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If I had to guess, they seem strawman-ish because he probably had to force a few in to make the acronym work. Interesting idea all the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/19 08:11 PM
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Since when does pumping gas involve sales people, danger, or car jackers?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/19 08:08 PM
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> you can think of this graph as a picture of female sexuality. Literally. > the picture would be far more complete with an into/out of the page dynamic happening in this hole process I'm assuming "hole" was not a typo, but an intentional pun. > The further away you get, the less sexually interested the woman becomes and ultimately couldn't care less about the man. Because a leg isn't an erogenous zone. > The brown zone is the murky area where about 95% of men live I take this to mean they have …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 03:05 PM
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All women are crazy. Better one that owns up to it than one that thinks she's not.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 08:27 PM
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Where did he show her any "ill treatment"? He let her use his phone to call the police - something he wouldn't have done if he just assumed she was making it up. He invited her into his home and gave her privacy. He sent his wife to spend time with her and give her someone to process with. By another comment, he says he tried to communicate empathy with her feelings, regardless of any skepticism. Show me where there is any ill treatment. your god ... your bible Am I correct in understanding, the…
/r/RPChristians08/10/18 05:30 PM
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I'm confused. She falls for a guy, has him drive her home, invites him into her house, has consensual sex, and cuddles with him for a while - all while being buzzed, but not blackout drunk. He leaves without telling her, so she gets ticked and regrets sleeping with him, so she tries to call the police to report that he raped her. Who, in your mind, is the victim here?
/r/RPChristians08/10/18 05:11 PM
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Don't listen to the haters. This is a great post. I mostly just lurk, but dang some things just ring too true to ignore. You wanted feedback, so here's mine. I've hooked up with a lot of chicks. I've had a few affairs (okay, a lot) when sex in my marriage sucked. I got lame duty sex from my wife and nut busting, edging, OMG am I dreaming sex? from some of the other girls. It was great. One day, after a steamy night, one of my plates did something that made me go crazy. I couldn't stop thinking a…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/18 12:14 AM
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Meh, I already do that anyway.
/r/askMRP10/02/18 08:32 AM
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Oh, she definitely expects a lot of effort into a date and gifts. These days have historically been very important to her. Of course, historically she used to ruin them for me, so I don't have the same sentimentality about it.
/r/RPChristians10/02/18 08:30 AM
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Ah ... that is unfortunate and disappointing :/ But I'm sure it will be worth the read all the same!
/r/RPChristians10/02/18 04:05 AM
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Excellent logic, though it does conflict with /u/BobbyPeru's conclusion. Great article too. I loved the read. But this part did concern me: The goal of a Red Pill marriage isn't how to get your wife back into the kitchen where she belongs, as the well-intentioned Anon seems to think, it's how to effectively and efficiently run a family in a way that provides the most secure happiness to all. I didn't think it was either of those. My understanding is this: hardcore red position: maximize the man'…
/r/askMRP28/01/18 06:20 AM
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This makes sense.
/r/askMRP28/01/18 05:43 AM
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Good to know
/r/askMRP28/01/18 05:42 AM
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Remembering history keeps us from repeating the mistakes of the past. If I only saw red, I wouldn't recognize blue for what it is. The stark contrast adds value to me, even if I don't care to add value to them.
/r/askMRP28/01/18 05:42 AM
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Thank goodness I'm a certified expert in ancient linguistic grammar structures or I totally wouldn't have understood what you were trying to say here. /s Anyway, thanks to the degree that I think this was helpful ... ?
/r/askMRP28/01/18 05:38 AM
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Totally looking forward to that. Will it be from a Christian worldview written to Christians ... or from a secular worldview written about Christians?
/r/RPChristians28/01/18 05:32 AM
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True true.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 09:03 PM
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You mean "self-medicating" isn't going to stop me from having an addictive personality? You mean the world doesn't have a way to overcome my sin, stress, anxiety, guilt, shame, etc.? You mean the Gospel might be the answer to all of my problems? Haha. Sometimes the obvious is forgotten when left unsaid. And then you take what seems obvious and show just how little I actually know. Trying to flip my "negatives" into "lost positives" is very helpful. It gives a positive goal to strive for rather t…
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:26 PM
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I think he's talking about confessing sin, though. I agree with you as to doubts and insecurities, but if we do sin against someone we should confess it to them and reconcile rather than hide it. That includes our wives.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:21 PM
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The Bible seems pretty clear about David's intent in killing Uriah. It wasn't to mate guard, it was to protect himself from having his sin discovered. The Bible gives no indication that David was threatened by Uriah as a sexual competitor.
