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ADVICEFilmerandHobbes/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 11:41 AM
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Woah I think we are arguing different points. I was responding to the comment, specifically this: But for some gosh darn reason... it makes women become more anxious and it makes them feel like they aren't doing enough. Perhaps you think I meant the "ample stability" you mentioned. I was talking about women being compassionate when comparing her husband to other men but being a hardass on herself. Edit: Will be better about using quotes on super-threads like these. Edit again: It's not so much w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:54 PM
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If you are literally doing your best then say so. He'll either accept your failures and compensate in other ways or next you. How is this complicated? Women do this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:51 PM
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there's little to win You are assuming the guy who is demanding these things isn't worth winning. In that case, TRP would tell him to STFU and lift before he even attempts dread game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:50 PM
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the relationship is like a flame It physically hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:49 PM
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completely disinterested in what kind of fun I have with the rest of my life. Because this advice isn't really for "how to make him chase you." It should be titled "how to be happy single." Makes sense. Women who are happy are scientifically proven to be more attractive. Upon first google" http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-1390319/Scientists-happy-men-significantly-attractive-ladies.html The "happy life" is foundation work. Not bragging rights or conversation dominators. [Consequent…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 09:35 PM
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Because being that overweight isn't terrible for her health? I'm telling her what has worked (for me). I'm far healthier now than I was and equally miserable fasting than I was while dieting (perhaps less because hunger goes away after a few days). Personally, I'd rather be miserable for 4 months than the 2 years it would take to lose a pound a week. Now I have a healthy lifestyle, eat right and work out. But there is no way to "eat right and work out" 100 lbs away. Working out makes you hungry.…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 09:23 PM
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You might be right but that's not a very healthy mindset. Compassion for yourself is worthless. Have compassion for others but expect the most out of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:13 PM
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Op, I am in no way judging you for your weight. Like I said, I've been there. Stress and loss can do a number on you. I'm only going to be blunt because I do not think you will see a happy life for yourself unless you do a massive overhaul. Cut the toxic people. If they aren't happy for you, fuck them. [Friends 2.0 will discuss how good friends support but great friends challenge. Consider me great ;)] You need to cut off romantic relationships post-nuke. People grow most in monk mode or horribl…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 03:43 AM
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My in-laws are a fairly cutthroat group (extremely large family of all sons). The boys (well, one in particular, the oldest surprisingly) do gossip about literally everything. No idea what they get out of it. Edit: Just realized. They (He, mostly) "report" on each other to the other brothers and to mom in the name of "accountability". I'm guessing it's a front to manage poor self-image issues or lazy frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 02:49 AM
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Um. She's right. Men do gossip. Shallow, bored, pathetic men gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 02:46 AM
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Lol, this thread got confusing. I thought we were disproving neckbeards. My mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 02:39 AM
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I got accidentally, unintentionally pregnant three months into our exclusive relationship. Honestly, if there is this much drama 3 months into the relationship, people have got to be mentally ill. No, the pregnancy didn't count ---Time spent with a pregnant woman is essentially being held hostage by his DNA. That it was already an exclusive relationship at 3 months baffles me. That alone baffles me. Prefers women Horrible environment Overweight Friends with -- nay, BEST friends with her Ex She h…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 02:32 AM
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FW needs to have a footnote on it. It really needs to be for Redpilling an otherwise happy marriage (and done slowly). Otherwise, you risk betraying feminine secrets and super-cucking your spouse inadvertently. Or, for the nuclear option it does work for infidelity cases and unemployment.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 02:10 AM
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(I got accidentally, unintentionally pregnant three months into our exclusive relationship. There were a lot of fights, some of which turned nasty, all of which I accept equal responsibility for.) girl-speak for "I hit him and he smote me with the hand of God" or possibly "He hit me and I'm covering because he will/would never apologize." I'm okay with mano a mano but not when you can't own it. If I read too far into it, I hope OP will correct me.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 02:01 AM
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Bullshit. People are as lazy as they think they can get away with. Source: HS teacher for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 01:53 AM
