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| 9 | Mediation is over…Nope, take her to the hearing officer and get Alimony as well. The hearing officer will give you way more so I would do that. Don't be stupid, get everything you can get out of the divorce. You got kids to take care off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/25 11:31 PM |
| 11 | Those of you who had wives who “changed” after marriage or children.I was married to a Covert narcissist for almost 30 years. The last 8 years of the marriage were just pure hell. Life was changing and she didn't handle life well and turned to antidepressants. She got really better after that, but then lied to me and tried to have kids. A healthy relationship is about talking and setting goals. Well, she had a miscarriage and only told me she was pregnant 3 weeks before she had a miscarriage. Then she was crazy about having a baby, and while she had the next pre… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Had to lawyer up on my ex =/That is great for you! I was married to a covert narc woman for almost 30 years. The last 8 years was pure hell on earth but I held on. I ended up getting alimony and child support. During the custody battle, I had the Judge add extra orders to my ex so she is held accountable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 11:30 PM |
| 10 | Had to lawyer up on my ex =/Lawyer up and nail her now!!! She is going to get around you and try to play the victim card. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Married to a doctor isn’t all good.You are correct! I know plenty of MD women Doc's and a ton of them cheat! They become boss babes and do everything to monkey branch onto other options, like casual sex, or someone well established at a hospital. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Married to a doctor isn’t all good.The medical field is field with toxic females who do everything to convince other women to get divorced. Plenty of cheating is going on in the medical hospital. The CBD is just an excuse to cause a fight, and force you to change. Once you do, she will just keep moving the bar further and further. She is making a good amount of money and is done with you. That is not your fault at all but now you need to lawyer up and get more than 50% of the assets. Get financial documents of everything for your… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 10:24 PM |
| 6 | I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped.Attorney up, and don't go cheap! Sounds like your spouse had set you up the whole time. Now that money is in the equation, she wants to part and then split. I would check her cellphone, computers and look to see if she is cheating. Yes, if you divorce it is going to cost you. Image another 10 years from now with 3 kids and even more wealth! It could be much much much worse! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/25 04:24 PM |
| 4 | My ex hates my gutsFollow the custody order and hold her to it. Keep your attorney updated and have him push things through. It would be probably best to file a petition and get in front of a judge. Let the Judge deal with it and keep fighting for those kids. She has to follow custody orders. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 12:50 PM |
| 5 | I CAN’T WAIT TO LEAVE MY EX WIFE AND KIDSNever play another man's saved game. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I’m pretty sure divorce is nearing. What can I do now to hedge a little bit of money now to protect myself?My ex planned her divorce 7 years out before having our first kid. She liquidated her account little by little and sent the money to her father digitally. Venmo was another one where she would send money to random accounts and she would also pull cash out all the time to give to her parents to hold and invest. They would pay the taxes on the money, and it would never show up on our taxes. Usually, courts only go back two years, but that can be different from what state you reside in. I would, ho… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Support hearing approaching - continue pro se with lawyer’s advice or let lawyer go full throttle?Get Lawyer full throttle and protect yourself. You never ever want to self-represent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Obsessed with lowering child supportFirst, you need to understand that money goes to the kids. Look at it from that point of view and digest it! You are only going to get bitter and you don't need resentment! Next thing I would do, start investing what capital you have and make a monthly income stream from ETF's, Mutual Funds! Create a passive income that will help you. You can always get a side job doing construction and other things but you need to invest. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 10:59 PM |
| 3 | SuicidalDon't do anything stupid and especially don't go drinking! These women are not worth the time, and it takes time to heal. Walk, go to the gym, talk to family, and be careful what you say to people. Also, get on your knees and pray to the Lord Jesus! He will save your butt... | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one?Document everything, including any parent alienation. The last thing you need is your child ever being abused. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one?Don't go to the party! Have your own and spend time with your child. My kid's last Birthday was filled with in-laws staring and following me around to see what I was saying to other people. I played it cool and did it for my child. However, the emotional turmoil was not worth it and don't let your ex soak in your pain. The new supply boyfriend will also probably support B.S. Contact your Attorney and report her living with another guy. Most states in custody orders have to report who is staying … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Surviving the cost of divorce with two young kids. How did you do it guys?No attorney? If so, you are going to get taken to the bank! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Surviving the cost of divorce with two young kids. How did you do it guys?You need to invest to create another income stream like an ETF or something that pays dividends. But only after the divorce is finalized. Focus on what you can cut out of your life example- Netflix, food options, out-to-eat, movies, cars and rent are some things you can start to cut. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 07:34 PM |
