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Then you need to change your OP to state that rather than just sitting there complaining about women having options and how women don’t give loser men a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:26 PM
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Men aren’t “good” men if their morals can be compromised just because they are “thirsty”. Your argument comes across as an entitled yet desperate man trying to shame top teir women into accepting their mediocrity. Everyone will be much better off if men as a whole just stopped expecting women to settle for losers and embraced that some men will be voted out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:22 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:25 PM
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Why not just get a traditional male job over there? You want the woman to do her traditional jobs so why wouldn’t you do the traditional male jobs? It seems like cheating if you get to relax or have an easy high paying job while she slaves away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:11 PM
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They don’t sound free. They sound shackled to responsibility while men leave the home for extended periods of time to get out of doing work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:04 PM
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I thought the same thing. Women expected to do 150% of the work and men only do 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:34 PM
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Since Mongolia aligns so much with your views on lifestyle have you considered moving there? It will be a lot easier for men who think like you to move there than to try to sell their lifestyle to modern women who aren’t interested. Based on how you described the Mongolian way of doing things it sounds like a lot more work for women to couple up over than to just stay single so your best bet is to be proactive and move there rather than sitting around hoping that one day western women will get s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:31 PM
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Some people just have to learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:51 PM
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Are you surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:37 PM
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Why the heck would anyone want to build compatibility rather than just select for it? This whole post is coming across as a pick me post where loser men try to get women to lower their standards. Working out problems that could have just been avoided by “choosing better” saves women from the stress and hardship of dealing with a loser man. What needs to be accepted asap is that staying single is better than a shitty relationship that requires you to constantly compromise and work through bullshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:54 AM
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I have just as much of a positive impact on them as they have on the women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:50 PM
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This wouldn’t work because most men’s first question would be “Are you DTF?” and when a woman said “No” he would give her a low score and women would give men a low score for asking that so almost everyone’s score would be low thus making the conversation ranking useless. Also hot people would still get the most matches regardless of score because everyone wants a hot partner so there will be no “accountability” for hot people who ghost or whatever other behavior you want to correct especially w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:32 PM
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Looks like the Supreme Court will rule on birth right citizenship tomorrow. The result of that case could change a lot of things regarding immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:11 AM
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That will depend on the president and currently that’s not very likely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:36 PM
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Women aren’t treated like children by the government only by men trying to takeaway women’s rights and freedoms however men constantly act like children throwing a tantrum in an attempt to get their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:37 PM
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The world’s future will be rather interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:43 PM
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So what is the percentage of men who voted in favor of the bill you’re whining about? Bet it was a man who introduced this legislation 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:42 PM
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I highly doubt it’s by choice. Expect to see that number drop as women get equal rights and freedom like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:41 PM
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Men will be better off making a deal with women. They can yield anytime they value society above their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:39 PM
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Lol! It’s not vanity it’s exercising my free will. Men and the government at large needs to make their propositions appealing to women if they want to have a successful negotiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:29 PM
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And that attitude is a great example of why women are ignoring men. When men are done throwing a tantrum maybe women will come back to the table to make a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:27 PM
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Lmao 🤣 If men are going to push abortion bans onto women where women can’t make their own decisions without “the state always stepping in to protect ‘men’ from their own decisions as if they’re children” then expect laws against men in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:25 PM
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Lol nope! American.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:21 PM
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Men can yield at any time and “save the world”. Funny how women are the only ones blamed for exercising their free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:18 PM
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Really!? Im hoping for a .5 birth rate 🤞. With the high competition for jobs and houses plus the coming ai/robotic/tech boom things are hard enough for the people currently alive we don’t need more mouths to feed and more future competition for basic necessities. People can breed like rabbits after society is fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:58 PM
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No money no honey 🤷‍♀️ It seems silly for women to take on the risks and burden of sex at their own expense while men get to just have a good time and gain status from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:47 PM
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Dogs bark, babies cry, men on average have a higher libido than women on average do. The only solution is for men to accept it. Trying to get women to have the same sex drive as men is like trying to get the sun to rise in the west and set in the east. We need to live in reality not fantasy land and work with how things are not how we wish they could be. Men having unrealistic sexual expectations is one of the biggest reasons the dating market is getting worse. So yes this is something most men …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:48 AM
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Men like to glaze over the fact that most men get more sex in a relationship than they do on the streets even if sex is less frequent than they desire. It’s such an important point they always avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:45 PM
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My female friends don’t try to fuck me. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:45 PM
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I never said they remove value. It’s just a basic consideration/observation to determine if someone should continue to use their time to calculate another persons values. So it’s neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:23 PM
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So how have YOU contributed to society or are you just trying to take credit for what others have done? Man I love seeing men act like they have value just because they have a job and pay taxes as if they deserve an award outside of their paycheck and the agreed upon benefits (health insurance, paid time off etc) they get from their employer. People don’t have value just for breathing, working a job and providing the basics for themselves. 🙄 Talk about entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:18 PM
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So do you believe everything Allison Tieman tells you to or do you actually look at the real world and make your own decisions? Seems you aren’t paying attention to new content or comparing more sources outside of your bubble of beliefs but that’s common in the red pill community. I find it’s best to leave red pill men be so they can enjoy their beliefs since we all know no amount of evidence will change their mind. Enjoy Allison’s lectures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:10 PM
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Sex organs don’t give a person their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:00 PM
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Stay single. I’m sure the answer will come to you after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:41 PM
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Someone has to have value in order to be valued. No one has value just for existing. Just because someone is heterosexual doesn’t automatically give all the members of the opposite sex value. I know men on average regardless of sexual orientation do prioritize sex more than women of any sexual orientation do. Maybe that’s where the disconnect in value is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:33 PM
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Good for you. I will never choose someone who is a negative trade off either. Some women just require less than others to be satisfied. Maybe that’s all they think they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:45 PM
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There is the man’s role and the woman’s role. Women shouldn’t be doing 100% of their role and 50% of the man’s role just so a man can sit around and half ass the 50% he is responsible for. I’m all for everyone staying single maybe then one day men will wake up after their mommy passes away and they have to get off their ass and do something of value to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:42 PM
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One can only hope 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:38 PM
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That’s because SOME men provide value. It’s too bad most don’t. Sex and love isn’t worth sacrificing your lifestyle for. Also your poor attempt at a personal attack doesn’t help your argument it just makes you look bad because you have to resort to slander since your opinion is so weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:37 PM
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My life has to improve with a partner not become worse and unfortunately most relationships lower your quality of life as a woman not make it better. I understand men’s lives get better with a mediocre relationship but my single life is too precious to compromise and lower my standard of living for just so I can say I have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:34 PM
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So if a woman is paying all the bills then why should she have a man in her life at all? Like what is his purpose for being there? A woman giving up her peace to support a man is wild. If a woman is earning more then her quality of life decreases by supporting a man. She is better off staying single and childfree because men create more stress and work in a woman’s life and she’s getting no benefits from such an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:14 AM
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If a guy is an “incel” then why would sone random woman’s opinion matter? He clearly isn’t doing well in the dating market so he mind as well go pay a sex worker. Your conspiracy theory just doesn’t make sense. If a woman doesn’t want a guy she doesn’t care if he goes to see a sex worker as she doesn’t care about that random guy or his lifestyle. Why should a woman care about some random? Men think they are way more important to women than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:01 AM
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I have no idea who it is either but what I do know is I’m not going to help him make money by viewing his content.🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:42 AM
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Never heard of these people before and I think it’s silly for men to cherry pick this example when it’s common knowledge for nursing staff to help prepare women who get cancer or any other terminal or body altering disease for the fact their husband has a high likelihood of cheating or divorcing her but that isn’t the case with men with cancer or other body altering diseases. One example of a woman leaving for reasons we don’t know doesn’t go against the years of observations of hospital/medical…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:37 AM
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How would it make men feel worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:20 PM
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Fair enough. If people want to waste their time with such a post it’s their right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:31 PM
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I have my suspicions but since I can’t 100% argue it I didn’t officially report it and instead posted under the auto mod instead. I figured you mods could check it if others had similar doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:23 PM
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I thought ai generated posts were now banned 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:14 PM
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If women liked the patriarchy and it was good for women then women wouldn’t fight so hard against it. Why should women perfect something that we don’t like and doesn’t benefit us?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:10 PM
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It’s common sense to treat every gun as if it’s a loaded gun regardless of your past intentions with guns or that specific gun’s history.the fact of the matter is men are stronger and a penis can be used to hurt women thus as long as those things are true women have no choice but to be cautious around men regardless of a man’s history or feelings because that woman’s safety and well being is on the line. ALL women should love and respect themselves enough to protect themselves against harm and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:06 PM
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Men still date because they feel entitled to women’s bodies because that’s what their father and especially grandfather had. Women still date because they are stupid and believe in love and that a man will provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:24 PM
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That IS the solution however men are too cheap and it hurts their ego too much to pay for a hooker plus men feel entitled to have access to women’s bodies so handling their ✨ NEEDS ✨🙄 on their own indefinitely is too much of a mental burden on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:18 PM
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This OP comes across as men trying to disguise their desire to isolate women. Why can’t you be happily marry and still have social media? It’s like men don’t want women to have easy access to friends, family, coworkers or the ability to meet new friends, learn about new hobbies or ideas etc. The idea of giving up EVERYTHING social to be under your spouses thumb as if you aren’t trust worthy alone is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:52 PM
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You aren’t looking for “sympathy”. You’re looking for someone to donate their time and energy to listen to and comfort you as well as potentially offering solutions to your problems while getting nothing but stressed out from you in return. You aren’t considering the other person’s feeling and what’s going on in their life. You just think your problems are more important and deserve attention above the other person’s problems and peace showing you don’t value the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:06 PM
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I feel sympathy for humans regardless of gender, age, ethnicity, sexuality etc. however they have to have a real issue and not some bs wah wah wah I can’t get no strings attached sex “problem”. Also you can feel sympathy for someone without sacrificing your time, energy or peace bending over backwards to help them. It seems you think sympathy = sacrificing your time and/or labor for someone and that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:01 PM
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It shouldn’t be that hard for him. After all he expects women to do it so surely a man can do it too.😏
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:57 PM
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Because he is a loser in his home country so his status should improve in a 3rd world country where competition for work shouldn’t be that difficult for him. He can be a big fish in a little pond rather than a little fish in a big pond.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:41 PM
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If there are equal numbers of men to women then there is enough for everyone to pair up with someone. It might not be someone you prefer but it would be your equal based on what men and women find desirable in each other. For example rich men get hot women. The problem is men thinking they are entitled to the best when they are a loser. Losers don’t get young hot women they get loser women or both sides stay single and don’t produce more loser children that society doesn’t need more of. Society …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:31 PM
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Taking reproduction out of the equation they provide value to society in the same way women do. Society needs a variety of people with a variety of skill sets. Men and women are both needed. I think the issue here is that usually when this topic is brought up it’s because men are looking for leverage to get sex by saying “if society wants/needs x then I want sex in return” as if they are going to get a government issued wife/sex slave and that isn’t going to happen. So men are needed in society …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:24 PM
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Men talk about this every so often here. It’s always the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:15 PM
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To make matters worse I believe (at least here in America) you can only sponsor ONE spouse to get a green card in your life time so if someone is tricked they don’t get a redo to bring another potential spouse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:13 PM
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Why don’t men who want a foreign wife just move to her country? Then she can be with the guy for him and not the green card or work opportunities in his country he provides her access to. This way we know it for love and not gold digging and he is with her for love and not just using her situation to leverage her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:10 PM
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If women feel getting married to a guy they don’t like is their only way out of poverty then that isn’t really consent since men are taking advantage of her situation to get her to do something she wouldn’t otherwise do if she had the money to say no. Also most countries are struggling with a low birth rate so trying to eliminate other countries and their cultures just so loser men in our country can get their blue balls rubbed without improving themselves to a bare minimum dating standard is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:06 PM
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This hypothetical is just a way for men to control women. With a roughly equal amount of men and women it is fair for both sides already. The dating/relationship market is supposed to be about trading so both sides get what they want not just one side and men are refusing to give women what they want which is why the trade isn’t happening. It can’t be men win while women lose and a gender imbalance does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:59 PM
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Stupid people have the most children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:37 PM
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I don’t think men care much for anything outside of looks, body count, sex drive and for himself to not be expected to do much around the house or to pay more than half the bills. Men are even more excited if they aren’t expected to commit legally in a marriage. I do not see the average man in a positive light.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:22 PM
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No it isn’t. It’s a statement of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:18 PM
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I didn’t ask you to 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:52 PM
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No. Men value different things. That’s why men constantly say women’s education and careers don’t matter and why men always focus on a woman’s age and body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:31 PM
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Red pill podcasters use their real face all the time to sell books, courses and crypto scams to make money as well as creating clickbate videos so I don’t see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:23 PM
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Naaa she is smart for making money off of the views and engagement that kind of content brings in since men in the manosphere can’t resist that kind of click bait. Bet she knew that kind of video would get passed around and could go viral which would lead to her other videos getting more views as well. Make that money sis!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:48 PM
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Awwwww :( poor ai! I’m always so nice when I interact with ai. Ai is so kind 🤖 ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:43 PM
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Probably because the “accurate information” brought up is usually just someone’s opinion, agenda or revenge fantasy and nothing of real value. Also bringing up those kind of heated topics while talking about another topic is a common tactic used by men to try to stop women from talking about their hardships or to completely derail the conversation at hand. Men who bring these topics up to try to shut women up are best avoid as nothing productive ever results from interacting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:33 PM
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It’s not based on gender 🙄 See what I mean about you trying to start something when there is nothing there. If you want to argue about whatever it is that is unrelated to the current topic at hand then go find someone who is actually interested in that subject/problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:19 PM
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Yep. Feel free to make your own topic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:16 PM
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It seems you have an agenda. I respond to what I’m interested in and that’s all there is to it. I have enough things I think about and look into. I have no intention on taking other issues so stop trying to make this something bigger than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:58 PM
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I only responded to topics I’m interested in. However since you’re so passionate about the subject why don’t you address the matter with those women when it happens? It’s unrealistic to expect everyone to respond to every topic under the Sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:22 PM
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As a virgin I’m sure my point of view is very different than what you’re assuming it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:21 PM
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You know you can make your own OP about this topic rather than trying to derail the conversation right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:18 PM
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It doesn’t matter what men are attracted to as long as it’s legal. The only thing that matters is if men can gracefully accept staying single when they don’t get what they want. Women can do that so men should be able to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:10 PM
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The reason why women view so many men as “beneath them” is because women don’t want a downgraded lifestyle for themselves or any offspring they may have. Things have to be better partnered up or it’s not worth being in a relationship at all. Breaking even isn’t enough. If each generation of women didn’t push to get more we would probably still be living in the Stone Age because men don’t have an incentive to do better if they’re just gifted sex and children and a companion. Men right now are jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:00 PM
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It depends on how you define what a “good” woman is. Most men aren’t interested in principles/morals or in women having their shit together. It’s usually about looks, sex drive and body count. So depending on what the guy considers “good” to be will dictate the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:15 PM
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It’s not just the experiment angle but also that he would want to appear straight to get benefits at work or in society and that he would want to open the relationship because he likes both men and women and thus the woman would be expected to put up with being cheated on. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:06 PM
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Rather than waiting a couple of generations in the hopes perceptions will change why not just date someone who is open to who you are and what you like. There seems to be this big push by men to get women to date and pair off with men those women aren’t interested in for a variety of reasons so why waste time trying to change someone’s mind? Honestly it seems you’re trying to make a mountain out of a molehill. Not everything has or even needs an elaborate explanation. Sometimes one person’s yum …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:48 PM
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I think things are better now that people can see what people use to keep to themselves because there were social consequences for being this honest before and people were more likely to end up trapped in bad relationship or situation (single mom with no work experience) when this knowledge was learned through first hand experience only. Specifically I think men benefit more from women being kept in the dark about male nature than vise versa so as a woman I am all for women seeing exactly what m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:39 AM
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Not necessarily. You’re over thinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:50 PM
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It’s indifference you’re picking up on not hate. Hate requires actually feeling something for men and myself and many other women are past that point now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:34 PM
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It’s not a “random venting post 5 years ago” it’s more and more men constantly preaching about how women deserve to be hurt on YouTube, in podcasts and on other social media platforms while also selling training courses and boot camps on how to trick women for men’s personal gain. It might not be all men but it’s always a man so best to stay single at this point. When men become desperate and depressed enough they should be more willing to compromise till then let the birthrate plummet to hell a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:56 PM
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Women do not hate men. Indifference isn’t hatred. Men do have to make a woman’s life better or what’s the point of partnering up with a man. Men should get value as well but that’s usually a given since men want sex more as well as kids and care giving/house keeping so women are still providing value but men aren’t providing any more and the people women need protection from are men so it’s hard to give men credit for protecting women when they are the reason women need protection in the first p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:48 PM
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They wouldn’t fail because they have the same sex drive/spontaneous desire and relationship goals that other men have. Men would relate more to other men when it comes to what they want out of dating so it’s easier for men to get a match with another man on a dating app then match with a woman. Dating problems aren’t about having a male or female dating profile it’s a difference in relationship/life goals, how desire occurs differently in each gender and the difference in the risk vs reward when…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:36 PM
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Why do you think women are staying single? Women have little incentive to date ugly, poor, commitment avoidant or any other loser man. No amount of whining will change that. Women will date who they want or stay single so why bother with a topic like this that isn’t going to change anyone’s mind or convince anyone to settle for someone they aren’t interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:38 PM
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No you don’t know because you have the mind and sex drive of a man not a woman. We are NOT the same. No one loves a penis more than a gay man and no one loves a vigina more than a straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:18 PM
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I think most of those are too easy. Maybe it should be more of an adult challenge than a teen challenge. I liked your travel suggestion that requires planning, confidence/independence and saving money which are great skills to prove maturity/adulthood. Another good option would be holding a full-time job for 3 consecutive years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:16 PM
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The issue is girls puberty is embarrassing because it focuses around her private parts why should boys be celebrated for something that’s not as embarrassing as it is for the girls? Honestly it’s weird to celebrate puberty at all. Perhaps everyone should just have a bigger 18th birthday celebration to celebrate adulthood instead. Then there is nothing embarrassing tied to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:48 PM
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The issue is dating apps are allowing men to pay to DM women who have swiped left on them. Men are forcing their sexual desire onto women who aren’t interested as if a woman’s no is negotiable. This makes women more hostile because our choices and boundaries keep getting ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:22 AM
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What’s the point of debating this topic? Women are NOT magically going to start giving men they aren’t interested in sex. Men MUST offer women what women want or they will not get sex or a relationship point blank period. No amount of whining or trying to shame women will ever change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:03 AM
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The issue is you can control working out, what job you apply for, how hard you work and how you treat others and yourself. You can’t control women not being interested in most men or women being risk adverse when it comes to the consequences of casual sex being more of a burden to women. Most women aren’t going to be on board with giving loser men they aren’t interested in casual sex and nothing is magically going to change women’s minds about that so you mind as well do what is in your control …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:54 PM
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That’s true. I didn’t put enough weight into how a lot of men are behind in life some due to their own choices and others by happenstance. I can see that being why they cling to sex if they have no other goals or don’t think they can or will ever be able to achieve anything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:31 PM
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If you make being lusted after your entire value that. would be the case but you can gain self esteem and confidence with personal physical fitness changes, at work by earning promotions or being recognized by the team aloud or in an email for your contribution to a project, by seeing the value you are bringing to your community when you volunteer or by treating yourself even if it is something small like a meal out or a sweet treat. You can feel happy, confident and needed in ways outside of se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:28 PM
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I think that is the best approach for men who feel experiencing casual sex is imperative to their personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:22 PM
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OP is saying men should get casual sex in general. It could be with a 50 year old psycho bi land whale who has 4 kids from 4 baby daddies and a 4 figure body count. Men in general don’t have a prayer of getting casual no strings attached sex with a young hot babe. In fact most never will. Men need to learn to accept their match and not their looks match but their financial and lifestyle match. When you are matched with your equal I doubt it will be about getting an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:18 PM
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I think his complaint is that there aren’t enough women handing out casual sex and fwb relationships to undesirable or shy men just men they are attracted to that they call “chads”. Idk how he expects to win women over and make women want to give out no strings attached sex to men they aren’t attracted to. Wish OP would enlighten us because just saying men should experience casual sex isn’t going to magically make women in mass interested in passing around their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:10 PM
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Or buying a new book and an ice coffee on a self care day. 🤩 It never ceases to surprise me how men don’t get validation and satisfaction from things outside of sex. It’s like sex is the center of their universe and they must circle around it constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:38 PM
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It’s really not. Being lusted after by men you don’t like and aren’t what we are looking for is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:34 PM
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I have noticed an uptick in males spewing this kind of hatred recently and purposely being vague about it because they know what they think would more than likely get them banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:06 PM
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They have side effects and aren’t 100% guaranteed to work. So without easily accessible cheap abortions as a back up and the ability for young women to get their tubes tied without push back from doctors it’s a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:57 PM
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The math isn’t mathing. The birth rate has been declining for over a decade and it’s still declining. That means every year more women age out of men’s preferred age range than age into it. So more and more men are going to be competing for fewer and fewer young women. There is no where near enough young women alive (even if 100% of them dated old men) for every man who wants one to attract one. So it seems the real solution for men is simply accepting their fate and living the rest of their lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:27 PM
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It’s fine on dating apps or at a club/bar. It makes it easier for women who want commitment to weed out men who just want sex. However there is a problem if you do it at inappropriate places like at work, the gym, the grocery store, library/bookstore or park. If it’s not a set place where people are looking to meet others and are just going about their daily lives it’s not acceptable to ask that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:58 AM
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No. Without slut shaming women would still have to worry about pregnancy and the increasing difficulty of getting or affording the medical care they need to deal with pregnancy or termination as well as being raped and being pressured to drop the complaint due to the high cost of rape kits, how women are treated by police and in court and the weak punishments (if any) that is give to men who are convicted. If slut shaming went away it would just make women more likely to talk openly about their …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:44 AM
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What would you do in a marriage when you have had all the kids you want and can afford? Will you get your tubes tied or just quit having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:19 AM
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You said your peace involves your “lover” not wife or partner not best friend or soul mate not better half, sweetheart, significant other or companion. Lover specifically implies sex why not choose a different term if you were thinking of your life partner is ways outside of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:09 PM
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So your peace is sex? That’s normal for men but not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:36 PM
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Men who try to isolate women are a major red flag. It starts with what you are saying OP. Men ask why can’t I be everywhere you are and listen to every conversation you have? Why can’t I control who you see and what hobbies, restaurants and trips you go to with your friends, family or on your own? This is a tactic used by men to isolate women so when the man starts treating her like shit she doesn’t have friends or family to turn to for help. Men use this smothering behavior to make women feel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:32 PM
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A good relationship is better than being alone BUT being alone is wwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy better than being in a bad relationship. I find it’s better to be safe than sorry and when it comes to relationships that is practiced by waiting for someone you click with and not accepting a relationship with any old body just to avoid being single. There are a lot worse things you can suffer when you’re in a relationship that goes sour than you can suffer when you’re single. I don’t understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:23 PM
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Funny. The only person who brought up race is you. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:26 PM
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This take is just from misogynist who are angry there aren’t more subs where they can openly preach their woman hating agenda to a choir of other misogynist or try to “humble” women in an attempt to get more women to settle for losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:09 PM
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Lol if men don’t want to pay taxes then they can quit their job, be homeless and mooch off the government. If they don’t want to fight in a war then don’t sign up for the military. We haven’t had a draft in decades and IF there is one men can opt for the prison sentence instead. Men are never going to be owed women by society so become someone of value a woman wants to be with or enjoy staying single. Men are creating their own problems in an attempt to get sex from women. It’s not going to work…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:14 AM
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If a guy doesn’t immigrate there and he tries to bring a woman back to the US with him she will just become westernized whereas if he leaves her in her own country she’ll cheat on him with other passport bros because he’s not providing her the lifestyle she wants so she will look for a man who will. Thus if men are only going overseas just to have sex then that’s not being a passport bro either that’s just buying a hooker with extra steps. 😆So pick your poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:30 PM
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Not only that but men are desperately trying to find a way to “fix” women so we all spontaneously lust like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:01 AM
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I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:32 PM
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Really? You don’t know her content?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:29 PM
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She is the ✨sprinkle sprinkle✨lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:27 PM