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Hey you fight your way I'll fight mine.. :P
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:30 AM
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I agree. It's hard to find entirely-conservative women (would consider going back to a household vote conservative) under 40 who aren't just currently playing "antifeminist" because that's what caught their Sigma's eye. I wanna badge dammit!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:18 AM
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Oh yeah, rip feminism apart. Cut that bitch up. The more people see feminism as the abusive, manipulative, lie that it is, the easier it is for us to live life as intended without apologizing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 01:15 AM
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much wow.. She's.. like.. making.. all.. the.. points. Are you sure you aren't a RPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 01:13 AM
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A life without dread is just a life with nothing to lose Woah. Very true. You can't love a man you think no one else could possibly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 01:12 AM
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Maybe... they aren't doing enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 01:11 AM
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Over 10 that I can think of offhand (although several are actually MGTOW and ironically run in packs). And yeah, they're pretty much as described. I don't think Chad could even exist without TRP. Then who would you cheat on your dear John with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 01:09 AM
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Fascinating Womanhood. It's Mormon manipulative bullshit alone but taken with RP it is just the ticket for stealth-Captianing until your Captain sobers up. Inspiring him to man up or lose you forever, while knowing it's just a play to give him the best life he deserves. It's the ultimate in shit tests and every single major misstep in my marriage could have been avoided. Like this unpopular gem: Never have sex out of duty or if you are currently sad or upset about something. Let intimacy mean a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 01:05 AM
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The kids thing: 100% accurate. I have indefinite loyalty to my DH (including when we were separated, although I went on some very public forced dates to cause some dread) because he is my children's father. I would never ever make a lasting decision that conflicted with their best interests. As long as Dad is alive, he can change. Be woman enough to make him want to earn you back. And that is entirely FW philosophy, not TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 12:23 AM
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And they should. As a special unicorn who didn't, I can assure you that I am mostly to blame for 5 years of unemployment. Loyalty is not healthy for subpar males to consume. It gives them false confidence and balloons the ego. I don't really have to describe the shitstorm that occurred when that balloon popped. Eventually did leave him. He was back home with a job he loved within a month. Loyalty is for mothers. Ambition is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 12:18 AM
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My dad was a single dad and did a fuckload more and better than my gender-same parent was even capable of. No idea how to be a woman but I've got my battle rhythm down pat.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 11:53 PM
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Honestly. I had something like this happen a lot when DH got discharged (pissy and nit-picky -- I did not handle it well) and prior to marriage my DH was a fucking black knight/prince super-alpha. I can't even imagine what his real self if like if this is his A game.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 11:40 PM
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Ha no they don't. But a lot of guys coming out of TRP newly baptized can't help but be condescending. It's not intentional; they just have no clue what self-confidence feels like and are still working out the kinks. Any guy that talks about it probably won't be ready. At the end of the day men actually acquire respect for a quality woman fairly quickly. It's far easier to earn respect from a man than demand he have some.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 11:35 PM
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Can't speak for anyone else on here, but Wolf Alpha's make fabulous heads of houses and Sigma's make you literally devoted to his crazy. Also, monogamy is overrated. I would never ever ever tell him this, but it wouldn't be that big of a deal if he did all that alpha screwing around as long as he explained his reasonings. But if those swimmers implant, I'll cut a bitch. Wolf pack == typical family.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 10:50 PM
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Alphas are hard to live with. A lot of stuff on here is also coping skills lol.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 10:43 PM
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So basically, get off your damn phone and be together when you can physically do so. I feel like earlier generations were so much smarter. (Biggest phone surfing passenger)
/r/RedPillWives05/12/16 10:39 PM
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My one and only goal this month: 1) Never allow DH to answer a question with a question. I.e. Me: "Will you be doing [x] today?" DH: "... Do you want me to do [x] today?" (Regarding an already planned event. Mind games/ emotional fuckwithery) My answer today was: "Okay well I have stuff planned today. If you are planning on making an entrance, you'll have to let me know so I can adjust." That was beyond difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 10:20 PM
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Username fistbump
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 10:13 PM
