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I have always said I might be a sociopath. Having children has helped with my empathy and I feel all kinds of emotions for them and If I hurt them, it devastates me. I am numb to my wifes emotions at times and really don't care if I hurt her feelings because I am more interested in protecting myself. Any suggestions for an egotistical sociopath?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 11:22 PM
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I think my rage came from the idea that she had betrayed me. Cheating and betrayal cause me to go into orbit and lose full. If I ever caught her cheating in person, I might literally go into full psychopath mode like in that Nas song "undying love". I am guessing that is just ego out of control? ​
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 11:12 PM
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Her exit strategy was to fuck a black belt so I could never show my face in the gym again. Its dark, but its the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 09:21 PM
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I own all of it. No one is at fault for me being an emotionally shut down faggot who can't deal with feelz. She didn't have a husband to provide comfort so she got it from a friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 05:37 PM
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Maybe fucking focus on this for a minute. Are you bragging here? You sound very much like a somewhat self-aware sociopath and admit to using people and being obsessed with power. Maybe a narcissist even who is struggling admitting there are things wrong with you? It wasn't something I was aware of until recently. It explains my life very well. Working on it, and not proud. Maybe you don't hit her but everything else seems like crazy amounts of manipulation and verbal abuse. 100% correct. Its the…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 05:29 PM
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So, reading a post and then waking your wife to fight about it doesn't seem a good idea, imo. Maybe just read, digest, plan, then act? Worst idea. Should have went to the gym instead. Im learning to deal with my anxiety which pops up at times and makes me get very emotional. Normally I am not emotional, and I have turned it off. Just recently I became emotional like a pregnant woman. I hadn't cried in like a decade until recently. Not exactly sure what is going on. You were given advice to cut o…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 05:27 PM
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I have been given advice and don't like it. I was told to cut off the friendship. I am willing to listen to any advice and I want to take some time to consider it. I want to do the right thing even if I don't like it. I am willing to move out of state if need be. My wife and kids are the primary thing here, BJJ isn't even a close second.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 04:52 PM
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I sleep in the guest room because wife tells me she doesn't want to have sex anymore. If I don't sleep in my bed, its a massive punishment to her. I lay in bed until 3am and can't sleep. All I can do is think. I never have insomnia. More than one time I jumped out of bed to go confront her. The 4th time I went upstairs and grabbed her phone. I needed to verify there wasn't anything happening. She woke up and asked why I took her phone, I just went downstairs and ignored her. I opened my laptop t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 04:32 PM
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Career Last week I went away on Business. It was incredible and I gained 2-3 mentors who are executives within the organization and know the owner very well. One guy is the number 1 in the sales org chart and told me he will help me in any way he can and we are getting lunch next time he comes back up to my state. Another guy is a VP and reports directly to the owner as well. He recently just got his VP spot and said he would be happy to mentor me. I am going to be going back to the office at le…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 04:32 PM
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This. Add in coconut oil and rub her ass. Lube up that asshole and she will get used to it.
