| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | Night Out at the Bars_Soiler Alert:Didn't Go so Well | Field Report | FickleAstronaut0 | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Can't Pull the Trigger on my First Approach | FickleAstronaut0 | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 04:33 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Different methods to get "in the zone" while at the barWhat if your solo and don't have your buddies around? I guess the first move is walk around and chat up some people. But what do I say? How do I open a group/table and what do I talk about with them, especially if I'm by myself? Would I be perceived as the weirdo by himself trying to talk to people? *Disclaimer* I do have friends, but they're not the type to want to go out to the bars and partake in this type of thing. So when I go out, my only option really is to be solo. | /r/seduction | 04/03/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Night Out at the Bars_Soiler Alert:Didn't Go so WellI really appreciate your comments, man. Wish I had a wing like you. Unfortunately, all my friends either already have girlfriends and no interest in going out to the bars, or no interest in going out to the bars period. So no wingmen for me. I'm kinda on my own on this. I do pretty well on tinder/ bumble, at least with securing a date, but get ghosted pretty quickly after they meet me. So this is an aspect of my life I really need to nail down now before I get any older. Cause sucking at this su… | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Night Out at the Bars_Soiler Alert:Didn't Go so WellThank you for the reply. As far as the eye contact thing goes, I tried that with a lot of these girls, try to make eye contact and give a little smile and see if they respond with a smile too. At least that was the game plan going in. I couldn't really get any girl to make eye contact with me beforehand. I feel like Im invisible to these chicks. I'm only 5'6", so I feel like that has a lot to do with it. Women only look for the tall guys so before I move in to make a move, I'm not on any of thei… | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Night Out at the Bars_Soiler Alert:Didn't Go so WellBut would that have drastically changed things? I feel like my reactions would have been very similar if I only cut out "girls" from the sentence. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Night Out at the Bars_Soiler Alert:Didn't Go so WellWhat type of approaches do you do? Cause going off of the experience of last night's and other nights in the past, I feel like my interactions will only be negative. Do you have a certain approach that you take, do you have wingmen, canned material? Are you naturally charismatic? | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Night Out at the Bars_Soiler Alert:Didn't Go so WellThanks for the reply man. How are things for you today? Did it ever improve? | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Night Out at the Bars_Soiler Alert:Didn't Go so WellWell, my friend, you're way ahead of me when I was 18. I didn't have my first kiss till I was 20, so that gives you an idea of my skillset in this field. So that's the thing, it's not so much social anxiety, I have 0 chemistry with people. Not just girls, but people in general. I lack the basic social skills to strike a conversation with anyone. Even my close friends I often struggle to have a one on one conversation with them. I usually rely on there being a group of at least 3 of us so the oth… | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Night Out at the Bars_Soiler Alert:Didn't Go so WellThanks for the reply. I'm in the US, East Coast. I used to watch a lot of Mystery Method stuff back in the day and nowadays I watch Todd V stuff religiously, but in the moment, everything that I've consumed from these masters just disappear from my mind and left to my own devices. I feel like I need a script to get going in this. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 08:49 PM |
| 12 | A friend is using vulgar openers like "I would suck your cock if you would wear a strap-on" and gets laid. Why?This makes sense. Also I'm sure time and location have a huge part to do with it as well. Saying this stuff in a rowdy night club where energy is already high with lots of drinks flowing in the late night will definitely yield more favorable results. Actually, I'd imagine this is the only time and place you can get away with saying this stuff. Saying this stuff, however, in a more low key lounge place or in any day game setting will probably lead to a restraining order filed against you. | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Can't Pull the Trigger on my First ApproachThank you for the reply! Although I can't dance to save my life. Me attempting to dance is a major turnoff and turns girls in proximity into lesbians. So this isn't the most reasonable option for me. | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Can't Pull the Trigger on my First ApproachBut how do I do that when I have nothing on my mind to even say? Like, what do I even talk about? | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | The Importance of Social MediaI'm screwed in this category since I don't have an IG account and my FB account is lacking quite a bit. I actually do have an IG but it's empty with no posts, so I just tell girls on Tinder I don't have IG. Sometimes I'm able to get away with it and go on a date anyway, but most of the times it's a deal breaker to her. I don't know how to do social media and I don't have much of a life to really post anything in the first place. I'm just not interesting as a person and I can't go away and take p… | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 04:03 PM |
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