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| 1 | Why are we glorifying doing normal adult thingsThis reaction is why those women you call losers are better than you. I'm guessing you have a tight forehead, maybe receeding hairline. Probably high T, low progesterone, subclinical or clinical PCOS, shriveled ovaries, etc. Projecting your female desires / values into the minds of men, then crying about men not caring about your "career". The female counterpart to the NiceGuy. I've seen women electrical "engineers" who couldn't even use Ohm's law. You're just doing a man's job, badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Why are we glorifying doing normal adult thingsEverybody knows deep down housework is easy and unimportant work compared to a regular career lmao. Compared to what? Being a HR or social media manager? Pushing papers and reports no one reads? Bothering people who are trying to get actual work done with trivial nonsense? A woman who can juggle both work/school and domestic duties is more valuable than a loser who just cooks and scrubs the floor. Keep telling yourself that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:16 AM |
| 2 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipWhere do you actually find the data from? I went to the link and didn't find anything except a search bar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 12:01 AM |
| 7 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipThe approach thing doesn't really work. You can definately go ahead and try. A small number of women will be open and adventurous enough to meet someone that way. I've approached a number of times, not in the 100s like a comment here but also more than a couple of times. I think the comment here talking about social circle had the right idea. That is probably the best and most natural way to meet girls. Approaching works great if you are handsome/suave, the less handsome you are the more likely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:58 AM |
| 6 | Did having a sibling of the oppostie gender make you more sympathetic of the struggles of the other gender?Growing up with my older sister made me feel like I had to walk on eggshells around women. She had a vitriolic hatred toward men that she gained from reading feminist blogs. I can't remember her being kind or nice to me growing up. She would kind of burst out in anger at me for no reason sometimes. I don't think she in particular made me think women have it easier dating, although I did notice that she was able to get long term relationships no matter how unnattractive and overweight she became.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:23 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.A man lacking experience can always choose to date the socially awkward girl next door rather than the hot popular girl or the bad girl. Wow you are out of touch. You really don't have a clue. No offense, it is just that I am amazed by how little you understand dating for men. The reality is the "man lacking experience" (if he shows it) won't have the chance to date at all. Attractiveness helps here, but I'm assuming average. In all likelihood, he will be shunned as a wierdo or a freak. Also, be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 01:43 AM |
| 5 | School committee attempts to disqualify a man for a female candidate. She turns out to be a bigot. Hilarity ensues.Unfortunately, I don't think there is more context. This is the level of derangement we're talking about here. Also the other candidate was fired for a post where she said she was against trans girls competing against biological girls. Pretty far from a random anti-trans tirade or something. Lots of idiocy going around there. Everyone who works in that committee should probably be fired. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/04/23 05:20 AM |
| 10 | Intelligence and attractivenessNot wierd at all. Autistic people are very bad at social skills in general and clasically lack the ability to understand the motivations of others. Sociopath and bipolar people would be able to understand people well enough to manipulate them (to varying degrees of sophistication) and be unhibited enough to make moves. It's not inherently about erratic/asshole behavior or anything to do with general intelligence, autistic people don't try or can't try so they fail by default. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?Those variables are all negligible, libido is overwhelmingly biological. Biology is downstream from all these. I think you meant to say genetics, not biology. It's a dumb way to think about it. Libido is complex with multiple orthogonal necessary but insufficient conditions. Dopamine is required for the signalling that triggers and maintains the male erection. Far from being negligible libido is impossible without dopamine signalling. DHT is produced from testosterone and is generally speaking a… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?like the overwhelming majority of women today despise the ideology of Feminism because they hate how Feminists seek to hurt their male reatives and friends and only seem to "care" about women Is that true? I have only seen one or two women in my entire life speak out against feminism. A lot of women publically self identify as feminists. I'm sure many are neutral too. "Men are way hornier than women. Men can't say no to sex, can't say no to a woman. Sex is all they think about, you can't rape th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/23 04:47 AM |
| 6 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?Those results have a lot of confounding variables that could influence them. Environment, lifestyle, and exposure to certain compounds being some of them. The effect of testosterone decreasing with age statistically non-existent in most rural communities, it is mainly visible in city and metropolitan environments. Libido is also a lot more involved than just ones testosterone levels. Dopamine and DHT play huge roles as well. In fact I'd say dopamine and DHT together play a larger role when it co… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/23 04:07 AM |
| 13 | Why do feminists get so hostile and defensive whenever you suggest men are way hornier than women?I don't think that is the reason. There are a few reasons why they try to claim that women have the same libido as men. One is that it is part of their larger narrative that men and women are the same. Modern feminism, whether they realized it or not, wants to engineer society to be feminized. If men and women are different (and boys and girls are different) you have less justification for this tacit agenda. This part of the reason for the attacks on gender and its cheapening as a category in it… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/23 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been attacked by feminists for suggesting that women comedians aren’t funny, or for even alluding to the fact that there are some things men simply do better than women?I think women can be funny, but moreso in acting or character roles than stand-up. When I say acting or characters, I'm not including improv. Improv is never funny. When you think of the top male stand ups, they have very distinct style, delivery, and material: Dave Chappelle, Bill Burr, Louis CK, etc. They are very individuated. I think even good female standups tend to be less individuated and unique in what they're doing. Some of them are funny, but they just don't have "their own voice". The… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/23 03:07 AM |
| 6 | Does it drive you nuts how feminism has created these horrific dating conditions where women are insanely picky and entitled and flake over absolutely nothing, yet also forbids us from venting about it anywhere?You should stop focusing so much on girls. Don't stop dating, but have a bigger and more enjoyable goal to focus on - ideally something relevant to the world. There are more important things in life than girls. Part of the reason dating is so screwed is because we've made it too important and put too much undeserved attention on women. A lot of women deduce from the deluge of attention that they are worth more than they actually are, which is why they develop unrealistic and impossible expectati… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/23 07:40 AM |
| 1 | GENDER IS CONNECTED TO SEXGender and sexuality used to be synonyms for the same thing in the context of human biology and sociology. The idea that gender is related to self-identity is an attempt at creating a newspeak to control thought. All social constructs are downstream from biology becuase all human behavior is downstream from biology. IMO even the social construct change happening now is due to (pathological) biological changes in people. Just look at the difference in the environment and lifestyle of the average … | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/23 11:33 PM |
| 2 | GENDER IS CONNECTED TO SEXIt's like we can't say humans have two arms and legs becuase one armed people exist. Americans have this wierd hang up about sexuality and gender. They seem to put it in a privleged position and constantly overstate its importance, yet can't talk openly or logically about it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/23 11:18 PM |
| 2 | A feminist when they aren’t hiding under their moral mask shows their true intentionsThe idea that women suffered more than men is a feminist myth. Women suffered less than men in absolute terms. They had less freedom but more safety and survivability. Biological causes of female suffering like childbirth were primarily mitigated through male inventiveness. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/23 11:06 PM |
| 2 | A feminist when they aren’t hiding under their moral mask shows their true intentionsRevenge for what? How many women died in wars, in mines, in factories, laying train tracks? Men were breaking their backs while women were at home in comfort. Society has always benefitted the majority of women and the minority of men, it has always been that way. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/23 11:03 PM |
| 7 | Why are the phrases “you aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” and “women don’t owe you sex” the default responses when men complain about how hard dating is?The guy talked about difficulty dating, not difficulty "getting sex". | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/01/23 09:18 AM |
| 6 | Have you noticed even chicks well into their late 30s and 40s think they can afford to be picky?I don't think most of these women are delusional about their SMV. I think most of the women know they are not attractive and try to cover it up with overconfidence. It's this autism of not understanding the opposite sex. They think acting like a caricature of an attractive guy (personality wise) will maximize their chances when in reality it makes them more repulsive. These women think men are attracted to the same personality factors than women are. In reality doing the opposite, being more gen… | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/01/23 05:13 AM |
| 2 | (Delete if not allowed) Apparently, traditional gender role models are "bad" & the comments are calling the mom & dad a piece of (you know what) for raising the kids with traditional values. Feel free to share your thoughts in the commentsWhy can't women look at what they put their bare ass on? | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/01/23 07:23 AM |
| 7 | Can we support and give love and respect to OP please? He deserve to be better personTheir is a hive mind that tells men they need to "open up", connect more with other people, be more emotional, etc. When it comes to actual solutions, feminists attack them. Feminists attack and slander male support groups. Most women I've talked to don't support male support groups. In theory they do but not in practice. I'm not talking about political groups here. I'm talking about clearly apolitical groups for men to get together to grow, share problems, share triumphs, etc. When feminists te… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/01/23 10:32 PM |
| 3 | she's literally hotter thoThe fact that men even pay attention to retarded bullshit like this is part of the problem. Just ignore the attention seeking psychos. That's what we used to do. They don't deserve our attention. They don't deserve to be taken seriously. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/01/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Biggest feminist delusion held as/like gospelIf I pay for a safari I expect to see a lion, not a house cat. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 04:05 AM |
| 0 | Biggest feminist delusion held as/like gospelYou seem to misunderstand. I don't think society should subsidize sports for people that suck at them. The reason doesn't matter. Talking about how women are physically disadvantaged is irrelevant. Most men don't have the genes or talent to be pro athletes either. There are no separate pro sports leagues for men that suck at sports. We don't pay men who suck at sports but are "trying hard" to LARP at being pros. Real pro sports (ie male sports) exist because people want to see it. Women's sports… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Biggest feminist delusion held as/like gospelSocietal differences are downstream from biology. It's all biological. Most feminists have screwed up hormones, PCOS, obesity, etc. Their deranged hatred of men is greatly exacerbated by physical and mental illness. A healthy woman can see feminist propaganda while maintaining a sense of critical thinking that protects her from demonizing 50% of humans based on lies. A healthy woman has the ability to question what she is told. The fact is a huge chunk of people these days are physically unhealt… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Biggest feminist delusion held as/like gospelI'm not bitter about it but I find it hard to care. Most women in sports are irrelevant. The market does not want to pay for these things. The best women athletes are terrible compared to below average pro male athletes. Subsidizing women sports is subsidizing failure. It's throwing money into the abyss for no reason other than to let some delusional women LARP that they are pros. We have to act like the adult women who LARP like this are real adults, when they act like spoiled children with the… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminists constantly try to conflate red pillers/incels, and suggest that they consist of one group entirely made up of bitter unattractive men when in reality most red pillers are good looking?FDS themselves said they are doing a female version of redpill. That isn't what they are, but that is what they think they are doing. That is why I said supposed "female redpill". I don't think FDS is just radical feminism. "Bitter femcels" is closer to the mark. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/01/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminists constantly try to conflate red pillers/incels, and suggest that they consist of one group entirely made up of bitter unattractive men when in reality most red pillers are good looking?FDS is the supposed "female redpill". They are all bitter unsuccessful unattractive loser women. No man would want to be in the same room with these pigs. They've utterly failed at their stated goal of locking down a high value man. A real "female redpill" would teach women to be attractive to a high value man. Not go on about how "high value" you are and expect something to fall into your lap just because you feel entitled to it. The other thing FDS failed at is clearly defining their goal. The… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/01/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminists constantly try to conflate red pillers/incels, and suggest that they consist of one group entirely made up of bitter unattractive men when in reality most red pillers are good looking?The problem is all these groups torture data and statistics to affirm their beliefs. With feminists it's more egregious because their "data" are bad methodology surveys rather than good science. You can even use good science to portray a warped, limited viewpoint though. I give more credit to redpill because even though they do have a warped limited viewpoint they give a lot of men hope. It's not all about blaming the world like feminists/incels, it's mostly about self improvement and self respo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/01/23 03:47 AM |
