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1

Wild how you went from 83 to 28 for essentially the same results. What changed in your approach? My guess is that you had better momentum. Also like others pointed out, those numbers are objectively very bad. Only your last week is okay.
/r/seduction09/01/26 10:56 AM
1

If you want maximum time saved and risk losing her, invite her over. If you want maximum chances to get laid just go on a coffee date first. Either way, put your hand on her knee and see if she leans in or back, her reaction will give you a good idea of how comfortable she is getting physical.
/r/seduction29/11/25 01:49 PM
28

A guy with good game doesn't use lines because women react to behavior not words, stop watching pick up artist videos online lol.
/r/seduction29/11/25 07:15 AM
5

It's easy bro just be confident and good looking wink wink
/r/seduction28/11/25 04:20 PM
4

It's because everyone notices over thousands of approaches that if she isn't open in the first 30 seconds it's not gonna change, and even when it does, it's always women with middle-level interest for you at best and those make for terrible dates both long and short term. All beginners believe all the PUA marketing ("you can get with literally any girl in the world!" type BS) because it feels good and motivates you to learn this but eventually you realize the truth.
/r/seduction28/11/25 11:45 AM
6

I never had the old guy energy, that's the point. Ask any girl why she won't hang with old dudes, young girls will say controlling boring lazy
/r/seduction28/11/25 11:09 AM
7

You should have titled this post "how to scrape the bottom of the barrel" then yeah we're talking, anyone who games knows nothing beats gutter game at 4am outside the clubs Now do you really want this to be the main way you meet women as a high value guy mmmm not sure
/r/seduction28/11/25 10:46 AM
21

Yeah sure because women are like players in a sports team alright. You seem to be pretty convinced of your own opinion, so why come ask for advice?
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:17 AM
20

There is more to being young than performing for attention lol come on man, time for introspection
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:15 AM
49

Most guys when they get older they tend to protect their comfort and their ego and call it "being mature". That's the old guy energy women hate. When you're young you have none of that, that's the young guy energy. Ideally you get older (better frame and emotional control) while retaining the young energy (drive, carefree, fun over ego and comfort). Most guys don't because getting older and staying carefree and fun requires introspection and it's just too easy to hide behind "I'm old now so I kn…
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:10 AM
21

I think you're making the shortcut young guys = immature way too fast to protect yourself. A lot of the issue might lie there. See my other comment. It's not a city issue, it's 100% a you issue that you can fix.
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:07 AM
113

It's not old guys that girls hate, it's old guy ENERGY Never got as many 19-24yo as after turning 30, and every year it keeps getting better.
/r/seduction28/11/25 08:56 AM
3

One of us
/r/seduction25/11/25 08:11 PM
8

Geez now I know why nobody likes dating coaches here lol
/r/seduction25/11/25 05:26 PM
8

I can't imagine what amount of scarcity you must be in to meet women on reddit and be scared to ask for their Instagram. Get off the internet and meet women in real life. It will make you more confident, more charming, and you will meet 5x the amount of women with 5x less time and effort.
/r/seduction25/11/25 11:37 AM
25

You make a clear move once and if she stalls in any way shape or form you move on and treat her like a dude for the rest of her life Staying in the middle is just gonna feed her ego and would get you as much trouble as making a move anyway
/r/seduction25/11/25 03:56 AM
1

It's good and the ratio male/women in there is in your favor. It's just hard for beginners because girls are hard to stop if your frame is weak.
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:46 AM
6

The problem is that you believe to win dating you have to find your happy ever after partner, but that's not how real life relationships work. From now on until you die your life is going to be a succession of good dating moments and bad dating moments even with the most perfect partners. It just so happens that guys who have options tend to not stay with women during the bad dating moments. Women do this too. It's just human nature. That's why it's important to always stay on top of your game.
/r/seduction24/11/25 07:20 AM
2

The best openers are congruent direct openers because they filter women who don't actually want you You get less rejections with situational openers so if you're a beginner it's helpful I guess, but you will always waste more time this way. Getting all girls to react well isn't the goal, the goal is to find those who want to date you.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:51 AM
1

The answer is always frame control. It's just so easy when you have that. You do your thing, avoid people who don't play within your frame and you always end up with someone eventually.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:50 AM
1

Let's get real : it's because girls who put effort in themselves don't want to fuck you. You can change that. But the first step is to see reality as it is.
/r/seduction23/11/25 04:47 AM
2