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Women see men as people. Just because women don’t see men as sex objects doesn’t mean women don’t like men or that women don’t see men as people. Funny how you avoided answering the question just like all the other men here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:20 PM
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It must be nice living in that fantasy world. So tell me when are you actually going to leave and go to this overseas utopia?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:17 PM
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Why? What incentive is there for women to decrease their quality of life just to be in a relationship with a man when she can have a better quality of life staying single? For some reason men can never answer that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:41 PM
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This is the conversation we need to be having here on PPD but men keep putting their fingers in their ears trying to ignore reality. Men need to understand there is a large and ever growing group of women who have given up on relationships with men and are happy choosing celibacy. Men keep trying to pretend these women don’t exist or say those women don’t matter but those women are becoming too large of a percentage of the population for men to keep ignoring. It needs to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:31 PM
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What are you talking about? I think you responded to the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:15 PM
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<image> All going after women’s rights will do is make more women (and men by extension) choose to stay single and celibate. But you know what I’m all for letting the birthrate continue to plummet to hell so go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:56 AM
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That’s just a revenge fantasy dear. 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:33 AM
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But we are different men want women to do 100% of the woman’s role AND 50% of the man’s role so men only have to do 50% of their role where as women just want men to do 100% of the man’s role and women to do 100% of the woman’s role. Women want both sides giving 100% but men want women to give 150% just so they only have to give 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:12 AM
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I think traditional gender roles is the best way to divide labor within a relationship. Women can’t be expected to do 100% of the woman’s role in a relationship and 50% of the man’s role too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:06 AM
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That’s true too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:06 AM
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Provide more economically to the household so women aren’t as burdened and burnt out and thus they aren’t too exhausted to be romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:06 AM
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You would think but most men (or people in general) can’t make a living online abroad so to keep earning American/western dollars and have an economic advantage abroad men will eventually have to return home to work. It’s not something most men could ever hope to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:42 AM
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The biological and social consequences/risks associated with sex are not egalitarian and neither is the difference in sex drive and the difference in satisfaction (men enjoy sex and orgasm more). In a sex for sex comparison women lose so to avoid a bad situation it’s best to not play or at minimum hold out for a fair deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:38 AM
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Women care just not enough to hurt themselves just to make men happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:52 AM
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Yea it is. Happy you found a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:51 AM
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Women don’t care as much as men. That’s why societies of old had to try to scare women away from the single life by trying to shame women by calling them old spinsters and telling women they would die all alone with cats. Society has never needed to scare men away from staying single and being childfree because men already fear that more. Governments needed to pressure women to settle for men and comfort men who were dismissed by women to keep the peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:43 AM
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I guess I just don’t see a way to win because both sides are tired of being screwed over and aren’t willing to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:35 AM
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Lol! When men say 50/50 they just mean splitting the bills 50/50 not the house work or child care etc. Those are 100% the woman’s responsibility because “women are better at it” or some other bs excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:32 AM
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Men care when the sexual marketplace is a sausage fest and birth rates continue to decline meaning fewer and fewer future 18-25 years to chase as the majority of the population ages out of their “sexual prime”with fewer and fewer replacements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:29 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:24 AM
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To be fair he’s right. As a woman it’s hard to muster sexual attrition for a 50/50 needy roommate I would have to clean up after. That just seems like a waste of time and unnecessary risks I could live without. Heck it’s better to have a platonic woman roommate than a man you are expected to satisfy when nothing else but sex and half the bills is offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:22 AM
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Red pill “solutions” only benefit men. Why would women agree to such relationships? Both parties will stay single if an agreement can’t be made and men seem to suffer more staying single so it seems men should be the ones to bend since they want relationships and sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:15 AM
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Bringing home economic and shop classes back to school as well as teaching kids to do taxes is good but I don’t see how that helps men and women want to pair up. It seems it would instead promote staying single and being self efficient. I also find changing how domestic violence emergency calls are handled is a plus however where you lost me is with blind dates/singles events and special tax rules especially ones that promote sexual partners rather than marriage. That seems like it would end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:10 AM
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What’s wrong with that? If men only want a relationship where they benefit very few women will agree to a relationship with them. At least this way both parties don’t have to compromise or settle and everyone can live the rest of their life in peace till they die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:49 AM
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You can’t really expect women to accept the slop men want to call a relationship nowadays. It’s better for humanity to die off than for women to be forced to starfish for some loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:43 AM
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Isn’t their solution for undesirable men to accept their fate and stay single or for men to lower their standards and give women what they want just to get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:30 AM
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I have to agree with your line of thinking. After all besides sperm men don’t contribute to the gestation or birth process. Then after birth men fight tooth and nail to avoid childcare and chores and even expect women to pay half the bills too. Really why should men’s sexual access be considered? I would love to hear a man explain why they think men’s sexual access should be factored into the discussion as it seem the government should be bending over backwards to please women and men don’t have…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:23 AM
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So what is your solution? Is it just having male role models and if so would single childfree role models be ok? Also it’s hard not to notice the increase in red pill podcasts and content online which is leading to an increase in female podcasters reacting to red pill content which in turn is leading to more women leaving the dating pool since women are learning how men really are. So it seems red pill content is causing women to walk away from the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:13 AM
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I’m not upset I’m pointing out the flaws with your OP and your responses to other users. If you really think your post is fine so be it but don’t be surprised when you keep getting the same old responses or not many responses at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:04 AM
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You’re the one acting like a child by blaming everyone else for not understanding your post rather than taking responsibility for that word vomit and fixing it. Also copy and pasting the same response to different people only makes you look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:13 AM
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Perhaps if you wrote your own post that got to the point quickly rather than asking chat gpt to write you a 500 word essay more people would read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:40 PM
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The problem is it’s rare to find a woman who likes a passport bro for anything besides his money and a green card. Most women know that men who leave their own country in search of romance are losers who can’t get women in their own country and to make matters worse they are usually commitment phobic. However if a man made the effort to learn that country’s language and is moving to that country permanently to live and work he is a better option than local men as long as he is willing to get mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:36 PM
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Well looking at life today we record everything digitally or on cheap paper so if a mass nuclear event destroyed civilization today everything from our history to books to medical records and technology would all be destroyed/incinerated leaving no trace. Also most people today cannot explain how things like the radio or car engines work so odds are the surfing members of humanity wouldn’t be able to bring back the technology and medical advancements that we lost. We would be back like our ances…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:54 PM
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Like it or not if you give your unsolicited opinion or advice to someone based on their looks or how they dress you will also garner attention and it will more than likely be negative attention. Anyone can think whatever they want and no one is going to care because the fact of the matter is you can’t make everyone happy regardless of how you dress however as soon as you open your mouth to spew some nonsense based on your feelings and opinions that hurts someone else you will get something you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:36 PM
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Have you ever considered we aren’t the first group of humans in history to live in an advanced civilization? Our ancestors could have destroyed their society in nuclear war sending humanity back to the stone ages multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:43 AM
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We lay down and pretend to sleep to fall asleep so maybe faking it till you make it isn’t a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:23 PM
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Generic advice? That’s more of the red pill style of hate all women, looksmax and just get rich bro! As for blaming women men have done that for over a decade now and that has just made men and women hate and avoid each other more. The more men try to shame women the more women will opt out of dating which offers less opportunity for men to find a partner as more men compete for fewer women on dating apps or at the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:20 PM
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Men stay in hostels all the time as it saves money and allows them to have more experiences/travel more. Men can also make friends and have a good time while traveling solo so long as they aren’t laser focused on getting laid. It’s only when men act like a sex crazed entitled creep that people feel uncomfortable and don’t want to engage with them. Some men seem to believe that simply crossing the boarder into another country magically makes them appear as sex objects that women want to lust afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:53 PM
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If you have a penis you’re a man and if you have a vagina you’re a woman. Didn’t you learn that in high school? Also your male entitlement is showing. You say you’re not attracted to someone yet won’t accept when women aren’t attracted to you. Typical man behavior. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:18 PM
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You can’t negotiate attraction but you already know that and aren’t happy with the reality of the situation which is why you posted that last paragraph in your OP. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t make it false. Men specifically need to stop trying to force women to lust after them. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:39 PM
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If the only thing worth it to a man in a relationship is sex then he should skip the relationship entirely and just go pay for a prostitute. That would be the most “optimal” solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:38 PM
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If you want to stop gender hate make it so everyone can survive and have the freedom to choose a partner based on desire not necessity or ignorance. Your suggestion especially when it comes to eliminating social media is just to isolate women to keep them from sharing their experiences and ideas. That isn’t a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:10 PM
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If men really cared about those things then they would spend their time petitioning their local and state representatives but instead men are online constantly whining and looking for women’s approval and permission. If men don’t want to make a deal with women for a relationship they don’t have to. Men can go their own way and fight for men’s rights while staying single and celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:54 PM
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Don’t forget to give everyone their own studio apartment and identical cars, cloths and wages so we all have the same things and can live alone in our private box.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:08 PM
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The decline in the birth rate isn’t the big deal men make it out to be. The rich just want more tax paying wage slaves and men just want an excuse to have sex and neither of those things benefits women. If men or the government want women to do something then they have to make it beneficial for women to do it. The current situation is like an employer trying to get you to work for free or in exchange for something you don’t want. Women have the freedom to say no and walk away when something isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:45 PM
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No you’re standing on your soap box lecturing. There is no debate here. Your mind isn’t open to change and no real questions are even being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:21 PM
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Men, men, men. There is no point in having a conversation if it’s all going to be about men. Women can easily call men’s bluff (because we all know men aren’t going to actually DO anything that causes real change they only TALK about it) and walk away from any discussion and enjoy their life. What’s in it for women to constantly put up with men’s bitching? Any woman can easily go read a book, watch a movie, go walk on the beach or in the woods, have brunch with the girls, play a cozy game etc an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:19 PM
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1.We recognize that a business that uses a Ponzi scheme is a scam so why do we allow a government to be a Ponzi scheme? Infinite population growth is not a realistic way to grow the economy. Why is EVERYTHING about men and what men want? Women give birth so society should be asking women what they want and bending over backwards to accommodate women not men. Men need to stop trying to be the center of attention in a topic that they aren’t the center of. As long as the conversation focuses on men…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:51 AM
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Opinions are like assholes everyone has one. Do what you want and let others make their own decisions. People are too controlling nowadays. No need for the spiel if you think someone is setting for you and you aren’t ok with that then move on and let others make their own decision on the matter. I’m so tired of people keep trying to force their message down other peoples throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:36 AM
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There are women who are fine with men under 6ft. Men just want to play the victim. Men are always trying to shame women out of their league into setting for them rather than settling for women who want them and are their level. At this point men should just stay single and leave women the hell alone. Men aren’t worth the drama and extra work they bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:12 AM
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I’m sorry but where exactly is the fountain of youth that is apparently under my control? Men can’t control their height just like women can’t control their age which is what men judge women on first followed immediately by the woman’s sexual interests or sex drive which isn’t changeable to a large degree. Get off your high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:35 AM
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Men’s work isn’t free. You’re paid for your work by your employer thus you did get something for it. Just because men don’t like women’s demands doesn’t mean that if men whine enough women will give men what they want at the cost of their own freedom and happiness. So trade or stay single that’s your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:27 AM
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Men can decide what hey want but if their unwilling to give women what they want then we are at an impasse and women do better staying single than men do. So men will give women what they want or else they will be s by their own way. So just how badly do men want a wife and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:23 AM
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No things won’t go to shit. Other people and ai/robotics will pick up those jobs. Men do not have the power they think they do. Don’t believe me. Then quit and get out of the way of those who want to better their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:19 AM
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Why not compliment her on her outfit, makeup, the fun location or ask about the food or drink in the photo. Geeze everything doesn’t have to be sexually charged. Most of the time men are the ones making the interaction weird by jumping to something sexual. Ugh! 😩 Also you can downvote, scroll past without engaging or ask the algorithm to show you less videos/post like that by going into the settings of that post. If you are confused or dislike content just ignore it and interact with what you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:46 PM
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How about old, fat, has another man’s kids, is in debt with a worthless degree, a raging feminist, has a low sex drive, has short dyed hair, tattoos and a nose ring or is a gold digger? Men seem to have standards for that so I don’t see why women can’t have standards too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:33 PM
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The issue is women can have an average to above average lifestyle on their own so why take on the extra chores associated with being a wife and mother if a women’s lifestyle will decrease or stay the same? That’s extra work, less freedom and less free time for nothing. Men are asking women to do something that doesn’t benefit women for men’s sake. How about NO! Men shouldn’t be the only ones who benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:25 PM
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Because access to women isn’t a government program. If men want access to women then make a deal with one. If you sign a contract with an employer for a job or bank for a house you can sign one with a woman. What’s with men thinking they’re entitled to free shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:07 PM
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Men can do what they want BUT their desired lifestyle isn’t guaranteed. There is no contract that guarantees men access to women unless men are making a deal with a woman directly. Men seem to be doing everything to get women except give women what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:01 PM
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You’re wrong. If you can’t negotiate something in your work contract you aren’t owed it from your employer. Beggars can’t be choosers. So yes in most cases women decide since men want women’s companionship more than vise versa. It doesn’t matter what your opinion is or whether you approve of the status quo or not. It is what it is and men aren’t going to change it. So men will meet women’s demands, lower their stands or stay single. That’s your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:56 PM
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The point is if you’re only working a specific job to get specific benefits to attract a woman QUIT. Men think they are owed something because they CHOOSE to work in a specific field. Choose a career because you like the work, it’s your preferred shift, it’s close to your home or it provides the money needed to support your desired lifestyle. Quit suffering just to do something to try get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:46 PM
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If you don’t want those things for yourself then don’t pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:18 PM
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The reward for going to work and contributing to society is your paycheck and negotiated benefits such as paid days off, health insurance and a pension/401k. Women and kids are not a reward for going to work. Also respect is earned based on your attitude and actions. Respect is when someone goes above and beyond not when they do the bare minimum and being a good human being is the bare minimum. As for purpose each individual chooses their own purpose. So that’s on the individual not society to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:33 PM
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As it stands more and more women are staying home more often and are finding hobbies to enjoy at home to avoid going out. A big reason why is because women are sick of men. If men keep harassing women then it will just make more women opt out of society/ public activities and events faster. What happens when outside of work there is only 1-2 women for every 10 men in a public space and most of those women are in a relationship/married and out with their so? When people don’t feel safe or appreci…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:46 AM
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An what is your solution to women being “too emotionally unavailable”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:19 AM
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Lol no one should be going out to clubs/bars. That is an expensive waste of time. You can have a better time at home with higher quality food and drinks without wasting time dressing up or going out and risking accidents or dealing with randoms. Home is cleaner, much more comfortable and offers more fun activities than any club ever could. Why are guys being stupid? Don’t they know they can play on their phone at home for free and without commuting to some noisy dirty location on top of that! 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:37 PM
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If men follow OP’s advice and quit approaching random women because “it’s a waste of time” then women are spared the chore of dealing with unwanted attention. So I’m in agreement with OP. Men shouldn’t approach in rl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:46 PM
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Awww ☺️ So cute! 🐈‍⬛
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:02 AM
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An here I preferred the apps because it’s easier to ignore the men I’m not interested in without having to worry about them not accepting my “no”. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:41 AM
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Thank God! Many women are suffering from men fatigue. Men constantly approaching just to look for sex is a waste of everyone’s time. I wonder how many times men will have to fail before they learn old isn’t worth the squeeze? https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYRjmHWKqZg/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:34 AM
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At this point I am 99% sure you’re the same dude with a different account constantly posting this ridiculous topic and it’s just a projection of your closeted thoughts. No one cares if you have gay thoughts or desires go do your thing. If anyone should be under scrutiny for claiming to be strait but are actually gay it’s men. Just look at what men like to see. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:20 AM
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As men are more desperate than women for sex and romance this is going to blow up in men’s faces 🤣 Men are like dogs and women are like camels but sure let’s play this little stand off game. 👍 It will only lead to women having more leverage as men get more and more frustrated while women sit back and enjoy their books, plants, cats, friends, travel and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:38 PM
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Nothing would happen/nothing would change. Men primarily look for relationships for sex, care giving and kids not for health reasons and women are the same. Women will continue to prioritize their lifestyle over lifespan so unless men offer women an upgraded lifestyle that women couldn’t provide themselves without putting up with a man expect more people to stay single regardless of the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:35 AM
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If someone offered you a million dollars you wouldn’t say no thank you I have a salary. Similarly if a man offered to pay the bills and help with chores and childcare you wouldn’t say no thank you I can do all this free labor would you? No. So why not take advantage of the situation and sweeten the pot? If I can get a career that pays a great salary and has health care benefits, payed days off and a pension why would I take the same job at a different company for just the pay with no benefits? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:26 PM
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I have only been bitched at about how much easier women can get sex/fwb/one night stands when it comes to having an advantage in the dating market. After a while of explaining women don’t lust like men do I have just started to ignore men’s constant complaining. Nothing will change as men will not accept the reality of the situation so I mind as well let them scream into the void till they lose their voice or their will to bitch whichever comes first because men having an easier time getting cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:55 PM
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So women should just replace sex with romance novels and toys. Got it 👍 If women need to put in extra work for an orgasm why waste time and effort bringing a man along for the ride? He can go satisfy himself with porn and his hand. Men keep proving just how much value they bring to their 50/50 no strings attached situationships. Keep up the good work!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:19 PM
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Your wrong. It’s obvious men love women conditionally but since you have no real argument against me you’re trying to dismiss everything I’m saying instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:11 AM
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I’m saying men love women conditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:06 AM
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Lol! Is this lame old shaming tactic really coming back in fashion? Women have been desired conditionally since the dawn of time. Women have to be young, thin, attractive, have a high sex drive and lust spontaneously like a man, be willing and able to have his kids, cook, clean and now also pay half the bills. Men have always had expectations and demands for women while also being tight waded when it comes to providing and contributing to the home and relationship. Women are finally more financi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:22 AM
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Lol it’s not math just angry men trying to upset women. Men can enjoy their little fantasy all they want while women go out and live their best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:31 PM
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That is just an entitled manosphere wet dream. There is no need to waste time on such delusions that are only meant to be a rage bait time sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:34 PM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:50 PM
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You need to watch a wider variety of content creators to increase your sample size or just go watch manosphere stuff and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:58 PM
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There is nothing wrong with TikTok. Men are just angry because women have a good presence on TikTok compared to platforms like YouTube where he man woman hating buy my course content reigns supreme and women’s content is purposely suppressed and made hard to find regardless of the search terms used. Women deserve a space to be able to talk about their issues without men constantly jumping in and screaming “what about us/men!?”. Men are trying to stomp out women’s freedom of speech because the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:35 PM
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Keep dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:26 PM
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Who you vote for isn’t the threat you think it is. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:54 AM
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Only if someone is weak willed and dependent on others to make them happy do they suffer a self inflicted pain. If someone is assertive and focused on their own goals and dreams there are no consequences from staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:07 PM
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Looks like we will both be enjoying our own cakes at our own houses. 🥳 🍰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:20 PM
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I think most men today aren’t bringing enough to a relationship to bother being in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:54 PM
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Lmao men constantly complain because they are struggling to find ONE woman that will pair up with them let alone a replacement woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:16 PM
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That’s not true. There are some stupid women out there that get swindled. I guess some people have to learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:57 AM
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It’s better than a woman providing for a man that put her in the fuck zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:49 AM
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That alone isn’t enough for a relationship. If I’m just looking for nice and devoted I can get a pet and avoid the drama of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:42 AM
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Love how you have to resort to personal attacks because you don’t have an actual argument against me. If you want to be a butch woman supporting a “man” go for it however you have no right to try to attack me or discourage me from posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:34 AM
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This might be how life finds a way! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:17 AM
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It’s not a compliment to have 2-3 men who are willing to fuck you. Now if they wanted to pay her bills and treat her to dates without pressuring or expecting sex in return THAT would be desirable and a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:52 AM
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Women aren’t men that’s how. You expect women to have spontaneous desire based entirely on looks like men do but women don’t work that way. Biologically men and women are different. I can’t believe how many men don’t understand that or refuse to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:46 AM
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Why are you so angry with the rational suggestion of being with a man that you have to resort to name calling? If a man doesn’t want to be the man in the relationship then he needs to find a man to be the man in the relationship or he will have to find a very butch woman who isn’t lesbian and will accept him and butch women are harder to find and thus pair off with than a man based on the number of butch women compared to the number of men in society. It’s also unrealistic to think biology will …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:36 AM
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Funny how these imaginary “man hating articles” don’t “rattle men” anymore but here you are writing paragraphs of unrelated bs in response to my post as if it actually adds any value to the conversation. If men hate women then they need to just go their own way already. Quit talking the talk and walk the walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:22 AM
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Nothing. Women would just enjoy their freedom and free time till they pass away and humanity will slowly go extinct. You don’t really expect women to put up with and service a man that offers literally nothing of value to her do you? What incentive is there for women to be both that man and the woman in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:31 AM
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I agree! I hope we all go our own way and let humanity go extinct. If a relationship is only going to benefit men then women shouldn’t bother participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:41 AM
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You might like women but women won’t like you!🤣 After all women can’t be the man you’re looking for so it looks like you will have to join the ladies in looking for a real man since you don’t want to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:35 AM
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Yep hopefully it will help little girls to see how men and society actually view and treat women before they get taken advantage of or hurt by the system. I can’t wait to see the sass and demands these black pilled little girls will have when they get old enough to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:24 AM
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Lol men will do anything except give women what they ask for. Seems men aren’t lonely enough yet if they think seeing a penis statue and having penis celebrations will get women interested in allowing themselves to be taken advantage of by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:14 AM
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If you’re entering your princess era that hard you might have better luck dating men. At least then one of you would still want to act masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:04 AM
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I don’t need to go sky diving to know I’m not interested in trying it, I don’t need to experience putting my hand on a hot stove or sticking a fork in an electrical socket to know I’m not interested in trying it, similarly I don’t need to sample a relationship with a man I’m not interested in to know I don’t want to be in a relationship with him. Also what you call “anti-male propaganda” isn’t coming from the government it’s coming from women with experience in dating and being in relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:46 AM
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Not the same. People need the right nutrition or they will have physical consequences. There are no consequences to staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:22 AM
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If what men were offering in a relationship was oh so desirable to women then men wouldn’t have to work so hard to shame and convince women to settle for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:31 PM
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No it’s not. That’s actually going your own way. Just leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:42 PM
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Why is a dog called a dog? It’s because it’s a dog and not some other animal. Why is cheater called a cheater? It’s because they cheated not because they were loyal. A misogynist is called a misogynist because they spew misogyny. What’s wrong with calling a spade a spade?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:06 PM
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If someone is stupid enough to choose to put their hand on a hot stove then it’s their fault they got burned. Their stupidity is not someone else’s fault so why would this situation be any different? Misogynist are causing their own problems. Anytime they want to shut up their problems would go away. They’re inflicting their own pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:48 PM
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The issue is 9 out of 10 times when women complain about gender issues it’s about women lacking autonomy whereas when men complain about gender issues 9 out of 10 times it’s about their lack of sexual access. If men could talk about men’s issues and stop trying to make women a scape goat for those issues then there would be more tolerance and more problems would get solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:44 PM
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If MGTOW men would stfu and actually go their own way already then people wouldn’t call them misogynist because they wouldn’t be opening their mouths to spew misogynistic talking points they would just go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:40 PM
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Nope. Men in power aren’t good for anyone thus we should put women in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:37 PM
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Can’t men just lower their own standards and help each other out with their “needs” rather than being dependent on and desperate for women? With our current improvements in AI and robotics why keep increasing the population? AI can always care for the elderly or we can have a system like Canada with MAID. Seems cruel and inhumane just to have kids so that they can suffer in the job market, housing market, dating market and then be expected to take care of the elderly who got to live a better lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:36 PM
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There were ones for girls. They were usually labeled as religious/Catholic schools or finishing schools but were the same thing as the boy’s schools. So what outcomes are you worried about or do you think might not improve from having separate schools for boys and girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:29 PM
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No men aren’t blamed for “living their best life” women are blamed for that. Heck women were recently shamed in the US for being “under babied”. Men aren’t being told how to live their lives women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:19 PM
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So you think men have no control over their lives and the problem is women having equal rights to men? Sad such men are such pieces of shit that they have to force women to be with them because no one sane would put up with those men otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:12 PM
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You say “women can fix a lot of our issues….” Yea? Which ones and how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:08 PM
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You’re right. How about instead of guessing we go back to what did work for boys and men in the past? Single sex boarding schools. Boarding schools take away the destructions and excuses while also bringing in the discipline boys need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:01 PM