| 12 | People don’t understand the pressureContact your lawyer and tell them to go ahead and force a court date. Your mental health and body are taking a hit and you need this finished. Just make sure you have all financials in a row and you made decisions on what you are doing. If there is OT at work, do it! If you can find a side hustle, do it! Do you have a 401k or Roth from which you can borrow money? It also sounds like your ex is a Narc and I would research that so you know how to deal with them. Divorce attorneys look to suck as m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/24 12:35 PM |
| 3 | How to get past feeling you wasted your prime attractiveness on your exIf you are looking to have the best-looking partner you can get, then you are going to end up with a bad relationship. A good portion of females who do nothing but care about their looks are usually Narcs, or on a plethora of psych meds. There is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself and having confidence. But there is a reason for the red pill nation and people making constant youtube videos on crazy divorce women. I find myself extremely happy being separated from my ex. Peace is way more… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/24 01:03 PM |
| 2 | AMITA - she's setting traps for meGet a divorce, if she is talking to him, then she is most likely having sex with him. The guy she is seeing is a dirt bag and she should be with him. You need a healthy relationship where someone will love you and you have trust. She is going to screw up your head and whatever you do. Don't drink alcoholic beverages or do something dumb. Call an attorney and get things moving forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Share experience for those of us staying in marriage for the kids?Your marriage does not sound bad and I would not focus on divorcing! Focus on building your family and yourself. You need to protect those kids and having a mom and dad in the same house is what's best for the kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Wife said to husband "I'll just fuck someone else"My ex had similar language and I found out she was having sex with multiple other men. Also, during the divorce, she got pregnant by another guy and had a miscarriage. What does she do on her cell phone and PC's? Do you have access? I hate to say it but she is most likely having sex with another guy. Now is the time to not do anything stupid like go drinking or start threatening. It would help if you found as much intel on what is going on as possible. Contact a attorney and get everything ready… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Alimony For a working spouse that has her MASTERS Degree.Find another attorney that will give you a calculation! You can go online to find Alimony/Child Support calculators to determine what you might pay. Also, look at your county website for the laws which determine what will be paid. Some lawyers are ridiculous and do everything to not settle a divorce so they can feed off money from emotional turmoil. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Alimony For a working spouse that has her MASTERS Degree.You need a high-value divorce lawyer who will run the numbers for support. It all goes into a calculation and a payment is determined. If you sign papers and give her stuff, she can come back later saying she wants more. It is vital that at settlement things get worked out for you. For example, how much is her business worth currently and what will it be worth years later? You are not getting paid for that value and you own some of it! Having a good attorney will help prevent you from getting th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Talk Me Out Of It BoysShe might try to destroy you if you go back. Probably go to couples counseling for 6 months while you live separately and make a decision not based on emotion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 09:45 PM |
| 4 | I'm about to get destroyedYOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! Talk to your Attorney and protect yourself. You know that she is going to do everything to make you act. DO NOT ACT AT WHAT SHE IS DOING!!! Document everything and start talking to someone you can trust in your family! Start exercising and taking supplements like magnesium and Ashwagandha. When my ex started attacking me for years, I found books about Narcissism or why does he do that. She was hiding these books and I took time to read some of the material. Months later I go… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Wife happiness above kids stability and happiness. Your thoughts….Take care of your kids and focus on them, your ex belongs to the streets. In time you will heal and find someone who will respect you. If she is spending money like crazy, then she will fall soon. Just don't be there to pick her up! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 03:39 AM |
| 5 | Is 10 years the lucky number?It is women in their 30's who realize that life is hard and start to talk to other women who are divorced for benefits. These divorced women talk about being strong and independent and how their ex is paying alimony and child support and try to convince other women of hyper-gamy. Their goal in the narrative is to destroy a happy family to justify their childish decisions and to see a woman have her life torn apart. Later these divorced women go through a 304 lifestyle and start to dress like tee… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 3 | She has HIVFact! You don't know if she was doing drugs or was cheating! Chances are, she had to be doing something to get the disease. You have nothing and the second child has nothing. You better not have sex with her or anything else. You don't need the disease. I would get the second child tested to see if the child is yours. My GUT FEELING IS "SHE CHEATED ON YOU AND DID IT RAW!" Most women that cheat are having unprotected sex, it adds to their extra level of excitement as their Simp husband pays the b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/24 06:50 PM |
