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| 1 | Would you drop side cheeks to be more motivated to approach?You're literally talking about Chads and Tyrones in another comment, it says enough! | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Would you drop side cheeks to be more motivated to approach?You're never gonna succeed like this because you've already fallen into the incel mindset. Stop thinking like an incel and make friends with some girls so you can see they think and operate just like any human | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 10:55 AM |
| 17 | Do you think men enjoy giving head or they just fake it?I'm a bisexual woman and when I had a gf I used to enjoy it 😋 I've found most women to be hygenic, but the one thing that puts me off is the same thing that makes giving head to men boring sometimes - being with someone who isnt very verbally responsive. I don't want anyone to try and act like a porn star or anything, but giving oral to quiet/unresponsive types is dull and unsatisying | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Friend’s Cousin Regrets Settling Early and Missing out on HookupsIs it? I'm in a long term relationship with no desire to cheat. You're never going to attract women until you sort out your attitude towards them. As long as you keep grouping all women together under one umbrella and assuming the worst of them every time, you'll continue to be alone. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Friend’s Cousin Regrets Settling Early and Missing out on HookupsShe's not cheating. She's expressing a desire to have done things differently. Something very commomly said by those who married early, including men... | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 12:52 PM |
| 16 | Friend’s Cousin Regrets Settling Early and Missing out on HookupsWhy is your friend allowed to have hookups and not considered to be on a derogatory 'carousel'? The fact you see women who want to have sex in this way is the reason half this sub are unsuccesful losers | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How Often Should You Text Her After A First Date?As often as you want, playing games is pure loser behaviour | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?You're focusing a lot on how you managed to have sex and not enough on what went wrong during it | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learned65 women in a year thats damn near 1 a week once you understand the maths How is your maths? ;) | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 04:29 PM |
| 16 | How to get a girlfriend advice?I would not recommend spending lots of money on dating coaches | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 11:18 PM |
| 3 | why do girls say they want a nice guy and then date someone who looks like he eats drywallSpeaking as a woman, yes we want a nice man, but first and foremost we want someone we have fun with. If we're not having fun with you ('fun' here doesn't mean sex btw, I just mean having a good time) then being nice doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 04:10 AM |
| 2 | men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be aroundRight, its so embarassing to me that this comment is so highly upvoted. I'm in a mixed friend group where all the women have at least a passing interest in football, and watching football is something we do as a group - as friends. Also, one of the only people I know who's into fishing is a woman who competes in fishing competitions. She's fairly feminine and has a husband and a kid. Fishing is just something she likes and is good at | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:08 AM |
| 2 | men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be aroundI also think it shows the man sees women as real people worth spending time with. A lot of men on this forum seem to think of women as a whole different species altogether, and that gives them problems | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:05 AM |
| 27 | I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women, but about 80 percent of women prefer the same type of guy, who is tall and muscular and .... How true is that?If they're going out and interacting with other humans regularly, especially in natural social settings like friend groups, bars etc, they have as much chance as anyone else to display their personality. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 10:56 AM |
| 40 | I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women, but about 80 percent of women prefer the same type of guy, who is tall and muscular and .... How true is that?Nothing beats charisma/funny, you can be attracted to anyone with a variety of looks and body types if they're charismatic | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 10:09 AM |
| 5 | I approached a milf at the libraryI literally said your opinion is still relevant just not typical - it's not like most women do sw or wear these types of outfits. I really wasn't trying to start something, I only said it wasn't representative of the typical experience. If you're used to a lot of attention of course you don't remember people hitting on you. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 08:32 PM |
| 19 | I approached a milf at the libraryThis woman's responses aren't necessarily the typical female experience. She is a SW with NSFW pics on her profile. Not saying that makes her opinion irrelevant, just that she's a bit of an outlier. I am a woman who just turned 30. If a young man 10 years younger hit on me I'd be worried he was making a joke... but if if I realised he was for real it would definitely make my day! | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 04:49 PM |
| 7 | I approached a milf at the libraryI think it'd be more weird to start by asking if she's married. What you did was pretty funny and cute, just shoot youre shot and if they're married they'll (hopefully) let you know! | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women?A lot of people have given the right answers, but also it sounds like he's teasing her and you're saying he's being mean. From reading this post it does sound like you don't really understand their interactions - do you think guys get girls by simping and constantly complimenting them? He has banter, much more fun and effective | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 08:22 AM |
| -11 | My Freshman Year In College!He writes like the girls who are trying to recruit to their pyramid scheme write. | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Girls Getting Attached After Several DatesIf you are looking for a girl to start a family with, why are you scared of girls you're dating getting attached to you? | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Do i have the right to be mad? Gf still following her ex.It's fully grown adult people shit | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 08:43 AM |
| 18 | Do i have the right to be mad? Gf still following her ex.My bf and his ex still follow each other and sometimes reply to each other's stories, same with me and some of my exes, depending on the circumstances of the break up. So personally that doesn't bother me. What annoys me about your situation however is the hypocrisy. She shouldn't be obsessing over the idea of you following exes if she still does! | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 11:34 AM |
| 5 | 4 simple flirty games thay create a flirty vibe with your girlFor number 1 I dont think you should end by sticking your tongue out, I guess if it's worked for you it's worked but it feels like that would give instant ick | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 11:04 PM |
