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ResourcesFindingNewLeaf/r/seduction25/06/26 11:21 AM
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That's ones group of woman, but not all. Guys here consistently make the mistake of assuming there is "one right look". If you doubt me, post here a woman you consider a 10 and see the enormous amount of guys that disagree. Woman are the same. What you think looks like a 10 to one group of woman might barely get a 5 from another group. And that's the "looks" problem.
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:35 PM
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"value" is a completely subjective concept. What is high value to one person is not high value to another. So your idea that you have to "increase" your value is also dependent on the idea that there is a universally agreed consensus of what value is, which is the flaw in the logic. This isn't the stock market. If you have any doubts, just post the picture of what you consider a 10 here and see how many other people will tell you it's a 6 tops.
/r/seduction17/07/26 09:49 AM
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I think I've given the broad strokes above. I'd only add comonalities is also very important. Such as common goals, common hobbies, challenges, difficulties, etc And finally, good timing. If your goal is to settle down, I've seen that the guys decision "It's time for me to settle down" is very very important, most times even more than the girl.
/r/seduction16/07/26 02:07 PM
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This questions is very personal and can vary a lot from man to man. "Very requested" man usually comes down to access, it's usually man that work or live in environment which has a lot of woman and he would have at a minimum average game/social skills. From there, about 80% of guys focus on looks and lack of red flags. Look good and be supportive without much drama is "good enough" for those 80%. But the above is also how two people can end up in ling ter relationship while at the same time not …
/r/seduction16/07/26 12:32 PM
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That depends entirely on your definition of "advanced". Personally I'd call your description "intermediary". Advanced would be someone that is now skilled in turning yellows into greens. That doesn't mean it's all he does, it means that if he sees someone that he wants to, he could.
/r/seduction05/07/26 12:08 PM
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I'm with /u/UhroatFinal5732 here. I've also had lays from girls that gave out their Instagram instead of number. I think the quality of your Instagram might be playing a role here.
/r/seduction01/07/26 07:40 AM
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No anger here. If I misunderstood your post you have my apologies. I interpreted that you were somehow upset that you (felt like) couldn't talk about yourself during date. Like I said, if I misunderstood you, my apologies.
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:35 PM
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What baggage you have is none of my business. You just brought it to public and I pointed out to you.
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:08 PM
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That's why. Need to do it regardless if they ask.
/r/seduction28/06/26 04:18 PM
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How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?
/r/seduction28/06/26 03:16 PM
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Do you share about yourn own experience in the middle?
/r/seduction28/06/26 03:11 PM
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You need to be curious about her and proacively listen to her, not just what she says but also how she says it. LIke right now, if I am curious about you I can ask you to tell me about some of your experiences talkming with girls, how did it go, what did you talk about, what did she tell you, etc The question isn't a generic "what did you ask" it's a question that is relevant just to you and this conversation we are having. You can start off with something more generic, and then deep dive into s…
/r/seduction28/06/26 02:17 PM
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It is relevant, yes, but I've already seen it many years ago too!
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:40 PM
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> Most guys NEVER screen for ANYTHING. Most guys screens for looks only
/r/seduction28/06/26 10:39 AM
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You have so e baggage, you should get that taken care of, or it will come back to bite you down the line.
/r/seduction28/06/26 10:15 AM
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That accusation is usually a sign of too many low effort question. What do you do? Where are you from? What's your favorite movie? Etc it's all generic questions you can ask anyone. I can ask you those questions right now.
/r/seduction28/06/26 10:08 AM
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Finding out who she is as a person
/r/seduction27/06/26 11:24 PM
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This is a very complicated question. Top game you cold theoretically pull every night, and even more 2x a night in the right environment. I've seen it and I've done it myself. This is of couse in the right cities for a certain amount of time. But only when these 3 situations were met. - Lows standards. 6+ is low standards. - A lot of free time. Really need a lot of free time to pull this off. - Your hobbies, passtime and full time is woman. Basically an empty life. I say this because it's what I…
/r/seduction27/06/26 08:42 PM
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Thank you for all the shares!! But it is in line with what I feared, nobody is making this content anymore.
/r/seduction27/06/26 12:55 PM
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Depending on which city you are in, you might 100% professional photos, multiple. Tinder swiped are #1 on your picture qualities, #2 your bio, #3 your looks.
/r/seduction26/06/26 07:52 PM
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Going out to bars is a great way to make friends and you can bet you will find other guys also looking to hook up with girls, which can make great improv wingman. u/Altokation already gave one good example, I'll give you another, and you should pick whatever better suits your personality. If you just want to get laid, you can look for the dtf girls, usually they are by themselves (although not for long) and thet just drink or walk around the bar depending on how big the place is. You can also lo…
/r/seduction26/06/26 06:14 PM
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What's your goal?
/r/seduction26/06/26 05:24 PM
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The difference between night and day game is not the time, but the energy levels. Clubs and bars have mucg higher energy levels so game has to adapt to it. This is pretty much day game, done at night time. Also I'm not sure which aspects you could copy, having a crew filming you and a bunch of fans taking selfiels will turn most woman who are available into greens before he even have to say anything. It's not a replicable to the vast majority of people here. Good game is not getting the contact …
/r/seduction26/06/26 08:36 AM
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Not everybody have the availability for it all the time. With good pictures I could score consintently with little effort from online game, the effort was in the pictures not in the chat. It used to be super helpfull during most busy times of work.
