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| 3 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?Right but he didn't forsee it being an actual curse that traps her essence into her body. Then the customer service phone call was the first hint that she was trapped but even then, it wasn't clear. Shortly after that point, he knew the only alternative would be his death. Which is what made him question if it was so bad being with him. He even asked the customer service if her love for him was real at all. Any person, man or woman would get hit hard with that revelation. I've seen both men and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?Not really. It became yet another film for feminists to yell about and praise as being a commentary on sexual assault and lack of consent. There are tons of Youtube videos and social media reels with the tagline "BEAR WAS THE VILLAIN". And given the premise, it's very easy to interpret the movie that way. Sure. But I really think that it was very much the story of an desperately awkward man who really liked a girl a lot and made a wish. He also had genuine feelings due to their friendly relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Reddit lacks nuance when it comes to casual sexMost people that I know that have casual sex often tend to be mentally/emotionally unstable. I'm not talking about people that have done it once or a few times. I'm talking about people who engage in it chronically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:20 AM |
| 11 | Self-proclaimed "nice guys" are not nice guysI do believe that there are unattractive "nice guys" that aren't truly nice in the sense that they perform to get what they want. But there are many attractive men that do the same. However, women tend to demonstrate extreme cognitive dissonance when judging men's behaviors based on how attractive the men are to them. Many women will tolerate extreme forms of poor conduct from men they find hot or make them feel a certain way. But then the same women will observe an unattractive man have a momen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 09:32 AM |
| 13 | Why do toxic guys always seem to have girlfriends, but normal guys struggle?That's a great take. But I'll add something. Sometimes said women that had fucked up upbringings will grow up to have a life of dating men with addiction issues, are ex cons, serial cheaters, abusive etc. A lot of it is due to being drawn to what is familiar. The sad thing is that many of said women have their own brand of toxicity due to their upbringing/environments. So they tend to form trauma bonds with such men. I once dated a woman that I knew for years and she was super attractive and swe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe women have higher income standards now?"Meanwhile, unemployed crackheads are breeding like bunnies. I've considered taking up a crack habit so I can finally have a family. People's priorities are messed up. I saw one of this teaching at a title 1 school." I think this is the thing that so many people on this sub seem to ignore. A lot of people who are on Reddit tend to be the higher education "nerdy" type that live in the white collar world. So they encounter men and women who have clean office jobs and are making great money at a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 02:51 PM |
| 2 | As a 36 year old virgin, I'm worried about the rise of sexlessness among today's youthTrue. But at this rate, most will end up with nothing. It's not even "cope" on my part, I'm seeing it happen first hand among the single women of my generation (millenials). I suspect Gen Z will be even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:14 PM |
| 2 | In the future, women will push the idea that guys who don’t let their girlfriends do onlyfans and fuck other guys are “insecure”.That's already beginning to happen now. Not en masse, but enough to cause concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:13 PM |
| 9 | Why do men want to go to places with hot women if these hot women will reject them?Well when I was in my 20's (just turned 40), my friends and I would go out to mostly bars and the occasional club for that reason. At the time, there was a naivety in us in that we thought we had at least a shot at scoring with an attractive woman at any given night. This was during the dawn of social media and way before all the red pill/intersexual dynamics content we are flooded with now. So in those years, there was still the belief that if you dressed well, acted confident/nice, AND bought … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 01:08 AM |
| 6 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.I hear this a lot. I don't really see it, but that could be because I'm a very straight dude that has limited interactions with gay/bi folks. Since I was a teen and being a millenial, a ton of chicks loved to announce that they were bi. It was mostly just a cool thing that got them attention and admiration. But I can't think of a time when a man ever mentioned being bisexual (gays are another story). But by your estimation and experience, what percentage of men would you say are actually bisexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 09:30 PM |
| 2 | How do men differ between women genuinely wanting to take things slow and women who lack desire for them?Yeah. Was going to say this. Women not wanting to go out with men they aren't attracted to makes complete logical sense. But it's not what happens in practice too much of the time. And I think most men that have experience with women know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Men who are desperate to find a woman are actually desperate for something else. A meaning to their lives.That's the kicker. There are in fact many men who are struggling that have a lot to offer. Women not so much. Whether they are successful or complete losers, women will always have access to love/sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 05:58 AM |
| 7 | You can't debate a person that doesn't care about romantic relationships.Your cousin is my spirit animal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Most men focus too much on specialists, whereas the reality is most women go for generalistsOh lol yeah. Was a lot heavier then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Most men focus too much on specialists, whereas the reality is most women go for generalistsYeah this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Most men focus too much on specialists, whereas the reality is most women go for generalistsLol it went from 200 to 215, where are you getting these numbers??? I ain't that fat, bro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Most men focus too much on specialists, whereas the reality is most women go for generalistsWell I have lost weight since. That post was from right after COVID lol. But nevertheless, it's pretty bad that my height is the one thing that seems to cancel everything out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 12:58 AM |
| – | Most men focus too much on specialists, whereas the reality is most women go for generalistsHere are my stats as a male 39 years old: -5'6 -bald (shave my head) - have a nice beard -a little overweight but not obese -make about $75k (one full time, one gig that is two days a month) -own a condo -very little debt besides mortage -800 FICO score -paid off Dodge Charger -kind of introverted but love to go out and meet people on weekends -people tend to like me as I am easy going and laid back (their words) -love to cook, build things with wood and metal -have a B.A. and three A.A. degrees… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 12:39 AM |
| – | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, and many others made their money decades after women started going to college at high rates. Even more (these days), the world is an open oyster for women and they are doing very well in their careers. But just like the beginning of time, even with education, when women want to make butt loads of money quickly, they don't innovate, they hit the gym and take their clothes off in front of thirsty men. Men get rich by contributing to the world, women get rich by riding on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 08:50 PM |
| -1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?It's not privilege. It's years of years of taking shit, grueling work, competition and sacrifice. Women who fuck their way to the top have the one superpower that men don't. We actually have to do the building (sometimes by hand). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:07 PM |
| -1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Yup. Even women that are somewhat mentally challenged have an awareness of this ability. I worked with special needs people at an old job and I saw several of these women demonstrate this which was fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:32 PM |
| 2 | How have you dealt with uncertainty in a relationship?Yeah I agree. Most people (especially in the developed world) have the luxury of living with the mentality that life and the world at large is an ever opening oyster waiting to be discovered. That is why when things get boring, stressful or monotonous, people will quickly think that the grass will always be greener elsewhere. Whereas in the (long ago) past, the vast majority of people lived in their respective little communities, got married, had kids and that was all that life was. Nowadays, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Would You Date A Woman With The Following Qualities?Would you date a woman who is a different race from your own? YES Would you date a woman who is a different religion from your own? YES Would you date a woman who smokes? (Smokes) No, (Vapes) Sure Would you date a woman who goes to church every Sunday? YES Would you date a woman who is asexual? NO Would you date a woman who lives 1000 miles away from you? NO Would you date a woman who is an alcoholic? NO Would you date a woman who does OF? NO Would you date a woman who has two kids? NO Would dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 07:50 PM |
| 3 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.Yup. Nailed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 05:38 AM |
| 5 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.I agree with what you said about more educated women being the more shallow of the spectrum of women. Throughout my life and where I work, (I work in property management), I have seen countless couples of all tax brackets. And I can confirm that households where the women achieved higher education, they were more often than not paired up with men of well above average height, physically fit and were high earners themselves (when the women themselves were not always fit or even all that attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Unwanted men are criticized whenever they try to passively drop out of the dating marketI think a lot of it has to do with people's fear of loneliness and being left out. That is why true incels are scrutinized online and even by society. The vast majority of people have a basic need to be wanted or part of a unit. So when men opt out of dating (whether by choice or chronic rejection), people instinctively have a knee jerk reaction that basically stems from their own fear of being left out. In other words, shaming men who give up, makes other men and even women feel a little bit be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 01:32 AM |
| 54 | Single mothers gave up their fairytale — they don’t deserve fantasy, just terms.I believe it. That said, I don't believe that this will go on for many years. She's likely doing this because she is hoping to down low convince you to commit full time at some point. One day she will expect to cash out on her efforts. If you say no, it will probably be over. And you will become another story about a guy that she "did everything for" with no appreciation (didn't commit fully). | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from menCouldn't have said it better myself. This guy gets it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from menYeah, totally agree. Most men begin to experience this early in life when dating/meeting women. And of course we were told to "take it slow" and "she wants to know she can trust you". As a man of almost 40, I can tell you that a woman knows very quickly if she is down (in her head) to do the deed with you the vast majority of the time. Three dates/hangouts are more than enough for her to know. Yes, the friendzone does exist. And yes, no man needs to be in it. The only time a woman fucks her "fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 12:50 AM |
| -3 | Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they areLikewise. Go away now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:44 PM |
| -3 | Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they areLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they areToo late. As far as you...you still determine shit when you choose who to fuck (as do I). Simple logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:17 PM |
| -1 | Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they are"Men don't determine shit about me as far as beauty concerns." Yes we do. Exactly like how you determine how physically attractive a guy is despite what he may think of himself. Fortunately for women, we'll still fuck "lemons". Probably where the "I'm a 10" delusion comes from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Hey PPD! What is an unpopular opinion that you are thoroughly convinced is true about modern dating after many years?As a man who will be 40 soon: Things are changing. When I was in my 20's, cougars were rare and were mostly found in bars. Nowadays I'm seeing a lot of Millennial women in their late 30's/early 40's pursuing men in their 20's (usually doesn't end so well for them unless the guy is a dork that is controllable). True. Men have created a safe bubble (industrialized parts of the world) for women to work and live, "thrive" on their own. Somehow they are more angry at us than ever as a result (despite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 08:44 PM |
| 5 | How many of you have ever mocked a guy based on dick size or know a woman who has?True. The best men know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 07:29 AM |
| 2 | What's your take on different solutions to a loss of passion in a LTR?Poor guy but that's random as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 02:46 PM |
| 2 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyYup. Almost 40 now and never saw it happen in situations where the man was friendzoned by the woman. The only times I saw "friends" fuck or enter LTRs was when the woman initially had a crush on the man due to his looks and/or social proof. Meaning he was above her league in some form from the start. Or in extremely rare instances, he did a complete 180 and leveled up to the point of being a completely different person. Again, extremely rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | The only women who go after obvious assholes are mentally ill, shallow, or assholes themselves.Sure we did have the occasional "ghetto" types. But for more context, this was a more upscale retirement community in an upper middle class area. It was also about a mile from a famous nursing school. So about half of the women (and occasional men) that worked there were going for their RN, BSN and even NP. So no, most weren't your "ratchet" types. Not to mention some of these player dudes would even hook up with administrators that were well educated as well. The amount of times I would hear th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:04 AM |
| 6 | The only women who go after obvious assholes are mentally ill, shallow, or assholes themselves.I actually disagree. I worked in a large retirement for over a decade where about 80 percent of the 120ish employees were women. Mostly around college age. The few dudes that worked there were normal easygoing guys for the most part. But every now and then a "new guy" would get hired and I already knew that the women would pine for him. Sure some of these guys were attractive, but they usually also had an arrogance and look in their eyes that us other guys could spot immediately. Us other guys w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 03:06 PM |
| – | The majority of women will never change for a manSorry, but that's exactly what it is. I'm a man and I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?I met a staunch atheist girl that told me that she is open to dating most types of men if they click. But her one exception: she will NEVER date Capricorns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 04:23 AM |
| 5 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?Yeah. Most conspiracy theories are nutty. But some have in fact been proven to be true. Astrology not so much lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 04:21 AM |
| – | Women often make exaggerated inferences based on arguments made by “incels” to confirm to themselves men are crazier than they really are.I can assure you as a man approaching 40, that I never once discussed or heard any discussion about rape and/or murder amongst men with any type of glee. I sense severe mental health issues from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:18 AM |
| – | Many men losing interest in womenYour approach is more common than most think. Contrary to what a lot of people think, yes more and more men are dropping out of "relationships". But they are usually broken into two camps: The first camp is composed of men who give up on approaching women due to repeated rejections but down low hope that they have that "saw an apple roll on the ground, as a I knelt down to pick it up, another hand appeared on top of mine. And as I looked up, there she was..." moment. The second camp is made up o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Many men losing interest in womenMaybe not all but most do. In my almost 40 years of life, I have seen and known plenty of objectively unattractive women (some with horrible personalities) partner up with men that were above their "looks and/or personality match". A lot of times I would think to myself, "damn, if she had a penis, there would be no way..." I think we all know this, but many want to deny it, or downplay it to seem like it's a rare thing when it in fact isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.No doubt. But fortunately, men like us know better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.This is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 03:14 AM |
| 7 | There are three types of women: Mixed, Masculine & Feminine. Here's why you may be having success with one type but struggling with the other, and which one you should go for & why.Yup. Dated a feminine woman who was actually my favorite LTR. Didn't know what I was doing. And the final paragraph of the post pretty much summarized the end of the relationship to a tee. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/25 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Willingness to become a “second safe option” is a true sign of insecurityI agree with this. The problem with collecting data (in the social sciences) has to do with, as you mentioned, many people basically lying to the reporter and to themselves. That is why I rarely take such studies seriously. Our levels of honesty are too unreliable to be measured accurately. Because I have seen many social behavior study results that did not reflect my own observations of people at all, even others I have interacted with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Willingness to become a “second safe option” is a true sign of insecurityGreat take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Would you date an Ai with a real human body?If the android was completely indistinguishable from a human? Yes, I probably would. If such a technology existed, it would probably be considered a more ideal option for companionship among many men. If this were to happen, it would be absolutely fascinating to see its effects on society and the world at large. What would become of real dating among real humans? Would the human women mostly die out over time? Or maybe mostly reproduce via artificial insemination due to no longer being able to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 04:28 AM |
| 9 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?Same. Hope our luck turns around someday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard?LOL. Yeah, sorry man. You were legit trying to be reasonable and civil with your explanation of TRP. But she just handed you a plate of shit in return. I wouldn't waste my time. TRP was really meant to be a men's only space where we shared notes due to our common and consistent experiences with female behavior in the dating scene. And to learn what we've been doing wrong. It's kind of disheartening to see how mainstream it became. The vast majority of females will not want to hear these harsh tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More OptionsI agree. Unless you are exceptionally attractive, most women will ignore you on most nights. But there will be occasional good nights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 03:52 AM |
| – | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.| it’s hilarious that you can’t get women you consider less than yourself to commit to you. Isn't that why y'all are so mad? 💀 | And this folks is what we call gaslighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:29 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events?I heard from countless men that speed dating events are almost no better than Tinder. Sure you are interacting and seeing each-other IRL. But if you are not particularly handsome, you will get few to no matches. And even if you get a match or two, chances are high that they will flake. Men are learning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Men who fail at patriarchy and capitalism are eliminated from the dating poolI agree. I think we live in a world that is over informed. And women tend to have a fierce fascination with subjects regarding psychology. They are the main consumer of true crime documentaries and youtube channels regarding anything that deals with mental disorders. So if a man presents any little bit of insecurity or even stutters a couple times in a conversation, alarms will go off in her head. Ironically, the guy that she rejects could very well have it more together mentally than her. But h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 05:07 PM |
| – | Which is more important to you, height or family of origin structure?I didn't say anything about men and women being friends. You also misunderstood my point. He's not short. 5'9 is (visually) a normal height for men and mostly considered the safe zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Which is more important to you, height or family of origin structure?Lol always with the "my favorite exes were "around" that height". So your 5'10 and 5'9 guys who you are no longer with??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:37 AM |
| 12 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenTry dating Amish women. Met one in Plymouth a couple years ago. She gave me the look so I invited her out for a drink of hot cocoa. As soon as she showed up to the date, I knew it was on as soon as I saw her forearms were exposed. We talked and I knew she was into me and getting horny and fantasizing about our wedding night when she dropped two extra sugar cubes in her hot cocoa. Long story short she asked me how many fields I normally plough a week. I said about one per week. I could tell by he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:55 AM |
| 11 | Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"?....if he's tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, why would you leave someone who genuinely loved you only to end up with someone you can't stand?This is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 10:00 PM |
| 80 | Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL?Oh yeah. Definitely knew about the 80/20 thing since before it was a "thing". I really began to notice it in my college years. I would go to lots of kickbacks/parties/events and it almost became tiring for my friends and I. Because we would show up and start to mingle, but then one or several hot guys would walk in, and we would almost instantly be blown off by the women. There were even times where girls would show up to the parties and once the hotter guys either paired off or bounced, they wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Should men who are average commit to women for a relationship?"Sometimes you just have to know them long enough" That's the problem. Y'all want sparks NOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 06:52 AM |
| 7 | Flirting is a learned skill by men.I disagree. As far as men, in my experience, the one's that slayed the most (if they weren't naturally above average in looks) came from broken/dysfunctional homes. Or they had at least one parent that had some narcissistic personality traits. This in combination with genetics can cause a dude to have a "no fucks given approach" and little to no fear of consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:00 PM |
| – | Are women really wary of men?Yeah. But I'm sure most of the mods here are the overweight, far left types with severe mental health issues, lip rings that participate in weird sex practices. They don't like men due to social/political conditioning and they feel like they are a "post red-pill awareness" clean-up crew with some form of social power. And they most likely get some sadistic rush from picking on the sexless men who complain about their struggles. This actually applies to a lot of the women who comment here as well… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men."Men are perfectly capable of hiring a sex worker even in places where it isn’t legal/regulated." Wow. Great advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:21 AM |
| -4 | Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men.Sex is a very real and serious need for men. Flowers and expensive dinners are only a novelty. A world where there are massive numbers of sexless men is far more dangerous than a world with women who aren't wined and dined (usually because sex is expected). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | What's your take on the Burned Haystack dating method?ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on the Burned Haystack dating method?A large percentage of single women use this method nowadays. And the lists get more abrasive and obnoxious as they age. They have a very specific laundry list of wants and attributes that they require to entertain the idea of dating a man. Women see this as an honest and perfectly logical filtering system to avoid wasted time. But many men (especially men over 30) see it as just a form of inflated pricing for a product that probably is nothing special. Granted, there are many thirsty men that wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Would prostitution be accepted if customers admitted to it more often?Oh yeah. 100% However when you really look at it, yes these women are hot and have a ton of admirers and cash going their way. But make no mistake, these women are damaged goods and are a wet dream for psychologists. They may be hot, rich(ish) and have ton of admirers, but if they are the type that will openly mock their fanbase while reveling in their adoration, they are basically shit people. And things will likely not end well for them. Because other than their ass and tits, they are useless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | The red pill has gained momentum because a bunch of mid guys who are mad they won't be first choice are trying to logic women into being attracted to them.I mean, I understand that a man who isn't conventionally attractive won't be the first, second or maybe even third pick. But what are said men supposed to do? Just sit it out and wait year after year and decade after decade for fate to happen? Because it won't. These men need to adapt and learn what to do in order to get at least some shot. A lot of times it's not a matter of working out, usually it's behavioral changes and learning how women choose men and what they actually want. The manospher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedThis is generally true, yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedWell I can tell you my own observations/experiences as a man pushing 40. A very high number of the women of my generation, (Millenials) absolutely had the high octane style living in their 20's as far as sex and overall life experiences. And if you lived in a big city, the average 25 year old woman definitely had more life mileage than the average 25 year old man. Were there exceptions? Sure. But far and few in between. Almost all of the women I went to college with or worked with had a fierce a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:06 PM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Great response! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:00 PM |
| 20 | What are men allowed to complain about today?Oh yes. A single man entering a new space trying to socialize is seen as a potential danger or creep. If he is very good looking, his margin for error is much smaller. But a regular dude putting himself out there mingling among people is subtly ostracized . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:53 AM |
| 1 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeThat's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | What do people who date/marry out of their league do?Ignorance is bliss, I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeBenefitted how exactly? By being with dirtbags that were clearly toxic and hit all the right feels before being knocked up? I'm not saying this is every case but waaaay too many are. Women are not as wise as you want to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:54 PM |
| 0 | What do people who date/marry out of their league do?Yeah. And he's usually miserable. Men commit to fuck. Then they realize that it sucks. Anyone can find someone to marry. But it takes a smart man or woman to realize that it's a shit deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 07:04 AM |
| 2 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeYeah tell that to all the fatherless children out there. Women really understand benefits from men, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 06:55 AM |
| 4 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeDumb. Women regularly choose men that quickly impregnate them. Only for the child to be a burden to them and society because of lack of discernment on the woman's part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?Yup. It really does vary on an individual basis. A lot of it depends on the woman's personality, background, where she lived, etc. But free internet dating was very alive as early as the mid 2000s when us Millienials were in our late teens to early 20s. And yeah. Lots of hookups were happening. On top of that, it was already accepted so it wasn't uncommon to see women fuck coworkers or mutual friends for fun. And even the more normal looking women had multiple dudes competing for them. The sad t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 05:35 AM |
| 0 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?An actual number is hard to come by because women normally have issues with revealing their true number. Especially to men. But if I were to guess based on conversation and knowing many of these women since their 20's, probably 30ish on average. They almost universally have more sexual partners than the single men in that age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?I agree that it isn't every woman. There are definitely exceptions. But in my experience it is the norm. Even women who were in about 3 or so LTRs had that "in between" period where they were hooking up on Tinder or other dating apps/sites during the late 2000s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 01:42 PM |
| -1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?I'm a 38 year old male that hangs out with other women in their 30's. The single ones almost always have a high body count. It's almost expected. Millennial women normally did a lot of fucking with different people in their 20s. And kept going if they weren't married by 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Fear mongering women over “dying alone”First of all, calm down. Second, I'm not a leasing agent. I'm a Maintenance Coordinator. I know the property managers of the entire southern California region of our company. And in my years in this business, we have seen a lot of this. Men AND women. Don't get defensive. Accidental overdoses/suicides, hoarding, neighbor harassment, disruptive behavior, etc. are not in need of experts to diagnose mental illness. (BTW leasing agents have minimal involvement with the residents other than the actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Fear mongering women over “dying alone”Nah he's right. I work for a property management company that manages apartments. We have loooots of "single" women in the 18-50+ range that live at our sites. The ones in their 20's are normally blissfully fucking their fuckboys. But the ones in the 30's and up are a sad sight to see. They have more often than not very obvious signs of mental illness and addiction issues. We have found quite a few dead alone in their apartments also due to accidental overdoses. Women typically have very strong … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Fear mongering women over “dying alone”I lost a lot of brain cells reading this comment. Especially the second sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:35 AM |
| 10 | There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a manYup. I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?Your first response heavily implied that women are not joining due to being prohibited. But you kind of back peddled by changing the context then saying that women wouldn't have a choice is mandated. Kind of dancing around the answer. And yes. Women should be able to serve the military. But not in combat. There are many other useful ways to serve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:59 PM |
| 0 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’It seems as though women are actually protecting and supporting themselves fairly well by comparison… Yeah until someone breaks into your car or worse yet, your home. Women don't really do so hot on their own in those situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenNot all women are hypergamous nor do all women sleep with Chads. Ha. True, but it's because they are too ugly to pull it off. Very few are able to fail that hard though. Even a lot of obese women can play hard nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?And it is completely dishonest to say that women would actively line up to fight among men against other men. Be thankful that you are prohibited. Not only would so many female troops be a liability due to their lack of strength and fighting abilities against an enemy army, female soldiers becoming POWs are another level of horror. There is no room for "make believe equality" in that type of situation. And trust me, most women are down to not get involved anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?Female monarchs historically were a lot more likely to declare wars than male. Women have the capacity to be far more vicious than men. The kicker is that they have men do the killing for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?Because women aren't lining up to join any war efforts. As in picking up a gun and diving into war zones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:45 AM |
| 5 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?Because it's not the easiest option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 01:35 AM |
| 0 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionNot really histrionic. Like I said we are barely seeing its effects. Sure most men are having sex still but more than ever are not. And being partnered doesn't mean for life. Lifetime monogamy is dying. More men are finding that women aren't worth the effort or some simply can't attract anyone (again not all men but enough to where I am now hearing it more and more among us IRL). And women don't really like most men all that much on a romantic level and want to truly fuck even less. We will be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionI think it would in the long run. The dating world has been cracked and is breaking beyond repair. We are barely seeing its effects now. Before, men would mostly get partnered up and married despite appearance and social status. But that formula is breaking down rapidly. Men are losing hope and women are just shrugging their shoulders. Fair enough. But some form of prosutuion could possibly be seen as the norm in which most men get sex. And I do agree that actual free sex will be seen as a socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 08:02 PM |
| 0 | The reason relationships are so heavily skewed towards women in America is because of its stance on prostitutionProbably. But it doesn't eliminate the fact that men still want to fuck. It's how we're built. You can't possibly expect said men who complain that Chad is getting for free (which is not wrong) will just stay in their corner and be deprived of it. If consensual prostitution is the answer for these men, sure they won't be experiencing genuine desire but they will still experience the female touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:47 PM |
| 10 | A lot of women have an exponential amount of dating/relationship experience in their life, which simultaneously helps them reach their full potential, but men have far more untapped potential that exceeds women when it comes to knowledge in dating/relationships.I agree. Worked at a retirement home for a decade where the staff was 90% female. The "Chad" or dickish guys (usually one or two at a time) were the ones that got almost all of the attention/sex from the females. The other guys got almost nothing lol. That was before the whole 80/20 thing was talked about online. So me seeing it firsthand, I know its true. That's why more women are fucking more than men. Whether they know it or not, many are sharing a minority of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:52 AM |
| – | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.Agreed. When the man likes the woman more, she tends to make it more of a transactional relationship and it becomes more of a power struggle rather than a pleasant partnership. The problem is, a lot of the time, when she likes the guy more, he is usually aloof and possibly abusive. So when it ends, she ends up jaded and believes that all men are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?Harsh but not far off, I'm afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Why would women be jealous of a young woman getting married, if they want to ride the CC instead?Yeah. As an unmarried 38 year old man who recently bought his own home, I understand this. A lot of married people around me like family/friends tend to have little talks with me regarding my single status. Some will bring it up without me asking and there were more than a couple times when they would present a condescending tone. That was when I began to realize...are they concerned, or just jealous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 04:10 PM |
| 5 | To the men who complain about lonelinessThank you for writing this. No one will see it or care about it in the grand scheme of things. But there will be some guys who read it and will not feel alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Sex is the most intimate act, two people can share.Casual sex won't have the "feels" involved for the most part. But I recently met a girl at a bar and we hooked up the next night. Don't know hardly anything about her and don't even know her full name (which actually made it hotter somehow). And the sex was insane. It almost felt like we both went into a shameless primal mode knowing we wouldn't have to face each other again lol. It's a different feeling from love but bro....*chef's kiss* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 10:40 PM |
| 0 | People need to accept that it's normal to not be in love with your spouse after some yearsKid A is clearly a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | People need to accept that it's normal to not be in love with your spouse after some yearsOh God...such a cope. We all know you're full of shit. Just kidding. Great to know and I'm happy for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 10:25 PM |
| 1 | People need to accept that it's normal to not be in love with your spouse after some yearsTrue. Only I can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 10:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Hoeflation is crazy but WhoRecession is gonna be wildwe live in a very sick culture in which most people have poor parenting and care during their childhoods This. I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | A flawed argument that women make excusing past One Night StandsI love women who love one night stands. Cuz they do the deed and just walk themselves out feeling "empowered" then when I hear the door close, I just pour a drink, have a smoke then go to sleep without having to text her the next morning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Without the influence of modern culture, men would be more successful with women.So....basically jobs that don't need actual engineering, building, construction and constant maintenance. The actual jobs that make all the jobs you listed possible in the first place. Yup. Guess you don't need us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?Absolutely. Even at a younger age, I was always of the belief that people should band together because of character and some commonalities. But in reality, we are evolved to be a part of some sort of social commune or tribe. I understand why this is the case due to out early days in history. And so many generations of this behavior is what ultimately causes our fear of being alone. Which is why people to this day will always join their common people and criticize people that are different. The h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 06:05 PM |
| 3 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?Yeah, I totally relate. I actually had this conversation with someone very recently. Most people really appear to naturally join a tribe based on their interests, ethnicity/culture, appearance and overall lifestyle. This is something that can be observed even among young children when they start school. However, there are those that don't really fit in any box completely and it can be problematic. I know this because I am that person as well. And despite having quite a few friends over the years… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Does a mans social status attract women?Well guy number one can be appealing for many reasons. He could be very handsome and charming. He could be a badass that commands respect. He could be really funny in an attractive (not clownish) way. It could be a combination of anything. But that being the case, he will likely have people around him often and women will notice this and it will signal that he is in demand. Whereas guy number two will just be a bore and may not command any sort of significant respect. And his (few) friends being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 03:01 PM |
| 52 | Does a mans social status attract women?Having a high level of social status is obviously a very powerful attraction cue. We all know this. However, most men are not celebrities or have any significant social power. But "social proof" is an important factor when it comes to attracting women for sure. And this is something that applies to the average population. A man can be a lowish earner and live in a lower class area, but if he has a lot of friends/admirers, he will be attractive to women. Meanwhile a high earning IT guy that is ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Is there really an epidemic of women divorcing nice guys for no reason ?We are just different. I really don't think we (men and women) are meant to be together for decades. Men are rather simple creatures but women need "this", "this" and "that" and "a little of this sometimes", etc. There is a reason why gay men tend to have far lower divorce rates than lesbian couples. Lesbian couples have very high divorce rates implying that even when there is no man to blame, they eventually get dissatisfied due the their bottomless well of "needs" that only really make sense i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel like a lot of redpill or jaded men have undiagnosed neuro conditions?Some yes. Some no. Some are neurotic. And some just gained wisdom. Some men avoid women because they have a deep seeded frustration towards them due to many rejections in life. A lack of self awareness or introspection is very common with theses types as well. Some men avoid women because they learn to understand female nature, don't like it, shrug it off and resume life without them or only date casually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:54 PM |
| – | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?It basically means that you won't get her best as far her sexuality or overall enthusiasm. Women are very good at detecting what kind of men they are interacting with for the most part. If they sense that you are a (true) nice, fair and even tempered guy that they feel comfortable with but don't find you sexually attractive, they will either put you in the friend zone or at best enter a relationship with infrequent and boring sex. She may in fact love you as a person but she will never be "in lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:34 PM |
| 2 | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategyYeah. Same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:23 AM |
| 0 | Do you guys think AI humanoid girlfriends will be popular in the future?HAHA. It's funny beacuse it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 02:33 PM |
| – | Would you care if your gf hung out with guys she’s slept with in the past?Yes I would and do care. Unfortunately I dated waaaay too many women that still insisted on keeping contact with "old friends" that they fucked. It's pretty wild how they weaponize the word "insecure" to preserve and justify their own selfish pursuits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchNow I don't know the dude you're talking about, but what I do know is that it's hard to convince someone that the need to go on a self-improvement therapy journey to find a date when the majority of people has never even thought of embarking such a thing. It's less to do with looking for a magical solution, but finding a stride or momentum to fall into. Fantastic point. I think this is where a lot of people miss the mark when dealing with guys who express frustration with their dating struggles.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Sex Robots will fix the dating marketThere is no doubt that the tech is coming. But I agree that we may not see sex robots that are indistinguishable (from real humans) in our lifetimes. They may be pretty damn close in appearance but not quite there as far as motor skills and behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 02:38 AM |
