| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 307 | Guys, the peace of mind and silence is truly worth it | FinnyIzzy | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 04:49 PM | |
| 194 | In case you are missing your ex-wife today... | FinnyIzzy | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 03:58 PM | |
| 20 | Divorce Negotiating and Women's SIGN language | FinnyIzzy | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 02:54 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Lost interest in womenCorrected. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/24 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Lost interest in womenIn nature, there are two primary relationships between organisms: symbiotic and parasitic. Symbiotic involves an interaction that mutually benefits both organisms, i.e., bees and flowers, whales and barnacles. Conversely, parasitic is defined by one organism living off the other(s) such as a flea or tick drawing blood from an animal until the source is depleted. I wonder, where would you place modern western women? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/24 03:35 PM |
| 3 | She's (31/F) moving on much quicker than I (37/M) expected and I could really use some general support and advice.Nothing is more important to your life than your sobriety. In fact, your life depends on it. Addiction only gets worse, never better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/24 02:22 PM |
| 20 | My brother in laws divorce settlementThis subreddit should be required reading for every young man contemplating marriage. Learn the realities of this one-sided antiquated institution, not the Disney fantasy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Does everyone agree this should be a dealbreaker?Tim Walz, is that you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/24 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Does everyone agree this should be a dealbreaker?"justifiably pissed and terrified about the election"... please stay abroad, for the sake of the United States. The last thing we need is yet another Beta liberal man being led around by his feminist wife/master. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Divorce after sobrietyActually stopping drinking isn't difficult. Creating a life worth protecting from alcohol takes work. Relapses occur when those in recovery ask themselves "why not?". If you can't answer that, you have a problem. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | My wife is begging me now to stopt the divorce process!Inconvenient truths are still true. BTW, aren't you late for the "White Dudes for Kamala" rally. Make sure your lawyer stipulates you want your balls back because she snipped those off a long time ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 03:26 PM |
| 16 | My wife is begging me now to stopt the divorce process!Boyfriend dropped her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Minimize assetsCouldn't agree with this more. They don't find things you've hidden. You tell them. A forensic accountant is extremely expensive and if she thinks you hid five grand here or ten grand there, her lawyer will talk her out of it, especially if its just a hunch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/24 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife threatening to "file a motion to re-open" Default with agreementUnless she has proof of fraud, she has no recourse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 04:26 PM |
| 11 | STBX trying to threaten legal action to force me to delete all her nudesMy ex-wife looked like a thumb with breasts when she was naked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 04:25 PM |
| 23 | Do women expect men to fix their problems?At a certain age, men are no longer seen by women as men but as financial bailouts for a lifetime of bad decisions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Ex in the middle of moving out.The Wall is undefeated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 02:20 AM |
| 21 | It's not going how she plannedJust a hunch but did she have a boyfriend? Did he recently dump her? Happens everytime. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Which state has easier laws?Arizona is very fair. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Do most women not love like men or just not capable of loving anyone but themselves?Men love women, women love children, children love dogs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 07:29 PM |
| 8 | Do most women not love like men or just not capable of loving anyone but themselves?Consider the basic biology and the types of relationships between organisms. There is parasitic, which only benefits one party, and you have symbiotic, characterized by symbiosis, which is the close association between two or more different organisms and beneficial to all parties. Parasitic, where one party benefits at the expense of the other, is the current state of the male-female relationship. Prior to feminism and the Family Court system, specifically no fault divorce, marriage relationship… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom."And then, there was the time... I'm sorry for these tears, judge,.. he told me that, this is so hard, that the mortgage was due and that's why I couldn't fly to Europe or get a new Audi! This was what I have endured, your honor. I am healing. Thank God, I am healing." | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Saw my ex-wife on a dating app.Is she "living her best life." Is she "strong and independent." Does she "know her worth and not going to settle." Are her children "my world but not looking for a replacement dad." Let me guess, pictures holding a wine glass or other booze? Her body type is "slim and athletic" despite weighing in at 200 lbs? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 03:24 PM |
| 5 | What a bizarre end to a marriage.As far as western women and the gynocentric society is concerned, men are disposable assets that are here to pay their bills, do chores, go to work for them, be emotional tampons, and when they get bored or get tingles for another guy, get divorced and pay them child support and alimony, plus half their assets. Oh, and if war begins, to fight and die. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Did anyone end up being Happy their Wife Divorced them?Other than the birth of my two kids, my second wife letting me know she had an apartment and was moving out with her three adult children from my house was the happiest day of my life. She got nothing. I got the best peace of mind ever. Do not re-marry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.The new one is "financial abuse." It happens when you, the husband, says "no, we can't afford it." | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Being cut off by in-lawsI despised them. One of the many advantages to my divorce was never seeing them again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 08:30 PM |
| 9 | Any happy stories of reconciliation later in lifeFar more happy stories from not reconciling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 08:29 PM |
