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I don't understand how/why men keep trying to relate dating preferences to politics. Just because some of us are supportive of the LGBTQ community doesn't mean that we are also LGBTQ and want to date them. Equally, just because we believe all humans deserve equal rights does not mean we want to fuck all of those humans. And it shouldn't mean that. Just because a woman is progressive, by no means, means she suddenly wants a feminine man who likes to wear her undies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:31 AM
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Never really had one night stands but I did have a decent amount of friends with benefits and short term flings. I don't know what you mean by the first question. Are you asking about amount of partners or are you asking about sex acts? As far as partners, I didn't want anything serious while I was in college so I kept em all at arms length. But also, I did want to have some experience to know what I liked. For sex acts? My husband gets WAY more than any other dude ever got. WAY more. Idk what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:29 PM
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They do when they tell their husbands that they're not doing it correctly. Now you're making things up. Not doing something at all is not the same as not doing it "correctly". Most womens complaints are heavy around the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:00 PM
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Huh? What women are doing anything close to that? I think most women just want their husbands to be an equally visible partner and parent. If she's scrubbing dishes every night while he's sitting on the couch scrolling reels there's a mismatch there, no? And why are you automatically assigning childcare and housework as the woman's job to begin with? The kid and house belongs to him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:56 PM
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I disagree. Nice chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:36 PM
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What if the woman is taking on too much to allow her the time to do those things that she wants him to do. And what if she isn't? Editing to add: Those things she "wants" him to do are just basic adult responsibilities. He should already be doing them/sharing them so this question is irrelevant. Does her house have to be pristine in order for all of this to get done? Of course not. My house is NOT pristine because nobody has time for that shit with 3 kids. But I'm also not one of those women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:13 PM
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This is weird. I don't make my kids lunches and do their laundry because I think it makes me the ideal woman. I do it because if I didn't, my kids would go without. And I love them. I do agree that women often have higher standards for extras that I find stupid as hell. Especially mothers. And if they want to do those extras it is on them. A good example of this is "Elf on the Shelf". I refused to get that damn thing because I refuse to add something to my plate for no reason. This is how I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:03 PM
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I think for women as a whole work is a novelty and a lesser evil. Not for them personally, because most will have worked all of their lives, but generationally. Their mothers and grandmothers tell them they're lucky they can go out to work; they tell them horror stories about alcoholic, abusive (often shell-shocked from Vietnam or WW2, to be fair) men, and the expectation to have 5 kids or more. Men have been working for more powerful men for centuries, unabated. Unless we're wealthy or work for…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:44 AM
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I find it interesting that most women have the complete opposite experience. Most women see work as a welcomed break. A chance to finally be around adults instead of toddlers 24/7. A breath of fresh air. Do you think it's possible that it's because when a man stays home, he still has a lot of help and effort from the other parent (for example she packs the lunches, prepares the snacks, has their clothes ready) and women don't get that same luxury? Or do you think men are simply better suited to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:20 AM
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Yeah they've all just infiltrated the psychology of sex sub 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:21 PM
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How do women lie about weight?! Don't you have eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:56 AM
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I actually make more. But I work less hours, remotely, and he's a tradesman. We are both high earning. Who wins? Additionally, there is a plethora of data that also supports womens anecdotes. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:06 PM
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"We" as in women in general. But yes. My husband and I equally share it all. We both work. We both contribute. Hence I do not understand why so many men pretend like this is not what is occurring in most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:53 PM
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In my view, women often take for granted the traditionally masculine qualities men bring to the relationship that add value, like providing financial/emotional stability, fixing things, leading, providing safety, sacrificing their own needs/desires, etc. I don’t think women realize that these responsibilities are burdensome and taxing. No, we do. Because we either do them entirely ourselves, or equally share in that responsibility. Hence; they expect men to additionally split traditionally femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:49 PM
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>To be honest not really. Locker room talk is only hurtful if it’s said from a place of genuine malice and isn’t funny The vast majority is from genuine malice and is not funny.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/26 01:14 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Kill all men isn’t even a joke, it’s literally just a sentence. Dark humor needs to have humor in its, otherwise it’s just a gross ugly statement Understand how women feel, now? All of the male jokes. Locker room talk. It's hurtful. But we are just called weak and sensitive.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 11:41 AM
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Murder is murder just like how speeding to take someone to the hospital and speeding for joy are two different things but they're still speeding. Self defense is legal in all 50 states in one form or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:26 AM
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Feminists have been pushing Male collective guilt since its origins when they supported and drove many lynchings of Black men in the U.S. south Um. I'm gonna need you to source this one mate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:11 AM
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Why do some of you think that if a woman isn't getting one hundred percent of what she wants out of a relationship, regardless of if it romantic or platonic, she is being used? Because you worded it as if some men don't think the exact same way. "Why do women do this" instead of "why do people do this". Like I said, the hypocrisy between genders is just amusing. It just seems weird to gender something, in a sub where the opposite gender does the same exact thing, and much more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:12 PM
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See? Exactly like I said. I mean, that's exactly what I extrapolated from her comment. Not sure why you used it as an opportunity to shoot the messenger. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:26 PM
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I didn't read that as if she actually believed it. I read it as if that is the standard a lot of men set for women. And yes. I did come at you, because that looked like gaslighting 101. If you're being actually geniune, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:16 PM
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Not true for you, maybe. AF/BB is like the North Star for redpillers though. Hence my point regarding hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:55 PM
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I'm not saying he actually manipulated her. I am drawing a parallel. A woman doing the above would absolutely be labeled as manipulation by a lot of men. AF/BB is a whole redpill topic. Are you denying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:49 PM
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Except she isn't pushing a narrative. Again, she is just reiterating the narrative that men in this sub push. Why am I advocating for women‘s intrinsic value harder than you? Strawman. I am questioning whether you actually believe this or if this is just some weird attempt to shit on a woman. Why are you coming at me for suggesting a woman is worth more than what men want to do with her? Because men like you choose to attack women for repeating what a man says instead of the man who says it. Tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:47 PM
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What do you mean? She would just do exactly what OP did. Manipulate the man to extract what she wants (money) whilst stringing him along but never actually giving him what he wants (sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:37 PM
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Come on now. I think men would feel the exact same way if a woman he was seeing just let him blow all his money on her whilst knowing the entire time he was just her Beta and she had no actual intentions to sleep with him or stay with him. If nothing else this sub is just a giant smorgasbord of hypocrisy. My goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:47 PM
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Do you know what subreddit you're in? The vast majority of men in this sub do endorse that exact narrative. There's an entire daily post dedicated to it, it's such a popular subject. Why are you attacking OP for simply reiterating what the men in this sub say? It's an odd angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:44 PM
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Because the implication is that women are children who need to be told what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:29 PM
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The supermodels are dating equally rich more attractive men. Attraction is baseline for all of us. Men just put more weight into attraction and looks than women. It doesn't mean a rich guy will automatically get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:41 AM
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As far as superficial qualities absolutely. Men focus on youth and looks, women focus on stability and finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:36 AM
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i'm a bit confused, how did you jump to single moms and ONS exactly? correct however unfortunately many many women don’t get this till there single moms and wonder where the Chad went, (where are the good men) I assumed you were the same dude, as the avatars were the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:19 AM
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I feel sorry for your wife. Hope the divorce doesn't come out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:01 AM
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I mean this would imply the majority of single moms are getting knocked up via one night stands. I do not know one single mom who wasn't in a long term relationship or marriage with the father. This doesn't really check out. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:54 AM
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For me, nothing prompted it. I had a boyfriend all through highschool. We broke up. And I simply made a conscious decision to play the field in college. I did not want a relationship, as I wanted to focus on school. I also just wanted experience. I remember at most, I was just worried I would feel like I settled later down the road if I never got that experience. Lastly, I had a lot of male friends and I saw how much they cheated in college. I wasn't going to subject myself to that so I kept fee…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 02:04 PM
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Simply put, men fought alongside feminists to get them to where they are now. They saw the struggle and helped And a lot more men fought against it. Remember women who wanted autonomy were labeled as witches, and hung because women being independent scared men? Salem Massachusetts remembers. The same feminists who now won't raise a finger to even so much as aknowledge that men deserve rights too. I browse r/AskFeminists from time to time. They are the most supportive group of people when it come…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:25 PM
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Men have been bullied into silence by feminists who insist that any acknowledgment of men’s issues is misogyny. We’re not going to risk our jobs and reputation by stating that men who get sexually assaulted deserve support rather than ridicule. Be absolutely for real right now. First of all feminists are the main allies to men who have been sexually assaulted. Secondly, you say won't state that men who get sexually assaulted deserve support because you believe that will risk your job and reputat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:18 PM
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You’re assuming women always know exactly what they want Lol this is such a sexist thing to say. I bet you'd never say the same about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:15 PM
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LMAO Jesus Christ. That isn't how it works. What are you, 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:15 AM
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Also chiming in. I have a "high body count". Happily married for 16 years. Neither of us ever discussed it. It's really a silly measure, anyways. Most teens and young adults have low self esteem. And then they grow up and mature.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/26 04:17 AM
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I can make my husband a stay at home husband tomorrow. I earn more than him working exponentially less hours. He's aware. He doesn't want it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:56 PM
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I believe that there is a major difference in hate based on perceiving someone as lesser than and resentment based on a history of exploitation. I believe one is the result of bigotry and the other is not. Bigotry requires the bigot to feel superior. That is not what is happening here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:54 PM
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Honestly I don't think they even realize they're strawmanning. I geniunely think it is because men truly do not understand abstract concepts in the same way that women do. Like that post the other day of a man proclaiming that "women don't care about men at all" because on a separate post, women said that they do not get turned on at just the sight of an attractive man in public. A wild conclusion that no one said. But a conclusion nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:28 PM
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the main point is the sons raised in broken homes whose life outcomes are wrecked by their mothers over their mother's frivolous resentments of their fathers. This doesn't really compute. Most boys who grew up without a father, never had a father in their life to begin with. Their parents were never married and the man vanishes within the first year of life-if he even makes it that far. When it comes to divorce, no one is booting fathers out of their sons (kids) lives. I know several great men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:18 PM
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Ok- that's fine, but it directly contradicts what PieMart was saying. Women are given legal credit and appropriately acquitted when acting in self-defense, while she said they were not. And although adjusting for factors it may be true the men and women get fair sentences in this study (though overall in the criminal justice system in the present day- there is a well documented sentencing disparity adjusted for aggravating/ mitigating factors)- it still directly contradicts what she said that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:07 PM
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What is your point? This just reaffirms that hate from men is more dangerous and problematic. As women could never implement any policy that harms men in the same way men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:52 PM
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The problem is that you (in general) label women speaking about personal experience of abuse or mistreatment as misandry. It isn't misandry just because it isn't a positive statement. You label any and everything that does not paint men as perfect angels as misandry. Likewise, a man describing a past relationship where she cheated on him and/or was verbally abusive isn't misogyny. A man describing an abusive mother is not misogyny. Also, misandry is such a garbage term to begin with. It means no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:43 PM
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I thought AI posts were banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:30 PM
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Sorry. I just don't get it. The original analogy was made by a man. It was meant to ask other men this question in relation to their daughters. It was meant to illustrate a point, not demonize men. Women (and men) have always been wary of other men around women and girls. It's nothing new. On one end, you have women sharing traumatic experiences at the hands of men. On the other end you have men PISSED OFF at women sharing their traumatic experiences at the hands of men, and pushing to remove wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:45 AM
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No no no ya see I'm a bigot the the CORRECT PEOPLE is everything's OK. ? No idea what you're saying here. at the end of the day it's the same mindset many leftist just hate when that mirror gets held up. No. Like I said, it is the exact same mindset as black people not trusting white people. Leftists support that. They are being completely consistent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:20 AM
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Black people are called out for not trusting white people all the time wym. You will most certainly get looks trying to demonize all white people in society No. Most logical and mature thinking people do understand and it is accepted. It is really only racist white people that call it out as wrong. Similar to how it is only misogynists who call women wrong. Black people not only have a lifetime of microagressions at the very least, but also history of generational trauma. Exactly the same for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:18 AM
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since quite a few of them have had a bad experience with a minority they believe that they should also be able to vent there trauma and aren't looking for you to scapegoat there problems or experiences ethier. Except men aren't a minority. You have it flipped. It's more akin to black people not trusting white people. It's a wrong point of comparison. You need to keep the power differential stable rather than reversing it, which you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:06 AM
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Ironically, a man made up that analogy. The way that y'all equate women discussing their fear of men due to past experiences of men being literally scary and harmful, to men discussing taking womens rights away because they didn't like hearing women talk about their past scary and harmful experiences, is fucking insanity. And, if I'm being entirely honest, I do not believe any of you who make this claim. There is absolutely no way. I think, more likely, is that Trump made hating others cool agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:43 AM
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We already do. Hell, we usually end up "settling" for men slightly less attractive than us. It is men that always go for more. I mean. Men do the same exact thing in their careers. They apply for jobs they aren't even qualified for. Women on the other hand won't apply unless they meet all of the critera. What makes you think they suddenly flip flop behaviors when it comes to relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:03 PM
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Yeah. I think women who say they don't find most men attractive, are probably women who aren't entirely straight. I just don't understand how that's possible tbh. I am married and still see attractive men daily. A lot more men are attractive than not. I love men. But also, I have never in my life been "turned on" just by looking. That is what seems impossible and it seems that THAT is how men gauge "real attraction". Except women just don't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:54 PM
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I mean they're STILL like that. Even mens rights groups mainly focus on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:59 AM
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Agreed. Exactly like mens rights groups and MGTOW. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:57 AM
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Conversely, there are quite a few 30 something redpill/incel men in here who speak about being "ready to settle down" and "start a family". I wonder if OP thinks that they're too old too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:30 PM
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Not entirely dissimilar to a 19 year old kid who has never been in a LTR let alone lived on their own, trying to argue about what does and does not need to be done inside a home as a married couple with children. There's been lots of those in here lately. By the way. I am 36. I was 8 years old in 1998. I didn't start dating for another decade 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:27 PM
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Sure. It's possible. Some women don't like doing it at all. That's also valid. That doesn't really fit with the question though. OP asked why a woman would give one man head but not another. There are lots of reasons for this, and none of them have to do with "pair bonding" or "Chad". I listed two reasons. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:52 PM
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Oh wow. So you have to fill out a piece of paper. The horror. Women get stuck carrying some rapists seed around for 9 months. I'll choose signing up for something that isn't real, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:26 AM
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That’s why I’m convinced one of the biggest differences/upsets has been streamer culture going mainstream. And “anon edgelord culture” forum chats/gamer lobby style chats going mainstream. Aka women gaining visibility into how men think changed the game in just as radical of a way as dating apps did. Yep. Agreed. I refrained from saying it because it seems to really get em going. (I probably would not like the idea that I've been intentionally propaganized for the billionaires either tbh) 4/8cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:01 AM
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Quite literally, never. I've never randomly been turned on in public by a random stranger I see. I see attractive men pretty much every time I leave the house though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:26 AM
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Most are never reported..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:45 PM
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Except that most women who experiences traumatics experience where for men they choose, Incorrect. Most women who have been SA are SA by someone they know, yes. You are conflating that, with a man she chose. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:34 PM
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Men's public image has always been degraded in that way. That said, I can't empathize. Most women have had a traumatic experience with a man at some point in their lives. Oftentimes, most of the time, not a man they chose either. Men not liking hearing about that, and in turn, creating even more misogynistic spaces and ideals towards women, is effectively punishing women for being victims in the first place. This is why there will never be a compromise. Women are not going to compromise their hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:24 PM
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I'm sorry, are you actually being serious? If your partner has a higher SMV than you, the only detriment to leaving them is now you're single (and so are they). If your partner has a much higher salary than you, when you leave, you're homeless, without an income, and without a way to feed yourself (and children) AND you're single now (WITH a lower SMV because now you have baggage)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:41 PM
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I'm totally fine with generalizations. Just not when they're illogical or otherwise completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:26 PM
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The idea of “adaptation” in this context doesn’t make sense; why should it be on men to change their personalities? Why not seek out the personality you want and then do things to appeal to it , i feel both genders should do this It doesn't have to be. I agree. Seek out the personality you want. This is what women are doing. And men call that having too high of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:24 PM
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Yeah.. Like I told the other guy, women have had a much more intimate look into the way a lot of men think and feel due to the internet and thus, rightly so, have put their guards up. The things they are seeing, being the manosphere, redpill and the like. So again, painting it as if this is on women doesn't seem right. Everything was fine until the manosphere went mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:21 PM
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I think it's valid and the obvious result of financial independence. I don't think there is anything to blame there. Women no longer need to rely on men for finances. They want a partner. Thus, their partner needs to actually be that. And not just a superficial bank account. Couple all of this with the vitriol from men that women now have a more intimate view of due to social media and it is no wonder women have felt the need to build a fort for protection. I think, more than anything, it is soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:23 PM
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What is womens part? What have women done differently in the last decade?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:16 PM
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Right. So it isn't women. It's the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:11 PM
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Behave like what? I said nothing about OP. He asked why women would do that. I gave a reason. Why are you personally offended on OPs behalf?! 😅 Also, being selfish in the bedroom isn't being bad in the bedroom. It's being selfish. Like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:14 PM
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Do you have a source on this...? It's been fairly stable since the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:08 PM
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And yet...millenial men had the same women (who want financial equality but still wants to be treated like a woman, crazy I know) and managed just fine without screeching all over the internet. Most of those men are happily linked up. Thus..something else is going on with Gen Z men..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:06 PM
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Yes I had an ex like that. I am just saying, it is another reason. It was my reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:55 PM
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And maybe, he can't last for shit so she doesn't want to waste sexual intimacy on performing for him whilst getting nothing in return. Fast way to make her feel like an object for his pleasure only. He is either selfish in bed or has stinky balls. Either way it's on him entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:55 PM
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I don't ask. He just does. I refuse to live in a marriage where I have to bark orders at my husband like he's one of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:15 PM
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I appreciate that you've identified the existence of a criticism while simultaneously clarifying that the criticism remains critical of the framework through which the criticism itself is being criticized. The distinction between the distinction and the distinction of the distinction is, in many ways, distinct. My point isn't that your point isn't a point. My point is that your point points so hard at the framework that it forgets to point at what was actually said. By recursively contextualizin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:39 PM
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Yeah $90 sushi $19 coffee love island astrology the most overpriced concerts possible (the people who run these companies have testified about laughing at how they are robbing you blind in court) and traveling to other countries to post pictures as a socioeconomic status flex is very interesting. Why cant i find men who like me for me? These are my favorite comments in PPD because it comically illustrates exactly who men are picturing every time they screech about the "average" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:02 PM
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Her rebuttal is simple. It's that women are not men. We don't view sex and love the same way that men do thus, their relating sex to love via women's behavior is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:27 PM
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Seriously. I am dumbfounded reading this exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:21 PM
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That is what I meant by binding love to sex. It also almost completely erases romantic asexuality, where someone can experience romantic love without sexual attraction or interest.or romanticism that doesn't involve sex even in sexual relationships. So you didn't read to understand, then. Because SHE doesn't believe that. This is what men of PPD say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:19 PM
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Algorithms are fascinating. I don't think I've ever seen a post about a cheating wife or girlfriend 😅😅 I'm not saying I don't believe you. I just think it's kind of funny that women are fed the exact same thing in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:11 PM
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I don't understand this topic. Truly. I imagine most of the men posting about it are young single guys with no children? Conversely, most of the women with these complaints are married with children. You are trying to relate two entirely different worlds here. The dishes do need to be done daily. If they aren't, we don't have clean dishes to eat off of and cook with. If we don't have anything clean to cook with, we cannot feed our family. Building off this, meal making also needs to be done dail…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:34 PM
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Yes, I absolutely agree. It is certainly not all men. It is weak men. Men who oftentimes are putting up a fake persona out of fear. It is just a behavior as a woman I frankly cannot make sense of. I imagine that would make one feel like garbage. No one wants me for me. They want me for the act I put on? No thank you. It's sad for him honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:22 PM
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LMAO I'm sorry, what? Yes. How dare women want to make a good impression on a man they are interested in dating/marrying? As if this isn't just normal behavior of all humans. "How women move" cracks me up in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:11 PM
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I've been married for 15 years. I am highly confused how you think that my saying my husband started out as a fuck buddy, a man I have and have always had intense carnal desire for, equates to just marrying him for a stable marriage. Also, our bedroom is not dead even with three kids. Sex happens most nights. Amazing sex. That said, after I had our second baby my sex drive went in the shitter for a solid 6 months. So yes. I do have a little bit of experience to say it had zero to do with my attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:05 PM
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I geniunely thought you were the man I originally replied to. You sure are spewing red pill talking points. Also, stop blaming dead bedrooms on women. I've seen the subreddit. It is equally women complaining. Most women are absolutely attracted to their husbands. Women can't fuck something they aren't attracted to. Dead bedrooms don't pop up for a solid decade after marriage meaning there are other factors at play. You're connecting dots that don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:23 PM
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What makes you think you know anything about what a woman does and does not care enough about? I've dated men who were models. My husbands a very rough around the edges blue collar guy. The model men were more universally accepted as attractive, sure. But I have a much more carnal desire for my husband than any of the men I dated in the past. A more manly man if you will. And yes. They were trash in bed. My husband has been rocking my fucking world from day one. Attraction is a spectrum. Certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:05 AM
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Lol I have one like that. We were "highschool sweethearts". I broke up with him summer before college. Met my husband in my THIRD year of college. It has been 15 years. When I got pregnant, he told me "that was supposed to be my baby". Very weird. I also recently got a dm from a dude I briefly dated in college. Briefly! He is also still single and wanted me to know how much of an impact I made on his life. I was like 🤨🤨🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:39 AM
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Lol. Everything redpill says about women is really just projection. Women all settle. Women are always looking for the next best option. Women can't have past relationships or they'll be ruined and never be able to pair bond again. Sounds familiar. I would date a person, announced my romantic interests, then keep all of my other options away to focus on the one person I wanted to be with... Even if that means letting go of another option that was more appealing to me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:36 AM
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It's geniunely wild. I personally wouldn't want to sleep with a man if I had to pretend to be someone I wasn't in order for him to want me. It's so shameless and embarrassing that men do this regularly. And they're proud of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:30 AM
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From experience men who make their entire lives about chasing women are the most shallow, surface level men who literally have the most boring lives known to mankind And, they're ironically and comically, TERRIBLE in bed. I don't make the rules 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:16 AM
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There's also a bit of an opposite correlation between how attractive a guy is and how good he is in bed. The more attractive a man is, the more selfish of a lover he is too. So, it's probably because those men rock her fucking world like no other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:44 PM
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Not really. A lot of women, like I said, don't want to leave a bad impression and/or ruin their chances. Those women usually don't have casual sex to begin with. They are serial monogomists at most. I wasn't like that. I wanted to be wild and free and didn't give a shit. Interestingly, the way I acted was like reverse psychology. Men don't like it when you only see them as casual either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:40 PM
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This is assuming she reverts back to less attractive men for commitment. She does not. My husband was my FWB first. I actually did not want commitment. He wouldn't leave it alone. The idea that men won't commit to women that fuck them is silly. Most couples I know started out exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:33 PM
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I've never heard a woman say husband material in real life if I'm being entirely honest. Geniunely, it is no different than the way a man views an "easy" woman or a hot woman that is maybe also a drug addict. She's hot. You'll fuck her. But you would never commit to her. Same for us. Plenty of men that look good on the outside but are good for sex and sex only. That doesn't mean the man she marries isn't equally or more attractive. It simply means she wants to make a better impression on the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:27 PM
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Why do you think they're being used? If a woman wants a casual fuck she's gonna find the hottest person for the job. Exactly like a man would do. She's equally using him for a good lay. The only one not getting anything out of it are the men pissed she slept with him and not them. I truly don't understand this mindset. She wants to fuck. The "Chads" are willing to fuck her. But it's her fault she didn't turn him down and choose an uglier fella for the job? As if men wouldn't and don't do the exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:17 PM
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I haven't seen this at all. Seems y'all aren't getting the reactions you wanted. Half of us have no idea what the hell this post even is 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:10 AM
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This is what I was thinking. This is stupid. Men don't give a fuck lol. They'll still hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:09 AM
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even though she has reason to think it might not be the case This is the part you'd have to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:36 PM
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They started struggling more than ever before because women have a choice to only date men they're interested in for the first time in history. There is so much wrong with this comment. Gen Z are the first in history? Weird. I'm millenial and I chose my husband. My aunts Gen X and chose her husband. My mom is a boomer and chose her husband. Secondly. It's a problem for you that women have a choice...? Women are telling men they're less than with their actions. No. Women are telling you with thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:35 PM
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That guy has been stalking her and several other women in that sub all week. He admitted it on that post. He sent this post to her on the same post that he linked. He seems unwell.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 11:37 PM
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I can acknowledge that. Also, a lot of women can't afford makeup or were never taught/not very good at applying it, or they simply just choose not to wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:18 PM
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Let's see how well women perform when we remove the bumpers from their lane. Is the lane bumpers also the reason that female surgeons perform better than their male counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:21 PM
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but I have no reason to believe most or even 10% of single young men are like that This one's about 10 years old, but there's a reason people say they need a daughter to take care of them in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:02 PM
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I mean. The US is a western country with the highest population in the world after China and India. "Some states" is the population equivalent to "some countries" in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:41 PM
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Not really, no. I'm 36. I started moving left before Trump was ever President. And prior to him, political leanings were not split by gender whatsoever. Anywho, your claim just invalidates that other guys comment. Lastly, obviously if one side is threatening your freedom, you're going to be against that, no? It's a dumb point all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:29 PM
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See, this logic just doesn't compute for me. Maybe it was true for Boomers, but I'm not so positive it will also be true for Millenials and Gen Z. I was much more selfish and conservative leaning when I was younger and broke. It is an extremely childish mindset to want to hurt others because you're hurting. Which is really what conservatism has come down to. Maturity and higher income has pushed me further and further left.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:32 PM
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Male beauty is mostly facial bone structure, body frame and social status. And men can grow facial hair and literally double their league. Facial hair does a much better job at hiding an ugly face than make up ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:33 AM
