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This is true. A lot of men don’t like women. They like women body , but really don’t like women as a whole productive person. Also most men don’t even register a woman in their vicinity that is not attractive. They actively ignore women they don’t find attractive, which is a large sub group of women. They actively go out of their way for 10s/ highly attractive women and don’t mind being a so called Simp as long as they are getting something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:05 AM
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A lot of men are only traditional when it benefits them. I’ve met plenty so call traditional men that want their partner to work and financially psy the bills bit take care all of domestic chores
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:12 PM
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My favorite passport bros are the ones that complain about being a traditional man. They go overseas because they cannot get a woman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:57 AM
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Prenups are great! People think pre nups can only highlight money in a relationship, but really it allows the standard to negotiate so many things like child support, custody agreements, etc. I for one will have a prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:34 PM
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If the shoe was on the other foot, men would be as selective. People who have options will always exercise their options, being upset that they do won’t change the situation. Besides men say women should pick better men, don’t complain when that doesn’t include you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:26 AM
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This! A lot of single dads typically seek to offload their child responsibilities on the child free woman. No thanks !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:28 PM
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I’m not dating a man with children . If that limits my pool then so be it. Single dads typically seek out single child free women to help them with the labor since most don’t like being care takers. Not my child not my responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:54 AM
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This is why i don’t take the critique if men dating life seriously. If the average woman is older, weighs more etc, anything above that is in fact an outlier. The outlier will have way more options to date. So either date the average woman or be single,,but they shouldn’t be complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:51 AM
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With the rise of cost in this country, I don’t see women lowering any type of standard. I think most would just chose to be single, or build more of a community .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:38 AM
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Most western Men want traditional submissive compliment women but who also pays 50% of the bills and majority of the house cleaning… see how out of touch that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:06 PM
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It used to be money. Now that harder to sell due to inflation and post pone economic success like owning a home, making a min of 6 figure salary, retirement options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:32 AM
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Most men have and continue to dump their current partners for others that are younger. It doesn’t matter if a woman gave her youth to him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:31 AM
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Most men would date children if there were no age of consent. So yes your right with legal repercussions most men would behave inner most immoral way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:29 AM
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Exactly! Men can understand sexual assault or harassment when it comes from a person they are not interested or a sane sex individual . They take issue when it’s a woman saying No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:57 AM
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This! Men act like women get these ideas out of thin air. When it our fathers, brothers, and uncles tell us to weary of men. And that majority of men will never imploy a woman to help them in a time of need.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:11 PM
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I am one of those women, that definitely would give my ex full custody . I would definitely ask for that to be a part of the pre nup . Before anyone says anything i definitely would be paying child support, and would be ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:30 PM
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It’s the same with coffee dates or walking dates. Date people that are open to that, and don’t beg those that wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:58 AM
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No it isn’t, if he’s able to get a younger woman. Many men have left their families and started new ones without a care in how it will impact their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:56 AM
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Men abandon their families all the time for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:31 AM
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There is no such thing. Men are just as likely to cheat on their partners if they know they won’t get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:31 AM
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Why don’t you date people that are OK with coffee dates? I don’t understand the nit picking, if you don’t like someone’s behavior don’t interact with them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:14 PM
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Equating sex to be as much as need to food, water, and shelter is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:27 PM
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These are facts. Majority of Americans are definitely bigger and that is caused by a wide list of things. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t make it un true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:07 AM
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Not being fat/ having no kids are not the bare minimum when majority of the US is either overweight or obese and many kids are being born out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:48 AM
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This! The type of women , these men want are statistically out of their league. These men are not picking average women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:13 AM
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You’re not as attractive as you think , it’s really that simple. You’re not measuring up to what 7s or whatever will pick. Either don’t date or date the ppl that like you back
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:10 AM
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What does your face look like? You can be fit but be considered a butterface?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:49 AM
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Men are more likely than women to remarry . So that threat is mute towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:26 AM
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Only certain women are seen as valuable .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:27 PM
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This! The trad wife to broke single mom pipeline is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:29 AM
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Yes! I would rather be alone than be in a relationship with a man I don’t find attractive or want to be with. Just a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:26 AM
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With this new generation of young adults not even being able to hold a 1-1 conversation the threat of being alone or old cat lady doesn’t hit the same. Young women are now seeing older women who have been married for years tied to a man they despise for whatever reason. Many are ok and would be glad to be a cat lady than in a miserable relationship. This what men refuse to come to terms with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:25 AM
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Men are not picking women by their character. They are picking women by the same vain standards that you claim women only do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:21 AM
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Most men don’t hit financial peak either if majority of them back middle class salary/ ie nothing really hitting low 100k
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:22 AM
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The average US woman is a size 12. Yet many males claim they want just an average woman that is small/slim. Majority of males have high standard but they don’t see it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:08 AM
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How is that even accurate, even if a woman married young there is no guarantee that her spouse will stick with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:58 PM
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Why would a woman date an average guy when the outcome is more likely the same? False commitment/ emotional unavailability/ cheating /etc. Just bc a guy is average does not mean he will take the relationship serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:13 AM
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There are also very few men that have gold. Majority of males in this country could not even afford a stay home wife and mother- so being upset about gold diggers when it’s not even a financial reality is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:59 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:22 AM
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This is such BS. Men provide women with conditional love as well. Look how men talk about their partners gaining weight, aging, being to tired to have sex because their not helping. Those men with draw their love/ affection only see their partners as a tool not a person
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:22 AM
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Exactly! If the average woman is chubby/ overweight than just based on numbers they should be approached more since that is the norm. But many of men complain when they shoot their shot at a Stacy and it doesn’t go well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:47 AM
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Exactly these men are virtuous because they don’t have options
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:44 AM
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This forum really should crack down on post such as these that just defy logic. Plenty of ppl based their partners on whey would be acceptable to their social standing/ network. Let’s stop pretending that males don’t display this behavior. Plenty of men don’t date certain women although they like them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:19 AM
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Yep! My dad was extremely active and hand on with me and my siblings. I watched this man pitch in a n cooking/cleaning/ homework etc. he also coached little league shin my brothers were in sports. My level of what a male partner should be are definitely strong high standards. I know what it looks like when a man is deeply involved in the household I don’t expect any less
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:26 AM
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Omg this! Like please use your inside voice ! No one should be hearing out conversations over 3 booths in a restaurant. It really is my biggest ik and I have dropped men for this. It’s just not considerate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:39 PM
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Why are you complaining about something so universal? . People are attractive to those that are in shape, look good etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:07 PM
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Why does OP care what women over 30 do? Since they’re so undesirable. Why don’t you / lot men focus on the younger women? I’m not concerned with what others do with their life. It appears OP like many are upset that women aren’t breaking down after 30; instead finding things that provide joy to their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:54 AM
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Exactly’ they have no problem trying to grow out a beard to hide their none existent jaw line/ face structure. Some males also get and are encouraged to take hair transplants/ dye their hair/ wear shoe lifts/ etc. But women wearing makeup is so unfair… lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:41 AM
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I feel the same way about male beards. They hide the true structural face shape for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:39 AM
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This is really it. Men will go above and beyond and excuse a lot of bad behaviors if he finds a woman really hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:08 PM
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Women seem to forget the old saying a man is not a plan. You still need to work and have some type of money to sustain yourself or kids. I think dating as gotten better with people putting thought behind the idea of massage/ children, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:24 PM
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The same can be said that a lot of men want traditional women, but expect to have casual sex when their single and a partner that would split the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:37 PM
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It’s so funny because majority of males complaining about wealthy men obviously aren’t one and haven’t met a wealthy man. I thought it was known that a woman degree doesn’t matter? But now all of a sudden it does, these males on this sub cannot make up their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:34 PM
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Where would this information be stored? No. Government should not be allowed to keep my DNA on file for a you could or could not be the parent. If you want a paternity test get one done by yourself and leave the rest of the people out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:16 PM
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They absolutely do! They want to waste younger women time and wash rinse repeat because eventually she will be older and ready to have a family
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:54 PM
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No thanks, I wonder if you also propose for men to date the ugly, fat, terrible attitude women since you know women are women .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:31 PM
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Majority of men do not even do 50% of the housework and they for sure don’t actively participate in their own children lives. Let’s stop pretending , majority of every study has shown majority of women pick up the slack .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:16 PM
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I find it funny how so many men talk about financially going 50/50, but leave out the other aspects like housework, raising children , etc. all of which are majority responsibilities put on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:24 AM
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No thanks, most women would rather watch paint dry than be with an unattractive guy. OP you could just date someone that finds you attractive or give ugly unattractive women a chance; which we know you won’t do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:40 PM
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Men are the same way!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:36 PM
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The average male is making 60k a year , let’s not pretend majority of men are making over 200k which is needed in this economy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:39 PM
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Same could be said for men. You should be ecstatic for any woman that shows your interest regardless of what she looks like . Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:20 PM
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What are you talking about? I thought men only valued women for their youth, beauty and agreeableness what you described is a indentured servant that is expect to help pay half the bills, look good, do majority of domestic work and be the primary caretaker. You can’t back track that now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:03 PM
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This! We all will age, why would a younger woman gamble with an old guy who deem older women as garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:03 PM
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I agree. Men for the most part are upset that women have options, and even w/ o options will be ok with being alone. I might be cynical but majority of men only do things that they feel are worth it for the person they want which is fine as long as the pendulum swings both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:22 PM
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Average/ ugly men do not treat women better than chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:33 AM
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That still requires a woman to say yes to the proposal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:35 AM
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Because he’s upset that he’s being disqualified since other men can and will pay for a first date. They would rather browbeat women that they are not compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:20 AM
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You guys never cared about women. Only the ones that are young/ attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:00 AM
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Oh please most men don’t even go for sole custody this point is mute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:30 PM
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This might be a good thing if they use the national dna base to correct back log of tape kits and past crimes. They only want a national database just to “ punish” women .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:29 PM
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I agree. I think the dna family lineage company 23and me was hacked. I don’t think government should have access to ppl personal dna. I also don’t take family lineage test either for this reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:28 PM
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I’m a young single woman, men single and married still hit on me . Regardless what their wives look like/ maintain their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:19 PM
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Nice try but sperm does deteriorate past the age of 35, this is science and a reason why most sperm banks won’t accept make sperm past early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:15 PM
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Personally I don’t think the government should be involve in people medical history and they do not have the infrastructure to host personal dna information without being hacked. Men will use any excuse to not take care of their own kids, wonder why the birth rate is falling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:11 PM
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Old sperm are tied to genetic defects in children such as autism. Old people on general including old men should not be having children
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:07 PM
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You are proving OP point, what incentive is it for younger women to date old men? When they too will age out? Besides being attractive and getting a younger woman are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:05 PM
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Agree. I never understood the fascination of getting married young when so many men on the forum proclaimed that only beauty matters to them and only younger women have value. If an early 20s woman was to marry there is no guarantee that her partner will stick beside her bc she gave him her youth; wife googles are not real. Women shouldn’t be pressured to get married just live your life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:02 PM
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They also don’t care that a woman works, has a degree, can earn a living. These men clearly state and restate they justly care about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:18 AM
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Because majority of men are cheap and they think event escort and prostitute should be free
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:07 AM
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Women have always done this, so what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:04 AM
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You guys ask for women to be honest and are still upset
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:01 AM
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What you described is not the average man. OP listed very constructive viewpoints majority of average being nothing of value. If a woman is expected to pay 50/50 do majority of child rearing / housework it’s in her best interest to choose the most attractive and financially stable man she can get
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:58 AM
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Getting rich is relatively easy , pick a career with a high return stop complaining as a broke man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:33 AM
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Dump him and move on. No way I’m allowing some guy who never touch p*** or had lack of options make me feel some type of way. I would rather just replace him, if he thinks he can do better just let him .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:07 PM
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Women are in demand, most men aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:00 PM
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Getting rich is in your control. Work hard , pick a great career. By your logic it should be as easy as controlling what you eat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:57 PM
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Exactly! All these guys commenting how fit- attractive they are but don’t have any options or can’t get someone they like. They are delusional. No amount of badgering women will change any if the dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:50 PM
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They are if they can’t apply themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:46 PM
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This! It’s simple math. You go to buy a house, you only have X amount to buy. You either pick a house in your land or your continue to rent. If man here aren’t getting what they want their shooting to high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:44 PM
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The average woman is fat, if you want an in shape woman that is above average
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:41 PM
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Because you yourself maybe ugly, short, broke etc. again if those girls liked you , you wouldn’t be complaining. They don’t : either move on or remain single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:41 PM
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If you’re not getting the women you want , you’re shooting above your league. This is so simple yet you all miss the point. Either aim lower, or stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:39 PM
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Exactly! These men can complain alll day, I say let them since we know they will do nothing to self improve
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:35 PM
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Seriously! I cannot wait for AI girlfriends to be available to these men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:08 PM
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I wish these men would look at wedding invitations, they will find that majority of ppl date within 5 years of their age group
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:38 PM
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Exactly! These men think a hot young girl is going to settle for a middle age man, who doesn’t own his own house, makes less than 100k , losing his hair, and wants to go 50/50 over her same age peer? No way. Majority of 30+ men do not have the pull to pull a young hot girl, maybe back in the day when they had more financial standing but now. Nope. A young woman has a better chance dating within her social group for a better ROI
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:30 PM
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Beards also hide the no jaw line
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:26 PM
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I find that men don’t mind beta buxing or going above and beyond if it’s a woman they’re really attractive to. All the coffee date scenarios, paying 50/50 goes out the window- I’ve seen it and experienced it Men don’t mind beta buxing if they feel their getting a good deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:19 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:30 AM
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And more broke, the average American makes less than 60k a year. A lot of cannot afford to be the breadwinner but expect women to be traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:03 PM
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Exactly! Men love to complain about modern women and wanting a traditional partner but they refuse to play their role as a traditional provider. Men don’t get to complain when they themselves need a woman to help pay half the bills. They become more lonelier for all I care
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:39 AM
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Exactly she was already filing before he approached her. 2- I don’t feel at all bad for him, he should have taken the hint she wasn’t interested, instead he ignores her uncomfortableness, decides to continue talking and now upset that he’s being branded a creep. You can approach but you don’t get to dictate the ending. Also she never shows his face, so he’s still not known
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:48 PM
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Newsflash women have always been picky even back in the old days. If you weren’t attractive or rich you had no options as a man. Marrying for love is new concept, I guarantee fathers were not marrying their daughters to just some man. As I stated men can either become more attractive/ rich or be content with being lonely but you don’t get to complain about lazy of options if that what you enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:55 PM
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Most men now a days are more broke than their peers from decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:50 AM
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Exactly! It was fine when the ugly short guy was dating a supermodel but now it’s a problem when an average girl is dating a hot guy! Oh well. I say congrats to her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:42 AM
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These men are forever moving the goal post and creating illogical scenarios. If a man who’s a Chad that’s so attractive he has an abundance of options for casual and ltr. But now I’m suppose to believe a hot guy is finding it just as hard as a low value guy to lock someone down long term? That makes no sense. Men are the pursuers, if he doesn’t like his options he has the choice to be alone , but he doesn’t get to complain about his unattractive partner if that is what he picked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:40 AM
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How is that a woman’s fault or problem? . Men don’t get to complain about a problem that they have created and obviously chose
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:32 AM
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That’s a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:38 AM
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This is funny, women who are models are not selling themselves for a cheeseburger, these incel fantasy are getting out of hand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:37 AM
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Men hate other men that utilize options they wish they had. They give women crap about focusing on celebrities etc but they want to live vicariously thru other men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:23 AM
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I would rather take my chances with a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:22 AM
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This is basic biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:18 AM
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He’s expecting a pity f***. I could care less if a guy gets an AI girlfriend of it means he doesn’t become suicidal or etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:17 AM
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This! Men only want and desire compliments from women they find attractive. If a an ugly, old, obese, single mom gave them a compliment they wouldn’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:18 PM
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Oh for sure! Men treat women differently based on their level of attractiveness. If a guy is really into he would never suggest a coffee date or anything low effort. The more attractive a man finds you the more he is willing to let go/ or look past. The men of the sub claim women are only guilty of treating the Chads like kings, but they are just as guilty of this behavior. Men create tiers of women who they like, want to date, marry or just sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:29 PM
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That’s not true. Ugly men would like to have a harem of women they just don’t have the option to. Do they try to settle with one woman as quickly as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:36 PM
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Artificial womb are dead in the water when we know the majority of these men don’t even want to take Carrie their own kids living in the same house hold. Who will stay home and raise these kids? Will need to be the next question, and it wouldn’t be robots
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:30 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:29 PM
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For a man in his 30s and up to attract a much younger woman would have to be in the less than 20% of the male population. He would have to make a minimum 6 figures, be willing to spend, no 50/50 non sense, be in shape, have a house, unkept car and wardrobe. The average man couldn’t maintain a younger woman when most need a partner to pay half of the bills. This just screams revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:18 PM
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Women will always have options, especially if she prioritizes herself .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:46 PM