| 14 | Red flags in possible future wives!Seeing a Therapist 2. Daddy issues 3. Blames past wrongs on all other parties 4. On any kind of behind-the-counter meds for mental state 5. Crazy with controlling money and hiding it 6. Lies about where they were 7. Always on their cellphone and hiding it on them at all times 8. Spend countless hours focused on themselves on makeup, needing constant attention 9. Fake Nice- they put on a mask of being nice but in reality they are mad 10. Playing the victim all the time All of these are my top 10 … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/24 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Strategizing a DivorceGo to an attorney and have them recommend a PI! You want endless evidence texts, e-mails, photos, and videos of her doing the act. It can get really costly quite fast, and my attorney explained to me in my state that I need video evidence of them naked having sex to prove adultery. You are going to want a cheap divorce and to protect your assets. At the end of the day, people won't care that she cheated on you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Why do I have homicidal feelings?YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Plenty of men have gone through what you are experiencing right now. Call a family member and talk to them, you need to vent and get the stress off your chest. Guess what? You are going to make more money and be fine, don't focus on it because it will drive you crazy. Don't do anything that you will regret 20 years from now. Please know that your psychological war is worse than the financial one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of life if she is going to take half eventuallyI'm in the same situation as you and I can tell you that YOU NEED TO GET OUT!!! You will continue to make money and build your wealth but trying to hide everything will get you to lose even more. You need to protect your daughter and contact an attorney ASAP! Document everything she does in an excel document of what she does and the time it happens. Also, write down what you did to prevent it. If she is a Narc and has BPD she will stop at no ends to destroy you. Good youtube channels are "THE GA… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 10:23 PM |
| 2 | difficulty managing the anxietyWhat you need to do. Shrug your shoulders and walk away each time she tries to fight! Otherwise, you will be in the drama. Add Ashwagandha and Magnesium to your daily intake. Get educated about Narcissism, Youtube Dr. Ramani and The Game Exposed. Narc's know your triggers and you need healthy boundaries. Set goals for getting out and you need to protect your children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced.From experience, I know someone making around $475k a year and alimony is $5,800 a month. https://calculators.law/calculators/maintenance click on the state and it will give you a general ballpark what you might have to pay. As long as you never sign paperwork and get before a judge, you should be ok. I can't see you ever paying 10 to 11k a month in support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Discouraged after 18 months trying to get divorced.10 to 11k per month for alimony? How much do you make a year? Your Attorney should know how much she can get! Just prepare to pay her and set a court date! Your mental health is more important than a current girlfriend or some money you will lose. See if she will take a one-time buyout for the Alimony? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here done better than 50% on assets?Doing 50% sounds great to me! If she fought you, she could get 70 to 80 percent. If she has not worked for so long, then she will end up losing the money in the end. However, you will continue to grow and make money. Most of these gold diggers end up with nothing and consider the money going to providing for your kids. This is why it is so vital to get prenups and possibly become a passport bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/24 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Do I let her goThink about the kids, and not what will make her happy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/24 03:43 AM |
| 9 | She wants to separate but still live togetherWorking two jobs is going to kill you with all the stress. When you pay alimony and child support, it might be considered with two jobs. You can end up in the hospital trying to pay all that and survive. I suggest you Lawyer up and if you can pay your bills with one job, then do it! I would only keep one job and create an exit strategy for you and the kids. You want a minimum of 50% custody of the kids and need a family member to help you with watching them. Right now you need to play worse-case… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 12:20 PM |
| 5 | I hate my wifeThe questions he should be asking himself, "What happened to the first guy?" Too many men fall for the loving bombing and having great sex, thinking they will have love for a long time. You are completely right that she is a parasite. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 04:26 PM |
| 12 | I hate my wifeMost likely she is having sex with other men behind your back. I would get with a Lawyer and make a plan to get away. She is using you as a meal ticket and probably planned it way before you got married. Protect your kid and your assets, it will only get worse the longer you are married and she is entitled to more. She knows at one point you are about to snap or have a meltdown. That is when she will play the victim card and she has you. Break your co-dependency with her and start to deal with t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 04:20 PM |
| 15 | How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later?Simply, you are getting destroyed! My spouse made way more than me and tried everything to destroy me and leave me penny less. Lawyer up now and get your goals in line. She is going to attack you like crazy once she knows she has to pay. Don't be fooled by her being nice or offering stuff, she will probably even offer you sex to make you more mold-able to her goals. Very soon her claws will come out and you better be ready!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/24 12:15 PM |
| 3 | How much did you spend?You need to Lawyer up and protect what is going on. You can file for a legal separation to protect you current assets!!! Don't let her get more of your money and your future! Later you can file for divorce but in the meantime, file for Legal Separation. You wife is currently seeing if other men can move her up in life, she will end up losing more than just that. I suggest you don't wait, if she gets pregnant, you will have way more problems than you can possibly ever imagine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/24 11:26 AM |
