjoy the sex for the moment and then complain that the guy doesn't commit. For one how is that an issue? Who cares? For two, no, not all women. Plenty of women enjoy sex and want just sex. For three, what is the relevance to women being "gatekeepers"? So because men lie and manipulate, women should deprive themselves of an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:10 AM
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LOL That's probably where the Redpill gets the "pair bonding" thing from. Every accusation is a confession. OP is basically everything RedPill claims women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:57 AM
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Lol I have one like that. We were "highschool sweethearts". I broke up with him summer before college. Met my husband in my THIRD year of college. It has been 15 years. When I got pregnant, he told me "that was supposed to be my baby". Very weird. I also recently got a dm from a dude I briefly dated in college. Briefly! He is also still single and wanted me to know how much of an impact I made on his life. I was like 🤨🤨🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:39 AM
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Lol. Everything redpill says about women is really just projection. Women all settle. Women are always looking for the next best option. Women can't have past relationships or they'll be ruined and never be able to pair bond again. Sounds familiar. I would date a person, announced my romantic interests, then keep all of my other options away to focus on the one person I wanted to be with... Even if that means letting go of another option that was more appealing to me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:36 AM
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It's geniunely wild. I personally wouldn't want to sleep with a man if I had to pretend to be someone I wasn't in order for him to want me. It's so shameless and embarrassing that men do this regularly. And they're proud of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:30 AM
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From experience men who make their entire lives about chasing women are the most shallow, surface level men who literally have the most boring lives known to mankind And, they're ironically and comically, TERRIBLE in bed. I don't make the rules 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:16 AM
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No. That's a cop out. He can say no as well. Saying women are the gatekeepers of sex is the same thing as saying men don't have the ability to say no. That men will just fuck anything. That they cannot say no. That they have no agency. Shifting accountability. Again, women, especially women who engage in casual sex, equally enjoy sex. Why should they have to "gatekeep" something they want? Because the other implication of calling women the gatekeepers of sex, is that women don't actually like it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:25 PM
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Most average men are having casual sex. Moreso than average women. Hell. Most nasty men even get casual sex. I grew up in a low income area. I've seen it all. The creepiest, biggest perves are always very, extremely average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:58 PM
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I mean I didn't type any of that. Most women don't have casual sex and the ones that do won't lower their standards on looks when it comes to relationships either. I never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:52 PM
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There's also a bit of an opposite correlation between how attractive a guy is and how good he is in bed. The more attractive a man is, the more selfish of a lover he is too. So, it's probably because those men rock her fucking world like no other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:44 PM
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Not really. A lot of women, like I said, don't want to leave a bad impression and/or ruin their chances. Those women usually don't have casual sex to begin with. They are serial monogomists at most. I wasn't like that. I wanted to be wild and free and didn't give a shit. Interestingly, the way I acted was like reverse psychology. Men don't like it when you only see them as casual either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:40 PM
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Why aren't you mad at the Chad's for taking your women? Why do you blame it on the women and require them to change? Why not require the Chads to stop stealing all the good women and save some for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:36 PM
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This is assuming she reverts back to less attractive men for commitment. She does not. My husband was my FWB first. I actually did not want commitment. He wouldn't leave it alone. The idea that men won't commit to women that fuck them is silly. Most couples I know started out exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:33 PM
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I've never heard a woman say husband material in real life if I'm being entirely honest. Geniunely, it is no different than the way a man views an "easy" woman or a hot woman that is maybe also a drug addict. She's hot. You'll fuck her. But you would never commit to her. Same for us. Plenty of men that look good on the outside but are good for sex and sex only. That doesn't mean the man she marries isn't equally or more attractive. It simply means she wants to make a better impression on the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:27 PM
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Why do you think they're being used? If a woman wants a casual fuck she's gonna find the hottest person for the job. Exactly like a man would do. She's equally using him for a good lay. The only one not getting anything out of it are the men pissed she slept with him and not them. I truly don't understand this mindset. She wants to fuck. The "Chads" are willing to fuck her. But it's her fault she didn't turn him down and choose an uglier fella for the job? As if men wouldn't and don't do the exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:17 PM
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I haven't seen this at all. Seems y'all aren't getting the reactions you wanted. Half of us have no idea what the hell this post even is 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:10 AM
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This is what I was thinking. This is stupid. Men don't give a fuck lol. They'll still hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:09 AM
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even though she has reason to think it might not be the case This is the part you'd have to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:36 PM
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They started struggling more than ever before because women have a choice to only date men they're interested in for the first time in history. There is so much wrong with this comment. Gen Z are the first in history? Weird. I'm millenial and I chose my husband. My aunts Gen X and chose her husband. My mom is a boomer and chose her husband. Secondly. It's a problem for you that women have a choice...? Women are telling men they're less than with their actions. No. Women are telling you with thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:35 PM
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That guy has been stalking her and several other women in that sub all week. He admitted it on that post. He sent this post to her on the same post that he linked. He seems unwell.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 11:37 PM
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I can acknowledge that. Also, a lot of women can't afford makeup or were never taught/not very good at applying it, or they simply just choose not to wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:07 PM
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Geniunely asking, were you homeschooled? I guess I am confused how you wouldn't know how tall you are in comparison to others until you turned 20. If you are talking about the idea that women will only date men over 6 foot? That's just...come on. Like I said I'm 36, but I never had this stipulation. Most of the men I dated were just barely taller than me (5'4) including my husband. Sure, you may see young women flippantly say it online. But, that's ragebait. Not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:13 PM
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Gay men have better sex lives. Gay men have trouble finding actual relationships. This is why gay men usually marry a lot later in life, and stay married, because it is THAT hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:54 AM
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He is too young at 21 to believe those things. And I bet I am too old at 36 to also believe the same. So..does this only work for men between the ages of 25-30, or?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:18 PM
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How do you figure? If person A puts their labor and time into their job only and person B puts their labor and time into their job and then more labor and time into their family, you think person A does more? Talk about needing a stats class. Ironically I have a degree in economics. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:02 PM
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you are so biased against men that you missed this obvious truth. slow down Like I said, I would rather throw the money I earned at work from throwing my labor and time at it instead of going to work to throw my labor and time AND have to throw more labor and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:52 PM
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how do you think that link or the underlying study supports the claim that men never go out of their way to help their grandparents or siblings, they never take on significant amounts of the housework, or that a lot of them don't even make meals for their family? ....that's literally what the study says. the study doesn't account for nursing homes and men working more overall to pay for such care. What about nursing homes? Are you implying because men would rather throw money at an issue it equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:26 PM
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Let's see how well women perform when we remove the bumpers from their lane. Is the lane bumpers also the reason that female surgeons perform better than their male counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:21 PM
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but I have no reason to believe most or even 10% of single young men are like that This one's about 10 years old, but there's a reason people say they need a daughter to take care of them in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:02 PM
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I mean. The US is a western country with the highest population in the world after China and India. "Some states" is the population equivalent to "some countries" in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:41 PM
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Not really, no. I'm 36. I started moving left before Trump was ever President. And prior to him, political leanings were not split by gender whatsoever. Anywho, your claim just invalidates that other guys comment. Lastly, obviously if one side is threatening your freedom, you're going to be against that, no? It's a dumb point all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:29 PM
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He doesn't care. He's a self proclaimed psychopath that passport bro'd some poor girl from South America to be his bandmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:35 PM
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See, this logic just doesn't compute for me. Maybe it was true for Boomers, but I'm not so positive it will also be true for Millenials and Gen Z. I was much more selfish and conservative leaning when I was younger and broke. It is an extremely childish mindset to want to hurt others because you're hurting. Which is really what conservatism has come down to. Maturity and higher income has pushed me further and further left.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:32 PM
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Male beauty is mostly facial bone structure, body frame and social status. And men can grow facial hair and literally double their league. Facial hair does a much better job at hiding an ugly face than make up ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:33 AM
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No. It isn't "alluding" me. It's that your point makes zero sense. Why do men always do this in here? Y'all always try to passive aggressively attack a woman's intelligence. It's quite a feminine trait if I'm being honest. Moving on. Your question: "Why are men always to blame" (by women) Okay? And men do the same thing in reverse. They will always blame the woman before ever pointing the finger at their fellow man too. And your questioning how two separate groups of women can have two entirely …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:37 PM
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Sure thing, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:05 PM
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Oh, it is. Just because you are struggling to connect the dots does not equate to being logically invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:15 PM
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Use your noggin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:02 PM
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I think it would be cool to act like a man. Because then I can womansplain blue balls and assert that it doesn't actually hurt to get kicked in the nuts. Because I obviously know better than the people walking around in their own bodies every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:56 PM
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And instead of just acknowledging that they pretend that progressive women are contradicting 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:14 PM
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I feel like 70% of women is a pretty good starting point. That 30% is going to be mostly older women stuck in the past, and will hopefully just naturally dwindle down with time. What is the percentage for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:33 PM
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I live in a country where 30% women will openly state in a poll that it is unacceptable for men to cry (ever). Seems to fall in line with the percentage of women who are conservative, so, where's the contradiction exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:47 PM
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It seems you've been missing the headlines lately? The birth rate keeps dropping. And the only reason it didn't die out before, is because prior to social media women had to pretend like they were having the best time ever, otherwise risk judgement and shunning. Now women all over the world can chat and share war stories. And what do ya know. Suddenly the birth rate is in hell. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:57 AM
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As a mom...yes? Literally all the time. They say it ALL the time. That is why there are so many "one and dones" now a days. It is that bad. Between pregnancy, breastfeeding, being the default parent for a solid 3 years because the baby is velcro, the tantrums, the chaos. Women are having one and saying NEVER again. I mean. Not me. I got 3 but mostly cause my husband and I have one hobby. But even then I completely fucking get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:55 AM
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And so are women. Like I said, two entirely different groups of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:24 AM
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being victims of suicide because men constantly ignore, dismiss, and belittle other men. Yes. There was actually a wonderful post in r/bropill of the importance of male on male emotional connections. You should read it. Look, I am not saying this all happens in a vacuum and men are the only ones at fault. But until men start accepting other mens mental health issues and actually being there for eachother instead of dunking on eachother and simply saying "man up", nothing anyone else does will ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:55 PM
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I wasn't doing that, so, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:41 PM
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Are you going to furnish a single source now that I have presented like seven so far? Two sources. One on surrogacy and another on the median income of men. Neither of which I asked for by the way. And certain not 7 😂 I don't want any intentional single parents please, of any gender. A gay couple of either gender is fine, but we have more healthy couples that want to adopt than there are babies available. So men can already do this via adoption and I don't want them to be able to do it. I mean. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:01 PM
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You have yet to make a single bit of sense. Good day, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:24 PM
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Oh FFS you're still going? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:19 PM
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I have no idea, the point is, a mugger waits for somebody walking down the street, if it's a woman, they don't jump them and wait for a man to walk down the street. It's "protect the women," in the sense that that's where the bias comes from, it's not "protect the woman by taking a bullet for her" or how else do you mean? So just a bunch of baseless mumbo jumbo. Got it You said "You also must show me that all of the women in these wars were just left alone by the opposing party." Yeah. Worded th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:18 PM
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Not at all. The fact you believe that otherwise proves my original point for me. Thank you for that. Whatever helps you sleep at night bookie Are they good men because they’re actually good? Or are they good because they were rewarded for being good? So you tell me then. Do you not believe in the existence of good men unless a reward is in order? If not, what are you even complaining about? they still wouldn’t have a woman romantically or sexually interested in them for their entire life. Okay? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:09 PM
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If you mean "protecting women" as in "the criminals don't victimize women," then see the above. If you mean men are the majority victims of assault and murder to physically stop a woman from being immediately injured, no, I never said that. No, I mean males dying more than females for our 300,000-year evolutionary prehistory and down into pre-human animals, due to a very obviously ingrained biological "protect the women" urge that everyone has. What does the bold mean then? That's an unreasonabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:04 PM
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Otherwise, the cheaters, abusers, criminals, addicts would be in the same position as the Nice guys. Faulty logic. The fact that OP along with many other women talk about how nice guys aren’t actually nice but are narcissistic people pleasing losers. There are plenty of good men. They just don't label themselves as "Nice guys" with a capital N. Say what you mean. Incels. You're talking about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:56 PM
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LOL it's like in those Facebook groups back in the day. Someone would get butthurt and make an entire post about how they're leaving the group instead of just...leaving. Because what they actually wanted was other members to beg them to stay. Something about "This is not an airport no need to announce your departure" type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:54 PM
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No, I did. So was I 🤭 Did you catch that?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:50 PM
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ok so it is just real life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:49 PM
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Just women and society, eh? Somehow men dodge accountability there. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:48 PM
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Nah I just thought the irony in your comment was funny. But again. I copy and pasted the comments. Impossible to make up. Everyone else can read. You aren't fooling anyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:42 PM
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So, uh, you still do not realize the conversation began with two separate men? She responded to RedPill guy. HE said nothing but "YES" in response to "So you want to be both toxic and manly". Talk about learning to read 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:39 PM
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Whatever Thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:36 PM
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I never said I copy and pasted YOUR comment. Why would your comment even be relevant when the entire point is you accusing someone of saying something they did not? You asked Lilith "since when is masculinity the same as bad" And she never said that. She simply responded to RedPill Dude who said YES to wanting to be BOTH toxic and manly. Go whine at him if you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:34 PM
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I copy and pasted the entire conversation other than yours because yours was just irrelevant whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:30 PM
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I literally copy and pasted the entire thing. That is exactly what was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:28 PM
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Likewise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:28 PM
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I hope for your cousin that he's not going to be part of the 50% of marriages that end in divorce, because then his suicide odds will go from 4x higher than wlmsns suicide, to 9x higher than women's. Lmao that is super weird of you. Wishing death on a stranger who just got engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:27 PM
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No, that's what you're doing right now. Are you able to read comments and know what you yourself said? This is ironic. Lilith: So instead of not being toxic, you guys wanna be toxic and manly? RedPill Dude: Yes Lilith: So it’s not about masculinity. It’s about getting away with being a terrible person. You: How dare you Bruh. Come on. Masculinity doesn't have to be toxic. But RedPill man said "Yes" to being both toxic and manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:26 PM
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Because they're two entirely separate groups of women. You are asking why progressive women and conservative women have two completely different standpoints..?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:20 PM
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Literally no one has said this. Y'all sure have quite the imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:13 PM
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No, I mean males dying more than females for our 300,000-year evolutionary prehistory and down into pre-human animals, due to a very obviously ingrained biological "protect the women" urge that everyone has. Source or is this just some weird assumption? That's why men are more likely to be victims of street assault and murder everywhere Okay, again, source proving the the majority of male on male violent crime is directly related to protecting women? Literally in the Bible Again, the Bible is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:00 PM
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No, I wouldn't call a system that killed men So, war? War killed women too. Also, for an example, WWI took in about 25% of men aged 18-31 (percentage of American men who fought, not died). Conversely, during that same time 90% of women had children. And 15% of those "women" were actually children themselves. made them into labor slaves, As you correctly pointed out, women have always worked so they were "labor slaves" too So your two points on the subjugation of men still don't equate to the sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:39 PM
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I don't think you'd have 30% of young men polled 300 years ago agreeing that women should be submissive to men like they do today, I think feminists put the idea in their heads. You think that feminists put the idea of submission (voluntarily yielding to men) into mens heads but you're not denying the existence of subjugation (forced obedience) in the past, and pointed to the recent implosion of "tradwifes" as proof. Tell me. What makes you think men born in an era where women were FORCED to obe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:12 PM
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Tradwife only goes back to the 1950s, yes. The lack of existence prior to that does not equate to women not being subjugated. Again. Absolutely crazy that you think that. Taking a bunch of what I can only assume as Bible quotes is also not proof. The Bible says a lot of things. Doesn't mean people and society at large follows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:52 AM
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I geniunely don't even know how big my husband is and we've been married 15 years. "Hunny can we bust out the tape measurer tonight?" 😂 It's such a weird question. As if we all have rulers in our pocketbook that we bust out for each encounter. I have NO IDEA what size any of my previous partners were either. It was just always: was the dick good? Yes or No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:20 AM
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Yes. The argument is that all of the fatalist nonsense incels spew is...nonsense. I live in reality where I see average to very below average men in relationships every day. Most of you live in a hyped up YouTube ragebait bubble that has ruined you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:12 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:09 AM
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I don't think you'd have 30% of young men polled 300 years ago agreeing that women should be submissive to men like they do today, I think feminists put the idea in their heads. This has got to be the top most delusional take I've read in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:51 AM
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Lmao. Now we're moving the goalposts? K.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:10 AM
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Lol geniunely what do you expect when you just showed your own example of assholish behavior from men? Or did you think that your comment was somehow neutral? Anywho. Don't be suprised when you get back what you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:53 PM
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Except she was asked why she comments in this subreddit in general. Not just on this one specific thread. Nice try though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:40 PM
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Yeah. It's under the automod for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:29 PM
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It was you implying that progressive women are less desirable I didn't. Those were two separate points indicated by them being two separate paragraphs. All visually desirable women will have men clamoring to spend money on her regardless of her political leaning. Also, progressive women are a better bet for men who complain about paying for the first date/being a provider/getting divorce raped. As they are less likely to dream of being a stay at home mom tradwife with no career prospects. Lastly…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:17 PM
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Nah it's just that these men are pointing to a very specific sub set of women. The Erika Kirks, if you will. But yeah, I would say a lot of these men definitely do have a bone to pick with progressive women.. no? Hence-less desirable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:41 PM
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So you are completely oblivious to the existence and rise of tradwives, or..? I mean, I don't know any either, but I'm not naive enough to pretend like they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:38 PM
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Yes, most women are that way, I agree. I am that way personally. But some women aren't. And those are the women these dudes have issues with. The problem is, those women don't GAF because there's plenty of men who are more than willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:10 PM
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It does though. The automod isn't meant for actual debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:01 PM
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Lmao. Same. And I have a cozy WFH job that I have mostly automated. Most of my friends have much busier jobs (nurses and teachers) so it gives me time to be silly on the internet during the day. I think mine says top commenter but I really only comment in the morning/early afternoon and then I'm busy the rest of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:27 PM
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I've been married for 15 years. My kids are just older now and I work less than most of my friends do (WFH in finance) so I have time during the day to shoot the shit. I don't really think I have a bad attitude though. I'm just not one to sugarcoat. I don't care specifically because I am happy and comfortable where I am in life. I think this is more of a male trait you're trying to apply to women. Women love gossiping. Men only do when they're miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:24 PM
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This isn't a dating sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:19 PM
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That's nice. My overweight 5'7 younger cousin just proposed to his girlfriend of 3 years and she said yes!! (They're both 24). Oh also they met at school. Another day of not buying the victimhood men type out in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:14 PM
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So you were getting messages from men based on an avatar? And you don't think that's weird of them..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:01 PM
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Another Lilth take that is.... Completely fucking based?! I was unaware that the idea of women not jumping on every dick she sees was such a hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:58 AM
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she isn't just trying to convince women to be lesbian/asexual/not attracted to men. I just scrolled through her posts. I do not see any of that nature..lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:29 AM
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Her posts are just holding up a mirror to the men here and they don't like it. That's why most of them never address her post and just attack her. Way I see it anyways. I have yet to see anything "crazy" from her the way these men seem to paint her as. I keep waiting for the big reveal but all of her posts are based.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:21 AM
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Ah interesting. I see most of her posts as just holding up a mirror to what a lot of men say in this sub-hence the hate but no real refutations. I think it is obvious based on her wording that she is always referring to the men here and not in general, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:19 AM
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Honestly she's usually always right. She just says it in a way that does not coddle men the way they expect a woman to, so men hate it regardless even when you can't refute her points. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:59 AM
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Explain. Most desirable women have plenty of men happy to completely fund her life. What makes you think she's willing to settle for a guy who demands 50/50? You'd have much better luck with a very progressive woman who has a career. Bonus points-if you get married you won't be "financially ruined" in the event of divorce either. Win win!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:55 AM