| 4 | How common is it for you to see people cheating?Yup. Actual life experience and observations over stats that a certain gender has a known tendency for cognitive dissonance relating to past sexual encounters resulting in not being truthful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 05:16 AM |
| 2 | How common is it for you to see people cheating?Pretty much since cellphones became mainstream, women are fiercely protective over their phones. Men generally don't care. But women lose their shit when men look at their phone. Very disturbing. I mean look at the responses here. It's always, "I don't cheat but don't look at my phone". I, as a man never cheated and never batted an eye whenever my partners grabbed my phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 05:07 AM |
| 9 | How common is it for you to see people cheating?Extremely. And in my opinion, women have far surpassed men these days. I don't give a shit what stats say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with being a side chick if we accept the reality of hypergamyIt sounds like youre arguing that men are hypergamous and cannot truly commit to a woman if another opportunity presents itself. That's not what hypergamy means. Hypergamy is when a person seeks relationships/sex with a person of a higher sexual/socio-economical status. Women are notorious for this by nature. Men don't generally do this, we seek sexual abundance, not women that are better than us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Are men who do not want to commit to relationships simply risk-averse?Oh yes. I concur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Men are not banks and women are not sex objects. Wrong. We are both objects. Men are success objects. Women are sex objects. Sorry, but it's called being human. It doesn't mean that men and women don't have autonomy over their own lives. But by nature, a man is seen as a failure and is disrespected if he doesn't make something of himself. And a woman is seen as undesirable if she doesn't take care of her appearance and/or demonstrates masculine energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 02:56 PM |
| – | Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their willyou're all literally assuming what the chick who is hitting on the guy thinks, like her friend as well. Yet the irony is lost on you all... Like one of them said, apparently psychics are real LOL. But of course they are the ones with the gift of accurate discernment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Has intelligence become less valuable in todays dating society?Right but poor doesn't necessarily mean stupid or unattractive. There are lots of guys in the hood that are uneducated and have shit work ethic, but they have good genes and are actually naturally very bright. And these are the guys that clean up because not only are they good looking but they are quick thinkers/learners and know how to work women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 06:15 PM |
| – | Should men abandon The Red Pill in 2024?Well what do you mean by "abandon" it? Ignore female nature and do what society says and get burned or rejected until someone likes us but still resents our lack of boundaries and either cheats, dumps us or dominates our lives? I think we are past the point of no return now that the red pill has become so mainstream in the last couple of years. Before the pandemic, it was only a relatively small group of men who realized that something was wrong in the dating world and discussed female nature fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?It really depends on the situation. I'll give two examples in my own experience and how I responded.... -First, whenever I was talking to a girl (at a party/social event) that I was interested in, I would get a bit nervous when another "guest" popped up that was exceptionally attractive. Because, there was a solid chance that the girl that I was trying to date would notice him and eventually lose interest in me. This actually happened quite a lot in my experience. -Second, whenever I was dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024Yup. I was that guy many moons ago myself. It helped my life tremendously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 09:30 PM |
| 2 | What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30Yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 12:52 PM |
| 5 | What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30Yeah this is similar to my story. I was never really able to land a very high paying career due to various reasons. But luckily I was always pretty wise with my finances and was able to buy a home myself in my mid-30's (38 now). And yes, I agree that at this point, women really don't bring much to the table for me. Most of the ones that are single in my age-range are pretty horrid as far as their lives and attitude go. And I even look at a lot of my male friends/peers that are married and someti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | The problem with “Women would rather obey their boss than their husband”No, it's that men have been conditioned to practice the "happy wife, happy life" myth. And they fear the divorce machine, losing their families and assets and/or are afraid of re-entering the dating marketplace later in life. Or it's a lot of times its just a matter of avoiding yet another tantrum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 06:34 PM |
| 17 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesYeah, I feel you. I was always an introvert and I "broke out of my shell" in my 20's to early 30's by going out a lot, meeting people and all that. Now I am 38 and pretty much came to the conclusion that people generally suck (are nice until they are not, selfish, competitive, etc.), relationships are mostly the same (start out great, drama begins, then they end). So while I am glad I experienced a lot of fun times with friends and even with some women, I still came out with nothing as far as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 03:58 PM |
| -2 | The problem with “Women would rather obey their boss than their husband”I agree. The problem is, most men end up becoming subservient to the woman these days. Of all the friends and families that I have known in my life, I rarely saw a couple where the man had complete control over the wife in some form. But the opposite? Almost all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 02:50 PM |
| 6 | CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behaviorTrue. Man on man sex in prisons does happen. But it's not as rampant as most people seem to think. Even when it does happen, most of the time these men are gay or bi. I have several friends that work in the jail system who confirmed this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 07:18 PM |
| – | Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ?The wall is something that I always disagreed with as far as "red pill" content. I do think that they are right about women changing their dating style when they hit their 30's. Meaning that many women prioritize finding a nicer and more stable partner than men who just provide excitement. But this also mostly applies to women who are actually looking to settle down and start families. I am a man pushing 40 and I am usually around other people in my age group. And as far as single women in their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 03:31 PM |
| – | Porn's impact on males' standards when it comes to women is equivalent to what dating apps/social media is doing to women's standards.This is interesting and very likely for many guys. I say this because when I was in my 20's, women in my age range were not receptive to me at all. At the time, I just never fit the normal standard that most 20-something year old women were seeking (tall, in shape, hot, exciting). So when watching porn, I did develop a habit at looking at MILF porn. Looking back it was probably due to a subconscious sadness from seeing all those naked young hot women on film not being attainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 03:06 PM |
| 3 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?So I think single women do better being single than men. A lot of that has to do with the fact that women have stronger social networks. They are also treated better by society in the sense that they are not seen as a danger, so everyday social environments/public spaces are friendlier to them. Men on the other hand tend to become more lonely and self destructive because they are built different and have a more pronounced need for sex and sense of purpose (which is why after a certain amount of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Why Should Men Get Married?Thanks for bringing a little sanity to this. I won't even entertain a reply to her comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Why Should Men Get Married?Men gain financially from marriage while women lose, this trend is even seen after divorce As the nephew of a divorce attorney, this is bullshit to say the least. It's to a point now where even living with a boyfriend for a certain amount of time entitles her to his assets. My uncle even told be of a case where a woman's boyfriend unexpectedly passed and she used the legal system to acquire her dead boyfriends inheritance. She somehow won due to some state law. And her dead boyfriend's sister (a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns?Because they chose to live their lives for their faith on a full time basis. And they live a life of celibacy and service. Many of them work in hospitals, charity events and many other services basically free of charge. That is incredibly honorable to say the least. Nuns will always live their life knowing that they will never be wealthier, have a luxury car, huge house, expensive makeup and a handsome man to fuck. All by choice. Whereas single woman past 30 are seen as having lived a life of vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do women bring to the table?Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do women bring to the table?I wasn't answering him. I'm answering you. I said what men bring to the table in modern society which is what you're first sentence asked. What people bring to relationships are another matter that are personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do women bring to the table?What do men bring to the table in modern society? I have a degree and a job so finance is not really going to be a major factor Everything that allows you to work your job in finance. The buildings where you went to school, work and live in, the computers you use, the roads you take and the car you drive. The literal screen you are looking at to read this....I work in the trades and I see what men bring to the table every single day. And there aren't many women that want to work where this isn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Weight vs height, is a huge double standardYeah, good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Weight vs height, is a huge double standardThat doesn't take away from the fact that one is because of poor lifestyle choices and one is due to genetics beyond the man's control. Still a hard double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Men cause their own lonelinessYep. I worked in an industry that was very female dominated from my 20's to early 30's and I agree. Most of the time, women are not really revealing their true colors as they are among male peers/family. So men mostly see the "surface level" appearance of what women want others to perceive them as. But when you are out in the wild with them on a full time basis (being one of the only males around) you start to learn some dark shit. And I learned this way before the whole manosphere thing became … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Men cause their own lonelinessFantastic response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Weight vs height, is a huge double standardWomen who want tall men should be free to date tall men — just as men who want slim women should be free to date slim women. I agree. The only issue with comparing short men to overweight women is that they are not the same thing. Society is very fierce when it comes protecting an overweight woman's self esteem. I have seen even highly intelligent women lose their shit when a man comments on a woman's weight. But male height is openly mocked. I remember going to a bar with a dance floor and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?Yeah, when I was younger my ex said all of those things to me to win me over. I believed her and thought I hit the jackpot. She was awful and lo and behold she didn't mean what she said. It's pretty sad too. Because I always hear women IRL and online talk about how they are pissed about being stuck with chores while working full time. And honestly as a man, I am a far better housekeeper, cook and bookkeeper (combined) than any woman around my age I have met. Kind of sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 11:38 PM |
| -2 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Yeah this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:34 PM |
| 7 | Today society is PERFECT for menOh yeah, it's paradise for hot men. But for the rest of men, it's a nightmare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Is a man's height only important nowadays because of social media and dating apps?Women have always flocked to taller men. I even heard stories of older women from past generations who married their husbands because "he was so tall and handsome". It was always a thing. But back then, the women had limited options so, they would then settle for the shorter man if the tall men were taken. It may be more cutthroat now due to OLD and literally having worldwide options. But taller men were always preferred. I remember like 20 years ago, my friend (who is 6'4) and I went to a (most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:27 PM |
| – | Is a man's height only important nowadays because of social media and dating apps?Possibly but I'm not too sure. It was a big jump in just a couple generations as of late. I am 5'6 (38yo male) and most of my elder relatives were around that height. And I grew up with good highly nutritious foods. But my younger cousins are almost 6ft tall. And now when I walk around in my area (Southern California) I noticed that the younger kids are gigantic. It is not uncommon for me to see Mexican families where the parents are both below 5'6 but the daughter will be 5'9 and the son will b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”?I kind of disagree. Most guys tend to have some experience with other girls by the time they hit 18. Kissing and other forms of touching usually start around middle school and things get more intimate through high school. If a guy doesn't reach any of those milestones by 18 or 19 it's actually quite devastating to his self esteem and sense of sexual value. I know this because I was in that place. I tried asking girls out in middle school and throughout high school and while they all liked me as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:13 PM |
| – | Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad?So here is the thing. I myself am not a Chad. Never have been, and I never will be. And I have dated many women and have been in multiple relationships. I am hyper aware of how women operate and select men for sex and relationships. And I have almost three decades of being around women at work, public and social groups to observe women's patterns. Here's the thing. Women are now exposed. In the past when men pointed this out, women would deny it for dear life. And now women are like, "well you g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:40 PM |
| 7 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesThese women KNOW these men are assholes. That's why they like these guys - because "asshole" is a proxy for masculinity. Absolutely. I kind of stopped dating seriously when I saw this happen over and over again. But it's how they are built. They aren't built to "fall in love" with a great guy. They are built to "want to fuck" the best guy. And sometimes the best guy (in their heads) is the guy that demonstrates dominance (even if he is a bad person). Big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:37 PM |
| 14 | What would a society in which all men are red-pilled look like?This is exactly what is happening now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)This is unfortunately the dark reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'Right. But they are likely easy on the eyes. That is why they are being noticed. And make no mistake, those dudes are definitely looking to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:47 PM |
| 9 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'They are not only attracted to women, but genuinely like women as people outside of just the sexual aspect. So they are welcome at parties and gatherings and social events, giving them access to more women and since the vetting is built in, they're the guys that get to go home with the cutest girls that night. I was that guy. I loved women and women loved me. But none of them were interested in me sexually for years because I was never a looker (short, bald since 20 and a tad chubby, ugly face).… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'Same with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?I would pick the 3rd fat girl. She is the most attractive of all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 03:45 PM |
| 16 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?Yes. I knew quite a few actually. I was one of them once upon a time. Back in my 20's (37 now), I had horrible luck with dating. I never kissed a woman until I was about 25 (she was drunk). So I eventually tried to venture out and try new things and new places to meet women. My friends were in the same boat as me but for different reasons. With me, I am short, struggled with my weight and was raised by a religious single mom that taught me all the wrong things about dating. And I am also extreme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:10 PM |
| 7 | How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman?I rarely see an obese man with a fit woman. But I ALWAYS see fit men with obese women. My cousin was also a wedding photographer for a few years and one night we looked at all the couples that he photographed to do our own "study" of looks matching. There were about 300 or so couples that we looked at. Most were relatively looks matched. But women clearly shoot for higher and are able to attain it with far more ease. The hotter women were always with greek god looking men. The "uglier" women wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What is the big deal about submission?Clappin' cheeks hit different during doggystyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:43 PM |
| 8 | I don’t see the appeal of marriageSo, I'm a welder by trade. I work 12-16 hours sometimes seven days a week. I wear heavy protective clothing the entire time. I wear a hood that covers my face most of the time. I cut and prep huge pieces of metal using very dangerous equipment that can make me disabled or dead in seconds if I'm clumsy. And I am literally in tight spaces guiding a flaming metal rod steadily with all my concentration to keep the welds straight while I'm sweating bullets. Rain or shine. Every. Single. Day. If I was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:54 AM |
| 4 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.True. In the scope of human history, men paying for dates is new. Before that, men went out hunting, fought wars, built cities and created technologies to protect women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:35 AM |
| 1 | What is your definition of masculinityHaving balls. Literally and figuratively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to?All the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?This kind of opinion is used by men often and they absolutely take over when the bill arrives, saying you are offending them if you pay for yourself. And then they ask you to go to their place and when you don’t they go mental and ask you to pay the money back. Those men are just idiots. Whenever, I was on a date with a woman and the vibe was not there, there were several times where they would communicate their lack of attraction by proposing that we split the bill. And honestly, I found it adm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:11 PM |
| 3 | The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacyMost women try to find a man with a good mix of alpha and beta traits rather than do a pure AF/BB strategy, though. True. But men like that are extremely rare. So women generally are faced with the dilemma of "do I play russian roulette and go with the guy that gives me the tingles?" or "do I go with the guy that will bring me peace and stability but doesn't do it for me all that much sexually?". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:25 PM |
| 5 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?If a man pays, there should be an understanding that there will be some boinkin' happening soon. If the woman is not attracted, that's fine, but she should then pay for her own meal/drinks. That is of course, unless the man is just being generous and takes pleasure in providing a meal for a friend that is a female. But if he is attracted to you, and you accept the free shit....the clappin' better happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.I have encountered dudes that don't eat women out for various reasons. The reasons varying from thinking it is flat out gross to it being a cultural taboo. I never really thought of it as an "emasculating" thing for dudes to do. I am just a guy who is insanely attracted to women and feel that oral sex is hot as fuck. In my experience, the women enjoy it because I am enjoying it so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Is the pattern of dating the most desirable men in their 20s and then settling in their 30s nd 40s a common pattern of modern day women in most 1st world countries?Right but humans are still humans. And Japan was very much ahead in how their version of capitalism progressed. So the women in their workforce became more self reliant, and consequently became far less interested in men (unless it was for sex with attractive men or men who are exceptionally successful)l. This has been apparent in their society since the late 80's/90's when they were on track to becoming one of the top superpowers. We are just starting to see the same effect on the West. Because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:21 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?I was born in the 80's so I obviously wasn't dating then. But from what I remember in the 90's and having conversations with older people, the dating market was a more even playing field. A lot of factors including the overall economy, job market and culture made things a bit more reasonable in the dating market. Before, an average (looks and intelligence) guy could get a local manufacturing job and do well. At that point he just had to put himself out there (at school, church, friend of the fam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:20 PM |
| 19 | Women don't hate nice guys because they storm off after being rejected, women hate them because they create a secret, transactional relationship without the woman's consent.This is very true for many guys. I remember in high school and college there were a lot of straight up cringe attempts at wooing women with romantic gestures, (singing songs, gifts, choreographed dancing at the worst time possible, etc.). And from what I remember, a very small percentage of these "acts of love" ended with the girl getting with the guy. There were a couple failed attempts that resulted in stalkerish behavior. But the vast majority of the guys would just be an emotional wreck for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Current Obesity statistics USA and WorldwideDon't diss the squish, son. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 10:54 PM |
| 28 | If I need to be perfectly happy alone for a partner to find a partner to like me, why would I want a partner in the first place?Yeah I agree. It is a sort of social shit test. Most people that enter relationships do it for the sole fact that they do not want to be alone. If you really are content being alone and enjoying yourself, for most people, the thought of entering relationships will seem daunting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Are "marriageable" women truly rare today? Why or why not?I'm not asking any of my woman to leave girl's night out. I am the girl's night out. And I usually have over 10,000 of my women on any given day with a security staff of over 1000. All of my women are also required to check in to the ranch and also check out when they choose to leave that way all are accounted for. Safety is my number two priority after pleasure. So the Jeffrey Dahmer scenario is non-existent. And like I said, I am no pimp. My women pay me so that I can pay for the lifestyle I s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:55 PM |
| 11 | Are "marriageable" women truly rare today? Why or why not?Sorry guys. Yes most women are NOT marriage material at all. They literally can't get married because they are all hooking up with me. I have three huge ranches out in Central Coast, California, the Midwest and another in the East Coast of Florida. I literally rotate my stays in each one every week. That way the drive/flights aren't so bad for the woman that come over. All of my parties are 21+ minimum and I have a full time staff that confirms the ages of all my guests. So long story short, if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What is an average middle-aged woman, to you?Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | What is an average middle-aged woman, to you?It really depends on the region. When I lived in Orange County in Southern California, a lot of the middle aged women in the the upper class areas looked great despite being past their youthful prime. But then when you went into areas that were more working class you would see the more overweight, sweaty 45 year olds kind of walking around all stressed out wearing shitty clothes and no makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t short man and tall woman date each otherI'm a 5'6 man. My last ex was around 5'9. I loved it. I'm not so sure that she did though lol. It's usually the women that have an issue with it. There are men that feel insecure about it as well but it's usually because there is always external disapproval that is felt often (believe me, I know). And other men tend to look at it and get jealous if the "taller" girlfriend is attractive (which was the case with me). People are shitty and will try to sabotage this kind of pairing. But the two year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:55 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?A woman who has been used for sex in the past has every right to stop that from happening again by waiting for sex. The men who are angry about this are just jealous that they don’t get a chance to pump and dump and aren’t compatible for a relationship anyway. It's not jealousy. It's just a consequence of the rules of supply and demand. A man who is aware that a woman has been used by a ton of guys that were mostly douchebags will not normally want to commit to her. He will not want to share wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 04:00 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenI already predict a lot of women having an issue with Point #1. They will basically say that a connection in a casual setting is not like the online hookup or nightlife world where there is more pressure for speed. So going on multiple dates according to them will be warranted to see if they are comfortable with the guy. But (for most) it's wrong and mostly hypocritical. I was in the game for almost 30 years. And EVERY SINGLE TIME I went on dates with a girl and just was myself and "vibed" throu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:36 PM |
| – | Women, what do you mean when you say that a man’s salary doesn’t matter as long as he has ambition, works hard, and grinds?Despite what women say, it is ideal (if you are male) that the male partner makes more than the female partner. There is just a greater respect that comes with that. I have seen couples where the woman earn more than her partner, and the dynamic is always off (she is clearly the more domineering of the two). Or I have seen others, where the woman earns more but she is objectively unattractive while the male partner is the better looking/more fit of the two, so it becomes kind of a pseudo toy boy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:37 PM |
| – | Question for the 35yo+ men who were/are the unlucky runts in your groups...(the ones that actually did try but still never found much luck)Of course anyone is welcome to add input. But I am more interested in reading about the men who did fail in the dating world past a certain age. And I would like for them to share their experiences based on their own introspect. I'm not talking about teenage and college aged kids who didn't get the girls they liked at school. That is a common thing most of us go through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 06:45 PM |
| – | Question for the 35yo+ men who were/are the unlucky runts in your groups...(the ones that actually did try but still never found much luck)I am not meant for it. What exactly led you to that conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?If sex was off the table, men's desire for LTRs would go down 1000%. Or so. I would add another zero to that percentage to be closer to accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeI meant the word "loser" as a broad figure of speech. It could be lack of drive to succeed, addiction issues, etc. In your husband's case it sounds like he was just young and made poor decisions at that time which most of us are guilty of in some form. I do appreciate your response. I like how you shared your attraction to your husband and broke it down to the "why". And I do agree that many of the more sheltered women do experience a lot of naivety when falling in love. In my opinion they are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Is is true that being a single mother penalizes a woman more than dating than being a single father does for men?Yes. Very true. I know a lot of men that are very opposed to dating single moms. But most women that I have known would be open to dating single dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?I would definitely be attracted to them, sure. But in all honesty not quite as much. It definitely was their age. They were just hotter to put it plain and blunt. Their vibe was also more energetic and bubbly which also made them more attractive. However, I will say that I probably wouldn't be interested in dating them unless it was just for sex, to be honest. Because the maturity levels between them and myself are just too far apart and they would probably annoy me very quickly. So on my end, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:26 PM |
| 1 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?As far as beauty, I think it's generally true. Sure there are plenty of women that have great genetics or take care of themselves and look great through middle age. But in general, as a man I can say that women do reach peak beauty in their 20's. Just yesterday I went to a farewell get-together for an old co-worker who left the company that I worked at years ago with him. He invited his more current coworkers who were newer and most of the women were in their mid 20's but a couple were around my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.In my opinion, this is basically true. However, I know that there will be those that read your post and go ,"well I've been with my partner for x amount of years and we are still going strong and still have sex". And all power to those people. But most people do not enjoy that kind of longevity of passion despite sticking out the relationship. I think for couples to really feel happy for the long haul, they must have the right cocktail of good looks, mutual understanding/emotional health, and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 06:43 PM |
| 13 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeYeah I think this is the answer. I myself have seen women who come from amazing families chase the local bad boy/loser. It is probably a preprogrammed mechanism for survival. We tend to forget that people didn't live very long for most of human history. Making it to the fourth decade was a blessing. So women being in their childbearing prime in their teens to mid/late twenties, they were safer with the aggressive types. That way when they were pregnant they had a higher chance of being protected… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeA girl who chases bad boys and then later on tries to settle with a “safe guy” isn’t worth pursuing either. So 90% of women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 6 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeRight. I myself used to go out to drink/party all the time in my 20's. But that entire time I was mostly sexless. But the types of dudes that always had women were the type of dudes that would bring their chick out, get drunk and leave their passed out girlfriend in the car so they could keep drinking with the group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeMy best dates happened where I went in with zero expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 03:32 PM |
| – | Most dating advice directed at men is about being as generically attractive as possible. This has a lot to do with why many struggle.I don't agree that hate is the right word. I am one of those guys that drank the red Kool-Aid. But I drank it because I was an ugly, shy and overall clueless dude when it came to dating in my teens and through my 20's. Now at 37, I did improve overall and have had quite a bit of experience with relationships and sexual encounters. But the truth is, when you figure it all out, women are basically wired the same. Their love is incredibly transactional and easily fleeting and that is what makes the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything.I totally believe it. I saw this type of thing a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything.I agree. Many of the mousy/introverted women that I knew in high school and college were downlow very attracted to the loud jocks. And they generally were able to hook up with them if they actually wanted it. But I almost never saw this happen when the genders were reversed. I used to be the guy that would meet the quiet and awkward barista girl that read books and did crafts, and would think, "Wow, she is like me, I should ask her out!". But then you would find out through the grapevine that sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Why shouldn’t there be “losers” in the dating market? Why is it wrong a lot of men will lose out?Well the reality is that more and more men are losing out on the dating market due to many factors that can be discussed for days. I can support the notion that if a man has absolutely no drive in life, has horrible hygiene, doesn't develop any sense of responsibility, etc., it's certainly not a bad thing that women aren't lining up to fuck him. However, we are entering an era where too many men that are otherwise great catches, are not seen as attractive or desirable. The unfettered hypergamy c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:45 PM |
| 19 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.Women can be flat out cruel with rejections. I'll give an example from when I was rejected when I was younger, then another more recent time that I rejected the girl. 1st: I was around 22 years old and out at a restaurant event where several colleges were involved. They had a dance floor and music so it became more of a club-like environment. I remember walking up to the bar and noticing a girl that was there with her friends. They were attractive in a "normal" way, not stunners and seemed nice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV Looks will never beat status and money in terms off SMV and there is to much evidence to think otherwise.In general, I believe this. Status and having a lot of resources/money does attract women for sure. And a 5'6 musician that is famous and rich will definitely pull more on average than a tall and hot warehouse worker. But the dark reality is that at if you are an otherwise ugly man that has success/status, it still is very much transactional. I have known a few guys with money/social status and they tell me that money keeps women around but it doesn't keep them from fucking around. Meaning, that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Your view on the opposite sex and how you think it affects your sex and dating life3 for me, then it changes with age. In my opinion, women are mostly opportunistic, highly discriminatory with their social interactions and have a very coy way of going about their circumstances and having their agendas fulfilled. Even the overweight and ugly 25 year old will be angry and scream at the world but is still very much aware of her sexual leverage (or leverage from simply being a female) which can be advantageous for her wants/needs. And if they get called out, they stomp their feet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Marriage for menThose men are complaining but they’re not divorcing, and men are more likely to remarry than women. Right. But it's usually because women (in general) at a certain point in the relationship expect a man to marry them. So the guy caves and gives her the ring to keep her around. It's not because divorced/widowed men want to be full blown married again necessarily. As a man, I can tell you, most of us wouldn't. But we like sex too much and for most of us, the only type of "game" we know how to demo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Men's lack of self-respect is part of the reason for their struggle in dating and financial success.Right. But what he is saying is that men typically engage in hobbies that have to do with survival skills. He mentioned athletic hobbies that involved running, jumping, etc. However men also engage in a lot of hobbies involving building and hunting as well. And sure, there are women in these spaces. I myself am a welder so I am around a lot of other men who are involved in the trades (which is probably one of the most masculine spaces in society). And most of the women involved (wives, girlfrien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 07:16 PM |
| 3 | The sentiment “if you have an issue with all women, the problem isn’t all women - it’s you”No, we're saying it's because men have to make an effort instead of just forcing women to be financially dependent on men just to service. Men generally always had to make an effort. They always had to prove themselves to the woman and her family in generations past. My grandmother even told me that in her time as a young woman in Italy, men were put through a lot of testing by the woman's father and brothers sometimes lasting for a year to make sure he was a worthy provider for the girl in ques… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 03:24 PM |
| 5 | The sentiment “if you have an issue with all women, the problem isn’t all women - it’s you”They're just trying to analyze and adapt. Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Men are disingenuous in the dating marketI spent most of my life being very commitment minded. During most of that time few women wanted me. I eventually got a few LTRs but they did not end well. Those experiences leave me seeking something more casual now but I'm very upfront about that. You and me both, brother. I was looking for my bride since my teens. I had not so good experiences and now at 37, I date with no intention for commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousLOL, my bad, your tag made me assume you were a woman. As far as you seeing this happen, with an unattractive man, does it happen? Sure, maybe. I personally have never seen it in my 37 years. Like I said, this type usually is forced to settle with someone for access to sex instead of the freebies that more attractive men have access to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousWomen are not a "swipe away from hooking up with a cute guy" unless they are above average themselves. Even if they match with a bunch of cute guys, lots of them are married, or have no game and turn her off when talking. You are already proving men right. You're saying that even when (what you consider), an objectively good looking man matches with you, he still is not this, this, or that. Which is fine because you are a woman and that is how you are wired. But most men will celebrate if they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women in favor of the passport bro movement?There are, yes. But it's not quite the same as what a "passport bro" would be searching for. The immigrant women here are mostly here to work and aren't really actively on the prowl. There are are exceptions of course. But the ones who are would mostly found among their own and are a bit apprehensive to pair off with locals. If you want a Mexican immigrant woman, you would have to hang out with other Mexican immigrants and go to their venues (there are many bars/clubs that are mostly occupied by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 11:04 PM |
| 6 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?It's just how they are wired. It's like that old advice of having your hot female friends dance with you at a club and other girls will notice you more. It's all true. I'm not a great looking guy and women generally don't pay me any mind in public. But one time my coworkers and I went out for my birthday to bar hop. Some of the friends in my group were attractive women (we were in our 20's). And I remember at one place, these women friends were standing around me and we all had some drinks so we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:58 PM |
| – | Is he a misogynist?I know plenty of wealthy divorced women over 45 that take delight in going to high end bars on weekends to pick up hot men in their 20's. Are they misandrists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Are there any women in favor of the passport bro movement?If you have the resources and desire to do it, I see absolutely noting wrong with it. I for one probably wouldn't because I wouldn't have a ton in common with a foreign woman and I"m American and love living in America. There are beautiful and far cheaper places to live, but throughout my travels, I find that no one really holds a candle to the U.S. Especially, where I live in Orange County, CA. But that's just my take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Would you personally be happy and content with never experiencing romance for your entire life?I think it kind of goes back to the old saying of "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all". I was pretty bad with women from my teenage years to my mid 20's with some dates but always ended up rejected. It was extremely soul crushing and the depression was something else because I felt so alone in my dilemma. The only guys that had that harsh luck with dating were guys that were exceptionally weird and ugly. But I finally landed a relationship at 26, it lasted 2 years… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:43 PM |
| 4 | PPD Meetings.There are obese men. But they tend to know that they aren't finding love because of it. They aren't mad at the world and demand to be called beautiful because of their poor eating habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:19 PM |
| 4 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allYeah this is the answer. Top tier men are basically just aloof because they have a relatively constant supply of female admirers and are treated far better. And women not only have a far lower sex drive, but they also have a near unlimited supply of sex (and even potential companions). But for these two groups, it all comes down to supply and demand. If there is an overabundance of anything, it's value goes down and is not even thought about. Seeing so many comments on this sub, I noticed that a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 05:37 PM |
| 11 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Believe it or don't. It's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:33 PM |
| 14 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Well I worked at a retirement home for over 10 years from age 20-32 as a male. There were about 150 employees and about 85% of them were female (average age being around 28). Some of the the single men, including myself, did have some form of sexual encounter with at least one woman at one point. But it was by no means an all you can eat buffet for average dudes like myself. There were some guys that got no action at all. However, whenever there was a "Chad" that got hired, it suddenly became a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | People who are casual about sex get laid more often than people who aren'tI can agree with this. When I was younger, I was very uptight about relationships because I was looking for a "wife". But then after years of no success, I started to get far more laid back about sex. I did notice a difference in how women were with me. Sometimes I would even proposition sex like it was whatever. Some did agree. But even when they declined, it wasn't weird, because they could sense that I wasn't a danger and wouldn't freak out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't need a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 argument to holdWas this on Fresh and Fit? I'd be interested in listening to Rollo and Destiny debate. However I heard that Destiny and Sneako kind of destroyed Rollo in one episode when Rollo apparently appeared via internet and couldn't make a strong case behind a tweet he made. Apparently Rollo got owned harshly and even the hosts got super uncomfortable seeing Rollo get decimated so bad. And I like Rollo. His books are great but he put way too much content on his Youtube channel and talks a bit too much. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Who and where are these invisible women?For sure. To a degree, men and women live in completely different realities and have different perceptions of the dating experience. But I will say that women tend to be a bit more delusional about their circumstances. When I was in my teens all the way to my early 30's, being a short, balding (since 19) and overall not attractive male, I was truly invisible to women. In fact there were many times when women would flat out avoid me or turn away when I was in their vicinity to avoid any possibili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 06:11 PM |
