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If your definition of rape includes men being forced to penetrate the chances are lower by a few percent at most and less than 1% at the least if you look at things like the cdc study on it, which showed 1.27 million female rape victims in 1 year vs 1.267 million male rape victims in the same period
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:32 PM
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Most women also don’t have a good understanding of consent, a lot of them talk about sex like it didn’t matter how you get it or how unwanted it makes you feel as long as you had it, which is why you see arguments advocating for lonely men to get prostitutes. In real life a lot of women I know also have no self control right before their periods and do things to me the average man wouldn’t dream of trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:23 PM
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I find that men don’t like bragging in general, there are things I only tell to female friends because my male friends shut down as soon as I talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:09 PM
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It’s mostly older men, I’ve never seen a guy talking about another man’s girlfriend like that, it’s mostly women talking about the looks of a person’s partner from my experience and even thats rare and usually end after one sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:45 PM
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I had an argument about this exact thing, she was trying to argue that men actually don’t like sex because they’d just get a prostitute in a conversation about men being seen as almost worthless in they can’t get sex and couldn’t understand that you can desire both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:40 PM
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Wouldn’t giving more women access to dating men with the negative behaviors they seek in a relationship according to the movement help them understand that these behaviors don’t contribute to a healthy relationship and make more of them seek less shallow and healthier relationships as a result?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:04 PM
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That’s what the mgtow movement is, it also won’t work because it requires too many people to do too much, feminism was a minority of women going out and protesting, not 90% of women refusing to date until they got equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:46 AM
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What’s your realistic solution for red pillars to solve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:36 AM
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Every movement that gets big enough gets mixed up with other ideologies but just because many people who believe in red pill philosophy also believe in egalitarianism, mgtow or whatever that account might believe in. even if it is part of some neo red pill ideology, telling people to do what’s best for themselves doesn’t in a system that oppresses them according to the ideology isn’t contradictory unless you have some sort of realistic grand plan to remake society in a more equal manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:21 AM
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Sure but the point was always to document what helped others get women and to compile those stories into strategies that work for them, not to start a counter movement to feminism that makes society more progressive in some ways and less in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:00 AM
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Isn’t rp just a group of people trying to use science and psychology to improve their chances with women? all the commentary on social inequality is a result of it but it’s not what drives their choices
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:37 PM
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I can say the same about anything else in life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 03:51 PM
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It shows they’re more accepting of women even if they have disabilities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:57 PM
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That’s why i moved, living under an oligarchy where every major industry was a monopoly owned by a friend of the state was suffocating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:21 PM
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1.he’s talking about struggles of people on the spectrum specifically and then refers to himself. you don’t have to talk to him differently to not talk down to him because of his struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:14 PM
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Why talk down to an autistic person?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:54 PM
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that would’ve been easier if they didn’t have to work most of their waking hours to chase their dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:21 PM
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If that’s the case then women objectify men even more considering average looking women have a much higher match rate than average looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:54 PM
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Only caring about superficial properties and not seeing them as humans
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:41 AM
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Why the most notorious app for hookups then? Why not something known for personality based match ups rather than an app that’s based on looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:23 AM
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I couldn’t call caring about looks objectifying but yes, im saying that the average man is a lot more accepting of average women’s looks than the other way around when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:18 AM
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men look at the pictures way less, the only reason men have to not read every profile is because they know they likely won’t match with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:26 PM
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Why ar the requirements for the biggest hookup up that the person can’t want a hookup? That’s like a lactose intolerant person asking others to find food that won’t make him shit at a Dairy Queen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:24 PM
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I don’t think reading erotica and romance novels with friends really helps me understand women to be fair, although i do think it’s important to form close friendships with them and to be comfortable with women because that helps a ton in both dating and friendships in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:23 PM
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i figured it out myself when women started getting closer to me once I mentioned I have a spa and theatre at home. still not sure why women like to read novels where both main characters as as bland as possible while the side characters are actually well written but get mostly ignored by fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:11 PM
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i read them with friends, most of them have really basic characters with no personality. I don’t think those are treasure troves of good advice other than being rich and hot is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:53 AM