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Right! They literally make the argument to not date old men since the younger woman would be useless once she gets older. It makes no sense. Why would I a younger woman with plenty options waste them on some old guy who don’t think I’ll have value after 35? Might as well make my bet on the younger/ age guy since at least he’ll have a hairline
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:45 PM
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No I dint, I think if men had the opportunity to be a Chad they would, they’re upset because they can’t and see other men winning . But like I said men do desire women more because if they didn’t they would be ok with being lonely and not complaining about their lack options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:17 AM
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Agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:15 AM
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No. I wouldn’t, if I’m making significant less I expect my partner to budget within my means. I’m not stretching myself thin if he can’t carry the extra cost. It’s not equal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:08 PM
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Not really, men desire women more than women desire men. You can say it’s testosterone or etc., but if the desire isn’t there what’s the point of lowering your standards to date a man that repulses you. Might as well be single
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:31 PM
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Right . Men on PPD complain non stop but also claim that biology is so important. They are always moving the goalpost
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:02 PM
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They would rather share than be with someone they don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:01 PM
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The average male really offers nothing, especially if you’re expected to pay 50% of the bills and do all or most of the home cleaning- child rearing. Ppl say that modern women don’t keep up with their end of the bargain but it’s the same for modern men who expect traditional outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:01 AM
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Exactly! It’s biology for a woman to prefer a tall, in shape, attractive man. That is biology. If they love to claim it’s biology for men to want hot young attractive wome, it’s biology for women to prefer *Chads. But they love moving the goal post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:36 PM
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I’m having a hard believe that majority of men can use their economic standing to get younger women when compared to older generations their are so far behind. Majority of single men 30s and up are not home buyers, they don’t have a strong economic pull, they are saddled with debt . Majority don’t have 6 figures, these are national statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:15 PM
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Because you guys do. Talk to the other 50% when you date a single mom, older woman, fat women etc. People like what they like , it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:14 PM
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Honestly it’s probably because you’re unattractive to the women you like for whatever reason. You have the right to disqualify any partner and so does everyone one else. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:13 PM
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This doesn’t surprise me but I would argue that the Gen Z kids are way more antisocial thus limiting their overall interaction with others. So it’s not really their not hooking up it’s just they don’t have the social skills to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:44 PM
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Right! His last part is just delusional when chain about the wall. This sub has stated multiple times that the majority of men want only 6% of the woman population. Ie young, attractive, in shape etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:28 AM
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Is this a joke? Men are not kind or sincere when interacting with ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:27 AM
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How so? These males complaining can go after unattractive women or men but they don’t. They have the option to buy refuse to. You guys just don’t want the option that’s available, that’s not really a loneliness problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:10 AM
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Exactly! Men complaining about being have the option to fix it , they just don’t like their options
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:08 AM
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Or the males could form platonic relationships with their peers since they are so lonely or sleep with other men. But these two options are never considered. Men have the options they just don’t like them and would rather complain to women to fix an issue that they don’t have. It’s really hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:59 AM
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Let’s not forget , if we were to really fake it back only men vote wild matter are ones that own land/ property. But it’s funny how he doesn’t mention this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:31 PM
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If that were true majority of men would be seeking to be married in their early 20s, working all shifts to support their stay at home wives , and having multiple children. We don’t see that all and most men actively don’t want to settle down across the board. They instead are upset that they don’t habit the options of *Chad and they take that frustration out on others . What we see now are men upset that women are exercising all of their options right, including ones that allow them to be not ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:59 PM
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I don’t understand why men hate women but not their fellow males that have an easy time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:23 PM
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I agree, if Society was so great back in the old days, things would have not changed. Men obviously have been shown to not be responsible or capable if they were, the right to vote, no fault divorce would have never even been conceptualize let along an act/ law
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:22 PM
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The problem is that red states claim a fetus is a person if that was true wouldnt that be assigned a SS number immediately upon conception?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:03 PM
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As a woman I agree. I like my man to be attractive to me, I don’t care how great of a personality he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:06 PM
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This is it. If you can’t find a partner that finds you attractive you are shooting above your league
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:06 PM
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Right it’s the same thing as us being able to force men to date men/ women they don’t find attractive. I don’t understand how they cannot comprehend this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:45 PM
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You know there are drugs and medical methods if you cannot control yourself. I think pharmaceutical industry should take a page out and prescribe men anti testosterone to limit their sex drive. This would be a win for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:25 PM
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They don’t. Men hate when other men have options. They are crabs in a bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:24 PM
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You act like you’re the only that pays taxes. Women, men, married and single ppl pay taxes toward thing we will never use. These incels…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:23 PM
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I agree. I am totally for make only places like gym, train, etc. as long as you all don’t complain it’s a sausage fest in these areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:51 PM
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This is apple vs orange: stay on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:49 PM
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I agree but would men really use a male only car?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:48 PM
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I think also the issue that women only clubs, gyms services do well because there is a demand for them. Compared to male only dominated places I don’t think much men will visit them since it’s be a sausage fest. But this is my hypothesis on the matter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:45 PM
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This is true as a girl I would agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:23 AM
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Yes but I think society / capitalism will push the need to go into debt to look good. So really not fixing the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:32 AM
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So you would agree, it’s been fault for the dating market since their so thirsty and need women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:10 PM
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I was telling a friend that mothers need a PR campaign because they are run dry, complain they don’t have time to do basic hygiene and maintenance. Who wants that? I don’t . I would rather spend my time doing things I want .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:15 PM
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🤣🤣 oh no, what would I ever do? Maybe I should call up my Chad and see if he lighten the mood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:42 PM
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There’s no reason for me, the largest demographic that die due to suicide are men by government statistics. I’ll be turning 40 and alive, while your male peers take their own lives. I’ll be fine at 40, you may want to focus on your health instead of worrying about me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:25 PM
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You haven’t heard of MGTOW or the multiple men groups that complain about women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:23 PM
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I agree! Most aren’t even god companion to each other as friends which is why they have a suicide/ loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:22 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:21 PM
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Yes I agree. They want women to have no rights so that they have to choose the lonely average guy 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:21 PM
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It’s really stupid! I’m suppose to believe that these men are beyond lonely and don’t get any matches but when their 40, old, receding hairline they have the abundance of dating hot, young women. I don’t buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:20 PM
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Your statement doesn’t make sense. If average women don’t want you, I don’t think that is a they problem. They don’t want you, stop complaining and find someone who does. If a guy doesn’t want to date me for whatever reason I either remain single or find someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:56 PM
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No you don’t. You guys would rather brown beat women who don’t want you than the date women that find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:54 PM
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Look no one is taking advice from old, unmarried, single, average men who complain about the current dating market. Your boat has already sailed. Women will always be in demand, why is why the naked have a loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:53 PM
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The powers that be would just a war, like they always done to get rid of undesirable men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:29 PM
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What’s wrong with that? This is the bullying OP discuss it. Why don’t you just keep it moving if the average woman doesn’t want the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:27 PM
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But who has rates of dying alone, or suicide- it’s not women. Why is it in every article men are complaining about being alone- the loneliness epidemic. Women are content being alone, men are not and you guys are bitter about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:09 PM
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Women keep telling you that they would rather be single than settle yet most men Burke insults like cat lady, etc. I don’t understand why some men are upset that women won’t lower their standards when it really doesn’t impact you. Especially if said woman is a single mom, older, fat etc; you already deem these women as low value so why do you care they end up alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:05 PM
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It’s really weird the fascination men on this sub have for single, childless women. If you believe women past 25 are old why bother with what they do? If Americans men are so valued then why are they lonely ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:01 PM
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I don’t know why you’re being down voted. Ok not having kids bc I don’t want to and two I would rather spend my time doing other things. Men cannot be dependent upon so why would I give them a genetic bloodline
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:03 AM
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but they don’t want the pick me women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:09 AM
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The same can be said when men describe single mom, you guys calls these women everything but a child of god. There is one way to not be called a creep and that’s by not approaching women; but we know majority of men won’t like this,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:07 PM
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No the statement remains the same? Majority of social platforms are made of young people. The attention I get from a guy that’s old, unattractive or short means nothing since I don’t even value these men. I’m a young woman but this is my prospective. It’s like when guys complain about only getting attention from ugly, fat, single moms. Those women attention mean nothing to most guys since they prefer women they deem attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:55 PM
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You guys do the same thing! Why do I keep getting these fat, single mom o my profile
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:59 AM
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True! Hot young women want attention from the top men not ugly, old, fat, cheap broke guys. The industry is there to help assist women on getting the best mate she can, not for getting some average guy. I thought this was common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:31 AM
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I disagree ,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:57 PM
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Exactly be attractive and or rich. This is the red pill so many men believe , do get hotter or richer. It’s really simple
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:56 PM
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I don’t know how this becomes an older woman problem, when it’s younger men that are not able to find partners among their peers. It’s funny how they don’t get the bitter label by you but older women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:51 PM
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The post about age gaps are tiring because these men already complain they can’t get average or their looks max for women.m, but this doesn’t apply to dating younger women. But they claim younger women are in love with them, and it’s their preference. It’s not believable! They can’t even get swipes but yet they can get younger women! This is beyond funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:55 PM
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Only the top percent of men are able to date younger woman , and that percentage is small since most men don’t even have this option and most younger women treat these as transactional relationships. Men are bending over backwards and upset that average/ women won’t even give them a chance but they’re able to get hot younger women. I’m not buying it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:51 PM
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He has the choice to either jump or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:36 AM
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Mate selection is not socialism. Either shape up or don’t. If your a man getting zero likes, you are the common denominator
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:34 AM
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This is it! And there is science that back this up. Men only pay attention to women they find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:49 AM
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And what are your stats? Age, height, weight, ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:47 AM
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Well they are aiming for women that don’t find them attactive for whatever reason. Either be single or lower the standard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:46 AM
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Supply/ demand. If women a man want don’t want them, that’s a man problem. Either lower the standards or be single
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:45 AM
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I stated why old or incel men are bitter when they will never have the opportunity to date let alone get someone hot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:38 AM
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If that was true, men wouldn’t be following and dumping over IG models.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:31 AM
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This is funny. If younger women really found older/ old men attractive then we would see that continuously in real life, marriage rates, etc. At the end of the day, this argument is pointless because the majority of men will never have the option to date much younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:27 AM
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Lies. Men on this forum and thru pseudo science has told generations of women that men like variety. You guys have to * spread your seed* , sow your wild oats. Now you’re upset that woman are now listening and only going after men they find attractive or bowing out of kids, family etc. It was men that told other men and women that men are only faithful as their options. Don’t be upset that women are now putting themselves first
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:42 PM
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No you don’t .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:39 PM
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But that is universal, if I know my relationship already has a 50% divorce rate already I might as well pick a partner I find hot, attractive etc. I’m stating men are not morally superior because they find a wide range of women attractive, or upset that being decent doesn’t get them a lot of women. You have to be attractive first the rest is secondary and that is for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:39 PM
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If that was true butterface stereotypes or beauty pageants would exist if men really only cared about being a kind decent person. Majority of men on this forum clearly have stated the only thing a woman brings are her looks and youth . You guys talk out both sides on your Mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:35 PM
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There are plenty of women with no options. Men do not have abroad range when discussing life time commitment, relationships. They seek out the best they can find and that usually are hir/ young/ attractive women they personalities don’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:33 PM
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This again doesn’t work in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:32 PM
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Have you dated men? If not I would refrain. Men only seek out women they find attractive, everything else doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:31 PM
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The same is said for ugly, fat, kind, gentle women. If you don’t pass a guys radar your never given the chance to show him that your not like all women. Men do not have the moral compass in this argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:06 PM
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Yes! I’ve worked really hard to maintain my weight, looks, and health. I am not throwing that away when these Jen state that beauty is the only thing I’m valued for . Why would I purposely give birth to gain weight, stretch marks, lose my teeth etc to a partner that night leave me one day. No thanks! I’m child free and I could care less we are dwindling in population
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:36 PM
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Who cares? Focus on your own body and stop policing others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:05 PM
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Disagree! If a man wants full Custody or partial he definitely can get it. Most men choose not too. Most women also don’t get alimony. Child support payments are not enough to solely take care of kids, the average payment is like 200 dollars . The women are not balling out on a couple hundred dollars a month
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:02 PM
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Tell that to teachers that are leaving the profession because of too many rowdy children and parents who won’t parent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:58 AM
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Yes and your partner will blame you for not losing the weight fast enough. No thanks. Pregnancy is way to harsh on a woman body
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:55 AM
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Do you realize how stupid you sound dating all women can get sec easily or get a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:31 AM
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No they don’t. Top tier guys don’t need tinder and if they do use tinder they re going after hot women not your average girl. Men value sex, women value relationships. I really don’t know why y’all continue to keep stating women get more options for sex when we value monogamy and commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:30 AM
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No they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:34 PM
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No woman is changing to be with an average guy, juice not worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:33 PM
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That’s not true. A lot parents regret having their kids, you should check out some of the sob stories from these parents. I find ppl who have children to be quite mindless especially those that don’t practice family planning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:13 PM
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So you only care that white women are not having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:12 PM
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The same can be sad for parents. Oh you can’t afford to have a house because you have kids.. majority of parents make their entire personality around being parents regardless of how terrible of a job they are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:09 PM
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Yes! But if we’re to be honest most ppl having nothing to pass down to their kids. Unless your wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:22 PM
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Exactly! Which is why you date the chad or the guy you really like. I don’t date on potential, I date where a guy is at today and if I find him attractive / same value You will be blamed either way! Might as well date who you like and who cares if he’s a “Chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:20 PM
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They hate the idea that they can’t trap a woman with a child and she is actively declining to further his blood line. It’s all about control. A childless woman has the option to leave and not be a single mom , damaged goods by red pill standard. She has a better time dating and exploring all options since she’s not tied to having kids with this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:18 PM
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Thank you! Nothing will change at all. Women don’t care that the low value guy raised his standards. She was never going to be with him before and after he raised his standards. This view from OP means nothing in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:15 PM
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Oh well. Either men can enhance themselves to get better options or not. It’s really simple either put in work or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:13 PM
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Right! As a young woman I’m Not putting up with a man I don’t find attractive who does not pull his weight so I can just say I’m in a relationship or I’m having sex. No thanks! Bring single even with no options for casual sex sounds way better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:12 PM
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Sex means nothing to women- it’s easily given out but can totally ruin a woman life if she’s not careful . Men and women are completely different in terms of what each sex valued
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:07 PM
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I agree with this. Women depending upon biology aspect or socialization we are taught to build community with others at a young age. We also know that sex carry a high risk for us so being selective with who we interact with is a must! If all men raised there standards that would never move women. Women will still want someone they find attractive, etc. women can still handle an extreme dry spell and be fine. Women are not going to put in effort for a balding, middle age, low class income earner…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:05 PM
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You’re only focusing on women you find attractive. There are plenty of ugly average girls that you don’t even see and they get no attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:01 PM
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Nope. Becky won’t be writing a manifesto and being an active shooter. She’ll probably focus on career and building up her friend social group
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:00 PM
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Right! Why don’t these average guys police the chads instead of average women. Oh that’s right because they think one day they’ll Be in a position to be a Chad !
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:59 AM
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This is so funny. So basically the average woman would increase and work on herself to get a Chad, she most definitely wouldn’t waste hard work on an average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:55 AM
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I run into men constantly lying about their age. Profile say 22 but I’m really 32. I personally report them and keep it moving
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:41 AM
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As a woman a lot. Looks for me encompass physical looks, but also things like upkeep maintenance. Does the guy regularly get a hair cut, dental appointment, doctor appointment, practice good hygiene. Etc I’m not entertaining any guy I don’t find physically attractive, I don’t care about his personality if I don’t like looking at his face or body
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:00 PM
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I was walking home from school. I was catcalled and definitely looked to be a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:53 AM
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Yeah and I don’t feel bad for his crypt creeper self. You’re old in your 50s wanting a young 20 something girl, you have to pay to play. I thought old men knew this , he’s going out sad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:47 AM
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Yep! Why get married young and waste my youth on a man who in middle age when given the chance will cheat on me with younger woman? I might as well waste my youth on myself and center on things I want in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:43 AM
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😂😂 wife googles are a myth! The men on this forum are always changing the goal post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:42 AM
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From the outside looking in, I work/ intern underneath wealthy middle age male management. Majority of their wives are stay home homemakers that do Pilates/ yoga etc. they are very health appearance focus. This doesn’t stop any of the married men from trying to be slick. This is my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:43 PM
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Personally I operate as a realist and what I’ve seen is majority of ppl Are selfish and will operate to whatever benefits them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:41 PM
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Yep! So many men on this sub blatantly state they would exercise their options if given the opportunity to. There is no reason for younger fertile women to marry young when the outcome that your husband can and will cheat if given the opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:39 PM
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That’s not a good thing . If a young woman is expects to be faithful and give her best years her husband cheating is still a loss. Again there’s no benefit to marrying young
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:38 PM
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No they’re not and it doesn’t stand against the reality that older men if they are able to trade out their aging wives. I’ve been hit on old/ success married men who have been with their wives during their best years. I personally because of my experience don’t see a benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:46 PM
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Wife googles are BS in my experience. The amount of old aging men hitting on me being a younger woman is daunting. These men have been with their partners since high school/ college/ church etc. Wife googles means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:42 PM
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This forum has repeatedly told women that majority are of men would cheat and leave their aging wives if given the opportunity. Majority of men are not loyal even when you give them your best firtile years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:41 PM
1