| 10 | Who and where are these invisible women?Lol I doubt it. I've seen flat out gross looking women get matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Men have a significantly higher level of sexuality and staying otherwise is not only a lie but also potentially harmfulNot for me. I rarely shoot loads just from regular pumping. I usually need to excited from other forms of touching mixed with the woman's overall enthusiasm. If she just lays there with her eyes closed or just bends over and takes it then I don't finish. But I may be an exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:25 PM |
| 3 | AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for womenAt the same time we got dudes fucking anime pillows so "good enough" is probably a very low bar. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 08:54 PM |
| 2 | What exactly were you told about dating women growing up and who said it?Hell yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 08:45 PM |
| 2 | What exactly were you told about dating women growing up and who said it?Lol your dad was Argentinian too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:30 PM |
| 4 | What exactly were you told about dating women growing up and who said it?However, I also believed that a guy could be more open, more neurotic, less classically successful, etc. and that there would still be a LOT of women who would just pick their mates based on idiosyncratic compatibility and shared interests or qualities. Etc. I was wrong about how many exceptions there were. That was the big mistake. I knew there would be a cost to not assuming the traditional male burden of performance, confidence, initiating, stoicism, etc. But I dramatically underestimated the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Marriage in AmericaEveryone has their own reasons. All of my family members besides my cousins and I got married. Only two divorced. But seeing how things are now, I think getting married as a man is pure insanity. Most will disagree and that is totally fine because I am in the minority. I get that there are tax, benefits, social standing and even the symbolic/religious reasons for it. But still, I see almost all of the married men in my life that are living in quiet misery. And a lot of people here are arguing th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 06:48 PM |
| 10 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipThis is spot on. I couldn't have said it better myself. I know a lot of people will read this and disagree. They will attribute it to you just being a bitter low value man who clearly has dating issues. And the fact that you are even on this sub will confirm this for them in their heads. But I can tell you, I am 37 now. I've had my fair share of experiences in the dating world. And it is truly fucked. I look back on my adolescence and remember when I started liking girls and entered the dating s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 04:21 PM |
| 3 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipAs a guy in a frat, I literally saw at least some of my friends hook up every single weekend. Sometimes it was me, sometimes it was other guys, but it was always someone. Whether we were hosting a party or going out to the bars, this was pretty much a constant. It's because you were in a frat. When I was going to college, the frat guys (depending on what frat) were the ones with the soft harems on campus. But as an average student who hung out with other average students, most of us didn't get l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:55 PM |
| 7 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipYeah ask any man that's in a relationship with a woman if it was performing like a monkey and public humiliation and that's exactly how they'll describe they got to their relationship You'd be surprised. In fact many men in relationships are currently dancing like monkeys (metaphorically) to keep their partners interested and committed. Almost all of my male relatives and friends that are coupled have that anxiety in them when they are around (or away from) their women. They have to behave a cer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Women claiming to be 'Sapiosexual' often do so either inaccurately or as code for something else.I've never seen a self proclaimed "sapiosexual" woman ever end up with a short, fat bald man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if a husband cheats, does that mean he doesn't love his wife?I used to be completely opposed to cheating with a vengeance. And I still am against the act. But I can see how it happens in some cases when I learned that my uncle did it. For context, my uncle married my aunt in a foreign country and came to America in the 70's with my father when they were all very young. He met my aunt when they were around 15 and married a couple years later. When they came to the country, he hustled and worked his ass off, build a business and made a lot of money. He ran … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Would the average man easily get women and dates/relationships/marriages in a country with a shortage of men?I know a guy who went to nurse school, he was the only guy in a class of 40 women, dude never got laid or got a gf in uni. Oh yeah. I would see this when I was in college. There would be parts of campus that had primarily female dominated majors and there would be a couple male students with them. I did see the occasional CHAD or arrogant hipster type that would slay. But the regular dudes pretty much never got laid let alone dated anyone. And not because they didn't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Would the average man easily get women and dates/relationships/marriages in a country with a shortage of men?The only places where you will get women "throwing themselves at you" as an unattractive man are seriously impoverished countries. And even then, these women are likely to be prostitutes or are otherwise lost girls in search of a better life. They won't really find you attractive or have any sort of desire for you. They will only find you attractive if you are in fact, attractive. And it really depends of the country as well. Because interestingly, I had a conversation with an older Jewish Ameri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M Would you trust an overtly redpill dating profile?No. In most cases it is a wolf in sheep's clothing. Here is one example: I have two (non identical twin) female cousins that are in their mid 20's. They grew up in a strict Christian household (a bit too strict) and to this day, they show a lot of characteristics of their programming. Meaning that they still mention biblical scripture, they tend to lean more conservative when discussing politics and talk about wanting to be submissive wives. Well, they began hanging out with me. We would go out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexYeah for sure. And that is something that women tend to do better for the most part. They are always talking to other women regardless if they are true friends or not. But one thing I would really like is to have a regular group of friends again. Even if it's a handful of people. It would be nice to have people to do stuff with once or twice a week. But it's hard to find other people that are willing at my age. Most are paired off. And I'm not a fan of hanging out with couples (as a single man) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Women want more sex while in relationships and men want more sex when not in relationshipsThey wouldn't always tell me directly alone. It was usually mentioned in groups and I was commonly the only guy in the room with them. I worked in the kitchen and when we served, lots of stuff was said. A lot of talks happened in break areas as well. And I was well liked and was cool with these women, so they would be comfortable saying those things in front of me. And being there for almost 15 years, I heard a lot of stuff from different women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 10:38 PM |
| 7 | Women want more sex while in relationships and men want more sex when not in relationshipsQuite a few. I used to work at a facility that had primarily women employees. And most would complain about not liking having sex with their husbands (if they were married for a few years). I rarely heard women complain about their man not wanting it. Very rarely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 09:45 PM |
| 8 | Women want more sex while in relationships and men want more sex when not in relationshipsNah, it's pretty much the majority. There may be some couples out there where the woman is hornier. Almost all married men that I was close to mentioned that their wives rarely put out after a couple years. And once kids come, forget it. Porn becomes the new lay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexDifficult to say. I say this because everyone is so different and we all have different wants and needs. And our wants and needs vary so much. We also all have different levels of tolerances when it comes to getting and even keeping what we want. When it comes to me, I will say that my life is a lot more peaceful than it was. I spent so much time and energy on the pursuit of love. But all I have now are the memories of it all. And all of them ended up flopping for one reason or another but usual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 07:49 PM |
| 8 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexThe problem is, single men are capable of living such a minimalist lifestyle that they see zero reason to waste their precious time of solitude and silence on suing their employer for promoting the most married worker over the most capable one. Yeah, this is true. A lot of single men (around 30+) who are established can do extremely well with even a slightly lower than average income. Women on the other hand have far more expensive tastes and wants. Of course there are exceptions in both groups.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexThe only way sex robots will rival human women is if they are virtually indistinguishable from the real thing. They would have to move, emote, speak and look/feel like the real thing. But I highly doubt we will even see this type of thing in our lifetime. I'm not sure that it is something that will ever happen. At least in our lifetime, we will just get "realistic" looking robots that are impressive to look at. But even then, the best of the best of what we will have in the next century will not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?I meant you were lucky that you realized how things are at a young age. As much as it must of hurt, it saved you from years, even decades of living in the dark and getting played. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?Lucky you, brother. It didn't really hit me until much later. I first thought (and was told) that they were all the "wrong women". But then I began to realize, no, this is just what women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?It’s the women who sleep with other dudes all the time, immediately, and then say “I want to wait because I actually like you” that are a different story. I wasted so much time, energy and money on believing that lie with many women when I was younger. Only to find out that they would let loose on other men with minimal effort. Sometimes even when we were still "seeing each other". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?Was it worth the wait? Despite not working out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:44 PM |
| 3 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menSame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenYeah exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenSometimes the “cock block “friend is hot. Yup. One time I started talking to a girl at a bar and her cockblock friend came up and said, "she's not interested!". And I looked at her and said, "Goddamn, I never saw a cockblock that looked like you." She laughed and we actually all ended up kicking it together the rest of the night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenif any “fat cockblocker friend” is telling you her girl is not interested it’s cuz the hot one sent up the “get me the fuck out of here” signal Not always. I have had encounters with the "cockblocker friend" and still managed to date/hookup with the girl I was talking to. I remember even being at a restaurant bar and I was talking to a girl (she was there with friends). And she invited me to join them to a kickback they were headed to. She even offered to drive me there because I was riding with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenYeah. Fortunately I'm a little too good at reading social cues and mannerisms so whenever I was talking to a girl, when she signaled her designated cockblock to come, I would immediately say, "it was nice meeting you" before the friend would make her move to boot me. However, unfortunately there are those women that designated themselves as the cockblock. My ex had that typical overweight and bitter bestie that would sometimes hang out with us. Even though we were in a LTR, that friend would sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:59 PM |
| 3 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitI disagree. Her confession to the fiancé would have ended things for sure (if the fiance is smart). But I think it would have been better for both of them. Because it was unfair for him to have to go for so many years holding off on sex with her. And meanwhile she not only cheated on him, but lost her virginity in the riskiest and freakiest way possible. The fact that she did this implies that she was in the wrong relationship and maybe even wrong social environment. She obviously has a strong r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 06:42 PM |
| 10 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitI'm not sure if you are old enough to remember, but there was a radio show called "Loveline" with Dr. Drew back in the day. And I remember one caller that really impacted my young mind. So there was a girl that called for advice. She had just turned 21 and grew up in a very Christian family. I think she lived in a small town in the Midwest. But I remember she had a very polite way of speaking, would go "oh my goodness" and all that. Anyway, she had a fiancé who she met when they were teens. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 06:14 PM |
| 7 | If a girl likes you, she's more likely to make you waitThen they marry you but never forget chad so they are never happy, they rather die alone than loving an average men. This is one of those dark realities that is just now coming to light among men these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging.Women definitely do pump/dump men, with women willing to consider a FWB relationship being more likely to do so. Oh yeah. Even when I was in college almost 15 years ago this was common. Interestingly, whenever I would bring this up, people were always quick to dismiss it and/or try to oppose that it is a real thing. But in real life I knew a ton of guys that got used by women for short term sex. Then the women would get upset or even laugh behind their backs when the guys actually caught feeling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 11:39 PM |
| – | Women Control Sexual (Not Relationship) Market At All AgesYeah, I was gonna say... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Are Woman in America are different?100%. Very well put. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Are forever girlfriends another category of women?The rest of my post goes into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Are forever girlfriends another category of women?This is the answer. I think that part of the problem is that there is too sharp of a disparity when it comes to the market value of men and women. Meaning that women were always the gatekeepers of sex and men were the gatekeepers of relationships. The thing is, is that when it comes to the dating market, the pendulum has swung way too far to one side. And now we live in an era where women are not only the gatekeepers to sex but they also hold the keys to relationships as well. And men are now na… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:13 PM |
| – | Do woman shame men more for their preferences?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherOh yes. I remember in high school and college, I was always into the more mousy bookworm girls. The ones "didn't curse" or participate in frat/sorority type parties and all that. They were the normal looking and were either very skinny or a bit "curvy" like OP mentioned. Now I am not a great looking dude. I am 5'6 and always struggled with my weight but never got OBESE fat. I also was always very well liked by my peers and others. And even in those days, I knew better than to try to approach the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 05:20 PM |
| 8 | If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game?Funny. Imagine a world where men were the ones who had trouble finishing. After 20-30 minutes of doing everything she could to get him off he finally says, can I just get my toy? I'm a guy. This literally happened with two girls on two separate occasions. They tried to finish me off. I didn't ask for a toy but I was just like, "I'm good". Both looked at me with a bewildered look and both started crying. At the time it confused me. But now looking back as an older guy, I realized that women aren'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?Oh yeah. The whole gourmet "foodie" spots are insanely expensive. In my neck of the woods (Southern Cali), like anywhere else, there has been an explosion of venues of little food spots/breweries. And don't get me wrong, they are a lot of fun and I've tried some amazing things. But the prices, Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?Me Too definitely had an impact on gender relations. But I think as far as gatherings being less common, it's a combination of things. From the timeline you laid out, I'm guessing you are an older millennial like myself. That said, we are older and most people in our age range are partnered up which means less kickbacks, parties and outings (unless you are well off). Also, COVID was a huge game changer as far as social gatherings. The virus itself is not really a thing to be feared any longer, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:59 PM |
| 35 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?I went to out and bought a regular combo meal and added chicken tenders and the bill was $21.50. AT A FAST FOOD RESTAURANT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:44 PM |
| – | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.We never discussed it and I avoided the subject because I was 19 and didn't want to disrespect the mom. Years later, I did hear that she had an interest in dating me but it never went passed friendship. To be clear, I wasn't particularly interested in dating her at the time, it was more a platonic thing on my end. The mom probably didn't realize this and assumed I was after her daughter so she literally pulled me to the side and forbade me from dating her daughter (she said it in the politest wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.Yeah. When I was in college, some old family friends of mine had a daughter that briefly dated my 6'2 and good looking friend. They broke it off because of personal differences. Then one day (quite a while after they had broken up), I take this girl out for coffee and I remember her mom went up to me and said, "she isn't for you, she is for ***(my friend that she once dated). I remember thinking, damn, this woman (the girl's mom) knew me since childhood and even my family for many years. And not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 01:54 AM |
| 23 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.That's not his point. He is giving a hypothetical flipping of the script of what is happening now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 01:27 AM |
| 9 | If men were less horny, what would happen?I'm not sure about that. I think the male libido is far too strong for that industry to collapse. It may just keep evolving into more interactive mediums. Otherwise what does the pendulum swinging the other way look like to you? I remember there was an expensive sex toy called Real Touch that I read about over 10 years ago. It was basically an advanced fleshlight that would mimic what was happening in a porn movie. It had heaters, would discharge lube and had motors to simulate what was happenin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 09:04 PM |
| 3 | If men were less horny, what would happen?I agree with that for sure. I don't disagree with your overall observation. I just don't believe that most men have the discipline or even foundation to place higher value on themselves. Men need to learn that no woman is worth their dignity. Even if a man is objectively unattractive or not desired, I believe it's best to stay single indefinitely, rather than settle with a woman who will treat him poorly. And yes, the whole Onlyfans/influencer stuff has gotten out of hand. I cant go more than a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:45 PM |
| 6 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Smoking isn't the same as having a natural desire to hunt for a mate because of hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. It's a habit that people make the choice to pick up and then have to unlearn. Sure we can control our impulses by not attempting to fuck every attractive woman that walks by. But there is no way in hell we can stop ourselves from finding alternative methods of satisfying our sexual impulses for an entire lifetime. People that attempt this more often than not end up with di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:07 PM |
| 65 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Men should stop simping. This is the answer. But unfortunately most can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?Just curious. There are men that are happily single by keeping busy and doing cool things. And I've seem old married men that have regret in their eyes as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?But are they sad men? Or does it just appear sad looking at it from the outside? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:22 PM |
| 15 | whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks?I did that for most of my 20's. It gets exhausting. If you aren't a natural born alpha/douchebag/Type A type, you will begin to show cracks. And women have a natural tendency to size their partner up throughout their time in relationships (TRP calls this "shit testing" and I always called it P*ssy Pass Renewal inspections). So when they see a bit of weakness they will tend to zone in on it and slowly begin to throw more shade in increments until you reveal that you are not the dude she had the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?What do you mean exactly? Are you saying that men who remain single for life are miserable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The perception that men are inherently (or most likely to be) net drains on women's lives drives more men to RedPill/Blackpill ideologiesYeah. I think that the way society has evolved is very detrimental to the social lives of adults nowadays. We are just too damn busy and the bills keep coming out of nowhere. Most people are stuck in this never ending cycle and now both men AND women are in this assembly line lifestyle. So, once you reach a certain age (post 30ish) having a couple of hours of free time feels better when spent on the couch with a drink to unwind. We have more responsibilities and our energy levels are not the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:25 PM |
| 4 | The rise of hypersexualized girls and f*ckboysThis is true to a point. A former co-worker of mine had a pretty sizeable amount of money in his savings. He decided to move to the Philippines and bought some land by the beach and built a nice house (all for under $100k). He still had plenty left over to live comfortably for the next several decades. He met a woman there that was in her early 20's (he was about 45 at the time) and he was happy as could be. She was very mild mannered, polite, and even hospitable to him (according to what I hear… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/23 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?Gal Gadot's face on Christina Hendricks' body would be perfection in human form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Men, do you genuinely like/liked your female partner?I love how the replies that share the dark realities are the ones getting downvoted the most. But your response is spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Men, do you genuinely like/liked your female partner?men are more likely to be with women even if they dislike them, if that implies some status and sex, but women only accept this arrangement because they also get something from it (resources, status, family, etc.) Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Men, do you genuinely like/liked your female partner?I did "like" my female partners but only "really liked" one and even she grew sour towards the end. In my experience, most women are impossible to keep content in partnerships. It always starts off great but then the mind games, lies, mood shifts and testiness slowly breaks it all down. And of course the blame is always mine according to them despite never cheating, never being verbally/physically abusive, being overall even tempered and always listening and trying to be positive. Unfortunately … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?If you're a man doing this, then yes. 100% But when a woman does this, to them, it's the man's fault for assuming she wanted something more. And if the man in question gets upset, he is just a misogynist that wants to control her. I was in both situations multiple times. And I was considered the asshole every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 09:00 PM |
| – | Men need women more than women need men.Virtually every study that assess dual vs single parent households indicates that children in single parent households have worse outcomes; lower socioeconomic status, higher incidence of mental illness, increased rate of crime ect... Thank you for saying this. The fact that single mother households are so glorified and even encouraged is downright monstrous. And this is coming from someone who was raised by a single mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:35 PM |
| – | Men need women more than women need men.My 26 year old daughter has done just that. A few of her friends have too. They are doing this because of the way they have been treated by men. Women do still want loving relationships, but that is becoming harder for them to find. They are at that age where women prioritize looks/social popularity above everything else. And they are being treated poorly because they are targeting men that other women want. There are plenty of great guys out there that would treat them well. They just don't wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:33 PM |
| – | Men need women more than women need men.When shit hits the fan and society collapses, like in Venezuela, the blue-haired man-haters with their "men are pigs" banners disappear rapidly. Venezuela is a very good example. After the chaos began, many of the (left leaning/pro-Chavez) female college students bounced to Miami, hit the gym and went on the prowl for sugar daddies. I have family in the city and they told me all kinds of stories about Venezuelan women there. And many were highly educated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:07 PM |
| – | Men need women more than women need men.Yeah. I'm a welder by trade. The claim that OP made about men not allowing women to work in these fields is bullshit. In the places I have worked, women candidates were given a fair shot for job openings. The thing is, almost all of them quit within a year, would call off often or try to rub elbows with he higher ups to transfer to the office jobs. It's not that women aren't allowed to work the heavy/dangerous jobs. They simply don't want to. The world will ALWAYS need men to keep the lights on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:58 PM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of younger men (mid 20's) for older women (30's 40's)?I remember I shared this exact same opinion on this sub about a year ago and I got a ton of angry responses lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 09:33 PM |
| -1 | Honest opinion about porn, sex, and relationships.Whenever I was in a relationship, I did watch porn on my own to get the edge off for sure. I never dated a girl who admitted to watching porn on the regular, so I don't really know how I would feel about it. It's different because I'm a guy and being a guy, I do want sex every day and multiple times. And whenever I was in a relationship, it was usually once or twice a week. So the girl in question was the one rationing the sex. So, if she is the one that's rationing the sex yet watching porn on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version)So maybe, just maybe, women are extremely horny just not for the guys you think they should be (the nice guys, rule followers, who try to buy their love with their ability to provide). Yeah pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 07:26 PM |
| 11 | Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version)Now, if women disliked fucking why would men feel the need to go through so much trouble to control their sexuality? Because women have different strategies when it comes to their sexuality. They are far more selective than males and tend to sleep with men of the highest value available to them. This caused a large portion of men to be sexless which in itself becomes problematic. It was not uncommon for multiple women to share the same man in our primordial days. And this created unstable and vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill is a Cult that is brainwashing young men to be misogynist.Most women don't reject men because of their height and income. You speak as if there's women crying all over the internet throwing around all this shallow rhetoric like Red pillers. It's not remotely to the same extent. Oof. This one isn't true at all. I would replace "most" with "some". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?There really is no incentive in most cases. Some couples do operate very well together and are able to keep a relatively healthy sex life until old age. But from what I have observed and learned; it is not very common. My best friend and his two brothers all got married within a period of about three years. They are almost at their first decade of marriage. And it was interesting to see the progression. All of them had at least one kid and that was usually where their vibe changed. They were all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameMen did create it as a standard as they realised it advantaged them Not really. It didn't give men an advantage at all. It caused higher costs of living and consequently, social tension between genders that are just now starting to become noticed by most. In America, once women began entering the workforce in droves during the 70's, we saw a sharp spike in real estate prices. Now we have an economy where in order to buy a home, two incomes are almost always required unless you are in the top 20%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.This is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Women's failed relationships and dating abhorrent men proves women's "intuition" is bullshitwomen usually prefer aggressive men I think this is generally true. But I also think that like most things, it falls on a spectrum. Women like different types of aggression based on their own psyche and overall environment. So if a woman comes from a highly unstable and dysfunctional environment, there is a strong chance that she won't want to partner with a man that is not problematic. At least for the long haul. Is she does, she will probably destroy the relationship herself. And the sad thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:32 PM |
| 5 | AF/BB is definitely a mythI can confirm this. I had a friend in college that was a true 6'5. Not crazy handsome but not bad looking. And he was in decent shape. But he was very autistic socially. He wasn't creepy but he just had a very delayed and kind robotic pace when speaking and was bad with social queues. But he would go out on weekends to drink. And the combination of the right setting and right amount of alcohol to dim his awkwardness got him laid fairly frequently. I witnessed women going up to him and "bumping i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Women's failed relationships and dating abhorrent men proves women's "intuition" is bullshitOh yeah. No doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:21 PM |
| 9 | Women's failed relationships and dating abhorrent men proves women's "intuition" is bullshitYeah this is true. A few years ago I was seeing a girl that was in an abusive/dysfunctional relationship for many years. She also had a pretty hectic family life as well. When she talked about her ex, he sounded like a monster. Needless to say, she decided to "take it slow" with me and also talked about her intuition and how her life made her stronger. It turned out after a couple months of dating, she began to show her other side. She became progressively more rude, very testy and flat out disr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Women's failed relationships and dating abhorrent men proves women's "intuition" is bullshitJeffrey Dahmer is an extreme case and most of those women were probably nutty. But on that note, it is disturbing. Disturbing because there were many women that found him and his counterparts appealing. And disturbing because when you think about it, Jeffrey Dahmer generated far more sexual opportunities for himself than another man who lives a simple, boring but functional life will ever have. What does that say about humanity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most Men Have Abhorrent GameWell, some men aren't so insecure that they can handle a woman fucking other men while having the opportunity to fuck other women. Hence, "casual relationship." It's not insecurity. Most men don't desire women who have other dicks in their mouths when "casually dating". Sorry, just the way it is. The whole "casual dating" thing is just another tactic that women use knowing that they are the ones doing the most recreational fucking while at the same time having a guy to lean on. I mean to each th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?Honestly looking back and observing women and how they choose men, it's complex at best. They can't even really articulate their choices with accuracy in most cases. But as far as the instant "fuck yes" reaction that you are talking about. I think those guys just"got it". It is usually based on looks. But sometimes it is their charisma or vibe that they have (some are ok dudes and some are sociopaths). A lot of people will say that this is a learned skill. And it can be in some cases, but usuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:07 PM |
| 4 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Exactly. The dude I'm talking about is in his mid 30's and only had one girlfriend that I am aware of many years ago. But he does go out on weekends to drink and he does get laid several times a year. He usually never sees them again. But occasionally some will hit him up at a later date to "come over" when they are drunk. His looks at least get him laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | The widespread research declaring that women are happier single has long been retracted and refuted by experts as well as the original researcher.You also have to keep in mind that women more often than not tend to choose poor partners in their younger years. They tend to go for looks and/or unpredictability in the form of CHADS, BROS or other types of "bad boy". They become addicted to these types, then realize it is unsustainable after a decade or two. Then when they try to date again, they do find good men. But it's akin to an alcoholic trying to learn to like non-alcoholic beverages. Sure, some will be "ok with it" because it scratche… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:54 PM |
| 8 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"lol. Sorry, I know you tried to pull a clever. But there is no reason for me to "make up" anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:28 PM |
| 4 | The widespread research declaring that women are happier single has long been retracted and refuted by experts as well as the original researcher.Fuck happiness. You know who is happy? A heroin addict in a dark room with an 8 ball of fet. You know who is fulfilled? My ex boss who worked 100+ hour weeks to semi-retire at 35, move down to Florida, and open his own scuba school. Super based. This is the type of message that society should be teaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:10 PM |
| 19 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Yeah. I mean there are exceptions. But I know a guy that is 6'5 and pretty socially autistic. He struggles with finding an actual girlfriend because of it. However, whenever he is in the right setting and has the right amount of alcohol to kind of dim his awkwardness, he does get laid fairly easily. Women tend to "bump" into him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Should sleeping with others in the talking phase of a relationship be seen as a dealbreaker? why or why not?Not just killed it. Completely deleted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:12 AM |
| 18 | Should sleeping with others in the talking phase of a relationship be seen as a dealbreaker? why or why not?This is one of those things that initially disappointed me when I began dating as a man. Almost all women that I have dated were very quiet about talking and sleeping with other guys in their "vetting" phase. And they almost always had multiple men in rotation, even for sex. Yet most of them were not keen on the idea of me seeing other people. And I never really did. I would just imply it just to see their reaction, and it was always negative. Whenever I liked a girl, it was usually just her tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.I second this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | This is how women perceive RP pick up techniquesI imagine you’d have to use it on a really insecure Not really. Like I said, it's not meant to make a girl feel bad. It's meant to be playful but indirect at the same time. Players (I'm not claiming to be one) are masters at it. But usually there is some charm and "grooming" that is already taking place on the dude's part as well. So if a guy (assuming he is attractive to her) makes an ambiguously cheeky comment about a girl's top (for example), if he is not a social retard, it will make her fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | This is how women perceive RP pick up techniquesYeah, it sounds like someone who was already socially uncalibrated/autistic and dove into the red pill in an attempt to turn the tides of his dating life. He read all of the information, learned things like negging (which is very effective but takes a sort of finesse to pull off and not meant to make the girl feel bad). He then took everything too literal and matter of fact. And now he is not only awkward but abrasive and the overall results are disastrous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men?Not quite experience, but observation. I know that I'm not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:29 AM |
| 12 | Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men?That also depends. I agree that men in more WASP type areas are more likely to marry young. But if you are somehow "different", you will be a downlow outcast and women will not want to date you. And parents will not like you talking to their daughters. For example, if everyone in your town is tall and white, but you somehow got your great grandma's short and fugly genes. You will be lower on the on the totem poll as far as dating and even social circles. And the people will just shrug it off and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 11:31 PM |
| 27 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.I'm 37 and average looking. A bit chubby but not huge. I have a nice beard and dress well so that kind of saves me. And I do notice when I am out at events or for drinks and such, women are far more approachable (in my age range) and easier to flirt with then when I was in my 20's. But they are still just as flakey. And they are far more jaded. They also tend to ask what I do for a living very early in the conversation (sometimes before we formally introduce ourselves to each other). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?Being subbed to the right subreddits, all one sees is fulfilling conversations. You get numb to it after 5 years. Would-be fulfilling conversations are now plain plain plain, put me to sleep, bla bla bla. Maybe you feel a similar when you say "conversations are far less interesting for the most part". This is interesting. I never thought about this. But it could very well be a factor in my case. And it is true that we tend to use the internet to zero in on the life topics that interest us. And w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?Definitely a combination of different factors. Like I mentioned earlier, I had many friends throughout the years but very few were quality friends. I just had more patience for people's personality flaws. I also always kind of felt that the effort was usually put in by me and the others would kind of just wait to be invited but would rarely reach out themselves. There were exceptions but very few. Plus, the time being alone during the pandemic really forced me to reflect on a lot. And it made me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleJust out of curiosity, have you been celibate all of this time? I only ask this because I'm semi-retired from dating at 37 years old. I do love being by myself, but I still have strong urges for intimacy which makes it harder. But then again, I am a guy so it may be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?In my experience, not all, but most men are shit at maintaining friendships. I am a 37 year old male and single. And for as far back as I remember, I always emphasized the importance of friendships. And I have had many friends come and go throughout the years. People used to say that I was the "connective tissue" of groups. Because many friendships began through me. Even whenever I was dating someone, I always found time for my friends. And that is where I was different from most other guys. Men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 07:05 PM |
| 6 | Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spotNo doubt. Women don't need men because of the current conditions that technology and innovation have established. But men are still the life oil of society that keep everything running for the comforts that women are now enjoying on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 06:31 PM |
| 34 | Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spotWomen dehumanize men all the time. I openly hear them just trashing men like we are incompetent morons that aren't needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 05:44 PM |
| 3 | If there are more single men than single women, then women would rather be a side piece than date a man in their own leagueYeah but the problem is today, women's version of "punching above one's weight" is hooking up with hot but otherwise shitty men. They may end up with pretty looking kids (although not guaranteed). But the child will grow up in a shitty environment/broken home, resulting in mental health issues and they will probably be a burden to society. But hey, it was for the sake of genetics, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | If there are more single men than single women, then women would rather be a side piece than date a man in their own leagueI used to work at a retirement home for about 15 years. I would say that about 75% of the employees were women. Their age range was about 18-50's but most were in their early to mid 20's. All I can say, I discovered the whole 80/20 rule long before it was ever talked about. There were few male employees, and most were just average Joe's. Some were single and some had partners. It was funny because the single ones only occasionally had a shot with the women there. But every now and then a "new gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 06:31 PM |
| 5 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?It's not really going to do much as far as putting a halt to the changes that are happening in the dating market. Women are going to keep moving up the social ladder, making more money and become pickier as far as their hypergamy. I think men and women will be fucked for different reasons down the line. Men will experience chronic loneliness due to being unwanted. And women will be depressed for having a legion of options but not desiring any that are available for the long haul. As far as women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | This sub focuses too much on how undateable the average man is, which is true, but have y’all honestly looked at just how undateable the average woman is…?I agree. However women nowadays tend to have more inherent value which leads to their aloofness and poor dating decisions. Even if they don't find a "high value" guy in their 20's, they are still showered with attention in other forms. Women really have no real need to prove themselves or work very hard to have any social or sexual relevance (contrary to what they say). Just the other day, I saw a late 30's (and overweight) single mom that I know post a picture of her bruised toe on Facebook. Sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Curious, who here was reading red pill content pre 2018?the other thing that changed is you got older How is that a factor? I'm only in my mid 30s and the new neighbors in my neighborhood are around the same age. I could see if I was a weird creep that stared at everyone, people would be put off. But I'll literally hear footsteps, and turn my head in reaction and most women will immediately face the other way. Some even live a couple of houses down so it's not like I won't run into them all the time lol. Before, people would say hello or give a simpl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:04 AM |
| 11 | Curious, who here was reading red pill content pre 2018?I'm not too sure about that. One thing I have noticed as of late is that women in general (at least in my area) are open misandrists. They have a sort of resentment and are fearful of men (unless they are good looking, of course). Approaching them in public will most likely lead to an awkward encounter. I even noticed on my street, whenever I am in the front yard washing my car, or doing work, sometimes my newer female neighbors will be walking by. And when I notice them, they will openly turn t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.Even if we did all of that, two ugly parents can have a hot kid and two hot parents can have an ugly kid. Genetics doesn't at all work the way you seem to think. Glad you said this. In my case, both of my parents were very physically attractive. And I am not at all. And I remember once being in church and seeing a Mexican family walk in. The married couple were in their late 40's/early 50's. The man was an objectively ugly man. He was very short (around 5'3) and had a stubby body type. The wife … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?Because it is dangerous and terrifying. Unless the guy is hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Is romance dead?making it look like you aren't that interested is the new romance Well said. This is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?I'm 37. I'd seriously date a someone around 28-38. Below that is likely too immature and above is a bit old but I'd be flexible if she's a cool person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:21 PM |
