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| 1 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)Dude, it does not matter whether you are male or female. Everybody ages. A 25 year old and a 35 year old do look different unless they have great genetics and take care of themselves. Idk why you had to link this statement to the wall. If men were so comfortable with ageing why lie about it and pretend you are younger than you are actually ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 07:41 AM |
| 1 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)Dude, if only 1 in 10 marriages has a 10+ year age gap, that means over 90% don’t. That’s not the norm so yes, that makes it a statistical outlier in most studies of marriage and relationship patterns. Quit fighting stats. The facts are there. Age gaps relationships are not the norm. It is what it is. I genuinely don’t see the point in continuing a conversation with someone who clearly doesn’t know what he’s talking about, couldn’t even do a basic Google search so ran to AI instead for help and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)Actually you are pulling stuff out of your own ass as this statistic does NOT exist. You just want reality to fit into your fantasy. That 30% figure isn’t accurate and does not exist. Actual data says otherwise. Check it again. the number is 8% not 30%. Only about 8% of male-female couples have a 10+ year age gap in Western countries, not just in America. So not only is it an outlier, in America, but it is also an outlier in majority of western countries. Many stats show that the majority of dev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 11:53 PM |
| 0 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)Trust me, I can tell when a guy is in his 30s instead of mid 20s, I can always detect it. They tend to lie a lot. I dont fall for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 10:52 PM |
| -1 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)Not necessarily the majority of women are attracted, date and marry men around their age. That also a statistical fact. Even being in a 10 year gap relationship is an outlier. Women may be attracted to men 3 to 5 years older but not necessarily 20 years unless the men really looks good and that is not the case for the majority of men in their 40s who are aging, balding and out of shape. Lets be honest the average man in his 40s doesnt look like Chris Hemsworth. Also you must have not seen the cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 10:50 PM |
| -1 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)Nope. Not attracted to him. He just looks good for his age but nothing more. He doesnt do it for me. I find Nicholas Chavez more attractive. He is his 20s and has a fresher look. He is much closer to the guys I tend to be naturally drawn to. Guys my age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | 30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man)As a woman in my early 20s again this reply wouldn't really matter because why would I try to prove myself to somebody I am already not attracted to due to age ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Reasons for age gap relationshipsI mean when it comes to white people, both actually age terribly. Not assuming that you are white, but it is funny when white men say that women age badly when they actually perceived as badly ageing from other communuties. As a black person (black dont crack), I find this quite funny as we are known to age slowly especially black women so oh well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege.Let's not forget the terrible performance that comes with it. No thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.I would even say that the average guy doesnt really have easy access to sex through hookup either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.I am more focused on the guys who want to be primiscuous but cant and then turn to women like me and get frustrated when we dont give them what they want.... But wait I thought you didnt like women "opening" their to every guy until it applies to you too. Meh doesnt work that way. Keep crying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.First I am not complaning, I am just stating the situation. I dont have problems getting guys and also am not primiscuous so I am not the one stuck here . Cmon dont play dumb. I am talking about men who WANT action but cant get any while also complaining about primiscuous women. That is just dumb and stupid because if you want action but also criticize primicuous women who are you going to sleep with ? Again dont play dumb If the non prismicuous guy also want a girl who isnt I have no poblem wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.People are hypocrites for sure. But men cant complain about getting no action while also condemning primiscuous women. Who will they have sex with ? Other men ? Exactly. Accept or reject but stop complaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.Doesnt change the fact that many men still overestimate their looks and end up disappointed when they realize they just arent as attractive as they think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.To be honest, men don't realize that on average, they arent as much as a catch as they believe in terms of looks. I mean isn't there a study stating that men tend to overestimate their own attractiveness ? Exactly. If the average guy was drowing in women there wouldn't be such an outrage about this whole male loneliness epidemic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.oh damn ! (dont disagree though) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?Dude, your opinions and facts arent the same thing. It is statistically proven that people marry within the same social class and status. Wealthy people marry each other, that's why keeps the wealth growing. It has been the case for centuries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Stop being delusional and stop lying to men (how to really get women to fall in love)I am a woman and believe he is actually quite spot on. Disagreeing with this would seem disingenuous at this point. Not saying women are a monolith, but I spent time talking about preferences with women and they are similar to what he said | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?"Well, from my own experience, men have been constantly cheating and having kids out of wedlock in my entourage. I know their nature. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?"Which is literally a condition XD | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important reasons of why men are so into the redpill is men being jealous o women hability of getting physical attention so easely.Well. that's life buddy. Deal with it and stop crying | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Unalterable traits are the most important precisely because you can’t change themI mean men and women who aren't conventionally attractive date and marry all the time. Most people are average and are doing perfectly without a perfect jop to ratio body or great jawline and abs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:32 AM |