Exactly! These men don’t want plain Jane average women. They want the hot women who take care of themselves they’re upset because they do g have access to those women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:00 AM
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You can’t have it both ways. Either date ugly women or pay out of pocket for the better looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:59 AM
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As a woman definitely attractive because men wouldn’t care as long as I look good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:34 PM
6

No. I would never date a man seriously with kids. I’m not interested in being a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:11 PM
1

Nope. Either get on prescription or go without . Just stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:53 PM
5

An attention from a guy you find attractive maybe, but if he’s not attractive no thanks. That feels like a nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:16 AM
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Again women don’t value sex like men so the assumption is mute. It’s seems like lonely men should bf prescribed antidepressants as well if they can’t get laid, to numb and decrease their libido
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:13 AM
1

Actually that sounds like a blast. I get to enjoy my own space without having children that would put me in a home and a lazy husband who loses his hair and has a beer gut
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:10 AM
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I mean OP is correct. Pregnancy does a number on majority of women bodies. I’m too vain and I like to look good for myself. Studies show that when a woman becomes pregnant the cell in her body increases aging
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:49 AM
1

But they don’t know why birth rates are falling? It’s because most men are not procreating with, they will their offspring so fast
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:20 PM
1

Cash? Most child support us around 200 bucks a month. No woman is getting rich off child support unless the guy is a athlete/ entertainer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:15 PM
1

But these are the sane men wondering why the birth rate is falling. If majority if men had the option to abandon their children with consequences they would! Which is why I’m never having kids. No tganjdc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:13 PM
2

The ones complaining are actually the ones that haven’t been on a date in years and can’t get any one to talk to them .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:09 PM
1

Besides this argument is stupid since most men aren’t having sex and majority are lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:07 PM
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If men were actually responsible to take care of their offspring government would not have been involved. We all know that majority of men don’t handle consequences unless it attached to their wallet. If men don’t want child support don’t have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:07 PM
1

Most state gyn will not sterilize a young woman in child bearing ages. These are facts. If you don’t want child support don’t have kids. Use your AI girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:04 PM
1

No. You’re an adult take responsibility for spreading your seed with someone you wouldn’t want to parent with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:01 PM
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Because he’s upset his action of getting his D wet implies responsibility. If men are so worried about child support get snipped or don’t have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:59 PM
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Being average is not good enough if it’s not getting you the results you want. Either rise above the bar or stop complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:33 PM
0

We should never feel bad for the chinese government one child policy really put them in a precarious situation that is all their fault. These are the consequences of valuing one gender over another.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:26 PM
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It’s genetics and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:42 PM
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I’m sorry but I’ve wrapped up an internship and all I see are older/ middle age men. 80% are overweight, no hair, or balding with thin hair, etc. Mist of these men are late 30s and up. For the 30-50 group there us no reason fir them to be looking this broke down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:26 PM
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I totally agree! All the dates I’ve been on the man pays, they don’t even ask me to split. They plan the date, I might give a suggestion if I know the place he picks might not have the food he likes, etc. If a guy isn’t willing to plan, and pay it never works out. I have never been proven wrong . I do what works for me which is dating men who pay for dates, and exclude those that don’t. It’s simple. Want to do 50/50 get someone who wants the same and stop complaining about those who don’t want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:44 AM
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If it’s that important to you, date a woman that wants to split the bill. I don’t know why you guys make this a hard concept
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:06 AM
1

Agreed. But who is willing to make that sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:09 AM
1

If that was the case this sub wouldn’t exist. A lot of men shoot above their league and complain relentless that they have no options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:16 AM
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That is still a large age gap. 20 years apart is the youngest he would go. That’s still an extreme age gap .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:12 AM
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So they settle for older/ age appropriate women since they can’t get the younger hot woman. Why should a woman put in any effort in her youth? If a her partner is with her only out of necessity, he couldn’t trade her in for a younger woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:09 AM
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This is true. I feel that majority of men are blind to the fact that there are ugly woman. Ugly woman or unattractive women do not exist to men. When they say skinny they also mean young , facially attractive, and a decent body build* not extreme shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:07 AM
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Again, majority of women know that men will by pass all their standards for a counterpart of the woman is hot. Majority of women know that men will go above and beyond for a girl they think is really hot. Average women know this, how is it that average men don’t know this??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:57 PM
5

Alot of average men want the benefits of a Chad without being on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:24 PM
4

Better! Most definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:49 PM
5

Exactly! If the interaction you have with a man can lead you to being pregnant , you would also be selective
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:42 PM
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So it sounds like the younger men can’t compete against the older men. It sounds like that is a male problem and no solidarity. Maybe men should date within their own age range and allow younger men to date. Oh wait I forgot men value younger women more than their fellow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:57 AM
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Right! These same men complain they shouldn’t have to lower their standards but complain when women won’t either. Not surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:50 AM
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No. I will never lower my physical standards just to get commitment. If I don’t like him I don’t like him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:45 AM
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To address birth rates we have to address the economy. When ppl who would like to have children cannot because they can’t own a home, straddle with debt, etc of course ppl will not have any or have very few . We live in a capitalist Society, address the money and everything else will follow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:35 PM
2

I’ll be ok, Fine. I can’t pay my rent if a guy finds me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:28 PM
0

I say if you want kids you need to be married. If not, no point!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:45 AM
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I would get him into sports preferably swimming/ baseball. Next would be a speech / leadership class. I would stress that he is competing for opportunities not only in the US but abroad. He needs to be well Rounded . M Work hard, take care of body, and pick a career making money. I don’t believe in following your passion if it’s not going to make you the lifestyle you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:47 PM
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Disagree do you how much career/ social success that a man would face to be to be able to pull that off. Majority of men can’t. We’re talking financial, and physical
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:54 PM
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The average men makes about 60k a year, with an average body. That is the average in the US, and most couples are within a 5 year range if each other. People technically interact and create families with those they are similar to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:52 PM
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This not to mention building up your retirement. Dependent upon a man is beyond foolish, nothing is stoping him to potential abandoning his family. Look at Ariana grande cannon event
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:09 AM
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This is not theory this is common sense. Humans are more likely to be lenient when we identify with someone being like us or they are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:15 PM
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Same is true for average vs attractive/ Instagram girls.. people are lenient with others who they deem attractive or r above their league
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:47 PM
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I’m not offended. Majority of Men on this sub complain about not getting young hot women, and not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:13 PM
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He’s facially not attractive. He what men here would call a butter face. Body looks good Gace not much. He looks like a young 2023 Frankenstein
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:11 PM
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No it’s not. Agreeing to have sex with a condom vs steal thing are very different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:00 AM
1

Dying alone is not a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:03 PM
1

Nothing is fair in biology. Why do you guys revision history! Majority of men did not reproduce unless they were deemed useful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:02 PM
2

These men know foreign women are only with them for their money. They also are upset that these foreign women are traditional and the man is expect to pay for her and her family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:00 PM
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Truth is there has never been Team Men, the revision history is hilarious on this sub ,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:50 PM
2

Shame, doesn’t work. Negative consequences do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:48 PM
2

No younger guys would totally shame the old guys are poaching on their dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:48 PM
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That would actually backfire , since younger men would see older men as competition. Go to any college town bar, where the elderly men try to pick up younger women. The cock block comes from the younger men, since they have skin in the game to protecting their future mate in their social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:47 PM
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Right! Like if a man or person is already getting what they want, no amount of shaking is going to change that behavior. Ppl change because of consequences, that is all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:43 PM
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No. I don’t think shaming really works on men, especially the ones that are already getting what they want. To the men that are getting laid what incentive is it for them to change to help other men? Men are competitive against other men and women. Shaming doesn’t work, especially if you’re already winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:40 PM
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Agreed! If you want casual hookups , that’s sounds like a You problem. The types that whine about not getting casual sex, irk me because why should I stranger who has no skin in the game should be helping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:35 PM
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If that was true stealthily wouldn’t be a thing. Men will do and say anything to get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:32 PM
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Yes. Women who are attractive have an open range of options the same for attractive men. If you were attractive wouldn’t you try to land the best partner ? Why would a Victoria secret model be stuck with a teacher? Doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:50 PM
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I think this really depends on what each woman considers average. Like if you’re in a college town that has a big Greek life. Your average guy might be someone in fraternity, majors on business, and west loafers to class If I were to think about the average male worker being 5”8, pudgy, office job I would not think much about him. I definitely wouldn’t be bend over to compete with other women for him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:27 PM
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What loophole? If she says no to a drink/coffee date that a win. As both ppl are wasting each other time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:56 PM
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All women regardless of species have it easy . Eggs are more expensive than sperm. Men have always been disposable I never they weren’t. I just wish men would stop complaining and being entitled to women attention
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:55 PM
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Broke men deserve loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:33 PM
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If so, are you a real man? If so why are you making a whiny post about paying for dates? Sounds counterintuitive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:25 AM
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No we’re sick tired of men actively pursuing women who don’t align. Either get with the program or dong play the game. Stop actively pursuing women who expect you to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:24 AM
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It shouldn’t, and it’s not their fault they don’t like you. You like what you like and others like what they like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:28 AM
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Add on to the fact that a lot of older men are not making as much money as they think regarding the age difference . To bag a younger early 20s woman your office Job of making 60k is not going to cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:28 PM
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I would not argue with him. If his partner slept with another guy and told him it was just sex. The other guy was taller had a bigger D , he wouldn’t be non challant. Women should just match men’s energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:12 AM
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Yes! If they could they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:09 AM
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Yes. If a woman is supper hot a man will put up with almost anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:55 PM
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Majority of men are the ones to remarry , while ex wives typically remain single. If marriage was so bad for men they would not remarry. Obviously the men see some benefit to it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:23 AM
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This is such a lie. Courts do not favor women, but compared to men they are the only ones who show up do of course the judge will grant custody of the kids. A lot of men just don’t care and blame women when they get labeled deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:22 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:23 PM
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Honestly I don’t think the youth part as hard as today. I also find it she that this sub ignore all the rage parties in 70,80,90s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:20 PM
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They already complained and won’t do anything to be more attractive to those who they like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:19 AM
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They also are the ones that invented online dating. I mean those “male” inventions that are so important to society comes back and bite them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:30 PM
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Highly doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:28 PM
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This! Not to mention the large age gap between them. He probably should have went for someone in own age range that had the confidence to stand up to his demands. He gets what he gets. He irritated me with the whole 25 year old comment/ gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:55 PM
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This wouldn’t matter. Women and men sexuality are entirely different. So what if George only approach in shape women , he wasn’t getting them to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:45 AM
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They want maid sex will the least amount of effort and work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:39 AM
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I think most men on this forum want to be treated like Chads, but are upset because they are not. Either way not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:35 AM
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There’s a guy on 30 day fiancé that is shocked he has to pay all the bills if he wants a traditional foreign woman. Jokes right themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:32 PM
0