| 7 | Are the gender dynamics/dating nowadays as bad as this sub makes it seem?I knew most of these men. And no, most of their complaints were not justified. They were childish and selfish. Let's not pretend they are for the sake of your argument. It's also a little disturbing that you consider "good men" to be a meaningless expression. Also I never mentioned that women started doing this after feminism. That is your own projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 08:51 AM |
| 15 | Are the gender dynamics/dating nowadays as bad as this sub makes it seem?Yeah I agree. I worked at a retirement home for over 10 years and the employees/administrators were primarily women. Some of the things I would hear them say about their boyfriends/husbands horrified me. And most of them were with good men. They just had this weird need to criticize and have a degree of anger towards their S.O. for very stupid reasons. I'm a guy and have had many guy friends. And I can say that none of us ever spoke so harshly about our girlfriends/wives. Sure, we will complain … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most peopleIn many cases, yes, it's true. But when it comes to my family, it wasn't until my generation that we saw single moms. The grandmothers of my family (both sides) were virgins until they married. My mom and her sisters were also pretty celibate, but they married in their early 20's. But when it comes to my cousins, they were wild since they were in high school. Some are pushing 30 and they still act like they are 21. The men on the other hand are taking life more serious yet most are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 04:51 PM |
| 8 | Guys who are red pill on here, would you be red pill if you were attractive and could get any woman you wanted?Probably not. I say this because I'm not an objectively attractive man and my early in life struggles revealed a lot to me regarding how women think and operate when choosing men. The whole "it's the heart that matters", "be yourself", "looks don't matter much" were beliefs that I discovered were mostly false the hard way (sometimes even harshly). So I learned and improved. My best friend saw my struggles and when we would talk, he thought I was being narrow minded and that none of my observatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Who gets men's best side: the Madonna or the Whore?Depends. An attractive Madonna is probably the most ideal. An unattractive Madonna will have options but may have to settle for a guy in her looks range. The attractive whore is your typical party girl/sugar baby. She will find boyfriends (even husbands) and will break many hearts and have her heart broken many times. And she will use her looks as leverage for moving up in life (results depending on her intelligence level). Very chaotic life. But the unattractive whore is probably the saddest of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Women are happiest single, therefore their dating issues are irrelevantI don't agree that the whole going gay thing is a great solution for women. I know some women who tried this, and it was almost always a trainwreck. And they ultimately always ran back to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Are we in a Gender Cold War?The strife I see between men and women in the west gives me more understanding of draconian rule In parts of the middle east like Afghanistan...maybe they knew something we don't about female nature. Well there is a strong argument to be made that many religions of the world had strict rules for women due to this. We have to remember that there is a great deal of data that shows that in our primordial days, most human males did not reproduce. While most women did reproduce. You can argue that ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: why don’t you prefer relationships?So the current framing of relationship sex is a very bad deal for most men that have some self respect but aren't hot enough for women to be literally asking for it and get a hook up. This is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:24 AM |
| 12 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?No women are not getting with the 'drug dealer'. They usually try at least once to establish a relationship with a man and have kids with him, only to be left with all of the house-work on top of child-raising AND holding down a career while the man acts like it's normal for him to only contribute his paycheck. Men keep throwing this around because it's what is happening. We all know that drug dealers tend to attract far more women than the average Joe. But drug dealers are more extreme cases, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | It is kinda arrogant how many women openly say they know men very well, and yet they keep falling for bad relationshipsSome of the most intelligent, confident and self-assured women I have known have fallen for some of the most toxic, sociopathic and shitty men I have known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 05:40 PM |
| 64 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?Social and economic conditions have caused the current dating dynamics. But in reality, we are beginning to see how human males and females really operate when it comes to intersexual dynamics. For starters, women have become far more liberated and are now outpacing men in college campuses. And they are even out earning men in the workforce in some cases (contrary to popular belief). Also, traditional gender roles have been systematically broken down for many political reasons. All of this has g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 05:15 PM |
| 2 | The black/red pill is leading men the wrong way.For sure, and it always has been. But things are changing rapidly. And men are frustrated and confused due to misinformation and social conditioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:50 PM |
| 2 | The black/red pill is leading men the wrong way.Red Pill recognizes that we can't fight feminism and the stranglehold it has over the shaping of the west, and decided it's better to recognize the decline and learn how to play within the rules of the game rather than a futile attempt to change the rules. This is the answer. There is a misconception of what the red pill community is. It's not about changing society. It's about recognizing how society currently is and getting the best results that we possibly can in the current climate. OP even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 10:20 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most peopleDominant women generally don't do so hot while in relationships. These are the "boss b*tches" that may have a good time when they are young and pretty. But they will most likely be alone later in life, especially nowadays, because there is a chance that she will be self-sufficient. Also, most healthy minded men will not be attracted to a domineering older woman. Women (emancipated or not) generally don't respect submissive men. So, if they do pair up with someone that is submissive, it's almost … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 08:38 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most peopleIs this how you see your mother, sister, cousins, grandmothers etc...? Mothers and grandmothers? No, as someone else said, they weren't twerking online, filming themselves fucking their boyfriend/fuckbuddy, taking a million pictures of themselves fishing for likes. My cousins? Yes. I love them, but they are pretty trashy. They are in their late 20's, some are single moms and they still post cleavage pics, pics/videos featuring their asses and their new weed pipes. Very promiscuous as well. But i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | People who never got enough pats or attention as a kid from their parents tend to be more likely to cheat and be attention-seeking as adults.That's pretty sad. My parents loved each other very much and worked well together. And almost all of my relatives have similar dynamics. I guess I'm in the minority because many other families that I see are pretty bad. And all of my ex girlfriends came from less than ideal households and boy did it show every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 07:30 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Women can't be upset at some men telling them to "choose better" if they keep perpetuating the notion of a "Woman's Intuition."I mean men that are chronically single for many months to years at a time despite trying to find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:44 PM |
| 24 | CMV: Women can't be upset at some men telling them to "choose better" if they keep perpetuating the notion of a "Woman's Intuition."Women online say all the time that, if a man is struggling to date, he must be toxic or display toxic/insecure behaviors that women can automatically sniff out. I can show tons of proof of that too. I agree. When a man is struggling to date, women have a tendency to subconsciously demonize him or consider him someone that is not to be trusted. Some women will even go further and use his desperation to exploit him in some form. There are some men that are chronically single due to severe personal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:06 PM |
| 13 | This entire subLots of people are born exceptionally ugly and have little to no sex throughout their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Question for conservative men: Would you ever raise another man's child?That's awesome. I'm glad it worked out for you. However, based on my own encounters with this arrangement, cases like yours are pretty rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 07:25 PM |
| 10 | Question for conservative men: Would you ever raise another man's child?I'm conservative leaning but mostly moderate in my political beliefs. As far as your question, I personally would never date a woman with a child. I would definitely raise the child of a family member in the event of their death(s). But bringing in another person into your life is hard enough and if they have a kid(s) it makes it far more complicated. I'm 37 years old and I have seen many men (friends and family) enter relationships with single mothers. I can tell you that their lives are mostly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Yeah I agree. When I was in my early 20's, the girls were wild as hell either openly or on the downlow. The truly decent ones were taken in their late teens and married in their early 20's. I decided to wait until they "matured". I'm 37 now, and they are still horrible. Probably worse, because they tend to have far more skeletons in their closets and they are now getting bitter with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Are relationships becoming more openly transactional?LMAO. I'm stealing this. Good one :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Do you think some women are against sex work because it takes away a lot of their power over men?Prostitution is very much a transactional act. They are as transactional as most romantic/sexual relationships are in some form. As a man: If you are hot, your looks are the currency to get sex. If you have impeccable game and can give a woman the butterflies, that's the currency. If you have cash/status, that's the currency. Many men have none of those things and never will. In this day in age, prostitution is the answer for these men. And women are indifferent to this. However, if the higher v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Female erotic plasticityYeah this is pretty based. But I do agree that it is very much a wild card strategy for top-tier semen. I think female strategy is pretty similar across the board. But like most things it falls under a spectrum. Not all girls will eat out their female friends to get male attention. These types of girls are usually the more damaged and impulsive types. They are lower quality as far as partnerships and are unable to sustain healthier and stable relationships. Most would be horrible mothers as well… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 10:42 PM |
| 2 | It is disturbing how many young beautiful women are working minimum wage jobsI actually love it when I see a young, pretty girl working shitty, low paying jobs. It shows that despite their looks, they are willing to actually "work" for their money. So many, especially nowadays, will run to porn, Onlyfans, Instagram and other online "occupations" and live off their looks. Or they become status chasers and target high status men for a free ride in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleJobs in healthcare, social work and education have just as much value as jobs in male majority fields like construction, engineering and there are more women in male-dominated fields every day. Without the hard jobs that men do, women would have nothing as far as employment. Healthcare, Social Work/Education require infrastructure (actual buildings, power, water and constant maintenance). Shit, even the cars we drive and the roads that we use them on are built by us men. As far as your point of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleAll of those things are primarily produced by men. Think about it. -The phone/computer you are using: designed and built by men. -The place you are living in: designed and built by men. -The bed you sleep on: probably built/produced by a man. -The car you drive: designed and built by men -The road you take to use that car: paved by men -The glass you use to drink booze: produced by men -The booze itself: brewed by men -Farming equipment/machines: Designed and built by men Need I go on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 05:52 PM |
| 7 | If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life?100%. Women are generally pretty bad at acknowledging their flawed judgement when it comes to choosing men. I have had many discussions with many women over the years about "shitty men/exes". Every single time they ignored hard red flags. They were simply too attracted to these men and just went with it. Sure, men do this too but I've seen even highly intelligent women overlook some crazy shit from their "hot" partners then cry about it in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Are ugly people attracted to other ugly people?Well objectively ugly men tend to pursue ugly women because it's their best bet for pairing up with someone. Are there exceptions? Yes. But they are far and few between. Women on the other hand, (from my experience/observation) tend to shoot for higher in their search for partners. Just this morning I was buying coffee and saw a couple walk in. The guy was tall, in shape and relatively handsome in the face. But the girl was quite overweight, had broad shoulders and so so in the face. And they we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Are ugly people attracted to other ugly people?Pretty good analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | It is bizarre how much some women insist they do not need men, and it suggests some insecurityWomen don't "need" men anymore because men have built a society where they can thrive in on their own. So, they only "want" men that they deem fuckable. Men on the other hand do "need" women for our own psychological and physical needs. And we tend to obsess over their beauty during their youth. However, as we age, that tends to fade. And we no longer really "want" them because we realize that they are mostly a burden. Some men never realize this, resume their status quo living and harm themselv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | It is bizarre how much some women insist they do not need men, and it suggests some insecurityBroken seeks broken. True. But your context is very off. An accident caused him to enter financial hardship. That can easily happen to anyone, including you. Facing unfortunate financial circumstances doesn't mean that you now only have access to the "broken" people for dating. Being "broken" and broke are completely different things. But you already pushed him to the bottom of the barrel due to his financial circumstances. Considering the fact that you claim to be doing well, money should not p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | social status and looks are more important than confidenceYeah. And he definitely fits that bracket. It's funny because him and I are in our late 30's now. We still see each other once in a while. But when we were in our teens and early 20's, we always hung out together. And those were the most sexless years of my life. When he and I were in a room together, I was completely invisible. I learned then that women don't search for "guys", they find "the guy". And if "the guy" doesn't talk to them or take them seriously, they just wait for the next "guy". … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | social status and looks are more important than confidenceI do think that there are men that are objectively attractive that can bed women from different tribes/social groups. My best friend is like this. He is extremely good looking and the right amount of stoic yet charming. One day he can walk into a coffee shop and hook up with a poet/hipster chick. Then he can go to a hip hop club and hook up with a Latina chick from the hood. But in general, I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.Not to mention endless gaslighting by women and by the men who do have the right genetic traits This. 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 06:00 PM |
| 2 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?I'm sure you know this already, but women nowadays are pretty much covered. If they want to go to college and pursue a high paying career, it's there for them. If they want to be the single mom Wal-Mart worker, the state is more than happy to chip in. And finally, if she is already married and decides that she needs to find herself, the courts will make sure she gets paid handsomely. We all know now that women are generally not attracted to most men. But now we have apps. So, if they feel the de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:48 PM |
| 0 | It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them.If you live somewhere like Memphis for example, you would know there are absolutely sexless men lurking on every corner waiting to strike. Nope. Bullshit. I live in Bakersfield, CA. It's considered one of the most crime infested cities in the country. People do get attacked all the time out here. But almost all of the attacks in public or outdoors are robberies, drug-related or gang violence. The rapes that happen are almost always indoors and committed by people that the victims already know. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 11:12 PM |
| 0 | It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them.You're wrong in thinking that people like Elliot Rodger are being pushed into society like an assembly line. What he and others like him did was monstrous, any sane person can admit that. But again, you're talking about people with severe mental illness. Everyone has the right to defend themselves, sure. But you are making it out to be that sexless men are lurking in every corner salivating and ready to strike. In fact, women are the safest they have ever been in any point in history. You clearl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:42 PM |
| 3 | It feels like women are actively avoiding spaces where it's socially acceptable to approach them.Inceldom is on the rise for sure. But the vast majority of men that are sexless don't go around pepper spraying women. Especially in public. I have gone to bars on weekends for almost two decades and never witnessed a violent or sexual assault on a woman. Sure, guys will drink and hit on women, but when the woman rejects the men, they almost always walked away. In fact, I occasionally saw women actually hitting men knowing that the bar would come to her rescue if the guy hit back. The men never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Men in relationships, how would you feel if you and your SO were cited as an example of a "ugly/meh looking guy with a beautiful girl" couple?My last relationship was exactly what you described. I am a 5'6 male, a bit chubby and bald (shave my head). My ex was about 5'9, had a good figure and was pretty with a chill personality. All I can say is that while I adored her and enjoyed the relationship immensely, I learned that the world seemed to not approve. There were several times where she and I would go out and guys would notice us and butt in our conversations and actively challenge me to make me look bad. Some would even flat out h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 11:34 AM |
| 4 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!This is interesting. So you are saying that the newer clubs prevent men from approaching by design? I haven't been to an actual club in about 10 years, so I don't know how things are now. But I still go to bars, and they are basically the same. However, I do notice that millennials in their 30's are the "younger crowd" in bars now. I don't see a whole lot of Gen Z (adults in their 20's) in bars compared to when I was in my 20's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 12:05 AM |
| 3 | What do you believe is the solution to the imbalanced dating scene situation?He's a smart man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | How many of you here have actually questioned what you believe?The height issue in men is vastly overstated. If you’re some ordinary dude, or even above average looking but not Chad tier, no one cares if you’re 5’9” or 6 feet tall. I disagree. In my opinion, you are right in that 5'9 and above is a generally safe height as far as dating. But I'm 5'6 and yeah, it's a big no no when it comes to what women want (even the short girls). Some girls can be won over in other ways but the fatigue from playing on extra hard mode is a soul crushing road to take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | You cannot blame men (fully) for being very cynical about women these days.Often I find myself having the energy and desire to go out and meet a new woman. But then, five minutes later, I think to myself, "Naw. It isn't worth it". Yeah. My last relationship ended right before the pandemic began. I took a two year break until about six months ago. And yeah, they are mostly horrible. The level of arrogance, entitlement and inflated sense of value is almost comical. And I'm a 37 year old man that's been trying to meet "post-wall" women in their 30's. They are just as bad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Inner game q: how to stop getting discouraged that I'm not "that guy" who girls drool over?Hell yeah. Great response. I had a very similar story in my 20's. Did the solo thing for a while, had fun then started to get lucky. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/22 02:14 AM |
| 22 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?I am a huge fan of the general information that the red pill talks about regarding intersexual dynamics. A lot of the information that they share was observed by myself when I was young, clueless and sexless. And the information did help as far as my interactions with women for dating/sex. But one thing that I do disagree with is the whole MAXXING thing. Don't get me wrong, I don't disagree that every man should be the best that they can be. That is a given for anyone. But many on TRP really don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | If you were to live with a boyfriend or husband who earns significantly more than you, how would you feel about splitting living expenses 50/50?Congrats, buying a home alone is a pretty impressive accomplishment! Thank you! As far as cohabitation. It varies from state to state and region to region. One of the worst ones that I heard about was from a family friend of mine. He and his wife have been living in a beautiful home that was inherited by the wife's parents who had passed on. The wife's brother was living in another state. And he had been living with a woman for about fifteen years and I guess they were both sharing the rent. Wel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | If you were to live with a boyfriend or husband who earns significantly more than you, how would you feel about splitting living expenses 50/50?I just bought a home and live alone (male btw). But if a significant other ever lives with me, I would probably still pay the mortgage/utilities alone. And my significant other would be the one to pay for food and supplies. Then entertainment/going out would be split between us (sometimes I pay, sometimes she pays). Unfortunately, my cousin is a divorce attorney and I know too much. Therefore, I would never let anyone have any claim on the house I worked so hard to purchase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Does hypergamy differ per continent?TRP goes off the rails on hypergamy. How though? You basically laid it out as TRP generally describes it. Many have even talked about the "why" in great detail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The principles of the RP make sense to me, but the content creators/community are ruining everythingI agree with you when you say that abortion truly is killing children. It's horrific that people really cannot see it that way. But that said, I do not think that abortion should be outlawed. I really believe that it is in the unborn child's interests to not be born from these types of folks. There are tons of women out there (many on this sub) with mental health issues, come from broken families and are heavily indoctrinated. They have no business reproducing. Let them live their childless and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to?I agree. Men tend to have that reasoning more often. Women are usually on their way out already when they start fucking around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | How much time before a girl is considered “making the guy wait” for sex?I see what you're saying. But the fact of the matter is that men and women are very different. Men are naturally far more suspicious of their partner's past due to our provisioning instincts. It's not simply just an insecurity. Saying it's an insecurity is just a shaming tactic. I have dated women that slept with me within three(ish) dates and some that made me wait. The ones that made me wait almost always had wild pasts but for one reason or another designated me as the "provider" type. I'm gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 04:12 PM |
| 4 | If you want women to give more nice guys a chance, won’t that get expensive for women who split the bill?Right. But the problem is that too many women will go on dates with men already knowing that there is a high likelihood that they will reject them. Men ask women out on dates because we either want a girlfriend/relationship or we simply want to fuck. Women go on dates for the same reasons as above, but A TON also do it for attention, validation, free meal, etc. (despite knowing the guys' intentions). Many women grossly overvalue themselves and have this "I have a ton of options, so my time will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men shouldn’t be procreating and creating the next generation, it’s evolution working as intendedI think the problem in the dating scene is that there is so much emphasis on looks as the definition of genetic supremacy. I have a friend that is your typical CHAD. He is over 6ft, he has a strong jaw, a naturally lean body and the women salivate over him. Well, he has severe mental illness, he is of average intelligence and garbage work ethic. And he is addicted to drugs. He got married to a hot girl at a young age and had two kids. She left him and now years later, he is on disability (for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappinessDude, she lost any credibility of being intelligent by implying you might be gay. Don't waste your energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 09:26 PM |
| 7 | People who "enjoy the decline" need to consider taking responsibility for their sex lives not blindly follow the culture and women they say they despiseWeren't the 60s and 70s wild? Hookup culture is not news to anybody in my age range and hasn't been for as long as I can remember myself, just like the internet, so I believe it to be another excuse. So I wasn't alive in those decades (I was born in the 80's) but from what I was told, they weren't as wild as they are made out to be. Hookup culture was just budding so whenever it happened it was sensationalized due to how shocking it was. Sure a lot of young people at the time participated, but i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:37 AM |
| 9 | People who "enjoy the decline" need to consider taking responsibility for their sex lives not blindly follow the culture and women they say they despiseSo I am probably what you would call a red-pilled thinking man. I also tend to think very conservative when it comes to relationship values and have my old school beliefs. But I am also very libertarian in that while I staunchly disagree with how things are now, I don't judge or hate. From what I gathered from your post, you are basically saying that too many men are whining about not having purer options. But these same men will not make any efforts to improve things or themselves and just part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:10 AM |
| 3 | The claim that the recent dramatic rise of sexless men is directly caused by the rise of financially and/or sexually liberated women does not track with reality.The second wave feminist movement was only the beginning. But the changes that we are seeing now really did not become more prominent until the 2010's. Why? Smart phones happened. Smart phones gave men and women instant 24/7 access to current events, social media and entertainment. But regarding this topic, it made dating sites far more accessible as well. During the 2000's we started to see more (mostly Millennials) using free dating sites such as Plenty of Fish or OkCupid. But back then you wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | why is is when a underage male is in a relationship with a a women of age, usually other men are encouraging it?That's fair. Different dynamic for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 06:26 AM |
| 3 | why is is when a underage male is in a relationship with a a women of age, usually other men are encouraging it?I second this. When I was 12, I fantasized about having sex with my 31 year old teacher at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:42 AM |
| 7 | why is is when a underage male is in a relationship with a a women of age, usually other men are encouraging it?The men in my family (father and grandfathers, uncles, etc.) came from a part of Latin America where the men at around age 16 or so were taken to a prostitute as a sort of "right of passage". It was very socially acceptable and they openly talk about it to this day. All of the men in my family were quite successful in their work lives and have great family lives/marriages. They aren't these "traumatized victims" of toxic masculinity like radical feminists would want for us to believe. In fact th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:35 AM |
| -2 | why is is when a underage male is in a relationship with a a women of age, usually other men are encouraging it?Because it's alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Is the thought of a three-way with two men an appealing fantasy?I think based on the responses of this post, women don't like sex as much as men. I'm being truthfully sarcastic. Btw, I'm a guy. And yes, anything from threesomes to nakedly diving into empty swimming pool full of oiled women would be something I may participate in if my arm was pulled. I'm a man. And my balls are forever nauseous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | When women find most men ugly, it's because they overrate their own attractiveness due to desperate men and the added benefit of makeupYeah women do care about looks more than men in my opinion. But they are also attracted to a man's energy. If you act as ugly as you look, it's a no go. But if you make her feel a certain amount of good and anxious (in a guilty pleasure kind of way) then you are golden. You may not have them lining up. But you can still land some lays or find a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.Like others have said, men generally are more concerned about the right combination of looks and mild temperament/niceness in a woman. My previous girlfriend was attractive and had a great body. Her personality was also very laid back and fun and I adored her. That was what made me so drawn to her. She was also working on her Master's to become a nurse practitioner. I was very happy for her, but that part did not make me more attracted to her. She could have been a Walmart cashier and it wouldn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsUm. Again, not an incel. I just had sex with my girlfriend two nights ago. Hate to break it to you. No, I don't care what happens to you. You're just screaming your projections. I take back what I said about you being a shitty person. Now you just seem to be yet another broken woman I should feel bad for. But like I said, first three tastes on us, baby ;) End of discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are normally more emotional than women, and that's why many pretend it's the other way aroundwhat the fuck? you're joking right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsFirst of all, not an incel. You clearly have a weird resentment/anger towards unattractive/older men. Let me guess... And you sound like an overall shitty and arrogant person. But, in all sincerity, have fun out there. You're 37 which is means you still got some mileage. But once the train stops, be sure to come by the winery. First 3 tastes on us (because we know damn well you're gonna buy some). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsNo ones trying to prove they still got it or “makeup for lost time.” Not in my experience. Also, my uncle owns a winery in Northern California, and he always tells me about how these older (45+) wealthy divorcees/professionals come in groups. They all look good because they take care of their weight and have surgeries. And sure, lots of them have sex with younger men for good times. But my uncle told me that every now and then some would proposition him for sex and he partook. He would get to kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsWell yeah, no shit. But the fact remains that it's just a fleeting experience for older women. Lots of cougars are gonna die alone in the coming years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsWell I'm 37, 5'6, 212lb and bald (I know, disgusting right?) And I did pull older women. And I also pulled younger women. I'm not going to lie, I'm no player and with my physical attributes, it is difficult. But here is what I learned: Younger women tend to be easier for casual sex due to their carefree/YOLO state of living. Older women are indeed more difficult for casual sex and do in fact, more often than not, make exceptions for younger and physically fit men for sex because they want to fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table?Literally asking a woman what she brings to the table can be taken as too abrasive. A guy has to just get to know a girl and pay close attention to her actions. And then you can determine if she is someone that brings value to your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | If you’re a single guy who’s struggling/trying to find his stride, nightlife and dating apps are the absolute worst places to goLikewise, good luck to you and your quest to find your other half as well. It really is a minefield out there and I really believe that we are living in a dark time for men. In recent years, I have encountered so many men that are talking about the same thing and how they are struggling with finding love. But either way, it's important that we do what we can to enjoy ourselves. And hopefully in the end, we can reflect on our lives and look on our past experiences with humor and fondness and be p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | If you’re a single guy who’s struggling/trying to find his stride, nightlife and dating apps are the absolute worst places to goFor guys below 6/10: -Clubs are a no go (unless you want to just have a good time with friends). They are full of dolled up women in their prime that will be annoyed by you trying to talk to them. -Trendy bars are even worse (again, unless it is a night out with friends). These types of venues are cool places to hang out but the women here not only look great but tend to be around money/successful men (many are successful themselves). So if you're an average bloke trying to pick up, they will lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | If you’re a single guy who’s struggling/trying to find his stride, nightlife and dating apps are the absolute worst places to go37 year old single male here. You made some great points about how differences in hobbies/interests can affect your dating life. I was always really into nerdy things like movies, comics and gaming. And in my mid 20's I decided to break out of the shell and went out to clubs and (mostly) bars fairly often until my early 30's. Now I was never a looker and that alone was very detrimental to my love life. When I was in nerd circles, they consisted of mainly men but there were a fair amount of women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 05:53 PM |
| 5 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?Oh yeah. I knew quite a few farmer Johns that talked about Star Wars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Q4ALL straight men and women who are single. Why are you not dating your attractive single friend of the opposite sex?Yes and no. Yes they do go for assholes. However, they are assholes that they are already attracted to for whatever reasons. But if they designated you as brotherly type in their head and you pull an "asshole" move, it hits different. Women don't see it as a confident /sexy act, they see it as a bitchy/pathetic tantrum. And instead of getting aroused, women will get put off hard and even repulsed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites?Uh...yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 10 | Q4ALL straight men and women who are single. Why are you not dating your attractive single friend of the opposite sex?This is not very common. If you are in her friend zone you will likely stay there for good unless you level up substantially in multiple areas. But if you cut her off she will likely just get upset and consider you an asshole. And you will just be that "brother" that she no longer talks to. The "cutting a girl off" thing only really works on women that men are already pursuing sexually/romantically. But even then you have to be clever about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksHere we go... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 04:22 PM |
| 9 | What happens when people "give up"?Their negative experiences turn them into miserable people and then people use that negative behavior to gas light them Accurate AF. This was always my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 04:22 PM |
| 6 | What happens when people "give up"?My ex dumped me a month before the pandemic began in 2020. I decided I was going to take a "break" from dating. I was 34. I am 37 now and the idea of the "break" being permanent feels more appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:59 PM |
| 28 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?For women not much. It would probably make things even worse for men. Men with zero or low counts by a certain age would be completely ignored. It would be yet another method for women to vet out the "undesirables". It will not only be the "Below 5'10 need not apply" on their dating profiles. It would also include "0-3, got no time rookie". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 05:10 AM |
| 5 | Rich Western Countries are Extremely IncelliousCan confirm. My family is from Argentina as well. I still have a lot of family there. And yeah, it is extremely Westernized. All of of my female cousins (below 35) remain unmarried and seem to be living it up like typical American women in that age range today. Everyone has iPhones and uses Tinder like we do (in America). And their birthrate appears to be dropping as well. I even hear stories of Argentinian men travelling to poorer neighboring countries to find a wife and bring them back to Arge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 07:12 PM |
| 6 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Having to constantly prove yourself if you want any sort of relevance in life. If you want to be liked and/or respected, you have to jump through hoops almost constantly. If you want to get laid, it's even higher hoops and they are on fire. And margin for error is very dependent on looks. The worst part is, no matter what you do as a man, if you get overwhelmed or stop for any reason, you will be a social outcast very quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | HIGH BODY COUNT DOESN'T MATTERYes it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:40 PM |
| 12 | What kind of man pays Rich Cooper $1,000 an hour for 'coaching'?Yeah. I really love Rollo Tomassi's books. There is some great info in them. His Youtube channel was good at first because the episodes were about 45 minutes with a cohost. Now they are all over 3 hours and with only him talking which is a bit much. But Rich Cooper always struck me as a someone who is piggybacking off of Rollo's work. He basically collects all the info, condenses it and rebrands it for himself. Don't get me wrong, some of his short videos have good nuggets of info. But the whole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | I once knew a militant feminist in college...one of my first lessons of AWALT.I'll be honest, I can't say for sure. I wasn't all that close to that group. Some of my college friends were friends with the Women's Studies girls. So I would encounter them when out by association. I did see the chick from the story around the building every now and then. There probably was another time where she came out with all of us. But it was about 10 years ago now. However, if I were to make a bet, it was probably a ONS (or possible temporary FWB). Because she was so uptight about her p… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Fat looks worse on women than on men.Are there overweight male models? Overweight male pornstars (Ron Jeremy is an exception and was basically a joke)? Or half naked overweight guys dancing in their bedroom for Instagram followers? But there are plenty of overweight women in all of those spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"This is correct. I agree that most (not all) women would trade up for the better option if the opportunity arises. Celebrities are a no brainer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe “dating leagues” exist and if so do you believe you are trying to date within your own?I agree to a certain extent. But if you look at Amy Schumer's dating record she generally dates very attractive men. There are many less attractive men in show business that live with depression because they cannot find someone who will love them. Only gold diggers that are probably getting their fix outside of the relationship. The attractive cashier may not have a shot with Henry Cavill due to logistics. But she will still have a very solid shot with high value men in general. An unattractive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 03:50 AM |
| 7 | Women and men who don’t do hookups, where do you hang out?I worked in a retirement home setting for over 10 years. Full of women. I did date a couple and I made some good friends during that time. But I will say that even though they are mostly female workers, it was not like shooting fish in a barrel. Every couple of years or so a "new guy" would get hired. And if he was good looking/arrogant, the place would become a harem for him. After he made his rounds sleeping with a few of the girls, drama would commence and he would leave. Then after another y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:29 PM |
| 5 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?The red pill is the answer (reaction) to what females have been doing in the dating market for the last couple of decades. Women in general are natural plate spinners as they generally have multiple suitors in their radar (especially in their younger years but still to a certain degree well into adulthood). But in the last decade or so their options have increased by hundreds of times due to dating apps/social media. Before women would only keep their options open in their neighborhood, school, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 02:32 AM |
| 3 | The '1 in 17 Men Reproduced' Thing May Be MisleadingHow is that an issue? A man who is successful and has balanced temperament probably is the best for most women. They will likely be far more cooperative and they will provide a more secure environment for their partner/children. Regardless of how he looks. Or of course you could go full blown nazi and be like, "nope. not entitled to shit. life isn't fair. oh well. let the pretty genes handle the next generation." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 06:18 PM |
| 4 | The '1 in 17 Men Reproduced' Thing May Be MisleadingThat's exactly what it is. But I completely disagree that men who are not "up to standard" as far as looks should be told to just die off because they don't "deserve it". But unfortunately most women will still prefer the hot guy that gives her the feels that she "can fix" over the calmer, uglier and more stable guy. It's just how they are and it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 07:28 AM |
| 7 | The '1 in 17 Men Reproduced' Thing May Be MisleadingSo you're saying that the tons of tall, hot and alcoholic/druggie deadbeats out there that are reproducing should? While there are countless others that are shorter and uglier but are far more productive and stable shouldn't? Just because women more often than not "pick" idiots to reproduce with doesn't mean it's better for humanity. Especially in the digital era. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Are Old Virgins Unattractive?Depends on the circumstance. If it was truly for religious/cultural reasons and she wants to save it for a man to start a family with, I would love it. But more than likely a female virgin at that age might have some mental health issues/hang ups. Getting with an older female virgin can go one of two ways after the first sex session. She will either go "ow!" and decide that she doesn't need it until she decides to start getting pregnant. Or she will love it and you will be fucking night and day … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:31 PM |
