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Ok bro... Is that your interpretation of what I said... Great for you!
/r/askMRP05/06/19 07:39 PM
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How'd you managed to change? If changed?
/r/askMRP05/06/19 07:24 PM
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I'm not thinking that right now... I'm thinking only to get a improved version of me. fucking is a consequence.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 07:22 PM
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No bro.. I'll only fuck someone else when I sign the divorce...
/r/askMRP05/06/19 07:18 PM
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I really don't search for it. Since I'm married.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 06:07 PM
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lol. I doubt she'll gonna fall...but let's try, eh? I have to break this wall.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 05:09 PM
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Thanks. I really didn't thought that way. Was wondering if it's just me... ​ It was the Nice Guy. ​ Not anymore.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 04:37 PM
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Thanks bro.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 04:09 PM
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I see. I got it. Basically I've always initiate with a kiss. She get a lot wet when I kiss her. That's why she stops. Last time I did that you told, she pushed me and said didn't want anything forced. And began speaking very angry..bla bla bla With that, I backed off. Every time. So if I act like that, she'll push. If not, push too.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 03:54 PM
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Last night my wife was walking past me in the kitchen - old me would have hugged her or tried to kiss her. Instead, I grabbed her ass, growled at her and then pulled her pants and panties down to her knees in one pull. She turns around and bends over and I fuck her over the island - fuck all that hugging and kissing bullshit - are you a man or a faggot? Last time I tried that, when we were "good" she said: It's not like that! It's not like you cannot fuck me whenever you want!"
/r/askMRP05/06/19 03:23 PM
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Nope. Zero.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 03:21 PM
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"If you are new here, now is the time to fake it until you make it. Get out of the house, if only to sit in a parking lot in the car and read the sidebar books. This will be more beneficial to your marriage than you reading the same book while sitting at home." ​ THAT. That it's what I have to do. I've always thought that "I'll read at my home office"..That's absolutely what I have to do.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 11:36 AM
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Lol
/r/askMRP05/06/19 10:08 AM
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Thanks babe. Thanks for the tip
/r/askMRP05/06/19 10:08 AM
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I'm understanding "frame". But can you explain your example?
/r/askMRP05/06/19 10:06 AM
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Yep. I see now.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 10:05 AM
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Increasing 10 kilos/week. It's my personal goal. I've started basically with 10kg on all exercises. Now I'm around 50/60kg.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 10:05 AM
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Thanks a lot brother. Great inputs. Could seem basic stuff from a lot of guys, but since I was codependent from her, it's new to me. Actually at Wednesdays I go to psychologist at 7pm. I've simply send her a message: you be home at 6.30? If not, I let our daughter at grandma and that's it. Thanks for the link!!
/r/askMRP05/06/19 10:01 AM
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Sure will do. That's my life goal now. One thing that I have a question, tho. As I take our daughter at school, I have to wait for her to arrive home so I can do my things...our daughter sleeps at 7:30 sharp. Isn't a form of her controlling me? Since she always have " that meeting that extended", etc. And I have to wait for her arrive so daughter don't be alone at home. Alternatives? Baby sitter? Grandma house?
/r/askMRP05/06/19 01:44 AM
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You motherfucker jack of all trades. He described me, my wife, my family and her family. That guy is a fucking sorcerer.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 01:11 AM
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*Wednesday retard
/r/askMRP05/06/19 01:07 AM
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Exactly her. And me. And I'm only a decent dad. Period. I have to man the fuck up.
/r/askMRP05/06/19 12:38 AM
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That's my wife on phase 1: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3fpefe/every_unhappy_wife_is_a_rape_victim/ctqqsl8?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/askMRP04/06/19 11:26 PM
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Not today. But I got your point.... Like a dog running in circles before lay down..right?
/r/askMRP04/06/19 11:13 PM
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I've got back to the gym after 10 years. Starting slow, but steady. Basically doing exercises to "fortify" muscles. Since I've lost a lot of weight, I lost muscles too. Basically the strong lifts program but less weights and more types of exercises. My personal trainer told me to do 2x a week. I'm doing 4x and running on weekends.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 10:45 PM
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I've just read two times the number 1. Absolutely amazing. That's who I am. Fuck.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 10:32 PM
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I'm aware. I need to do more work.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 10:13 PM
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After all the rejections, I need to build this again.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 10:11 PM
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I'm following the sidebar. Slips happen.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 09:53 PM
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She turned her head ...
/r/askMRP04/06/19 09:52 PM
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It's possible. Believe me ...
/r/askMRP04/06/19 09:52 PM
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Basically validation (or not) can only come from myself, right?