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Great debate!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:53 AM
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I don't see how any of that equates to her being wrong. The desirable woman has plenty of men already throwing money at her. Why would she settle for 50/50? It's like a woman trying to lock down a fuck boy. He has women throwing themselves at him. Why would he settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:53 AM
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I mean is she wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:42 AM
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Sleep better from what? You're not making any sense. Idk if my husband watches it alone. I doubt it, unless he does at work or something, but notice how I care so little I don't even ask? Realistically I probably watch it more because I'm home alone much more often 🤪 Why are you so positive that a man watching porn is just this horrific thing for their partner? It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:15 AM
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I just don't really care. Not something I think about on any consistent basis to "accept defeat". But yeah. Go ahead and be scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:38 AM
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Wait, so you made a fake dating profile as a woman? Lol. Thats geniunely weird. Why do men always pretend to be women in the weirdest ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:22 AM
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The fact that I figured that was so obvious I didn't feel the need to type it out is a bit sad isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:50 PM
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And there is your fallacy. When DV statistics are brought up, it is usually because women/progressives/feminists like to paint men as the problem (a.k.a. "a romantic partner is the most dangerous person for a woman"), to which the response is that it cannot be a male-only problem because DV also exists in other relationship configurations, most notably lesbian relationships. Nevermind the fact that this isn't even true. If you actually read past the title of the study, you would find the questio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:29 PM
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Seriously. It's like all these dudes do is read the dead bedroom subreddit. Which, by the way, is half women complaining. Not just men. Married 15 years. We still regularly have sex. Kids ranging from 3 to 14. Average probably about 4 times a week and the longest we've ever gone was the 6 weeks required after child birth. We both have our own full time careers as well. Still find time for eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:35 AM
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Yep. But it goes so much deeper. Men also need to equally show up and be expected to. All of this would help men in the end. Slowly but surely it will erode the provider expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:58 PM
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I wouldn't want a woman with an implicit bias against boys to teach either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:27 PM
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And as a male elementary school teacher myself, Horrifying, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:21 PM
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Being a politician or a CEO is also a choice. Well you have to be elected to be a politician so it is only partially a choice. And if all CEOs are men, and have been men since the beginning of current history, you geniunely don't think that has any effect on who gets chosen for the role going forward? Whether it is explicit or implicit? You'd probably argue half of all politicians and CEO's should be women, I wouldn't. I believe whoever is best suited for the job should have the job. That said, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:04 PM
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So then you agree, men choose to work hard labor jobs and they should stop whining to women about it? Or is that different? So yes. You're a hypocrite. Because those jobs are a choice. And it doesn't rely on what sex you're born as, like pregnancy. Men also aren't made to feel they need to take on those jobs in order to be a "real" man (like motherhood).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:52 PM
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The only thing different about it is that men complain about that because women bitch about not being equally represented in practically every role that is about leadership and success (politics and corporate) lol. Negative. Men use it as an excuse for everything be for real. Especially being that more women will be mothers than men working hard labor. It's used to excuse being a lazy partner and parent. It's used to tell women none of our issues are important because their jobs are harder (even…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:05 PM
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No one is doing that. You can simply just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:15 AM
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No. Bitterness is worse than having charisma though. The abuse comes later. Why are you equating what it takes to get you in the door with behaviors once they are already in the door? You are all acting as if abusive men walk up to a woman, sock her a few times, and then they become a couple. Come on now. The bitterness comes from ones shitty outlook on life and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:39 AM
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Okay. One person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:13 AM
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Who said dating is a meritocracy? It by definition is not. Dating is chaotic and there is zero logic to it. Zero. You can't logic your way into emotions and sexual urges no matter how hard you try. That said, most people do find someone eventually. Yes. There are extreme outliers. People not mentally healthy enough to be able to hold a relationship falls into that category. Gently, I would not want to date someone who has mental health issues like you do. Women have to think far into the future.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:40 AM
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Ironically abusive men generally LOVE women. They are not bitter. Therein lies the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:30 AM
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Do y'all just like, stalk the women who turn you down for revenge fantasies? I don't know how those two things even relate. "She wasn't attracted to me and now she's with an abusive guy hahahaha" So because a woman isn't attracted to every man, she deserves abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:15 AM
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Could you just explain why men who beat the shit out of women aren't so easily detectable? Because you are open with your harsh feelings and toxicity. Abusive men are not. Absuive men have been manipulating for years. They start with their own families and work their way up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:12 AM
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Sure, people say that to you on reddit, because you are literally saying toxic shit lol. No one would ever know it by just looking at you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:10 AM
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You literally have no idea what you're talking about Funny. I was thinking exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:14 AM
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You could say "taking sex off the table" is also a convenient reframe of the above 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:07 AM
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Did you not read the Epstein files..? All those stores marketed towards us when we were preteens were owned by men. The magazines. The TV shows. All had sick pedos behind the scenes telling girls how they should dress and behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:24 AM
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So then you agree, men choose to work hard labor jobs and they should stop whining to women about it? Or is that different?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:02 AM
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...because a child is 50% the woman's and 50% the mans regardless of which parent is receiving support. A salary is only for one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:55 PM
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If I were to do an inverse study and say what percentage of financial responsibility are all men taken care of compared to all women It would be substantially disproportionate. As long as you are only counting the help that childless women get. Because you cannot count the help a single mother receives against her without equally counting it against the man who fathered the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:50 PM
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That "same conversation" being that swapping partners and choosing better are the same thing. No. The same conversation is dropping men when they show signs of red flags and choosing better men. The fact that you are incorrectly categorizing the meaning of dropping a man with red flags to "changing men like shoes" is irrelevant to me. That is your incorrect opinion. Not mine. The fact that your ego is so big you cannot comprehend the fact that something isn't automatically fact just because you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:43 PM
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It was mentioned elsewhere in this thread that this particularly was the problem with a relationship that discussion has been based around. I think I saw that. Wasn't it the men who were telling her she should have chosen better because her husband sucked at washing dishes..? no one said that, Yes. You said that. Not me. so I'm not expecting to get much mileage here. Lol y'all geniunely get salty so fast 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:26 PM
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Honestly reading through mens comments, the entire thing reminds me of how women call eachother ugly and slutty. It does the same thing to women as emasculation does to men. It puts these women in a different category. Not a "good enough" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:20 PM
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That giant red flag being... Not cleaning the pots as well as he should??? What? Who said anything about scrubbing pots? This entire conversation has been about values. Is this the kind of stuff y'all get divorced over these days? Well, no, as you would generally know about a person's values before you marry them. It used to be that if there was problems in the marriage you worked through it together and you fixed it. Yeah. Of course. What does screening men for dating have anything to do with n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:06 PM
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Sure, but he has to say so with enough time for her to abort. In reality this is already what is happening for most couples who unexpectedly get pregnant. Most women aren't unilaterally deciding to keep a baby if the father was very clear he didn't want anything to do with it. Most women are scared to death of becoming single mothers. It is a top fear for sure. Thus, most couples are making the choice whether to keep an unexpected pregnancy or not together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:53 PM
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No. You are the one equating dropping a guy who shows red flags to "swapping people out like a pairs of shoes". That was your comment. You said that. And yes, you somehow think that a woman dropping a giant red flag is a different conversation than choosing better. To which I said, it's not. It's the same exact conversation. If you aren't able to follow basic conversations it's best to stop while we are both ahead Likewise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:16 PM
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No one said that. But it does mean leaving when you spot red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:47 PM
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If she was making the right choices why would she be complaining about them? And that is your perspective. Conversely, how do we know that the vast majority of men are not equally a bad choice? Going by the fact that women the world over somehow have identical stories? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:40 PM
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but what other advice can be given to someone who has choices yet somehow consistently chooses the worst among the choices available to them Unless you are that womans bestest friend in the entire world, you have no idea if she is someone who has "choices". Even then you just don't know. The problem is you (in general) apply this to EVERY woman, which is why now all women have "high" standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:38 PM
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No. It's the same conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:34 PM
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He is saying that telling unselected men things like this: woman tell other people I was creepy instead of just admitting I was too ugly for her aka "moral failing" Deflects from the role that women play in being unselected. Thus my question has been from the start, What role do women play in men being unselected? You are saying that the deflection is the role women play in men being unselected, which doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:56 PM
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ultimately men will be excluded and to justify this it is painted as a moral failure as to deflect from any roll women play in it. No I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:41 PM
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id argue that if shes constantly running into the same type of man with the same (emphasis here) behavior across all of them, I think everyone agrees with this. Obviously if someone keeps making stupid choices, they are also a problem. But the vast majority of the time, it is said to women who's husband of 10 years cheated or something ridiculous like that. It is always the immediate knee jerk reaction to every single negative behavior a man displays.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:38 PM
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Okay. I get that. You've said it several times now. It still doesn’t explain how that would help unchosen men be chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:35 PM
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What are you talking about? When was the last time anyone was drafted in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:12 PM
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Unselected men mostly went to war to die, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:11 PM
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https://www.cam.ac.uk/research/news/decline-in-the-number-of-males-involved-in-reproduction-during-the-period-of-global-growth https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10303451/ I didn't realize this wasn't common knowledge. There are a plethora of sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:07 PM
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For the third time, what would "admitting" we need to be attracted to you change for a man who is unselected because we are not attracted to him. He's still single, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:04 PM
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And how’s that biologically possible when attraction is subjective You answered your own question. Evolution is about genetic variation There have always been groups of unselected men since the dawn of time. We still see this in primates today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:01 PM
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Lol women don't get support either aside from very specific communities. Women are fucking cruel. I bet you haven't seen the trend of women telling other women, "Unless you're leaving him don't tell us". Women don't even want to hear other womens problems. And we certainly don't get support from men (which I am assuming what you actually mean-support from women)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:58 PM
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Except the other person said "men will be excluded from relationships and women won't admit the role they play in it". So that doesn't quite fit. Again, even if women "admitted" the obvious, the men will still be excluded. So what is the role women play in men being excluded? By the way. It is not a lie. The difference is mens relationship problems are front loaded and womens is backloaded. And the vast majority of neurotypical people already know attraction is needed first. Omitting the obvious…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:47 PM
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At this point it’s structural issue and that’s insanely unfair especially considering you’re probably widely being discriminated against over things that shouldn’t matter or whatever they “value”. Some people are just unattractive with no personality. Also, attraction is not "structural". There is no fairness in your looks or who chooses to associate with you. It's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:32 PM
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Okay even if women "admitted" it (apparently we have to spell out common sense?) what does that change? Absolutely nothing, right? So answer the question again. What role do women play?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:27 PM
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My thoughts exactly. He doesn't want people to empathize. He wants women to empathize. Women talk amongst themselves. Men should try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:24 PM
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So then you didn't agree with me and you would understand why I keep "repeating" myself that it is hypocritical to complain about a choice you yourself made, and knew the consequences of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:01 PM
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You’ve now restated ‘it’s hypocritical’ three times despite me agreeing with the alimony/child support point twice. I’m not the strawman you’re debating, I already conceded that part. Not sure how you agreed with me when you directly said "unfortunately it does cut both ways" to this comment: To me, you can't have it both ways. If you want the woman to sacrifice her career prospects, there's gotta be something in it for her if the marriage ever ends. But okay. I'm glad you agree that a man not c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:47 PM
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It is hypocritical to want your wife to stay home while you work, but to also not want to split assets/pay alimony in the event of a divorce, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:17 PM
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My point is it is hypocritical. And if we divorced there would be no monthly check because I earn as much as he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:12 PM
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It really doesn't. Sure, some people are just evil and manipulative. But if you want your wife to stay home and not work, you've gotta accept the potential consequences of that. Which is alimony and child support in the event of a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:06 PM
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So I should have cared about her income because my wife is a gold digger? Then what wouldn’t that make me the gold digger? You’re a so called happily married wife, should we say the person who makes less in your marriage is a gold digger? No. I don't believe that at all. But what I often see from men who "don't care" that their wife doesn't work, is that if and when there is a divorce, they RESENT having to pay her alimony and child support. They RESENT having to split assets. And they will ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:57 PM
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How can I be personally attacked when I’m not even a man?? 😂 I’m just standing on the side of logic. Because she said men like your partner are usually misogynistic assholes? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:23 PM
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Are you gonna be mad and call her a gold digger once she gets her degree with your income and leaves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:08 PM
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I mean expenses that are common for all people, like: clothes, accessories, personal care, eating out, holiday travel. Except..for studies that really get into the nitty gritty on who spends what..it turns out men are much more likely to spend money on "vices" like toys (motorcycles/boats), alcohol and tobacco and women on necessities, like household goods, personal hygiene care and pet goods. https://financebuzz.com/male-vs-female-spending-statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:57 AM
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Women tend to spend larger percentage of income on consumption, men save more. ...did you even read your own article? They don't save more because they are just better savers. And women spend more because women are the ones buying the groceries, buying the family clothing, buying the families toiletries. Plus women need more both hygienically and to keep up with societal imposed beauty standards. Even getting our haircut is exponentially more expensive. Men can wear the same exact suit for every…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:53 AM
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I don't know what you're talking about. I'm not the one who said that. I am questioning the dude who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:24 PM
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I want a proactively protective man who is vigilant and aware of threats, danger, hone security, survival, emergency preparedness. we live in the woods, there are bears, fire risks, etc, Right. And my question is, how often is this actually happening to equate it to men being a "human meat shield". The implication is that men protecting women is killing them. I guess I just don't see this in reality much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:19 PM
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Cause they can't stick it in her hole anymore 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:16 PM
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What's your basis of this statement? Statistically, married men live longer than single men. Seems women are doing the opposite of what you claim. Like, how often does a husband protect a wife from an intruder? How often does a husband protect a wife from a wild animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:07 PM
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It's not a "worst" example when you are flippantly saying "well you have options". I did include the decent options that simply no longer want you because you've been "used". I didn't even include the risk of pregnancy. Look. You can think what you want. But at the end of the day men and women have two very different experiences. Also, no one is trying to "scare" you, lol. It's about understanding, but it seems you are just doing the thing where you just dig your heels in because you're mad at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:19 PM
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No, you don't. They're all just making fun of you. Although I guess it is pretty common for men to have humiliation kinks so maybe you'd like that. That said any potential better options you may have had previously are now gone because you're used now. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:06 PM
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Okay. Say lots of very average woman decide they do want to have sex with you. But the catch? Theyll giggle through the entire encounter. Afterwards, they'll tell you that your dick is tiny and the last dude was better. Then, she will tell your entire social circle the same. They'll all laugh about it. Her friends decide to fuck you too. You later find out it was because they made bets on who can demean you the worst. Still validating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:54 PM
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This is the one. It's like when women leave their husbands and he refuses to believe she isn't leaving him for another man. (as that is the only way a man would ever end a marriage of course.) These types of men are so egotistical, the idea that a woman would rather be alone than with him is completely alien.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:47 PM
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Men understand what misandry means by reading the dictionary, where the actual definition, not some radfem's delusion, is printed for all to see. Cool. So explain how calling a certain behavior selfish is "hating men". I wasn't whining about incel's misfortunes By saying men aren't lonely enough, you've proven you do think like incels. Incels laugh at the misfortunes of women You implied my comment about some men being selfish partners was the same thing as incels laughing at womens misfortunes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:42 PM
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Thanks for sharing, but a misandrist's opinion on misandry is about as worthless as a vegan's thoughts on the best way to cook steak. Hence why "misandry" will just never hit the way you want it to because men simply don't understand what it actually means. Sorry 🤷‍♀️ You weren't talking about incels, though. Exactly. I wasn't. So why are you whining about incels and their "misfortunes"? Do women who starfish deserve to be lonely? What about women who won't give blowjobs, or women who only have …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:12 PM
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Misandry is hatred of men. There's no requirement for it be systematic (sic). There is an argument that misogyny is worse than misandry because it's systemic, and you seem to be confusing that with the dictionary-defying claim that misandry doesn't existing because it's not systemic. Nice try, though. The point is that I refuse to equate the two. I would even say trying to equate the two is misogyny in and of itself. There is no comparison. All humans are lonely. Incels just make it everyone els…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:39 PM
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It's funny because you're a misandrist. Impossible. There is no systematic oppression of men. Incels laugh at the misfortunes of women How is being selfish in bed laughing at the "misfortunes" of men? Quit being such a sensitive Sally. My God. Women call men misogynists for cheering on rape jokes. Men call women misandrists for calling selfish men selfish. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:17 PM
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I recently said this on a post of men refusing to go down on their wives but expecting regular blow jobs. It's funny and true. I don't know how that's "misandrist" let alone "extremist". That isn't hating men. That is making a point that a lot of men are crappy partners. But also I could care less about porn. My husband and I watch it together. You're conflating a whole bunch of stuff here. You are assuming women are like men and think like men (the incels you made an example of) which is the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:29 PM
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Meh. I don't really give a fuck about porn. I find women who try to regulate/ban their boyfriends/husbands from it are delusional. It's fighting a losing battle. I would be irritated if my husband tried to control me like that and I probably wouldn't stop. Now add a man's libido and gooood luck. My husband and I watch it together. And I really do not care if he watches it alone. It has never been a conversation in our 15 years together. Sure if he's choosing porn over you, paying for it, using O…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:24 PM
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Well one actually does act entitled. Person A is simply being honest with themselves and saying they will stay single because they cannot attract the type of man they want. Person B comes up with psychotic fantasies and theories about women as a whole, and says that it is an injustice that they cannot attract the type of woman they want. Instead they lie to themselves and say women are hypergamous or secret lesbians. You don't need that spelled out for you. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:08 PM
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Not in half if the US it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:46 PM
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Lmao. You literally just made a post about lesbians and bi women. You're obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:30 AM
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Are we talking credit scores or relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:29 AM
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It is. I said the same thing as her in another comment and that's exactly who I was referencing. Geniunely. I highly doubt men would be into it if suddenly all the ugly, fat, drug addicted mental illness having women started chasing you. When you're an average woman, you aren't getting "Chads" thrown at you left and right. It is the men I described above with a small sprinkle of average normal men. Men have this ideal about who women are. Y'all really don't notice average women. And you pretend …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:28 AM
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Everyone starts at 0 Also, what does being an influential person have to do with regular degular people's dating lives? Seriously. You fuck the wrong dude and it's even worse than bad credit. At least that falls off after 7 years. You fuck the wrong guy in 7 years you'll be signing his kid up for 1st grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:50 AM
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Every rich person would say the opposite those mfs aren't afraid of debt. Yes. There is good debt and there is bad debt. I'm talking about bad debt. Ya know. The kind that follows you around for years and ruins your credit score. Elon becoming a trillionaire has put the world in upheaval, it's a possibility people might go insane after seeing a fucking insanely wealthy guy becoming more wealthy. It's whatever. He was already a POS. Not shocking that his wealth keeps growing. Hardly news imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:31 AM
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Actually that is exactly how it is applied in practice. Don't forget that prior to about 10 years ago, if a woman had even a drop of alcohol the police would automatically drop the case. Women up until recently were victim blamed. "Well you were drinking, so 🤷‍♀️" Maybe there have been a few mistakes and over corrections along the way, but it is nowhere near how you claim it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:27 AM
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Or, they try to trick the girl into doubting what happened so they can get that case closed quickly. Detectives HATE investigating rape. It's a hard crime to investigate that takes up a lot of time. Much easier to convince the girl to recant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:23 AM
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And frequently the only people I've seen making light of underage boys being preyed on by older female teachers is... men. The stigma is coming from inside the house. This. There was a teacher on the news locally a few months ago. She was young and "cute" (but also married). 99% of the comments from men were cheering it on. Men I know personally. It was women arguing with men about how wrong it is. Because we have sons! I would raise HELL if it were my kid. And this same scenario plays out every…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:19 AM
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I mean just go to the nail aisle bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:09 AM
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Y'all just love stealing our lines 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:08 AM
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Debt isn't always good boo boo Also, TF does this have to do with Elon 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:07 AM
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Hey maybe you see why we get such an ick every time you incels whine. 😂 You're telling her to touch grass yet you're the dude obsessed with straight women being lesbians because they won't give you a chance. Be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:54 AM