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I agree, women who act nice until they feel secure in a relationship and only then start hitting are human waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:41 AM
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In my experience the lines are usually pretty blurred, there’s a lot of cases in the middle where a guy is in the talking phase to get to know a woman but the woman thinks they’re already friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:40 AM
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that assumes men know they’re attracted to a woman before they know her as a person. The average man doesn’t go “she’s pretty, im down to marry her”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:48 AM
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A girl I was dating tried to stab me and then an entire classroom of kids, another almost choked me to death out of nowhere. i know a lot of men with violent stories they never tell anyone they don’t think will get it because they get ridiculed if they do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:36 PM
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In that scenario the woman still has the choice of a physical abortion if she doesn’t want the pregnancy but can also avoid having an abortion if she decides that it would be more traumatic for her to terminate it than to give birth, which a lot of women already do, the only difference is that the woman would also have the choice to avoid legal parenthood with the consent of the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:05 PM
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That‘s assuming men only value their money, for a person that values equality and choice the priorities are completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:40 PM
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Wouldn’t it cancel itself out in the case of an abortion because the other half of the time he would lose his kid without having a choice in the matter? with financial abortion the mother could at least opt out and still give birth so it mostly fixes both issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:25 PM
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If its the bad women that reinforce redpillers’ opinions on women then who creates them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:29 PM
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They wouldn’t let their girlfriend get hit by a car as an experiment either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:39 PM
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Don’t red pill men want liberal women that are free with their sexuality rather than fascism?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:07 AM
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It’s interesting to compare the average gay or lesbian relationship and straight relationship la because it shows the difference really well, sometimes they still fall to gender expectations and whoever is perceived as more masculine has to do extra work and other times the person that asks pays but Its more common for gay and lesbian dates for the bill to be split.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:42 PM
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It’s very common unfortunately and not just with personality, there’s a lot of women expecting to date men with more money than they can make or men with physical qualities they can’t or won’t have. if hypocrisy in dating wasn’t a thing half of men’s complaints would be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:53 AM
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get don’t look down on hard working, kind and empathic men, they’re saying that despite being good people those traits won’t make them seem attractive to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:31 PM
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men are more likely to be victims of violent crime so it would most likely increase the chances
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:59 PM
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Aren’t men way more likely to ask out people they have friend chemistry with than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:52 AM
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sure, no one is saying make up doesn't work but most men i talked to prefer to know what a woman they're dating actually looks like and see make up as fake, it;s like if a guy could take his muscles off before getting in bed, i think most women would see that as deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:14 PM
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Isn’t that what I said in my comment? That men only notice it when there’s a sudden change in how they look
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:38 PM
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If theyre used to them wearing makeup and suddenly stop, not if someone shows uo to the first date looking natural
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:30 PM
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The second one comes from women usually. I never heard a man complain about a lack of make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:57 AM
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the guy from horsing around?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:11 PM
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So if I went on a gay dating app I’d get the same number of messages/matches as a straight dating site?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:01 PM
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From what I’ve seen from friends and heard getting into a relationship is way easier even to average and below average men, dating also seems to also seems to be more romantic from what I’ve heard from friends but I can’t say I have any experience when it comes to that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:15 PM
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Not always and shouldn’t happen with the good ones but yeah it’s fairly accurate for too many. I don’t try to be a bad person but I do notice that when I’m successful with new women I always end up getting trained into acting like an asshole because those behaviors get positive feedback.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 01:04 PM
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gay men seem to complain about dating a lot less than gay women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:36 AM
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breeding for genes usually ends up with. Species that has wasted features that don’t do much other than create a certain appearance, a lot of birds are like that and while peacocks are pretty I don’t think they’re genetically superior to most other species.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:42 AM
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seems like it, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:49 PM
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Wouldn’t it be much easier to implement basic gun control and mental health care programs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:25 PM
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either because they want equality like you say which would mean women wanting men as much as men want women, in this case not very much or because they just don’t like women and want them to lose their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:07 PM
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I dunno I think i deserve the secrecy when I talk about my feelings. Also what if I have feelings for a she tree? she shouldn’t be told immediately after I asked for tree advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:15 PM