| 9 | The Pain Gap: Why Women’s Pain Is UndertreatedI remember reading the abdominal pain study. It turns out that men were more likely to receive pain medication when asked. However it was also the case that more of the men sampled were going through an objectively diagnosed condition. They weren't just asking for meds, a doctor actually tested them for something and they were diagnosed. The top three reasons IIRC men were asking for drugs were for objectively diagnosed conditions. Not just "I'm in pain and need drugs". By contrast the largest g… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/01/23 04:06 AM |
| 6 | "I don't care about seeing good things about andrew tate, I only care about attacking him and accusing him of being a rapist"Fembeasts are mad tate wouldn't smash | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/01/23 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Hmm..When you make prostitution illegal, the prostitutes don't go away. They just get more expensive | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/01/23 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Hmm..Brown girls in the west are some of the worst | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/01/23 01:52 AM |
| 9 | For someone who don't give a shit,you do seem to have some strong opinions about us..Or fatfems. Some miserable bastard will drunkenly pork her, but no ones sticking around | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/01/23 01:40 AM |
| 16 | What do you guys think feminism is?What if there were a group of Masculinists who said they wanted equality of all people, but only put actual money and effort towards what men wanted at the expense of all other groups? Feminism is female chauvinism. That is what it is today and what it always has been. It was never about equality, it was about pushing for womens' interests at the expense of girls, boys, and men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/01/23 12:32 PM |
| 6 | why?????This sub claim to be against "rascism" with a sub directing hatred towards all men: white men, brown men, black men, etc. Meanwhile the Red Pill is quarantined because they told men to go to the gym and improve themselves. Fuck reddit. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/01/23 09:41 AM |
| 8 | Ladies and gents, it takes the most easy to detect type of sarcasms and jokes to trigger these poor clowns. Be my questThe abuse of the term gas lighting to refer to basically everything really annoys me | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/12/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | found this on terriblefacebookmemes and the comments are a little disappointingwdym fake image, the original was an illustration and this is a modification of that illustration There are two women in the picture, it isn't anti-women it's anti the promotion of a certain kind of lifestyle. Women shit on men acting like teenagers into their 30s and 40s, but it's not a "grudge against men" when they do it. It's crazy how we need to have entire industries dedicated to patting women on the back for their life decisions. People that are secure don't get all butthurt and sensitive… | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/12/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | found this on terriblefacebookmemes and the comments are a little disappointingWhy are you so butthurt? I never said everyone should have kids, I said the opposite. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/12/22 11:27 PM |
| 0 | found this on terriblefacebookmemes and the comments are a little disappointingI would not want the one on the right to have kids. If feminism weeded that person out of passing on their misandry, entitlement, immaturity, and laziness to their kids then feminism has done one good thing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/12/22 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Why do women have a greater chance of getting custody?By right and wrong I don't really mean in the moral sense. I should have phrased that differently, it's just more about functioning in the world and how you carry yourself. I do think in that sense even girls tend to look more to dad. Not always, not always. You're right this is more generally applicable to boys. But girls have important things to learn from their dads too. Society basically acts like dads are unnecessary these days. I think there is this dad-daughter trope in movies that is bec… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/12/22 10:59 PM |
| 9 | Why do women have a greater chance of getting custody?You'd probably want to control something like this based on parent criminality. I imagine more of the single fathers are widowers, not divorced or parents out of wedlock. Mothers get partial or full custody even if they are terrible in this country's divorce courts. Still I've never understood why it's a forgone conclusion that the mother virtually always gets custody. Beyond the age of 8-10 having a mom around isn't really crucial for development. I'd argue if we are talking about strict necess… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/12/22 08:11 PM |
| -1 | Question from a feministI think the real solution to this problem is for marriage to be less common. So many women these days are too immature for it, they want to get married but they don't want to be wives. The fact that so many women choose to get divorced proves they were unworthy of it in the first place, but they broke down their simp husbands to eventually say yes. Women need to really understand this: marriage is for the kids, it isn't for you. Feminism is about putting the fickle desires of women above everyth… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/22 09:28 PM |
| 63 | I always found this funny and stupidIf her "services" are so valuable, I'm sure she can get a job. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/22 08:56 PM |
| 3 | warped dating philosophyI somewhat agree with this. I don't believe in astrology, but it is as absurd to believe in astrology as it is to believe some guy 2k years ago "died for your sins" or some other nonsense people regularly believe in that is accepted in mainstream society. If someone makes a big show about not believing in something instead of just letting people have their fun, then they will probably be annoying to deal with generally speaking. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/12/22 04:56 AM |
| 3 | I'll Never Forgive "Men" Who Support FeminismA lot of Indian women have excessive testosterone levels. They are hairy, hypermasculine, and aggressive. The hormonal dysregulation is largely caused by vegetarianism. Vegetarians tend to have sex hormones that are contradictory to birth gender. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 03:06 AM |
| 3 | I'll Never Forgive "Men" Who Support FeminismAfghanistan is poor with constant warfare and strife for decades. Hard to compare Afghanistan to Denmark and have it be a fair comparison. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 02:58 AM |
| 3 | I really don’t understand this sub.There are plenty of great real life "safe spaces" and support groups. People who whine on the internet just want attention. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | I really don’t understand this sub.This is a manipulative way to argue a point. I also don't want my son to have low self-esteem because the society we live in shits on men constantly. I don't want my brother or father to commit suicide becuase it is acceptable to tar all men for what a few men do. See how no one every brings up sons, brothers, or fathers in such manipulative hypothetical scenarios. What a few men do don't "drag the whole gender down", those men are responsible for their own actions. If all men are responsible fo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 02:53 AM |
| 2 | I really don’t understand this sub.So if you were somebody who had never had sex and were utterly desperate for it, and the most unattractive woman to ever exist messaged you wanting to have sex with you, you would have sex with her without a second thought? No of course not, because you have preferences, and if you say yes you're lying to save face. Lots of men would do that, and even go further to have a relationship with them. I've seen tons of unnattractive, overweight, hairy, masculine women with average looking guys. Women … | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | it seems like we are rapists by default until proven otherwise. sad.My bad. Yeah giving a friend details on where you're going and the plate/make/model of car is a good thing to do. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/12/22 07:44 AM |
| 10 | it seems like we are rapists by default until proven otherwise. sad.Because a man giving her his phone isn't going to make her any safer. It puts good men under suspicion for being rapists while giving women a false sense of security doing things they know to be risky. A predator would either not do it (he is driving and she is a passenger in a moving car with him, what can she do?) or find some way to circumvent it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/12/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | BruhI thought that was a man with long hair | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/12/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | ummm how about just being a good wife?A lot of what such women consider "strength" is just being an arrogant, anti-social, emotionally hypersensitive prick. Being mentally strong means not giving into hatred, being clear headed, remaining positive despite adversity, and not making excuses when you fail. In other words the opposite of the way "strong" women" act. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/12/22 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Casual bitch talking casual shitThat's the move | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/12/22 02:47 AM |
| 16 | ummm how about just being a good wife?This is just a bad joke. It's wierd how many women think being annoying and bitchy is cute though. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/12/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Again another one I’ve foundCheated on him because she liked to make him upset. Got an abortion and "felt nothing much". Only told the dad for her own gratification, which she then used to hurt him. She isn't crazy, she is a legit psychopath. The suffering of others gets her off. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/12/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Feminist gfIt is disturbing to realize what people will make up to get attention / sympathy. this includes "unreported" cases bc the DOJ reports are not based on FBI numbers but interviews with people It's even worse than that. The RAINN "studies" authored and frequently cited by millitant feminists were based on telephone surveys of specific cities. The methodological flaws of extrapolating these surveys to the entirety of the USA are something you learn in Stats 101. The later studies were online and wer… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/12/22 06:38 AM |
| 9 | Sexy boobs are a social construct- FeministTell that to the sex steroid hormones involved in breast development and the sex steriod receptors all over breast tissue. Even going beyond the plain wrongness of this person's statement, I'm sick of this kind of autistic reductionism. They really think them breaking down everything to the most nihilistic stance possible is them being clever. Life is meant to be felt and lived, not autistically broken down and criticized. They act like being a wierd humanoid robot is some kind of ideal when it … | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/11/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | LolIt's worse than FDS. At least FDS was funny. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/11/22 12:39 AM |
| 3 | LolWhat gets to me is they think their manipulation of society translates to them changing reality itself. You can force people to call it a want, or whatever you want them to call it in public due to shaming, etc. This is all just arguing the semantics of what constitutes a need. No amount of talking changes the reality that sex is a biological imperative for men. You can't have a sexual relationship without sex and sexuality. The males of species will forgo "needs" like food and often times their… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/11/22 12:35 AM |
| 3 | some people have very low IQ 😶It is more acceptable to ask about weight. Body composition is in your control, height isn't. A woman going on about how she wouldn't date a shorter man is like a woman going on about how she wouldn't date a black man. You can have preferences but keep that shit to yourself, don't be a cunt about it. We just have to start asking about her weight and cup size like they do height to get rid of the ridiculous stigma. Dehumanizing men in such a blatant and hateful way isn't socially acceptable. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/22 05:06 AM |
| 3 | some people have very low IQ 😶Lard ass energy | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | some people have very low IQ 😶In todays world we have to constantly say the obvious. You have no control over your height and it has no impact on your health (well except being very tall actually decreases longevity). Height is just a function of genetics and how much nutrition you got during before and during puberty (in addition to environmental toxin exposure according to bangladeshi epi data), it has nothing to do with who you are as a person. Any woman that is heightist is being prejudicial and vaguely rascist. Heightis… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/22 04:58 AM |
| 10 | Indian Feminists Are The Absolute WorstIndia is just like America. Feminists launched agitprop about how patriarchal oppression is everywhere and used histrionic justifications to radicalize women. Indian feminists are psychotic. It's not the cartoonish misandry of American Feminism, it's this really deep searing hatred of men. Modern India is one of the most matriarchal countries on earth, It's nauseating. At least pull yourself out from being a third world country first. Someone has to actually build the country, wait for the men t… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/11/22 11:53 AM |
| 2 | How boys & girls are raised differentlybecause if they did make a guy mad, it could end badly for them Except, how often does this happen in the real world in 2022? Today if you look at a woman wrong, you will face consequences. If you say the wrong thing around them, you will face consequences. Many women use this "threat of being physically hurt" by men to manipulate men. If they were truly scared of men they would walk on eggshells to avoid setting them off. How often do you see women acting like that? I never see it. Hell if they… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/10/22 03:04 AM |