| 4 | Men and Women - Would you accept your 18yr old daughter to marry a wealthy man significantly older than her?I never heard of the "rite of passage" and absolutely don't want to know. I wasn't even raised necessarily in a feminist household but I simply wasn't drawn to older men just because I found guys my age more attractive like literally most people. The trend is shifting and the stats are showing this very well. I dont know how they can hold a fantasy that isn't even factual. Reality, statistics and facts dont really support their fantasy. I mean even when I look around, most girls my are dating bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:26 AM |
| 20 | Men and Women - Would you accept your 18yr old daughter to marry a wealthy man significantly older than her?I mean I hold the same view and I am 19. I am not attracted to older men because emotionally we have nothing in common and they aren't as physically attractive. Statistically women are attracted to men just a couple years older than them not decades. Plus, statistically the age gap is very small for the majority of marriages and relationships around the world. In addition, age gaps relationships have been declining and getting smaller generations by generations. I mean the stats and facts just a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?That's basically what attracts her in a particular partner though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenActually, many women have agreed that male actors are usually not very attractive in straight porn. I reduce my porn "intake" but I rarely watch "straight porn" because the male actor isn't physically attractive. According to Pornhub, gay porn ( male on male ) has consistently been the second most watched porn category among women. One of the main reasons is because gay/bi actors are much more attractive and good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like dumb guys?I think what you need to understand is that confidence is a good thing and is indeed attractive but it wont always compensate a trait that maybe a person will always find unattractive. For example, a woman could only be physically attracted to taller guys. A guy shorter than her could have confidence about his disavantage. But if she isn't attractive to shorter guys at all. Confidence won't work. Likewise, a guy could be only into slim/skinny girls and is maybe not attracted to overweight people… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Do girls like dumb guys?I mean I am sorry but confidence can take you so far. You can't be confident about anything and everything. Being confident in mediocrity isn't going to compensate for the lack of intelligence many women seek in men. Again, I am not saying all women right. But to be honest, I have seen way too many guys agreeing and venting about how being short, being unemployed, under average or whatever couldn't be necessarily compensated with confidence when you have guys that are tall, above average smart a… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingWell unfortunately for you. Based on what you shared, you'll have to work with what you have like the rest of the world. If you aren't gifted in the looks department, being highly pessimistic is going to worsen your case and scare the girls away. You need to work on yourself before getting into an commitment. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like dumb guys?I think it was worded wrong I meant about the man's personal interest. Basically, the guy shares and explains his hobbies and passions about a specific field/activity. For example, a guy could be into human biology and teach me new things about what he knows in a rehilar conversation the same way I can give him facts about medieval french history. We both stimulate each other intellectually. Hope I made it clear. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingDude, I am going to be honest with you. Being good looking and taller as a man will improve your dating life short-term. However, your obsessive and pessimistic personality will still blow it. Personality and good looks go hand in hand. Appearance for me is important to me but if the guy has a rotten personality, I will leave him as beauty for both men and women fade. Dealing with annoying personality wont be as tolerable at 40/50. You need to work on yourself internally as well | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like dumb guys?Yeah Being confident is one thing but when you are confident about something generally perceived as negative, it is a bit odd. Like I won't confident about being out of shape, or lazy, or financially unstable due to lack of ambition. Being confident about being dumb won't necessarily make you more attractive because you are confident | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 01:10 PM |
| 7 | Do girls like dumb guys?I don't know about other women. It is kinda true that some women enjoy being around/dating men who have knowledge or who can teach them something about their personal interests.As a woman, I don't like to be around "dumb" people in general. You don't need to know EVERTHING. However, I need to be able to hold an intellectual conversation with people, friends. This standard also applies to guys I am attracted to. I would like to connect and bond with a guy who is very intelligent and understands a… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 12:51 PM |
| 3 | How shallow are women exactly?I dont know. I can't put gender in a monolith. I believe both genders are shallow, just women are willing to compromise more in my experience (not claiming it is a fact). I guess I mostly lean towards men being a bit more shallow in termd of looks when I observed the dynamics of gay dating. For example, many would agree gay/bi men take far more care of their appearance than straight men. They are well groomed and polished to attract other men. I have heard many guys complain about how hard it is… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Women do not engage in hypergamy. If anything they're probably worried about men doing it.Just anecdotal, not factual. Well, it hasn't been "proven" then. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of all this bigoted baggage? It's exhausting to carry and it's ruining my fucking lifeHow could she guess if it is casual sex or a hook up? I mean if statiscally queer women or women who have sex with other women have far more orgasms The problem isn't real women here. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 02:04 PM |
| 0 | How to look at women and not think sexual thoughts?Nah I think it is possible to view the opposite sex without always having sexual thoughts. If sexual thoughts come to mind everytime you interact with the opposite sex, that's a problem that needs to be fixed as it kinda gives the idea you only view women for your sexual gratification and nothing else. I am a very visual and sexual person but there is a time and a place. There are biological urges that we control everyday because they aren't social acceptable. We do perfectly fine. If he wants t… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Are you basically undateable if you're obese?are you talking about the excessive skin? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 10:04 AM |
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