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Finessence/r/seduction10/08/18 02:29 AM
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My dad told me from his career in sales that everyone loves to talk, let them. If you want to talk about your passion for Pokémon games, ask her what her passion is, ask as many follow ups as a normal conversation will allow, then drop in what you like and see where it goes and keep it short and sweet.
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:34 PM
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Bruh.
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:26 PM
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Start with stand up because its the most fun and condensed, then you can listen to the podcasts if you want. I like comedy podcasts, but sometimes I feel like I get brain rot from having them on all the time for years, so I recently started listening to some nonfiction audiobooks because it’s fun to learn about history/person and then you have a story to tell someone.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:46 PM
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Anything. Anthony Jeselnik is sarcastic, mark normand is silly/clever, and Tom segura can tell a story.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:14 PM
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Work out more than you are, watch comedy until you are funnier than you are, and then go talk to as many girls as you physically, mentally, and emotionally can. E: or get a dad bod and fuck the woman in the comments below.
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:55 AM
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You got an audible cringe out of me OP, nice work.
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:24 PM
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Yikes just put slow songs on that you like or your partner likes.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:26 PM
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Don’t watch porn. Buy blue chew tadalafil.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:15 PM
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Thanks friend.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:41 PM
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My advice (ignoring that you have a defeatist attitude that you need to keep in check) is work out more and become more interesting to be around. Run or lift weights a few times a week (or start with walking around your neighborhood more after dinner and do knee push ups and sit-ups.) and then join a club for things you like. Rock climbing gym, magic the gathering meet ups, car shows, disc golf, whatever it be. You’ll meet more people, and then when you meet them you will have something to talk …
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:08 PM
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I liked Trojan ecstasy ones that came in a purple box the last time I bought condoms and I liked them enough.
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:06 PM
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What’s the alternative? He has to be go on dates or be in relationships with people he doesn’t find attractive? That might have a negative effect on his life, desires, hopes, and mental health.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:52 PM
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I also use the upper arm as a gauge of heft for women That are on the border.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:47 PM
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I feel like after years of use I can figure out if I want to swipe left or right based off the first picture. Heavily filtered, bad angle, neck-up selfie is a sign that it’s not going to work out.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:45 PM
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I’ve never asked and I’ve never told. I had a girl ask once and I told her if she needs to know due to sexual health, I would tell her only under the strictest secrecy because we have a lot of mutual friends. She declined to know my number.
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:02 PM
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Eh. Scientific fact is a bit much. Not sleeping around can have a permanent consequence to your mental health if you start to believe sex is evil, and your perspective regarding sex can change without sleeping around.
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:00 PM
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Go to a place with people and have fun with your friends and start conversations. In my city I’d go to a barcade downtown (you don’t need to drink), a coffee shop, bowling alley on weekend nights, go to a bar with friends that drink and sober cab, get dinner at a bar/restaurant, art galleries, look at your city’s local event listings and go there with a friend and start talking to people, local music. Any place you think you can talk to a person and start a conversation.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:44 PM
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Can you walk into a group of people and make friends naturally? If yes, then you’ll be fine. If not, bring a friend and hang out and start chatting to people around you. Just start conversations with people and then you’ll make more friends and be more natural and eventually you’ll start a conversation with a woman and it hits off and maybe you’ll get a date or she’ll want company after the bar. Don’t make it seem like you are going out to the bar to get laid because you’ll have that in your hea…
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:44 PM
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Stop masturbating and go to a bar.
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:25 PM
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You’re overthinking it. Some people don’t get involved with others relationships. Just be a normal person and be friends with her. Sounds like you want her to be more than friends and you’re in denial.
/r/seduction04/06/20 04:57 PM
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I have a lot of female friends and it helps. You get a lot more casual exposure to new women, and most girls want to play matchmaker so they will hype you up to talk to chicks or wingman. And you learn more about girls and you get better at making casual conversation.
/r/seduction04/06/20 02:06 AM
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You can learn cadence and pacing to create depth in a conversation and be more charismatic.
/r/seduction17/08/19 07:08 PM
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Gotta keep looking. Ask deeper questions and get to know them better. I’ve found few women that I find both attractive and conversationally interesting. Being clever and witty and comical is a huge part of attraction for me, and I’ve only ever met a handful of them in my life.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:29 AM
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You have to commit. Start a counter at Nofap and subscribe to it. That way you’ll share In the encouragement and get “brainwashed” into feeling guilty about it. Studies show jerking off lowers your T and so that’s why I don’t do it. I always did 20 knee push ups or 40 sit ups when I felt like jerking off. Especially before bed I would always do a quick workout to make myself tired. I’d recommend it. Change your setting if you want to jerk off. Go sit on the couch and watch tv. Do anything other …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 03:29 AM
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I couldn’t cum my first like 6 or so times having sex/ getting blown. I went a few months and then I could get it done. Porn makes your mind all fucked and normal naked girls (even though she was hot) just isn’t enough to get to cum. Also it didn’t feel as good as jerking off and my dick was beaten into the dirt all the time so going longer periods without cumming helped.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 02:53 AM
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Nofap gets a bad rap but it’s a good movement. It makes you earn your dopamine in more productive ways. If you jerk off to help sleep, you’ll have to find new ways to make yourself tired throughout the day. You’ll have to find girls to make you orgasm. And I suffered from porn induced ED (I think) and it helped me get over that.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 09:22 PM
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Just go for it. You’ve got nothing to lose if you haven’t seen her in months. “Hey it’s been a while! Want to catch up this week?”
