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Yep cuddles are an example of "benefit" in the Briffault's law. No benefit should be given unless you have already received your benefits to your satisfaction. It basically never works the other way around, she will never give you your benefits if you gave her hers already. Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association. Compliments, quality time, dates, gifts, acts of service, affection, attention etc etc stop giving any of that unless you already got you…
/r/askMRP21/09/24 12:44 PM
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she complained about me being out all day doing my stuff and not spending time with her. My DEER impulse got the best of me at first ("but we went out for dinner 2 days ago!!") It helps if you rationally know what impulse you should replace it with, otherwise it's hard not to do the same old deering. Do not internally view it as her complaining but as her expressing her feelings. Then just reflect in your own words what you think she is feeling. You could say that it sounds like she has felt lon…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/24 09:04 AM
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If you are a guy struggling with dating, you should work out, make some money and after you turn 30, women 20yrs old and up will be knocking at your door wanting to be with you. This is as blue pill as it gets. The stuff that gets branded "red pill" here is ridiculous. Your age and money, and the type of physique which would be described as "works out" (as opposed to shredded, greek god or muscular AF etc) will cause precisely zero attraction (pussy tingles). The confusion is that these are good…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:59 AM
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In all my life, I've never encountered anyone who claims that an older woman dating a teenager is empowering The mainstream opinion is not actually defined as "whatever is abnabatchan's personal experience". In any mainstream media the young man old woman combo is painted in a positive light, while the opposite is painted in a negative light therefore it is the mainstream opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:52 AM
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I think both are ok. You are not aware of the mainstream opinion which is that the former is creepy while the latter is called empowered and/or cougar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:16 AM
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In order "to have it tougher" you need to have a victim mindset to begin with. You need to believe in some sense of "fairness" and "equity". However, at the end of the day being a victim and demanding "fairness" is just an everyday feminine manipulation technique to get what you want. It's feminine because it mostly only works for females in getting what they want. If you are a man, get good and then eat what you kill.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/24 09:36 AM
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What's wrong with that? 1 man is enough to keep 100+ women producing babies at maximum rate. There has to be something to differentiate him from the 99 others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:11 AM
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So many Redpillers encourage men to work diligently in their career or business and become very wealthy in order for attracting women Becoming wealthy to attract women is literally the blue pill. In reality money causes zero attraction in women, attraction meaning genuine desire to have sex for sex's sake and not because of an agenda. Hell, I’ve read the poor people have more children on average You think the amount of children a couple has is somehow correlated to the amount of sex and quality …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:39 AM
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Although there exists this sort of red pill movement and ideology (let's call it blue red pill), it's not actually meant to be. "Red pill" thought leader or influencer makes zero sense because then you are living in someone else's frame, you are a follower instead of a leader and that is very unattractive and thus cannot be actual red red pill. In other words, there is red pill vs blue pill even inside red pill. They missed the point of red red pill and became blue red pilled. Stuff like women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:43 AM
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Not initiating is because you are unattractive. If the water is not boiling it's not because evil spirits are cursing it but because it's not heated enough. Avoidant attachment is hamster for unattracted, anxious attachment is hamster for attracted with oneitis, secure attachment is hamster for attracted without oneitis.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 04:30 AM
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women mentally stop maturing at 16 Maybe because you say shit like this: how to play mind games and hurt women’s self esteem If you had matured past 16, you would take responsibility for falling for mind games and for your self esteem instead of blaming someone or something else for things that are 100% under your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:56 PM
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I am going to keep initiating and keep doing something else when turned down. This is just the worst advices in MRP. It puts her in impossible situation and creates bad kind of anxiety. It doesn't matter if you are butthurt or not, if you wanted to do something else you would have obviously just done that instead of trying to have sex. She will think you are butthurt (it does not matter if you are not) and get anxiety about not being able to freely say no without consequences which reduces sex d…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 12:23 PM
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I keep reading old posts and links on MRP trying to get myself to change the way I think and damn it is slow slow progress. It's not intellectually difficult or complicated. You are afraid of something and not facing the fear. It's like a light switch once you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 06:57 AM
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Now, I am not dumb: I know that if she were really attracted to me. Her feelings she thinks she feelz she she her her her Why are you then writing this crap here? Not only is it against the rules, there is no pressure and you are free to think about what you write as long as you want. Yet you still chose to write that crap. Think about how stupid that is. It's different to break under pressure in real time but you cannot keep it together even intellectually with all the time in the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 06:31 AM