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Nah more like your hot dog is soggy and there is no bank account, just credit cards and a lifetime of debt!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:52 AM
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Also, what makes these guy gross? Not OP but usually they were fuck boys with STDS who would stick their dick in anything that walked. Or, they were old weirdos hanging around a bunch of teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:50 AM
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It has never been nice to me to be wanted by a man I did not want in return. If anything, it made me feel more lonely, more isolated, and more like I would not find love. Right? And the men who chase like that were almost ALWAYS nasty, creepy, or old weirdos. I am 1000% positive men would be just as weirded out if suddenly, women were after them like hotcakes, but it was only the weird, fat, old crazy drug addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:48 AM
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Are you just trolling or do you genuinely not see your own hypocrisy? Women constantly make out with strangers and post half naked pictures at the beach Tiktok is not real life I'm not interested in your colonial language Also, it is only in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:03 PM
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This topic was banned last week for a reason. Quit it. Women are not comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:45 AM
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I think that solution does require us to create opportunities for men that are inherently discriminatory. (ie: men-only career support groups and scholarships) It needs to start in early childhood for it to actually be effective. If you wait until they're career age it's already too late. As of now, women are already speaking into existence exactly what they need to be more interested in a partner. It is just that the men who need it do not want to hear those suggestions. Those suggestions still…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:04 PM
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Hell, forget stay at home mom. Is she even a mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:41 PM
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Nice Try
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:57 PM
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No, it doesn't lol. This would be like a man making a post about abortion and how horrible women are for doing it. And then a woman copy and pasting the entire thing, not even switching it to paper abortion, just flat out claiming men are horrible for aborting their fetus. Funny. But illogical nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:10 PM
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I think you're just going to have to admit this didn't land the way you thought it would lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:07 PM
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Are you sure women are mad about this post? Personally I was geniunely just confused. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:05 PM
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Right. But why. What does it do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:04 PM
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It didn't prove anything other than "boys mad".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:03 PM
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Fix what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:01 PM
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I understand you did a gender swap. What I do not understand is the why. What is your goal? Only you can answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:50 PM
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Honestly I can sort of see where they are coming from on SOME of the 'gender-swapping' posts. This one is just retarded if I'm being honest. He is just affirming our point. If anything, the men agreeing with him are the ones being gotten here 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:49 PM
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Nope, I do not. Care to fill me in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:46 PM
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I'm like..TF am I reading?! 😂 I really don't understand the point of that. Is it supposed to make us feel bad or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:46 PM
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...are you sure this was supposed to be about women? I agree with this entire post i think you just got the genders mixed up. Women are not the ones who say they don't care about personality. Men do. Women are not the ones complaining about being lonely. Men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:27 PM
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And it is just as logical as answering if we would rather live with Willy Wonka or the Dinosaurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:03 PM
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The men that do that were often the love of her life. You are asking to idealize a reality that does not and has never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:58 AM
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Having no job at at all is a completely different subject. It is literally the subject of this post. And yes. They often do treat women like garbage when they stay home. If it was a good and safe option more women would choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:50 AM
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Also I believe men don’t like the extra drama, lack of respect and heightend expectations that comes with women earning more than you. You just answered why women would rather choose a career than to be submissive to a man. They don't like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:44 AM
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My theory is men have less of an ego. Except a lot of men hate it when their wife makes more money than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:29 AM
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I mean they do. They always have. They have NEVER wanted women to talk. This is why things are so bad for them right now. With social media, women suddenly have the ability to talk to women ALL over the world and they are realizing-we have almost identical experiences the world over and actually, no one is enjoying it. In the 50s, even when women had friends they wouldn't want to tell them they are actually miserable so they played the part. Men liked it that way. Kept us stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:25 AM
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Exactly. Who gives a fuck. Women have always known they have to be a certain level of attractive to get a man. They don't reach adulthood and cry about it. Does it suck? Sure. But a lot of things in life suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:18 AM
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Even if it was true, it is not a "serious" topic at all. Women want a man who makes more. Men want a woman who's hotter. Who gives a fuck? This is basically how society has functioned since we escaped the caves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:16 AM
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Its called PRISON. They are giving rad fems ammo with this. And then they wonder why they say crazy shit like men should just immediately be locked up at 18 until they prove their worthiness. Also men: If you don't date us we'll beat you up!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:02 AM
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Wait, do you seriously think not cleaning a singular thing for 6 months is a viable way to care for yourself and your home? I bet your house smells very bad..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:00 AM
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LMFAO Your house will get moldy and disgusting. You'll have to do more work than if you just cleaned as you went. You ruin wood finishings, floors and baseboards. You let clutter pile up now you have a rodent and bug problem. It's the fact that you can understand you need to take care of a vehicle but not a home 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:52 PM
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Well I don't live in Germany so why would I hear about it? Everything I stated is a fact in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:14 PM
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Question: Why do women need their partners vetted and not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:54 PM
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You also said, "No apology but she's a woman". We can just as easily say the same about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:32 PM
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And at the end of the day, not cleaning your home more than twice a year would be just as ridiculous as waiting 3 years before your next oil change. Or mowing the lawn once a month instead of weekly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:30 PM
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I also note your complete lack of first-hand sources for what "women are admitting" That part gave me a giggle. As if it's some big revelation that women would actually like to relax sometimes too and when their husband hoards all the relaxation time, she is annoyed. The horror. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:58 PM
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That's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:56 PM
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If I'm reorganizing something that is on me. I don't expect help with that. So I'm going to hazard to guess that is not the core of the problem. The core of the problem is probably that she also worked all week, so she has to grocery shop on the weekend and she prefers to knock that out first thing in the AM so she can actually have a weekend too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:52 PM
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Your image of men is a very toxic and untrue one. It's 9PM. The children haven't eaten yet. They are cranky and tired. Dad's sitting on the couch scrolling reels. Mom is finishing up reports for work. Who's move is it next? Mom's. Because he won't fucking get up. She takes it upon herself, claiming that if she didn't do it, then it wouldn't get done, Little Timmy needs clean pants for school tomorrow. Dad said he'd do it but now it is 9PM. Baby brother still needs a bath. Dad's relaxing again. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:34 PM
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No, they wouldn't if they were solely responsible. But since they have a wife, they know she'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:17 PM
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Being that these inequalities are mainly seen in couples with children (Childfree couples are more egalitarian ) the husband doesn't really get to just decide he's okay with the way things are if it directly impacts the children they have. So what happens then, is the woman has to pick up the slack. You can't just not wash their clothes, not grocery shop for them, not meal plan for them, not cook for them, not clean up after them (all dishes are dirty you can't cook), not bathe them, not take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:06 PM
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Women are coming forward to say that they want to be able to relax and enjoy their home as much as their husband gets to? Wow. What bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:42 PM
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It cracks me up that these men in the manosphere seem to know about all these "terrible feminists" that most women have never heard of, as some kind of proof that women follow her words. They just need a boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:36 PM
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How about that my female peers where getting trained in applications and Job interviews while we boys where not? I've geniunely never heard of this. Sounds like bs to me. How about how my male peers were able to speedrun directly into a career into the trades whilst my female peers all had to pay for a 4 year degree to earn a fraction of the same? How constantly a large pool of Job openings was reserved for girls and women only and we boys Had to compete for some crumbs More bs.. It sounds like …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:34 PM
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"I want to have my cake and eat it too" Also. "Men sacrifice their happiness for their family uwu 🥹" Meanwhile he's cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:06 PM
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We can and we do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:05 PM
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The irony is, men often suggest opening a marriage only to run back with his tail between his legs because he can't find anyone, and she can. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:04 PM
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Sure, and said partner can file for divorce, child support and alimony, because the partner has no right to tell you otherwise. This is very simple. Not sure what the debate is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:59 AM
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Nowhere in her comment did she say that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:58 AM
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So now, you downplay, dismiss or deflect and i reply by trying to pull you back to the core point I'm trying to make.. Next time if you want people to take you seriously, maybe don't start it off with an obnoxious statement about half of the population. I too have been the victim of abuse. Never has it occurred to me to shit on other abuse survivors whilst recounting my own story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:14 AM
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"Stop" feminism? What does that look like to you? I am just wondering what a dead woman has to do with feminism today. But still this was used as an arguement all my life to make my life harder Do you have examples of how your life was made harder because you had the knowledge that women only earned the right to have their own bank account within the last generation? while still telling me how i'm supposed to be privileged and should just bear IT and Shit Up without any metric backing it up. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:08 AM
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I suppose if you're just a lazy type of person. Personally I am a very independent woman. I like people. I like my career. I like my money. Never in my life have I yearned to be a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:53 AM
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No one is entitled to anything on a micro level, no. But morally, I still care about things even though they don't effect me. Especially if my "not caring" directly hurts others. That may be why I was chosen and you were not. Empathy is a sought after trait in a partner. You don't have it. As far as non-voters, I'm kind of neutral on that. As again, my empathy helps me understand the perspective of those people who feel like their vote doesn't count anyways. The system is rigged against all but …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:46 AM
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Unironically, that sounds like my country, and a western one LMFAO No it doesn't. Only women have reproductive rights here What a cowinkydink. Only women can reproduce! Talk to God. their medicine gets HUGE funding and men's nothing Yes, there is more funding now because womens health has been ignored since the advent of medicine. Our bodies are more complex. Talk to God. Funding for endometriosis, a painful and debilitating disease only women can get, receives a FRACTION of the funding received…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:09 AM
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What? Editing to add: I ignored your other point because I really don't give a fuck about your whining about women getting abortions. You don't care about the fetus. You just care because you feel like she's getting something you aren't. Life ain't fair. We can have this conversation when males get pregnant. Until then, don't care. But also, you ignored my entire comment. Because exactly 0 men in the last three generations have been drafted. And you know I'm right hence why you jibber jabbered a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:50 AM
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Also the draft. You may think it shouldn't be there but is isn't "shouldn't" land this is reality where "it is". How many American Gen Z men have been drafted? Millenial men? Hell, Gen X men? How many? Editing to Add: No one wants to answer this because they know I'm right, and it's their favorite victim complex. Can't have that! 😂🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:28 AM
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Technically he isn't. It's just that society is stupid. Don't you remember 2015? His entire cabinet and all of Fox News HATED him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:25 AM
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Whoever she is, died before I was even born, and I'm one of the older ones here. How is she relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:24 AM
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Also the average relationship ends after just 3 years on average, Wild. I must not know anyone average. I know only one couple who divorced. And it was because dude got caught cheating red handed. Most of my peers have been married at least 10 years at this point. I'm 36, BTW. marriage rates are also at an all time low. Actually marriage rates have been holding steady since the initial drop in the 80s when no fault was repealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:15 AM
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Yeah I graduated college in 2012. Millenial, but still, have friends between 30 and 40. Most everyone is married. And the ones that aren't? Fuck boys who never had issues getting women to begin with. I do know one singular guy who hasn't had any luck. But, he's overweight, has spinabifida (disabled-cant really walk well but also smokes and drinks all day every day), smells bad, bad teeth, lives in a hoarder house with his mom and 80 billion cats, etc. I tried helping him back in the day and he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:12 AM
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Chad is just the boogeyman conversation ender. Concedes point. But only applies to Chad. Argument dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:15 PM
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They just aren't supportive of it being enforced. They support a woman choosing her own destiny. At the very most, they may encourage women to ensure she is financially sound and protected (having her own access to money and contribution to her own retirement account for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:48 PM
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Nope. My husbands very in tune with his emotions and others, but you'd never know that by looking at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:59 PM
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Cool, so you think you can make yourself attracted to a 6 foot tall hairy woman with a shaved head?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:44 PM
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Like I said, I wouldn't call myself a feminist. But even if I was, it isn't an oxymoron. You cannot change what you are attracted to. Since you believe feminists should want feminine men, do you want masculine women? Maybe one who doesn't shave, burps and farts in public? By the way. Feminists even say we can all choose our own destiny. Meaning, if a woman WANTS to be a stay at home wife, she can. The point is that she gets to choose. Just like I get to choose the kind of man I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:39 PM
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Also, feminism preached men to be emotional and submissive, the fact women who claim to be feminist reject those characteristics in men and even shame them as you're doing shows your pure irrationality impulse. I mean men can be whatever way they want. But I've never really heard of asking men to be submissive. Higher emotional intelligence? Absolutely. That said, it doesn't mean we have to be attracted to feminine men. I wouldn't really categorize myself as a feminist per say. I agree with a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:28 PM
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men don’t care about themselves nearly enough to prioritize personality. We know this. We are glad you are admitting it. But please stop blaming women for it. This is just like how men say they don't care about a womans career then cry foul when they divorce 10 years later and he has to pay her alimony. Guess what? Had you cared about her career you wouldn't be in that pickle, right? That’s how lacking in personality women are, when men deal with women it’s “grit your teeth, bite down hard and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:53 AM
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Lmfao that video is both ridiculous and hilarious. No wonder the men in here are so brainrotted. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:43 AM
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Absolutely. I always make sure to upvote her posts. The men in here are so butthurt all of her posts are consistently at 0 upvotes. All she does is push back on the very shit that comes out of their own mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:38 AM
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I don't think anything is wrong with her tone. I agree. The redpill/blackpill mens posts are exponentially worse, and it's all of them. Not just one. Like I said, they just don't like her tone. Men think they should be coddled by women. When we don't we're "bitches".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:26 AM
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It isn't even what she says. They just don't like her tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:25 AM
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There's also more dudes in here. Especially of the incel variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:21 AM
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I don't have evidence We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:15 PM
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if he doesnt care about womens rights, because he isnt getting laid then who is he causing a problem for? I am baffled that this has already been explained and you still don't get it. Women in the half of the United States have lost their rights to bodily autonomy. Some have even died. How is that not causing a problem for anyone? That would be like me voting to reinstate the draft and saying, "Well I just don't care it isn't like it's hurting anyone".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:10 PM
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by being in a relationship with a man willing to provide for me. Whatcha gonna do when he leaves you at 40 and you have no work experience, savings or retirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:01 PM
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Your whole post is basically "i don't see it so it doesn't exist". Yes. To your claim about what women claim abuse is Hyperbole to prove a point.. notice no one challenged me saying "there is nothing a woman can do to a man that is abusive" .. no one is saying that claim is ridiculous or idiotic.. again it proves my point. Probably because everyone else was like me and didn't even read the rest of your comment after such a ridiculously flippant statement trivializing abuse. It is not true that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:44 PM
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What are you talking about? Please highlight where I denied that men can be victims of abuse? My comment had nothing to do with that nor did your comment that I replied to "A man breathing too loudly is abuse these days". I was refuting your idiotic claim that women think not buying her a Chanel bag is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:32 PM
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You don't think men did horrible shit to women as they fought for their rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:18 PM
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Now deadly force? Well it will kill the fetus too and I thought the point was to keep her pregnant Right? The south isn't exactly the beacon of intelligence there. I wouldn't either. I am in a blue state. I do not travel south as a rule. https://www.wxii12.com/article/north-carolina-house-bill-1232-ban-abortion-murder/71434417
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:58 PM
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Yes, however I am more referencing the way women in the US are treated ever since RoeVwade was repealed. That poor woman didn't have to die, but they let her die anyways and then kept her body going just enough to continue gestating the fetus. Or, North Carolina just introduced a bill to allow anyone to use deadly force on a woman they suspect is going to get an abortion. And this includes certain birth controls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:45 PM
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Honestly at one point I would have said the same as you. We all have our stories and hurts. But man. With this red pill shit? The entire ideal is to maliciously manipulate women. That's going to cause a lot of emotional damage. At least women aren't out here spreading self help manifestos to ruin a man's psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:02 PM
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No. You do. This sounds like some dumbass tik tok you saw. Get off the internet. Most of my friends are married. Most of my family members are married. I live in the suburbs, talk to all of my neighbors and they are all married. I have 3 kids who are involved in sports so I talk to all those families too. Everyone at my work is married. I am constantly interacting with people coupled up. I have never once had a wife tell me her husband was abusive because he didn't buy her what she wanted. In fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:49 AM
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Negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:26 AM
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Same. My son has recently started expressing interest in joining the military. I wanted to vomit. Meanwhile, it is his Football and Wrestling coaches hyping him up about it. I am really hoping this is just a phase (he just finished his Freshman year of Highschool) because I literally cannot handle the thought of him going to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:10 AM
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Oh I made you mad enough to find more of my comments. That was too easy tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:56 AM
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I think women deaths are taken more seriously because we are not usually a physical threat so it makes them seem more injurious. Of course, men's lives matter just as much. I believe the reason is less forgiving. I think women are simply just "protected" more because they need us to have babies. I mean. Look at how they treat us as soon as we do get pregnant. We are suddenly expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:55 AM
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Jesus hell y'all are beyond help 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:48 AM
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It's not a red pill forum in disguise it is just flooded with Red Pill and Incels more than the other way around so there's going to be a LOT of descent especially on posts like this that they can't deny so they just downvote you to shit instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:47 AM
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Petition to ban the mention of Ukraine unless the user is confirmed to be Ukrainian. This would be like American women bringing up women in Iran as a gotcha. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:45 AM
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Misandrist is misandrist for disagreeing that misandry is not more harmful than misogyny. So then that would also make you a misogynist for denying misogyny is worse than misandry. Fantastic logic. No notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:42 AM
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Scientific research on preferences? Not a thing. At best there may be a poll, but that is hardly scientific. This is getting embarrassing for you. That said, every time a man in here whines about high body count I am tagging this comment thread. Thanks for the fodder. Scurry along now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:32 AM
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I don't answer illogical questions, sorry bub. Men don't want high body counts. Use the search function. I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:29 AM
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...have I done scientific research on mens feelings in this subreddit? Is that a real question or is it your first day here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:24 AM
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So then don't tell me I imagined this. You are an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:20 AM
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Here? Being that my comment was based on what men say in this subreddit (Like I mentioned) and you said I am imagining that. So go ahead. Make a post in Purple Pill telling us all about how men would actually love it if women had body counts of over 50 different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:18 AM
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Make a post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:16 AM
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The data shows the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:16 AM
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I'm sorry, what? So you're saying men DO want women with extremely high body counts? If so lets shout it from the roof tops together!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:13 AM
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Wait what 😂😂😂 So in order to really like men...women are secretly, deep down, men? That sure is some logic.. So to be clear they believe we are all comphet?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:47 AM
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The thing is, men are equally bisexual. They are just shamed into hiding it. I mean. How many lesbians do you hear gloating about consistently fucking other mens wives on the DL? Rare. But I hear the opposite from gay men constantly. And how about the Grindr crashing "meme" every time a certain political rally is in town? Women are just allowed to be more open with it because "lesbians are hot. Gay men are disgusting". Or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:03 AM
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Great! That should mean every comment mentioning Chad should be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:54 AM
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I feel like this Chad shit should fall under Black Pill too. Same fatalistic nonsense repackaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:04 AM
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Because men are hot and I liked sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:55 PM
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No, I do. I don't think OP even said she had a problem with men not wanting to commit. She just said men want a cheat code to getting women. They can totally choose to do so. But that is just the reality behind most of the complaints here. Women aren't as logical as a video game, hence, frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:37 PM
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The vast majority of men tried locking it down.. The only one who it actually worked with is now my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:23 PM
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I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:22 PM
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Men think that if they still want to fuck women then their opinion is favorable. Look around this sub. The vast majority of men saying horrible shit still want to fuck women. Women are the opposite. If they say they are decentering men, they aren't fucking them anymore either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:12 PM
