FinancialAnybody7899 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think I hope you can find a little more happiness. Peace be with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:53 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think For my perspective, I choose fulfillment in every moment, as much as can be found. That's the pathway to outcome independence. Being a dad would be great. Being a travelling bachelor with experiences on every continent would also be great. I enjoy life, or I don't. Enough people are trapped in unhappy marriages, or are stressed and sacrificing everything for their children, for me to ever believe that is a pipeline to life fulfillment. Post partum depression is real. Male suicide rates remains t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:51 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Good luck, I know a lot of like-minded women. Birth is extremely intense. I often think if I were a cis woman I would probably also feel reluctant about it and be frightened of the idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:46 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think I think happy is not a permanent thing anyway. If I can sometimes feel happy then I'm doing okay. I do whenever I achieve a goal, change my hair, try new food. Life is worth living even if nobody wants you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:44 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think 32 years single and I think he's completely correct. Stop being pathetic. Women enjoy a number of privileges in dating because we are willing to act this way and defend the behaviour out of pride. You were rejected. I'm sorry. Do something about it, try to move past it. Stop acting like it's eating your cells inside out. You need to value your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:42 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think He's not saying you don't have valid feelings wanting for affection. He's saying if you let that make you miserable, nobody is going to want to fuck you anyway. He's saying that your life should be multifaceted, and failure here must not hold you back from success elsewhere. In my experience, many men decentre women from their lives naturally as they age. In their 30's, they seem to indulge their hobbies and enjoy life, where they can afford to. And every man I know that has experienced this has…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:38 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think Why are you comparing being a dude with lots of friends and an active social life, but remains single, to solitary confinement? Are you expecting a woman to bear the full burden of your entire emotional weight, fulfill all of your social needs to the point that you don't even need friends otherwise? I can see why they're not dating you. That sounds tiring. You don't need to be stoic here at all, go vent to your friends when you're having a bad day about lacking intimacy. If you have good friends…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:28 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think I'm happy single in the sense that every relationship with a woman has made me feel more miserable than being single does. Perhaps I'm not "happy" but I am "happier".	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:22 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think People call this position sad but it is reality. This idea of the inherent value of human life is ridiculous. It doesn't let us be honest about our feelings. Many of us are caring but none of us care about everyone. Nobody has ever made my life feel valued without my having been an agent. Nobody randomly appreciates me. That's life. I don't have an inherent value, I have a relative value. If I don't pay attention to people, the relationship will die. Something about that reality is unbearable to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:20 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think I can't speak for surrogacy, but I did investigate adoption as a single man and it is tremendously difficult. No, not impossible but I can certainly see why a man doesn't feel adequate to handle that by himself and feels a partner is entirely necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:09 PM
–	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think I've been single for 32 years. Just kill your feelings of loneliness. Sometime around 30 I finally realized that belly aching about all this is so pointless. People don't care and you just make yourself feel worse. Give yourself 10 minutes to cry in the am and then move on. Literally nobody is going to pity a lonely heart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:07 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws I'm rolling through this thread for the first time and replying to who I will. And I'm entirely not surprised that you tried to make this one about me lmao. People have no shame at all anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 04:52 PM
2	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Yeah, because the men have no fucking standards. Y'all do this to yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 04:07 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws These are facts Men should hold themselves to a higher standard. Do not go and bang an ugly chick for fake confidence. Do not left swipe as many women as possible. Do not fake interest and attention to get laid. I think men would benefit from all of those things, but I also think women would complain about how hard it is for them to live in a society where they do actually have to impress men (as they already do about men directly benefitting from patriarchy)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 04:06 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws why the fuck would a woman date someone stupid if she's smart Himbos are insanely popular. Lots of women straight up like dumb guys, they're easier to understand (and control) why the fuck would a career woman want to date a guy with no prospects So she can have a SAHD to take care of things while she focuses on her career, which is more lucrative than his and provides her with satisfaction why the fuck would a woman date someone whose values don't align with hers? This one is complicated, I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 04:01 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws They could stop bemoaning that and look at how badly a lot of men are treated by the dating scene and count their blessings. Independent men that don't need women have no reason to feel upset about this turn of events.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:53 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws People have different goals. If you're not interested in sleeping with as many women as possible and want to culture a real relationship, then some interpersonal skills are valuable and necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:52 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws No, they have 100's of fuck options, many of whom are unsatisfying, unenthusiastic, uninteresting, or outright dangerous. Women usually settle when they're dating, that is, actively pursuing a real relationship. They don't settle when they're going for casual and they're a lot more likely to comfortably share a man if they are casual (this will implode when one or more people want to take things further) Men crying about dating is sad because we still control the narrative on which women actuall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:49 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws No they won't lol, there's a reason being "feminine" means being polite, respectful, quiet, patient, and somewhat repressed. Men love to talk like they'd date a roughneck tomboy but roughneck tomboys still need to put on dresses and sit pretty if they want to be noticed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:45 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Most people haven't thought about it. I was alone for all my 20's and still am in my early 30's. I admit parts of my 20's were tough. I did have to learn to internally cope with loneliness and make my own happiness. But now I have built a great life for myself, on my own. And it was difficult, so I have zero desire to give the fruits of my work to someone who doesn't deserve it. Being single now, as a choice until/if exactly what I want comes along, is great. More men should live like this, but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:40 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Do you think men never talk about women exactly the way you and your friends talk about men? If you've dated one of his friends, then they probably know about it. Especially today's young men, who are likely to put their friendship with him before a dedicated relationship with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:36 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Honestly, men need to sort out their lack of capacity for loneliness and embrace this way of life, too. I'm sure, of course, that 10 years from now, when a lot of men have reconciled this and begun to enjoy their single lives that it will then be their fault that today's young women have nearly reached menopause and still haven't had a kid of their own. But I can't say I'll feel bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:33 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Why is she worth your efforts? There's nothing "evolutionary" at play here, men just refuse to deal with their feelings, so they can't bear loneliness. Learn to manage your emotions and dating becomes optional. It's not mandatory for any man, and anyone with a brain can see the social landscape has become hostile to young men, so much that in the USA, young men elected a fascist in response. Why on Earth would you complain about being rejected from a life of being taken for granted? Get real man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:28 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws If it was daily, you'd ignore it eventually. Like living under an aeroplane flight path. You "hate to say it" because there's basically no way to dodge the accusations of being a judgemental prick, this time. Judging someone for their laugh, when they're otherwise a great person, is shallow and pathetic and yeah, you do deserve loneliness for it lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 03:23 PM