/r/seduction13/09/18 03:47 AM
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This made me so nervous to read. I’m glad to hear you didn’t give in to her.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 09:57 PM
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I can tell you’re not confident. Be more confident. Go talk to a girl. Introduce yourself. Give her a compliment. If she’s standing there not dancing, tell her “you’re doing a shitty job at pretending you want to be here” and that’ll start a convo. Have a conversation. Touch her arm in it. Show interest. Ask her to dance and grab her hand when you ask. She says yes take her hand and walk her to the floor. She says no, tell her she’s boring and keep talking. Get to a high point In conversation an…
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:46 PM
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Combination most likely. Money, status, stability, dominance.
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:53 PM
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This so much. Touch her arm when you talk. Grab her hand and lead her somewhere. Leading is key. Be a leader. Touch her lower back. Walk and hold hands.
/r/seduction23/08/18 12:49 PM
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She brushes her teeth dude. I watched her eat a pineapple pizza with jalapeños and ranch for dinner that night and I don’t want my dick in that either.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 11:44 AM
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I was with a girl last night who was telling me about guys she has been with and she has pierced nipples, so I know she fucks. She did this shit with her tongue when we were kissing that I couldn’t believe. She was pulling my teeth into her with her tongue and it was crazy. Virgins are totally overrated.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:33 AM
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You forgot this “
/r/seduction14/07/18 02:33 PM
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Yeah. I run four times a week at over 20 miles a week so it’s a lot harder to keep up and I just got too busy to be in the gym and lift for next to no gains.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:30 PM
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I did for a while but I wasn’t maintaining and the little mass id accumulated over the last couple months all dwindled so it wasn’t really worth it.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:20 PM
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I signed up for a half Marathon that’s coming up June 3rd and I lost all my gains that I was making over the winter because I couldn’t lift and keep up with my running training schedule so I’m excited for it to be over so I can get back into lifting.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 05:28 AM
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I never text back after a date/hookup/meet up. I let them text me first. Or I wait until the weekend or a time I want to meet up and start a conversation and move it into wanting to meet again.
/r/seduction27/03/18 10:46 PM
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Anthony Jeselnik has a couple Netflix stand ups.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:29 AM
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I feel like these could work really well. I’ll keep them in mind as options.
/r/seduction17/12/17 05:35 AM
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Do you feel that focusing on being alpha creates unhealthy relationships? I feel like not talking to some friends and focusing solely on myself is making my friendships less close. And I feel like not texting a plate of mine is distancing us. I’m entirely open to the idea that I feel this way because I’m Blue pill and haven’t committed enough yet. Also I’ve hung out with a girl twice. We went back to her dorm and made out the first time until she fell asleep cuddling. Second time she fell asleep…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 07:10 AM
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Nah I told her to bring me coffee.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 11:52 PM
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I’ve relapsed into masturbation, and I’ve concluded as long as I keep up with the personal progress this isn’t too bad. I don’t know if NoFap is correct about the broscience or if the haters are, or somewhere in between. I ran 6 miles and lifted three days this week. I had a date with this hot chick with a good personality and we made out after going back to her place. Trying to avoid one-itis with her. We snapchat often throughout the day. Shes bringing me free coffee from her job at Starbucks …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 03:13 PM
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Sometimes girls will just let you hold your hand.
/r/seduction12/10/17 02:12 AM
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Yeah it was a playful roast in my mind but I apparently hurt his feelings. And I was probably too hard on him. It was supposed to be a joke.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 02:56 PM
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I’m new to TRP. I was a dick to a guy I’m kinda friends with (he screwed up an assignment and I roasted him) and I feel bad. Should I feel bad for being a dick or is it not good behavior? Will I get a better feel for boundaries as I practice TRP more?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 01:19 PM
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A bitch invited me over to help her with homework in her bed with her last week and then kicked me out when I finished the shit she had to do. I’ve been pissed off at myself for letting her use me and make me feel like a fucking pussy. I’ve started lifting three days a week and running five miles three days a week. Anger definitely works.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 03:36 PM
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"Have you ever been to X? No you haven't? I've got to take you. You would love it. I'd love to take you to dinner on Saturday." Have you been to X? You have? I love it there too? I'd love to take you there for dinner on Saturday. If she says no it's fine. You'll still be friends because you're a cool guy to be around. If she doesn't stay your friend it wasn't real to begin with. It's a win win: you get a date or you find out that she wasn't a true friend.
/r/seduction01/08/17 10:35 PM
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Great job. This is a success. It's a step in the right direction. Asking her to dinner at a vegan restaurant would be great.
/r/seduction01/08/17 07:27 PM
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Don't ask when the small talk is fading. Ask at a peak in small talk. If she laughs or you say something funny or there is a connection, you should ask then. Make it seem natural and ask when she has a connection to you.
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:03 AM
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Nope. Don't ask. "(Short small talk) hey I'm headed to Starbucks at X and you should come study with me."
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:27 AM
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Girls like an assertive man with confidence. Don't say it creepy. Just say it confidently.
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:20 AM
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"How are you today? Class was rough. What are you doing X? You should come to Y with me." You don't ask if she wants to come. You tell her she should come or do something with you
/r/seduction31/07/17 10:01 PM
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Hug at the beginning will start the date with a physical tone. After the hug, compliment something and touch it, "I love this top" as you touch it on her arm.
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:55 PM
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Snapchat is better because it's a social media platform where personal communication isn't too forward. You can make posts that show your lifestyle and personality so they can feel more comfortable with you and you can talk to them directly through the app.
/r/seduction12/04/17 03:27 AM
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A lot of people will just say go and play the numbers game, and that is true to some extent, but you will be at college for four years. You will have class with these people and their friends. Some people forget that this is a community of people, and you can't come off as creepy or trying too hard because it will get around. But, be confident, make friends with guys that know where the parties are, go to the parties, and talk to some girls. The community aspect of college will work to your adva…
/r/seduction15/12/16 09:29 PM
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