| 19 | Being called "a blatantly misogynistic antifeminist man" for suggesting potential motivations for risky sex behavior in teen girls are "money" and "attentionIt's funny how so many women assume they understand all other women totally regardless of background, age, life experience, race, ethnicity, etc. It's such a wierd thing to assume all women are a monolith and that you know them all just because you share one thing in common with them. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/10/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Decided to do a little bit of a social experiment on Youtube, results were disappointing but not surprising considering this is the society we live in todayNot being fat is a very low standard. Some would say it's the bare minimum, in most of the world anyway - not America with some of the fattest women in the first world (look at the stats). Being fat is actually something in your control. Having curly hair isn't That said this post is stupid as hell. What a petty waste of time. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/08/22 05:45 PM |
| 3 | India is not just a country of online-scams. These things happen very often. Failed state. Rotten to the core system-of-law.You sound deranged. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/08/22 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Just got banned from MensRights because I mentioned I’m Christian lolI think whether or not you like religion, a lot of modern behaviors are compensating for a lack of religion, spirituality, or mysticism. Not that I am saying these three things are the same, but they all include a transcendent quality that some people need but is not fulfilled by the default modern life whose only aim seems to be survival and pleasure seeking. I think the growth of mass emotional investment in apparently trivial entertainment products like TV shows, video games, and superhero mo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 09:38 AM |
| 5 | The family and divorce laws in India are the worst. 🔻Men have least chance to win any case. Men will end up paying alimony and maintenance even if the wife is abled and educated. 🔻It is now called "Alimony Industry". 98% of cases are fake.All the judges in India are old with hormonal issues, Blood Pressure, Sugar and what not. lmao | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Note that the heels are 1 inch or less, so it isn't really painful at all and honestly it's your choice to become a flight attendant or not. It's company policy and it's to make the flight attendants look more formal and professional, if you don't like it, then quit your job.I'm for firing them all and replacing them with men if we're talking about who would be more useful in an emergency. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Note that the heels are 1 inch or less, so it isn't really painful at all and honestly it's your choice to become a flight attendant or not. It's company policy and it's to make the flight attendants look more formal and professional, if you don't like it, then quit your job.Company implements conservative, traditional policy: cries of sexism Company implements radical leftist progressivist policy: "they are a private company and can do what they want!" Idgaf, no one is forcing these women to work for these airlines. If you don't like the policy, hit the bricks. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 5 | Of course, it's all men's fault. Read this for a laugh.https://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes-detailed.htm HSV-2 infection is more common among women than among men; the percentages of those infected during 2015-2016 were 15.9% versus 8.2% respectively, among 14 to 49 year olds | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/07/22 12:54 AM |
| 0 | What did i just see. They have the nerve to call mra and antifems women haters and incels and then go to not only hate men, but have fantasies of luring them to there death. Naw this shits gotta be some sorta joke right?this post is autistic | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/07/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: OnlyFans is horrible, and not for religious reasons.Is it bad if someone tries to take advance of these lonely men? Yes. It is bad to take advantage of lonely people. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/07/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: OnlyFans is horrible, and not for religious reasons.You can buy everything except drugs and sex. In other words the things that would actually satisfy you directly instead of dangle a carrot in front of your face endlessly like OF, porn, or escapism like videogames. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/07/22 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Difference between male and female patientsIf a woman says she gives up, they kill themselves to kiss her rear. I think a lot of time they also try to force things on women for the wrong reasons without caring for their long term health. I think when it comes to healthcare, if there is a disparity, it is not because they care more about women but because of money. It may be easier to sell women medical products / procedures and get them on treatments compared to men. For example forcing hormonal BC (not for birth control but for hormonal… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/07/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Difference between male and female patientsI think this guy extrapolated from a few personal experiences, IDK. The healthcare system is just deeply screwed. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/07/22 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Difference between male and female patientsI think the study conclusion is flawed because not enough confounding variables were addressed. The biggest reason women were admitted (by magnitude): Gastrointestinal disease (25%), Abdominal pain (19%), Gynecologic disease (19%) Top three reasons men were admitted (by magnitude): Gastrointestinal disease (34%), Urinary disease (20%), Liver/biliary/pancreatic disease (14%) All of these are objectively verifiable except for Abdominal pain, which made up a sizeable percentage of women presenting.… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Doesn't need any titleI don't think so. Her poem is deliberately inflammatory and misguided. The problem here is sex selective abortions, having more sex selective abortions by killing male fetuses isn't the answer. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't need any titleIt's reverse caste-ism. India has quotas for lower caste people for various things. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 04:58 PM |
| 5 | I am not anti abortion but damn, the fact that this kind of talk is celebrated is beyond crazy. "Abortion is sexy"?I'm ok with it as long as abortion comes with required sterilization. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 12 | Difference between male and female patientsI don't know if this is true. The medical system screws everyone over from what I've seen. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Woman shares her list of "red flags" in men, not realizing her list itself is one giant red flag. This is goldI'm gonna make sure I do all of these extra hard now | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 11 | FeminismMeh, it was always like this. Back then feminists couldn't be as blatantly hateful as they are today, that is the only difference. Once they have pushed enough of their agenda through, they can then be open about their prejudicial hatred toward men. Feminism is and always was about hatred towards men and female chauvinism, not love for women. All feminism needs to be eradicated, and the world would be better without it. I don't care what they say to get people in the door, I care about how they … | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Grass isn’t green on the other side too. Asian KarenWhat does this have to do with feminism? This is just an insane woman, most people would agree she was wrong. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/07/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | I watched a Starship Troopers video and found a phrase that makes me wonder about Feminists and similar groups.I mean... you don't really have a choice. If they don't want to negotiate or settle for peace and just want to kill your entire species, you have no other option than war if you want to survive. Don't forget the bugs killed millions of people in Buenos Aires unprovoked at the start of the story. In the original book I don't think it had to be millitary service. Heinlein's idea was the ability to be a citizen was offered to everyone, the only real way to not be qualified was if you didn't underst… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I watched a Starship Troopers video and found a phrase that makes me wonder about Feminists and similar groups.Off topic but Starship Troopers never represented a fascist society. Paul Verhoeven never read Heinlein's book and didn't understand it. The movie started with wierd chronology, but basically the bug attack was the first thing to happen. The bugs attacked Buenos Aires unprovoked, and the bugs basically want to wipe humanity off the universe no matter what. They can't be reasoned with and won't stop until they are eridicated or destroy humanity completely. The bugs represent a perfect communist s… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/06/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolI actually much prefer getting “hi” and “hello” compared to cheesy pickup lines even if they are non sexual. I think that’s a personal thing tho. Every women on the internet is the exception. Especially when she is anonymous and has no proof to back up what she is saying. Keep talking about how special and different you are. The point is women don't care that much about what you say in OLD. It is about how you look. What you say is just an excuse to delude herself that she swiped right because o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolAnd why is it bad to gas up a friend, would you rather I told her ‘suck it up bitch he used your dumb ass’ You are trying to make honesty sound ridiculous with hyperbole. First of all if she really wants to screw her life up, there is nothing you can do to help her. Modern women aren't great at taking advice or following guidance because their egos are too inflated. This usually happens because of daddy issues. Healthy women without daddy issues can learn, aren't so defensive, and aren't angry a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolThe conversation was specifically about sex, like specifically look up it’s there for you to see now it’s magically about relationships? Yeah it is about how to avoid being pumped and dumped. And about how you are seeing all your dating opportunities as just sexual when they aren't necessarily. Other women don't have this problem, they can find guys that don't just want to fuck and leave. If sex is all you have to give, that is all they will want. And now the pussy that was just insulted for not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolMany men are very successful on tinder and they don’t receive the same kind of sexual harassment and stalking behaviour many women have been proven to experience. If tinder is so great for women in your mind how come it’s such a sausage fest. I never said it was great for women. It is certainly not all bad, they gain a ton of attention and validation from tinder. Haven’t seen one example of this “generational data” yet. Women may be having more sex but is it casual / non commitment sex which is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolIt's not a "personal attack", it is the truth. All we know is you have more men willing to go on dates with you. You are assuming that you have more men willing to fuck you, you have no idea that is all they want unless you actually dated all those guys. I'm assuming you haven't. Statistically more dates means more relationship opportunities. If sex is all these guys want it is becuase sex is all you can give, if you had more to offer they would stick around. Have you ever given a thought to wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolAgain. The concept of ‘he’s just not that into you’ exists, girlfriends tell eachother that often trust you’re not teaching me anything new I promise. Nahh. More often it is he is a loser, he is "afraid of commitment", he can't handle how amazing you are, etc. Women bullshit and lie to each other all the time. I don't buy anything your saying here, I have literally never seen it. Maybe her mom or dad might be this level of honest. Her friends would never be. The rest of this is you being mad tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolWell fine I'm just acknowledging the simple math. At the end of the day there are more opportunties that lead somewhere meaningful. If you can't get any interest, there is no opportunity of anything. And some woman are better at discerning the right guy and treating him well enough so he sticks around. This isn't a problem all women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?Nobody loves their boss or their client or their military commander when they are obeying their orders. And yet you expect this kind of h loving deference from the woman you claim to love… why? I'm not. I'm literally contrasting the two but you missed the point. A relationship isn't a job. In a relationship she will be appreciated, in a job she won't. And yet you expect this kind of h loving deference from the woman you claim to love… why? Why do I want the woman I love, to love me back as a wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolYeah, there was that one movie decades ago that barely anyone remembers. It exists, but it isn't a meme. It isn't nearly as common as women who talk about men being "afraid of commitment". Every romcom has this concept. It is a meme and a trope. Men LYING about being afraid of commitment or not ready for it but they will be eventually, to keep getting access to sex and these are average men doing this, not just the chads. I don't think most men are lying about being afraid of commitment. They ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolI like how you are moving the goalposts to tinder when I'm talking about the real world actual dating here. Not throwaway messages on a hookup app. About 75% of OLD interactions have been imo sexually inappropriate. You pulled this out of your ass. First of all women get more interest than men in general. Even if 75% are sexually innappropriate, which is incredulous btw, that 25% left consists of more genuine interest than most men get in their entire life. This is also why women don’t see it as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolI wasn't talking about casual sex. If you have more opportunities to get sex, you simply have more opportunities to get the kind of sex you want: casual, not casual etc. Statistically younger women are having more sex than younger men. Not all of these women are having "relationship sex". Also not all sex out of a relationship is casual. I'd bet most isn't really casual. Most sex out of relationships is during dating. A lot of women have sex with the expectation of a relationship, which sometime… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolOk. I don't either man. The fact that someone has more opportunites for sex means they have more opportunities for sex with people that care about them. If x% of people that want to have sex with you care about you, and you have more people that want to have sex with you, you also have more opportunities to have sex with people that care about you. X% of a bigger number is a bigger number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolDefinition of libido 1: instinctual psychic energy that in psychoanalytic theory is derived from primitive biological urges (as for sexual pleasure or self-preservation) and that is expressed in conscious activity 2: sexual drive Libido means sexual drive. Don't play dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?Your hypothetical scenario relies on an assumption that she would grow up at all if she didn't lose her youth and beauty. I don't think this is true for a lot of women. Honestly when old women talk about "greater life experiences" I cringe. Having some boyfriends and travelling to thialand or whatever isn't something me or most guys care about. What "greater life experiences" have you had? How many companies have you started? How many books have you published? What have you built? Age isn't wisd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 09:20 AM |
