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Findom_Daddy/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 06:43 PM
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Never left(ish) we see each other a few times a month. Text or message a few times a week. That said we divorced becuase she was Asexual and Im not. So we are still friends.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 02:12 AM
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r/GrayDivorce is a good place to start. Community of those going thru or that have gone through it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 01:00 AM
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YOU WERE IN THE HOUSE. period. She didnt leave him "Home Alone" seriously
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 03:50 AM
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To answer your situation.. depends it definitely sounds like a grass is greener situation and now maybe has some regrets but isnt able to come forward and admit it. r/GrayDivorce is a thing and much different than your standard divorce. We have a group for those pf us going through it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 12:49 PM
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Ok.. guess my state is different from what I have been told. Wouldnt make sense IMHO as that I would see it as theft. But it is what it is I guess.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 02:25 AM
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She cheated, and she filed for divorce and is cheating with a married man ? Well, I think she doesn't have the right to anything in many states.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 04:49 AM
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Im here, but the kids are in the late 20s or early 30s. Weve talked divorce but niether really want it, but yet like you I want my freedom and only one way to get it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 02:38 AM
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Call her for lunch if you wish and give it to her then. Show you are the bigger person. Make it as low-key as possible
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 03:41 AM
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You are correct as thats her thing and has been for years. She ended the therapy on that note. NOT me
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 03:10 AM
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I would agree with you on most of that, but I have friends that are poly and I have had enough experience that the right woman would have me give poly up. But I think I would search for a poly partner first, so they would be that way from the jump. I have found I have infinite love and no jealousy in my heart. Im poly I have no doubt.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 03:05 AM
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Fair
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 03:01 AM
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Actually I didnt make up ENM or Poly.. those terms have been around a long time. Also known as an open marriage.I ha e know how she is for decades, but also love her and dont want to hurt her..
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 02:56 AM
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Step 3.. is fucking bullshit. What it is is burying yourself and your needs and your wants to make sure your kids grow to be healthy adults and the Worry about it later. And I succeeded It is so fucking easy to call 'Cheater' when the other partner is the love of your life and best friend, but wont give you the basics when it comes to sex. I have been fucking friendzoned by my wife for 20 god damn years.. I love the hell out of her. But god damn I need more than just a friend. So easy for those …
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 02:54 AM
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That is a 100% what I think as well. But I am not like other guys. I need an emotional connection sex isnt just the act, its the heart. So on her for thinking I only wanted sex. Maybe thats the Asexual part of her not understanding the difference.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 02:47 AM
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I have given years of effort into loving her. I also know I still in many ways and in love.. but is she ? I think so. But if she is then why doesn't she initiate sex, why doesnt she try to go the extra mile to meet me half way at least. I feel that no matter how much I try she doesn't reciprocate. Thats the issue. I wouldnt need a GF if she was part of the equation.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 02:40 AM
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Fair and I have tried and hope maybe we find that in counseling
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 02:37 AM
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Thanks for the support
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 02:35 AM
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At least you have that. I intiate and am put off.. I feel if at least if we could play a little maybe I could get her to enjoy it.. but she rather not even try.. >.> We have been bedroom divorced as well for over 10 years.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 07:18 PM
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Thanks.. that is a bit of clarity I hadn't fully considered.. I Love her to death.. but am I IN LOVE with her.. Can't say I am. I am IN LOVE with my GF.. but don't Love her as deeply as I love my Wife. I mean I think that really does clarify how I am feeling and I had not had the right words for. The GF on the other hand is reverse, I know she loves me, but is not IN LOVE with me.. and I know it and we also have an expiration date on the relationship as she is moving to the other-side of the wor…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 07:16 PM
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Apparently reading comprehension isn't your strength is it ? "She’s willing to forgive and forget but wants me to stop, while I can’t go back to suppressing who I am. Our marriage feels more like a deep friendship than a romantic partnership, and I want to find a romantic partner" I could simply not get a divorce, she doesn't want one. The questions are Has anyone been in a similar rut? How did it end for you? Do you have regrets or no regrets? How did you handle practical matters like the house…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 07:08 PM
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"What she doesnt know, she doesnt know.." was kind of explicit.. so yes. But some pictures of the trip with the GF ended up posting by accident.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 07:02 PM
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Not before this : "Two years ago, during counseling, she implied openness to me discreetly exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), stating " what she didnt know she didnt know". It was an answer SHE gave in regards to opening our marriage... and that was the last of it. I assumed what she said she meant. Also as noted sex is a twice a year thing at best.. She has been asexual for most our marriage. So there is that.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 06:56 PM
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