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Good food for thought is "strengthening of the male bonds through shared activities and recommendations for such activities"
/r/MensRights16/06/23 05:23 PM
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I wouldn't even think about it, it is so blatant they do this for political/propaganda reasons and they try to make numbers up and make it seem much bigger. As they fully launched a campaign in the past against hackers and made them the new domestic threat. The new threat they chose now is incels. It fits perfectly with the political agenda. Edit: See what a joke it is https://nypost.com/2023/04/10/fbi-documents-associate-internet-slang-like-based-and-red-pill-with-extremism/ “Red Pill” also app…
/r/MensRights08/06/23 12:54 AM
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I know the stats my dude , all I said is not only homicide happens at night. Robbery happens as well, kidnaping , serious harassment among other things so all I said is that there are multiple things to be afraid off. There are people who will focus their "bad behavior" on men and there are people who will focus their "bad behavior" on women. I can see the point of wearing the beard on some situations. There might be rampant sexual assaults in that city and low % of knife crime or in general hom…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 11:56 PM
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Well not only homicide happens at night.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 10:35 PM
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you should read their "interpretations" of usual words such as LARP and other things. Its a joke to be on that list, pure propaganda.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 10:34 PM
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To be honest the keywords they used to "catch" potential terrorists were so wide that I am pretty sure they got flags from 80% of mainstream internet users. Edit: For example "chad","stacy","redpill" and among other things.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 09:03 PM
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Fucking haircuts last decade in my country keep getting more expensive, it went from 5 euro to 15 now. I just bought clippers and rarely go now.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 07:43 PM
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Explain to her in a playful way with her own terminology that she is "woman splaining"
/r/MensRights07/06/23 09:52 AM
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Denying young men their girlfriends and potential wives Its not that, its about having normal societal relationships and not only socializing through dating apps. Its about striving for healthy socialization. You are viewing this from the wrong angle and maybe that is why they attack you for "being an incel". You shouldn't think "oh the society is denying me my gf/wife"
/r/MensRights02/06/23 12:39 PM
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Most of us don't want our friends thinking about our partners genitals so we don't talk about them.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 10:11 PM
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I was for a bit in a toxic af group of female friends where I was the only man and I was passed around . They were sharing in front of me dick picks of previous guys -_- with zero shame.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 10:09 PM
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Wow wow take some deep breaths. Firstly half of your post shows me that because you are inexperienced with women and you have been too much on the internet you have a different kind of reality in your mind. Take a step back , realize that being 19 is the begging of adult life, establish some order in your life and then slowly achieve other things step by step. Seriously now stop it with the manosphere for a while at least till you get some experiences. If you think you cant see women more than a…
/r/MensRights19/05/23 10:30 PM
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The patience some officers have is astonishing!
/r/MensRights19/05/23 02:42 PM
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A "true" man doesn't exist, a "good man" is something that is good to strive for. Of course there is gonna be the classic answer that biologically a "good man" is gonna be someone who is a good father to his child and a good partner to the mother of the child because that is a biological role that men fill in our species. Now as for how long does he have to fill this role lets say at least till the child is fully matured into an adult. Socially this can vary of course depending the circumstances…
/r/MensRights18/05/23 08:29 PM
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With all these science talk and claims you ought to provide some sources as well. Even if you are right we can't believe such things that easily.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 11:46 AM
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???? You tried to fake rape some of them? How ? Why do that? Wtf?
/r/MensRights18/05/23 11:43 AM
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I don't like to confront people so I apologized and asked everyone to move on from this discussion I used to do the same but I have noticed that not only it doesn't help but it actually for some reason shows "guilt" to them and that you were in the wrong. So I would refrain from doing that in the future. You didn't even make a comment that was interpreted as something else , you just indicated that her thinking is wrong and maybe insulting to you. The irony as well that she said "you would be mo…
/r/MensRights18/05/23 11:40 AM
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Can I get an Amen? Hahaha
/r/MensRights16/05/23 10:20 PM
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Yeah it seems logical to say they propose something when they actually put it to vote or something like this.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah I understood it :P. I wrote as well "or proposed" , my whole comment was in a bit of a rush. Wait, is recommended and proposed a different thing? I am not a native speaker.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 07:10 PM
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Probably depending on severity there would be cases where circumcision is not needed of course.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 05:08 PM
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Many times parents decide themselves for the good of their baby/teenager. So if there are any concerns about phimosis I believe circumcision would be the preferred choice. Where I leave most of us are uncircumcised . In other areas most are circumcised.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 04:47 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights16/05/23 04:39 PM
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Of course I cannot speak for everyone but I said what my experiences have been so far. Now depending on the "quality" of the post the comments differ as well. I hope your experience will be net positive on this sub.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 04:37 PM
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I get what you are saying and I believe such users come here because some specific subreddits got banned so they end up here not because they want to actually help men but I don't believe such extreme views are "popular" here. Nor do I believe they stay long here. When we even had polls about abortion and it was a healthy mix of opinions I don't believe someone could say extremism here is "popular". That is why I am inclined to assume bad faith.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 03:31 PM
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Isn't the WEF behind her? I couldn't care less if she is a woman or a man but if the WEF is behind her im pissed. I didn't expect Elon Musk to suddenly become "A good man" or fight for anything but still it is sad. Here we go with more censorship again to the tastes of the WEF's authoritarian control. https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2021/06/global-framework-regulate-harmful-online-content/
/r/MensRights16/05/23 01:45 PM
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I will search for it, in 2013 either they passed or they proposed a law for anti feminism. Ok I found where I saw it from, It was from a post here and it was this: Expert group of feminists working on behalf of the Nordic Council of Ministers recommends criminalisation of anti-feminism, monitoring of anti-feminists https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/10nlhzh/rtoxicfeminismistoxic\_grows\_with\_a\_new\_tag/
/r/MensRights16/05/23 11:23 AM
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I saw some data recently about the change last 50 years of the percentages of sexual violence committed by each sex. If I remember correctly in the youngest generation of adults women had a higher percentage of sexual violence and alcohol consumption. Now as to what is considered sexual violence I don't remember the definition so it could be anything.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 11:05 AM
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There is no problem to giving a vote as you said because you forget the political ideologies behind the voting. If it is as you said there wouldn't be an abortion debate and all the women would vote for pro abortion . That doesn't happen because ideology comes first many times. For example in Britain it was documented that a bigger percentage of women were pro life than men at some point these last years. In general there is a bigger in group bias in women but when voting you can see that there …
/r/MensRights16/05/23 10:58 AM
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Most of us downvote comments so insane as "women only good for sex" type
/r/MensRights16/05/23 10:53 AM
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It is a very striking example because warren farrel was 3 times nominated at the board of National Organization for Women (NOW) and still he got that treatment. It shows a lot.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 10:51 AM
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Correct me if I am wrong but isn't anti-feminists group considered terrorists in Sweden? Didn't they pass a law like that?
/r/MensRights16/05/23 09:45 AM
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I hope other users help, I will just say don't be afraid to ask for help or be embarrassed about it.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 11:26 PM
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I don't think most women are even aware of this discrepancy in the dating world. In smaller proportions than men, women are leaving the dating world too. Yeap I believe so as well, if someone only has personal experience and don't change perspectives or ask around they will have a very particular view of their reality (which is understandable). So I wouldn't expect women who don't watch such content and don't talk regularly with male friends to believe such problems exist to that extend. Add to …
/r/MensRights15/05/23 09:40 PM
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As I commented on the other post as well , well done it is a must read!
/r/MensRights15/05/23 02:42 PM
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From what I have noticed many organizations like women's refuges for abused women have a pretty anti male stance because it will be less money for them if male victims come to the picture. The people who work on those organizations usually are not like that, from what I have seen online its usually the managers who are like that.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:12 PM
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Don't give them ideas. If I suddenly see white cis allistic men I will come back here to haunt you hahahaha
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:07 PM
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Yeah I remember that, It was a wake up call for me as well!
/r/MensRights14/05/23 09:26 PM
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Wasn't buzzfeed going to focus on using chatgpt for articles? Maybe it is cause of this.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:10 AM
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Mens mental health is in crisis, and telling me not to cry is insanely damaging, telling them it's ok perfectly ok to cry, but just like jacking off, timing, place, and choosing you company while you jack off is very important haha Solid 10/10 example , and you pretty much sold me that you are a Men's therapist with that example hahahaha.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 11:04 PM
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Shush don't say those words , the FBI will mark you, hahaha.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 11:01 PM
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Female dentists? Hahahaha why dentists? Am I missing something? Why is it so exact?
/r/MensRights20/04/23 10:49 PM
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Tbh If I saw her break down I would give her a lift. The thing is how you make it safe for yourself. Many people have cameras in their car but It is not normal where I live. There should be a good way to make it safe for both.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 07:48 PM
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If women's rights didn't "sell" believe me they wouldn't care about those either. It is mostly virtue signaling. See how in the last years basic human rights are forgotten.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 12:10 PM
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I believe for women like Sirine , having a son would make or break her. Either she will "validate" her pre conceived notions about men or she will look at it from the "Mother's lens of empathy". Now about straight white men on the left I have noticed it too and its laughable sometimes how racist someone can be against them without even thinking he is racist. For me that I come from the Balkans "white" is diverse enough ,so I don't understand the whole "white" label. Considering politics , the la…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 11:56 AM
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I would like to point out that one of the best things that do matter is to "provide" small things when they are needed the most. And this is for all women. Many women don't like expensive gifts but a small gift when it matters its the way to go. Even buying necessities for her without her asking is on that list, and they appreciate it a lot.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 11:18 AM
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No there isn't gonna be an end to that simply because corporations want to make money. As there won't be an end to "beautifying products" for women. It is consumerism. Best thing would be to find someone who isn't into that. I would guess if she isn't into buying a lot of things she wouldn't expect expensive gifts .
/r/MensRights18/04/23 11:14 AM
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I cannot stress this enough... she is kind to waiters/waitresses at the restaurant!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:50 PM
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I am not saying that the dance is like that , I was saying that here where I live they dance for that and not for the social aspect. Blues is very nice, my favorite though is Tango Argentino.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:31 PM
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Be conservative in your actions and words, act with self-respect and mutual respect and slowly get to know when you shouldn't do those things (to benefit both partners). TLDR do not be a doormat or an asshole. Oh and don't expect sympathy by people without the same experiences.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:15 PM
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Really? Kizomba and Bachata here where I live is basically grinding on each other.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:03 PM
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Its not a lie , being interested to play with inanimate objects is different to socializing. Usually when choosing an inanimate object to interact with (play) males tend to choose more "thing like" objects while women choose "human like" (dolls) and "thing like" objects. That doesn't happen only to humans.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:02 PM
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Oh swing is so nice!! Such a good option for socializing. I used to do Latin but it is so sexualized. Swing is more chill and fun.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 04:58 PM
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No problem , I have the exact opposite goal . I am 1 90 cm and I was 80 kg when I started working out. I am now 85 and I want to reach 90something. My biggest problem is I don't do the "steady" part . Hahaha ,discipline to go to the gym is not easy, same for food as well. But progress is progress. You can do it!! Best wishes as well.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 04:54 PM
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Lol , since when a shirtless male pic is "nude" . These comments show sometimes how in those cases we are our own worst enemies. Many men "would be glad to be in his place". Sad.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 02:06 PM
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Well done man! 10 down more on the way! Slow and steady is more than good.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 01:19 PM
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Oh god I saw that video , it was insane and sad at the same time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 11:04 PM
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Yeah , but there are a myriad of reasons for this shift. It is probably not just because "she is more educated".
/r/MensRights15/04/23 03:43 PM
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Damn the most interesting thing for me out of this data is probably that black men/women had almost same results. I have seen it before but I didn't notice it the first time.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 12:35 PM
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r/OneXOneYchromosomes not Men'sRights
/r/MensRights15/04/23 09:46 AM
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Both sides use that talking point so much that it became boring.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 09:41 AM
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I prefer not to go deeper into this discussion.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 09:38 AM
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Same here , this whole "I won't need you in the future" is boring AF. Now as someone else said it is useful for gays.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 07:40 AM
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-_-. I said that this guy doesn't believe consent to sex =/= consent to pregnancy. The fact that now the legal system doesn't work this way doesn't mean that those men consented to pregnancy when they just had sex.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 07:20 AM
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It is a society's policy to "encourage" its people a bit for marriage because it creates stability in the society. That is probably the main reason behind this. Plus raising kids is a matter of long term survival as well (biologically). Now of course this many times gets out of hand and it creates problems. You do you my guy, think about yourself first and if you don't want to then don't . No need to give any excuse , just say I don't want to .
/r/MensRights14/04/23 11:06 PM
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They do , as they do with men and I would say because men have more time to make a family in the early years they probably ask women more.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 11:02 PM
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If the guy wanted to change that consenting to sex doesn't mean consenting to pregnancy (for men) then he wouldn't ask why women don't realize there is a chance of pregnancy every time they have sex. ( Meaning he believes consent to sex= consent to pregnancy).
/r/MensRights14/04/23 10:47 PM
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I checked AskWomenUncensored and it seems like a healthy mix of opinions. I checked it for about 20 mins not more .
/r/MensRights14/04/23 09:35 PM
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Chill , I would say the same to this guy. It's a pretty smart comeback from her point. It is the same argument over and over about spreading legs or having sex . There is no better comment anyone could make. It makes the guy understand that he is failing to notice how the same reasoning would affect him in the same situation.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 08:33 PM
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Yeah same here , it was somewhat of a disservice.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 08:28 PM
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Yeah I don't want to be a part of that. Not gonna say I have never sinned though.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 07:09 PM
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I believe Queen's gambit was the most inspirational for young women but yes I believe it is for those reasons as well.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 05:46 PM
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Oh ok there is such a subreddit , seems like things are being dealt with. Thank you.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 05:06 PM
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I have no idea , I almost never make posts.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 04:32 PM
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Oh I didn't spot it , thank you very much. It hasn't happened to me and I wouldn't expect it to happen but when I hear people who haven't dated for years get caught up in this it seems like something needs to be done. Thank you for your work. Edit: Maybe try again or talk with the admins to see if they are interested in Pinning the post or something like that.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 04:30 PM
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Must have been hard. I hope you find a solution.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 04:16 PM
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When you want to justify your prejudice you hang on to everything . Same thing happens with misogynists in incel forums. It is what it is. Some people think past that some not.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 01:52 PM
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Thank you for commenting! "Financial abortion" is a catchy term but it is not right. I have even caught myself using it and it doesn't sit right.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 09:53 PM
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Porn is sexual pleasure but not intimacy.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 04:51 PM
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Okay , I will say in advance that I haven't been in the same place as you have but I will try to express what I believe . I am glad you escaped from such an environment which is highly predatory for people like you and for sure it is a huge step in the right direction. For the things below some might disagree or you might find it wrong but still I will give my two cents. Especially for the socially awkward people the recent change to social media / Of / dating apps is not helping at all and many…
/r/MensRights13/04/23 04:19 PM
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Yeah for sure, in every political party anyone who goes against the narrative gets ostracized. It is sad.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 01:37 PM
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Sadly I have no idea, I searched to find the post I read in the past but couldn't find it. Hope someone else helps.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 12:10 PM
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If I remember correctly there was a hotline for men in UK that actually registered them as perpetrators so I would look into it a bit deeply . I will try to search some posts in this sub for you. Hope shit gets better.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 12:07 AM
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The " Shoulder to shoulder activities " I think is right on target.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/23 12:04 AM
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Hahahaha
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:08 PM
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To be completely honest, most governments now in the western world are tilting heavily to authoritarian/totalitarian.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:59 PM
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There is a religious left as well , I don't know about Canada or America but I am just going to say Russia is Orthodox. Plus that America's "left" is considered a joke for actual leftists. But in general yeah I believe you are correct.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:41 PM
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Traditional conservative I believe. I thought he was leaning left tbh.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:27 PM
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My opinion about him is that he seems good for his subject (clinical psychology) , he is a bit of the spiritual type , he tries to speak about many different things that are not his specialty. Sometimes he does it nicely sometimes he fucks up. It's fine, everybody does. Some communities have demonized him and even consider him a nazi. The quick rise to fame , the need of some people to hear him and the enemy he became of some communities has destroyed him. It would have been better if the whole …
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:26 PM
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Yeap , nice examples. Especially the last one, if all daycares/schools closed it would affect maaaany people.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 09:01 PM
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Yeah but not all essential, given that the strike is big enough then many more jobs are "essential".
/r/MensRights12/04/23 08:53 PM
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I don't know , it is just infuriating some times.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 08:18 PM
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Plus the medical sector is probably overworked and in the verge of collapse , meaning that any strike could have huge consequences.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 07:36 PM
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I am bored to hear every time us vs them and division. It is tiring , it doesn't help and its not productive. Yes I know things (F)eminism has done against advocates for men. Still seeing people joining this sub constantly having the mindset "us vs them" is doing a disservice to us and it is tiring. I want in depth conversations and probable solutions and this mentality makes it more hard.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 06:41 PM
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Who asked "us" about "their" opinions on "our" strike, same thing for them. I am using quotations because its not us vs them. If they address women's issues and we are talking only about women there is no reason to butt in. Same thing for a men's strike. If the discussion is about men's problems no reason to butt in to talk about women.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 06:20 PM
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I said it from the perspective that you become more "tempered" as a man through this and you get to know how to stand up for yourself. The creepy subject is a whole different one.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 06:00 PM
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Yes they work on essential services, as long as it is a strike for things that matter I have no problem and maybe we should take this as a teachable moment and be a bit more like them on that matter.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:58 PM
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She has been listening to too many Katt Williams shows haha
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/23 12:17 PM
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Yeap I was thinking the same thing when I read the comment. That even mistakes would be punished either on the woman or the man.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:22 AM
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I would say for your own good it would be wise to slowly try to repair the relationship with the other sex. Maybe it is never going to be as it was before but as you found your new girlfriend and you made a connection and she understands because she is an SA victim as well there are other people out there through the same circumstances. You were dealt a really bad hand and it seems you are slowly recovering from the consequences. If you totally blocked any woman from your life you wouldn't have …
/r/MensRights11/04/23 11:03 PM
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Many america's states have default 70something percent custody on the mother. You think this is for the interest of the child? Nope . It is just the percentage of custody that milks more money from a parent (usually father) because these courts are paid through child support.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:50 PM
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Really interested to watch the results. I believe most would choose 4 since only a month seems quite small amount. Some women might not even know they are pregnant first month. Edit: I chose roughly 120 days , my deviation is 90 days ( the same as the law for sole descretion in my country)
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:21 PM
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Im gonna give a pass on many people who probably have no idea about the relation of male genocide and "the future is female " slogan. But for those who know yeah its really bad.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:10 PM
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I imagine someone reading this with zero prior knowledge and then trying to make the cognitive jump from incels to father's rights groups. I would be confused AF. I mean I still am but more.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:50 PM
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Denying their agency and choices throughout the past because "women were always oppressed in history" is in fact objectifying them. It is the classic male hyper-agency and female hypo-agency belief. And change many times come from social power which women had in the past. So yeah , a big disservice to the female sex in general . Edit: Like there where never any female emperors , queens etc. Failing from apex fallacy believing everything done by the oligarchy is done by men and at the same time f…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 06:12 PM
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One example that goes against this narrative is about abortions. As I understand MRA's view is your body your choice and that men as well should be able to opt out if it wasn't their choice. Your "right" to abortions is not threatening and its a good thing, but I don't know if you consider our "right" to freedom of choice the same.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:27 PM
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Father's rights are threatened everyday (one example). And the belief about men complaining about issues they created objectifies all the women who lived in the past so I would advise not sticking with it.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:22 PM
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I am just going to say AvailableCanditate89 doesn't express everyone's view here. I don't agree with the things stated.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:19 PM
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I will try to find them. Edit: Here is one : https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5749848/#:\~:text=Overall%2C%20females%20showed%20more%20accurate,categories%20used%20in%20the%20study.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 04:38 PM
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I believe it was from wifeman meaning wife human or something like that.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:28 AM
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They have different words and I don't know the history for manchild but the word man is derived from human so it could be humanchild. Im pulling it out of my ass so I don't know.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:06 AM
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Well said, ESG rating is what makes loans go BRRRRRT these days.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:58 AM
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Yeah I didn't expect such a poor made post either.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:56 AM
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Hahahaha
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:54 AM
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Women on average have much better recognition of facial expressions . That is proven and there is no reason denying it. Now if they choose not to empathize with someone when they want its another thing.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:22 AM
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Women were doing it all along , wake up.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:15 AM
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Its not only one person handling these things on big companies.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:00 PM
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That's a good thing if you want to be his safe space.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 09:57 PM
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Social cognition my ass , of course you talk with friends to see if a behavior is normal or not but they are not doing that.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 09:51 PM
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As an example one thing that messed my whole trust in my previous relationship was that in every argument everything that was being said was later relayed to her friends. And then it was me arguing with what her friends said and on and on . Not healthy to disclose everything to others and bringing them in the arguments constantly. Its good to bring different opinions but its tiring to always hear opinions from people who don't even know the whole situation and weren't there.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 09:27 PM
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I would keep it simple and say that yes for sure he needs his personal space but if you don't make sure he knows you are a part of a safe space for him to talk he will just stay in his personal space and not move from that. And I mean making him trust you through actions mainly. Edit: And well done for reaching out from multiple sources to help your bf!