/r/askMRP17/02/19 02:53 AM
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I completely disagree but I am not you and don't have any perspective on your life. Good luck.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 05:28 PM
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Wife has never trained. Doesn't understand it. Just sees as rolling around or hugging. Doesn't comprehend that getting my purple belt solidifies I have no intentions of stopping but even at blue I was going to keep training. Something I want. Why not educate her or get her to go to class etc? Seeing you do manly shit should help get her panties wet and be more invested. Getting a black belt from my instructor is better than a college degree, my wife knows this. If she doesn't understand, its on …
/r/askMRP16/02/19 03:49 PM
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How did you break your hand? That is a first for me, usually its forearm breaks, shoulder or bicep tears. Sorry to hear that, its really shitty to get and injury like that. Have you spoken to her about your goals? Is she on board? My wife used to train, but her schedule was interfering with my goal of getting a black belt. She stopped and I train more than I ever have before. I made it clear that she might not ever get a blue belt, never mind a fucking black belt and that it's my goal and journe…
/r/askMRP16/02/19 12:36 PM
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Did you bait an armbar to escape or get stuck in an armbar. Two very different things. I know from experience. My elbow is fucked from 2 years ago
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 02:17 AM
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Oh I was a little hurt, but I didn't show it. In fact, I had a sneaking suspicion she didn't want to fuck me but used it all as a ploy to get me to be upset for a power play. She rejected me the night before because "she drank too much wine" on the super bowl. Still unsure if that was true or she was trying to make me pissed. I am unsure if this was premeditated or not, but I sniffed it out. Here are the facts: She never initiates or tells me she wants to fuck me. She did that day. She never com…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 07:14 PM
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OYS Week #3 Stats: Age: 33 Height; 6ft Weight: 173 BF: 10% Relationship: Married 12 years Children: 9,7,5 Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Practical Female Psychology, started TRM ​ Goals: Lifting / BJJ 6x a week Sex every day No smoking cigs (I had a little panic attack one day and bought a pack, I gave them away and back on track) Not drinking too much It's been a good 7 day period, but last week started off rough. I had a bad night with the wife and went into a mild panic attack because I felt…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 01:17 PM
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This is the answer. I got the biggest shitty comfort test yesterday. It had nothing to do with my current actions, and more to do with her feelings (especially relating to the past). She can go dig into the past and dredge up any feelings needed to demonize me in the moment when she is feeling anxious or like a failure. She doesn't want to feel like a failure responsible for anything so her hamster makes up shit to blame me for. Last night after I put the kids to bed, I let her rant and rave for…
/r/askMRP11/02/19 04:31 PM
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What did you find so jarring about it? Someone told me some of his work is somewhat debated in RP circles now and some of the ideas have "changed". Has RP thinking shifted on the concepts he outlines in chapter 2 "Alpha and Beta Balance"? Reading it helped me realize beta isn't "bad" and that if layered properly with strong alpha it can be very powerful. At times, I have been too stoic / shut down and didn't have enough emotional ability to spot a comfort test, never mind pass one. I would just …
/r/askMRP11/02/19 12:22 PM
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Are you sure you have identified the problem accurately? I thought I did. My mom has been in alanon forever so I'm not new to the topic. My father is an alcoholic and so is his father. I got a book that blew my fucking mind. Codependent no more. I highly suggest it. Recently like last week it just clicked. Something in me broke and it all made sense. Like an epiphany. DM if you want to chat. Hope you find peace brother.
/r/askMRP09/02/19 02:59 AM
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Have you ever looked into codependency? If you are an addict, there is a good chance you are addicted to validation from a woman. I could be projecting here, but you sound like me a bit. One of the mods here pushed me down that road and it has helped tremendously in giving me insight into why I am such a faggot with oneitis. My main difference is that I have never been concerned with my wife cheating. Luckily I never got fat or poor. If I had, I would have been cucked and never saw it coming.