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No. It isn't "alluding" me. It's that your point makes zero sense. Why do men always do this in here? Y'all always try to passive aggressively attack a woman's intelligence. It's quite a feminine trait if I'm being honest. Moving on. Your question: "Why are men always to blame" (by women) Okay? And men do the same thing in reverse. They will always blame the woman before ever pointing the finger at their fellow man too. And your questioning how two separate groups of women can have two entirely …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:37 PM
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Sure thing, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:05 PM
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Oh, it is. Just because you are struggling to connect the dots does not equate to being logically invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:15 PM
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Use your noggin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:02 PM
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I think it would be cool to act like a man. Because then I can womansplain blue balls and assert that it doesn't actually hurt to get kicked in the nuts. Because I obviously know better than the people walking around in their own bodies every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:56 PM
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And instead of just acknowledging that they pretend that progressive women are contradicting 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:14 PM
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I feel like 70% of women is a pretty good starting point. That 30% is going to be mostly older women stuck in the past, and will hopefully just naturally dwindle down with time. What is the percentage for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:33 PM
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I live in a country where 30% women will openly state in a poll that it is unacceptable for men to cry (ever). Seems to fall in line with the percentage of women who are conservative, so, where's the contradiction exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:47 PM
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It seems you've been missing the headlines lately? The birth rate keeps dropping. And the only reason it didn't die out before, is because prior to social media women had to pretend like they were having the best time ever, otherwise risk judgement and shunning. Now women all over the world can chat and share war stories. And what do ya know. Suddenly the birth rate is in hell. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:57 AM
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As a mom...yes? Literally all the time. They say it ALL the time. That is why there are so many "one and dones" now a days. It is that bad. Between pregnancy, breastfeeding, being the default parent for a solid 3 years because the baby is velcro, the tantrums, the chaos. Women are having one and saying NEVER again. I mean. Not me. I got 3 but mostly cause my husband and I have one hobby. But even then I completely fucking get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:55 AM
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And so are women. Like I said, two entirely different groups of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:24 AM
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being victims of suicide because men constantly ignore, dismiss, and belittle other men. Yes. There was actually a wonderful post in r/bropill of the importance of male on male emotional connections. You should read it. Look, I am not saying this all happens in a vacuum and men are the only ones at fault. But until men start accepting other mens mental health issues and actually being there for eachother instead of dunking on eachother and simply saying "man up", nothing anyone else does will ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:55 PM
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Not at all. The fact you believe that otherwise proves my original point for me. Thank you for that. Whatever helps you sleep at night bookie Are they good men because they’re actually good? Or are they good because they were rewarded for being good? So you tell me then. Do you not believe in the existence of good men unless a reward is in order? If not, what are you even complaining about? they still wouldn’t have a woman romantically or sexually interested in them for their entire life. Okay? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:09 PM
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Otherwise, the cheaters, abusers, criminals, addicts would be in the same position as the Nice guys. Faulty logic. The fact that OP along with many other women talk about how nice guys aren’t actually nice but are narcissistic people pleasing losers. There are plenty of good men. They just don't label themselves as "Nice guys" with a capital N. Say what you mean. Incels. You're talking about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:56 PM
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LOL it's like in those Facebook groups back in the day. Someone would get butthurt and make an entire post about how they're leaving the group instead of just...leaving. Because what they actually wanted was other members to beg them to stay. Something about "This is not an airport no need to announce your departure" type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:54 PM
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No, I did. So was I 🤭 Did you catch that?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:50 PM
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ok so it is just real life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:49 PM
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Just women and society, eh? Somehow men dodge accountability there. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:48 PM
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I literally copy and pasted the entire thing. That is exactly what was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:28 PM
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Likewise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:28 PM
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I hope for your cousin that he's not going to be part of the 50% of marriages that end in divorce, because then his suicide odds will go from 4x higher than wlmsns suicide, to 9x higher than women's. Lmao that is super weird of you. Wishing death on a stranger who just got engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:27 PM
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No, that's what you're doing right now. Are you able to read comments and know what you yourself said? This is ironic. Lilith: So instead of not being toxic, you guys wanna be toxic and manly? RedPill Dude: Yes Lilith: So it’s not about masculinity. It’s about getting away with being a terrible person. You: How dare you Bruh. Come on. Masculinity doesn't have to be toxic. But RedPill man said "Yes" to being both toxic and manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:26 PM
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Because they're two entirely separate groups of women. You are asking why progressive women and conservative women have two completely different standpoints..?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:20 PM
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Literally no one has said this. Y'all sure have quite the imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:13 PM
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No, I wouldn't call a system that killed men So, war? War killed women too. Also, for an example, WWI took in about 25% of men aged 18-31 (percentage of American men who fought, not died). Conversely, during that same time 90% of women had children. And 15% of those "women" were actually children themselves. made them into labor slaves, As you correctly pointed out, women have always worked so they were "labor slaves" too So your two points on the subjugation of men still don't equate to the sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:39 PM
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I don't think you'd have 30% of young men polled 300 years ago agreeing that women should be submissive to men like they do today, I think feminists put the idea in their heads. You think that feminists put the idea of submission (voluntarily yielding to men) into mens heads but you're not denying the existence of subjugation (forced obedience) in the past, and pointed to the recent implosion of "tradwifes" as proof. Tell me. What makes you think men born in an era where women were FORCED to obe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:12 PM
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Tradwife only goes back to the 1950s, yes. The lack of existence prior to that does not equate to women not being subjugated. Again. Absolutely crazy that you think that. Taking a bunch of what I can only assume as Bible quotes is also not proof. The Bible says a lot of things. Doesn't mean people and society at large follows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:52 AM
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I geniunely don't even know how big my husband is and we've been married 15 years. "Hunny can we bust out the tape measurer tonight?" 😂 It's such a weird question. As if we all have rulers in our pocketbook that we bust out for each encounter. I have NO IDEA what size any of my previous partners were either. It was just always: was the dick good? Yes or No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:20 AM
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Yes. The argument is that all of the fatalist nonsense incels spew is...nonsense. I live in reality where I see average to very below average men in relationships every day. Most of you live in a hyped up YouTube ragebait bubble that has ruined you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:12 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:09 AM
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I don't think you'd have 30% of young men polled 300 years ago agreeing that women should be submissive to men like they do today, I think feminists put the idea in their heads. This has got to be the top most delusional take I've read in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:51 AM
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Lol geniunely what do you expect when you just showed your own example of assholish behavior from men? Or did you think that your comment was somehow neutral? Anywho. Don't be suprised when you get back what you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:53 PM
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Except she was asked why she comments in this subreddit in general. Not just on this one specific thread. Nice try though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:40 PM
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Yeah. It's under the automod for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:29 PM
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It was you implying that progressive women are less desirable I didn't. Those were two separate points indicated by them being two separate paragraphs. All visually desirable women will have men clamoring to spend money on her regardless of her political leaning. Also, progressive women are a better bet for men who complain about paying for the first date/being a provider/getting divorce raped. As they are less likely to dream of being a stay at home mom tradwife with no career prospects. Lastly…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:17 PM
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Nah it's just that these men are pointing to a very specific sub set of women. The Erika Kirks, if you will. But yeah, I would say a lot of these men definitely do have a bone to pick with progressive women.. no? Hence-less desirable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:41 PM
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So you are completely oblivious to the existence and rise of tradwives, or..? I mean, I don't know any either, but I'm not naive enough to pretend like they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:38 PM
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Yes, most women are that way, I agree. I am that way personally. But some women aren't. And those are the women these dudes have issues with. The problem is, those women don't GAF because there's plenty of men who are more than willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:10 PM
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It does though. The automod isn't meant for actual debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:01 PM
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Lmao. Same. And I have a cozy WFH job that I have mostly automated. Most of my friends have much busier jobs (nurses and teachers) so it gives me time to be silly on the internet during the day. I think mine says top commenter but I really only comment in the morning/early afternoon and then I'm busy the rest of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:27 PM
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I've been married for 15 years. My kids are just older now and I work less than most of my friends do (WFH in finance) so I have time during the day to shoot the shit. I don't really think I have a bad attitude though. I'm just not one to sugarcoat. I don't care specifically because I am happy and comfortable where I am in life. I think this is more of a male trait you're trying to apply to women. Women love gossiping. Men only do when they're miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:24 PM
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This isn't a dating sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:19 PM
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That's nice. My overweight 5'7 younger cousin just proposed to his girlfriend of 3 years and she said yes!! (They're both 24). Oh also they met at school. Another day of not buying the victimhood men type out in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:14 PM
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So you were getting messages from men based on an avatar? And you don't think that's weird of them..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:01 PM
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Another Lilth take that is.... Completely fucking based?! I was unaware that the idea of women not jumping on every dick she sees was such a hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:58 AM
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she isn't just trying to convince women to be lesbian/asexual/not attracted to men. I just scrolled through her posts. I do not see any of that nature..lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:29 AM
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Her posts are just holding up a mirror to the men here and they don't like it. That's why most of them never address her post and just attack her. Way I see it anyways. I have yet to see anything "crazy" from her the way these men seem to paint her as. I keep waiting for the big reveal but all of her posts are based.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:21 AM
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Ah interesting. I see most of her posts as just holding up a mirror to what a lot of men say in this sub-hence the hate but no real refutations. I think it is obvious based on her wording that she is always referring to the men here and not in general, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:19 AM
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Honestly she's usually always right. She just says it in a way that does not coddle men the way they expect a woman to, so men hate it regardless even when you can't refute her points. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:59 AM
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Explain. Most desirable women have plenty of men happy to completely fund her life. What makes you think she's willing to settle for a guy who demands 50/50? You'd have much better luck with a very progressive woman who has a career. Bonus points-if you get married you won't be "financially ruined" in the event of divorce either. Win win!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:55 AM
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Great debate!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:53 AM
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I don't see how any of that equates to her being wrong. The desirable woman has plenty of men already throwing money at her. Why would she settle for 50/50? It's like a woman trying to lock down a fuck boy. He has women throwing themselves at him. Why would he settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:53 AM
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I mean is she wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:42 AM
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Sleep better from what? You're not making any sense. Idk if my husband watches it alone. I doubt it, unless he does at work or something, but notice how I care so little I don't even ask? Realistically I probably watch it more because I'm home alone much more often 🤪 Why are you so positive that a man watching porn is just this horrific thing for their partner? It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:15 AM
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I just don't really care. Not something I think about on any consistent basis to "accept defeat". But yeah. Go ahead and be scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:38 AM
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Wait, so you made a fake dating profile as a woman? Lol. Thats geniunely weird. Why do men always pretend to be women in the weirdest ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:22 AM
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The fact that I figured that was so obvious I didn't feel the need to type it out is a bit sad isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:50 PM
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And there is your fallacy. When DV statistics are brought up, it is usually because women/progressives/feminists like to paint men as the problem (a.k.a. "a romantic partner is the most dangerous person for a woman"), to which the response is that it cannot be a male-only problem because DV also exists in other relationship configurations, most notably lesbian relationships. Nevermind the fact that this isn't even true. If you actually read past the title of the study, you would find the questio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:29 PM
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Seriously. It's like all these dudes do is read the dead bedroom subreddit. Which, by the way, is half women complaining. Not just men. Married 15 years. We still regularly have sex. Kids ranging from 3 to 14. Average probably about 4 times a week and the longest we've ever gone was the 6 weeks required after child birth. We both have our own full time careers as well. Still find time for eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:35 AM
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Yep. But it goes so much deeper. Men also need to equally show up and be expected to. All of this would help men in the end. Slowly but surely it will erode the provider expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:58 PM
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No one is doing that. You can simply just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:15 AM
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No. Bitterness is worse than having charisma though. The abuse comes later. Why are you equating what it takes to get you in the door with behaviors once they are already in the door? You are all acting as if abusive men walk up to a woman, sock her a few times, and then they become a couple. Come on now. The bitterness comes from ones shitty outlook on life and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:39 AM
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Okay. One person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:13 AM
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Who said dating is a meritocracy? It by definition is not. Dating is chaotic and there is zero logic to it. Zero. You can't logic your way into emotions and sexual urges no matter how hard you try. That said, most people do find someone eventually. Yes. There are extreme outliers. People not mentally healthy enough to be able to hold a relationship falls into that category. Gently, I would not want to date someone who has mental health issues like you do. Women have to think far into the future.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:40 AM
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Ironically abusive men generally LOVE women. They are not bitter. Therein lies the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:30 AM
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Do y'all just like, stalk the women who turn you down for revenge fantasies? I don't know how those two things even relate. "She wasn't attracted to me and now she's with an abusive guy hahahaha" So because a woman isn't attracted to every man, she deserves abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:15 AM
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Could you just explain why men who beat the shit out of women aren't so easily detectable? Because you are open with your harsh feelings and toxicity. Abusive men are not. Absuive men have been manipulating for years. They start with their own families and work their way up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:12 AM
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Sure, people say that to you on reddit, because you are literally saying toxic shit lol. No one would ever know it by just looking at you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:10 AM
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You could say "taking sex off the table" is also a convenient reframe of the above 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:07 AM
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So then you agree, men choose to work hard labor jobs and they should stop whining to women about it? Or is that different?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:02 AM
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...because a child is 50% the woman's and 50% the mans regardless of which parent is receiving support. A salary is only for one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:55 PM
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If I were to do an inverse study and say what percentage of financial responsibility are all men taken care of compared to all women It would be substantially disproportionate. As long as you are only counting the help that childless women get. Because you cannot count the help a single mother receives against her without equally counting it against the man who fathered the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:50 PM
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Honestly reading through mens comments, the entire thing reminds me of how women call eachother ugly and slutty. It does the same thing to women as emasculation does to men. It puts these women in a different category. Not a "good enough" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:20 PM
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Sure, but he has to say so with enough time for her to abort. In reality this is already what is happening for most couples who unexpectedly get pregnant. Most women aren't unilaterally deciding to keep a baby if the father was very clear he didn't want anything to do with it. Most women are scared to death of becoming single mothers. It is a top fear for sure. Thus, most couples are making the choice whether to keep an unexpected pregnancy or not together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:53 PM
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No one said that. But it does mean leaving when you spot red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:47 PM
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If she was making the right choices why would she be complaining about them? And that is your perspective. Conversely, how do we know that the vast majority of men are not equally a bad choice? Going by the fact that women the world over somehow have identical stories? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:40 PM
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but what other advice can be given to someone who has choices yet somehow consistently chooses the worst among the choices available to them Unless you are that womans bestest friend in the entire world, you have no idea if she is someone who has "choices". Even then you just don't know. The problem is you (in general) apply this to EVERY woman, which is why now all women have "high" standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:38 PM
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No. It's the same conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:34 PM
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id argue that if shes constantly running into the same type of man with the same (emphasis here) behavior across all of them, I think everyone agrees with this. Obviously if someone keeps making stupid choices, they are also a problem. But the vast majority of the time, it is said to women who's husband of 10 years cheated or something ridiculous like that. It is always the immediate knee jerk reaction to every single negative behavior a man displays.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:38 PM
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Okay. I get that. You've said it several times now. It still doesn’t explain how that would help unchosen men be chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:35 PM
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Unselected men mostly went to war to die, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:11 PM
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https://www.cam.ac.uk/research/news/decline-in-the-number-of-males-involved-in-reproduction-during-the-period-of-global-growth https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10303451/ I didn't realize this wasn't common knowledge. There are a plethora of sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:07 PM
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For the third time, what would "admitting" we need to be attracted to you change for a man who is unselected because we are not attracted to him. He's still single, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:04 PM
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And how’s that biologically possible when attraction is subjective You answered your own question. Evolution is about genetic variation There have always been groups of unselected men since the dawn of time. We still see this in primates today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:01 PM
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Lol women don't get support either aside from very specific communities. Women are fucking cruel. I bet you haven't seen the trend of women telling other women, "Unless you're leaving him don't tell us". Women don't even want to hear other womens problems. And we certainly don't get support from men (which I am assuming what you actually mean-support from women)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:58 PM
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Except the other person said "men will be excluded from relationships and women won't admit the role they play in it". So that doesn't quite fit. Again, even if women "admitted" the obvious, the men will still be excluded. So what is the role women play in men being excluded? By the way. It is not a lie. The difference is mens relationship problems are front loaded and womens is backloaded. And the vast majority of neurotypical people already know attraction is needed first. Omitting the obvious…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:47 PM
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At this point it’s structural issue and that’s insanely unfair especially considering you’re probably widely being discriminated against over things that shouldn’t matter or whatever they “value”. Some people are just unattractive with no personality. Also, attraction is not "structural". There is no fairness in your looks or who chooses to associate with you. It's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:32 PM
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Okay even if women "admitted" it (apparently we have to spell out common sense?) what does that change? Absolutely nothing, right? So answer the question again. What role do women play?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:27 PM
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My thoughts exactly. He doesn't want people to empathize. He wants women to empathize. Women talk amongst themselves. Men should try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:24 PM
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My point is it is hypocritical. And if we divorced there would be no monthly check because I earn as much as he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:12 PM
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It really doesn't. Sure, some people are just evil and manipulative. But if you want your wife to stay home and not work, you've gotta accept the potential consequences of that. Which is alimony and child support in the event of a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:06 PM
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So I should have cared about her income because my wife is a gold digger? Then what wouldn’t that make me the gold digger? You’re a so called happily married wife, should we say the person who makes less in your marriage is a gold digger? No. I don't believe that at all. But what I often see from men who "don't care" that their wife doesn't work, is that if and when there is a divorce, they RESENT having to pay her alimony and child support. They RESENT having to split assets. And they will ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:57 PM
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Are you gonna be mad and call her a gold digger once she gets her degree with your income and leaves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:08 PM
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I mean expenses that are common for all people, like: clothes, accessories, personal care, eating out, holiday travel. Except..for studies that really get into the nitty gritty on who spends what..it turns out men are much more likely to spend money on "vices" like toys (motorcycles/boats), alcohol and tobacco and women on necessities, like household goods, personal hygiene care and pet goods. https://financebuzz.com/male-vs-female-spending-statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:57 AM
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Women tend to spend larger percentage of income on consumption, men save more. ...did you even read your own article? They don't save more because they are just better savers. And women spend more because women are the ones buying the groceries, buying the family clothing, buying the families toiletries. Plus women need more both hygienically and to keep up with societal imposed beauty standards. Even getting our haircut is exponentially more expensive. Men can wear the same exact suit for every…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:53 AM
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I don't know what you're talking about. I'm not the one who said that. I am questioning the dude who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:24 PM
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I want a proactively protective man who is vigilant and aware of threats, danger, hone security, survival, emergency preparedness. we live in the woods, there are bears, fire risks, etc, Right. And my question is, how often is this actually happening to equate it to men being a "human meat shield". The implication is that men protecting women is killing them. I guess I just don't see this in reality much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:19 PM
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Cause they can't stick it in her hole anymore 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:16 PM
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What's your basis of this statement? Statistically, married men live longer than single men. Seems women are doing the opposite of what you claim. Like, how often does a husband protect a wife from an intruder? How often does a husband protect a wife from a wild animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:07 PM
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It's funny because you're a misandrist. Impossible. There is no systematic oppression of men. Incels laugh at the misfortunes of women How is being selfish in bed laughing at the "misfortunes" of men? Quit being such a sensitive Sally. My God. Women call men misogynists for cheering on rape jokes. Men call women misandrists for calling selfish men selfish. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:17 PM
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I recently said this on a post of men refusing to go down on their wives but expecting regular blow jobs. It's funny and true. I don't know how that's "misandrist" let alone "extremist". That isn't hating men. That is making a point that a lot of men are crappy partners. But also I could care less about porn. My husband and I watch it together. You're conflating a whole bunch of stuff here. You are assuming women are like men and think like men (the incels you made an example of) which is the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:29 PM
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Meh. I don't really give a fuck about porn. I find women who try to regulate/ban their boyfriends/husbands from it are delusional. It's fighting a losing battle. I would be irritated if my husband tried to control me like that and I probably wouldn't stop. Now add a man's libido and gooood luck. My husband and I watch it together. And I really do not care if he watches it alone. It has never been a conversation in our 15 years together. Sure if he's choosing porn over you, paying for it, using O…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:24 PM
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Are we talking credit scores or relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:29 AM
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It is. I said the same thing as her in another comment and that's exactly who I was referencing. Geniunely. I highly doubt men would be into it if suddenly all the ugly, fat, drug addicted mental illness having women started chasing you. When you're an average woman, you aren't getting "Chads" thrown at you left and right. It is the men I described above with a small sprinkle of average normal men. Men have this ideal about who women are. Y'all really don't notice average women. And you pretend …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:28 AM
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Everyone starts at 0 Also, what does being an influential person have to do with regular degular people's dating lives? Seriously. You fuck the wrong dude and it's even worse than bad credit. At least that falls off after 7 years. You fuck the wrong guy in 7 years you'll be signing his kid up for 1st grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:50 AM
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Every rich person would say the opposite those mfs aren't afraid of debt. Yes. There is good debt and there is bad debt. I'm talking about bad debt. Ya know. The kind that follows you around for years and ruins your credit score. Elon becoming a trillionaire has put the world in upheaval, it's a possibility people might go insane after seeing a fucking insanely wealthy guy becoming more wealthy. It's whatever. He was already a POS. Not shocking that his wealth keeps growing. Hardly news imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:31 AM
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Actually that is exactly how it is applied in practice. Don't forget that prior to about 10 years ago, if a woman had even a drop of alcohol the police would automatically drop the case. Women up until recently were victim blamed. "Well you were drinking, so 🤷‍♀️" Maybe there have been a few mistakes and over corrections along the way, but it is nowhere near how you claim it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:27 AM
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Or, they try to trick the girl into doubting what happened so they can get that case closed quickly. Detectives HATE investigating rape. It's a hard crime to investigate that takes up a lot of time. Much easier to convince the girl to recant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:23 AM
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And frequently the only people I've seen making light of underage boys being preyed on by older female teachers is... men. The stigma is coming from inside the house. This. There was a teacher on the news locally a few months ago. She was young and "cute" (but also married). 99% of the comments from men were cheering it on. Men I know personally. It was women arguing with men about how wrong it is. Because we have sons! I would raise HELL if it were my kid. And this same scenario plays out every…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:19 AM
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I mean just go to the nail aisle bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:09 AM
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Y'all just love stealing our lines 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:08 AM
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Debt isn't always good boo boo Also, TF does this have to do with Elon 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:07 AM
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Hey maybe you see why we get such an ick every time you incels whine. 😂 You're telling her to touch grass yet you're the dude obsessed with straight women being lesbians because they won't give you a chance. Be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:54 AM
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Nah more like your hot dog is soggy and there is no bank account, just credit cards and a lifetime of debt!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:52 AM
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Also, what makes these guy gross? Not OP but usually they were fuck boys with STDS who would stick their dick in anything that walked. Or, they were old weirdos hanging around a bunch of teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:50 AM
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It has never been nice to me to be wanted by a man I did not want in return. If anything, it made me feel more lonely, more isolated, and more like I would not find love. Right? And the men who chase like that were almost ALWAYS nasty, creepy, or old weirdos. I am 1000% positive men would be just as weirded out if suddenly, women were after them like hotcakes, but it was only the weird, fat, old crazy drug addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:48 AM
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Are you just trolling or do you genuinely not see your own hypocrisy? Women constantly make out with strangers and post half naked pictures at the beach Tiktok is not real life I'm not interested in your colonial language Also, it is only in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:03 PM
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This topic was banned last week for a reason. Quit it. Women are not comphet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:45 AM
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Hell, forget stay at home mom. Is she even a mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:41 PM
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Nice Try
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:57 PM
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The men that do that were often the love of her life. You are asking to idealize a reality that does not and has never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:58 AM
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Having no job at at all is a completely different subject. It is literally the subject of this post. And yes. They often do treat women like garbage when they stay home. If it was a good and safe option more women would choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:50 AM
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Also I believe men don’t like the extra drama, lack of respect and heightend expectations that comes with women earning more than you. You just answered why women would rather choose a career than to be submissive to a man. They don't like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:44 AM
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My theory is men have less of an ego. Except a lot of men hate it when their wife makes more money than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:29 AM
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I mean they do. They always have. They have NEVER wanted women to talk. This is why things are so bad for them right now. With social media, women suddenly have the ability to talk to women ALL over the world and they are realizing-we have almost identical experiences the world over and actually, no one is enjoying it. In the 50s, even when women had friends they wouldn't want to tell them they are actually miserable so they played the part. Men liked it that way. Kept us stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:25 AM
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Exactly. Who gives a fuck. Women have always known they have to be a certain level of attractive to get a man. They don't reach adulthood and cry about it. Does it suck? Sure. But a lot of things in life suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:18 AM
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Even if it was true, it is not a "serious" topic at all. Women want a man who makes more. Men want a woman who's hotter. Who gives a fuck? This is basically how society has functioned since we escaped the caves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:16 AM
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Its called PRISON. They are giving rad fems ammo with this. And then they wonder why they say crazy shit like men should just immediately be locked up at 18 until they prove their worthiness. Also men: If you don't date us we'll beat you up!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:02 AM
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Wait, do you seriously think not cleaning a singular thing for 6 months is a viable way to care for yourself and your home? I bet your house smells very bad..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:00 AM