/r/MensRights10/04/23 08:49 PM
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Oh okay okay.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:30 PM
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Oh welcome , I hope this sub helps you. No need to focus on only you , maybe a try to find an activity to do with other men that is good for socializing while having extra benefits. For example hunting, hiking or whatever suits you. My father goes once every two weeks for hunting with his friends and their dogs and it works wonders for him.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:29 PM
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Chill i never said it doesn't matter and its one of the things I advocate for.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:21 PM
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Narrator : "New study reveals the horrific state of the US population where during the last year we have seen a rise in extremist behavior/language especially in social media where 50% of the users have made at least 10 extreme remarks every week over last few months". LOL
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:11 PM
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Maybe you haven't shown that this affects you if you pass of as stoic when you give grace to those people.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:57 PM
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Last years I have been open to different conversations for different beliefs, some examples are the whole mandatory vaccines to children during the pandemic , political issues , social issues among other things. This has led to a big of distancing or it has led to more respect. It all depends how you approach and who you are speaking with . When I hear blatant misandry in conversations I try to tackle it but its not possible in every situation and sometimes its better to just let it go. Its not …
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:55 PM
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I agree with you and its a huge social issue in need of fixing. And these cases I am pretty sure don't even count false accusations that don't end up in court. All I am saying is the first step is to try to properly take it down to the same rate as other false accusations . And rape cases are a freaking difficult thing on the court, I am sure a good amount of those demonstrably false accusations where proven by accident or by pure luck. For example finding cctv footage for alibi or something sim…
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:31 PM
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OP= Original Poster
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:21 PM
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Well any false accusation should be 0% but its a bit unrealistic. But yes if false accusations where on par with false accusations of other crimes it would be really nice.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:06 PM
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OP's dick it seems :P haha.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:01 PM
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Hahaha hello
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:58 PM
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Woman in the red dress is BS'ing. She is doing what they accuse misogynists of doing. Using biology to excuse preconceptions. Saying I don't think a woman should be on extreme leadership position is denying free choice of the woman capable and wanting those positions . Even if "biology" dictates that less women are capable of extreme leadership positions there are still enough outliers enough to make a big difference.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:44 PM
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You don't need to be a feminist to believe that. Plus many babies recently are born out of wedlock so its normal for more people to have that view . And its quite convenient to call it paper abortion but I would suggest not doing so because it is not as serious as actual abortion. Choice to financially provide is good enough. And yes men should have that right if they stated that they didn't want a baby and it is her choice to keep it.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:48 AM
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Oh so might as well kill it after it is born. Impeccable logic.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:43 AM
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Ok I am just going to link this video.. Monty Python-Life of Brian. Quite prophetic.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:27 AM
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Abortion as in actual abortion? Like aborting a fetus?
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:21 AM
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God bless, seems like a nice solution and I hope it works. I don't worry for myself since I haven't dated but shit seems quite awful for some other men. I would be horrified if that happened.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:02 AM
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Let's not resort to name calling , attack the idea not the person.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:30 AM
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Shaming can be a push back against unreasonable demands and it is somewhat "healthy" there but we are talking about the opposite side of the spectrum.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:19 AM
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Well it would be nice if they enforced it. Or at least some independent body warn those who advertise OF to children. Pretty sure that's illegal.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 12:17 AM
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Offering Of links on twitch should be banned by TOS , there is not even a reason to go debate if porn for minors is good or bad . Plainly it should be banned by TOS since twitch has a major audience of minors.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 09:04 PM
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"when tries to apply sunscreen" ick Hahahahaa ,these weak dudes can't handle the sunrays. Miss me with that gay shit :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:54 PM
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That's true
/r/MensRights09/04/23 07:19 PM
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Interesting, I believe we all want more progress on that part. Last years depression is more prevalent and we need to tackle it from any angle we can.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 06:49 PM
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Think about it though, the more insane the shaming becomes the more desensitized to it we will become. Shaming used to work on me but now that I understand sometimes why it is used it doesn't work . I am not advocating for shaming , it is really sad that it is widespread now , all I am saying is that the more crazy it becomes the more people will understand how crazy it is.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 06:45 PM
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A bit too over the top , the clickbait title makes me not wanting to even see the video. So I didn't see it and I will just say the "survival of our species" (probably refering to western civilization and a bit of asia because as far as I know other countries are doing fine) is way more tightly linked with the wealth distribution between the 99% and 1%. I am not even talking communism vs capitalism , I believe the wealth distribution now (after COVID) is far worse than any "pure capitalist syste…
/r/MensRights09/04/23 03:17 PM
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Its a centrist view and you attacked mainly the argument that one sex because of their biology are the same even in aspects that epigenetics and the social aspect can change. Edit: Reading the post and the comment I would suggest if you want someone to read what you are saying to try to appease the sense of anger first. For example in this comment you could add "It must have been hard for you and your friend not being understood about the seriousness of SA and if your group of male friends show …
/r/MensRights09/04/23 02:30 PM
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Good conversation , relaxing to hear on the side. Not much controversy and good focus on explaining core things.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 02:07 PM
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Yeap , comments like these without nuance are not doing good neither to the conversation nor the MRM.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 11:00 PM
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I didn't have time to sit down and try to see what's happening. My thought was for example cooking , it can be 20 min preparation and 2h waiting while checking every 30 mins , how is it handled? Edit: I read only your post not the extra links that is why I am oblivious about further details.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 10:10 PM
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Quite nice analysis, thank you. If they were a bit more serious they would have statistical weights on the subcategories of unpaid work. And while doing house chores you don't do one thing at a time because it's not efficient, i don't know if they made that distinction.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 09:41 PM
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I would say the position of a black male in a social circles is in superposition until he interacts with someone else. If that someone else is not a "cis man" he then has a high probability of being an oppressor/privileged when the victim/oppressor wavefunction collapses. If that someone is a man but a feminist the probability of his identity collapsing into the same class is a bit lower but still high. If that someone is a man (but not a feminist) this probability lowers further. Lastly if the …
/r/MensRights08/04/23 09:27 PM
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Yeah as I understand they view fathers/husbands as a cash cow. No humanity at all.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 09:08 PM
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One of the few who are on the spotlight is Henry Cavil . He is still a "traditional man" with the positive traditional characteristics .
/r/MensRights08/04/23 08:44 PM
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Oh god, this is insane. Last years I started searching a bit for family court/custody cases to see if the whole thing was real or not. After reading your post and similar cases I really admire the dedication to go against a system made against you . I hope things change in the future and people wake up to this.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 08:31 PM
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Oh man it sounds exactly like something out of black mirror. Its very close to dystopic. On these kind of times always what helped me was staying with my group of friends and doing activities around town. Not meeting new people , just playing pool , darts and things like that. Legal advice or something like that I cannot offer, I hope you will get over this. As others mentioned situations like these keeps popping up all the time recently. I will say at least bullets dodged that you weren't in a …
/r/MensRights08/04/23 08:07 PM
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Damn . the audacity of asking her husband to bail her out.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 08:54 PM
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So true about the victim mentality . On the other hand I feel sometimes even talking about some issues is seen now as trying to be a victim . Extreme politics of over victimization has harmed the occasional dialogue of such things.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 08:29 PM
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Well said, well said. I would like to add " In the war of the sexes there is no winner" .
/r/MensRights07/04/23 08:02 PM
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I don't have any sense of anger to be targeted on people for previous generations mistakes. It doesn't feel nice for me to see her suffer because she had this encounter. I know how it feels like because as a male dancer I didn't have a locker room to change where I took dance lessons. The changing room for me was the unisex bathroom (even though there was a female bathroom as well). I had no problems with that because it was me and 4 other men vs more than 150 girls/women . The only problem was …
/r/MensRights07/04/23 03:58 PM
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I wouldn't call feminists nazi's but as many other ideologies and institutions they have "stolen" practices from them. Many people see it more on feminism because this subreddit is about things like that (and because feminism is widely popular and successfull) . In general the western world last years is clearly an amalgam of authoritarian/totalitarian/fascist and even orwellian practices. Not that everything is shit and everything is dark but last years people who use such practices keep poppin…
/r/MensRights07/04/23 01:38 PM
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It was based of cow clitorises? What? hahahahaa really?
/r/MensRights07/04/23 08:19 AM
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Hahah BASED.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 10:29 PM
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Hahaha . it's a nice read but "the tyranny of the phallus" always cracks me up.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 10:23 PM
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The attack is based, as feminists’ own words and policies indicate, on a febrile mix of resentment, envy, and projection in which the belief that men enjoy sex more than women (and that the enjoyment hurts women, in the typical zero-sum thinking of feminism) has fueled ever-more frenzied attempts at male neutering. But women have way more neuron endings on the clitoris and they get more intense orgasmas. Makes me wonder sometimes how it would be like to have such a sensation. This always was at …
/r/MensRights06/04/23 10:20 PM
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Yeah of course. You don't even need to monsterfy men to achieve that. Without changing a thing for men if you just give full undeserved benefits to women (for no reason) you will still get more misogyny and it is to be expected. ( I am not talking for actual needed benefits like more parental leave and things like that)
/r/MensRights06/04/23 10:11 PM
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it works both ways , I believe misogyny as well stems from envy of the "women are wonderful effect" or in general through the innate differences of the sexes that benefit women. Its not only the physical aspect though. Being sometimes "stoic" or "emotionally stable" because you don't have pms/ period cramps and hormone imbalances due to menstrual cycle is something to add as well. In that aspect I would be jealous too. All in all just look at innate sex differences in everything and what benefit…
/r/MensRights06/04/23 09:54 PM
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The point I believe he makes was when "real man" is used by other men in close circles for correcting a behavior or rewarding a behavior/achievement etc. Your point is that in politics it is used for nefarious reasons . In my opinion both of you are correct. And what he said about women it can all be included in the term " they use it for their own self interest" .
/r/MensRights04/04/23 10:26 PM
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Nah, they are homophobic. They clearly believe a relationship with a person of the same sex is not even worth it to be considered cheating.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:17 PM
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Well greece doesn't "include" it in the laws specifically because as I understand they made the law in such way to include many things without saying much. Whoever with physical violence or with the threat of serious and immediate danger to life or physical integrity forces another to commit or tolerate a sexual act shall be punished by imprisonment of at least ten (10) years. A sexual act is intercourse and the acts of equal weight with it. If the act of par. 1 was committed by two or more perp…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 08:11 PM
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MRA's as everyone should vote for a better society. Saying it should be through a certain political lens will only make matters worse. And from what I understand tradcon values had certain constricting views on men and women for a variety of reasons and pressures . Some make sense some don't. We shouldn't forget some but wishing to "go backwards to the future" shouldn't be a thing. So I don't particularly see a problem not voting for tradcon party. And even if men become more "traditional" what …
/r/MensRights11/03/23 05:34 PM
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Yeah the whole incel thing its a fucked up mess from both sides. And everybody is trying to capitalize on that phenomenon. Either through spreading fear , or offering a "helping hand" just to make money off of them. Or to plainly shut down any conversation by calling someone an incel . Because now you don't call them virgins , you use incel to show how sexist they are OR you try to play the sexist card to shut them down.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:55 PM
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That's why I clarified that I was not talking about actual creeps but the trend now that everyone who gives the slightest attention is considered a creep and shamed on social media. Edit" And to clarify when I "explained the logic" doesn't mean that I agree or I consider this "Logical". Its more like what I believe they are thinking.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:39 PM
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Greece has a gender neutral as well but I don't know how it is enforced.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:28 PM
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Women like that in my opinion just jump on the bandwagon to "redeem " themselves of the shame created by their choices. But usually these women have the biggest audiences so they are the loud voices. Usually when they are trying to redeem themselves they are the archetype "Born again virgins".
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:24 PM
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The logic is that on one occasion they have "power over the other" . They choose to show it , when , where how and they get paid as well either in "likes" or in money. On the other occasion of course they "choose" in a sense to show themselves considering the poses and the outfit but its not practically the same AND the "payout" isn't worth it because its the attention of one man who they don't even consider "dating material". On onlyfans of course most of the viewers aren't considered "dating m…
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:19 PM
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Very sad but true. I 100% agree that we cater to women's biological predispositions and fears but not men's . And I see it around me with a lot of female friends I have that they never even care to entertain any idea like that. As you said after that for us it comes down to "Why would we care then if they don't ?". The problem I have spotted here is that primarily women have more say in the society over what is moral and what is not. In addition to that I believe there are more men willing to ac…
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:16 PM
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And we are desensitized to any touching of our chest because of that. So there is a trade off.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:04 PM
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The joke from the men's part to me it seems like a way to make fun out of something so you can overcome it. In many bad situations we face we tend to make fun of them in order to overcome them or at least be able to handle them. The comment about the physical abuse just validates the reason some men made that joke , there is actually a problem some men face in their relationships and it is not being addressed . Many men I know and me as well use jokes to cope with problems we have just because t…
/r/MensRights25/02/23 06:16 PM
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Oh thats a very nice advice, and tbh if saw a woman fully dedicated to her workout doing powerlifting I wouldn't even care . It seems like a nice atmosphere. Better to focus on actually training.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 05:40 AM
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Well he doesn't need to claim it, tbh he has done it so his persona will be more viral cause of the outrage. Even some truths he says he states them in such way so they can be viewed as misogynistic. It is done by choice so he becomes more viral. Sadly that's the game social media are playing. More outrage -> More clicks.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 02:17 PM
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Yeah I believe you hit right on mark!
/r/MensRights09/02/23 03:13 AM
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Yeah I am sorry if I wrote it like that, it was not.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 12:09 AM
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First of all shame on Dr Phill team for what they did to the first man on the show. He wasn't even saying anything weird. Imagine Russel Brand saying the exact same things but with his "mojo". Apart from that . Rollo is a legend .
/r/MensRights08/02/23 11:52 PM
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Hahaha true. We became feral at full moons !
/r/MensRights08/02/23 11:27 PM
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As far as I know man comes from human and the cause for such words could be because it was (hu)manchild. Just like women used to be called wifman
/r/MensRights08/02/23 09:34 PM
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Damn the tradition reminded me of an (i believe) african tribe that made gloves out of bull ants as a ceremony for becoming an adult or a warrior. Horrifying stuff.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 09:03 PM
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of course but on just fucking it matters more.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 06:50 PM
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you talking about fucking or relationships?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:14 PM
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Had same things happen to friends and SA on me , always the reaction was like that. That woke me up for good . I hope you are doing well!!
/r/MensRights08/02/23 03:00 PM
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You didn't get what I said. Personality in speed dating doesn't matter at all , personality when meeting people through already established friend groups will matter more because you will have the chance to show your personality/humour etc.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 02:44 PM
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I won't say many things since I don't know Hamza and what he does but all i am gonna say don't forget that the article you stated it for speed dating , for men who find it hard for whatever reason speed dating and online apps like tinder will worsen your circumstances and attitude. Find good friends and female friends and have many groups you hang out with and do hobbies with. And personality matters but it can only be counted OUTSIDE OF SPEED DATING/COLD APPROACH/ONLINE DATING. For online apps …
/r/MensRights08/02/23 01:03 AM
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Its good for men to get to know the side effects or any pill especially like plan b / contraceptive . It is a really good idea to not go without a condom on first times NEVER FINISH INSIDE ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW THE OTHER!!!! Its good that both of you went together to the pharmacy and administered plan b As far as I know many people (not only men) go without condoms ( for me I rarely do it but many women have tried to force it even first time we had sex and one especially dumped be becau…
/r/MensRights08/02/23 12:51 AM
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Is it that popular?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 05:11 PM
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Ok yes I get it. And the oppression olympics are indeed awful and sometimes full of entitlement. I 100% agree and of course they take one rare example.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 01:48 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights07/02/23 01:44 PM
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Holy shit the article for gay bars is such an entitled shitpost. Didn't expect it to be so bad.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 10:32 AM
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You can cry in front of most women of course, only when they are ready for it . If you want to cry and they are not ready... bad luck.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 09:48 AM
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Yeah I have been into one like this but on my grandparent's city. It was chill and nice.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 09:46 AM
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I remember at some points I tried to search for these laws in china but didn't search enough and couldn't find. Do you have a source?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 03:51 AM
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100% true!
/r/MensRights07/02/23 03:44 AM
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I sincerely don't believe the only reason TERFs are TERFs is because of misandry. For me to believe gender/sexuality/biological sex are three different things and gender is "social" is really hard and to be frank I cannot just believe that. That doesn't mean that I shouldn't respect trans people . But for example saying that trans people should be able to compete against people of the same "social gender" and not biological sex is just a plain mistake and I frankly don't care if its not inclusiv…
/r/MensRights07/02/23 03:43 AM
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Ooof, horrifying stuff . This child as it seems obviously is the perpetrator but the thing that bothers me is that as the article says he had the same prior behavior "The demons will get me" and as it seems nobody did anything for that?? Could be a case of heavy neglect from the parents and school but still this doesn't excuse the fact that he stabbed her 110 times. Insane. About being tried as an adult I have no idea about the law or what would it be if roles were reversed.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 02:22 AM
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There are multiple responses you can have , shitting on his lawn as well is one response. My answer was to show why shitting on lawns is a bad thing.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 02:10 AM
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I would love a man only gym, I recently started going to gym again and I am not even feeling comfortable to workout the way I want because its mixed. I want to "socialize " on the gym with other people share notes and exercises but if it is gonna be seen as sexual advances I ain't doing it.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 11:57 PM
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I would suggest using your energy somewhere else like a gym or exercise at home. Being horny without having a method to release pent up stress is sometimes a torture.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 11:43 PM
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It would be useful but it wouldn't be ethical , as this "women's group" is not ethical as well. Even if they didn't gossip there , if it was just for their "safety" its not ethical. If you don't want risky dates plan them through friends when someone already knows the guy. For "safety " reasons you can reach really disgusting results. Imagine I ask tinder the data from the date I pick. I would know a lot of personal stuff and bodycount would be the least bad thing there. These groups are a threa…
/r/MensRights06/02/23 09:51 PM
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*Puking* ( Well done my white knight you have my approval and I will offer you the sex)
/r/MensRights06/02/23 09:21 PM
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That's vague but still you just agreed to a coffee to meet , nothing more. You didn't even hook up. It is way too much of an exaggeration . But as I said before better now than later.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 09:20 PM
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Why are you in the wrong here? Because you said to an ex yeah lets grab a drink while you are not exclusive? Most women would be accused of that in the regular because "he is just a friend". No man you weren't by any means wrong from the things you wrote here. IMO not even an asshole. At least you learned her true colours before being exclusive but still that whole situation was way too much.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:27 PM
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How this man got convinced to do this shit? Its insane to me.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:24 PM
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There is usually when its brother/ really close friend / son.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:56 PM
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Sexism is not allowed
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:56 PM
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That's insane and considering what was being said and the lawsuit I would easily believe that he actually stalked the defendant.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:08 PM
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I can't talk about how to act but I would like to point out that I don't think you are cautious enough , this "Even though I know you were joking, I can still report you" you should have immediately hit the alarm bell . You don't need to "protect her" as you did after what happened . "You’re drunk, I’m sober. Please don’t say anything that you’ll regret as we have to work together and we’re still in work" Protect yourself and don't care about what happens to her because she is the one who is ina…
/r/MensRights03/02/23 06:20 PM
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For me the most hypocritical right now is to try to "reach equality" by having equal representation in the labor force on everywhere. It is just dumb, you either force people to do something or you just give them the choice. Equality for them is forcing when it should be about having the choice.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 04:10 AM
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I understand it and I understand that some people take advantage of the MRM (from both sides) and it is sad.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 04:08 AM
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That is what I have been saying , the organizations don't actually care about inequality they care about having a bigger labor force.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 03:59 AM
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Yes they have such traits Or if they don't their "persona" has such traits.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:20 AM
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you want to say "average" men ,if you are on the top there are no checks
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:19 AM
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Plot twist: Its a social experiment to make you think big age gaps are bad and every time you meet someone you would think of your parent/child because of this show.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:55 PM
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I love that the author of the article states that every MRA,RP,incel,MGTOW is a male supremacist. They lost me there. They can make some valid points but then they have to play their agenda. And of course they easily wipe away every male DV victim. Cool.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 08:45 PM
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They are telling the truth, when the line is long enough for women's toilets it always ends up to this. Hahaha
/r/MensRights02/02/23 05:14 PM
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Greece is one of the most "equal" in gender pay gap in europe. You know why? because they are living in piss poor wages barely able to scrap by . Equality as equally poor that is. So every "equality" needs context.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 02:51 PM
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I would say its wise to include gay and bisexual men NOT because they are gay or bisexual but because they are men.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 12:51 PM
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Np "toxic modern feminists" should still have their vote , its a slippery slope to strip away rights because of conflicting ideologies. It is the exact thing people and governments do now . Every opposing view is "terrorism" or "racism" or any other -ism. Branding someone with something so you don't debate his arguments. Same thing that happened with vaccines, anyone who was skeptical was branded anti-vaxxer even though he has taken every vaccine except for covid. So its a slippery slope and peo…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:54 AM
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Didn't UK have a problem even couple years ago because lots of male prisoners suddenly "self identified" as transgender and some of them were put to women's prisons? And there was outcry when these people left prison suddenly they "reversed their gender". I mean "self identification" on a thing such as this brings huge legal problems and many warned about them. Even on universities I saw some of them let you change your "self identification" every hour. Shit like this is virtue signaling without…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:39 AM
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From what I understand from the little I know hormonal birth control on a minority of women will slightly change their sexual preference in men while on it. Meaning that they will like (for the sake of simplicity) more "feminine" characteristics on men. There was a study that found shifts in preference happen from the normal hormonal cycle during a month and the pill changes that hormonal cycle . My guess is that they took those findings and instead of "more feminine characteristics on men" slap…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:27 AM
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Well just reading 10 new posts on that subreddit without reading comments I can understand why they would post these things. The things stated by some actual incels are awful to look at and I am not even a woman.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 09:57 AM