If that was true, cheating would be rampant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:12 AM
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But whose fault is that? Men are the consumers of porn if you don’t like it go somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:41 PM
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Majority of men have their eye site on women that mage up only a small pool of eligible women. Ie in shape, young, no baggage, etc. that is not the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:20 PM
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I don’t think they are. The ones that complain are complaining because they are shooting above their average league. Instead of complaining they should make more money, lose weight, and level Up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:32 PM
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I mean that’s fair as long as your not upset she leaves when you don’t get a job promotion or lose your income., If she met you employed you better keep employment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:30 AM
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Would you have accepted the same actions if SHE cheated on you? Nope Men are so hypocritical, you cheat on me. I not only cheat back but who I cheat with wil Be edged into your memory
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:30 AM
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Well policies that highlight make lineage, blatant discrimination against women, you get exactly what you get
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:30 PM
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If it’s that way then it’s because some man some where would accept a boring girl if he finds her attractive. Again is up the man to see if they will match. That’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:32 PM
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That’s not a solution when fathers most likely will marry their daughter off to the highest suitor possible. How does that help average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:46 PM
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Exactly. Men prefer to date down. By that date younger women. Women that smaller and shorter than them. Men overall pursue women that they feel are inferior to them in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:45 PM
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This will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:43 PM
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Fat men are. Look at rom Com movies when the guys is ugly, average, fat, stupid or broke but happens to land a nerdy gorgeous super model who likes to bake cookies for senior citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:09 PM
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Most Karen’s are typically white middle age women. I definitely think theres a connection with losing pretty privilege in a agist society. I would also argue most cases could have been avoided with someone minding their own business
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:42 PM
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Because OP like many men here love the dual mating strategy but are upset when women do the same thing. Ie not settling down when their young
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:19 PM
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Older men give you kids with Down syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:18 PM
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Nope. Men look their best in their 20s. Full hairline, in shape. I mean look at athletes many don’t make it to their 40s and are not as youthful as their younger counterparts. It’s also doesn’t help in the West where a lot of younger ppl are getting fatter, less athletic, not to mention young boys now having ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:58 AM
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Pretty much. Why waste my young years building a family with a guy who will discard me when I’m old. No thanks. I’ll sit this game out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:56 AM
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I don’t even think that age gap will work. 62 you’re at the end of your rope getting ready to retire and she’s 42 still being active. I haven’t seen old couples like this workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:53 AM
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Lies! Please stop highlighting this lie when no one acts as single as a married man. Men are only loyal as their options
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:52 AM
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Yep! I also believe men should get full custody of their kids. You won’t be leaving me as an older woman with kids, while you get to play bachelor.. You leave me , make sure you take the kids. If not I will be dropping them at foster care. Moving on with my life . Don’t worry this will be in the prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:51 AM
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Looks get you in the door, attitude behavior personality is what keeps you in the house. This is just basic mating strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:07 AM
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Women don’t crave physical attention compared to men. Women are happier alone than being with an unattractive or mediocre man. Men can’t even fathom that idea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:06 PM
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It’s only beneficial if the guy pays for everything. No way would I be traditional with a man making me pay 50/50 of the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:22 AM
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Doesn’t have basic hygiene. Doesn’t know how wash between the cheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:01 PM
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Lies! Men treat ugly women terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:12 AM
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Exactly! Men just have to raise their standards but they don’t and they’re emotional about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:29 PM
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It’s not women fault men have no back bone . If you were in a playground some kid offered you candy of course you’ll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:28 PM
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Your comment is why women don’t take men dating issue’s seriously. All a man has to do is workout, put effort into appearance and make a lot of money! That’s it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:27 PM
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Either stop complaining about it or spend some money getting surgery to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:22 PM
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Not going to happen . Lowering standards for most women sounds like a death sentence and collective women have followed the memo of “ get somebody else to do it”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:36 AM
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wife googles does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:14 AM
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RP men think sowing their oats is a right but a woman enjoying sex with other ppl that are not them is crimes against humanity. Double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:40 PM
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OP is shooting above his league or he can’t tell when a women doesn’t want him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:28 PM
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Exactly! Men never dare potential. Why should women date potential hot or broke soon to be rich guys. No thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:09 PM
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I find that men who say money doesn’t matter in a relationship typically have no grasp on reality Before you write another delusional dissertation- understand I don’t care about your opinion Money and looks matter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:13 PM
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Men dint dare fat women thinking about how skinny she could be. Men don’t date potential, why should women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:23 AM
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I never understand this argument. If you want a partner that split the cost go find one. If your with someone that doesn’t want to pick up the tab your not compatible, just stop brow beating women who don’t want to play
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:40 PM
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Not to mention many foreign women do not believe in 50/50, splitting bills or working. If they do work they are not helping the household financially. If you want to be the boss expect to be paying for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:06 PM
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Not only that but they reward “ bad behavior “ from women. They are so bitter that the women they want don’t want them or we willing to go celibate to not interact with them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:25 PM
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They also fail to mention when you hit 30s your husband might leave or if you get sick. Do having some type of stable income definitely benefits the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:36 PM
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They also fail to mention when you hit 30s your husband might leave or if you get sick. Do having some type of stable income definitely benefits the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:36 PM
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That really can’t be the case when majority of men in their 30s and up don’t make six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:23 PM
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I’m only having kids if my husband can afford a nanny, and a housekeeper. I’m not picking up extra shift of child bearing so my husband can golf . Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:32 AM
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It’s the same thing for ugly, short, broke guys. If you date these categories as a woman you will for sure be taken advantage of and treated the ugly partner when you were giving these a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:36 PM
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Right! These guys are upset because she chose not to have sex, and then complain about high body count/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:20 PM
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Race- white, light color eyes Height- 6”0 and up Body- in shape. Good looking , Alexander Sch. Would be my ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:42 PM
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These preferences are also biological. Race, height, hair color, and body shape for women are biological. There is not a woman can do if her biological starting point is not included in what’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:40 PM
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Like hot attractive tall men have their options , so do women who are worth a damn as you stated also have their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:28 PM
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You don’t have to be a kardashian to have these measurements . What she’s saying is correct have a small waist and hip ratio is very rare and can only be achieved thru surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:38 PM
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Exactly! Society are so harsh on women bodies who have kids. One of the main reasons why I won’t. Sone ppl. All it being vain and selfish but I like to look good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:49 AM
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Studies show that women who get pregnant, chromosome telemetrs that mark aging shorten over time. Women who don’t have children definitely avoid the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:24 AM
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Exactly! Men monkey branch as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:21 PM
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Height - 5”10 and up Income- more than me. Work in a industry that has demand , ie recession proof Race- White. Maybe white hispanic. I want my kids to look like me Body type- not obese . Just have good health Kids- no kids at all. I don’t want an already family. I’m not doing step mom activities for kids that aren’t mine. They have a mom already let her do the work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:51 PM
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Please try again. OP went to college and was young as well. He has had every opportunity to find a wife if it really mattered. Now he’s had his fun is griping about his options to settle down, this sounds again like a paradox that so many men on this sub complain that women do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:59 PM
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How are women suppose to commit to a man when he’s actively spinning plates? The audacity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:48 AM
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So your long paragraph just short phrased men can date around but women can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:46 AM
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Having a roaster is the best way to date now a days. Funny women having roasters is a problem while men brag about spinning plates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:29 AM
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Not to mention if finding a wife was so important for OP he would be dating with intention from 18- to late 20s. He chose not too now it’s every woman fault that doesn’t meet his standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:25 AM
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Old men have nothing but the audacity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:13 PM
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So what? Why are so many men worried about what other men do? Just focus on yourself and keep it moving
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:14 PM
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That’s been pretty easy to figure out. Go for the ppl who like you and stop trying Brow beat others that don’t find you attractive to like you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:13 PM
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No. I could not date or marry a man who paid for sex. I’m Sure it’s the sane thing for men who refuse to date SW, strippers , etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:12 PM
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It’s not sad, it’s being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:12 PM
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I’ve experience old men completely hit on me and other women who are not their spouses
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:11 PM
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I totally agree. If they were the choosers or in demand they would 1000% exercise their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:11 PM
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These men will gaslight women and say they have wife googles, which isn’t true when starter wives, men leaving their families for the secretary has always been taking place. Men are only loyal as their options, so young women shouldn’t be shamed for exercising what’s in their best interest I say this all time if men had the same options as women they will 100% monkey branch and leave their families for the new woman only thing stopping them is options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:26 AM
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What are you talking about? Women definitely do go to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:24 PM
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Totally agree! I don’t know when the whole women love dad bods took off but it is not at all attractive to have a beer gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:42 PM
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Sports car? Your definitely telling youre age here. Try a minimum $2000 monthly allowance and foreign vacation. Sports cars means nothing to young women like myself who would rather be gifted one instead of seeing some old guy driving around trying to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:35 PM
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If that was true men wouldn’t be whining about never getting a compliment, having someone to talk to about their feelings. You really tried it with this comment . Males definitely do not look out for their peers/ friends at least at a way lower level than women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:26 PM
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Not to mention younger men who are the actual peer group of younger women. Younger women are definitely worse than older women when it comes to complaining about their peers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:15 PM
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Nah younger men definitely Shane older guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:14 PM
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For me very important. My father paid all the bills he is a traditional provider. I only date men who interest and morals align with mine. I don’t even consider talking to a guy if he’s not traditional ie he pays all the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:12 PM
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Women when dating need to be seeing multiple guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:37 PM
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This is a joke right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:44 AM
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Right! No woman no matter how unattractive she is is going to want commitment from a guy who she finds ugly! Like BFFR. These guys complain because the woman they find hot don’t want them. They always argue a biology for the way the men act , now they want women to not act on their biological interests at picking hot attractive tall men to procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:40 AM
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No. All the men I’ve dated know the expectation that I require- ie pay for all the dates, open doors, etc. I only date men im attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:36 PM
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That’s the same thing males do, when they claim they are traditional but expect their partners to pay 50% of the bills and do all the child care. Also if your looking for a feminine partner you have to be a make/ provider and pay the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:40 PM
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Because men gave no problem paying all the bills/ allowances of a hot girl. Men only go 50/50 for women they don’t really like .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:41 PM
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I think it’s a blue pill fantasy that hot young woman are attracted to middle age dad bods
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:55 PM
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Strong disagree. In my experience the hotter the girl the more crap men will put up with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:35 AM
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Very true! Men don’t even see women their not attractive too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:35 AM
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I agree as an early 20s woman , none of my peers are into older men. The oldest I’ve seen has been 25, that’s the max.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:47 PM
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But the OP can’t get younger women if he could he wouldn’t be composing about older woman standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:05 AM
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Yep! They are always complaining about how older/ fat women standards are to high …. Yet I was told hot 20-late 20 year old all wanted older men? If hot young girls wanted them they would not be making post about their lack of dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:04 AM
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I have never been asked this question… but it appears the men who ask women this question typically all have the same characteristics- low value, not a high earner, want the traditional relationship role expect required the woman to pay half and do all the child rearing/ housekeeping If I was ever ask this- my answer is the following: Nothing but high expectations and an empty wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:16 AM
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This just boils down to men being lazy. The hot girls/ majority of women out so much effort into maintain their beauty. Workout, hair, makeup, nails, clothes , wax appointment etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:42 PM
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Sane is sad for hot young men. They are automatically given a hot shot yet you guys harp in young hot girls using their looks and not hot young guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:41 PM
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Exactly! They only care about the hot young woman they can’t get. Older, ugly, fat, etc women are invisible to these average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:40 PM
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Exactly! They only care they can’t bang the women they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:38 PM
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If that’s the case men can get surgery to enhance their success. But many of you don’t want to because you’re entitled. Women put so much effort into our appearance because we are constantly told that men are ViSuAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:34 PM
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Of course they do, they can’t even hold a conversation with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:24 PM
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Seriously! I’m over men gripping that the woman they want don’t want them. It’s just reeks of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:09 PM
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It’s biology- for women to want attractive, tall, and rich men , isn’t that what men say when they highlight N count and age requirements for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:59 PM
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Younger men are physically more attractive than older men. No one woman wants a dad bod with a receding hair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:32 PM
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Younger women are attracted to hot, tall, full hair, 6foot attractive young/ youngish men. Get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:32 PM
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If men on this forum think a young girl is going to turn down a young hot guy over a older balding man… or older man with money I have a bridge to sell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:31 PM
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It’s true! All the male commenters are stating the younger women are naive, less pushy, have no life experience and don’t have the sense to call them out on their BS. Every comment is literally proving OP right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:17 PM
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That’s doesn’t make sense if most girls are sexually active before the age of 25. An 18 year old could have 12 boyfriends by that age. Just say you don’t like older women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:10 PM
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Exactly! If men are so destined and into younger / youthful women they will always look to trade in their aging wives. Men will claim that husbands have wife googles, but that is just lies. The amount of married men that have tried to hit on me because I’m young tells me , settling with a man even when I’m young is not a good outcome. Men will always try to hookup with the young hot woman, so why waste my youth for marriage? It’s not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:46 PM
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Those all sound like excuses. What I listed men can obviously do just refuse to and are upset about their lack of dating options Men who don’t make enough can easily go into trade jobs and make a good living. Same with working out. CICO and lift, it’s really not complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:42 PM
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That’s definitely not the prize that so many women get even when they settle down at a young age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:48 AM
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I mean all men have to do is make a lot of money , work on getting a six pack , and be able to hold a conversation. It’s not Rocket science. All things above I listed a man can easily do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:47 AM
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I would agree, it seems that old guys only care if she X amount of years younger. The way the tarp about young girls, they’ll definitely take a SW, only fans girls and would be delighted because she’s young
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:25 AM
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Why is he having kids so late? 40s is way to late. Make Soren decreases and enhances the chance for a child to be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:44 PM
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Their not hot and definitely not rich!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:42 PM
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That’s not even close to true. All my friends are into the youthful celebrities, none of my friends find Clooney etc hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:42 PM
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Thank you! If younger women were so into older men- no man let’s say past 30 would be single. They wouldn’t be on the sub debating b counts if they had these so called young hot girls beating down their door. All of my friends are with guys with 5 years above then- that’s the max!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:40 PM
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I never said you weren’t. It’s just not a lot of you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:59 AM
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Stop putting men above your needs and wants. Always be willing to leave, disrespect/ cheat you- leave. Never help a man build, they have no sense of loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:46 AM
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Nope! Men reflect women for things they were born with all the time. Facially unattractive, some guys don’t like certain race of women, boob size , hair color, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:41 AM
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Thank you! I find it interesting that many women will forgo things to getter enhance themselves, but you tell guys here you need to lift, lose weight, and make more money- they interpret that as the sky is falling If their not going to work for what they want , they need to be a man and except ownership
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:40 AM
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It’s about respect. Why would anyone remain loyal to someone that messing around on them? I find this cheating stuff funny because if it was a woman chew, 90% of guys would leave but expect their girlfriend to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:27 AM
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I don’t compliment men who I don’t know. I used to in the past and they took it as he hitting on them. I’ve had apple soils the bunch- so I don’t do it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:32 AM
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Yes. I like a certain physical aesthetic. I like my guys tall, light color eyes , hair, and family oriented. If I’m not attracted to a guy , I’m not going to force anything romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:23 AM
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I say if he ask you out, go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:22 PM
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The sane men who enjoy porn are the same one laminating that wife googles are a thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:34 AM
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None of those tinge are attractive. Stop being delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:44 PM
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You mean the same men that get pot belly, lose their hairline, have ED? The same men that have to use their money to attract a partner who would even glance in their direction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:13 PM
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The amount of guys I’ve seen in their 30s with a full hairline and a six pack is very limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:10 PM
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I do. We make time for things that are important to us
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:41 PM
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Yep they could spend their time working out, making more money but instead whine about their dating prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:07 PM
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Exactly! older men or men who like younger women are not suitable stable matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:05 PM
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What things has she or other attractive women have been able to get away with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:39 PM
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Nope! Women that are young and attractive are loved simply for being
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:25 PM
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Physically- Tall, attractive , high income, Characteristic- loyal, strong, humble, respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:06 PM
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Thank you! Men don’t help or even provide emotion support to their friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:05 PM
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How is the cattiness different from low class men begging alphas to not take all the women for themselves? Both genders set out to destroy their group, we just do it differently
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:04 PM
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Holding and guildance? You mean the sex that claims they are the most logical? The strongest? This is beyond a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:02 PM
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But it seems a lot of men would rather be beta provider than to work and become the best man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:00 PM
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I personally find older women wisdom very enlightening. The advice they give is pretty on point. I would rather have some give me the cheat sheet/ do’s and donts - than fail. All older women were one younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:25 PM
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Not to mention those men know they have to be providers! No 50/50 nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:50 PM
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Don’t forget lying about their age on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:05 PM
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No way he is 28! Dude looks every bit of 40! Goes to show that a lot of men do not age well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:27 PM
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Majority of girls with strong male figures are told from day 1 the true nature of men. That majority of you are only loyal as your options 2- women should have their own/ money etc to fall back on The advice we receive from our male figures is that a lot of you are not worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:01 PM
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You mean the ones that sit behind computers all day they can fix breaks or a leaking sink. What jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:11 AM
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Yep she’ll depend on him and once she gets to old, he’ll try to replace her. Older men who try to date younger will always be predatory .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:52 AM
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You also forgot being 6”0
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:50 AM
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Exactly! Why would a younger woman waste her youth with old men who automatically believe women are old after 25? What’s the point? Just date guys your age, you get the same results not with a guy who still has his hairline
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:45 AM
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So I guess what the difference with women aiming for Chad? We all want the hottest person we can obtain ? Why do so many men complain when if their in the sane position would do the accept same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:42 PM
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Older men are not marrying the 20 year olds either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:51 PM
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Interesting but a lot of men don’t date women with potential. They evaluate exactly what they see on day one and move accordingly. The fact that amen are always given the advice to date potential but men aren’t is laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:04 PM
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No. Only low self esteem women take care of their men financially. Studies have shown men are 2x likely to cheat when their partners make more than them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:56 AM
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Pretty much, it goes to show that men really do depend on women for their emotional well being. Majority of women have been content on being single, their not going to malls/schools and committing mass murder because Chad didn’t text her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:44 PM
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It’s not as bad then being with a ugly low value short guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:16 AM
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Why date a low value man, that based on your logic once he levels up he’ll cheat or heave. Might as date the hot chad. Results are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:50 AM
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Why date a low value man, that based on your logic once he levels up he’ll cheat or heave. Might as date the hot chad. Results are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:50 AM
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Me too! My job is a lot of customer service the amount of old middle age married guys who try to flirt with me is beyond disgusting. Men are only loyal as their options.They’ll always look for the newer model if they can afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:54 PM
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Wife goggles is BS. Men on here claim that but our mothers generation had husband heaving their aging wives for the young hot secretary . Even though the couple got married pretty young, and the wife kept herself up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:52 AM
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This is the most honest statement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:43 PM
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How can that be when up to the 80s, women had full on bush? Our grandmothers never had to shave and their private parts, and was getting their husbands full paycheck. Porn us the reason why so many now prefers bare
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:42 AM
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I would not have approached him to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:36 AM
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Very important! I don’t find bald men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:30 AM
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Most women want a man that’s tall , good looking face, with a strong hairline. It’s not to much to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:15 PM
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Yep agree. Men are definitely the bitter ones . They just keep ranting and complaining about how none of the hot young girls want them…. Their time would be better spend working out, getting a high paying job, learning some skills. But most are lazy and would rather complain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:28 PM
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Not to mention single lonely men are more likely to be suicidal, thus offing themselves compared their opposite sex. Men need women more than women need men. Which is why they are so emotional about that lonely man article that they see selves are now harassing the male editor 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:25 PM
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It’s the same outcome with MGTOW, but they still criticize the dating market instead of leaving women alone like they are supposed to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:10 PM
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It’s the same lie that men of this sub bison- you all want the same girl. Young hot attractive in shape low n count
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:32 PM
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The men in this forum aren’t that bright. They want a woman that would immediately sleep with them but they refuse to wife up girls that do this. Hence All the high n count threads They want to have sex at the drop of the hat, but expect a virgin when they marry, just laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:36 PM
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Their complaining because the young 20 year old women don’t want them and would rather date guys in their immediate circle. Wash rinse repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:33 PM
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Nope! Sperm banks have a cut off point at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:59 PM
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Well I believe that the men that don’t fit the top 20% are useless as partners, workers, etc. why is why war was always needed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:41 PM
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I totally do and have gotten the same advice for my dad. Men don’t respect women that give it u easy, hence why I believe in going slow, proper dates, and waiting to see if his feelings are true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:36 PM
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Not to mention with a high N count, which alot of them gave stated they hate in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:46 PM
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You mean if you were a young attractive white woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:36 PM
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The devil is on the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:34 PM
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I also find it funny OP just states a living husband but no other characteristics… is he loyal? The breadwinner? Attractive? Pull his state it responsibilities? 24k a year is nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:34 PM
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Sure you have 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:31 PM
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I just know you haven’t touch grass let alone a woman in years. Stop being emotional and stick to the opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:10 AM
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Men themselves don’t practice sexual fairness. They themselves gave their own type but are upset when they are excluded from “ their type”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:45 PM
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Your comment solidify that women should just “ do them” and just date age appropriate guys. Older guys don’t want to settle , young girls should just date guys their age. They end with the same stick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:57 PM
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So beta bux is worth it if the guy can get a younger girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:55 PM
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Women will always have value. Sperm is cheap, this is consistent across all animal kingdoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:54 PM
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So basically your arguing that the men who couldn’t be a Chad, now get to punish men who are successful in dating. Men are men biggest enemies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:53 PM
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Exactly! Just delete your old boyfriend photos, only introduce the real serious boyfriends to friends and family and that’s it. The biggest goes I’ve ever met the small town Christian / conservative girls. They were absolute pros deleting their “ past”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:50 PM
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Mmm disagree on the manual labor part. Trust me we will be moving to a more automation society. Those blue collar jobs are exiting. Now trade jobs like plumbing, etc will stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:50 PM
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A lot of 40s and up guys don’t look remotely attractive. They look every bit their age and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:51 AM
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Sorry but I definitely do. Men do not take care of themselves this is a universal fact. Hell I had guys in high school slowly starting to get a receding hairline.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:50 AM
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A lot of men start to lose their hair in their 30s in to of having a dad bod with no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:37 PM
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Bro it’s beta bux. Focus on getting your money up instead of arguing with ppl on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:14 AM
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No that only last so long. Which is why it’s better for a woman to have men wait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:32 PM
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1-Listing ppl government name- age, weight, height, job status, marital status, credit score. 2- updated picture with a date 3- Ex reviews of your last relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:37 PM
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No way to much work and I find most swingers to be missing a few loose screws
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:34 PM
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So beta bux. Men like you have every right to pay for a hot young girl attention just stop saying you have a hard time to date. You have to pay for what most hot young guys don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:33 PM
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There is no gotcha. Women have never been into men like men are into women. Let’s face it men are upset and hurt that majority of women just don’t want them and when they have the choice don’t choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:23 AM
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Try but with no success
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:04 AM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:13 PM
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For real dating a guy your not attractive to is the worst. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:10 PM
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As much as ppl grip about Oline dating, everyone likes the illusion of options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:29 PM
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Funny I say the same thing for ugly, short broke guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:25 PM
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It’s biology! Majority of women don’t find short men attractive . Just accept it and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:28 PM
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Majority of women feel the same discontent regarding short men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:26 PM
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They have all the energy to plan an insurrection, but won’t do the dishes or see their kids. What a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:19 AM
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I agree. Women are also more likely than men to walk away then have sex with a mediocre guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:44 AM
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Soo your comparing food shortages to getting laid. What a joke. Please get a grip, I’m sure if most ppl had to choose between eating and having sex. Majority will pick the former
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:42 AM
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Nope men are upset that the women they want don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:41 AM
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Dude that would be a couple thousand a month. Majority of men cant even relate. Most men have no gold to dig
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:00 PM
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On top of the guys that are coupled but still looking The ones looking for a unicorn The list can go on. Women have no problem exiting the dating world if she’s not liking the picking. Men don’t even come to this conclusion, they would rather brown beat you into dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:25 PM
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The sane is for men. You guys can date the ugly, fat, single mom, women. Those are men options as well yet you don’t want them and you don’t even register these type of women as women to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:23 PM
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What exactly is coming? The men that can afford date will, and they will have the market cornered. This sub loves to tell women to put effort on their appearance- don’t be fat, but when women tell men to get their money up were all gOlDDiggers … the hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:54 PM
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Yep but in the other thread dude was talking about leaving his whole family because his potential wife got older… It’s unfortunately but betting on a man in your younger years to not switch up is a gamble, I would argue you would have the same end results ie husband trading in for a younger model… younger women might as do whatever please them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:52 PM
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In that case dating age should also eliminate age and body preferences requirements for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:37 AM
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What do you mean by high maintenance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:30 AM
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But these men expect women to give them their youth to be dumped when we hit middle age. Nah!! I’ll waste my youth on myself, It seems I’ll get the same results
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:24 AM
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By a certain age for women, their male counterparts start looking for a nurse with a purse. This attitude I have seen played out constantly with my older female relatives. Their motto is once you get into retirement and single , relationships become a hassle with their make peers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:34 AM
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What made them feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:18 PM
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Thank you. Hot young/ old women don’t have to put up with men who dOnt want to pay or split.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:27 PM
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I don’t pay for dates. Men have no problem being traditional for women they are into. If a guy ask a girl out on a date, and ask 50/50 he’s not into her. I’ve never been proven wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:20 PM
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Problem is those guys diy around complaining to anyone that they can’t get their duck wet. Women are ok living alone with their dogs, men not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:59 PM
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Agreed! I think women should just exit the stage, give the guy full custody and you pay 150 bucks a month and see the kid on the weekends . Sounds like a nice deal and if he doesn’t want to pay just give the kid to the foster care system. Adios baby
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:08 PM
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If a fetus is a person they are obligated to get the support. Sorry you can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:06 PM
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Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:05 PM
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I’m going to say the ladder. If not just a bunch of childless people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:04 PM
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Sounds like your bitter about OP being traditional which is what OP is doing. Don’t like it, don’t date women like OP and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:03 PM
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It’s totally fine. Enjoy paying for youR prostitute just make sure you don’t knock her up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:49 AM
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Oh please men make fun of women for characteristics she can’t control. A lot of guys don’t date out if their race. Don’t date brunette or red heads. Boob size, a lot of guys don’t like small chest women. Cellulite Stretch marks Roast beef …. Men complain and fault women for characteristics we can’t control and now upset that women are doing the same to them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:05 AM
1