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Sure, because at the end of the day, the left is the morally correct side. The left is the side that uses facts instead of feelings (the people at least). The left is more educated than the right, which creates these discrepancies. Look. I'll be entirely honest. Even as a woman I thought the whole social justice warrior thing was/is annoying as fuck. I thought the women wearing vagina hats were morons. The lack of black and white thinking when it comes to certain social issues and the immediate …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:08 PM
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Like I said, this is brand new data. It just came out in 2024 I believe. In fact, US institutions in the US have already begun on working on long term strategies to appeal to more men. Those places are not as inclusive as they claim to be anymore and I think they do ice young men out unless they willingly swallow some of the progressive Kool aid. Equally, the right ices out women. Hell. I voted for Trump in 2016. And at this point I will never vote for any politician on the right again. So it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:50 PM
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Sure, have you also seen it broken down by age and race? Funnily enough-this also explains 99% of mens questions/accusations in here. "Women say THIS but do THAT" There's your proof right there that we all aren't the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:19 PM
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It isn't that I think women are smarter than men. I think they just have different strengths than men that does make them better equipped for schooling and professional careers in its current iteration. I geniunely don't believe the education system was geared towards girls. I think it was geared towards making people good worker servants. And it worked good enough for men. It just so happened that it was better suited for women. I do agree that boys absolutely have a different way of learning t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:34 PM
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So the only men with issues are misogynistic? What? I literally just said I do not believe that all incels are misogynistic. I'm not misogynistic (I truly am an egalitarian) and I have an issue with modern dating. Less issues getting a partner and more with the way modern dating plays out. Do you have empathy for me? Well... I don't have empathy for the modern woman because they demand so much while giving so little. They are hypergamous and materialistic. They provide nothing of real value whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:09 PM
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No one said all incels are misogynists and all men in a relationship are not. Don't strawman me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:42 PM
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You do not have empathy for the issues modern misogynistic men are facing. I'm glad we've established that Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:05 PM
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If it was a woman who actually cared, who actually had empathy, who actually supported egalitarianism (real egalitarianism, not girl boss feminism) and who gave a damn about the things that mattered in this world then would I have empathy? Yes. Absolutely. Cool. Sounds like you agree with me then. I do have empathy. Just not for most of the men in this subreddit who do not actually care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:02 PM
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I just think you are a narcissist Not having empathy for one singular issue does not make one a narcissist. Especially when said group of people are directly trying to harm me and my children. Would you have empathy for women if, say, you woke up tomorrow and the entire government was suddenly all women and they said, "Yeah, we are done giving men the benefit of a doubt. Forced castrations at puberty and you have to take a psychological test to have it restored". And then you go on reddit, and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:55 PM
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Well you're ignoring the diffeence between physical sex characteristics and things like policies supporting groups in education. What are you talking about? Men are innately stronger than women. How do you know women are not innately smarter than men? Again, there are no policies that are holding men down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:41 PM
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Obviously you are I am! This conversation is just turning into a joke btw 😂😂😂 You, unironically, sound like a narcissist based off this exchange. You don't know anything about me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:38 PM
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The point is that when we see an imablance, favouring whoever, we either should work to fix it or not. Should we also fix the imbalance of strength between women and men? Men in general are stronger than women in general. This favors men. Fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:30 PM
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Ironically I am actually one of the most empathetic people I know. Almost to a fault. This is why I care about poor people even though I'm not poor. Why I care about people with disabilities even though I am not disabled and do not know anyone who is. This is why I care about minorities even though I am not one. I just don't have empathy for people who go out of their way to hurt others even if they only do it because they are hurting. That's unhealthy and I'll never support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:27 PM
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Society does promise young men a house, job, stability, relationship etc if they just follow the rules and do what they are supposed to. This is definitely a thing and a huge part of the blue pilled narrative. Betabuxx and all of that There is absolutely nothing in society that tells everyone if they just follow the law and get a job they will magically find the perfect partner and live happily ever after. In fact society tells us we can do whatever the hell we want. We don't have to have a part…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:18 PM
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Care to try that again? Men do not acknowledge ugly women. They continuously harp on about women having all the options and men having none. When really, it is average to attractive women and men having all the options. Men never mention ugly women with no options. Almost as if...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:12 PM
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So it is impossible for women to simply be...better? Also, these statistics are extremely recent and people are talking about it obviously. I just don't know what we could do there. Women were given equal footing as men and they just so happened to surpass them. The only reason why men surpassed women before was due to systemic policies. There are no systemic policies keeping men down. At all. In fact there are still systemic policies keeping women down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:08 PM
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No one really promised anyone that. I do not recall that promise as a woman. It is valid to want to be loved. Less valid and slightly problematic to want to feel needed. This is why young men are suddenly idealizing the "traditional" 1950s household. Those men were needed, sure. But it was because women didn't have any other choice but to need them. Additionally-it seems to be a fine line to walk with men here. They both want to feel needed but also, hate a gold digger? Women got tired of the fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:17 PM
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It's a bit more involved than just a job... Right. So sex and relationships. There's a reason you didn't want to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:47 PM
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What are the things society typically promises young men who follow the script and do what they are supposed to? It's not too hard to figure out. Nope. You tell me. I have no clue. A job? And your and other women's response? "Well you guys definitely aren't getting sex now!!" That just makes men even angrier lol LMFAO. After bitching and moaning all this time telling me it isn't about sex. See? Only takes a few comments to come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:43 PM
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Hey that was one of the most honest things I've ever heard a man say in here. At least he's admitting they are trying to manipulate women. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:40 PM
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They aren't getting what they want from society more broadly So punish women? Makes sense. The things that men were promised are not being delivered What are those things? This situation is not going to get better by the way. It's going to get a whole lot worse before it gets better. This is what is called an extinction burst. It'll be alright. Keep in mind us millenials are raising Gen Alpha. And they don't fuck around. They are going to be what we THOUGHT Gen Z would be. And people like you wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:34 PM
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It's definitely the men who are going out of their way to remove womens rights because they aren't getting what they want from us, no? Obviously it isn't any of the men who voted against Trump. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:26 PM
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I didn't say it was every single man on this subreddit. There's lots of cool ones. And I am not only talking about incels either. Red pill and a lot of purple pills falls in this category also.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:16 PM
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I guess I have to say it again. I am not talking about the men I know. They are normal. I am specifically referencing men in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:13 PM
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comes out and yet there doesn't seem like there is an epidemic of men all hooking up with prostitutes to get sex. Because it's illegal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:11 PM
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A guy who's just kind of "there" and doesn't really arouse or excite. And you're asking why this guy doesn't arouse and excite? It's biology. Women have no control over what draws us to men. Same for what draws men to women. I'm not the one asking for it really. I've wanted to take my time but it turns out pretty much no women wanted that It sounds like young women like to fuck. I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:10 PM
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Even when you (in general) claim that isn't it, it only takes a couple additional comments for it to come out. I'm not buying it. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:06 PM
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But a whole lot of relationships are built on one or both people consciously and unconsciously, intentionally and unintentionally misleading, deceiving and exploiting one another. So you agree then, women aren't purposely and joyfully choosing abusive men? Good. I'm tired of hearing that. Many currently existing relationships that are “happy” on the surface are really just this and a ticking time-bomb, and not something to envy. Sure, people who should have never gotten married did. And those go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:04 PM
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but 100% of women who got abused rejected multiple men who wouldn't have abused her Bold claim for something you have NO way of knowing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:53 AM
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And there it is lol. Men are no different than women. All of the whining and complaining is because you want hot women. You all literally do not even realize ugly women exist. At least women acknowledge ugly mens existence. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:52 AM
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I am basing this on what the men in this subreddit say every single day. Quit trying to personalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:50 AM
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Boys aren't falling behind. They are doing just as well as they always have. What is actually happening is girls are surpassing them, and entering higher education in numbers that boys have never attained. These numbers were never a problem until women beat them. And the audacity of these headlines. Why can't it be, "Girls are doing amazing and surpassing all previous levels" instead it's "OMG girls are doing better than boys. DO SOMETHING!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:43 AM
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I don't understand why you all are comparing yourselves to rich and famous people. It's weird. I never sat in my house wondering why my life wasn't as awesome as Taylor Swifts or whatever. I understand she lives in a completely different world than most of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:40 AM
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dispite past actions. Money. The fuck would you want a grifting ass woman like Erika Kirk anyways. Come on now. Guess what. There are LOTS of bad, bad women who also use men. Those are the women these men are getting. They deserve eachother, no? It would be like me whining that pretty women get all the abusive men. No thanks. They can have em. Also. How many times have you heard of a story or criminal case where a woman was going by a completely different identity? Men go through GREAT lengths t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:33 AM
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Imagine if you woke up one day, and the majority of your government body were suddenly women and then you hear on the news, "Men no longer get access to male centered healthcare. No viagra. No hair implants. And forced castration for rapists. Also, every man has to support a woman. Even if she doesn't fuck you you all just get linked up with a random woman who will share your bank account." Would it make you want to fuck women more, or less? Would it make you want to help women with their strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:28 AM
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Yeah. It's called an extinction burst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:24 AM
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I mean. That is all y'all want. Wtf else do men want? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:21 AM
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Is it only destructive for women or is it also destructive for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:20 AM
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Society has never picked women up for being lonely and saying "there, there". It's usually things like, abuse, rape, systematic discrimination, etc. No one gives AF that anyone is lonely. Being lonely does not make one a "victim". And so long as men continue brushing off the actual victimization women experience, I really don't care about your loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:06 AM
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gay men seem very happy dating dating people with male libidos Not people. Other men. Never heard of Red Pill for gay men. Meaning this complex resides only with straight men. I am also not imagining anything. I am replying to a comment using context from this subreddit specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:25 PM
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I've witnessed multiple times what happens when a certain guy enters a given room and women notice him in a way they don't notice most men. Men do the exact same thing when it comes to extremely beautiful women. I would know this as an average woman. Even beautiful women know it. All of us do. It's human. I'm going to be real honest, I don't know that I've met a single woman who really wanted to wait. The wait was, at most, 2-3 dates, but my overwhelming experience has been that many women like …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:15 PM
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those guys were not unattractive in their youth. So what? They shrunk? Also why are young men bald? Unless you're talking about old men...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:52 PM
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Lmfao. As a woman slightly older than most of you in here I am fascinated and also amused at the idea that men today have somehow managed to flip the accountability of a few men being absolute manwhores onto women as a whole. Impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:50 PM
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Nope. Just like I, an average woman, never had the same success and men throwing themselves at me like supermodels do. The fuck kind of retarded point is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:46 PM
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Seriously. Crazy to say this lol. At least women notice unattractive men enough to notice they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:39 PM
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That's unattractive to most women. Especially young 20 somethings lol. But I see plenty of them partnered up to know that their options aren't zero. Men don't want a buck toothed woman with hairy armpits either. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:34 PM
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Very behind. Must explain why I am in a successful marriage 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:01 PM
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being organized or a great chef. 😂 Then why do they suck so bad at those things in their own homes? Because they're misogynistic. Hence why it is a male trait. The reality is that men want women to change on a biological and primal level which is literally just impossible. Women want men to change on things they can actually improve on. Things they were socialized not to do. The only equivalent I can think of would be wanting men to be the ones to carry the pregnancy. Which again? Hell fucking y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:55 PM
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Except we would all be perfectly happy if our men were greats chefs, in tune with their own and our emotions, in tune with the needs of the family, organized, thoughtful, etc. That wouldn't make us go into a panic. I personally love that my husband is that way. A lot of women do not have that luxury. I am a woman telling you my man is like that and you are telling me I wouldn't want it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:44 PM
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What do you mean exactly your point? You ignored my entire comment and just repeated what you already said. Wanting a partner to act more like you in certain aspects is not the same thing as wanting your partner to be the same gender as you and take on those exact characteristics lol. Men would both be disgusted if women took on masculine characteristics and more sad and paranoid than ever if women fucked everything that walked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:32 PM
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There must be a disconnect then. When men say they notice being treated differently, what they mean is some other guy didn't have to "work" as hard to move the relationship forward. And women on this sub think what this means is that men only want a quick fuck, but the reality is we notice that women consistently want to sleep with men they're attracted to quickly, so them wanting to wait is often a sign she's not that interested. This still isn't proof it is the same woman though. Men are looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:26 PM
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So..Men want women to literally act like men then? They want them to fart and burp. Pee outside. Beat eachother up. Fist bump eachother? Not shave their legs or armpits? I find that doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:13 PM
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that we should expect to be treated worse or lesser if we aren't a Chad? From what I can tell that is in reference to having not only multiple women throwing themselves at him, but also the type of women. They aren't telling men they are going to get different treatment from the same woman. They are telling men that if they are not "Chad" they will get different treatment/experiences from/with women in general. Personally I was never interested in the "Chads" because their behavior repulsed me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:56 PM
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I wouldn't say most women want men to be feminine. I don't think you are asking women to be masculine by having a similar sex drive to men either. Plenty of men have no issue being both masculine and still be great partners. My husband is one. On the outside, he looks like your typical run of the mill blue collar guy who drives a pick up truck and likes beer. On the inside he actually never drinks (but does drive a pick up lol) He's also not afraid to rock a baby to sleep, know who our kids teac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:46 PM
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This is hilarious to me. I don't know. Maybe it's my age. But us women aren't comparing our man's jobs or looks or anything of that nature. We're trading notes on how he parents our kids. How messy is he at home? How involved is he? Does he cook? Does he clean? What did he get you for mothers day? What are YOU getting him for father's day? Etc. Etc. I never mention my husbands job unless I have to. That's weird. I too have a career. It isn't impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:11 PM
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Couple this with people openly admitting that they change how they treat someone they're dating based on how attractive they are, and it's no wonder people are jaded. For one, women have ALWAYS known these things about men. That is why women don't ask. They would rather not know because you're exactly right. It's the past. For two-I don't know that anyone openly admits that they treat the person they are dating differently based on attraction level. Women talk a lot. And this is a conversation I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:59 PM
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It wasn't men who compared average men to the visibility of a lamp What? Modern women entitled unrealistic expectations is the problem Women just want an equal partner. The fact that men find that to be unrealistic is part and parcel of the problem. And no. I don't want to hear about how every woman on earth expects her man to be 6 foot tall and a millionaire. That's part of that ridiculous doomer attitude. ..you have no dog in this arena considering you're married. The person who has a successf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:00 PM
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Yeah this is valid. But the difference is-women WOULD really like it if men acted more like us. It wouldn't be a negative at all lol. This is why you see so many single mom's saying fuck it, and buying homes together. Much easier to raise children that way when you don't have to remind anyone that little Timmy needs breakfast or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:39 AM
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Wait how does one fuck like a man? Be willing to fuck any and everyone with a dick. Not only that-but be the pursuer in finding men to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:22 AM
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It's geniunely pathetic. They don't want to better themselves. They want someone too oblivious to know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:06 AM
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I am saying that if they want women to have a high sex drive like men then they will also be fucking like men. And men don't like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:04 AM
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But older guys too. Not just young guys. It started with the younger guys but now its 18 - 45 too. The older men are usually divorced because they were a shit partner and realized women got smarter and aren't interested in his bullshit. They can no longer lie and tell women his ex was "crazy" and that pisses them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:00 AM
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I geniunely just cannot wrap my mind around this thought process. I mean. You don't see women writing entire dissertations on fucking different men every other night, going home to her husband and treating him like garbage because that makes her happier in the relationship and makes him beg for more. And yet...women are not this paranoid. And yeah. I had plenty of experience before I met my husband and I would not have had it ANY other way. I just couldn't wrap my mind around marrying a man and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:56 AM
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This is the first time in history when average men are no longer scared to death of saying they have it hard and are no longer pretending. Conversely "incel" is the new "gay" insult. No. This is the first generation of men who've been hoodwinked into believing they're less than BY OTHER MEN and turned y'all into sad paranoid babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:27 AM
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I have an android.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:54 AM
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Honestly? It sounds like men deep down are exponentially more insecure than women. Because that's crazy. Y'all don't worry that the girl with no experience will want to go find that experience at 40 once she realizes her life is slipping away and she has only ever experienced you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:51 AM
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Depends. Would the "average" gf be ok with the man simping over hot OF models, but not simping over his current "average" gf? In other words, would the "average" gf be ok with her man giving other women who mog her much better treatment than her? Why are you comparing the way a man treats his girlfriend IN a relationship to how a woman treated a different man before she even met her boyfriend. The hell? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:49 AM
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And they have such a doomer attitude about it. Meanwhile the vast majority of people on this earth managed just fine. It is literally only men aged 18-27 (so the 27 year olds were 17 when RedPill podcast bros really started ramping up) who seem to believe everything is horrible for them. Coincidence? No. Absolutely not. It was intentional. It's in the Epstein files 😭😐
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:47 AM
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Then there's me. Existing in monogomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:38 AM
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I see men say this, but do you REALLY want women to have the same sex drive as men?? I mean. You guys usually want virgins or extremely low body count. That would flip things on it's head and I imagine would make a LOT more unhappy men than the current status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:35 AM
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Idk what this has to do with leagues. An 8 woman could marry a 4 man and he would still benefit more from the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:32 AM
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Sounds like you're a hypocrite then. Women cheat. But the vast majority of the time, they cheat because the relationship is shit not just because the opportunity presented itself. They get validation from another man. I am not saying it's right. But this is identical to your claim that he wouldn't have looked into RedPill if the relationship was going good. Same concept. When woman blame cheating on relationship being bad, what she is doing is being defensive because she feels ashamed and guilty…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:26 AM
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Nope. I did it for 6 years before our kids started school. I would absolutely have never chosen to do it permanently. There are far too many risks involved. The only way I'd do (and any woman really) it permanently is if I had full access to bank accounts AND he contributed to my own retirement account AND a pre-nup would be required to ensure everything he earns while I stay home is equally mine in the event of a divorce. Anything less is playing with fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:21 AM
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The fact that he found redpill means how unsatisfactory the relationship was for him before all this. This reminds me of when women say she wouldn't have cheated if the relationship was good. Do you agree with that statement as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:02 AM
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Simone de Beauvoir said women should be prevented from becoming housewives even if they want to Honestly every example I see in here of a "horrible" feminist saying "horrible" things is someone I haven't even ever heard of. That tells me these topics are fed to y'all in the manosphere like ragebait cookies. Who TF is that?! 😂 Also-no one cares if a woman chooses to stay home. But there are risks involved. One being the vast majority of men, come divorce, would happily leave her with nothing if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:41 PM
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Because sex sells to MEN. Same reason men aren't sex objects. Same reason women are able to make a lot more on OF than men. I cannot believe this was even a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:29 PM
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Haha not a problem 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:11 PM
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..I'm not the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:09 PM
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Women have also been telling men to raise their standards for forever too Maybe in the last couple of years. Otherwise-no. Why shouldn't a guy sleep around for fun and wait until he finds a woman he really likes before he commits? Who said that was an issue? Women should do that as well. Everyone should have a little experience. In all seriousness, I think if you look at the entire opposite gender and don't find anyone that meets your standards, it's a you problem Individually yes. As a whole, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:58 PM
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Women are more interested in genetic markers of attractiveness than anything grooming can do. Bullshit. Some men already groom themselves plenty. I'm going to venture to guess the majority of men who have issues with dating do not. This is just a cop out to not even try. You don’t need to try to gaslight me Agreed. good luck to him hope him showering and shaving will make him super attractive and tall. If "he" is my husband he's already attractive and tall. But-all men are tall to me at 5'3 and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:48 PM
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Not really. Men have been telling women for forever to choose better. If all the available men are either going to cheat, abuse, or be a shit partner, why would they choose that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:38 PM
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I mean even statistics show that there are exponentially more men using dating apps than women so I don't see how you would think it is so far fetched. Anywho, nice chatting with you. I'm gonna go make some breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:04 PM
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Nope, I just never care enough to use reddit on a desktop. After the last update you're not able to do it on mobile anymore. That same update fucked with the quote function too. Annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:02 PM
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Well, the only man I know who gets casual sex is tall and handsome, and even he sleeps with 2-3 women per year at best. Many men I know have not been on a date in years. Some just gave up. I mean this seems fairly average across the board? Most women are not having casual sex with 2-3 different men per year either. The vast majority of consistent casual sex occurs prior to age 25 anyways. After that it dies down for most everyone and one would be lucky to find anymore than 3 per year. This seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:54 PM