| -1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolI don't think the black or latina girl in the hood is the average experience. Also this whole time I'm talking about dating. Thought that was implied. It is true in a lot of areas of life actually, but here I'm just talking about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolThat's not my point, my point is you think every woman is a socioeconomically privileged conventionally attractive normie white Stacy who operates on the same principle as this character you invented in your head since it's the only type of woman you bother paying attention to. I'm literally not but ok. I see your point. I just don't think it is a very good one and it is borderline disingenous. I'm not thinking of a "white Stacy". I myself am not white. I am not thinking of anyone in particular,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Women don't have to accomplish anything in life because they could always live off a manYour employer has power over you too. If you have a business, your clients and customers have power over you. You are the mercy of market forces. I think this power thing is stupid. It ignores that the woman gets a lot out of the arrangement and that both together can get a lot more done than if they were separate and doing the same thing. Having both partners play the same roles makes the partnership practically useless. Over time "modern family" arrangements will be outcompeted by traditional … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?It's find it funny a young married woman is going out to get ogled and hit on by old men. It's a hysterical image. Not being naive doesn't automatically equal "disgruntled and angry." It does when the person makes a big deal about being self-assured, wants to start arguments with people about their opinions, and has a large stick up their ass. I feel sorry for your "husband". I can only imagine what he has to deal with every day. I'm merely pointing out that nearly everything you've said about o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:20 AM |
| 0 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolNow men think they are wasting their time and see no value in getting to know someone if they aren't guaranteed sex. Having sex is part of getting to know someone romantically. You think having sex means you are getting used - that to me is way more unhealthy than simply having sex with someone you like. It doesn't sound like your adversarial view of dating really works for you. It just makes guys think sex is all you have to offer, so you only attract guys that want to pump and dump. You think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:00 AM |
| 6 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolNope. Women are literally having more sex than men if you look at the data. Same number of relationships, so more women must be having more "casual sex" however you define that. I was just making a point aside from that that the line is usally gray anyway. A lot of "out of relationship" sex isn't casual or in an explicit relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?I just see these guys for what they are. I don't give a shit if they feel shamed when people say it's gross. It's even funnier to watch how butthurt these guys get when they're rejected and publicly shamed by young women. (Me and my friends will do it when older men pursue us.) I think it's funny that old ass men are constantly hitting on you and your friends. I don't see this dynamic when I go out. They must think you are hookers. The naivety isn't just a perk, it's a sole factor in why older m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Is androgyny nowadays considered more attractive than traditional masculinity/femininity?I think her feminine form would look better if it wasn't for the glittery eye makeup. I think her femme form has more room for improvement in general, and if there was an equal effort there would be no doubt she would look more attractive to men with a feminine look. Men have more flexibility in the women they date because they have to have that. Men will date women with tattoos too, it is not that all of them find tattoos attractive on a woman. They just overlook it. You can't afford to be as p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 07:26 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolI suppose because we are all taking turns sleeping with the same few men. /s In a sense, yeah. Do you not realize how many men there are, and how much sex one can have? The vast majority of men aren't having a ton of sex yet a lot of women are. There is only one way that can work. A fraction of men are having most of the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 07:13 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolWell I am an average woman, and it's not that easy. If you're not willing to have casual sex outside a relationship (which I'm not) most men won't stick around past one or 2 dates. I suppose women who are willing to just sleep with every guy they date have a higher chance of getting into a relationship. In the meantime though, they have to risk that many men will lose interest, ghost after sex, or keep them on back burner. I know men can't fathom how this isn't still a win for us (how could havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?You seem to be upset about my opinions. You want to shame men for wanting women that are attractive and don't have heads full of crap. Sorry, not sorry. I know you will never believe me, but I'm not old. I'm just sick of annoying old women like yourself shaming men and holding delusional beliefs that anyone wants your wrinkly old ass because of your "wisdom" lmao. I go to men for wisdom, not bitter old hags. I don't delude myself that me getting older makes me more attractive by default as women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 06:54 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolDoes all casual sex or out of relationship sex start with sexually explicit messages? Not in my experience. Have you heard of flirting? I don't think I've ever sent a woman something "explicitly sexual" because that would just be dumb and a waste of time. Maybe superchad CK underwear model guys can get away with that IDK, but that isn't me or the vast vast majority of guys. For the vast vast majority of guys, relationships start in a gray area. You start dating not really knowing where things ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 06:32 AM |
| 5 | Is androgyny nowadays considered more attractive than traditional masculinity/femininity?Are unconventional people becoming more attractive, or are more attractive people doing more unconventional things because it is mainstream and trendy these days? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Is androgyny nowadays considered more attractive than traditional masculinity/femininity?It has to do with general trend to make women less attractive and destroy gender roles. Make women fatter, more masculine, more aggressive, smaller breasts, generally less appealing, etc. Men will always want and desire feminine women, a little social programming won't change that. See if the type of porn actresses men are beating off to change significantly and then you may have an argument. There may be something about women that like androgynous men though. I think women like men that are mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 05:48 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolWanting sex in a serious relationship is very different from wanting causal sex. A lot of relationships start from casual sex. The line often gets blurry. I don't know people that say "this is relationship sex" or "this is casual sex" when they are dating and having sex. I guess it happens with ONS or whatever, but I don't think those arrangements are common. Most "out of relationship sex" for most people happens with the implicaton that it may lead to a relationship, it is not necessarily casua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?This is the same reasoning older women give. No it isn't, she just believes it because it makes her feel good about getting old. She is getting less dates, and less attention with age. She has to villify men and maintain her narcissistic sense of self worth. He has no reason to lie to himself. He might have gotten less attractive with age, but the thing is the average man isn't a male model chad anyway. He went from not getting anything unless he worked for it, to ... not getting anything unless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 05:10 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolNo, easier to get dates. Easier to get sex and easier to get relationships as a woman than a man because you simply deal with less rejection. If an average single man and average single woman both tried to find a relationship, the steps a woman would need to take would be more certain and she would reach her goal much sooner with much less rejection. Casual sex is easier for women, but so is everything else when it comes to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 04:49 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolImage the situation being sex, because you are talking about the female equivalent of sex, and women are complaining about men being so goddamn entitled that they don't even want to try and settle for a relationship that's completely sexless from even the beginning. Hey, it's not just sexless, YOU still need to keep up with the male-typical expectations even though it's sexless. You aren't getting sex but you still need to provide and work your ass off. And YOU are so goddamm entitled for not do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 04:39 AM |
| 8 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolKinda like how men will say "she's good enough for casual, but not commitment. I'll just sleep with her until I find a girl like her, but hotter." Except that isn't so common it has become a meme. "He just doesn't want commitment" or "he is afraid of commitment" is a meme because of how common it is for women to say. It could never be that she wasn't good enough for him or he wasn't into her enough, so women construct this myth that he is afraid of commitment. "she's good enough for casual, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolMen have to put in effort, money, and be exposed to the rejection. Women show up, sit back, and judge. If the woman gets fat and ugly enough she may have to be a little more forthcoming, but she is still in the passive role and will always be able to find someone for some degree of companionship. I've known so many fat and obese women with fit boyfriends and husbands it is ridiculous. It is inherently easier to be a woman when it comes to dating. You have to do less, you are exposed to less judg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 04:03 AM |
| 8 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolPeople are hardwired to enjoy sex. Even women. Maybe you are asexual, but most women are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?This applies to men as well. Which is why men don't actually increase in value as they age. Genetics and circumstances definitely help, but male or female, you are what you make of yourself. Yeah and men actually realize that. They don't think just getting old means they are more valuable or better like "experienced" hags do. If a man who is older believes himself to be better it is is because he has knowledge and experiences (as an older person) that he can point to justify the belief. Women on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?Mindlessly following the mainstream isn't going your own way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?Service isn't oppression. At the end of the day you will have to serve someone, whether that is your boss, your client, your customer, or your family. You literally can't live without being in service. I'm not saying family life is for everyone, but trying to turn it into something it isn't is delusional and miserable. Modern women want to get married, but they don't want to be wives, which is why so many are getting divorced due to "irreoncilable differences". They have no idea why they wanted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 02:45 AM |
| 8 | Is it likely that (shallow) men are turned off by domesticity, especially when coupled with aging?It's like you watched Mad Men and mistook that for reality. None of the hypothetical scenarios you put out are a common occurence. Men like young strippers, ditsy girls, the “girl next door” type, college students, party animals with perky tits dancing on a table at the karaoke bar. Shallow men don't care about personality. It isn't a factor. I'm sure if he had a choice, he'd choose the equally attractive person who is easier to deal with. How many very good looking women have to develop a perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?It has already started happening judging by stats on millenial sex I've heard. Millenial men are on average having less sex but millenial women are having about the same amount of sex as recent years. There is also this very weird anti-heterosexual sex trend I've noticed. I don't think this exists in Japan. In the US there has been a trend to desexualize everything to be less appealing to heterosexual men: fat acceptance (the the vast majority of men will never find fatness attractive) desexuali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | True, there isn't an unlimited amount of attractive men to go around....but there IS unlimited attention and ego boosting stimulus to render an artificisl inflation in girls self percieved valueSocial media is porn for women. Porn addiction destroys men and social media addiction destroys women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:39 AM |
| 5 | True, there isn't an unlimited amount of attractive men to go around....but there IS unlimited attention and ego boosting stimulus to render an artificisl inflation in girls self percieved valueI think it is different because the guy reacting to the hot single ad wants a date, or something else tangible. Even if he is that gullible to click on it, he would quickly realize it's a scam. If a woman wants attention and social validation, and gets that through social media why would she change? You only change if it becomes unsatisfying. I would feel unsatisfied by internet attention (because internet shit isn't real), but I don't think enough women feel the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:38 AM |