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:19 PM
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This is insanely helpful. I've got a great job where I make six figures and make my own schedule and have unlimited vacation time ... things with the wife are always up and down, but mostly up ... my kids are so funny and a joy to be around ... I've got good friends at church. It's so easy to look at all the blessings around me and to find my satisfaction in those things. But then I see that Job had all of this and more before it all came crashing down. And if he had put his satisfaction in anyo…
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:14 PM
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Yeah, this has definitely changed the way I see a lot of stuff. I've been lurking for the past few months, as I don't get on reddit very often, but this is one of my go-to places when I need to be slapped in the face with the truth again. I'm constantly amazed at how much truth is in the Bible that the church just doesn't see, or even intentionally ignores, even when the practical realities of life are staring them in the face. /u/BluepillProfessor has suggested /u/Red-Curious write a book about…
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:10 PM
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I still don't see it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/17 11:47 PM
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I must have missed it, but where is the covert contract here? And what in his original post would necessitate "GTFO" as the only legitimate option? I'm not seeing why this is purple. I get why you're saying OP is purple based on some of his older posts ... But what about this specific post is that way?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/17 06:47 AM
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Thanks. I'll keep this in mind.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 04:11 AM
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Good point.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 04:10 AM
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Well said. Thanks for the input here.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 07:50 PM
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She has made comments that imply she's seeing some recurrence here. Specifically, when she asks about why I'm going to the gym so much or what I'm reading, or why I'm doing this or that, after my usual deflection of "because I want to," I've noted a few times, "I'm trying to be a better man." That latter line screws with her. She likes when I say it, but she'll also make comments like, "If that's what 'being a better man' means, I don't like it and this isn't you." I usually respond with some ki…
/r/askMRP19/10/17 08:26 PM
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if the shift was minor it could be a fitness or frame test and felt the need to throw one That's what I'm leaning toward. She enjoys a lot of benefits of me being a jerk when I need, not the least of which the ability to play good cop to my bad. Yeah, my wife definitely usually likes it when I deal with all the crap she doesn't want to - when I say no for her so she doesn't have to. It could very well been your unassuredness of what happened later that she fed off of. I'd have to think about tha…
/r/askMRP19/10/17 08:20 PM
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Yeah, I didn't do it to impress my wife. I did it because I was sick of that guy's antics.
/r/RPChristians19/10/17 08:08 PM
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Haha, nice clip.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 08:07 PM
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Yeah, the lack of humility in the whole thing was certainly a problem.
/r/RPChristians19/10/17 08:05 PM
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She is definitely sensitive to confrontation, but she usually likes it when I handle confrontation for her so she doesn't have to. That's part of why this was a weird reaction to see. I'm also her first and only, so there were no other boyfriends or exes before me. Someone else on RPC commented that because of our religious upbringing she had a certain expectation of what I should be like and she's upset that I didn't meet that expectation. That also makes sense to me.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 08:04 PM
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Not sure how it would be a comfort test, other than wanting the comfort of knowing that she married a "good person," whatever that means to her. I'm pretty sure she was legitimately ticked at me. That said, someone else pointed out that my big problem was just caring about her response in the first place. I handed myself to her poor reaction just fine and was able to move on. I was just more curious about why she would have had such a negative reaction to begin with.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 08:02 PM
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Simple and wise. Thank you.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 07:53 PM
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You sound like the predictable beta. Have you been? Not since discovering RP, but up to a few months ago, definitely. Also, quit looking to your wife's approval to gauge your success or failure. Guy was an asshole, you dealt with him, sounds like success to me! This resonates with me. That's how I felt at first, but I suppose my beta days of second-guessing myself aren't as far back as I'd hoped.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 07:52 PM
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So, maybe it's not the display of bravado that turned her off as much as the display of spiritual immaturity. This is huge. I definitely should have been "the bigger man" in the situation rather than stooping to his level. I think /u/ReddJive said something similar. I thought I was being clever ... turns out I was being an idiot.
/r/RPChristians19/10/17 07:50 PM
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Make it sound better by you not being rude and such but you made him your equal by retaliating in kind. Yeah, I definitely didn't think about that part. This is what I most needed to hear.
/r/askMRP19/10/17 07:48 PM
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When the solution is "just divorce her," it certainly makes it seem like you're trying to escape her obstacle course. "You couldn't break her frame, couldn't get her attracted to you, she was still running the show, so it's her court and you should just leave rather than continuing to try." I see this post as a way of ripping apart her frame piece by piece rather than just smashing it with a sledge hammer. The mods and flaired people seem to be saying, "Sorry, we only accept sledge hammers here.…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 06:50 PM
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They are the byproducts of the true goal which is becoming a better man. And yet I've read posts by flaired-individuals and mods who say just the opposite. "This isn't a self-improvement forum. It's a sexual strategy forum. Self-improvement is a means, but it's not an end in its own sake." In fact, someone on TRP had that exact same announcement almost verbatim a month or two ago - coming from a mod telling people to cool their jets on the self-improvement bandwagon.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 06:43 PM
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Yeah, I was replying to 88Will88
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 06:39 PM
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That just seems like the easy way out. If you want to give up and move on every time things get difficult, that's your prerogative. But I'm on MRP because I don't want to be an easy-quitter.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 05:21 AM
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perfectly aligned with this goal That's why I'm here and not on TRP in the first place. Otherwise, what's the point of MRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 05:18 AM
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Yep, you're talking about Matthew 12 at the end there - something I have to remind the people in my church about frequently. Deliverance is a touchy subject and usually ends up being quite harmful to a church if not paired up with a discipleship ministry because of that exact Matthew 12 concept.