Men being realistic in the dating market is the definition of a magic show.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:23 PM
2

Terrible analogy. Majority of tall men actively pursue shorter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:22 PM
13

Have you had sex with men? Men date with the white/ Madonna complex than get upset when women play the field like them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:21 PM
2

How did you even arrive at this point? If high school sweethearts got married when they were both young? How does this scenario even play out? Just say your bitter because hot girls won’t date you without money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:08 PM
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Nope nothing is fun about depending on your spouse to eat, to determine if the lights are going to stay on. If your husband is going to trade you in for a sweet model
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:59 AM
2

I agree. Which is why I only like guys that are 6, blue eyes, and make decent money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:08 PM
1

If age isn’t nothing but another why not date older women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:01 PM
-1

Come back to us in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:50 PM
2

No their not. Maybe sugar babying but genuinely dating older guys … nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:37 PM
11

So basically old guys have to result to beta buxing… ie paying and can’t get young women just based on physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:04 PM
2

Oh no you have awaken the Viagra crew. Good luck OP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:53 PM
5

With a hot young girl out of my league .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:22 PM
5

No he wouldn’t. Have you dated average men? Have you been on dates with average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:27 AM
2

That’s the average weight for women .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:26 AM
4

It’s depends on the starting point. If a guy is let’s say 5’6…. Yeah that’s a hard sell no matter what he looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:35 PM
0

Guys on this sub will argue that they won the championship without stepping on the field or going to tryouts. Absolute insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:35 PM
0

If men are less miserable being single , then why all the incels? Think pieces on why won’t hot women date me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:34 PM
3

Same post, different poster. Why won’t hot women date average guys… take 500
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:13 PM
3

It’s kind of in line with the risk factor/ ie death. The older we get the more likely we are willing to play it safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:12 PM
1

See it’s Biology for women to date Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:09 PM
4

See it’s Biology for women to date Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:09 PM
4

It’s the same kid that young 20 year olds love geriatric men. We do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:08 PM
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Nope if a guy is hot he’ll attract hot women. If he can’t, it means he’s not hot. Men need to date on their league or stop complaining and making post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:03 PM
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Pretty much. Average guys always complain that non average women don’t date them. Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:59 PM
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Now you know men on the sub classify average women as run way models. If the average weight is 170 guarantee these guys are not trying to date average women . They are just complaining that hot women aren’t even looking in their direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:54 PM
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Now you know men on the sub classify average women as run way models. If the average weight is 170 guarantee these guys are not trying to date average women . They are just complaining that hot women aren’t even looking in their direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:53 PM
1

Oh please men for decades having been killing / terrorizing women. Your upset over words? Try sexual assault
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:48 PM
2

Yep! Ugly/ short guys I’ve ran into have the worse entitlement. I nor my peers are putting up with ugly guys entitlement. Nope! I’ll go and make an effort only for the ones I like . Average men treat women just the same as chads. Just go for the Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:42 PM
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Exactly! Average/ ugly/ short guys still try to pump and dump - play the field. Women might as well go for the hot attractive guy she likes, your probably going to be treated the same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:33 PM
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That’s not hot attractive women problem. If ugly guys don’t want to date ugly women they need to take their celibacy like a champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:56 PM
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See stuff like that is why majority of women can’t even take men dating complaints seriously. Because we know 9/10 those guys are shooting way above their league and they get bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:22 AM
1

Agreed guys who are ugly, short, facially challenged need to date ugly girls. I mean those girls are in their lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:20 AM
0

Pretty much, either get your money up or stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:37 PM
1

The US is not liberal . If you love the Bible Belt/ mid west they are very pro Christian
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:27 AM
3

Soo basically men need women more …. And if men don’t get women they lead a life of crime
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:25 AM
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Birth rate is falling because ppl can’t even afford a house , who wants to have a family in a crappy apartment! Or forced to go back to work with a bleeding vagina bc the guy you chose to knock you up can’t afford for you to take off a year of work. For a growing percentage of women motherhood is not worth the juice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:13 AM
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Men never gave a s*** about women that they weren’t having sex with , who they find attractive, or whose related to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:10 AM
1

This has been happening for the last 30 years…. Nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:09 AM
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Alot of guys are really cheap unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:11 PM
1

No I don’t think men have it hard on dating. I think most men are very entitled to the girls they think they deserve! If you can’t get a attractive partner then your just not attractive. Ppl write long boring dialogues just for the spark note version to be… their just not that cute. If you were attractive you’ll be dating your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:38 PM
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Agreed. Especially the old guys who still hang out at the college bars 🤢. Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:27 AM
15

Soo let me ask you this, because so many men gripe about child support. 10 years later when she grows sick and tired of you, what are you going to do then? It appears men on this sub don’t mind being a beta of they are paying for younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:23 AM
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Pretty much. I would bet most men creating threads about their lack of options are the ones complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:47 PM
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If a person have to resort to suicide because they can’t get a date, that person obviously has way more problems than dating. Stop trying to make fetch happen - it’s not going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:59 PM
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Giving birth or becoming a mom is not a neeed at all. It’s a want. Good try - again men getting their d*** wet is not a a need- and it never will be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:08 PM
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Nope Sex is not a need for most women. It is not ranked even close to the ball park of food, water, shelter,safety. Sex is not a need no matter how much red pill, tries
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:08 PM
3

Pretty much! A lot of low value ugly guys have horrendous attitude might as welll shoot for the hot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:16 PM
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Disagree’ the amount of attitude ugly, and short guys have a wild. Napoleon complex is real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:15 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with that as most men want a young hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:41 PM
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This has always been the case, just in the past women had to depend on men and make a marriage work due to limited job opportunities. Majority of women would rather be alone than with a guy she’s not crazy about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:40 PM
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She’s using him because she’s not having sex with him. Typical entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:57 PM
1

Honestly , No. He’s facially unattractive. He will not be dating Instagram models. Just being honest - he’s probably shooting way above his league even now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:36 PM
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If women had the choice of sexless vs sex with ugly fat guys. We will pick the former- no questions. This is way the sexes differ . Men would automatically pick the ladder
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:08 PM
3

Hot chads don’t complain about average or ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:46 PM
4