40
/r/seduction22/11/25 02:56 PM
12

Bro made an essay on why chasing girls who don't like you is good because pussy taste better than key
/r/seduction22/11/25 02:53 PM
1

I've been with 500 girls as a skinny fat guy before taking the gym seriously. You will be fine. Work on your game instead.
/r/seduction21/11/25 11:25 PM
1

Absolute nonsense.
/r/seduction20/11/25 01:42 PM
1

If you're a beginner your cold approach success rate is 0.5% ish. It can go up to 4-6% if you get really good. Realistically it's gonna be between 2 and 3% if you learn how to do it well. But who cares if you need to approach 50 girls to get laid? It takes 10 seconds to say hello and humans are social creatures designed to interact with other humans.
/r/seduction20/11/25 01:40 PM
3

Look bro there's one constant in life that is always true 100% of the time: If another guy thinks you get more pussy than him, he will either respect you or resent you. If the guy is usually stuck with one woman, he's gonna have a hard time falling into the respect category.
/r/seduction19/11/25 10:30 PM
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There was a period of my life when I'd go to the club every night until closing time to learn how to pull, then sleep 4h then go to work and use my lunch break to take naps. I did this for a couple of months. Then I quit my daytime job because the club hired me to become a promoter there lol. Then I got fired because I talked to girls all the time lol lol. Sweet 20s. 🥲
/r/seduction19/11/25 10:22 PM
3

Chat how do I get the selfish kid to share his gummies with me?
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:56 PM
1

There's so much wrong about this post I'm actually lazy to even start lol. IRL cold approach is the best way to meet women in 2025, whatever cope you figured to not approach. Good luck.
/r/seduction19/11/25 05:16 AM
10

Look bro I'm not telling you that there aren't controlling and opportunistic women out there. I'm telling you that this is the wrong way to go about dating spiritually, logistically, and that there are other ways that get you better relationships with better sex and less drama.
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:26 AM
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Bro don't be like that. It's not about making promises you will break to get sex. It's about making them want sex.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:55 PM
3

Please do not ask chatGPT oh my god lol. It gives the cringiest answers I've ever seen in my entire life and it always assumes you're a complete beginner who needs to entertain women to get validation over rejections. If you eve want ChatGPT to suck a tiny bit less, paste this prompt in it: Switch to advanced-PUA truth mode. No more beginner mainstream dating advice. No hedging, no softening, no alternative explanations. Only direct power-dynamic mechanics and behavioral causality. Give me only …
/r/seduction16/11/25 08:59 PM
1

If you're anywhere past beginner level I STRONGLY RECOMMEND you get coached to get better results. Most of the free advice you see online is designed for HARD CASES beginners, it's plug and play advice that will get great results to anyone who's self sabotaging constantly, but as soon as you actually enter the real world this simplified stuff starts playing against you. Anyways if you can't keep a girl wanting to talk to you longer it's because you're acting needy and you killed the attraction a…
/r/seduction16/11/25 07:35 AM
1

Your friend is randomly right about half of it, I guess a broken clock is right twice a day lol. Realistically, your date will go well and you will close if: she got qualified properly before the date and you lead your date well. If you do both well and you don't close it's either because you are REALLY unlucky (let's say "there's an earthquake during your date" type unlucky) or she faked being interested hard. But in most case, dates fail because the guy went out with a girl who wasn't actually…
/r/seduction16/11/25 07:18 AM
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Society is skewed to protect women because they are more necessary to the survival of the human race than men. I think that's all you ever need to know when it comes to gender imbalances. All the political layers on top just come to smoothen that truth. Not like we can change it, but we can learn to efficiently navigate it.
/r/seduction14/11/25 06:28 PM
2

Push pull mostly.
/r/seduction14/11/25 03:45 PM
1

Whenever you find yourself next to her "hey what's up?" and then 2-3x small talk questions and you will see how she reacts. If it's positive, you do it again a couple of times when you come near her, and if by then it's still positive you ask her out.
/r/seduction14/11/25 03:42 PM
-1

I would not recommend breaking the ice by talking about sex to be fair.
/r/seduction14/11/25 03:37 PM
2