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Well, hello, nice to meet you I guess, I am the man who can't find casual sex. I am not much younger but I think the huge part of divide is where in life you were before covid. You are a man, but not most men. I can agree on covid. That turned all of our realities to shit. During covid I was already married. I will also say that out of my peers, even my cousins, I got married and had kids younger than most. No one told me we were waiting (lol) 🤷‍♀️ It's not about the men. It's about position of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:29 PM
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Oh, and women that chose those men are angels? No? They were usually equally garbage humans. Most people are normal people, 20 years ago most men would have found someone around their circle. Now with apps both girls from da hood and best areas go for the same guys who treat them as pokemon cards. Envy you, I wish I was born earlier or later, this is the worst time. Yes, I agree. I am just saying I don't buy it that most men can't find casual sex. That is certainly not my experience. I'm 36. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:12 PM
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Women created toxid dating environment and still blame this on men. 🙄 I'm a bit older than you. Men were like this before social media, before dating apps and before red pill. I grew up in a bit of a rougher area. Suburbs but a shitty one that just got shittier with time. Some of the most unattractive, bummy dudes were the ones who treated women the worst. The assumption that the men not being chosen (which I believe you've got it flipped, 10% are left unchosen in the end) are perfect angels is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:57 AM
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That isn't the assumption. It is a fact that all humans are capable of evil given the right set of circumstances. Does that mean everyone will do evil things? I don't know. Depends on ones morality and ability to feel shame. It is impossible to know if a poor person would or would not be as evil as Elon Musk because they simply just don't have that kind of evil at their disposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:46 AM
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I did. You said only those who worked hard for something can appreciate it, in response to billionaires. To which I replied that we have plenty of examples of that not being the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:32 AM
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Correct. People can be terrible with or without money. Also, you cannot ethically become a billionaire. Two things can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:23 AM
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I mean, do most women want to commit? I hear all the time about how more and more women are happier being single now that they no longer financially require a man. They do, absolutely. The issue is that a lot of them have found that there is not anybody worth committing to. They are only happier being single because the alternative is worse. In a perfect world, most straight women would prefer commitment. Social media has definitely played a part. I became a mom in 2011. Even then-it was taboo t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:21 AM
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Yes, and thank God for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:13 AM
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I think that's more of the rule...you cannot be a billionaire and not be a terrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:11 AM
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We have plenty of examples of billionaires who had nothing and are now evil AF. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:51 AM
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Y'all have all these wild theories. I was very sex positive when I was younger. I had plenty of sex. Plenty of FWBs. And it was always me having to fend off the men trying to make a relationship out of it. I never chased a man. Now I've been married to my husband for 15 years. My experience with men before him helped me choose correctly for an actual relationship. That and having a lot of platonic male friends. Seeing how they'd cheat on their girlfriends back home while they were away at colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:44 AM
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And then he'll come back and make a post based on this conversation talking about, "Women don't see men as human. They don't care about our rights" and when we say having casual sex is not a right he will say, "Nooooo that's not what I'm talking about!" but then later on say it again. "If I can't get casual sex why should I work". This shit is so predictable at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:40 AM
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More women in work place means less jobs for men and that clearly affects me. So what is my incentive to support your movement what do I get out of it ? Women were always in the workplace. They were just paid pennies on the dollar. Did you know teachers used to be all male? Until they decided to bring women in because they could pay them much, much less. To this day they are still paid shit. You've got your finger pointed at the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:38 AM
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The study mentioned all of that. Why don't you actually read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:35 AM
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Doesn't this tell you men should..groom themselves better? Y'all are mad and yet put in zero effort yourselves. I take my son every two weeks to get lined up and a fresh shave. Most men aren't even doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:34 AM
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Just like the average man is taller than the average woman. The average woman is more attractive than the average man. This is why in the vast majority of couples, the man is a couple levels below the woman in looks. It is rare to see the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:31 AM
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I actually love this idea. Mandatory DNA testing is going to hurt men more than women. It really won't even hurt the vast majority of women. 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:34 PM
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they dont want mandatory paternity testing We already don't have that, so. Kind of dumb comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:33 PM
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Agreed. I've had about 5 men in this sub now tell me I am misandrist for saying misandry doesn't exist. I don't buy anything they say anymore. Each time is more proof they don't know what the fuck they're talking about. Man beats and rapes women : "Oh well he's just a bad guy, not a misogynist" Woman says misandry doesn't exist. "MISANDRIST".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:26 PM
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Just a weird comment for a woman, that's all.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 09:14 PM
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Just because the bar is in hell doesn't mean anything slightly better is ethically noble lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:10 PM
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Again. Words mean things. If it works for him, fine. But don't make up reasons. Be truthful. "The men in non western countries treat women worse thus she treats me better" would have been an equally valid title.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:58 PM
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It just means OPs post and framing is wrong. Women from other countries don't respect men more. It matters because he is framing American women as less than and/or broken. I see that you are only asking why it matters from the man's point of view. In that case it doesn't matter. But again-his framing very much does matter to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:32 PM
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Because it means that those women aren't any different from American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:28 PM
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Yes All I needed to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:44 PM
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How about you? Would you be okay with a boy fucking multiple women? I have two sons. They can do what they want also.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:34 PM
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...because my daughter is a lesbian? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:20 PM
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Men's issues aren't all tied to rights, some involve mental health, loneliness, etc. And yet-they aren't talking about any of that either. They talk about women being hypergamous, only wanting the top 20% and being secretly lesbian. And them not caring helped? Seems you missed the rest of my comment that highlighted the irony in that the only side of the political spectrum that HAS ever cared was the left. It isn't about caring about men. It is about punishing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:16 PM
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Care to expand on what you're implying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:14 PM
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My daughter likes girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:57 PM
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But I still think most modern women act like 304s and are encouraged to by society Good for them I say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:49 PM
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Vast majority of Blue Pillers on this sub That is exactly what the sub was created for though ironically only talking about male issues as a result of something they heard from the manosphere Again, this is what this particular sub was created for so I don't see any irony. You don't see the irony in the fact that mens rights/manosphere subs mainly focus on women and feminists? given a shit otherwise or now talking about these topics No. Because these takes have nothing to do with mens rights. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:48 PM
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Well I am not one of those loser men. Could have fooled me. I mean. You complain about women only choosing the "top" men in almost every post. Very black pill esque. Kind of odd for someone who has success with women. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:42 PM
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Yes, I agree sexism is bad regardless of who the target is. I think the disagreement largely lies in what is considered 'misandry' or not. For example, just yesterday I was called a misandrist for saying that misandry is not as dangerous as misogyny. That isn't sexism. That isn't hating men. It's just historical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:36 PM
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You're right. I do not care when they talk the way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:31 PM
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It's not about punching down at all. And maybe you feel that way because us women are disgusted and fed up with the nonsense we read in here. You continuously make sweeping statements about women. What do you geniunely expect? Coddling?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:25 PM
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I'm confused how this is trolling. Are you trolling too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:15 PM
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? I responded to your comment. You had no argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:06 PM
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I have children who are going to enter this hellscape. I care about their well-being. So yes I do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:50 PM
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Sure if you think men are helpless little blobs of embarrassment. Personally I think men are better than that. Much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:49 PM
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But men aren't asking us to only thank the President who was in power when women won rights. They don't even want us to thank the men who were alive at the time. You all want us to thank you, yourself. Therein lies the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:48 PM
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Are you man or a woman?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 11:40 AM
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I agree they would. To me it is like how poor people voted for Trump and actively vote against their own self interests. People who look like them are able to benefit so they believe that they will be able to as well. This is why a lot of men are reluctant to go against the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:49 AM
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Without men’s support, it wouldn’t have happened. Do you think it would be appropriate to ask African Americans to thank white people for freeing them from slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:36 AM
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I said you're framing it that way. Maybe not so much that women did anything first. Moreso, that women need to stop and men don't. Because if women don't stop men will just punish them more. "That's how we got Trump" So to you would it be best to just go back to the status quo of men being misogynistic and women pretending they are oblivious to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:16 AM
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Men get angry. Women cry. What exactly are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:06 AM
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Women don't care about society LOL come on. Quit it with the strawmanning. You were JUST patting men on the back for supposedly caring less about being single. Now that you have to concede the opposite is true it has gone from--- "Women care less about being single" to "Oh, so women just don't care about society!" Men don't care about society either, then. They care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:02 AM
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Dang. This is a very harsh and uncomfortable truth even as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:00 AM
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Take a look around this sub, come back and tell me what ya think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:59 AM
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They really underestimate the amount of women who have left their boyfriends and husbands after finding out he consumes red pill content. So it's not even only just scaring single women away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:56 AM
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This. Cool, you make an extra $500/month? I am unsure how that can ever equate to her now being required to come home after work and do everything while he sits on his ass watching reels-FOREVER. Especially if she gave you children. I would geniunely take that set up ANY day of the week. Take ALL my money I don't care. All I have to do is my 40 hours and someone else does the rest? That's the dream. And men still somehow victimize themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:54 AM
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It's also funny when men respond like this to a well thought out comment instead of responding to the actual meat of it. Reminds me of my 3 year olds temper tantrums. No real logic or reason. He just knows he's mad and he's gonna let everyone know! Not exactly the pillar of debate, but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:44 AM
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They're not just the loudest voices, they're essentially the only voices So you're saying there aren't really any male centered voices when it comes to true rights? Only when it comes to sex and dating? I think we agree there. People outside the manosphere only seem to give a shit in response to what someone in the manosphere said and arguing against those points. If the manosphere suddenly went quiet, pretty much nobody would be talking about male issues anymore I mean, yeah? They say disgustin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:40 AM
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that men are more at fault for the existence and perpetuation of the patriarchy than women are. Not more at fault. Just more inclined to keep the status quo, as men do benefit from it more in totality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:35 AM
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An extinction burst, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:33 AM
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Convincing argument. We believe you! 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:28 AM
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Exactly correct. I've said the same thing to my son. It really sucks that because of your strength, your hands can and will be considered a deadly weapon. And I didn't even tell him this in relation to women. It's just that he is so much bigger than other kids his age that he unfortunately has to be the bigger person. Literally and figuratively. I don't know what they expect. One person's punch can equate to a scratch. Another person's punch can equate to a coma. Same action. Different results. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:44 PM
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That would be slightly more complicated considering we’re not married It actually isn't at all. My husband and I walked in and got it done in 30 minutes. Prioor to being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:40 PM
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I'd have to wonder if the political climate in the US has anything to do with it. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:34 PM
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Why doesn't he just put you as a joint owner on the bank account so you have your own card/access?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:13 PM
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Yep. I can see that. Also, I was already cooking for my family before DoorDash really became popular so it has never been a part of my life like it seems to heavily be for Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:12 PM
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Care to link it the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:03 PM
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There was one study. And it was a questionnaire. And it ignores a lot of nuance. But also, no idea how that relates to my comment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:43 PM
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I mean, how old are you? I did not start regularly cooking until 24/25. I'm 36 now and I cook every single day for my family. Even breakfast and lunch. And I work full-time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:40 PM
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This is very chicken and egg. Why are you framing this as if women were being "shitty" towards men first?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:34 PM
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I think parents absolutely do both. I know I have. But what I tell my daughter to be weary about in regards to boys/men are different from what I tell my son to be weary about in regards to girls/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:28 PM
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Here's my question. How do you know this is actually true and not because you are American and they aren't? How would you know how those women from third world/non western countries view and treat the men in their corresponding countries? How do you know for sure they just don't treat American men with more respect because they are different from what they are used to and/or a means to an end (to get them and their family out of poverty)? Additionally, how do you know it's not because the men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:19 PM
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You've had a western woman spit in your face after saying hello?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:11 PM
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It has nothing to do with a larger bank balance though. Dude could make $40K and it would still not be a good set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:49 PM
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Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:35 PM
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What you describe is normal and fine. My husband and I do the same and have a general rule to discuss for any larger purchases over $200. What OP is describing is having no access to the budget at all. She is just given "spending" money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:29 PM
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I was a stay a home mom for 6 years when my kids were little. The moment we decided that I would stay home to save money on childcare, was also the moment we walked into the bank and created a joint bank account. The idea of an "allowance" is fucking embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:24 PM
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Awesome! Can you tell me what it is that makes me a 'misandrist'?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:20 PM
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Nothing I said has to do with blackpill. NOTHING to make a man happy or content if he has no women in his life K.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:59 PM
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Nope, you just sound like a typical illogical woe is me blackpill. And I like to make a point not to feed into that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:39 PM
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Ah. K. You're clearly not here in good faith. Sounds like you have a bit of growing up to do. Nice talking to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:10 PM
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...the billionaires who are literally ruining ALL of our lives? They are the ones making men and womens lives difficult. They are the ones who have an interest in keeping the status quo. They are the ones who have an interest in keeping us all separated and hating eachother. Because if they didn't separate us? We'd have too much power. See: gerrymandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:07 PM
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I agree...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:04 PM
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It's worth the watch. The guys kids were with him too, that's what made me think of it when reading your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:17 AM
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That isn't what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:45 AM
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Is that why men in here question being a good person because "What do I get out of it directly". eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:38 AM
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Do I want women to say "all women are crazy"?? No i don't but an acknowledgement without dismissal that women are capable of and do in fact abuse and are violent towards me would be acceptable. Again-I don't see the issue. I think men who behave that way are also crazy. Not a representation of the average man. Same for women. Nearly every post along these things cries that men won't say "all men are rapists" No one says that. They say, "Not all men but always a man". And men usually try to other…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:36 AM
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Heh did you see the tik tok of the kangaroo guy in Piegon Forge? Embarrassing. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:23 AM
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get more time in prison compared to women because of it A punch from a man also has an exponentially higher likelihood of seriously and permanently harming or even killing the victim-hence the obvious higher sentence because death is worse than some scratches, even though both parties threw a punch. Just an unfortunate reality. It is something I talk to my 15 year old about. He is huge for his age and can really hurt someone. And one wrong move can land him in prison because of it. A large/very …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:19 AM
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I don't see the issue. Do you want women to say "ALL women are crazy"? Lmao. Has a man ever said all men are rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:14 AM
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It isn't really either or. Excuse me is the polite thing to say. "Watch yourself" implies he owns the earth and to get the fuck out of his way. Rude. But unsprising for a man. I'm not saying the woman was in the right to go full crazy on him, but I can see why she did. It's a whole thing where men seem to think women need to get out of their way and will flat out walk right into us always assuming a woman will move. Y'all don't own the earth. Quit acting like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:09 AM
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Saying, "watch yourself" isn't calm. That's being a douche. Seriously. Implies she was in the wrong for existing. Is "excuse me" really that difficult for men? Come to think of it, I can't remember a time a man has ever said excuse me..🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:07 AM
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they held the powers that be accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:59 AM
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No idea what you're talking about. I didn't say anything like that. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:29 AM
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misandrist title like that? ...? It's in reference to biological fragility. It's not supposed to be offensive. how is that "less physiological resilience"? ..what? Physiological relates to the physical body. What does that have to do with relationships? You are oddly offended by a medical study And why isn't this study a FANTASTIC argument to support men's rights over feminism to you if it were true? Men's rights because male embryos are biologically more fragile? Wtf? Lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:47 AM
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NO All I needed to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:31 AM
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That's pathetic and shows they were just being babies from the start. The fact that women can clearly handle more adversity than men is beyond you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:38 AM
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I'd rather other young boys not to have to go through that Agreed. Sad unfortunate life you had. About as sad as little girls being raped by their fathers. Or sold into sex slavery. Or forced to birth a child. My son's will be just fine with a mother who is well educated like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:25 AM
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Impossible. Misandrists don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:21 AM
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in the west So then do you all agree to stop bringing up the draft? Since it hasn't happened in the west for over half a century?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:20 AM
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Good thing misandry is not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:11 AM
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Child's play in comparison to all the poor little girls with misogynistic abusive rapist fathers. And then men like you point and laugh and tell her she has daddy issues. Shitty men certainly get no sympathy from me. I'm raising good men who deserve the world. Chads, if you will. 🧡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:55 PM
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the part that dictates the relational dynamic of being a zero sum game or not. Sure. But women look at that thought process with disgust and thus have zero sympathy for this "plight". It's like when the cops take a drug dealers drugs. No one is going to feel bad that he lost them. He shouldn't have had them to begin with. They were hurting people. The British empire, for example, “lost” something when it lost its colonies, even if they were not rightfully theirs to begin with. Yeah. And no one h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:28 PM
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it's obvious that lots of women want more sexual attention and interest from men. Yep. Delusional 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:50 PM
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You're correct. We wouldn't. I clocked it when he said, "Do you want to ask what I was wearing?!". Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:33 PM
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They didn't lose anything. The 'power' they had was stolen to begin with. That isn't a loss it's a correction as it was never rightfully theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:10 PM
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You would have claimed any response was a deflection lol. You. Brought. It. Up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:44 PM
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I just don't see the use in blaming women, which is what they appear to be doing when bringing them up in relation to gender and dating differences. When women fought for their rights, they held the powers that be accountable. Not the lowly guy next door. Why won't men do the same? Why are they terrorizing women and "feminazis" instead? Kind of reminds me of Democratic politicians in the US. They pretend to give a fuck, but won't hold billionaires accountable because in fact, it would hurt them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:39 PM
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A fire alarm was enough for men as a whole to give up? Women literally died for their rights. Please be for real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:33 PM
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you ignored. Yes If you're selective with reading then I'm not interested I'm questioning the first part. Your claim that she brought it up. She did not. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:30 PM
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Btw wanna know what I was wearing? Probably never occurred to her because a womans first instinct is not to victim blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:27 PM
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You literally just did it, brought it up to deflect and shame someone ??? You brought it up. She replied. What??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:26 PM
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Of course, physiologically, women tend to be more optimized for surviving horrible things. Correct. In fact, it begins in the womb. Male embryos are much more vulnerable to stressful environments. They opt to continue growing as fast as possible which wears them out. Female embryos instead choose the slow and steady approach to conserve energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:47 PM
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"10 Things I Hate About You" - i love this movie Same!! but i don't think it's illogical or childish or naive for a man to expect being desired by his partner. I don't either. What I find naive is thinking that the enthusiasm women show in porn is what a man should expect in reality. The same way it would be illogical for a woman to expect her boyfriend to stand outside her bedroom window with a guitar professing his love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:42 PM
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therefore it's childish to expect being loved by your partner. Truly amazing logic here. Yeah and it is totally logical for women to expect their boyfriends to apologize by choreographing an entire flash mob for her on the football bleachers in front of the whole school, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:30 PM
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I agree. I don't think it is something the average man thinks. Like I said I've seen this sentiment in this subreddit specifically, and it is usually from the guys obsessed with the theory that women are "comphet".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:22 PM
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Of course, it is a completely different ball game after 22/23 I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:20 PM