| 7 | Would Short Men (Under 5 ft 5) Have More Dating Opportunities In A Country Where The Average Woman Is Shorter?I agree. When I was in college, the Women's Studies department was next door to us. So inevitably, we would have contact with those students. Sometimes we would form friendships and would go out for drinks and coffee and I did notice something. So, I am barely 5'6. And one of my close friends at the time was about 5'7. The other men in the group (there were women as well) were mostly average or tall. And those were the guys that obviously had more dating options on campus. However, even though m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 13 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.It's because most people can't relate. So when they see me living a comfortable/stable life on my own, they think I'm some sort of cheat. But at the same time they see me as a loser for not having anyone. Rarely do people look at me and think, "well, he didn't find much luck with love, but he still held it together and he's living a productive life". And it's funny. I was recently talking to a girl that I've known for a while and she kind of grilled for being in my late 30's and not settling dow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:47 AM |
| 11 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?Yeah. I have a cousin that is very attractive and she was a flirt since she was in her mid teens. Once she graduated high school she was hooking up with lots of dudes and was constantly talking to multiple men at once. It got to a point that she felt like a local celebrity. And she always said that she never wanted to get married and live life on her terms. She then got pregnant, the father ghosted her and now she is a single mom on welfare. She tried to keep the hookup life going on the downlow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 18 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.I'm not too sure about this. I mean it can certainly be possible for a percentage of incels but those guys are the minority that may suffer from other psychological issues. And unfortunately the combination of how those types are being portrayed in the media and being a generally unattractive male causes these men to be more alienated. I myself am in my late 30s and was never popular with women. I have had a couple girlfriends but never even came close to anything casual. Being a man, I can it a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 04:49 PM |
| 54 | I once knew a militant feminist in college...one of my first lessons of AWALT.That's why it was so damn shocking at the time. The dude looked and acted like a joke (to us) but apparently he had real dick game. The chick from the story was obviously trying to be the epitome of "strong, sassy, independent" woman. But although I didn't hear everything that was said, based on what I could see he had an aloofness. Like at first, I could see that she was acting hard and throwing words and saying shit to tear him down. But he would just grin and always have a comeback. I think t… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Men- how important is it to you to buy a house for or with your partner?Well I am a male and recently bought a condo on my own. I actually bought the home on my own on purpose because I really do not want another person's name on it. Because it took years of being frugal, saving and working crazy hours to save for a solid down payment. So I want absolute control over the ownership in case a potential "I'm not happy anymore" talk emerges with a potential partner. But besides that, if you have the money, go for it. Buying real estate is a smart thing to do (if you buy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you think actually helps men date?Yeah. I totally experienced that sort of thing as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:02 PM |
| 13 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?37 years old, probably 10,000. After that you start dancing with the idea that you may be a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Does it really boil down to looks as far as what makes a woman a potential partner vs a best friend?They always say how much they love my personality, having me around and spending time with me one on one, but don’t want a relationship. They will even propose Fwb but I realized mens standards for casual hookups are pretty low. How would you describe yourself physically? From my own experience as a guy, this has only happened a couple of times. I have a good friend that I have known for years. And she is not really my type as far as looks. Plus, she has a lot of personal problems as well. I nev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Transgenders (M to F) and sex drive...the same as a cis man or cis woman?Thank you for the response. Yeah sexuality is complex for sure. It's just I as a cis male am aware of my high libido. And most women I have dated were not quite the same. Sure some had higher sex drives than others. But almost all of my male friends have said the same thing regarding their dating/marriage experience. Testosterone is strongly associated with high libido. And estrogen is strongly associated with high selectivity. Of course there are variations of this and its not a one size fits a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Transgenders (M to F) and sex drive...the same as a cis man or cis woman?I agree. It's a pretty fascinating thing to see how complex out sexuality is. I bet science has barely scratched the surface. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Transgenders (M to F) and sex drive...the same as a cis man or cis woman?I appreciate the response. Thanks for sharing your experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Transgenders (M to F) and sex drive...the same as a cis man or cis woman?Very interesting. Thank you. This is the type of answer I was hoping for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceI believe so. At end of the day, we are still the same species that we were 250,000 years ago. Just because we have cars, planes and iPhones doesn't change the fact that we operate on the same instincts. What took human civilizations thousands of years to build (as far as intersexual dynamics/culturally enforced monogamy) was literally broken down in less than 50 years. And now we are barely seeing what we really are as far as mating/sex. Our culture and sense of ethics has changed throughout ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceThis is very complicated. But in a nutshell, the last 20 or so years have seen an immense change in intersexual dynamics. The causes can be traced back to even earlier. But right now and for arguably the first time in history, women are no longer dependent on men for provisioning. In past times, women paired off with men for literal protection, then for resources that men earned. In today's automated and digital age, women can do many of the same jobs and earn a livable wage on their own. So whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:43 PM |
| 4 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceThanks for the response. You and I seem to be around the same age and we grew up during a similar time period. We do have some differences but our overall experience as far as women and dating is pretty much identical based on what you shared. Talking openly and sharing your past experiences is something that people like us need not only as a way to let it out but to show that we are not alone in this world. Unfortunately, in one form or another, we were not given the best deck of cards when it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:38 PM |
| 3 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceShit, man. Your response really took me back to those days. Very much the same experience for sure. I have a few questions out of curiosity because I have been doing a lot of reflecting on my life as of late. So it's interesting to interact with another person with a similar life story. -You mentioned that you had a social life with a group that wasn't the healthiest. What did you mean by that? -How were you as far as how you interacted with your friends? Were you the quiet guy or were you the g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:47 PM |
| 20 | What do you think actually helps men date?Out of the women that are there, they have to be single, looking to date, AND interested in "you". If Chad decides to show up, all of that evaporates into thin air. Oh my God...this is so true. I remember back in the day I would be talking to a girl when out with friends. And we would be hitting it off and then a "friend of a friend" would show up. You could see as soon as they saw this dude, they would look at him and you can almost see a sudden rerouting going on in her head behind her eyes. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:36 PM |
| 5 | What do you think actually helps men date?You literally just described my 20's lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 14 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice"This Social Circle approach may have worked in like 2004, but this is a completely different world. Everything is about looks now. You either have them or you don't, and no amount of socializing is going to change this." I was in college in 2004 and I was in a lot of social circles that had plenty of guys and girls. But being short and ugly, I was always the lower equation. Some of the guys were cool with me but the women gave me little to no mind. And people did like me as a person in general.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?I've never seen any of that. That girl sounds ratchet af. Where'd you find that, pornhub? No, it was on Instagram. And yeah once I saw that one, I realized that there are a lot out there. Some aren't even like that. Some are just women talking about how they hate short men and then a tall guy walks in and she grabs on him and smiles at the camera. Having personal preference is fine. My point is that it is allowed and people even praise it in the thousands (which was the disturbing part). If I we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 06:05 PM |
| -1 | You will never be a high value man.Andrew Tate would be disgusted by this post. Shame on you OP, shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | You will never be a high value man.Moral of the story: Don't eat big macs. Because you will become a big mac of society and no one will want you in their mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Dude, so I can go on forever about him. But his earlier girlfriends were nothing special as far as looks. They were very mediocre and his first was actually not attractive at all. But he still had bad experiences with them as well. They enjoyed the clout that came with being with him. The longest one ended up feeling so special about it that she climbed up the social latter and cheated on him. He literally told me that he came to the conclusion that this generation of women was fucked and he wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 06:04 AM |
| 0 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Yeah. It is what it is I suppose. I think the key is to realize life is not easy for anyone, even if it appears to be the opposite. Just because women have an endless supply of attention, and tall men have a better shot at dating and status, doesn't mean that there isn't a price to be paid for what they have. I may not have all the sex and validation of many others, but I have a peaceful life with minimal noise and stress. My best friend is 6'5, super handsome, is making a high income in law enf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:27 AM |
| 14 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?It's interesting though. Because we now live in a time where there is so much sensitivity towards, race, religion, sexual orientation, even female body image (fat acceptance). But the discrimination towards short men is wide open and no one bats an eye. I recently saw a reel of a girl dancing around in a thong and she looked at the camera and said ,"sorry short guys, all this is for the tall guys." And she got thousands of likes and the comments had a bunch of women cheering her on and agreeing.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:01 AM |
| 20 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Yeah. I'm a lot calmer now. But growing up and going through life as a short man in my teens and 20's, I always knew something was off. I was always an extremely observant person so I quickly would realize that people treated me different in social circles and even upon first meeting compared to other men. So it got to a point that yes, I became a bitter, insecure man because it does take a toll. Most people just roll their eyes when they hear about this, and that's fine, but they truly have no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 02:19 AM |
| 8 | Women having higher standards than men is a myth."...but as long as he can make the woman feel good through his looks, status or personality (or all three at the same time), she will sleep with him every time." This is correct. But you are incorrect when saying that women do not have higher standards. That sentence alone sums it up. Women do not have to be Stacys to get male attention. A woman can be, tall, short, fat thin, wealthy, poor, nice, bitchy, hot, not so hot and still have plenty of men willing to sleep with them/date them. Men not s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 04:15 PM |
| 19 | Do women in relationships go out for attention from other guys?Yes they do. And it is extremely common. I used to work at a retirement facility where 90% of the employees were female. Most were in their 20's-30's. The employees would generally only work there for about a year or so on average so I worked with a ton throughout that time. And the conversations they would have were pretty disturbing to say the least. They would openly talk about going out and getting attention from men. Many times worse. It's almost as if women have their own "underworld" wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Men, what do you think of women who love to travel?Yeah the well traveled chick thing has been a big thing since the 2000s. But then by the 2010s it blew up even more because of social media. When I started college in the mid 2000's, it was mostly girls that always were about to go to "London', or "Paris", or "Machu Picchu". And they usually came from mid to upper middle class families that would finance their trips. I think most people like to travel to some extent. I myself have done some traveling but that said, I'm never pining for the next … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | What is a healthy replacement for the "Manosphere"That's what I mean by perfected. They would have to be bots with sophisticated AI technology. Not just sex dolls that have a few pre-programmed voice responses and moans. They would be designed to communicate and even be able to form a romantic relationship with a man. They would be nearly indistinguishable from the real thing. Of course, if this were to happen, women would feel threatened and they would start lobbying for "fembot rights" or "fembots are women too". So there is a chance we would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What is a healthy replacement for the "Manosphere"Perfected sex bots. That way ugly guys can get laid all the time and women can happily compete for their CHADs without having so many average guys trying to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menI think you misunderstood what I was saying. My point was that the actual "lesbians" that I knew were clearly that way naturally. In fact one of my old best friends who is a lesbian hated the new "bisexual" trend. Because she said that gays had to hide for so long and fight to be accepted. And now people are swinging both ways to act out and look cool but then return to the straight life once its time to settle down. The "bisexuals" that I knew (and I knew a ton) were going out with dudes but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:50 PM |
| 10 | The concept of "the bar is in hell" is a psychological prison for men.Or maybe just ignore what a small but loud subset of women say about men, meet women IRL and realize most people at not as awful as the internet makes it seem so. Unfortunately what happens IRL is what drives men to the internet. It really is that bad out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Red-Pill Take? Red Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Blue-Pill Take?Yeah, for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menOf course it's prejudice. Which is perfectly fine. We all have preferences and different wants and needs. For example, in our society, women don't get shit for refusing to date short men. Sure the short guys complain. But a woman in a thong can twerk on Tiktok and write "Not for short men" and she will get tons of likes. Talk about prejudice. You yourself won't date certain people because they don't meet your standards. Again, that's prejudice. Prejudices only become a problem if you are directl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Red-Pill Take? Red Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Blue-Pill Take?Lol. Yup, go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 0 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menUnpopular opinion. I really think this increase in bi/lesbian activity is due to the decline of family units. I have had friends that were lesbians and they claimed that they knew they were that way since childhood and they were consistent with it. However, when I talk to most "bi" girls that go back and forth, I'd say 90% of them had a classic case of daddy/mommy issues and had mental health problems. And the fact that the media is glorifying it is really turning the dial up with these women ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:05 PM |
| 13 | Blue Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Red-Pill Take? Red Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Blue-Pill Take?Being a short, ugly man. During my teens and all of my 20's I went on dates and would always approach women I liked or was attracted to in a respectful way. Unlike the other guys, I wanted a nice and healthy relationship for life. I wasn't looking for a model, I just wanted a normal, nice girl. Horrible and even outrageous experiences happened throughout. Everyone told me that I just didn't find the right girl and that I was a diamond in the rough that had tons to offer. The bad experiences and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 07:34 AM |
| 96 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.Yeah. I consider myself a pretty chill dude and people generally like me. But I'm short and ugly so women tend to limit their interactions with me upon first glance. Almost as if they have an urgency to keep it short to avoid giving me the wrong idea. But women above 40 tend to be far friendlier and approachable for conversation in my case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Men and Women - Would you accept your 18yr old daughter to marry a wealthy man significantly older than her?Of course. In fact that is the only type of man I would allow my daughter to marry. From the time she turns 18, she will have 7 years to find a husband. And he has to be at least 50 years old, be worth at least 50 million and his name must have "Col." in front (he will be known as the colonel). If she finds no one by the age of 25 she will be assigned as our personal maid/cook and take care of my wife and I in our old age. She will enjoy the company of birds and mice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Do men in general envy women?If reincarnation is real, I want to come back as one of two things...either a rich and famous CHAD or a hot lesbian. Those are the two options to get unlimited sex from other females. I wouldn't want to be a straight female because I'm a straight dude and yeah...yuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:23 PM |
| 7 | How do people date nowadays?But number one you have to be attractive. This is where a lot of men don't stack up. If the woman doesn't find you attractive, the interaction will go south pretty quickly. Women already have a built in assumption that they are being hit on when a man just starts talking to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it is truly ''over'' for some people? (Post doesn't violate rule 8 or 9)Aren’t you describing yourself? No. Because most of the single women in my age group are jaded due to bad dating decisions on their part. Most spent their teens and 20's dating bad boys and idiots for the thrills. I wanted to find my life partner as early as my late teens with a good girl from a good family and have a simple family life. Unfortunately I never found it due to my not so appealing attributes. Big difference. It's just how it goes sometimes. At least I tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it is truly ''over'' for some people? (Post doesn't violate rule 8 or 9)I am a welder by trade. But after being laid off during COVID, I got a job in security. I make about $70k due to overtime. I just bought a condo in another city (couple hours away) that I am fixing up. So I will pursue another welding job once it's ready for move in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Do you think it is truly ''over'' for some people? (Post doesn't violate rule 8 or 9)I think it all comes down to managing your expectations. I'll use myself as an example. I am a 36 year old male, 5'6, balding (since 19) and struggled with my weight my entire life. In my teenage years and most of my 20's, I got nothing but rejections. Every single girl I asked out would either reject me upfront or go on the one date and give me the "let's be friends" speech. I eventually did get my first girlfriend at 25 but she was very low value. She had a TON of issues and was not very attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 04:56 PM |
| 19 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menTHIS. IS. WHY. YOU. NEVER. PUT. A. RING. ON. IT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 08:02 PM |
| 28 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menThey seem mentally incapable of considering a point of view or existence other than their own. This is the truth. They may have their moments where they seem reasonable and understanding with their partners. But these moments are largely situational and don't happen consistently. And never expect full blown accountability for their actions from them. They may admit their wrongs, but expect you to get over it immediately or else be considered a controlling misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 08:00 PM |
| -1 | Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women.This should be the new cultural norm: When a man asks a woman out to dinner, she is required to have sex with him immediately after if she accepts the date. No ifs, ands or buts. And I mean FUCKING with a lot of sweat. All restaurants should have private rooms or "caves" behind their dining rooms. They will also need to start hiring a staff of tribal drummers (preferably Polynesian). That way once the two people finish their meal, the man will stand up, pound on his chest and yell, "OOGA BALOOGA… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 3 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesFurthermore matrimony vs patrimony makes really clear what was going on. Men could get resources but weren’t willing to share it with women that weren’t 1) sexual with them; 2) the mother of THEIR children. “Here, I’m fucking 5 different guys and I will not touch you… now please give me your resources to take care of my son” would not be accepted but a random dude, so matrimony was put in place to secure patrimony for the family. This pretty much sums up what we no longer have. And it is the rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 07:32 AM |
| 3 | What would your recommended course of action be for a man in a similar situation?I would say give up. I'm 37 and I threw in the towel after my last relationship ended two years ago. And I'm 5'6. Too many early years of consistent rejections. Then I did find relationships but when you're short and not handsome, it feels like walking on eggshells. Because you have a very small margin for error so women will get turned off easily since they are already not attracted to you physically. Personality only takes you so far and you have to be extremely consistent and bulletproof. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 09:02 PM |
| 3 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithAnd most women don’t have casual sex so… This may have been the case in the past. But women have surpassed men when it comes to being players. The vast majority of women that I have known in my age range (mid 30's) have had more than a couple casual sex encounters in their pasts. But very few of the men that I've known had (only had sex when in relationships). The interesting thing is that many women (from my observation) tend to develop a sort of cognitive dissonance when it comes to sexual enc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 03:43 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?No. Women will even leave a sausage party if there aren't any guys they find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 09:36 PM |
| 31 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractI agree. I have observed this myself. I think most women over 30 nowadays that are single are pretty jaded from their 20's. They had over a decade of dating and fucking hot guys, assholes, idiots, etc. Then when they reach their 30's, their standards are through the roof because they want stability or nothing(especially if they are financially independent at this point in their lives). Also their sex drive is even less pronounced so they either strictly go for the guy that will be in the postion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Sharing a Personal Story + Tragedy of Blue Pill conditioning, and why Red Pill saves livesShe lost respect for him because he did too much for her. This. And and the sad thing is, most men have no clue why the disrespect and dry bedroom occurs. So they double down and do even more favors and become more complacent. This of course makes things worse since the woman in question, having already lost respect for him, grows even more resentful for making her feel guilty due to his niceness. So it just gets nastier and more tragic for the dude when the relationship ends. But the woman alwa… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Is a women who cheats worse than a man who cheats?Yeah I've seen women do some major mental acrobatics to preserve side flings. What's worse is that their female friends tend to help cover it up for them. But when a man is discovered having an affair, all parties sound the alarms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is a women who cheats worse than a man who cheats?I agree that men do fall in love easier. But I think its more common for men to cheat simply to get off and still love their actual partner. I have known men even in my own family that loved their wives and were great providers, but had sexual affairs just for the sex. When women cheat, there are far more emotions at play and chances are they are doing it in search of an upgrade/replacement partner. There are outliers for both men and women for sure, but this is usually what I have observed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:01 PM |
| -1 | If you're not supposed to expect relationships to make you happy, then what's the point of being in them?Trust me, honey. There is nothing imaginary about what I'm saying. Many, many men would laugh in your face. If you disagree that's fine. But don't think that the whole "I don't like what he said, and you agreed with him, so you're both wrong" is an argument that makes you appear more intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | If you're not supposed to expect relationships to make you happy, then what's the point of being in them?I don’t really know where to begin with this because you are taking everything you have heard any woman say and merging them into an imaginary woman with contradicting views. First, I want to ask that you not take what I am about to say personally. I don't know you so this may not apply to you. But he's not wrong. What he is saying is that there is a large amount of women who play very dualistic roles depending on their wants and needs. Sure there are a men that do this but they are usually cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 11:59 PM |
| 7 | CMV: women do not "set up" male friends with other women unless he meets a certain attraction thresholdTrue story: About six years ago I was having a conversation with a female friend who is fairly attractive and has friends that range in attractiveness. I am a 5'6 male and am balding (shave my head) and not the prettiest boy. I was looking to find someone to date at the time and asked her if she knew anyone who was single and she said, "no I don't". Fair enough. Later that day, we talked again and we were discussing another friend of mine who she had met before. He was a good looking guy and was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | If women are hypergamous, what really is the point of trying to have a relationship with one?A big gripe I hear men have with women is that they claim men all see them as just stepping stones to climb in the social hierarchy. But if men are naturally polyamorous, don’t women feel essentially the same way? I see what you're saying but it's not the same. Yes most men find many women attractive sexually. But most men do not have a chance with most women. The vast majority of guys have very little options for sexual partners. However, most women do have many options therefore they can act o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 10:56 PM |
| 5 | If women are hypergamous, what really is the point of trying to have a relationship with one?Women are hypergamous about choosing a mate, but once she's invested women tend to be pretty loyal. I would say trading up is something men are more notorious for once her looks fade. This may have been the case in the past. But from my experiences and observations of almost 40 years of being on this earth, I can safely say that in general women have become a worse version of what men were before. The culture changes and the dating apps opened the floodgates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 10:35 PM |
| 3 | If women are hypergamous, what really is the point of trying to have a relationship with one?It's a bit complicated. Men and women are very much objectified but for different reasons. Women are objectified for their bodies and their sexuality. A woman's life achievements does very little to increase her sexual appeal. A financially successful woman doesn't make her any more fuckable (for the most part). And men are objectified for many reasons but most notably, their social status. A man's social status is very much dependent on multiple factors such as his peer groups, his financial si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 10:24 PM |
| 4 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 09:59 PM |
| 6 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.If a majority of women are chasing a minority of men, the end result would be most of them going empty handed. That is what is happening now. We are going to start seeing a huge amount of women who are over 40 that are single and childless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 09:55 PM |
| 2 | How To Remain Positive Even After Getting Rejected By A Woman You LikeFor the most part I agree. However, there is a fairly significant percentage of men that can't do a whole lot to have great results with women (especially these days). Some men simply will not experience true genuine desire. I know the red pill community doesn't like to acknowledge this but it is the truth. I have a friend that is 5'3, exceptionally unattractive and is on the autistic spectrum. He does have the desire to date and has attempted to ask girls out. But as much as I try to give him p… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/22 12:08 PM |
| 2 | How To Remain Positive Even After Getting Rejected By A Woman You LikeRejection does hurt. The reason being, is that on a primal level, a woman's rejection represents her view of you as an unworthy specimen to reproduce with. So a man's emotional response is to feel hurt because on a subconscious level, we undergo a form of existential crisis. Which is why so many men who are average and below become self destructive shells due to repeated rejections. That is why it is important to be grateful that we live in this era. Don't get me wrong, this era is fucked for an… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/22 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Excerpts relating body count to infidelity: why her history matters now more than everNow were these women casual flings or were they serious relationships? I'm only asking out of curiosity. I'm not trying to counter your point. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/22 08:47 PM |
| 21 | Excerpts relating body count to infidelity: why her history matters now more than everIt's funny because supposedly 63% of women won't get involved with men who had homosexual experiences. And it seems consistent with what women have expressed to me in conversation. In my opinion that is fair, because I generally have a zero tolerance for seriously dating bisexual women. But in many of those same conversations, when asked, a large amount would be open to dating a transman as long as they had "man parts". | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | LTRs are hard-mode, Monkey-Branching is realOnlyFans girls are never a fan of only one. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/22 05:32 PM |
| 37 | Single Guys in their 40s+ and Early RetirementI'm in the process of this now. I am 36 years old and never made much money. I got a useless humanities degree and stayed at a stagnant job as a cook in my 20's-early 30's. And sure, it was a fun time but I spent too much on fun and girlfriends while still living at home. Luckily I did save here and there (which slowly added up) and never got myself into debt. When I hit 33 I decided to go back to school to be a welder. I finished later than expected due to COVID. But during lockdown I worked tw… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Learning to run through HellI agree. We all know that women have many of the same behavioral tendencies due to their nature. But the one in this story sounds pretty exceptional. Exceptional in the sense that she is clearly a mess and definitely suffers from some personality disorder. This isn't quite normal even for a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/22 10:03 PM |
| 2 | 2022 Predictions for the new year (Warning: Politics)Absolutely. It really is everywhere. States that were dirt cheap are even getting pricey. And homes are still selling like hotcakes EVERYWHERE. As far as when it will end, it will take several years. And once it eventually slows down, most of America will be priced out. And that in itself will bring a whole new wave of issues. With home ownership becoming unreachable and rent becoming higher, people will become demoralized. I think it will potentially get to a point where huge portions of societ… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Surfing the Whorely Yuga"Yes, women can find ways to take advantage of men who can’t provide. They’re usually used as ornaments and orbiters. Most of the men orbiting a woman are lacking in status (which usually stems from a combination of mastery and honor). If they weren’t, the woman would be orbiting him." All men need to know this. Just this bit knowledge alone can literally save lives. We who have lurked this sub know this, but I still see far too many that still have no clue. But that said, has anyone noticed tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/21 12:48 AM |
| 5 | 2022 Predictions for the new year (Warning: Politics)I am a Californian who was planning on moving to Florida in 2020 but then we know what happened that year. And yes, I was there in 2017 and areas that had homes for $180k are now over $400k which is insane. I am still not giving up but unfortunately I am not the typical cash buyer. I have about $60k for down payment and making the same amount per year. I accepted the fact that I'm priced out of the big cities. So I am looking at more rural areas. And I really don't think this is a bubble that wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | The Lost BoysTRP's approach to attracting women is actually very nerdy. If I do enough sets with enough weight and manage my macros, in N months I will build muscle and attract women. If I earn this amount of money, I'll buy X and attract women. It's inward looking and passive. Gyms are full of jacked nerdy guys and women aren't impressed. Interesting point. However, TRP in my experience is more of a collective space of information regarding how to improve your life as a man. I think the confusion comes from… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/21 06:51 PM |
| 13 | PedestalizationCan confirm this. Brief story...one of my best friends is a 6'5 blonde, fit and very charismatic dude. Good guy too. There were countless times where he and I would be at events/parties and people would notice him and gravitate towards him like he was some kind of beacon. The girls would latch on to him and the guys spoke to him with admiration in their eyes. I even remember a time when my family came from out of town to visit. I threw a kickback and I invited this friend. It was funny because h… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about Coach Red Pill?I like his channel because he basically condenses Rollo's info into short 10 minute videos. He seems intelligent and it looks like he knows his shit as far as finances. But I recently kind of noticed that he really is a bitter divorced man that found Rollo's material and now lives by it. Then he basically took the information and rebranded it for his interests. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 08:43 PM |
| 18 | Getting a lot of shit tests from guys when out with my LTR.You seem to have a good handle on it when it happens. Good job. But I do agree that this is something that seems to be more common lately. My last LTR (from 2018-2020) was the first relationship where I encountered this multiple times. But in my case, I know it had to do with the fact that she was physically more attractive than I am. We weren't "looks matched" and guys would see that we were a couple and it would cause frustration. One time a guy was watching us like a hawk at a bar/restaurant … | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 03:00 AM |
| 3 | LonlinessMe too man. I literally get maybe five incoming texts per week from friends/family. Pre-COVID it was more than 5 times that per day. Crazy how life changes. But take this time to be productive. You can workout. You can get a second job and save some money for an investment. You can take up a new hobby that might keep you busy and possibly becomes a side hustle. I know it sucks. But there are a lot more people out there that are going through the same thing. Once things get back to more "normal",… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 12:35 AM |
| 29 | Is 28 too late to start over, make some drastic changes, and really start living?Me too at 35. Lot of shit to look forward to. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Questioning realityI've seen those types of pairings here and there. But in my experience it is quite rare. Almost all guys with proper game/social skills can get laid/ have a girlfriend. But I have rarely seen short dudes with tall women, or fat dudes with hot women. And even in these cases there was usually some kind of transaction going on (supporting a single mom, emotional band-aid due to severe daddy issues, etc.) I don't think I've ever seen a short, bald and fat dude with no car and broke with an emotional… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Are you born a beta or raised to be beta?I think there are genetics involved for sure. One of my cousins is horribly beta (non confrontational, hopelessly blue pill) and his dad is a hard as rock alpha conservative and they clash constantly. There is a possibility that his particular brain didn't absorb his father's influence due to how its made up. He is a great guy and very intelligent. But his brother and even sister clearly have many of the dad's character traits. Bill Maher once said something that always stuck with me. It was alo… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | is talking about your Passion a turn off for women?Depends on the subject. If it is a mutual passion then she will enjoy the conversation. Otherwise it has to be something that stirs an emotional response from her. But if you start talking about how Elon Musk designs his rocket ships, then she will be as dry as a desert. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Is height really that important?It is a status symbol. Sure game, money and status are all part of SMV. But I can say that height is probably the most effective attribute a man can have. Height gives a man a commanding presence. A short fat dude with money might get women but its almost always transactional. A broke ass tall guy can activate a woman's breeding urges far easier. I know a 6'5 dude who hands down has Asperger's. Super awkward and hasn't gotten laid in years. Why? Because when women come up to him, his mind shorts… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 02:18 AM |
| 3 | What’s the best city in North America for a Arab 20 something red pill man?I will say that as far as finding girls to fuck, Southern California is great. Girls here are very ambitious and entitled which means easier no strings attached sex. But if you're wanting an LTR with a decent chick, probably not the best area. They are out here but incredibly rare. Most are super indoctrinated and there is alot of money being thrown around down here. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 05:32 AM |
| 2 | What’s the best city in North America for a Arab 20 something red pill man?Awesome place. Especially downtown (Gaslamp District). Never gamed there because I usually spent time there with ex LTRs. But super cool scene there. But there are bad areas as well. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 05:23 AM |
| 9 | What’s the best city in North America for a Arab 20 something red pill man?Probably LA/Orange County area. Super liberal and very diverse. But the girls here can be more challenging because competition is brutal. Even the ghetto hoes think that they are royalty too. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone achieved "top 10 percent of men/high-value man" success after years of mediocrity *AFTER* the age of 35? If so, HOW did you climb up from rock-bottom? Would appreciate specific examples andIm 35 and about to finish my welding certs (SMAW, GTAW and MIG). What do you recommend as far job pursuits? I'm in the Los Angeles area and there are lots of jobs but they either pay crap ($15-18 an hour) or they want years of experience. I want to find a good TIG/Aerospace gig but its pretty competitive out here. How did you get to the point of earning six figures in such short time? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 12:20 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone achieved "top 10 percent of men/high-value man" success after years of mediocrity *AFTER* the age of 35? If so, HOW did you climb up from rock-bottom? Would appreciate specific examples andI know complete nutcases that are making six figures. And by nutcases I don't mean people that are severely mentally ill as in schizophrenics or anything like that. I'm talking bipolar, alcoholics, drug addicts. My cousin worked for a local news studio (Los Angeles area) and from what he told me, many of the higher level anchors and even executives were intelligent, sure, but they were by no means mentally "healthy". It really comes down to how you look and present yourself. There are plenty of … | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Found out my gf had a threesome with two dudes and it's making me sickWhenever I feel things like this, it's because I know I'm making sacrifices for this chick and I feel sick for making sacrifices for a whore. Very well said. I wasted two years of my life feeling like this. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | It just feel like it's all about looks?Can confirm this. Many women love to say that they are down to go out with ugly guys, or they have a friend that has an ugly ass boyfriend. When people tell me this, I always ask, "how tall is he?" 9/10 he's well over 6ft. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Do you have to be best looking guy she meets that night?More laid back bars for sure. They can also be tricky since women travel in groups so you'll have to break the cock block committee barriers. I actually had more luck going to bars on weeknights instead of the typical Fri/Sat nights. Weeknights are less crowded, more chill and the women don't get as dolled up for the attention. This all makes them more approachable because they aren't bouncing off the walls like they would on weekends. You just have to find the right places that are open during … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 02:48 PM |
| 20 | Do you have to be best looking guy she meets that night?For the club/bar crowd, looks are super important. Any nightlife venue with alcohol gets people into "short attention span" mode. People are moving around a lot, getting drinks, talking to random people, etc. And almost anything with a pussy at a bar/club at night will get floods of dudes hitting up on them. So, with women getting all this drunken attention from men of all shapes, sizes and ages, they either relish it and play games or they blow everyone off. So you really have to either look gr… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do short girls care so much about height?It makes no sense. Logically, a short girl should be happy with a shorter guy because his height relative to her's would appear as tall. Yes it does make sense. Short girls subconsciously want their children to carry genes that give them an advantage in life. If they pair up with a short guy, chances are that they will have short kids (short sons). It's just the nature of the beast. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 87 | TRP is real, 80/20 rule is realIt was like watching Discovery channel. Almost heard a British narrator describing what was happening in the background..."Watch as the female humans soften their voices. They now take turns making quick physical contact and hold strong eye contact with the favored and genetically superior male human while surrounding him hoping to be selected. Look! Now observe the more aggressive female with the large mammary glands pull the male away from her competitors to raise her chances of insemination b… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:06 AM |