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mushrooms are even crazier but trees can still communicate the need for water and emotional support and the rest of the Forrest will help if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:00 PM
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No because trees can communicate very efficiently so the whole forest would know before I even finished my sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:45 PM
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the woman, almost always, I’ve even had ones that didn’t actually want to break up with me do it and then try to go back after. from all my male and female friends it’s always the woman and when I ask why its usually something like she got bored or didn’t feel like it at the moment but i think it changes as people age, I’ve seen more men in their 40s start it than men in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:06 PM
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can everyone be trusted with a weapon?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:21 PM
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i agree that people who feel unsafe should carry but if every woman on the street was able to kill any man in a moment or at minimum pepper spray him and rob him wouldn’t every man have to also carry something to protect himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:48 PM
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if most women carried an object for self defense wouldn’t they be more dangerous than men? even someone with a tiny bottle of pepper spray can very easily overpower a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:36 PM
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Estimates go up to like 70% of dv coming from the woman but it’s really difficult when it’s so underreported in both cases and not equally, it’s the same with male vs female rape cases where estimates of the actual number go From overwhelmingly female to equal depending on how they try to account for people not reporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:33 PM
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entitled to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:56 PM
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That’s only for women who are shallow and then they likely deserve him putting in the work and finding an equal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:07 PM
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I don’t think most men have trouble managing a friendship with women, like I said all my friends treat me like I treat them and I can make the same type of jokes with friends of both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:38 PM
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I still have a lot of female friends who are as comfortable around me both physically and emotionally as my male friends are but a lot of the women I met treat men very differently even when they really want to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:29 PM
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most of the times I stopped being friends with a woman are because they treated me differently than they treated friends of the same gender which I think is something that makes a lot of men prefer male friendships even if it’s not talked about that much. personally I don’t really even see it as a friendship if we’re mot equally open and comfortable around each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:59 PM
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but isn’t inequality still a bad thing even if one side is privileged?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:18 PM
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Most men just want someone equal to the, i see more women asking for someone who’s more than they are in most important aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:15 AM
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Isn’t that a good thing? I wouldn’t want to be with people who don’t voluntarily give it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:13 AM
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a few decades can be an entire person’s life, I don’t think it’s fair to expect people who didn’t exist yet to act like they had it well for that long and I don’t think that looking for equality is something to ridicule people over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:43 PM
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I don’t think it’s necessarily sexist to feel resentment because women don’t treat you like you treat them but I also don’t think that’s something you can just get over like that, what do you think you could personally do to maybe close the gap a little bit?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 09:38 AM
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Think about what you would’ve done if random women treated you like random men treat them, would you not have been just as promiscuous?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 10:32 PM
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I think in the first example it’s because while making such a bad choice about something this important might reflect poorly on her it doesn’t make her less likely to be a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:41 PM
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Absolutely, especially hotter men who get more women’s attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:17 PM
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I think tingles is supposed to be about being more sexual and shallow than butterflies which are mostly about love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:59 PM
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I think most men want a woman that’s like them which means she’s attracted to most people or to people on her level of looks but haven’t done it with a lot of those people, regardless of how that man would’ve acted if he was given the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:57 PM
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I think they’re mostly upset at being rejected by women who refuse to even know them as people instead of just a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:47 PM
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I think they’re mostly upset at being rejected by women who refuse to even know them as people instead of just a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:47 PM
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I think they’re mostly upset at being rejected by women who refuse to even know them as people instead of just a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:47 PM
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ts also more underreported for women than for men, a woman straight up almost murdered me once and nothing happened to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:30 PM
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what about races not of men? I’m sure elfs are pretty chill when it comes to committing crime
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:29 PM
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Yeah it’s mostly either because they’re attractive or because they don’t want to be seen as sexists by both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:24 PM
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yeah, most people are much more careful with what they say when It’s someone they know, they might express the same opinions but say it in a way that criticizes women for their perceived flaws rather than calling them bad words
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:04 PM
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women tend to rate most men as lower than average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:47 AM