/r/RPChristians06/10/17 05:00 AM
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Its bound to happen sooner or later anyway. Appeasement/ignoring it won't make the problem go away. I agree. But the point is that "sooner" involves it happening in circumstances where we would have a rough time figuring out what to do with our infant - it would but us in a really tough spot. "Later" would be fine. So, my gut tells me just to wait until this is all over and then say something - but that'll have much less impact if the context for the conversation is a week or two removed rather …
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 03:52 PM
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Maybe there's another young mom at church who would be willing to take on another baby to earn some side cash? Yeah, we asked the church about this and the only two people they recommended said they weren't available during the time-frame we needed. Could your mother come stay with you a while? She did for one week earlier in the busy season, and my sister took two weeks earlier on as well. My other sister took another week. But all of them also work and live 3 hours away, so they're not able to…
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 03:49 PM
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This is a good word. If it was for a longer period than 3 weeks, looking for another nanny/sitter would make sense, but I feel like an immediate need for such a short term - and especially trying to interview and vet people before bringing them on ... it's just impracticable. By spring (when her next deadline comes around) we're just going to put all the kids in daycare because our newborn will be old enough that it won't be a problem by then. Anyway, thanks for the encouragement! I do appreciat…
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 03:42 PM
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Agreed. A few years ago I had my wife at a point where she openly communicated to her mother, "If you keep acting this way, I'm going to have to stop seeing you." After that conversation, we did go about 4-5 months without any involvement, but my wife caved. I can understand that she wants a relationship with her dad (he really is a great guy) and that it's hard to have that while boycotting her mom, so I get it. But when her mom made her apologize for setting that boundary ... that went too far…
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 03:38 PM
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Sorry to hear about your situation too. Thanks for the input. I think I will end up showing her WISNIFG. We've both read Boundaries already, but that didn't do much for her (or me).
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 03:35 PM
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True, but that's only if you're clued into looking. My wife isn't much of a snoop, so if I don't do something to trigger her specifically, she'll never care to look or notice.
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 03:34 PM
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Haha, I've seriously considered that.
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 03:33 PM
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Love the XKCD reference! It sounds to me like you need to go into monk mode ... ignore girls for a while and just work on getting your life oriented in the right direction in the first place. This sucks as a college student for a few reasons: You're in the easiest place you'll ever be at in life to find girls easy. There's immense social pressure to be pairing off. Temptation is at your doorstep constantly. That said, there's also never a better time in life to orient yourself toward Christ. Sta…
/r/RPChristians28/09/17 05:08 AM
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I like this. Thanks.
/r/askMRP27/09/17 01:26 AM
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Nice. This is helpful.
/r/askMRP27/09/17 01:24 AM
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Not a troll, but in retrospect I can see why you'd think that. I don't think she'd care about the "not having sex with her as long as her hair is short" part. That'd hurt me more than her :/
/r/askMRP27/09/17 01:23 AM
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I hear what you're saying. But this part still confuses me ... Basically, this really shouldn't be that different from other MRP advice of rewarding positive behavior and withdrawing presence or attention from negative behavior. If she gets her hair cut, withdrawing my presence or attention for 8-9 months for it to grow back seems a bit severe. So, it sounds like you're saying just to address it in conversations about what she intends to do, but not necessarily when she actually performs the bad…
/r/askMRP26/09/17 06:20 PM
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ask the question: to whom? Agreed. That's why I suggested "God or society." Assuming God's not in the picture, I suppose we'd then have to ask who makes the decision on how value is attributed to society. Men and women are undeniably different. Heh, not if society has anything to say about it.
/r/askMRP17/09/17 05:47 AM
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To be clear, are you suggesting that a person's only value is based on their contribution to the sexual marketplace? I don't mean this facetiously, as I'm sure some people would make this claim from an evolutionary standpoint of reproduction being central. Just not sure how far RP takes this or if it allows for the possibility that a person's value can come from things other than the SMP, such as professional contributions or humanitarian efforts, etc.
/r/askMRP17/09/17 05:36 AM
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That makes a lot more sense. Thanks!
/r/askMRP11/08/17 07:06 PM
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Hah! But no ... I don't do porn, so that'd come off as totally unbelievable.
/r/askMRP11/08/17 07:05 PM
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This is what I went with, mixing in /u/redmountainpill's advice first. Babe ... you're gorgeous! <wait a minute> And if you don't believe me, drive on over here without the kids and I'll show you just how pretty I think you are <wink/kissy emoji> We'll see how she responds ...
/r/askMRP11/08/17 05:29 PM
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Good point.
/r/askMRP11/08/17 05:24 PM
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I haven't yet seen a good "how to" on amused mastery. I've read a couple Rollo posts on it that were specifically dedicated to the subject, but it's all philosophical stuff and not practical examples of what amused mastery looks like. Any good references here?
/r/askMRP11/08/17 04:43 PM
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That makes a lot of sense.
/r/askMRP11/08/17 04:40 PM
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Good point. Don't reward silly-face. Got it. It would probably come off as too much of a joke and wouldn't give her the comfort she needs anyway.
/r/askMRP11/08/17 04:25 PM
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