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LMFAO Your house will get moldy and disgusting. You'll have to do more work than if you just cleaned as you went. You ruin wood finishings, floors and baseboards. You let clutter pile up now you have a rodent and bug problem. It's the fact that you can understand you need to take care of a vehicle but not a home 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:52 PM
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Well I don't live in Germany so why would I hear about it? Everything I stated is a fact in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:14 PM
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Question: Why do women need their partners vetted and not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:54 PM
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You also said, "No apology but she's a woman". We can just as easily say the same about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:32 PM
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And at the end of the day, not cleaning your home more than twice a year would be just as ridiculous as waiting 3 years before your next oil change. Or mowing the lawn once a month instead of weekly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:30 PM
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I also note your complete lack of first-hand sources for what "women are admitting" That part gave me a giggle. As if it's some big revelation that women would actually like to relax sometimes too and when their husband hoards all the relaxation time, she is annoyed. The horror. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:58 PM
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That's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:56 PM
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If I'm reorganizing something that is on me. I don't expect help with that. So I'm going to hazard to guess that is not the core of the problem. The core of the problem is probably that she also worked all week, so she has to grocery shop on the weekend and she prefers to knock that out first thing in the AM so she can actually have a weekend too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:52 PM
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Your image of men is a very toxic and untrue one. It's 9PM. The children haven't eaten yet. They are cranky and tired. Dad's sitting on the couch scrolling reels. Mom is finishing up reports for work. Who's move is it next? Mom's. Because he won't fucking get up. She takes it upon herself, claiming that if she didn't do it, then it wouldn't get done, Little Timmy needs clean pants for school tomorrow. Dad said he'd do it but now it is 9PM. Baby brother still needs a bath. Dad's relaxing again. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:34 PM
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No, they wouldn't if they were solely responsible. But since they have a wife, they know she'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:17 PM
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Being that these inequalities are mainly seen in couples with children (Childfree couples are more egalitarian ) the husband doesn't really get to just decide he's okay with the way things are if it directly impacts the children they have. So what happens then, is the woman has to pick up the slack. You can't just not wash their clothes, not grocery shop for them, not meal plan for them, not cook for them, not clean up after them (all dishes are dirty you can't cook), not bathe them, not take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:06 PM
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Women are coming forward to say that they want to be able to relax and enjoy their home as much as their husband gets to? Wow. What bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:42 PM
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It cracks me up that these men in the manosphere seem to know about all these "terrible feminists" that most women have never heard of, as some kind of proof that women follow her words. They just need a boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:36 PM
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How about that my female peers where getting trained in applications and Job interviews while we boys where not? I've geniunely never heard of this. Sounds like bs to me. How about how my male peers were able to speedrun directly into a career into the trades whilst my female peers all had to pay for a 4 year degree to earn a fraction of the same? How constantly a large pool of Job openings was reserved for girls and women only and we boys Had to compete for some crumbs More bs.. It sounds like …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:34 PM
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"I want to have my cake and eat it too" Also. "Men sacrifice their happiness for their family uwu 🥹" Meanwhile he's cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:06 PM
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We can and we do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:05 PM
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The irony is, men often suggest opening a marriage only to run back with his tail between his legs because he can't find anyone, and she can. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:04 PM
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Sure, and said partner can file for divorce, child support and alimony, because the partner has no right to tell you otherwise. This is very simple. Not sure what the debate is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:59 AM
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Nowhere in her comment did she say that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:58 AM
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"Stop" feminism? What does that look like to you? I am just wondering what a dead woman has to do with feminism today. But still this was used as an arguement all my life to make my life harder Do you have examples of how your life was made harder because you had the knowledge that women only earned the right to have their own bank account within the last generation? while still telling me how i'm supposed to be privileged and should just bear IT and Shit Up without any metric backing it up. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:08 AM
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I suppose if you're just a lazy type of person. Personally I am a very independent woman. I like people. I like my career. I like my money. Never in my life have I yearned to be a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:53 AM
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No one is entitled to anything on a micro level, no. But morally, I still care about things even though they don't effect me. Especially if my "not caring" directly hurts others. That may be why I was chosen and you were not. Empathy is a sought after trait in a partner. You don't have it. As far as non-voters, I'm kind of neutral on that. As again, my empathy helps me understand the perspective of those people who feel like their vote doesn't count anyways. The system is rigged against all but …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:46 AM
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Unironically, that sounds like my country, and a western one LMFAO No it doesn't. Only women have reproductive rights here What a cowinkydink. Only women can reproduce! Talk to God. their medicine gets HUGE funding and men's nothing Yes, there is more funding now because womens health has been ignored since the advent of medicine. Our bodies are more complex. Talk to God. Funding for endometriosis, a painful and debilitating disease only women can get, receives a FRACTION of the funding received…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:09 AM
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What? Editing to add: I ignored your other point because I really don't give a fuck about your whining about women getting abortions. You don't care about the fetus. You just care because you feel like she's getting something you aren't. Life ain't fair. We can have this conversation when males get pregnant. Until then, don't care. But also, you ignored my entire comment. Because exactly 0 men in the last three generations have been drafted. And you know I'm right hence why you jibber jabbered a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:50 AM
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Also the draft. You may think it shouldn't be there but is isn't "shouldn't" land this is reality where "it is". How many American Gen Z men have been drafted? Millenial men? Hell, Gen X men? How many? Editing to Add: No one wants to answer this because they know I'm right, and it's their favorite victim complex. Can't have that! 😂🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:28 AM
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Technically he isn't. It's just that society is stupid. Don't you remember 2015? His entire cabinet and all of Fox News HATED him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:25 AM
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Whoever she is, died before I was even born, and I'm one of the older ones here. How is she relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:24 AM
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Also the average relationship ends after just 3 years on average, Wild. I must not know anyone average. I know only one couple who divorced. And it was because dude got caught cheating red handed. Most of my peers have been married at least 10 years at this point. I'm 36, BTW. marriage rates are also at an all time low. Actually marriage rates have been holding steady since the initial drop in the 80s when no fault was repealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:15 AM
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Yeah I graduated college in 2012. Millenial, but still, have friends between 30 and 40. Most everyone is married. And the ones that aren't? Fuck boys who never had issues getting women to begin with. I do know one singular guy who hasn't had any luck. But, he's overweight, has spinabifida (disabled-cant really walk well but also smokes and drinks all day every day), smells bad, bad teeth, lives in a hoarder house with his mom and 80 billion cats, etc. I tried helping him back in the day and he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:12 AM
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Chad is just the boogeyman conversation ender. Concedes point. But only applies to Chad. Argument dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:15 PM
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They just aren't supportive of it being enforced. They support a woman choosing her own destiny. At the very most, they may encourage women to ensure she is financially sound and protected (having her own access to money and contribution to her own retirement account for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:48 PM
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Nope. My husbands very in tune with his emotions and others, but you'd never know that by looking at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:59 PM
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Cool, so you think you can make yourself attracted to a 6 foot tall hairy woman with a shaved head?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:44 PM
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Like I said, I wouldn't call myself a feminist. But even if I was, it isn't an oxymoron. You cannot change what you are attracted to. Since you believe feminists should want feminine men, do you want masculine women? Maybe one who doesn't shave, burps and farts in public? By the way. Feminists even say we can all choose our own destiny. Meaning, if a woman WANTS to be a stay at home wife, she can. The point is that she gets to choose. Just like I get to choose the kind of man I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:39 PM
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Also, feminism preached men to be emotional and submissive, the fact women who claim to be feminist reject those characteristics in men and even shame them as you're doing shows your pure irrationality impulse. I mean men can be whatever way they want. But I've never really heard of asking men to be submissive. Higher emotional intelligence? Absolutely. That said, it doesn't mean we have to be attracted to feminine men. I wouldn't really categorize myself as a feminist per say. I agree with a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:28 PM
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men don’t care about themselves nearly enough to prioritize personality. We know this. We are glad you are admitting it. But please stop blaming women for it. This is just like how men say they don't care about a womans career then cry foul when they divorce 10 years later and he has to pay her alimony. Guess what? Had you cared about her career you wouldn't be in that pickle, right? That’s how lacking in personality women are, when men deal with women it’s “grit your teeth, bite down hard and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:53 AM
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Lmfao that video is both ridiculous and hilarious. No wonder the men in here are so brainrotted. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:43 AM
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I don't think anything is wrong with her tone. I agree. The redpill/blackpill mens posts are exponentially worse, and it's all of them. Not just one. Like I said, they just don't like her tone. Men think they should be coddled by women. When we don't we're "bitches".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:26 AM
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It isn't even what she says. They just don't like her tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:25 AM
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There's also more dudes in here. Especially of the incel variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:21 AM
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I don't have evidence We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:15 PM
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if he doesnt care about womens rights, because he isnt getting laid then who is he causing a problem for? I am baffled that this has already been explained and you still don't get it. Women in the half of the United States have lost their rights to bodily autonomy. Some have even died. How is that not causing a problem for anyone? That would be like me voting to reinstate the draft and saying, "Well I just don't care it isn't like it's hurting anyone".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:10 PM
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by being in a relationship with a man willing to provide for me. Whatcha gonna do when he leaves you at 40 and you have no work experience, savings or retirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:01 PM
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Your whole post is basically "i don't see it so it doesn't exist". Yes. To your claim about what women claim abuse is Hyperbole to prove a point.. notice no one challenged me saying "there is nothing a woman can do to a man that is abusive" .. no one is saying that claim is ridiculous or idiotic.. again it proves my point. Probably because everyone else was like me and didn't even read the rest of your comment after such a ridiculously flippant statement trivializing abuse. It is not true that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:44 PM
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What are you talking about? Please highlight where I denied that men can be victims of abuse? My comment had nothing to do with that nor did your comment that I replied to "A man breathing too loudly is abuse these days". I was refuting your idiotic claim that women think not buying her a Chanel bag is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:32 PM
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You don't think men did horrible shit to women as they fought for their rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:18 PM
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Yes, however I am more referencing the way women in the US are treated ever since RoeVwade was repealed. That poor woman didn't have to die, but they let her die anyways and then kept her body going just enough to continue gestating the fetus. Or, North Carolina just introduced a bill to allow anyone to use deadly force on a woman they suspect is going to get an abortion. And this includes certain birth controls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:45 PM
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Honestly at one point I would have said the same as you. We all have our stories and hurts. But man. With this red pill shit? The entire ideal is to maliciously manipulate women. That's going to cause a lot of emotional damage. At least women aren't out here spreading self help manifestos to ruin a man's psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:02 PM
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No. You do. This sounds like some dumbass tik tok you saw. Get off the internet. Most of my friends are married. Most of my family members are married. I live in the suburbs, talk to all of my neighbors and they are all married. I have 3 kids who are involved in sports so I talk to all those families too. Everyone at my work is married. I am constantly interacting with people coupled up. I have never once had a wife tell me her husband was abusive because he didn't buy her what she wanted. In fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:49 AM
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Same. My son has recently started expressing interest in joining the military. I wanted to vomit. Meanwhile, it is his Football and Wrestling coaches hyping him up about it. I am really hoping this is just a phase (he just finished his Freshman year of Highschool) because I literally cannot handle the thought of him going to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:10 AM
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I think women deaths are taken more seriously because we are not usually a physical threat so it makes them seem more injurious. Of course, men's lives matter just as much. I believe the reason is less forgiving. I think women are simply just "protected" more because they need us to have babies. I mean. Look at how they treat us as soon as we do get pregnant. We are suddenly expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:55 AM
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Jesus hell y'all are beyond help 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:48 AM
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It's not a red pill forum in disguise it is just flooded with Red Pill and Incels more than the other way around so there's going to be a LOT of descent especially on posts like this that they can't deny so they just downvote you to shit instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:47 AM
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Petition to ban the mention of Ukraine unless the user is confirmed to be Ukrainian. This would be like American women bringing up women in Iran as a gotcha. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:45 AM
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Misandrist is misandrist for disagreeing that misandry is not more harmful than misogyny. So then that would also make you a misogynist for denying misogyny is worse than misandry. Fantastic logic. No notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:42 AM
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Here? Being that my comment was based on what men say in this subreddit (Like I mentioned) and you said I am imagining that. So go ahead. Make a post in Purple Pill telling us all about how men would actually love it if women had body counts of over 50 different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:18 AM
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Make a post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:16 AM
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The data shows the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:16 AM
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I'm sorry, what? So you're saying men DO want women with extremely high body counts? If so lets shout it from the roof tops together!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:13 AM
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Wait what 😂😂😂 So in order to really like men...women are secretly, deep down, men? That sure is some logic.. So to be clear they believe we are all comphet?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:47 AM
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The thing is, men are equally bisexual. They are just shamed into hiding it. I mean. How many lesbians do you hear gloating about consistently fucking other mens wives on the DL? Rare. But I hear the opposite from gay men constantly. And how about the Grindr crashing "meme" every time a certain political rally is in town? Women are just allowed to be more open with it because "lesbians are hot. Gay men are disgusting". Or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:03 AM
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Great! That should mean every comment mentioning Chad should be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:54 AM
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I feel like this Chad shit should fall under Black Pill too. Same fatalistic nonsense repackaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:04 AM
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Because men are hot and I liked sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:55 PM
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No, I do. I don't think OP even said she had a problem with men not wanting to commit. She just said men want a cheat code to getting women. They can totally choose to do so. But that is just the reality behind most of the complaints here. Women aren't as logical as a video game, hence, frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:37 PM
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The vast majority of men tried locking it down.. The only one who it actually worked with is now my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:23 PM
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I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:22 PM
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Men think that if they still want to fuck women then their opinion is favorable. Look around this sub. The vast majority of men saying horrible shit still want to fuck women. Women are the opposite. If they say they are decentering men, they aren't fucking them anymore either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:12 PM
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Sure, have you also seen it broken down by age and race? Funnily enough-this also explains 99% of mens questions/accusations in here. "Women say THIS but do THAT" There's your proof right there that we all aren't the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:19 PM
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It isn't that I think women are smarter than men. I think they just have different strengths than men that does make them better equipped for schooling and professional careers in its current iteration. I geniunely don't believe the education system was geared towards girls. I think it was geared towards making people good worker servants. And it worked good enough for men. It just so happened that it was better suited for women. I do agree that boys absolutely have a different way of learning t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:34 PM
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Well you're ignoring the diffeence between physical sex characteristics and things like policies supporting groups in education. What are you talking about? Men are innately stronger than women. How do you know women are not innately smarter than men? Again, there are no policies that are holding men down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:41 PM
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The point is that when we see an imablance, favouring whoever, we either should work to fix it or not. Should we also fix the imbalance of strength between women and men? Men in general are stronger than women in general. This favors men. Fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:30 PM
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Care to try that again? Men do not acknowledge ugly women. They continuously harp on about women having all the options and men having none. When really, it is average to attractive women and men having all the options. Men never mention ugly women with no options. Almost as if...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:12 PM
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So it is impossible for women to simply be...better? Also, these statistics are extremely recent and people are talking about it obviously. I just don't know what we could do there. Women were given equal footing as men and they just so happened to surpass them. The only reason why men surpassed women before was due to systemic policies. There are no systemic policies keeping men down. At all. In fact there are still systemic policies keeping women down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:08 PM
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Hey that was one of the most honest things I've ever heard a man say in here. At least he's admitting they are trying to manipulate women. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:40 PM
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A guy who's just kind of "there" and doesn't really arouse or excite. And you're asking why this guy doesn't arouse and excite? It's biology. Women have no control over what draws us to men. Same for what draws men to women. I'm not the one asking for it really. I've wanted to take my time but it turns out pretty much no women wanted that It sounds like young women like to fuck. I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:10 PM
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Even when you (in general) claim that isn't it, it only takes a couple additional comments for it to come out. I'm not buying it. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:06 PM
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But a whole lot of relationships are built on one or both people consciously and unconsciously, intentionally and unintentionally misleading, deceiving and exploiting one another. So you agree then, women aren't purposely and joyfully choosing abusive men? Good. I'm tired of hearing that. Many currently existing relationships that are “happy” on the surface are really just this and a ticking time-bomb, and not something to envy. Sure, people who should have never gotten married did. And those go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:04 PM
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but 100% of women who got abused rejected multiple men who wouldn't have abused her Bold claim for something you have NO way of knowing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:53 AM
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And there it is lol. Men are no different than women. All of the whining and complaining is because you want hot women. You all literally do not even realize ugly women exist. At least women acknowledge ugly mens existence. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:52 AM
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I am basing this on what the men in this subreddit say every single day. Quit trying to personalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:50 AM
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Boys aren't falling behind. They are doing just as well as they always have. What is actually happening is girls are surpassing them, and entering higher education in numbers that boys have never attained. These numbers were never a problem until women beat them. And the audacity of these headlines. Why can't it be, "Girls are doing amazing and surpassing all previous levels" instead it's "OMG girls are doing better than boys. DO SOMETHING!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:43 AM
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I don't understand why you all are comparing yourselves to rich and famous people. It's weird. I never sat in my house wondering why my life wasn't as awesome as Taylor Swifts or whatever. I understand she lives in a completely different world than most of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:40 AM
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dispite past actions. Money. The fuck would you want a grifting ass woman like Erika Kirk anyways. Come on now. Guess what. There are LOTS of bad, bad women who also use men. Those are the women these men are getting. They deserve eachother, no? It would be like me whining that pretty women get all the abusive men. No thanks. They can have em. Also. How many times have you heard of a story or criminal case where a woman was going by a completely different identity? Men go through GREAT lengths t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:33 AM
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Imagine if you woke up one day, and the majority of your government body were suddenly women and then you hear on the news, "Men no longer get access to male centered healthcare. No viagra. No hair implants. And forced castration for rapists. Also, every man has to support a woman. Even if she doesn't fuck you you all just get linked up with a random woman who will share your bank account." Would it make you want to fuck women more, or less? Would it make you want to help women with their strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:28 AM
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Yeah. It's called an extinction burst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:24 AM
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I mean. That is all y'all want. Wtf else do men want? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:21 AM
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Is it only destructive for women or is it also destructive for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:20 AM
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Society has never picked women up for being lonely and saying "there, there". It's usually things like, abuse, rape, systematic discrimination, etc. No one gives AF that anyone is lonely. Being lonely does not make one a "victim". And so long as men continue brushing off the actual victimization women experience, I really don't care about your loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:06 AM
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gay men seem very happy dating dating people with male libidos Not people. Other men. Never heard of Red Pill for gay men. Meaning this complex resides only with straight men. I am also not imagining anything. I am replying to a comment using context from this subreddit specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:25 PM
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I've witnessed multiple times what happens when a certain guy enters a given room and women notice him in a way they don't notice most men. Men do the exact same thing when it comes to extremely beautiful women. I would know this as an average woman. Even beautiful women know it. All of us do. It's human. I'm going to be real honest, I don't know that I've met a single woman who really wanted to wait. The wait was, at most, 2-3 dates, but my overwhelming experience has been that many women like …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:15 PM
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those guys were not unattractive in their youth. So what? They shrunk? Also why are young men bald? Unless you're talking about old men...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:52 PM
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Lmfao. As a woman slightly older than most of you in here I am fascinated and also amused at the idea that men today have somehow managed to flip the accountability of a few men being absolute manwhores onto women as a whole. Impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:50 PM
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Nope. Just like I, an average woman, never had the same success and men throwing themselves at me like supermodels do. The fuck kind of retarded point is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:46 PM
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Seriously. Crazy to say this lol. At least women notice unattractive men enough to notice they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:39 PM
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That's unattractive to most women. Especially young 20 somethings lol. But I see plenty of them partnered up to know that their options aren't zero. Men don't want a buck toothed woman with hairy armpits either. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:34 PM
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What do you mean exactly your point? You ignored my entire comment and just repeated what you already said. Wanting a partner to act more like you in certain aspects is not the same thing as wanting your partner to be the same gender as you and take on those exact characteristics lol. Men would both be disgusted if women took on masculine characteristics and more sad and paranoid than ever if women fucked everything that walked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:32 PM
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There must be a disconnect then. When men say they notice being treated differently, what they mean is some other guy didn't have to "work" as hard to move the relationship forward. And women on this sub think what this means is that men only want a quick fuck, but the reality is we notice that women consistently want to sleep with men they're attracted to quickly, so them wanting to wait is often a sign she's not that interested. This still isn't proof it is the same woman though. Men are looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:26 PM
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So..Men want women to literally act like men then? They want them to fart and burp. Pee outside. Beat eachother up. Fist bump eachother? Not shave their legs or armpits? I find that doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:13 PM
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that we should expect to be treated worse or lesser if we aren't a Chad? From what I can tell that is in reference to having not only multiple women throwing themselves at him, but also the type of women. They aren't telling men they are going to get different treatment from the same woman. They are telling men that if they are not "Chad" they will get different treatment/experiences from/with women in general. Personally I was never interested in the "Chads" because their behavior repulsed me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:56 PM
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I wouldn't say most women want men to be feminine. I don't think you are asking women to be masculine by having a similar sex drive to men either. Plenty of men have no issue being both masculine and still be great partners. My husband is one. On the outside, he looks like your typical run of the mill blue collar guy who drives a pick up truck and likes beer. On the inside he actually never drinks (but does drive a pick up lol) He's also not afraid to rock a baby to sleep, know who our kids teac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:46 PM
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This is hilarious to me. I don't know. Maybe it's my age. But us women aren't comparing our man's jobs or looks or anything of that nature. We're trading notes on how he parents our kids. How messy is he at home? How involved is he? Does he cook? Does he clean? What did he get you for mothers day? What are YOU getting him for father's day? Etc. Etc. I never mention my husbands job unless I have to. That's weird. I too have a career. It isn't impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:11 PM
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Couple this with people openly admitting that they change how they treat someone they're dating based on how attractive they are, and it's no wonder people are jaded. For one, women have ALWAYS known these things about men. That is why women don't ask. They would rather not know because you're exactly right. It's the past. For two-I don't know that anyone openly admits that they treat the person they are dating differently based on attraction level. Women talk a lot. And this is a conversation I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:59 PM
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It wasn't men who compared average men to the visibility of a lamp What? Modern women entitled unrealistic expectations is the problem Women just want an equal partner. The fact that men find that to be unrealistic is part and parcel of the problem. And no. I don't want to hear about how every woman on earth expects her man to be 6 foot tall and a millionaire. That's part of that ridiculous doomer attitude. ..you have no dog in this arena considering you're married. The person who has a successf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:00 PM
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Yeah this is valid. But the difference is-women WOULD really like it if men acted more like us. It wouldn't be a negative at all lol. This is why you see so many single mom's saying fuck it, and buying homes together. Much easier to raise children that way when you don't have to remind anyone that little Timmy needs breakfast or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:39 AM
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Wait how does one fuck like a man? Be willing to fuck any and everyone with a dick. Not only that-but be the pursuer in finding men to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:22 AM
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It's geniunely pathetic. They don't want to better themselves. They want someone too oblivious to know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:06 AM
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I am saying that if they want women to have a high sex drive like men then they will also be fucking like men. And men don't like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:04 AM
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But older guys too. Not just young guys. It started with the younger guys but now its 18 - 45 too. The older men are usually divorced because they were a shit partner and realized women got smarter and aren't interested in his bullshit. They can no longer lie and tell women his ex was "crazy" and that pisses them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:00 AM
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I geniunely just cannot wrap my mind around this thought process. I mean. You don't see women writing entire dissertations on fucking different men every other night, going home to her husband and treating him like garbage because that makes her happier in the relationship and makes him beg for more. And yet...women are not this paranoid. And yeah. I had plenty of experience before I met my husband and I would not have had it ANY other way. I just couldn't wrap my mind around marrying a man and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:56 AM
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This is the first time in history when average men are no longer scared to death of saying they have it hard and are no longer pretending. Conversely "incel" is the new "gay" insult. No. This is the first generation of men who've been hoodwinked into believing they're less than BY OTHER MEN and turned y'all into sad paranoid babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:27 AM
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Honestly? It sounds like men deep down are exponentially more insecure than women. Because that's crazy. Y'all don't worry that the girl with no experience will want to go find that experience at 40 once she realizes her life is slipping away and she has only ever experienced you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:51 AM
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Depends. Would the "average" gf be ok with the man simping over hot OF models, but not simping over his current "average" gf? In other words, would the "average" gf be ok with her man giving other women who mog her much better treatment than her? Why are you comparing the way a man treats his girlfriend IN a relationship to how a woman treated a different man before she even met her boyfriend. The hell? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:49 AM
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And they have such a doomer attitude about it. Meanwhile the vast majority of people on this earth managed just fine. It is literally only men aged 18-27 (so the 27 year olds were 17 when RedPill podcast bros really started ramping up) who seem to believe everything is horrible for them. Coincidence? No. Absolutely not. It was intentional. It's in the Epstein files 😭😐
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:47 AM
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Then there's me. Existing in monogomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:38 AM
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I see men say this, but do you REALLY want women to have the same sex drive as men?? I mean. You guys usually want virgins or extremely low body count. That would flip things on it's head and I imagine would make a LOT more unhappy men than the current status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:35 AM
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Idk what this has to do with leagues. An 8 woman could marry a 4 man and he would still benefit more from the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:32 AM
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Sounds like you're a hypocrite then. Women cheat. But the vast majority of the time, they cheat because the relationship is shit not just because the opportunity presented itself. They get validation from another man. I am not saying it's right. But this is identical to your claim that he wouldn't have looked into RedPill if the relationship was going good. Same concept. When woman blame cheating on relationship being bad, what she is doing is being defensive because she feels ashamed and guilty…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:26 AM
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Nope. I did it for 6 years before our kids started school. I would absolutely have never chosen to do it permanently. There are far too many risks involved. The only way I'd do (and any woman really) it permanently is if I had full access to bank accounts AND he contributed to my own retirement account AND a pre-nup would be required to ensure everything he earns while I stay home is equally mine in the event of a divorce. Anything less is playing with fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:21 AM