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Probably to stop putting men who are clearly on steroids and we’re already extremely hot beforehand (same with women and plastic surgery) everywhere in the media because that creates an unrealistic expectation of what a man looks like, it’s the same with how some men watch porn so much they cant get a hard on when they have sex because the woman doesn’t look like a porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:24 AM
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I don’t think most men refuse to date people of similar attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:20 AM
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Women absolutely do blame men for having unrealistic standards and expecting to date women with massive fake tits they can’t even distinguish from real ones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:18 AM
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Yeah, people who stay in contact for dating potential don’t usually help that person date other people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:46 PM
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Yeah the secret hate makes it very different, if i know someone hates me I can at Least fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:45 PM
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I had one of those and she tried to murder me once, I think having a male friend that’s in love with me is still better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:43 PM
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I’m absolutely certain most hot people would swap with anyone who can afford to build one of the largest mega yachts in the world, hell I’m sure most would trade places with someone who’s et worth is in the low millions since that’s still more than enough to buy a castle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:57 AM
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im not American so fat people are very rare where im from American women have an average bmi of 29.6 while men’s average is 26.6 so the average woman is even closer to obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:48 AM
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But then there aren’t as many women as men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:05 PM
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A lot of the men I know who get a ton of women are on anabolic steroids and I have a good amount of friends that only want to date a man with a 6 pack, I’m not saying everyone is attracted to bodybuilders.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:30 PM
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Personally I think a big part of the problem is that women and men aren’t socialized the same way from the start which creates differences in how they behave in adulthood and that allowing women with plastic surgery and men on steroids in movies and ads is definitely harmful to people’s expectations but I’m not the guy you replied to originally, I just wanted to say I would date Elizabeth sackler if she gave me another chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:27 PM
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I’ve never had trouble dating because i was usually the one being chased but most of my female friends have had a conversation with me where they either said they rejected / stopped seeing a guy they really liked because of his looks (when a lot of these guys were usually pretty handsome in my opinion) or when talking about standards kept talking about or showing me guys with unrealistic looks. Obviously anecdotal but I think a lot of women have higher expectations for their partners than they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:22 PM
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So you’re saying that average men should expect to date women way above the average?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:16 PM
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Do you think any of the men complaining about women’s behavior on tinder refuse to date Elizabeth sackler?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:55 PM
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What happens when the majority of people a person tries to date have those unrealistic expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:50 PM
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What he’s talking about isnt a rage looking women dating movie stars and billionaire’ sons, it’s avrage women going after men on steroids and refusing to date anyone remotely avrage looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:48 PM
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I usually try to treat partners equally both in terms of the effort I put into the relationship and my expectations of them but if I found someone like that and absolutely could not do exactly what she’s doing to make sure she’s just as taken care of I would at least treat her as good as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:54 PM
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We do that too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:37 PM
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probably half the single ones in that person’s age range, I’ve never heard of half these rules. Why would anyone not want to date middle children but be fine with both older and younger ones?
/r/ExRedPill06/10/23 07:49 PM
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Not as much, Ive known plenty of socially awkward women and had a few approach me but in my admittedly anecdotal experience they were encouraged for being brave rather than told to read my emotions better and be less aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:13 PM
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Date a 40 year old and get everything for free
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:50 AM
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Men get judged more harshly for complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:01 AM
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thats like 90% of it, if someone looks like she put in too much effort it’s a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:47 PM
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I would probably have it show the bio first and limit options to 3 at a time, maybe have the pictures showing after a match or during conversation so it’s more focused on it being a good match than a good hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:26 AM
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That’s sounds like less than even meh if he’s barely responding tbh. What about something like is described above where he seems interested but isn’t trying to initiate anything sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:02 PM
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The question is how much though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:50 PM
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a strange answer asks for strange questions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:33 PM
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So you expect him to want you like that right from the start but dont start acting like you want him this much until later on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:13 PM
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Isn’t someone being in touch with his emotional side emotional intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:36 PM
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Most office jobs you do from home are like that, I sometimes have 6 hour long calls with coworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:56 AM
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