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Your phases are desperate, cynical and angry, how is that stable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:08 AM
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Yep, It was sad and a big disappointment. They were exactly as dumb as conservatives in the end, just funkier hair colours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:57 AM
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I was member of a discord community with extremely liberal values, very inclusive and open-minded. For poly, kink, lbtq+++ folks. Racism, homophobia and misogyny in all forms were unheard of, and any signs were swiftly culled by the community or moderators. Misandry, however, was rampant, and aggressively supported by moderators, both male and female. They claimed it's ok to shit on all men, because of some men. That we are all responsible for the actions of the few and deserve to be verbally ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:01 AM
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When I invite a woman for a dinner, I explain that this is not a gender roles thing, but since I asked you out, I hope you don’t mind me paying. I feel like this tells a lot about me with very few words. I live in a very egalitarian society and expect full 50-50 participation in all aspects of relationships, but it would feel incredibly awkward to me to ask someone out but expect them to pay half. I mean it’s something I want to give to this other person because I like her. Not because I’d be ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:14 AM
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Facts aren’t mental gymnastics. Mental gymnastics is what you try there but fail, which isn’t really surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:04 PM
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You’ll find that most people have a pro-human bias, they don’t see men and women as different species and have no desire to participate in any imaginary gender wars that terminally online incels and feminists are waging in their darkened bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:38 PM
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Why would anyone trust them, when you are incapable of displaying any reasons to trust your decision making abilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:43 AM
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Being a leader is not in your nature. Desire to be one could be, but you obviously lack the traits to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:42 AM
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This is where your imagination takes over. You make bs up in your own mind, and start acting like it's external reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:24 AM
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Then speak only for yourself. I am a man, and I have equally high standards for all my partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:45 AM
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You can’t speak for men either. We aren’t a homogeneous group with even similar views.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:41 AM
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Normal human adults don’t have a disgust response to people having sex. Most humans don’t find “promiscuity disgusting”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:37 AM
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Or more, it’s not effortless for all women either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:57 AM
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What about the men for whom it’s effortless as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:58 AM
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Preying on young girls or boys is predatory by definition, why would you think anyone would accept such? That is what people are telling you. Nobody gives two shits about two consenting adults dating each other. Maybe you got these two things mixed up in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:37 AM
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So you support shaming people for their life choices, if those go against your views? We all have preferences for our partners, but it is not necessary to rant about them in public- this is the shaming part. You believe that by publicly shaming people who love sex, they stop loving it, thinking that then you somehow become more compatible with them? You know, some people are even more selective about what they apply their conservative views to. The things you mention aren’t really social phenome…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:09 PM
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Having sex in our twenties did not cause any “baggage” to either me or my spouse. Just beautiful, hot and wild memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:10 PM
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Ok, promiscuity can apparently refer to drastically different things. For me, it’s ENM. We can certainly agree that people being inconsiderate shits to each other is bad, and not just for them I’m not really connected or knowledgeable on the behaviour you describe, whether that is real or common, but I do agree with your opinion on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:45 AM
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ENM people are quite rigid with testing, condom use and birth control. Being sexually satisfied leads to a net increase in satisfaction. Cancer, what 😂 Having a fun, rewarding life is the antidote to depression and having meaningful connections with many people improves your self esteem. Having fantastic sex with someone makes them more valuable to you, the opposite of disposable. You sound like you fundamentally view sex as problematic and negative. While for us promiscuous people, it’s an expr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:34 AM
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Too late now :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:16 AM
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It’s fun, but that wasn’t the topic- what are your reasons for claiming that promiscuity is damaging to society and mental health, even though it objectively isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:15 AM
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What else could your reasons be?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:12 AM
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Bad for society and mental health? Even if something makes you feel envious and inadequate, it’s not bad for the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:31 AM
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Good take on something you’ve never done before?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:38 AM
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Slut shaming isn’t having an opinion, that is trying to use shame to change how other people behave to conform to your own narrow world views.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:15 AM
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Slut shaming isn’t having an opinion, that is trying to use shame to change how other people behave to conform to your own narrow world views.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:15 AM
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The issue isn’t about which gender gets shamed the most, it’s accepting any kind of shaming about other people’s life choices. For some reason there’s tons of insecure wankers who spend all their time worrying about how other people choose to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:54 AM
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The whole point of red pill is blind leading the blind to escape self improvement by shifting all the blame on women and the evil Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:48 AM
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Why are you talking about your personal opinions on dating then, a topic you have zero experience on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:30 AM
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Not just all the time, teen relationships invariably break up. Those who get married divorce early, usually because they realise they missed an important part of normal growth and never got to understand their sexuality. Or she finds herself trapped with a controlling, jealous and insecure redpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:29 AM
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I’ll let you know if I discover it 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:11 AM
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You’ve never been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:54 AM
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Probably true, but six years into living together and we’ve yet to find an incompatibility ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:24 PM
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I compromised with my ex. With my spouse, we have agreed to never compromise, which is kind of irrelevant considering how compatible we are. Both wanted to be together for ever since the beginning, even though neither was even looking for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:18 AM
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I don’t think it’s technically sensible to talk about “porn” as a monolithic entity. It is too easy to lump together abusive, vile and damaging shit with positive and healthy stuff where the maker holds full agency. So if you just discuss “porn”, everyone is right and it’s kinda pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:15 AM