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The fact that he found redpill means how unsatisfactory the relationship was for him before all this. This reminds me of when women say she wouldn't have cheated if the relationship was good. Do you agree with that statement as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:02 AM
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Simone de Beauvoir said women should be prevented from becoming housewives even if they want to Honestly every example I see in here of a "horrible" feminist saying "horrible" things is someone I haven't even ever heard of. That tells me these topics are fed to y'all in the manosphere like ragebait cookies. Who TF is that?! 😂 Also-no one cares if a woman chooses to stay home. But there are risks involved. One being the vast majority of men, come divorce, would happily leave her with nothing if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:41 PM
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Because sex sells to MEN. Same reason men aren't sex objects. Same reason women are able to make a lot more on OF than men. I cannot believe this was even a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:29 PM
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..I'm not the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:09 PM
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Women have also been telling men to raise their standards for forever too Maybe in the last couple of years. Otherwise-no. Why shouldn't a guy sleep around for fun and wait until he finds a woman he really likes before he commits? Who said that was an issue? Women should do that as well. Everyone should have a little experience. In all seriousness, I think if you look at the entire opposite gender and don't find anyone that meets your standards, it's a you problem Individually yes. As a whole, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:58 PM
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Women are more interested in genetic markers of attractiveness than anything grooming can do. Bullshit. Some men already groom themselves plenty. I'm going to venture to guess the majority of men who have issues with dating do not. This is just a cop out to not even try. You don’t need to try to gaslight me Agreed. good luck to him hope him showering and shaving will make him super attractive and tall. If "he" is my husband he's already attractive and tall. But-all men are tall to me at 5'3 and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:48 PM
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Not really. Men have been telling women for forever to choose better. If all the available men are either going to cheat, abuse, or be a shit partner, why would they choose that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:38 PM
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Nope, I just never care enough to use reddit on a desktop. After the last update you're not able to do it on mobile anymore. That same update fucked with the quote function too. Annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:02 PM
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I mean, do most women want to commit? I hear all the time about how more and more women are happier being single now that they no longer financially require a man. They do, absolutely. The issue is that a lot of them have found that there is not anybody worth committing to. They are only happier being single because the alternative is worse. In a perfect world, most straight women would prefer commitment. Social media has definitely played a part. I became a mom in 2011. Even then-it was taboo t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:21 AM
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Yes, and thank God for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:13 AM
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We have plenty of examples of billionaires who had nothing and are now evil AF. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:51 AM
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Y'all have all these wild theories. I was very sex positive when I was younger. I had plenty of sex. Plenty of FWBs. And it was always me having to fend off the men trying to make a relationship out of it. I never chased a man. Now I've been married to my husband for 15 years. My experience with men before him helped me choose correctly for an actual relationship. That and having a lot of platonic male friends. Seeing how they'd cheat on their girlfriends back home while they were away at colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:44 AM
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More women in work place means less jobs for men and that clearly affects me. So what is my incentive to support your movement what do I get out of it ? Women were always in the workplace. They were just paid pennies on the dollar. Did you know teachers used to be all male? Until they decided to bring women in because they could pay them much, much less. To this day they are still paid shit. You've got your finger pointed at the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:38 AM
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The study mentioned all of that. Why don't you actually read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:35 AM
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Doesn't this tell you men should..groom themselves better? Y'all are mad and yet put in zero effort yourselves. I take my son every two weeks to get lined up and a fresh shave. Most men aren't even doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:34 AM
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Just like the average man is taller than the average woman. The average woman is more attractive than the average man. This is why in the vast majority of couples, the man is a couple levels below the woman in looks. It is rare to see the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:31 AM
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I actually love this idea. Mandatory DNA testing is going to hurt men more than women. It really won't even hurt the vast majority of women. 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:34 PM
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they dont want mandatory paternity testing We already don't have that, so. Kind of dumb comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:33 PM
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Agreed. I've had about 5 men in this sub now tell me I am misandrist for saying misandry doesn't exist. I don't buy anything they say anymore. Each time is more proof they don't know what the fuck they're talking about. Man beats and rapes women : "Oh well he's just a bad guy, not a misogynist" Woman says misandry doesn't exist. "MISANDRIST".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:26 PM
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Just a weird comment for a woman, that's all.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 09:14 PM
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Again. Words mean things. If it works for him, fine. But don't make up reasons. Be truthful. "The men in non western countries treat women worse thus she treats me better" would have been an equally valid title.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:58 PM
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It just means OPs post and framing is wrong. Women from other countries don't respect men more. It matters because he is framing American women as less than and/or broken. I see that you are only asking why it matters from the man's point of view. In that case it doesn't matter. But again-his framing very much does matter to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:32 PM
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Because it means that those women aren't any different from American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:28 PM
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Men's issues aren't all tied to rights, some involve mental health, loneliness, etc. And yet-they aren't talking about any of that either. They talk about women being hypergamous, only wanting the top 20% and being secretly lesbian. And them not caring helped? Seems you missed the rest of my comment that highlighted the irony in that the only side of the political spectrum that HAS ever cared was the left. It isn't about caring about men. It is about punishing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:16 PM
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Vast majority of Blue Pillers on this sub That is exactly what the sub was created for though ironically only talking about male issues as a result of something they heard from the manosphere Again, this is what this particular sub was created for so I don't see any irony. You don't see the irony in the fact that mens rights/manosphere subs mainly focus on women and feminists? given a shit otherwise or now talking about these topics No. Because these takes have nothing to do with mens rights. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:48 PM
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I'm confused how this is trolling. Are you trolling too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:15 PM
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? I responded to your comment. You had no argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:06 PM
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I have children who are going to enter this hellscape. I care about their well-being. So yes I do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:50 PM
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Sure if you think men are helpless little blobs of embarrassment. Personally I think men are better than that. Much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:49 PM
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Are you man or a woman?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 11:40 AM
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I agree they would. To me it is like how poor people voted for Trump and actively vote against their own self interests. People who look like them are able to benefit so they believe that they will be able to as well. This is why a lot of men are reluctant to go against the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:49 AM
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Without men’s support, it wouldn’t have happened. Do you think it would be appropriate to ask African Americans to thank white people for freeing them from slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:36 AM
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Men get angry. Women cry. What exactly are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:06 AM
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Women don't care about society LOL come on. Quit it with the strawmanning. You were JUST patting men on the back for supposedly caring less about being single. Now that you have to concede the opposite is true it has gone from--- "Women care less about being single" to "Oh, so women just don't care about society!" Men don't care about society either, then. They care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:02 AM
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Dang. This is a very harsh and uncomfortable truth even as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:00 AM
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Take a look around this sub, come back and tell me what ya think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:59 AM
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They really underestimate the amount of women who have left their boyfriends and husbands after finding out he consumes red pill content. So it's not even only just scaring single women away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:56 AM
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This. Cool, you make an extra $500/month? I am unsure how that can ever equate to her now being required to come home after work and do everything while he sits on his ass watching reels-FOREVER. Especially if she gave you children. I would geniunely take that set up ANY day of the week. Take ALL my money I don't care. All I have to do is my 40 hours and someone else does the rest? That's the dream. And men still somehow victimize themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:54 AM
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It's also funny when men respond like this to a well thought out comment instead of responding to the actual meat of it. Reminds me of my 3 year olds temper tantrums. No real logic or reason. He just knows he's mad and he's gonna let everyone know! Not exactly the pillar of debate, but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:44 AM
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They're not just the loudest voices, they're essentially the only voices So you're saying there aren't really any male centered voices when it comes to true rights? Only when it comes to sex and dating? I think we agree there. People outside the manosphere only seem to give a shit in response to what someone in the manosphere said and arguing against those points. If the manosphere suddenly went quiet, pretty much nobody would be talking about male issues anymore I mean, yeah? They say disgustin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:40 AM
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that men are more at fault for the existence and perpetuation of the patriarchy than women are. Not more at fault. Just more inclined to keep the status quo, as men do benefit from it more in totality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:35 AM
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An extinction burst, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:33 AM
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Convincing argument. We believe you! 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:28 AM
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Exactly correct. I've said the same thing to my son. It really sucks that because of your strength, your hands can and will be considered a deadly weapon. And I didn't even tell him this in relation to women. It's just that he is so much bigger than other kids his age that he unfortunately has to be the bigger person. Literally and figuratively. I don't know what they expect. One person's punch can equate to a scratch. Another person's punch can equate to a coma. Same action. Different results. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:44 PM
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I'd have to wonder if the political climate in the US has anything to do with it. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:34 PM
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Why doesn't he just put you as a joint owner on the bank account so you have your own card/access?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:13 PM
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Yep. I can see that. Also, I was already cooking for my family before DoorDash really became popular so it has never been a part of my life like it seems to heavily be for Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:12 PM
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Care to link it the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:03 PM
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There was one study. And it was a questionnaire. And it ignores a lot of nuance. But also, no idea how that relates to my comment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:43 PM
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I mean, how old are you? I did not start regularly cooking until 24/25. I'm 36 now and I cook every single day for my family. Even breakfast and lunch. And I work full-time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:40 PM
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This is very chicken and egg. Why are you framing this as if women were being "shitty" towards men first?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:34 PM
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I think parents absolutely do both. I know I have. But what I tell my daughter to be weary about in regards to boys/men are different from what I tell my son to be weary about in regards to girls/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:28 PM
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Here's my question. How do you know this is actually true and not because you are American and they aren't? How would you know how those women from third world/non western countries view and treat the men in their corresponding countries? How do you know for sure they just don't treat American men with more respect because they are different from what they are used to and/or a means to an end (to get them and their family out of poverty)? Additionally, how do you know it's not because the men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:19 PM
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You've had a western woman spit in your face after saying hello?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:11 PM
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It has nothing to do with a larger bank balance though. Dude could make $40K and it would still not be a good set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:49 PM
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Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:35 PM
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What you describe is normal and fine. My husband and I do the same and have a general rule to discuss for any larger purchases over $200. What OP is describing is having no access to the budget at all. She is just given "spending" money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:29 PM
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I was a stay a home mom for 6 years when my kids were little. The moment we decided that I would stay home to save money on childcare, was also the moment we walked into the bank and created a joint bank account. The idea of an "allowance" is fucking embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:24 PM
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Nope, you just sound like a typical illogical woe is me blackpill. And I like to make a point not to feed into that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:39 PM
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Ah. K. You're clearly not here in good faith. Sounds like you have a bit of growing up to do. Nice talking to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:10 PM
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...the billionaires who are literally ruining ALL of our lives? They are the ones making men and womens lives difficult. They are the ones who have an interest in keeping the status quo. They are the ones who have an interest in keeping us all separated and hating eachother. Because if they didn't separate us? We'd have too much power. See: gerrymandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:07 PM
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I agree...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:04 PM
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It's worth the watch. The guys kids were with him too, that's what made me think of it when reading your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:17 AM
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That isn't what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:45 AM
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Is that why men in here question being a good person because "What do I get out of it directly". eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:38 AM
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Do I want women to say "all women are crazy"?? No i don't but an acknowledgement without dismissal that women are capable of and do in fact abuse and are violent towards me would be acceptable. Again-I don't see the issue. I think men who behave that way are also crazy. Not a representation of the average man. Same for women. Nearly every post along these things cries that men won't say "all men are rapists" No one says that. They say, "Not all men but always a man". And men usually try to other…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:36 AM
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Heh did you see the tik tok of the kangaroo guy in Piegon Forge? Embarrassing. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:23 AM
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get more time in prison compared to women because of it A punch from a man also has an exponentially higher likelihood of seriously and permanently harming or even killing the victim-hence the obvious higher sentence because death is worse than some scratches, even though both parties threw a punch. Just an unfortunate reality. It is something I talk to my 15 year old about. He is huge for his age and can really hurt someone. And one wrong move can land him in prison because of it. A large/very …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:19 AM
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I don't see the issue. Do you want women to say "ALL women are crazy"? Lmao. Has a man ever said all men are rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:14 AM
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It isn't really either or. Excuse me is the polite thing to say. "Watch yourself" implies he owns the earth and to get the fuck out of his way. Rude. But unsprising for a man. I'm not saying the woman was in the right to go full crazy on him, but I can see why she did. It's a whole thing where men seem to think women need to get out of their way and will flat out walk right into us always assuming a woman will move. Y'all don't own the earth. Quit acting like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:09 AM
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Saying, "watch yourself" isn't calm. That's being a douche. Seriously. Implies she was in the wrong for existing. Is "excuse me" really that difficult for men? Come to think of it, I can't remember a time a man has ever said excuse me..🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:07 AM
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they held the powers that be accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:59 AM
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No idea what you're talking about. I didn't say anything like that. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:29 AM
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misandrist title like that? ...? It's in reference to biological fragility. It's not supposed to be offensive. how is that "less physiological resilience"? ..what? Physiological relates to the physical body. What does that have to do with relationships? You are oddly offended by a medical study And why isn't this study a FANTASTIC argument to support men's rights over feminism to you if it were true? Men's rights because male embryos are biologically more fragile? Wtf? Lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:47 AM
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NO All I needed to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:31 AM
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That's pathetic and shows they were just being babies from the start. The fact that women can clearly handle more adversity than men is beyond you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:38 AM
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Impossible. Misandrists don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:21 AM
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in the west So then do you all agree to stop bringing up the draft? Since it hasn't happened in the west for over half a century?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:20 AM
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Good thing misandry is not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:11 AM
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Child's play in comparison to all the poor little girls with misogynistic abusive rapist fathers. And then men like you point and laugh and tell her she has daddy issues. Shitty men certainly get no sympathy from me. I'm raising good men who deserve the world. Chads, if you will. 🧡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:55 PM
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the part that dictates the relational dynamic of being a zero sum game or not. Sure. But women look at that thought process with disgust and thus have zero sympathy for this "plight". It's like when the cops take a drug dealers drugs. No one is going to feel bad that he lost them. He shouldn't have had them to begin with. They were hurting people. The British empire, for example, “lost” something when it lost its colonies, even if they were not rightfully theirs to begin with. Yeah. And no one h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:28 PM
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You're correct. We wouldn't. I clocked it when he said, "Do you want to ask what I was wearing?!". Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:33 PM
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They didn't lose anything. The 'power' they had was stolen to begin with. That isn't a loss it's a correction as it was never rightfully theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:10 PM
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You would have claimed any response was a deflection lol. You. Brought. It. Up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:44 PM
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I just don't see the use in blaming women, which is what they appear to be doing when bringing them up in relation to gender and dating differences. When women fought for their rights, they held the powers that be accountable. Not the lowly guy next door. Why won't men do the same? Why are they terrorizing women and "feminazis" instead? Kind of reminds me of Democratic politicians in the US. They pretend to give a fuck, but won't hold billionaires accountable because in fact, it would hurt them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:39 PM
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A fire alarm was enough for men as a whole to give up? Women literally died for their rights. Please be for real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:33 PM
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you ignored. Yes If you're selective with reading then I'm not interested I'm questioning the first part. Your claim that she brought it up. She did not. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:30 PM
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Btw wanna know what I was wearing? Probably never occurred to her because a womans first instinct is not to victim blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:27 PM
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You literally just did it, brought it up to deflect and shame someone ??? You brought it up. She replied. What??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:26 PM
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Of course, physiologically, women tend to be more optimized for surviving horrible things. Correct. In fact, it begins in the womb. Male embryos are much more vulnerable to stressful environments. They opt to continue growing as fast as possible which wears them out. Female embryos instead choose the slow and steady approach to conserve energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:47 PM
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therefore it's childish to expect being loved by your partner. Truly amazing logic here. Yeah and it is totally logical for women to expect their boyfriends to apologize by choreographing an entire flash mob for her on the football bleachers in front of the whole school, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:30 PM
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I agree. I don't think it is something the average man thinks. Like I said I've seen this sentiment in this subreddit specifically, and it is usually from the guys obsessed with the theory that women are "comphet".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:22 PM
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Of course, it is a completely different ball game after 22/23 I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:20 PM
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I do compare it tho Then you are about as logical as a child who doesn't understand cartoons aren't real. Women like to compare real men to fictional men (written by women) and act as if real men are incomplete, I haven't seen this personally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:19 PM
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Unless you live in the same area as your other friends, most people face this. Maybe different cultures but where I'm from, most people still live within 30 minutes of where they grew up. So to me, your scenario is more of the exception than the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:17 PM
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Specifically talking about the moaning, the handstands, the blowjobs where she's choking and spitting all over the place. It's a literal performance. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:15 PM
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I already slept with a girl who WAS enthusiastic and active. I experienced a part of what it feels like to be desired So then this doesn't apply to you because you aren't comparing manufactured entertainment with reality. You're comparing reality with reality. Funny how this suddenly doesn't work, when the discussion is about fictional vs real men, huh? No idea what you're talking about. Care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:14 PM
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Of course. The problem is reality versus fiction. The way porn stars act is not reality so you're going to be disappointed in how the real woman acts every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:09 PM
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I've literally never seen a straight guy do this outside of school and college I think therein lies a lot of the difference. Is there a reason Gen Z is waiting until after college to think about meeting a partner? I'm 36 and almost every couple I know in my age range met through mutual friends. Friend groups that started in highschool and grew throughout our college/finding ourself years (18-22). By the time college was over we already had our established friend groups (many people have multiple…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:07 PM
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No. Women don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:37 PM
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No, it's just not true at all. "Women don't like porn because it threatens to undermine their Monopoly on sex" First of all it doesn't undermine anything. Men are still desperate. Second of all what a paranoid male coded thing to say. Third of all women like porn too. Women do not think that way. Men do. And sexually undesirable if he consumes porn? What? Tell that to all the couples who watch porn together. By the way. Even if these things were true I don't really see them as "unflattering" at …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:30 PM
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Also I guess the polycule part and the trans part does play a role in people disbeleiving u (even if it was wrong). That's her life NOW. Not during her court case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:43 AM
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Oh my god 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:40 AM
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Unflattering? Not really. Just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:37 AM
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Im debating whether that part is worse on its own than actually being graped or murdered It is. It is akin to comparing her to a piece of steaming garbage. It is akin to telling her it's her fault. She asked for it. It's fucking traumatizing. You can never understand that as a man so I'm confused how you're even trying to debate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:35 AM
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Ugh yes exactly. We need porn made for women. I've seen men in this sub literally argue that if a woman doesn't act like a porn star during sex that it means she isn't attracted to him. It's ridiculous. Also, the same thing goes for most movies. Most women are written from the male perspective. Which generally makes women look stupid and ditzy, drunk in love, or they're just a supporting role to their male counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:29 AM
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The only point you made that can even be remotely true is the last one. The other two are entirely delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:24 AM
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To be fair to my dad, his construction/remodeling company was hit bad by the 2008 financial crisis for obvious reasons so this wasn't all his doing. That was also the year I graduated highschool. My mom worked full time as well but it was mainly to keep insurance for all of us. They ended up taking out a heloc to make due. My dad also had all kinds of business loans so they eventually had to file bankruptcy. So yeah I didn't get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:53 PM
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That's a bicycle vs car thing Agreed! Now that you mention it I was the only one who had to cash out my bonds to buy my own car lmao Another thing they suck at by traditional sexist standards. They should be finding you one. My indian friend once showed me a binder of dudes her parents gave her from their earning to biodata and measurements listed though none of them probably knew handyman things. They also paid for her med school and housing. Yeah I think this is more a thing in India due to ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:38 PM
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most of my friends from first gen cultures have told me about their sisters getting more spending money growing up. Yeah. My parents did send me money for odds and ends, food, small things. But they completely financed my brothers apartment. Once it was my turn, my dad stopped working as much and said he had to spend all his savings on my brothers lol 🤷‍♀️ And now they tell me that I am "the most functional" out of the 3 of us. Yeah. Because I didn't get life handed to me like they did. And they…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:47 PM
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upper middle class people. That was us! Did you miss the part where I said my dad was a business owner? Grew up in the suburbs. 5 bed/4bath home. 🤷‍♀️ like you are an accident baby I come from an Italian family. So they were hella overprotective over me, didn't allow me to do certain things because I'm a girl and "girls can't do that", made me go everywhere with them but let my brothers run wild. Pretty standard for first Gen households.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:30 PM
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I suppose I'm confused how the factors you listed would involve a casual date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:56 AM
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I think girls also have this problem, the difference in privilege between a opposite sex siblings isn't much if their parents are ok. Meh. My brothers got a head start in adulthood by having a hefty savings from being allowed to work with my dad (He owned a construction company). I was never allowed to come. I was able to earn (exponentially less) by doing the dishes or vacuuming the house. We did all get to go to college, but my parents were annoyed about having to pay for a 3rd kids apartment …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:51 AM
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if a man were to do his fair share of chores, be emotionally mature etc then a woman would still have reservations based on risks alone. But at this point, it has far moved on from casual sex. They are living together, probably even married. In that case, those reservations are mostly gone. My husband knows what I like. Knows my body inside and out. And plus, he's snipped. I get to fully enjoy sex without having to worry about the risks. And yes, I orgasm almost every time, multiple times. I nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:47 AM
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the average men has the agency and options to get relationships and sex all he wants? Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:32 AM
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Black pill is against group rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:32 AM
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If women were like men we wouldn't need to differentiate them at all. Why do you think the "male way" is the correct way? Why do women have to mold to your way (literally will never happen)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:04 AM
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I mean. There are plenty of women who choose to shave their heads and not wear make up. You can choose one of them if you find that more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:48 AM
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LMFAO. "So basically if we removed everything that makes a woman a woman, she is uglier" I mean why are you turning the woman into a man first?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:43 AM
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Funny how unproven fears are justified when depending whos having said fears. So would you like it better if a woman just walked around oblivious getting herself into dangerous situations? Let me guess. When a woman gets abused you also say, "she chose that". Pick a lane boo boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:30 AM
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Like I said, a rarity indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:32 PM
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My point is, they have men clamoring to be around them just as much as women. I do not believe this is a woman thing at all. It's just that women like that are much less likely to be physically abusive. They're more likely to become manipulative and cruel. Men follow/want women like that cause they're hot and fun. Not because they're manipulative and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:31 PM
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It's literally said on every single one of these posts. Which is at least once a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:44 PM
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The amount of times a well loved creator on tik tok/Instagram is outed as being abusive or a rapist is actually insane. These are people who build massive followings, loved by both genders. And then get exposed. I don't understand how they don't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:43 PM
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said DATE DOWN. Not "fuck anything with a pussy" to get laid. at having meaningless sex Ok. Lol. You aren't in his league JUST BECAUSE YOU CRUSHED ON HIM Why do you all always try to personalize things? I am a married woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:03 PM
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You have no way to quantify this. From my perspective, women are almost always more attractive then her spouse. It's a rarity to see an ugly woman with a very attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:34 PM
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Fat women get married all the time Yep, so do fat men who marry gorgeous women (Jelly Roll) or ugly short men who marry beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:27 AM
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Men date down all the time to get laid. So congrats at having meaningless sex LOL. Yes, we know men will "fuck anything with two legs and a pussy". That is not the same as dating. Men do not "date down" when it comes to actual relationships, women do. Hence all the whining in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:26 AM
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She said "basically 100%" which is the same thing as most lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:48 AM
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Personal insults online are always the result of being butthurt. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:26 AM
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Butt hurt men and personal insults go together like peanut butter and jelly! Btw that was a stupid one. Write slower? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:16 AM
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You sound kinda rude if I'm being honest. How do you know you're actually funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:59 AM
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Until 2025 eh? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:57 AM
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Because this is a condescending question that's asked about 15 times a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:55 AM
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It's so interesting when I read comments like this, because I know damn well that no woman in here said anything close to that. Even on this post. No one has said that. Men often read what isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:55 AM
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Super! Can't wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:48 AM
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Nope, no misunderstanding here 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:44 AM
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So once again, someone assumes the situations they’ve lived through are universal. I don't think I know a single woman who has not had this experience at least one time as a kid. As a latchkey kid who walked everywhere, I lost count at the amount of times this has happened from mild to literally being followed. Also I vividly remember middle school. That is when the boys suddenly decided they were allowed to grab our asses and tits in the hall. It's universal dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:19 PM
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Then your question was based on your misunderstanding of the quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:44 PM
