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Good for you. That guy had a plan from the beginning, and it was never to be a true friend to you. Live your life, be happy, and drop him for the rest of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:06 PM
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Right. Friendship does not apply to everyone who is semi nice to you some of the time. You should be as firm about who you consider your friend as you are about the kind of men you date. The people you hang around with or call your friends will influence your life and you will start demonstrating behaviors you may not like because you've internalized the idea that they are your friends. Cut people who have been toxic to you once out of your life. Keep yourself at a distance. Do that until the da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:59 PM
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I wonder what people would say if the roles were reversed and the guy said his girlfriend rated every sexual encounter she had with everyone. My suspicion is that the answers would not be the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:29 PM
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Pickmeisha needs to dump and go to a therapist to address all the pent up issues she has in her life. Again ladies, this is why you have to be wary of older men trying to date you. Why is he not dating women his own age? The age gap is indicative of a potential problem, and before you invest anything in the relationship, you have to be absolutely certain why he is not in a relationship with someone his own age. If not, better to end the relationship now than find out 10 years later he's been kee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:25 PM
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Make sure to take the necessary precautions so that this guy doesn't escalate things and you can go back to living your life. Make sure people know what he looks like, his name if you have it, and have it documented for someone so if something goes wrong and people can't find you, there's a link for them to know where to go. If the stalking has gotten really bad, file a restraining order. Make sure to carry something like a taser or pepper spray in your pockets. You do not know who if this man w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:21 PM
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Were you on autopilot because the relationship had been going on for so long?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:00 PM
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Oh my gosh, one of the comments I left yesterday from a post about a 26 year old woman being raped warned against this and literally has the exact same fictional examples that I made. I gave similar examples with food and being in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:59 PM
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This is why women need to figure out their boundaries before even thinking about potentially going into the dating scene. They don't need experience in other relationships to establish boundaries that maintain their sense of self respect and personal control. Often times, it's bad relationships that bring attention back to something a woman already knew should have been enforced in the first place. But, so many women could have avoided the wasted time, energy, and destruction that took place had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:10 AM
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I'm not surprised about this. Lots of men stop controlling controllable urges when engaging with the porn industry. Only a tiny percentage of these men will change, and by the time some of them do, the woman should have already left the relationship. When a man shows you once who he is, believe him, and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:18 PM
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That's good. Don't let any guys off the hook no matter what age they are, ever. People are capable of controlling the way they approach situations. Man or woman. I don't know why someone suggested you date men your own height. Short men can still have a weird fetish and try to instill a weird dynamic in their relationship with short women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:01 PM
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You truly can never know. That's why relationships are deemed as a risk and people take time to settle. That's also why you need to place yourself in a position where you can leave the relationship you're in, or stop engaging with a romantic interest. You'd be appalled at how many people take their love affairs, cheating scandals, murders, etc. to their grave. That means you have to be on all the time to protect yourself against things you may not know, until death basically. That's why you alwa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:51 PM
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If the guy is close to your age range, watch out for typical f**kboy behavior. If he's ever dated anyone or been romantically involved with anyone figure out how and why it ended. If it's for f*ckboy reasons. Also, if he has an extensive dating history, watch out. He likely is really good at inflating women's egos by charming them, but he doesn't actually respect them. Watch out for how he treats women in groups, particularly if a woman is planning something and may be leading the group to do so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:43 PM
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Do you have any specific examples where an average man adds the same value to a relationship as an average woman? What are women looking for in a relationship that benefits them that men provide? Valentine's Day is typically a one day affair each year. People generally try to do something special for other holidays like 4th of July, Christmas, Hanukkah, etc. and they'll often dedicate a larger amount of time or money into that than they would something like Valentine's Day. Most people go out to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 02:17 AM
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Since you've stated that women get chased by men all the time because these men are horny, wouldn't the sexual relations women can engage in with a man be some kind of added value? Otherwise, it wouldn't make sense for men to chase other women. If for some reason the sex does not add any value and they're still looking for women, then it makes more sense for them to invest in a good quality sex doll. Why go through the labor of engaging women when there's an alternative way that yields similar e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:40 PM