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I do compare it tho Then you are about as logical as a child who doesn't understand cartoons aren't real. Women like to compare real men to fictional men (written by women) and act as if real men are incomplete, I haven't seen this personally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:19 PM
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Unless you live in the same area as your other friends, most people face this. Maybe different cultures but where I'm from, most people still live within 30 minutes of where they grew up. So to me, your scenario is more of the exception than the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:17 PM
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Specifically talking about the moaning, the handstands, the blowjobs where she's choking and spitting all over the place. It's a literal performance. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:15 PM
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I already slept with a girl who WAS enthusiastic and active. I experienced a part of what it feels like to be desired So then this doesn't apply to you because you aren't comparing manufactured entertainment with reality. You're comparing reality with reality. Funny how this suddenly doesn't work, when the discussion is about fictional vs real men, huh? No idea what you're talking about. Care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:14 PM
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Of course. The problem is reality versus fiction. The way porn stars act is not reality so you're going to be disappointed in how the real woman acts every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:09 PM
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I've literally never seen a straight guy do this outside of school and college I think therein lies a lot of the difference. Is there a reason Gen Z is waiting until after college to think about meeting a partner? I'm 36 and almost every couple I know in my age range met through mutual friends. Friend groups that started in highschool and grew throughout our college/finding ourself years (18-22). By the time college was over we already had our established friend groups (many people have multiple…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:07 PM
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that any fact It has to actually be a fact to call it a fact bud. Words have meaning and facts don't care about your fee fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:42 PM
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You have no case
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:38 PM
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No. Women don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:37 PM
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No, it's just not true at all. "Women don't like porn because it threatens to undermine their Monopoly on sex" First of all it doesn't undermine anything. Men are still desperate. Second of all what a paranoid male coded thing to say. Third of all women like porn too. Women do not think that way. Men do. And sexually undesirable if he consumes porn? What? Tell that to all the couples who watch porn together. By the way. Even if these things were true I don't really see them as "unflattering" at …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:30 PM
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So being insulted is worse than physical violence It isn't just insulting. I told you. It is traumatizing. We can compare, as men get assaulted by other men all the time and its usually treated by the police as our fault Really not the same at all. I have had this happen to me. Got in a fight with another girl. Dad was a cop. So I wasn't believed. That isn't traumatizing. It is traumatizing to tell a woman she deserved to be raped and beaten by a man she trusted. It is so much deeper than just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:45 AM
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Also I guess the polycule part and the trans part does play a role in people disbeleiving u (even if it was wrong). That's her life NOW. Not during her court case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:43 AM
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Oh my god 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:40 AM
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Unflattering? Not really. Just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:37 AM
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Im debating whether that part is worse on its own than actually being graped or murdered It is. It is akin to comparing her to a piece of steaming garbage. It is akin to telling her it's her fault. She asked for it. It's fucking traumatizing. You can never understand that as a man so I'm confused how you're even trying to debate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:35 AM
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I have two sons. Fuck Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:31 AM
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Ugh yes exactly. We need porn made for women. I've seen men in this sub literally argue that if a woman doesn't act like a porn star during sex that it means she isn't attracted to him. It's ridiculous. Also, the same thing goes for most movies. Most women are written from the male perspective. Which generally makes women look stupid and ditzy, drunk in love, or they're just a supporting role to their male counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:29 AM
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The only point you made that can even be remotely true is the last one. The other two are entirely delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:24 AM
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"Such differences may reflect economic circumstances, labor market experiences, underlying potential gender differentials in attitudes toward borrowing, financial literacy levels, and men and women being potentially treated differently by the credit market and institutions.14 In addition, marital separations and divorces may affect women's personal finances more than men's. Because our data do not distinguish those who are never married from those who separated or divorced, our analysis cannot a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:57 PM
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This happens more than you'd expected with single, adult women. They are never truly independent. The only two people I know of who have had mommy and daddy either take a loan out for their mortgage or give them the down payment were men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:53 PM
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You're mansplaining whether or not little girls get cat called. Because otherwise you'd have to admit what sick fucks men are. I'd be butthurt too. Cognitive dissonance is a bitch!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:25 PM
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Not sure what that means lol. I wouldn't say I grew up tough. Like I said we were upper middle class. A lot of people would call that privileged. I just got the shit end of the stick in comparison to my siblings. Partly because they were boys. And probably partly because I was the youngest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:14 PM
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To be fair to my dad, his construction/remodeling company was hit bad by the 2008 financial crisis for obvious reasons so this wasn't all his doing. That was also the year I graduated highschool. My mom worked full time as well but it was mainly to keep insurance for all of us. They ended up taking out a heloc to make due. My dad also had all kinds of business loans so they eventually had to file bankruptcy. So yeah I didn't get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:53 PM
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That's a bicycle vs car thing Agreed! Now that you mention it I was the only one who had to cash out my bonds to buy my own car lmao Another thing they suck at by traditional sexist standards. They should be finding you one. My indian friend once showed me a binder of dudes her parents gave her from their earning to biodata and measurements listed though none of them probably knew handyman things. They also paid for her med school and housing. Yeah I think this is more a thing in India due to ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:38 PM
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most of my friends from first gen cultures have told me about their sisters getting more spending money growing up. Yeah. My parents did send me money for odds and ends, food, small things. But they completely financed my brothers apartment. Once it was my turn, my dad stopped working as much and said he had to spend all his savings on my brothers lol 🤷‍♀️ And now they tell me that I am "the most functional" out of the 3 of us. Yeah. Because I didn't get life handed to me like they did. And they…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:47 PM
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upper middle class people. That was us! Did you miss the part where I said my dad was a business owner? Grew up in the suburbs. 5 bed/4bath home. 🤷‍♀️ like you are an accident baby I come from an Italian family. So they were hella overprotective over me, didn't allow me to do certain things because I'm a girl and "girls can't do that", made me go everywhere with them but let my brothers run wild. Pretty standard for first Gen households.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:30 PM
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I suppose I'm confused how the factors you listed would involve a casual date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:56 AM
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I think girls also have this problem, the difference in privilege between a opposite sex siblings isn't much if their parents are ok. Meh. My brothers got a head start in adulthood by having a hefty savings from being allowed to work with my dad (He owned a construction company). I was never allowed to come. I was able to earn (exponentially less) by doing the dishes or vacuuming the house. We did all get to go to college, but my parents were annoyed about having to pay for a 3rd kids apartment …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:51 AM
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if a man were to do his fair share of chores, be emotionally mature etc then a woman would still have reservations based on risks alone. But at this point, it has far moved on from casual sex. They are living together, probably even married. In that case, those reservations are mostly gone. My husband knows what I like. Knows my body inside and out. And plus, he's snipped. I get to fully enjoy sex without having to worry about the risks. And yes, I orgasm almost every time, multiple times. I nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:47 AM
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the average men has the agency and options to get relationships and sex all he wants? Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:32 AM
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Black pill is against group rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:32 AM
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Same. Except I never had an issue with fat, bald unattractive men getting married so I never had to "make peace" with it. Just a fact of life. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:25 AM
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It's justifying the end. Married with family? Success.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:43 AM
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But you're saying it's a good thing they have a wife and kids. So clearly that's better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:12 AM
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short fat bald ugly men with wives and kids. Exactly. Blue pill proven. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:08 AM
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If women were like men we wouldn't need to differentiate them at all. Why do you think the "male way" is the correct way? Why do women have to mold to your way (literally will never happen)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:04 AM
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Fat women get married all the time. Try throwing a rock in any direction and you'll hit one that was fat BEFORE she got married. You first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:02 AM
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But you have admitted that being bald I thought being bald for men was the second worst thing to be after being short. Add them together and you get SadBoy BlackPill ™️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:59 AM
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were done here Is that your favorite new phrase? I've noticed you've said this on almost every comment. Does it make you feel powerful?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:54 AM
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Welcome! These posts should stop then, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:48 AM
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I mean. There are plenty of women who choose to shave their heads and not wear make up. You can choose one of them if you find that more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:48 AM
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LMFAO. "So basically if we removed everything that makes a woman a woman, she is uglier" I mean why are you turning the woman into a man first?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:43 AM
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dating apps can scam. but dating apps dont make women date taller men, Nope. But they are mainly for hook ups, and thus, women are going to choose the hottest man possible. Even if he's a dick. Doesn't matter. She just wants to use his dick. Don't worry. She won't date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:37 AM
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Funny how unproven fears are justified when depending whos having said fears. So would you like it better if a woman just walked around oblivious getting herself into dangerous situations? Let me guess. When a woman gets abused you also say, "she chose that". Pick a lane boo boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:30 AM
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Likewise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:27 AM
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"Sorry you misunderstood" "Maybe I should write slower" Both condescending implications that I am stupid/cannot read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:34 PM
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Like I said, a rarity indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:32 PM
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My point is, they have men clamoring to be around them just as much as women. I do not believe this is a woman thing at all. It's just that women like that are much less likely to be physically abusive. They're more likely to become manipulative and cruel. Men follow/want women like that cause they're hot and fun. Not because they're manipulative and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:31 PM
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It's literally said on every single one of these posts. Which is at least once a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:44 PM
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The amount of times a well loved creator on tik tok/Instagram is outed as being abusive or a rapist is actually insane. These are people who build massive followings, loved by both genders. And then get exposed. I don't understand how they don't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:43 PM
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said DATE DOWN. Not "fuck anything with a pussy" to get laid. at having meaningless sex Ok. Lol. You aren't in his league JUST BECAUSE YOU CRUSHED ON HIM Why do you all always try to personalize things? I am a married woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:03 PM
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You have no way to quantify this. From my perspective, women are almost always more attractive then her spouse. It's a rarity to see an ugly woman with a very attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:34 PM
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Fat women get married all the time Yep, so do fat men who marry gorgeous women (Jelly Roll) or ugly short men who marry beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:27 AM
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Men date down all the time to get laid. So congrats at having meaningless sex LOL. Yes, we know men will "fuck anything with two legs and a pussy". That is not the same as dating. Men do not "date down" when it comes to actual relationships, women do. Hence all the whining in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:26 AM
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She said "basically 100%" which is the same thing as most lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:48 AM
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Personal insults online are always the result of being butthurt. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:26 AM
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Butt hurt men and personal insults go together like peanut butter and jelly! Btw that was a stupid one. Write slower? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:16 AM
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There is something to that 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:00 AM
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You sound kinda rude if I'm being honest. How do you know you're actually funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:59 AM
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Until 2025 eh? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:57 AM
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Because this is a condescending question that's asked about 15 times a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:55 AM
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It's so interesting when I read comments like this, because I know damn well that no woman in here said anything close to that. Even on this post. No one has said that. Men often read what isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:55 AM
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Hey- I only give back what another person offers. He doesn't mind shaming women. So. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:49 AM
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Super! Can't wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:48 AM
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He is happier than he's ever been, thank you very much. Good luck though with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:46 AM
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Nope, no misunderstanding here 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:44 AM
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So once again, someone assumes the situations they’ve lived through are universal. I don't think I know a single woman who has not had this experience at least one time as a kid. As a latchkey kid who walked everywhere, I lost count at the amount of times this has happened from mild to literally being followed. Also I vividly remember middle school. That is when the boys suddenly decided they were allowed to grab our asses and tits in the hall. It's universal dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:19 PM
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Huh?! No. Your question simply made no sense. You asked if we can make girls like "boyly things" and boys like "girly things". That has nothing to do with societal expectations when it comes to gender and interpersonal relationships. Do you agree that men are conditioned by society to not show emotion, be macho and stoic? Or are the vast majority of men just that way by happenstance? Or do you believe these gender roles are somehow biologically programed? Interestingly enough this is a topic I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:36 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:18 PM
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What you're asking is irrelevant as no one said what you're questioning so there is no way to answer it. You misunderstood the quote and want me to answer it in the way that you misunderstood it. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:17 PM
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Then your question was based on your misunderstanding of the quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:44 PM
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No, that isn't how it works in this sub. We are speaking in generalities regarding heterosexual gender and relationship norms. Those in the LGBTQ community often have different dynamics. It is understood that in this sub specifically, when referencing men and women, we are specifically referencing CIS men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:26 PM
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Do you seriously believe in this shit? Both men and women are "brought up" in a society with certain expectations, yes. This is why people in the LGBTQ community have far greater chances of struggling with mental health issues. Because they DON'T fit the "mold".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:24 PM
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You should say this to all the men in here who insist women only fuck the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:55 PM
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Seriously. Every single accusation is a confession. I have never in my whole entire life seen a woman gloat about going on cheating sprees and how it made them such a perfect woman. And yet. Women are the horrible hypergamous ones. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:54 PM
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My husband consistently makes me cum every time we are intimate. I hate sex toys. He's all I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:50 PM
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Should men also ideally find the "one" on their first shot too? Or this only applies to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:49 PM
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Nah. I think it was absolutely great for me to date around before I found my husband. Otherwise I would have been a stupid idiot who just let him get away with... Right. Because that's what men want. That's what it really comes down to. You want a young inexperienced moron who won't hold you accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:48 PM
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Upvote! That's a funny joke actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:42 PM
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Ah. Interesting. Conversely, my premature, delayed, mildly autistic 15 year old has zero issues with girls and friends. And guess what? He DID struggle growing up. A LOT. He literally didn't talk until he turned 3. But as his mama, I never gave up on him. Encouraged him to join sports. Had him in ALL the therapies. He went from a kid who struggled with reading and making friends to a straight A student, top multi sport athlete who is friends with everyone and has girls chasing him. It sounds lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:36 PM
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Correct, just not for the reasons you listed. It isn't because of education, availability or experience. It's just pure sexism boys club bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:39 PM
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Because otherwise men without qualifications will get hired. "Hello everyone, meet your new boss. He is my golf buddies 22 year old son. He's never worked a day in his life but he's definitely more qualified than Betty who has been here for 22 years".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:34 PM
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No, I would not because there are still baseline qualifications one has to have to even be considered. It isn't like they just pick a random women out of a hat. She already has all the same qualifications as the men applying for the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:32 PM
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I'm simply pointing out you can't enforce equality in all aspects except in dating, because it will lead to a dysfunctional society, and men will resort to what I mentioned. Then, what do you think should happen? If it's not for the government to be involved in creating relationships, then what? Take away womens rights again? So that they have to rely on men? Because in that case men are still in the same position of paying for the first date. Only now, they have to pay for ALL dates, the house,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:30 PM
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Personally I would rather get there by my own merit than the nepo guy who golfed with his dad a few times and scored the position instead. These quotas help to deter this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:25 PM
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Also, availability and experience matter much more than education nowadays, unfortunately. So yes, companies would probably prefer men to women. This is silly. Plenty of 40+ women done with having children with plenty of experience under their belts as well. It's a new age..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:23 PM
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Thank you for admitting this. The denial is so weird. At the very least, everyone who grew up in a two parent household can almost always see how much more mom planned vacations, holidays, birthdays, sports, playdatea, doctor appointments, etc. Genuinely, until the day my mother died (it was sudden tbf), she was the first person my siblings and I called even into adulthood. Love my dad. But he was just never the wealth of information that my mom was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:16 PM
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You are oddly angry about the way young women behave in dating for someone who is not single. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:09 PM
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And then y'all have the audacity to complain that more men are single than women. Now it's settled. Women are not dating the same men. Men are choosing to stay single. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:07 PM
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These women are low-effort trash. That would be 99% of all mothers in the history of time The same rules that apply to men should be applied to women. Y'all will call that hell, oppression, etc etc lol You can kick and scream as much as you want but you will never have the ability to force women to do this across the board. Some already do. Some never will. At the end of the day men want women more than the other way around, so this is how it naturally goes. It's nature boo boo. It's how almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:02 PM
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If that was enough, then Don't lock your doors. Stop being careful around strangers. Let children play on their own far away from the house and surrounded by strangers The solution to rape is not to compel the women to simply fuck them willingly. Same goes for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:10 AM
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Or, we just lock them up indefinitely if they fall within this scale. Believing some people should alter their perfectly normal behavior because other people are psychos is an odd approach. Just punish the crazies and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:47 AM
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I fucking laughed out loud so hard 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:36 AM
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And that risk factor is not something you can just ignore because it COMES with the territory and the fact that he's al man with a biological advantage over you None of this makes me suddenly turned on by women. Wish it did. It doesn't. and I'm not the only woman straight or not that would see this to be super bizarre and unhealthy Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:04 PM
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You seem incapable of separating your sexuality from anything even risking danger It's because I am looking at it purely from a sexual turn on/turn off point of view. I don't need to worry about this type of danger anymore so it isn't a part of what I am thinking about when it comes to my sexuality. If a male friend kissed me (this has happened) I wouldn't like it, but I wouldn't immediately have this icky feeling like I would/did with a woman. You keep trying to add in danger into this and it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:52 PM
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it's an insult to female rape and molested victims I was also raped by a man. I'm sorry you can't understand this, but, I really don't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:45 PM
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And third the issue is she has said more than once lesbian stuff is gross to her while saying I'm a homophobe for not liking gay stuff LMFAO. I've clarified this several times at this point and you still continue to repeat the same lie. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:34 PM
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You missed the part she said she would be assaulted by a random guy than her own female friend do you seriously not think that's completely fucked I didn't say that. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:32 PM
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use your head then I'm good I think. I have been married to my husband for 15 years. At this point in the game I would react negatively to either gender doing this for obvious reasons. But I don't go out and party like that anymore anyways. The point that you're missing here is that if you took all the danger away, and we are talking turn ons and turn offs only, then dicks and the male body will always turn me on. Vagina and the female body will always dry me up. I cannot help this. Just the way…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:30 PM
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lesbian sex and lesbianism gross. I didn't say that and I do not find it gross. The only thing I find gross is female anatomy. And..gross isn't quite the right term I'll admit that. It's not gross. It's just an immediate turn off. Like a light switch. It'll dry me up. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:27 PM
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Men are far more dangerous to a woman than your own female friend ever will be, Yeah. Unfortunately sexuality isn't a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:24 PM
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I didn't identify as bi until much later so yes I do know what it's like that's not the issue. ..... check your hard drive I guess if it's anything illegal Are you okay? Why are you making such insane leaps in logic? My preference of adult porn (I barely watch porn to begin with-maybe twice a year) is now-someone should check your hard drive?? How do you even come to that conclusion LOL It would be good for you to stop gaslighting Says the one who keeps putting words in my mouth and telling me m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:23 PM
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to says she finds lesbian sex Again, the only thing I said about lesbian porn is that it does nothing for me. Please stop putting words in my mouth. You've been doing this throughout the entire conversation. her female friend hitting on her revolting and gross, Yes, sticking her tongue down my throat and copping a feel was revolting and gross because I am not sexually attracted to women. My God.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:19 PM
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Yep. She's 100% taking it personal. I clocked that when she shamed me for being traumatized by, realistically, being sexually assaulted by a woman, because "how do you think she felt she was just having a vulnerable moment".. She is no longer my friend because she didn't GAF about how I felt. Also imagine if someone said that about a man forcing himself on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:16 PM
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can find men extremely attractive , it's a totally diff game to be turned on seeing two guys fk each other up the ass in real time. That is not the same at all she's the weird creepy one for liking that shit while bashing lesbian sex even when gay sex is WAY more dangerous risky and they got high stds. Girl wtf are you talking about? There is always a woman fucking the both of them too. Guess she's also weird. 🤷‍♀️ She claims to be super disgusted at her female friend hit on her while wanting a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:07 PM
