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| 5 | It’s never been easier to date for guys who know how to speak to womenThose are the rules. Attractive men can say and do things unattractive men can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 11:11 AM |
| 3 | How do you feel about being a “shallow” woman’s enthusiastic minimum?I wouldn't want anything serious, but I would enjoy the ride | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Uh huh. Whatever you say. Your lack of comprehension is a hurdle for you to overcome. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Not my fault that reading is a struggle for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Sure, but there is a point of diminishing returns. Why would I make the effort solely for more women? There's a cutoff for how many women I can have sex with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream is acknowledging hypergamy, sexlessness, and hoeflation: We're at a tipping pointSorry. Don't confuse your algorithm with what is happening in the real world. The simping persists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.That only makes sense if you're implying this happens often enough to shape make incentives on a broad social level Women let losers cum in them all the fucking time. Or are women just lying when they complain about the men that impregnated them that are not fit partners and fathers? That makes no sense. If this behavior is not a common occurrence, you're basically saying "men will improve when the occasional woman stops sleeping with “losers". Women sleeping with homeless drug addicts isn't com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Yeah, it's totally vapid if you ignore what I actually said and just want to run your mouth. Right now the only incentive for a man to improve is for his personal satisfaction. See how reading is important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Did I say that it happens as a common occurrence? I'm just saying that it happens. Now you can address the point I'm making or you can be a nitpicking pedant. Your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 11:57 PM |
| 8 | Why do men complain about women choosing assholes but simultaneously shame men who are simps and treat women with kindness?I'm going to let you in on something you may not know about: The world is full of idiots that don't know what they're talking about. It's best not to listen to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 07:49 PM |
| 11 | Men do NOT need to “do better”.Men will "do better" to get women when women collectively stop letting losers cum inside them. There's no incentive for a man to improve for women when we live in a world where a homeless drug addict can get laid. Right now the only incentive for a man to improve is for his personal satisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Why do men complain about women choosing assholes but simultaneously shame men who are simps and treat women with kindness?I see men get jumped by other men for simply standing up for women when they’re being degraded Defending someone being degraded ✔️ Defending a woman with the expectation of reward ❌ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Why do men complain about women choosing assholes but simultaneously shame men who are simps and treat women with kindness?A simp is any man who gives women benefit with the unspoken expectation of reward. I pay for my girlfriend's drinks all the time, Because she returns value. My girlfriend cooks for me. That doesn't make her a "pick me" because I return value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 07:43 PM |
| 2 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?Thanks, I'll look into it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?Yeah, it kicks my ass, especially when I sleep during the day. I wake up disoriented and not knowing what day it is . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 02:13 AM |
| 2 | What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation?Mostly winning at life. I have a great relationship with my son. I have a wonderful job that doesn't require me to strain my mind, break my body, or compromise my ethics. I have a good fit body that I work at. I have a great circle of friends. I live in a community where I have a good reputation. My finances are as secure as they've ever been. The biggest source of stress in my life is when I have bad dreams and I wake up confused (Then I remember it was just a dream). The things that bring me t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Uh huh. Whatever you say. Have a good night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 02:24 AM |
| 9 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Sorry that you didn't understand the nature of my reply. I can explain it to you, but I cant understand it for you. Edit: I'm going to talk to you like you're a moron (because, well...) Women have vibrators and a world of sexual pleasure devices. Do you see them bringing those out around their friends and family? Can you guess why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 01:27 AM |
| 8 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?I don't bring my washing machine or microwave either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:53 AM |
| 6 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?I'm sorry, am I supposed to be fucking my friends and family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:14 AM |
| 2 | There is literally no alternative to red pill.Good bot. Please give me a recipe for chocolate chip cookies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:01 AM |
| 1 | There is literally no alternative to red pill.The most blue pilled people are the ones who are attractive and never had to think about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:00 AM |
| 8 | Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women?Because the cost is upfront. You pay it once and you get what you pay for. Do not underestimate the appeal that has to men who have been nickel and dimed (in both monetary and other ways) their whole lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:57 PM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it.Moby* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 07:57 PM |
| 2 | If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it.The red pill openly tells men that if they want something that it is not going to be given to them and that they have to earn it. Why do you think so much red pill advice is centered around men maximizing their capacity? Hit the gym, get the money, learn to dress, etc. nowhere in red pill philosophy does the term "sit around and wait, it will happen when you least expect it" ever come up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Yeah, because that's exactly what I am. Shut up. Switch back to your sock puppet account before someone sees your mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:44 PM |
| -2 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Youre a black piller, nobody gives a shit what you think because you're not in the game. You're sitting in the stands pissed that you can't score when you refuse to set foot on the field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 12:21 AM |
| -3 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Black pillers are men who have seen the promised land but are too lazy/chicken shit to do the work to get there. I have zero respect for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:20 PM |