| 105 | TRP is real, 80/20 rule is realYes, I remember going out to an 80's themed bar years ago. And there was a group of like 15-20 people in their mid-20's. About half were girls and half were guys. They were all pretty nerdy (obviously into anime/gaming just by their clothing). None of them were particularly attractive. But I saw one dude in the group that was "decent" looking (tallest, decent face), but had scraggly hair and wore a shitty oversized button up shirt with Japanese writing on it. And just based on observation, he wa… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 12:26 AM |
| 5 | LTR lied about n-countYeah the bisexual thing is a huge red flag. I get the appeal that dudes think it's hot because of porn and threesome fantasies. But I have literally never met one bisexual chick that was LTR material. Ever. They may be fun and cool to hang out with but they are always a train wreck in the making. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Are all Male/Female sexual relationships inherently adversarial at the foundational level?This is why some men become MGTOW. Some men use red pill knowledge to game and conquer and some men turn away and live their lives on their terms alone. Every dude has their way of handling the realities of the women this day in age. But yeah, everything you said is basically true unfortunately. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Reading FictionThis is the problem I see in the red pill community. Many men on here are on mission for self improvement (which is great). But it gets to a point where they begin questioning every little move they make along the way. I remember even reading a post about a guy arguing that music should be eliminated from a man's journey due to risks of stimulating too many emotions. That's pure insanity to me. Bro, its important to use your time efficiently to improve, I get it. But if you want to read a damn b… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Is the pandemic going to shift the 80/20 rule?Yes it will. No question. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 12:46 PM |
| 8 | LTR mentioned how they are struggling that I am shorter than themThat doesn't sound good. I'm 5'6 and we definitely face a whole other world of problems in life. Especially when it comes to women. I wouldn't flat out drop her. But just act nonchalant and enjoy her. If she brings it up again, then I'd call her out followed by a hard next. At that point, you don't want to waste more time. Her bringing this up a second time would prove that it is indeed a big issue for her. And its something that can never change no matter what you or she does. Just be ready for… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Is “female nature” less prominent in other countries that aren’t the USA?I doubt it. Maybe some differences as far as social/cultural norms but women are still women at the end of the day. People talk shit about America but I'd say its worse in other places. Especially where hustling is more essential for survival. Places like these are where hypergamy has even less shame. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Is Black Pill full of shit?I have read a lot on red pill theory and have even started reading and listening to a lot of content on black pill theory out of curiosity. It's interesting to me because I'm a naturally (poor genetics) low SMV man, (5'6, bald, struggled in school, speak with a lisp, and others). Naturally, females avoided me like the plague from my teens until my late 20s when I decided to improve. I did manage to get laid and had a few LTRS. But they were mostly low value/damaged women. My latest (2 years) ex … | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Being friendly/nice to low SMV people always backfiresI was a misguided, confused, depressed and lazy person for most of my life. Once I turned around 32 (yes, I know), I wanted to change things. Now I'm 35 and finally about to get my own little home within the year. But let me tell you, most of my friends were in the same shoes as I. We definitely had a misery loves company group going. And as soon as I started taking baby steps toward improvement, they all got very nasty with me. At first it was confusing to me but now I have the experience and i… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 2 | How Often Are High SMV Men Usually Red-Pill Aware?It really depends on a case by case basis. There are many pretty boys who are winners and had external validation since childhood. These types generally are aware of their status but unaware of how women "really" operate. In fact women are so nice to them and are willing to fuck them so easily that they tend to be more blue pilled. Because in their world, women are sweet, loving and always validate them. So when shit testing or other manipulation takes place, they tend to give in or just write i… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Does the red pill apply to gay men?I'm not gay so I can't say anything with the utmost certainty when it comes to your question. But the red pill has many life lessons about "life" and people in general. There are many great posts on fitness, finances, how to deal with people in the workplace, etc. I'm sure you would find value in a lot of those resources. However when it comes to dating advice, the red pill community primarily consists of straight men who are having discussions on how to navigate the modern dating market. That s… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls cheat because of “female nature/psychology” but guys don’t ?Almost all girls can cheat quickly if they so choose. Most men don't have many options besides their LTR. We live in an era where a having a cell phone will get obese women laid within a day. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 03:05 PM |
| 19 | Your Suppose To Be Looking For A WifeI found myself a wife. More than one actually. And they always went back home to their husbands in the evening. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | What about the incompetent men and the Red Pill?I'm not a black-pilled person. I'm just speaking from what I have observed in my life. I really do believe that some men are just born to not succeed in one or more areas. There was a man I knew back when I worked at a grocery store in my late teens. He was middle aged and was in charge of collecting the shopping carts. This dude was about 5'3, had a severe hunchback and clearly had a learning disability. I was able to talk to him and have conversations but he was very simple minded. The unfortu… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | We need Rollo on Joe RoganI would love to see this also. But I think Rollo is too much even for him. Especially now that he's under Spotify's payroll. He was getting attacked a lot just for having Alex Jones who we all know made a couple previous appearances pre-Spotify. And Joe is a touch different now. I sense that he is a bit more cautious and not quite as unplugged as before. The Alex Jones appearances pissed a lot of people off. But think about it. It's Alex Jones. A guy who screams about inter-dimensional alien ped… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do women like bad boys?Almost all men dedicate their lives to woo and impress women. This is predictable behavior and women are hardwired to expect it. So a typical dude is nothing special. But when a bad boy comes along, his behavior fucks with her head and she seeks to conquer him (because all other men beg for her to conquer them which is boring and pathetic to her). Bad boys are masters (whether consciously or not) at the push/pull part of game because they genuinely don't give a shit. And this makes women salivat… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What's up with early 20s chicks being major potheads?In my 20's weed was starting to gain steam but was still mostly used among adults in the low class crowd (was still more of a teenage phase) . But drinking was the big one. Women in their early 20's-30's drank as much or sometimes more so than the dudes. I remember when I was a kid in the 90's, when I would go to parties/events, its was usually only the husband or boyfriend that would have a beer next to them. IF the woman drank, the she would just sip on the same glass of wine for most of the s… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | 35 Year Old Living Above Mom? Need Input.My mom is very content with her house as it took her years of harsh struggle to get it paid off and making it to her liking. And she's doesn't have the energy levels or health to sell everything and make such a big move. On top of that, she has her family and friends out here in the area. So overall it would be kind of a bad deal for her. And I honestly don't want my ambitions to interfere with her accomplishments and style of living if that makes sense. It's partly a cultural thing as well. My … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Am I wrong to think that fame is the ultimate catnip for women?Yeah, I agree. I live in Southern California (LA area). And I have known men who had tons of money but didn't get much pussy due to being introverts and not being known. But I have seen many "local celebrity" types that seem to lack cash but are swimming in female attention. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How to change myself and my reputation with an old friend group?Change/Improvement for yourself is always possible. But changing how a past person or group sees you may not always be, and is almost never worth it. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Serious, is having gf/relationship a necessity for life?I actually agree with this. Genetics are incredibly important when it comes to appearance. Take me for example, I started balding at 19. I used to have weight issues but worked out/ate right and it actually aged me more. So now at 35 people think I'm in my 40's. Meanwhile I work with this dude (same age) that eats fast food everyday, smokes cigarettes and drinks heavily. But he does work out and he looks incredible. He's dumb as a brick but his genetics mixed with working out grants him great lo… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 12:30 PM |
| 10 | How Does the Average Man Struggle SO Much With Dating Women?This is my story as well. Plus throw in being short. I'm 35 now and was able to get some lays and have had a few LTRS but it still is a struggle. The red pill helped me but the effects of (early in life) lack of experience and physical shortcomings are almost impossible to overcome completely. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 03:42 AM |
| 2 | The quiet, shy, loner type girl.Be careful. I don't know the girl so take this with a grain of salt. But back when I was in college these types of girls (like the one you are describing) were the ones that tended to catch my attention. The cute but simple looking girls give the impression of being laid back and more level headed. Once I got to know them, I usually found out that they were wolves in sheep's clothing (were downlow very promiscuous, had very weird personalities/psycho, etc.). But give it a shot, this one may be d… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | How to game with a stripper at the strip club?One of my neighbors was a DJ at a strip club for a few years. And he said that the girls generally fucked the customers that had street cred/dangerous or were involved in some local criminal activities (drug dealers/gang members and associates). They'd rather fuck the baggy clothed, do-rag wearing dude that deals coke to the bouncers over the clean cut entrepreneur type. These are the types of men that strippers generally get the tingles for because they are showered with validation from simps o… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 07:30 PM |
| 17 | If you have looks money status but your a simp will you still be successful with women?Looks and money will get you women. There is no question about that. I'd even say that a hot simp will have more options than an ugly guy with better game up front. The problem is that you will always be at their mercy if you have no game. I have a friend that is literally a triple sixer (6 ft., 6 figure income, 6 pack) and women treat him like a celebrity at social events. Years ago he "fell in love" with a below average chick and despite being well below his SMV, she eventually took hold over … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Talking trash when you’re an easy targetMy blue-pilled self still dislikes the idea of attacking people, and potentially hurting their feelings. It’s to the point that I don’t even think about what I could possibly hit someone with if they decide to come at me first. And that’s gotta go. Shit man, I thought I was the only one lol. It's this weird vicious circle where you are appalled that people can throw harsh jabs at you without a second though, yet you can't do it because you don't want to hurt anyone. I still struggle with this. I… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Anyone noticing how women are becoming more and more hostile towards men?I wasn't complaining about my height. If you read it you would see that I eventually shut her up because she couldn't break me. The point was to share the experience and have a discussion about how bad things have gotten. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Anyone noticing how women are becoming more and more hostile towards men?That's exactly what I did. I'm not complaining about my height. I'm pointing out how relentless women have become these days. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 07:15 PM |
| 8 | Is it normal to have days where you feel amazing, then days where you feel like a complete loser?It's normal. Especially these days. Just don't allow yourself to self destruct or lose your dignity in this world. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 24 | Girl is fucking a man behind my back? I'm Bisexual and he is too should I have a threesome?My girlfriend accidentally gave her classmate a blowjob after having two shots, she said that it didn't hit her until he started to cum and she immediately spit it out, out of respect for me. I thanked her for that. But I think it might be a red flag. What do you guys think? | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't women funny?I've never seen a female comedian that I liked or made me laugh. But in real life I have met quite a few funny women. My ex was actually pretty hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 11:49 PM |
| 10 | Why do you care so much about winning the affections of women?Some of us came from families where loyalty and respect were normal. My parents stayed married until my father died at 40 (my mom was 35). They struggled together, helped each other out, and she stood by him through his illness day and night when she wasn't working. She never remarried and didnt date another person until she was in her 50's. And she was an attractive woman that took care of herself. She just felt that she could never be with another man for almost 20 years because she felt like … | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Are lesbians real?I think genetics play a role in how masculine/feminine people can be. But women are a bit peculiar when it comes to being "gay". Most gay dudes that I know are very gay. They may even act masculine but they fuck nothing but dudes. Lesbians on the other hand tend to switch off more regularly. I knew a girl that was a total tomboy and always refused to wear make up or skirts/dresses. She dated girls for years and was very active in the lesbian community. Then one day she came into work and confess… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 09:16 PM |
| 63 | Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut?There are multiple reasons for this. But I think it basically comes down to the current ideologies that are taught to females and society in general. Women nowadays are told to embrace their sexuality, to explore, to be relentless in their pursuit of happiness (even if it means breaking their family apart). So if a woman lives the slut life, she is cheered on by her fellow females and even legions of beta males. The problem is that this type of lifestyle that women embrace now totally contradict… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Do yall use lower quality women to practice your sex game?I did this. When I was in my mid-20s I had very little experience with women sexually. First I started hanging out at cougar dens, then started hitting on younger (low SMV) girls. Over time you find that you become more and more confident and one day you will be fucking a girl with good looks. I get that you're asking this to see if it's a good move or a pathetic move. But don't feel shame, not all of us were born naturally gifted to attract lots of women. You will have to challenge yourself a b… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there a decent amount of hot female celebrities with average looking guys?Well when it comes to the hot woman star marrying/dating the ugly guy, it's not so much for show. It's more for something she gains from the union. But celebrity marriages are very much a sham for the most part. They have a track record for it.Hollywood actually has a fascinating history of celebrity marriages/unions from the "Golden Era". These people partied hard and had many vices. But studios would basically have arranged marriages for the public image. They even had "fixers" which were basi… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 07:06 PM |
| 5 | All the YouTube redpill personalities except for the official channel are just chumps. Anybody else feel this way?I agree. He gets pretty deep which is cool. And its not all about women and relationships. There is a lot of introspect that he shares regarding life in general. Cool stuff. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 04:28 PM |
| 10 | All the YouTube redpill personalities except for the official channel are just chumps. Anybody else feel this way?Rollo's books are some of the best out there for red pill content. But his Youtube Channel/Podcast episodes started to get too repetitive. And they are all like three hours of him just talking which is kind of much. Coach Red Pill has some good info but his delivery and demeanor are kind of eccentric. And he has that weird 1940's movie villain laugh that makes him seem dorky. Entrepreneurs in Cars is a pretty good one. He has solid info and has a lot of shorter but valuable videos. Donovan Sharp… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 03:50 PM |
| 2 | If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there a decent amount of hot female celebrities with average looking guys?Society has changed much since ancient times yet we are still very much the same animals. Remember in history class how we learned about alliances between kingdoms through marriage? It's basically the same idea with celebrities/businessman. A hot female star is not going to marry an ugly dude if there is no benefit to her. We may never know the specifics but there is always a reason. The business and entertainment worlds are full of people with strong connections and power. Celebrities are basic… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Does being rude work in an LTR?Being a dick all the time will almost certainly drive her away in time. But as far as doing it for setting boundaries/holding frame, it really heavily depends on your overall SMV. Let's say a couple begins to argue over her bad behavior and she starts to step back.... If a tall, successful dude tells his woman to "come here, now!' and points to the ground, she will likely put her head down and obey. If a short, poor dude does it, she will tell him to fuck off and he will end up becoming another … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 05:40 PM |
| 16 | I don't feel I have any sort of "mission" in life, nothing to aspire to, other than wanting to be happier with myselfYou remind me of myself. I'm 35 and in the same boat. At the moment I am back in school to work on my welding degree and I've been saving money (living with mom again) to buy a small house in a cheaper state. But this is the most "driven" I've ever felt. I feel like I was molded to be a drone as well. Sometimes I think about finally buying that house, sitting in the living room alone and thinking, "is that all?". The thought kind of scares me. It scares me because I'm not the type of person who … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Is there ever any real disadvantage to dating down?I get the logic behind your reasoning for dating down. But honestly, in todays marketplace, no man is 100% safe. Just maybe 50 years ago an exceptionally ugly woman would likely be a forever housemaid/nanny or her parents' caretaker (especially outside of the West). Nowadays, a beady eyed landwhale with chest tattoos and cellulite just needs a cell phone and the cocks start rolling in. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 01:43 PM |
| 4 | The more women I get the stranger my relationships with male friends becomeBro, just calm down and stop being a prick. Fuck women and cherish good friends. Very simple. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Is Vegas easy?Been to Vegas many times and never got laid there. Too many big groups and even nightclub gaming was difficult because the women were usually trashed and belligerent. Sure people do get laid there, but it's not as "easy" as everyone thinks it is. That's just me. But I'm sure another dude will chime in and claim to have fathered 10% of the Vegas child population. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 5 | What is the most important aspect of the redpill?This should be the official TRP motto. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What's the best strategy for a man who wants kids but doesn't want marriage?Adoption. Otherwise chances are slim that you will find that type of arrangement with a woman without any type of legal risks in the long term. Unfortunately you are a man, and society will hold you responsible therefore, you'll be running through a minefield. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How much should I try before giving up is the best course?I'm a short (5'5) bald dude and I'm overweight (203lbs). It's not easy but I was still able to pull some ass. I recently ended a 2 year LTR with an HB7 that was in shape and taller than me. That was all game. She eventually did the woman thing and fucked it all up. But damn...with my stats, I'd say anything can be done if done right. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 05:47 AM |
| 3 | How much should I try before giving up is the best course?I don't know you personally so I can't make a very accurate assessment on why you are not doing great with women. Maybe you're trying too hard. Maybe something about your look. Maybe its a combination of things. While I certainly wouldn't give up on trying to get laid or date someone, I'd say you need to manage your expectations. Don't try to approach a ton of hard bodied young white girls and expect tons of success. Is it impossible? No. Very likely? No. The red pill community is a great source… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Vegas solo?troglodyte friends make it worse THIS. Went to Vegas way too many times with these types. They were ok during the day when just walking around and sightseeing. But when the nightlife started, they looked like they were dumped on another planet. One of them even had a decent looking girl invite him to another bar close by and clearly wanted to smash and he literally said "no thank you" and ran away. Yes he RAN. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Am I in a abusive relationship?No. Completely normal. She hit you because she loves you and you are taking too long to propose. And if you don't impregnate her soon after, she may shoot you. But don't take that personal either. She loves you and you have a wonderful catch. Unicorn, I'd say. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Will women lose their positive advantage over men in society with things like onlyfans becoming the “norm”?Meanwhile, the overweight, old or sub 6 women, will become more difficult for average guys because the high ranking males will shift their target group to lower ranking women in order to compensate for the loss in previously attainable higher ranking women. This has already happened. I'd even say it's been like this for over a decade. I remember going out to parties/social events in the early/mid-2000s and seeing this firsthand on a regular basis. But now it has become more blatant and obvious w… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Signs of a CheaterIt's amazing to see how common stories like that are. And it's going to get worse. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | 30 yo virgin seeking adviceI felt the same way. But it's not bad, trust me. Your anxiety is all in your head. No one cares. The key is to sit at the actual bar (counter). And try to sit as close to the center as possible. That way you have access to more traffic of people and even some talking with the bartender. Don't sit at the end because that is where you'll be "that guy in the corner". People there will be drinking so they will be more social. If you're afraid, now's the time to break it. Trust me, the older you get … | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Signs of a CheaterOne important thing to watch out for is her family history. If she grew up in a dysfunctional home, it could lead to problems down the road. Especially if she grew up with toxic parents where lies and/or narcissistic behaviors were the norm. These types of things will warp her moral compass significantly. Also, daddy issues which I think is pretty self explanatory. Although not 100% fool proof, her family history will manifest itself through her in many ways. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | What RP lesson was so bitter for you?Finding out that despite close observations and harsh backlash after expressing what I always saw, I was right about women all along. Part of me always hoped I was wrong. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | 30 yo virgin seeking adviceStart going to dive bars alone. Have a drink or two then start talking to the people there. Most are there to unwind or have a good time. You'll find that you might have some fun times. This can help with your social skills. You might even eventually hook up with someone. But be careful. Don't get mixed up with shady people and don't get trashed. Do this to kind help break your funk then branch out from there. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | "I want kids... but not with you"She was crying hysterically because she lost out on the extra $350k a year. Good for him! Too many men would just do what the woman says. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Went on first date with a girl, she said something I found disrespectful, how should I have handled it?I second this. Also, the fact that his ex was supposedly very attractive made him more intriguing. Her shit testing was her own way of screening him and investigating what the ex saw in him. She subconsciously felt a bit intimidated in a weird way. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Do mothers make the best partners? Are there specific red flags about happy, thriving, childfree women over 30?I've never dated single moms. But I have seen some friends/relatives date single moms and results were mixed but generally not ideal for the man. As far as dating in the 30's, yeah. Just the fact that a woman is single in her 30's is already red flag enough. If a woman is in her 30's and single (assuming she is not super religious), chances are she concentrated on herself as far as career and/or she wasted time fucking the wrong people. She probably went through a party phase and hooked up with … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's little competition when it comes to dating?Yeah, it's ironic. My last two exes were white girls and one was 5'8 and the other 5'9. Height was almost never mentioned as well. I usually had issues with shorter girls. Maybe its due to their own complexes and fear of having short sons. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's little competition when it comes to dating?This is just from my own observation: 5'7 & below= Short 5'8-5'9= Shorter, but not visually blatant 5'10=Normal 5'11=Normal but on the taller side 6'0+=Tall | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's little competition when it comes to dating?I'm Hispanic but from Italian ancestry living in Southern Cali. I've actually had higher success with white women believe it or not. I usually don't fit the bill for a lot of Hispanics (thuggish/ghetto). Plus even though they can be hot, they are too much a lot of the time (attitude/anger issues). Asians are a no go, they usually only want Asian or hot white guys (which doesn't bother me, they were never my thing). | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 12:17 PM |
| 8 | Do you think there's little competition when it comes to dating?I'm not gonna lie, being a short dude (5'6) makes things very difficult. Short men are becoming less and less common especially in the US. So women tend to automatically next us on sight. A lot of millenial (and younger) women are over 5'6 also. Sure, you can be a badass in all other areas and have moderate success. But the fellow short dudes that I knew that got laid frequently had to develop the Napolean Complex and have the cash to bump their social proof. And despite the fact that they got s… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are women naturally so good at harrassing men psychologically?However, it is very clear that women generally don't assert dominance over other women with through physical intimidation and the threat of violent confrontation. Have you been to the hood? Some of those dominant type women will kick the shit out of other women. My childhood best friend's mother was a physician that worked in the prison system. And I remember that she would tell us that the women prisoners (in her experience) were far more likely to have physical confrontations than the males. S… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Friend didn't had enough Karma and needed advice : My(29M) fiancée(30M) told me about her past and I know I’m the “safe option” and it’s killing me. I don’t want to break up, but getting married sounds bad now, what should I do?I know that it's easier said than done. But I would seriously consider not going through with the marriage. We can't tell the future so there is always a possibility that a marriage with her will last. But chances are that after the post wedding euphoria, life will happen and things will start to get shaky. And if you start having kids with her, she will have absolute power. Think of it this way, if you split up before marriage, the worst that will happen is that you feel pain for a while. But i… | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/08/20 10:58 AM |
| 2 | What went wrong ?This. If I knew this during my 20's, my N count would have been more than doubled lol. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 6 | I don't respect women anymoreI grew up pretty low SMV. And that alone made me very red pill aware. I saw first hand how flat out relentless women can be with guys they deem "inferior". It was confusing because this was when third wave feminism was gaining steam. And we were supposed to believe that women were these angelic compassionate creatures that could fix the world from men's mistakes. Then when I started reading TRP, that is where I learned to get better at game, frame, etc. And sure, I had more success with women as… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Is it impossible for women to be in a monogamous relationship as this study says? Can this explain why women start 80% of divorces here? is Boredom inevitable for women?like if you take your girl to a rock concert and she sees Chad onstage, but you're only Chad in your own workplace and social-circles, she might be looking at you different that night. This. One of my first harsh red pill lessons. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | I called the cops on my (ex)LTR for DV. She was arrested/charged and I feel terrible...I understand that you feel bad because it sounds like you are a good person. And that whole situation does sound shitty. But try not to beat yourself up over it. She had no reason to attack you like she did. And believe me, I've been around emotional drunk girls a lot, and I only rarely saw this type of behavior. It looks like you got a glimpse of her true inner nature. And don't feel "weak" by calling the cops. The only other way to stop her was to knock her ass down yourself, and that would ha… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 03:10 AM |
| 10 | Why do you think girls are so prone to block people?It's one of the ways that they feel a sense of "winning" in a conflict. And they usually do win. Too many men get just as upset when blocked and try to win them over again. Remember, in regards to inter sexual dynamics, politics, culture, woman have won.They run the show now (arguably for over 20 years). And they still aren't done yet (and probably won't be for a long while, if ever). They feel powerful because they are powerful. Many men like to think that women are just drunk with delusion but… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 4 | One downside of swallowing the pillto stay the video game playing, gang bang porn chronic masturbating, fat lazy fucks that they are. As a matter of fact that's what I'm doing tonight. Gonna drink whiskey, play some PS4, watch a bunch of hot white chicks eat each other out with their colorful butt plugs inserted while I drain my balls, then eat some pizza after. Why? Because why not? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 04:14 AM |
| 1 | What are the dangers of Red Pill? (it is new for me)Lying and manipulating someone is bad regardless of your or the other person's gender. I agree. But be careful out there. It's gonna be a rough out there for you as far as I can tell. I can already tell you haven't been on this earth too long, so I won't judge. But you'll see at some point. Took a while for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/20 04:07 AM |
| 7 | What to do with absolute loser male friends. Keep or cut them off?I've had this problem in the past. The way I see it, if they are otherwise decent dudes, it's ok to have contact with them. But if their whole purpose revolves around how their lives suck, they probably suffer from some psychological masochism and will have a tough time breaking away from their mindset. Therefore, I would limit time spent with them but make new friends that have it together. Remember that if you hang out with losers, outsiders will see you as one of them. This happened to me. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What are the dangers of Red Pill? (it is new for me)It will give you a warped idea of how to connect with them that relies on lies and manipulation So basically do what women already do to men? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 3 | One friend is hating on me for some reasonI've been through this type of thing throughout my life as well. Reasons can vary from case to case. When I was younger, up until around 23ish, I had a few "friends" throughout that time that treated me similar to what you are describing. In those cases I was a super nice ugly beta with little back bone. The friends in question would clearly target me but always treated others in the groups with far more respect. I figured out that they basically felt like shit on some level and they needed to c… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Shamed by men for now wanting to get married????This. Not worth the bullshit to explain how you really feel about things. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/08/20 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi quoteThe vast, vast majority of men are blue pill, and to them, lack of relationship = lack of female validation = feelings of defectiveness, "something is wrong with me," feeling like a loser. THAT is what the killer is, not lack of sex (lack of sex never killed anyone) I agree with you for the most part. Lack of sex definitely is not in itself a fatal state to be in. Some dudes might even be able to get by focusing on other things. But then there are guys like me who still want sex very much. In my… | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/08/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi quoteThis | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/08/20 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi quoteNope. It's another dude's story and he analyzed the situation. He talks about his wife pretty often even now. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/08/20 08:13 AM |
| 6 | Rollo Tomassi quoteDepends how you do it. But as much as I love Rollo's work, he paints too positive of a picture for the forever bachelor. Sure if you're a middle aged guy that's broke and generally a loser, you will basically by a second class citizen. Women are always offered a hand throughout their lives. Men, if we don't make the right decisions, we either self-destruct or become lonely saps. Because no one gives a shit about men in general. And the older, poorer, even uglier guys are "bleh" to most people. B… | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Rollo Tomassi quoteNot true. Listened to his podcast a couple days ago and he was talking about how his marriage is a success but marriage not might be the same for everyone. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 4 | Guys, how do you feel about being called a "husband material" ?Yeah back in my late teens/early 20's, being a mature and respectful guy, I took it as a compliment and felt I was on the right track and would find a good woman. Then as the years passed, I realized it was a sign of low value due to my lack of success in dating. Women definitely "liked" me always at arms length. Meanwhile they were out there hooking up and making bad decisions with all types of dudes. Then I gave up on love and women suddenly starting having sex with me. Ironic, right? . | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 14 | Showing anger = loosing frame? What about guys like Patrice O'neal?His anger wasn't whiny which was key. He wasn't complaining about shit. Most of the time he got worked up was when he was getting a point across. But still, I'm sure there were times where he lost frame, as do all of us. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 42 | Is there a new wave of RP guys on here who are taking things a bit differently?I actually thought the same thing. I think that it has to do with bringing new opinions regarding the red pill theories. When I first started lurking, it was mostly very "fuckboy" centered. Many of the dudes would talk about how they learned frame and now live the Dan Blitzerian life and the champagne and pussy squirts were flowing wherever they are. And a lot of red pill theory was very black and white. Now I'm seeing a lot of expansions to what things like the sidebar present. Not necessarily … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How to game low interest women?You can do it but you probably won't fuck a ton of women. Unless you're at top shit SMV, most women will be kinda bleh with you in the beginning. And even with game, most will fall off the radar. Plus, doing this doesn't guarantee that you won't fuck a crazy bitch. Some women act like they don't give a shit at first but when you're fucking them from behind and pull their hair, they want to have your baby all of a sudden. Dicking women in general is always a risk. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 03:03 AM |
| 4 | “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”The expression "she's not yours, it's just your turn" isn't meant to mean that men "own" the women until they don't. It means that women in today's age generally aren't satisfied in their relationships for the long haul. This is despite the fact that most claim and even believe to want long term commitment from a "good guy". Women nowadays have more power, more education, more opportunities and society makes them out to be super heroes. I'm not saying that women having these freedoms is a bad th… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Does the hedonic treadmill apply to women to? Meaning do you eventually get used to them and not find them as sexy after a while?Yeah. Back when I was chubby and kind of loser, I went after a girl that was out of my league (great body, taller than me, super cool). I was able to get her because I still had moderately effective game, and we ended up in an LTR for two years. And at first I thought I was dreaming because I had mixed results with mostly 5-6 range girls. Every time we fucked, I felt like I needed to pinch myself because I was sticking my dick into something so beautiful. About maybe a year in, that excitement s… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Can we ever save womenNo. I think that society is way past the point of return. I agree with Rollo Tomassi in that unfettered hypergamy has become blatant and even a source of pride for women. And men are becoming more and more feminine each generation. I mean look at popular Youtube channels. You will see skinny soyboys talking fast and behaving similar to gay guys. Then the attractive girl with glasses will chime in and the guy will sit there smiling and nodding like an idiot. That's what we've become. I've said th… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Why are bisexual women much pickier with men than with women?Who cares? Bi Women= Damaged Goods. Good for fucking. Shit for commitment. Never met an exception. A lot nowadays like to even admit upfront that they are bisexual. My theory is that they feel it is some form of power play. And they want men to feel intimidated and turned on at the same time. That is how they weed out the weaker ones. But their "winners" are still usually in for a shitstorm. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 7 | Why I am trying to be more "ugly" to attract the women I really wantSome? Maybe. Vast majority? Doubtful. Six pack with a record usually beats beer gut with a job. Especially for fucking. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 22 | When a woman trully disrespects you what is the right thing to do?If you are at a party, and a girl you're chatting up becomes a cunt then just do "agree & amplify" then start talking to whoever is in the vicinity immediately. Don't try to "put her in her place", because deep down she knows that all she has to do is raise her voice and the party will come to her rescue. And you will basically have the word "asshole" imprinted on your forehead for the rest of the night. Just ditch and talk to another girl. That's how you put her in her place. Show her that she … | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Are Latinas naturally more hostile and stuck up if they are hot?I'm from Latin descent (Italian/Argentine) and I live in Southern California where there is a massive Latino population (mostly Mexicans). One thing that I can say is that Latina girls (this generation) are an interesting anomaly. Now obviously not all are the same. But a good chunk of the younger Latina girls are a weird combination of feminist, ghetto and traditional. They carry a lot of their ancestors customs and beliefs with them and "believe" that they are all wife material. But on the fli… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to move a couple of hours away, should I tell her I will break up with her?Sounds like you don't care. Just let her go if she goes. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts On The Patrice O'neal GamePatrice was spitting out red pill knowledge way before the red pill was even a thing. Super funny and super bright, but he was still human. There were some things that I remember not agreeing with. For example he talked about going to swing clubs with his LTR, and was ok with other dudes fucking her. He also kind of had weird philosophies on relationships in general. I remember he even advised a dude to just be stronger with his cheating girlfriend to avoid losing her. But his "game" advice was … | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 10:32 AM |
| 6 | My ltr is testing my frameMale roommates? One of them gifted her a rug with sexual innuendo? Something about her is communicating to him that this is alright. Watch this carefully. It's clear that she hasn't given him any vibes of having boundaries. And the gift is his indirect way of throwing the fishing line into the pond hoping she'll bite. The only way I might give it a pass is if it was her queeny gay friend. But even then, not ok with it overall. Remember women (especially nowadays) have a poor sense of agency. He'… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Red pill opinion on menUsing the terms "alpha" and "beta" are used as figures of speech when discussing human males. It's not used as a literal label of actual hierarchies that human societies officially practice . But in my opinion, we do have similar characteristics. When it comes to men, there are the stronger, more stoic, more leader like types in social groups. We humans naturally create these hierarchies ourselves in almost all organizations. Corporations always have a top dog, gangs have a top dog, we even stil… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/20 12:45 PM |
| 29 | If a high SMV guy tries to talk to or get attention from a girl I’m with, how do I keep them both in line without mate guarding.This happened to me multiple times. But once we were at a bar and this dude kept chatting up my ex LTR. She was a friendly person so she talked out of politeness and didnt act flirty. So when he kept talking I just listened for my chance to chime in then it got all of us talking casually. Then after a few minutes, I told her that I was going out for a smoke. This was to test her. She followed immediately. Basically just watch him but watch her more (on the down low). Try not to get upset with th… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Should you really not date any single woman over 30?I don't want to say 100% because I obviously haven't/dated met all 30+ year old women. But in my experience they tend to be more eager which can seem cool to a beta/loser. However, almost all had some skeletons in their closet that they would either try to hide or wait until late in the relationship. I dated a Mexican chick that was a solid 7 with amazing tits. We hit it off pretty quick and were fucking and having a great time. I LTRed her after a few months then almost a year later she confess… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 12:22 AM |