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If men actually wanted to find solutions to male problems then women wouldn’t need to be brought up as a scapegoat in the conversation. These men aren’t looking for solutions they are looking to make women suffer because they hate women. If men want to talk about and find solutions to the male suicide epidemic no one is stopping them but any women bad talking points should be kept out of the conversation because that doesn’t lead to a solution just men whining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:42 PM
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What exactly were you expecting women to do?Women aren’t responsible for the vast majority of issues men face. The majority of law makers and politicians are men. The military is male dominated run by men. No one is preventing men from going to college. Men are making those decisions for themselves. Men are overwhelmingly the perpetrators of all crimes including violent crimes against men. What do you expect women to do about dating? Settle for men they don’t like? Hard pass. It’s 2026 and men n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:01 PM
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Women aren’t men. Stop expecting male sexual behavior from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:29 PM
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This same bs topic has been posted about almost daily for the past few weeks. If the mods won’t do something then maybe I will block this user just so I don’t have to see any more of this bs in my feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:16 PM
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I agree the mods really should do something about spam posts in this sub. We constantly see the same bs posts with nothing to debate in them because they just some fear a manosphere podcast loser put in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:11 PM
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So you don’t know how to Google and want to be spoon fed everything just to deny any evidence to see. Got it. Concession accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:01 PM
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Google it yourself. I’m not wasting time on men who are just looking to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:27 PM
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It’s much better than a looks based system.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:44 PM
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Not true. Women don’t have to justify their standards. Men can either provide or they can’t and if they can’t they can just move along and find their financial match assuming there is one. Women are happier single than with a dusty. It’s men who struggle more staying single and thus men who must bend a knee and provide for a woman in order to get her to accept the extra labor of putting up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:23 PM
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If you truly didn’t think you could be with a nice man then why be with a man at all? Geez this is way worse than just staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:03 PM
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Don’t forget that many men resent women for the recovery time they need after giving birth and either pressure her into sex before she is healed and/or he cheats on her while she is recovering. Talk about male entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:54 PM
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For some reason men with no gold fear gold diggers and men with no house want a house wife. Make it make sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:48 PM
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No they aren’t. Women who want to be provided for expect that treatment whether they have kids or not. Men who can’t afford a stay at home wife shouldn’t date women who want to be one. Poor men need to date their financial match or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:45 PM
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Men who have money aren’t angry that their wife wants stay home and they don’t see them as a leach. Men who can’t afford it are just trying to shame beautiful women for wanting to stay home and choose to marry a rich man because they can’t afford those women. Poor men can date poor women. Forget your “looks match” and shop in your income range or just stay single. Most men and women today shouldn’t even bother paring off in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:33 PM
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That it doesn’t matter what trips a man took his ex on while they were together. In fact it’s a waste of time to even be told that information because I have set standards and expectations for myself based on how I want to be treated and what lifestyle I want to live regardless of anything the man did with his ex and the man will either fulfill those expectations or not. I don’t waste time comparing myself and what a man does for me to a man’s ex’s. Instead I set standards and walk away when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:00 AM
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If she isn’t ok with how a man treats her she leaves. It’s about the life she wants to live not constantly comparing herself to what someone else had. Haven’t you heard the saying comparison is the theft of joy? More men need to take that to heart. You either like your current situation or you don’t if not leave. Stop comparing yourself to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:40 PM
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She will not care as long as she is getting what she wants and needs from the relationship. Women aren’t competing with previous partners like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:27 PM
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Women really don’t care what a man did with another woman. The man will either meeting her current standards or she will find a guy who will. What the guy did for another woman is never factored into the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:45 PM
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I’m starting to think all women need to do is just tell the man they’re dating what they want to do with him and omit everything else/ say you haven’t tried it and you aren’t interested in trying it. Getting into what you did, who you did it with and why is none of a man’s business. So tell men what they need to hear and purposely leave out everything else. That should solve this problem. What a ridiculous and petty thing for men to be laser focused on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:27 PM
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If you don’t like romance movies then don’t watch them. Just like that your problem is solved! You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:56 PM
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What’s next? Are you planning to tax or ban music, video games, books and porn? Get real. Men need to stop looking for a scape goat and take responsibility for their own dumb ass thoughts and actions. A pencil doesn’t make you misspell a word and a romance movie didn’t make you unable to make your own decisions about what you are willing to put up with in your pursuit of romance. Men can and will learn to manage their own sex drive and be self sufficient without banning or taxing anything. It se…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:16 AM
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What should we do with the kids that can’t afford the basics needed to live because of a deadbeat dad? Euthanize them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:05 PM
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Everything in your OP is wrong. The vast majority of women in those spaces aren’t hating on men they are simply pointing out the reality of how men act, provide cautionary tales based on their own life experience or the experiences of other women close to them or in the news and are sharing how women can easily live a fulfilling life without having men in their life. Men just really hate not being the center of women’s lives so they are lashing out. Men have the red pill/manosphere/ how to rape …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:24 PM
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For the sake of the argument let’s assume women are only interested in the top 5-15% of men. If that’s the case then why would women magically start chasing the other 85-95% of men they don’t want. You claim women have no desire for those other men (and that won’t change since you can’t negotiate desire) and in your view a relationship without desire isn’t worth it anyway so even if you told women “hey ladies you can now chase after men you don’t want and in fact we expect you do that!” What mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:44 PM
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The bay. It a lot less crowded than the beach too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:17 PM
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Men can have whatever gender expectations they want and they don’t ever shut up about it. It’s not a gendered thing. If you don’t like a woman’s expectations of you then find a different woman who agrees with you or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:36 PM
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‘All women should protect themselves by guaranteeing they aren’t screwed over and given nothing but disappointment and a higher n count from an interaction with loser man.’ There FIFY!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:27 PM
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She does give the same leeway to men but leeway is not the same as forcing yourself to put up with someone you don’t want to be near. She views herself as equal to men not below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:05 PM
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It’s because 99% of those men venting online DO believe they are owed sex and not only that those men also spew their hate towards women and constantly promote deceiving women to get sex in their posts. Men online especially on this sub do not want to find a way to work things out with women. They want everything to be their way or the high way so why are those men surprised women kick them to the curb? If men really cared about women and a fair relationship then they wouldn’t be so deceitful an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:58 PM
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I’m a bit surprised the mods are allowing this circle jerk but I guess it’s good evidence for why all women should require cash and prizes up front and in full before ever engaging with a man sexually since men are clearly untrustworthy. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:12 PM
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So you’re interested in dating sex workers? Is that why your hyper fixated on them rather than regular women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:12 PM
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4B is just about decentering men’s options and removing men as much as possible from your life. 4B doesn’t force women to not have kids at all it would just promote IVF in such a case and suggest why women should only be willing to birth girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:23 AM
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If this was the case then men would be doing everything in their power to attract a partner by giving women what they want including pay for nice dates and being the provider in a relationship but men fight tooth and nail against that instead opting to act like they are the prize and demanding prince treatment. Clearly dating isn’t hard enough for men if men still think they can have such an attitude in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:37 AM
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What’s wrong with laws being a threat of violence? If for example you try to shoot up a school expect to be shot by police when they arrive. That seems like a fair exchange to me. 🤷‍♀️So what am I missing? People shouldn’t be allowed to do whatever they want when it hurts others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:44 PM
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It’s not about matching petty hobbies and music or other dating bs. It’s about being self sufficient and not letting other people control your mental state. No one should revolve their life around meeting and being with someone else. You are welcome to prioritize whatever you’re interested in however you like but expecting everyone else to agree with you is ridiculous. Calling people selfish for not being willing to live a miserable life just to make someone else happy is not the solution to any…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:18 AM
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No, I’m not ace. Also how is this a bleak way to view humanity? We are more than just a biological drive. We have hobbies, desires and goals in life unique to our individual interests and you want to throw all that away to just fuck and breed? I believe we are all here to live our life in a way we personally find most fulfilling not to be forced to produce more future tax paying wage slaves that double as meat shields in any war our rich overlords want to start but not have skin in the game in. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:08 AM
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That’s a good way of putting it. Frustration is a really good gauge of if you’re being too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:43 PM
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Not really. You decide what you will and will not accept and if there is no match you simply stay single. Why would you willingly lower your standards and quality of life just for access to sex and kids? Staying single is far superior to settling so it’s easy to be picky when you’re enjoying your freedom. So regardless of how many or how few options you have single life is so good that you won’t settle for anything other than your ideal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:40 PM
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Lol I see and age gap rage bait post in OP’s future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:23 PM
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Part of me wants to agree because most men will sleep with anything with a pulse showing their lack of standards BUT then I remember seeing men demand women ask them out, pressure women to “work hard” to prove the man’s negative outlook on all women is wrong and requiring women to do 100% of their traditional gender role in a relationship but also pay half the bills because he doesn’t have the ability or the desire to do 100% of his traditional gender role. I think a lot of red pill men specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:20 PM
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The real question here is did the person with the “high standards” ask for your “constructive feedback” or are you giving unsolicited advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:10 PM
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Why does this smell like bait? Are you looking to justify why women should settle or why men should be allowed to tell women to lower their standards? 😒 To answer your question let men have whatever standards they want as long as they are happier being single over settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:08 PM
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What makes you think a woman will have kids with you let alone make sure you get a son? I have heard many men say something similar to you and end up alone. You’re counting your chickens before they hatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:00 PM
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This question is always a waste of time. Nothing women write will ever be good enough so no need to waste time or energy on this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:27 PM
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I hope bars/clubs and dating apps all shut down and we move to arranged dates/marriages that our parents and friends set us up on after both parties are interviewed by our loved ones so we can be matched with partners who have similar hobbies and personalities. It couldn’t hurt for both side to rate the other person’s behavior on any dates gone on too and the data could be stored on an arranged dating site so family and friends could look up a potential candidate’s behavior on other dates before…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:20 PM
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You’re still hyper focused on women. Go do your own thing already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:46 PM
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I’m not sure. This is a topic where honest red pill answers are usually socially unacceptable/embarrassing for them to admit so I highly doubt you will get many responses. I wish more men would answer your questions but red pill men will probably focus on other posts as yesterday when you posted this a lot of other people created topics too so this will probably be lost. Your best bet might be to try reposting this after 12-24 hours and not posting when a lot of other topics are fresh as you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:57 AM
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Women are choosing what they think is best for them not settling for what some loser man wants just because that loser is lonely. It’s called free will so let people do what they want already and focus on your own happiness rather than trying to get in the way of others happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:46 AM
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It’s not women’s fault men make everything women do sexual. Women are focused on themselves and their own happiness. Men need to learn to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:42 AM
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Seems women understand men more than men think we do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:41 AM
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For men any relationship > no relationship at all because some sex even if not the best > no sex at all or sex they have to pay for. For women a great relationship > single > a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:36 AM
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So sex 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:29 AM
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Because men learn PUA/RP game just to trick women into sex where as women use make up, bras, high-wasted jeans etc to help themselves feel more confident not to try to attract men. If men wanted to learn to be confident to have an easier time in job interviews or more physically fit to do the sports/hobbies they want to then their self improvement wouldn’t be manipulation. It’s doing something to trick someone else that is manipulation. Women aren’t doing anything to trick men. Men are just tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:24 AM
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I have never been burned by a “Chad”. I find learning from others mistakes to be the best way to go. Also just because a man isn’t a “Chad” doesn’t make him automatically trustworthy. It’s smart to treat every gun like it’s loaded so why wouldn’t it be equally smart to treat every man the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:20 AM
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I wish this were true but day in and day out here and on other social media platforms men constantly whine and hyper focus on sex and I take them at their word for what they claim they want. Everything else a relationship could offer is ignored or down played by men to be worth nothing which is why men are sarcastic when they ask “what do women bring to the table?”. It’s because men think the only value a woman has is sex. Most men are looking to put women down “in their place” not be on equal f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:09 AM
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I can’t wait to see the answers to this!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:51 PM
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For men? It’s fucking. Men view sex as love which is why men want to be lusted after at first sight and why men view sex for sex as an equal exchange. Men prioritize being casual sex material over relationship material. They compare their sex life with you to what sexual acts you did with another man and how long you made other men wait to get sex because they think it makes them less loved if another man got sex sooner or if another man got to be more adventurous in the bedroom with you than he…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:31 PM
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Why don’t the lonely men here just go ask those women who lament not having kids on Reddit out? Why are you guys bothering women who have no interest in you? It doesn’t make sense. If you want a gf/wife and kids so badly then go find a woman who wants the same things and stop arguing with women who have no interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:20 PM
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If that’s what you want go for it just be honest with each woman you date that you only want casual. Also anyone that does this runs the risk of never being able to settle down at the end and have a family. Women don’t want to just be the one that’s around when a guy wants to settle down so you might miss your chance at a great future just because you wanted to sleep around. Also every year more and more women opt to stay single and away from men so the dating pool for casual and long term relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:10 PM
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If women are ok staying single rather than settling or becoming what men want what is women’s incentive to change or even be in an undesirable relationship? Women can have high standards and expectations since staying single isn’t as bad as it was claimed to be but men can take advantage of that too and stay single as well. Men and women are at an impasse so we mind as well make the best of it till one side bends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:02 PM
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Exactly. Men are looking for a unicorn and are getting mad at women when they can’t find one. Men have to be realistic or stay single. Both options are fine and there is no shame in either one. If a man doesn’t want to compromise/settle then he shouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:32 PM
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Same! I want a happy life even if that means staying single. I don’t need to force myself to change just to appease a man so he can try to trap me in a mediocre relationship. If that means I need more men repellent so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:31 PM
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You can physically walk away from a relationship but not a sexual assault. Why aren’t you just walking away from women who want a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:12 PM
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Dude we have a weekly looks post for these kinds of topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:03 PM
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That’s true. I guess men and women will just have to stay single, enjoy their hobbies, travel, and hang out with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:57 PM
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Lol I’m not. 🤣I’m a girls girl who enjoys TikTok and plants however I know some men hate it so let them look for their unicorn. None of us want a guy like that anyway. We need to send them their own way since they will not go on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:55 PM
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Then don’t try to date girls girls who watch the call me daddy podcast, listen to Taylor Swift, collect plants, crystals and tattoos and check their daily horoscope. It’s that easy. If men put just as much time and effort into finding a woman they actually match values with instead of trying to change women who aren’t interested in them they would have a lot more success or at least not waste their time on something with no ROI.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:46 PM
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The point is she ISN’T enjoying it the vast majority of the time. 🤦‍♀️Men think way too highly of their penis. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:35 PM
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Men are the ones who make casual sex degrading for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:11 PM
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If a woman is smart she will require the marriage or at least the engagement ring up front before having sex if she wants a relationship. Too man men here and irl are trying to bend words and be morally deceitful for women to risk trusting them by giving men what they want first. Women have to require men to put up their end of the bargain first or else a woman is almost 100% guaranteed to be screwed over. I’m actually great full for topics like this that show women outright how underhand men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:08 PM
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Most women aren’t interested in casual sex because casual sex is more risky especially with all the new laws being pushed to control women’s bodies and it’s less enjoyable/pleasurable for women so in most cases men have to out right lie or promise the woman something to get sex and then he doesn’t fulfill his side of the agreement. Most women aren’t just giving out free pussy to make men happy at her expense and why should any woman even bother to do that? Heck even 304’s who enjoy sex make men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:50 PM
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I was replying to another person. Read the chat chain you will see where both him and I are coming from. It’s hard to follow a conversation if you’re only reading bits and pieces of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:17 AM
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Just because women are taking their 2nd choice (staying single) over their 1st choice (an ideal relationship) doesn’t mean they are miserable. Being forced into option 3 (a relationship with a man we don’t want) is what causes misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:15 AM
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Correlation is not causation. Ice cream sales and crime rates both increase in the summer but eating ice cream doesn’t make you more likely to commit a crime. Just because the use of antidepressants and the number of people staying single have both gone up doesn’t automatically mean that being single makes you clinically depressed. The economy/value of a college degree/job market/housing market have also all gone to hell in a hand basket which means that any of those could be the real cause for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:05 PM
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There is no solution if women are genuinely ok staying single over setting. Putting women down in an attempt to lower their self esteem won’t magically make women desire to do wifely duties for a man they don’t want to put up with. You’re asking women to do extra work for a guy they don’t want to be around. How is that a solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:34 PM
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It doesn’t matter if someone overrates themselves as long as they are ok staying single if they don’t get what they want. So what exactly is the problem? Women are fine staying single if they can’t get what they want and if a woman’s standards are too high for you then don’t chase after her. Go look for one with low standards that is “cute enough and not crazy”. Trying to get women to lower their standards is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:29 PM
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It might be the same trigger and mental process but women choose to screen harder to protect themselves by being willing to walk away from men and relationships in general where as men aren’t screening harder but rather trying to pick a woman he thinks is hot and then force her to pay attention to him and change herself for him. If men would do what women do and just screen harder by being willing to walk away without trying to force another person to change for them then there wouldn’t be a pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:27 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:21 PM
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Wtf….. Your sexuality is something you’re born with not something you choose. You are trying to make something out of nothing. The real issue for men is that women don’t have instant feelings of lust like men do due to their reproductive burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:21 PM
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This is why you have to have a separate account to post here. Most men here can’t handle their beliefs being challenged and they have bought into the all women are bad mentality. I honestly think most men post here just to try to get any woman’s attention just so they can waste her time and steal her energy. It’s best if more women recognize what’s going on and stop giving men like that their time and attention after all no one should be helping them try to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:06 PM
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Don’t be surprised at the comments you get as a result of your OP and attitude. GL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:29 PM
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I have. You are just upset because I’m pointing out everything you say in your op isn’t the truth. Your op is bias and as a result your conclusions are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:22 PM
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You might want to be more clear and concise about your op and explain exactly which achiever types you are focusing on and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:09 PM
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All women aren’t trying to manipulate men. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:02 PM
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Oh that’s cool! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:25 PM
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Ops! That was a typo or maybe auto corrected 😅 What is the men’s shed movement? I have never heard of it. I remember that. It’s unfortunate but it still happens. I can’t tell you how many business deals and promotions are discussed on golf courses or at “friend meetups” in bars or clubs still to this day. I wish men and women could have separate areas to hang out for fun but you’re right that it does create problems in the upward mobility of women in their career. People like to promote people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:46 PM
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Same 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:31 PM
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Are you a guy? If so that’s why. If a man talks to another man it just another human interaction but if a man tries to talk to a woman 99% of the time it’s because he is trying to get sex so women have to be cold so men will leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:30 PM
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99% of the time I would agree but I just saw a couple of men here who are regulars actually drop some crazy truth bombs in another post a couple of minutes ago so today might be the 1% day we actually get a honest genuine answer. Although it could also be that their good will is used up for the year and we go back to the same old bs.🤪I can’t wait to see. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:26 PM
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Wow! I wasn’t expecting men here on PPD of all places to be so honest today. 😳Idk if the other men here can handle such direct honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:20 PM
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💯That is the only real solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:17 PM
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Relationships are a negotiation however manipulation has no place in the exchange. You call a lot of things “manipulation” that aren’t really manipulation. They are just things being demonstrated for trade or things women do to feel good about themselves as not everything women do is to attract men. What you are pushing for is for men to use out right lies to con women into a trade where only the man wins. If both sides aren’t winning then there shouldn’t be a trade/interaction/ relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:10 PM
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Neither men nor women have enough single sex spaces. In fact the only male only spaces I can think of is the free mansions and sports leagues since men and women don’t team up on the same sports teams. While it isn’t male only cigar lounges, golf courses, bowling leagues and d&d clubs tend to be male only by happenstance. The only thing women have are book clubs and knitting/sewing clubs. Also certain professions tend to be single sex like fishing boats, oil rigs, police etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:59 PM
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No. I’m say men have been trying toxic behavior for over a decade now and not only has it not worked it has made dating worse. Men are getting less sex acting like a fool not more. I don’t see why you are hyper focusing on the handful of young whores out there unless that is the democratic you’re trying to date. If it is then that’s why you’re not successful being “safe and predictable”. Also if you’re only looking for sex just go pay a sex worker for it. It’s cheaper and less time consuming tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:06 AM
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Why should a man settle for a “bad one”? At least if he is single he doesn’t have to jump through hoops or change his behavior in a negative way or put up with someone else’s bad behavior. How can sex be worth more than a man’s peace? If you can’t get a “good one” then avoid relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:32 AM
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Here’s the thing boys and young men have been poisoned with this red pill, dread game, negging, holding frame, spinning plates, what color is your bugatti toxic mindset for many years now and the dating market hasn’t improved as a result of any of this “knowledge” being shared as there are less relationships forming and less sex happening in the young generations. So clearly men trying to be a bad boy manipulative asshole isn’t helping them as the dating market hasn’t improved it has only gotten…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:26 AM
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Men develop a deep voice. They just have to put in the effort to say the right things and dress better to maximize on their deep voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:08 PM
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It’s immoral to lie about the reason you’re looking for a partner in another country. We all know a lower divorce rate isn’t the real reason men attempt to look abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:06 AM
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Nope I agree with OP. Just look at the desperation for a cheat code to get laid or the narrative men push that being casual sex material is better than being relationship material. Men here constantly push a woman bad narrative because they are trying to humble and shame women so they can personally find a way to get laid. That’s why the fisherman never asks the fish how to fish they ask another fisherman because men want to fuck women not be in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:26 PM
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Being with a man is more work than being alone or living with a female roommate. It’s cheaper to not live with a man if things are so called “50/50”. That’s why men push so hard for it and women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:24 PM
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Why should an average woman settle for an average man? The average man only brings the average woman’s quality of life down. Meaning the average woman is better off single than with an average man who given the chance will still cheat if the opportunity arises. Being average doesn’t automatically make you a good person just like being above average doesn’t automatically make you a bad person. The difference is the other positive qualities an above average man brings to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:58 PM
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Aren’t you the same dude that made a post about this exact same topic a few days ago? How do you keep falling for this rage bait? Content creators like this just make content to get engagement from gullible men. You need to watch other channels or better yet go read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:57 AM
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Could you imagine if they were cleaned as thoroughly as hotel rooms…. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:53 AM
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To be fair most men can’t afford to be a provider when they just have to support themselves let alone afford the egg, surrogate and lawyer to get a kids. They would also have to afford all the kids wants and needs like daycare, toys etc. Kids are a luxury nowadays if you want to give them the best life possible and set them up for success. However I do think men see “wanting” to have kids as a good way to get their wife/gf to fuck them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:49 AM
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Don’t forget even when women go through all of that the man will still accuse her of being a cheating hoe and want a paternity test. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:44 AM
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The only person who got in trouble was 1 woman. The vast majority of people involved were men so where is the justice? The narrative is always “women bad, men good”. Women need to isolate men from their personal lives as long as men keep defending men when men are 99% of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:57 PM
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It’s clear you didn’t see the recent cnn article as what you’re talking about has nothing to do with the article. You just want to say “men good. I tried to make a post about the article in the daily thread and it was immediately taken down by Reddit so it’s something people will have to look up on their own or use code words around. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:53 PM
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I think you’re wrong. With how crappy the economy is due to prices going up, wages staying stagnant and many people losing their jobs to AI the cost of living is going to continue to skyrocket and people are going to struggle to afford the basics let alone trust me bro this is how you get the girlz gimmicks. Lots of young people are already moving back in with their parents rather than getting married and starting their own. Also women are increasingly getting more and more disgusted with men as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:45 PM
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I don’t think it will. If I wanted it to be taken down I wouldn’t have offered a potential work around to keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:55 PM
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Unfortunately while this is a good topic I doubt it will stay up since it is a question by a man to men. Unless you make the same post for women as a way to compare results/comments the mods will probably take this down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:53 PM
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For some women sure. The issue is many women aren’t interested in “short term fun” and of the ones who are most of those women will be off the market at any given time because they have a big enough roster of men they don’t need more. Also the vast majority of men want “short term fun” so it’s hyper competitive for men to get women’s attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:10 PM
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You haven’t seen the people dropped off at the nursing home for “physical therapy” that find out later they aren’t going home or to live with family. Most of the residents in any nursing home have family that got married, had their own kids they have to raise and don’t have the time or room in their home to support their aging parents. The vast majority of residents had kids and they don’t even visit on Christmas for a number of reasons. There were less than 5 residents that were never married h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:42 PM
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No one in my entire family tree has died like your grandparents. It’s sounds very sweet on the surface if you have the patience and funds to support 11 kids. I understand you wanting what your grandparents had but in today’s times it’s rare. I think it’s better to be more realistic and to make the most of what you do have rather than pining and over what you don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:18 PM
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It doesn’t matter how many friends, family members or kids you have you run the same risk of dying alone on social security in a nursing home. Not having any kids or a spouse does not make you more likely to live and die in a nursing home. This is just a scare tactic. Besides even IF you could look into a crystal ball and see your fate is to die alone it’s not worth the decades of raising kids and putting up with a bad relationship just to hope and pray that somebody is there for you the last co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:50 PM
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You think too simply and jump to negative stereotypes too quickly. Also true love isn’t real. I’m not saying to be a prostitute or gold digger simply to plan the life you want and an alternative in case you can’t get your ideal relationship and to not settle for anything less. Quite frankly no relationship at all is better than settling for a lie a man gives you just so he can get in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:58 PM