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Do you seriously believe in this shit? Both men and women are "brought up" in a society with certain expectations, yes. This is why people in the LGBTQ community have far greater chances of struggling with mental health issues. Because they DON'T fit the "mold".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:24 PM
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You should say this to all the men in here who insist women only fuck the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:55 PM
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Seriously. Every single accusation is a confession. I have never in my whole entire life seen a woman gloat about going on cheating sprees and how it made them such a perfect woman. And yet. Women are the horrible hypergamous ones. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:54 PM
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Should men also ideally find the "one" on their first shot too? Or this only applies to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:49 PM
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Nah. I think it was absolutely great for me to date around before I found my husband. Otherwise I would have been a stupid idiot who just let him get away with... Right. Because that's what men want. That's what it really comes down to. You want a young inexperienced moron who won't hold you accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:48 PM
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Upvote! That's a funny joke actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:42 PM
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Correct, just not for the reasons you listed. It isn't because of education, availability or experience. It's just pure sexism boys club bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:39 PM
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Because otherwise men without qualifications will get hired. "Hello everyone, meet your new boss. He is my golf buddies 22 year old son. He's never worked a day in his life but he's definitely more qualified than Betty who has been here for 22 years".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:34 PM
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I'm simply pointing out you can't enforce equality in all aspects except in dating, because it will lead to a dysfunctional society, and men will resort to what I mentioned. Then, what do you think should happen? If it's not for the government to be involved in creating relationships, then what? Take away womens rights again? So that they have to rely on men? Because in that case men are still in the same position of paying for the first date. Only now, they have to pay for ALL dates, the house,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:30 PM
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Personally I would rather get there by my own merit than the nepo guy who golfed with his dad a few times and scored the position instead. These quotas help to deter this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:25 PM
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Also, availability and experience matter much more than education nowadays, unfortunately. So yes, companies would probably prefer men to women. This is silly. Plenty of 40+ women done with having children with plenty of experience under their belts as well. It's a new age..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:23 PM
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Thank you for admitting this. The denial is so weird. At the very least, everyone who grew up in a two parent household can almost always see how much more mom planned vacations, holidays, birthdays, sports, playdatea, doctor appointments, etc. Genuinely, until the day my mother died (it was sudden tbf), she was the first person my siblings and I called even into adulthood. Love my dad. But he was just never the wealth of information that my mom was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:16 PM
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You are oddly angry about the way young women behave in dating for someone who is not single. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:09 PM
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And then y'all have the audacity to complain that more men are single than women. Now it's settled. Women are not dating the same men. Men are choosing to stay single. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:07 PM
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These women are low-effort trash. That would be 99% of all mothers in the history of time The same rules that apply to men should be applied to women. Y'all will call that hell, oppression, etc etc lol You can kick and scream as much as you want but you will never have the ability to force women to do this across the board. Some already do. Some never will. At the end of the day men want women more than the other way around, so this is how it naturally goes. It's nature boo boo. It's how almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:02 PM
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I fucking laughed out loud so hard 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:36 AM
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against reddit's rules to say that transmen aren't real men? Good thing I didn't say that! The irony here is that you more than likely do not believe transmen are real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:35 PM
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Cause I like dick. Two men = Two dicks. I actually prefer MMF if we're getting real specific. I think I prefer this because hetero porn is meant for men, so it comes with weird shit like spitting in her mouth and slapping her with their dick. Immediate turn off. Sure, womens faces are aesthically pleasing. But their vaginas are not. I get absolutely nothing out of lesbian porn 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:21 PM
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A singular woman. Wow. She must speak for them all!! Also-she said she has a kid. She isn't even one of the women who want to be left alone. "But when you’re brought up to feel that the most important thing you can be is attractive to men, the absence of their attention – even negative attention – can feel distressing."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:39 PM
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Can you tell me why you need it to be called misandry and not sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:07 PM
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If a woman was being abusive towards one of my son's I would absolutely tell him that she is sexist. I just wouldn't call it misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:48 PM
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I see everyone as humans! They are very happy. My oldest is a straight A student, top athlete, tons of friends and gets everything he could ever need and want. My youngest son is still just a little man. Very much a mamas boy ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:45 PM
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I have two! And I also have a daughter. I don't have to worry about my son's being pregnant and having a medical emergency in another state the way I have to worry about the same happening to my daughter, and nieces for that matter. That's the point. As far as my son's, I have to worry about them choosing to join the military. I have to worry about them being victim of stupid reckless choices of other young men and even themselves. I don't worry about them being screwed in child support court be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:41 PM
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she chose that man out of all her options, and reject others., she chose to have a baby with him. Why do you keep saying this as if it has anything to do with the fact that all men are biologically different from all women? You've really got to quit it with the black pill stuff. It's exhausting. You add it in every chance you get even when it makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:02 PM
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You can kick and scream about it all you want. At the end of the day it will never feel equal to men or women, because only one party gets pregnant. You will never know what that's like. Our bodies are unequal so the choice is unequal. If biological men got pregnant I'd advocate for them to have that right too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:58 PM
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Exactly. Women (and men) simply prefer the man to be taller than the woman. An easy task when most women are already shorter than most men. That doesn't mean there is some superficial cutoff where all men under a certain height are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:38 PM
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This. It's crazy. Sure, some women are superficial. Especially when they are only looking for a hook up. Hence-"dating apps" they love to use as proof. But never in my life have I heard any woman say she would never date or be intimate with a man if he isn't taller than "xyz". It's overblown paranoia because they sit around looking at posts from subs like r/PsychORSike.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:26 PM
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Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:06 PM
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I've heard friends of my mother, saying a man has to be this and this tall, because how will it look, when they are same height. You want to tell me 50-or-so year old women are watching these podcasts? Who cares? Men have an issue with women being taller than them too. My best friend is 5'10 and dated a guy who wouldn't let her wear heels. At the end of the day most men are already taller than most women so the additional paranoia here is unwarranted. A woman saying she wants her man to be talle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:03 PM
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I am just saying, some of the subreddits I've seen men in here frequent..it is no wonder you're all so paranoid. I'll tell ya what. 20 years ago men were not this paranoid about their height. Something has changed. What's different between now and then? The manosphere. Red pill. Black pill. MRAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:50 PM
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It is fair for black people to be weary around white people, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:45 PM
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And I am sure you also believe that all of the podcasts, manosphere youtube videos and the like have not made men overtly paranoid for being "too short" at 5'9. The manosphere doesn't talk about height at all, right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:42 PM
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I believe you believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:40 PM
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Except men were never systematically oppressed, red lined and overpoliced?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:37 PM
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No one directly challenged what I said. Just called me a racist and a bigot. (I'm white BTW)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:07 PM
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Only 5'9?! Jesus. That is a perfectly good height for a man. The average woman is 5'4. Most of the men I dated were shorter than 5'9. The manosphere has really poisoned you guys. That's so sad honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:05 PM
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...that won't happen because it's much more than internalized misandry for men. Much, much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:59 AM
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the biggest racial issue that's been discussed in recent years is BLM and discrimination against Black people in the justice system. Did you know that sexism against men in the justice system is so bad that White men are actually treated worse than Black women? Did you know that White men are more likely to be killed by police than Black women? Why is racism against Black people in the justice system considered a valid issue, but the objectively greater issue of sexism against men is not? Source…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:58 AM
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Sure, you mean the groups who were systematically oppressed, red lined and over policed and thus the statistics have always been overinflated? Yeah that is shitty to judge on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:46 AM
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Guns and poison exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:29 AM
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I'm white.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:29 AM
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I am that race though lmao. I am white.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:28 AM
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I wasn't being "defensive". I was simply illustrating how your comment was pointless. We all have experience with shitty employees both male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:28 AM
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You seem to be highly selective Actually it's pretty basic. Was this group oppressed by another group? If yes, they are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:26 AM
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I knew no one would come to tell me (as OP claimed) LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:25 AM
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Sure, lets. For example Black Americans are valid in feeling the same fear towards white people, as white people have historically been (and still are) racist which has harmed them for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:22 AM
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excuse me, every shred of data we have says women are responsible for 100% cases of prenatal substance exposure and Don't care. Men don't get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:20 AM
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Oh dear, sexual attraction is a gender hate, figures... Oh dear. You forgot to read the part where they're misogynistic first. Women who are misandrist simply want men to leave them alone. Forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:19 AM
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men-hating sexist pigs. LOL I must admit it is pretty funny watching the evolution of men adopt phrases that women have historically used. You go girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:18 AM
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Who am I racist towards LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:17 AM
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If you want me to believe anything you typed out, you're going to have to provide your source. It is common knowledge that 97% of violent crime is committed by men. And no, you don't get to use a teen girl or woman taking a pill that causes a slightly heavier period as proof that women are more violent than men. That's ridiculous and every single one of you who pretends to care about a 3 day old sploog is full of shit. You just hate women. Also, one at a time. I'm not interested in the gish gall…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:13 AM
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As for racial hatred, I don't think you can argue it is only possible if you're a member of a dominant group. I hate the Jewish supremacist Apartheid state of Israel and the horrible way they treat Palestinian Lives, however if a Palestinian kills a small Israeli child, that remains a racial hate crime. Technically, both Israeli's and Palestinians are the same race. They are different ethnic groups. It would definitely be a hate crime, just not a racial one. Frankly speaking, the idea that it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:55 AM
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Because white people are inherently racist just like men are inherently misogynistic. White people used their racism to keep black people down just like men used their misogyny to keep women down. Black people were oppressed. Women were oppressed. It never went in the opposite direction for either one. Framing this as if cis white men were ever oppressed makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:22 AM
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come back when women kill men because they hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:07 AM
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Toxic gender roles are misandrist in their effect on men. What a leap. Come back when women kill men because they hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:59 AM
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I will sit criss cross applesauce in anticipation! (I don't think anyone will tell me anything because we all know I'm right)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:50 AM
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Men are killed more often than women What does that have to do with misogyny or misandry for that matter? You're shifting the goal posts lol. "How common is it for a woman to lose their life due to misogyny"? Every 10 minutes "Well men are killed more (by other men)" My guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:50 AM
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is it not true that misandry makes men have reduced empathy for women, So you're saying men should have a monopoly on hating the opposite sex? Because misogyny in all it's forms has always existed. But you're saying misandry is bad because men will be misogynistic. Okay? What else is new.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:47 AM
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You literally did not address it. You said the opposite. Her comment is refuting your statement that men face harsher criminal sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:44 AM
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This is why I dislike the word misandry. Because it is equated to misogyny and it will never be the same. Men are never in danger of women as a whole, for one. And for two, most of the "misandry" complaints are women protecting themselves after trusting a man. Conversely, misogyny is rampant and exists concurrently with men wanting to fuck us. It is like trying to equate racism against black people to racism against white people. It'll never hit the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:43 AM
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You're supposed to engage with the comments in good faith on your posts. She obviously did read it. Instead of addressing her points you deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:40 AM
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Why didn't you ask this question the other way around? Asking it this way doesn't make sense. Men are not the ones who feel anxiety towards women so why would you equate it to white people feeling anxiety towards black people? It is the same as the very valid anxieties black people have when around white people, cops, etc. And yeah. I'd say they are valid and have good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:37 AM
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No. It is simply using the statistics we have on hand to take precautions. Like, we know how much safer it is to wear a seat belt due to the statistics we have on hand, so most of us wear a seatbelt. We don't think women are less violent because they are perfect special snowflakes. We think women are less violent because every shred of data we have says...women are less violent. Inb4 not all men, not all women, etc etc. Some of us fall outside of the "mold" yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:35 AM
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I had an inside sales rep threaten the whole office because he had to be retrained several times and still fucked up. After constantly calling off randomly because his dog took a shit or he couldn't find his car or whatever. But it was everyone else's fault for sure. We all have our stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:59 AM
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I regret sounding arrogant but I really need to ask because this wasn't remotely hard to understand The funniest part is, it is you who is fundamentally misunderstanding the entire video. It was supposed to make you angry. But it was also supposed to make you understand It seems you either stopped listening or blacked out in rage because you have yet to be able to connect the fundamental point of the video. If you just copy and paste the same response you've been giving everyone else, just know …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:40 AM
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Men actually do that on purpose? Wild lol. I always hear women talking about it. I geniunely figured a lot of men just have stomach issues cause they eat like shit 😅😅 Thank God my husband isn't a weirdo like that and equally shares in parenting responsibilities. Shitting is self care they say. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:29 AM
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Again, why would I condemn an educational video? Also, you don't get to tell me what to do. By the way. It isn't completely irrelevant. It is quite literally the point of the video that is still going over your head. Amazing lack media literacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:23 AM
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Condemn what? Rhetorical mirroring? Lol. Nah. You first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:13 AM
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I have never seen so many men up in arms about the horrific shit the US government has been forcing on little girls. In fact we usually see them foaming at the mouth with glee. Interesting, is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:54 PM
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It geniunely blows my mind how oblivious one can be to a very logical thought experiment meant to put oneself in another's shoes. Instead he took it at face value and is raging at the people this is already happening to. 🤦‍♀️ Hoping this dude is a fresh 18 and just has no media literacy yet. Otherwise we're in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:49 PM
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The fact that men have the power to actually act on it, have acted on it already in the past and are literally voting in politicians who have publicly said the same things, means that they are categorically the mountain whilst this singular feminist you highlighted is the molehill. By the way, Charlie Kirk was prominent enough and he was certainly setting the stage by constantly saying women should care more about marriage than career and bitching about the birth rate falling. Fringe. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:02 PM
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That's an interesting quote. Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:20 PM
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I'm not seeing what you're seeing. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:19 PM
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I don't know that I am the one being irrational here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:44 PM
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...how do you propose you measure sexually coercive behavior on someone who has not been sexually active recently? Genuinely curious how that would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:42 PM
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Right..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:41 PM
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This doesn't mean anything. These are self reports. And we already know men are more likely to hide their homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:58 PM
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I read that post. I didn't see any women doing gay acts and admitting they liked it lol. I saw a couple say that they experimented once in highschool/college, and specifically did not like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:47 PM
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The vast majority of women aren't going to deny that we are more emotional, in general. It is when you use that fact to come to misogynistic conclusions. "Men are more logical because women are neurotic" "Women can't be trusted in higher positions because they are more neurotic" The fact that you all choose to use the word neurotic to make it sound worse than it is, is proof of this. Yes, women are much more anxious, worried, and cry a lot more. But instead men will say women are neurotic to cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:36 PM
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No, I don't think that it is coercive to hit on a woman you don't know. That said, it sounds really weird. What do they mean by "target"? And using money, status and age? That's like saying a woman using her looks is coercive. In a lot of ways it isn't, but in other ways it very well could be. Lying about having money, status and their age comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:16 PM
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That's a different study - it's from 2023 It was published April 2026 Have not heard of any others tbh. Think you're mixing things up. These aren't upstanding people, but they're not criminals. The amount of men who used any amount of physical force was 10%, which is still too high, but nowhere near 95%. I am not saying they are criminals. (I was not the original commenter you replied to). But it is absolutely coercive and manipulative and tells us that we cannot trust most men when it comes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:48 PM
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Kinda agree with this. I had a friend who LOVED men, men LOVED her but...she also loved me. She hit on me all through highschool and took her chance when I was really drunk one night. I was disgusted. It was nearly 20 years ago and still gives me the shivers. Most men thought she was the hottest woman ever. I was still grossed out. Even drunk. I'd rather fuck a dick with a bag over his head. But I'm also really sex positive. I love dick. I love men. I was never weirded out or grossed out or scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:09 PM
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Incorrect. It invited all men of a certain age group. "A sample of 3,011 self-identified men ages 18 to 34 (Mage = 27.31) was recruited in the Spring of 2023 using an online panel (Qualtrics Research Suite) that invited all men who met criteria into the study. The study was described as exploring positive and negative interactions between men and women in sexual situations. The consent form indicated that the survey was men’s opportunity “to provide their side of the story given that we have hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:45 AM
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A vice article is hardly a source. There are more men who are gay. Conversely there are more women who are as bisexual. At least-outwardly.Bisexual people are the least likely to come out. And gay men are more likely to stay in the closet than lesbians. What does this tell you? The vast majority of people who are bisexual who are still in the closet are men Men have a much higher stigma when it comes to being gay than women do. Society says gay men are gross and lesbians are hot, so of course wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:01 AM
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You didn't post any studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:00 AM
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There's entire subreddits for "straight" men who both enjoy gay porn and have gay fantasies. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:56 AM
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You believe what confirms your paranoia. You'll disagree and argue with anyone that goes against it. Take with that what you will. I'm pretty sure men like men just as much as you find women liking women. Men just secretly fuck their besties but make homophobic jokes in public so you think there's less. There are literally subs on reddit for "straight men" enjoying gay porn but I've never seen the opposite. I've never seen weird dissertations from a woman about fantasizing about cheating on her …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:48 AM
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KillAllMen was genuinely funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:42 PM
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"I can't get a relationship I need the government to do it for me" These goons really do want to be issued a wife. Embarrassing to think. Even more embarrassing to type it out and hit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:31 AM
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They do this by losing attraction, losing respect, leaving, passing judgment and throwing those confessions up in men's faces during arguments or holding using it against him in other ways How are you equating interpersonal relationships to feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:23 AM
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Are you being dead serious? You think our government should focus on helping men get sex and relationships? You think our tax dollars should go to helping men feel happy? Can you point to any other time in history where the government has helped their citizens with interpersonal social skills? Ignoring the fact that this is actually an insane thing to think. How do you think the government will do that for you? Specifically..?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:17 AM
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They are stealing jobs from men This implys that the jobs were only for men to begin with. Which implys women shouldn't be allowed to work. Which implys that you want women to have to rely on men. Weird. I bet you're also confused when women call you a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:14 AM
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I bet you also would have an issue with women leaving a man/not giving him a chance over those "small things". A common phrase, "well didn't you talk to him first?!" Women really can't win here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:02 AM
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I'm 36 and it was the same 15 years ago. Most couples are <2 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:48 AM
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No, not in this context. Feminism is for men does not mean "women will never be shitty again". It means the current system hurts men too. For example, child custody court. In this case, the court system did its job. I am unsure what else you would like "feminism" to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:44 PM
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You can apply this same logic to men. Who commits the most crime? Who has a loneliness epidemic? Men and men. Maybe they are the ones who should have always been in submission?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:56 PM
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I grew up in a not so great area. Some of the absolutely lowest of low quality men were the ones who had boatloads of partners versus the more well adjusted better looking men. And their partners were equally low. It's not always tall dark and handsome business exec. Equally, if not more, it's dirty Joe down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:27 PM
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"Rules for thee but not for me" You could have just said that with a lot less words.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:58 PM
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There is a reason feminists say that "men get custody when they ask for it" but fight SO HARD against equal custody legislation Sounds like your mixing two groups together and acting like they are the same people. Criminal courts are strictly governed by criminal penal code. Everything is strictly standardised. Perfect. Then men do not receive harsher criminal punishments either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:50 PM
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Nope. I think they're both outliers. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:36 PM
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Exactly. You're getting closer to the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:31 PM
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Sure, but there's Turning Point USA, which at this point, is really no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:17 AM
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And they only hear about it because it's whined about on some manosphere podcast, no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:17 AM
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You keep saying this like it means something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:15 AM
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So, by this logic there is no such thing as divorce rape and men not getting custody is their own fault, since the judge is always bound by legal constraints to give a judgement based on evidence. Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:13 AM
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Sure, bad men would conversely support other bad men with money instead. We see it every single day so I don't really know what your point is. If the men who say terrible horrific shit are outliers, then these 30 women are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:11 AM
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Reminds me of a tik tok I came across one time. A mom was recording her young adult son crying his eyes out because the woman he had a baby with up and left him with a baby, and it was really hard. And the mom was giving him NO slack. I like to go back and watch it every now and again. Men would never survive as a woman. (Yes, I made sure to say he should have chosen better. Had to, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:01 AM
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All they do is tell on themselves. Male projection at it's finest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:58 AM
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Most cases involve knowingly and willfully ignoring easily readable cues in the other person, because it feels good to get that kind of attention in the short term Bullshit. Men say that to women in here all the time. Meanwhile she's just talking in generalities and when he doesn't have a good response, it comes out. "Hmmph, well sweety maybe it's just the men you choose" You don't know that they were "knowingly and willfully" ignoring red flags. You don't even know if she is talking about herse…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:53 AM
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The fact that it is more difficult for men and they still manage to do it equally if not more across all age groups tells me all I need to know. Men have to go out of their way to cheat. And yet, somehow, have the most insane paranoia revolving around the woman they are with cheating that they've created a whole movement around it. Ironically, but not surpisingly, said movement just encourages them to cheat even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:15 PM
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Most of these women are not in a relationship. Husband material became negative because men in relationships were compared to hookup material. This actually happens? Like, a significant amount? Even searching reddit I cannot find any stories of married men/men in LTR being randomly told by their women that she would have never hooked up with him. I can only find single men detailing why it's so bad. A statement like that sounds like a relationship ending statement. I cannot relate. My husband st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:02 PM
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why then men see it as insult? I think that's what this post is asking. We don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:13 PM
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That's still true lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:25 PM
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I bet you don't see the irony in this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:21 PM
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Yeah, I suppose I just see no utility in debating outliers. I didn't say that women are more mentally ill than men. Just that they are more diagnosed, which you agree with. I just don't see a reason to highlight that fact because it doesn’t actually mean anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:58 PM
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We have the most medicated population on the face of the planet, and the women are more diagnosed than men are This just tells me you don't read to understand Yes women are more likely to seek medical help. Both physical and mental. They are not being diagnosed more. They just seek help more, thus, giving women more opportunity to receive a diagnosis to begin with. If you never go to the doctor of course you'll never be diagnosed. But yeah. I don't know a single woman who married a man she doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:33 PM
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Well, no. The post is about both men and women, and what it means to be husband material and wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:10 PM
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Why do you care about what dysfunctional people think or do? They shouldn't be in your dating pool to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:09 PM
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Yeah I just don't know why you gendered it to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:07 PM
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No person can ever be sure how a relationship with their partner will look over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:02 PM
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Yeah. It isn't a reality so it's a shitty excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:58 PM
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Half of the posts are from women with a husband with low libido or choose porn over sex. What's your point? Some couples are a mismatch and should have never gotten married to begin with. How does that equate to ALL women marry men they don't want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:57 PM
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How does the first imply lack of attraction? That's literally just male paranoia fed to you by the manosphere. It doesn't even make sense. Women are looking for the most attractive, stable man they can find to marry. Such a weird assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:51 PM
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Why would a woman not fuck a man who is husband material? That's silly. She'll fuck him after marriage not before? Makes no sense unless she's saving herself for marriage. Your definition is the same exact definition for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:48 PM
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...I'm all ears
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:49 AM
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Which is such a crock anywho. Everyone absolutely judges a stay at home mom. My husband and I got pregnant unexpectedly right before I graduated with my degree. We kept the baby, obviously, but it meant that what I could earn wouldn't make up for childcare. It was the worst 6 years of my life, honestly. The way I was made to feel like a useless POS because I wasn't using my degree. Never again will I subject myself to that, and I will advise all women against doing so as well. The sad part is my…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:45 AM
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Have you seen how women who want to be housewives are treated? I don’t mean women who are currently housewives, since it’s too impolite to criticize their choice, after the fact. Society doesn't treat actual housewives well either. I stayed home for 6 years until our youngest started kindergarten. immediately went back to work. No one respects a stay at home mom. We ended up having a third 5 years later and I refused to quit my job again. And my husband was great about it. We always had a joint …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:39 AM
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I think the average woman is just more attractive than the average man. Similar to how the average man is taller than the average woman. Women didn't always put attraction first. Now they can. Here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:28 AM
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I feel like the vast majority of complaints in here are directly related to how children interact under 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:24 AM
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Seems fine. There are much worse posts in the Red Pill sub. Entire dissertations on why men should cheat on their wives with multiple women for the entire marriage and the comments filled with men patting him on the back. Imagine if you saw THAT in RedPillWomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:20 AM
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In a perfect world, men would just come with warnings on their foreheads. But it isn't a perfect world. Bad people get good things sometimes. Look at Trump. Terrible person. Great life. Everything goes his way. Absolute garbage human though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:20 AM
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This. And why would you marry someone so incompatible to begin with. Usually, by the time you get married, the couple has generally fully discussed everything. This isn't even a realistic scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:18 AM
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Honestly this is geniunely a stupid conversation. For one, who the hell gets married before knowing their partners sexual past? Why are you just learning about it after marriage to the point you are so butthurt you are giving ultimatums? This scenario literally does not happen. For two. Men don't leave marriages. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. This entire post is just a weird fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:08 AM