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Just look at how much Ronda Rousey is paid where the sport is as entertaining . Or look at tennis, men's and women's tennis is different and women can't compete BUT women's tennis is entertaining so they make money. Easy as that.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 05:22 PM
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A simplified approach to measuring national gender inequality
/r/MensRights31/01/23 10:32 PM
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It not about talking about political issues, its about selling intimacy while you talk about political issues.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:36 PM
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I just wrote it in another comment and wanted to write it here as well. Its so bs because what happens when I as a man take a dildo and shove it up my ars? Am I empowering myself?
/r/MensRights31/01/23 04:10 AM
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by false I mean its a joke that they have this double standard. A sex toy is a sex toy to men and women. Like if I take a dildo and shove it up my ass as a man am I empowering myself? It doesn't make sense.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 04:07 AM
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Only from reading it it is clearly a false double standard , make a note and next time its used call it out.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:55 AM
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I think that women don't have a problem being fwb or being denied ONS but the catch is they don't have a problem only when the guy is for them "really worth it" . If not some of them won't be able to face rejection as easily as the average man because they will take it as an insult to their sexuality most probably ( ofc there are men who suck at facing rejection and do bad to horrible things) . And another thing is the notion that men always want sex but after a certain age and experience there …
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:47 AM
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Yeah its bs , lets move on.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:21 AM
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You aren't supposed to care about nonsensical things/arguments.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 12:19 AM
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Yes we should all be really careful but be careful of side effects of birth control as well . And yes this is a problem for many men.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 10:19 PM
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I would take a wild guess and I would say it is an extreme form of preselection. I can explain more of my train of thought if someone wants.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 09:30 PM
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Thank you that makes a lot more sense.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 11:40 PM
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The moment I learned she has an OF I see her as a problem. "The savior of lost men who will talk good things about them and fight against the villainous feminists and she will also provide sexual pleasure" LOL. I will just say nope.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 08:22 PM
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jedediah bila and pearl davis are "entertainers" , there are many more who do valued work and they are not in it for the money. I don't dislike their content but as a movement for equality we shouldn't focus on entertainers.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 08:18 PM
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I would reconsider , she has a really good "lens" when she looks into things and having seen many of her videos everyone should watch some of them. Now for being a "leader" I don't have an opinion and I don't care. We don't want leaders we primarily want "researchers" and "educators" that have minimal bias and good intentions.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 08:17 PM
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Thank you! Yes everyone should have this on their mind. That is why people say for example Pearl is a chameleon , because she is being "anti-feminist" just to gain audience.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 08:14 PM
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Consider evolution "what managed to succeed in every society up until now" and see how societies where in the past. The "gender role" doesn't make as much sense right now because of the society now. Biology and evolution dictate a big part of these "gender roles" and "society now" dictates the variability in their expression. So the "solution" isn't to demolish "gender roles" but to see what is the best way to express them now so it works for us and not against us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 08:10 PM
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Work outside of the house hugely depends on the work environment. And work inside the house depends on circumstances as well. If the work environment is fully competitive with no leisure and always the stress of being fired or loosing the job then the work a man does I can consider it a sacrifice. If lets say for a household the mother does everything , doesn't want have family to help with kids or doesn't want a stranger in charge of her children. She cooks , cleans , handles the economy decisi…
/r/MensRights29/01/23 06:26 PM
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Yeah and it makes sense that this is not such a topic. Good that you mention it as some people don't understand it.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 06:09 PM
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Pearl could say so many better things, syndey hit exactly where she should with her comments , right on point.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 01:06 PM
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I really cannot fathom this photo is not sarcasm. I mean there are plenty of everyday "compliments" that are not nice like these ones . Why pick these examples if not for sarcasm? I hear some people say actually vile things even to children and out of all of these examples someone picks these kind comments?
/r/MensRights29/01/23 01:23 AM
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Honey badger radio , jannice fiamenco , Sydney Watson. Pearl is just in it cause its mainstream for the money, don't be mistaken.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 12:34 AM
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I second this, go find the source not the "entertainer" who is in it for just the money. See what happened on vice debate , do a Sydney vs Pearl and pearl is a zero.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 12:33 AM
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That is the reason people now are insensitive to being called sexist because the word has lost its shock value.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:49 AM
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Yes sadly that is the reality and patriarchy theory has even reached constitutions.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 10:29 AM
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Didn't patriarchy theory come with 2nd wave feminism? And yes trying to explain things today with patriarchy theory I consider that misandrist. And the problem with that is what they call "patriarchy" is not only "social structures".
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:59 AM
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First of all when I hear misandry or misogyny my thought is " to what extend?" . Everyone can be a bit misandrist and a bit misogynist but if they slightly no one will bat an eye because it won't matter in the long run. You can make the case that tradcons are misandrist too and many are. It always comes down to what extend. So even if you say "99.9999%" of feminists are misandrist its no big deal for me. If you say they are hardcore misandrists then its a different deal. I don't believe the majo…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:30 AM
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I won't get into the victim game neither the blame game. I will give the advice I really liked when I first heard it. Be a honeybadger. That's all. It is simplistic until you see what these fuck**rs do and how they behave. So my brother, be a honeybadger. This is the advice that will help the individual of course not the society, but through helping the individual we are helping the society as well.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 01:42 AM
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Hello! I don't know if its a strategy or if they call it a strategy but what you are referring to is women who don't mate with a "finished project" of a man who is already as succesfull but they date people seeing their "potential" of what they can become. Of course this is common but I believe its a really messy explanation of the really high percentage of single mothers (i guess in america) . I can see why adopting this explanation is popular because it just reduces the "blame" of the mother t…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 01:39 AM
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If you want proper explanation of these things go see what evolutionary biologists have to say , and be careful because some of them aren't really evolutionary biologists. I would recommend Dr David Buss and Dr Gad Saad . I read only till the point you are talking the past and not modern society and I will just say IMO you assume too little about women and you deny their mating strategies and agency. They are not objects and their mating strategy is not to "serve the alphaest of the alphas" in a…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 08:10 PM
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I hope we stay that way and become even better because usually when something becomes more popular it degrades in quality . And there are everyday attempts to defame this sub or in general the MRM and not only from feminists.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 05:48 PM
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Wise words.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 05:32 PM
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Bless you people for your work!
/r/MensRights27/01/23 03:58 PM
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To be frank , usually most of the intelligent women I talk to are feminists or have feminist beliefs. I don't consider a link between low IQ and being a feminist . It more seems like a shame tactic. The same way I know many people who are religious and have high IQ .
/r/MensRights27/01/23 03:14 PM
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This has nothing to do with mens rights and the gentleman here was never "heated". He was chilling.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 01:03 PM
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yeah ok i wasn't to accurate , but you get what i meant.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 10:38 PM
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They can see it from others and use it as well , doesn't need to go through injury . ok now lying but "faking"
/r/MensRights21/01/23 09:16 PM
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or choose to become pregnant by someone without caring about marriage or having a father in the house. Both are at play.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 06:32 PM
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Femininity is not a weakness , femininity is covert strength. Masculinity is overt strength. Easy as that. The problem is when one sex tries to "imitate" the strength of the other sex it usually fails because they are projecting their own traits to the opposite "perceived traits". Selective vulnerability for women is a HUGE strength and it is rewarded everywhere in society. Vulnerability for men is not "rewarded" that is why it cannot become a strength. Only is specific few cases. Men rarely can…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 05:42 PM
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Very good observations . Contradiction #2 I believe comes from how much one truly benefits from certain behaviors, either sexual benefits (reproduction/relationship) ,social benefits (friends / brotherhood / social acceptance & status) and "money" benefits. All of those benefits are closely tied with survival and all should be taken seriously. What I have noticed from myself is that my comfort zones / behaviors change a lot depending on the "perceived benefits" I will get . Getting out of the co…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 05:37 PM
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On some cases yes on others no. Its good to check both .
/r/MensRights21/01/23 05:02 PM
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If you are young , focus on finding husband,being good wife.If you adds value to his life,he will never leave you. Exactly, exploring companionship traits is a major factor that in many cases overrides "beauty preference".
/r/MensRights21/01/23 04:55 PM
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Saying women in general are more attractive when they are approximately 25 was tested by research and it holds true. Saying women on their 30's appear more attractive can be true as well , because when they reach 30 they have a bigger incentive to take care of themselves, hit the gym , update their wardrobe, have more experience on how to appear more pretty, use skin care products et cetera et cetera. And now we live in an age when there are many different cosmetic surgeries and such so the "per…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 04:51 PM
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So even animals lie about abuse when they can benefit from it.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 04:06 PM
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Have you ever seen a pet faking being disabled? Hahhaa because I have seen.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:36 PM
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One of the worst things one can do is either take credit for what his group have done over the history or take blame for the same thing. It is stupid. For the reason I don't blame myself for any thing that has or still is being done to women by men , for that same reason I wouldn't blame any woman I meet for what men have to go through.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:31 PM
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Is there a need for counter arguments for an idea such as this?
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:26 PM
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Sure yeah I believe as well that its the position of power that enables the person with predisposition to these behaviors.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 02:32 AM
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I have seen it ,they freaking trolled themselves when on the pictures showing the messages they showed her telling to tate "if I consent its not rape" . So I don't deny it but I am not 100% on the "evidence " they show.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 02:30 AM
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That is a concern people have on the debate if the movie/fit industry should reveal the steroid use. That it would become normal because the "elites" do it all the time. I have seen primarily adult boys and some adult girls on social media being open about their performance enhancing drug use and its fucking sad.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 07:58 PM
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To be frank , yes I believe she is hiding behind her students to promote an agenda and yes what she said can be phrased as concern only for her students. We don't even know how she said those things inside her class. I don't know if its both or only one and to be honest I don't care that much. When there is a huge case brought to light of a policeman being convicted for 24 cases of rape after years of cover up I would try to protect my students as well. Did she do it the best way? No she didn't.…
/r/MensRights20/01/23 07:15 PM
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I believe muscle dysmorphia is a big unaddressed problem for men in our society . The estimates about how big the affected population is certainly shocked me and there are huge industries enabling it.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:35 PM
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Most probably they are building a case for tax evasion and money laundering, a month before busting tate''s they busted local mafia groups he affiliated with while running his gaming halls. I believe the whole sex trafficking and rape allegations are a preface to hold them while they develop their case for the illegal activity mentioned above. I might be wrong , we will see when the evidence is made available. I hope he didn't do sex trafficking and rape for the sake of everyone but if he did I …
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:26 PM
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Women are just a huge waste of time. Womanizing and chasing over women is a waste of time.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 01:43 PM
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https://girlpowermarketing.com/statistics-purchasing-power-women/
/r/MensRights20/01/23 01:31 PM
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The point is , that is what they think . Most of the times its not the truth. And many people who complain about sex they actually complain about intimate relationships. If men REALLY want sex they can floor their standards and fuck .
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/23 01:41 AM
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When someone complains about not having sex for them he is deemed "not worthy of having it" and possibly a creep and for them a creep wanting sex (from them) is disgusting so they will just say you women (myself) don't owe you sex.
/r/AntiFeminists20/01/23 12:57 AM
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Ooof , sounds really difficult to manage. I hope you find a way!
/r/MensRights19/01/23 04:42 PM
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You are gonna have to talk to them about it and find a solution that works best for you too . And a think I want to ask , is your problem worse because of their needs or their lack of recognition of how much you help them?
/r/MensRights19/01/23 04:06 PM
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More men die without their health slowly deteriorating , you know how? Instant death by accident/suicide/murder.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 03:45 PM
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Look if you search deep into behaviors/general beliefs and such ,everyone is sexist misandrist misogynist. So what matters is to which extend and at whose expense. For me my way to go is to search for factual truths , try to be as "correct" as I can be and not be a bad person to someone else because of my thinking. I try to differentiate ideology/behavior/state of being in people. Another thing is that the sex binary does not prohibit you from having "traits" of the other sex , the only thing th…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 03:40 PM
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Just "shit test" your partner before the way women do it .
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:39 PM
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I was really thinking about this subject and the sexual attraction part and the explanation from an evo-psych perspective. I wanna make clear I am just a physicist and evo-biology is just a hobby I find intriguing. The things I will say below might be complete bullcrap. Bare with me if you can and call me out if you find its bullshit. From what I know a big part of attraction in women is preselection ( someone is deemed husband material if other women have chosen him ). And a big part of jealous…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:36 PM
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Can anybody file for defamation for reasons like that? Is there any legal action available for such situations? It is quite interesting.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 01:42 PM
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You cannot go back into the future.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:33 AM
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After I reach a good state in my life I will try to help boys in my community as well , the more the years pass the more I see the need of it. We need to make change for the better because sadly the mainstream will not care about this problem. And it is really sad because all these people would become helping hands in our community/economy etc . Even inhumanely using cost to benefit analysis it would still probably be more beneficial to help these people in need . But here we are, failing in pro…
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:55 AM
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It is really heartbreaking to see every single day more and more instances of male victims that nobody cares for them. Now after a while I have almost zero trust in everything I see and I question even what I considered "basic truths". I hope we can do something to change this situation , recognize victims and help them. Thank you for your service trying to help the community.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:55 PM
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From what I know women "likely to give birth in next years or pregnant" are excluded from some researches due to implications that might arise in the future to protect them and their children.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 05:32 PM
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What do you mean? I believe it happens to almost everyone.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:34 PM
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So wait they believe sex is transactional? Hahahhahahahha
/r/MensRights18/01/23 01:21 AM
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I have seen that there were some shenanigans with big pharma and pills for abortion 1 year prior of the overturn. Anyone got more info?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:33 AM
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"lobbyists"
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:32 AM
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Many countries in europe , for a moment there was segregation between people who took the vaccine vs the ones who didn't take the vaccine (even if they had higher risk from the vaccine) and people who got covid and didn't vaccinate.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:30 AM
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Marriage sex ban? What is that?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:27 AM
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Huge truth!!
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:24 AM
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Balkan one :P.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:18 AM
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Ooof, scary stuff.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 11:47 PM
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It used to at least in my country.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:56 PM
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I have no idea on that.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:53 PM
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I will link a study I found today you will like . It shows for women "facial attraction of the opposite sex changes" depending on thee circumstances and it showed for men on these circumstances it didn't change . https://www.psypost.org/2023/01/musicians-are-more-desirable-dates-to-both-men-and-women-supporting-darwins-sexual-selection-hypothesis-64835
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:04 PM
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Hahaha for fuck sake !
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:55 PM
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I have seen the study, i knew it was from okCupid. You know its online and specific "parameters" . You know in reality women have more stuff that is included in attraction .
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:55 PM
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No worries !
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:53 PM
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Oh please elaborate , you cannot tease us and not provide any more info ! Haha.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:52 PM
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take into consideration that usually dating sites are primarily male dominated to a ratio 3-5 to 1.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:35 PM
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affirmative action mainly helps the middle class not the poor and there are cases to be made if it even "helps" . I am against affirmative action and you can try to shame me all you want about "beta talk" but your comments do zero to help Men's Rights, they actually paint us in a bad picture. So please fix it. Edit: Okay nevermind you are a troll.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:28 PM
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don't generalize , they don't. Only a really small minority does on very specific conditions, inferior work because of corruption is a bigger concern and I believe more men have positions through corruption.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:12 PM
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In the US with the family court as it is for me it seems highly unlikely.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 08:43 PM
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+1 on that , men need to understand that if we don't ally with women we are doomed.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 08:38 PM
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In my country parents are much more protective of girls so girls aren't allowed to be "careless" because there is supervision or more limits compared to boys.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 08:36 PM
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100% agree but you know there are different subs for "humor" . And yes the psych business is fucked up when driven for money especially when medication is brought to the table and then big pharma wants that juicy $
/r/MensRights16/01/23 06:25 PM
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Sniff sniff....I smell some bias.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 06:02 PM
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This isn't about Men's Rights , it doesn't "help" with anything and it is a blanket statement. Please stop with these posts and focus on problems. If someone gets help with therapy why should I judge him? Men need special therapy for their needs as well and sometimes the resources they have around them on that keeps failing them. Why don't we focus on that?
/r/MensRights16/01/23 05:57 PM
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I feel really sad for this man and he has a huge heart. To tell you the truth I don't believe she did it maliciously but its a really good lesson to examine dna evidence and take everything with a grain of salt. BUT I would have liked to hear the second victim in this case , the man who spent 10 years in jail. It is good that she and the story was focused on how the system is failing everyone. Edit: And if they are friends now good for them. Who am I to judge, they were probably both victims.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 05:51 PM
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And another thing I want to add: Sadly with the European organizations of equality some have found huge bias even in their indexes when factoring in "inequality" which is at best misleading. So for me everything is taken with a grain of salt. And in their reports as I have stated before it clearly shows that what they are pushing for is more people on the labor market and not better life for any sex. Edit: And my anecdotal data as well living in europe I see way more hours/week being done by men…
/r/MensRights16/01/23 05:39 PM
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https://www.europarl.europa.eu/news/en/headlines/society/20200227STO73519/gender-pay-gap-in-europe-facts-and-figures-infographic The reasons behind the gender pay gap are not simple - many factors need to be taken into account. It’s connected to much more than the issue of equal pay for equal work. ​ A narrower gender pay gap does not necessarily mean more gender equality. It often occurs in countries with lower female employment. A high pay gap may indicate that women are more concentrated in l…
/r/MensRights16/01/23 05:35 PM
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from which country? Single women below 30 in some countries now earn a bit more than the male counterparts but in general the wage gap has been debunked countless times.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:45 PM
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Tbh on some occasions yes on some no its a really mixed bag , at least where I live in Balkans.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:25 PM
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Everyone "forces" their way to create empathy or compassion or w/e else they want, look lgbtq representation on disney movies. Last year 44% of the movies had lgbtq representation, you think lgbtq minorities are 44% of the population? We have our real problems to fight and we need to be vocal about the real problems such as DV shelters and recognition of male victims of DV and other problems. Don't expect anybody to hand you out a victim card or "empower" you or wait till it is your time. We nee…
/r/MensRights16/01/23 03:53 PM
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Women are wonderful effect is what you wanna say not pretty privilege.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 02:44 PM
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I don't know , people shouldn't jump on somebody who asks for context because the post clearly lacks it.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 02:43 PM
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We have equal pay for equal work on most societies and we should want equal pay for equal work. Equal overall outcome for unequal work is the thing that is wrong.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 02:42 PM
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I would say to be fair during adolescence we allow boys to be more careless and "fuck around find out" but I guess you focus on adults.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 02:40 PM
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Im just gonna say the are some RP forums for married men on how to become more "attractive" to their wives again. I would listen to some things they say but always take it with a grain of salt and i would dismiss things that could be labeled controlling or manipulative. And of course a sex therapist would be the common advice.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 12:13 PM
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I think it is reversible first 2-3 years , or something like that.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:04 AM
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As with many things , they should have a choice after 18 BUT it should be informed consent, meaning every man should know the cost to benefit.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 09:39 PM
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Poor mark was probably being used in all of his relationship, this must have hit him hard.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 09:17 PM
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I would advice if you are worried about this try to be always on public view , no shady corners etc. And holy fuck this situation in school seems like a nightmare.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 05:05 PM
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Yes we all got it , chatGPT is political correct (who would have thought). Now lets move on to serious things .
/r/MensRights15/01/23 04:23 PM
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I hope it doesn't turn out as bad as we all think it will. They said no investigation would be launched cause of it but it sure seems like a way to slowly make "facts" about a person to make a narrative that will be held more seriously on a court later. I'm glad if it helps some women who are actual victims but I am terrified by use it will have by abusers.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 07:48 PM
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The thing I do on female dominated groups I happen to be could be considered "anti-male sarcasm" like "oh yes dear , all men are assholes " in a very sarcastic tone . It is a nice way to diffuse situations without emotional arguments . Apart from that you need to know the group already to calculate if you can actually say what you believe without killing the mood or alienating everyone.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 07:15 PM
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Ohh jesus!! Hahahha
/r/MensRights14/01/23 06:22 PM
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You become empowered by acting , I don't want anyone to "empower" me and this virtue signaling bullshit. I don't want special treatment , all I want is no discrimination . I don't need a movement to be "empowered" , I need a movement that actually works towards fixing discrimination. If I reach a good place in my life I want no one to have the chance to say I didn't deserve it. Edit: The virtue signal bullshit comment is not for your post but in general for "empowerment" .
/r/MensRights14/01/23 05:59 PM
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Everybody is , "body count" doesn't matter that much specially when it is below 10 , usually what matters is the behavior and it is different to have someone do only one night stands and someone be in Long term relationships mainly. So bodycount usually is not the answer but sexual history matters.
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/23 10:49 AM
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That was an eye opener for sure.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 02:21 AM
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good job calling it out! That's what I want to see here.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 11:58 PM
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I don't think it would betray your status as anti feminist, and in arts groups I guess you are faced with this problem more frequently. My advice is don't let an ideology get in the way of work/friendship etc. Now if they are treating you bad that is another thing.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 10:24 PM
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In some countries they are considered "luxury goods" and that I plainly wrong and ridiculous and yes as others stated it makes sense to label them the same as toilet paper , pads, toothbrushes etc. For poor populations specifically there is an argument to subsidize them or menstrual pads.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 04:54 PM
78