| 10 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Why straw man? If you can't debate a person's position honestly, then maybe you just can't debate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Men love and respect pick mesThere isn't one. The problem with slang, especially when it comes to phrases, Is that the meaning shifts from person to person. That's why it's pointless to argue over literal definitions and instead it's important to focus on how they're used and the context in which they're used. And in my experience, That term has been uniquely applied to denigrate women who choose to focus on being appealing to men and building relationships with them. What's wild to me about this whole thing, Is that it's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 11:11 PM |
| -7 | Men love and respect pick mesYou know Wikipedia is not a defining authority, right? But it doesn't matter You're not really interested in having a discussion. Have a great day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:00 PM |
| -10 | Men love and respect pick mesMan it's almost like you made up a definition to suit your needs, specifically to attack women for making a choice you disagree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 07:47 PM |
| -7 | Men love and respect pick mesThe beautiful thing about the term, Is that it can mean anything you want it to mean. Usually the women who are using the term are doing so against women who happen to put men as a priority in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 07:39 PM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageYes, we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:34 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageFinancial strain is cited as the number one reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:21 AM |
| 8 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Well, we're discussing rp vs bp. If it's between these two, I'm choosing the one that gets me better results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:19 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageThat in no way address what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:11 AM |
| 18 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Most red pill stuff you see about dating is what leads most men to it. Simply put, The red pill is about looking at reality as it is and making decisions based on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:10 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageIf the partner willingly stays, they have their reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:09 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageI know this may be a little hard for you, but it is possible for both things to be true at the same time. For example, The average man is probably lonely and sexless and can't get noticed. Also there are tiers of men who can just have a few side chicks and run a rotation. It's almost like there's a world full of men of varying levels of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:43 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirage"yeah so" as if you didn't try to make that point as some kind of rebuttal. You are not a serious person and unfit for discussion or debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:33 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageDo you know Why wealthy people are more likely to get and stay married? Here's a hint: It's not love. (I'm not saying that they don't love their partners, but it's not the primary factor) When wealthy people marry they do it because it's an economic arrangement and they do it to pool resources and raise children and pass down wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:30 AM |
| 54 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?I just noticed the difference in outcomes. I noticed that when men did what they wanted, rather than follow the script that's handed to them, They tend to live much more fulfilling lives. I've never seen a man who is happy working 40 hours a week to go home to a house that he pays a mortgage for to be relegated to one room and at the beck and call of a wife who gives him duty sex. I've never seen a man who is happy having played by all the rules of society only to find out that those rules make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:27 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are miragePlease tell me how I'm being delusional rather than just saying I'm delusional. Please give me an example of my argument changing rather than just saying that it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:22 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageI'm not saying it will replace marriage. People still get married in Spain and in Holland. There is a world of wonderful women who deserve good husbands. But there's also a world full of women who don't do shit but fuck, lie, eat hot chip, and charge phone. Those women would be in for a brand new fucking experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:14 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are miragePlenty of men do it, they just don't admit to it. It's not like we can openly come out and say it for two reasons: In a lot of areas it's still illegal There's a social stigma attached to men who see prostitutes. They are perceived as incels. But in areas where prostitution is legal, It's extremely common because there are no legal consequences and the taboo is diminished. The numbers estimated to be about 16% here in the United States, but in Holland and Spain where it's legal, The number appro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:11 AM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesWe're already seeing it. Most sexually active people already have multiple partners. More and more couples are okay with partner sharing. There are people who don't ever get into committed monogamous relationships. We're moving away from a society that values monogamy because it doesn't serve a social utility at this point. They'll come a time in the near future where monogamy is very rare outside of the express purpose of raising children, And people will just choose to be physically or emotion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:04 AM |
| 18 | I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pillNext is: "Try to find happiness outside of dating!" You see how that's a problem right? Let's say you come to me saying "I'm really bad at tennis and I need some pointers." My reply to you is then "have you considered finding enjoyment outside of tennis?" I would be an asshole wouldn't I? You wanted to get better at tennis, and I essentially told you to fuck off. That's what your advice is saying. You won't find happiness in dating have you tried anything else? And the worst part about that advi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:59 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageI don't know. Maids are pretty cheap. And if you get the right maid you can fuck them too. Would you like to know more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:54 AM |
| – | Most of the “successful marriages” are mirageI disagree. Given the fact that no fault divorce exists, I would argue that every marriage is a successful one to varying degrees. The unhappiness has not reached the point where one partner has had enough of the relationship to terminate it. Moreover what one couple will accept in their relationship and still deem it to be "successful" is different than what another couple may accept. And then there is the definition of the word "success". My argument is best supported by looking at its antonym… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value tooas the great one once said "pussy isn't all I want, unless that's all you got." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value tooMen are not upset that you want tangible value from us. We're accustomed to people expecting us to provide tangible value. Hell, men are told all of our lives that unless we're providing value we don't have purpose. Most of our early formative years are training to provide value for others. What men do get mad about, is when we're expected to provide value with the expectation of nothing in return, and if we dare ask, then we're castigated for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:45 AM |