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I honestly think that many heterosexual women who enjoy lesbian porn aren't heterosexual; in reality, they're probably more attracted to women than to men I agree that they aren't fully straight. And secondly, she probably finds the male body attractive and sexy, which is why gay sex doesn't repulse or disinterest her as much as lesbian sex does. Correct. To be even more specific, I will only watch it if they are both masculine. Which isn't a difficult feat in the bisexual male porn category.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:03 PM
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You are oddly angry about my porn preference. I'm not sure what you want from this. My promise I'll never watch it again? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:58 PM
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if she was some hot male friend it's diff ?? Yes. I'm straight. I'd rather have a dude stick his tongue in my mouth unexpectedly than a woman. It sounds like you have done this to a straight friend and that's why you're taking offense. Don't do that to people. I have gay friends who've had women do the same and were equally as disgusted and traumatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:42 PM
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against reddit's rules to say that transmen aren't real men? Good thing I didn't say that! The irony here is that you more than likely do not believe transmen are real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:35 PM
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Also stats show many straight women do fantasize about lesbian stuff even if they don't do it in reality my point is it doesn't mean they stop being straight because of it And yes I find this weird as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:25 PM
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What are you talking about you forgot what you said ? You said it's been 20 years and it traumatized you and grossed you out so much you still remember it Yep...that is a personal experience of being taken advantage of by a woman. And yes. It grossed me out because I'm straight. I am not grossed out by two lesbians doing their thing though. The fact that you can't understand that these are two entirely different circumstances is concerning. Why are you, as a bisexual woman who is attracted to ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:25 PM
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female on female sex repulsive and gross that's not homophobic but what I'm saying is? ? I never said that. I said I find vaginas gross and lesbian porn does nothing for me. That's not homophobic. That's just being a straight woman.. and you didn't even address the rest of what I said Because I find it homophobic and I'm obviously not disgusted by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:15 PM
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You were saying you actually openly watch and enjoy graphic gay porn as a straight And my preferred porn category is male on male 🤔 why are you equating male on male to "graphic gay porn"? The rest of your comment is hella homophobic, so. I suppose that's where our difference lies. My husband of 15 years is bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:09 PM
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Cause I like dick. Two men = Two dicks. I actually prefer MMF if we're getting real specific. I think I prefer this because hetero porn is meant for men, so it comes with weird shit like spitting in her mouth and slapping her with their dick. Immediate turn off. Sure, womens faces are aesthically pleasing. But their vaginas are not. I get absolutely nothing out of lesbian porn 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:21 PM
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A singular woman. Wow. She must speak for them all!! Also-she said she has a kid. She isn't even one of the women who want to be left alone. "But when you’re brought up to feel that the most important thing you can be is attractive to men, the absence of their attention – even negative attention – can feel distressing."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:39 PM
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Can you tell me why you need it to be called misandry and not sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:07 PM
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If a woman was being abusive towards one of my son's I would absolutely tell him that she is sexist. I just wouldn't call it misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:48 PM
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I see everyone as humans! They are very happy. My oldest is a straight A student, top athlete, tons of friends and gets everything he could ever need and want. My youngest son is still just a little man. Very much a mamas boy ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:45 PM
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I have two! And I also have a daughter. I don't have to worry about my son's being pregnant and having a medical emergency in another state the way I have to worry about the same happening to my daughter, and nieces for that matter. That's the point. As far as my son's, I have to worry about them choosing to join the military. I have to worry about them being victim of stupid reckless choices of other young men and even themselves. I don't worry about them being screwed in child support court be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:41 PM
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she chose that man out of all her options, and reject others., she chose to have a baby with him. Why do you keep saying this as if it has anything to do with the fact that all men are biologically different from all women? You've really got to quit it with the black pill stuff. It's exhausting. You add it in every chance you get even when it makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:02 PM
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You can kick and scream about it all you want. At the end of the day it will never feel equal to men or women, because only one party gets pregnant. You will never know what that's like. Our bodies are unequal so the choice is unequal. If biological men got pregnant I'd advocate for them to have that right too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:58 PM
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Exactly. Women (and men) simply prefer the man to be taller than the woman. An easy task when most women are already shorter than most men. That doesn't mean there is some superficial cutoff where all men under a certain height are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:38 PM
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This. It's crazy. Sure, some women are superficial. Especially when they are only looking for a hook up. Hence-"dating apps" they love to use as proof. But never in my life have I heard any woman say she would never date or be intimate with a man if he isn't taller than "xyz". It's overblown paranoia because they sit around looking at posts from subs like r/PsychORSike.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:58 PM
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Yet you see these dudes on reddit, aight In this subreddit that we are speaking on right now, yes I see it. I do not see it in the wild. Stop belittleing shorter guys Never have And yet, these 5'4 women still want 6ft dudes. It's not paranoia, it's literally listening to what women say. And I do believe women Sigh. Like I originally said. It's very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:36 PM
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Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:06 PM
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They're still men. So valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:06 PM
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I already explained why that is not fair That said, do you have a source on that? Because nothing I have ever read has indicated that to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:05 PM
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I've heard friends of my mother, saying a man has to be this and this tall, because how will it look, when they are same height. You want to tell me 50-or-so year old women are watching these podcasts? Who cares? Men have an issue with women being taller than them too. My best friend is 5'10 and dated a guy who wouldn't let her wear heels. At the end of the day most men are already taller than most women so the additional paranoia here is unwarranted. A woman saying she wants her man to be talle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:03 PM
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I read it. You didn't want me to mention it. I did anyways because it's relevant. We're talking about physical violence. Not, "too poor to afford a winter jacket".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:58 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:51 PM
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I am just saying, some of the subreddits I've seen men in here frequent..it is no wonder you're all so paranoid. I'll tell ya what. 20 years ago men were not this paranoid about their height. Something has changed. What's different between now and then? The manosphere. Red pill. Black pill. MRAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:50 PM
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Yes, slightly women than men are perpetrators of all child maltreatment. BUT 59% of child maltreatment is neglect. Oftentimes charged as a result of a woman not taking a child away from an abusive father quickly enough. Men are the ones who violently kill and rape children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:49 PM
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It is fair for black people to be weary around white people, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:45 PM
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And I am sure you also believe that all of the podcasts, manosphere youtube videos and the like have not made men overtly paranoid for being "too short" at 5'9. The manosphere doesn't talk about height at all, right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:42 PM
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I believe you believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:40 PM
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Except men were never systematically oppressed, red lined and overpoliced?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:37 PM
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Racism isn't always overt. I am not terrible for acknowledging that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:36 PM
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Oh, I'm not surprised at all that men deflect straight to calling me a bigot and racist. It's expected when you dismantle their favorite talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:35 PM
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No one directly challenged what I said. Just called me a racist and a bigot. (I'm white BTW)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:07 PM
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Only 5'9?! Jesus. That is a perfectly good height for a man. The average woman is 5'4. Most of the men I dated were shorter than 5'9. The manosphere has really poisoned you guys. That's so sad honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:05 PM
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Okay. If you're going to keep going back to pregnant women I'm not interested in continuing this when we fundamentally disagree on the baseline. Nice talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:00 PM
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...that won't happen because it's much more than internalized misandry for men. Much, much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:59 AM
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the biggest racial issue that's been discussed in recent years is BLM and discrimination against Black people in the justice system. Did you know that sexism against men in the justice system is so bad that White men are actually treated worse than Black women? Did you know that White men are more likely to be killed by police than Black women? Why is racism against Black people in the justice system considered a valid issue, but the objectively greater issue of sexism against men is not? Source…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:58 AM
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Sure, you mean the groups who were systematically oppressed, red lined and over policed and thus the statistics have always been overinflated? Yeah that is shitty to judge on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:46 AM
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No woman ever out-competed a man in an open shooting competition with a handgun (predominant weapon of homicide), So because a woman can't "outshoot" multiple men, that means she is incapable of shooting one man? Half a million annually. "UuUuuUh doesn It doesn't. I don't view an embryo as a human being. If you want to have that debate you'll have to find someone who believes they are a life. Because this just sounds retarded to me if I'm being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:44 AM
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Guns and poison exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:29 AM
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I'm white.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:29 AM
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I am that race though lmao. I am white.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:28 AM
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I wasn't being "defensive". I was simply illustrating how your comment was pointless. We all have experience with shitty employees both male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:28 AM
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You seem to be highly selective Actually it's pretty basic. Was this group oppressed by another group? If yes, they are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:26 AM
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I knew no one would come to tell me (as OP claimed) LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:25 AM
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Sure, lets. For example Black Americans are valid in feeling the same fear towards white people, as white people have historically been (and still are) racist which has harmed them for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:22 AM
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excuse me, every shred of data we have says women are responsible for 100% cases of prenatal substance exposure and Don't care. Men don't get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:20 AM
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Oh dear, sexual attraction is a gender hate, figures... Oh dear. You forgot to read the part where they're misogynistic first. Women who are misandrist simply want men to leave them alone. Forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:19 AM
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men-hating sexist pigs. LOL I must admit it is pretty funny watching the evolution of men adopt phrases that women have historically used. You go girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:18 AM
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Who am I racist towards LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:17 AM
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If you want me to believe anything you typed out, you're going to have to provide your source. It is common knowledge that 97% of violent crime is committed by men. And no, you don't get to use a teen girl or woman taking a pill that causes a slightly heavier period as proof that women are more violent than men. That's ridiculous and every single one of you who pretends to care about a 3 day old sploog is full of shit. You just hate women. Also, one at a time. I'm not interested in the gish gall…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:13 AM
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As for racial hatred, I don't think you can argue it is only possible if you're a member of a dominant group. I hate the Jewish supremacist Apartheid state of Israel and the horrible way they treat Palestinian Lives, however if a Palestinian kills a small Israeli child, that remains a racial hate crime. Technically, both Israeli's and Palestinians are the same race. They are different ethnic groups. It would definitely be a hate crime, just not a racial one. Frankly speaking, the idea that it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:55 AM
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Because white people are inherently racist just like men are inherently misogynistic. White people used their racism to keep black people down just like men used their misogyny to keep women down. Black people were oppressed. Women were oppressed. It never went in the opposite direction for either one. Framing this as if cis white men were ever oppressed makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:22 AM
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That's called the patriarchy. It's held up by men. Only men have the power to change it. Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:15 AM
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Amazing. Male on male violence is womens fault. Aren't women supposed to be the ones who lack accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:10 AM
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come back when women kill men because they hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:07 AM
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Toxic gender roles are misandrist in their effect on men. What a leap. Come back when women kill men because they hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:59 AM
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I will sit criss cross applesauce in anticipation! (I don't think anyone will tell me anything because we all know I'm right)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:50 AM
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Men are killed more often than women What does that have to do with misogyny or misandry for that matter? You're shifting the goal posts lol. "How common is it for a woman to lose their life due to misogyny"? Every 10 minutes "Well men are killed more (by other men)" My guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:50 AM
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is it not true that misandry makes men have reduced empathy for women, So you're saying men should have a monopoly on hating the opposite sex? Because misogyny in all it's forms has always existed. But you're saying misandry is bad because men will be misogynistic. Okay? What else is new.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:47 AM
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You literally did not address it. You said the opposite. Her comment is refuting your statement that men face harsher criminal sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:44 AM
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This is why I dislike the word misandry. Because it is equated to misogyny and it will never be the same. Men are never in danger of women as a whole, for one. And for two, most of the "misandry" complaints are women protecting themselves after trusting a man. Conversely, misogyny is rampant and exists concurrently with men wanting to fuck us. It is like trying to equate racism against black people to racism against white people. It'll never hit the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:43 AM
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You're supposed to engage with the comments in good faith on your posts. She obviously did read it. Instead of addressing her points you deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:40 AM
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Why didn't you ask this question the other way around? Asking it this way doesn't make sense. Men are not the ones who feel anxiety towards women so why would you equate it to white people feeling anxiety towards black people? It is the same as the very valid anxieties black people have when around white people, cops, etc. And yeah. I'd say they are valid and have good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:37 AM
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No. It is simply using the statistics we have on hand to take precautions. Like, we know how much safer it is to wear a seat belt due to the statistics we have on hand, so most of us wear a seatbelt. We don't think women are less violent because they are perfect special snowflakes. We think women are less violent because every shred of data we have says...women are less violent. Inb4 not all men, not all women, etc etc. Some of us fall outside of the "mold" yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:35 AM
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I had an inside sales rep threaten the whole office because he had to be retrained several times and still fucked up. After constantly calling off randomly because his dog took a shit or he couldn't find his car or whatever. But it was everyone else's fault for sure. We all have our stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:59 AM
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Not hateful. A video meant to make one think. This is usually why this kind of stuff is reserved for those in higher education 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:42 AM
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I regret sounding arrogant but I really need to ask because this wasn't remotely hard to understand The funniest part is, it is you who is fundamentally misunderstanding the entire video. It was supposed to make you angry. But it was also supposed to make you understand It seems you either stopped listening or blacked out in rage because you have yet to be able to connect the fundamental point of the video. If you just copy and paste the same response you've been giving everyone else, just know …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:40 AM
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Men actually do that on purpose? Wild lol. I always hear women talking about it. I geniunely figured a lot of men just have stomach issues cause they eat like shit 😅😅 Thank God my husband isn't a weirdo like that and equally shares in parenting responsibilities. Shitting is self care they say. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:29 AM
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Again, why would I condemn an educational video? Also, you don't get to tell me what to do. By the way. It isn't completely irrelevant. It is quite literally the point of the video that is still going over your head. Amazing lack media literacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:23 AM
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Condemn what? Rhetorical mirroring? Lol. Nah. You first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:13 AM
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I have never seen so many men up in arms about the horrific shit the US government has been forcing on little girls. In fact we usually see them foaming at the mouth with glee. Interesting, is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:54 PM
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It geniunely blows my mind how oblivious one can be to a very logical thought experiment meant to put oneself in another's shoes. Instead he took it at face value and is raging at the people this is already happening to. 🤦‍♀️ Hoping this dude is a fresh 18 and just has no media literacy yet. Otherwise we're in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:49 PM
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The fact that men have the power to actually act on it, have acted on it already in the past and are literally voting in politicians who have publicly said the same things, means that they are categorically the mountain whilst this singular feminist you highlighted is the molehill. By the way, Charlie Kirk was prominent enough and he was certainly setting the stage by constantly saying women should care more about marriage than career and bitching about the birth rate falling. Fringe. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:02 PM
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Okay. As the spokesperson for women. We are accountable for not being as straight as men would like us to be. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:47 AM
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Why do women have to outsource it? Why can't men? They don't because they expect the women in their lives to do it whether it be their wife or siblings. My two older brothers do fuckall for my elderly dad. Everything is on me. And my one brother is an effing millionaire. He could afford to outsource it. Instead I pay to outsource it because he gets to live in oblivious "I'm busy" man land.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:43 AM
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Sorry. It's not my fault you thought you were responding to the same person. I can't respond when you just make up quotes I never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:47 PM
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I never dismissed that women got leeway to begin with. gain for the last time accountability is not some guilty plea it's taking accountability. You are still not explaining what these women need to be accountable for. Who are they hurting?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:46 PM
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''I personally disagree that majority of women do that, I’ve got lots of girl friends and no we don’t hold hands, shower together or have done oral sex on each other.'' Wasn't me. But yeah. Even the source you highlighted says 20%, which is not a majority anyways. ''This doesn't mean anything.'' I stand by this for the reason I already highlighted ''What data? That’s completely made up'' Wasn't me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:35 PM
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If you genuinely think that phrase originally came from feminists idk what to say other than irony on the projection. Plus if you're not going to elaborate how something doesn't make sense and just insist upon yourself then idk why I'm even bothering replying to someone like this that argues in a bad faith. Not that phrase specifically. You made that one up. Which is why it gave me a giggle. The actual phrase is "Equality feels like oppression when you're accustomed to privilege" Usually in refe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:31 PM
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That's an interesting quote. Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:20 PM
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I'm not seeing what you're seeing. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:19 PM
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I don't know that I am the one being irrational here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:44 PM
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...how do you propose you measure sexually coercive behavior on someone who has not been sexually active recently? Genuinely curious how that would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:42 PM
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Right..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:41 PM
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This doesn't mean anything. These are self reports. And we already know men are more likely to hide their homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:58 PM
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Accountability sounds oppressive to those who don't like it LMAO Y'all just love stealing feminist phrases. This doesn't even make sense, by the way. It's funny. The amount of times I've seen men in this subreddit rage at women for not accepting bisexual men. Meanwhile, there are several posts in here a week of men screeching for women to take "accountability" for not being as straight as men want them to be. For the record, more women identify as bisexual than men. However, and this is a big on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:56 PM
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I read that post. I didn't see any women doing gay acts and admitting they liked it lol. I saw a couple say that they experimented once in highschool/college, and specifically did not like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:47 PM
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The vast majority of women aren't going to deny that we are more emotional, in general. It is when you use that fact to come to misogynistic conclusions. "Men are more logical because women are neurotic" "Women can't be trusted in higher positions because they are more neurotic" The fact that you all choose to use the word neurotic to make it sound worse than it is, is proof of this. Yes, women are much more anxious, worried, and cry a lot more. But instead men will say women are neurotic to cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:36 PM
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No, I don't think that it is coercive to hit on a woman you don't know. That said, it sounds really weird. What do they mean by "target"? And using money, status and age? That's like saying a woman using her looks is coercive. In a lot of ways it isn't, but in other ways it very well could be. Lying about having money, status and their age comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:16 PM
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That's a different study - it's from 2023 It was published April 2026 Have not heard of any others tbh. Think you're mixing things up. These aren't upstanding people, but they're not criminals. The amount of men who used any amount of physical force was 10%, which is still too high, but nowhere near 95%. I am not saying they are criminals. (I was not the original commenter you replied to). But it is absolutely coercive and manipulative and tells us that we cannot trust most men when it comes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:48 PM
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Kinda agree with this. I had a friend who LOVED men, men LOVED her but...she also loved me. She hit on me all through highschool and took her chance when I was really drunk one night. I was disgusted. It was nearly 20 years ago and still gives me the shivers. Most men thought she was the hottest woman ever. I was still grossed out. Even drunk. I'd rather fuck a dick with a bag over his head. But I'm also really sex positive. I love dick. I love men. I was never weirded out or grossed out or scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:09 PM
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Incorrect. It invited all men of a certain age group. "A sample of 3,011 self-identified men ages 18 to 34 (Mage = 27.31) was recruited in the Spring of 2023 using an online panel (Qualtrics Research Suite) that invited all men who met criteria into the study. The study was described as exploring positive and negative interactions between men and women in sexual situations. The consent form indicated that the survey was men’s opportunity “to provide their side of the story given that we have hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:45 AM
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A vice article is hardly a source. There are more men who are gay. Conversely there are more women who are as bisexual. At least-outwardly.Bisexual people are the least likely to come out. And gay men are more likely to stay in the closet than lesbians. What does this tell you? The vast majority of people who are bisexual who are still in the closet are men Men have a much higher stigma when it comes to being gay than women do. Society says gay men are gross and lesbians are hot, so of course wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:01 AM
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You didn't post any studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:00 AM
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There's entire subreddits for "straight" men who both enjoy gay porn and have gay fantasies. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:56 AM
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You believe what confirms your paranoia. You'll disagree and argue with anyone that goes against it. Take with that what you will. I'm pretty sure men like men just as much as you find women liking women. Men just secretly fuck their besties but make homophobic jokes in public so you think there's less. There are literally subs on reddit for "straight men" enjoying gay porn but I've never seen the opposite. I've never seen weird dissertations from a woman about fantasizing about cheating on her …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:48 AM
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KillAllMen was genuinely funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:42 PM
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"I can't get a relationship I need the government to do it for me" These goons really do want to be issued a wife. Embarrassing to think. Even more embarrassing to type it out and hit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:31 AM