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That's not because you didn't eat fat it's because you ate too much protein. You can go for a year without eating anything https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Angus_Barbieri%27s_fast
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/24 05:28 AM
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Where is game and seduction? What are you doing to improve your sex life? What are you doing to become more sexual man, one who isn't ashamed of his sexuality?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/24 08:20 AM
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Your best chance to get along with your wife is to get your autism diagnosed and then play the autist card when there is conflict
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/24 07:22 AM
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This isn't the typical slow betaization over the years, it was the starting the point. You were the practical option for her, not based on her attraction to you but your plow horse capacity. Point is that cheating has probably already happened and she will possibly never see you as the captain as she wanted a plow horse to begin with.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 05:09 AM
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I did pua 15+ years ago. All I can say from pua is that unless you yourself got success by being skinny fat homeless looking dork then don't trust what you think you see. I don't know what type of advice pua is these days but back then it was worse than blue pill, the "looks don't matter" ideology really fucked me up good.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 07:53 AM
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She is completely immersed in his frame, he could say anything and it would not make any difference. I personally just DEER that currently I am satisfied and there is no reason for me to cheat, I will let you know if there is any change. I love that I don't have to force myself to figure out some stupid AA response on the spot, because it's just about the frame and if she wasn't in my frame she would just press the issue no matter how funny the joke anyway. Conversely, if she had not even begun …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 07:11 AM
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You have red pill flair yet you have not read or internalized any red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:07 PM
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You want value from others, but you dont want to give value to others. Thats impossible equation and your comment is like being angry at gravity.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/24 05:08 PM
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When did it finally click for you? Were you even interacting with your wife when it happened? Did a particular mental model finally stick for you? There was a lot of priming and context but hearing it over and over in different ways that women are turned off by men who need anything from them. That I should have the mindset of a single dad and she is just some plate who can disappear at any time, the magic post for me was this. With the intellectual basis and narrative it's just a question of re…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/24 07:18 AM
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I will make commands for what I want her to do and when she doesn't want to, it seems like she is just more stubborn than me. i think that I have some unwritten agreement internally, based on my own previous lack of sex, that I will not deny sex to her when she's asking for it. As of my last post I was thinking that eventually I'd need to consider being more stubborn ("you will only get sex from me under these conditions") BUT because of the feedback that I got, I've tried to be more passive and…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 10:54 AM
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poor copy of what I could be getting on the open market You can't get the validation from your wife on the open market. Every time I mention sex or wanting sex, or initiate, I am shit tested with ‘I wish you wouldn’t say that, I was just about to…’ or some other comment about ‘I did want to have sex with you, but now it doesn’t feel like a choice, so blah blah blah.’ She is simply cutting out the middle man for you. When you so obviously want sex only for validation and not for the sex itself, w…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 09:36 AM
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Stop giving a shit if she has PMS or where she is in the cycle. It's like 99% self-fulfilling prophecy and enabling. Just believe with conviction that the cycle doesn't even exist and it won't exist. Maybe her horniness and bitchiness is 1% affected by it, 99% of it is your fault for behaving differently depending where you perceive her cycle to be.
/r/askMRP21/08/24 11:54 AM
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Have you told her that you don't like it? Why are you passively waiting for her to stop undesirable behavior?
/r/askMRP15/08/24 10:17 AM
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No, frame really is the most important thing. You feel the need to control her thus you are in the female frame. It is the female frame that strives for ultimate security at the cost of pretty much everything else. There is no genuine trust, respect or desire - they are replaced with control, manipulation and obligation. One way or another you have allowed yourself to become dependent on her thus it becomes impossible to have the power. It is obvious from your OP that you have at least psycholog…
/r/askMRP26/06/24 06:30 AM
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You are projecting because it is precisely the advice you give that is about breaking the woman to have duty sex with you. You advice men to simply have "the talk", where you dress in pretty language essentially the statement "either we have more sex or we break up". It doesn't matter how much you dress and sugarcoat it, she isn't retarded. If this is "successful" it will result in resentful duty sex from her, and she will do everything to try to hide the fact from you because you are an asshole…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/24 07:56 AM
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Does the legality actually matter at all? Depending on context it can be very moral, let me explain as it is not obvious. It didn't use to be this way, but the wife has a right to say no to sex. I don't mean a specific instance of sex, but in general she has the right not to engage or develop her sexual side at all. Sounds good right? Why it didn't use to be this way always? Because it actually implies "cheating" must be allowed. Because that is the other side of the coin: he must have the right…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/24 07:54 AM
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