| 2 | If Eternal youth and aging reversal technology existed would older women be as desirable by men as chronologically young women?Your hypothetical scenario relies on an assumption that she would grow up at all if she didn't lose her youth and beauty. I don't think this is true for a lot of women. Honestly when old women talk about "greater life experiences" I cringe. Having some boyfriends and travelling to thialand or whatever isn't something me or most guys care about. What "greater life experiences" have you had? How many companies have you started? How many books have you published? What have you built? Age isn't wisd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.My mistake I thought you were talking about r/BlatantMisandry. Looks like that sub was taken down for some reason. Female chauvinist and "anti misogyny" subreddits are popular, never disputed that. The very fact that "anti-misogyny" subs are promoted and "anti-misandry" subs are quarantined and removed constantly tells you a lot. I don't doubt that some men are strung up for being "misogynists" in the gynocracy of reddit and mainstream culture. Feminists need a target for their five minutes hate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?how do we account for the large amount of rapes that go unreported You are starting from an assumption that a lage amount of rapes across the whole country go unreported based on flawed surveys. This is circular logic. There is no evidence that a large amount of rapes that go unreported. Claiming that there is is pseudoscience. A small number of telephone surveys that were poorly sampled isn't verifiable evidence in a country of +300 million. I'm sure some rapes go unreported, as do all crimes. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?The true number is closer to the actual cases than anonymous unrepresentative phone surveys run by radical female chauvinists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:42 AM |
| 3 | how to address gender entitlement?I know lots and lots of fat, "awkward" (as if that matters) women who have husbands and boyfriends. In every case I can think of the men are physically in better shape than the women. Men don't want you because you hate and misunderstand them, not because you are too fat. If you worked on resolving your daddy issues and grew up you would have a chance. I'm not going to respond to your misandric delusions. You have a unconscious hatred of men and you justify this hatred by dehumanizing all or a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?You don't understand how proper surveys work. Even 100,000 people in a biased survey isn't representative by definition. It's statistically worthless. This is stats 101, this is why we have stratitified sampling and sample weighting methods. There are plenty of other sources for statistics on violence and rape for other sexes. Historically rape has been underreported by law enforcement. You really think the fbi has civilians, especially women’s, best interests in mind? More feminist garbage. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Does r/BlatantMisogyny show up on mainstream reddit? Is it reddit-approved, or is it a fringe subreddit on the edge of being quarantined? Like I said, you can only criticize women in fringe areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?The citation for the 1 in 6 myth is based on a telephone survey conducted 20 years ago, of 8000 women. It has nothing to do with actual, verified assault victims who went to authorities. It was just based on random phone dialing, with no adjustment like sample weighting or stratified sampling based on the actual makeup of the country. You might as well make up whatever you want and publish that; it would be just as useful for making inferences over the whole country. If you read the study you'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?A realistic sex bot isn't the same as a sex doll. A better analogy would be to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?The hot 22 year old woman is taken more seriously. "Women mature earlier than men" is a common belief. Look at how many hot young women Google/Alphabet hires. This is a very progressive company, it was even recently shown that they underpay the men compared to the women. Maybe what you are saying was true in the 1930s. I'm living in the year 2022. Women are taken more seriously and given opportunities just for being women, because people like you think we live in the 1930s instead of 2022. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:17 AM |
| 13 | Having realistic standards is highly important.This place is full of criticism of women. Yeah because we aren't allowed to criticize women anywhere these days except in fringe places. Don't you see the misogynistic memes, men rallying against femisimn, bodily autonomy being taken away? Go on any very popular, reddit-approved sub and show me the misogynistic memes. You will see misandry is approved and misogyny is banned. Feminism is female chauvinist misandry. I fully support rallying against it. You should get used to it becuase it will hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?But women do experience levels of rape and assault throughout their life. Last I looked at the FBI rape statistics, the rape rate is something like .002%. There is a vanishingly small chance of any woman getting raped. About as much as you'd think if you open your eyes and have some common sense. The online survey that gave extremely high, incredulous rape rates like 2 in 3 or whatever they were, were debunked a long time ago. You can go dig through the 100 page report the survey conductors thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?People in third world countries where they are able to get the basic necessities are happier than thost in the first world gynocracies. Go to some of these places and you'd see it for yourself: smiling men without anxiety or depression. Living a simpler lifestyle with natural sexual dynamics is better for men than a technologically advanced gynocracy whose primary purpose is pleasing women. Like, these men here are complaining about the lack of finding available women to date and marry and have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Is being a woman in a first world country today "life on easy mode"?Hot women are taken much less seriously at professional careers but of course if you are talking about dating hot girl is better. There are lots of hot women that are highly successful and are taken seriously in a professional capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:39 AM |
| 0 | Women give terrible dating advice to men, but men give great dating advice to womenBasically you are correct. Instead of complaining about it, just ignore it. Women give the worst dating advice, successful men give the best dating advice. Don't get upset, just mentally file away their garbage advice as what it is. The only reason I would correct them is to make sure no confused man is taking it seriously. The reason we have the most hapless generation in history when it comes to dating and courtship is because too many men listen to women. I would say don't go looking for empa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:33 AM |
| 15 | Women give terrible dating advice to men, but men give great dating advice to womenMen give advice they think would work, based on actual experience. Women give advice to reinforce their own self image (ego). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:20 AM |
| 18 | Having realistic standards is highly important.But I notice that most men making this post want super attractive, model-teir women. How is this logical? I get that people want to be in a relationship in which they are attracted to their partner. But women also want the same. That's why super attractive women go for attractive, successful and well-adjusted guys. What is there to complain about? Yeah we are living in different realities. I see posts from men that lower their standards to almost nothing and still get no success. When they do th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:17 AM |
| 7 | Women give terrible dating advice to men, but men give great dating advice to womenLike OP said, women assume the guy can already get dates. They assume the man's problem is like theirs instead of actually listening to him. This is why they give "relationship advice" (which IMO also usually sucks). The "relationship advice" is the same self-aggrandizing virtue signalling advice women give about dating. Women don't care about helping the guy, they only care about how their advice reflects on them as a person. So you get some shitty platitudes. Nothing based on actual experience… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingLike I said: They are screened out based on snap judgements and stereotypes. If people admitted to such prejudicial behavior anywhere else in society, it would be a huge issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 06:05 AM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Reasons don't matter 9 times out of 10. The reason was she lost attraction. I wish women could explain what exactly I should do differently instead of ghosting or extremely vague accusations. She probably wasn't into you and didn't have a good reason to break up. So she ghosts you or gaslights you into being the bad guy. I usually just get ghosted and never find out what the reason was. Or recently I dated a girl and she just said I am too boring when she ended things with me. She literally told… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 06:33 PM |
| 0 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingJudging people you barely know is sorta how dating works. The entire point is to get to the "no" as fast as possible so you can move on to someone else who's a potentiality better fit for you. The issue is sometimes you don't know them well enough to judge effectively. Most women rejecting men these days aren't even based on a 1 minute conversation. They are screened out based on snap judgements and stereotypes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.Arming women would mean that they would have to take personal responsability for their safety, well being, and a deadly weapon. Most of them don't want that. Only some of the ones that have already been attacked or almost attacked are opened to carrying a gun (unless perhaps they already live in a gun friendly culture). The women that complain about female on male violence typically want to complain about how victimized women are as a group rather then do something about it as individuals. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.This is a well known fact to those that have looked into this issue. We aren't talking about Canada, we are talking about the USA. Reddit is an American site. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.Men. Men are more likely to be attacked and killed in general. The fact that you care more about DV is because of your misandry. You think it affects women more so you hyperfocus on it. A problem that affects men more isn't even visible as a problem to you, as is the case with most sexist female chauvinists. Men are also raped more than women if you include prison, and there is no reason you shouldn't because prisoners are still human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.I saw a video a few days ago of a woman punching her bf in the face multiple times for minutes. It was very ugly. The idea that women only slap is false. I don't care if its a weak person punching you, enough punches will cause permanent damage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.Firearms would never protect women from abuse or rape the way men stopping raping and beating us would. If men truly can’t control themselves and are unwilling to change their behaviour than their movement should be more heavily regulated. Men have been trying to stop the problem of rape for 10,000 years. But please go on with the unncessarily inflammatory and misandric comments that blame all men for the actions of a few. You want to try to tell the type of man that rapes and can't control hims… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:23 AM |
| 4 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societyI have no knowledge about Philadelphia, but Dallas Texas isn't a bad place to be. I think a lot of people's dating trouble will evaporate if they just move, and that is also why theres so much miscommunication about it online. Some dating markets are tougher than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingId rather stay single forever then go out with someone who's desperate and would take anyone. I hold out for guys who actually connect with me as a person and not because I'm just any woman. So many guys online got bad vibes now. The trouble is this means you are judging the intentions of people you barely know. The women that are the best at judging the intentions of men are usually the ones in healthy long term relationships already, because that is what most women aspire to. They are able to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 04:02 AM |
| 4 | Are younger man/ older woman relationships a potential answer to the imbalanced SMP/ RMP that men here rail against?I think most women don't want to date a younger guy. I'd say don't think about it too much. If you can stand dating older, that means more options. Widen the pool, but why avoid the women your age if you are attracted to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | The wall either doesn’t exist or applies to both men and women.The wall exists for people that live unhealthy lifestyles. Some very attractive women partied too hard in their 20s and hit the wall. Does it exist for everyone? Hell no. There are some women that are attractive in their late 20s and 30s - the ones that took care of themselves. Post wall is definately a thing for some women though. I do think the wall is a little less of a concern for men simply based on how they are judged for attractiveness. A tall man won't lose his height. He might get fat, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societyWhere are you based out of? I think these issues are regional. If you live in a place without a huge gender skew (a lot more men than women) there are gonna be fewer virgin men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.Why would women want it to be easy to date them when men already will go out with any woman and pretend to like her for sex? Maybe develop a decent, agreeable, feminine personality instead of being angry, masculine, and aggressive so you don't attract guys that will only tolerate being around you to fuck you. This isn't rocket science. If sex is all you can offer, the only type of guy who will want to be around you is one that only cares about sex. When men blame us for their actions and tell us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?Women are closer together in their physical appearance than men are though. Men exhibit far more variance in height, weight, etc. It stands to reason that becuase women are closer together in appearance, the ideal women would also be more defined than the ideal man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersMen will have to initiate for the most part. However if you are in a place where there isn't a huge skew in gender it won't be torture to talk to them or deal with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say.Some garbage sociology survey isn't better than nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Exredpillers how do you hold onto hope not to rope?Which is where the expression ’man up’ came from. Nope. Man up means to rise to a challenge, to go up and become the man you ought to be. It has nothing to do with suppressing your feelings. It is only in your warped misandrist idealogy that you take this away from it. And again, it was men who told me this. Not women, not feminists. Men. Well it is just hearsay one way or another. Two actual men here, versus your memory of some sitation that happened to you. I criticise women as well. Or better… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersThe SMP is the most heterogeneous market in the world. If nobody wants to date you then the problem isn’t your environment, but you. The SMP is very regional. Eastern Europe is full of attractive, feminine, thin women. Parts of Eastern Europe have a large surplus of women compared to men so they have to compete more compared to the west. The SMP, being a market, is impacted by supply and demand forces. Go to an area with more women then men, and the women there tend to be less masculine/aggressi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersTo be fair, there aren't degrees of being in a relationship. It either is or it isn't. It's binary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losersIDK if I trust a survey eharmony paid for... Do they really want a survey that says everyone is unhappy in their relationships? There is a clear incentive for them here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | For young men, 2 options are available to improve, which you think is better?Go with B with some working out and socialization mixed in. Don't go too extreme in any one area, try to be more balanced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | For young men, 2 options are available to improve, which you think is better?Depends what type of woman they want to attract. Although men value body building/living in the gym you will find a big percentage of women actually have that as one of the main criteria they avoid. You didn't say that in the original comment. You make it sound like going to the gym at all is bad. Dude, most guys who workout don't live in the gym. What you are describing is the average regular gym goer - they workout a few hours a week. That is what were are talking about here - not becoming Dol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | For young men, 2 options are available to improve, which you think is better?Depends what type of woman they want to attract. Although men value body building/living in the gym you will find a big percentage of women actually have that as one of the main criteria they avoid. A lot of men these days are unnattractive to women unless they work out a lot first. As much as women say they don't like body building or whatever, they act differently from that IRL. This is one of those cases where some women virtue signal instead of giving good advice to men. Thing is, women pref… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:09 PM |