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You're the one moralizing it by saying women shouldn't select them for being "bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:25 AM
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So they could just not have sex, right? Men never seem to fully understand what they're actually advocating for lol I had an abortion. I was knocked up by my husband. I was young and couldn't find a doctor to tie my tubes or I certainly would have, as we already had two kids. I was also on the depo shot. Should we stop fucking our husbands until we hit menopause? Is this what you would like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:55 PM
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I had an abortion and I was on the depo shot. I got pregnant by my husband. It would have been our third kid, my husband had just had an accident at work, and we were young (25 and 27). We couldn't afford a third and made the decision together. Keeping it would have negatively impacted the actual children we already had. Or should we just stop fucking our husbands? Just in case?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:43 PM
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I've had an abortion. My husband and I had two kids under 3 and couldn't afford a third at that time, as we were both young and just trying to survive. I was on the depo shot and got pregnant anyways. It's funny because my scenario is somehow never what these dudes imagine. Married couples have abortions all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:39 PM
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He isn't, actually. He doesn't even really believe a fetus is a child. Otherwise he wouldn't have said this as justification for keeping abortion legal.. I think that things which don't harm others should be legal Proof that most men who are against abortion are really only against it because it punishes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:31 PM
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Imagine calling a child a medical condition. You don't even believe it's a child otherwise you wouldn't use the justification that "abortion doesn't hurt anyone else" to justify legalization. I think that things which don't harm others should be legal If you actually thought a fetus was a child that would mean abortion is harming others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:30 PM
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It isn't a separate human by any standards, biologically and legally, until it exits their carriers body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:22 PM
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This is a valid one. I don't think anyone should feel forced into doing anything they truly are not comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:52 PM
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Yeah I agree, personally. But I won't put that on other women. I know most women aren't into anal even though I am, for example. I don't really have experience with this as I've always been pretty sexually liberal. And I've been the most sexually liberal with the man I married. We've done it all. Hence why in my head, if she doesn't want to do it it is probably for a very good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:45 PM
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Yeah..I would totally understand if there's a specific trauma surrounding it, fine. Makes sense. But to just never want to do it and you've never even tried? It just confuses me how one could be attracted to a person, but not their genitals. I think, for me, sex would not be enjoyable if my partners genitals grossed me out in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:39 PM
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I would actually think the same exact thing if a straight woman was disgusted by the idea of giving her man head and have said exactly that to women who've said as much. Actually I've only heard some women say they think dicks are ugly or gross, which is just as odd to me. Because how are you putting your mouth on it then? We aren't talking about head though. To me head is a very basic part of sex with your partner. We are talking about either painful or degrading sexual acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:10 PM
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Yeah. I would not like performing oral on women either. But that's because I'm not attracted to women. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:53 PM
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Responsibility? I had a guy cum 3 seconds after sticking his hand down my pants before I ever even touched him. It isn't like men are doing anything special to make themselves cum consistently. Our bodies are different. I am not saying men are responsible for a woman having a more intricate orgasm process. I am just saying, don't complain when women don't want to sleep with you if you don't even care to try to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:36 PM
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Like what..?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:21 PM
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Arousal changes disgust sensitivity I mean..yeah? Absolutely. If I was disgusted by a man I wouldn't be having sex with him to begin with. That's what makes the whole topic so weird. But I am skeptical it happens often enough at a population level for guys to be spending CPU cycles worrying about. Agreed 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:44 PM
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Do men and women have the same genitals?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:42 PM
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Lol seriously. My husband must be a very good actor because he has been ferociously eating my pussy for the last 15 years. And, he's happy to just give me head and go about his day without expecting anything in return. Gonna go tell that man he needs a Grammy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:41 PM
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You guys frame everything with this angle of grape or man bad, it’s despicable. Let me tell you most guys don’t want to eat your stank coochie, but we eat that hairy muffin cause we know we gotta do what we gotta do. You woman disgust me Idk. If I was disgusted by my husband's cock I'd probably reevaluate if I was actually straight. Just saying. these guys do it and make that sacrifice Sex should never be a sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:22 PM
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And it's funny. Because men actually DO do their "reversed scenario". All the damn time. But whatever this paranoia is? Doesn't even happen. Projection like always.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:20 PM
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It's possible that the whole meme of her truly enjoying something with Chad when she was 23 that she doesn't want to do with her husband at 32 happens so rarely that it isn't a thing. That is a fair argument. That's just it. We don't see it actually playing out in reality so we don't know wtf y'all are on when you say this shit.. I asked for examples of this occurring on a previous post and every one of them occurred via casual relationships/one night stands..IF it even made it to that point. Us…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:14 PM
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Men have already been doing this to women since forever... Sounds like this insecurity is just another example of male projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:07 PM
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Then yes, many women have had this experience, so if you consider that force then that is what some men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:01 PM
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Where are you finding "only boomers" Using the dates of the studies, lol. Most millenials were barely adults in 2012 and Gen Z were all children A Swiss study literally tested this by having men of different income levels ask women for their phone number higher financial resources directly increased compliance, independent of look. It's of 2012 . https://econtent.hogrefe.com/doi/abs/10.1024/1421-0185/a000083?journalCode=sjp This is just the abstract. Where is the actual study they're referencing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:46 PM
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You are wrong about that, too. A lot of women are against receiving "oral". But anyway, I wasn't even talking about "oral"! Sex is not just "oral sex" either. There are many ways to have sex. Only one of them has a pregnancy risk. Erm..maybe at my old age of 36 I'm not hip to these so called other forms of sex. What else is there other than PIV, Anal (most women are not into this so I left it out for a reason), and oral/hands? I am not sure why you are taking this debate so personally that you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:22 PM
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There is no "foreplay". There is no obligatory PIV. It's all sex! tell that to men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:00 PM
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Women in even Scandinavian countries heavily go for richer man for marriage and the numbers Haven't changed much significantly in the past decade The study you're referencing was surveying boomers. Not Gen Z and not Millenials.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:44 PM
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Thought what? That you have no point You are arguing against a woman stating pregnancy is a very real risk by saying sex isn't just PIV. We're aware. Most men are not. It's just weird that you are using it against women as if women are the ones against receiving oral. Women give more than they receive. Even IF he is into foreplay, he's still gonna want to get his dick wet in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:40 PM
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It's funny. Because the vast majority, if not all women, are pushing back against her saying this. But redpill/incels will take this as proof that "women think this way". She isn't doing anyone any favors here that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:36 PM
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Thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:29 PM
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What? Lol. So basically you just want women to blow you. Because a lot more women are willing to engage in foreplay than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:24 PM
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How would that be more logical? ...milenia of telling women they are whores for enjoying sex ...milenia of women being forced to marry just to survive ...milenia of men controlling the narrative of what a 'good woman' is How can we shape the behavior of people that generally don't want us? Everyone is shaped by the people around them and society at large. No one is immune. You just don't want to think about women's effect on men No, I just think it's a wild statement, all things considered. Like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:15 PM
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Women condition men into these mindsets by how they choose partners No. This is a very "chicken or the egg". We can just as easily say men conditioned women into this very behavior to begin with. And, it would be a much more logical stand point, all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:09 PM
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If a game suddenly changed the rules right at the finish line, the man would just rage quit. So women are really doing their relationships a disservice by doing that I get the logic here but this is basically framing men as brainless fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:57 PM
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Oh absolutely. Most women are victims. I am talking about the type of women who still hang around men like Andrew Tate knowing full well what a POS he is. I know women like that. Drug addicted, manipulative, criminal narcissists. Again, not a woman I would ever support a family member dating. They only care about themselves and money. A very tiny minority of women. But they do exist. These are the women these red pill men use as "proof" that women choose to be abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:53 PM
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Ah yes, all of the unchosen men are: Not abusive Not cheaters Great humans And also... Secret sex gods Makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:44 AM
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What? Who said that? The vast majority of men are just garbage at foreplay if they do it at all. Most men want to skip straight to PIV. Personally I can orgasm either way. But that's only because my husband takes the time to give a fuck. Lots of men do not. Hence-he is my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:40 AM
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It's usually just foreplay and the man lasting longer if we're gonna be entirely honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:38 AM
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Even if we're on top (my personal preference), if y'all are gonna cum in 60 seconds who is that helping?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:37 AM
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They have no idea how fucking amazing sex is when you both orgasm at the same time, and that really is sad. Seriously how lame. My husband loves it. My orgasm is extra pleasure for him, and vice versa. Our bodies were MADE to orgasm in unison. It is the highest level of ecstasy. And these dudes have never once experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:15 PM
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is because an invisible infrastructure of prosocial men is actively keeping actual, real-world predators at bay around you. This makes zero sense. So these "prosocial" men are keeping the midandrist predators at bay, but not the misogynists? Doesn't sound very pro social to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:41 AM
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"Here, we report that perpetrators of infanticide were predominantly male"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:39 AM
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Woman? They were both teenagers lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:36 AM
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The vast majority of normal well adjusted women would do the same. The women that you see with these men? Not normal and well adjusted. At all. Women are not perfect. The assumption here is that all women are above water, and choosing men who are below water. No. The women choosing those men have issues as well. And, notably, they are not a woman I would ever recommend my brothers or sons to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:45 AM
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No, but are we going to pretend like this is the majority of cases? Do you expect me to assume that any time someone was abused, it was a 180 turn that came out of nowhere? Conversely you expect us to believe the opposite. In my 37 years of life, I do not know of a single woman who dated a man with the prior knowledge that he was abusive. Not a single instance. So I do find your claim hard to believe. That women are just knowingly going for known abusers and criminals, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:37 AM
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other than talkng down about how horrible and disgusting incels are? Your public comments don't exactly help your case here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:06 AM
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Yes, yes. We know. These are all intricate revenge fantasies. Your highschool crush wouldn't fuck you. Now every woman "deserves it". A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:03 AM
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So your theory on why women have a problem with this is not just wrong, it's projection. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:38 AM
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This sounds like a perspective of someone with both little sexual and romantic experience. Like someone who just wants the reward but doesn't have the insight to forsee the consequences. Geniunely I think men would actually hate such a new reality more than women would. Women have been dying for true sexual liberation. As it stands now though, most still have to lie to men about previous sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:30 PM
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But, he didn't say he went to a couples retreat. Just, outside. Off of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:23 PM
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Do you think that you would prefer a reality where womens sexuality WAS just like mens? You want your woman to be ready and willing to jump on every man she comes in contact with and only that will confirm she actually wants you? Are you absolutely positive you want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:00 PM
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Coincidentally all in this very subreddit too!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:55 PM
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which is why you all care so much to push back against OP’s narrative. I'm a married woman of 15 years who loves every inch of her husband's body. Realistically nothing said in here has any bearing on my personal life at all. Why would I care about young men "opting out". I just find this thought process absolutely unhinged. And disgusting. That's all. Just figured I'd let you know your theory on why women are bothered by this is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:36 PM
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I experimented with a woman one time in college. I was grossed the fuck out. No one would/ever did know, so it certainly wasn't that. I happily blow my husband every evening though 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:21 PM
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It's funny because they are all about evo-psych. Photos are very recent in human history. How they are measuring a womans sexuality based on how she responds to them is nonsensical even for them. Women are not wired to be turned on by pixels. Must be because we're asexual aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:19 PM
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...how is preferring a man in person "a metric fuckton of preconditions"?! I mean..pictures are a relatively new thing for humans. How exactly is women's nature being judged against them?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:11 PM
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Demographically speaking, if you're attracted to another person, you would more than likely risk your life to be with that person. What? I don't even think a man would risk his life based purely on attraction.. And no. Women are not willing to risk their life on a casual encounter just because she finds him attractive. How can you say the risk is irrelevant? It is the entire basis for how women, especially heterosexual women function? Conversely today there's ample contraceptive options for both…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:06 PM
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And yet, half of the posts in here are literal incel short stories lol THAT incel content is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:35 PM
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I don't know that that's true for bisexual women and lesbians, for starters. Secondly, having sexual relations with another woman as a woman will NEVER carry the same weight as having sexual relations with a man as a woman. Both physically AND socially. And, obviously there aren't any risks for gay men either. This is an extremely important piece of the puzzle a lot of you seem to flippantly ignore. There are very real risks involved for straight women. Men never have to worry about pregnancy. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:29 PM
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Ah, a continuance of your recent "women are actually aliens because their sexuality is not identical to mens" theory. 👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:15 PM
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Hardly even on the same level. Attraction is Attraction. If you're hot you're hot. Doesn't matter who or what they are if they're just looking for sex. (Also funny that the only way for you to "prove" a woman's depravity is by highlighting a criminal man-the jokes write themselves) Eating someone's shit is on an entirely different level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:18 PM
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I can't control myself, I am horny, I rape/go berserk = sex slaves provided "But why do women call us losers for this?! Calling us losers for wanting sex slaves is rape culture against men." The delusion seems to be getting exponentially worse these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:06 PM
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I am picturing in my head that scene from the manosphere documentary where his girlfriend was seemingly learning the realities in real time. I am pretty sure they broke up shortly after that. I mean geniunely. Imagine if women did this to men. A lot of the fears I see men have here revolve around the assumption that women think and behave this way only they do it 'under the radar'. It truly feels like projection. They see men so comfortably doing it out in the open they assume women must be doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:01 PM
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Basically, "fuck us, or ELSE" Meanwhile OP: "but why isn't this rape culture against the poor men?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:33 PM
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Well, that's just it. Autism, and really, any neurodivergence, presents differently in men and women. I have ADHD. I've always had to mask. Women are oftentimes diagnosed later and thus develop masking techniques early on. Men often don't. If you've ever watched the show Love on the Spectrum, you will see that the autistic women often have to coddle the autistic men. They have to mask to make the men comfortable. They have to make themselves uncomfortable for his comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:58 PM
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More
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:34 PM
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Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:28 PM
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I personally did exactly that with my own son. Who was/is borderline autistic. Sensory processing disorder and a speech delay, as he was a preemie. But at 16 he has zero issues with girls. Has a good head on his shoulders. Puts all his effort into school, sports, and lifting. Top of his class, all star year round athlete. Girls just land in his lap. I do still have to smack him when he chooses to use "females" instead of girls or women. Hoping that's just his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:05 PM
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Lmfao, no but I was certainly called other things. Seriously. This is geniunely ridiculous. No well adjusted teenager is going to listen to their family about what does and does not attract the opposite sex. They are going to look at their peers around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:55 AM
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...yes. Because I also had mothers, grandmother's, aunts, brothers, male friends, etc who said wild shit and I was intelligent enough to form my own opinions. I mean i was ESPECIALLY not listening to my own family lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:46 AM
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I remember watching a video where this man said he wants to be with a lot of women but she's not allowed to do the same thing. But if she does want to do that they just will no longer be in their relationship she said it was such there I thought he was saying what his dynamic comfort is. She was never manipulated she just didn't like choices And what part of this indicates he told her this BEFORE they became a couple? Sounds like he did so after the fact. Which is manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:45 AM
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His evidence is usually a screenshot of a comments section from 7 years ago where women were intentionally being silly/unserious LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:39 AM
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Idk if it was this dude or another similar black piller. But he was complaining about "comphet". Clicked on his profile and he had written up some psychotic essay about alien women not being attracted to men. I damn near fell over laughing. Again. Waste of time. They are deep in their own delusions. No one's getting them out. It's better to just troll them at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:36 AM
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You cannot have rational debate without morality. Then it becomes irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:22 AM
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It's not irrelevant though because now there are innocent women being caught in your cross fires.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:18 AM
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Because they know it's wrong and tipping that scale will expose red pill for what it really is? Or is there another reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:18 AM
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Sure, I think a lot of the red pill is fine, for dating. The problem with redpill is all the additional "ideals" and stories they are fed about women that has literally set misogyny on fire. It's absolutely crazy. 80/20 rule, Hypergamy, comphet to name a few. And then there is Married Red Pill. Where these men write entire novels about how they just have to cheat on their wife's. It's just..super important for their relationships or whatever. Which is interesting. Because in the early stages of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:15 AM
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An observation: autistic women are absolutely absurdly overrepresented on this subreddit. I swear it's like 50%. Fascinating. Fascinating indeed. This is the first time I've seen a woman say she is autistic in this sub. Conversely, I see a vast majority of men in this subreddit who are autistic, either outright admitting it or just for other obvious reasons. A lot of men even have it in their flair? It is evident by everything you all say. The lack of understanding. "I didn't know I had to be at…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:04 AM
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Sounds like you're just comphet then 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:58 AM
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Because although he may not be personally attacking her, per say, he is saying some extremely disgusting things about women. It's well deserved imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:56 AM
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As a former..promiscuous woman, a lot, and I mean A LOT more men are bisexual than they let on. They just never come out. Publicly, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:45 AM
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Alright. Women are lesbians. Now what? What's your point? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:58 PM
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Of course, no one said that, but the point being, it is easier for men to stay fit and lose weight, because their bodies allow for it. All this to say, although obese women outnumber obese men, overall, more men are overweight than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:59 PM
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Men's standards in the gutter=women live life on easy mode Now who's fault is that? Ok? You don't need to be obese to do that. Not sure if you're being purposely obtuse or if you are truly ignorant to the point here. Men and women have completely different bodies that perform completely different functions. There's no way you're any older than 14 if you can't even acknowledge that lol Women are both more susceptible to weight gain both due to hormones and higher frequency of autoimmune disorders…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:50 PM
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Yeah, women say that to eachother-sometimes. Behind closed doors women can be quite vicious towards eachother. That's neither here nor there. The point is the way men view women versus the way women view men, not society overall. It seems you're on board with that hypocritical viewpoint as well. If every man a woman meets acts like he reads the redpill manual every night, it's obviously her fault for choosing incorrectly. Conversely, if every woman a redpill man meets is not interested in him, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:37 PM
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More women are obese than men are in the USA Yeah. Women's bodies also have to be able to grow and carry entire humans. Plus, there is a good portion of men who prefer bigger women. When my friend lost weight, her dbag ex said "If I wanted a skinny bitch I would have picked a skinny bitch".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:43 PM
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You know, I do agree with you here overall. However, it is highly annoying that men are able to say all kinds of things about "women these days" and it's all women's fault (the entire basis of redpill). But when a woman does the same exact thing, well, that is also her fault. If 100% of them are an issue, it’s not men it’s something else Men would say it's because of their looks. That it is not their fault. Women's standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:34 PM
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Girl. Just lie. And never fuck men in the same circle, obviously. 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:26 PM
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So outside of ovulating, a man would have to engage in showing a woman that she's desirable and getting things going. She typically intrinsically feels this way when an egg is dropping. There's more confidence, energy, etc. Correct. And men "ovulate" every single day. Hence the difference in sexual desire. It confuses me how this is even a question as we are all animals at our core. In almost every single species, the male does the work, engages in fighting other males, builds the nests, all to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:22 PM
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probably me disagreeing is one of the reasons I orgasm so easily. I only fuck men who are desirable I was actually thinking this. I orgasm just about every single time I am intimate with my man. I know so many women who say "dicks are ugly/gross". It geniunely baffles me. How do you put it in your mouth, then?! How do you get aroused? I would geniunely find it weird and probably be highly offended if my man said vaginas were gross/ugly. Yes I've always been a bit "hypersexual", I guess. I enjoy …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:08 PM
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I do love fucking my husband in front of a mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:01 PM
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A questionnaire of...29 respondents?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:00 PM
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Liking dick, rather. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:41 PM
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Yeah. Idk what my problem is. I just keep fucking my husband even though I actually like women. I should have told him this morning, "No ❌️ I am a lesbian" but I still jumped on it anyways. I need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:12 PM
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who said anything about being "correct"? You. You've unilaterally decided that because women aren't exactly like men, then they're not straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:39 AM
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So...you'd be fine if women just started asking you for your dirty skid mark underwear because they want to smell it all day every day? You'd be fine if women started asking you in mass for photos of your toes? You'd be fine if women asked you to fart in their mouth? You'd still be hot and horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:35 AM
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There was just a post I saw the other day of a man pretending to be a woman on Instagram. Changed his picture and started commenting on girly things. Within a week he was getting slammed with messages from men asking "her" to fart in their mouths and ship them shit to...apparently eat. The guy ended it with "yeah I think I'm a misandrist now". But yeah. Women are the one's who have a weird sexuality 🥲🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:33 AM
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what a bunch of absolute perverted weirdos. Yes. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:27 AM
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This entire comment is you wondering why women's sexuality isn't identical to mens. Geniunely how childish. Why do you think men are the "correct" ones? Maybe men should be more like women. Maybe men should stop being such horn dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:25 AM
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I only see men do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:20 AM
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single young females. Yes. Your lack of luck with women is totallllly only because of how you look. It can't possibly be because you refer to women as animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:19 AM
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This is pretty basic here. Goodness. If it is true that abortion laws are not anti-woman, that they are only anti-murder, then it would follow that those same people who are pro-life and/or states that have outlawed abortion, would also be against/outlaw IVF/fertility clinics. An inherent function of an IVF/fertility clinic is that, in the creation of embryos, will also be the destruction of embryos. An IVF clinic, then, is equally murderous. Yet, I do not see pro lifers picketing those clinics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:43 PM
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Fertility clinics routinely discard and destroy embryos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:44 PM
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Um, wtf are you talking about? Lmao. Past ancestors? Be absolutely for real. The vast majority of women become disillusioned like this only after first hand experience that starts around the age of 10 and never stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:49 PM
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That is true, but for unattractive women? They aren't even part of the conversation. They don't exist. They're entirely ignored. It is almost as if in these conversations, we are always assuming unattractive women do not even exist. They do. At the end of the day the post is just dumb. No one is shaming anyone for choosing to stay single. Especially today when it is more accepted than ever. And once the boomers are gone it will be even more accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:37 AM
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An "over-aged" single man could definately be looked at like something shameful Same for women. I still don't see the point of the post. What OP claimed is happening is not happening at all. I have never in my life seen women attack a man for even just making an off hand comment about staying single/not having kids. At the very most, she may push back against some underlying misogyny if it's there. But that's it. A woman mentions it? Her comment section is flooded with men threatening to rape he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:27 AM
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That's recent How recent do you think it is..? Maybe not if you were a farm hand, but then you were one of the "expendables" Oh you're going back that far. How is this even relevant to today's conversation? Being a bachelor is a good thing in ALL of our living memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:55 AM
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Yeah. All of that also applies to women as well. Women also have to hear it from their families, liberal or not. When women are single they are called "crazy cat ladies" and "Barron bitches". And it's been like that forever. Men have only been recently been called incels. But it is also directly related to their behavior. When I hear the word incel I do not think of a lonely single man. I think of a misogynistic asshole who blames everything wrong in his life on women. But for the most part, a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:40 AM
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Ah, red pill. It doesn't matter what women say about attraction, you'll find a way to whine. Choose a man below her level? She's settling. Choose a man above her level? Hypergamous bitch. Choose a man who is equal? Well now she's comphet. Carry on. Maybe flair yourself next time so we don't all waste our time on your circular nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:12 AM
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but who they are did not. I don't see your point. My brother cheated on his highschool girlfriend. Big drama. Relationship ended. He was kind of a prick about it. Fast forward 15 years. He treats his wife like a queen. Would never cheat on her. Yeah, he is the same person. He still has the same humor. He's still super smart. And yes, he still cheated on his highschool girlfriend. But that has zero bearing on his life now. (And ultimately his wife would have been silly to hold that against him, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:07 PM
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Right, the point is their behaviors are different. I am not saying people's personality does a 180. But behaviors, which are the biggest complaint, are what changes. The girl in highschool just using dude because he buys her alcohol? She's just being a selfish teenager. She probably has zero desire for a relationship. She doesn't GAF. This is not how adult women behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:00 PM
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Yeah. Disagree entirely. People do dumb shit in highschool. It is the entire point of being a teenager. Do all the things you'll never get away with as an adult. I mean. I know people who were either drunk or rolling 24/7 that now have a whole family, 2 car garage and a white picket fence. Some of the craziest girls in highschool are now these organic, all natural religious nuts. Meanwhile they used to suck random D on a Tuesday. Hell, some of the most promiscuous girls I knew (with men) are now…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:49 PM
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..it's because large swaths of us are excluded for various reasons, either being childbearing age, pregnant or breastfeeding depending on the study. Men don't have any such exclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:42 PM
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Perfect! Sounds like everyone is comphet in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:07 PM
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Is it also comphet when men choose women who are equal or below their level? Tell me more!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:42 PM
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Most people met their partner in college, at work, randomly somewhere. Right place right time Has there been some kind of quantifiable drop in college enrollment? Why aren't you still meeting eachother in person? Why are you all walking past eachother on campus, going back to your dorm and opening a dating app? Geniunely that sounds miserable. The best part about college was all the interaction, meeting new people, hanging out with people you never would have before. Buying a keg on a random Wed…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:20 AM
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I have 4 younger cousins between 18-25 (I'm 35). None of them have this issue. I've asked because it's fascinating to me. My one cousin is morbidly obese and even he always has a girlfriend. None of them use dating apps they meet their partners organically just like I did 10 years ago. Y'all need to put the damn phones down. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:57 AM
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Yeah. This is why I never give dating advice here. I don't relate to any of it. But I absolutely will speak on anything and everything that comes after the dating stage. And, if I'm being entirely honest, yeah dating apps have gotten more popular. But kids still go to college. They still party. They still interact. That is and always has been the best way to get your foot in the door. I have some younger cousins. None of them have this issue but they also all go to college. One is even extremely…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:54 AM
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That is such a crock of shit. It isn't like men have suddenly gotten uglier over the past decade. There's more to it than just looks. I think you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:49 AM
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Eventually when I remember how to (or care enough) I'll put my age in my flair. Tried the other day and apparently forgot how to do it. 😅 Honestly I wish everyone would put their age. It definitely would give some of these comments context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:45 AM
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We probably landed here due to a post or two making sweeping statements about women, who they marry, when they marry, why they marry, etc etc etc. What makes you think you know shit about fuck when it comes to marriage and real relationships? Half of the shit I read in here that men say "women" do is literally high school nonsense. You’re barely out of diapers bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:43 AM