I would guess the same.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 04:19 PM
0

wrong behavior of the group spreading personal information of course , the repercussions would be flag on mass of the group.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:39 PM
0

For me its a comedic persona that occasionally says something true or says something true and then makes it misogynistic by changing it a little or "pushing it" towards that direction. The thing is that for most people who follow him usually the videos of him saying the worst things are close to never in youtube recommendations and you have to actively search them hard . People have phrased it on the past, talking with others about him is like talking about two different people. It is insane !
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:06 AM
-8

No I wouldn't want to flag them on mass, this is men's rights not "repercussions for wrong behavior"
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:10 AM
0

Love the sarcasm , +1!
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 07:55 PM
5

Yeap , its not good making your identity out of something like this. But its a bit ironical (and expected) that many Activists are the one whose whole identity is the thing they fight for.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 01:19 AM
22

It is really sad when many homicides in relationships are because of infidelity.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 01:14 AM
1

That's true , my bad I thought he wrote bastard's.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 06:42 PM
10

I don't want to make the experience of pregnancy "less" but stating they are not affected is wrong. For sure their bodies are affected less because they are not pregnant but there are even studies showing links to abortion and emotional trauma for men. Women are affected more because its their body , that doesn't mean men's psychological health is not affected.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:13 PM
7

Well you are thinking about it incorrectly, as stated above this "bastard" wasn't the one wanting the child.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:08 PM
4

I hate it when they overuse the world assault especially when I found out they wanted to pass a bill in UK about looking intensely as assault. That is the reason I want specific things to be called assault because if not it looses meaning. My opinions is this specifically because feminists destroyed the meaning of those words.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 10:06 PM
6

And believe me I know the double standards on these behavior like we all see them every day. But that doesn't mean I will act the same way they do.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 05:34 PM
-11

A child is a minor first of all so yeah of course I wouldn't answer like that. The child cannot even consent. I am condemning her actions but I don't like lynch mobs and social justice. Lately on the internet its not just "calling out" a behavior but it is "seeking justice by pressuring people online". That is the reason I am against "seeking justice" on behalf of Cavil. He probably felt uncomfortable but he didn't seek any "justice" . It is not an evil thing she did , it is wrong but its not ev…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 05:31 PM
3

I don't have a problem in many things and of course there are some shared opinions (it is impossible not to). The problem is many times the rhetoric or the "solution found" or the false statistics etc. And mainly many of the feminists who have power (press, politics, etc.) have shown either that they care only about women at the expense of men or at the expense of men and children. Another problem is not accepting non-feminist views . Almost forgot, the most fucked up is that it hurts women as w…
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 03:56 PM
-26

I never said I defended her nor do I believe her that she couldn't control herself , that is why I wrote "And yes she definitely wanted to do what she did".
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:48 PM
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What she did I wouldn't say was "assault" , its misconduct. And yes she definitely wanted to do what she did. Is she a villain? I don't think she is . Was she misbehaving ? definitely. Should she be punished? I don't think so . Cavil can speak for himself and he has spoken in several occasions and we know his stance. Edit: Lol I never defended her , I only don't like the word assault being branded on everything , for this specific example I prefer sexual misconduct. And yes she shouldn't be doin…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:59 PM
0

You need to consider a correct approach if you want to change stuff or at least be believed. This is not a debate, this is a shitshow.
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 01:27 PM
23

Pearl is an entertainer , Sydney was MUCH better . See what The Rational Male says about pearl, he doesn't torch her but says just that she is an entertainer and he is right.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 09:40 AM
37

I don't even wanna comment about this post , its sickening. I had a really close friend die of suicide and it pains years later. This man is still holding his morals despite the pain and questions if he should "seek justice" so he wouldn't go down to her level even though he would just seek justice and her "level" is so fucking low he needs to try hard to reach it. If they did that to my friend I would seek justice to this day. Goddamn I am pissed just reading it. Imagine the VICTIM MENTALITY th…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 10:23 PM
2

I believe they would gladly be reported for that than to be blamed for being racist or sexists by internet mobs.
/r/AntiFeminists06/01/23 05:31 PM
8

Huge need for intimacy , loneliness , virtue signaling etc. Its not hard to understand but its harder to forgive on some situations.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:29 PM
5

Heretic , there is no such thing as misandry :P .
/r/MensRights06/01/23 04:20 PM
1

Yeah its a freaking complicated situation. I think this is a good read for sexual victimization.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 11:07 PM
14

THE LEGEND!!!! Modern Problems require modern solutions!
/r/MensRights05/01/23 09:12 PM
1

So there is some hope, im glad.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 09:09 PM
29

Yeah sadly these things are a reality for some and OP should know that his chances of things like this becoming reality for him is elevated after what she has done. OP try to find support and record everything that will prove your innocence. NOT only on your phone , keep backups , even a usb to a friend. Prioritize your safety, hope this doesn't end bad for you.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 09:04 PM
3

I read the article and I wasn't speaking about them specifically but in general about crimes against prisoners . Prisoners can be there for many different things , some are benign some are disgusting. I consider them a "vulnerable" group because of their lack of rights and how easy it is for some to abuse them and get away with it. And there are even cases where teens were sent to prison for non serious charges just because the judge was being paid to sent them there because prisons make money t…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 08:59 PM
8

There are many people who will "take the opportunity" with no problem but there are others who won't be able and if lets say a "sole provider or something" is offering to only the ones who have sex with them yes it is coercion. It is not bad for everyone participated but there are victims. Imagine if women in prison were granted tampons only when they did consensual sex. It is not a female/male thing, it is a corruption of those who hold power or "gatekeep" something. Lets take an example that d…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 08:12 PM
1

I thought they stopped stating the offenders nationality so they wouldn't seem racist hahaha
/r/MensRights05/01/23 07:21 PM
20

Imagine demanding sex for all the smuggling they do? Its coercion, some would be consensual while some wouldn't. Prisoners are a vulnerable group but nobody want to talk about their rights.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 07:18 PM
0

The government would loose money!!
/r/MensRights04/01/23 04:57 PM
3

Being sold out at 12 to be married is a really sad thing and it shouldn't be done and the countries that have this custom shouldn't be supported.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 04:55 PM
2

Yeap that is what I thought as well , and kudos for him for checking if she thought she had a privilege to physically abuse him while he just takes it.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 03:46 PM
0

I don't find it productive to have topics such as Can anyone give me an example of a professional women's sport raising money for men's cancer? because most women's sports don't make enough money (of course this is not men's fault). It is better to ask if male sports have "men's round" as well for prostate cancer or other men's issues. To be honest it would be quite tricky and close to impossible to have male sports talk about men's issues because the feminist ideology will capitalize on that ha…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 01:42 PM
8

It’s pretty standard tactics of the Russian government to use articles like this as justification Thank you but one correction. It is pretty standard tactics for EVERY government to use propaganda as justification.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 10:34 AM
27

If someone told me behind this group is putin who just gave them money to say that I wouldn't be surprised.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:30 PM
1

I said yes and no because some products enhance natural beauty ( clearer skin) but others serve a different purpose (make up , lashes etc) and some of the products on the long run will harm the body and the "looks". So its a mixed bag changing a lot of factors (how you perceive yourself, your actual looks , how others perceive you).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:59 PM
1

It makes it even funnier hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:52 PM
3

Yes and no , he is talking about natural beauty not "extras". And many products used for beauty harm the body. So there is a fine line of "taking care"" and "harming the body to appear/feel better".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:07 PM
3

Oh the mother of cognitive dissonance!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:02 PM
-1

It is really sad to see such situations, that's why when I talk with friends I try to make the point that freezing the eggs is the "last resort" and not a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:28 PM
3

Rollo Tomassi has many good lessons but one thing I would advice and he says often as well is that his books shouldn't be seen as an ideology. Its a tool and if you use it incorrectly its not gonna be a good one. And one quote that works with it is " The one who holds a hammer views everything as a nail." So yeah good reads but keep it as a tool.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 03:31 PM
1

hahaha damn the mind games
/r/MensRights29/12/22 02:44 PM
5

naturally more nurturing doesn't mean every woman is more nurturing and usually people who do these things don't have much empathy . Considering this I don't see a punishment.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 02:34 PM
0

What? Men have reproductive rights? not last time I checked :P. The moment he puts his wiener in he consents to having a child of course , even if he uses a condom.
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/22 10:08 PM
69

But wait , if you call them out when they do it " you are ruining the fun". A predator is a predator, gender plays no part in this.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 01:57 AM
2

Look you give some context but not much , its ok but its normal for people to assume when there is not much context. If you think he is in the wrong ( he probably is but to what extend we cannot know here) you can report him for malpractice . I get it that you have some reasons not to show the conversation between the two of you , its ok but it will be good if you have an elder you trust to get his opinion on the topic. No need to be ashamed about the Chlamydia , it can happen to anyone , the #1…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 10:43 PM
3

it ends up everywhere already , in US intelligence agencies blackmails organizations for their databases , and when you see sometimes charity it is actually payments for taking data out of these charity organizations . Of course its not every charity but it is on some.
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 10:23 PM
3

What did you write? I got banned as well recently :P
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 08:52 PM
3

I'm reading it and I am like " You mean rape?" Being MTP occurs when the victim was made to, or there was an attempt to make them, sexually penetrate someone without consent as a result of physical force or when the victim is unable to consent due to being too drunk, high, or drugged, (e.g., incapacitation, lack of consciousness, or lack of awareness) from their voluntary or involuntary use of alcohol or drugs. Holy fuck the cognitive dissonance on this one. Edit: I have a notion that these stat…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:49 PM
4

For me the database thing is a big concern as well , it doesn't even need to be affiliated with government. As long as government wants it demands with repercussions if demands are not met. But on the other hand they already know and its gonna save a lot of men and make women think twice before pulling any stunts. And kids are gonna grow up with their fathers.
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 08:45 PM
45

Big oof the man got away easily , it could have easily been way worse .
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:42 PM
1

As I said 0 attraction or desire .
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:35 AM
3

societies improvement is a factor as well , well light areas etc etc. Having most percentage of these crimes not in public can mean that "the public space" has become more safe too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:08 AM
4

Attraction and desire for many people is not a choice, but for those attracted to men as well of course not having to care about pregnancy is a good bonus.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 11:59 PM
8

I'm glad
/r/MensRights26/12/22 07:30 PM
0

Well it all started because women give birth to a child and when we are newborns we are totally useless and need to be taken care of for years. It is called parental investment , our species out of all the mammals has the most parental investment. In other species where parental investment is close to non existent the males are the "beautiful sex" because the only thing the female animal searches is "good genes" so only looks matter because parental duties can be handled solely by the female. No…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 07:24 PM
5

