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You need to find yourself a girlfriend. However, don't go looking for a 9 or a 10 as you perceive your ex wife to be. What you need is a 5 or a 6, someone who is "punching above their weight" to be with you. If you find a girl who feels "lucky" to be with you, she will treat you like a King, look after you splendidly, make an effort with your kids, cook you nice meals and give you whatever you want in the bedroom. That's worth more than a pair of plastic boobs.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 10:29 AM
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In the UK 42% of marriages end in divorce and 40% stay together even though they are miserable/want to end it. That leaves 18% of people either happily married or reasonably content. The odds are stacked against you from the get go. If they had a casino game in Vegas where you bet your whole life on it with an 18% chance of winning there's no way you would play it, but the pulling power of the pussy makes men play the shitty marriage game.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/25 10:24 PM
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Eight months post breakup I have never been happier. Better to be happy apart than miserable together.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 01:23 PM
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Having been through it myself, this advice is absolute Gold.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 01:11 PM
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What an uplifting story. You made my day bro.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 11:49 AM
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The big differentiator between men and women is the peri-menopause and the menopause. It really messes them up and makes them more likely to seek separation.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/25 12:57 PM
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You will be emotional, you will feel low, but it is important you do the right things now. Speak to people (friends / family / therapist) about how you are feeling and what has happened. Maybe speak to your work and explain that you may not be at your best for the next couple of weeks. Go to the gym, eat well, spend time outdoors doing stuff. Don't look for solace in alcohol, don't try and fathom why she has done this, it's a fool's errand to try and understand what's going on inside her head. B…
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 10:57 AM
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It happens. The dating apps facilitate these hook ups. Believe it or not, fat 47 year old divorced mums have plenty of 20 something guy's willing to spend an hour servicing them in cheap hotels. It sounds mad but it happens a lot with newly divorced women.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 10:16 AM
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And getting smashed in hotels by young men who have no respect for them. Not realizing their behaviour is making them miserable 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 03:59 PM
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A lot of women just get fed up of the daily grind. Social media and their separated/divorced girl friends tell them the grass is greener on the other side of the fence..... Many of them soon find out it isn't 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 03:55 PM
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Sorry to hear about your daughters mom. I'm sure you have been through tough times but you have your life on track and can only be responsible for yourself, and you have made your life a success. I'm sure a girl will come along that ticks your boxes, I don't think you are asking for too much. Life has a way of working out and good things seem to happen to good people, so that special one could come along when you least expect it. It sounds like you travel a lot and meet people through work, so I…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/25 09:31 AM
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It's interesting to get your take on British ladies. Your experience tallies with mine. You are certainly correct about the 'drinking culture' in the UK, I would say the girls are on a par with the men, in fact a lot of them are much worse! It sounds like you have experienced this with the pint drinking London chick and entertaining Scottish lass. Or take my ex for example, she's an alcoholic, but also a beautiful girl with no need for fillers or botox. She went to rehab a few weeks ago, phoned …
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/25 10:20 PM
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I live in the UK but had recent success with a real natural beauty from Finland who was holidaying with her girlfriend in Spain. I was away with a group of guy's but we usually split up as the night progresses and I buddy up with a mate who is handsome to the point he is fighting women off with a stick 😡. Mine was late 40's, blonde, not an ounce of fat, natural breasts, pale complexion, no tattoo's or work done. She did smoke which I wasn't too keen on but she smoked menthol cigarettes in a very…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/25 07:08 PM
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Maybe try the 805 Night Markets, although I'm not sure whether the Food aspect of these events attracts the fatties 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/25 06:41 PM
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Seems to be less of the fake social media bs up in Ventura for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/25 06:33 PM
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Estonia, Latvia, Finland. Lovely girls, natural, educated and generally speak very good English.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/25 06:27 PM
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Try Ventura County. I would introduce you to my recently divorced cousin who's an Engineer up there, but she has a grown up son.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/25 06:16 PM
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Ebay.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 09:55 PM
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You are right something is missing... the person who would ruin the trip for you. Have a blast 💪
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 09:53 PM
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Go to a 'Singles Night' and take comfort in the fact that most of the people there are the same as you, looking for a connection and have the same anxieties and insecurities as you. It will be easier to approach women in this scenario, rather than a normal bar where you don't know who's single.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 10:45 AM
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Those hurtful and unkind things you said were likely the truth. From my experience STBXW's don't like to hear the truth and are incredibly good at manipulating the situation to make the Ex look like the bad guy and problem in the relationship. Be smart, no nasty messages or calls, grey rock her, and focus on yourself and fight for what you believe is an equitable share.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 10:17 AM
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Maybe she was joking. My mom used to say this sort of shit to my dad all the time when I was growing up, "I'm gonna divorce your sorry ass", "I'm gonna take you to the cleaners mother f*****". She never did though. They're still married now. It was fun environment growing up 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/25 11:13 PM
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You could join a normal dating site. Taller men 6ft+ do much better than short dudes on dating Apps and there will be more women available, rather than just restricting yourself to long tall Sally's 🤣 I'm 50 plus myself and single. Not looking for a relationship just yet, but will be soon.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/25 06:02 PM
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Take one day at a time, keep working out, keep at the yoga, keep eating well, enjoy walks in the sunshine, develop the friendship with your yoga buddy. You say she is too young for you, let her be the judge of that, not you. You might be surprised. You have positive stuff in your life, keep going, enjoy the comedy store tonight, it sounds like a great tonic to counter-act your present feelings.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/25 02:39 PM
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Way to go champ!! Similar situation here. My EX's life has gone to pot once the guard rails of the relationship were removed. Alcoholism, self harming, promiscuous lifestyle, loneliness, depression, blame shifting etc etc. Meanwhile I'm loving doing 100% childcare, doing great at work, have got ripped in the gym dropping 40 pounds, and am happy as F***. I pity the man who ends up with her 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/25 11:50 AM
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My alcoholic STBXW is the opposite. She's happy with me doing 100% of the childcare. Her life revolves around sofa surfing, getting drunk, self harming and having hook ups in cheap hotels. She came out of rehab last week, next day she calls me and I could tell she had been drinking.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 12:35 PM
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