FinanceUniversity Archive

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2	Is there a pattern with HC divorce? Mine was also fearful avoidant, and was taking a wicked combination of unregulated supplements including porcine (pig) hormones. Also a deadly cocktail when you put it all together	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/26 02:34 PM
7	Is there a pattern with HC divorce? It’s uncanny how every single factor was present in my high conflict divorce. At the heart of it is borderline personality disorder, and narcissism. I didn’t know much about those disorders before my divorce but I sure as hell have a PhD in them now.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/26 06:31 AM
20	Divorce Finalized Last Week: Burning all photos in a 55 Gal Drum Amazing similar to my situation. Her cheating started the collapse, then instead of accountability and remorse, she lied and attacked me. She is fearful avoidant and BPD as well. All I can say is just be thankful you don’t have any kids and can walk away. I have to coparent with mine for 14 more years and let me just tell you the post separation abuse is still rampant. The other piece of help I’ll give is that the truth comes out without you ever having to do a thing so just get your popcorn out…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/26 06:06 PM
1	I've come to the realization that marriage and divorce are all about the woman in life and in courts. Just laughing at “stray at home wife”. Sounds like my ex!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/26 04:28 AM
4	3 years removed from divorce, it’s like the woman I knew died. Yep. Same. For what it’s worth, feeling like your loved one was replaced by an alien is actually textbook cluster B (bpd, narcissist, etc). I could go on about how spiritual warfare and toxic societal influences plays into it to form a perfect cocktail. But even if you just trust the science (the DSM-5), what you’ve just experienced is a thing. And the 2-6% of people who have these disorders rec havoc on men, families, and society as a whole.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/26 10:49 PM
4	3 years removed from divorce, it’s like the woman I knew died. My experience exactly. Do you know if she has a personality disorder? If not, do some research on BPD (borderline personality disorder) and tell me if any of it resonates.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/26 08:29 PM
1	Lifetime Support after half decade marriage My lawyers said judges use the rule of thumb of 20% of your gross income for half the length of the marriage. And never more than 50% of your income in the worst case. In mediation it’s all negotiable, but just keep those rules of thumb in mind for what a judge would give you.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/26 05:55 PM
5	After divorce, I lost more than my marriage—I lost my sense of self. I’ve spent years helping others through transformation, but rebuilding myself was something else entirely. This was written with AI. Careful with what you’re signing up for gents.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/25 11:48 PM
1	Financially ruined after divorce Yeah the tax code is fucked. I have an employment contract that says I can’t do any side gigs so it’s a bit of a dilemma for me regarding earning additional income.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/25 01:07 AM
2	Financially ruined after divorce How do you make this work after paying taxes? I just got divorced and my situation is similar, although not as bad, and I honestly can’t figure out how to make the math work. It’s like the system is just rigged to fuck you. And you pay the taxes on what you pay. And when you include things like pro rata medical bills and extracurriculars, it’s even worse! I’m extremely anxious about how to make it work	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/25 01:45 AM
9	My Story…a summary of 15 years. Can you relate? Personality disorders leave so much wreckage behind. I’m very sorry but I think that’s what you ran into (BPD). Don’t blame yourself. As you said, it was inevitable.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/24 11:34 PM