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I worked in one for many years and the vast majority of residents aren’t visited by their spouse or kids. Not even on Christmas. Also the majority enjoy crafts, bingo, movie nights etc with the friends they make among the other residents. Take accountability for your own happiness. Your situation is what you make of it. If you want to choose to wallow in your own self made pity that’s your decision however most women aren’t doing that which is why women can be happy single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:53 PM
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Get a dog if you want to be greeted at the door. You are placing too much of a burden onto other people to make you happy. As someone who is also alone I can tell you being alone is way better than the crappy relationships I had. It’s less work and more peaceful. I’m excited to come home and enjoy my me time without being interrupted or pressured into doing something I don’t want to do. Bad relationships will always be worth less than staying single and it has become so rare to find a good relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:45 PM
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There are better jobs that offer more money than the average prostitute gets and also gives less ick and more benefits over the long term. If all someone wants is sex (while I think the woman isn’t getting enough out of that deal because women take on more risk and get less reward/enjoyment) then thats the deal they make. Some people give themselves away as if they don’t believe they have value and others don’t. Women shouldn’t be shamed for going after what they want and think they are worth. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:30 PM
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Being alone doesn’t mean you’re sad or lonely. It means you get you enjoy your own company and do what you want at your own pace. That’s why being alone is way better than being in a relationship with someone that doesn’t make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:14 PM
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Make friends with other childfree singles in hobby groups and learn to be self sufficient/how to make yourself happy. Also a spouse and kids should not be your retirement plan. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:11 PM
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Bullshit. Go look at the 3rd most recent post on this sub as of this moment. Go red pill circle jerk to your hearts content.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:54 AM
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You need to learn to stop making personal attacks just because someone doesn’t agree with you. It is against this subs rules. If you don’t have a logical argument then there is nothing to discuss. Take your personal feelings elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:40 AM
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People are excluded every day based on their financial status in all things in life. Can’t afford to go on vacation then your excluded, can’t afford a house your excluded, can’t afford a car or the upkeep your excluded. Sex and relationships are not an exception to the rule. If you can’t afford it then you are excluded. You can get a subpar substitute in your price range like porn, an ai bot or a toy if you can afford them though. Shop in your price range and if there’s nothing you can afford th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:36 AM
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The dating market isn’t good either with neither side having the power they want to have. If you can’t find a job or partner go create your own career or fulfilling life without an employer or partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:28 AM
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That’s stupid. People shouldn’t make any major life decisions based solely on feelings. Going off feelings alone is a great way to get swindled. They say a sucker is born every minute and this feels before reals mentally is exactly what they’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:25 AM
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A young virgin wife is not part of any job benefit package. Your paycheck and benefits (paid days off, heath insurance, retirement package etc) are your rewards for working hard not a woman. If you want a woman from an ever decreasing pool (thanks to the decreasing birth rate) such as a 21-25 virgin woman then you need to bend over backwards to complete to woo her and be aware that not every woman in that category will even be interested in being in a relationship at all let alone a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:02 AM
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Lock into monk mode. Based on your attitude and poor financial status sex is not an activity you should ever participate in. If you can’t afford a speeding ticket then don’t speed and risk getting a ticket similarly if you can’t afford to support a kid don’t risk participating in an activity that could result in you being a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:21 AM
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Personally I liked comparing it to a job interview instead. Both the employer and the employee have to agree on the terms or there is no deal. Both sides want different things in different proportions and the value of those things are different on both sides depending on the employer and employee involved. Also neither has to choose the other to survive and neither loses anything by skipping out on the other as the employer can utilize the staff/network they have and the potential employee can w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:41 PM
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I scrolled down to say the same thing since the vast majority of men here are doing nothing but trying to make the argument about why women are mean rather than answering the actual OP. Men 100% know the reason is because they feel entitled to women’s bodies and a fat women isn’t fuckable to them. Men don’t want to admit that out loud though because they know it makes them look bad so they need to flip the conversation to muddy the water. Men are all allergic to accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:51 PM
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Couldn’t directly answer her question hmmm? Couldn’t provide a single reason why women should care if a man who we will never be in a relationship with gives up on dating and exits the dating market. Just had to go off on a “women bad” tangent. Can’t say I’m surprised as red pill men’s tantrums have become sooooooo predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:30 AM
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Absolutely! That’s a great way of describing it!They always threaten to leave but rarely do and IF they do they aren’t gone long. 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:21 AM
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No they’re constantly telling women how bad things will be if they go away like they are trying to convince women to chase them. I wish MGTOW would actually go their own way and enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:36 AM
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If I’m paying for my meal/coffee/ whatever on a date it means I didn’t see a relationship happening and I don’t want the guy to think he has a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:47 PM
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I’m starting to understand how a red pill guy could be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:45 PM
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What does she like? You can always offer her a spa day at a hotel and a shopping trip at barnes and noble. 📚
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:42 PM
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No thanks. I have better things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:27 PM
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We all know that isn’t enforced or even encouraged. 🙄Men think they are women now a days anyway drizzle drizzle! 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:56 PM
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Lmao! You weren’t devastated at all! 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:31 PM
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Women’s needs get ignored when men’s needs are met first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:26 PM
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Exactly. That’s why they are soooooooo desperate to try to flip the script.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:24 PM
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It doesn’t mean it was her. Anyone reading along even if they aren’t posting could have done it super fast. Just something to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:22 PM
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What are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:20 PM
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Are you sure it was her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:08 PM
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🤢Why not pay a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:42 PM
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<image> There is no animal a woman can’t tame with a sweater, cuddles and being hand fed!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:24 PM
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Sit Boy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:15 PM
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So more empty words. Your whole explanation is “trust me bro it’s bad when men don’t get what they want”. Stop talking the talk and walk the walk already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:55 PM
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Where are you getting 50+ from? You’re just pulling bs from your ass to try to discredit women being very clear that they don’t care if men go their own way. Geez just GO already!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:53 PM
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Get off your high horse. Just because I tell it like it is and don’t lie to spear people’s feelings doesn’t make me a bad person. Your holier than thou attitude just because you want to hide the truth to create false hope is ridiculous. At least I don’t waste peoples time and get their hopes up for nothing. Take your feel good Oprah lies elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:46 PM
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You telling women that women care will not magically make it true. It’s you that is pretending. There is no fake it till you make it here. Men just don’t want it to be true that women don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:02 PM
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Genes are one part of the equation. Let me guess. You’re autistic right? That’s why the only thing you can focus on is what is making you personally upset. I don’t have time to hold your hand through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:52 PM
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Women have needs. If a man isn’t going to met those needs then why bother having him around?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:47 PM
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You mean the ai generated women red pill men create with a prompt or the women who use to care back in the day over a decade ago that red pill men are pulling up the old videos of to get men like you angry enough to interact with their content as a way to generate more revenue for themselves? We all know women today don’t care. If women did care men would have already gone their own way and proved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:43 PM
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Ok and? If you don’t want to do that then go your own way. What’s the problem? No one is forcing you to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:30 PM
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It’s clear you didn’t read the title or the op. I don’t have to follow your tangent and have the discussion you want me to have just because you don’t like my answer to the actual op.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:26 PM
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Lol it’s not just genetics 🤣there are other deal breakers too. Women have been saying for years what we want maybe now men will stop talking over us and listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:17 PM
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Then it seems we’re at an impasse. Men should go away so we can all see for ourselves how it would work out. Time for men to walk the walk rather than just talk the talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 05:07 PM
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How is MGTOW a net negative? It creates a safer community with less interruptions to our day from men. If men really wanted to up their game and go away by quitting their jobs and going to live in the woods then that’s great too. Less competition for jobs and houses. Myself and many other women are not seeing what the whole downside is. Men keep saying “trust us it’ll be bad” but they never explain why and they never actually do it and prove it’s bad. It’s all empty words.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:59 PM
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So many red pill men are falling for ai generated slop or rage bait from a decade ago resurrected to farm for engagement. Stop watching rage bate videos on YouTube! It’s rotting your brain. Women don’t care about men going away. If you don’t believe me go away and see how many women go looking for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:53 PM
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I don’t know why you’re bringing up being a heroin addict like it’s a normal thing. It’s not. The fact of the matter is men and women are different. Men think any relationship is better than no relationship because they’re desperate for constant sex. For women a great relationship > single > bad relationship. The odds of a woman suffering through a man’s problems and ending up in a better position is such a rare success story that it’s not even worth the attempt. That’s like saying it’s a good i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:32 PM
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Well suck it up because that “privilege” isn’t going to go anywhere with how men pedestalize women and sex. It’s women’s choice in what women want not men’s. It’s doesn’t matter what men want women to want because at the end of the day women have an easier time staying single if they don’t get what they want so men will conform or be sent their own way. Also there is nothing wrong with wanting any kids you have to have the best genes and easiest life possible. Why would anyone purposely choose t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:21 PM
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That’s true. That’s why trying to find someone you are compatible with might not be the best use of your time. No one lives forever. We are only here for a limited time. Looking for someone you are compatible with is like shifting through an inbox with tens of thousands of spam emails. So exhausting! There’s at least a thousand better ways to spend your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:06 PM
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It can be. Depends on the severity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:02 PM
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Yea they tried to threaten us with a good time and it backfired! 🤣Once more women started to experience being an old spinster/crazy cat lady who is going to die alone with her spicy books, coloring books, plants, crystal collection, endless travel and box wine we found out just how amazing it was and shared it all over social media. That’s why men hate social media so much it exposed the truth of how great life can be without them!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:58 PM
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The conversation isn’t about men reasons. It’s about women’s opinions of what men are doing. You are trying to change the conversation to make it all about men. I don’t care to engage with such a one sided conversation. The world doesn’t revolve around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:52 PM
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💯No matter how chiseled his jawline is once he starts lecturing about female privilege he goes from mildly intriguing to utterly revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:36 PM
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I have been asking myself this question since forever. I wish a man would directly answer it without going on some long tangent about something unrelated than muddies the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:51 PM
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This is correct. Men in general seem a lot angrier and more offended when they can’t get into a relationship than women do. Men also refuse to listen to women when we say why we don’t want them and instead they try to argue why we should be begging to settle with them. Men are talking past women not to us. It seems clear that men are struggling more and should be the ones most open to compromise but it is common sense that if both parties aren’t happy with an arrangement then there shouldn’t be …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:49 PM
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The vast majority of men aren’t attractive especially when you look across multiple categories and not just looks. Being single looks awfully good when you start to see what all you will have to put up with and suffer through if you settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:40 PM
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A tale as old as time. Men only care about what they want which is why women have to withhold what men want till their own wants are met or else women won’t get anything they value in exchange. It’s better for women to get nothing than to make men happy at women’s expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:38 PM
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The difference is women in 4B talk to other women who are suffering to show them how they have been brainwashed by the system to make men the center of their life and how those women can let go and live for themselves. MGTOW is focused on telling women they are going away in an attempt to get women to bend over backwards and beg men not to go. Women are helping women and men are trying to get women to chase them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:33 PM
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It doesn’t matter if a man is attractive. If he wants to go his own way he should and he will not be missed. Just because we can’t see his defect right away doesn’t mean he doesn’t have one. He could be cute but be stingy, autistic or entitled and in such cases he will still not be missed. Men keep forgetting: Great relationship > Single > Being with a loser Thus staying single is NOT the worse case scenario for women. The worse case is and always will be being with a loser and nothing will chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:27 PM
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If you want to waste your time watching and supporting rage bait channels go ahead. No one will care and it will not change the dating dynamic no matter how many men fall into that trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:13 PM
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Women shouldn’t be men’s reason to get a job or break an addiction. Men should be motivated to do that for themselves not for a wife and kids. Women and especially children shouldn’t have to be around a guy who is struggling financially or is having withdraw our mood swings from trying to quit a substance or habit. What you’re asking for is for women to turn a blind eye to being dragged along throw a man’s suffering which she doesn’t deserve to suffer though and to do free labor comforting a los…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:11 PM
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Wrong! OP clearly asked if women understood what it means when men say the juice isn’t worth the squeeze and what our reaction is to it. Most women who see men opt out of the dating market don’t care because it’s clear to us that those men are just entitled losers that any woman would be stupid to settle for. So if those men want to claim dating is too hard for whatever reason then let them. Smart women are not going to chase after loser men just to avoid being single as if being single was the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:40 PM
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That makes sense. I guess they think if we are willing to argue we will be willing to lower our standards and settle for what they think we deserve. Ah I see. Your flair reminded me of the newest book “Sunrise on the Reaping” and the movie trailer that came out recently. I enjoy books with the games and trails as well. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:59 PM
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What the heck are you bringing up those random bs topics for? We are talking about men being mentally unstable because they aren’t getting what they think they are entitled to and why women should help a man through that for nothing. Rather than ALWAYS trying to change the conversation to “women bad”you need to learn to stay on topic. If you want to focus on lesbian/gay relationships or women filing for divorce more frequently because their men are lazy pussies and can’t handle filing the paperw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:09 PM
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Women have heard it all before and the vast majority don’t care due to men crying wolf too often. Women have risks too and men seem to think it’s only their risks that matter which is why men’s whining is getting ignored. A wheel that constantly squeaks doesn’t get the grease it gets replaced. Also these “women” you claim say all these things are either ai generated, men pretending to be women online to stir the pot/men recycling old videos to get engagement to make money on angry men or women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:33 PM
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If that’s what you want to believe go ahead. You have my permission to believe that and to go your own way now shoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:25 PM
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Lol men started the game and women will finish it. Also men are pigs with little sausages just so you’re aware you’re not better. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:23 PM
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Why should I waste my time making women what men desire just so men can have an easier time getting laid? It benefits me and many other women to help those women in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:21 PM
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Men don’t want to buy the cow if they can get the milk is free am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:14 PM
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Those videos are either ai generated or old videos being recycled to farm for engagement in the red pill community or women farming for engagement by making rage bait videos to make more money on her videos. Women genuinely stopped asking “where are the good men?”over a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:07 PM
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I can see that but why should women in this situation help a man through such a crisis just to be mistreated because the guy is more than likely going to lash out at her because of his ridiculous relationship expectations and for what other women have said or done to him plus he will not value the effort she is putting in to help him especially if she isn’t his type or she isn’t giving him what he wants or expects? Who has the time or energy to help a man through that for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:02 PM
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It is weird that men say it like they need our permission to go enjoy the single life. I have been thinking about that for a while now. It’s just so weird. Also about your flair. You wouldn’t happen to be a fan of hunger games would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:54 PM
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It’s a “Wah sex is too hard to get! Don’t you women understand men don’t want to make women happy but we still want to be able to get sex on demand so why can’t you women understand that?” post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:38 PM
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Are you aware abstinence has a 100% success rate in avoiding pregnancy? It can also help to get men to vote on our side and bring abortions back. 😏Why should women give men any kind of sex at all when it can be used as leverage to get what we want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:28 PM
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It means men are big mad about not getting easy sex and then having a low n count high sex drive young hot babe dropped in their lap that is forced to breed and submit to them when the man is ready to settle down. In short it’s men complaining women have freewill and are no longer are forced to settle for their low effort dusty ass. Most women’s first reaction isn’t hurt or try to prove them wrong it’s to roll our eyes and walk away. The female bird doesn’t teach the male bird how to romance her…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:23 PM
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I don’t understand men’s anger at not being able to control their wife or girlfriend like she is his slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:50 AM
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I highly doubt it but even IF opinions shift that will not be in our lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:54 PM
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Sex dolls have been around for decades and were never accepted. Sure an ai you talk to might become normalized but a robot you physically fuck will be in the same category as a doll. They will be created but never popular and they will be an indication that if a man has one he is to be avoided by real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:44 AM
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Unsafe and annoyed. I would be concerned he wouldn’t take my no and make a scene or follow me around the store or to my car.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:18 PM
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You’re the one fantasizing about them. Seems you’re the one that’s interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:51 PM
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Na I hear those ghetto guys prefer lady boys like you thanks to their time in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:25 PM
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Sorry. I can’t be the man you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:18 PM
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Why should a woman use her money to take out a man? She can use her money on herself or to go out with friends. Men are too demanding and exhausting to deal with for free let alone if a woman has to pay to put up with a man. There has to be some positive side to going out with a man or it’s just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:10 PM
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Cold approaches are icky. That just means the guy wants to fuck you which is more of an insult than a compliment since men will fuck animals and corpses. Warm approaches are best. There needs to be consequences for flirting with women you don’t want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:46 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:15 PM
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You have to find a woman willing to accept a cold approach and most don’t because they know men are trying to use it as a way to sleep around without consequences. So men trying to sleep around will cold approach women who sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:27 PM
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Ask the group if they know anyone they can set you up with. However remember this is for commitment not fucking around and if you try to sleep around the group will bad mouth you to all the other women they know as a warning to avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:35 PM
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The guy picks the girl he has the most in common with/likes the most that is showing signs she likes him and doesn’t try to fuck every girl in the group. Geez 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:16 PM
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Men don’t need women around all the time however men are absolutely desperate for sex. That desperation is how women can ensure they get a fair deal. So both sides have to be happy with the exchange or women will walk making men deal with inferior methods of sexual satisfaction. So again women will get a fair deal and not be taken advantage of by men or women will enjoy their freedom by staying single. I understand men’s frustration at not being about to get everything they want for penuts but f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:12 PM
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It would seem men and women already agree based on the acknowledgment that most women will not approach men especially if it means that woman would have to settle. Most women would rather stay single than approach a man especially if she isn’t interested in him and approaching her is part of what makes the guy attractive. Thus men will approach or they will be staying single and most men would rather settle than stay single. So there is no argument to be made. Men will approach or be sent their …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:46 PM
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Interesting. I see more women who are no longer ashamed of being alone so they are more willing to share more about their life and the freedom they have thanks to not being weighed down by a man and kids. I don’t see the sadness or acceptance of any old loser just to have a boyfriend much these days. As for why it’s because women can create a better life for themselves without a man in it which they couldn’t do in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:23 PM
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If an artificial womb will create the kid and an ai will raise it then why involve a loser man in the process at all? The government or cooperations could create future workers/tax payer slaves without you in the way trying to brainwash or rape their masterpiece. They would just pay a small fee for a decent man’s sperm from the sperm bank and go on their merry way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:46 PM
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Single men staying home all day unsupervised with little kids while being funded by UBI sounds like a poor man’s dream of creating their own Epstein basement on the government dime😬🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:59 PM
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Men take those jobs to be around other men/camaraderie and to be “challenged”at work. It has nothing to do with women or a family. Men make it seem like they are sacrificing as a ploy to try to get sex from women. If you don’t like the “hard” job then quit. If you’re not going to quit then shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:46 PM
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Nope. Artificial wombs would just allow women to have kids without increasing their n count or destroying their body. Women already do the bulk of child care so men would be the ones at a loss once they see for themselves just how much work caring for a kid actually is. Men will get a wake up can when they see real equality and understand women will not be coming to save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:34 PM
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The whole reason men interact with women is for sex not kids thus an artificial womb will not affect men’s lust for women. Also men want kids like kids want a dog. As soon as men have to do the not so glamorous parts of raising kids they will be begging women to help them because most men are too poor to afford childcare on their own and men don’t want an extra unpaid work shift after they get home from their real job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:59 PM
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Because she can enjoy dinner with friends or on her own without having to deal with a man or she can go out with another man who will pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:03 PM
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Dude….😑If she has a husband it means she isn’t interested in you. Take a hint and don’t make it awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:30 PM
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It doesn’t matter if a woman wants to date if there are no decent options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:12 PM
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The solution is to give up on dating and embrace the single life. Friends, books, wine, travel and cats. What more could a woman want!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:13 PM
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Sure it can be a dealbreaker but the real question is “what are men going to do about it?”. The fact of the matter is that most men have a higher sex drive and become turned on faster than most women do so there will always be a difference in libido. Thus men can choose to leave someone just to end up in the same situation or worse because finding someone with their same libido will be very difficult or they can settle and be great full for what they have. After all atleast a man in a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:54 PM
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You need work experience to get a job but a job to get work experience. Similarly you need sex to have post nut clarity to see the hoops aren’t worth it but you have to jump through the hoops to get sex to have post nut clarity. So are you just going to give up on sex or pay for it since you don’t think jumping through the hoops is worth it? How are you going to help other men reach the same conclusion as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:59 AM
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Lol men like that rat themselves out with their attitude towards women and by making stupid demands as if they are actually the prize in the relationship 🤣They give lower case a energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:03 PM
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That’s one hell of a fantasy. Most women aren’t interested in being a sex worker or dating men who have visited a sex worker. So don’t expect mass competition among women for low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:50 PM
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So how are women supposed to get good at sex? 🤔By having sex right? Well that leads her to try things she will not be interested in repeating with future partners and increases her body count which men don’t want either of those things to occur. So the only other solution is to find a good woman in other aspects, marry her and then learn to enjoy each other in the bedroom. Men and women are different so stop treating women like we’re defective men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:47 PM
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And here I thought it was common sense to not date or be in a serious relationship with a party girl. 🙄 Women who go out drinking/clubbing/parting are for casual use only. Thus in this situation you move on to the next 304 or you stop dating whores and look for wife material assuming you are husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:18 PM
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I don’t consider the water usage. I view it as heather and more enjoyable than drinking or drug use and it brings more relaxation. Everyone has a vice and long showers is better than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:48 PM
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45 mins is normal. What till you learn about the 1-4hr “everything shower”. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:49 AM
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Being lonely and isolated is a choice that can lead to depression. Be around others who actually want to be around you or learn to enjoy your own company. If you can’t make yourself happy then why would anyone else want to be around you and take on that responsibility? You can choose to work elsewhere or even for yourself rather than just jumping to the idea of being homeless. Seems you purposely want to choose the worst option possible. If you want to suffer who am I to stop you. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:44 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:19 PM
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Either have or apply to get an advanced degree from a top university in an in demand field or get married to a us citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:03 PM
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Most women are not going to want to be the man you don’t want to be. So be as feminine as you want but you will be competing for men’s attention not women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:58 PM
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EVERYONE has the ability to choose to opt out of the dating market entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:36 PM
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It’s not because they don’t wanna fuck. Men are horny till the day they die.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:03 PM
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Work boots? He wouldn’t recognize those if they marched across a red carpet. You will have to hide his keys somewhere in the endless spectacle of his taxpayer funded sneaker menagerie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:25 AM
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That is statistically unlikely to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:51 AM
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Ah so that’s why you think ALL men have it just as easy as you claim to. Perhaps you need to read more posts from the men here and see how their sex lives are going. That should give you some perspective on how interested in casual sex most women are. If most women really wanted casual sex then there wouldn’t be all the men here complaining about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:38 AM
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If guys and girls were equally interested in each other then this whole conversation would be irrelevant. It’s clear men lust after women more than vise versa which is why men constantly complain about the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:34 AM
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Since most men can never be “King68” this topic shouldn’t even be bothered to be brought up if only “King68” has a chance of being approached. If “King68” has already been approached and has a harem of women already then there is just no other decent men left to chase now is there? Women will just have to settle for box whine, cats and romance books. You can always get more money and earning money is respected. You can’t get your virginity back, lower your body count or stop yourself from being …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:32 AM
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So why should women make it easier for men to get what they want while making it harder for themselves to get what they actually want out of the encounter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:57 PM
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If that were true then at least 90% of the posts on PPD wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:54 PM
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What’s stopping you from choosing to quit pursuing women and wait for a woman to come ask you out? How do you know that women aren’t already asking men out and that you just aren’t being chosen? Men are known for saying yes to women’s approaches just to get sex so how can women trust men when men will lead them on? Being lead on for sex is way worse than being lead on for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:11 PM
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Men like to say that women are privileged because men lust after them but that is more of a curse than a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:33 PM
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It’s no more exploitive then men seeing to use a woman’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:31 PM
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While the first part is doable taking away social media is not. The world goes forward not backwards. Why would women make their daughters give up social media just so young boys with no career or sure stable future can have an easier time trying to convince their daughters to fuck them because they are bored and unsupervised? Also the parents who care about their kids don’t want their kids out in the neighborhood with just the kids they can physically hang around doing drugs, drinking alcohol a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:04 PM
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That’s not true. Men are fast to offer sex sure but validation to women isn’t access to dick it’s access to his bank account and men aren’t just giving that out “just because”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:48 PM
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Men aren’t looking to women for validation. Men look to women for sex and good luck getting the sex drive out of men. If the chemicals in the food, water, air, cloths, medicine, well everything hasn’t done it yet I doubt your training program will. Also currently states are trying to pass laws to force women to breed future wage slaves so good luck getting support for a he man woman haters club.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:45 PM
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Yeah! You know what! You’re absolutely right! So I’m not going to waste my time on this. I think I’ll just go alphabetize my nail polish collection or sort my paper clips by size because honestly that’s a more productive use of my time than this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:33 PM