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Lol. It's a little fuzzy for me too.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 10:13 PM
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I honestly need someone to call me out on my shit. I'm surrounded (literally sometimes) by men. All. The. Time. True Thanksgiving story: I caught a fountain drink as a toddler yanked it off a table and popped the styrafoam. I ran into the kitchen and started sizing up containers and asked my husband if he could help me reach one of the bigger glasses (probably 7' up and I had one hand on the cup and another plugging the hole). His brother is irritated I interrupted their conversation and says, "…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 10:08 PM
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From being a MRA for over a decade and a Red pill swallower for years, I can guarantee you that you will absolutely be met with hostility - especially since most people find TRP/RPW when in a time of self-improvement (aka their love life looks like shit). It would be better to simply apply the principles to yourself and if someone asks for marriage advice (unsolicited), you have a window. Otherwise, everything you say will be taken in the worst possible way. Being with an aspy poses similar frie…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 10:00 PM
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I saw that subreddit. TRP is full of angry dudes who aren't ready to own their shit (not hating, just minimizing keystrokes). I would avoid. You are much more likely to get accurate insight from MRP if that is what you are looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 09:49 PM
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I'm pretty sure "on display" is approachable. :P Unless you have resting bitch face. But your posture shouldn't change that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 09:47 PM
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That helps :) It's different in a marriage though. "Ghosting" meaning just not coming home for days or literally not speaking to someone for days can be murder.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 02:00 PM
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Also, if she's not screwing around the reason your marriage is bad is usually on the guy. Virgin brides might stick it out in bad marriages where the guy is violent or a deadbeat but as an (aspiring) alpha, those figures shouldn't concern you. In fact, it should be a relief because you'd have a safety net in case of momentary frame lapse.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 11:13 PM
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Eh not true. I know beta guys who cheat on amazing women because it makes them feel alpha to "spin plates".. Because the only thing better than landing a 10 is screwing over a 10. The lie that if he were getting it at home he wouldn't look elsewhere just gives lame men the excuse to look outside of themselves to feel good. But scientifically it is true that the more orgasms a man has with a woman will bind him using oxytocin and other hormones. Other activities like sleeping near a lactating to …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 11:09 PM
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The problem with the Middle East is that you have red pill culture on blue pill men. They have way more power than they've earned and act like abusive little bitches because they have to maintain power they have no business having.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 11:05 PM
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No way do promiscuous women have higher libidos. IMO, the opposite is more likely to be true. That assumes women have sex with random's because they are horny, when in reality they could much more effectively take care of that at home, alone. In reality, women are promiscuous because they feel shitty about themselves and want to feel better. Low self esteem => depression => hormonal imbalance => crazy bitches and low libido => the exact opposite of a wild sex kitten. As a bible college girl, I c…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 11:03 PM
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Not true. Once you pop that cherry it gets easier and easier. For a girl losing your virginity (especially the guy you lose it to) is self-defining. If you pop your cherry drunk in the back of some random's pickup truck, you might as well resign yourself to being the town ho-bag. If you wait until you're married, you and everyone else define you as a woman of virtue, making cheating something shameful and a violation of your core beliefs and what you've built your self-respect on. It's because t…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 10:56 PM
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Ha, calm and submissive ones are only lame in the sack because they exactly reflect the man they're sleeping with. If you're getting lame sex from a non-crazy, it's because you are telling her to do lame things -- or worse, not telling her to do anything. Be aggressive and you won't have to sleep with crazies to get good sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 10:48 PM
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I disagree. Most women would get assaultive if forced to be around a guy who is out of control himself (not violently, but not maintaining frame metaphorically) Yeah there are crazies but hitting a guy means you don't respect him and you are the one expected to control him. So basically any women in a blue pill relationship is a ticking time bomb. If you 're in a blue pill relationship that's NOT assaultive, you just haven't gotten her mad enough to lash out. Then again, some women just screw ar…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 10:46 PM
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TRP is fantastic for marriage, if you keep in mind that the majority of woman-related sentiment is from the angry guys who are relatively new to it. Improving yourself and taking control of your life will most likely be a relief to her.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:38 AM
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