| 27 | Am I the only one that finds it hard to trust women with my feelings ever again?Man value love. Women love value. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 02:32 PM |
| 8 | What is one line or quote you can share to help fellow divorced men?Men are in love. Women are in business - Coach Greg | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 05:15 PM |
| 20 | What is something you always wanted to do but couldn't before divorce and now you're doing?Get sober. My ex was (and is) an alcoholic who planned every outing, vacation and free time activity around drinking. Vacations - drink. Cruises - drink. Family trips - drink. Weekends-drink. Exercise (afterwards) - drink. Neighborhood get together - drink. Nothing to do - drink. Thankfully, it was a short second marriage, less than two years, that cost me financially very little but took a heavy toll on my mental and physical health because of alcohol. The divorce was finalized two years ago. I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Ex has a pro Bono lawyerYou get what you pay for in lawyers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Protecting from false accusations when wife is picking up personal belongings. Camera? Witness? Police?Don't be there. Get a friend or a family member. Use a Ring camera and let her know it is on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/24 03:42 PM |
| 9 | Does this sound like circumstantial evidence of an affair?Look, as far as the family courts, divorce laws, and the Judge cares, the affair is irrelevant. Unfair? Of course. Everything is unfair to the man in family court. All the judge wants is an assets and co-parenting settlement between you two. What she is doing with another man -- and she is most certainly having an affair -- doesn't matter. It will only eat up thousands of dollars in lawyer fees for pointless filings and trust me, your lawyer will be happy to oblige. The marriage is over. Now it … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 03:38 PM |
| 12 | Something occurred to me todayThe only people that should be able to understand you is other men, as other men are the only ones capable of comprehending the depth and philosophical properties that men possess. Women do not have the intellectual capacity to comprehend, let alone understand, the mind of a man. Women do not have the same propensity as men to be extraordinary, they do not have the same depth of potential as men. Fundamentally, they are not like us and therefore are incapable of understanding us. Stop looking fo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/24 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else lose everything? I paid bills out of joint acct during 3 yr divorce, judge ordered me to pay $ back bc I did it w/o permission& 2 yr later judge ordered me to pay my half of house sale within 7 days + 8 yrs spousal support bc she's uneducated.Same here. I was in panic when I saw the Judge was female, assuming the worst. Just the opposite. She had been transferred from criminal to family courts. Therefore, her patience for liars was, to put it modestly, limited. My ex-wife lied and carried on hysterically while the Judge listened blank faced and ruled against her, again and again. The Judge wouldn't have it. Divorce cost me next to nothing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/24 04:36 PM |
| 6 | When do the nightmares stop?Stop relying on her or any woman for validation. When you do you hand the power to them, literally your self-worth. They aren't worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/24 08:34 PM |
| 3 | TX: Remove STBXW from car insurance after mediated settlement agreement but before divorce decree?The day she moved out, I immediately took her name off the insurance (car, life, et cetera), turned off her phone and the phones of her unemployed "kids" who were pushing 25-30 yr old (I was paying for), took her off the credit cards and closed them, removed her from the bank account and everything else. Thankfully, I never put her on any titles so I didn't have to share half. She complained. Her lawyer complained. The judge didn't care. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 04:57 PM |
| -1 | Too many of the online resources for men's emotional support seem to be red pilled garbageI will look for life advice at MGTOW, Jordan Peterson, Coach Greg and even Tate over the blue pill gynocentric garbage that pisses in my face while telling me its fresh spring rain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Too many of the online resources for men's emotional support seem to be red pilled garbage"If anything, it made them angry, bitter and worsened the situation." No, that was the divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 04:31 PM |
| 23 | Too many of the online resources for men's emotional support seem to be red pilled garbageWhen you are still in a blue pill gynocenteric headspace, a place many men choose to remain their entire lives, the red pill is "hateful," "incel" or "misogynistic" ... it is anything but. As divorced men we are forced to see women as they are, not as you want them to be, or were told you could expect them to be by our mothers or Disney. The "True Female Nature" often referenced in the manosphere doesn't make women bad, it just makes women "women." The best elements of that nature have kept the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 03:42 PM |
| 13 | In case you are missing your ex-wife today..."Oh that's so like you... when did you intend to tell me? Today? Really, you could have told me this months ago. Instead, I had to remind you. Again. Divorcing tomorrow? Don't you know my Love Language is sharing. I told you to read that book. Does this mean the family credit card isn't going to go through? I am going out to celebrate with my best friends Donna, Krissi, Margo, Sis, Rita, Karen and Sha-Sha, so it better work or I am going to the family court judge with this being ANOTHER! example… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/24 03:57 PM |
| 12 | In case you are missing your ex-wife today...It is a Godly miracle all of us managed to stay alive without a woman's guidance, insights, vast worldly wisdom, and knowledge of virtually every subject in the universe. Somehow, I don't know how, I managed to get through college, start a business, invest for myself, buy a house, learn new skills — all without her! Just luck I guess. Since I, like every man, knows nothing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Marriage Wheel CoachgregadamsMaam, there are dozens of man-hating, gynocentric subs on Reddit to post your affirmation-seeking "You GO Queen!" female propaganda. BTW, while you are pretending to be male, don't use words like "Toxic" to describe another man. But great cutting and pasting! Did you graduate kindergarten with a gold star???? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | My fucked up rantThank. God. You. Did. Not. Have. Children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/23 01:15 AM |
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