True! Look at the lives of many old school stay at home mom/ wives they got treated like second class citizens. No thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:11 PM
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No. Men don’t date women based on potential. They don’t date fat chocks in hope of them getting skinny one day. Women should not date potential- why? Because men don’t value loyalty - they are the first to leave their partners when they get sick . Men also practice hypergamy- you hours leave your old and faikthgul partners when you can finally afford the women you want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:39 PM
1

Abortion will be ban. What else is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:51 PM
1

Men you are not going to get much sympathy from women when complaining about not getting your d*** wet. There are way more important issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:20 AM
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Ok then walk away and stop Complaining about the different treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:56 PM
0

Bit how would you know if you got a different treatment? Especially if she doesn’t disclose and just lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:55 PM
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Ok. Then don’t get married or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:45 PM
4

Exactly! They only complain about the women that don’t want them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:26 PM
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No most men shoot above their league. Stop blaming women because they don’t find you hot enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:56 PM
1

Yes your standards are to high if you can’t attract or keep the partner you want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:46 PM
1

Then stop complaining about not getting girls like the chads
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:37 PM
4

No problem here as long as they don’t shame single childless women who refuse to date them because their single dads
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:12 PM
5

Pretty much and he’ll just trade her in for a younger model, and complain about child support. Was tinder repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:33 PM
4

Exactly a lot of millennial men cannot afford a 50s wife. They need to shop in the pond they can afford
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:45 PM
7

Most men are broke and to cheap to date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:50 PM
8

Pretty much popping out babies but expected to pay half the bills. What a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:39 PM
1

What is a woman version of having their stuff together? I’m curious PPD just states look hot and that’s the only requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:24 PM
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Dude young ppl in general are not trying to settle down. Expecting college age people to drop everything enter the workforce to support a family is not going to happen across the board. Not at 20 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:52 PM
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But they don’t want to pay for a sugar baby because their cheap. They genuinely want the hot young girl to be attractive to them, which is not going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:50 PM
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This post makes no sense. Again this just shows most men shoot way above their league and have no clue on their own SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:37 PM
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A lot of guys who claim dating is hard, just want the sec with the hot Stacy’s. They are just complaining about not getting the women they want or think they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:15 AM
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No you don’t. Ppl who need others to validate them have low self esteem and lack motivation. You should strive to be better just because not for the attention of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:26 PM
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I don’t think the bar is high for men. Workout/ have personal hygiene Go to work Don’t be an a******* Make some friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:55 AM
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Thick? Thus is so laughable homegirl was fat. She was the type of women ge would screamed was lie value. Men make so many excuses for their heroes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:42 AM
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He promoted child abuse, telling women to not believe their kids accusations against their partners. He was a terrible human being, don’t expect much condolences from most women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:25 PM
2

If he’s going to preach accountability he should have been using drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:57 PM
4

Yet their not dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:56 PM
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Pretty much he spoke and degraded ppl while living, it’s not a surprise ppl are doing the same to him in death. Hopefully these men will humble themselves since majority of them are not high value
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:09 PM
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Yeah the amount of fat guys who try to approach me is daunting. I work out and try my best to maintain a healthy weight. There is nothing a fat guy can do for besides provide me a good spot to eat at. The idea of a guys huge gut and man boobs is not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:37 PM
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Sagging balls that a man has to trip over is not at all sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:25 PM
1

Older men can protect and provide better ? Men haven’t been able to do this for the last 30 years. Majority of men cannot afford a stay at home wife while he pays all the bills. It’s better for young women to pick the hot young guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:23 PM
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Men in their late 30s and up cannot compete with young hot early 20s guys. I mean the full head of hair, chiseled body it’s no brainer women even younger women will pick the hot young over the old one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:02 PM
1

Bro how many have this? You guys complain about chads being the top 20. So busy that logic most men are not rich, powerful , hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:00 PM
2

You guys day the same thing about Johnny Depp although dude hit the wall about 15 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:58 PM
1

Most men don’t even have wealth or status. Majority of older men have intense baggage and don’t even pull 100k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:57 PM
1

You just proved that old men have to pay for the attention of younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:39 PM
1

Of that was the case Viagra would not have been invented
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:42 PM
4

Most older men are not rich or hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:41 PM
4

Most young women don’t fantasize about old rich guys .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:41 PM
6

Hot single men over 40 with hair, no receding hairline are like 2 people. I’m in my early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:40 PM
1

Sounds like he overshoot himself and over valued what he brings to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:16 AM
2

Yep! I don’t send nudes if I did send something risky no face in the pic and erase the meta data. Automatic deniability if something goes sour. If I feel spicy I might add a water mark with their name on it, it gets released I know who released it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:48 PM
2

It was suppose to say women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:45 PM
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Exactly! This is going to make women even less likely to engage in casual sex. Men can’t pay for a dinner date, your cut. A lot of my friends say they are going to be even more ruthless with men when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:22 AM
1

Agreed. Low tier guys definitely don’t have a chance now!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:15 AM
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I think we will see hyper hypergamy. Casual sex will still happen but only for the hot attractive rich men. I think you’ll also see women weed men out who can’t afford dinner dates for first dates. Men thinking roe vs safe will make dating easy …, I have a bridge to sell them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:58 AM
-2

Absolutely, men don’t respect women that ask them out. If you have to ask a guy out he wasn’t that into you . People make effort for things they value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:10 PM
5

I am a hot girl and I have hot friends. Good luck on your incel journey while you argue with a stranger on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:20 AM
5

It doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:05 AM
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They’ll complain why is she such a GoLdDigger
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:23 AM
1

They are literally fighting for beta bux. Most young women are not even looking in the direction of older men without some financial assistance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:19 AM
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Seriously! No hot 21 year old has the hits for middle age m, middle income, receding hairline dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:14 PM
8

It doesn’t bother me if my partner has in the last done threesome before. The issue I take is if my partner wanted to open the relationship or requested a 3some from me. I’m not into it- never done a threesome but if I was I would only do MMF. I find that stating I only would be open to MMF, typically leaves that discussion closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:33 PM
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This post is so funny. Women can always easily get sex! If men think their biological urges can give them an excuse to cheat… I say ladies date/ fuck up the ladder. Your husband doesn’t pay all the bills, well you have every cause to cheat since he’s a Beta
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:10 AM
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We all have a choice. Like I said majority of men overstate how attractive they view themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:19 PM
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Men definitely overestimate their looks!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:44 AM
2

Dude their not getting 18- to Kate 20s. Maybe 30 somethings but definitely not lower being average US male
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:53 PM
11

Key word you mention is rich. Middle class/ making 50k with a dad bods are not knocking down 18 year old hot freshman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:15 AM
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No it wouldn’t, they’ll again turn their hate and animosity to women that are not prostitutes since they have to pay a woman who find them repulsive to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:25 PM
0

Exactly! And most men won’t even wife up a sex worker do why should any woman pick the profession. Studies show that once you legalized prostitution it lowers the supply of women willing to engage because their profits are not high. Men can’t complain that feminism ruined 2 parent household while at the same time arguing for prostitution. If your conservative be conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:27 PM
2

They understand they just don’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:50 AM
1

Exactly! I don’t care about hurting a guys feelings, my safety is the upmost importance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:29 AM
1

You wouldn’t have more workers. No woman going to sign up to get bang out by a guy who unattractive and make minimum Wage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:10 AM
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Right majorly of men can’t even afford a stay at home wife, but they believe they can get a hot 20 year old based on their Rogane scalp and dad bods. This is laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:06 PM
1

The UFC fighter is not the average 50+ year old guy working from home or at the cubicle . Stop with the ridiculous metaphors
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:58 PM
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Lies. All genders look better when their younger and fit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:57 PM
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Yep a lot of older guys have already faded out. He may be rich but he has no stamina, want to take naps , has a beer gut. What exactly is the hot 20 year old getting? She’ll use his money and remarry someone closer to her age. Basically older dudes are just betas because they can’t attract hot young women without flaunting their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:56 PM
4

She didn’t find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:50 PM
3

Exactly! Men make concessions for women they view as hotter/ younger/ his type . OP us living on a fantasy world where women again are required to restrain their options for the better good, but men are free to behave as free agents. Not going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:41 PM
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Men make concessions for women they deem hotter. Unless you also propose men treat all women like smocking 10s this will not be possible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:39 PM
1

Agreed. I view short men as not masculine, weak. I don’t find that attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:27 PM
-1

Well a lot of men don’t even consider women attractive over the age of 25. Both genders have their requirements or preferences for partners it what is it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:51 AM
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Right I’m waiting for the thread that goes I only like old men with money 🤣🤣
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:32 AM
1

True but on the same side of the coin, men on this forum degrade women who don’t get married immediately out of high school / or talk about the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:58 AM
1

Exactly! Men discriminate against women based on race, facial features, hair color, vagina aesthetics! I will never have sympathy or feel sorry for most men . They treat unattractive women as invisible but hot girls are suppose to magically see their character and fall in love. Nope! I only date tall hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:29 AM
2

Pretty much it’s the same for wine . We don’t want ugly, short, broke dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:30 PM
4

Exactly many modern men don’t even have the financial to rage care if a family, wife, kids, retirement fund, college fund. But they expect women to all the work and contribute 50% ! No thanks. Juice not worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:31 PM
1

Stacy’s don’t even see you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:55 PM
3

I’m out of your league
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:55 PM
1

Nope. But nice try . Alpha / chads don’t complain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:44 AM
-1

Nope. Men pay for women who they value, their nicer to attractive women than ugly etc. I sort this stuff out before even going on a date, if he asked me out I’m not paying for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:09 AM
0

Lol! Yeah I see why a lot of guys in this forum complain about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:08 AM
4

I never have paid for a date and I never offered to split/ pay my way. If a guy asked me out he pays, if he doesn’t like it we’re not a match
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:06 AM
5

Exactly! Most foreign women are not even looking at broke men or guys who want to do 50/50. Majority of foreign women expect men to pay and foot the entire financial bill.. beta Bux
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:15 PM
1

Majority of Americans don’t even have a passport. I highly doubt these men could sustain these foreign relationships when they bring these women back to the US
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:22 PM
1

Nothing but facts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:16 PM
3

Yep! They call it aging line wine? When really it’s beta buxing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:08 PM
9

They love skipping and ignoring that old guys have to flaunt their wealth to even be looked it when compared to young hot guys. They literally advocate for beta bucks when their old, and bald. These guys forget no young girl want a middle class lifestyle with a old guy , when she can get the same with someone her age
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:07 PM
0

He’s not physically attractive , let’s be honest if he wasn’t rich or famous he could never pull models
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:05 PM
2

Those girls don’t find them physically attractive, and old guts are flashing their wealth to gain access. This is again Beta Bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:04 PM
7

Again younger women in their 20s are not dating old, middle class, average guys. I really wish RP would let this runout go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:03 PM
4

90% of the male population will never reach his status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:59 PM
0

Unfortunately you couldn’t afford her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:55 PM
5

True. It’s a self full ding prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:34 AM
8

Context is needed. What is rich vs middle class? Majority of studies show that most men are not even pulling close to 100k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:11 AM
6