| 66 | If you don't have good friends, that needs to be a serious goal before any kind of long term relationship with a woman. They can save your life.Yup. Learned this the hard way. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Buying a house as a bachelor? Smart movie or terrible?At this current time, buying vs. renting (in Tampa) appears to be about the same. Depending on what you buy, you're looking at around $1300 a month. But I'd say within five years there is a solid chance that buying will be more expensive. That is if the pandemic doesn't mutate into a killer virus that wipes half of us out lol. There is a lot of focus in the area as of late and out of state migrants are driving everything up. Same thing happened in Orange County, CA 20 years ago, and more recentl… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Buying a house as a bachelor? Smart movie or terrible?Probably not a whole lot in the beginning. I'm guessing between $20-$25 an hour then more with experience. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Buying a house as a bachelor? Smart movie or terrible?Probably long term. It looks like prices in the state will go up quickly in the coming years. And Tampa is an area that always pops up as one of the best places to live for millennial. There is even a lot of gentrification going on there. I was in the area in 2017 and I saw a decent 3 bedroom house with a nice yard for around $175k. Now is in 2020 that same house is back on the market for $250k. That's a huge jump in just three years. COVID is driving the area's prices up as well due to mostly N… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 11:03 PM |
| 8 | born again "virgin"They are just women who got burned by the party/slut phase. Now they want security through a man they can control. Any man that dates and accepts her new "virginity" will start off the relationship under her frame and she wins. Very dangerous to get involved if you are a beta. Because the inner slut is always there, and there is a solid chance she will relive it when the time is right. They are branding themselves as born again virgins as a form of peacocking to attract men to secure her long te… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.Thanks, dude. Great points. And great stories. Very inspirational. And you're right about using knowledge of multiple things to do one great thing. And like I said, I won't give up. It just gets discouraging at times. But we have power through. Appreciate the solid advice. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.So there's a couple of dilemmas I always faced as far back as I remember. First, I'm not a great learner. During elementary and even in high school there were numerous teachers that recommended I get tested because of my poor performance. And it wasn't laziness, I just didn't grasp the information as quickly as the average student. Even now I notice learning is tougher for me. Especially if you introduce something I never knew before. Sure, everyone will struggle with something new in the beginn… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 09:05 PM |
| 26 | Red Pill recommended movies?-"Blue Valentine" definitely. Perfect depiction of AF/BB. -"Swingers" is a good one too. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 11:17 AM |
| 2 | The redpill has made me scared of the average women.Yeah I feel. Even the "good" ones will show their claws at some point. But it is something that we in this community have to be grateful for. Grateful in the sense that we have the means to defend ourselves and identify red flags before things get out of hand. A lot of us here, despite all this knowledge, have a deep seated longing for something genuine and true. Call it Blue Pill, and it may be, but the idea of meeting an attractive girl who loves us for us is a nice thought. That is the traged… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 07:59 AM |
| 5 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.Interesting. How much of the native language do you need to know to do the work competently? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.Awesome. I appreciate the response. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.Thanks for the reply. Something to consider for sure. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 02:04 AM |
| 2 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.Thanks for the reply. And no disrespect, but they aren't just excuses. A lot was sacrificed during my years in the workforce. You really have no idea. Sometimes people just get a bad hand. But I won't give up. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 02:04 AM |
| 22 | What makes a man Physically unattractiveDefinitely. I second this. Unless you're an elderly man with osteoporosis, bad posture can make you look like a failure to anyone. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How would communism affect the sexual marketplace?Looks and social status (in the form of popularity) would be even more essential. Examples: athletes, dark triad types. BB would be virtually eliminated. As literally less than .01% would have true monetary power. The Soviet Union's SMP was probably a bit different due to the fact that they were around in a different time and were pretty isolated from outside influence (didn't adopt America's take on feminism). Therefore, they still held on to more traditional values. Their version of "communism… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 11:15 AM |
| 19 | CLOSE, CLOSE CLOSE: The Importance Of Killer InstinctReminds me of my first unintentional red pill moment that happened about 10 years ago. I was at a bar with a friend and these two girls walked in. The more attractive one was eyeing me and she kept trying to butt in to our conversation. She and her friend left for a about a half hour to another place then came back in a bit buzzed. Me being a blue pilled simp, I acted casual and nice. I knew she was into me but I was so bad I didn't know how to escalate. When the bar closed she got aggressive by… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Take Rejection So Poorly?True. | /r/MGTOW | 11/07/20 02:03 AM |
| 3 | How do some Naturals get 10s when their SMV is low??Being unique is similar to being polarizing. It will give you lots of "fuck yes" and "fuck no" type of interactions. The reason it works: 99 no's and a yes, is a yes. 100% | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How do some Naturals get 10s when their SMV is low??As I get older, I try to reject the "universe dictates our fates theory". But honestly, it's for my own sake and sanity. Because in reality, and in my experience and observations, it's true. I have seen stupid people have everything handed to them. I've seen smart people have tragedy after tragedy and never amount to anything just because the cards were stacked so hard against them. People, especially on TRP tend to hate this idea and believe in total accountability for success vs. failure. And … | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How do some Naturals get 10s when their SMV is low??Keep in mind, though, I never said that this dude had ALL the girls craving his attention. Sure the top tier bro hoes didn't pay much attention to him. They went after the jocks or rebellious grungy potheads. But a significant chunk of girls did, many were good looking also. He definitely got more attention than the typical guy in our class. At the time, we noticed this and were very confused by it. But now I know why. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Best Cities for Late 30s Bachelor to Buy Home?I would but I don't have the finances for it yet. That's what concerns me, the market is rising very rapidly in other states. I was born in raised in Orange County California and out here, it has been undo able (for buying a house) since around 2000. But I'm noticing prices are doubling in less than five years in other states. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 5 | How do some Naturals get 10s when their SMV is low??It's one of two things: 1)You aren't making an accurate assessment of the guys' SMV (they are better looking than you think) 2)They have impeccable or unique game. Could be genetics and/or environment that formed their minds into what they are. I have seen this multiple times in my life as well. There was an Asian dude I knew in high school back in the early 2000's. Total nerd in the sense that he was super into Pokemon games and super obsessed with anything to do with computers. He wasn't hands… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Best Cities for Late 30s Bachelor to Buy Home?Yeah, figured. Condos are ok but I do want a house with the yard to fix it to my liking. I guess, we'll have to see. By my estimation it will take me around 3-5 years to save what I need. Hopefully by then, Tampa doesn't double their prices. Another problem is the COVID situation. Homeowners from the big cities are afraid of the country's economic uncertainties. So they are selling their $600k houses and taking their equity money and buying houses cash in cheaper states. And Florida is a prime p… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Best Cities for Late 30s Bachelor to Buy Home?How is the housing market out there? I've been eyeing that area for a couple years and prices seem to be shooting up. I was in that area in 2017 and a house that I saw that cost $170k then is going for $230k now. That's a big jump in three years. It may take a few more to save the money that I ideally need. Do you think it will keep climbing? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Will growing a beard boost my SMV?Depends on a few things. Is your beard thick and full? Shape of your face. How long you want it to grow.... I'm balding so I shave my head. But fortunately I have a very thick dark beard and it makes me look 10 times better. Unfortunately I had to shave it for a temporary job and I noticed that female attention has dropped. But try it out and see how "you" like it. Trust me, there will be many who hate it. But fuck 'em. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 15 | In the 80/20 rule, what are the last 20 percent of women doing?What's the asian one, ChadChan? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Are gays attracted to red pilled alphas just like women?In my experience, most gays/lesbians that I've met come from unhealthy/abusive households with few exceptions. Don't even get me started on BI girls. 100% rate of crazy. Never met an exception. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Take Rejection So Poorly?Because it isn't normal for them. | /r/MGTOW | 09/07/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with condescending know it alls?Yeah just ignore him and be stoic when interacting with him. There are usually two types of these folks: one type is the annoying prick that no one respects and everyone dislikes, the other is the one that commands the room and everyone is afraid to challenge them. In either case, they should be ignored. Don't gift them with your attention, that is what they crave. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi Wrong?Great response. I agree. But still.. no one has answered my question...what about "Rollo Tomassi's theories" do you not agree with? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Rollo Tomassi Wrong?True. But Rollo brought more in the sense that he explained the "why". Not so much the "how to". His works helped men understand how women think and behave and that it's up to us to do what we will with that knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Rollo Tomassi Wrong?What parts of his writings do you consider outdated? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 05:07 AM |
| 4 | Take a look at ExRedPillPeople also process information differently. Two people can read the same book and have completely different interpretations of it. Many religions can use the same doctrine yet be at each other's throats because of philosophical differences. Same with the red pill. Some will see it as an awakening and become excited, some will see it and feel discouraged or nihilistic. And of course some will not believe in it at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?It depends. If her overall SMV is at least somewhat high and shes stable enough, I love it. But if she is doing it to sell you something for her own selfish agenda then hell no. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Man defends girlfriend, she flips out and becomes terrified of himYeah it isn't that cut and dry. All women like dominant men. But not all women like violent men. I have witnessed this type of thing myself. Back in the day there was an attractive couple that was part of our group of friends. He was a good looking "CHAD" type but pretty cool dude. His girlfriend was a hot as fuck asian girl that was pretty submissive to him. They were together for over six years. But one night we went bar hopping and some random dude was walking through a crowd and pushed the g… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 4 | Do all women use hypergamy?Hypergamy isn't solely based on wealth. It also considers physical appearance/genetics, social proof/status and overall competence. Sure you might see gold diggers marry ugly rich dudes that will take care of them and their kids. But chances are that she would be willing to cheat with a poorer but hotter looking dude (stereotypical pool boy analogy). Wealth is a factor but it is far more complex than that. The harsh truth is that you need to have more than satisfactory ability in almost all aspe… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on hate for Forever Bachelor'sA lot of MGTOWs are incels for sure. But I know that many just find other pleasurable experiences besides sex. I can see that because spinning plates and all that gets old for many and some dudes find better things to do instead. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Something that I am never going to understand...Because we as humans are all fundamentally not content with our lives. So if someone makes changes to improve, people will notice and feel resentment for that person achieving something they didn't. Essentially it's a primitive form of coping. This behavior can be found among people of all ages and social classes. It's like the whole bucket of crabs analogy. If there is a bucket full of crabs, there is a solid chance that the ones that try to climb out will be pulled back in. Don't be that crab.… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Best cities in U.S. for forever bachelor's???Where would you recommend then? | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 09:31 AM |
| 6 | Best cities in U.S. for forever bachelor's???Small towns were great for back in the day. This is when men and women would just get married and have a stable life. They would then have a close knit community and live comfortably with their neighbors. But nowadays, not so much, especially if you're a single dude. You'll just be that weirdo in town. Plus not many options as far as women. Suburbs I can do as long as there is a city close by. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 06:20 AM |
| 3 | So does AWALT apply to even religious girls?Oh hell yes, does it. I remember a coworker telling me about a cousin of his in a Hispanic church somewhere in LA. Well this cousin of his was a natural fuckboy since puberty (apparently his dad was also a notorious cheater/womanizer as well). Part of the reason that this family went to this church was to be "born again" because of the dad's behaviors. Well the dude that I'm talking about was apparently so good at fucking the girls at the church (even a female youth teacher) that the members of … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Can’t get along with femalesMaybe you get too "forward" too quick or don't set the right vibe. I had this problem. Just practice bro. But either way there will be some true bitches that are just bitches. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think Dating apps have an enormous amount of males compared to the amount of females?Men are thirsty for sex or love because it's challenging to obtain. Women are thirsty for attention because they get bored. Plus we live in a era where even fat chicks have all kinds of dick pointed at them. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 12:26 PM |
| 3 | What's a good book to start off with?Rational Male is essential reading. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls go for blue pilled man?Definitely a control thing on the women's part. But there are other factors involved as well. I myself have seen many BP guys get hot girls. However, most of the time, these dudes were fairly attractive/fit/tall but very beta. Therefore, she will fuck him out of physical attraction . And she will "appreciate" that he is fuckable AND nice for a while. That is, until his beta behaviors eventually turn her pussy into a desert over time. But I can guarantee you that you will never see a short, fat b… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 12:12 PM |
| 2 | How do I accept my height?Dude, that's Megyn Kelley (FOX News). And that is not her husband. Sorry bro. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Do all women have BPD symptoms?I agree to a certain extent. Women that are dolled up and around alcohol are definitely gonna be more impulsive and act bitchier and sluttier. But when interacting and observing women in all types of settings (bars/clubs, school, work, social circles) I came to my own conclusion. Bars/Clubs are the same as real life but in a far faster pace as far as sexual strategy. Women who are sober and in sober situations still have the same buttons to push but are better at keeping them hidden. They will a… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Does being very cocky/treating women poorly actually work?High SMV is essential to pull this off. You have to master at least 2 of the trifecta of getting women (looks,money,game). If you only mastered 1, it will only work temporarily at best. If you have none, she will just think you're a piece of shit that is a lower life form. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend and got drunk and broke up, then wants me back the next day. Leave or stay?Is every woman bisexual now? What the fuck? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 08:45 PM |
| 6 | People assume i'm a pussySo this is something that I've had issues with myself. For me its because I have a short and stumpy body type. And I also have a "warm" face which causes people to look at me and automatically assume I'm a nice and harmless person. The problem is, is that since I am not imposing physically, retaliations on my part are met with nasty comebacks and others will join in. People are subconsciously wired to see a smaller person and go "down boy" if they try to bare their teeth. I'm from Italian ancest… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do women prefer appearing happy, over being happy?Perfect answer | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 09:34 PM |
| 19 | Is 10 dicks a high N count for an 20 year old ? Is LTR even worth it in this case ?Enjoy her. But don't spend a cent on her. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | friends backbiting youMan, what you are describing is the story of my life. I've always had issues with friends letting me down. What I came to realize was that a lot of it came from envy (which you mentioned as well). I was always kind of the "higher beta among betas" in our circles, which meant I would organize hangouts, friends would meet through me, I would approach girls when out at bars, etc. They all liked me for the fact that I was always down for hangouts and I was cool with them. And I was usually lower SMV… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Have you LJBF'd a girl? How she reacted? Do they even give a fuck about it like we do?Yes. She tried to hit me up for a couple days after. Then a month later she was engaged. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Father died, girlfriend left me shortly afterI'm very sorry for your loss. I lost my dad many years ago and it was the worst thing ever. And trust me, I feel your frustration regarding women. I know the best thing is to kind of just shrug it off and go "meh.AWALT." But if you have a relationship, even the strongest men need that tender touch when we fall hard due to tragedies. So even though you've now seen firsthand how women can be, it's ok to feel pissed off. You will get stronger in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome envy of other's successI love how incels are always experts of facial anatomy and symmetry. "If only my posterior nasal clevix was 0.5mm lower, it would help with my mandibular stervillux, resulting in making me 7/10 rather than a 6.5/10." | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome envy of other's successHonestly if your roommate can just hit up girls for sex that quickly he isn't a 7/10. Or maybe he also has some mad dick game. But still, it's Tinder and its 75% based on looks. He isn't as ugly as you think he is. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s?He described it as "leveling up" lol. In his 20's, he said, women at that age group were too hard to get for most guys. So he started practicing on women who were a bit older (40s). Then when he did good with them he leveled up to women in their 30s. He claimed that the women in the 30s were easier than 20s but harder than the more mature 40 year olds. Women in their 30s can still keep their SMV high if they take care of themselves. So by the time he hit his 40's, he had god-level game and could… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Running out of shit to talk about with girlfriendI have had sex with a woman before. Remember that. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do women, especially LTR/wives bitch and nag so much?Initially it is to size up her partner (shit testing). And if he fails, she becomes the naggy, bitchy GF/wife. In time her behavior will either be used as a tool for control (especially for resources, think bitchy obese wife that controls her hard working husband so she doesn't have to move), or to systematically decimate the relationship so she can eventually bounce (when he eventually snaps, she will share that moment to all her friends/family and get extra support when she leaves). | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s?A guy in his 40s once told me what he did as far as fucking women. When he was in his 20s, he practiced game and started fucking women in their 40s. When he reached his 30s, he fucked women in his same age range. Then when he hit his 40s, he only fucks women in their 20s. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 34 | How to get swinging balls?what the fuck | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone notice women’s ability to process cause and effect is getting worse?It's just a symptom of our current society. Think about this also...look at contemporary females/icons. In the past, singers/actresses had to maintain a lovable and perfect image for the public. They had to be seen a decent people with good values. Sure this was mostly for marketing purposes, but they still had a respectable image to the public. And the public was influenced by them. What they did behind closed doors was something else entirely, but you catch my drift. Nowadays...Cardi B...that'… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 07:06 AM |
| 11 | Does ignoring women work?Ignoring women is kind of a mixed bag. It really depends on many factors such as how far you have gotten with her, your SMV, etc. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 12:31 PM |
| 7 | Why be successful?That's the problem that I see in the red pill community. There are way too many guys on here that take the red pill discussion by saying: you have to look like a god, be as rich as a god, and remember....be a god or fail. And I'll be honest, I got pumped when first reading all this stuff and tried to do everything at once and to be honest I wasn't happy. I felt like an ant trying to build an entire ant hill by myself. Not impossible, but will it will take your entire life and you will be tired a… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 05:39 AM |
| 6 | What are some Machiavellian style ways to take advantage of the Covid situation?Buy blue food coloring and seal-able glass flasks in bulk. Then fill each flask with water and a drop of the food coloring. Then paint a gold cross on each unit. Then market yourself as being the one who had a vision from God and that he entrusted you with the cure for COVID-19. Millionaire tomorrow, asshole forever. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 02:59 AM |
| 5 | How come black guy so good at trp?Fucking legend | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 02:50 AM |
| 22 | How come black guy so good at trp?There are multiple reasons for this perception (which isn't entirely untrue). A good majority of black men in America come from environments that don't subscribe to the blue-pill ideology. Most grow up in single mom households, and they live in low income neighborhoods where there is a survivalist mentality as far as social circles. So a combination of not expecting to meet the "one" with some level of dark triad personality characteristics is very in line with red pill philosophy. Also, there i… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys do when you are super stressed out6 pack of Beer and 1 Large Pizza. You won't feel stress because you will pass out quickly. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | How to be Alpha AND likeable?Have a backbone. Value yourself. And be chill. Trifecta of the the likable alpha. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 01:13 AM |
| 18 | Do you think men are getting more red-pilled or more blue-pilled?Purple-Pill will be the future in my opinion. Thirsty men will seek out red-pill knowledge but will feel powerless against the dominant blue-pill/feminist ideology. So they will use red pill tactics to get the girl and use blue-pill tactics to try to keep her. The problem is that unless you have sky high SMV, being "too" alpha will make her leave either on her own, or by outside influences that notice how you are. It happened to me with my ex. Her social circle noticed my independence and my unw… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Girls rejects you bc you're not the provider type ?Yeah, that's exactly it. She was down to fuck (alpha fucks), but when you expressed not feeling any commitment, she bounced to continue her search for the nice guy (beta bucks). And she's 26 which is around the time many women start to think about their future. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Is there a red pill but for friends instead of girls?The Red Pill is about learning about how the world/people really operate and how to handle it accordingly. Women are the main topic of discussion because most of us were misinformed about dating practices, therefore we all sucked at getting sex. But it applies to all relationships, friends as well. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 05:30 AM |
| 33 | I don’t want my girlfriend to hang out with my friend and IThis could be a good opportunity. If he tries to game your girl, you know to drop him as a friend. And he if he games her and she starts to have a twinkle in her eye, you know what you need to do with her as well. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 02:06 AM |
| 31 | Difference between a mans love and a woman’s love?It's the whole idealism vs. opportunism theory. Men love like dogs in that dogs love unconditionally and get attached to the owner and always get happy to see them. Women love like cats, sure they may like you and like how you treat them, but at the end of the day, you are the person that's feeding them. Once you are no longer that person, they start wandering the alleys searching for a replacement. Now I don't mean this in the sense that women look at men as "feeders" necessarily, (some do thou… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Why is less more with dating womenLess is more has certain truths. But your SMV needs to be taken to account. High SMV and low efforts with women=tingles. Low SMV and low efforts with women=loser. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Are alpha/beta male types set in stone? Or is it a mindset?It's the whole nature vs. nurture debate. I personally believe that alpha/beta qualities can be preset prior to birth to a certain extent. We are all born with unique characteristics that make us who we are. I mean just look at toddlers. Sure they have very similar characteristics but they show difference in intelligence levels, temperament, aggression levels and need for attention. Then when they grow older that is when other factors play in, such as environment. I even remember being in the pl… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 02:36 AM |
| 31 | Does having male friends helps with the loneliness?I agree. Most of the friends in my life were very beta. If they are good people, I don't see why they should be ditched. As a matter of fact they may be more pleasant to chill with. I've come across lots of "alpha" dudes and some are cool but some are unbearable to be around (either too ADHD or too stoic for the sake of looking cool, self absorbed, narcissistic, or overbearing in conversations). Now, if beta friends start to become toxic as far as bringing you down, or become resentful because o… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Why people here are saying that girls with visible tattoos are only worthy plate status?Can't use this as a generalization. It only truly generalizes socioeconomic status. More tattoos = poorer family. I agree. But I always found that fascinating. Why do people of lower economic status do this so consistently nowadays? Is it part of a tribal mindset to be accepted? And its funny because most of them know it looks trashy and puts them in a category yet they keep doing it. I was reading a book recently and it had a great quote along the lines of "the tragedy of the human soul is that… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Older woman seem to be a little bit more easy to talk to engage with than younger womenTrue. Unfortunately a typical woman's prime comes and goes quickly. It is apparent in their behavior as they age. Men generally do better after the age of 30 as far as finances and other factors. Back then, I was a lower value male being a fat short security worker. But now I'm in far better shape and have a well paying job and my situation is much different. Even when it comes to how woman interact with me. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/20 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Understanding Iron Rule of Tomassi #6?Many here are talking about the financial wealth is what keeps women around. This is true but only one factor. Another thing is looks. If a man has good looks, it is another form of currency as it fulfills her sexual lust needs and it gets her social status points among family and friends. Especially in the age of social media, a hot bf or husband is a great tool for her image online. But if that dude gets lazy and lets his belly grow.....guess what the woman ends up doing. I remember I had a cl… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Older woman seem to be a little bit more easy to talk to engage with than younger womenMost younger women are in their prime. So they feel like sex goddesses in a world of hungry men. Consequently they are far more selective in which males they interact with (hotter/better shape/ bad boy). Older women have been there, done that and they feel more relaxed. They may even appreciate some extra attention. I saw this a lot at a security job I had for a while. I sat at a desk in the front lobby and would see all the office workers coming in and out. It was obvious that the women (20-30i… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How can anyone be this naive?The short, bald, fat ginger line is used a ton to prey on dudes who get no action. I remember going to Vegas years ago and twice, we were approached by those strip club promoter dude.s And they both claimed to witness "short, chubby gingers" getting extra action without paying extra. All they did was "make the girls laugh" and they got more bang or their buck. LOL | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/20 10:47 PM |
| 10 | What are good examples for RP/BP movies ?Blue Valentine: perfect depiction of alpha fucks, beta bucks, consequences of losing frame, etc. Probably one of the most accurate love stories I have seen on film. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth trying with women if you are bad-looking? Or are you destined to beta-bux/validation?It is worth it, I am well below average when it comes to looks. It is much harder for us, no doubt. But you will have to be persistent and grow a thick skin (takes time). Women will be shitty, because as we all know, they do care about looks very much. And you may run into some cunts that will just try to demolish you for even talking to them. But keep going, keep learning, then you will start to get results. But heads up, if you do start to become successful with women, other dudes will try to … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Can beta friends cockblock you?Yup. Couple of my friends started to get nasty when I would bring my ex around. She was above me in SMV, so it obviously made their asses furious. Had to cut their pathetic asses off. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 08:37 AM |
| 6 | Are women capable of understanding that men and women love differently?No. That's why they usually leave. It's like a dog trying to explain to cat why he gets all jumpy and excited when his owner comes home. The cat is just gonna listen then say, "Aw...that's nice. Anyway,did the owner serve the treats yet? Cuz if not, I'm going to have to go out and search for some." | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Are women not as interested in sex as much as men?They do have a sex drive in varying degrees. But theirs is more cyclic and they are far pickier. The better the genes/physical beauty that they encounter, the hornier they get for that person. But unfortunately for most men, women only become feral whores for the top tier (10%)men. But I agree that they can go for longer periods of time without sex (for the most part). | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 08:21 AM |
| 3 | Why do betas stop at nothing to try to cockblock me?Fuck yes. Happened to me with my most recent ex. The problem was that she was a few notches above me in SMV. She was taller and in better shape. She also had super long blonde hair that stood out like a sore thumb. And me, I'm a short guy with a bit extra body fat. So when we would go out for drinks, there were numerous times that this type of thing happened. The average chumps would see us together and would act all flabergasted. And of course, there were the more "aggressive" betas that would … | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Can game be dangerousIt's only dangerous if your game comes across as dangerous. Or if you're stupid and try to hit on a girl who's with her man. But approaching and flirting has little risk of danger to yourself if done smoothly and carefully. As far as your friends, they might be nice dudes. But if they are as bluepilled as you say, they may have a deep seated resentment that you're doing what you're doing. Frustrated betas can act like idiots when they see someone they know gaming women. Been through this myself … | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I can't take it anymoreDude its fine. I started losing my hair at 19. And by 21 I was balding like a 50 year old. Shave it all off and if you have facial hair, rock it. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I lose my virginity to a hooker?I lost my virginity to a hooker at 19. At the time it was me basically throwing in the towel because I was so low in SMV that I gave up with trying with girls. And I was horny as fuck being that age. So I did it and it was fun for the moment but I felt like shit after. I felt like shit because I was so painfully blue pilled and got paranoid about STDs. But looking back on it now, I don't regret it at all. I say go for it. But don't let that be your permanent solution. Because it is easy sex, yet… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 01:24 AM |
| 10 | Why ugly / average girls on social media / Tinder are disrespectful?Because the truth is that average/uglier women fuck way more men than hot women. We live in a society with sexually starved men who will fuck anything to get their dicks wet. So consequentially, they will target the lower SMV women because they are too afraid to approach the hotter women. So we now live in a world where being an ugly/fat chick is actually a sexual advantage. Many men may not commit (which may be the cause for eventual attitude/disrespectful outbursts), but they will still get di… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 03:02 AM |
| 0 | Are there older men (30+) in the United States who actually are bachelors and live this kind of life?Yes, but not a whole lot. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Questions for short fellas.5'6 here. Granted, I need to work on my weight. But there's no question that it's much harder for us out there. But first and foremost, I would say that it is essential that we manage our expectations. Learning game, frame and improving all other aspects are very important. But I repeat, manage your expectations. Don't expect to be all Don Juan when you talk to women because many will not give a shit (and you will feel like shit). But there are also those that will. Like I said, I'm about 5'6 an… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 02:45 AM |
| 5 | How important is a woman's relationship with her father?It is absolutely important. Unfortunately women with respectable fathers are harder and harder to come by these days. But I can confirm from experience and observation, that daddy issues are very real. Sure, women who had absent/incompetent fathers can grow to be productive people as far as career and self reliance. However, the negative traits that they have typically manifest during their romantic relationships. And no two women are the same. Some women are more promiscuous and need unhealthy … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you close girls that have beta male orbiters always around?Just hit on her just as if the other guys werent around. But theres a solid chance that they will attempt to cock block and even try to make you look stupid in front of the girls. Possible but much more challenging. I've done this numerous times so I know. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Help with ltrHARD NEXT. Fuck 10 other bitches. LOL just kidding. Just see where things go. If she aint into you then there will be more signs. Otherwise enjoy the girl. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | When I am depressed, I feel like I can sense evil peopleIt may be that when you are depressed, there is a certain amount of cynicism that your mind experiences. This probably causes you to feel that sense of clarity. Therefore, certain/many people seem a bit more evil to you. I know this because I have felt this on and off all my life. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Thrown off by girl with Daddy issuesWell it is used for ADHD, but it is an amphetamine. It's basically meth-light. It is legal and used for treatment but there are many people that take it for its stimulant effects which isnt good. If she is taking "quite a bit" of it like you said, it would be a concern to me. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:40 PM |
| 19 | Thrown off by girl with Daddy issuesI dunno man. The adderall thing would be an issue for me. I stay away from women who are pill poppers (unless its for legitimate "out of her control" reasons like thyroid issues or autoimmune disorders). Plus the daddy issues and "control" talk. Plate at best. Save yourself the heartache. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 05:02 AM |
| 0 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?If what you say is true, then all your shit talk makes sense. You're obviously not a dumb person. But you're an angry little boy living in a man's body. I actually feel bad for you, believe it or not. But keep ballin', my fellow faggot. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?True. And yes, I was talking more about all the new stuff that's popping up with the younger wannabe dudes. There's also the one dude from Rule Zero, the guy with the aviators that lives in Japan I think. Not a fan of him. I really like Rollo a lot though. He has been very consistent and sure, he is taking advantage of his growing popularity by making money. Good for him. But he is very pragmatic and realistic with his material. That's why whenever he had those fuckboy type guests, that would be… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I have problems with picking up platesIt sounds like you have a lot of performance anxiety. And you're assuming that the girl will want to send you to jail because you want to have sex with her. That implies that you have low self worth. That is something that you will need to work on. The reality is that the vast majority of women don't mind getting hit on as long as you don't get dangerously "rapey". Worst case scenario is that they insult you and turn away. And that will happen. It happens to most at some point. Read the sidebar … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?Now, once you've improved your income, whether or not you become wealthy depends on how self disciplined you are in accruing assets and avoiding purchasing liabilities. Theres a large middle ground between "impoverished" and "wealthy" despite income stratification. Most americans are too stupid to know the difference between an asset and a liability, so when they improve their income they accrue liabilities that they think are assets, then they wonder why they see themselves as poor despite bein… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Any TRP movies or TV shows out there..?Blue Valentine | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?Because when you grow up in poverty, you aren't afforded the "follow your dream" lifestyle. Especially when you're dream costs money to pursue. You're stuck having to go straight to work to survive. Sure some are able to make it out through some circumstantial luck. But there are also many intelligent people and hardworking people that never are able to break out because the cards are stacked too hard against them. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?Sorry to hear that. Good Luck. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?Did you come from a single mom who would was making 10k a year for almost 15 years? Im not trying to talk shit. Good luck to you and I hope you succeed. But there is truth to being privileged vs. not. Thats my point. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 10:48 AM |
| 6 | Whats with all this blackpill crap?The black pill does have some truths. I've been lurking in the red pill sub for over 5 years now. And I have done alot of reading and practicing. I had some moderate success with women since but nothing to cry home about. I am the below average, 5'6 dude that incels say can't get laid. Sure, its not impossible. But being out in the world and seeing how it works, a red pilled ugly dude will still have far less opportunities than a naturally good looking dude with not-so-great game. It's just how … | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Everything is going good. Should I break up?If you're not into her then let her go. But having one guy in her past is actually incredibly rare for a college graduate. You want to find a virgin? Good luck with that one... | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | I keep reverting to my Blue Pill conditioning around somewhat reasonable womenHappens to all of us. Just be grateful that you, unlike most other men, are informed and when things go south, you know why its occurring, despite your disappointment. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 12:01 PM |
| 2 | If a girl is not nervous is she not really attracted to you?Not necessarily. It really depends on her demeanor. I've gone out with girls that seemed nervous that I never heard from again. And I've also gone out with girls that appeared more confident and self assured but ended with lays. It depends on her overall demeanor, if she isn't nervous and also appears indifferent and overly closed off or even overly aggressive (harsh and never ending shit tests), probably not a good sign. She may be bored or even just toying with you. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 2 | I was at a club and was flirting with a girl then she left to “go to the bathroom”. I didn’t believe it so I went to talk to some other girls. Well this girl came back and decided to make friends with the new girls and say “we should hangout!” Why would she do this?When you first met her, she saw a dude that was just another chump at the club who was trying to hit on her. When she came out of the bathroom and saw you talking to other girls, she (subconsciously) saw a dude with abundance and she naturally reacted by becoming competitive. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Escorts vs LTRsEscorts are an interesting topic because there seems to be a polarizing effect of opinions among men. In my opinion, they provide some good experiences. The simple fact that you are basically fucking a new and attractive girl with no game required can be cool. It's overall great for short term excitement. However, there are risks involved. Also there is the fact that she isn't fucking you out of true desire. I think we as men need some form of validation when it comes to sex. This is why so many… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Even if you don't give a fuck, if someone is convincing at pushing their false narrative, others can accept it and gang up on you.Really depends on the situation. I have experienced this multiple times myself. This is common behavior among women. But men might do this on occasion. The perpetrators (when male) tend to be those snakey white knight types. The type of dude that uses a warped form of dark triad behaviors that ends up shooting himself in the foot with his actions every time. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Dark TriadDark Triad traits are very effective and should be implemented when it comes to gaming women. But people who live by these rules in everyday life are a potential danger to society. They can cause a lot of harm and are basically monsters. Don't do this. I grew up in a Hispanic community and people with dark triad traits were rampant due to poverty, addictions and poor parental supervision (due to working to survive/fatherless homes). Their circumstances were unfortunate but some of them were so o… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 03:18 AM |
| 3 | How common is it for crazy women to intentionally get pregnant for your financial support?As far as intentionally getting pregnant, it is super common. But women do this for many different reasons. For example if she is trying to lock down a high SMV CHAD and he is flaky with her, she may do it for commitment as she feels he is the best for her (at that particular time in her life). When it comes to financial support, this does occur as well, but it is mainly with men that are more affluent. This is very common with celebrities where a an A-list actor will date a model/entertainer (p… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 03:07 AM |