Look , she makes some valid points but she makes some wrong as well. In her age now she understands the "average man" in the matter of invisibility but still it hits her a bit less because she had validation in her earlier years. It is ok, that is how life is , men and women have different struggles . Should men improve? Yes . Should women improve? Yes. It is not and was never a one sided thing. We loose the focus when we believe we know both sides or we don't consider on side. I agree that femi…
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/22 06:34 PM
3

If someone is constantly being not helpful out of malice he must be pointed out but not ostracized because he will never learn. And I don't think MGTOW abandon the game because you cannot abandon society you just try to find your own way.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 06:20 PM
3

If we wanna be better and actually do something, as much as we all want to "expose" some feminists misandry or for some people feminism as a whole , we need to be critical of our "group" as well. If we are being critical to ourselves and people in our group we become better and we help people who don't reason logically to better themselves and not just spew hate ( reasonable or not ) . And another good thing that will come out of it is that someone who wants to defame us won't have many valid po…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 06:14 PM
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No worries , thank you for being a good sport as well. These kinds of societal problems because of the emotional impact on both sides are hard to discuss. So it is always nice to see people being a good sport about it . And the example being taken out of a movie sometimes can serve well as in this example.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 06:04 PM
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The video shows a girl having a crush some years older than her, she drew pictures of him depicting him in a sexual manner and the mother saw those drawing. Immediately the mother assumed the worst and "made her daughter a victim" when there was no relationship between the two kids and she probably didn't even aske the daughter. Then because of that he was the "sexual predator tricking girls years younger than he was" and she was ashamed for her crush on him and joked by the other kids because t…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 05:33 PM
60

Nice post! A good example of making a victim when there is none and hurting both people.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:32 PM
6

The major thing that changed is the internet and "ease of access to validation" .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:26 AM
0

I would like to say everything :P might not even be false but they will give it more weight than it is supposed to have and you can observe it in every day life that it doesn't have that much weight. That is how getting views works and sadly it is not their "fault" it is the algorithm on social media. It is the algorithm that promotes extreme views , race baits , in general everything that creates strong emotional reaction will be promoted by the algorithm because it will "spread" faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:23 AM
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I consider my beliefs "RedPill" but that doesn't mean my beliefs are the same to every self proclaimed RP or against every self proclaimed BP . There are so many different things taken to extremes in both camps that is insane. To one thing I would agree is that RP can be a trap for some demographics and some statistics are misrepresented but same thing happens with BP so nobody is "winning " on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:44 PM
2

There are too few options on male birth control for different reasons , even vasectomy they say can be reversible but it has to be on something like 2-3 years post op maximum .
/r/MensRights24/12/22 09:33 PM
2

Yeah , imagine saying that for women . Hahaha damn.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 04:50 PM
9

jordan peterson really holds back on his metaphorical "punches" and on some things he doesn't even understand the dating market. At some point he called tinder a "status hierarchy for men" which is plainly wrong. Andrew of course has a persona he sells.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 11:08 AM
2

We have seen the stats about single father households and it is nearly not as bad as single mother households . But still I believe having two parents is always better and I am not a fan of being a single parent by choice. If somebody has extended family(aunt,grandparents etc) involved in the same house then I am willing to change my mind.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 12:07 AM
9

Observe the truth and you will plainly see toxic femininity if it exists in action. I can't believe how dense these people can be.
/r/AntiFeminists23/12/22 11:42 PM
12

One of the greatest men we have out there , our role model and hero we all admire . A man who is an actor and is the encyclopedia of Witcher was forced to leave because of creative differences . Every god damn fan has vocalized that there shouldn't be change to pre existing lore and they should abide by the books. Henry Cavil tries to HELP the series and he listens to the fans as he is a fan of book and video game series as well but no he must be TOXIC. Who? Mf'ing Henry Cavil. OK
/r/AntiFeminists23/12/22 11:40 PM
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I mean some by products of course have helped and it has helped us to understand the dire need for Men's Rights.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 01:36 AM
2

Oh I would love for that to be a given but I don't think it is. I hope you do well in your research !!!
/r/MensRights22/12/22 11:17 PM
2

yes but from researchers without any ideologies please
/r/MensRights22/12/22 10:52 PM
2

We can talk all day about how it could change the narrative and im pretty sure both sides of the argument would have valid points. The thing is for DV because it is common for both genders while being something that varies a lot ,and there are big misunderstandings and different narratives, the best thing would be to focus on the truth. Not try to downplay things or overexaggerate others , and changing the language to fit a purpose is something we can try but if there is not actual evidence from…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 10:28 PM
2

I believe you wanna make a point that "surviving" something would help because it gives the idea you "overcame" something and being a victim gives a vibe that "you are acted upon". It is a point in my opinion . At the same time we usually use the word survivor when it is something very serious and using the word "DV survivor" might make you believe you had it worse that you actually did. For it to be used on extreme cases of DV it seems right, but at the same time because of the extra "shock val…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:15 PM
6

Of course "Rules for thee , not for me" should apply but you will never get the same response for same things on two genders when you have sexual dimorphism. For example I am gonna applaud a woman more for doing 10 chin ups than I would for a man even if they had bodies that looked similar. And this is not sexism -_-, it is harder for her to do those . Now to the sexual partner topic, there are many different "factors" that are gonna lead to an "expected ex-sexual partner count " for the opposit…
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 08:53 PM
1

long term relationship
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 04:09 PM
6

On many different subs and conversations irl I find it bad that most of the times when talking about body-counts people forget the context of the "sexual adventures" . For example if a person had 5 ex sex partners but 4 were LTR of course it is not the same as one who had an orgy with 3 other people and then 2 "hook-ups" . So most conversations from BOTH sides are that shallow. Edit: And of course the age of the person is not taken into account some times which is plainly dumb.
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 04:04 PM
2

IMO that notion can be derived from the fact that women have a way better feeling of "us" as a group than men when the two groups are men vs women. On the contrary men have a stronger feeling of "them" and no particular feeling of "us" (as a mens group).
/r/MensRights22/12/22 02:47 PM
2

nah its because of male privilege on boys, they are doing fine don't bother. LOL.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 02:44 PM
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poor man even asked nicely at the end after he took the beating.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 02:33 PM
8

One big hypocrisy too is that last years on APA (America's Psychology Association ) they made guideline to help men and guess how they approached it, they made it about toxic masculinity. They said even competitiveness is bad -_-. So even when we ask for help when the guidelines are like that how are we supposed to get help? Maybe that is why men stop therapy?
/r/MensRights22/12/22 01:21 PM
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I mean , she destroyed that man. If the children are his best thing she can do is not pressure him and wait for him to sew his pieces back together.
/r/AntiFeminists21/12/22 11:56 PM
3

I would advice to not show prejudice about someone's self proclaimed ideology because I have met normal feminists that just believe feminism = women's rights . And seeing that many famous Anti-feminists were feminists proves my point. Apart from that , there are not many "stable" people in general because there is plenty of chaos caused by dichotomy and forcing people to be "for" or "against" something without respecting why they are like that. Having taken that into consideration I would say th…
/r/MensRights21/12/22 01:31 PM
12

There are some limitations but yeah I am planning too , thank you!
/r/MensRights21/12/22 12:46 AM
44

Contemporary dance, I used to dance 3-4 times per week before covid but now I stopped.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 12:29 AM
1

yeah we derailed a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:01 PM
1

I just named policies that are carbon copies of china's policies -_- . I can't bother anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:13 PM
1

being hostile to china is different to adopting their policies . All I said is western countries admire china's policies and want to implement them , I never said they want to be china's friend or ally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:05 PM
1

Many western country leaders have openly said they admire china, they don't even hide it. And it is a thing when you consider "carbon credits" "digital ID" "modern passports" and many other things , hell even CBDC .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:56 PM
1

admiring china meaning the authoritarian regime /social credit / total control
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:50 PM
1

competition in terms of what? Then well done we get where we are , every developed or developing nation is admiring china and try to replicate what they did. Are these beliefs and norms moral or good? of course not . I don't know if you noticed but slowly the internet is enabling tyranny , not competition of ideas. The improvement is mostly judged by the net positive outcome in all of society/world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:25 PM
-1

competition is a nice idea but "competition" is tainted when there is no free speech ( twitter files proved that)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:15 PM
1

of course as a concept there is none.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 11:51 AM
1

Its a matter of huge advertising to children , false info like "craveability " instead of "addictive" and disgusting quality of ingredients. I am not saying it is not the consumer's fault as well but there is a reason some Fast Food chains are so huge.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 10:37 AM
0

I gift all my friends personal finance books, try get them to invest in their retirement and ensure they have option’s! That is very nice of you and I see it with women in general they don't have interest for economics for w/e reason but some books will definitely help and should be a must for everyone. Kuddos to you for being a good and caring friend. On another note about the RedPill sentiments . RP and BP are somewhat the optimized behavior for men (RP) and optimized behavior for women (BP). …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:14 AM
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Look as long as she is open to proper conversation and she is not really deep into feminism I don't see a problem. If she believes men oppress her on a day to day basis then yeah better not be with her cause she will probably take it out on you
/r/MensRights19/12/22 12:55 AM
5

It actually shows that for the people who use make up all the time they consider make up a part of themselves. Or push-up bra etc. etc.
/r/AntiFeminists18/12/22 10:46 PM
3

It is not the best analogy I would say but yes for that it is the system that takes advantage more responsible when it is immoral and not transparent. For only fans it depends on how the "creator" chooses to capitalize on it as well. Think about the legal system and lawyers, there are good and bad lawyers on the fucked up system.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 08:54 PM
4

Tbh yes fast food chains exploit people because it is addictive.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 08:26 PM
7

Meh , its a trap for most women as well because they think they will "make it" and usually you don't make much money.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 08:25 PM
1

Yeah you don't need to tell them you are a virgin. Most of all raise your "sexual value" and your "personal value" and get to know how to please a woman in the bed (mainly oral). And don't worry too much they might not even notice, especially if you have good oral game. I wouldn't pay a prostitute either even if it was legal
/r/MensRights18/12/22 08:23 PM
1

I would rephrase it to "for women the society helps them so it is more common for them to be absolved of responsibility"
/r/MensRights18/12/22 08:17 PM
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To be honest for specific examples (which happen every day everywhere) as men the amount of discomfort we can go though because we don't want to look and not even think anything sexual is astonishing. From advertisements to pop ups to as you said nipples showing or deep cleavage etc. Not in clubs or beaches or something but in busses , in classrooms , at work etc. There should be a time and place for everything. When we see other men do it as well we are the first to judge. And as a man I am ver…
/r/MensRights18/12/22 08:11 PM
2

This! Very nicely stated, well done. And congrats to the OP for being open to conversation!
/r/AntiFeminists18/12/22 06:42 PM
3

What do you mean about the twilight? Twilight is the beauty and the beast , you literally believe you will "change " him from an animal and you will domesticate him but he will still be an "animal" when you need him to be.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:29 PM
2

Very nice comment!!
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:24 PM
2

Agree with that but im just gonna say one funny thing and simple thing. If women actually preferred "emotional " men believe me that most men would compete to who is more emotional hahahaha.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:21 PM
1

