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ResourcesFindingNewLeaf/r/seduction25/06/26 11:21 AM
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The absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence, however, it is a very good proxy. I've shared with you my experience. If you have experience otherwise, I'd love to hear, otherwise I'd just interpret it as you (incorrectly) assume woman look at man the same way man look at woman.
/r/seduction15/08/26 04:46 PM
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And you have this belief based on what exactly?
/r/seduction15/08/26 04:41 PM
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Have you met anyone that had average game, got ripped, and then started getting laid often? I haven't.
/r/seduction15/08/26 03:59 PM
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Your goal is to improve your odds with girls? If so, it won't hurt, but probably won't improve in any significant way either. However, it might improve your self esteem or how you feel about yourself, and that alone will help you more with game than any change in looks.
/r/seduction15/08/26 03:26 PM
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It's an interesting take on the topic. I think the change in definition of "interview mode" takes away from the educational objective of it. Even tho everything you mention is right, in my view, part of the reason we have our own lingo is so that we can give feedback very easily to the most recurring topics. Everything what in the video is on point. 10/10
/r/seduction15/08/26 10:01 AM
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Demonstration of Higher Value, coined in the Mystery Method, basically a story that shows how you have ones of the several characteristics woman find attractive.
/r/seduction13/08/26 10:24 PM
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Scripts, rules, plays, escalation formulas, “wait X days,” “make her chase,” etc. This is all stuff we needed to help keep consistency in what we teach, specially when so many companies were expanding across the globe, we couldn't know what a coach in tokyo was doing. Having a consice set of rules and script helped make sure a client/student would get a seminar program that would reasonably match their expectations. It's not the game, just a packaged version of it which was teachable and consist…
/r/seduction13/08/26 10:17 PM
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Game teaches you how to run a script. I wouldn't call that game
/r/seduction13/08/26 10:05 PM
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This is very accurate
/r/seduction13/08/26 09:50 PM
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- Happiness is contagious - Giving the option to be rejected without prejudice makes people comfortable - With the 2 above, 80% os rejections are not about you (people are busy, have bad days, are in relationships, etc)
/r/seduction13/08/26 09:42 PM
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Seems like you are jumping into a lot of conclusions and being "100% sure" even tho you weren't there.
/r/seduction13/08/26 10:23 AM
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How do you know this random guy didn't have good game?
/r/seduction13/08/26 08:09 AM
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That depends entirely on your goal. If you aren't poly this might not be for you. Having participated in some of those parties it can be very challenging to find attractive partners too. If your goal is to find a partner for a long term relationship, game will help you tremendously. If your goal is to have as much casual sex as possible, no commitments ever, and don't care much about standards either, these parties can easily be the most effective way. There is usually an overload of single guys…
/r/seduction12/08/26 03:01 PM
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There is less stigma around sex, so it's socially more acceptable.
/r/seduction12/08/26 12:51 PM
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That's not the same. App swiping is forcing a woman to rate man the same way man rate woman. There is also an insane amount of gender imbalance in the apps, some cities can have 20 man for every woman. With this much imbalance woman have to do massive amounts of nitpick to do any kind of filtering.
/r/seduction11/08/26 11:52 PM
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We've all been there in similar situation at some point is our lives. Being here and taking steps to make things better is good. Just keep taking steps to make things better.
/r/seduction11/08/26 10:37 PM
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ONS = One Night Stands
/r/seduction11/08/26 10:36 PM
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The thing about looks is that it shouldn't take away from your attractiveness. Meaning, don't be obese, don't have body odor and don't dress like a toddler. If you are fit, tall, well dressed, good looking, it ads a lot less then the above takes away. As long as you take away the negatives I mentioned, you can do just fine with good game. Also woman don't rate looks the same way men do. For you to understand how looks matter to man, I'd recommend having some platonic females friends and ogling a…
/r/seduction11/08/26 10:07 PM
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There's a lot of negativity in your comments and I feel your hurt brother. Things will get better!
/r/seduction11/08/26 10:05 PM
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Woman are beautiful, sexually open, and very keen on ons
/r/seduction11/08/26 08:44 PM
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Srockholm was and still is one of my favorite places for cold approaches. Sounds like some traveling and life experience might do you some good.