/r/askMRP09/02/19 12:43 AM
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Historically, I didn't have a frame to break so yes. Today, I am on top of the world and I haven't fucked since Saturday. I had my dick in her mouth last night and she shit tested me during sex. I ended the session and she cried because I wasn't upset that she "wasn't horny" and I "came to bed too late". It was a bunch of shit testing that I passed. It might not have been the smoothest play, but I told her I could fuck her in less than 10 minutes and got naked. She was already naked in bed becau…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 09:53 PM
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Apparently we are very similar, I feel like I am failing at life if my wife isn't fucking me every day. Then it got to having sex all the time, but not really enjoying it because I knew she wasn't "my slut" but just kind of let me do things because I pay for shit. She didn't want me the way I wanted her. I knew something was wrong and I have been trying for years to fix it. My wife was bitching about "weekend plans" this past weekend, so that is a good thing? Normally I just do my own thing and …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 06:26 PM
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Whenever I am regularly laid, I am tons of fun. If I haven't had sex in 4 days I might be a little edgy. Having said that, one of the reasons my wife married me is because I am hilarious. The night of the super bowl, we sat on the couch acting like teenagers. My friend was watching the game with us alone because her family left at half time. It was just us 3. If he wasn't there, I would have ditched the game and fucked her on the couch. I'm from NE and I still would have rather fucked her than s…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 12:51 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I came here because I thought my wife was so crazy that she was beyond saving. I thought it was her fault and I just needed to learn a few tricks to deal with her crazy ass. Im still not fully convinced I can save our marriage, but I am convinced that I am in need of some serious internal change if I want to even try. I am convinced my ego is out of control and needs adjusting. I am convinced that I am codependent and never worked on that part of myself, I just let it happ…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 12:49 PM
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Stats: Age: 33 Height; 6ft Weight: 170lbs BF: 10% or less Married 12, 3 kids Current Lifts: Bench: 225lbs Squat: 225 lbs OHP: 160 lbs Lifting: I started lifting a week ago because I was told to do so. At first, I flat out refused because I am already in really good shape. I thought about it and decided there were a bunch of good reasons to start lifting again. I didn't feel like I was being manipulated by anyone I just wanted to do it for myself. Once I got to the gym and started lifting all the…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 10:20 PM
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Today, my wife popped in the room and was being cute and flirty and not bothering me one bit. I still tried to kick her out because this is my space to work. Then the kids came in and started hugging me because they were trying to find mom. Kids aren't allowed in my work space, so I hugged them and kicked them out too. They are too cute and far more distracting than her. I told her the reason she couldn't be in the room was because she was too hot and distracting. She was wearing a sports bra an…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 03:27 PM
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My wife planted a narrative in my head that I am socially awkward and don't like being in public places. It was kind of true, but I bought into it and never tried to get out. I always ignored women and never tried to flirt. Even when women did, I wouldn't reciprocate because my wife is jealous as fuck and I was afraid to get in trouble, because I was being a giant bitch. As of recent, I have been working outside the home much more often. I dress nice, smell nice and look good. I go out of my way…
/r/askMRP27/01/19 12:09 PM
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A long time ago, I made the expectation that we fucked every day. Its always at the end of the day so initiation isn't really an issue. Because 7:00 am -8:30 pm are work hours (kids awake), there is literally no chance right now that she would be initiating sex with me during the day. She doesn't like morning sex. She never orgasms when we do, its just for me. Which is fine sometimes, but I prefer to save the sex for night because its always better for me. In her mind, sex is not done during the…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/19 06:48 PM
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I don't have it figured out but I have been at this a long time. I didn't know what RP was but I have been inadvertently using similar strategies but missed some really important parts. I've had some help and coaching as well. I think of failure as going to bed alone and upset with my wife and not owning my shit. I've been doing the things and it's been incredible how she has responded. I've been this way before but have gotten lazy or overwhelmed by life and turned beta. I've been happier than …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/19 04:39 AM
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OYS Day 4 Stats: Age 33. Wife 35. Married 12. 170 lbs. 6'0. ~10%BF Physical BJJ 3 times a week. Just joined a gym today and put up 205 x 2. I didn't have a spot and am worried about how fucking sore I am going to be tomorrow. Reading Current: IFGWISN Addiction: Cigs and Alcohol. I am planning to quit smoking in the next week. Just working up to it. I have cut my boozing back significantly. I used to drink right after I finished work, or sometimes during the day. Now I only drink after I finish a…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/19 08:09 PM
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I guess I do want my hand held. I need someone to talk to. I am completely isolated in terms of talking about this shit. None of my friends would get it because they are beta faggots. I am advanced in manipulation and being an alpha, its the only reason I am still married. With 2 days of the red pill, my wife fucked by brains out last night. My situation might be more complicated than most, and everyone here assumes I am a fat beta faggot. When in fact, I am the opposite but I have given up tryi…
/r/askMRP23/01/19 02:24 PM
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