True. Plus most young women get traded in for younger models, especially if the guy always dates younger women. So they waste their youth on a old guys with receding hairlines/ dad bods. Not a winning combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:10 AM
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It is equal . You just don’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:56 PM
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Nope , women like tall men . Like most men like younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:18 PM
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My dad is 6’2. My uncles and most male members are pretty tall. Sorry but as a 5”2 woman I only date guys at a minimum 5’10 and be up. It’s Biology
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:26 AM
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True. A lot of short, ugly, and even broke guys are not nicer compared to their opposite counterparts. Ugly/ Broke guys are not nicer. I’ve met more nice, friendly, rich Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:18 PM
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This! Also maintaining having your own identity- have your own friend group that doesn’t include your husband. Also including hobbies, that allows for the environment to meet other men. Keep up your appearance- who cares if he thinks it shallow. Nails, hair, fitness, plastic surgery, massages, diet etc. It’s better to start at 70% then 5%, it makes getting a new guy easier if he decides to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:39 PM
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Avoid men who have a repeat history of dating younger women. He’ll trade you in at the drop of a hat. Men who have no integrity, morals- look at how he responds to other men cheating, talking negative about their wives looks, and how does he view pregnant women- would he see you as just being fat/ lazy after childbirth if you don’t drop the weight immediately? People tell on themselves- you just have to watch and listen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:27 PM
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This! Plus they get bent out of shape when traditional women expect them to pay all the bills. A lot men may say they want traditional women but they either can’t afford one or think traditional women should be happy paying 50% of the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:33 PM
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Right! Majority of men on this sub complain about not getting laid and being invisible. We’re now supposed to believe their dating 20 year olds!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:55 AM
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You forgot balding, overweight, dad nods! No thanks !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:53 AM
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Don’t marry him. You’ll be the bread winner and he will be entitled to your 401k assists. Women should never date broke men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:40 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:38 PM
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Short No jaw or when his jaw and neck morph into one. Fat Bad built - like no thanks Terrible hygiene Cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:46 PM
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My preferences are very important to me it helps me screen for potential mates. I tried giving a guy who didn’t meet my preferences a shot , I found myself easily dismissing some of his feelings and truth be told I wasn’t really into him. I guess you say I was emotionally distant , the vibe wasn’t the same compared to my other relationships. Preferences: height must be 5’10 and up Background: Semi religious, 2 parent household, decent relationship with his family No kids
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:48 PM
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Women like me are young and fit we’re not into old balding low wage men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:35 PM
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He’s average something about his face isn’t attractive probably the lower jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:28 PM
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The best facial structure on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:21 PM
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Not going to happen. America is being more nationalistic and many of my younger friends are not accepting of immigrants
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:42 PM
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Tell me you never been to a foreign country or interacted with foreign women … Foreign women especially the ones in the East are just as hypergamous as their American counterparts. They only date men that can support and are masculine/ tall. They go for the upper chads. Foreign women are notorious for switching up their fake ideal when they immigrate here. Just admit your a beta male shooting above your league . By the way how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:41 PM
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Is that Beta Bucks, which is what half men on the forum grip about. You Cant get a hot young woman based on looks so you have to flaunt your money unlike chad that’s just hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:35 PM
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Majority of men don’t even make 60k, are fat, with receding hairlines. No hot young girl is beating down their door. Men like yourself are upset because a lot of women don’t see much value in men who are fat, old, and broke, not mention being short
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:34 PM
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Nope. Women want men they find attractive and will make negotiations when they see fit. It’s the same for men when they view women they find attractive they’ll let some things slide and ugly women they’ll treat hostile . It’s Biology
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:08 AM
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Right and for 40 bucks! No hot young attractive woman is going to sign up to be a cum dump to a LOw value guy for 40 bucks and be ostracized for life. This is so laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:54 AM
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Sorry but you being 5’7 is going to be hard to overcome without you being obese. Just being honest most women want someone minimum 5’10 just don’t shoot above your looks match .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:34 AM
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That’s what me and my peers are doing now. Old guys don’t make me wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:30 AM
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Majority of men on this sub are just hypocrites. One one hand being beta is bad on the other their telling younger men to use their money to get hot young girls overseas. It Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:30 AM
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If men are complaining about not getting laid now and hypergamy- banning abortion is not going to change young women minds. I think women will be even more ruthless in the vetting process for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:27 AM
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Pretty much . Modern men don’t really offer much now a days. Majority of men can’t support a household on their income. But expect young hot women to jump at the opportunity of paying half the bills, doing all the chores, childcare, etc. Nope! Juice isn’t worth the squeeze for many women. Plus the pandemic has shown women the risk of mating with a low value guy/ your going to be stress and overworked with nothing to show.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:23 AM
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This! He also has to pay majority of the bills, and be a partner, especially if kids are involved
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:16 AM
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Right! Who wants a RP man when he’s going to call you old / over the hill at the age of 25. No thanks . Marriage is a scam for women and it has always been
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:12 AM
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The same things can be said for men who don’t even acknowledge ugly, fat, old women. These categories of women are never on their radar only the young hot ones
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:11 AM
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Nothing more than 20 pounds- anything more I’m looking for other options. Men really don’t have a reason to be lazy/ or let themselves go when it’s easier for them to lose weight and put on muscle. Please don’t compare pregnancy to dad bod/ beer gut in men. It’s not the same. Don’t @ me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:36 PM
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Old guy marrying younger woman is absolutely Beta. She’ll grow old, he’ll try to replace her with less finances because she now gets half of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:04 PM
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Your 34 and still hasn’t settled down with any of these younger women you so call dated. Again why should young women like myself even date old guys when you guys play just as many games as the hot young Chads. I’ll waste my femininity on younger hot guys not old ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:00 PM
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Women are honest you guys just call us gold diggers etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:53 PM
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Women want hot, minimum 6”2, big dick, rich men. As long as your ok with women having standards it’s all good. It’s biology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:56 PM
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It’s quite pointless argument. One hand men are barely getting matched and not getting sex and on the other hand 18/-21 years old are beating down their door.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:24 PM
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Nope! South Floridian here! Definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:21 PM
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Do not believe this man. 75k I’m miami is minimum wage! No hot young girl is going to loook your way unless your a millionaire and allowance is a minimum of 3K
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:20 PM
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Age of consent is just whats legally acceptable. If it was lowered to 12 years of age we will have grown men dating middle schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:16 PM
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Lol hopefully you’ll get hit by car before you impregant some girl with your inferior genes!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:14 PM
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Lies! Men have dumped their aging/ sick wives all the time even when they married her young.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:10 PM
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A lazy husband that can’t help Out around the house while she goes to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:05 PM
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See ladies this is what awaits you if you have kids. A cheating spouse. No thanks’ no kids for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:04 PM
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Yep! Which is why women who want to be mothers need to push only date men that will help around the house and pay for plastic surgery/personal gym trainer etc!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:00 PM
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Height will always matter for men. Like slimness/ age matters for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:32 PM
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So be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:13 PM
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Then we’re not on the same page this we wouldn’t be married, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:13 PM
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Because it’s for religious and sanitary reasons. I’m sure his father would also agree. OP asked the question I answered truthfully
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:24 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:23 PM
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I can and I will .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:23 PM
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Nope. But he will be circumcised
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:43 AM
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Absolutely for it. Yes I will make sure he is circumcised. I don’t date men that are not. My brothers, father, pretty much all the males in my family are. I expect to be down voted and told I’m a c*** for this view point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:30 AM
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This is pretty accurate. However men need sex and a few on here state that sex is a basic right. It’s not. Now majority of women don’t need marriage to support themselves. Either way it’s a shit show
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:00 PM
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If you make more than him, this is the safe option so he can’t collect alimony or get half your retirement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:16 PM
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Pretty much and most men expect women to do all the chores, child rearing while paying 50% if the bills. Marriage sound like slavery for women - all work and no benefits expect extra work. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:15 PM
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Most men are only open to poly when their girlfriend only bangs other girls not when she’s banging the 6–6-6 chad. Men can’t handle it when their girls can easily have sex without them .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:12 PM
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This! Most ppl in poly relationships are hideous and or fat, and the poly lifestyle becomes their main social identity. Most ppl in poly relationships are psychologically unhealthy and I’ve never seen a positive poly relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:41 AM
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Thus is true. Most women don’t like manlets / short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:27 PM
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Mmm would you pick Chads then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:11 PM
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This! I wish women will stop being the forever girlfriend the maximum time you should be spending with a guy is a year max if you want to get married. He should he making permanent steps to locking you down ie engagement and setting a wedding date: Women need to stop spending years/ time with men who are hoping to settle dune when their bald and with a dad nod/ but no kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:01 PM
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But your not marrying any of these younger women. So yes younger women may options but it’s not getting them to the marriage license place/ hence the rhetoric of no good men even when women are younger
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:36 AM
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Yes~ no doubt. I don’t find fat/chubby/ dad boss attractive. I work hard to maintain my weight and looks and expect the same from my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:12 PM
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Pretty much. He’s upset because women out of his league aren’t giving him any attention. Wash rinse repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:44 PM
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Money? How do when most make workers make less than 60k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:31 PM
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Agreed! But for me I would also add that he gets full custody of the kids. If a man wants kids, once the marriage dissolves I will gladly sign over my rights and let him raise the kids. I have no problem paying child support , I get live my life as a bachelorette again. He gets to not complain about paying child support
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:07 PM
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So sorry about what happened to you ! I agree a lot of men are perverts and would totally date 8 year olds if the age of consent was lower. #notsorry This is one of the reasons why im child free - we have way to many ppl in our society thinking it’s ok to have inappropriate thoughts/ actions about children. Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:47 PM
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12 years old. I started developing early and the amount of stares I began to receive when walking from home were beyond alarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:38 PM
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Baby daddies/ ex husbands? Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:32 PM
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Yep as a child free woman , men with kids get really belligerent and emotional when you don’t want to be a babysitter or help with the kids. I refuse to date men with kids . I don’t care for the circumstances or excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:38 PM
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I actually do. Once my needs aren’t being met and I’ve tried countless times addressing the matter. I just emotionally shutdown I’m never rude, nasty I continue to be pleasant but I begin re building my rooster. I don’t go on dates, but I throw a few fillers out there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:52 PM
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Which concludes again that old unattractive men need money for younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:52 PM
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What? This is in no way remotely accurate better yet realistic in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:50 PM
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Penis size, age gap relationships, and height are the recurring themes in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:35 PM
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This sub has taught me how easy it is to manipulate men , and how to tell them the perfect lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:21 PM
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Your forgetting that men are as well fatter than ever. Dad bids, nose hair, receding hair line, erectile dysfunction, having less money especially if he has kids or was divorced, probably only making 60k a year as a middle manager’s. Sorry bit young 20 year old like myself are not jumping at the opportunity to date fat old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:08 PM
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We all know this but most 30+ men are not dating early 20 year old. What men like and what they can get are very different models. I suggest sticking to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:57 PM
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There not wifing younger women either so what’s the point of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:53 PM
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Isn’t that call Beta bux? Old men have to use money to appeal to younger women who are not physically attractive to him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:41 PM
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What majority of men 35+ are obese or already rocking dad nods with no kids in sight. Also most 35+ Men are not even hitting 6 figure salaries . So again their options are very few
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:41 PM
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What? For most women when they weight lift they actually become more lean/smaller. The extent to make them larger requires eating at a full surplus of calories, no amount of squarts will make you a Serena ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:41 PM
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Not true. HWP ratio is based on your bone structure first and weight fat settles in your body. Also no amount if square will get you the BBL big round butt with immaculate hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:17 PM
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Stable relationship are never made out of FWB. Just cut your loss and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:57 PM
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Very true. Even with age gap between “older men” and younger women she’s with you for the money. Not because she finds the old guy irresistible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:32 PM
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I’m not nice to men who I don’t know. I’m polite and courteous but that’s all your gonna get. Anytime I have ever been nice, smiled, etc at a man they think it’s a cue that I’m romantically interested in them- Nope had to many uncomfortable moments
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:40 PM
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So true men will excuse everything under the sun if a hot chick is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:55 PM
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Beggars can’t be choosers. Either settle or just GYOW and stop complaining to strangers. I guarantee nobody cares incel can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:49 PM
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No ugly guys don’t. They do however think because they got an 8 they can get a 9. Women should not be dating men they Don’t find attractive especially ugly or short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:04 PM
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Nope ugly guy will still try or will cheat. Might as well go for the hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:01 PM
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What do you classify as “real women”? Stacys? 8+ and up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:40 AM
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Pretty much hit a lot of these high power men are not marrying the bartista. Yeah they’ll bang them but won’t commit to kids/ marriage with bartenders,,etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:18 PM
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Seriously it’s a easy way for a woman to not want to initiate sex- dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:40 PM
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I don’t date men who make less than me… I’m not complaining just stating my preference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:39 PM
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Disagree! Women are becoming fed up having to do all the housework while the dad just sit on the coach. A lot of men don’t pull their weight with house chores
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:18 AM
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True I know I would and I wouldn’t respect him as my man if I was earning a lot. I would not date him or just divorced if I knew my financial prospective was better..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:17 AM
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Disagree it’s just comes down to options and honorability. Men who have 1st class stepford wives still cheat, so does the the garbage guy, youth pastor, teacher, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:07 AM
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Don’t she was fair warned and I say this as a young woman . She could have kept him as a boy toy and changed him out when he started to age…. Like men do all the time. No way would I have married him/ had a kid it’s cheaper just to rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:00 AM
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Pretty much don’t date men that make less than you. They’ll guild done way to rationalize that you / the woman deserved to be cheated on. Also most men don’t help with the chores or raising the kids, so your literally doing double the work! Your the income / money provider and your the maid! No thanks! Which is why I don’t date men financially below my league, I also don’t do “ potential “. #NotSorry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:57 PM
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Nope a woman can get married early and her husband can still trade her in when she gets older. Thus having a career/ job/ helps offset potential financial ruin compared to just being a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:10 PM
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They always end up marrying someone else. Which is why 2 year max move on if you don’t have a ring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:43 PM
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This is the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:48 PM
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The same goes for men who don’t even consider ugly, fat, disable, and older women as women. Men totally ignore these types of women they don’t find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:17 PM
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Why do you think that is? That cute girls draw more attention than their hotter counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:09 AM
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Nope hit to his money, no way am I contributing any financial money or emotional support to the bastard kid. Not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:11 PM
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Divorce! Cheating is a hard limit, I would have lost all respect for him and treated him with contempt. I’m not raising another woman kids and I’m not going to contribute financially either. I would also give up full custody and just be a dead beat mom/ or weekend mom. I’ll pay child support , but I won’t be a mother . I would rather move forward with as little baggage as possible thus allowing me to find another man quickly - which is why I would give up custody and peace out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:09 PM
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It’s quite sad seeing them make excuses for being absentee dads. Just confirm my belief in being child free
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:00 AM
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All of the excuses from men, If you want to see your kids/ get custody you will do everything in power to make it happen. I wish they would Stop blaming everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:56 PM
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True which is why the court system doesn’t take their complaints seriously. They can’t even show up to court but grip and complain about the custody issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:46 PM
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The average cost of child support is around 300 bucks a month. Let’s stop pretending these moms are going on shopping sprees
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:44 PM
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Exactly! A lot of divorce fathers walk out on their kids, but red pill shame the single/ divorce moms that stayed and put their kids welfare above their own. If fathers truly wanted to be in kids life, he will make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:43 PM
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Most fathers don’t care- they are most likely to walk out on their families , which is always funny how they grip about the court system. Sir you didn’t even attempt to show up for court.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:38 PM
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There is some truth to this. Eventually that 20 year old is going to age out of men preferences so why are older women being labeled as jealous ? We all know that with aging she’s going to one day be the old hag too? Soo what’s the point? It’s not like some 20 year olds stay 20 forever and the rest fall off a cliff. The Wall talk is just revenge fantasy. Men may like younger women but that’s not who they can get on a constant and consistent basis. Also I like to point out that most of the older …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:05 PM
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How many Brad Pitt look alike are there? Not many to make such a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:30 PM
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Most sane parents would not accept such a union.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:29 PM
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Your funny , but can’t refute what I said w/ o personally attacking . Which by the way is typical of men of your stature- hence the straw man thread . I have options and I exercise them freely offline. It appears you don’t and can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:52 AM
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What? Majority of men on this forum have stated they can’t get laid, are constantly complaining. People make fun of women who have inflated standards- single mom, ugly women, fat women etc. Men fear women who have options - women old or young will always have options you guys can’t say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:41 AM
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I agree I can’t take their criticism serious when they themselves say they can’t get laid and majority of women are not attractive to 80% . The ones that complain can’t even date within their league but they have the audacity to target older women. You can’t even get dates lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:36 AM
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Old hags hating mantra is tired and pointless. I don’t know why men keep making age gap threads we all know that women only date ChAds that are 20% of top males, thus not majority of men on this forum. But at the same time they cry and complain they can’t get laid. Now their blaming the old hags for hating and making it difficult for them to date younger women , they can’t take the hint that most young women don’t find older 7+ Up older men attractive… but their swimming in young p****. Delusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:18 AM
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I agree. Men are just bitter because they can’t shoot above their looks match .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:11 PM
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Nope the energy is futile but then they’ll complain that women are hypergamous and they can’t find a date. Sorry but me and my peers don’t find old , erectile dysfunction, dad bods hot. Older men are just bitter that hot attractive women would rather be single than interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:41 PM
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Yes. I would especially if he’s paying for the nanny, babysitter. Again as a young 20 year old we don’t find old men attractive. Again beta bux you have to lure young women with money not looks- bc let’s be honest majority of men don’t maintain themselves and if they were previously married with kids they don’t have much money to spend. Sorry but I do hope you get to enjoy your sugar baby - just don’t expect her to stick around when you get even older and have less funds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:52 PM
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What men are attracted to and what they can get are 2 different things. My peer group of early 20s were not looking at men 30+ and up , we’re still in school and we have way better m/ younger options than older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:22 PM
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Yes online ppl have a strong tendency to lie especially when it comes to looks, this the whole cat fishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:05 PM
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Men deny women also based on characteristics they cannot change: race, eye color, breast size,waist measurement, hip size, shape of the vagina ie roastie*.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:58 PM
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Pretty much as young 20 year old I’m not looking to play step mom. Your kids are baggage and no I’m not picking up Johnny from swim practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:03 PM
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Agreed. He should leave and she should not accept any apologies from him when he wants to crawl back. Wash rinse repeat. Goes to show you, you can be the best girlfriend a guy has ever had and he still wants to “hypergamy” jump to another woman- he will. Something that so many men claim only women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:53 PM
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Key word is arrangements ie Beta Bux/ sugar daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:02 PM
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True which is why you don’t give men the chance if your not attractive to them/ their ugly/ their not your type, etc. They develop an ego and think they can do better. Nope- Not on my watch .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:47 PM
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In the US. By late 40s you should be cracking down and saving money. I don’t run into older men that want to have kids at 45+ because they already had their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:37 PM
2

Younger women are not chasing older men, the reverse sure. But let’s not kid ourselves that college sophomore are dating 30+ men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:35 PM
1

Very true! Older ppl especially men don’t take cate of their health and have a ton baggage typically a divorce and kids/ child support. That’s to much baggage for a younger person with neither of those experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:34 PM
1

No one finds older men attractive . Sorry but if you don’t have money and your not at least 5”10 - your chances of getting a woman is pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:33 PM
3

Women will always have options . A lot of these men can’t even find dates in their leagues NOW and haven’t even been given the opportunity to date younger women ie 20 year olds. Women never hit a wall this is just male revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:01 PM
3

What your attracted to and what you can get are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:55 PM
3

BS go on the male forums you guys make fun of single mom regardless of age. Young or old most men will not take seriously single mom which is why I advocate for women to abort or use birth control - it’s hurts their chances. I also feel the same way about single dads to ..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:31 PM
3

Not to mention a lot of older men don’t want to do the whole kids thing at 45+ especially if they already have grown kids. Typically by 45+ ppl are gearing up for retirement and getting their financials together. I don’t see young 20 year olds beating down the door to get to 35+ old men who have baggage by that age. Meaning previous divorce, jadedness, child support etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:28 PM
1