/r/seduction11/08/26 07:38 PM
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You are going too deep into comfort, needs to keep things lighter and more into the fun vibe.
/r/seduction10/08/26 09:59 PM
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That's just getting caught up in p etty drama.
/r/seduction10/08/26 08:43 AM
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How would you know this?
/r/seduction09/08/26 11:35 AM
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If you aren't rich, I can guarantee you gold diggers don't want to be anywhere near you. Sorry for the bluntness. As for you date, seems like their state was off unfortunately. Were they originally in a good state at the beginning of the date and then just went down?
/r/seduction09/08/26 08:30 AM
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Why do you think they are gold diggers? Are you and your buddy rich? Can you give us more context? If they are on a date with you, they already like at the least 1 of you two. All you need to do is to not be weird or awkward.
/r/seduction08/08/26 02:02 PM
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Push pull teasing etc is intermediary game at best. In his care he’s saying “best game”
/r/seduction08/08/26 12:34 PM
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With the best game in the world he would have way better than 1%. With really good game and very bad looks, he’d have to work 10x harder but could pull off 10% to 15%
/r/seduction08/08/26 12:08 PM
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Ask them. Have you watched X? Do you like movies? What did you think of Y? Do you watch any series? etc If your question is, "are they pandering or interested?", then it's all about their enthusiams and how much they develop on it.
/r/seduction07/08/26 10:27 AM
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In that case you can make it easy for yourself by first trying to talk about movies and when you think the time is right try to talk about relationships and keep exploring topics that interest you along the way
/r/seduction07/08/26 10:22 AM
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Is relationships and watching movies the only 2 things in your life that interests you?
/r/seduction07/08/26 10:15 AM
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There's your answer. Maybe not "pickup" but relationship instead.
/r/seduction07/08/26 10:11 AM
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Don't you bore yourself with such questions? What questions would you find entertaining for yourself? That you'd be interested in finding out. Or,let's flip the script, the 2 of us are e-meeting each other right now, which type of questions, if I asked you now, you could go on talking for days?
/r/seduction07/08/26 10:07 AM
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Can't make any conclusions based off of 6 numbers
/r/seduction06/08/26 05:23 PM
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if his hit rate is less than 1% then he must be giving off some really bad vibes when he goes up to these girls. Just looks don't explain it. If he ever did 100 to begin with, which I would be quite surprised tbh
/r/seduction06/08/26 03:51 PM
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So you've aready done over 100 approaches and only got 1 number? Have you ever recorded yourself doing one of these approaches?
/r/seduction06/08/26 02:41 PM
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Usually 30 to 60 depending on the city and my own energy levels. Have you tried it? How many numbers did you get?
/r/seduction06/08/26 02:37 PM
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That's right, even many guys with great game have 0 standards. I've seen even instructors marrying and building a family with woman 100% based on looks. With 0 personality. Once you have a little bit of game, you should start having some standards. That's when "qualification" starts being a real and important thing.
/r/seduction06/08/26 12:13 PM
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You two really need to work on your communication. We, on the internet, do not know her better than you. There is no advise here which will be more accurate then what you can see. What we can tell you, is that it is not hard to have intimate talk with friends. Speak with her about what she wants for her life, what she wants in the next 5 years, her goals, relationship goals, etc... If your communication is strugling at this stage, It's also not a good sign for a possible relationship, where comm…
/r/seduction06/08/26 12:05 PM
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Game is all about averages to maximise your odds. It also assumes you know nothing about the other person. My question to you would be, have you tried love bombing and have you tried reserving interest? What was your experience on both?
/r/seduction06/08/26 08:43 AM
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Some people are really smart in their field, and really not for everything else. Some people are really smart all around.
/r/seduction05/08/26 11:20 PM
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I didn't ask to articulate well, I just said to put a little bit of effort. It's not too hard to re-read what we wrote, and edit it to make it more clear.
/r/seduction05/08/26 11:16 PM
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No, not at all. I'm not 18, I've met a lot of people in my life, including people nominated for nobels, PhDs, founders, etc... you can tell when someone is legitimately smart, vs when someone is field smart.