| 5 | What do girls think of guys who post pictures with other girls?I like to see a guy is social and that women trust him. If i was in the 'talking' stage with a guy and he posted photos out with girls though, id probably feel a bit put off and discouraged. Not so much it it was a big group photo but if he was out posting photos with his arms round girls I'd probably think he's not actually that interested in me then (unless I knew them to be friends of his). | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 12:11 PM |
| 11 | Did I overreact?I totally agree with going for a coffee or something for a first date. But she didn't reject your suggestion, she just offered another option and asked what you thought | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 02:45 PM |
| 21 | Did I overreact?Looks like she just suggested another place and you shot yourself in the foot by starting to talk about how you're out of her league? Idk from my perspective came across as self pitying | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?In my opinion as a woman - if you know or at least think you know the guy pretty well and have him figured out, no social media isn't a problem and could even be pretty cool. It's the guys you don't know well or don't think you've got figured out where it's off putting, because looking at his socials can show you he's got friends and hobbies and a life. Without socials he's an unknown and you could presume, even if incorrect, he doesn't use socials because he doesn't have friends/a life. (Yes I … | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Euphemism for sleeping together2 is so cringe 😭 | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?It's so easy to accidently super like. Unfortunately I've found its just as easy to superlike someone you DIDNT want to match, as opposed to someone you did. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:31 PM |
| 2 | I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trashI commented something similar the other day somewhere else but I met my bf on tinder, as did one of my friends and other people I know... none of them were your stereotypical 'chads' either Really cringe that you say you don't want to look at profiles at all, no wonder you're doing terribly. Firstly if you're matching everyone even people you're not really into then what's the point? Your desperation will be immediately sensed. Also, when people swipe on everyone, Tinder assumes you're not highl… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?You're not an inferior or unworthy man you've just labelled yourself as that. However, ironically and in a bit of a loop, you are making yourself inferior with this cringe attitude Plus, you're ignoring the rest of the question. You're saying you don't even enjoy most dates. If you're having a date just to have sex your lack of enthusiasm is going to show. Start organising dates with women you actually like and just look forward to having fun and spending the evening with them, no expectations. … | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?You're a genuinly attractive man. Whatever is going wrong isn't to do with your looks | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 06:42 PM |
| 19 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?'I don't even like taking most women on dates' jeez I wonder why no ones having sex with you If you're not enjoying being around them then why even bother? You think they aren't picking up on your desperation for sex and lack of enthusiasm for them? | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Stop simping and spending so much money on dates, if she likes you she'll be happy to hang out and do something cheaper Bars are a good place for a date but just buy your own drinks, maybe buy ONE for her but you don't need to fund her night | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 11:52 AM |
| 2 | I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong?I agree with a lot of comments here but would also suggest you work on your social life with friends first. Having a good group of friends, mixed gender, will help you come across more socially adequate and comfortable | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth.You should cut things off and really should tell the boyfriend if you kissed her or whatever he deserves to know his gf is a cheater | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 09:11 PM |
| 3 | I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth.So likeable . Ok Bro 🤣 | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidAgreed, as mentioned above, I can't stand interview mode. Just I think as a starter asking how someone's day is isn't always doomed! | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidOn some days there's no exciting way that question can be answered, but if you live a life full of hobbies and creativity etc then there's usually an interesting answer to 'how was your day' | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidI dont agree with point 4, I think that response makes him look like a boring formal texter Defo agree with point 3 though I HATE being 'interviewed' | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Dating is just sales.I agree with you but I would like to say Apple are a bit shit and definitely advertise | /r/seduction | 17/04/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them?In real life women don't have all these standards you claim to have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?Maturity, more likely to want a ltr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:22 PM |
| 7 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Or you could not be a psycho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 07:48 PM |
| 47 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.Big 'nice guy' vibes from OP. Mocking women for... wanting a healthy and happy relationship and not settling for losers like him because they're as not as desperate as he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:40 PM |
| 8 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.You're not though, maybe they're just not putting effort in for you cos you talk like an incel. Women put plenty of effort in - food, diet, clothes, make up, hair. Men just don't realise because they think women come out the womb with mascara on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 08:39 PM |
| 8 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?It means that she's interested but not ready to have sex yet. Making out is still fun, and you can build up a level of comfort and intimacy between yourselves. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Every time I message or DM a girl I never met in person she eventually loses interest and starts leaving me on read/being dryWhy are you even talking to someone for more than a week without meeting up | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroShort answer: Yes | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.Ironically they would fair a lot better with women if they realised we're just humans as well not a different species | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.People here have a weird incel view of women. They imagine all we think about all day is keeping as many men as possible talking to us for validation and we've always got the next one lined up bla bla bla. We're just humans who exist and have friends and hobbies and date people its not that bleak | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.someone who actually interacts with real human people and women, thankyou! | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 09:42 AM |