/r/askMRP04/06/19 09:29 PM
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Thanks for that
/r/askMRP04/06/19 09:25 PM
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Hahahahahahahahahahahah You're fucking absolutely right.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 08:23 PM
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It's the coming generations...lol
/r/askMRP04/06/19 08:18 PM
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You lived it.... You fixed it?
/r/askMRP04/06/19 08:04 PM
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Thanks for the links. Will dig into today.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 08:02 PM
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Stay plan = go plan. ​ Thanks.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 08:00 PM
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She controlled when it happened and how it happened. I had to walk on eggshells and make sure she didn't get mad at me so I could fuck at night. I That's exactly where I was. I'm not getting any of sex now...but..............let's see.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 05:18 PM
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"I don't need you, but I want you and choose to be with you". You sir, are a legend. ​ Never wants to go out, just wants to be on Instagram or be around the kids. Same shit here.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 05:08 PM
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you have to go back to old version. I had this doubt too. |You can find in the old version of Reddit
/r/askMRP26/05/19 11:07 PM
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I love you.
/r/askMRP26/05/19 10:56 PM
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May I ask what os TRT that you told on OYS?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 11:07 PM
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Your OYS history is exactly like mine. The only difference is that we have only one daughter and I told her that I'll not move from city because of her job. Thank god I didn't did that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 10:59 PM
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Absolutely right bro. I didn't get the frame definition yet... i meant the "core" principle of it .Or some examples..but I'll get this shit
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 10:17 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/9gpbj9/fr\_go\_all\_in/ Man.... I can't see the day wwhich this will happens to me: " Later, my wife said nothing but did I ever get laid that night, wow. "
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 12:06 AM
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After years, that didn't seem to work, so I drew the opposite card and acted extremely butthurt when denied. I would give her the silent treatment for days, neglecting the house and even my kids, thinking that would show her the way. Nothing changed. Are you talking about me??? LOL.... because after so many rejections and NO’s, I just stopped initiating. That's me too, but only after 5 - 6 years of marriage... ​ I have been slowly initiating again, In my case, I simply don't initiate anymore. I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 11:48 PM
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OYS # 3 OYS # 2 (#1 here) Things are going fine. Wife is travelling for work. Will be back next Sunday. It's me and my daughter only. I've started in a job last Monday. After 4 years as SAHD as some of you read. Anxiety controlled a LOT. When I was a SAHD and my wife would travel I was almost having panick attacks. Also, with this new job, I'm trying to get busy 100% of the time, so I don't think about what's happening and focus on me. The job is... Meh. Fuck that. I'm returning to the market an…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 11:38 PM
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Yes brother... I really understood what everyone said. I get your point too. I think that since I'm leaving that fucking nice guy syndrome, I have a wall to the "other side".. so I'm hammering this wall. I woke up this morning thinking about that . Thanks bro... And you're absolutely not wasting your time. You guys are helping me in a way that you can even imagine.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 11:11 AM
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I was wondering here.... Which is the limit to say that I miss her since she's travelling and doesn't show like I'm looking for acceptance/validation? If there's a limit, btw.... Or I'm just being the abandoned poor baby?
/r/askMRP19/05/19 11:18 PM
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I've just started. I'm in number 2. Thanks bro.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:43 PM
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You're right. I didn't knew what was frame til this happened.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 07:54 PM
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Continue.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 06:44 PM
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Exactly... That's why I'm using him as reference...
/r/askMRP19/05/19 03:28 PM
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Captain butthurt here. I freeze too, because she always denied. Always. Some years ago I said to her that I was looking for someone to have sex with me, since she didn't wanted. I love her, find her attractive, etc. But on the last few weeks any of my approaches results in frustration. Like, take her hand, she manages to get rid of it, only give a lip kiss, etc.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 03:26 PM
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Cool. Where are you with the sidebar, lifts, and dread? I'm into. But my mind isn't liking the changes.....that's why this cry baby....
/r/askMRP19/05/19 02:39 PM
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Yes, A 50 year old granny?
/r/askMRP19/05/19 02:32 PM
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PURE GOLD. Thanks brother.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 02:32 PM
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Yeah man. I was working at home....but fuck that. I can't. Thanks bro.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 02:31 PM
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Yep. As sbIII said, I was a say at.home mommy ...her little puppet, since I was unemployed ... Thanks for make me think, bro.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 11:49 AM
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That's exactly the fucking thing I have to do. Thanks brother
/r/askMRP19/05/19 11:45 AM
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You're a true motherfucker. I can only say thank you. (Actually on those 4 years I've lost 36 kilos..lol i have 82kg now..and stopped smoking too). I don't know who da fuck you are, if you are real. But I have to say that you're helping me a lot. Not only you, but all the guys here. Have in mind that you're doing something good, even here on internet. I'm writing your comment here.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 11:37 AM
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I'm writing in my notes right now and it came a thought. Since my goal is to fix me and consequently my marriage, acting like "there's leftovers, bye" doesn't seem like I gave up all? I remember that she said that we're living like colleagues, so acting like that isn't gonna to reinforce that "roommate" situation?