ooof that sounds so bad in so many levels. And the perpetrator for those assaults are usually one time evil doers or repeated offenders? For rapes from different studies I have found that the percentage was similar to outside of college is that wrong?
/r/MensRights16/12/22 05:27 PM
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#1 Critique is they stopped seeing RP as a tool and they view it as an ideology. He who holds the hammer sees everything as a nail. A good tool if used incorrectly will give bad results! A good tool if used correctly will give good results. Apart from that one common thing I see is too much thought too little actions and that leads to a disconnect from reality. And lastly two good and essential quotes that many forget are these : You cannot negotiate desire You should learn about the RP so you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:00 PM
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Big truths here , I would say I am the most RP of my friends and this is the advice I give. Worst place to find good women are the clubs. It makes no sense to expect something different from her when you met her there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:41 PM
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As long as it is not useless hookups yeah you gain something out of everything. But you shouldn't feel forced to do anything neither should you do it all the time. To be honest I believe as men we have more to gain . First , we don't value our sex life considering the thought we "risk" less because we can't get pregnant, but with the pill that risk is fully mitigated so it doesn't make sense. So because we think we have less risk involved we don't value our "innocence". Apart from that our exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:50 PM
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For me it is funny and sad to have woman being the most searched word because now we reached a point we need to search the definition of woman.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 03:26 PM
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God bless him, I have seen some full videos of his work. People who have seen only the worst clips won't understand that he is calm and collected and he returns the same energy he takes. His experience with certain bad behaviors is clear as day when you look how he handles situations. And its baffling for me to see such behavior when I know these people actually paid to have him advise them.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 03:24 PM
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Thank you for the info Answering to OP : Yes if they wanna release prisoners of course they will recognize only female victims, and if prisoners get a wind of this I am pretty sure we will have mass reports on rapes just to leave prison.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 02:46 PM
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I will just say I hold my parents to very high regard considering their belief and how they acted and validated their beliefs. There are some Men's problems as much as my mother wants to understand she cannot or will not and its perfectly fine. She identifies as a feminist as for the part of gender equality and on some examples equity but it is up to debate and not "forced outcome" but more so in the range of "equal opportunity" We were talking about parenting laws and other stuff and we wholehe…
/r/AntiFeminists16/12/22 02:42 PM
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I only saw one study going to that percentage , do you have any links of those studies? Because of the nature of the crime its good to have different metrics because you can have proven/probably false/ probably correct but not enough evidence/correct accusation.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 02:30 PM
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Yeah of course , its a really difficult problem . What are your thoughts on the change of what consent is and how it changed things? And the law in some countries that if both are drunk past the limit of consent it is always the man's responsibility and he is considered the perpetrator.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 02:25 PM
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What I heard is even for documentaries made about false rape reports the subject of the documentary wasn't attractive to the audience so it wouldn't sell . And I guess it would be the same for big Media. From the things I have seen online about how colleges in US handle rape allegations to me it seems that it is heavily in favor towards accuser and the accused of rape is considered " guilty until proven innocent" . Some cases even after the accused is proved to be innocent nothing changes to his…
/r/MensRights16/12/22 01:38 PM
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From my point of view the huge problem is the alcohol involved cases , I think 1/10 to be true is a bit too harsh when considering all the rape kits not tested in police departments that are understaffed . We need research being done in "safe" areas where there is a good amount of nightlife/college students and the police departments are not understaffed. But yeah for proven false rape allegations the consequences should be high considering that you really ruin the accused's life for good. And i…
/r/MensRights16/12/22 01:30 PM
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Is this really from an AI?
/r/MensRights16/12/22 01:11 PM
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Act normal, be yourself ,respect yourself, try to look after yourself but don't do extremes, flirt with behavior not sexiness , find someone close to your values , respect personal space and Workout>other beautification methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:33 PM
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Yes of course we do lol. Chill with the pills hahahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:29 PM
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Downfall of the "axioms" but successful on spreading the word. The means are more important than the actual message. The whole "woke" mentality just rides on their bandwagon and took the first spot these years and we see complete degeneracy some times especially from educational institutions. It is frightening.
/r/AntiFeminists15/12/22 11:14 PM
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Many feminists I know in my circle irl are not like that but due to appeal to emotion rhetoric they have some not so realistic belief but not something crazy. The problem starts from the feminists that are actually active in groups and do activism and either they are anti science or they are not but they don't correct the Bs they hear from other feminists. I don't believe the worst problem is anti science. I believe it is the same problem some incel subs have, the moment someone doesn't fit the …
/r/AntiFeminists15/12/22 11:05 PM
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I have female friends with >10 bodycount and you would have never guessed because they don't advertise it. In general I have noticed there is not much difference in body count preference in the real world and what matters more is if you have body counts close to each other. For women though I believe body count ceiling is higher and they can "rationalize" it easier. And it makes sense considering preselection and other stuff. All in all not much difference ,but for the average guy who has less p…
/r/AntiFeminists15/12/22 10:04 PM
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Even the nicer ones seemed to be much more interested in me giving them sex rather than having sex with me, if that makes sense. This totally makes sense and I am a man. I would say for some of us that are actually looking for LTR if its worth the wait we will wait if it doesn't feel "forced". I can't explain it properly. By the way hearing stories like yours makes me happy <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:55 PM
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Another life ruined
/r/AntiFeminists15/12/22 09:19 PM
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Its very nice that your parents believed you and its for the better that they got banned. Since your parents proved for one more time that you can trust them you should be honest with them all the time , that is family.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 09:15 PM
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I hope you get people near you to protect you from both of these people. And if your aunt doesn't do a thing you have no reason to see her again.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 08:08 PM
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That is just sick, hope they believe the young boy and they help him.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 04:53 PM
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Ok , we have officially reached this point.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 04:51 PM
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WNBA had some campaigns to gain popularity , they even had sales on tickets but it wasn't interesting. And you can't force main channels to loose money by displaying a WNBA game . If there are some state-owned channels it might work. And by the way sometimes the behavior of the players is a big loss as well.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 09:58 AM
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it is wrong because they are not making enough money to even cover 20% of revenue.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 09:53 AM
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big oof
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:37 AM
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Yeah they do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/22 12:31 AM
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hahaha yeap I was thinking about the same, this man is a legend on how he approaches subjects.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:30 AM
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We all know wnba is subsidized by nba and almost all of the teams don't make a profit. NBA can do that and its good that it does that , the only bad thing is WNBA doesn't focus on how to do better( cheaper seats or services and stuff like that) but the ones who want "change" are entitled and go on TV saying BS. The nba should have made a concrete statement to keep them from BSing. As we all know with sports you get fierce competition and peak physiques so of course its normal to have male and fe…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 09:03 PM
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Having a female league is different to saying why people are not interested in watching female sports. For everything there should be equal opportunity not "forced outcome" This BS with women soccer clubs and WNBA bitching on TV when they know the truth its a whole different story I agree.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 08:16 PM
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Ok so? its not constructive criticism so it doesn't help.
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 04:19 PM
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pill is not the only choice , there are many contraceptives that might have less side effects. Keep saying im controlling bravo. And for 100th time if she is properly informed and still wants to take the pill she can still take it ffs. Even if not informed she can still take it , i would prefer if she was informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:15 PM
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Why do you post this here?
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 03:41 PM
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I am gonna make it clear one last time and then i give up on explaining. Full control on BOTH of our reproductive rights and parenthood rights. That is why I say if she chose to be on the pill i would choose as well to wear a condom so the full control is not only on one person. That is why I wouldn't finish inside as well because it would be blindly trusting my partner when she can even make mistakes with administering the pill without wanting to. I am not a native speaker and I wrote I wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:39 PM
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Well done, Bravo !! You made your assumption now I am morally inferior and you are morally superior and that makes you right and I was totally wrong . I am really sorry I tried to explain what I meant , I should have just said I am a controlling freak that has zero trust in other human beings especially the person I chose to have the most intimate relationship. It is probably my deep ingrained misogyny that makes me fail to see how bad my behavior and beliefs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:10 PM
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I don't know where you live but thankfully in my country doctors are warry of the consequences of the pill so thankfully they inform patients. You think I am dumb and I would consider a gynecologists opinion below mine? I don't even know why you keep persisting like that, what do you think you will gain? I even stated that I would want for her to be informed and not think the pill or condom is the only way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:31 PM
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Are you trolling me or are you seriously saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:57 PM
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So even if I am pro women , men , human rights but I disagree with the feminist ideology I am harming women. Even though especially feminism the last years has consistently harmed men and by proxy women. Makes sense I agree that there are some people here with "cult" mentality or who post random stuff that shouldn't be posted here but that happens literally everywhere. Observe many feminism subreddits and if you don't see it you are a part of it. You have done well in your Essay to appeal to emo…
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 01:48 PM
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To be like the rock that the waves keep crashing over. It stands unmoved and the raging of the sea falls still around it.”-Marcus Aurelias I think this one is the best!! First time I read it but for years I have been thinking the same analogy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/22 01:38 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zkkwm6/comment/j01ycc6/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Go find someone you deem morally wrong somewhere else. There are so many comments where I answer what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:21 PM
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yeah of course they use make up and snap chat filters, the thing was about beatyfication filters that are default on the apps and you don't know that are being used.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:28 AM
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This is getting boring, read the other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:26 AM
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Can they recognize the harm being done when boys in school ask if its something wrong with them cause they are boys. And if you wanna see damage being done by toxic femininity you wouldn't many times cause its probably covert.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 08:50 PM
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Yeah some posts here doesn't make sense to me , and I recently joined too.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 08:47 PM
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What you mean I have options but I wanna do it the sneaky way? And when did I say I was powerless or defenseless ? I state the fact that at some countries there are inequalities on the laws so my personal stance is to critic those inequalities and "protect" myself from these situations because I have the power to do it even though it might make my life not so "comfortable". And ashamed of what exactly? Neither do I pound my chests like im an "Alpha" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:44 PM
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My native tongue is not English so I didn't give it much thought yeah. My bad for going off as "controlling" but after that I explain in the comments but I guess people didn't bother to read what I wrote. Keep calling me names though, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:40 PM
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I don't have much info that is why I asked. Yeah everything needs to be taken with a grain of salt. Edit: Thank you for the info!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:36 PM
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Did the first wave feminism recognize the privileges women had? If yes I have no problem with first wave feminism. In order to be egalitarian you have to see the whole picture and then give actual equal opportunity while assessing the whole picture and build from there.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 08:18 PM
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Typical, only if you are feminist you can work for human rights , female and male. I would love to see a study done on gender studies students about their bias and see the results.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:13 PM
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We have problem with underreporting and shame and then you see on the news they make advertisement about assisted suicide . It seems to me like a big FU to people who suffer and try to get by and not suicide to have advertisements saying "better suicide".
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:09 PM
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You are correct that women support each other more but incorrect about women as a whole care as much about men as men care for women. Just read the "empathy gap". And the part about feminists I find normal, if you believe in the patriarchy it seems pretty normal as a behavior to have more bias against women because you have a common "enemy".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:03 PM
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Read my other comments . My control in this situation is to wear a condom. Many men pressure their gf into using the pill so they don't wear a condom. I find this controlling and wrong. I didn't wanna write a paragraph how she can do what she wants and her body her choice and if she chooses to use the pill I would still use a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:02 PM
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its not paranoia neither the solution is don't just do that. A good solution is calculated risks or habits that become natural. If something is too much and there isn't enough trust yeah of course then you have to reassess the situations you are in. For me solutions are to always wear a condom and always pull out. It is simple but it is my choice. My criticism wasn't to the personal choice but to the system in some countries and some cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:59 PM
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This was "moulded" by society because women had no obligation to help their parents when they grew old when for men his parents could even sue him for not providing for them. So yeah its a really fucked up scenario that would change if men had less obligations or women had the same obligation as men. Oh and of course "one child policy" The difference is that talking about china and abortions or straight up killing after childbirth (horrible) is a "rationalized " decision forced by the circumstan…
/r/MensRights13/12/22 06:55 PM
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Look on all of these things my observation is "you give someone an inch , they take a mile" It is not bad to give someone and inch but you should be careful so they don't take a mile. For example I have no problem with gay lesbian bisexual people . It is not normal behavior but it is acceptable behavior. Normal meaning the vast majority is not homosexual and sex and attraction are a part to reach the goal of procreation as a species . The fact that it is not normal doesn't mean that we need to b…
/r/MensRights13/12/22 06:48 PM
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Yes social media is a fucked up drug that can be hurtful to both sexes in different ways. A story of a photographer made me realize something truly fucked up. I knew that all social media compete for the "unnoticeable best beauty filter " . This photographer had a client adamant that she was prettier in IG from the photos he took. The photographer explained that he did heavy editing to take out "imperfections" but still she thought that his pictures were making her less pretty than she actually …
/r/MensRights13/12/22 05:45 PM
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In previous relationships girls informed me about some facts about my male body and at some instances yes I had some information about the female body she didn't have. You think every woman in the world researched the adverse effects of every birth control or just took advice from doctor of what to expect? I don't need to be a woman to read on a study physiological and psychological side-effects of birth control. What is this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:35 PM
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The thing is on many different things when "affirmative action" would actually help boys after helping girls so much they cancel it. Title IX has been abused in so many cases for the benefit of women in many institutions. Early feminists knew full well and stated that they were the "privileged" sex under the law cause of benefits men didn't have . And many "benefits" men had was given to them so they could fulfill the obligations they had. Go look at laws placed to protect women under marriage b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:31 PM
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Can you give me examples that justifies your view on GWW?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:22 PM
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True!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:20 PM
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Yeah I have seen similar things as well. Many times it is how and why you frame it . But again the empathy gap still exists and studies have shown is stronger on self identified feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:17 PM
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All this man is saying is that for women suffering we have a more strong emotional reaction than men suffering (empathy gap). That is why we fail to see many times such suffering. One good example of suffering and awareness is the situation in Boko Haram. The terrorists there were killing men and nobody noticed. They then started kidnapping boys from school and killing them , nobody cared. Then they kidnapped 100 girls from school and all the "awareness" and action was there. That happens becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:12 PM
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totally agree , i wanted to say twice but didn't wanna be seen as "in fear of plan b" . Had heard a few stories of misuse of plan B and it is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:06 PM
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I think we exhausted this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:36 PM
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Here where I live the plan b we have should be used rarely because there can be serious side effects after something like 4-5 uses. But I think its still better than abortion. I didn't write that to say she would have a problem, I wrote it to say that I wouldn't have a "choice" in these situations if she wanted to keep the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:34 PM
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Look , I don't think we live in the same country but I have heard from my own female relatives suggesting baby trapping . You won't make me believe its not a thing and I don't believe it is always a bad thing. What I want to say about trust and birth control is that we usually have trust but when you know as a man at some specific cases you will have to face the consequences of things you had no "choice" it makes you reconsider some things. For example if abortion and plan b wasn't a thing every…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:31 PM
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i wrote it fast so i wouldn't write a paragraph to explain that I wouldn't force her to do anything , its her choice but her choice should be informed and the hormonal pill has consequences . I wouldn't want her to have side effects so I would suggest a different method of birth control but in the end if she doesn't care I am not someone who would force her. It is frustrating when someone immediately assumes malice , just ask what do you mean you wouldn't let. I saw other comments that my thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:21 PM
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Totally agree that most of the times if everybody does their part correctly there won't be any problems. One more thing Plan B and abortion because "my body my choice" is a decision women has authority over so the responsibility for that is on her. ( It is good that she has the authority over her own body, all I am saying with authority comes responsibility)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:17 PM
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Say the woman in the relationship is taking the pill. She is suddenly pregnant. Is it my responsibility that i "got her pregnant" because I believed her that she is responsible to take the pill correctly? Flip the roles and you find that women should be held responsible when men "take the condom off" without them knowing because a responsible adult wouldn't trust their partner and both should take BC. It doesn't make sense at some occasions. The moment you consent to sex the one who administers …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:14 PM
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I answered in my other comment, saying a man cannot be "trapped" means a woman cannot "lie". Your language is wrong because at the times the woman is the one responsible for the BC and we both have sex I don't "get her pregnant" we BOTH have responsibility for the outcome we both got. If the man has the BC it is more of his responsibility because he was the one with the BC and to that everyone agrees. If a woman makes a mistake with the pill it is her responsibility mainly ,even if she did it by…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:08 PM
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I agree , as i said its not always baby trapping , there can be of course mistakes. And I believe it would be bad if I acted like she is elderly and can't take her pills right. Again, women and men can make mistakes , a pregnancy some times can be a mistake. You don't go with the intention of having a baby every time you have sex. So as I said the phrase "you should have put your dick in your pants" is a wrong phrase .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:43 PM
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I love how "rape" for him is only male perpetrator , good double standard he doesn't notice for himself. I don't think we need to say rape is bad and its not a competition about who has worst trauma after it.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 02:39 PM
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Men have many excuses as well for not leaving abusing relationships if you fail to understand that something is really wrong and sadly they don't even have support from shelters and other methods. It is not about who has it worse, its about helping everyone. Again saying that I would get my girlfriend pregnant means I had the intention to get her pregnant. Baby trapping or just mistakes doesn't require intention to get someone pregnant. If someone is intentionally trying to get a woman pregnant …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:34 PM
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Depending the country family courts are different and its a problem for people. I never said anything about telling her what to do with her body and the pill is one out of so many BC choices. The pill is not even one pill there are different "pills" . Not letting her being on the pill and suggesting a different female contraceptive method that would be better for her is a GOOD thing no matter how you frame it. If she is informed of all the choices and still wants the pill i have no choice in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:25 PM
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That is all you got out of my text? I wouldn't force a woman to take the pill neither would I force her not to take it . The pill in general has many symptoms and side effects even psychological . There are of course uses for it apart from birth control where the doctor suggests it. All I was saying is for birth control I am not a fan of hormonal birth control. Don't try to make a villain out of me when I have researched the symptoms and I am interested in the well being of my significant other …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:19 PM
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I am not imagining anything, I am saying having paternity tests by default before assigning father would protect fathers to be and it wouldn't cost anything neither would it create more problems. Even if the percentage is 0.1 percent which is not it would still help thousands of people without something negative being done to innocent people. It is all about informed consent, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:14 PM
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DV is not gendered and its a huge problem and complex and many times really sad to have people being abused and abandoned cause of the system. Check Duluth model in DV and how this model failed DV. Even the creator of this said this model is bad and shouldn't be used. ​ The situation with paternity fraud is not as complex, that is why I try to point out that paternity test on childbirth will "fix" a problem that is much more easier to fix without bringing consequences to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:09 PM
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Sooo isn't that the same thing with some men going into relationships and marriage fully trusting their woman and the woman isn't a "liar or capable of paternity fraud" from the start but eventually becomes like that? I get what you are saying and I agree , all I am saying that the comments above, "why be in a relationship with that woman" fails to recognize what you just stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:03 PM
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I think studies have shown for men they would sacrifice 3 men for 1 woman, having that taken into account into every action you would take I don't think it means you would sacrifice 60% of your men for 20% of the women. So inbreeding is a case but can be mitigated I believe because the choice on bigger groups becomes different than the individual choice.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 01:39 PM
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All I am saying is I literally find no reason not to have paternity tests mandatory on childbirth. And of course its good that the government and NGO's help women . This thing would help men without bringing consequences to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:34 PM
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Look, personally I wouldn't let my woman be on pill first because she will have full control over reproductive rights without any accountability and second because the hormonal side effects are something to avoid. I would always use condoms as well but its never 100% protection even if you use it correctly. The thing is that is my personal choice, there is no backing from the government. If a woman chooses by herself to stop the pill without informing me I am still the only one who "should take …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:28 PM
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I would too but most people and media would just go to her rescue and find horrible that we would "victim blame" her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:18 PM
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All i will say is if you flipped the genders on situations like these the woman would have 100% empathy even for a wrong choice she did. You don't go to a victim of DV and say why did you marry a gangster or someone who has gone to jail or someone who is generally aggressive .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:53 AM
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we have seen the videos of mothers that without remorse raised a baby for years with a "cuck" father , can we stop with the insecurity shaming and just let us have some peace of mind? If you notice for relationships the government and NGO's do everything for women to have peace of mind and be secure , I don't go around saying "why have a baby with that guy if you weren't 100% he wouldn't leave you" and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:50 AM
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purple pill debate
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 11:32 AM
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league is a generalization , of course you don't know each others personality but on dating apps leagues are very real because you choose just from looks in a matter of 2 secs.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 11:31 AM
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Good judge
/r/MensRights13/12/22 02:18 AM
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you think women are not violent or dont have power? LOL good luck entertaining your thoughts. Women had more power over men even without vote. And if you see reality as it is men where always what women needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:10 AM
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How much status does POS have? Are they adored by other males? are they feared? Do they care about that chick? Do POS give the notion that they are not interested in the woman because they have other "options" ? There are a bunch of different tics someone can fullfill. Does the woman think that this POS is not that of a POS so she can change him? or that he wont be a POS to her? Was that POS the only one who had the balls to actually approach her and not gloss over her beaty?
/r/MensRights13/12/22 01:15 AM
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tbh I think many men have noticed this, that is why you see so much manosphere channels saying exactly these things, many times not even with hatred but with just sadness.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 12:22 AM
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damn that's so helpful, have you proof read it? I mean how sure are you about it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 10:41 PM
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Yeah that is oversimplifying it but yeah in general women like to date a bit older and more accomplished guys so just focus on yourself first, gym job hobbies books and try to look around as well but don't focus on women much unless you "met your soulmate" . You have time to improve yourself and women don't focus only on looks outside of dating apps. I loved the part "I would make an even uglier woman " hahaha. Validation from women will come slowly as long as you are open socially and you impro…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 10:10 PM
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no I agree with you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 10:06 PM
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Didn't know that :P . Then I guess they are shouldn't be considered involuntary celibates.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 10:05 PM