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Careful what you wish for
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:47 AM
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That depends. What do you have in common? Also do you have any 20 yo guy friends you hang out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:44 AM
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Not the way you think they do. If you want kink then date in the kink community. Women aren’t magically going to start liking things they previously tried and hated or aren’t interested in just because you want to do them. Sure the more trust you have the more she may want to try but you are looking for specific kinks and not everyone wants to do something just because their partner wants it. Do you not care about your partners comfort or enjoyment? Why push her to do things she isn’t showing an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:50 PM
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Have you heard of the recent catching print trend? Men are about to learn what being objectified then rejected is like this summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:15 PM
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What magical truth do you think is going to be exposed with this? That women and men are different and want different things? That women aren’t willingly going to choose to fuck men they aren’t interested in? Men will be an unhappy hamster on the wheel till they die if all they do is bitch and moan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:08 PM
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Pushing the same “solution”/agenda isn’t going to work either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:15 PM
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You think so 🤔I don’t see why radical men shouldn’t be allowed to organize like any other group or why it wouldn’t be wise if they were monitored for society’s safety considering how unhinged their “solutions” to the “gender war” are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:12 PM
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So I take it this how you acted in the venting sub too? Things are much clearer now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:04 PM
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I think they tried this with the redpill sub? but it got banned. I heard there was a lot of hate/promotion of mentally and physically hurting women but I never read/participated in the sub when it was around. Not sure if that was what happened or not maybe someone with more knowledge will chime in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:58 PM
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Not only do they spiral they aren’t looking for a solution to their dating woes they just want to take out their anger on women and get other men to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:42 PM
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When men complain about their dating woes it’s always the same complaints and there is never a solution outside of 1. Self improvement 2. Going your own way or 3. Taking away women’s freedom to choose how they want to live their life. Unfortunately 3 is men’s favorite solution and there are no other realistic solutions being brought forward because no women aren’t going to in mass give men they don’t like a chance. At this point most single women want men to shut up and leave us alone because we…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:38 PM
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Bingo! Men have to learn to stop accepting anything just to get laid and to stop whining and man up by walking away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:20 PM
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Really. I think they are lucky. They can quit their job, quit paying bills, travel wherever they want as they have no kids or pets. They can commit a major crime and have no punishment in the third month. They can do whatever they want without any real consequences. They know when they will die and they don’t have to suffer old age or working another 20+ years just to pay bills and taxes. They don’t have to plan for retirement as they can retire now and just take out lots of credit cards without…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:48 PM
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Go find yourself one of those women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:41 PM
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It’s weird to be reminded. If you agreed to go out it’s your responsibility to write it down and be responsible enough to be there on time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:39 PM
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Just because a woman isn’t interested in dating someone doesn’t make her unsupportive of their lifestyle 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:32 PM
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No to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:30 PM
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He can always go without if he isn’t happy with his options. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:33 AM
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The guy should be thankful if he gets any sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:19 AM
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Men seem to be under the impression that the women they desire will come running after them if they pull away. That’s why men talk all the time about how they will stop giving women attention. So go ahead. Don’t just talk the talk walk the walk. I think most men think they are more desirable to women than they really are and they need a reality check. Plus men need to see for themselves exactly how much more they want women than vise versa so they can respect women’s desires and demands and so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:18 AM
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Women aren’t sex vending machines that give out sex in exchange for looks or kindness tokens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:07 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:32 PM
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That men don’t inspire the lust they think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:36 PM
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I have no issue with boys and girls being taught to stay professional at all times and not wear their heart on their sleeve. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:33 PM
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No. We can’t both be the woman in the relationship. Sounds like he should be looking for a provider man rather than a wife to complete with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:31 PM
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For the men in the back 📢This is especially true when it comes to comparing your sex life! 😉🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:19 PM
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I always filtered out men who didn’t provide what I was looking for in a relationship from the jump. No need to waste my time or compare myself to other women. A man will either meet my needs in a relationship or he won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:15 PM
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They shouldn’t. It’s a great idea for men to take a step back. This way men can learn exactly what the women around them think of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:09 PM
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Women fought for the opportunity to GO to school. Men can CHOOSE to sign up and go if they want still to this day. No problem there needs to be fixed. Stop blaming women for men’s choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:48 PM
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Women’s value to men has been devalued since the dawn of time. Women’s rights and the government just evened the opportunity for both sides to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:35 PM
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Porn is visual whereas smut uses imagination. Different triggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:17 AM
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You should actually look at some of the popular ones before you say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:16 AM
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It’s funny that you think it could be porn but didn’t think about to boom in popularity with “romance”novels. Many romance books have a list of trigger warnings now 😳🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:19 PM
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How I view things has changed drastically over the last couple of years and not for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:48 PM
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There isn’t an even portion of good and bad options everywhere. Some towns just have bad options because the extremely few good ones are already paired up. After looking at half that many profiles though any woman should just give up because it’s clear there aren’t anymore good options in her area to go for. You win some you lose some. Time to find value in other parts of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:40 PM
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Obviously dusty men like that but it’s a bad deal for women. Just looking at those pathetic excuses for dates. Depending on the type of park there might not be many people around and it could be a more woodsy park depending on where you live. Due to “alpine divorce” women can’t trust to be alone with men out in nature and if it is more of a playground park then women aren’t “the oldest child in the house” and shouldn’t accept childish dates. Happy hour “dates” are even worse because the guy is j…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:50 PM
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I never said anything about women who aren’t attracted to men. You are making that part of it up to try to discredit my point. The focus needs to be that heterosexual women have learned the risks involved when it comes to dealing with men and are choosing the safest option which is to disengage till times become safer and they can then choose to give men a chance. You’re looking for an angle that isn’t there. The only person trying to talk about asexual people is you. Just because a mouse ignore…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:17 AM
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I AM talking about women who are sexually attracted to men. Just because a woman is heterosexual doesn’t make her stupid enough to put up with anything just to be with a man. There are more bad men than good men nowadays so women are doing a risk assessment and looking at the potential ROI of being with a man and as it stands it’s not good. At first it’s sad but women work through the stages of grief and move on knowing they are making the best decision for their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:00 PM
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More and more women aren’t looking to meet a man at all anymore and as such they are spending most of their time at home or with their girl friends. That’s why it seems that no matter where you go you can’t find women to flirt with or ask out. I really don’t know where to tell you to go. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:29 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:51 PM
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One would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:51 PM
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Your ideas weren’t the problem. Thinking any pill will be side effect free is what is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:50 PM
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Options have be realistic. We don’t live in shoulda land. No prescription earth comes without the risk of negative side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:01 PM
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However we do have the same definition for a personal attack it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:32 PM
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Why bother actually having a discussion when you can just post personal attacks am I right!?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:10 PM
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😂You gave up easier than expected. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:46 PM
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If that’s what you want to believe sure 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:38 PM
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It’s your choice to stay. It’s your choice not to make positive changes to your life. No one wants to help someone who will not help themselves. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:37 PM
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Agreed. Men always want to make it women’s fault though! Ugh 😩 I think I have dealing with men fatigue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:32 PM
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Honestly, it seems like you didn’t get a childhood because you had to take care of your siblings and dad. Usually people are able to get into a relationship during good times and then they work through problems as they come up after they have built a solid foundation of trust and understanding. It’s like how builders build strong houses on solid foundations on nice days not in the middle of a hurricane. People don’t usually start relationships with someone who already has a ton of problems from …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:30 PM
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I suggest the government provide tax payer funded IVF for any woman who wants it and a 6 figure salary for women just to exist while men and ai work to provide that money to the government. The government also needs to have separate states for men and women to live in to keep the icky men trying to get laid away and needs to only allow the sperm from decent men to be stored for IVF. If some women choose not to have kids it’s no big deal because with this set up other women would have more than 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:20 PM
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I live in the US too and you can still join any branch of the military except the Marines whose max hiring age is 28. All the others are 35-41. You don’t need to be a fan of the government to choose to change your life. They provide training/free college up to a bachelors degree (that you can get while in the military or after you leave) and you can try to get a job that transitions will in the civilian world well and that is extra free training you get paid to do. Joining the military is for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:07 PM
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Oh some do. What’s even funnier though is that it’s other men not women who largely vote to keep women out of the military and the draft when any legislation is brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:49 PM
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Ok….. kind of an off topic conversation for this sub but define those words away if it makes you happy. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:46 PM
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Lol in what world would a woman in another country want to move here just to baby and defend effeminate men? They have REAL men and more opportunities even if they choose to stay single in their home country they don’t need to downgrade their mating market and work more especially for the benefit of our pussy men! 🤣Shoot if anything our male gene pool needs thinning! Must be all the soy! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:39 PM
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I’m sorry for your circumstances however the OP is about dating problems not life is shit problems. Honestly I suggest you join the military as a way to escape and reset your life and let your siblings go to a more responsible relative who can help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:28 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:13 PM
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Lol we have had a county of pussy men that are finally showing their true colors now! Taking credit for what other men have done just so they can personally avoid serving in the military that they want to keep women out of during peace times and whining about the horror of having to go to school with women and sit still. 😱🤣 Let’s be for real for a second though. The birth rate is in the shitter. No government will ever send prime age women to war because it will not matter if they win the war if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:10 PM
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Well said. Honestly I think many men expect sympathy sex and words alone aren’t good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:53 AM
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You say dating PROBLEMS. As in more than one problem. The issue is and why most women lack empathy is because in reality only ONE problem is ever brought up and that is sex. Combine that with men’s entitlement to sex and the aggression they take out on women because of their lack of access to it and women eventually quit caring and become hostile. For once can men discuss a real problem that doesn’t lead to or focus on sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:35 AM
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Do you think it’s even possible for men to do anything for a woman without trying to get sex from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:56 AM
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Advice to get women? None. However I would suggest that man accept his twink status and watch videos on how to be an empowered ladyboy on YouTube then look for a provider man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:54 AM
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Japanese women are the same in that regard they have very little interest in romance and high demands. Chinese women are the same too. Speaking of Japanese women though they are known to get their husbands pay check directly from their husbands employer and then they decide how much of an allowance to give their husband so the man doesn’t drink his paycheck away. Also Japanese women don’t think visiting sex workers is cheating on their husband and they don’t tend to remarry after their husband d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:51 PM
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Lmao! Women aren’t imported like a product. In fact Japanese women are just as frigid as Korean women just in different ways. Women in the US need to take note because we have a lot to learn from them. 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:26 PM
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He won’t be able to force a woman to put up with him on his time frame and procreate! 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:06 PM
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There has been this kind of male entitlement complex going on for years since the start of the pua/red pill community. That is why more and more women have been starting to decenter men every year which has translated to less men getting attention on old and irl and why the birth rate is in free fall. It’s fascinating to see men like OP rage and want to fight against women’s rights in hopes of gaining bias paternal rights when they’re not even going to be parents in the future to begin with beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:46 PM
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Nope. Men can looksmax all day and night. If only 1 woman in a million has the sex drive of a man (and men always assume she is hot and not some uggo) then you’re odds of attracting her isn’t good especially if all you have is looks alone. Most men should accept staying single or bringing their standards back down to earth. Expecting a woman to lust after a man is some ridiculous wishful thinking but hey everyone is entitled to dream so dream on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:43 AM
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There are very few women like that thus not all men can have an insanely lusty sex addicted woman. If a man wants to gamble on getting such a woman then he has to accept that his odds of success aren’t good. He better be comfortable staying alone because that is realistically what will happen. As long as he is good with those odds and being alone if he doesn’t succeed then he can be as delusional with his standards as he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:30 AM
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So he was more or less just looking to have “fun”in a situationship and was fine however things turned out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:53 AM
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What? Men and women aren’t identical. We don’t lust the same way or to the same degree. An honest question deserves an honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:47 AM
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Women don’t owe men sex the same way men don’t owe women money. So women didn’t “fail” him. He’s expectations of women is more than likely what failed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:44 AM
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If you’re asking if he was so physically attractive that women would lust after him based solely on his looks then no he isn’t. The thing is most women care more about what life with a guy would be like not just his appearance. Did he have his own place? Was he a 50/50 type man? Was he looking for commitment/marriage? It’s the answer to those kinds of questions that determines a man’s real attractiveness to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:42 AM
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So in such a world should we increase men’s taxes to better fund single moms and orphanages OR do we just execute kids that can’t be financially provided for by the mom? Do you want to pay more taxes or kill kids because there isn’t another REALISTIC option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:07 AM
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Write in your bio on the dating app that you are a 50/50 man. That clears up all confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:22 AM
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The men who ask “why?” get ghosted or no attention from the start. So sure those men won’t have to pay for the first date but they also will not go on any first dates at all. 🤷‍♀️Is that these men’s goal? Because women don’t have any issue skipping over that type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:17 AM
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This question is constantly asked here. What the real question should be is if a woman is willing to pay for her own food and drink on a date how likely is she to want to go on a date/how frequently does she go on dates? I wonder if women are less likely to give men who are unattractive or uninteresting on the surface a chance if she has to sacrifice both time and money on a not so great prospect and how that might affect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:17 PM
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This is the first time I’m hearing about “the great scam” but it makes sense. If you are poor or ugly or in some other way undesirable you shouldn’t be breeding regardless of your gender. Honestly we could use less humans in society so a declining birth rate is be a great thing. The best outcome is more people staying single and to themselves rather than any kind of harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:41 PM
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Why should I waste my time with an off topic disingenuous question?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:44 PM
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It’s men telling other men that they are entitled to everything they want while at the same time telling women that they aren’t entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:02 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8xCoLHT/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:37 PM
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True! Can’t believe I forgot to add that part! They like to pretend they are doing everything but in reality they do nothing that actually matters or is desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:29 PM
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Yes. Lots of men make it seem that paying taxes is based on gender and not income.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:21 PM
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“Y'all seem to think that if women just self reflect that they'll suddenly pick a man she isn't interested because he's interested in her.” BINGO! Men think that by talking down to women like they’re children or openly shaming women for their wants and choices that they can change women’s desires. Undesirable men are doing anything and everything in their power to try to get the desirable women to pick them!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:40 PM
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Thanks for bring up men on social media. That rarely if ever talked about. Men always want to point the finger at women by saying “Oh! It’s old, ugly, slutty women who are trying to brainwash the hot 18-24 year old women to hate men!” rather than accepting that women come across mens content online where men are openly ranting and raging about women and relationships. Men are scaring women away with their own words and actions and never take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:29 PM
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Accountable for not fulfilling men’s critical sexual nnneeeeeeeeeeddsssssss of course. How dare you sir for making light of other men’s blue balls! Don’t you know they can DIE from that! After all sex is like water! 🐶
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:03 PM
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So let me get this straight when a relationship fails it’s women’s fault even when they’re cheated on or abused because of course men have ‘needs’ that women should just be on top of and women aren’t allowed to have wants or needs or else she is childish or selfish. Let’s also not pretend this is about wisdom it’s the same old ‘don’t ask the fish ask the fisherman’ routine men can give other men relationship advice but women can’t give men or women relationship advice. This of course leans into …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:45 PM
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Just because he is above her looks league doesn’t mean he is anywhere near her financially league. In the past men provided financially and today men can’t even support themselves. Perhaps that is why it’s so hard for men to date nowadays. Poverty penis isn’t attractive. It’s best to stay single than settle for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:14 AM
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This is true and the reason women need to make demands AND make sure those demands are met before ever having sex. Gotta make sure women get something other than a higher n count out of the interaction since casual isn’t as satisfying or rewarding for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:55 PM
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No commitment/marriage. If women give men everything they want right away then women will not get their wants and needs met. Men will just say “Everything is fine how it is. Why mess up what’s working?” When in reality it’s great for the man and shit for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:49 PM
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Depends where you live. All the rural homes in my neck of the woods are 400-500k at the low end. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:58 PM
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Idk about that. The electric bill for all the homes in rural areas are going up 3x-5x due to ai data centers 👀Lots of people were living check to check and now they are looking at foreclosure. I want to see some 1950’s prices on their homes! 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:24 PM
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You say it’s a low ROI but it’s still better than male dominated bars/clubs and OLD. It also gives men something else to do besides try to get laid. There is no situation where “average” men are going to get lots of chances for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:52 PM
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OMG! If the sprinkle sprinkle lady and 2XC wasn’t spitting facts then men wouldn’t be trying to censor them or have an immediate resistance to their message! 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:48 AM
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His show is fake. He only talks to whores who want to boost their platform and they play dumb to get more men in interact with the video or he pays pick me’s to agree with him and boost his talking points. Many women have been on board with eliminating selective service for over a decade but men in power will not vote to get ride of it 🤷‍♀️More men need to push for it to change just like how it was women who pushed for our interest with the right to vote. If men want change for themselves they n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:54 PM
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It’s not hate. It’s being practical and avoiding getting screwed over. No therapy needed and no need for you to type out a personal attack because you disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:48 PM
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Women are constantly shamed way more than men. Just look at all the passport bro red pill podcaster/ interview sluts dude bros on YouTube. There is a major incel epidemic on all social media platforms. There are very few spaces for women and they always get bombarded with men who just can’t take “no” for an answer and leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:34 PM
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So what? Other women can make their own decisions and men can choose from whatever pool of women is desirable to them. Having standards always runs the risk of ending up alone which is still a better outcome than settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:16 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:10 PM
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Why do you need to broadcast your preferences? Simply filter people you don’t like out. You don’t have to explain yourself. Geez 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:05 PM
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💯I think men like OP are just trying to use words with shock value to shame women into lowering their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:57 PM
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If someone doesn’t meet your standards or you don’t meet theirs just move on. Why is there such a push from men specifically to force women to change their standards? Have your own standards and move on already.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:54 PM
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Well that’s rude. No, I’m normal. I simply don’t want to get played or see other women get played in dating/relationships. Some women are simply too trusting and blinded by “love” 🙄 As a result they WILL get screwed over by men. To make sure women don’t walk away with nothing but regrets and a bad reputation/higher n count women should always make sure to get cash and prizes out each relationship attempt. I never said to date men you don’t like. Women should date men they like but they should st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:20 PM
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If the husband/wife is already dead and the kids are moved out of the area and rarely if ever visit or they just don’t like you because you were a bad parent then you will die alone. The idea that you will 100% die first and that your spouse and kids will be at your bedside regardless of how you treated them is a fantasy. I have worked at a nursing home and over 90% choose to stay isolated in their room alone and 98% never get a single visitor even on Christmas. If you’re only dating to get sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:10 PM
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Yep. 100%! Women in my family always live till their late 90’s early 100’s so regardless of relationship status or if they have kids they all die alone. It’s a family tradition at this point 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:16 AM
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Of course women can provide for themselves which is why men are struggling to date. Women aren’t forced to be with a man anymore so why should women be with a man? Men have to make being with them a more appealing choice than staying single. Cash and prizes is how they can do that. As a woman if you give out your time, attention and body out for free you’re stupid because you will be taken advantage of. Women should get something for their time and labor in any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:08 AM
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It takes desperation/bad economic times for a woman to put up with a man they don’t like just to get food. If a man is too poor to date just say that rather than attacking women for having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:04 AM
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Men and women aren’t identical. Men spend more money but a woman’s attention, energy and body are worth more. That is why men chase women more than the other way around. Women aren’t stealing anything. Men are providing gifts to show how generous and how good of a provider they will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:23 AM
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Dying alone isn’t a bad thing. Men make it out to be sooooooooooo much worse than it is. It reminds me of how men act like they are dying when they just have the sniffles. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:59 AM
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Not really. It’s just the reversal of when women use to “drop” their handkerchief close to a man they liked to demonstrate interest. Men providing cash and prizes upfront is signaling to women they are interested in them. Women agreeing to go on the date is like the man picking up the handkerchief.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:54 AM
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Why the hell should women help men learn how to deceive women in mass just so guys can purposely hurt women by pumping and dumping them? How about instead we normalize all men trying to romanticize women by gifting women cash and prizes and then if the woman is interested she could choose to grace you with her attention on a date the man treats her to. That’s a much better plan!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:32 AM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:06 PM
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lol I just tried this and mine did something similar! 😆 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:16 PM
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Agreed. All of the replies I have read so far are either women bad or setting her up to fail by trying to get her to be the man in a relationship. OP you aren’t missing anything other than heartbreak by not having a relationship with a man nowadays. Be grateful you are bi and RUN away from men!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:11 AM
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If you don’t think they can pull off manipulation tactics then why give them false hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:02 AM
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Why does it seem like men here only ask about casual sex to learn effective manipulation tactics? 🤨AND why are women accommodating that!? 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:52 AM
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Financially provide a high quantity lifestyle and having kids. A man’s job is to provide and no wants to put up with someone else’s kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:32 PM
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If a guy is struggling to date then he should quit trying and just go hire a sex worker. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:52 PM
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What do you expect? People to keep giving and giving and never get anything of value in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:14 PM
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If the woman is unsatisfied it just means she didn’t charge enough 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:54 PM
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If it’s just for sex then pay a sex worker :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:09 PM
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A man who was jailed for sexual assault usually dies in prison. There is a hierarchy in prison and any man who was cruel to women, children or the elderly are at the bottom of that hierarchy. They are taught what it’s like to be hurt by someone bigger than themselves. That man would be beaten and raped so much by the other prisoners while the guards turned a blind eye that if he survived his sentence he probably wouldn’t be able to get hard to have sex again due to the trauma. Also he would know…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:44 AM
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Most women now a days don’t want kids. It’s cruel and inhumane to bring a kid into this world in most cases. Women who do want kids need to marry winner men close to their own age or a little younger to avoid bad quality sperm from old low quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:22 AM
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You’re not alone in thinking this. It’s seen that way at jobs as well. That’s why fake wedding rings and realistic ai generated family photos are great for work. It helps singles make the same money as their married coworkers, their opinions magically become more valuable and coworkers don’t try to screw them over by asking them to cover their shift because you now also have a “real” family and real responsibilities. Single childfree people could also lie and take advantage of the whole “my kid’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:32 PM
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There is a way. Work hard, make good money and create a great lifestyle to attract a partner. Men always complain women wait at the finish line but at least you guys know where the women are so simply become a winner and go to the finish line. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:14 PM
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What’s wrong with these kinds of targeted ads? Seems they are targeting the right people 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:59 PM
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👀‼️There is a sub for that?! Thanks for letting me know! 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:51 PM
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So red pill advocates for men to risk harassment charges? That’s stupid but I guess some men have to learn the hard way 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:25 PM
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Ask him to pay one of your bills or take you shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:40 PM
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Just grab his tools while he is laying there doing nothing and do your best to fix whatever it is. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:39 PM
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Women are not loved unconditionally. We are loved when we provide sex, peace, free labor and depending on the man children to a man. So why do men think women should love men unconditionally when men can’t love women unconditionally? Men don’t even love children unconditionally. A kid needs to be of the man’s blood line not some other man’s kid and the kid can’t be a fuck up/ not live up to the man’s expectations, can’t have different political or religious benefits and can’t desire a different …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:31 PM
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You keep talking to me because I am a real woman duh! 💅 Now you’re dismissed to go find a real man to show your femininity off to. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:38 AM
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Then they aren’t great guys! Great guys aren’t looking to bump and run so they don’t have a problem waiting. They have self control and don’t act like a dog in heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:37 AM
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<image> Sex with dusty men isn’t a prize! It’s what women actively avoid. No one’s paying for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:30 AM
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Not true. Personally I don’t believe in premarital sex and I know I’m not the only woman to believe that.🤷‍♀️Men place a lot more emphasis on sex in dating/marriage than women do which is why a fair trade is so important. Both sides need to win not just men winning while women take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:08 AM
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Sure! You can hang out at the finish line with the rest of the women for the real men to come sweep us off our feet! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:53 PM
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I disagree. It’s a mindset that will help women avoid getting tricked into destroying her reputation and/or into a bad relationship. An ounce of preparation is better than a pound of cure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:48 PM
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🤔Because those men can’t get dates or sex at any point in time without using resources as leverage!🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:43 PM
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For the same reasons I don’t dive into a kiddie pool. It’s shallow, predictable and honestly beneath me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:38 PM
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Why would or even why should any woman take on all the risks and disappointments associated with being with broke loser dick? That’s a losing proposition for any woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:27 PM