/r/askMRP19/05/19 11:28 AM
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My wife went to travel now. Simply said: the taxi is waiting for me. GOOD. I'm forging my mind to doesn't give a f***, although I'm posting here...lol Also, I don't think she'll miss us because she's workaholic...like her job is her primary priority above all. What surprises me most is that behavior like I'm a fucking stranger. Good. Let's digest and learn from that.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:51 AM
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I have to internalize this feeling. I'm exactly at that point you've mentioned. Thanks bro
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:49 AM
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Basically was a restaurant that I wanted to go for years, but since I was her little puppy, I was waiting the "right time".
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:48 AM
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Yep. Working on that
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:47 AM
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Thanks bro.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:47 AM
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Thanks for sharing bro. I have to internalize all of that. I'm on MMSLP but will dive into MAP.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:45 AM
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It's me. I've posted a few weeks ago about what was happening. But basically she doesn't give a fuck anymore because I was unemployed and she is a manager from a company. So I was the SAHD and basically flipped the roles
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:43 AM
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Not at all! I'll prove to you
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:41 AM
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Great advice. Detach and internalize. I'll write your comment in my notebook. Thanks a lot brother.
/r/askMRP19/05/19 10:41 AM
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OYS # 2 (#1 here) Things are going fucking well. I'm fucking indestructible. Or sort of. From last OYS: - More LIFTS - More STFUs Last week was my rock bottom. My end of the path. I'm coming back now. I'm going forward/upward. - u/SBIII, I GOT A FUCKING JOB AFTER 4 YEARS. Start next Monday (it was this Wednesday but the Laptop didn't arrived yet). - Got some compliments from wife's aunts: Ohh,, you're so pretty in that shirt (my wife always said that shirt with some flowers didn't had anything t…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 01:50 PM
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u/SBIII Really consider your thoughts on that...
/r/askMRP15/05/19 10:43 AM
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Forgot to mention... At night as I was very happy with job and for running a 3k marathon, I was gonna give her a kiss. Not with any second intention. She turned her face and kept pushing me. I gave 3 taps on her shoulder and went to the gym.
/r/askMRP13/05/19 10:50 PM
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Thanks for that, brother.
/r/askMRP13/05/19 12:48 PM
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You're absolutelly right brother.
/r/askMRP13/05/19 12:47 PM
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You can see today as your lowest point and every day you will improve from here. Let that motivate and feed your drive. EXACTLY THAT.
/r/askMRP13/05/19 12:46 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. Awesome. That's the right path. Thaks for your inspiration.
/r/askMRP13/05/19 12:46 PM
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Always good to read your posts. I totally agree with you. I've printed some CVs and got dressed up. I'm taking a coffee right now and going to some places to deliver them. I'm writing this with tears in my eyes. I've tried.. God knows that I've tried all things in the last two years when I've opened my store. Didn't worked out. My wife always telling me that was fine and I was blind to see that wasn't. And now when I need the most of her support she walk away. I'm not looking for pity, but... Se…
/r/askMRP09/05/19 11:57 AM
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I'm improving myself. Lifting, dress, stfu, all those things. She isn't fucking him. That's for sure. As you said, it's a matter of time. I can't find a fucking job. All the interviews and shit, but nothing. I'm fucked up. I really don't know what to do.
/r/askMRP09/05/19 10:04 AM
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, I would cut him from my life entirely.. Yep. Stoped since November/2018. Since then my life began to rise up. Thanks SB
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 12:55 PM
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Pure gold.
/r/askMRP08/05/19 12:12 PM
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OYS #1 (discovered MRP around 1 month). Stats (I'll use metric system...lol): 33yo, 82 kilos, 1.85 cm. Lot of fat to burn yet. I had 118 kilos. Background: 1 kid 4yo, SAHD. Working as a marketing freelancer. I opened my eyes when about 1 month ago my wife almost left. Four years ago I was dismissed from job and tried into another profession that didn't worked out (I was into that new profession around 2 years and zero income). Wife said she could handle the bills. I think I lost the "power" when…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 12:38 AM
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" overcoming my lower back pain issues with my herniated disc " I'm lifting/doing other exercises but afraid to do 5x5 stronglifts because of that problem too....can you give me some tips? Great improvement brother.
/r/askMRP07/05/19 01:59 PM
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BTW...I've just read your history. Basically the same shit I'm passing now.
/r/askMRP03/05/19 12:59 AM
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The hardest battle you have to fight is the war you wage on yourself Thanks for that.