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I'm fine with that. But also, if you're in your early 20s you also shouldn't be giving advice (or making fictitious statements) about married life. You just got out of diapers as far as I'm concerned. You have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:40 AM
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if asnything a women will like a man who has been around alot. its well proven preselction. and the man is desirable. Bullshit lol. I purposely avoided those dudes. In fact, I was platonic friends with those dudes which is why I stayed single longer than any of my friends. I knew too much. Guys who had girlfriends back home fucking 2,3,4 bitches at college. Then calling his girl right after to say goodnight. Gtfo 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:33 AM
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None of the men I dated were in the top 20% either but neither am I. I can both acknowledge women AND men who are more attractive than me. And really, I was never interested in the "top" men anyways. I don't want a man who's more vain than I am. Plus it's like talking to a wall. They never had to develop personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:29 AM
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Do we actually have to imagine this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:05 AM
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No idea what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:52 PM
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No he isn't lol. No one called OP a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:45 PM
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Who is a victim? This guy is staying single and living his best life by choice. Where is the victim??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:36 PM
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All of our aunts do this shit regardless of gender. If aunts are nothing else they're fucking nosey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:35 PM
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I have never in my life seen a man "blamed" or "put down" or really, anything but celebrated for living the bachelor life. What on God's green earth are you talking about? Who is yelling at men? I do not see women on reddit typing up revenge essays trying to scheme plans to get men like you to fuck them and give them children "for societies sake" but I sure do see the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:33 PM
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then red pill wouldn't say that she's not yours it's just your turn This is the perfect example of red pill pretending women behave like men LOL. They say that because they're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:08 PM
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Damn. Y'all are kinder than me. I don't give bjs to selfish men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:18 PM
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men in general are willing to tolerate more when she is attractive I was just saying yesterday that everything redpill claims about women is really just the way men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:17 PM
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bacterial vaginosis? A. He said there would have to be something medically wrong. BV is something medically wrong B. You shouldn't be sticking your thing in a woman with a BV infection either..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:11 PM
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This is the one. It's so funny to me that men claim to understand how women think. I dated one extremely "conventionally attractive" guy (he was an Abercrombie model). Those dudes are boring. He had absolutely no personality and was shit in bed. He never had to develop anything outside of looking nice. I eventually just left him on read it was that painful. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:56 PM
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Short averaged face men get pussy and are abusive assholes all the time. Help what reality did you come from LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:47 PM
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Fantastic rebuttal. I'm convinced!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:41 PM
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If this were true, I'd expect to have a dating app inbox filled with fatties Women still inherently wait for men to make the first move no matter what so this doesn't really compute. Especially a woman with lower self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:24 PM
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Wtf are you talking about dumbass? Um, no name calling. That was highly unnecessary. She said it isn't a good thing that a man who would spit on her would also fuck her. You accused her of being a lesbian because she doesn't want to fuck a man who isn't enthusiastic about her. But-men in here (especially blackpill as your flair indicates) say every single day that the upmost important thing is that a woman wants to enthusiastically fuck him. Why can't women have that same standard otherwise they…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:17 PM
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Yeah. I agree with this. If what you're doing isn't working, then, well 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:39 PM
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Don't you want women to enthusiastically fuck you? Why would you expect any less of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:08 AM
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Wouldn't the most simple solution be for the men who have no options to mold themselves into the type of men the women want? Instead men have taken the route of screeching and whining on the internet. Instead they have dug their heels into misogyny. I don't know. I just feel like it would be so much easier for men if they just listened to women LOL. I mean. You can't want women THAT much if you refuse to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:06 AM
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You sound exactly like my husband. Y'all are a rare breed indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:47 AM
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QUICK lmao. Right off the market you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:41 AM
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This is real as fuck. I had a few casual encounters in college. Not one night stands, but FWB. I'd say most of them did try going down on me. Some tried for a long time. But they also mostly didn't know what the fuck they were doing and then would get butthurt that I didn't orgasm so wouldn't want to try again. My husband is one of the few men who DOES absolutely want to live there. Key word. My husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:37 AM
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No, I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:19 PM
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Sure, I do see an issue IF a woman did make that decision without his input. I would think she is a fool. I just don't see a point in talking about statical anomalies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:12 PM
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It's me saying the vast majority of pregnancies are planned and/OR, if an unexpected pregnancy occurs, the decision is made between the couple. No woman wants to be a single mother right out of the gate so the notion that these young women are intentionally going against what he wants is a bit braindead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:57 PM
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There is also a lot of research coming out showing womens bodies actually need more sleep than mens. https://health.clevelandclinic.org/why-women-need-more-sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:04 PM
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The vast majority of men are making that choice in conjunction with the woman already. Unless you think that most men on child support are a result of a one night stand and the guy had absolutely no clue until she served him child support papers? And in that case I'd ask for a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:00 PM
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Following me? 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:55 PM
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It's actually wild how narcissistic these dudes in here are. They're all alone in their mothers basements talking to other men all alone in their mothers basements pretending like there isn't an entire reality outside of reddit and tik tok where women are happily fucking their husbands every day. You cannot convince me that these men are a part of normal society. All it takes is walking outside to see how full of shit they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:54 PM
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Yep, this is the answer. I don't watch a lot of porn but if and when I do? I actually choose bisexual male porn. Because then I still get to see the 🍆 without all the weird chocking, spitting and slapping nonsense that immediately grosses me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:49 PM
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Ugh. I am really tired of the ladies in r/women giving out all of out secrets. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:52 PM
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I swear I'm having deja vu here. Didn't we just go over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:50 PM
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Yeah. We both play our roles. I handle the money because I'm an accountant by trade. He isn't good with numbers (or finances if I'm being completely honest). The idea of a man doing everything for his wife is just odd to me. I'm a very independent woman. I don't need a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:06 PM
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Unless you can find a man do it for you What, like .01% of men? That is exceedingly rare if they even exist at all lmao. If I died right now, my hubby would have a hell of a time trying to figure out life. He will tell you that himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:56 PM
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OR he'll promise her he will be a stay at home dad if she just has a baby for him because he knows how much she worked on her career and then 5 minutes after she pushes the baby out, shames her for being a bad mom and "choosing her career over her own child" (because he realized how fucking hard and degrading it is). Ya really can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:51 PM
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"Divorce rape" "She took half MY stuff"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:23 PM
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It isn't. American men are the same lol. No, it is not like the 1930s where men demand their wife to iron his undies and always be walking around with a full face of make up or whatever. It's more like, man gets married, continues on with his regularly scheduled programing (the job he already had), they decide to have children, she has to take time off work. While she's off work with the baby she does a little extra at home to make up for it. He gets used to it. She goes back to work. He never p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:59 AM
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No. It's just that unmarried women don't know it's slavery yet. They still believe in the fairy tale romance and partnerships that they were promised with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:53 AM
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Then why do men still pretend like they are the providers? Can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:52 AM
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That's because those women have never been married and fully believe that marriage is a partnership. They don't know what they dont know yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:42 AM
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For some women it may be. Some women, for whatever reason I'll never understand, apparently don't like it. For those women it would not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:39 AM
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But why? Saying that to the guy would also be ending the relationship. It just means we tried and it didn't work. I don't see it as a horrible thing. You're not going to love every sexual experience. Men more than anybody agree that sex is important. I would only find this bad if it was your long term girlfriend or wife. Obviously then something is amiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:57 AM
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No I get the point that men are making. I even said it's valid if it happens. I just don't see it actually happening on any meaningful basis. Every story I've gotten were of short term flings and the relationship ending immediately after. That is not your long term girlfriend or wife refusing to do sexual acts with you because you're a "beta". It is always framed that way. But really it just sounds like normal dating stuff. Men do this to women ALL the time too. "Sorry, I just don't have that vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:54 AM
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LMAO wtf?? How do you know what a large penis feels like inside of our vaginas. The audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:41 AM
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Yeah, I laughed, but that's exactly why I laughed. Mens ego. Because I geniunely can't even relate to the topic specifically. When I started dating my husband, the only time I'd "compare" him to my ex was to note how much better he was than my ex and thank God I wasn't with that idiot anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:37 AM
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That's the point. We don't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:31 AM
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Yeah. I agree with the main theme of her post. But the body is mostly bullshit. No one is neglecting their kids because their husband is "oh so hot". I also don't see a man as childish and immature for simply WANTING sex more often. I think that's just normal. Hell, I WANT sex more often too but sometimes the logistics of having 3 kids and working full-time doesn't help that. I would only feel that way if he begged and whined and acted like a child about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:05 AM
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Do you have children? I was an every day type of woman pre-kids. Now I strive for at least once a week. Those little shits can be a real cock block sometimes, especially when we both work full-time. Someone's got a baseball game. Someone has a doctor appointment. Dinner needs to get on the table. And before ya know it it's 10PM and we both have to be up by 5AM. Sometimes we sneak it in the morning if we can. But yeah. It geniunely fascinates me when I hear women with whole families still having …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:50 AM
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Absolutely valid and I totally understand feeling hurt in the moment. It wouldn't be fun to hear I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:16 AM
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Ah. I guess I don't see anything wrong with this then. She tried and it didn't work. She told you the truth fairly early and moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:06 AM
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Saying "I don't feel that vibe with you specifically, boyfriend" is not the same as saying "I tried it once and it hurt" or "I felt pressured to do it and didn't like it". Like..entirely different. If I said the first thing to a guy it would mean I wasn't into him. If I said the second or third, it would just mean I'm not into those acts specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:58 AM
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Yeah but you weren't the one she did it to? Was she also in long relationships with the two others she did say this to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:38 AM
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Honestly I can only think of a couple things you all may be alluding to here. Anal. If it hurt and she hated it, it hurt and she hated it. Different if she did it ALL the time with her ex and never with you. But also, maybe it's because you're much bigger than he was. Threesome. She's not going to want to do it if she actually loves you. She may have done it with another guy but that's because she didn't care about him. Blowjobs. Same as anal. If she hates it she hates it. If she did it all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:27 AM
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Ah, I see. Yeah. I mean it sounds like she wasn't ever really "wife" material to begin with. "Here for a fun time not a long time" type of woman. I suppose the way that this has been said, I have been imagining long term girlfriends and wives doing this to this men. Which is why it was something I just couldn't imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:16 AM
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...and you stayed with her? How long were you dating before she said this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:13 AM
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I would be curious to come over and hear what they actually have to say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:33 PM
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If you don't mind sharing-what exactly are you talking about? I am getting mixed signals here (not from you just in general). Is it specific kinky sex acts or just enthusiastic sex in general? Also I do have to say it is super weird that this Ash girl shared her sex life she had with you with her exes. And then they shared it back with you lmao. Genuinely sounds like a woman with a few screws loose because who the heck even does that 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:29 PM
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Yeah that is definitely shitty. I am glad she is an ex!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:12 PM
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As for how I know, well I simply asked. If nothing else, all my relationships have had pretty open communication. Okay. I suppose I can see this if you asked the girl specifically about previous partners and she answered. At that point, telling a guy this would probably also be a relationship ender, no? But I do have to ask. How do you know that the women who have told you that they've only done "xyz" with you never went on to do it with men after you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:08 PM
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That doesn't mean they're equally attractive though. It just means that women are more attractive on average. For example. The average man is 5'9". The average woman is 5'4". You would not look at the averaged height man and the averaged height woman and say they are equally as tall. Same works for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:48 PM
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its invalid to deny something ever happens Did I do that? Or did I ask for clarification and say that I just can't imagine a woman thinking that way? You came right out the gate like a bat out of hell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:36 PM
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Why cant woman just take accountability for once without making it a “men do it too moment”??? Why would I take accountability for something I've never done nor have I seen happen in real life? I cannot remember the last time a Woman just admitted something without making it a “we only do it(if we admit it) because men do it too” Huh? I think you're misreading me because I never once said women only do it because men do it. What I said was that men THINK women behave that way because MEN behave …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:14 PM
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So because YOU cant imagine a scenario this happens mean it never has right? You’re the judge now? As a woman I do think I am a better judge on the way women think and behave, yes. I am sure you also feel the same way in reverse, no? Are you genuinely implying this has never happened Everything is possible. But no I don't think it's something that happens to men in serious/long term relationships on any type of regular basis. Again, women simply do not function that way. If she is not enthusiast…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:07 PM
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if it happens in 1 it happens in the other I think this is the issue. This assumption. Because it's not even a true conclusion. Yes, absolutely, it is bad both ways. That doesn't mean both genders do it. My true geniune thoughts? Red pill has basically flipped every single concern women have ever had about men, and applied it to women. It's why so much of what I see here seems so insanely illogical and out of left field. Because it just simply is not how women think and function. It matches the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:04 PM
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They really underestimate how difficult it is for a woman to have sex with a man she is not physically (and enthusiastically) attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:56 PM
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Without going into too much detail, I’ve been on the better end of this. An ex, fwb, whatever you wanna call her, told me there were a couple of things she’d only do with me, because I was the only one that ever did them correctly, and with little instruction. I’m sure scenario 1 is more common. But scenario 2 certainly exists This makes sense, but it doesn't sound like you, or the others were boyfriends anyways. If she's just having casual sex I don't see a problem with choosing the best perfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:38 PM
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I'm geniunely not being dishonest at all? Why don't you give me an example then? I just cannot imagine a scenario where this would happen. I'm confused how the guy would even know she was "more enthusiastic" with her ex, and what does "more enthusiastic" even entail? If a woman thought a guy was THAT much worse in bed than her ex, that guy would also become an ex rather quickly if he even became a boyfriend to begin with. It just makes no logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:31 PM
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Yep. I just realized on this post this is the SAME thing women have BEEN dealing with for, idk, forever. They just flipped it to be about sex lol. He posted pictures of him and his ex all over social media but won't even add her as a friend. Did all kinds of grand gestures for his ex but won't even buy her flowers. Married his ex. Tells her he will never marry again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:28 PM
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Yeah I can see women talking about that flippantly about men she's just casually having sex with. I cannot imagine a woman saying this about a boyfriend though. Because if that were the case he wouldn't have ever been her boyfriend, or at least not for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:23 PM
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Exactly lol. Like they lie too how do they believe other men 🤣 But it's also odd because most men in here act like the ONLY way they can meet women in 2026 is through OLD. Idk. My husband and I met through our social group. In fact I never would have met him if I didnt date my ex first. Was never an issue with either of us 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:13 PM
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Yep...absolutely. I can agree with this. I did comment on the main post that I can absolutely understand feeling that way regarding scenario 2, if it happens. I think it's a combination of things. The younger you are the less experience the less opportunity to be jaded. It's unfair, in my opinion, to compare someone's behavior at 19 yo someone's behavior at 30. I was a moron when I was a teenager. I did a lot of stupid shit that I would never consider doing (not even sex or men related) AND I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:05 PM
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Can you explain what you mean? I have asked several times and no man who is claiming this happens will explain. How does the guys she's dating even know she was more enthusiastic with previous partners? Or is it something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:59 PM
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The way he treats her outside of sex. Did he do all these grand gestures for his ex but won't even buy you flowers? Did he post pictures of himself with his ex on social media but won't even add you as a friend? Did he marry her but refuses to marry you? So many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:49 PM
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Right. I cannot even imagine scenario 2 actually happening. How do they even know how enthusiastic she was in bed with other men to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:39 PM
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Hmm. Interesting. I guess men and women are getting a bit more equal. Welcome to our world. Sucks, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:37 PM
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I mean. I can actually agree with this. But does scenario 2 actually even happen? Can any man give a real life example of this happening? Because I'm geniunely trying to imagine it and I just can't. The only scenario i can imagine happening is #1. Question. How do you know how enthusiastic she was with other men to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:34 PM
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How is it even humiliating? Aside from the fact that I can't really decipher what the hell any of you are talking about? Anal? Blowjobs? Three somes? Why would anyone else besides you and her even know what sex acts she's done with you verse other men? Who is shaming you??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:42 PM
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Why are you so pissed about who his wife was fucking? He was fucking other women too. You're not even trying to hide your hypocrisy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:38 PM
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Probably. Being that the "old dudes" don't seem to have such an incel/red pill problem in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:36 PM
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Can you give a real world example? This conversation seems a bit allusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:33 PM
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I mean, all of the comments on this post are evidence of it. The insistence that women aren't attracted to men, they are comphet, etc, because we don't think the same as men. We have two entirely different lived experiences and insisting that your own lived experience is the correct baseline is projecting your worldview onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:14 PM
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Irrelevant. Point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:03 PM
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It is. So are you then saying men DO care about what's on the inside? Who are you agreeing with here. Also, nice duck and dodge. Didn't have a response to the other thread so you followed me to another comment to drop off some irrelevant nonsense. Typical. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:49 AM
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If I was body dead I would be dead lol. Basically, if you go into a coma your woman won't want you anymore. She'll leave immediately (like men more often do) because now your body is useless and there's nothing else you offer. If she actually cared about you, she would stay coma or not. Because YOU are more than your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:27 AM
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This just highlights female narcissism where they think they're more attractive than men which ironically just proves my point. 'Is it my standards being ridiculous? No, it's 80% of men who are ugly'. I don't think 80% of men are ugly personally. I just think men are much more likely to wait to get married until they manage to find a woman exponentially more attractive than he is. It's not narcissism at all. I have eyeballs. A chopped balding overweight dude with a drop dead gorgeous wife is jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:03 AM
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That's kinda funny. Maybe these men are starting to understand how women think and are beginning to prefer maturity. Very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:01 AM
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As I quite clearly pointed out. Sure, you smashed some words together. Doesn't mean it's correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:58 AM
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As a result, men aren't really desired for who they are, or even their body (which is an upgrade over being desired for your money), but for what they can do and provide. Welcome to being a woman. Enjoy the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:52 AM
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That may happen with young women on dating apps who are just looking to fuck. But in actual reality, in the vast majority of couples, the woman is levels more attractive than the man. Only the very top men end up with a similarly attractive women. It's rare. Even rarer is a man more attractive than the woman. I have never once seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:51 AM
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Valid. I just hope you say the same thing when a Red Piller makes a ridiculous post as well. (Doubtful, as redpill revolves around assuming women think exactly like men)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:47 AM
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That is actually understandable. The problem arises if and when they do get into a relationship and find that is not all that is needed. If they never want to get into a relationship and just have sex, sure, fair enough. But I'm going to hazard to guess those who have more experience in relationships are probably the correct ones here, when it comes to what is important in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:44 AM
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My fingers typed the message, sure. But the message wouldn't exist without my brain. If I was brain dead, my body would still exist but I wouldn't be typing any messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:38 AM
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It isn't any worse. In fact, being wanted for your body is the worst one of them all. It's just surface level. You'll never keep anyone that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:33 AM
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Literally? 98% of rapists never spend a day in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:07 PM
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Maybe they're just taking the same lead men take when it comes to these things? What's good for the goose is good for the gander and all that. Men don't believe they should "police men" for misogynistic behaviors, or being abusive or being rapists. But you want women to police women for mean words on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:36 PM
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Barely legal? What? Also, it's not niche at all. I have zero issues finding it if and when I want to watch porn lol. Every single free site has a bisexual male category. 😉 Man yells at clouds
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:00 PM
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Haha. Yep that sounds exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:44 PM
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Interesting. And exactly what does the woman get out of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:35 PM
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Feminism never told men they have to listen to women whine and yet, somehow, feminism means women have to listen to men whine? Instead of the usual red pill deflection of "you're too stupid to understand", how about you actually explain yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:15 PM
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but it’s difficult to find porn with good shots of men performing oral on women Seriously. Pro-tip. I eventually learned that all the good male on female oral shots are in the bisexual MMF categories, oddly enough. It has to be bisexual men though. Throw a bunch of straight men in an orgy with one woman and they all start doing weird shit like slapping her with their 🍆 and spitting in her mouth 🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:39 PM
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What's interesting about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:36 PM
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Literally lol. I don't know where they get this from. I don't even like hetero porn if it focuses on her too much so I do actually prefer MMF or even gay porn. If a second woman enters the picture that's a big nope. I really just want to see the 🍆 whilst avoiding the 😺 as much as possible. And yes. I agree. Love hearing men moan. Hate hearing women moan lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:17 PM
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I'm not turned on by lesbian porn at all. Why do black pill men say this? I find it gross. I don't even like hetero porn if it focuses on her too much. I would even choose gay porn over lesbian porn 10/10 times. A vagina gives me the heeby jeebies. I don't want to see it. Who is telling you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:14 PM
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"Met a few" =/= "a loud majority of men in this particular sub". I do agree it's dumb to base your ideals on bad apples. But I don't think that's what this is. I'm pretty sure she was alluding to a particular post in this sub from a few days ago where most men agreed. It is perfectly valid to use the men in this sub whilst debating in this sub. Editing to add: Women don't really do this. Yes, a woman would not like you painting all women with a broad brush. However, instead of an immediate defle…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:34 AM
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What does forcing women to listen to you whine have ANYTHING to do with feminism or equality? Y'all just blame everything on feminism 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:00 AM
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My point I guess is I don’t think that there are enough normal women to go around for the normal men. Whereas you probably do and that’s why you think if a man is single it must be because it’s something he did like being “disagreeable”. Less normal women than normal men and yet, women aren't the one's having the issue. You sure the men are the normal ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:52 AM
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And women should give these men who only think with their dicks a chance, you say? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:49 AM
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Why do you males constantly deflect like this? You do realize where you're at, no? She is talking about what men in this sub say. Even if she wasn't, men LOVE pretending like bad men are an entirely different gender and they don't count as one of your own. You do this by deflection tactics like, "sounds like you have poor taste in men".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:41 AM
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What is this fairy tale? Come back down to reality bud. You are acting as if every single mom/woman who has had an abortion is solely a result of casual one night stands, and thus she unilaterally chooses with zero input from the guy. Most single moms were at the very least dating the guy when she got pregnant and they absolutely make that decision together. No woman wants to be a single mom. You know this so making the claim that women would go through and make a whole child with the KNOWLEDGE …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:45 PM
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Avoidance and moving the goalpost Buddy. You replied to my comment with a youtube link. The irony is delicious 🤣 Men and projection: an ongoing saga
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:33 PM
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Avoidance and moving the goalpost Buddy. You replied to my comment with a youtube link and nothing else. The irony is delicious 🤣 Men and projection: an ongoing saga
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:32 PM
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Men and projection: an ongoing saga
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:27 PM
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Men pretending to care about a fetus when they can't even be fucked to care about their own living breathing children will never not be hilarious to me. Rage on friend. Us women enjoy our murderous ways thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:24 PM
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How so? She was born. Even by this logic you make zero sense. Why would women be afraid of their own mothers who carried them to term because other mothers aborted their fetus? No fetus is at risk of another mother aborting them. Only their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:13 PM
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Lol. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:31 PM
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I agree with this. It's dumb. I don't get along with high maintenance women like that personally. But also. "Boy bosses" say the same exact thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:50 PM
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It is unequal. That isn't the same as being disadvantaged. These are different words, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:47 PM
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I'm sorry you are having reading comprehension issues. It is wrong because reproduction is a direct result of "dating" men. You can't reproduce without interacting with a man romantically, can you? Or are we all virgin Mary's?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:40 PM
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She didn't say women were disadvantaged in dating. She said women were more selective in dating because of disadvantages that can occur as a direct result of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:39 PM
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being related to something does not make two things the same? No one said it did i'm not sure why you're projecting something other people said onto me, please go take out your anger elsewhere I'm not angry at all. I'm actually having a great weekend getting stoned to the bone with my girls for mothers day ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:33 PM
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What? Dating leads to sex which may very well lead to reproduction. That is the entire end goal for most people. Also, you conveniently ignored the safety aspect. Men want to blame women for "choosing" a man who ends up beating her but they also want to be pissed at women for being careful so she doesn't "choose" a man who beats her. Make it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:25 PM
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Calls me lazy. Didn't even read the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:40 PM
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It's literally in the post dude. I'd copy and paste it but I'm on mobile and don't GAF enough. Read it or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:58 AM
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"Women are entitled and selfish because they won't pay attention to us ugly men. All men, IGNORE WOMEN" You: "but why won't the women just have empathy?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:51 AM
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Women are never going to have empathy about a man's dating struggles when said man trashes all women in the process. Having a hard time dating doesn't violate their human rights. They are bitching and moaning about interpersonal skills. That's it. No empathy necessary. Maybe if these dudes took a different approach we'd be in a different position but the incels and red pill have already spoiled the well. I don't think there's any coming back at this point. I dont know. Maybe their goal WAS to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:49 AM
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This. It's the low effort for me. People need to just ignore this entire post instead of typing out essays he isn't even reading. He isn't gonna bother why should anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:08 AM
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Sure, whatever you want princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:51 AM
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Yes of course. Agreed. Definitely rare. Let it play out in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:48 AM
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Yeah. Idk. I'll say it's weird to me also. My husband was initially just a hook up and it blossomed from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:21 AM
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You keep bringing up Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. If I'm being entirely honest, I didn't care to pay attention to that case. However, most people were and still are on Depps side so idk what your point is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:11 AM
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What's the conclusion then?