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i agree to the fact that its not about toxic masculinity and toxic femininity. It is about bad expressions of male and female traits. We shouldn't fall in the same trap and start spewing toxic femininity, it will do bad to girls and boys .
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 09:07 PM
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As long as it is fair to everyone this is not a problem , its a good thing.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 09:03 PM
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So these are the people twitter fired?
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 08:46 PM
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You literally say "women and children" first because you value them more . Simple as that. Common courtesy against women is because they are of more value and "to be protected" not because they are objects. Does this come from women being the sex that carries the child? Of course. Is it sexist because we discriminate women and men in the preface they have more value as mothers than fathers do? Yeah it is, so? What's the point? Are we really at a point so good and have no other problems that we n…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 08:16 PM
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The thing about shopping and make up it doesn't seem strange , women have the primary purchasing power so companies of course will target them with advertisement . "How do I look?" it is normal for them to focus a bit more than us on their looks since we are more "visual" types. Again all of this boils down to if it is being excessive or not. Its good for both genders to try to relate to opposite sex problems or expectations and see what is "normal" for the opposite gender. From then on you can …
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 08:03 PM
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I can consider myself something close to that as well but the moment you think a "label" changes your personal life or how you see things you better question that label. I try to get away from ideologies and its complicated because having the "feminist label" in conversations with others will help so they don't consider you as an enemy and they actually listen what you have to say. I would just say listen to what everybody is saying in both situations and use critical thinking. Of course both "p…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 07:44 PM
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I don't believe that, I mean to a certain degree yes why not (approval of your behavior by women around you can be considered a reproductive choice as well) . But its silly if we think its only that. Even from our biology we have instincts to protect women and side with them so I wouldn't say "I can't forgive him for being blinded by his instincts". If the expression of his instinct its changing reality as a whole then of course its too much.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 06:29 PM
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They might be entitled as you say but still its their space there. And this situation you say how they act they might act this way because they think you are out of their league or w/e. It doesn't mean they are right , if they are not right just let them be wrong its ok. All I am saying I find it normal for people not want "internet affairs through reddit". Dating apps are a whole different thing.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 06:17 PM
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First thing that pushed me away from mainstream feminism was the inconsistencies. I believe a strong case for MRA would be to be on point with everything . Every fact stated , every paper researched , every opinion held. It is because MRA doesn't have the same privilege feminism has (appeal to emotion and empathy towards women) and because many extreme feminists will do everything to disprove or frame MRA. But every MRA will need to let this difference make his opinion and actions more irrefutab…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 06:10 PM
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the are being used cause when generalizing some of the terms are useful , the moment you forget they are generalizations you stop using the "tool" correctly. That simple.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 05:22 PM
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i dont think they shame for that reason but yeah its a bad shaming tactic. Without them knowing it they prove the point that a guy with no sexual experience is of no value . Mainly it stems from preselection i believe but its taken too far to think a virgin male is something bad. Slut shamming: she had too much sex for my beliefs so something bad must be going on Virgin shaming: No girl chose to have sex with him so something must be going on Both sometimes can have some valid reasons but most o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 05:20 PM
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cause they value intimacy as we do too and a dickpick is not an offer :P . Lol man why you post these things on this sub.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 04:02 PM
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Very nice post! And one thing, if women really valued our tears so much , believe me we would be crying all the time. Not blaming women for being who they are as I am not blaming men for trying to "man up" and not cry or let the emotions overcome you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 12:53 PM
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Too much focus on equality of outcome as other comments stated as well. Especially in some sense its completely fucked up because it harms not only men but women as well. I remember a study of equality by the EIGE where they think its harmful to women that they are choosing to stay at home in more cases than men do. Cool way to say you have no free will as a woman and "We know better" and your freedom of choice is not true freedom. (Ofc I accept that there can be cases where you can say a woman …
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 12:04 PM
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tragic situation
/r/MensRights12/12/22 11:41 AM
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For this reason plus others something was invented called "marriage" :P .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:24 AM
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I would consider dating apps and hookup culture a far bigger factor in the disparity.I am not shaming anybody for having standards as long as you keep those standards and don't think later "I shouldn't have left" . This goes for men and women. Edit: By the way you can watch the recent rise as different things. Men don't want to indulge hookup culture Average men don't like hookup culture Average women might benefit more from hookup culture (at least in having hookups not in general) More women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:01 AM
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To be perfectly honest I would love if I had a daughter and she took note of the plate and sent it to me. If it is done as a habit I believe it is healthy. If you are all the time stressing go to a public space and don't be on a car with a stranger. Take coffee dates so no alcohol at first dates. Some advice can be really useful and when you are the unlucky one that met a person that truly wants to harm you, you protected yourself by acting that way. Look, If I as a man said this they would cons…
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/22 10:13 PM
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I believed you but can you inform us with stats or something more readable in English? I hope the situation becomes better there.
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/22 09:54 PM
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Wasn't the lesbian community with the highest percentage of IPV?
/r/MensRights11/12/22 09:36 PM
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Yes it is, there are so many problems with refugees that nobody cares. But i believe a rule of thumb is that when you see horrific situations for women it usually is like that but for men nobody cares or it is portrayed a bit worse to gain funding. And of course on the really bad cases is hell on earth and nobody is willing to do anything. This is not being misogynistic , this is understanding male desposability. And of course we should support every man and woman in need . All in all donations …
/r/MensRights11/12/22 08:52 PM
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they claim mothers as default custodians is cause of patriarchy even though they changed it to that -_- . They don't care about men because as soon as it is useful for them they will say anything about men. War comes, man up , father of a child of someone else? man up . It is just a tool.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:12 PM
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yeap things you said are spot on. We cannot even have standards for ourselves anymore because we will be "manipulative" for asking common decency and other stuff.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:09 PM
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so you are starting to observe how you can be about women's rights and not be a feminist right? Feminism specially today is really fucked up and the more you "fight" for feminism the more you hurt others sometimes. Feminism is against our natural feelings as you said BUT the most powerful weapon feminism uses is the appeal to the emotion that women and children are to be protected and sometimes we even forget children to protect women in our society. It is so successful because we all have innat…
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:07 PM
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Yeah but RP should be considered a tool and used as a tool not an ideology. And usually the stuff useful there are the stuff validated by actual research. And everybody who thinks everyone is just alpha or just beta and can't be both is plain stupid and has lost sense of reality.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 09:05 PM
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of course some of us are bums as some women are as well but every time you hear the word bum you picture a man not a person. The real example is some humans are bums. And believe me there is a LOT more ways society will push you not to be a bum when you are a man.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 11:43 AM
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but still for that to work you the surrounding people have to understand that dynamic and not only hear her side. People don't side easily with a man when the other side is a woman so her words carry more value .
/r/MensRights10/12/22 11:41 AM
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What do you mean, I am Greek and we know the etymology to that word and we know what it means and even then it isn't accepted or used. Its a joke, but the moment you hear misogyny all hell breaks loose
/r/MensRights10/12/22 11:37 AM
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man he is actually been subjected to patriarchy. Damn, first thing that popped into mind is how feminism got over the fact that lesbians have highest IPV rate , of course its one of the women assuming the patriarchical male role. How can someone believe that?
/r/MensRights09/12/22 09:30 PM
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it always exceeded my processing power to consider women as a minority. Like in general a minority , not in specific cases like workplace deaths.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 09:26 PM
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danger under control , ooof . Damn man thats is exactly the dark side of trust. And when you go to the extreme of this you see how a serial killer can be "boyfriend material" out of the thought " he would never do that to me"
/r/MensRights09/12/22 09:23 PM
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A huge problem I see with feminism specially today is that the its not a "means to an end" , the goalpost always shifts ,usually the statistics even by UN organizations are irresponsible AT BEST , even when the research is telling the truth they skip over it . Like come on it is soo obvious . And now we reached a point that even basic human rights are violated when you do something against a woman. I don't wanna say this is oppression but holy fuck if its not we getting there. And I wholehearted…
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 07:19 PM
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So actual feeling of physical threat is at comparable levels. This is my opinion and I won't state any research: I think we have a consensus that men take more risks and sometimes will "fear" less . By the way I have noticed in myself that I fear less when I need to protect someone even though rationally i am in a worse situation cause I can't just run. Considering this and the statistics about men being primary victim of homicide out on the streets HOW is this not sexists towards men . If you h…
/r/MensRights09/12/22 06:48 PM
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haha yeah sometimes you can see the bitterness . When a "Red Pill" guy shifts his goalpost he is not properly informed or he is doing it on purpose. If you wanna consider something a Red Pill it should be the truth. I really like some RP stuff and some are very informative and amazing but the most certain thing is the vast majority will take it out of context .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:59 PM
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The way autistic women flirt with men could be a really interesting point of research and I wouldn't say a "Red pill" stance would be that personality doesn't matter . Just from hearing and never having searched about this topic , first thing that comes to mind is how we "educate" autistic people on how to socialize , how and when to stare and such things . Plus the queues they might recognize we don't or the queues that we don't recognize but we do. Damn the more I think about it the more I bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:56 PM
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I am really interested , do we have any sources of death ratio etc?
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/22 05:34 PM
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I hope you don't hug your own mother :P hahahahah, imagine kissing her cheeks for goodnight all these years! Just chill with the whole semen thing, all of us bathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:11 AM
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cause scientifically proven they are not able to give it . There was a horse accident with a 15 year old, even though she signed consent to riding horse and not suing if anything happened on the court her consent written on a paper was overruled cause she practically couldn't recognize the situation and kids arent fully able to do risk assessment and other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:42 AM
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Completely agree . It is one of the things that "For women is this, for men is this" even though they are completely different. Yeah both can hide stuff but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:06 PM
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its because women don't judge as much as we do on looks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:04 PM
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If a woman is perfectly honest about what she says she can give many tips. If she is embarrassed to say oh yeah these things are good for relationship BUT these things turn me on and make me wanna fuck then you have many guys thinking they just need to be the "good guy/white knight"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:03 PM
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You hear everywhere that beard is the man make up HAHAHA. Ok hair is as well then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:01 PM
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I strongly believe Humor is a strong points in a man's character BUT when I notice things like the OP said (plenty of times) it really sucks .It makes me not want to say to my friends "Oh learn how to be funny" when I know someone more attractive who doesn't even have humor will be seen as more funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:32 PM
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Someone who cheated or flirted too much while being on a relationship and being too arrogant/entitled towards the waiter gave me an "ick" once. Edit: The biggest "ick" was from a girl I have been with and then I learned I was the only out of 10 she did safe sex with. MASSIVE turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:27 PM
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My guess is that right now the narrative show "oppressors" are mainly men and people believe if we recognize they are victims too somehow that will hurt the narrative and it will be bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:46 AM
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Thank you very much!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:44 AM
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For the comments saying about countries with age of consent <16 I am truly astonished. Kids below 16 years of age are not able to consent. This stems from their brains ( i believe frontal lobe) not being mature enough to handle such decisions and there have been studies about that. Even if the child gives consent it shouldn't matter in the court.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:33 AM
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https://mobile.twitter.com/BW/status/1565004358709813248
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:59 PM
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yeah ill try to find it , if I remember correctly it was for demographic something like 25-40
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:43 PM
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Q4ALL : Why is this open-relationship thing so popular these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:06 PM
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nah in US recent statistics showed for childless women they make close to 8k more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:04 PM
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No problem with that , if everyone is honest and there are no false hopes cause of dishonesty all good. Edit: Just want to point out that saying in a kind way that I believe its good to have a family when you are old is not being bothered by people who don't want to create a family. You do you , I do me :P.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:55 PM
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Some of the people who have long relationships early or marry early can have doubts if they made the best choice. And progressing in life on early 20's the differences of each partners path are getting bigger and bigger so that could be a factor as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:54 PM
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Tbh rough sex in bed when you are intimate with your partner is an form of security (and a test). Security because you lower your inhibitions and accept many more things that you would BUT you have trust in your partner that he won't go overboard. It is a test as well because you don't give directions about what you want, you let them explore and test your boundaries and what you like. So it is a "test" for the "dominant" partner as to how much my partner knows what I want. Edit: For extreme sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:22 AM
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I mean sex drive for men is what kept this species alive and increasing . From the same point of view , selectivity of women ( hypergamy) is what made our species evolve to what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:39 PM
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It's not about oh women do this so we should do it as well as revenge. I can explain in many different ways why I wouldn't prefer a female with high n count . What matters most though is whatever the logic may be I can feel it inside me (instinct) that I shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:34 PM
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And using the same logic the female's instinct is to have someone to provide for her during the "vulnerable" years she would carry and raise the baby . Cause of the parental investment we need as humans the male needs to provision and protect .So of course the male will care if he is putting all this effort for his offspring or someone else's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:31 PM
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I understand what you are saying "if the average woman slaps with all her power a man he probably wouldn't go to the hospital" but that is just an observation missing the fact that because of the differences women are most likely to use objects instead of only their body . And this whole argument you are saying is an argument but it is different from the argument I am making. Inside the argument I am making during the test I am pretty sure they factor your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:29 PM
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our sex drive is always on , women's sex drive is hugely related with their menstrual cycle And yeah I have seen Data from meta analysis about that and it the results to me were like ok "water is wet" hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:25 PM
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violent crime is an extreme so yeah the difference there is shown
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:51 PM
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in general women and men don't have big differences in aggression but if you say who are the top 10 most aggressive people in this town it will probably be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:49 PM
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We shouldn't even explain why we don't like high body count , we just don't. Its a basic instinct and I am not gonna explain and doubt my preferences when such a strong instinct is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:42 PM
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I'm just gonna say , men and women have differences that become more distinct in extremes like with aggressiveness . The top 0.1% of aggressive people are by far men and that is cause of our biology. I get what you are saying that some things we say are masculine or feminine are made up and I agree . But from that notion you cannot say that men and women in general don't have differences. An easy example is, men are taller than women. Is every man taller than a woman? Of course not but the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:56 PM
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forgot to add that yeah thats what I mean by useful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:42 PM
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oh yeah thats a bit no and if anyone says that he is clearly doing it to gain popularity and views .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:34 AM
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By the way the closer RP is to sciences like evolutionary psychology/biology the most useful it is. And I love to hear from these professions about the nature of men/women because they give you a clear view of how things are and how much some behaviors come up from nature and others from nurture. Gad saad is a very nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:14 PM
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Yeah its true. For me for some specific things it was really liberating sometimes but yeah I can understand the danger on some other things they are saying. That is why i prefer rollo tomassi when I choose to hear things about RedPill cause he seems more open minded and not in for the profit/trend. But still I disagree with some things he says. I really don't know where to place red pill . It is something that has HUGE demand nowdays for plenty of reasons. I think some older "RP's" should show w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:11 PM
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Oh from my understanding the moment you say oughts/shoulds/prescriptions then it cannot be considered a tool and the person saying that thinks of it as an ideology. I completely agree with you that these guys that say things like these should outright say it from the start. And that is my problem with them too , they stop viewing it as a tool and internalize these things too much that they end up getting used instead of using it as a tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:29 PM
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Red pill can be a very useful tool if you have basic understanding of other things as well AND you don't take everything at face value. Oh and you understand that generalizations are exactly that... generalizations. I understand things RP's say that are right and that are wrong. If I saw them 10 years ago I wouldn't be able to do that. Btw about intersexual dynamics 99% of everyone reading such things WILL get it wrong. Whatever his position is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:21 PM
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We would have stopped existing as a species if that happened. Or at least we would be like small tribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:11 PM
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Did you read this study? And I am not advocating for anything. I just posted the Data that they refer. And told you there have been other studies as well that disproves that. I have no position in this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:43 PM
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hahaha nice one!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:42 PM
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I don't want to lessen the things a woman goes through for that , but I don't think the biggest compensation would be child support or paid leave etc. These things are necessary and ultra helpful but I really believe the biggest compensation comes from what I said. Maybe I am a bit out of reality or "romantic" .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:42 PM
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This is what they refer to when they say that. I have seen another study too saying that there are more types of IPV and because they are not stated in this study that is why the findings are "similar rates". Something in the lines of Casual Partner Violence is similar but not other kinds of violence. I haven't saved it (unluckily) but I'm pretty sure someone will post it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:16 PM
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I wish men never started sharing dickpicks like candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:06 PM
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The word "Alpha-Male" banned on TikTok but "Alpha-Female" is not . Hahahahaha WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:53 PM
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Yes they help in creating life but in general I don't think they will share the same bond as a mother does with her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:49 PM
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The compensation of menstruation is that you have the ability to birth a child, literally create life. We are just "donors" as men. There is a reason its called mother nature and not father nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:05 PM
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6-7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:59 AM
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Well I have been hit or choked and the other party told me " There was no way I would be able to hurt you" . And because you said it happened many different times it just popped that it could be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:11 PM
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Well imagine having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:13 AM
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I would guess you have really masculine characteristics right? It seems to me that it feels ok for her to do that cause "I couldn't possibly hurt him , look at him and look at me".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:11 AM
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Oh lord, if I hear people start comparing those too like its the same I am gonna flip out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:56 AM
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The moment you see a post explaining what you wanna say and you feel a burden coming out....I wish I could award you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:51 AM
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I can see what you are saying. And I know If I was in a different mental state it can be like brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:21 AM
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Im sorry i will phrase it better, from the male's point of view its liberating to say to girls "I would consider having sex with you" with just a "match" . Even if 1/10 responds with a high. Its the rejection of first approach. The whole first approach is being hidden by the matching function.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:12 PM
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They are considered red pill? damn thanks for letting me know. Do you have any link i can find them? These people give me the feel of a cult lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:10 PM
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I mean what can I say? It is just sad. Actually the saddest part is that now with specific algorithms feeding you content you see , when you bury yourself into a hole the algorithm will throw the dirt on top of you to keep you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:07 PM
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I mainly watched some videos on The Rational Male. I agree with most things he said and I am still thinking about other things. One example is I have no idea if Hypergamy is real or not :P . So I don't take things at face value. But things that have stayed with me are "RP is about NOT getting angry with women for rejecting you" "There is no should, only is " " You cannot negotiate desire" I haven't made up my mind yet but things he says are interesting and not only for dating. Oh and he is not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:03 PM
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Dating apps do exactly that, they hide rejection. And around me with all the topics about cat calling sexual harassment etc (which should be discussed) men that respect women are afraid to approach them even in a bar when the men who didnt respect them before still just don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:36 PM
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To my understanding TRP is not an ideology and believe me I have seen people saying obscene things and calling themselves TRP. I am not saying you are wrong I am just saying I think it varies a lot depending who you see. Still learning though and I try to keep an open mind on whatever I see. And I understand that it has huge demand and as stated above some people say things as how to sleep with women "easily" which is just plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:26 PM
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Thank god there are not more females using dating apps. People need to get realistic understanding of these numbers so they dont fall in depression when using such apps. Dating apps shouldnt be used for LTR but only for STR.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:22 PM
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Then don't be so hard on yourself. People with empathy and self awareness sometimes poison themselves with thoughts cause of extreme use of these traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:34 PM
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Do you advertise it? prob not so don't feel like an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:35 PM
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Just Sad. Oh btw since you know stuff what is your opinion about The Rational Male - Rollo Tomassi?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:15 PM
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I'm glad, I still loose myself everyday but we need to keep trying. No excuses!! (or at least less excuses today than yesterday)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:45 PM
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Yeah totally agree , that's why I said little by little. If someone who was agreeable and you think will never rise his head suddenly rises his head you will try to "put him back down" (pretty sure happens everywhere). That's why showing your change in attitude little by little most of the times I think its better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:52 PM
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I am just gonna say without wanting to be political or sexist or w/e . A part of the perceived pay gap is that in general the average woman is more agreeable than the average male . So defend yourself in your workplace if you think you are too agreeable and that is leading to not confronting your superiors about w/e. Oh and do it by testing of course little by little.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:08 PM
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I undermined myself as well thinking that I am nothing , shit's not real man. It took me one year to realize what I was doing to myself and how much that hurt me. Talk with a friend, say this shit to him and then go do a list of good attributes. If you don't list at least 10 attributes try again cause you are lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:19 PM
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Documentary for sex tourism(i think in Dominican Republic), one of the nastiest I have seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:07 PM
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That's a bad double standard but it made me laugh :P.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:03 PM
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pretty cool way to hide scars just one tip is for tattoos every $$$ matters. So don't cheap out. And well done for taking care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:02 PM
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WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:00 PM
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Well done!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:59 AM
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Oh one example that is just funny is pay differences in NBA/WNBA. I could be wrong but from what I have seen it doesn't smell like patriarchy. If someone knows more please enlighten me I will listen to your arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:52 AM
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The movement as a whole has many variations and many expressions when applied. There could be plenty of examples that went overboard (and its perfectly normal, ofc it happens in universal movements) . The thing is these examples don't undermine the movement itself. Everybody should care about the equality of men and women and the process of achieving equality should be carefully examined . All in all as for whatever ideology if someone states that she/he is a part of such a big demographic , his…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:52 AM