| 8 | How much did you spend?OMG, That is terrible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/24 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Half a fucking million.You have cash flow and she doesn't! Your business will continue to grow and it is better to cut her a check now! Like you said you are crushing it! You don't want her to own the business and then you have to deal with her for the next 30+ years. She will eventually spend that 500k on stupid stuff and have to rely on getting a real job. Most women are career college professionals. Once hard work comes in, they tuck and run looking for a beta male to provide for them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/24 01:46 PM |
| 4 | Accepting ItDon't spend the rest of your time chasing her, you said you worked on yourself and tried to change. If she can't accept that? Then she belongs to the streets! You need to focus on yourself and your mental health! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I Can’t Stop Crying TodayYou need to call close family and friends to blow the steam off. Start exercising and control your thoughts to not focus on her. You will only destroy yourself and you need to be healthy. Also, it would be good to take supplements like magnesium, Ashwagandha to help you out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 03:30 PM |
| 11 | The idea of dating again disgusts me… 2 yrs post/divorceI would try to forgive and hang out with some females for basic friendship. Men get screwed all the time where most women can just jump onto another guy in no time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Just got the newsThis is no longer a marriage but a business transaction. Your ex got a taste of moving up in pay and a career. Chances are that she has been running around behind your back with other men. Now is the time to Lawyer up and protect yourself. She belongs to the streets and you need to focus on yourself. I hope you have no kids with her! The same thing happened to me and my relationship was pushing 30 years and my ex was started making half a million after I helped put her through school. Keep your … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Wife says she wants a divorce, and full custody of our 5 month oldDon't leave that house and fight for every part of custody of the kids. Chances are, she will use Therapy against you and don't say a word that would get you into trouble. Get a Lawyer today!!! Get all financial paperwork out and drain any account that you have. She might provoke you to fight but what every you do is not fight, just shrug your shoulders and walk away! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/24 04:08 AM |
| 2 | What were the main symptoms of your ex with BPD? I think my ex has BPD but I would like to know what it feels like with them/what they do and to be more sure about it.Document Document Document! Also keep any video evidence that you may have and hire a good attorney. These people look to destroy others anyway they can and stay really far from her and never contact. If she has no empathy and is fake nice, then she is most certainly a Narc. Watch some YouTube videos from "The Game Exposed" explained how these people are. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/24 07:21 PM |
| 9 | Its never enough.Treat this relationship as a business transaction! She clearly had it too good and she belongs to the streets. I say screw it and move on. My ex filed last October for divorce and my mental health for me and my kid could not be better. If a spouse does not love and treat you good, than what was the point? Just like you, I raised my kid doing everything while she elevated her career and was never around. Get Lawyer-ed up and fight for yourself. Most of these women will go and claim the husband wa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/24 12:52 AM |
| 7 | What were the main symptoms of your ex with BPD? I think my ex has BPD but I would like to know what it feels like with them/what they do and to be more sure about it.Self-harming behavior, Emotional Instability- Intense and rapidly changing emotions, often triggered by seemingly minor events, Unstable Relationship- Intense and unstable and devaluation of others, Impulsivity like reckless driving, Self-Harming Behavior: Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, threats, or self-harming actions. Chronic Feelings of Emptiness: Persistent feelings of emptiness or boredom, Intense Anger: Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger. At the end of the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | No sex drive after divorceI'm in the middle of my divorce right now and can't wait to be out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/24 03:02 AM |
| 2 | No sex drive after divorceMy Ex-Covert Narc wife would only have sex with me when she was in ovulation. I would test her fluid with my fingers to confirm she was ovulating. When we had sex, I would not ejaculate in her and only pretend. The reason being is that she did nothing with my child and abused the hell out of our child. Also, since we would only have sex once a month, I started to not get hard and it took a total toll on my mental health. I was not able to perform and felt used like a breeder. I told her we need … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/24 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Too fast or am I good?Stay away from having another relationship until the divorce is final. You just might screw yourself up more. Sure you get your confidence back, but you just might step into another relationship that might be worse. You need to heal and break on bonds with her. These women don't deserve good men in their lives and belong to the streets. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/24 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Red flagsExtreme control of money and use other's money. During the menstrual cycle, extreme random emotions of anger to playing victim. When asked why so angry, the answer was. "I don't know why I'm angry nobody did anything to me." After sex they have extremely random emotions for no good reason. Daddy issues, Dad abused and super-controlled the family. Always talking about self and talking down the road how others will benefit their dreams. Extended hours in the bathroom putting on makeup and taking p… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/24 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Shaking with anger after court hearing todayWhat did your Lawyer do? You need to fight that and have another hearing. Don't let yourself get extremely emotional, that will not be good for you and those kids. Buy some books on divorcing Narcs online or watch youtube videos on the subject. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/24 12:43 PM |