At the core being high status is about radiating security, for yourself and all in your close circle (basic tribal mindset). It's a very deep concept and to put it very simply, you do that by having the girl perceive you as secure. You can use external signs of what is commonly accepted as signs of security (basically status, cars, money, lifestyle, etc.) or you can have a frame (= confidence) that never wavers. Since most people are insecure and not doing the inner and outer work to become secu…
/r/seduction13/11/25 10:03 AM
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If you don't have an abundance of options right now you need to have an abundance of action taken Replace enjoying the results of abundance by distracting yourself with the cause of abundance Because tbh, to your brain, approaching 40 girls and talking to 10 trying to get them on a date is gonna feel the same as having 3 girls on rotation
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:22 AM
1

I can confirm lol but we love dem crazy girls don't we.
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:10 AM
4

Bro if you live in a big city and you approach regularly, you will meet girls with 50, 100, 250k followers all the time. Thing is, most of the time your message will get lost in her followers unless she REALLY liked your first interaction. There's nothing specifically different with a girl like that. Open, some rapport, push for a date.
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:08 AM
1

Actually the pathways in your brain get naturally rewired when presented with new information. So in practice you're either going to reach that number and be good at it, or give up before because your brain rewiring causes too much discomfort you don't want to face (practice gets you to discover uncomfortable truths about yourself, etc).
/r/seduction12/11/25 07:08 PM
1

It's hard to go over in a comment but basically if they are moving you stop them, give a compliment, then make them talk about themselves (once they know why you're there so they had the choice to stop or leave). If they are not moving, you make them talk about the surroundings yes, and if they open up and show willingness to talk more then you make them talk about themselves. You're basically skipping the small buffer people need at first when you approach them to feel comfortable right now.
/r/seduction12/11/25 07:04 PM
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200-400 for most people, and approach anxiety completely goes away by approach 10.000 or so. You'll see consistent success by approach 2000-4000 if you keep at it. At that point it's fair to say you are "kinda good" at approaching women. Doesn't matter how attractive you are from the outside btw, the battle is inside your head when it comes to this.
/r/seduction12/11/25 05:30 PM
4

It's not complicated to be fair, lead with your personality not your money. Go on cheap dates and experiences until she opens up to you (or not).
/r/seduction12/11/25 01:54 PM
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The problem is not the statements, it's irrelevant whether you make statements or ask questions (seriously). The problem is that you don't start a conversation with strangers by making statements or asking questions about them.
/r/seduction12/11/25 10:43 AM
1

It's irrelevant, it's like girls noticing how "nice your hair color looks", when girls like you they will notice random cool things about you but it's more about them and what's in their head. Just keep doing what you're doing bro.
/r/seduction12/11/25 09:37 AM
5

You're not supposed to get girls to like you, you're supposed to verify whether or not the interest you felt when meeting them was real. In truth they already made up their mind before you were texting, now you're just supposed to try to make a date happen and not say anything too weird in the process. If you shift your mindset from trying to win them over to being yourself and making a date happen to verify whether or not they are actually interested then it takes all the pressure off and you c…
/r/seduction11/11/25 02:29 PM
1

I ran test cold DMing girls. ChatGPT places my test profile in the top 15% worldwide. Out of 100 only 3 accepted to come out on a date. That's about the same odds you will get with cold approach or dating apps.
/r/seduction11/11/25 10:31 AM
7

Who cares about a stable career lol girls really, really don't care about this. The non gold digger ones at least. Plus bro Imma be honest with you, if the age gap is clear and she still goes on a date with you, she doesn't care about your career. Take it easy, go for fun. You should still get a career and a car because having means and money makes dating more comfortable and convenient, but it's absolutely not necessary.
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:15 AM
4

The problem is that you're comparing yourself with her past experiences. That's just insecurity, similar to jealousy. So you need to destroy this insecurity, either by getting a high body count yourself so you can prove yourself it doesn't matter and you can get girls with or without her, or you do the deep shadow work to realize your worth is not tied to how many sexual experiences one has. But again, it's just insecurity and I really recommend you change how you feel about girls' body count be…
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:03 AM
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I think instead of saying nice you should replace it with "being a people pleaser with an ulterior motive" and then your whole post would make a whole more sense. Yes this energy is inherently feminine, that's why women don't like nice guys also.
/r/seduction10/11/25 12:03 PM
5