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It really is sad , they are missing the whole point and they think they found the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:39 AM
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Its most probably a hint of attraction and I think a good advice is use online contact as a means for offline contact not a substitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:38 AM
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A big part is learning how the other sex communicates and try to find a silver lining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:21 AM
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That can lead to pay raise as well, in work I understand that if you dont set boundaries and ask for rise they will just exploit you most of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:20 AM
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I wholeheartedly believe what you are saying is correct but I just wanna point out that if I as a man set boundaries in a LTR that I deem moral and correct ,my partner and her friends will question the fuck out of them . For example I really believe "My body my choice" BUT in a relationship both partners set boundaries and that's a big part about relationships. I see no reason for a girl or a guy inside a relationship to dress provocative .( I mean extremes like thong on a beach) . And I am talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:19 AM
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Most of RP has taken things from him , the problem is many people only take things they want and miss the whole picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:00 AM
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yeah that's what I noticed too, and that's the problem when something goes "a bit " mainstream. Everyone says their own shit while screwing up the original idea. Things I saw about Red Pill is from The Rational Male. I don't agree with everything but I like his approach and his extended videos. Many things he said are great advice. " You cannot negotiate desire" , " RP is nothing but a tool " , "Responsibility without authority is slavery" " RP is made so you WONT get angry at women for rejectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:00 AM
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These things are RedPill? WTF? Thank god i haven't seen any of these posts. Its ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:52 AM
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hahaha so true!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:47 AM
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hahaha "We are working on our relationship" "No b*** we have been working on me :P " Its so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:40 PM
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Im just gonna say its nice when you are over 20 and have a sex life but during school years not even being able to think about anything else cause of ultra high libido is a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:34 PM
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1) Knowing that nobody gives a shit about my problems. Good example is if women had men's suicide rate we wouldn't just address it once in a while . Oh and the condescending tone of women when I speak about men's problems. 2)Hearing ALL the time men have to be more emotional and be in touch with their feelings and we need to be more like women . ONCE I cried in a movie with my ex-gf and she was fucking laughing at me . 3) Feeling responsible for the safety of other women (even strangers) when in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:13 PM
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Soo after meeting the "pretty girls" you learned they didnt need to develop character. Thats why early on i really liked girls that had lot of "potential" and 1-2 years (after i said my friend that I liked those girls ) these girls took more care of their image and suddenly they were "pretty girls" with character. I want a better world as well but we really have more serious problems than this. Thats why i say its not productive to change views about mating and such. Im sorry to say but we have …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah and they will find it hard to settle, so what? I mean yeah it is sad when someone thinks he is settling even though they are not. That is what they feed them so thats what they think. But I am pretty sure every girl is not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:00 PM
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Tbh being "Red Pill" aware in a blue pill society helps you a fuck ton cause the others are not like you . But no if we try to change the world with a different narrative they are not gonna hear you . Things like these come slowly. When women finally see that this system doesnt benefit them and ask the question why did it end up in this that is the point they start to question the system that focused on them. And I tbh i think the Black Pill is too obsessed with some things. Hell even people i f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:37 PM
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Everything has a good side and a bad side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:14 PM
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Man im with you , i really am . The thing is that you say the narrative is all about women and every woman should be treated like a Queen and such. How can you change the narrative? You can't. For yourself and for your own interest its not productive to change the world. That is what I am saiyng.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:12 PM
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My man Red Pill is not about "should", get it out of your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:43 PM
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RedPill 101 "You don't negotiate desire" You dont change the world, you learn it's rules and you play the game. Every sex has its every day problems . "Women really need to desire male bodies and mental traits way more besides only complaining to men to just "level up" This exactly sounds to me a lot like what some groups try to do and tell us men what we should like . Life is not about should on some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:41 PM
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It is sad but many people do it , the fact that you actually lie to your partner about something indicates most of the time that you find it wrong yourself too. And I believe, lets say for N count , most women who are vocal about it are women who have a high N count . I'm not gonna shame anyone for their own choices but my ultimate judgement is that I will not choose them for LTR. When someone you meet doesn't choose you because of things you did that is when it truly hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:37 PM
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The most attractive i believe would be the man who shows a hint of emotion while being a master of it. So showing "potential" for emotion while keeping it in check. And that I think is the main part about masculinity is to not be overcome with emotions so you can perform. Sure define what is "overcome" , it is probably different to people and how much you need to perform changes that . All in all I think that is close to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:34 PM
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On tinder and such apps yeah i agree, in the bar it gets more normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:09 PM
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I never said they dont matter I just say they matter more for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:05 AM
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from my experience when I was acting like a "player" usually the girls wanted to be FWB. That happened in my experience not in general
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:05 AM
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can be* not is. Of course i talk about extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:56 PM
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stated it on a comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:54 PM
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Well what can I say, im trying to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:54 PM
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i recently learned that vast majority of rapes are done by someone the victim already knew and it changed my perspective on that . My change in perspective made me think of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:00 PM
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i believe both can happen thats why im asking risk factors
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:49 PM
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nope 25M
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:48 PM
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The red pill i see is men and women have emotions and logic the thing that differs when considering the average is that a if someone's first thought is emotional it is more common for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:40 PM
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My post is about what are the risk factors that you can face with a guy in each category , Mainly focusing on sexual assault , rape etc. Not breaking your heart on a LTR. A player might think "who do you think you are , women prettier that you fucked me at the first date" or i dont know something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:21 PM
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Of course women find looks attractive , all i am saying is we make our decisions based more on looks (comparing to women) . So because of that when you put men and women in a place where you can pick mainly on looks huge imbalances will show . And yes of course having options matters a lot to choice but outside of OLD its not settling on looks cause you need to flirt and when you flirt you make a connection with the other person . It will not be a "radical choice" of oh i need to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:18 PM
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I have been thinking this for the past days and I really have no idea. Who can be more dangerous to a woman a "Player" or an "Orbiter" ? I can think of reasons both populations might believe will validate their behavior but I cant wrap my mind around which is more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:13 PM
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that sums up what an "alpha male " is when you ask a woman . An "alpha male" according to a woman is whatever they need them to be considering their situation at that moment. I am glad you are happily married and you having these red flags first come to mind is exactly because you are married. Preferences , red flags etc are subjective to the situation everybody happens to be. That is why many people notice huge red flags sometimes after the relationship ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:58 PM
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a shit test is part of the selection process , every woman does it in varying degrees . It can be expressed in a disrespectful manner testing you if you are going to put her in her place or it can be simple questions about your life and hobbies. The first one can be toxic af but to me it seems the women who mainly use disrespectful shit tests are the ones that are DTF more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:50 PM
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that is happening because OLD focuses on looks mainly .Guess what, in reality outside of OLD girls look many other things (we men prioritize looks) soooo despite that situation in OLD you go out to the bar or to wherever and FLIRT (game) . There it evens out and you will be much better and you will learn game . I agree that as an average man being on OLD you start from a disadvantage but if you learn how to flirt in these days you will have way more of an advantage (because many men just use OLD…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:24 PM
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exactly that , male and female choice of sexual partners( friends as well) is their choice. If someone made 5 "bad choices" and someone made 5 "good choices" you prefer the one who made good choices. And we cant talk only about bodycount cause every sexual partner you have is not the same. If a guy comes and says I banged 50 chicks I am a player I will call bullshit if i know he banged 50 chicks that lets say have been 3-4 in attractiveness when he is a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:24 PM
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I like your approach and what you state. Personally i believe this situation happens because all people dont have the whole picture in their minds. A lot of things will make you have your opinion about this issue. For example a BIG part is as you stated the comparisons. Another part is that the average male doesnt have many sexual partners when compared to the female with more or less the same "sexual value" BUT a small percentage of men have A LOT MORE partners than women do . The numbers are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:18 PM
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I was shocked when i heard it at first but yeah it makes a lot of sense. Most guys dont go to dating coaches for whatever reason , they will just buy a book and ask what steps should i take. That might work for some because eventually the step is practice as well (flirting/developing social skills) but it might make them to believe oh i made those steps why nobody likes me still . So its good to ask not only for "steps" but to try to see why these steps work or might not work in every woman you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:05 PM
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I think a big percentage of people who pay money for dating coaches are men who"grinded" in life and didnt have sexual relationships for years . So after the grind you have a male that has increased his attractiveness a lot but has no game. And think about how many men can pay 1000 dollars for this. If someone was broke he wouldnt be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:47 AM
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25M.No its not a deal breaker . I sincerely believe that inside a relationship it can be a very good place to try things safely and get to know yourself and your partner better. Having said all that I don't think its the same as oral sex and if people don't want to do anal they SHOULD have it as a strong line that wont be passed. In general I dont like the selfish talks like you should never compromise yourself in a relationship and such . And its always good to hear the previous generation to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:35 PM
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Its a good practice when generalizing to believe that the "average" person will probably like an almost even mix of both. And that mix changes during the relationship or that person's mental state / short term problems etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:55 PM
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I remember the first time i bought flowers and had them under my jacket I got dumped just when we met and didnt even show the flowers to her . At least i didnt take it to heart and we were children back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:52 PM
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I think I read somewhere that common psychopathic behavior is passing yourself as the victim when you are the dominant one in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:44 PM
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In my country at least from my experience if a woman is serious about herself she doesnt have a problem of finding people serious people to commit . Im just gonna say though that the whole attitude i deserve the best without me trying to be best doesnt exist that much in here so i dont wanna settle down doesnt pass through their minds so easily. I just believe they have a more realistic idea about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:08 PM
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plz dont take words face value, girls love the character of the guy as well. You can make the deduction that considering attraction women are more "opportunistic" but still our characters play a big role on what they consider attractive as well . And attraction=/= love . Edit: Btw millionaires have drama as well and saying everything is because women love opportunistically seems like you just picked 1/100th of what red pill says not in order to search for truth but in order to comfort yourself. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:46 PM
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the only way you should state it is by actions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:39 PM
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i agree about tomassi being the more analytic guy who explains the game wouldnt be able to have the same impact as someone who "just is" . But both are needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:27 AM
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lol totally missed 1st comment , my bad man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:08 PM
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Well im red pill too, the way you phrase it is like alphas dont make families and i see you making conclusions about AF and BB with big mental jumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:51 AM
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totally agree but i said red pill 101 cause some misinterpret the fuck out of red pill where it should just be about truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:23 AM
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And as a man you can "proudly" joke , even on suicide we are more successful :P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:04 AM
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as a person who uses red pill as a tool (or at least thats what i believe) there are plenty of red pillers who do the same thing as some feminists do. Its common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:56 PM
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do you even understand the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:45 PM
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you are taking this way out of proportion. The male mating strategy can be "mate with lots of women to have more offspring" because sperm is "unlimited" and you dont need to carry the child BUT human babies need more care than other primates so in order for the child to grow up we say the man needs to "sacrifice" his polygamous nature and stay to help with the child. And LOL for saying harem of attractive women :P this is not anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:43 PM
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thank you ashera the thing you said unironically is red pill 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:36 PM
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please read more carefully about the red pill... and if while reading about red pill you feel a hate about women you are doing something wrong. Half truths are even more dangerous than lies so even when you can learn things from red pill if you pick apart what you want and make a half truth you are doing the worst thing for yourself and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:33 PM
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Rollo Tomassi?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:09 PM
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Im sorry to hear that .But still my point is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:44 PM
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omg these stats are fucked up .Is this an outlier , like other studies has disproven this one?
/r/MensRights13/09/22 07:21 PM
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thank you
/r/MensRights13/09/22 07:16 PM
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none at the moment cause im 25M
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:15 PM
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are there any stats proving women hit men more ? I wanna know , im not saying you are wrong I just want you to state evidence ( i know men will report it less)
/r/MensRights13/09/22 04:59 PM
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It is like that? i have no idea if male or female victims are more on child rape from teachers. Do you have a source?
/r/MensRights13/09/22 04:07 PM
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And by the way ofc men should help around the house / cook / clean etc etc . I want my wife to know how to cook but as a human being you should know how to cook clean etc etc. And men should be super awesome house husbands as well but for their relationships health if they choose to do ,its good to do something or be a certain way that will make their women admire because hypergamy will still exist and because why wouldnt you want to be admired by your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:54 PM
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its perfectly ok and believe me i know many who people who call themselves RP they wildly misinterpret these kind of things . Like believing when they say Money muscles game that the "money" is actual money. Its definitely not actual money only , its the goals you set as well its your mindset about life in general not only "money" . And by thinking its only about money they devalue themselves and the choices of women who pick them as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:52 PM
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Seeing that 1/3 of the food we produce is destroyed or "picked out" during the process i wouldnt say we dont have resources. And seeing how much waste we produce and how much better it can be i can say we have chances or "potential" to solve these problems. But why you devalue yourself so much by saying having children is irresponsible? If you feeling responsible for what humanity has done raising a child with the right values will help the problem. And the 80 years of hell was 70 years of an un…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:48 PM
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I mean if we dont then we will be extinct . And its one of our most basic needs because of that . Sure it gets harder the more you think about it but many people find that having children gives them a new reason to keep going on life. I just wanna say children should always be for the average person one of the biggest "want" in life. If not, then we are 100% doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:53 PM
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Yes I think you can say socio-economies is a part in that. Ofc women should make their own money. But watching TRP I have seen the stats that goes something like this "56% more chance for a woman to divorce a man when her wage becomes bigger" . Does that mean you cant do a thing if that happens? hello no . If you are faced with this situation you need to have high status and the admiration of your wife in something else , same thing happens with house husbands. Saying in plainly ,you as a man ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:44 AM
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Its fine :P me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:23 PM
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im just saying women who get pressured by time because they wanna have children and they know that after some age there are gonna be more complications usually will think ok im gonna settle with this man. But if a woman says i wanna have YOUR children and shows it you know she admires you and she is not with you our of necessity . Being with someone who is not with you out of necessity and admires you should be enough of a sign if you have feeling for him/her as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:22 PM
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i know what you wanna say but you are not phrasing it correctly and you are making generalizations that are not true or the magnitude is smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:18 PM
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no but the one who chooses something out of necessity will let the other male/female be more dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:15 PM
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when you meet a a partner who doesnt wanna just have children , they wanna have your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:13 PM
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Completely agree that time is important and is a part of resources in extreme polygamy its not been taken into consideration cause the other resources are there in the extremes. And i agree with what you saying about its not evolutionary because during early phases communities with extreme polygamy didnt improve as fast as more monogamous communities did. The extreme polygamous communities had a lot of single men who wouldnt find partners and that lead to more crime rate and less advancement. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:02 PM
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i mean in whenever anyone says anything people just pick what they want (FROM BOTH SIDES) so its understandable. And i firmly believe people who don't know about RP can have a same view with actual RP and a self proclaimed RP will say oh thats wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:53 PM
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for sure and im happy women like you exist and you make this world a better place. The thing i am saying is you are the exception dating guys even a head shorter. I as a man try not to be choose about things i know evolution made them the way they are. But my belief is you cannot expel all of those nor there is a reason to expell or deny ALL of those. See what is useful to expel and expel it. And its not only insecurity but yeah insecurity is a BIG turn off I completely agree .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:29 PM
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Cause I saw people speaking about RP stance thats why i stated that and ofc if you think men dont do it as well you are loosing something somewhere. I even said men do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:24 PM
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every woman looks at you as competitor on dating market? ofc not lol. What TRP says or at least what i got from it is that for other female competitors for the same man they want they try to weed them out in some way. As men do also!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:31 PM
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i think trp stance is that a 30F will say oh why date a 25F or 23F cause of this this and this and most of this is deep down to lessen competition for high value men who look for 25F instead of 30F. And again not all of them and not every HVM looks only at 25F. And men do it too for women choosing older men especially in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:28 PM
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And nothing is magical during improving yourself. Everything needs time and effort put into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:45 PM
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im not saying you will be your best OFC the more you try the better you become .Everybody doesnt start the same but you can become better. You dont need to be the prize for the woman you wanna be with. Okay it will help to be the prize but 90%-95% wont be the prize. So ? we dont try to become better? Strive to be on equal footing with who you like to mate with. And you can achieve that. If you cant you have too high expectations or you think you cannot. 30 years for men is not old to start with …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:44 PM
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you think the wives and the wives families wouldnt think about how much is 1/4 or 1/5 of his wealth? you will be surprised to see the difference in magnitude considering wealth for the 1% compared to average. They have plenty of resources for 100 wives. Dont think about it oh the normal husband has x amount more than me. See the guys who girls want to be polygamous with like famous millionares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:15 PM
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specifically for that im sorry but its not about believing its about reading studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:11 PM
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you can plainly say she wants a man she can admire and trust him to make decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:59 PM
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power is a strong word and can be changed to different meanings depending on context like respect admiration etc etc. Saying you have more power in your marriage shouldnt infer that you can do your wife whatever you want. And in matters of her being "subservient" its not about blindly following to everything you say, its about her trusting you as a leader and letting you do some choices. Like we trust females more for raising babies, we give as a society the complete authority over her baby inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:57 PM
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i strongly disagree with that from many experiences I have seen. A prize is the 5% and you dont need to be in that 5%.And when you hit 30 its less about looks and more about other things and thank god these things match up with the ones you do to improve yourself. Sure there is knowing how to flirt too but that can be achieved through trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:54 PM
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the point in what he is saying should be obvious if you want to see the perspective of someone not in your shoes. The difference is insane if you go to numbers like 5% most attractive males and these things can make men feel hating women or even worse hating themselves and commiting suicide. These things should be known but you should take that and better yourself not hate women or yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:50 PM
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i agree , of course they arent. The thing is fmri studies has shown that a man during sex uses the tool use part of his brain. I am not saying we should objectify women . But its pretty comical that during sex its easy to please a man but I really see it like that when i please a woman. Tell me I am not the only one who thinks " Hmm a little bit of sweet words , lets use this technique for fingering her , ok now a bit of biting on the nipple , kiss on the neck etc etc". Its actively looking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:06 PM
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There are plenty of examples that dont make sense from a social point of view now but forgeting the evolutionary part is a huge mistake. Both should be taken into account. For the same reason one can say there is no sense now for a girl wanting a taller guy than her cause he is not gonna provide more protection. Well no shit but the software wont overwrite all of the hardware. And believe me if you try there are soooo many examples that shouldnt be like that from male and female point of view. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:00 PM
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I mean this whole conversation should be "Why man's sweet spot is lower than women's sweet spot". And by the way the average man will have smaller number but going into the 20% of men and higher you see an insane increase in N count and that is caused by hypergamy. And in order for them to have this number female need to choose them as well!! Don't forget that guys women wanna get fucked as well LOL. The 20% of males don't exploit women into having sex with them . And I am not saying someone is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:52 PM
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Monogamy is prevelent cause of necessity . Monogamy primarily benefits women cause they carry the child. Of course monogamy benefits society as well in a major way . But saying men are sacrificing their polygamous nature out of necessity might not be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:47 PM
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If someone said everyone he is wrong. Studies have shown that women are more prone to forming emotional connections during sex. Or you can say for most men it comes easier to "just fuck" the girl at the bar and not think about it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:43 PM
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Much praise to the people here who make good arguments that show they want to get to the truth not just what feels right or make an excuse for themselves! And of course for the ones providing citations. You guys are the reason I wanna be here and constantly question my beliefs in a productive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:40 PM
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There is no rational gender but studies have proven that woman have an emotional response first then a rational one when men mainly have a rational response first. I am not saying oh women are weak for that or that they only think with emotions. Its normal from a woman's perspective cause you have to raise a child that is so freaking vulnerable that cannot state its needs so you have to put yourself in his situation first when you hear its cries .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:28 PM
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That is why its not only about wealth but how he controls that wealth (resources). That is why generosity is there aswell. Generosity will make you sure that he will give what he has, time is one of the resources too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:20 PM
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Think of it as if you think plainly by height the taller and more muscular guy or more mean looking guy has more "capacity for violence" . The "capacity for violence" is a major trait in protecting someone. By saying that i dont mean you have to beat others to prove your worth. What i mean is showing that you can handle your anger and be a "Strong man" will help you. You dont want a woman fear you , you want her to know that if needed another person with malicious intent will fear you and not do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:17 PM
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25M. There are many reasons of course as intersexual dynamics is a freaking really complex thing and that is one of the reasons its so interesting. And i guess we talking about choices for LTR (long term relationships) not short term. Disclaimer: I don't blame or hate anyone for these things. ( sorry for my english ) Social standpoint:( I understand that it is mixed a bit with evolutionary) 1) It is not as easy for most women to have sex without developing emotions as it is for men, so her being…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:06 PM
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25M.To be honest over and over the thing I see when talking about these things is that if you actually see what the red pill is about ( i know MANY people say oh red pill is about that but they just use it for their own purpose) you will realize a lot of stuff and it will help you keep a realistic approach and not loose yourself and blame others. For my example The Rational Male has helped ALOT and I am not agreeing 100% with what he says but from what I have seen he has the most realistic AND h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:28 PM
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