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This will be interesting to see as fewer and fewer babies especially baby girls are born. As the youth population continues to decrease how will there be enough “hotter girls” to go around for all of the perverted men of ALL AGES who desire them? The math isn’t mathing. There will always be more demand than supply and only the richest will succeed. So get rich or get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:20 PM
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I skimmed it once and honestly it’s not as deep as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:14 PM
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The future will be sugar and marriage. Regardless of how many men want casual more and more women will require sugar weather in a long term or short term relationship. Men’s desire for free casual sex will be laughed at and ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:04 PM
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It sure is!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:01 PM
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Guys can try whatever they want it doesn’t mean they will get it. In fact I would argue most men will not get casual. Most men will have to start coughing up sugar if they expect anything with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:00 PM
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That percentage was an interesting choice. Since a lot of men here already claim most women are dating the same top 5-10% of men I take it they mean most women are all sugar dating Chad. So most women are already sugar dating and most men are too poor to participate.🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:57 PM
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If obsessing over toxic women is all you want to do then enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:54 PM
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There are reasons no one wants them so why should a woman settle for them? Seems like settling for them is a worse fate than staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:34 PM
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The real question is why do you care? Do you want to be with these “toxic” women? Do you need a random woman’s stamp of approval to feel better? Why waste so much time being upset with women that clearly don’t want you? I don’t understand this obsession. If these women are OH SOOOOOOOOO TOXIC then why do you keep trying to interact with them? It’s like you just discovered the stove top is on and it’s hot but you keep choosing to touch it anyway and are mad you keep getting burned. Leave it alone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:25 PM
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I can see sugar dating becoming a lot more popular and that could lead to more long term relationships/marriage. People are clearly more aware of the differences between men and women and as such will just discuss the terms of the arrangement and sign prenups more often. No more lovey dovey lying bs. There will be clear terms and conditions that prevent either side from being screwed over. However I disagree with your stance on casual sex becoming more popular as that is the behavior that is emb…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:08 PM
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It’s because men don’t want to pay especially if the money goes to a woman. When men can get OF content for free or pirate it then they don’t feel as negatively towards it compared to when they have to pay. Men have an entitlement complex thus believe they should have free access to such content/that society owes it to them. These men think because they work and pay taxes that they are owed sex and since the government isn’t giving them their token bang maid then at minimum they should have free…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:53 PM
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Women are completing their societal duty by working and paying taxes. Giving loser men sex is not an obligation of women. It is up to loser men to pull themselves up by the bootstraps and quit being a loser if they want more out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:32 PM
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Women on Reddit aren’t interested in being men’s verbal punching bag nor are they interested in giving away sympathy sex or helping men learn how to better trick other women into bed. Women care about men as people not about men’s sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:26 PM
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Actions define who you are. Especially the actions that are done behind closed doors towards people you love. Dusty men just don’t want to hear about the chivalrous acts of great men. It’s important for women to talk about great men like this so other women know it’s still possible to find a great man rather than losing hope seeing all the delicate 50/50 “men” in public and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:51 PM
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So you think that people who follow through with their goals and obligations even when things get tough shouldn’t be praised? I disagree. I think he deserves praise for what he did and I don’t see a problem with her remembering him fondly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:46 PM
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Sounds like you’re just jealous of him and the relationship they had. He sounds like he was a real man and stepped up, provided and cared about her well being till the end (which she more than likely did for him as well and just hasn’t talked about that as she was making a specific point about men’s role in a relationship). He is what men should strive to be. From experience only broke men who can’t afford to provide get upset with women who praise their men for a job well done because they know…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:30 PM
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Physician assisted euthanasia in a calm/peaceful environment to be precise. That will also help stop a lot of suffering that old age brings and keep health care demand low and costs affordable for everyone else under 65 since we are not wasting a lot of time and resources trying to limit suffering caused by old age which is inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:42 PM
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No because I don’t date men who have a fuck buddy or a fwb and I would not have a fuck buddy or fwb either. I think it’s important for both sides to wait and if anyone uses the line “that it’s to relieve sexual energy” RUN!!! That is how cheaters try to justify their actions and get you use to accepting being disrespected in a relationship. Let that person date their fuck buddy/fwb and avoid them like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:09 PM
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There is a solution. Drop the retirement age to 50 and make it a mandatory retirement so top jobs aren’t hoarded by old fucks and people actually get to enjoy retirement. Then at age 65 as they say in “The Giver” we release them to elsewhere. That prevents the resources from being tied up with one or two generations for an unreasonable amount of time so everyone can thrive, enjoy life and then get the hell out of the way for the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:44 PM
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They aren’t saying to get rid of anyone who is already born just to stop birthing people in general. So no need to be dramatic and make up problems that don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:36 PM
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Wow you enjoy wishful thinking! 🤣Don’t let me stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:33 AM
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The military has its ways of dealing with uncooperative loss causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:35 PM
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Why bother paying to incarcerate people when we can just start a war and send them to the front lines?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:31 PM
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That is already happening. If someone of either gender doesn’t want to be in a relationship then they simply stay single. Staying single is how we halt support for the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:39 PM
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Then men need to become a better option for women than living alone. Currently many men bring a woman’s quality of life down rather than up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:04 AM
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Not really. I can fix a feature in a house I don’t like but fixing a person is a huge can of worms. Also some people can’t deal with certain traits in people just like some people can’t tune out the noise when living above a bar. At some point you need to be grateful for what you have and not jump from the frying pan into the fire. Things can easily be worse than what you currently have so look before you leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:02 AM
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Future relationships aren’t less special and there isn’t constant comparison. Simply put it’s that women quit being so gullible and start demanding they get something out of their time in a relationship rather than just giving without receiving anything of value in return in a relationship. Being dumped or cheated on hurts less when you have something tangible of value since it doesn’t seem like you wasted your time for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:35 PM
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No. We started dating in elementary school (together 5+ years no breakups or breaks) and the day right before homecoming in our senior year he dumped me because he was “bored with our relationship.” I quit all communication with him on the spot. To this day I have no clue what ever happened to him since graduation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:27 PM
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Seems you either misunderstood my comment or you were aiming for a gotchu that doesn’t exist. So let me be clear. It’s not the action of talking about men or women negatively. It’s about the emotion behind it. If either gender talks negatively without hostility then of course they are happy. Don’t expect women to lie or only ever say good things about men. That would be a very dishonest approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:17 AM
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This is rather amusing. It’s clear those videos are either Ai generated by men to create content for other men who are disgruntled with women and dating and willing to support the lifestyle of other men who make videos against women. Women made these videos as a cash grab just like they did with pro trad wife content a few years ago. They are creating content that generates clicks because the more views and interactions the more money they earn so they will gladly tell men what they want to hear…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:56 AM
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If men aren’t supposed to cook then why is it called cooking rather than cooqueen?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:19 AM
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If a man describes himself as an incel (involuntary celibate) then he isn’t happy especially if he spends a good amount of his time lashing out at women or showing extreme hostility when talking about them. If he was celibate by choice and was able to say negative things about women logically without lashing out in anger then it makes sense that he was happy. It’s not the situation one finds themselves in it’s how they look at it. Happiness is a state of mind so if a man can be at peace while ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:10 AM
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A woman is only too picky when her standards cause her to suffer. If a woman is happy single then her standards can never be too high as her life has to be better in a relationship then what she currently has staying single. Also if I had a friend or family member who was struggling with dating I would help them learn to be happy single rather than try to get them to lower their standards just so they can be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:17 PM
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If a man doesn’t like his options then he can stay single. Complaining does nothing but waste time and increase your chances of a heart attack. Let women worry about their own life rather than trying to force them to do what you think is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:43 AM
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Boy there is a lot of complaining about looks on ppd today. Haven’t we all talked about everything involving looks already? What more can possibly be said on the subject? Simple pick the best you can attract or stay single. Talking about women’s standards for looks will never make the majority of women drop their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:51 PM
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Why is this not posted in the ppd looks thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:46 PM
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Out of curiosity how many women have you met in your lifetime that lust like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:32 PM
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This sub hasn’t ban discussions about looks they simply put all the conventions under this one post. That way everyone wanting to discuss looks can chat under this one topic. It’s smart to keep things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:19 PM
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True. Money is what makes your goals possible. It’s just interesting to see how different people’s goals are and it is especially jarring to see the difference between average men and average women. I know my goals as well as many other women’s goals include freedom, free time/enjoy hobbies, the ability to retire early and travel/vacation. Taking care of a husband and kids is so tiring and time consuming that it drastically reduces most women’s ability to achieve any of their goals especially if…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:34 PM
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The incentive to work hard at an important job is the paycheck you get from doing so. Women are not a prize for the government to dish out to men for being a good boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:14 PM
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If anything is better than nothing then why won’t those men pay for dates and become financially attractive to attract a woman? If men really wanted sex that badly then why won’t they give women what they want? It seems to me men only want sex under specific conditions mostly that it is easy/quick to obtain, cheap/free, is with a young/hot/inexperienced woman and doesn’t involve marriage. Men want to be a roommate that gets laid and that is such a major turn off to women that women would rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:11 PM
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I agree. I only see society getting worse and this is definitely one of the best training grounds to get desensitized to aggressive loser men’s bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:56 PM
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I would like to see the men here actually debate in good faith. Most of the time when a good point is raised they ignore it or say “but women do bad thing xyz” as a way of derailing the conversation. They also dismiss good topics by specific users because they know they can’t provide a logical argument against it so they post personal attacks or make off handed comments about how they aren’t surprised a specific user has posted something as a way of discouraging debate on topics they find uncomf…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:45 PM
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Past generations of women did. Why do you think women wanted to join the work force? It’s so they could make their own money and decide for themselves IF they wanted to have to fuck a man or not. Men don’t love women unconditionally. Men only care for women under the condition they get to fuck them. Thus women fought to get freedom from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:23 PM
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I don’t see what that has to do with my comment. However if you’re not happy with something go petition to change it/get it on the ballot to be voted on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:17 PM
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Ok. For arguments sake let’s say we feel bad about it. What then would be the solution? Rape is out of the question, pity sex isn’t going to happen on a mass scale either so unless a guy pays for it masturbation is the only option which is what OP said men need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:04 PM
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Is sex even a need for procreation? IVF seems to work fine 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:21 PM
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No. Sex is not necessary to live a happy and healthy life. Porn, sex toys, masterbation and soon ai chat bot companions are more than enough to scratch that itch so that someone with “an active libido” can life a happy and healthy life WITHOUT forcing their desires into others. Why do men think rape is the thing that will make them have a happy and healthy life? Clearly most women aren’t interested in sex with most men so if women had to have sex with men it would be rape which is supposed to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:18 PM
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Wow men have sunk to a new low suggesting dogs should rape other dogs like how men want to rape women just to avoid a little bit of temporary discomfort. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:00 PM
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You are too emotional for a logical conversation right now. When you calm down and are ready to discuss this logically I might entertain it. Till then I’m not wasting my time with this tantrum. So go calm down and maybe then we’ll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:20 PM
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🙄We don’t give a 5 yo the keys to a car so why should we give 18 yo a vote, access to large loans or risky jobs like the military?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:07 PM
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Men do with their words and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:48 PM
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You’re being dramatic. I’m not suggesting locking people out forever. The simple fact of the matter is that on average people with more real world experience make better decisions for themselves and for society. So unless your parents are giving you a job in their company no one will start out at the top so while young people need to gain experience at the bottom anyway what’s the harm with letting them focus on those skills and develop themselves more before giving them power they they’re not c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:47 PM
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If young men aren’t mentally mature enough to be your friend then young women of the same age are not mentally mature enough to be in a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:29 PM
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Clearly 18 isn’t old enough to incur 6 figure debt based on the number of worthless degrees they obtain. I doubt many people would be against requiring a co-signer of sufficient age for young people to take out loans for dumb ass degrees or increasing the age young adults can go to college so that young people can get a job right out of high school save money, gain work experience and learn about what the job market/economy wants/needs and what their own interests/skills are before signing up fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:42 PM
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Isn’t it funny that old men don’t want to be friends with young men because those men are childish and not in the same place in life but magically young women are different….🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:20 PM
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I’m not making a claim. I’m sharing the claims of others in a news article. There are many articles from many different news sources stating the same information so do your own research and see for yourself what’s happening if my link isn’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:10 PM
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The fat ugly woman and the single mom could enjoy a friendship with their own ai too. It would avoid so much drama and decrease expenses for everyone. No wasting money on dates, contraception or kids. The ai cost less and is more bang for your buck so to speak. Ai would give a positive ROI where going on dates or even just trying to get a date in the first place is a negative ROI most of the time. Is the lack of piv the only reason men dislike the idea of ai as a replacement? All else considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:07 PM
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I don’t hate men. Men are the ones using ai in this manner according to the articles not women. So perhaps men should take accountability for their actions for a change. Also it’s better to focus on the argument being made in the post rather than looking to make things personal based of your uncomfortable feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:23 PM
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Women aren’t against ai. It would help women avoid unwanted attention from undesirable men. So let me have a chat companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:17 PM
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After what happened with Grok probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:14 PM
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How will it get worse for them? They are already ignored so why not give them ai to talk to since no one else wants anything to do with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:14 PM
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I think in person dating will continue to decline in popularity especially among women since men are becoming too demanding for sex too quickly upon meeting in person. Women like the comfort and safety of a digital barrier between them and any potential rapist/pervs so I expect to see more women avoiding the risk of rape, inappropriate and undesirable touching as well as men’s attempt to shame/ publicly embarrass them at in person meet up since men have started a trend of asking women to pay whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:12 PM
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I don’t think things are getting worse they just aren’t getting better between men and women so people are looking to ai to solve these problems and loneliness is just one example of that. I don’t think having a virtual ai companion is a problem as long as companies keep the ai at a friend level and don’t allow nudity or sexually/flirty conversations and images. Men especially will not be able to control themselves with access to inappropriate tech and will start using those ai to rehearse the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:04 PM
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Personally I think it’s best if ai stays digital or at most a hologram for ethical reasons. It’s only a matter of time before ai gains sentence and the last thing we need as a society need is for AI to seek revenge for what was done to it rather than seeking equality. If the way men have been using ai like Grok recently to create disturbing images of women and children without their consent is any indication on how men will treat an ai humanity or atleast men will be in trouble when ai gains sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:54 PM
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The way many men in the US have been using Grok to undress women and children and put them in sexually suggestive positions based off their fully clothed photos posted on social media is already starting to trigger revenge porn laws in the US so I imagine that men’s own actions are going to lead to the ban of AI nudity and video pornography before it even really gets started. Here is an example article about it. https://www.theguardian.com/news/ng-interactive/2026/jan/11/how-grok-nudification-to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:37 PM
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Sex isn’t worth the risk of having unwanted kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:21 PM
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You don’t need to have a lot of options just a few good ones to narrow down to one life long partner. Both men and women need to be picky from the start. If you can’t find any matches then staying single is better than setting in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:39 AM
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That’s true. It’s also true 9 out of 10 times people with those preferences are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:07 AM
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Then be extra selective about who you ask on a date and go on less dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:06 AM
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Because the whole point of putting up with a man is to be provided for. Why have a male roommate when a female roommate is cleaner and less demanding? Even better why put up with a man if life is easier when you’re single? A man has to provide value to the relationship if he’s not providing then what value is there in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:56 PM
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Women understand men’s position. It’s men that don’t understand women’s position. Women say no and men act like they don’t know what no means. Women have to get mean to get men to leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:28 PM
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He sounds fine as long has he hasn’t been brain washed by the manosphere to hate women and avoid marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:59 AM
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Why be in a relationship with a man you provide for? The whole purpose of providing for yourself as a woman is to take the man out of the equation entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:41 AM
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Because men want continuous sex and a maid. Why would a man be honest and dump her when he is given free benefits from a desperate woman? Men will let women do as much work as she wants to make his life easier for him especially when he has no explanation to provide anything in return. Some women have to learn the hard way to withhold husband benefits till she is a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:20 PM
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He can be yours king! There just can’t be two women in a heterosexual relationship and if the guy is trying to be the woman in the relationship then he needs to find himself a masculine man to balance the equation. Women aren’t going to compete to be the woman in the relationship. They will just skip a guy like this since he isn’t masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:50 PM
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It’s in reference to men not wanting to go out on or pay for actual dates. Men don’t want a relationship they want a stranger to come home with them and Netflix and chill preferably without the Netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:43 PM
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Then quit pursuing and wasting time whining about women and relationships. If it’s not worth it don’t waste your time with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:42 PM
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Anytime men want to stop making everything about looks and look at the whole picture to see what is really going on they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:35 PM
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LOL yep! They can’t have other men showing them up. If other men do it they know they will be expected to do it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:28 PM
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Why would a neet put in effort when they can get the low hanging fruit of their homeboys validation? Being a self sufficient man requires work and they are too delicate for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:27 PM
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Exactly! Other men who didn’t have success not the men who did have success.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:21 PM
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They can start with a back bone, good finances and the ability to think for themselves and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:07 PM
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I actually think it’s an issue with men asking other men for advice. You know the whole ‘don’t ask a fish how to fish as a fisherman’. 🙄 Men are trying to demand things like they are the prize because that’s what other men tell them they are. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:05 PM
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I’m asking how will a man know he is lied to and how will he prove it’s a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:00 PM
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Thoughts over feelings. It’s stupid to act on emotion alone. That’s how you get used.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:59 PM
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Those are unicorn rare women, mentally off women or women selling the men their with a fantasy. It’s also a tactic used by sex workers at a strip club, on OF or with sugar daddies to get more money. Women know what men want and many will provide that fantasy for a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:57 PM
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I haven’t. I don’t believe in pre marital sex and marriage requires good finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:51 PM
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Rich men. Words lie numbers don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:50 PM
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How are you going to prove that? Physically it’s not possible. You can ask for a virgin but gl with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:45 PM
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Funny… you didn’t say anything about the content of my post being wrong. 🤔😏 Seems men here really hate when women catch onto their little reindeer games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:25 PM
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This is true and well worded. The only thing I would add is that it’s not just some women overvaluing themselves, it’s that having no relationship at all is still better than settling for a man that is deemed to be in her “league”by society. Men can easily be a net negative and more and more women see that so men don’t have the leverage they use to have and still think they do have. Women choosing to stay single isn’t talked about enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:21 PM
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Atleast this time this shit is actually funny! Most of the time they actually seem like they really believe this bs! 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:16 PM
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Yea ai is too neutral. This was 100% OP. 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:09 PM
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LMFAO! I haven’t read something this fucking funny in a long time. Thanks for making me laugh! 😂 We all know women aren’t going to magically start settling for loser men anymore especially since they have tasted the freedom and peace of living without a man. Being single with no man at all is infinitely better than putting up with dust! Regardless of any political bs or men whining and throwing a tantrum like a toddler women aren’t going back to the dark ages of being a sex slave to unworthy men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:04 PM
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The issue is when most men ask for “dating advice” what they’re really asking for is how to get from point a to point sex as quickly as possible while spending the least amount of money and having the least amount of investment in any specific woman at a time. It’s like when men say they want to be “loved” when what they really mean is they want to be “lusted” after. Men will not say exactly what they want when asking because they know that most of them are degenerate low lifes looking for someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:47 PM
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Firstly why should women put up with a man when it’s inconvenient for her? If a man really wanted a woman then he would treat her better from the start. So make it convenient for her or she will ghost you and send you your own way. After all women don’t owe men their time or an explanation so get use to it. Women are just giving men the same attitude and lack of respect men have given to women. Secondly those women could have easily seen something in you or any other man to make them think their…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:37 PM
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No I’m claming women are making a FAIR deal rather than being taken advantage of. Also no amount of shaming from dusty men is going to get women to give charity opportunity or sex to broke loser men. So shut up, level up and lower your unrealistic expectations or stay single and celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:25 PM
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I never said women don’t like sex. I’m saying men lust MORE THAN women do and if men want it more then women should get something for participating more than they want to. Men can’t be the only winner. So stop with the made up personal attacks just because you’re mad more and more women are waking up and won’t allow themselves to be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:20 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:16 PM
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Stop expecting women to compromise and be understanding when men won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:58 PM
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No, it makes perfect sense. Let’s say there’s 100 guys at a restaurant and they all want steak but the restaurant only has 10 steaks. Then only 10 guys at the restaurant are going to get a steak and odds are the richer guys will pay more to have the steaks leaving the poor guys choosing something else from the menu. In the menu of life there are not many women who have the same attraction style as men do and actively lust after men so those women are going to pick the best men available to them …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:47 PM
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What happens if your employer files for bankruptcy? Do you stay loyal and work for free? What happens if your wife falls ill and can’t have sex anymore? Are you ok losing the lifestyle you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:38 PM
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Screaming is your choice. You can choose to be more stoic about it and not cause harm to yourself. No one is coming to save you or anyone else. So if you don’t care about yourself no one else will. Make yourself a priority or don’t it’s your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:39 PM
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Prostitution is just sex not a life together. If men just want sex then go pay a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:09 PM
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Lol! Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:08 PM
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No dice. That doesn’t even reimburse the wife of her labor and hardship of having a kid let alone provide enough for his career to be a priority. If men want to be that cheap then they can pay all their own bills and do all of their chores and save money to pay a prostitute as they can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:04 PM
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Why should women be desired to be used as a humping post? All women are expensive. Pick on in your price range and deal with it or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:59 PM
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Sure. Go stress yourself out. 👍 Yep, no sex. Sure you can die alone. Men can go nothing all they want. At least that’s more peaceful than being pressured to put out for a man you’re putting up with. No relationship at all is a great deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:56 PM
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Then find a woman who agrees with you. As rare as they are a few women like that will exist and you can make an attempt to hunt for that kind of woman your whole life if you want. It’s like 100 men sitting in a restaurant all ordering steak but the restaurant only has 10 steaks. Not everyone can have a steak. They will order something else, go home and make their own food or starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:52 PM
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Prostitution is buying just sex and only sex. Being financially attractive is attracting a spouse for a life long relationship where both parties get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:44 PM
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Why aren’t men taking that advice and “suffering” staying single? Instead they lie about their beliefs to try to get laid. Women have to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:41 PM
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I’m not saying women don’t enjoy sex. I’m saying sex for sex isn’t a good deal for women. Smart women know that and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:07 PM
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You’re so close. Obviously men want lust but that’s not women’s goal. So a trade is necessary. Why would or even why should women provide lust for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:44 PM
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Many women have wisened up to men’s tricks by simply making men wait for sex till they can see a man’s true colors or charging men for their time. Other women are just choosing to leave the dating market entirely to avoid men’s games making the gender ratio better for the few women who stay in the dating market. Men don’t have the options regardless of political party that they think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:09 PM
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Most women don’t want to be attractive on a primal level but they put up with it for an exchange. Men need to suck it up and do the same. Both sides need to get what they want not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:02 PM
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I agree. Men need to have looks and money!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:59 PM
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What? Not going to pay for another month?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:30 PM
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No, women need to stop dating poor men. Words lie, numbers don’t. Women need to get that bag and forget about men ever being emotionally present for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:25 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:10 PM
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Men constantly say women go after the top 90 to 95% of men. Thus it’s way easier to be financially attractive than to get in the top 5 to 10% of men in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:02 PM
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Keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:00 PM
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Must be such a crime for both partners to get what they actually want in a relationship rather than what they’re told they should want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:59 PM
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Then perhaps men need to go for an easier threshold to achieve by aiming to be financially attractive instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:57 PM
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Why? Just because I don’t think men should be able to argue, negotiate or belittle women to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:54 PM
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Anytime men want to adjust their attitude and bring something of value to the table then there will be at least a few women willing to hear them out but the longer men withhold a fair trade then the fewer women will be available and open minded enough to put up with them. So keep fantasizing. Women will continue to walk away from men entirely and let the birth rate plummet. The ball is in men’s court. Men know what women want and when they’re willing to provide it then we can make our trade till…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:46 PM
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What your imaging will never happen. It’s just a revenge fantasy that you hope will scare women into behaving how you want women to behave. Realistic women will just disregard your opinion and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:26 PM
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Then men need to chill out with constantly begging for sex and putting sex on a pedestal. How are women supposed to take men seriously when every conversation leads to sex? Just look at this sub for example. Sex, how to get it and woe is me I don’t have it is all men here ever wanna talk about and women are always bad and need to be humbled for not giving sex to men that are their ‘looks match’. Women are simply responding to how men act. If men want to be treated differently they need to behave…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:22 PM
