Fickle-Cap4370 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Forgiveness impeded You absolutely don’t have to forgive her. The other important part is do not tell her that you don’t.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/24 05:53 PM
2	Narc infidelity - What to share with friend with a gossipy wife? This guy gets it	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/24 09:37 PM
5	Help Sleeping Not worth the risk. Exercise and melatonin are the answer.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/24 11:29 AM
1	CONTROLLING THE HATE Agreed, journaling and radical acceptance. Therapy is a must.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/24 07:15 PM
1	DRINKING POISON Yeah, radical acceptance is a must. Takes time but it’s the only way to move on. It’s really hard when you have to see them every weekend at kids’ events. Just a person I used to know that my kids have to live with every other week.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/24 08:23 PM
20	DRINKING POISON Forgiveness would imply she recognized what she did and made steps to better herself and actually learned something. That’s not going to happen and the behavior will repeat. So, no I will absolutely not forgive unless there is growth. The notion that we have to forgive to move on is absolutely ridiculous. I forgive myself for not standing up for myself earlier.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/24 03:37 PM
2	Financially devastated That’s called processing your emotions	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/24 01:40 AM