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| 2 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!As someone currently not drinking I can tell you dating without alcohol for someone like me who grew up with dating = drinking is damn near impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?Instead of selling OnlyFans content sell subscription access to your pussy, or make prostitution legal, acceptable, and normalized. Or Acknowledge and honor the fact that the majority of mens sexuality is a far different process emotionally, biologically, and hormonally than women’s and go from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:29 AM |
| 3 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?he’s right in almost all cases outside of “the one” with decreasing intensity as women get older. The more you “push” (love) they more they pull (away). It’s a dumb dance. . You’re also right, women don’t want a doormat or a nice guy. But they tend to see men as doormats and nice guys once they show more love than their attractive qualities make up for. Fastest way to lose a girl is to love her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:20 AM |
| 3 | no one ever really has their life together and it does not have a bearing on how you are perceived by the opposite sexThere is no “do xyz and you’ll get laid” that works for everyone. Things like exercise, education, finances, and “success” tend to go hand in hand with status and sociability, which in turn typically means meeting and interacting with women more, thereby having more opportunities to get laid, hence the constant suggestion for men to work on those areas. And if the reason one is pursuing these things is for self-improvement not external validation it will tend to reap better results in relation t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How easy/hard is it for you, in your opinion, to 'get'* casual sex?About same age as OP, male. If I had no standards or maybe even moderate standards and met for drinks I could get laid within a few weeks after using dating apps and playing the “game” not being genuine and being extremely mindful of what I say. Kinda similar to OP’s description. Not fun. Feels like a job. If I pursue only women I am attracted to comparable to women I’ve dated or fallen in love with in LTR’s in the past, and didn’t involve alcohol, and only used OLD, and was my genuine self, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Q for men only : Can you ever see a woman as an equal?Yes but No, and not no as unequal either. I have nothing about me beyond being human and basic non-gendered moral and ethical universals that is equatable or points to equality. These issues are not historically provided women equally and I won’t touch on that because my opinion is not how history operates. All humans deserve the same opportunities and rights, freedoms and restrictions, treatments and consequences, benefits and care. Obviously that is not how it works. In all other matters of ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 04:54 AM |
| 4 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?What I mean by my comment is say something more useful than “go outside” or “touch grass” and provide men that are struggling to do so with useful examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 12 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?What does a man do when he “goes outside” that is even remotely considered ok nowadays? I personally know how socializing works because I grew up before Tinder was standard but a lot of young men simply don’t know what to do, and are often faced with women telling them their whole lives it’s inappropriate to approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?Yes. It devalues everyone. But it devalues men the most. As it’s designed to. And there is the absurd notion oft repeated that women somehow have it harder in dating because oMg 100 mOrE mATcHeS uughhhh I hAvE tO SoRt ThRU sO mAnY cReEpS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 05:07 AM |
| 14 | Is online dating devaluing men in women's eyes? Has online dating ruined dating?Lol what a stupid analogy. You know 100% of your available options aren’t even close to skid row material or comparable to someone on their deathbed. Women have a 14% match rate. Meaning over 1/10 guys you choose to match with choose you too. Men have a .16 match rate or something ludicrous. So what if 9/10 guys that like you, you don’t want? You have 10 guys available that want you opposed to the average joe’s 0 women. Just imagine logging into your Instagram/Facebook/tinder/hinge and having no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Men don't live the same life , and it's crazy assuming they are all the sameYou’re a mod? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Can Sexual/ Physical Attraction be Developed Over Time?This a great point I rarely see mentioned. Sometimes sex is like the gym. even tho leg day may suck you certainly feel better after, and often simply after a few warm up sets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Can Sexual/ Physical Attraction be Developed Over Time?As a male I can say that if the level of attraction = repulsion then ofc I will probably never develop attraction. But neutrality can become attraction. I think this is true for women as well. I also tend to become more attracted over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 04:34 AM |
| 4 | What is your toxic dating trait?I agree. Wasting my time acting excited to meet up. Disappearing an hour before the date. I swear this has gotten worse exclusively the last 5 years. The illusion of choice has gotten out of hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 03:57 AM |
| 3 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCogito ergo pluribus unum quid quo pro sum that’s ad hominem gasman strawlighting non grata | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do?👍👍👏👏👯♀️👯♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:02 AM |
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