| 9 | Ex wife circles back 5 years later.She is trying to bring you back for money and to emotionally damage you. Sounds like a Narc to me who belongs to the streets. Focus on staying happy and your kids and not the past!!! You are not alone and plenty of women are tearing apart families to live the 304 lifestyle and they belong to the streets. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 01:05 PM |
| 1 | The Pain of Hearing Your ChildrenProtect those kids at all costs!!! Keep loving them to death, be really nice, and don't respond to your wife's attacks. I went through Hell for the last 7 years. My wife filed for divorce last year and I can finally breathe. I would say the both of you need therapy but that might make it worse for you. My spouse tried to use it against me in every way. Once you focus on your kids, lawyer up and take care of your health. Walk, Exercise or go out in nature with the kids. Find someone you trust tha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/24 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Getting a vasectomy in your 40s, why it might not make senseThank you for this information! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 09:52 PM |
| 10 | So what about sex?Stay away from sex with her, it is only going to screw with your head more. Focus on yourself and your future and stay busy. When women threaten separation or do it, the most important part is to cut your ties with them. They belong to the streets! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Well it's finalFocus on those kids and be the best dad possible. You will rebuild and move on, she will just look to use another man and the kids will see that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/24 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Trying to get over the financial loss and jealousyYou need to protect your mental health and also go see a therapist. Don't focus on that woman at all, it will only cause you more pain. Start making plans for the future, child support and alimony won't last forever. Rebuild your life and start living, each day you will get a little stronger and do better for yourself. You X will soon be looking for new supply and that is good for you. Keeping loving you kids and protect them, it will add to your fuel to move forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Wife going off the deep endWhat ever you do, is don't get into a fight with her. Text her, E-Mail saying what she is doing is wrong and take photos of everything. She is going to bate you into a fight and call the police and file charges on you. It is best to stay in the house until the attorney help gets the house sold. Don't have ANY EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT TO THE HOUSE OR HER!!!!! LET IT GO!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to survive this and most courts still empower crazy women who start problems and then play the victim. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/24 12:51 PM |
| 3 | 20 year+ marriage has become a prison cell. I can’t stay any longer, but I can’t seem to leave.You need to protect those kids from what is going on, and being open-minded with her is only making things worse. It sounds like she has a ton of mental illness and she needs to see a Doctor about that. It is only a matter of time before some guy convinces her to divorce you and take everything from you and turn the children against you. Seeing a Good Lawyer right now is strongly advised and you better be documenting everything and taking photos and videos of her having sex with other men. It wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Divorce has been final for months, I won, but I'm still not at peace.I'm in the process of ending my marriage. You need to forgive and not let your thoughts be on her or problems with it. Find a Therapist and talk to someone you can vent too. Men have almost nobody to help them and we are always told to suck it up and the poor old women's agenda is still being pushed. Take one day at a time, and take care of your kids. They need you at your best and not focusing on the past, you and your kids need to heal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Officially Divorced! BOOM!Freedom, that is what we all need. Glad to see you have it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Wife is financially and emotionally abusive. How do I get out?Her Parents have replace you as the Father. More than likely they are alienating your child and your wife. Parents probably agree with whatever crazy sh(t she says. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/24 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Wife is financially and emotionally abusive. How do I get out?It's what they do, beat you down emotionally just to get freedom and heal. Then they move to the next target and offer that Simp everything they never gave the husband. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/24 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Wife is financially and emotionally abusive. How do I get out?I'm in the same boat as you are but my wife filed for divorce. You need to be thinking about your child and doing what is in the best interest of them. If you are planning to get a divorce you need to hire an attorney and see what your state laws are. Whit you making close to what she makes, you will probably not get any alimony and you can look for calculators online for that. You also got to understand the court system is against the man. Try to get your wife Therapy and do your utmost to prot… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/24 02:55 AM |
| 6 | Remind me never to get married againMy wife makes way more money than me and it has been an absolute nightmare. They want you to pay on their earning level and expect you to carry the weight while they save all that extra cash. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/24 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Remind me never to get married againBe careful, she will try to get pregnant against your will. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/24 04:00 PM |
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