| 10 | Would you tell your close friends you have mental depression and thats why you get moody sometimes?I wouldn't do the "open book" thing with close friends. I did this in the past and always saw the dynamic change over time. I would realize that I was less and less respected by those same friends. People like to listen to a broken person's issues because its entertaining. But a broken person is broken therefore not worth a whole lot. I'm not saying you or others with issues are worthless, but people don't look up to people who share how they feel (when its negative). It implies weakness to the … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 10:36 AM |
| 100 | Are married women who refuse to take their husband's last name more likely to cheat on them?If a woman marries a man and refuses to change her name, it implies that she is in it for the benefits of the contract, and not because she wants to be in his frame (in love with him). She basically has one foot out the door at all times in her hindbrain. That's my opinion at least. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 10:30 AM |
| 3 | How many of you guys are really in this for the long haul? Do you ever get scared of the future?I won't lie to you, I do feel afraid sometimes. Because when you embark on a "red pill-minded" journey, it is a very lonely journey. It is lonely in the sense that most people don't see things the way you do. Most people are very much plugged-in to the blue pill ideals. So if you are living your new lifestyle, people will take notice and usually it doesn't rub them the right way. Sure, you can meet women and fuck. But most of them eventually want a relationship. And when they do, our red pilled … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | May not be the right sub, but why don't more humans realize we all subconsciously think like animals?LOL exactly | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | May not be the right sub, but why don't more humans realize we all subconsciously think like animals?Many reasons. Cultural norms, religions and other belief systems are mostly designed to distract us from out primitive impulses. Also, people in general are not very comfortable with knowing how we truly are. This is because it creates a sense of futility. I'll occasionally spit out red pill knowledge on to men and women alike when having discussions about interpersonal relationships or other situations. And almost all of the people who listen to me kind of give me a look like they know I am rig… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Are boyfriends mostly a status symbol for women?It depends. If the guy she is with is physically attractive or exceptionally wealthy then yes. However if it is for other reasons such as temporary validation, attention or for resources (he helps pay bills, buys her things that she needs, helps support her child) then no. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 11:30 AM |
| 6 | Any redpillers that work or worked as male models? Can you describe your lifestyle ? Did being in the industry allow you to see the most sluttiest side of women?I was not a male model but I knew a guy that was. He was a very good looking dude. But he unfortunately was incredibly beta and blue pilled. He had an intense oneitis for his girlfriend who was attractive but definitely below his SMV. But he and I would go out some nights to bars with mutual friends and the women were practically throwing themselves at him. He got plenty of IOIs and the women that knew what he did were literally competing against each other for his attention. It was pretty funny… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 07:13 AM |
| 14 | Do you judge women by what friends they have?I think it should be examined at a case by case basis. In general, I would say that a women's social circle does represent what she is all about. Like someone else said, if her friends are mostly whores, then she is likely a whore herself. Women (and arguably most men) tend to socialize in the world that they are most accustomed to or relate to the most. So if you are ever talking to a girl and don't feel right about her overall crowd of friends, I would take that feeling seriously and consider … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you judge women by what friends they have?Interesting point. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 07:37 AM |
| 3 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)For me it was taking risks. Talking to the hot girl at the bar, quitting a comfortable stagnant job and doing something completely different, and finding things to enjoy in life by yourself. Like I said in my post, there were lots of bad results when I tried. But with consistence, a girl that you just said "wuts up" to with no intentions will be fucking you that night. The new job that pays better but you sucked at immensely, becomes easier. All these little victories help and make life more of … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 11:07 PM |
| 9 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)Those are the bros you want to hang out with, because they want the best for you and have your back. It is a good, simple test of friendship. Don't hang out with bros who get jealous, cut them out of your life. I had to do quite a bit of that for sure. It was hard to hear so many people cheer me on out of pity. I now know that people mostly do this to feel good about themselves. Because when results began to appear, a lot of my "cheerleaders" turned into undercover bullies. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 10:56 PM |
| 4 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)Thanks. For me it was having a lot of introspect and really observing how people operate. It was pretty interesting for me when I discovered the red pill about three years ago. A lot of what I read was stuff that I had already seen first hand. Yet so many others in my life seemed to not realize at all about how people truly are. This journey for change has been going on for almost a decade. A lot of what I did was putting myself into uncomfortable positions. Especially in social situations. This… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 10:48 PM |
| 3 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)There was definitely a period where that's all I thought about. Thanks, bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 10:36 PM |
| 6 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)Thanks. This is exactly why I felt the need to write my post. Guys like me will always have to deal with these types of remarks. Hopefully others like me will read what I said and start learning how to cancel out the noise that this world throws at us and lead better lives. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)I'm sorry to hear about your struggles. I'm still on my own journey and you just have to keep it going. The less you do, the less you learn, the more like shit you will feel. Good luck, brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)Thanks. And yes, having a more pragmatic view of how people operate in this world definitely was the foundation to begin changes. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 10:16 PM |
| 3 | How to stay up all night without feeling miserable?Yeah if you do get tired, just don't be like, "Peaches almighty, its late!" | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 12:22 PM |
| 5 | Man hitting on your girlYeah, there are some intense dudes out there. I knew not to do much because if they can so quickly attempt this at a quiet public venue (its Disney and there are families surrounding us), they have to be at least some kind of crazy/sociopathic. The guy in question was very direct and had absolutely no fear of any possible outcome. Now I know that mateguarding is very beta and I knew this then. If I would have shown signs of jealousy or anger, he would have felt more powerful and my girlfriend co… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Man hitting on your girlThis has happened to me before. I was at Downtown Disney with my girlfriend and there is a Hawaiian themed bar with an outdoor fireplace and seating. We were sitting there and I had my arm around her. Out of of nowhere these two gigantic black dudes spot her and they sit at the couch right next to us. They obviously found her attractive and sized me up and figured that I was no threat (she is a couple inches taller than me). And one of them flat out said, "oh man, is that your brother with his a… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 10:48 PM |
| 111 | My 9 month LTR is doomed isn't it?I once worked at a hotel banquet hall, and there was a Marine Corps ball going on one night. No homo but the room was filled with super attractive studs in uniforms. They were all in tip top shape and had an intensity about them, from what I observed. And I remember their dates were women that looked like Instagram models. So its basically a den of sexually primed beautiful young people; all the dudes are ready to shoot their loads and the chicks are as moist as towel in a swimming pool. Your "L… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 09:39 AM |
| 55 | White Knights - the hyena of the sceneThey see what you are doing and they CAN NOT BELIEVE it’s working. They’re told to be nice. Nice is what women want. Your behaviour is against every thing they’ve ever learnt or been told. It hurts like fuck that it works. It’s supreme jealousy. ^This I used to be somewhat of a white knight in my younger years. Although I knew better than to interfere with another dude when he was gaming a girl. But my beta mind would quietly despise the guy for being so swift and simple about it with successful… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/19 11:15 AM |
| 11 | Nature dictates that men are polygamous, why has society changed this?Back in our hunter/gatherer days, only the top alphas of the groups got laid and reproduced. They were the ones that had multiple women while the other "lesser" men would die off without reproducing. This of course caused much instability and violence due to so many men competing to have a shot at having more consistent sexual contact. There is even genetic evidence that most females in human history reproduced while only about 20% of males reproduced. Women were competing for the top 20% (hyper… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 09:45 AM |
| 5 | How aware are women of Average Guys general lack of options?It's interesting because I have asked myself the same question before. Women commonly seem to express feelings that simply being a man means he's going to get pussy whenever regardless of any factors such as SMV. However, with my experiences with women, they have a very dualistic way of seeing the world. And a lot of how they think has to do with how they are feeling at that moment. So let's say Liz has been single for a couple months and her friend, Ana has a Chad boyfriend that suddenly cheats… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | What do you eat for breakfast?Bleached Anus | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Meeting women in a sober setting or meeting women in a drunk setting? Which leads to more success?Meeting women in sober settings was always my best bet. It is fine to meet her in a sober setting then take her out for a drink another time. I feel this is better for two reasons: If she is sober when inviting her for drinks, her acceptance implies decent interest levels and she knows who you are which decreases the chances that she will hit the "rape" button. When meeting a girl at a bar/non sober situation, chances are that she will have had at least a couple at the place (possibly even befor… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 08:21 AM |
| 1 | What are the best books to get into philosophy?50 Shade of Grey, Twilight and The Hunger Games. You read all those, you can kiss this sub goodbye. You'll have learned more than you need and be plowing through bitches like a missile on crack. You're welcome. And try to take breaks from all the fuckin' you'll be doing, you're cock might snap off. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If you cant get girls the RP is for you?Why, in your opinion, can't you get girls? | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Why are orbiters so important to women?You don't understand this behavior for the simple fact that men and women are different. Men primarily want female attention if there is a chance for sex to be involved. We are naturally wired to want to spread our seed as often as possible. Women on the other hand are far more choosy when it comes to having sex. They can get dolled up and go out night after night without any sex if no one is deemed worthy to them. However, they have a far greater need for attention and validation than most men … | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 07:32 AM |
| 1 | How do I know if TRP is the best decision for me?The red pill helped me in the sense that it gave me a sense of direction with multiple areas of life. I definitely am better with women and am now in a LTR with someone I would never had thought possible just ten years ago. I am working on a new career. I also lost some weight. All this within a three year period since discovering the red pill. I think it is very important to read the information offered. Books such as The Rational Male, or No More Mr. Nice Guy are great reads for men. Also, the… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 09:03 AM |
| 12 | Bad experiences with sex and lower SMV women (older)I think it could be multiple reasons. One of them being that younger women are a bit more broken especially this day in age. So they tend to need more extreme forms of stimulation. Also, younger women are exposed to sexuality far more than previous generations. Everything from porn to other forms of media essentially molded this generation of women to be more sexually adventurous. I mean haven't you noticed how millennial women have higher numbers of bisexual behaviors? I have spoken to many old… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 08:53 AM |
| 5 | Anyone feels like 80/20 rule is becoming slowly outdated and going further into 99/1?Like many on here have said, the 99/1 rule pretty much applies to the quick on the spot-fuck. I think its fair to say that there is a below 5% of men who most women would fuck within a short period of time upon meeting them (within hours or even minutes). But the vast majority of men won't fit that bill (even most red pill dudes). But most women do want some sort of commitment at various stages of their lives and the 99/1 rule isn't practical or realistic in that sense. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 05:50 AM |
| 2 | How much validation should we give women?That's right. You can give her compliments when she makes you feel good. Or take her out to do something fun that she enjoys. But dont over do it. Because, it will slowly become old and boring. Plus she is already used to being praised for the simple fact that she's female. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 03:13 PM |
| 10 | How much validation should we give women?Only when it's deserved. Otherwise, almost never. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do I see girls with boyfriends well below their SMV?Could be game or money if what you say is true. Or, like others have said, maybe you don't make the most accurate assessments of SMV for males. I had a friend that was notorious for this. He would point out whenever a hot girl who was supposedly with an "ugly ass" dude. But when I saw the dudes, they may not have had the most amazing faces but they would be some combo of tall, nice hair, in shape, stylish clothes, and maybe some cool tats. I honestly have no recent memory of ever seeing a high S… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 03:31 AM |
| 28 | Why do young women want careers instead of being a homemaker?Feminism is the primary reason for this. Our current society strongly encourages young women to go out there, be badasses, and make that money. So consequently, women hear about how they need no men and they can make it on their own. This is a very attractive philosophy for the 15-30ish age group of females. They can make money, have an endless supply of orbiters and fuck the hotties (hypergamy) all at the same time. But as we know, once the biological clock starts ticking, a huge percentage of … | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Getting TRP opinion, what do you think the real reason is?You said too much to her. She was interested then you got too mushy and beta on her. Her hind brain interpreted it as, "oh God, another easy dork". Then she lost interest/attraction. NEVER LET A WOMAN KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD EMOTIONALLY. Her last message was a lie. If there was truly a consent issue, the kiss wouldn't have happened. At the very least she would have told you to stop. Lesson learned, better luck next time. I've made these types of mistakes in the past as well, so don't … | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | girl i like doesnt text backBow, and it has to be her favorite color. I would do Stargazers. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 12:56 PM |
| 4 | girl i like doesnt text backIgnore these guys. First thing tomorrow, you buy yourself a suit, then put it on. Then you have a photo taken of you in the suit. Next you have that photo blown up into a door sized poster. Then buy a huge bouquet of flowers. Once you have all these items, drive to her place and glue the poster on her door with the flowers (in a vase) at the doorstep. She will either enter or exit the place and see that....you will have texts in no time. She will in fact be impressed with your persistence and ef… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Why do women, in general, have overall worst personalities than guys ?Little to no consequences for their actions. Solipsism. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 03:13 AM |
| 6 | Is having a fetish for Asian Girls normal?Yup, can confirm. I grew up in Orange County, Caifornia and its packed with Asians. And like 99.9% of the go to universities which of course turns them into militant feminists. And I can confirm the racism part as well. They tend to only date other Asians unless you're a tall, hot white dude. Or if they from the more ghetto side of town (usually Filipinos, Cambodians, Laotians) they'll take the occasional black dick. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 11:09 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on MGTOW?There is a lot of hate on here for MGTOWs. I see the logic because many (not all) MGTOWs tend to just concentrate on themselves and have little to no engagement with women. Many would just rather enjoy life with little effort and live life on easy mode. And the red pill is very much about self improvement involving financial, health and sexual gains. I can even vouch for the red pill in that it has helped former losers like me improve at life and get laid. We humans have very tribal tendencies a… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone feel the process of seduction is way better than sex itself?Yeah I honestly agree. Don't get me wrong, sex is great. But something about the buildup and tension does a bit more at the moment. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | What are the professions with the sluttiest women?Any profession that has males present.... So pretty much of all of them. Welcome to 2019. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 11:59 AM |
| 10 | Why do good-looking men date ugly women?Eggs are more expensive than sperm. That's pretty much it. A low SMV woman will still have around the same sexual opportunities as a high SMV guy. It's the low SMV guys that don't have consistent/reliable access to sex or relationships. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What is it about the dark triad personalities that usually alpha widows most girls?same as some autistic men (aspies) are attractive to women, because they are unaware and nonreactive to shit tests and passive aggressive behavior I'm glad you mentioned that. I have observed this multiple times myself and in the past, and it was something I never understood. But now, knowing what I know, it makes sense. I remember a dude in high school that was tall, skinny and very average face but he had to be on the spectrum. He had a very stoic, stiff demeanor with almost no charm or sociab… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird that i never really fell in love with a girl?Google naked dudes and play some Lady Gaga. If you get hard and start dancing in your seat, this will answer your question. But seriously, you're young. Enjoy and keep work hard on building yourself into a badass. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Would you date someone who has cheated on someone before?Just hang out with her to have sex (with protection). Don't start hanging out just to hang out. If she starts asking for exclusivity, just say that you're not into that. Don't feel bad and don't question yourself on this because the sex is good. As far as being on the down low, just simply don't talk about other girls with her. However, there is a change that she will get batshit crazy over time if she doesn't get what she wants. At that point, you have to next immediately. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Isn't stoicisim in a way just telling us to hold frame?Ravioli is a pasta, but like Hot Pockets, raviolis hold frame by keeping the fillings inside. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Would you date someone who has cheated on someone before?How to not catch the feels? You say you're fairly good looking. Good for you. But there are better looking guys than you out there. She will find them. She's done it before. Always remember that. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Does money matter to woman?Yes it does. Not all women are "gold diggers" in the sense that they demand the high class lifestyle. But having good income is an indicator of success which increases a man's appeal due to women's innate desire for protection/security. However it also depends on the man in question. If a dude is naturally good looking, fit and/or has solid game, money will matter a bit less to women for the most part. But if his game is somewhat weak or he didn't win the genetic lottery, having a sizable income… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 11:02 AM |
| 6 | Would you date someone who has cheated on someone before?Nah, plate her at best. She sounds crazy and can get you into trouble if things don't go her way. As far as cheating..never and I mean NEVER commit to any woman who has cheated in the past. I once dated a girl who had a history of cheating, and it never rubbed me the right way. But my old blue pill thinking and other people telling me that the past is the past compelled me to continue the relationship. Now as far as I know, she never fucked another guy while we were together (2 years). But this … | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Why does my girlfriend show absolutely zero red flags?Oh they will come, my dude...then it will be up to you to make decisions on whether you can accept/handle them or not. But make no mistake, red flags ALWAYS appear from women in this day in age. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 01:56 AM |
| 4 | How should I initiate on a girl I failed with before?Not worth it. If you do, chances are she will feel the same and it will throw you further off track. Concentrate on other things and meet other women, you are in oneitis mode and its causing problems. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | What is it about the dark triad personalities that usually alpha widows most girls?Because men with dark triad personalities demonstrate polarity. They are unpredictable and go from making a women feel like a princess one day then to a slave the next. This is the type of dynamic that gets women off. As we know, women are emotional/ drama junkies. Also, dark triad traits represent survival fitness to a woman's hind brain. Women do for the most part leave these types because they usually want security in the long run. But once she meets that beta dude and marries him, she may "l… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Philosophical question: Why do girls so dramatically overestimate their looks?5s and 6s definitely probably have it the best nowadays since they are "average". And droves of thirsty men climb over each other for them because they appear "approachable" and "down to earth". This is because they don't appear as intimidating as the hotter women. I used to fall for that trap in my younger years until I started to realize that these types are probably the most oversexed. And we are talking about 5s and 6s.... I'll never forget a girl at my last job...she was about 5'2, morbidly… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Wasn't really sure about my cousin's situation...thoughts?He's not a looker for sure. But he has a lot of charisma and he was very well like at that job. He worked there for over 10 years. He actually had a lot of friends there as well over the years. I even made friends through him at that workplace. So besides the fact that he is not great looking, he's a pretty well admired person. And I wouldn't say he's red-pilled but he's "aware". I personally think she is probably just weird. Like she seems cool enough and has a very calm and polite demeanor. He… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Wasn't really sure about my cousin's situation...thoughts?Right. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Wasn't really sure about my cousin's situation...thoughts?I asked him about this and he said there are only two other men that work there (it's a retirement home, I believe). One of them is an older dude that's supposedly super overweight and foreign and a custodian. The other is the owner who has very limited contact with her department. According to him, another guy at work is very unlikely. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Anyone seen this - 27% of men 30 yrs or under have never had sexExactly. Unfortunately, I don't think we will ever return to that type of social structure anytime soon, if ever. There is too much going on with radical feminism being in cahoots with white knight betas. I mean, look at all of these huge media outlets online and on television. It's soyboy central. All those dude are these paper thin feminine types with high pitched speech. And the women are the ones with the stronger opinions with the dudes agreeing with everything. That's what billions are exp… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Am I right to be angry at my friend, or am I just acting like a little bitch?He's a prick, she's a bitch. Hard next both. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 08:25 AM |
| 6 | Threatened by Guys...I'm a short guy at 5'5. When I was on my journey to improve, I started with the same approach. Kind of let myself bounce off the walls and approach people to shoot the shit to gain social fitness. This is a good way to accomplish an improvement of social skills. But don't rely on that for too long. Also chances are that the girls that are grinding on you simply find you amusing and are doing that for shits and giggles on their part. But be careful, don't go overboard and start pissing people off… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 08:09 AM |
| 19 | Friends GF of 8yrs has been posting a sexy selfie once a week on average for the last few months. A sign she is bored/signaling for Chads to come in?I've known women that would praise the shit out of their boyfriends on social media and in conversation with other people. But, then you would find out that they were fucking others on the side when no one was looking. The girl your talking about ain't as smooth about it apparently. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 07:50 AM |
| 9 | Anyone seen this - 27% of men 30 yrs or under have never had sexWe are reverting back to our primitive days. Ironic since we live in such a modern era with new "wonders" being created every year. Yet when it comes to intersexual dynamics, we are going back to the caveman days where all the women fucked the top 20% alphas. Institutions such as marriage/religion attempted to rectify this in order to help simulate a more equal playing field by restricting hypergamy. This in turn motivated men to be more productive and motivated because they had mouths to feed a… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Feeling very angry and regretful about being a hermit during collegeI don't know what your health issues consist of. None of my business. But nevertheless, you can certainly keep socializing and gaming women at school. Like the other commentator said, women should never be the top priority at any point in life. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 06:34 PM |
| 17 | Feeling very angry and regretful about being a hermit during collegeI've been to college. Lots of hot girls. But don't expect the college life to be all like some old Ryan Reynolds movie. Focus on other areas of improvement that are attainable and when you are stronger, you will be golden. But it doesn't mean that you should stay away from women all together. You can still dress well and game girls in the meantime. Remember, college has lots of hot woman. But there are even more hot women walking around outside that college of yours. So don't ever feel like you'… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Plate ignored text asking if she's free - best course of action? Soft next?If you've been fucking her then soft next is the best option. She is ignoring you're texts which probably implies waning interest/boredom. There's a solid chance other opportunities are either present or on the horizon for her. Don't hit her up anymore. If she comes back, just set a date and go from there. But if you set a date and she doesn't respond/flakes, hard next would be in order. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | In the friend zone?It's too early to tell. But I can tell that this chick is occupying your mind a lot. Stop it. Set up a date and escalate. Kino and passing incoming shit tests is essential. Also, stop complimenting her on social media. She gets enough of that already. Be the exception. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Men Are Born To CompeteJordan Peterson, imo is a red pilled beta, or purple pilled. He seems to understand how intersexual dynamics work, yet he still clings to the blue pilled ideals. I remember how he was on Joe Rogan once and he described the alpha fucks, beta bux tendencies in the dating world. There is no question that he is a very intelligent person but I don't believe he's totally red pilled. Although he may be the closest thing to it when it comes to mainstream intellectuals. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/19 03:49 AM |
| 0 | If you haven't been laid in 7 years, should you lie to women when you start dating again?Just say that you always had a tendency to have sex with men. And that you want to see what all the fuss is about among the straight dudes. I'm kidding, don't do that. Unless you're one of those queer club rats that shaves their head, wears fur and paints their nails black and calls everyone "girl" or "honey". | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 02:40 AM |
| 6 | Plate I tried to next is going fucking ballistic and mental -- how to handle?BPD. That is all. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 04:32 AM |
| 8 | Crazy shit testsI honestly think she's just nuts with some ADD type thing going on. I dated a girl like this once. She wouldn't stop "adjusting" shit when we were fucking and it got old fast. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 04:30 AM |
| 12 | DeathI really believe the concept of death is more horrific for the living. We all hate to see loved ones go, and see them in a big wooden box on an alter. Overall its a morbid thing to see and is more hurtful the more you care about the deceased. But when our time comes, I don't think its the worst thing. It's actually a return to normalcy in the sense that we didnt exist before we were born, and we wont exist after our death. The few decades we have alive are kind of just a fluke in the grand schem… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Higher SMV means crazier girls?Exactly what I was going to say. On point. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do most girls nowadays claim to have 'anxiety'? What's up with that?It's a combination of things. We all know that women tend to be drama queens and are chronic attention seekers. But the whole anxiety epidemic is also on the rise with both sexes. We have to remember that this is the generation of "daddy issues" and broken homes. Consequently, men will grow up to become either sociopaths or betas/omegas. Women will exhibit promiscuous and BPD behaviours. And these women will find a endless world of sexual options and it will kick them in the ass over time. They … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Saw a bro in the streets approaching girls today, feeling like shitYou shouldn't feel like shit. Situations like this would always inspire me more. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Alpha widow equivalent to men. Leaving a girl and realising she cared about you.I think its possible. Because because despite everything we learn on the red pill, and the experiences we collectively have with women, there will be some "good" ones. I don't mean unicorns. Game and frame still apply no matter what. But I certainly know that there are women who are just wired to be better partners and have higher levels of empathy and generosity. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | How to get over irrational fear of “hot girls”?It's all in your head. Sure there are some hot ones that have a princess complex but usually they are as insecure or more so than a 6-7. Some of the best times I had with women were with the hotter ones while the average ones were more bitchy and made gaming more challenging, ironically. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Does nice guys or betas ever get to be "first choice" or they always end up with "leftovers" from alphas?I think you know the answer to your own question. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 09:46 PM |
| 5 | How to make my friend lower his standards?He needs to figure all this out on his own. If you try to "help" him, his stubbornness will take hold and you'd be wasting your time. If he's not on some autistic spectrum, there's a chance he will learn to manage his expectations and/or improve himself. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Redpill veterans. How many of you have cut off most of your male relationships?Well about 12 years ago, I spent quite some time with a group of guys that were very cool in the sense that they were losers like I was. We were a merry group of outcasts/incels who would go out drinking, have bbqs, take trips to Vegas, etc. I really do cherish the times I spent with them. But we were all stagnant dorks that were sad and frustrated at the end of the day. A lot of drunken conversations consisted of complaining about how shitty women were and why are we still single when fuckboys … | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 03:22 AM |
| 0 | Girl says "You look like trouble I just don't have time for"?I ran into similar situations with former plates. Didn't fail doing what I advised. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Girl says "You look like trouble I just don't have time for"?I disagree. Sure he can come up with different responses. And what she said isn't a blatant rejection for sure. It's a shit test. But if he's just been "chit chatting" and they set a first date, and she is already throwing that comment, he needs to demonstrate that he's indifferent to whether the date happens or not. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants me to “rape” her. How do I go about this in a smart way?I dunno, man. Shit like this can be amazing one moment then ruin your life the next. Especially considering today's social climate. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Girl says "You look like trouble I just don't have time for"?Just be like, "no worries, hit me up when you have time then", then soft next, spin more plates. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Best way to deal with a girl that has low interest in me?Soft next and spin more plates. If it becomes radio silent, then you know what to do.... | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:35 AM |
| 2 | A woman I've been dating said she is "demisexual". Is this a valid reason why she hasn't had sex with me yet?All women are demisexual. They are asexual for the perceived beta. But very sexual for the perceived alpha. You mentioned that you discussed if she is sexually attracted to you. By doing that you gave her all the power. And when a woman is given power by the man, she dries up very quickly. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Plate keeps talking about other guys she was with before?Are you fucking her? If so, just look at her in the eye and tell her that you don't care about hearing about other guy's dicks. And that if she wants to talk about it then do it on someone else's time. Give her a second to process then continue with having fun. If she gets upset or doesn't like it then HARD NEXT. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:25 AM |
| 19 | How do I stop feeling inferior?There are many factors involved in social hierarchies. A lot of the "superior" people that we encounter are that way due to hard work on their part. But just as many are in that bubble due to genetics, social environment and other factors. And those people do seem to have "more" of everything in general. But always remember that you can always improve on so many things as long as youre alive. And these people that intimidate you are not immortal, nor are they supreme beings. Everything they have… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Drugs everywhereDefinitely a sign of the times. Remember about 20 years ago (if you're old enough) how drugs were seen as the devil? But now there is a lot of advocacy for "moderate" use. I honestly don't feel comfortable with it. I really believe most drug use is a sign of some underlying issues or problems within the person. I have witnessed people take stuff like the so called "safe" and "enlightening" psychedelics and they didn't act right and sometimes were flat out uncomfortable to be around. Nevertheless… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:02 AM |
| 8 | Why do I crave for a girlfriend so much?^ This. It gets old after a while. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 04:04 AM |
| 2 | St. Fatrick's Day. Or why too much beer/alcohol consumption is preventing you from having the ideal body composition you want.I agree that alcohol and bad food is a bad combo when it comes to results in physical/fitness. But everyone is different. There were dudes that I knew at my old job that were CHADs that looked great yet they drank beer and whiskey like it was air. These were the guys that slayed with HB7-8s on the regular and would have the occasional HB9 leave with them at parties. Genetics and other factors certainly play a role in how you look. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Who cheats more? Men or women?Most data available tends to show that men cheat a tad bit more. However, as most of us know, women are very secretive about their sexual pasts so they tend to lie on these types of surveys. Another thing to consider is that many women tend to lack accountability for their errors. Meaning that if they cheat they are quick to rationalize their behavior by creating "reasons" for doing it. Therefore, their past cheating "doesn't count" because they believe that their man deserved it. In my years on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Going on a date with a woman taller than meOh yeah. I'm not a natural when it comes to witty comebacks myself. Just practice and have a DGAF attitude. That way if your response comes off crappy or awkward, she will likely forgive it due to your nonchalance. But it seems like youre doing fine. I know it can be weird and even intimidating going out with a taller girl since you rarely see that in the world. But fuck it, if she's fucking you, i repeat, IF SHE IS FUCKING YOU, consider yourself a winner by beating the odds. And run with that i… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Going on a date with a woman taller than meSidebar is a great source for how to handle shit tests. And like many have said on this subreddit, we will pass and fail them. But its very important to pass most of them when you can. Because the amount of failed shit tests that she forgives greatly depends on your SMV. My advice to you is to never take a woman's comments toward you seriously (whether good or bad). Stoicism is essential when it comes to shit tests. If she compliments you, reward her by being sexual with her. If she shit tests, … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Going on a date with a woman taller than meI'm 5'5, a tad bit overweight. My current gf is around your height, normal weight, beautiful ass, legs and hair. Frame is everything. Lots of dudes have tried to get at her before we went out and even to this day on occasion. But she chose me over all of them (up to now lol) due to my strengths with frame. First couple weeks were relatively shit test free. Then when things started escalating, the shit tests came pouring in. And of course she threw the height shit test. But after all this reading… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:03 AM |
| 10 | Girl might be bringing her friend along on our dateTread lightly. If you don't feel like hiking then don't go. If you do go with her, just realize she is taking her friend for safety/cock block and/or approval of you. Which bear in mind is not ideal for a first date as you already seem to know. So if you do go and its a fun time, make it clear that the next time it will just be you two. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 04:14 PM |
| 19 | Femcels? (The female incel)No not at all. There are women who are celibate for sure due to health, belief system, low sex drive, etc. But the word "incel" does not apply to the vast majority of women. For example, the girl I'm dating has a close friend. This friend is almost 6 feet tall, well over 250 pounds, stocky frame, and never wears nice clothes or makeup. On top of that she has horrible social skills. She talks way too much and is very aggressive and tries to be a bully to everyone (due to poor self esteem). Well n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/18 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Smell goodYup. Good scent can go a looong way | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys respond to "Maybe"Maybe=90% no, 10% shit test Either way, NO CONTACT | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Are girls naturally redpilled?Subconsciously they are, but consciously they mostly aren't. Think about third wave feminism. Many of these women truly believe in the cause for "noble" reasons. But they aren't specifically conscious of the fact that it gives them the upper hand by encouraging their hypergamous natures. Sure, they love all the cock pointed at them. But they will think and tell you that they just want "equal pay". That's the issue that causes men to be confused and frustrated. And that is why the Red Pill exists… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:59 AM |
| 5 | Anger stage I guess (very long, I apologise in advance)Anger stage I guess (very long, I apologise in advance) I'll be honest, I didn't read your post, but the title made me want to say something. Anger stage is normal. But never apologize unless ABSOLUTELY necessary. Especially to a bunch of guys online. Man up and welcome to The Red Pill. Stick around and things will change. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How true is the 'only for logistics' rule?Very true. Keeps them thinking, and keeps you interesting. You'll be the guy that doesn't give that much of a fuck. They will ignore their incoming messages from their beta orbiters asking about their day or their dog and wonder about you and why you aren't talking to them. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Should I initiate contact again?That's your queue. No more contact. If she got that pissed over what you said, then she ain't worth the effort. A cooler girl would have just LOL'ed the comment if she was truly religious and slightly offended. But I smell a psycho. That's just my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Women and the herd mentalityThey all do that to some degree. It's part of their nature. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Need advice badly...Plate her at best. You said you don't want to be Steve's sloppy seconds, but you already created that scenario for yourself. Live and learn, we all made these types of mistakes. That's why we are here | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:30 AM |
| 11 | Is Ghosting a Power Move?HARD NEXT. If she asks what happened, call her out on what she did. But do it in a calm, confident manner. Don't be a bitch and start yelling and cussing her out. Then you say good luck and never contact her or respond to her calls/texts. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:27 AM |
| 1 | How to cold approach a group of girls at a bar?In this type of scenario, you pretty much need to just LOOK GOOD, and when talking to them, just do it for shits and giggle and don't take what they say seriously. They will immediately calculate your SMV then treat you accordingly, the rest is holding frame and stoicism. Oh, and don't be annoying and stick with them for more than a couple minutes. Make an impression and walk away, if they, or one of them likes you, things will happen with far less effort later in the night. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:21 AM |
| 14 | Why has legalized prostitution not been a game changer in countries like Germany and Netherlands?Two reasons. First, it's because there is still an innate desire for us to "conquer" women sexually. Part of the thrill and fun of getting laid is gaming a girl and using those skills to convince her to fuck you. It is hard wired into us to want the hunt. Prostitution will get you off, sure. But there is no game involved, the girl is faking her attraction towards you, and she likely fucked another dude hours or even minutes before you. Overall, its the McDonald's of sex. Cheap, gross and easy to… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Why so many fitness bunny moms married to dough boys?Why? Hypergamy, hypergamy, hypergamy, and a whole lots more hypergamy. They were young and tight and probably didn't need much maintenance to look good. But now they are getting older and subconsciously getting on the trampoline so they can jump high enough and eventually back flip over the fence to the greener grass. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:01 AM |
| 11 | Don't try to make women laughMaking people laugh is a delicate art. In many cases, it will indeed make you look like a clown and be a turnoff for women and make men think you're weak. But if done with finesse, wit and the right amount of charm, it can go a long way. Very hard to pull off for most people. I've seen guys do it effortlessly. But they tended to be naturals at it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 02:54 AM |
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