/r/MensRights08/05/26 08:33 PM
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Because the men literally co-opted it and turned it into something else? Unless you have other proof it was an intentional thing done by women I don't know what you're implying here.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 08:03 PM
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Incel has absolutely morphed into basically any man
/r/MensRights08/05/26 07:04 PM
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Exactly. Why are you comparing that to outward appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:47 PM
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Incel has absolutely morphed into basically any man that openly hates women. People even call redpill men incels and they get plenty of women. Just like boomer isn't literal anymore. It just means anyone acting willfully ignorant and/or selfish.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 06:34 PM
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So men finding dating shitty these days is not them claiming its literal oppression I geniunely do not know why you think I ever said this to begin with LOL Men always just want to argue. I said every other post in r/mensrights is about feminists or dating. That's it. Which each post I shared shows very clearly. They claim stuff like sending men to war is I agree. It does get weird when they start blaming women, though. Women, feminists and democrats are the only groups who have ever tried to ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:23 PM
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I never said that to begin with. I said mens rights groups are mainly filled with complaints about women and feminists rather than actual mens rights issues. You asked why I don't say the same to feminists groups complaining about how men oppress them. I answered that I don't because dating struggles is not oppression. If mens rights groups were more about how the upper class is shitting on them that would be one thing. Very valid. I'm in their corner. There are a million different topics. But i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:19 PM
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Remind me of the obesity stats I posted again? Sounds like someone who only cares about looks. When these women are talking about the bar being on the floor it has nothing to do with the way men look, so I don't really see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:23 PM
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She wasn't at fault for hitting the kid. They are illegal for kids to use under the age of 16. She was only at fault for leaving the scene. This isn't a 3 month sentence for a murder charge. Y'all have got to stop falling for click bait for your own sanity.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 04:43 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/BPHsROXlaE I think you get my point. I'm not mixing them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:35 PM
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Second post... https://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/0mdTUOcRB1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:32 PM
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This was the very first post in r/mensrights.. https://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/s/PJRBQL1ajv
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:31 PM
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but you can never tell if a woman is "a wife material" in advance Agreed. Goes for everyone. Hence why it is so irritating that men seem to think women are supposed to have psychic abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:31 PM
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I'm pretty sure she means some men are purely only for sex and they would never marry or even date those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:28 PM
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You never made specific to women on this sub You would think if it was a real thing, you'd be able to find plenty of women saying as much in here, no? Why do you have to dig deep through the YouTube archives to find it? In any case, none of those YouTube videos are proof of a woman claiming she can sense a man is bad just by looking at him, so your point is dismissed regardless. Just another case of men purposely misunderstanding things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:49 PM
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Oh the classic "It doesn't happen" Reddit argument First of all, I meant in this sub specifically. You could realistically find anyone saying anything on the internet. It doesn't mean it's supported. So let's take a look at your YouTube videos. https://youtube.com/watch?v=kxPUJMZSOAM&si=6n-IZTcfa8EpVybA This is just having basic common sense and it applies to everyone. Also, the story is about a literal child. Nothing to do with relationships with men. https://youtube.com/watch?v=3G6B_j-tXDg&si=…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:23 PM
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No. Because dating struggles aren't oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:17 PM
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This is valid as long as you also agree that women feel shame (and ARE shamed) due to a dirty/unorganized home and unkempt children and thus, it is an unfair assessment to say that "women do it to themselves because they have higher standards". Society has the higher standards for women in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:55 PM
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I agree. But usually women or feminists promoting this idea of women being moral detectors though, with their "women's intuition" psychic powers. I challenge you to find me proof of a woman saying this or your point is dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:46 PM
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And still, statistically most couples date within their same socioeconomic bracket. Plus, I'm not sure what education has to do with anything. It actually reinforces the point. My kids are teenagers now, but im still in a lot of mom groups. In the last week alone there were two different posts of men begging their high earning wives for a baby, promising he would be a stay at home dad and both of them (one within 2 weeks and the other within 2 months) threw an entire fit and demanded their wives…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:40 PM
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You get it. You're allowed a podcast sir 🎤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:19 PM
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Except that's not the "blue pill" argument so how are we supposed to even debate this? I have never seen any woman say or claim they only care about personality. I have also never seen a woman say or claim they don't care about looks/"status"(not a loner), and "money" (not a bum). Sorry. But women do get to require a man makes at least as much as she does because men can never carry a pregnancy and birth children for them. Men are fine with this because they know they have a guaranteed benefit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:13 PM
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Meh. I'd rather take my chances with someone more prone to anxiety than, say, murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:04 AM
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Not true? It is demonstrated from the very moment a man approaches a woman. If he is nervous or anxious it's an automatic game over for the vast majority of women. She said girlfriend. You said some random woman you approach. Why on earth would a woman offer emotional safety to some random man? And what makes you think our grandmother's were doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:57 AM
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Secondly, it's not just 'one date', it's various, and the man will be going on dates with various women. And he has to pursue her which is incredibly burdensome and challenging and basically act like a jester desperate to please her whilst she does nothin So your future wife has to pay for the fact that you took other women on dates? You also ignored how women still demand men are richer and higher status than the woman is. In other words, women demand equality and then do not want equal men Coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:44 AM
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Men are still expected to pursue women, be the ones who plan dates, pay for them, earn more than the woman, be higher status than her. Standard male gender roles. The gender roles for women, meanwhile, are fading away and are actively fought against. This has absolutely nothing to do with the actual relationship, of which is what women are talking about. For the third time now, it isn't the women foregoing their "gender roles" who even say this so why you continue to bring it up is beyond me. Su…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:22 AM
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What do you mean? It's because they don't really exist. They're a rare breed indeed. Hence bar meet floor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:06 AM
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What are you talking about, geniunely? Like I said, the vast majority of women who say this are women who have been in serious long term relationships or married. This is not coming from the evil villain feminists who hate men and don't want kids you have painted in your head. So no, those women are absolutely fulfilling their own gender roles, having children, being main caretaker of children, being the main grocery shopper, meal planner and executer, laundry doer, all whilst holding down her f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:03 AM
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What are you talking about? That is the entire theme of the mass amounts of podcast bros in 2026. Not only do they not get canceled, they keep getting more and more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:48 AM
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You're correct. I have never seen it have anything to do with looks. Purely behavior. Mostly seen said by women who have been in a long term live in relationship/marriage. It may be co-opted by the younger crowd to be regarding basic behavior in dating but never looks or attraction based.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:50 PM
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My cousin left her husband the DAY she caught him cheating. WITH two babies in tow. I guess if that's your version of a better relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:53 PM
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Therein lies most of the problem then. Men aren't being honest about what they want. They get extremely mad when we point out they are just looking for sex and tell us no, they are looking for someone with a connection, everyone wants to be loved, etc etc. Again, geniunely, why would men even expect to get advice from women in how to game women? Women want a relationship. They are going to give you advice that helps with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:54 PM
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Why would women ever give this advice? You're asking women to give men advice on how to use and abuse women? This is like those "feminists" who tell women to never go 50/50 and extract as much money from men as possible to protect their own interests. Would you, as a man, join along in giving women advice on how to be more "like that"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:46 PM
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How am I deliberately misinterpreting your point? What is your point, honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:24 PM
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I do believe that some men fall through the cracks. Absolutely. I just don't think it's on as large of a scale as they believe. And I think it has a lot more to do with lack of social life due to covid than anything else. Personally for me, I found my husband before online dating became a thing. I cannot relate to any of this. Obviously my kid is not using online dating apps, but he's doing it just like I remember. Via friends and social groups. I geniunely cannot imagine finding a geniune partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:28 AM
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Idk. He has ADHD and struggled a lot with his social life literally until he got bigger than everyone in 7th grade. Only difference is he isn't consumed with manosphere content. He's consumed with friends, sports, working out and eating mass quantities of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:15 AM
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The manosphere has literally ruined your thought process and I'm sorry for that. Sadly those grifters will never pay for the damage they've caused in young men. I am not a novice to online debates with people who have fallen victim to propaganda. I used to debate the anti-vax crowd all the time. This sounds just like them. The way they were concerned with these paranoid delusions that took over their life is quite similar to what I see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:12 AM
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Lol what? This is not a thing for women but it's absolutely a thing for men. It goes "men don't marry the woman they love, they marry the woman in front of them" I wish men would stop pretending that women think the same way as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:02 AM
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I am not and in fact, he's still single after 15 years so I clearly made the right choice. 🤷‍♀️ But also, most people don't stay with their highschool boyfriend/girlfriend lol. It's such a silly thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:59 AM
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I will check you bc you don’t have the resume to enter one Do you...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:56 AM
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I'm the same as you. I have a son who is 15 and a daughter who is 13. My 15 year old has already had a couple girlfriends (one went out of her way to seek him out), and has girls in his friend group that they all chat on the phone together, etc. Nothing I read in here seems to stack against what I am seeing in reality both in my own peers and my own kids. Either I and everyone I associate with in my day to day is in an alternate reality, or these faceless usernames on reddit are. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:51 AM
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Wrong calculation. That's a ratio, not a gap All that tells us is how many times larger mens percentage is than womens, not the absolute difference between them. My calculation: 13-6=7% 33-19=14% Is the correct one. As this shows how far apart the two genders are, not how much bigger the group of men are in comparison to the group of women. That's irrelevant data.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:03 PM
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Bud. Every single post you make in here is a literal opinion. Why are you bitching?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:56 PM
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I would just delete this. Google is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:53 PM
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And yet, the gap in ideals between men and women are wider than ever, literally double. For boomers, there was only a 7% difference. For Genz it's 14%. This is replicated in current voting habits across the westernized world. Over 50% of GenZ women consider themselves to be feminists so the logic doesn't really follow that they believe red pill. I also thought this was interesting and speaks to your point "The data suggests that even as we agree on the importance of equality (68% of us say it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:52 PM
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I'm surprised you haven't heard this.. There's several sources throughout this article
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:29 PM
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If red pill was correct then why the push back? Idk maybe the fact that GenZ boys now have more misogynistic and dangerous views on women than literal boomers who were born in the 50s do? I'm confused that you're confused tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:17 PM
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You cannot understand why incels became an issue when they went out ot their way to become an issue? Am I understanding this correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:10 PM
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Or maybe it's a truth men can't handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:09 PM
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It's anecdotal because there is literally no data to back up his original claim in the first place. That leaves both of them with anecdotes lol. If you don't like anecdotes don't make things up I guess. I even tried looking this claim up and instead found data supporting the exact opposite. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:06 PM
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You seem like a smart dude. I appreciate this well thought out response. 👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:57 PM
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Women actively choose players and assholes They don't. Men are just manipulative most of the time. So you’re saying the men are the victims here? Can you clarify your stance on this issue? Men have zero accountability in their behavior in dating because they just have to accept whatever they can get. It doesn't matter how he acts. His behavior isn't his fault. It's womens fault. Kinda like perpetual children with no agency, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:38 PM
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That's your stance on men, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:26 PM
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Think of the drug dealing felon with 8 baby mommas. Why do y'all always bring this up as if the drug dealing felons baby mamas are not also bad people? It makes absolutely no sense. These aren't women the average guy would ever want to begin with. They aren't even women the average man would run into. These women often have their own fucked up lives of crime and drug use. Like duh. Obviously they're gonna find eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:15 PM
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Then I suppose we can apply that same logic to any and all bad behaviors of women? Basically, all negative behaviors are not the fault of the person doing it as they are only doing it because it gets them validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:06 PM
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....what lol. I don't know what good genes has to do with it. Yes, generally, once you hit over 35 you'd be lucky to find someone who isn't either divorced and/or has children. It's especially true for women because women in general don't date younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:27 PM
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"Men will only not cheat if you're more attractive than they are". What's that about women being hypergamous? Lol. Also, what a cowinkydink. Most women are already more attractive than their husbands. And they still cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:03 PM
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That's what makes it so bad. It's by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:40 AM
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Nope "asking" means "spending thousands of dollars in legal fees" Women are already doing this. How do you think they get awarded full custody? Y'all are just letting women go and file and saying, "well I don't want to spend the money" But guess what? She did spend the money and that's why the courts gave her custody. The fact that women, who are by and large poorer than men are more willing to put up thousands to have legal custody when men aren't even willing to try is the reason that women mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:34 AM
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Lol. "Single" dads only do better because they have a higher likelihood of having a live in girlfriend or wife that takes care of the kids while nothing in his life ever has to adjust. It isn't even that they're better parents. They just have more money. More money better neighborhood better schools. This also throws in the trash mens idea that women financially gain after a divorce. They do not. Men do, statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:25 AM
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The sky was pink last night. It was beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:20 AM
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So many variations of "I was unhappy". Not "I was abused" just "I was unhappy" "I was bored" "I just didn't feel anything" etc Sorry. Don't believe you. As a woman, I have never in my life heard a woman say these things about the man she divorced. I only see men say this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:18 AM
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Lmfao. No. It's because adult men are raping (statutory because I refuse to say an adult had sex with a child) teenage girls silly. Otherwise you would expect an EQUAL amount of teen girl parents and teen boy parents. Technically, as an adult, this is on him. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:16 AM
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That is not an excuse. It is. Especially being that there are more teen moms than there are teen dad's. Can you guess how/why that may be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:10 AM
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They already do have severe disadvantages. No woman wants to be a single mom. Geniunely, are you okay? You seem to be in a completely different reality than the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:05 AM
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Seriously. How ridiculous. He thinks women dump the father of their children because they think they could just get a new one? When my girlfriends husband cheated on her and she had two babies, she SOBBED and said "no one is ever going to want me now". Women literally think the opposite. Side note: The guy who had a crush on her all through highschool wanted her. She's remarried to him now -I know this one is really gonna burn their asses 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:35 AM
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Statistically speaking, they are. It's the entire reason you seem to think that stepfathers are "glorified". They aren't. People are just so fucking amazed when a man actually steps up they've gotta pat his ass ad nauseum. Gag me. Meanwhile stepmoms get shit on, but they're also the reason "single father homes do better than single mothers homes"-because single father homes are more likely to include a second adult (that pesky women are more willing to step up) who equally parents his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:28 AM
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Hmm..how does this work? I fucked my husband before I left for college. And then two years later fucked him again. And 4 months after that is when we actually became a couple. So was he Chad and then automatically turned to a beta because I married him? Or is there like a special formula for this? Say a woman has 1 previous sex partner and man has 4. When they get married, is he still the beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:21 PM
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Literally lol. This is such a weird thing to say/believe. My husband was dating and having sex with other women when I was dating and having sex other men. Why is HE the chump and not me then? Who decides who chumps who? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:33 PM
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No, not really.. I have a 13 year old daughter. She doesn't know shit about fuck other than "he's cute". She's young, inexperienced, and immature. We don't make the best choices as teens. In fact, teenagers purposely go against the grain. They purposely make bad choices because that's the only time in their life that they can. Similarly, I am absolutely not the same person I was at 13 and what grown women were saying when I was 13 was completely irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:39 PM
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....attraction is in the eyes of the beholder. Those men are attracted to thick women. Which, honestly. Probably fits in well with evo-psych theories y'all love so much. A thicker woman is going to survive better in harsh climates, and thus, a better vessel for procreation. I'm just spit balling here 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:58 AM
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Is this real? Men absolutely behave that way and when they do they are the final boss Karen. There just isn't a male equivalent name because when men act assertive it's praised but when women do they are Karen's. That's all there really is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:39 AM
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What do you mean why did I gender it? I don't think I did? I said "people" not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:16 AM
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Do any of the things men yell at eachother have real world implications? Like, 10-20 years ago "get in the kitchen" may have been a haha funny joke to me. Something so ridiculous and out of touch you can actually laugh at it. But there are people in the current administration and supporters of the current administration that are now quite literally advocating for women to "get back in the kitchen", repeal the 19th, remove all women from the workforce, etc etc. Has there been anything like that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:06 AM
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Do men tell eachother to get in the kitchen and suck eachothers dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:40 AM
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I'm not at all commenting on the topic here but you made an interesting point. women like adding stuff to statements I didn't actually say When I read your post I immediately thought, "every single one of these is missing context. Men are always missing context and then come to an incomplete conclusion" Anywho. Maybe you're right. Maybe I am. Just found it interesting the way men and women see things completely differently. The crux of the gender wars, really. Kind of like in my other comment. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:07 PM
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Not really. What other point is there to make a statement that is already obvious that is also not happening in the first place? Because she thinks, or is pretending to think (for points) that it is happening. I am not saying it NEVER happens. Women can do bad things too and there are absolutely cases of women who have done so out of pure bitter feelings. The point is the statistics don't support it being a majority as some imply It's an intentional dig. Because yes, you can absolutely criticize…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:48 PM
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I think these disagreements really just stem from ones frame of reference. No one comes from the same starting point. The vast majority of women as a whole, single moms included, already take that statement as a given. Obviously a woman shouldn't keep her kids from their dad for no reason. When another woman makes a statement like that, she's implying that women as a whole ARE keeping her kids away from their dad for no reason. When the actual statistics do not point to that at all. So she's cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:30 PM
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Lol. He just says he loves it and cannot get through a single sexual encounter without heading downtown. He likes to have competitions with himself to beat his "best score" and I'm happy to assist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:47 AM
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My husband fucking loves it. It's like his favorite past time 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:40 AM
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Perfect! Where is the complaint then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:06 PM
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Link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:58 PM
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you’re still trying to turn “i am not obligated to feel bad” into “she was asking for it.” those are not the same thing. Next sentence i do not owe emotional investment to a random woman over a man she chose Next reply, come better. This was too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:53 PM
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Lmao. Typical move of the goal posts. If men choose bad it's just because they are poor little babies with no free will. If men behave badly it's because women made them do it. Men have zero control over their actions. They're just walking NPCs trying to find somewhere to place their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:42 PM
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I think this question is incomplete. Most women just want a man who isn't going to take from her life. They just want him to be as equally capable of an adult as she is so she's not doing double the work. If her life is better/easier without him it isn't worth it. Somehow, this is unrealistic standards. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:37 PM
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Okay, so if that's true then why don't men face the same danger? You are framing it as women only face danger because they pick the bad men. If similarly bad women exist, and men are absolutely still picking them, you would assume they would have the same experience as women do. So it all begs to question. Are women choosing bad men? Or are men just more likely to behave badly? Editing to add: Why would you assume I'm a bot? I'm very clearly not. Editing to add #2: A downvote and no reply. Thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:49 PM
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Maybe they just ARE more attractive and happen to be psycho. A coincidence if you will. 🤷‍♀️ But yeah. I ask, because I suppose I'd have to wonder, why do men with dark triad traits exist when their isn't an equivalent for women? Women bear all the risks in dating. You say it's because they choose the men with "dark triad" traits. This tells me you either think women are too wonderful to have dark triad traits OR that women with dark triad traits never get men. Which goes against everything said…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:00 AM
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Question: Do women have dark triad traits? Do men date or sleep with these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:55 AM
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....you can't demand your wife (or anyone) to behave a certain way and then call it a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:09 PM
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I would also use this if I was just a troll who made completely unhinged statements for reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:22 PM
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This is so funny to me. I am the controller for a mid sized company. My predecessor was a man. His (now my) office was fucking covered in stacks of paper, he was an entire MONTH behind (if you know anything about finance and accounting you'd know how insane that is) and they were consistently losing $50+ grand a year. Within a year I turned the company around, caught us back up, simplified processes and now the company actually makes a profit every year. This is just one story of MANY on the dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:34 PM
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"Everything men do is women's fault. Men have no free will. Every action a man makes is controlled by a woman. And even when women try to fix a man's mistake, it's also womens fault that it didn't work, because men hold the majority. Which, is also womens fault" Did i cover everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:16 PM
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I read his comment 3 times and cannot find the personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:13 PM
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Neither can men with power.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:24 PM
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Until it isn't. You've never watched Handmaids tale? It was mostly the undesirable men being hung in town square. They were disposable. The women were useful because they could make babies. Even when the women committed similar "crimes" they were let off easy because they needed her to make that baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:20 PM
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Actually we put them in our vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:16 PM
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Lmfao. Bruh. Lay off the drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:10 PM
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Because it inflicts cost on yourself as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:09 PM
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And yet, a larger percentage of men still voted MAGA. Funny that. https://navigatorresearch.org/2024-post-election-survey-gender-and-age-analysis-of-2024-election-results/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:08 PM
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"I don't even believe in these things"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:03 PM
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Well it's already happened. He's been without work several times throughout our 15 years due to his line of work. Most recently last year for 4 months. He's also struggled with depression our entire relationship. Why would I leave for those reasons? We have 3 kids. That would be ridiculous. Do you understand how ridiculous I would look to leave my husband, the man I built a life with, had 3 children with, because I randomly remembered an ex from 20 years ago was funny sometimes? My husband is fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:14 AM
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So you're just making it up then? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:03 AM
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This makes absolutely no sense lol. How would I know he was no longer the best unless I cheated? Are you actually saying that you wouldn't want your wife to find you to be the most attractive and best partner she's ever had? You want her to look at you and just think "meh. He's alright". You think a woman who looks at her husband and thinks "meh" is less likely to have a wandering eye than a woman who looks at her husband and thinks "there is absolutely no man better than you"??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:02 AM
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The point is, you have zero proof that women do what you claim they do. It's just insecurity based.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:19 AM
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Seems unrealistic, but whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:08 AM
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This geniunely feels like the perspective of a man who either doesn't feel worthy enough or doesn't care to be. Personally, I cannot imagine marrying the first person I slept with. I believe it would have always left me wondering if/what I was missing out on. A relationship with my husband would have never progressed if I thought he was in any way worse than previous boyfriends/partners. I enthusiastically choose my husband every day, and have for the last 15 years because I do know what else is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:07 AM
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You think you're desirable enough for mass amounts of women but not desirable enough for one woman? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:01 AM
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Do you know why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:51 AM
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Geniunely I don't know why y'all worry about this so hard. I would have never dated my husband to begin with if the sex was so horrible I had to compare him to other men. If anything, the comparisons were in his favor. Personally I'm glad I had the experience I did. Who's to say I wouldn't have eventually wondered what I was "missing" otherwise? I'm confident I'm not missing anything. I'm not convinced saving yourself for marriage is the best coarse of action for either gender. What if it's fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:47 AM
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Klay is at the end of his career, and he's not stuffing the stat sheet this or the previous season. But because of his legacy, Fine. Lets check all time. Nope. Doesn't make the top 76 of all time either. https://www.espn.com/nba/story/_/id/33297498/the-nba-75th-anniversary-team-ranked-where-76-basketball-legends-check-our-list
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:12 AM
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Are you yanking our chain or something? I looked it up. He doesn't even make the top 50 here. I got tired of scrolling. https://nbarankings.theringer.com/ I don't see him on ESPNs page either for this season https://www.espn.com/nba/stats
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:27 PM
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I don't think all that of Megan. It's just that fame is different from being wealthy. Wealthy people all run in the same circles/environment weather they're famous or not. He's never going to date the preschool teacher and she's never going to date the mechanic. It all just highlights how stupid this entire post is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:53 PM
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..They're men too. Why wouldn't they behave like the rest of the men given the opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:53 PM
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>yet whose not is perceived a much more of a threat than whose statistically more likely to be This isn't even true though hence why your post is making absolutely no sense. No one perceives incels as more of a threat. At worst they are an equal threat as all men are an equal threat to women. The more women that a man is around, the more opportunity for him to abuse them. The logic begins and ends there. We don't know if incel dude has never been abusive because he's not abusive or because he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:47 PM
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>but women wont give up dating men their attracted to Do you think men would? Do you think women should start dating men they are not attracted to? Would you want to date a woman you knew wasn't attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:39 PM
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This is a fallacy though. You have no idea if they are statistically more dangerous. Just like more child abuse is perpetrated by women because they are more likely to be in the caregiver role. It doesn't mean women are more abusive. They just have more proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:28 PM
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