I’ll go with the hot guy. I’m not attracted to ugly men. My second option remain single and go on about my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:12 PM
1

Agreed. Majority of men make terrible partners they offer no financial incentive to raise a family ( if you want kids) , expect their partners to do all the chores, be the backbone to raising kids, while paying 50% of the bills for the option to marry a unattractive man. No thanks Marriage comes with a hefty cost for women since we are the ones expected to give up everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:15 PM
1

Yes they want women to settle for mediocre unattractive men and not complain about these unattractive men. Also while having sex with these unattractive men they expect you to pay 50% of bills snd do all household chores because that’s a woman place. F*** that you would rather entertain chads
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:10 PM
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Yes they want women to settle for mediocre unattractive men and not complain about these unattractive men. Also while having sex with these unattractive men they expect you to pay 50% of bills snd do all household chores because that’s a woman place. F*** that you would rather entertain chads
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:09 PM
1

Yes they want women to settle for mediocre unattractive men and not complain about these unattractive men. Also while having sex with these unattractive men they expect you to pay 50% of bills snd do all household chores because that’s a woman place. F*** that you would rather entertain chads
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:09 PM
2

For the 50th time, the US will not legalized prostitution in all 50 states. You can’t claim you want traditional roles while engaging with prostitute. If you couldn’t land a relationship now legalizing prostitution isn’t going to change your circumstances with women in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:55 AM
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For the 50th time, the US will not legalized prostitution in all 50 states. You can’t claim you want traditional roles while engaging with prostitute. If you couldn’t land a relationship now legalizing prostitution isn’t going to change your circumstances with women in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:54 AM
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After being on this forum it has been abundantly clear men NEED women! They wine and post after post state their issues with not obtaining a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:49 AM
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Agreed! Like nope I’ll take my chance with the hot chad over the unattractive guy. There is no comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:43 AM
3

Yeah we all know men are only loyal as their options. Women might as well exercise all options to get them the best result. Don’t build a man, or invest in him, or his dreams and always keep your options open, ie take care of yourself and put yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:23 PM
3

True and expect women to pay 50% of the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:29 PM
7

How is it horrible if it’s true? You either accept what you can get or you remain single. Most women understand this concept. I am not one of these woke/PC ppl. They will die alone if they don’t adjust their standards or date women that reciprocate how is that cruel? It’s being realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:08 PM
4

Pretty much. Women don’t want to date men their not attractive to or make less than them. I wish these men would just leave women alone who don’t want them. Instead they actively complain and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:55 PM
6

But women aren’t complaining. Their just living their life. Sorry to say you cant guilt women into dating men their not attractive to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:25 PM
1

Prostitution being legalized won’t happen in the US. We have very Puritanical beliefs also it’s hard to argue for the traditional marriage/ beliefs while you actively dumpster divers with street walkers. It doesn’t work that way. Either standards are modern or there traditional .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:40 PM
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Why a 6/7? Why not anyone between 1-6? Do you think you deserve a 6/7? Majority of men have options they just want hotter women compared to their SMV. They don’t want to date ugly women but expect women to lower their standards fir them, that’s really hypocritical. If you really want a partner you should probably adjust your requirements. If not be content with being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:37 PM
4

No one is owed a partner. Either date women that show mutual interest or move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:06 PM
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They only complain about the hot attractive women that don’t want them. My standard will remain high because I’m not eating my time talking to a guy I don’t find attractive My body my choice my time .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:52 PM
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Disagree. If a man values youth and fertility he will have no issue discarding the once young woman who gave him her youth. Men trade in their older wives especially if he has the money too. Even with a age gap he can trade her in when she gets to old. Nothing changes for a woman thus it’s better to date age appropriate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:07 AM
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Daddy issues is real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:28 AM
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Not only that but they admit that they are able to have confidence to talk to younger woman because of money/ material things. It’s funny I thought these men were against “simping” and beta bux but use their money to lure in young girls because they know younger women do not physically find them attractive compared to younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:08 AM
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Based on this sub young hot women are only interested in the 6-6-6 young hot chads and selling nudes on OF…. All the while they are also magically beating down doors to get with 40+ middle management men. The delusions of older men …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:01 AM
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Men are very memory selective they’ll use their Beta Bud when it suits them. They have no problem spending/ courting women they find attractive regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:57 AM
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Pretty much. Why give an old man my youth when he’ll just replace me with someone younger? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:53 AM
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They’ll just lie and tell you that men have wife googles which is even more BS. How many stories have we read where a women married a guy young early 20s and he dumps for someone younger, even when she maintains her looks and household/ been married for 10+ years. Relying upon a man who views a woman aging as affront to his sexual desires is the worst. The young hot woman won’t remain young, so what’s the point of dating an older man who will replace you just like the young chad. You might as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:52 AM
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There’s a running joke on another forum where ppl especially men claim to not look their age. It’s lies. Most ppl look their age and there’s nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:44 PM
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Agree! Why would a woman marry a man who couldn’t afford the basic necessities? On top of doing the cooking, cleaning etc. No thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:59 PM
1

I would agree with this which is why I’m childfree. I have no will or desire to have kids that will put my body through undue stress . All the hot attractive women I know that are able to keep up don’t have kids. Kids wreck a woman’s body . No thanks. I rather put that time, money and effort into me . Lesson for women should be don’t have kids or go surrogate route/ your body will thank you later. men testosterone drop after 40 thus all the health issue that arise. Again men don’t have the bigge…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:54 PM
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You would be very surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:51 PM
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Thank you! And I know ppl are going to say but majority of Americans make less than 50k and you will be able to survive…. Sorry I don’t want to survive I want to thrive. America cost of living is very expensive thus why it’s in a woman best interests to pick the best she can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:42 PM
3

Right! No mention of earth resources just blame women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:34 PM
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No woman in her right mind is going to sign up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:31 PM
2

So your stating there Women are to blame for societal collapse if they don’t engage with low tier men? Not that we might run out of water to feed ppl, not that pollution hasn’t destroyed our soil, land, ocean. But women will be to blame for not dating men they don’t find attractive. Wow! This is the most illogical argument I have heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:58 PM
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I still disagree. If a woman really wants to married/ kids she’s on a tight time frame. Contrary to what men say they know if they want to settle down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:31 PM
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Yes I agree! Most marriages start of with ppl dating long term. Majority of women in my peer group and up date men with 7 year mark. What ppl fail to realize is no woman wants me in the one in the peer group with a 20+ husband. Doing couple related things with your friends become much for difficult and it’s hard to incorporate. Especially if the older guy is kind of like a been there done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:30 PM
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I do agree that American society we do not eat healthy . What you described is developing good health habits, working out, etc and maintain that over time. Ppl who maintain good eating habits out of college are more likely to maintain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:25 PM
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When I say skin cate. I mean using a good cleaner, retinoids, avoiding the sun at all cost, sunscreen actually invest in a dermatologist. Most women do these things I have never ran across a man who uses at bare minimum face moisturizer. That’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:19 PM
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Also add most young men have stamina and are not entering health issue territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:40 PM
2

Pretty sure he trying to conflate partners who have at most 7 years between them. Most of all of peers are between 5 years . Not 10+ years like red pill men state.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:35 PM
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I think it’s the testosterone that relays the aging a little but it’s not a huge disadvantage. The biggest thing is “ if they take care of themselves” most men don’t. They have no skin care routine, begin to develop dad bod when we know it’s much easier for men put on muscle, refuse to invest in a hair treatment program if they become bald/ receding hairline. Sorry to say but a lot of men don’t take care of themselves and this does not get better with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:08 PM
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You forgot that older men sometimes lie about their age as well , stating their late 30s when that is not the case to get through online filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:03 PM
4

There is a reason why the joke behind “pool boys “ makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:01 PM
2

Agreed. He better have the formula ready because I’m out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:16 AM
1

Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:14 AM
1

Seriously after 2 years of dating women need to start walking if they want marriage. Longer than 2 years your the forever girlfriend. Don’t be the forever girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:04 AM
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Men are only as loyal as their options
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:00 AM
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Men are complaining because they can’t get the women they want. They have no interest in women who want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:28 PM
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Because it’s a hard, thankless job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:14 PM
1

I’m not complaining. A lot of women are waking up to see how much of waste most modern men are. They can’t support a household on their income, they can’t wash dishes, or watch their own children and expect to be awarded for the basics . No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:30 PM
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Agreed . If a woman wants to be married and the topic of marriage and timeline is not brought up she needs to begin planning an exit strategy. Begin going out more without him, begin flirting back with guys who show interest, put more effort into you , once you have a stable back up guy leave the first one. If a woman wants to be Married and kids she needs to put her interest above the guy playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:18 AM
2

Exactly or that the idea of wife googles is such BS. When a woman marries young there is no guarantee her husband will be faithful and not trade her in for a younger model. Women might as well operate in her best interests at all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:09 PM
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These guys math is not adding up. One one hand women only sleep with 20% of men and on the other hand they are giving free p**** away to every man These men are out of touch with reality. I say let them keep complaining and deny then the ability to spread their mediocre gene
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:04 PM
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Women don’t have to be stuck with mediocre, balding, erectile dysfunction men. Women have the opportunity of economic freedom by not being tied down to j my en they are not attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:53 PM
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Pretty much most men complaining about their dating prospects only want to date insta thots, 8-10. Average women are treated terrible by men who don’t find it gem attractive. Which is why I have no sympathy when they complain. If they really want to date or find a partner they can date their equal who are average .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:53 PM
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This is why you don’t ever hold a man down, they see no problem in dumping you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:02 PM
2

Yep you are absolutely right! When men get money they leave or try to cheat with someone hotter. The rule is to never date a broke guy or someone with potential. Also women should always have a back up guy and never slack on the beauty department. It makes replacing him so much easier. Let broke men date pick me women who have no self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:48 PM
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Exactly ! Men never date potential ! They always want women to accept them when their broke or have potential but they themselves never date or take seriously a woman potential. They like to date the end product. I saw the Twitter thread and I stand firm in my decision to never build a man up , date potential or date broke men. I’m not a bob the builder type of woman. Besides most of these men stating to date potential would never date a 600 pound woman highlighting they know she’ll be 130 pound…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:14 PM
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A man can’t call himself a bread winner if he needs his wife income to support the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:43 PM
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Sorry not buying it. The worst dating advice for women is to pick a man with potential or whose broke. Men don’t appreciate the women who stick by them when their broke or coming. 70% of men will leave their starter wives and go fir someone younger or hotter when they have options. This is the reality of dating broke men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:35 PM
1

But you couldn’t afford a wife / kids. We’re not even talking full Time mom status. Just the ability for a woman to stay at home while recovering from childbirth. A lot of women have to go back to work after 8 weeks because their partner can’t afford it financially
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:30 PM
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Men don’t pick women for their personality or character. So please stop with the moral outrage. Women willl continue to pick hot or attractive men if incomes are the same. Based on national statistic most American make less than 60k. So why should women submit to a man that can’t even be a provider ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:39 PM
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This! Who wants to sign up to be married to a man who can’t pay all the bills? Why that sounds like slavery . At that point he’s not adding value he’s putting stress on his wife . No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:56 PM
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No they do not. They may be able to get it up but multiple rounds back to back. Definitely not!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:01 PM
2

Yes that was the shortest I’ve gone and will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:38 PM
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Agreed! A lot of these so called traditional guys are not traditional or red pill at all. Their a bunch of crybabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:35 PM
0

Older men- nothing attractive about sagging balls, wrinkles, or a pushed back hairline, and jack of stamina 2- dad bods does nothing for me. I find these men to be feminine get in the gym and lose weight for heavens sake you weren’t carrying a kid. 3- beards. This just screams catfish and lack of jaw structure. I’ve never been proven wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:31 PM
1

Here here!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:25 PM
2

I’m 5”1 I only date Men 6’1 and up. I’ve only dated one short guy and he was 5”10. I like tall men that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:54 PM
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For real men are upset that they can’t “ hypergamy” themselves . Below average men believe hot Instagram girls should find them attractive. The delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:51 PM
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Beyond. Many of these so call average men are just complaining because women have now recognized that marriage to a mediocre man is not worth the squeeze or Pinterest pictures. I’m not putting up with anything from a man I’m not attractive to or expect me to pay 50% of the bills but expect me to all Childcare and cleaning . F*** that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:26 PM
2

This! If the average woman can earn her own money it’s way better being tied down to a guy she’s not at all attractive to. That sounds like misery
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:28 PM
1

Very true. all women across the galaxy are only dating hot young chads bc society has Shamed for dating old wrinkly men is just beyond Lie. Women date who we find attractive there is no shaming . Women just don’t find OP attractive and he can’t comprehend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:29 AM
3

Depp has aged so bad . Like a dried out raisin . RIP crybaby
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:10 AM
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No it’s not. So many men complain about their wives aging, not being youthful. Don’t get me started on the men who talk down to their pregnant wives after they give birth expecting themselves to bounce back . Wife googles doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:14 PM
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Most men now expect women to work pay 50% of bills and do the house work . Most men in Red Pill Don’t even have the financial means to be a sole provider, but have the audacity to look down on women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:13 PM
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You forgot to be mention be at least 6” tall
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:32 PM
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What?? Haven’t you heard women are expired, hideous wilder beast past the age of 25. No man wants an “old” woman….. they all want 20 year old bc that what majority of men find attractive. There no point in working out or putting in effort bc women past 25 are invisible to men. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:54 AM
1

This! If men have the option to cheat or get hotter women they would leave. Their just virtue signaling at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:37 AM
2

Men have no problem leaving their sick wives or trying to cheat when they begin to make more money. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:34 AM
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Pretty much, he wasn’t able to pull the hot girls in his youth and would only be able t now because he’s a provider/ beta. Nothing changes for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:00 PM
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Yep young and older women would still view him as a vets/wallet. He’s still going to be insecure and complain when younger women want to bang his younger peers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:15 AM
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Not to mention a lower percentage of them are baby daddies, gone to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:25 PM
2

You can’t claim your traditional if your woman makes more than you and you need her money to pay 50% of the bills. Earn more money or get left behind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:43 PM
3

Wife googles is such BS! Men cannot even lie straight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:55 AM
3

Exactly . What’s the point of marrying a guy young giving him your youth to be discarded at 40+. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:55 AM
0

A lot of guys in this thread wouldn’t make it themselves in a patriarchal society. If their not getting dates or getting laid their bitching and moaninh fo anyone who listens. They think that if Laws went back to what is was they’ll be swimming in pussy which is the biggest lie of all. They’ll still be using their hand .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:11 PM
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One of the main reasons why I would never carry a child. No woman wants to have stretch marks, gained a bunch of weight, sagging boobs to have a partner be disgusted with them after having their man legacy. So happy I’m nit having kids and I get to keep my vain body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:53 PM
4

If women were attracted to such older men , then men wouldn’t have to lie about their age. The delusions of older men never disappoints
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:27 PM
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It’s delusions . Every other thread it’s a woe me nobody wants to date me. All the hot young chads get the best girls I’m left with the leftover… I’m Going my own way… This is so comical
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:29 PM
2

Not to mention a lot of these guys get to foot the bill for their entire family
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:05 PM
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Eventually depending on the age gap she’ll be changing two sets of diapers her husband and child. Who wants to sign up for that? Also he’ll hit retirement age quickly and won’t have the stamina to keep up with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:48 AM
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But but if you request a man make enough money that will allow you to be a stay at home wife, you get called a gold digger and lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:49 PM
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Yeah I saw that. 15k just to move on after 15 years and having 3 kids. Do not put your faith in men, they will let you down each and every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:05 AM
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My kink is tall,Attractive, financial stable, practices good hygiene, and well endowed. Also men with children do not apply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:54 AM
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