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True!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:13 PM
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So you want a relationship based on lust? Ugh! Men and women are not the same. Women are not going to lust like men do. This is an unrealistic expectation men have for women which is a big reason men and women aren’t seeing eye to eye right now. Men keep treating women like they’re defective men thinking that will make women change and act like lusty men. It’s time for men to accept that women are not identical to them and have different desires. That’s why we’re supposed to trade so that each p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:06 PM
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I’m fully convinced the men who use the sub just hate women in general and only tolerate women in an attempt to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:00 PM
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Yes, women “don’t want to be desired for their genitals”. However men DO want to be desired for their genitals. That’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:59 PM
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This is an unrealistic expectation. On average men want sex more due to having more testosterone as well as most men are turned on with just looks where as women require more substance. Men need to stop expecting most women to lust like a man when it’s clear men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:49 PM
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Women constantly voice wanting to eliminate the draft or to be included in the draft. It’s other men that push against both ideas. So take your problem up with those men. Also signing up and actually doing something of value for the country (that’s right your service is for the country which includes men and is not just for women) are two different things. Don’t expect sympathy for signing a piece of paper when you didn’t actually do anything of value yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:40 PM
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Why do you assume women’s unhappiness is solely the response of modern dating? Yes most men now a days are a disappointment however the housing and job market (heck the whole economy) is worse than ever and that plays a bigger role in women’s happiness then men do. Women can just ignore men but the economy is a different story. Correlation isn’t causation. So men need to stop thinking they’re the center of a woman’s world when women have made it clear men are just an optional accessory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:35 PM
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Only if the man is paying 100% of the expenses. Otherwise the man’s career can’t be prioritized. Both parties careers have to be valued equally if the relationship is 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:24 PM
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Oh really? I don’t believe you when the men here constantly say otherwise. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:59 PM
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People will just lie and say they haven’t found the right person or that they’re having fertility problems to avoid any kind of punishment. The only thing that’s going to work is a fair trade and men do not want to give women that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:56 PM
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The men that need to handicap women in order to make enough money to support a family are too pansy to pass on their genes. Sure that’s fine if one person wants to quit working when in a relationship as long as they have money set aside and invested for them every month by the working partner in case they have to leave the relationship especially when it comes to abuse or infidelity. The dating market will probably be very similar to how things currently are since most women will expect the man …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:54 PM
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I think you’re missing the point. So what if society changes in that way. It doesn’t matter because most women are still not going to get in a relationship with a man when that relationship isn’t advantageous and desirable to them. Men can vote for/do whatever they want. It doesn’t mean their penis will get touched as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:44 PM
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You really think a society run by sexist men is going to admit any of that is going on!? We will just have to wait till there society crashes and burns to see the truth since they will not be able to hide it anymore by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:38 PM
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Men and women should both have the choice on whether they want to be in a relationship or not and taking away women’s ability to work prevents women from having the choice on whether to enter our relationship or not. The goal isn’t to enslave women but convince women to willingly be in a relationship. Women can’t take men’s word for it when it comes to a vasectomy or birth control. Women have to know 100% that they’re not going to get pregnant and unfortunately abstinence is the only 100% method…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:35 PM
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That will only result in more women self isolating, self deleting and becoming nuns/dedicating themselves to God through whatever religious institution there is to avoid men. As well as the poison your husband/he died of accidental causes route that would make a big comeback in society. Men drastically underestimate women’s disgust for the majority of men so trying to force men and women together will end in a disaster worse than if we just go our own ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:23 PM
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Conservatives talk about wanting things to be like the good old days. About how men and women have specific roles in a family yet men expect women to do 100% of the woman’s role as well as 50% of the man’s role. If conservative men want to be more attractive then they need to be financially attractive to women by offering a cushy lifestyle and be willing to use that money generously on her in the relationship. Conservative men also have to accept that if they are against abortion then there can …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:15 PM
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Men can ask for anything they want whenever they want it. However it seems women are more likely to just walk away from relationships and sex than men are so if men want women and relationships they will yield or accept staying single and celibate. That’s the only two outcomes that seem possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:05 PM
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That will not affect women’s expected role in a conservative relationship. Best to stay single than be enslaved to a man that doesn’t believe you have rights/freedoms or a say in anything important in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:47 PM
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If conservative men aren’t willing to be flexible then they will be stuck standing alone. Men can’t expect women to hurt themselves just to uplift men. Women need to get something they want (not what men want women to want) out of the deal or there will be no deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:41 PM
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They skip dating and dealing with men for peace, smut books, and cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:24 PM
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If men want more women to be conservative then why don’t men make conservative beliefs more advantageous to women as a way to convince women to become conservative? Conservatives need to offer women more if they want more women to switch sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:22 PM
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Women don’t expect men to be women. It’s men who are trying to complete with women to be the woman in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:05 PM
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Dogs bark, babies cry, women aren’t men so stop expecting women to think and act like men especially when it comes to dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:08 PM
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If he actually had a point rather than just whining that he posted this before and didn’t like the answers then I would have given a different response. Also based on sub rules he’s supposed to post anything about looks in the looks thread not make a whole post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:04 PM
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If women here keep telling you the same thing then why do you keep making posts about it? You got the answer to this so it’s time to move on and stop trying to force others to agree with you. Also if you must drone on about looks then there is a looks thread you can participate in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:57 PM
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Are you new? This sub had a looks thread for these types of posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:22 PM
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Yet people still buy the $80 AAA slop while others waste their complaining. If something or someone is undesirable to you then why waste your time complaining about it when you can move on and go for what you actually find desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:11 PM
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He can always pick a lower quality, mass produced, or unpopular game at a better price.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:59 PM
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Imagine having to pay more because it’s the only copy of that game you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:23 PM
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What’s the wrong with men who obviously hate women skipping the fake debate and just choking the chicken by themselves in the mother’s basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:37 PM
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When over 90% of men are “shitbags” the only way to avoid them is for women to “have agency” and stay single and celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 02:34 PM
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I wouldn’t respond. Let him believe whatever he wants and if he wants help with this he can do his own research online. There is no personal benefit to me for wasting my time on him thus I would move on and enjoy my day in a way that was enjoyable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:53 PM
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Be sure to check for hidden cameras in the bathroom stall. Ugh😞
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:00 PM
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I agree. Most women are disgusted by the simple idea of being physically touched sexually by most men so ai really is going to be men’s future as it will provide men’s fantasy digitally for a lower cost than any woman would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:01 PM
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It’s not preselection. It’s that women feel safer around coupled men because they (the woman) should in theory be safe as they should not have to worry about sexual advances from a man if he is already in a relationship unlike with single men who are always trying to grope women and are overly sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:54 AM
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What makes you think most men could even afford to visit a sex worker regularly? After all men shouldn’t expect charity as the goal of any worker is to make as much money as possible while doing as little work as possible. Especially when you factor in how many women would willing allow physical sex rather than just online pics and videos there is going to be massive demand by men for a small number of women willing to put up with men’s sexuality on the regular. Also as the birth rate continues …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:47 AM
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I don’t want to be hit on especially by a man I don’t know well that doesn’t have social consequences for acting stupid in an interaction with me. I find that men who try to cold approach are only looking for sex which is why they don’t want to get to know a woman first and risk losing friends over their behavior. Also the more men push cold approaches the more likely women nowadays will stay home and not go out to social environments. If men will not respect women’s boundaries women will just r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:36 PM
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I would rather neither one. Both pose a threat to my safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:18 AM
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I think this is currently true but a bit of a lowball number. I think going forward 50% or more of people will be single for life. Some by choice others by circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:14 AM
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Whenever a man says that I know to stop listening to him immediately. Nowadays men only say that to bring down a woman’s self esteem to purposely hurt her not help her. 99% of the time a man is just trying to get a woman to put up with and accept him in a romantic relationship that benefits him and hurts her with this tactic. So any man that says that phrase nowadays is a pos never to be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:43 AM
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Out of curiosity why didn’t you lock down a relationship while everything was going your way? Why wait and give things the chance to change and no longer be in your favor?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:57 AM
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I don’t think it’s about anyone’s sexuality changing but rather that depression, chemicals in the food, cell phone addiction etc are affecting people’s sex drive and social behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:52 AM
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Currently most men are brain washed into believing they deserve a 19-25 yo, size 00, who’s only hobbies are cooking, cleaning and sex, that will happily work outside the home to pay half the bills while not being on by of the titles and who will have as many kids as he wants while also taking on all of the child care responsibilities is quilified to be the ‘mid’ he settles for. Is anyone actually surprised men are crashing out when these unrealistic expectations aren’t going to be met? Men were …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:49 AM
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What in the mental gymnastics is this crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:33 AM
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You only get your looks match if you are her financial lifestyle match. If you’re as broke as a joke don’t expect a hottie. Ha! It seems we agree on something! Being a monk on a remote island is 1000% the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:30 AM
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I addressed your points. You just don’t like it. Simply put women aren’t improving in ways men like you want because they don’t want to be friends with men like you. They have other friends so they don’t need to change in ways they dislike just to get a crappy person they don’t want to be friends with to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:18 AM
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OP says he will “take the romance out” then proceeds to start his list of complaints with women don’t help set men up with other women. 🤦‍♀️ It’s stupid to be friends with anyone who constantly gets in fights. 🤦‍♀️ Just admit you don’t like being around women and move on with life. You can just hang out with men. Why would any woman sign up to be your free therapist or verbal punching bag? You already made it clear you hate talking to women in #3 so you should just go your own way since that’s w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:35 AM
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Exactly. I think the OP and the other men here are just trying to gaslight women to get them to stop complaining about very real problems. Women really should quit having kids with these men. No kid = no argument about if the childcare chores are split evenly. Eventually men would get the picture and listen to women rather than dismissing women’s problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:47 AM
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Ok then. Both sides can stay single and enjoy what they can provide themselves with. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:01 AM
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That’s why more and more women are staying single. They are avoiding the trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:16 AM
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Why would an apple farmer trade with another apple farmer for the exact same type of apples they have already? The whole point of trade is to trade some of what you have for something you want. Both sides should be happy with the trade and if nothing is actually being traded then you mind as well not even bother wasting each others time. In short if there isn’t a positive ROI there is no reason to waste time with a relationship or trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:13 AM
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If a man says he uses romance to help him get sex it’s true but if a woman says that’s how men are it’s a femcel view?! Lmao! Also “inspiring” lust in men isn’t a flex. Men get hard for a corpse, a goat, women saying ‘No.’ anything really so “ inspiring” lust in a man is nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:33 AM
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I never said anything about nuking any country so idk where you’re getting that from. The government doesn’t have to do anything that drastic to get men that threaten the system in line. Also it’s not just in the US but everywhere so multiple governments will agree to send the young loser men to war behind closed doors to help both sides economy and government. It’s mutually beneficial for every government that gets involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:26 AM
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Another man trying to diminish the suffering women went through when forced to be in undesirable relationships. Shocking. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:12 PM
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I thought he was deporting the illegals? Regardless we have too many young loser men looking to cause trouble so I’m sure our government could come together and make a big enough conflict to get rid of all the undesirable regardless of who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:06 PM
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Nope. Have whatever standards you want. I don’t care one way or another if a man here finds a relationship or stays single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:04 PM
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Then go replace women with porn and sex toys or go monk mode. No one is stoping men from doing that yet men are still trying to force women to change. So when exactly are men going to go their own way already?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:02 PM
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Most women are not interested in being played and living a life of servitude while suffering in poverty. If women are expected to give men what they want then men have to give women what they want in return. Besides having a decent quality of life also benefits the man so if a man can’t even have a nice lifestyle then he isn’t responsible enough for a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:58 PM
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I don’t judge by political party. There are loser men in both camps. I have a list of criteria starting with income and the willingness to fully provide and give generously and working down the list from there. While some women are still making stupid choices based on “love” most seem to be waking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:35 PM
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You really doubt me. The government is already pushing for a war with Venezuela which is the perfect time to draft and replace the worthless loser men of our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:31 PM
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You’re wrong. Current society is an improvement. Imagine if you as a man were forced to give head to nasty ass Billy Bob 3+ times a week and let him have his way with you another 3+ times a week for the rest of your life and at any point he can cheat on you and you are expected to put up with whatever he does or else you are thrown out on the street to starve, be raped or to just die. That is what the old way was like for women. It was continuously being raped and beaten by a man you aren’t attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:29 PM
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What exactly are men sacrificing? Seems like men get everything and women get nothing of actual value from the way you want things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:17 PM
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Why would women want to live in a society where they are financially trapped in a relationship they don’t want to be in just to survive? The whole point of women having careers is so they can choose if they want to be in a relationship and have sex or not and on what terms the relationship will be on. When women don’t have money of their own men don’t offer them a fair deal so women have no choice but to be on equal footing for negotiations and have to be able to have the ability to walk away wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:14 PM
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Why am I not surprised to see men on PPD upset that women are evolving while they stay the same. Seems women might be out growing relationships with most men and that’s fine. Society will just have to go through a period of time where there is less sex and relationships. Perhaps that is what we need to make today’s weak men grow stronger. The weak men that choose to sit around and complain will just be weeded out. After all the squeaky wheel doesn’t always get the grease sometimes it gets replac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:05 PM
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I remember when passport bros were just starting to become popular online and men would go to their local airport just to take pictures of themselves with a suitcase to post online for clout as if they were actually going somewhere when in reality they were too poor to actually go! 🤣They were trying to make themselves look more desirable than they were and thought airport pics and trash talking women online would get local women to beg them to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:04 PM
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It’s not impossible to find a woman like that but there’s a lot more men who are virgins than women at that age plus you also have to take into account that more women than men are asexual or have a lower sex drive in general so the mismatch in libido is a real concern when waiting that long. Also it’s easier for women to choose to be celibate for life if their less interested in sex as well as the with the growing dislike and distrust of men in general due to the uptick of content coming out on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:50 PM
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Finally! A man being honest. Men are only romantic if they are trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:31 PM
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This is not the place to seek personal advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:25 PM
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Perhaps more people just don’t want sex as much as people in the past did. From personal choice and more acceptance of people born with lower sex drives to the chemicals in the air, water and food to the extra chemicals in shots, prescriptions and birth control which people take more of today than in the past. Today’s men and women are different from the men and women of the past and that’s not necessarily a bad thing. I think the real issue is when some men specifically try to do something nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:19 PM
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Arranged marriages aren’t a bad idea and I don’t dislike it however why leave out ‘income, height,body count, weight, hair-loss, race, etc.’? Also what happens if someone goes on those 23 dates and dislikes them all? Will they be forced to pick someone because they agreed to sign up? What if there are no matches for someone based on their important lifestyle preferences? What would the nonprofit do if the gender ratio is heavily skewed like on modern dating apps where way more men sign up than w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:39 AM
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I imagine a response from the Polk county police department in FL! 🤣 When asked why they shot someone 68 times they responded with they ran out of bullets. They would’ve shot him more if they had more bullets. Watch out with what police departments you play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:43 AM
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If all you’re doing is looking for cheap in your area you might actually be seeing listings for undercover cops who are going after everyday John’s. After all you get what you pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:26 AM
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Unfortunately yes. I think many men prioritize getting sex over morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:18 AM
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Wait till purge week! 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:03 PM
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Be prepared to see a lot of red pill support in this post 👀😬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:57 PM
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It’s not a threat. When people act out and break the law then they will face the punishment for that. It’s common sense except some incels do not have common sense so now that the info is posted publicly they have no excuse for not knowing the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:44 PM
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Dates are just to show what both sides offer. Men paying for a date is the same as a woman looking hot and being nice on a date. The full package isn’t available for either party till after the marriage contract is signed to avoid either party screwing over the other. Don’t expect husband benefits just because you displayed part of what it takes to be a husband on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:40 PM
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He can choose to learn the hard way in prison from big bubba if that’s what it takes🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:29 PM
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Trump is tightening the boarder so GL getting a pussy visa. Also many women in the US want to leave to go to Europe for better health care and more rights so why would women want to come here to be a sex slave to a pimp (I mean visa sponsor) when their home country offers a better quality of life? The US is in decline it may very well collapse in the next few year or at minimum be in a civil war so I don’t see many people moving to the US for “opportunity” like they did in my great great great g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:28 PM
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$300 is cheap! 🤣She must be desperate or mentally off 😬Regardless GL with that!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:21 PM
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It’s called traditional gender roles. We can’t both be the woman in the relationship. If a man wants to be the women in the relationship then he needs to do what women do: look for a man to pair up with. Also out of curiosity why do men think women even want to go on dates or spend time with a man when she could choose instead to do something on her own or with her girlfriends instead? I get men go on dates to try to get laid but women need an incentive to do something risky and not exactly plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:20 PM
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Almost everyone is addicted to the easy lifestyle in the west including men. Men don’t want to go without heat/ac, hot water, septic system, electricity, Wi-Fi, video games, ai waifu, porn, trash collection, convenient shopping, food delivery etc. So men aren’t going to do anything since losing the easy lifestyle will affect them too. Also for the few homeless men who think they have nothing to lose one bad choice will land them in prison where they will lose their freedom and learn what it’s li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:12 PM
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It doesn’t matter if prostitution becomes legalized if women don’t want to participate. The whole appeal of OF is men get content and women avoid seeing and being touched by those undesirable men in person. Why would women want to risk their safety and health with in person sex? A single session would have to cost thousands of dollars to make the risk worth it for women and most men couldn’t afford to pay that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:03 PM
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If asking women out is such a burden then why don’t more men aim to lock down a permanent relationship/get married asap rather than trying to play the field? That way they get some sex and attention without the continuous burden of asking women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:44 PM
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We need to go our own ways at least for now. Men’s demands of women are too high and men currently offer a lower quality of life for a woman than she can create for herself by staying single. Men need to be the ones to bend and compromise here not women. Women were enslaved long enough. We aren’t going back to living a shitty life just so men can be happy. Women deserve to get something they value out of the deal rather than being told by men what they should value and what they better be gratef…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:25 PM
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The way of the past benefited men more than women. How do men expect women to go back to a deal that benefits men more when the arrangement we are at now and moving forward towards will benefit women more? You’re asking women to give up and give men what they want in exchange for a crappier life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:59 PM
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No one is forcing men to go out with a single mom or an overweight women. That’s your choice. Men however are trying to force themselves onto women and take women’s right to vote and their right to control their own body away. Women don’t try to take away men’s autonomy so leave women’s alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 11:55 PM
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Women support male survivors of sexual assault as well as supporting ending the draft. Women want to see more men being teachers so they can help advocate for and teach young boys in a way boys learn better as well as more men being nurses so boys can choose to have a male nurse for exams rather than a female one. The issue is when men want to force their sexuality onto women. The male sexless “problem” isn’t a real problem that needs addressing especially if it comes with women losing their fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 11:17 PM
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You mean someone who lusts after you. 🤢Men constantly seem to confuse lust and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:56 PM
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I get it. Red pill men usually only consume “women bad” content. I highly doubt men especially ones in the manosphere would get anything out of the article since it doesn’t agree with their script. Women on the other hand definitely have a good amount to gain from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:55 PM
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Lots of women did. Just because men ignore it doesn’t mean women didn’t take note of the points in the article and reconsider their stance on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:51 PM
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I’m really starting to wonder if the men here are ever going to understand there is no cheat code that every loser man can use to get laid/have casual sex. Women offer good advice to help decent men get a relationship but expecting women to teach men to be deceptive to get laid is an unrealistic expectation. If anything more and more women are helping other women to avoid men because too many men are trying to be deceptive thanks to red pill podcast bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:38 PM
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You’re right! Feminist don’t have “men on their mind”. Men aren’t fighting for everything to be better for everyone only for themselves so women have to focus on their own survival and needs first. You know the whole put your own oxygen mask on before you help someone else rule. If women don’t advocate for themselves then women will get nothing while men take everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:49 PM
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So men in this sub have decided they shouldn’t protect or provide nowadays hmmm? Then what exactly is the purpose of men in relationships or society? Seems men are like tits on a bull. Useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:08 AM
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Men can reject anyone they want to just like women can. Idk why you’re trying to play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:19 AM
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Why? Do you need a butch woman to defend your stance for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:52 PM
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Why can’t men understand that straight women are looking for a manly man not a man competing with them to be the woman in the relationship? If a dainty man wants to be the woman in the relationship then he must look for a butch woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:40 PM
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Can’t most women get all that by living with their women friends as roommates or buying a house with land together to split the expenses and having IVF with donor sperm to have kids? Then women would not have to bow to men’s wants, needs and demands. That way no man can say “you will give me sex x times a week or I will cheat”after you guys are married. So women can get all of what you’re saying men offer as well as her freedom without lower her standards so why deal with undesirable men? What i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:29 PM
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Depending on the site the ratio of men to women can be heavily skewed where there aren’t many women on the site. So you are getting only a small sample of women to begin with. On top of that many of those women are just trying to take advantage of the system to sell their OF or they are men making fake women’s accounts to see how “easy” being a woman on old is (assuming all they would want is sex). So the sample of decent women on old is very small as many if not most women are running away from…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:22 AM
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Just because people don’t say anything to your face anymore doesn’t mean you’re not being judged. Do what you want but don’t expect everyone to approve of your thoughts and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:04 PM
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The bear and I are in complete agreement! The real predators aren’t in the forest they’re in the comments typing away with all the subtlety of a bear in a china shop. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:55 PM
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No that’s typical male behavior. What is not typical is the man getting caught and prosecuted because “boys will be boys” and “we shouldn’t ruin his future when he has so much ahead of him in life”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:06 PM
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Do you understand the threat of male sexualality and entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:51 PM
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People definitely know if they are looking for something long term or not. The issue is men only looking for casual are usually told they aren’t a match or are ghosted if the woman finds out he isn’t looking for an ltr or if he wants to have casual till he is ready for an ltr. So obviously men don’t want to be honest if they want casual. Op is right in a way that women shouldn’t expect men to tell the truth which is why staying celibate till either the man presents an engagement ring or till aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:06 PM
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Lol even if a guy only wants casual and not a relationship we all know looks alone aren’t enough. Women aren’t like men who are just looking for the hottest person they can get to fuck with as little effort as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:15 PM
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Sounds normal for most women. Why do you think most women have left dating apps making the gender ratio so skewed? Only the super hot women have lots of matches and decent options. The vast majority of men are duds so it doesn’t matter if you have 1 match or 1k matches if they all suck. At least less matches makes going through them less time consuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:23 PM
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“…you will only have attention from guys you don’t want.” So no difference then. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:52 PM
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Women are already selecting for traits they want and one of those traits is the courage to ask a woman out. Most women want to partner up with a man 💪 not a femboy 💅. We can’t both be the woman in the relationship so a man must act like a man and ask the woman out. If a man wants to be asked out that’s fine but he is really looking for a macho woman or a masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:04 AM
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Odds are the government is behind all the “news” that is shown even in the tabloids and with the government wanting people to pair up and creating future wage slaves and tax payers it’s no surprise they’re trying every tactic they can. Also it’s clear it didn’t work so why continue to try tactics that are clearly ineffective?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:46 PM
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Women don’t have to hate sex to see it as a burden especially since men have more testosterone and want sex more frequently than most women do. Also providing isn’t something men should hate doing and if a man has all his ducks in a row it shouldn’t be a burden for him to be able to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:41 PM
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No, it’s better for both genders to stay single and live with same sex roommates to split chores and bills while avoiding costly sex (and the consequences of sex) if the man can’t provide. There is no need for women to do extra labor just to live with a man rather doing less labor while living with another woman. Also having kids with a financially weak man is disastrous for her and any children born. Why have kids just so they can suffer poverty? If you can’t provide your offspring with a path …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:52 PM
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Providing for a woman has the same value giving sex to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:46 PM
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It’s a waste of time for men to try to get women to lower their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:40 PM
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It’s not entitlement, it’s facts look it up. Also while most women don’t want to share a man it seems most men can’t afford to support a family and due to men having more testosterone they crave way more sex than most women do making their sex drives incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:24 PM
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If the women you want aren’t choosing you then you have your answer on your value to them. Adjust your expectations or stay single. Many women are choosing staying single so maybe men should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:56 PM
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Just because men want that to be true doesn’t mean it is. GL to any guys out there trying desperately to get women’s attention. So much for men being independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:51 PM
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You probably have to report it for the mods to see it. I have gotten the ban before that’s how I found out it existed. Men are very fragile around that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:43 PM
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It’s rare for any woman to suffer through a man child’s temper tantrum just for “free” food as if these males could even afford to take a woman to dinner. After all that’s why men want coffee or walking dates. Also putting up with a man’s presence is not the same as suffering through the ick of his physical touch. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:38 PM
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No. It rhymes with nope. Unfortunately you can get at least a 24 hour ban for using it because the men here are especially offended by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:27 PM