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A lot of men try, but they don't focus on the right things. A woman that is not committed to a man is not and should not be expected to disclose that these males don't focus on the right things, because they have no obligation to these men. If a woman does disclose this, then it's supplemental information and the man chooses what he wants to do with this information. There is a discrepancy if you look at the value a non exploitative 5/10 woman adds to a man's life and compare it to the value a 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:51 AM
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Very true. If you compare a 5/10 woman in departments that are not limited to looks and then a 5/10 man, if the woman doesn't have an exploitative personality, the man will benefit way more from the relationship than the woman. A 7.5/10 on a man's scale would convert to a 5/10 on a woman's scale off the sheer value that they add. So if an average woman settles for a 5/10 man, that's comparable to a 2.5/10 on a woman's scale, and the woman is worse off. Oftentimes, the woman stays in the relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:11 PM
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I agree with this. During the time that this cultural shift with women went in the mainstream, women were being more vocal about wanting to be respected for more than just their motherhood. When they requested this, many men either did not know how to or did not want to shift their perspective as well as change some of their behaviors towards women. One thing that failed to happen during this time in the mainstream of this movement was to show men how to treat women with respect in a way that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 10:30 PM
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I second this. It's not an issue if in their relationship she acts the same way sexually and get the same treatment. But if he doesn't reciprocate, it is a problem. Also, if she truly does not feel in the mood and says no a couple of times because of that and he gets mad, she didn't do enough screening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:35 PM
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More women need understand that for men, consistent, unwavering respect is the most foundational thing they can give you in a mutually beneficial relationship. When a man doesn't respect you, everything in the relationship goes downhill. This is why when a man violates his respect for you just once, you need to walk away, because if you tolerate it, he will never look at you the same again. This is why you don't come back to the relationship even if the man has worked on himself and has actually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:29 PM
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*** This is the end of what I posted up here. Reddit wouldn't allow me to post my entire comment. Here's the rest. Now, let's take away the guys who have issues identifying violent behavior with people they want to do sexual acts with. The other side of things has guys who are incapable of enjoying sexual activities in real life because the pornography they've watched has simmered into their expectation of how a woman should act so deeply. Their human connection to sexual activities is the porno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:02 AM
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FDS is not against porn because it wants to confine men. A byproduct of its perspective on porn actually liberates men. Let's put sexual/romantic relationships with women aside for a moment. Not watching porn allows men to tame controllable urges and ultimately feel in control of themselves. It frees up time for them to truly analyze why they're having the urge to watch porn and use that energy towards bettering themselves. These men will come to respect themselves more and hold themselves up to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:01 AM
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Yes! Men and especially women need to get it into their heads that the best way they can set themselves up in life is to be financially stable. There's a certain freedom that comes with knowing you don't have to stick around for BS because you have money to get out of a bad situation whether it's you needing funds because you're hating your job and wanting to get a new one, going to further your education, starting your own business, or simply wanting to dip into some coin for a rainy day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:08 PM
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Continue to assess. The relationship is new and you haven't gotten to know him well. A 6 year age gap isn't a bad thing. FDS doesn't tell women in their 20s to not date men in their 30s. Just be on high alert to find signs about the intentions behind why he entered a relationship with you vs someone in their late 20s/early 30s. Many LVMs have this messed up attachment to have a significant other in their 20s or teens when they hit their 30s. They want women at this age to be clueless and experie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:55 AM
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Agree with this. If you're bringing it up online, then there's some level of distress or disorientation this could be causing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:35 AM
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I'm in the age range of women he claims most men want to go after. My female friends who range from ages 17-23 rave about men like this. Behind closed doors they laugh about the fact that these men think that young women like us are sexually and romantically attracted to these older men. They try to attract my friends into relationships, thinking that because they are VPs at investment banks, business owners, doctors, family heirs, etc. their low self esteem and LVM behavior becomes irrelevant f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:09 AM
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This is great! Way back when, the tiers of stability were: married with a HVM male, married to a LVM male, single (only because so many single women had a stigma around their lifestyle). Women need to understand that singledom does not equate to loneliness. Single people have a much easier time diversifying the plate of things that make them happy and strengthening these networks. They get emotional, physical, and mental consistency from other people with a strength that a relationship with LVM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 11:37 PM
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I know I'm in the bottom 50% of females on the scale of conventional attractiveness. When you're not in the top 50% of women in the room, disrespect from men shows up much more immediately and they're not as two faced as they are with conventionally attractive women. There's a basic level of respect that you should treat humans with when they've done nothing wrong to you. There are too many men who blatantly 'forget' I'm in the same room as them because I'm not someone they want to fuck. I've ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:35 PM
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