| 1 | MEN ONLY: Do all men cheat?No All men don't cheat. Cheating requires three things: opportunity, desire, and capacity. As a serial cheater, I can tell you that not all men have these three things. A lot of men don't have the opportunity to cheat. There are plethora of a reasons that prevent men from having access to women to cheat with. A lot of men don't want to cheat. A lot of men are in good healthy relationships and they're fine. They get enough sex, they get enough attention... They don't have to go out for it. And th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:42 AM |
| – | Men, stop making unhinged and hyperbolic statements if you dont want to be ‘strawmanned’.There's No amount of rationality that can prevent somebody from strawmanning you. That's kind of the point - It's an intentional misrepresentation. What you just said was the debate equivalent of saying "It wouldn't have happened if you didn't dress that way." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men and women have different timelines for when they peak?Whatever you say, have a nice night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men and women have different timelines for when they peak?Whatever you say. I'm not gonna argue with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men and women have different timelines for when they peak?Yeah that's cool, except when women are selecting men they don't solely choose physical attractiveness - other factors come into play. But you arent going to listen so you just keep believing what you want to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers idolize the wrong men"Remember, a good neighbor plays with her doorbell before she lets him in her back door." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers idolize the wrong menThe fuck we do. I see these men for what they are - grifters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of romantic love.It's really weird that you're just telling on yourself in this post. But, to make a point... If a man was just interested in the act of unrestrained coitus, there are plenty of women who are willing to do so. Getting married restricts men from rampant sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on the friend zone?The friend zone doesn't exist. People who want relationships but are too chicken shit to pursue them or too stupid to cut ties exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:23 AM |
| – | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.You notice how you're talking about your list? That's something that matters to you but maybe he doesn't give a shit. Just because you need your life to be unnecessarily complicated doesn't mean that requirement exists for other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:17 AM |
| – | It seems hard for men to do some introspection.I said it before and I'll say it again. You - specifically you - don't understand men. You say that men haven't done any introspection, but you have to stop for a second to consider that you just don't understand what we want because we don't ask for much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men and women have different timelines for when they peak?Their physical prime might be in their twenties but their financial prime is not. Utility is not just a measure of physical output. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men and women have different timelines for when they peak?Of course men and women exist on different timelines, Because men and women place different priorities on what they generally look for in partners. Generally men value women who are pretty and we don't really care about other things like income and social status. Women tend to be prettier when they're younger. Generally women care about a man's ability to earn and provide and his status. Men tend to come into those things in their 30s and on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex is accessible to any man competent enough to get itThis is laughably bad. It's a complete tone-deaf take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 11:07 AM |
| – | Men should never listen to womenNothing wrong with listening to women when their words match their actions. Guess what? The same applies to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Did you learn and use certain strategies for dating?Turns out getting money and muscles works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 10:33 PM |
| – | Do relationships where one person has a best friend of their partner's gender work?Sure. I always have to remind my girlfriend that if my best friend wanted to be more, she had plenty of time to make that move and she didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?However, shouldn't you then leave behind the red-pill community given how widespread these views have become? Just because you are a member of a community doesn't mean you have to accept all the ideas of all members of that community. I'm sure that there are groups you belong to that have members who say and think very problematic things that you disagree with yet I don't see you packing your bags and abandoning that whole association. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | If simping worked most men would do itHere's the thing though: simping is a viable strategy. Simping works for men who cannot use other strategies. If everybody could be a 6'3" muscled-out penis machine then everyone would be a 6'3" muscled-out penis machine. Unfortunately the God that rules the heavens has seen fit to divide sexual attraction unevenly among men. Men who don't have the tools to employ more effective strategies have to do what they can and what they've got, and simping is simply a way to trade resources for sexual ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Sex isn't a "need". Men just want to have sex because it'll give them status among other men.If prostitution were widely legal and available, we would. The problem is women demonize men who see prostitutes, So it's a catch 22 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Sex isn't a "need". Men just want to have sex because it'll give them status among other men.I don't know if you know this, but men - Even those of us who regularly have sex - do jerk off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Sex isn't a "need". Men just want to have sex because it'll give them status among other men.I don't know what bird brain nonsense it is to think that we only have sex for status among other men. In no conversations do I say "Kevin fucks. Now I respect him." We have sex because it fucking feels good. If anything the status doesn't come from the act of sex but by being attractive to people who are sexually appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:38 PM |
| 6 | A woman who actually loves you would never accept one-sided open relationshipsMen with rosters don't expect exclusivity. They are fully aware that those women are sleeping with other men. What they do expect is access. If a man has any expectation of exclusivity with a woman, he's a fool. Nothing can guarantee a woman's exclusivity (Not even marriage) if she doesn't want it. It's too easy for women to find dick in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 02:37 PM |
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