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States rights are mostly determined by the citizens of those States, which consists of women too. Shocker Except several states didn't hold a vote A few States DID hold a vote. But it was just for show. Because when the results came in and the people determined what they wanted (legal abortion) the state said, "Nope. Too bad. Nevermind the vote".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:29 AM
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They do this by losing attraction, losing respect, leaving, passing judgment and throwing those confessions up in men's faces during arguments or holding using it against him in other ways How are you equating interpersonal relationships to feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:23 AM
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Are you being dead serious? You think our government should focus on helping men get sex and relationships? You think our tax dollars should go to helping men feel happy? Can you point to any other time in history where the government has helped their citizens with interpersonal social skills? Ignoring the fact that this is actually an insane thing to think. How do you think the government will do that for you? Specifically..?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:17 AM
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They are stealing jobs from men This implys that the jobs were only for men to begin with. Which implys women shouldn't be allowed to work. Which implys that you want women to have to rely on men. Weird. I bet you're also confused when women call you a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:14 AM
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I bet you also would have an issue with women leaving a man/not giving him a chance over those "small things". A common phrase, "well didn't you talk to him first?!" Women really can't win here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:02 AM
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I'm 36 and it was the same 15 years ago. Most couples are <2 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:48 AM
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No, not in this context. Feminism is for men does not mean "women will never be shitty again". It means the current system hurts men too. For example, child custody court. In this case, the court system did its job. I am unsure what else you would like "feminism" to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:44 PM
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You can apply this same logic to men. Who commits the most crime? Who has a loneliness epidemic? Men and men. Maybe they are the ones who should have always been in submission?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:56 PM
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I grew up in a not so great area. Some of the absolutely lowest of low quality men were the ones who had boatloads of partners versus the more well adjusted better looking men. And their partners were equally low. It's not always tall dark and handsome business exec. Equally, if not more, it's dirty Joe down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:27 PM
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Well, I completely disagree with your premise, but I'm not interested in getting into an entire debate on sentencing discrepancies. Just know-you do not have the full picture. My point is-you'll always have an excuse for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:07 PM
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"Rules for thee but not for me" You could have just said that with a lot less words.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:58 PM
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There is a reason feminists say that "men get custody when they ask for it" but fight SO HARD against equal custody legislation Sounds like your mixing two groups together and acting like they are the same people. Criminal courts are strictly governed by criminal penal code. Everything is strictly standardised. Perfect. Then men do not receive harsher criminal punishments either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:50 PM
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I do. My point was, many men, more than likely OP himself as he's flared red pill, will say bad men are outliers and they aren't responsible for their behavior and it's on women to choose better etc etc. And then makes a post like this complaining about 30 shitty women, asking why we all aren't out protesting in the streets for this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:40 PM
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Nope. I think they're both outliers. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:36 PM
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Exactly. You're getting closer to the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:31 PM
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Sure, but there's Turning Point USA, which at this point, is really no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:17 AM
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And they only hear about it because it's whined about on some manosphere podcast, no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:17 AM
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You keep saying this like it means something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:15 AM
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So, by this logic there is no such thing as divorce rape and men not getting custody is their own fault, since the judge is always bound by legal constraints to give a judgement based on evidence. Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:13 AM
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Sure, bad men would conversely support other bad men with money instead. We see it every single day so I don't really know what your point is. If the men who say terrible horrific shit are outliers, then these 30 women are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:11 AM
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Reminds me of a tik tok I came across one time. A mom was recording her young adult son crying his eyes out because the woman he had a baby with up and left him with a baby, and it was really hard. And the mom was giving him NO slack. I like to go back and watch it every now and again. Men would never survive as a woman. (Yes, I made sure to say he should have chosen better. Had to, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:01 AM
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All they do is tell on themselves. Male projection at it's finest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:58 AM
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Most cases involve knowingly and willfully ignoring easily readable cues in the other person, because it feels good to get that kind of attention in the short term Bullshit. Men say that to women in here all the time. Meanwhile she's just talking in generalities and when he doesn't have a good response, it comes out. "Hmmph, well sweety maybe it's just the men you choose" You don't know that they were "knowingly and willfully" ignoring red flags. You don't even know if she is talking about herse…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:53 AM
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The fact that it is more difficult for men and they still manage to do it equally if not more across all age groups tells me all I need to know. Men have to go out of their way to cheat. And yet, somehow, have the most insane paranoia revolving around the woman they are with cheating that they've created a whole movement around it. Ironically, but not surpisingly, said movement just encourages them to cheat even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:15 PM
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Most of these women are not in a relationship. Husband material became negative because men in relationships were compared to hookup material. This actually happens? Like, a significant amount? Even searching reddit I cannot find any stories of married men/men in LTR being randomly told by their women that she would have never hooked up with him. I can only find single men detailing why it's so bad. A statement like that sounds like a relationship ending statement. I cannot relate. My husband st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:02 PM
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why then men see it as insult? I think that's what this post is asking. We don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:13 PM
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That's still true lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:25 PM
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I bet you don't see the irony in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:21 PM
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They're not the outliers anymore, is my point. K, well, disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:20 PM
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Yeah, I suppose I just see no utility in debating outliers. I didn't say that women are more mentally ill than men. Just that they are more diagnosed, which you agree with. I just don't see a reason to highlight that fact because it doesn’t actually mean anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:58 PM
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We have the most medicated population on the face of the planet, and the women are more diagnosed than men are This just tells me you don't read to understand Yes women are more likely to seek medical help. Both physical and mental. They are not being diagnosed more. They just seek help more, thus, giving women more opportunity to receive a diagnosis to begin with. If you never go to the doctor of course you'll never be diagnosed. But yeah. I don't know a single woman who married a man she doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:33 PM
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Well, no. The post is about both men and women, and what it means to be husband material and wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:10 PM
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Why do you care about what dysfunctional people think or do? They shouldn't be in your dating pool to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:09 PM
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Yeah I just don't know why you gendered it to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:07 PM
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No person can ever be sure how a relationship with their partner will look over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:02 PM
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Yeah. It isn't a reality so it's a shitty excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:58 PM
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Half of the posts are from women with a husband with low libido or choose porn over sex. What's your point? Some couples are a mismatch and should have never gotten married to begin with. How does that equate to ALL women marry men they don't want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:57 PM
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How does the first imply lack of attraction? That's literally just male paranoia fed to you by the manosphere. It doesn't even make sense. Women are looking for the most attractive, stable man they can find to marry. Such a weird assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:51 PM
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Why would a woman not fuck a man who is husband material? That's silly. She'll fuck him after marriage not before? Makes no sense unless she's saving herself for marriage. Your definition is the same exact definition for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:48 PM
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I'm 36 and I agree. That is an absolutely unbelievable statement. The fact that 70% of divorces are filed by the woman is proof that a woman provides more utility to the man than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:46 PM
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...I'm all ears
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:49 AM
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Which is such a crock anywho. Everyone absolutely judges a stay at home mom. My husband and I got pregnant unexpectedly right before I graduated with my degree. We kept the baby, obviously, but it meant that what I could earn wouldn't make up for childcare. It was the worst 6 years of my life, honestly. The way I was made to feel like a useless POS because I wasn't using my degree. Never again will I subject myself to that, and I will advise all women against doing so as well. The sad part is my…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:45 AM
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Have you seen how women who want to be housewives are treated? I don’t mean women who are currently housewives, since it’s too impolite to criticize their choice, after the fact. Society doesn't treat actual housewives well either. I stayed home for 6 years until our youngest started kindergarten. immediately went back to work. No one respects a stay at home mom. We ended up having a third 5 years later and I refused to quit my job again. And my husband was great about it. We always had a joint …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:39 AM
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I think the average woman is just more attractive than the average man. Similar to how the average man is taller than the average woman. Women didn't always put attraction first. Now they can. Here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:28 AM
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I feel like the vast majority of complaints in here are directly related to how children interact under 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:24 AM
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Seems fine. There are much worse posts in the Red Pill sub. Entire dissertations on why men should cheat on their wives with multiple women for the entire marriage and the comments filled with men patting him on the back. Imagine if you saw THAT in RedPillWomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:20 AM
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In a perfect world, men would just come with warnings on their foreheads. But it isn't a perfect world. Bad people get good things sometimes. Look at Trump. Terrible person. Great life. Everything goes his way. Absolute garbage human though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:20 AM
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This. And why would you marry someone so incompatible to begin with. Usually, by the time you get married, the couple has generally fully discussed everything. This isn't even a realistic scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:18 AM
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Honestly this is geniunely a stupid conversation. For one, who the hell gets married before knowing their partners sexual past? Why are you just learning about it after marriage to the point you are so butthurt you are giving ultimatums? This scenario literally does not happen. For two. Men don't leave marriages. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. This entire post is just a weird fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:08 AM
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You're the one moralizing it by saying women shouldn't select them for being "bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:25 AM
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So, it isn't actually your philosophy then. It's just childish indignation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:23 AM
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No, being penetrated is different Do you agree in the legal differentiating of Rape and Made to Penetrate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:14 AM
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So they could just not have sex, right? Men never seem to fully understand what they're actually advocating for lol I had an abortion. I was knocked up by my husband. I was young and couldn't find a doctor to tie my tubes or I certainly would have, as we already had two kids. I was also on the depo shot. Should we stop fucking our husbands until we hit menopause? Is this what you would like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:55 PM
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I had an abortion and I was on the depo shot. I got pregnant by my husband. It would have been our third kid, my husband had just had an accident at work, and we were young (25 and 27). We couldn't afford a third and made the decision together. Keeping it would have negatively impacted the actual children we already had. Or should we just stop fucking our husbands? Just in case?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:43 PM
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I've had an abortion. My husband and I had two kids under 3 and couldn't afford a third at that time, as we were both young and just trying to survive. I was on the depo shot and got pregnant anyways. It's funny because my scenario is somehow never what these dudes imagine. Married couples have abortions all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:39 PM
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He isn't, actually. He doesn't even really believe a fetus is a child. Otherwise he wouldn't have said this as justification for keeping abortion legal.. I think that things which don't harm others should be legal Proof that most men who are against abortion are really only against it because it punishes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:31 PM
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Imagine calling a child a medical condition. You don't even believe it's a child otherwise you wouldn't use the justification that "abortion doesn't hurt anyone else" to justify legalization. I think that things which don't harm others should be legal If you actually thought a fetus was a child that would mean abortion is harming others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:30 PM
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It isn't a separate human by any standards, biologically and legally, until it exits their carriers body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:22 PM
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This is a valid one. I don't think anyone should feel forced into doing anything they truly are not comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:52 PM
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Yeah I agree, personally. But I won't put that on other women. I know most women aren't into anal even though I am, for example. I don't really have experience with this as I've always been pretty sexually liberal. And I've been the most sexually liberal with the man I married. We've done it all. Hence why in my head, if she doesn't want to do it it is probably for a very good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:45 PM
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Yeah..I would totally understand if there's a specific trauma surrounding it, fine. Makes sense. But to just never want to do it and you've never even tried? It just confuses me how one could be attracted to a person, but not their genitals. I think, for me, sex would not be enjoyable if my partners genitals grossed me out in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:39 PM
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I would actually think the same exact thing if a straight woman was disgusted by the idea of giving her man head and have said exactly that to women who've said as much. Actually I've only heard some women say they think dicks are ugly or gross, which is just as odd to me. Because how are you putting your mouth on it then? We aren't talking about head though. To me head is a very basic part of sex with your partner. We are talking about either painful or degrading sexual acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:10 PM
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Yeah. I would not like performing oral on women either. But that's because I'm not attracted to women. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:53 PM
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Responsibility? I had a guy cum 3 seconds after sticking his hand down my pants before I ever even touched him. It isn't like men are doing anything special to make themselves cum consistently. Our bodies are different. I am not saying men are responsible for a woman having a more intricate orgasm process. I am just saying, don't complain when women don't want to sleep with you if you don't even care to try to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:36 PM
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Like what..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:21 PM
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This sounds like comphet more than anything I've ever seen men whine about here. It's always projection. Men are comphet. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:11 PM
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Arousal changes disgust sensitivity I mean..yeah? Absolutely. If I was disgusted by a man I wouldn't be having sex with him to begin with. That's what makes the whole topic so weird. But I am skeptical it happens often enough at a population level for guys to be spending CPU cycles worrying about. Agreed 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:44 PM
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Do men and women have the same genitals?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:42 PM
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Lol seriously. My husband must be a very good actor because he has been ferociously eating my pussy for the last 15 years. And, he's happy to just give me head and go about his day without expecting anything in return. Gonna go tell that man he needs a Grammy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:41 PM
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You guys frame everything with this angle of grape or man bad, it’s despicable. Let me tell you most guys don’t want to eat your stank coochie, but we eat that hairy muffin cause we know we gotta do what we gotta do. You woman disgust me Idk. If I was disgusted by my husband's cock I'd probably reevaluate if I was actually straight. Just saying. these guys do it and make that sacrifice Sex should never be a sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:22 PM
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And it's funny. Because men actually DO do their "reversed scenario". All the damn time. But whatever this paranoia is? Doesn't even happen. Projection like always.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:20 PM
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It's possible that the whole meme of her truly enjoying something with Chad when she was 23 that she doesn't want to do with her husband at 32 happens so rarely that it isn't a thing. That is a fair argument. That's just it. We don't see it actually playing out in reality so we don't know wtf y'all are on when you say this shit.. I asked for examples of this occurring on a previous post and every one of them occurred via casual relationships/one night stands..IF it even made it to that point. Us…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:14 PM
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Men have already been doing this to women since forever... Sounds like this insecurity is just another example of male projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:07 PM
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Then yes, many women have had this experience, so if you consider that force then that is what some men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:01 PM
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yet you still said repulsive, awful things about me for no reason other than that I am male Saying that men would be happy enough with blow jobs is repulsive and awful? Okay. Disagree. You're part of the problem, and you deserve to be reprimanded. I think you may have some bigger fish to fry. You're saying a whole lot without saying much at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:49 PM
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Where are you finding "only boomers" Using the dates of the studies, lol. Most millenials were barely adults in 2012 and Gen Z were all children A Swiss study literally tested this by having men of different income levels ask women for their phone number higher financial resources directly increased compliance, independent of look. It's of 2012 . https://econtent.hogrefe.com/doi/abs/10.1024/1421-0185/a000083?journalCode=sjp This is just the abstract. Where is the actual study they're referencing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:46 PM
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You are wrong about that, too. A lot of women are against receiving "oral". But anyway, I wasn't even talking about "oral"! Sex is not just "oral sex" either. There are many ways to have sex. Only one of them has a pregnancy risk. Erm..maybe at my old age of 36 I'm not hip to these so called other forms of sex. What else is there other than PIV, Anal (most women are not into this so I left it out for a reason), and oral/hands? I am not sure why you are taking this debate so personally that you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:22 PM
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Yes, I am telling YOU that because that is how many men are. If that is not how you are, then you are an outlier The vast majority of men will lose interest fast if she never engages in PIV with him. The vast majority of men only engage in oral briefly before they can't take it anymore and have to whip their dick out. You are reprimanding women for male behavior. Pointing that out does not make me prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:09 PM
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There is no "foreplay". There is no obligatory PIV. It's all sex! tell that to men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:00 PM
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Women in even Scandinavian countries heavily go for richer man for marriage and the numbers Haven't changed much significantly in the past decade The study you're referencing was surveying boomers. Not Gen Z and not Millenials.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:44 PM
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Thought what? That you have no point You are arguing against a woman stating pregnancy is a very real risk by saying sex isn't just PIV. We're aware. Most men are not. It's just weird that you are using it against women as if women are the ones against receiving oral. Women give more than they receive. Even IF he is into foreplay, he's still gonna want to get his dick wet in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:40 PM
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It's funny. Because the vast majority, if not all women, are pushing back against her saying this. But redpill/incels will take this as proof that "women think this way". She isn't doing anyone any favors here that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:36 PM
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Thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:29 PM
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What? Lol. So basically you just want women to blow you. Because a lot more women are willing to engage in foreplay than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:24 PM
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How would that be more logical? ...milenia of telling women they are whores for enjoying sex ...milenia of women being forced to marry just to survive ...milenia of men controlling the narrative of what a 'good woman' is How can we shape the behavior of people that generally don't want us? Everyone is shaped by the people around them and society at large. No one is immune. You just don't want to think about women's effect on men No, I just think it's a wild statement, all things considered. Like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:15 PM
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Women condition men into these mindsets by how they choose partners No. This is a very "chicken or the egg". We can just as easily say men conditioned women into this very behavior to begin with. And, it would be a much more logical stand point, all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:09 PM
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If a game suddenly changed the rules right at the finish line, the man would just rage quit. So women are really doing their relationships a disservice by doing that I get the logic here but this is basically framing men as brainless fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:57 PM
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Oh absolutely. Most women are victims. I am talking about the type of women who still hang around men like Andrew Tate knowing full well what a POS he is. I know women like that. Drug addicted, manipulative, criminal narcissists. Again, not a woman I would ever support a family member dating. They only care about themselves and money. A very tiny minority of women. But they do exist. These are the women these red pill men use as "proof" that women choose to be abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:53 PM
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Ah yes, all of the unchosen men are: Not abusive Not cheaters Great humans And also... Secret sex gods Makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:44 AM
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What? Who said that? The vast majority of men are just garbage at foreplay if they do it at all. Most men want to skip straight to PIV. Personally I can orgasm either way. But that's only because my husband takes the time to give a fuck. Lots of men do not. Hence-he is my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:40 AM
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It's usually just foreplay and the man lasting longer if we're gonna be entirely honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:38 AM
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Even if we're on top (my personal preference), if y'all are gonna cum in 60 seconds who is that helping?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:37 AM
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They have no idea how fucking amazing sex is when you both orgasm at the same time, and that really is sad. Seriously how lame. My husband loves it. My orgasm is extra pleasure for him, and vice versa. Our bodies were MADE to orgasm in unison. It is the highest level of ecstasy. And these dudes have never once experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:15 PM
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This dude is literally unemployed living with his parents LOL. He said as much on a previous post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:52 AM
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is because an invisible infrastructure of prosocial men is actively keeping actual, real-world predators at bay around you. This makes zero sense. So these "prosocial" men are keeping the midandrist predators at bay, but not the misogynists? Doesn't sound very pro social to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:41 AM
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"Here, we report that perpetrators of infanticide were predominantly male"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:39 AM
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Woman? They were both teenagers lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:36 AM
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The vast majority of normal well adjusted women would do the same. The women that you see with these men? Not normal and well adjusted. At all. Women are not perfect. The assumption here is that all women are above water, and choosing men who are below water. No. The women choosing those men have issues as well. And, notably, they are not a woman I would ever recommend my brothers or sons to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:45 AM
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But women should have this magical ability-eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:39 AM
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No, but are we going to pretend like this is the majority of cases? Do you expect me to assume that any time someone was abused, it was a 180 turn that came out of nowhere? Conversely you expect us to believe the opposite. In my 37 years of life, I do not know of a single woman who dated a man with the prior knowledge that he was abusive. Not a single instance. So I do find your claim hard to believe. That women are just knowingly going for known abusers and criminals, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:37 AM
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Absolutely agree. These are just long drawn out revenge fantasies. Very childish mindset. I can see where he is coming to his conclusion as I have children and it is very similar to the way that they think. Don't even entertain these guys. It literally feeds the little ego they have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:28 AM
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