| 6 | Say something is sexist in a antifeminist subreddit, get upvoted, nothing happens. Say something is sexist in feminist subreddit, get banned. The echo chamber and copium overdose is real.One thing I notice in left wing subreddits is they often have rules against criticizing the idealogy of the sub. These are the people who are ostensibly "anti fascism". All dissent is squashed, very anti fascist. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 8 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?I remember speaking to an older female friend some time ago who I met on the swinging scene. She lamented about how she's still struggling to find moderately attractive guys who are consistent and not entitled/crazy. She's a good looking woman, great shape and in her 40s. You really think some hag swinging in her 40s is what "moderately attractive guys" want in a relationship? Guess what, if she isn't getting the kind of guys she wants there isn't a mystery here. It is because she isn't bringing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Dating Market for the 40 and up crowd?Well I will be honest about being unnattracted to fat women. It is the only physical standard I have, and it isn't too much to ask. I don't screen based on factors outside of one's control like height, race, or baldness but I don't want to date a fat woman because I am fundamentally repulsed by them as are most men. I'm not pretending to be attracted to fat women and then upset because they hid it. I just don't want to be tricked into dating a fat woman. I want to date women that can control the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Dating Market for the 40 and up crowd?IDK, seems like excessive pickiness to me. Wearing a hat doesn't mean you're ashamed of being bald. Maybe he likes to have his head warm. Maybe he thinks he looks better with a hat on. Maybe he just likes hats. I think if you are actually looking for someone, why be that shallow and judgemental? Even if he was a little insecure about being bald that doesn't make him a bad person. Do women not get insecure about their appearance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Exredpillers how do you hold onto hope not to rope?I said most women can only empathise with people with the same genetalia. Not all women. I've met women who can, but most can't. It isn't misogyny, it isn't a hateful thing to say, it isn't an idealogy, and it doesn't mean women are evil. It just is what it is. You are clearly in the majority that can't from what I've read so far. By seeing any criticism (or even discussion) of women's behavior as misogyny, you are doing more harm than good. Most normal sane people believe women shouldn't be imm… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | When Red Pillers describe Blue Pill they describe their ‘former selves’ more than they actually describe the average normie.You are the one who wantes to blame misogyny instead of the murderers themselves. I for one always advocate for personal responsability and treating people as individuals. You want to blame the vague idea of misogyny instead of the killer. I am just pointing out if you are looking at the vague idea of misogyny vs abuse by mothers, the latter is actually a measurable and significant co occurence. I will bet abuse by women is literally a causal factor. I mean, why would so many of these serial kil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Beauty OverstimulationMost of social science is pseudoscientific junk that isn't statisitically signifcant or replicable, so I'd have to actually read the study before I made up my mind. Can't see it linked anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | When Red Pillers describe Blue Pill they describe their ‘former selves’ more than they actually describe the average normie.The one common thread all of these killers have in common is that they were abused in some form or another, usually by a mother or mother figure. Who could blame them for hating women and wanting to hurt them? Mothers aren’t supposed to act like that; they are supposed to be loving and nurturing. According to the U.S. Department of Heath and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families, in 2006, approximately 905,000 children were victims of maltreatment. Of those, 64.1% experienced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manYour attempt at logic was to claim all the women you know are in relationships so it must be easy. Yeah. It is easy. Don't backtrack now you coward. Roughly as many men are in relationships as women, that's basic math that incel math always seems to get wrong. So what? On average it is still easier for the women than the men. What is hard to understand about that? Women can get into relationships easier. They can have more of them and spend less time single (on average). | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manYou think women don't like casual sex and can't get into relationships. You sound like an incel buddy. Keep putting them on that pedestal, maybe one day a girl will notice you. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manBecause women don't tend to just want casual sex, and the consequences of it (pregnancy, etc) are higher. Have you ever spoken to a single woman in your life? You think women don't like sex? You think women don't have casual sex? Have you spoken to a single woman? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manWhy is promoting prostitution good for women? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | When Red Pillers describe Blue Pill they describe their ‘former selves’ more than they actually describe the average normie.Feminists see the world as unfair to women. They have devleoped a delusional trauma-based mental construct that makes them beleive they are perpetual victims, so the world is perpetually unfair. Feminism is just an excuse for female chauvinism and misandry. They believe the world is unfair, while in reality it is unfair in their favor. When it comes to dating they think men have it good because they have never dated as a man, and they have their delusional victim complex to fall back on which ig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 3 | When Red Pillers describe Blue Pill they describe their ‘former selves’ more than they actually describe the average normie.I think it is closer to real life than the blue pill thinking. Women are attracted, which is an involuntary reaction. Then they rationalize that attraction as they get to know you. How can she possibly be attracted to you when she first meets you, except through superficial means? Human beings do this in general on all sorts of things. We decide first (sometimes this is an unconscious decision), rationalize later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | When Red Pillers describe Blue Pill they describe their ‘former selves’ more than they actually describe the average normie.If you can hook up with her, 9 times out of 10 you can have a relationship with her. If "getting ripped/being arrogant/stacking cash" gets you more opportunities in general, it also gets you more "meaningful relationship" opportunities. I'd argue it does (at least the getting ripped/stacking cash parts) because you are objectively more attractive with money and muscles up to a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | When Red Pillers describe Blue Pill they describe their ‘former selves’ more than they actually describe the average normie.Yes. Why shouldn't you expect to be treated nicely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manI've talked to real women, they are all in relationships. Do you understand that statement? All the women I know are in relationships. I'm not saying all women in general are in relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 11:47 PM |
| 3 | When Red Pillers describe Blue Pill they describe their ‘former selves’ more than they actually describe the average normie.The advice most women give to guys is designed to aggrandize women, not to actually help men. They want to maintain the delusion that they (or at least women in general) choose men for their moral attributes. Because if they didn't, they couldn't virtue signal. Rarely, very very rarely, you will see a women who will give actual advice. I don't know if most women that give horrible, platitudinous advice are aware what they are doing is actively detrimental or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Provide a service to help incels?Do you honestly think women like misogynists? That people like racists? Just because there are racists in relationships doesn’t make racism ok or popular. The point is that enough women don't seem to care enough about "misogyny" to not date men for it. Anyone who opens their eyes can see that. Being a misogynist or not being one doesn't matter to many women when it comes to dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Also women when a man rejects them: he raped me!A man is more likely to get punched rejecting a woman politelty than a woman who rudely rejects a man. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/06/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Also women when a man rejects them: he raped me!Of course it happens. All kinds of things happen in a country of +300 million people. Statistically, how likely is it though? Not very likely. Overall men are more likely to be victims of physical assault than women. The idea that men regularly hit women for rejecting them is a blatant misandrist lie. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/06/22 11:18 PM |
| 2 | “Himpathy” is the new “mansplaining”Would it KILL online feminists to sympathise with men who are abused by women. Well feminists don't see men as human beings, so yeah it is impossible. Every man is "evil patriarch opressor" instead of an entire human being with his own inner life. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/06/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I missing something?It's not good and it's not about equality. It is female chauvinism, they make throwaway comments about egalitarianism to disguise their hateful ideaology. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/06/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manAnd women tend to want more than just "this guy gets turned on by me", they want something real, but often they just get used instead. Yeah, because they will likely get this by default. Someone who makes 100k per year won't be content with 60k per year. Human beings always want more than what they have. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Im not a big fan of being a manIt's actually really easy to get casual sex, you can literally just pay for it. Is having to break the law "really easy" now? What about potentially inadvertently supporting sex trafficking in an unregulated black market industry? Anyway, after talking to all of the women in my life I have no delusions that they have it easier. Literally every woman I know... my wife, my mom, my sisters, my aunts, my friends... every single one... has been sexually harassed / assaulted multiple times in their li… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manIt's incredibly hard for women to find what they want, which is men that won't just pump and dump them. If you talked to real women you would know this. I've talked to real women, they are all in relationships. I don't think it is hard for women who want to be in relationships to find them. Maybe if you are really blind and lacking in social and relational skills as a women it may be hard, IDK. Most women have no problem with finding committed guys, or at least guys looking for commitment. There… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manAbsolutely. OMG absolutely. "men only want one thing" is instilled in us from literally before puberty, and then is confirmed again and again in teenagerhood and early adulthood every time we offer friendship to a guy, he makes a move, and then completely leaves when we say we just want to be friends. The same things happen to men who tell women they just want to be friends. It has happened to me before as a man who wanted to just be friends with women sometimes. This is why they say men and wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manWomen's challenges are a bit different. Starting at a young age, we're handed this immense sexual power. When we get it, we're just a kid. We have no idea what to do with this power, and no idea how to handle it. Imagine handing a young kid a flame thrower. That's not a gift. That's a curse, and a massively damaging one at that. The kid is too young to know how to safely use that thing, and there is no 'off' switch. They're forced to drag it around with them. That's not a gift. That's not making… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Im not a big fan of being a manI know we are heading towards a wierd puritanical desexualized culture, but guess what? Sex is a big deal. Just look at the number of animals who literally sacriifice their lives just to have sex. Look at the amount of the brain devoted to sex, the amount of culture driven by sex, the amount of biological reward mechanisms tied to sex, the amount of calories and energy expended in service of sex. Sex is required for most people to have a happy fulfilled life. Implying that men should be ashamed … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Exredpillers how do you hold onto hope not to rope?I am absolutely able to empathise with men to the extend of my abilities, meaning I'm not a men so I'll never 100% know what it's like. How can you empathize if you can't listen? The first thing you did in that first comment was make it about you. Then you spent most of rest to invalidate OP's experiences, and being a PR person for those of your genetalia. You are getting defensive, and trying to provide proof to me as if this some kind of trial. I don't know you, internet comments are cheap and… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Exredpillers how do you hold onto hope not to rope?How exactly am I invalidating his feelings? Tell me so I can be better. Reflecting on what you wrote in that original comment with some self-awareness is a great place to start. I am advocating for treating everyone as human being so I don't get it. To give you a little hint, I'd start with not bringing your gendered political idealogy into a discussion about a guy who admitted to contemplating suicide, in a sub for people who have escaped an idealogy. This isn't a place for you to invalidate hi… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 2 | A Deep-Dive into Red Pill Claims, and why they are FalseThat's unfortunate. I wanted to read some of these papers from the sample. Generally putting the author names into google scholar works. I did that with a few of the references and wasn't able to find the works. It would be really nice to have the bibliography shared. I don't think this would take any value away from buying the book | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | A Deep-Dive into Red Pill Claims, and why they are FalseI think you should link the papers you reference, or have a bibliography so people can easily find them. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Exredpillers how do you hold onto hope not to rope?The one time I showed emotional weakness to her in 3 years of knowing her was enough for her to cut me off and shame me. That heavily reinforced the idea to me that that if I show any hint of emotional weakness to a girl she will leave me. I think every man on earth has had this or a similar experience. This is the real reason men don't "share their feelings": women are repulsed by men sharing their feelings. Some of them go on about wanting you to share your feelings becuase they want control o… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Exredpillers how do you hold onto hope not to rope?All though I won’t lie, I believe real love is practically non existent nowadays I think the mistake is thinking it ever existed. Love is just a fantasy. Everything you think and feel is ultimately driven by your biology. Human beings make the decisions we want to make or are coerced to make, and then rationalize it. The concept of love is one of those rationalizations. Lust is a chemical reaction. Love is also a chemical reaction. We get in lust so that we are driven to breed and reproduce. We … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Exredpillers how do you hold onto hope not to rope?I think responses like yours are exactly why guys are driven to things like red pill, black pill, mgtow, etc. Men don't hold back their feelings because of other men or "toxic masculinity", they do it because most women give responses like yours. Invalidating him and his feelings while any onus that could be put on women is a "problem with society" or some other platitude that throws away any responsability and denies any agency that women have. It is like you are a PR agent for people with your… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Are you living life or just skimming through itJordan peterson said something about how it's better to be born 3 SD above the mean in IQ than 3 SD above the mean in wealth in the developed world (wrt success / life outcomes). I'd go as far as to say effort doesn't matter at all. Only results matter, and to some degree the means with which you get those results. I remember reading in 48 laws that you shouldn't brag about how hard you work, it makes people respect you less. People would rather work with a smart person than a hard worker, despi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Are you living life or just skimming through itBased on my personal experience, I can say effort is actually not that important. Your boss or your client don't care about how hard you work, they care about the results you bring to the table. Results are what matter. That statement is almost a tautology; it might not seem useful but it is when you keep it in mind because it keeps you from thinking effort matters. The higher up the ladder you climb the less effort matters and the more results matter. IQ is the biggest measurable factor that we… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Are you living life or just skimming through itThe spoiled rich kid trope just proves being poor isn't an excuse. The difference in probability of being successful isn't that big whether you're born rich or poor. Being smart, whether your rich or poor is way more of an advantage. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Are you living life or just skimming through itEQ was created by a journalist, it has no basis in psychometrics | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | The Testosterone Epidemic: How Endocrine Disruptors are Crushing MenI'd bet on a decent RO filtration system being able to do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/19 06:04 PM |
| 10 | Society's biggest mistake is to define masculine and feminine through roleplay / choreplay / careerplay. They're far more fundamental than acquired skills.One of the useful thought frames I've come up with is that there are two types of masculinity: youthful and mature. These words make it sound like one is more advanced but that is not the intention behind the idea. The idea is that there are two types of flavors of masculinity. The former is largely flavored by "gameness", the latter by "groundedness". Easiest to explain with examples. Jordan Peterson is a dude who is almost entirely mature masculine. He is grounded, secure, confident in his ski… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/19 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Theory: the feminization of culture & religion as a subconscious social response to shitty motherhoodIgnore the current day garbage and look into the myths and religious stories of the past. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 01:52 PM |
| 8 | Australian University Drops Women’s Engineering Entry Requirement for EqualityExcept when you are paired up with an incompetent woman who can't do her job. I was paired up with a girl in my second to last semiconductor electronics class who couldnt do Ohms Law. Ohms Law is electronics 101. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/19 02:32 PM |
| 19 | Australian University Drops Women’s Engineering Entry Requirement for EqualityI personally dont care if it is or isnt a "sausage fest" I want to work with people who can do their job. It's part of the general feminization of the world that we are meant to consider jobs or industries that only employ men as bad. I've never heard a construction worker call any worksite a "sausage fest" even though it is. If I work with you I'm not concerned with your genetalia. Im concerned if you're a good team player and can carry your weight. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/19 02:30 PM |
| 7 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: RStonePTI've found things that worked for me and so can any one as long as you make plenty of mistakes keep your eyes open You do those two things and learning comes naturally. Then you start to experiment and learn ways to streamline progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/19 05:33 AM |
| 6 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: RStonePTMy take is that society is risk averse moreso than meritocratic. People would rather save a dollar than make two. The part about the plow horse means people will gladly use you if you make it easy for them. Thus if you are smart and productive but don't understand human nature you will end up being a tool for someone else, even against your own interests professionally or sexually (beta bucks). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/19 05:14 AM |
| 5 | First night out without alcoholA few things I realized when I stopped drinking on nights out: You need to find a way to get comfortable and loosen up without alchohol. It takes a bit of will, discipline, and can do attitude to do this. You can't just passively sit around and drink. These people are drunk/drinking. You can get by with being a lot more wild than normal. It can be a lot of fun and a good place to experiment. By not drinking you give yourself an advantage socially and sexually because you will be smarter and more… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/19 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Guy from TIFU gets cucked and branch swungPlastics are much worse than soy. Not as funny to talk about though. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: mallardcoveI remember Elliot Hulse said something about decreasing weight and increasing time under tension to increase hypertrophy. Basically lower the weight, go slow, and do a lot of reps. I cant speak from experience because I always have gone for strength / lifting heavy. I'm thinking about experimenting with body building though | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Women are bored. Not just boring, bored.only boring people get bored | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/19 02:07 AM |
| 14 | Red Pill sexual consent truths coming from Chinese dating showA moment of silence for Chinese males worldwide. They have to go through all this just to fuck a shrill prepubescent-looking harpy. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/19 02:06 AM |
| 52 | Insecurities, or why women still don't know what the fuck they want.Men and especially boys have a natural impulse to admire other men, not get jealous or insecure. This is what generally happens in a healthy society and healthy mature males: admiration. That's one of the reasons why role models are vital for boys growing up. Women by contrast tend to get jealous and covetous of the success of others. Some have the tendency to want to cut everyone down to size because they are so threatened by excellence (self defeating because women are hypergamous). The curren… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Study: Only 3% of Straight People Are Willing to Date a Transgender PersonState enforced homosexuality | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 02:37 PM |
| 3 | How I fucked my first Oneitis, caught feelings for her again and made her fleeYou already know the answer. If she wanted to get in touch, she would have. She's just another goofy female; not worth a second thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/19 11:00 PM |
| 3 | How I fucked my first Oneitis, caught feelings for her again and made her fleeYou're young this is the time to make mistakes and shit so I wouldn't feel bad about it. Just don't get it twisted: You have to see your fuckup. Here's the harsh truth I want you to hear: you cant next a girl that doesn't want you. She nexted you. Take it as a learning experience, forget about her (she aint special, no woman is), and go after higher quality females. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What's with the astrological sign bullcrap, should I bother? What do you counter with this?Birth season probably has an effect on personality (ie winter vs summer). There's at least one scientific study that found a correlation between birth season and prevalence of depression and schizophrenia, and the effect sizes were pretty large. But the idea of the planets/stars affecting humans in such a fine grained way is probably bullshit. I could see maybe the sun and moon cycles affecting humans but nothing beyond that. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Do women have the capability of seeing potential?In general though they want the guy that "just gets it" and between a choice between a guy that has it and another that has potential she'll choose the former. Because of hypergamy whether she sees potential in you or not, you still need to have enough of what she wants right now for it to be a good deal for her. Broke ass muscians and surfers can do alright but that's because their potential (if any) is countarbalanced by solid SMV. Potential is seen by women as liability unless there is someth… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Explain like I'm 5 RSDI learned some useful things early on from their free stuff. Nowadays it's a different story but I am grateful for all the free info they put out. Tyler had good stuff on meditation, presence, and outcome independence. Julien (former RSD) had good stuff on how to have a good time at clubs and bars. Especially the sacrificing the lamb technique was great for me to build confidence in myself early on. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Going for the Lay on the First Date?Go for it. Flirt/joke around with her and gauge her comfort level. If she's comfortable around you then you're golden. If not then you can take her to a few different locales before ending up at your place. You can even take her to your place, play music for her, locale switch a few times, and then end up back at your place ("theres a couple more songs I didnt play for you yet"). If you take her back to your place and shes not warm enough yet just do the plan b. Locale switching is one of the be… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Is lifting absolutely critical?Thanks for the rational reply. I see TRP as a pure extension of the matrix metaphor, not a religion or dogma. It's waking up to reality. Look at reality and see what works and use it to get what you want. Be your own man. Asking people to give you a path to follow means going back to sleep. If what you are seeing contradicts my experience then it makes sense to follow what you see. To me lifting is not a component of TRP in the same sense making mils isnt a component of TRP: it isn't required. I… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Is lifting absolutely critical?I don't know why this is downvoted. I love lifting. I'm going to play devil's advocate here. I know and have seen plenty of beta blue pills and gymcels who lift. Sometimes I feel like the majority of men at the gym are in this category. Keeping in shape is great for your health. Lifting can be great for that. So can sports. But obsessing over SMV and aesthetics is a feminine quality, not a masculine one. The core of TRP is Frame, not lifting. If you choose to make the foundations of your Frame l… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 02:25 AM |
| 3 | How ripped and lean do I need to be to compensate for my height?One of the most masculine men I ever knew was around your height. He wasnt particularly jacked, he just had a strong frame, good game, and was very outgoing. He also had a good sense of humor (not the typical millennial beta self deprecating sense of humor). He pulled more than a lot of guys I knew over 6'. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Anger phase?This isn't the anger phase, this is typical immature male arrogance/egotism/narcissism. It's completely natural and exists to give you the balls to approach. The ensuing rejections and successes forms a solid base of experience that replaces the arrogance. That's how an arrogant man becomes a confident man. We all need to go through youthful arrogance. The ones that dont end up hollow half-men when they get old. Enjoy it and let it guide you to be outgoing and talk to girls. You'll end up better… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 12:00 PM |