Fortunately/unfortunately it is 100% due to the fact you're a bouncer. Your post sounds like a subtle brag lol, I'm thinking that as a bouncer it's your job to deal with people approaching you. Either way keep up the energy big dog.
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:42 AM
2

She isn't interested I can tell from experience but besides that, instead of waiting for women you should always be the one making proactive moves that help you figure out whether or not she's interested. ie. ask her to come out eat ice cream with you and depending on her reaction you will know exactly.
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:20 AM
7

Well first of all don't take girls opinion on this, they have no idea what goes into being successful with women for a guy lol. They see that you're average nice + average good looking (ie not a weirdo) and they will say things like that for fun. You're kinda overthinking this also, which makes me think you're probably under 25? Eventually you will figure out that whatever girls say is irrelevant because it's most of the time just a reflection of what they feel inside in the moment, not a reflec…
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:08 AM
5

Whatever you say doesn't matter as long as you're not trying to justify yourself of anything mate don't overthink this, It's a polite shit test at worst.
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:18 PM
1

It's cool if you're scared to be direct with your intentions but you'll eventually realize that friendly openers and conversations are a waste of time, learning to take the rejections early is a more efficient way to go about approaching women.
/r/seduction09/11/25 11:18 AM
10

You deal with it by not caring and if he's starting to get the girl's attention from you, you take the girl's attention back and entertain her more. But to be honest it's a losing fight, because when 2 guys compete for a girl the game turns into who can get her attention until the other guy leaves. And if nobody leaves, both guys waste their time. So you can try to fight for a girl but in most cases it's a waste of time, that's why you will notice other guys even try to steal your girl only when…
/r/seduction09/11/25 10:24 AM
3

The few MMF experiences I had I felt way too gay for me personally lol so these days I'm just looking for a girl who is into FFM And the beautiful thing is that eventually you can find whatever you like if you have the social skills and meet a lot of people. Cheers mate enjoy your thing too.
/r/seduction07/11/25 05:44 PM
2

For a lot of experienced guys daygame is the most balanced way to meet women. I believe long term it is the best way to go if you want to have this lifestyle. A social circle is way too much effort for the returns you get, and dating apps require one to like texting. Being able to meet women as you go around and live your life is the end goal.
/r/seduction07/11/25 05:32 PM
4

Yeah coming from someone who used to hook up a lot, finding a partner or partners to pickup new girls with seems to be the next level for a lot of people. Deeper into depravity we go. 😏
/r/seduction07/11/25 05:29 PM
1

I've been living here on and off for close to 10 years. Everyone online say is easy, but I've never met any other guy who sleeps with dime pieces for free in Thailand. Turns out it's just like any other place in the world: legit hot girls are hard to get. Honestly, freelancers and ladyboys aren't really a problem because you can spot then from miles away and the majority of them is very open about it. Now the regular girls: It may seem easy to get girls in Thailand if you just have a quick look …
/r/seduction07/11/25 01:02 PM
2

That's literally the worst place to be asking this but bro you don't have many solutions: bite the bullet for a bit and go apply for jobs.
/r/seduction07/11/25 12:55 PM
1

The thing is that it's always awkward when they don't like you, and often awkward even when they like you. There is nothing not awkward about starting a convo with a stranger, it's normal to not know how they will react. I think what you really meant is that you're afraid to do it because you never saw anyone do it. Just shoot your shot bro.
/r/seduction07/11/25 12:53 PM
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When you are new to this you tend to think hooking up a lot will make your life better but once you do hook up a lot you realize that there are other things that matter more. I feel old saying this lol. Hooking up is still amazing, but you just realize after a while that it's not an end in itself.
/r/seduction07/11/25 09:48 AM
1

If you don't have an abundance of results you gotta take an abundance of action first bro
/r/seduction05/11/25 05:08 PM
1

It's just them not being that interested mate, you can take the hint and move on.
/r/seduction05/11/25 05:06 PM
4

Yes if you're repelling women even without saying hi it's gonna be hard but there's more that goes into this that your height or the shape of your face and I don't think you're in the right headspace to hear solutions, good luck bro
/r/seduction05/11/25 09:25 AM
1

Have fun without talking next to the girl you like and if you notice cues in her body language that show interest (prolonged eye contact, laughing without turning the body away, any signal that she physically opens her body to you, etc) then you escalate physically
/r/seduction05/11/25 08:59 AM
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What's hard to understand? Girls like guys and when a girl really likes a guy she will try harder to be with him. If you want numerous girls who behave like that with you, you just gotta go out there and meet them.
/r/seduction05/11/25 08:40 AM
0