/r/seduction05/08/26 11:15 PM
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You vomited your thoughts on that post and didn't even bother on one line break or editing it to give it any kind of structure, or chain of thought. Everyone here is answering you based strictly on the title, because the body of the text is a word salad. I'm saying, a little bit of effort into being understood goes a long way.
/r/seduction05/08/26 11:01 PM
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I wasn't asking for their IQ tests, but I wasn't impressed by their "intelligence" in any of the conversations we had.
/r/seduction05/08/26 10:59 PM
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I never said that's what autism was. I said that the ones that were good at game had it.
/r/seduction05/08/26 10:39 PM
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Think of how much effort you want us to put in writing you your advise. Now please put, at a minimum, that same amount of effort writing the question.
/r/seduction05/08/26 10:33 PM
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That has not been what I observed. I've met many many people with incredible pattern recognition and "mapping framework" as you mentioned, which still struggled with game. The lack of social awareness which gets passed off as confidence is the recurring theme I've seen, in my experience.
/r/seduction05/08/26 10:21 PM
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Not at all. A big part of social anxiety is the cringe we expect and the want to avoid it. A complete lack of social awareness means 0 comprehension of this cringe feeling. This makes them seem very confident when talking to woman, which in turn is super attractive.
/r/seduction05/08/26 10:19 PM
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Completely true. I'd say 95% of autistics have trouble with game, but the 5% that understands it are incredibly good.
/r/seduction05/08/26 10:17 PM
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Can you do day game well? And just struggle with night game?
/r/seduction05/08/26 09:41 PM
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Some of the best game I've ever seen was from autistic people. The reason why autistics can be good at game is because their complete social unawareness gets conflated with confidence.
/r/seduction05/08/26 09:40 PM
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Do you keep checking her socials or seeing her somewhere?
/r/seduction05/08/26 08:17 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction05/08/26 05:27 PM
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In psychology it’s known as Limerance https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence But oneitis is more catchy in my view. Oneitis is also when you do make a move and she rejected it. The point is the non-reciprocal feelings.
/r/seduction05/08/26 12:43 PM
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It all depends on your goals. If you want to sleep with as many girls as possible, do both. If you want to be time efficient, online is best, in my opinion, second only to social circle/hosted parties. If you want quality, cold approach all the way.
/r/seduction02/08/26 11:09 PM
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Have you tried it? What was your experience?
/r/seduction02/08/26 08:51 AM
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If you can’t attract with looks it’s important you don’t repel. This means you don’t have to be jacked, but don’t be obese. Don’t have body odor, don’t dress like a toddler, etc… If looks don’t repel, you can go very very far.
/r/seduction02/08/26 08:40 AM
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If you can’t get girls to swipe on you, I recommend you hire a professional photographer, put on your best clothes, and pay him to follow you around while you do something cool. Do this 3x or 4x and you will have at a minimum 1 or 2 good photos. Rinse and repeat until you have enough
/r/seduction02/08/26 08:37 AM
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Are you new to the community? You can search for “FR” or “Field Report” and you will see thousands to posts. You can go back to way back machine and see we’ve been writing field reports since the 90’s. Asking if you could write one isn’t anything negative. It’s like being at the doctor and asking for a prescription or being at the supermarket and asking for the price of an item. If you post here people will ask for field report. If you take this negative or as an insult in any way, it’s not mean…
/r/seduction01/08/26 10:15 PM
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The girls already swiped on you, the moment you match she is already interested
/r/seduction01/08/26 10:04 PM
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Stop polarising. Just asked for more details than “had sex with 5 girls”. Field reports have been super common since the time of TAF.
/r/seduction01/08/26 10:03 PM
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What can help people is when you describe your process. We can then compare with what we do and get some insight from it. Just “ask” isn’t helpful beyond the very basic. What you shared here right now only helps very very beginner that can’t get any female attention.
/r/seduction01/08/26 08:42 PM
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Field Report - a brief description of how each encounter went.
/r/seduction01/08/26 08:27 PM
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What’s the point of this post?
/r/seduction01/08/26 08:26 PM
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Where did you first meet them? Online, cold approach, club… ? Can you right a brief fr of each?