| -8 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.To copy + paste my reply to the other person saying the same thing: Not really? I said they may not be at a stage yet where they're ready to post each other on social media. It doesn't mean she wants to kEeP hEr oRBiTeRs or whatever | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:39 PM |
| -2 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.Not really? I said they may not be at a stage yet where they're ready to post each other on social media. It doesn't mean she wants to kEeP hEr oRBiTeRs or whatever | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:38 PM |
| 24 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.Possibly. Personally, I only really have the energy/capacity to date 1 person at a time, so I wouldn't be thinking about attracting other guys if I'm dating one already. Truthfully other women might be though, so I wouldn't wanna speak for all of them there. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 11:17 AM |
| 74 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.As a woman: There are a lot of cynical answers here (like we're all sitting around every day thinking about our 'orbits' ffs) but here is the true answer from my perspective. It could be that me and the guy taking the picture aren't serious enough yet to be putting each others photos on our social media. Putting photos of the person you're dating is a bit of a 'step' so she might want to show how nice she looked or where she was, but they're not yet ready to put each other on their socials. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 11:12 AM |
| 2 | how do you talk to a girl when she's being boring?It always baffles me a bit when this question pops up. She's not 'being boring.' She's giving you one word answers because she has no interest | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't realize how hard average guys have itYes, like in the link I posted below, it is thought to be very underreported | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't realize how hard average guys have itAm I? Officially its 1 in 6, but estimated to be grossly underreported. These are US statistics, I'm not from the US, but as most people on this site are I'm using those statistics. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't realize how hard average guys have itA majority of women have experienced some form of sexual assault, and about 20% have experienced rape so I'd say its a very very real possibility | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:26 AM |
| 5 | For guys that hook up often, do you still watch porn?Why do people equate porn with masturbation? Quit porn, not wanking | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.Midway through your sentence is good, midway through her sentence she might think you don't care about what she's saying | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 12:47 PM |
| 10 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?I dont know what having sex is like for a man, but I know as a woman, it often (but not always) takes having sex a few times and getting to know each others bodies and likes/dislikes before it starts getting good. By that point you're basically dating anyway. If I don't have time to be dating or whatever, I still have 10 minutes to get myself off lol | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 18 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?Would rather masturbate than risk having bad sex | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 03:01 PM |
| 8 | My experience as a 20m y/o college student with over 60 partners in less than 3 years.Just so you know for your dating profile, it's heels not heals ;) | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Just did my first ever cold approach!Well done but maybe avoid running at women in parking lots in the future lol | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Women and simp infiltrationsTIL women don't live in reality | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Banged girl from my school and now she's talking to other girlsSays the reddit user about 16 year old girls | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 11:32 AM |
| 0 | Female friends…100% agree as a woman I'm very put off by men who don't have women friends. It also suggests to me that they don't really value female presence outside of sex. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 10:25 AM |
| 6 | No kissing, no sex, but she wants dry humpingI would say she was into you just not ready for full sex yet. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts on male simps and gameIncels are 'involuntary celibates' they're men who aren't having/haven't had sex and have turned their frustration at this into misogynistic rage | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 01:10 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts on male simps and gameSure dude, you're just a regular guy who calls men men and calls women 'females' | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 12:50 PM |
| 19 | Thoughts on male simps and gameI agree men need to stop simping but this reads like a bitter incel fantasy | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 12:04 PM |
| 2 | 21 to 17 age gap for a hookup???You'll probably have lots of chances to hook up again when you get to uni, and in the future you'll look back and be relieved you didn't do this I think! | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Is it a turn off for woman if a guy doesn't drink alcohol?It wouldn't change my perception of the person, as I'm not judging them for not drinking. But I would change my perception of the time I spend with them, I wouldn't enjoy it as much. Part of drinking is being able to lose a bit of your inhibitions, loosen up a bit, and when you're with other people, you're taking that journey together - if I'm 1 on 1 with someone else and they're just gonna watch me while I get tipsy, I'm not enjoying it. I wouldnt judge someone for not drinking, I just probably… | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I Flake More Often?Referring to women as 'females' and pretending to be busy... instead of actually just being busy. Work on your own life first | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it a turn off for woman if a guy doesn't drink alcohol?I wouldnt say its a 'turn off' but it would put me off because I like to have a drink with someone, being the only person drinking isn't fun. I like to relax with a drink at the end of the week so if someone can't join me in that I'm not as interested. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If she was interested she would have replied | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"It's because guys here don't seem to recognise the difference between approaching women in the street just trying to mind their business, and approaching woman in places like bars where social mixing is to be expected. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 07:56 AM |
| 0 | Why is being social media inactive a huge turn on for womenThis picture is saying guys with a crappy instragram is better than those with a curated one, right? The crocodile eats the bigger (aka better) number | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 09:46 AM |
| 2 | How to proceed after good second date?It sounds like she might take a while to get comfortable with people but it's really good she stated what her boundary was and you followed it. If you go out again, maybe at the end ask 'would you mind if I kissed you goodbye?' | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 10:58 AM |
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