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Hi, greetings from the happiest city in the happiest country on Earth, year after year. Conservatives are a minority here. They are generally treated like misbehaving children, we are patient and understanding about their unfortunate misunderstanding of life, but nobody really takes them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:10 AM
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Most likely a peer reviewed study with suitable sample size. I’m not sure if this question has been researched on that kind of level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:31 PM
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Well this was scientific. Can’t argue with maths!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:41 PM
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You used the word “most girls”, implying the majority of young female humans, but now it seems you are talking about some girls you have spoken with. What is your sample size, approximately, is it really big enough to extrapolate to “most girls”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:09 PM
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Then again, love kinda is an intangible force and has very little to do with reason. Or reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:55 AM
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How exactly do you know the attractiveness of most girls past partners vs their current partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:58 AM
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She literally wrote nothing like that, but you are so deep in your narrative that you just have make shit up instead of admitting that people end up with the partner they like best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:34 AM
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I bet you wish you would, but that is irrelevant, if telling that you are on the internet trying to convince strangers that you’re getting some. You behave like a sad incel and that is what we see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:46 AM
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Oh look a sad incel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:39 PM
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No, we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:38 PM
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The whole planet is facing a crisis due to overpopulation. People not reproducing is just the balancing mechanism in effect. Try not to take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:59 PM
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I can assure you that the old experiences with other people in no way diminish the absolute joy and excitement of your first time with your special person. It is always a new experience. Actually it just makes it better, since you have an idea, you understand and control your body, you know how to pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:52 PM
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Of course it makes sense, it is perfectly valid feeling. Am I enough? How can I ever please her like that ex? Anyone can have such feelings. How you manage them is the vital part, and first you need to understand that they come from you. The root of insecurity is inside. There is a crack in your confidence, a blind spot in your self-image that makes you fear, makes you weak. And that crack is what you need to fix, you can’t change the world to hide your weakness. It will just manifest in some ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:36 PM
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A healthy long term relationship is based on mutual trust and honesty. Your partner is your best friend, your light in the dark. She can open to you, you can open to her. Without this level of security, love can’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:19 PM
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Why do you confuse dealing with your emotions with weakness?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:14 PM
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There you said it- new experiences create new connections between synapses, promiscuity retains novelty :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:36 PM
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You do realise that the actual ideal partner is neither of these imaginary polar opposites? And that nobody regards emotional unavailability or selfishness as desirable traits. Or being toxic, lol. This thinking is just another red pill cope. You refuse to accept that the confident, assertive and handsome man is also reliable and kind. Dominant and adventurous in the sheets, and stable and secure father. He takes no shit from anyone, but will see and hear her. There is no Chad. There is just the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:42 PM
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You are the one ranting about your own insecurities. It’s perfectly normal to have preferences about physical properties, some like blondes, some small boobs, some athletic bodies. You worry about past behaviour because you are afraid that you don’t measure up, some ex was better. This is the definition of insecurity, and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:23 PM
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Yes, they are those things you don’t meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:54 PM
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How exactly do you know that you’d lose the effect of specialness? Because in my (considerable) experience, you never lose the beauty and wonder of two people connecting. Especially if you have multiple partners, it’s different with everyone. And it never stays the same with the same person either, if you put effort into your sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:25 PM
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And the only men ranting and raving about body counts are insecure little boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:19 PM
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There are no tiers in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:15 PM
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And when men can’t find anyone, they blame women. Feminism ruined women. And Chad. Chad is bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:23 AM
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Most often it simply means the person likes sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:46 AM
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I hear your pain, and I wish I had a solution to offer, or even magic words. I do know that negativity and hate is a dead end route.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:25 AM
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Cheating is a betrayal of trust and love, breach of agreement. It is lying and deception, a hurtful, selfish, immoral act of utter disrespect. Consensual sex for mutual pleasure between two (or more) eligible parties doesn’t really compare to these, does it? Sex is always special, it sounds to me like you are actually devaluing it more than the promiscuous folk… based on rather unrealistic views on our motives and morals. I honestly hope I do not come across as tauntful, I am here trying to unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:11 AM
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Cheating is obviously not ok. It is highly unethical and can’t be justified by promiscuity or anything else. I’ve had a lot of partners, and I can’t honestly say it has ruined sex for me or any of my partners, or my spouse. It is quite the opposite, in fact. I value it even more, and it is better with experience. What kinds of general problems promiscuity could cause? Well, some problems obviously originate from the complexities of our society and environment. Most of those are unfixable with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:10 AM
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Ok, “using people for sex” sounds like you are lumping rapey, selfish abusers together with promiscuous people. The promiscuous people I know, myself included, genuinely enjoy sex and join together to share an experience. There is no disposing when temporary nature of the engagement is consensual. I like to enjoy delicious meals every day, and that is why we put effort into cooking. Learning new recipes, improving old ones in order to enjoy a varied, healthy diet. Surely the same food all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:53 AM
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How do you go from promiscuity to treating others as disposable? Surely IME, every human connection is unique and beautiful. Many connections also last for a long time. “Pump and dump” is a delusion, promiscuous people hold high standards for sex and value sex itself very high- isn’t that logical, you put effort into something that is important to you. Why do you choose to use “whoring” here? Rather aggressive and insulting tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:09 AM
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What are some examples of the problems associated with promiscuity? Defined here as sex for pleasure between consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:44 AM
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You need to stick with the narrative. Logic and facts are the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:21 AM
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