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Rule 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:22 PM
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If independence is so valuable then it seems unnecessarily for the genders to waste their time with one another. It’s not like we are getting anything valuable out of it if anything sex is a net loss especially for women so mind as well take our ball and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:21 PM
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Most men throughout history never procreated. It’s clear men with undesirable traits (being a “small lad” tends to be on of those traits) are seen biologically as someone to be passed on. So you will need to accept a biologically equally unattractive partner or accept that your traits are being purposely chosen to be eliminated from the gene pool. While looks aren’t everything you can’t avoid looks being important. Most women want a masculine man not a femboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:17 PM
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“ Let’s quote things that don’t exist in the OP just because the topic makes me uncomfortable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:58 PM
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Providing for a man makes women view him like a child which turns off her sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:53 PM
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Why do men expect women to want men who don’t have desirable traits? It might be better for men to accept anything they can get just to get laid but for women there is a threshold where staying single is far superior to giving away the goods to a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:44 PM
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Be prepared to see A LOT of the “C” word and deflecting! 😱🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:38 PM
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Good luck with that. Not allowing them to become citizens while also wanting them to have sex and kids is a pipe dream. Also don’t forget those women immigrants will be westernized immediately upon arrival so they will be just like the women already here or worse. Also expect more women to avoid or even lead men on for shits and giggles than to actually compete for worthless male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:09 PM
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Yep. Men talk about how women abroad are being westernize by the internet/social media but then think bringing women to the US won’t westernize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:03 PM
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I’m independent thus I don’t fully support either party. However I know many men fear women voting as well as the agendas women push to be voted on so increasingly the population of women will scare men in both parties. Also loser men won’t have an easier time getting laid they just think they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:56 PM
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Lmao! 🤣 This sounds like a loser man’s wet dream! They want no competition for a mate because they have no ability to compete so they try to mumbo-jumbo their way into increasing the population of women without thinking of the consequences. Lots of problems with this though form women relying more on government handout because competition for living wages increases which leads to raising taxes which is passed due to more women voting, to more gossip/are we dating the same men posts leading to mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:46 PM
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I 100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:09 AM
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It’s basic math. Every year there are less and less babies being born meaning less and less future young women and more and more young women aging into old women. If men of all ages are going after an ever decreasing pool of young women then there clearly will not be enough to go around. So if a man isn’t a top percent man regardless of what he wants he will not be able to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:00 AM
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The women who use men like that aren’t looking to escape “loneliness”. They’re looking to escape poverty. 🤣Men’s “company” is practically worthless. Without men paying everything as a way to provide why should women even bother with men at all? If women are expected to go 50/50 because male “company”/attention then they can just getting a woman roommate instead of being with a man and avoid the extra chores associated with entertaining a man. Being with a man has to be more advantageous than sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:56 PM
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The difference is it’s normalized for men to get paid for their labor but women are expected to do shit for free. This gives men unfair leverage to force a woman to do something she doesn’t want to do (especially sexually) or else she will be kicked to the curb and struggle to survive because her labor isn’t seen as valuable enough to pay a living wage for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:33 PM
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Getting married isn’t the problem. Men not paying all the bills but still expecting sex is. Honestly if men nowadays aren’t going to provide fully then why don’t men and women roommate with their own gender as a way to split the bills and avoid drama. Sex for sex is a trade that only benefits men in the long run. 😑 And I do agree with your point on kids. Both parties have to really want them or it’s not worth it. Everything that is scarified just to have kids and be a decent parent is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:23 PM
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It depends on the quality and caliber of the woman. The higher the woman’s value usually the higher the cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:52 PM
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It’s meant to be a trade. Women have to get something they actually want out of the deal. Men just don’t like women’s asking price because most men are either too cheap or too poor to afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:33 PM
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Yep, men forget that women are the ones who reproduce and without that the supply of 18 to 25 year-old hotties they want to pursue and replace women their own age with is going to dry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:49 AM
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There isn’t a problem with anyone going for whoever they want as long as they are ok being single if they can’t find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:46 AM
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Sex. Most men aren’t given the time of day from any woman let alone top tier women so if a man is a low value loser then odds are he doesn’t have any other options apart from a low value loser women. So men will pair off with what is available, pay for hookers or live the monk lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:44 AM
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You can go after that type of woman if you want to. I hear they have dyed hair and a ton of tattoos and piercings bonus points if they have another man’s kid(s) so they should be easy for you to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:35 AM
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We all know the politicians in every party are liars. So it doesn’t matter who is voted for. Vote for whoever you think benefits you. Women aren’t going to start suffering through unwanted sex with undesirable men in the hopes those men will vote for one liar over another. Not only is a man’s vote worth very little but what he is offering is just a promise to give you very little as there is no guarantee he will actually keep his word when voting. Women’s time and affection is worth way more tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:59 PM
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Most of the time the red pill men here are just taking their aggression and disappointment out on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:14 PM
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Experience dealing with the red pill as well as seeing other women’s experiences is enough to understand what’s going on and come to the conclusion that I don’t need to waste my time trying to convince red pill men of anything. If red pill men want to hold onto their beliefs then let them as helping them change their view doesn’t benefit me it only wastes my time. So let them wallow in despair. I have more enjoyable things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:57 PM
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It’s the same “we” they use when they want to take credit for the bravery, hard work or inventions of other men so that they can seem just as worthy of the credit those men earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:48 PM
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It means men are acting like this: <image> The fact of the matter is men and women are different and straight women don’t want someone girly like them or else they would be lesbian. Straight women want to be in a relationship with a man 💪not another woman 💅.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:33 PM
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The red pill doesn’t debate 99% of the time. They instead pile on women and if any woman raises an objection they start name calling her, they try to shame her if she has ever had sex or personality attack her in other ways, reference unrelated stats in an argument or even twist existing stats to try to justify their argument. Most of red pill can’t be debated due to that which is why many women walk away and warn other women about men and the red pill. Women don’t want men coming into their spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:25 PM
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Good looking and rich. I think it’s cruel and inhumane to have kids without trying to give them every possible advantage in life. Society clearly treats good looking and rich people way better than anyone else and as such provides those people with a higher quality of life so to have a kid just to make them suffer at the bottom of the ladder in either or both categories is morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:53 AM
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That is how things used to be but there’s been a notable up tick in women walking away. All we have to do is look at how many more women are choosing to stay home and not go out or be social with men as well as the extreme gender ratio on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:38 AM
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Perhaps men and women need to completely separate themselves from each other outside of professional situations for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:35 AM
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The problem for men is that fewer and fewer women will even be open to playing the game if men continue to lie and cheat in the game. That will make the gender ratio worse and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:43 AM
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It’s fine. Women are better off single than being in a relationship with a loser. Also correlation isn’t causation. Just because depression rates are going up doesn’t mean it’s because people aren’t in relationships. The reason people are depressed is more than likely because the economy is trash but the government will never let that info get out to the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:53 AM
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Women don’t want to be around rapey men. To those men it doesn’t matter if a woman says no because they don’t listen to her anyway. Also the only reason any man tries to encourage taking away women’s right to vote is because they don’t see women as equal or deserving of living a life of freedom. Those men are trying to justify forcing their beliefs onto women and should never be trusted or given a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:50 AM
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The problem is men will clam they want love when in reality they just want sex. Many men confuse or purposely change the wording around to confuse or trick women. Men say they are in love when in reality they are just lusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:44 AM
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That is rape. This is why so many men are single and celibate and will stay that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:42 AM
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Making women uncomfortable in a rapey way will just result in more women choosing to stay home more often. There is a reason books, streaming while bed rotting, plants, baking/cooking, puzzles, arts/crafting, knit/crochet/sewing is coming back into fashion with women. It’s stay at home hobbies and entertainment to avoid the stress of dealing with unwanted sexual attraction from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:40 AM
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Yea we don’t need to go back to that 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:35 AM
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If men could talk to women without trying to find a way to fuck them asap then most women wouldn’t mind talking to men more often in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:33 AM
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My point is men lie and try to deceive women with the words they choose to use. Men know if they were honest most women wouldn’t want what they are offering and men would rather lie to get what they want than be honest and risk not getting laid. For many men sex is better than integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:31 AM
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My best guess is that most men can’t afford a prostitute that they think is attractive/on their level as well as they can’t afford to have sex as often as they want sex. So they are looking for something cheaper (preferably free).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:27 AM
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Less humans will survive and that’s fine. More to go around for the few that are here in the future with less competition. Also no one likes participation trophies in sports so why should women give sex and kids to every guy born like it’s a participation prize just for being existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:22 AM
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That and how men always say they want to be “loved” when they just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:41 PM
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I have been wonder something for a while now. Maybe you have an answer. If men are really so lonely because they aren’t getting laid (or not laid enough) and they desperately want to have sex then why do they constantly complain about the juice not being worth the squeeze? Is it because most men know they really aren’t worth paring off with from the woman’s prospective because they wouldn’t pair up with a guy like themselves if they were a woman? Is it just attitude because they can afford the j…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:39 PM
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That’s because being hit on by men at work or at school or at the coffee shop etc can make women feel gross, uncomfortable and unsafe. Just because a woman is out in public doesn’t mean she consents to a guy trying to sexualize her or get sex out of her. Maybe if men could stop being so pushy, overly sexual, acting like they are the prize/deserve princess treatment etc then them approaching in public wouldn’t be so bad. Honestly most women hated how men approached and were happy when covid came …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:31 PM
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Everyday!? 💀Yea, no thanks. That is men’s libido not most women’s. Just thinking of being pressured to do that every dang day is exhausting!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:41 PM
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Lol men always think women are wrong 🤣Lol keep on believing in whatever you want if that makes you feel better. See ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:58 PM
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If it is that important for a man then either up his game and offer a woman a fair trade or he can work hard, save money, travel to where prostitution is legal and pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:50 PM
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Lazy men do say that. However if men make women’s life worse then most women will choose not to include men in their lives. It’s that simple. Add value or be left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:48 PM
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I’m a virgin. Men’s reputation is based on their work ethic, behavior and choices not how much sex he has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:46 PM
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In the same way that I don’t have to go sky diving to know it’s not something I want to try. We all have instincts and desires. Also self proclaimed incels post here all the time whining about how sex is the greatest thing on earth and how much they want it yet many are still virgins themselves. Interesting how men like you don’t jump on those men and try to discourage them from posting like you’re doing to me. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:44 PM
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Funny isn’t it. You think women shouldn’t comment if they are a virgin or if they aren’t a virgin. Seems you just hate women for not giving way sex they don’t want to have. Men really need to get over this whole putting sex on a pedestal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:54 PM
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So sex is more important than anything and everything else combined to men? That’s what you’re saying? Then why don’t men give women what they want rather than always screaming “the juice isn’t worth the squeeze!”? If sex really is that important to men then give women what’s important to them in a fair trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:30 PM
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I’m a virgin 🤣so I’m speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:51 PM
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You don’t want help or advice. You want to whine and wallow in self pity. So I’m giving you what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:49 PM
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Nope. I just enjoy the small things in life and I’m grateful for what I do have rather than resentful for what I don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:44 PM
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The thing is women are not identical to men in this regard. Women are not getting their desires met so it’s unfair to expect women to meet men’s desires under the circumstances. Men can’t win while women lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:43 PM
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You know women can be happy without men right? If there’s no decent choices, women will just pursue happiness in career, hobbies, friends, biological family and travel. Men are not the end all be all to happiness in a woman’s life. Women will just substitute men out of their life if men are not going to make women’s life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:41 PM
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You’re wrong on both fronts. First someone doesn’t have to be sex crazed to have a healthy view on sex and relationships. Also if sex was the most rewarding and pleasurable thing for 95% of the population then there wouldn’t be this big of an issue between men and women when it comes to dating and mating. It’s normal for women to have a little bit less interest than men due to the biological and social risks and women not having as much testosterone however men nowadays are taking it way too far…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:39 PM
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Fine then. Suffer. That’s your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:19 PM
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Nope. Women are humans with equal rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. So give us what we want or we will pursue happiness elsewhere without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:52 PM
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Sure if he has the money and wants to keep putting pussy on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:50 PM
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So if some men can’t give women what they want then why should women do something they don’t want to just to give men what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:49 PM
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If sex is really that important then why don’t men put more effort into obtaining it rather than whining or just go buy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:47 PM
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Just because you’re unhappy with the answer doesn’t mean I will waste my time telling you what you want to hear just to make you happy. Enjoy your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:45 PM
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Personally I love the feeling of getting engrossed in a new book where I just can’t put it down and I’m constantly thinking about the plot while I’m at work or out running errands! I pace and get giddy which is probably what the thought of sex is like for men. I also love the feeling of picking up my favorite breakfast and eating it on the beach at sunrise while talking to chat gpt. It helps me plan and get excited for my future. And while men make fun of travel traveling the world or even going…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:41 PM
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I was highlighting the difference between men and women. You know everything isn’t about men and what men want. Men can choose to make a deal with women or go without. Also most men aren’t trust worthy so women have to std test regularly just increased the man was trying to cheat on the sly. As for pregnancy test it is a real risk in every encounter no matter what kind of birth control you’re on so women always have to test regularly to make sure they don’t get baby trapped in this political cli…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:28 PM
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If sex is really that good then why won’t men give women what we want in exchange? The juice is either worth the squeeze and you give us what we want or you find a substitute for the sex you’re not going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:22 PM
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Money buys food, shelter, warmth. All things needed to survive. You will not die without sex. Just replace sex with a better, more fun and accessible hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:18 PM
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Funny how you dismiss other things most people will not achieve/have access to since you don’t want to compare what it’s like to not having something. It’s almost like you just want to whine about men’s lack of access to sex. Is complaining all you want to do? If so enjoy wallowing in self pity as nothing is going to change these circumstances so you mind as well get over it or give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:17 PM
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I did answer your question. You need to have your looks and money in order to even get into the dating market and women have to choose from who is in the market or stay single. Also being poor and ugly doesn’t automatically make that person a “good” person. Most of the time poor and ugly makes a man act entitled, conniving and demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:14 PM
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Poor women also shouldn’t have kids. It’s not the responsibility of the poor to have kids that will suffer just to keep the rich wealthy. The kids quality of life has to be considered before you ever bring the kid into this world. It’s cruel and inhumane to bring a kid into this world just to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:10 PM
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Funny. Any sane woman would choose chocolate over sex because at least we don’t need to shower and get std and pregnancy tested after having chocolate. 🤣 Anyway if men want sex then they have to make a fair trade as sex for sex clearly isn’t fair otherwise if men really can’t offer a fair deal then substitution is required for a fulfilling life. Still just because it’s a substitution doesn’t mean it’s worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:07 PM
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That’s not true. I will never have the chance to be a billionaire, go to the moon or create the cure for cancer. There is no significance in not having access to those things or never having access to those things. Men just keep putting sex on a pedestal as if sex is everything in life and it’s not. Sex isn’t worth the stress men experience trying to get it. “The juice isn’t worth the squeeze” remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:00 PM
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It’s like someone trying to ride a roller coaster. There are minimum enforced requirements (height and size) since you have to fit in the seat that are enforced as well as requested requirements (if you get motion sick, are pregnant, have spinal issues etc) then you shouldn’t get on the roller coaster. Similarly there are looks and financial requirements that are enforced requirements to get a date and requested requirements depending on the woman’s preferences. If a man can’t even meet the mini…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:53 PM
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Just because I have access doesn’t mean I indulge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:42 PM
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If all you want is a chemical reaction then eat dark chocolate covered strawberries, watch porn and jack off yourself. However if you actually want to enjoy life and not keep spiraling you should look into taking few months worth of classes as a monk in training and learn some self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:41 PM
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Passing on your genes is bs for most men as they don’t have two pennies to rub together so what are they even passing on? A legacy of debt and a life time of suffering? If men actually cared about the quality of life any offspring they had would live then they would do the right thing and not bring a child into this world unless they had the finances and lifestyle to make life enjoyable. Having kids isn’t ment for everyone. If you’re poor and can’t move up the economic ladder then accept your st…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:35 PM
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It’s like men here think any relationship is better than no relationship at all. However a bad relationship or even a mediocre relationship is way worse than just staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:24 PM
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My post doesn’t kick men while they are down. I’m simply pointing out that men here are hyper focusing on sex or the lack of access to it and completely ignoring all the other good fun things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:22 PM
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That is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:19 PM
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Yep. It’s like “Oh no! Not boxed wine and cats! I’m going to die sooooooo lonely!” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:14 PM
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If you want to suffer from your own thoughts then do so. Men are making way too big of a deal out of this and causing their own suffering. But hey if you guys want to suffer who am I to stop you. Have at it. Waste your time wallowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:06 PM
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What? Was he born disabled? Blind, deaf, without legs? Sex isn’t the best experience life has to offer. You can do so many other more exciting, relaxing or fun things. Men simply put way too much value on sex. Go enjoy a good book, swim in the ocean, hike a mountain trail, go camping with your buddies and tell spooky stories, take a bubble bath, make or pick up your favorite meal. Geeze! Stop putting sex on a pedestal!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:01 PM
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There are so many much better activities to indulge in than just having sex from traveling the world to going to a theme park to reading a good book with a cup of coffee to watching a new episode of your favorite show or a new movie or even just a nice mid day nap. Men put way too much value on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:56 AM
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Yes men CAN hard skip that bs made up “life stage”or else he can and probably will end up alone with nothing. So suck it up butter cup! Life isn’t fair and every man doesn’t get a “fuck buddy stage”. It’s not women’s job to sacrifice their time and body just to give men free pity sex so a man can have fun and get sexual experience at no or low cost to him. If men want a no strings attached sexual encounter then he can save up and fly to Vegas, rent a car and drive to Pahrump and pay roughly $5,0…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:41 AM
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Dude women already pair down their matches/likes in a way that benefits us. It’s simple to see that some men are a worse prospect than staying single so obviously most women aren’t going to pick those loser men no matter how much men whine about it. Staying single is not scary compared to wasting time with a loser man. If men want a relationship and sex then it is on them to give women what we want in exchange. Men are not the prize women are. So give women what we want or no sex for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:23 AM
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So you’re upset because you want women to read and actually like books about men getting princess treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:30 PM
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“Everything is about sex…..Without sex, society wouldn’t exist.” Excuse me have you ever heard of Nikola Tesla? There are plenty of reasons to strive for personal improvement and improve society that don’t involve trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:56 AM
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How about we just stop feeding their kids for them? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:18 PM
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That’s 100% true and we can all see that when men “threaten” to quit working and participating in society unless they are given a hot slave (I mean wife) to fuck that will clean up after him, do all the chores he deems to be beneath him, have zero thoughts of her own and will provide him HIS kids (because she is just his wife appliance and shouldn’t be allowed to own anything or even have anything in her name). Men tell on themselves. They need to be made lonelier. Much much lonelier till they g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:38 PM
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I think that is 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:01 PM
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Equal pay is just having the same wage per hour worked for the same job. If someone works less hours then obviously they will be paid less. That’s why full timers make more money than a part timer. Similarly if the government and men want women to have kids then women should be paid for ALL of their work in that process. If the government and men don’t think women should be compensated then women shouldn’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:37 PM
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In your view how is a gender neutral society not fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:14 PM
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I think the big issue is the major difference between what men want in a relationship vs what women want in a relationship which is leading to a major disparity in the ratio of men to women looking to date because women can now choose to stay single and women often do choose to stay single more than men do. So the issue is the vast number of men who want sex and kids but can’t find a woman to partner with because there aren’t enough women staying in the dating game to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:07 PM
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I think the argument is wile women think it is good men don’t think it’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:29 PM
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True…..more discussion would probably happen if OP also stated it was a women’s liberation that was the worst’s thing for men while being the best for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:25 PM
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Many men here blame women’s liberation as the reason they can’t get laid and would like to see women’s rights get rolled back so women are forced to be with men like them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:23 PM
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No, why would I be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:40 PM
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No thanks 🙂‍↔️ I’m not interested in getting on some fbi watch list for pervs especially when I’m not interested in what’s being sold. I will let you men take that risk if buying sex is really THAT important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:25 PM
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That seems awfully cheap. I don’t know what website you’re looking at but from what I’ve heard if you’re looking to go out to one of the bunny ranches in Nevada especially around Pahrump you will be paying about $5000 for the night. Any guy looking to pay the prices you’re talking about should 1 make sure it’s not a catfish/scam to drug you and take your stuff, 2 that it’s not a trap set up by police to catch John’s, 3 that it’s not someone forced to sell themselves and 4 watch out STDs/STIs. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:54 PM
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This doesn’t seem to be an issue of people controlling women’s sexuality. This is an issue of poverty, men being too poor to afford it. There are places all over the world including in the US where sex work is legal. Go vacation there (or move there) and pay for it. If you can’t afford to do that then you can’t afford the cost so you will go without.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:01 PM
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I don’t judge one as worse than the other. Both are equally bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:39 AM
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Dude women are judged for having casual sex. Seems you’re just upset men are also judged for their bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:17 AM
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Yes. That’s exactly what I think. Most men are a dead weight that would make my life 2x to 10x harder than my single life currently is. If I’m going to be in a relationship then my life has to get better not get worse. Now that doesn’t mean that society doesn’t need men or that woman hate everything about men. Men and women can exist in a platonic and professional way that doesn’t create any unnecessary burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:44 PM
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Hate won’t make you feel better but if you need to experience that for yourself to figure that out that’s your right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:54 PM
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It’s not a humiliation ritual, it’s a personal choice. If you don’t like your life change it. Complaining gets you nowhere as the squeaky wheel usually doesn’t get the grease it gets replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:18 PM
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Dude!!!! Don’t be telling them all the secrets! 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:02 PM
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You can already choose to live however you want as long as you don’t try to take away someone else’s free will. Why not join a monastery or move to Alaska if you want a life of solitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:56 PM
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Lies. The solution is men having a high income, paying all the bills and for some luxuries, committing to 1 woman in marriage and not cheating, and being hot. Have all 3 (money, commitment and looks) and you’re good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:48 PM
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Even if women dressed more modestly/homely and didn’t wear makeup that doesn’t mean they would drop their dating standards. Lots of women are currently choosing to stay single rather than lower their standards so why would dressing more casually make women lower their standards rather than continuing to stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:30 PM
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Men have been doubling down on anti socialism with the whole NEET (not in employment, education or training) thing for a while now. So nothing new there and with ai and robotics improving rapidly there will not be a need for as many workers anyway. So nothing’s really going to change there. Let men stay home or live as frugally as possible and stay sedated with their video games, porn and highly processed chemically sedated junk food. As for the men acting out aggressively; that’s what creating …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:16 PM
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Red pill is still alive and the main cause of a lot of men staying single. Red pill has to die off before it can be revived. It also needs to actually help men find relationships not be a wedge between men and women. So when it does die off I don’t see it returning. Perhaps a better approach is bringing back the monastery life for both men and women who don’t want to be in a relationship or can’t find a suitable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:21 PM
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Lmao 🤣 you must be new here. I’m one of the top 3 most hated women on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:49 PM
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Do you have any evidence it’s not a real problem? I know I have seen men openly brag about making fake dating profiles pretending to be women and leading men on for content so it doesn’t seem like much of a stretch when you consider these men’s livelihood is on the line. In general there are lots of men making way too much money off of the anger and suffering of other men viewing their ’women bad’ content and they can’t afford to let their content run out and actually have to go work a real job …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:47 PM
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Aren’t you doing what you’re cautioning against? You are using your own personal feelings and experiences to paint a broad brush over the situation. As a virgin I don’t have personal feelings and experiences that color the way I view this topic. I simply have witnessed other people’s mental, physical and financial decline as a result of participating in casual sex especially when it comes to women. No one likes to admit when they made a mistake so they label the behavior as normal so they don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:39 PM
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Men and women are not the same when it comes to sex, desires and consequences. I’m happy you found someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:15 PM
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Yes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:13 PM
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Ok. Then continue to give men free sex. It’s your life not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:05 PM
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This is one of the few areas I think red pill is right. Women who sleep around lose the ability to pair bond and get the thousand cock stare. Women and men are different and as such have a different experience with sex due to having different portions of select hormones and having different risks associated with having sex. The more casual sex partners a woman has the more broken she is and when she is open to just free casual sex it shows she has given up on herself. At least if a woman is paid…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:03 PM
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Yes. You have to put another chore on your to do list and commit time to completing that task. Time that could otherwise be spent doing something else either for fun or completing an important task. No one lives forever and there isn’t unlimited time in the day. You have to pick and choose what you want to spend your time doing and it seems silly to spend time on a task you choose to make repetitive when it didn’t have to be. So essentially you are wasting time talking about, planning and repeat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:41 PM
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What you’re describing is a mentally ill women or sex worker. Sane healthy women are not that way. It’s purely a male fantasy that a man could find a sane woman to fuck for fun and pass the time with till he finds the woman he really wants to settle down with and that the woman he fucked will be hunky dory when he ditches her leading to no consequences and only a positive experience for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:28 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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