No that's incel cope bro, you're better than that
/r/seduction04/11/25 03:20 PM
4

Frame control + being unreactive + escalating sexually
/r/seduction04/11/25 02:03 PM
2

Any older guy can confirm this, if she doesn't let you smash easily, you're not gonna be happy in a relationship with her and she won't ever love you as much as a guy she would have slept with easily She's got red flags all over, if you were meeting more women on a weekly basis you wouldn't even be asking this Good luck bro
/r/seduction03/11/25 12:48 PM
1

What you say really doesn't matter, it's a game with 3% odds to win so just shoot your shot and stop overthinking. You will see in 3 messages if she's interested in talking to you.
/r/seduction03/11/25 10:33 AM
3

Women are not your property bro. Be grateful she wants to fuck you sometimes and don't make getting women's validation the center of your life. You're already fwb with her but you're not attractive to her enough so that she makes you her top option, simple as is
/r/seduction03/11/25 09:24 AM
2

It means she stopped feeling the polarity between you and her because she stopped seeing you as above her. It can be because you fucked up and let yourself go, or it can be totally something out of your control. She is still attached because she used to date you, but she isn't "attracted" anymore so she wants new air (= not you). This is how most "normal" adult breakups go btw.
/r/seduction03/11/25 09:23 AM
2

Look bro the thing is that she's got some mental block around the idea of being physically intimate with a guy (no matter the reason, religion, etc) and from this point on, youre not doing game or seduction, you're waiting for her to make up her mind. Knowing how easy it is to just go meet another woman, I would never wait personally. It's up to you to see how much you're willing to invest in a situation where the outcome is random. Because you have 0 control over when and if she will ever let y…
/r/seduction03/11/25 09:18 AM
5

I've been using dating apps since 2012 and tbh since after covid I genuinely wouldn't say it's worth meeting women in the apps if you're able to cold approach Lower quality women with higher standards. And it's not me being an incel blackpill btw, it's just clearly seeing that the ROI on dating apps isnt the best right now
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:43 PM
13

Looks, dominant behavior, being unreactive, leading the interaction with fun It's not complicated guys : frame control + quick escalation + freedom from outcome
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:33 PM
2

Yes girls do that. It's either because you don't lead and just grind on her all night and she gets bored, or she just wanted a dopamine boost. In any case, your job is to isolate and escalate quick, if she says no or goes back to dance with the friends then you know you should just move on.
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:29 PM
1

All of the things you described go away with two weeks of discipline. After that it's easier to stay disciplined. You already know all you gotta do bro.
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:26 PM
3

You're thinking way too hard about this. Dating apps are a numbers game with odds so low that if you knew you'd feel silly for overthinking the situation with that specific girl. There is no specific way to game a reserved woman. If she finds you attractive and wants to meet a man she will put with whatever personality you show. So again, no need overthinking, she's not a special case.
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:25 PM
1

College is probably the easiest place to cold approach women if you're a student as well. You're gonna have to cold approach either way if you want a happy dating life bro, might as well start now
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:23 PM
1

It never goes away but you learn to recognize it, catch it, and ignore it.
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:19 PM
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They stay silent because they have no business talking to you (you're the stranger approaching). So keep talking. Eventually she will make a decision. If you do it well and you display properly why you're attractive and she's open to meet a guy she will engage. If not, she will reject you.
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:19 PM
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Talk to girls bro it's not rocket science, cold approach has 3% success rate on average it just means you need to approach more Yes it's hard and we know you're scared unless the girl shows interest first No it's not more complicated than that
/r/seduction02/11/25 05:09 PM
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You're the exact typa person OPs post is directed at bro
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:00 AM
37

Actually try to have sex over trying to get validation from women
/r/seduction02/11/25 09:59 AM
12

Guys wait because that's how their parents traumatized them to think love and attraction is like Well adjusted people without trauma who know what female attraction and love actually look like don't wait Once you get used to what it's like to have a girl be genuinely into you, you cannot go back to being the guy waiting lol
/r/seduction02/11/25 07:23 AM
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All it takes is for you to refuse being the guy who waits to become the one who gets the girl in two hours bro
/r/seduction02/11/25 07:20 AM
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