/r/seduction01/08/26 08:21 PM
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What were your biggest take aways from this ebook?
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:04 PM
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You wrote it?
/r/seduction29/07/26 01:59 PM
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You can try recording yourself then listening to how you speak.
/r/seduction27/07/26 09:24 AM
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People that are naturally good almost always grew up around woman. They had sisters, cousins, female friends or neighbors. The biggest contribution to the trouble with game is the fact that most of us grew up in very small families with almost no woman contact besides our mothers. So when we are older we are handicapped, as we don't understand the particularities of being a woman, as we didn't see it while growing up.
/r/seduction27/07/26 09:00 AM
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It's a matter of tonality and body language. The best secret for you to land your openers and have a great reaction from the girls is for you yourself to be feeling happy. Then it's sharing that happiness. You being shorter than your friend means you can be more direct and upfront faster. Bigger guys have to be softer with their openers.
/r/seduction27/07/26 08:57 AM
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That's ones group of woman, but not all. Guys here consistently make the mistake of assuming there is "one right look". If you doubt me, post here a woman you consider a 10 and see the enormous amount of guys that disagree. Woman are the same. What you think looks like a 10 to one group of woman might barely get a 5 from another group. And that's the "looks" problem.
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:35 PM
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"value" is a completely subjective concept. What is high value to one person is not high value to another. So your idea that you have to "increase" your value is also dependent on the idea that there is a universally agreed consensus of what value is, which is the flaw in the logic. This isn't the stock market. If you have any doubts, just post the picture of what you consider a 10 here and see how many other people will tell you it's a 6 tops.
/r/seduction17/07/26 09:49 AM
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I think I've given the broad strokes above. I'd only add comonalities is also very important. Such as common goals, common hobbies, challenges, difficulties, etc And finally, good timing. If your goal is to settle down, I've seen that the guys decision "It's time for me to settle down" is very very important, most times even more than the girl.
/r/seduction16/07/26 02:07 PM
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This questions is very personal and can vary a lot from man to man. "Very requested" man usually comes down to access, it's usually man that work or live in environment which has a lot of woman and he would have at a minimum average game/social skills. From there, about 80% of guys focus on looks and lack of red flags. Look good and be supportive without much drama is "good enough" for those 80%. But the above is also how two people can end up in ling ter relationship while at the same time not …
/r/seduction16/07/26 12:32 PM
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That depends entirely on your definition of "advanced". Personally I'd call your description "intermediary". Advanced would be someone that is now skilled in turning yellows into greens. That doesn't mean it's all he does, it means that if he sees someone that he wants to, he could.
/r/seduction05/07/26 12:08 PM
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I'm with /u/UhroatFinal5732 here. I've also had lays from girls that gave out their Instagram instead of number. I think the quality of your Instagram might be playing a role here.
/r/seduction01/07/26 07:40 AM
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No anger here. If I misunderstood your post you have my apologies. I interpreted that you were somehow upset that you (felt like) couldn't talk about yourself during date. Like I said, if I misunderstood you, my apologies.
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:35 PM
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What baggage you have is none of my business. You just brought it to public and I pointed out to you.
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:08 PM
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No
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:07 PM
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Not at all, likely just lack of social skills.
/r/seduction28/06/26 06:36 PM
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That's why. Need to do it regardless if they ask.
/r/seduction28/06/26 04:18 PM
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How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?
/r/seduction28/06/26 03:16 PM
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Do you share about yourn own experience in the middle?
/r/seduction28/06/26 03:11 PM
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You need to be curious about her and proacively listen to her, not just what she says but also how she says it. LIke right now, if I am curious about you I can ask you to tell me about some of your experiences talkming with girls, how did it go, what did you talk about, what did she tell you, etc The question isn't a generic "what did you ask" it's a question that is relevant just to you and this conversation we are having. You can start off with something more generic, and then deep dive into s…
/r/seduction28/06/26 02:17 PM
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It is relevant, yes, but I've already seen it many years ago too!
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:40 PM
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> Most guys NEVER screen for ANYTHING. Most guys screens for looks only
/r/seduction28/06/26 10:39 AM
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You have so e baggage, you should get that taken care of, or it will come back to bite you down the line.