| 4 | Want a powerful voice? Here is how.This doesnt contradict that. They both say to keep the tongue against the roof of the mouth and the tip before the front teeth. Mew also emphasizes keeping the posterior third up against the soft palate for better forward maxilla growth and palate expansion. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men who don’t drink alcohol. How do you meet new friends ? Do you still go out? Do women act different towards you ?Sometimes it's like guys are looking for reasons to be insecure. Dude it's not a big deal. I'd go out and get club sodas all the time. I never talk about what I drink or what they're drinking because it's a boring question. If people want to ask why you aren't drinking you can sidestep the question. Or you can make something up. Or you can say you used to be an alchoholic but you quit. Or you can give the honest reason. It really doesnt matter. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 02:21 AM |
| 2 | How To Forget About Women For At Least 5 Years?To my knowledge the only natural source of iodine is seaweed. Unless you eat seaweed you have to add it to food or supplement it. If you eat plenty of iodized salt you probably are fine. But non iodized sea salt has become fashionable these days so you may be getting less than you need. Iodine defiency affects thyroid, hormones, and even IQ. It's the most well known cause of preventable retardation according to webmd. Additionally I believe the Iodine RDAs in the US are lower than they need to b… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Osho sprinkling some redpill.Some of what Osho said was spot on. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | How To Forget About Women For At Least 5 Years?Small addendum to step 2: Take Iodine daily as well | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Taking credit for my workI think you are afraid of coming off as petty. That is a sensible concern. Think of ways you can communicate your accomplishment without doing so directly. That way you can set the record straight without any fear of coming off looking petty. Maybe come up with an idea/extension to your original idea and casually mention it in relation to accomplishment X you completed Y days ago (or however you frame it). Then if they ask about who did X you can correct it. If you dont show anger when you broac… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Taking credit for my workIf you let superiors take credit for your work, that is good. Even better if you can actively give credit to them. But never let colleagues take credit for your accomplishments. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Millionaires of TRP, how long did it take you and what did you do to get there?An ETF is just a vehicle/technology. You can buy stock index ETFs or commodity ETFs or sector ETFs or any other category of ETF that is available. An Index Fund refers to the exposure. A Fund that tracks a particular Index, like the S&P or Russell 2000, as opposed to something actively managed like a mutual fund or hedge fund. You can gain exposure to indexes through ETFs or through other ways like futures or options on futures. But generally when someone says index fund they mean via ETF. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 10:09 AM |
| 22 | Got falsely accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed? (Part 2)Suing Bob kills two birds with one stone. Creating a spectacle out of it shows you dont tolerate lies told about you and you get some recompense for it. Win through your actions, not through argument. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Ex texted me apologizingThe overall biggest fuck you? To let her think she still has a chance | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Kicked a girl out after she disrespected me, did I handle it right?The way she acts reminds me of an alpha widow. Like she was banged out by a narcissistic Machiavellian dude that she fell for and he left her and now she is trying to use his tactics (poorly) to try to hurt random men. Its wierd as hell but some wahmen do this. She's not very good at it though because she exposed her cards to you. I think in this case you trusted your instincts and made the right call. If you still want to plate her you probably have a better chance now than you did before it ha… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 07:33 AM |
| 2 | I have no idea how to handle myself after a massive increase in smvIt's called "sacrificing the lamb", it was a PUA technique I heard about a long time ago that's stuck with me. It works great to put you in a joking mood if you do it a few times early in the night. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | I have no idea how to handle myself after a massive increase in smvYou should purposely mess up a few interactions so you stop taking it so serious | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 03:57 AM |
| 2 | How do you heal the spirit?You ever read Jed McKenna? You might find his books useful. Especially #2 and #3. First of all it could be hormone related. Maybe not fully, but if it is responsible for the negative slant to your feelings you owe it to yourself to fix it. See if taking iodine (or eating seaweed daily) fixes anything. You're probably deficient anyway. A lot of people see life is meaningless but still manage to enjoy it with vigor. A healthy body is a big part of that. One powerful realization for me was that the… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 10:01 AM |
| 2 | My best friend occasionally hit me where it hurts with insults why is this?Go for the jugular next time he does it. Dont show any reaction to anything he says. If he says you should be a therapist, tell him he should be a physical trainer because hes in such good shape. Ask him what diet hes on and what his training regimen is. Make sure you layer on the pretend admiration for this. Just keep hamming it up until he cant say anything. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 08:18 AM |
| 3 | How long will it take to get over my oneitis?Why do you think you'll be noticed? Stop obsessing over SMV and approach. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 04:43 AM |
| 4 | How do I interpret the Laws of Power?First of all in this particular case these two laws aren't mutually exclusive. You can do both, and in fact it would probably be more effective. But on to a more general point on LoP. And to answer your more general question about what to do when there appears to be contradiction. For instance Law 16 and Law 18 seem contradictory especially with the example of Law 16 given in the book (actually, it isn't but it can be depending on how you interpret Law 16) . When you read a book, you have to act… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Should you even care about women when you haven't fixed yourself yet?We have the internet and feminism today. Both "increase" (in our minds) pussy's value. I think porn is the elephant in the room when it comes to modern mans' shackling of himself to his desire for women. Becoming aware of it and how damaging it is for your status / frame is a red pill in itself. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Should I stop putting in effort to this friendship?Haha gay But seriously stop caring about all this if you can. It's good to have friends, to have allies. Ignore the piddly shit. If you are putting all your eggs in one basket, change that. Or take the eggs out and refocus your own mission for a while. Either way pay less attention to what he is or isnt doing. Using actions to change how people feel is manipulation. It can work but it's not a good look (unless it's a persuasion situation). Live and let live. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 12:18 PM |
| 28 | Why are women silent on what they actually want in a man?There are a number of reasons why they are not upfront and honest: - It doesn't benefit them at all. Being honest will only make them look bad. There's never going to be a shortage of men (they'll just take the top X% of males, and share if necessary), so there is no reason to be transparent. - They don't understand men are made, not born. They don't want guys logically thinking things out and turning their lives around because they want the "natural alpha" even if there is no difference, and ev… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 10:41 AM |
| 9 | Friend losing oneitis LTR to Tyrone.This subreddit is obsessed with SMV, probably because of how feminized the current society is. Too many guys want to be the prettiest boy in the room, they dont realize SMV is just a tool. If SMV is the paintjob on a car, Frame is the engine. Frame is what matters. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Is the concept of "community" masculine or feminine?I agree hierarchies are masculine, but I'd argue that hierarchy and community are different things. A hierarchy at its essence is just a ranking system based on some value(s). No community, communication, or relating is required. Some guy could be the best in the world at X skill - the top of the hierarchy. That skill is orthogonal to community and so is the hierarchy itself. In principle he or anyone else doesn't even need to be aware of the hierarchy. So societies utilize hierarchies, but hier… | /r/becomeaman | 29/01/19 07:15 AM |
| 0 | 5th date...no sex. “Traditional” girl who says she only has sex in a relationshipYou're treating her like a NAWALT, time to soft next. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 02:24 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with anger?You went from being beta to being angry. That's an improvement. Just keep improving and you'll be fine. You'll reach a point where anger won't serve you, probably sooner than you think. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 09:50 PM |
| 3 | What is the most important thing for success with women?Frame. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 12:11 AM |
| 7 | (Vent) "Women ARE children" It feels so surreal but now it feels like I finally can accept the pillThis is how I see it. Women have for 99% of human history been the ones to take care of children. When you spend a lot of time with someone or doing some thing, that activity will inevitably rub off on you. I call it the interface effect. If you are become an engineer you will become more logical minded, more "machine-like" because you interface with machines so often. You work with people, you become more personable, more like the average person. And so it's the same for women. Women are design… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Should i soft next her?Showing displeasure that she doesn't want to have sex is weak. It telegraphs a scarcity mindset and ruins the vibe for no reason. If she's not ready, she's not ready. 95% of the time she'll want to have sex in an hour or two if you're just ok with her not wanting to do it right now. Showing you don't care at all and maintaining a positive frame (as if she literally hadn't said anything) and continuing sexual sub-communication is the right move. Hell if you had just kept kissing her for a while a… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Missed out on the social experience of college, years later still miserable in my 20s. What action can I take to fix this?I highly recommend you get over it. Life is finite, you'll never do everything no matter who you are. Let go of the idea you "missed out", everyone misses out on something. Do what makes sense for you at this time. Play the cards you are dealt to the best of your ability. Don't motivate your present decisions on what you did or didn't happen in the past. Move towards a vision for your future instead. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Can someone put this into the womanese translator for me?You are acting within her frame, she is not acting within yours. That's why the whole thing is fucked up and weird, and neither of you are happy. Laying down the line next time she says something crazy would help. Don't let her paint you with a brush of being like "other guys" which is what she did with that first quote. It's a form of manipulation to justify her actions and even though you got what you wanted, by fucking you she won because she can rationalize her behavior according to her fram… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Pressure to not express opinions harming self esteemLaw of Power #38 - Think as you like but behave as others do I think the best way is to forget about politics and simply go after what you want. You can even "reform" yourself to ingratiate yourself with the right people (Law of Power #22 - Surrender as a tactic). The wise recognize political belief as just another means to control people, don't fall into it. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | I turned her down.A neutral glib response is best. Showing you care, even if you actually do, is weak and low status. High status men don't get emotional over small things. What you did wasn't wrong but it was sub-optimal. That plate is dropped. Maybe you didn't care, but if you didn't I don't think you would ask if you were being too harsh. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 05:54 AM |
| 1 | blonde vs brunette, I know its just a hair color but how odd is it for a guy to attract more of one than the other?"Birds of a feather flock together" is a much more powerful phenomenon than opposite attraction for women. I'm blanking on the psychological term for this effect, but it is the case. Also when faced with evidence contrary to your beliefs it's wise to at least start to question them. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | she likes 'nice guys'Read the first chapter of The Rational Male. There is no One, only Good Ones and Bad Ones. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 05:11 AM |
| 2 | she likes 'nice guys'The point of a frame is that there is no how. When you proceed from your frame it becomes clear, at least it does for me. It means looking at what she is literally saying and not getting pulled into some emotional bullshit. This is the default state which women will often subvert to test the strength of your frame. The fact she mentioned suicide is a red flag. Certain words in the English language have a lot of emotional content to them: abuse, suicide, rape, etc. Mentioning this could be a form… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 08:43 AM |
| 6 | she likes 'nice guys'I can only speak for myself. Guns = my frame, values, and principles. An important point: manipulation wouldn't be manipulation if it wasn't convincing. Kind of like how magic wouldn't be magic if it wasn't convincing. I'm not saying anything about her specifically, but women in general are natural manipulators. Their natural, unlearned skill far exceeds any natural manipulative skill men have. This isn't evil or bad, but it is true and women freely admit this. It is damn impressive how good the… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 08:03 AM |
| 38 | she likes 'nice guys'Ignore the words, judge her on her actions. Women will say things they don't mean all the time whether it's unconscious manipulation, outright manipulation, or just because a statement feels right in the moment (truth notwithstanding). Women naturally cover up their negative attributes much more aggressively and effectively than men. Stick to your guns | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Social anxietyI would not recommend drinking if you don't like it. It's a crutch. If you want to figure out how something works, take it apart. If you want to reduce your anxiety about messing with it, break it. I heard about this PUA technique years ago called "sacrificing the lamb". Act wilder and more arrogant / extreme / goofy / whatever you want to "break out" in your first few interactions with strangers. You almost want to purposely fuck up the interaction. This will loosen you up and take you out of y… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:51 AM |
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