/r/askMRP03/05/19 12:50 AM
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Have a look at Mike Matthews "1 year challenge". I did SL for six months then 5-3-1 for another six months. Serious grind. Got much stronger but aesthetically, dissapointed. I switched to the 1 year program in January and am very impressed with the results. It includes the Big 3 lifts but has a lot more accessory work than a lot of programs. I went for the 3 day a week program and I added in a fourth day that I program to address any weak lifts or lagging muscles. There's less volume on the Big …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 01:17 PM
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you're right.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 11:58 AM
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You think too much. A LOT! Fuck. I'm lifting now.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 11:55 AM
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5th post in the last 6 days, Yep... Thanks brother.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 11:53 AM
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Awesome. Thanks.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 11:52 AM
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This was me 2 years ago. A SAHD with no job, no ambition, no drive, no money. Just two young kids and a house to look after. And a dead bedroom to contend with. You have some post about your history? I would like to see how you managed to turn the tables.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 11:50 AM
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The solution isn't to tell her how depressed you are and threaten suicide, my brother did that and started looking at houses for rent the very next day and was moved out by the end of the week. The right move for you, and for him, is too get pissed off. Like REALLY pissed off. Not at her either, but at yourself. You have been the problem the entire time. Total drunk captain. BINGO.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 11:48 AM
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Fix that shit, then try initiating sex. You'll be amazed at the difference it makes. Thanks, SB. You have no idea how this helped me. I'm fucking frustrated because even a fucking minimal wage job I can't get. thanks a lot to open my eyes.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 11:46 AM
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Btw every night we give a good night kiss. Even that isn't going anymore. Fuck that. I'm rebuilding myself.
/r/askMRP29/04/19 01:08 AM
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That was a problem. I'm very fucking predictable....
/r/askMRP26/04/19 08:05 PM
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Thanks bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 08:03 PM
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I didn't looked by this way. Really. Now things are clearing.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 08:02 PM
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I'm not...lol
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 08:01 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 08:01 PM
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Exactly that, Seamus...
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 08:00 PM
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Thanks a lot brother. Gave me a perspective. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 08:00 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 07:56 PM
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Sorry to say that but I've got a hard one here.
/r/askMRP26/04/19 07:41 PM
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I've searched a lot of what is "OI" and "SGM". DIdn't find on sidebar. Can you explain?
/r/askMRP26/04/19 06:26 PM
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Every so often I experiment with different verbal and physical approaches to the foggy swampland of foreplay and sexual negotiation with my wife with some good results of me feeling like it was sex that we both engaged in for the right reasons. Sometimes I'm still struggling to keep myself out of that viscous cycle of having sex FOR THE WRONG REASONS, but I'm making progress to establish what is my frame, how to define it, maintain it, and let her work within its boundaries. Thanks, dubs. Thanks…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 12:50 PM
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yes :/
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 12:05 PM
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There's a smaller list since the 12-step program seems to large at the moment. Hmm..I didn't delete the post..isn't working there? Yeah, I'm lifting! As I said in a comment, for strange that it may seems, I've just discovered the sidebar content. I was using reddit's new version and it doesn't show all sidebar content like old version.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/19 12:05 PM
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Where I can find ? I have no idea how to use reddit...lol
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:52 AM
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Thanks. I think I was (am) desperate.
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:51 AM
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thanks!!
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:51 AM
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You're overthinking this. Yep. I noticed that. Thanks.
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:51 AM
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I dunno if it's subconscious, but I have a limit to try to initiate sex with her. Maybe was all the "NO's". I get your point. Made me think. Thanks a lot!
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:50 AM
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dude... Hit the gym, read some books, take the time to figure out what the fuck you want, because right now you're in no position to be taking or asking for advice. Thanks!!
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:47 AM
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you're right. For strange that it may seems, I've just discovered the sidebar...I was seeing the "new" reddit version that doesn't have that side bar. Youre absolutelly fucking right. Maybe I didn't interpreted the text.
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:47 AM
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thanks. I needed to read that.
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:44 AM
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LOLLLLLLLL
/r/askMRP26/04/19 11:43 AM
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Dunno if it's fine, but I'm doing 3x15. Feels ok.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 11:16 PM
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Second that. Low carb diet made me lost 40 kilos.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 11:11 PM
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Thanks. Awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 11:08 PM
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Don't let this be a 1-week hype, but really a tipping point in your life (as it has been to most of us in MRP). There is no turning back, and remember, do not talk about fight club. Thanks a lot. I'm getting after it. Nice to talk about that here.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 01:39 PM
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Thanks brother! I bought that book on Amazon. It's the next book that I'll read. I'm sorry but what is SBIII?
/r/askMRP24/04/19 01:38 PM
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Thanks brother!
/r/askMRP24/04/19 01:37 PM
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