/r/seduction28/06/26 10:15 AM
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That accusation is usually a sign of too many low effort question. What do you do? Where are you from? What's your favorite movie? Etc it's all generic questions you can ask anyone. I can ask you those questions right now.
/r/seduction28/06/26 10:08 AM
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Those hard dates, 3 months, 2 months etc... are highly subjective. Many of the points here are also strictly western culture. Others are very clear red flags, which are recommend and generally good advice, but very subjective.
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:25 AM
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Finding out who she is as a person
/r/seduction27/06/26 11:24 PM
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This is a very complicated question. Top game you cold theoretically pull every night, and even more 2x a night in the right environment. I've seen it and I've done it myself. This is of couse in the right cities for a certain amount of time. But only when these 3 situations were met. - Lows standards. 6+ is low standards. - A lot of free time. Really need a lot of free time to pull this off. - Your hobbies, passtime and full time is woman. Basically an empty life. I say this because it's what I…
/r/seduction27/06/26 08:42 PM
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Thank you for all the shares!! But it is in line with what I feared, nobody is making this content anymore.
/r/seduction27/06/26 12:55 PM
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Depending on which city you are in, you might 100% professional photos, multiple. Tinder swiped are #1 on your picture qualities, #2 your bio, #3 your looks.
/r/seduction26/06/26 07:52 PM
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Going out to bars is a great way to make friends and you can bet you will find other guys also looking to hook up with girls, which can make great improv wingman. u/Altokation already gave one good example, I'll give you another, and you should pick whatever better suits your personality. If you just want to get laid, you can look for the dtf girls, usually they are by themselves (although not for long) and thet just drink or walk around the bar depending on how big the place is. You can also lo…
/r/seduction26/06/26 06:14 PM
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What's your goal?
/r/seduction26/06/26 05:24 PM
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How many woman have told you were a creep for approaching and speaking with them?
/r/seduction26/06/26 03:59 PM
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The difference between night and day game is not the time, but the energy levels. Clubs and bars have mucg higher energy levels so game has to adapt to it. This is pretty much day game, done at night time. Also I'm not sure which aspects you could copy, having a crew filming you and a bunch of fans taking selfiels will turn most woman who are available into greens before he even have to say anything. It's not a replicable to the vast majority of people here. Good game is not getting the contact …
/r/seduction26/06/26 08:36 AM
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Not everybody have the availability for it all the time. With good pictures I could score consintently with little effort from online game, the effort was in the pictures not in the chat. It used to be super helpfull during most busy times of work.
/r/seduction25/06/26 08:03 PM
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There is so much clout chasing content there it's hard to find anything valuable
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:47 PM
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With some math, with a 2:1 gender imbalance means a 7 guys will be matching with a 5 girl. With some clever math in the back we could spread it out and find pockets of "types" that could help them. A 3:1 and a 7 starts matching with 4's and 3's. Between 4:1 and 5:1, 7's completely stop getting matches. And here I'm grading the users from 1 to 10 not on their attractiveness but on how often other users matched with them when shown their profile.
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:39 PM
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> on dating apps like hinge these chicks are crazy You can ignore msot of the comments here, they don't know what they are talking about. On dating apps there is a massive gender imbalance, depending on your city there can be 15 males for every female user. Any environment in which there is a huge gender imbalance there gender in the minority will feel and act like a rare commodity, because they are. This varies a lot city by city. I've worked on a dating app before covid, and we could see not o…
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:12 PM
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Same, but you don't control that part of the logistics. Could be better or worse.
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:01 PM
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Some do it without consent, but several do it with consent too! We used to create content way back and we always followed up with the women after the fact and got their consent. Several didn't give it out, even when it was a really good demo, and we never published it. Others just asked for face to be blurred wich we always did. Any content creator that blurs faces is likely getting the consent fyi.
/r/seduction25/06/26 12:00 PM
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25 minutes is enough to kill state, unless you are quite good at entertaining. You shuld try to look at some cool spot midway, so instead of going back to your place you can go to the midway spot, such as another club/bar, spend some time there then go back to your place. Turn it into 2x12 minutes. You can frame it as a cool after party spot etc... Then you can judge by the situation, if you need to use that midway spot or not.