/r/seduction25/06/26 08:03 PM
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There is so much clout chasing content there it's hard to find anything valuable
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:47 PM
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With some math, with a 2:1 gender imbalance means a 7 guys will be matching with a 5 girl. With some clever math in the back we could spread it out and find pockets of "types" that could help them. A 3:1 and a 7 starts matching with 4's and 3's. Between 4:1 and 5:1, 7's completely stop getting matches. And here I'm grading the users from 1 to 10 not on their attractiveness but on how often other users matched with them when shown their profile.
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:39 PM
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> on dating apps like hinge these chicks are crazy You can ignore msot of the comments here, they don't know what they are talking about. On dating apps there is a massive gender imbalance, depending on your city there can be 15 males for every female user. Any environment in which there is a huge gender imbalance there gender in the minority will feel and act like a rare commodity, because they are. This varies a lot city by city. I've worked on a dating app before covid, and we could see not o…
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:12 PM
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Same, but you don't control that part of the logistics. Could be better or worse.
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:01 PM
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Some do it without consent, but several do it with consent too! We used to create content way back and we always followed up with the women after the fact and got their consent. Several didn't give it out, even when it was a really good demo, and we never published it. Others just asked for face to be blurred wich we always did. Any content creator that blurs faces is likely getting the consent fyi.
/r/seduction25/06/26 12:00 PM
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25 minutes is enough to kill state, unless you are quite good at entertaining. You shuld try to look at some cool spot midway, so instead of going back to your place you can go to the midway spot, such as another club/bar, spend some time there then go back to your place. Turn it into 2x12 minutes. You can frame it as a cool after party spot etc... Then you can judge by the situation, if you need to use that midway spot or not.
/r/seduction25/06/26 11:24 AM
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If you want a relationship you should be looking for woman that also are looking for a relationship. Trying to creep up by pretending to be into a casual relationship and then sneak in relationships dates will cause trouble for you and for her. From what you wrote, she was very clear and upfront about what she wanted. You need to start filtering the woman based on what you want. She didn't meet your criteria, you should have filtered her out.
/r/seduction25/06/26 08:41 AM
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I wouldn't read too much into the phone vs Instagram. It's very common for young girls to be more active on Instagram than phone number.
/r/seduction23/06/26 10:07 PM
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Did you describe all the interaction? If so, it's very short, there would be almost no connection at all. It's very common to not have any follow up with people we speak just for a bit on a night out. You either play a numbers game, and know that 3/4 will not follow through or you build more connection to ensure she remembers you the next day. Based on everything you said if say you were still too much of a stranger to her by the end of the interaction.
/r/seduction23/06/26 10:07 PM
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How often do you see your situationships? Usually anything once a week or more is implied relationship. Being overly responsive can also be seen as you not having anything going for yourself.
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:55 PM
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That completely depends on which type of guys she likes. If she justs to be with a guy, any guy, then that would be correct.
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:53 PM
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> Is this only bc I haven't been with the absolute hottest girls 8.5+ where it's easier for me to fall for them or be entranced? If you are picking the girl you chose to be in a relationship with solely by her looks, you have a huge chance of not enjoying that relationship. Even if she was a 10, she would never be a 10 all the time, and eventually she will age and be pregnant and big, etc... You really should try to figure out the types of personality and qualities you really enjoy having around…
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:50 PM
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The advice I can give is to be curious about the other person. Have a mental checklist of things you want find out and get to know about them. For example, you can have a mental checklist to try to find out what her profession is, her hobbies, favorite tv show, family brothers or sisters, what was her last relationship like, what was the worse date ever, craziest experience on a night out, biggest fantasy, favorite sexual position, last time they masturbated, etc... It go increasing in intimacy …
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:37 PM
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You are overthinking. When that happen you read too much meaning into the smallest signals. If she was looking at you it could be both that she thought you were hot or she thought you had weird sweat stains. The safest option for you is to ask her some question, like a any class schedule, or whatever is relevant. If she is interested in you she will try to prolongue the conversation, if she isn't she will try to be short. Gym is a closed environment, you can easily make a bad reputation if you d…
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:30 PM
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That's spot on, thanks for elaborating it. I'd just add that I was in the mist of the change of PUA to Self Help, between the shooting, the pua hate board growing, me too, etc, self help was the only way these companies could survive as all of their content about pua was being censored and taken down, which was removing their customer acquisition channels. Ironically all this activism only gave room to a much more toxic manosphere, but that's another story....
/r/seduction23/06/26 11:05 AM
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Woman aren't a monolith, there are wman that like it and those that don't, usually whomever is the most unhappy will be the loudest. I've done cold approaches in 2014 and 2026 and never felt any difference in sentiment from people in the real world. The online sphere is a different thing, it lives on it's own buble.
/r/seduction23/06/26 10:27 AM
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You can look for the ring in their hands before you approach, it might save you some time.
/r/seduction16/06/26 11:16 PM
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That makes more sense, that I'd agree. Your advice is right, more approaches will mean people get better faster, but I also think that unless the person lives in a very densely populated city then it might not be practical advice. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and elaborating on it
/r/seduction16/06/26 11:12 PM
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20 approaches in 30 minutes? My shortest approaches are 3 to 5 minutes of conversation. Even if half are rejections that still doesn't even leave time to walk to the next approach.
/r/seduction16/06/26 11:00 PM
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How many hours a day does this take you?
/r/seduction16/06/26 06:57 PM
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