/r/seduction25/06/26 11:24 AM
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If you want a relationship you should be looking for woman that also are looking for a relationship. Trying to creep up by pretending to be into a casual relationship and then sneak in relationships dates will cause trouble for you and for her. From what you wrote, she was very clear and upfront about what she wanted. You need to start filtering the woman based on what you want. She didn't meet your criteria, you should have filtered her out.
/r/seduction25/06/26 08:41 AM
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I wouldn't read too much into the phone vs Instagram. It's very common for young girls to be more active on Instagram than phone number.
/r/seduction23/06/26 10:07 PM
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Did you describe all the interaction? If so, it's very short, there would be almost no connection at all. It's very common to not have any follow up with people we speak just for a bit on a night out. You either play a numbers game, and know that 3/4 will not follow through or you build more connection to ensure she remembers you the next day. Based on everything you said if say you were still too much of a stranger to her by the end of the interaction.
/r/seduction23/06/26 10:07 PM
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How often do you see your situationships? Usually anything once a week or more is implied relationship. Being overly responsive can also be seen as you not having anything going for yourself.
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:55 PM
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That completely depends on which type of guys she likes. If she justs to be with a guy, any guy, then that would be correct.
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:53 PM
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> Is this only bc I haven't been with the absolute hottest girls 8.5+ where it's easier for me to fall for them or be entranced? If you are picking the girl you chose to be in a relationship with solely by her looks, you have a huge chance of not enjoying that relationship. Even if she was a 10, she would never be a 10 all the time, and eventually she will age and be pregnant and big, etc... You really should try to figure out the types of personality and qualities you really enjoy having around…
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:50 PM
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The advice I can give is to be curious about the other person. Have a mental checklist of things you want find out and get to know about them. For example, you can have a mental checklist to try to find out what her profession is, her hobbies, favorite tv show, family brothers or sisters, what was her last relationship like, what was the worse date ever, craziest experience on a night out, biggest fantasy, favorite sexual position, last time they masturbated, etc... It go increasing in intimacy …
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:37 PM
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You are overthinking. When that happen you read too much meaning into the smallest signals. If she was looking at you it could be both that she thought you were hot or she thought you had weird sweat stains. The safest option for you is to ask her some question, like a any class schedule, or whatever is relevant. If she is interested in you she will try to prolongue the conversation, if she isn't she will try to be short. Gym is a closed environment, you can easily make a bad reputation if you d…
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:30 PM
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That's spot on, thanks for elaborating it. I'd just add that I was in the mist of the change of PUA to Self Help, between the shooting, the pua hate board growing, me too, etc, self help was the only way these companies could survive as all of their content about pua was being censored and taken down, which was removing their customer acquisition channels. Ironically all this activism only gave room to a much more toxic manosphere, but that's another story....
/r/seduction23/06/26 11:05 AM
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Woman aren't a monolith, there are wman that like it and those that don't, usually whomever is the most unhappy will be the loudest. I've done cold approaches in 2014 and 2026 and never felt any difference in sentiment from people in the real world. The online sphere is a different thing, it lives on it's own buble.
/r/seduction23/06/26 10:27 AM
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You can look for the ring in their hands before you approach, it might save you some time.
/r/seduction16/06/26 11:16 PM
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That makes more sense, that I'd agree. Your advice is right, more approaches will mean people get better faster, but I also think that unless the person lives in a very densely populated city then it might not be practical advice. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and elaborating on it
/r/seduction16/06/26 11:12 PM
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20 approaches in 30 minutes? My shortest approaches are 3 to 5 minutes of conversation. Even if half are rejections that still doesn't even leave time to walk to the next approach.
/r/seduction16/06/26 11:00 PM
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How many hours a day does this take you?
/r/seduction16/06/26 06:57 PM
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We really need more information before we can give good advice. Based solely on what you've given us, she is trying to form an expectation on what will come out of this date she is having with you, and she is getting mixed messages from you. For example if you at any point is giving her the idea that you are looking for a serious commited relationship but at the same time show her that you are seeing/have multiple girls.
/r/seduction16/06/26 01:45 PM
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