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So yeah, I was a sexual prodigy when I lost my virginity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:02 PM
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it’s so freely available 👀🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:19 PM
3

Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:05 AM
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This is not a scheme to fall for. They aren't being duped or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:10 PM
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Yeah, it is sharing. It's pretty obvious why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:51 AM
2

The average guy is also 205 lbs or something at 5'9", so they would both be above average for not being obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:56 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:39 PM
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I'm pretty sure he was talking about pre-relationship phases of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:40 PM
2

Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:50 PM
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The guy probably sees some men as bottom of barrel/low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:35 PM
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obsessing over relationships, discussing girlfriends and dating over brunch Yeah, they definitely are doing these two. The first one probably more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:22 PM
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Aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:42 AM
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How do you determine if a relationship is BB or not based on how it starts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:03 AM
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That's your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:51 PM
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Well, you're the one putting a relationship in this conversation. That women, most likely drunk, assaulting men. It might be in some cases, but they might do it sober and in more respectful ways too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:23 PM
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Try touching grass then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:20 PM
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What do you mean by chemistry here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:34 PM
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Yeah, but why do you correlate outgoingness with attractiveness so much? Do you think all women see men that way and none like introverts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:25 AM
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I have a sense you forgot the "/s" 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:23 PM
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Why did you check out for 15 years? Also, were you ironic at the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:54 AM
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Yep? That's OPs point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:46 AM
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a guy who spends his 20s playing video games, smoking weed, dressing like a total schlub, and showering once a week is suddenly an upstanding potential partner when he hits his stride at 33. I don't know why you bring such a loser of a guy to the comparison, maybe because it gets easier to try to prove your point rather than arguing in good faith, right? Men are talking here about an average guy, who doesn't have any debilitating addictions, looks OK and is in decent shape, has good hygiene and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:01 AM
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Being sexually matched is part of being in the same stage in life. Plenty of women in their twenties are seeking long-term relationships, especially in their mid to late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:40 AM
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Yeah, how do these guys look like, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:28 PM
2

And what's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:08 PM
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How common do you think a woman marrying a guy she's not into is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:28 PM
3

Ok, at this point you agree with it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:07 PM
0

So, can a guy be just somewhat, sorta attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:28 PM
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It's almost like men want both and lacking in one is gonna lead to an unsatisfying relationship. Were you trying to substitute sex with those affection demonstrations? Not your smartest idea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:52 PM
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Where I live there are plenty of dogs without an owner out in the streets, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:07 PM
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Says who? Sounds like an old woman whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:57 PM
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What do you mean by sensuality, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:37 PM
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I'm sorry about your rant, but that's not what he was talking about. Plenty of relationships have men doing most of the effort while the woman just exists, it's not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:20 PM
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It's almost like there's a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:48 AM
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Lol at nothing wrong with TwoX and especially FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:45 AM
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I just think it’s BS to not outwardly own your preferences in an attempt to avoid criticism. I think that's just social and emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:47 PM
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It's actually the opposite, "dumbass"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:58 AM
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Eh, I'm afraid she's not 160lbs ma'am 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:39 AM
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Most men are way below even a below-average woman's league. Lmao slay kween tier comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:53 AM
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It's your job as the husband to make sacrifices for the next generation. Lmao yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:52 AM
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Unengaging, badly written comment. As usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:54 AM
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Excessive insecurity can be a problem and the way one deals with their insecurities can also be damaging, but the way insecurity, especially male insecurity, is treated like a horrible thing that shouldn't exist at all and you're a flawed person for having any of it is a very shitty expectation frequently found in those conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:52 AM
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Every athlete from your high school, for example. You're calling every high school athlete unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:25 AM
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Why at the expense of his future family?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:57 AM
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What is a height match?
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 10:54 PM
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Read again. He's saying you have more options now than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:35 PM
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How old are the people involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:02 AM
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No paying an adult woman you don't know a meal = mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:12 PM
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parents woman you're on a date with that you don't even know if she's just using you There's a bit of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:46 PM
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A man is supposed to be ‘provider’ yet can’t even pay 50% more for a meal on a date? Paying shows masculinity and good character, it basically tells the woman that you’re a gentleman who has the ability to provide. Uhh, plenty of us men, I would dare say most, are NOT fighting for the provider role, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:28 PM
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Who's talking about paying for sex? It's just her paying her own food/drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:20 PM
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The best way to get a lean and very toned body is by lifting weights consistently and dialing your nutrition. Bodybuilders get to look the way they look through turning all their life in a muscle building effort, including rampant steroid use.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:13 PM
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What did you change after 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:53 AM
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Good to see you CocoBabe! Your advice always inspires me to think I'm enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:14 PM
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Is she doing acts of service and being thoughtful in the relationship too? Because I don't think you should exchange sex for that. You exchange sex for sex and romance for romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:41 PM
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Lol firstly 15% body fat is not that low. Is being obese the norm where you live? Secondly why are you so hurt by fit people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:04 AM
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I love how you try to diminish women being attracted to him, but have the audacity to claim you're approached whenever you go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:26 PM
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It can happen definitely, but some instances of pre-selection are pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:59 PM
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Lol if this guy is hideous than I guess 80% of the population is hideous too https://images.app.goo.gl/LBQBb6hZvPXk53TFA
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:01 PM
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A woman that loves you will bend over backwards for you, is thoughtful, ends up doing the majority of the mental load in the relationship, etc etc. Men are not able to reciprocate that type of love. Not that deep. They can love a woman, sure. But it’ll never be the same way a woman loves a man and you’re all aware of it and want it for cheap. No, we aren't aware of this BS lol Like, the other guy said, just come out as a prostitute at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:51 AM
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That's a sad strawman. Just deal with the fact men don't want to be seen as an unsexy ATM. You can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:50 PM
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Yall mean the thing where men run around dating crazy hot broads as teenagers Where? Which men do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:28 PM
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Sounds great from a Machiavellian point of view. Now you get a guy to soften those bills who you're not as attracted to as the flings in your 20s. That's AF/BB in a nutshell. Not that you, literally, have done that or that all marriages are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:14 AM
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It's one when they're young and single and another when they're older and married. Force brain, force.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:12 PM
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What was said in the link, man? It got deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:47 PM
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Wow, almost like women have the free will to interact with men they find attractive, and the free will to turn down attention from men they don’t find attractive. Now imagine you can be gentle to people around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:39 AM
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Women don’t generally woo men. Also the man is complaining about no sex with the wife so makes sense he gotta woo her to get it. Like you can just accept the less sex then idk. Yeah, that's just really shitty and endorses OP. I don't even exactly agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:56 AM
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He's assuming they've already had a trying phase in the past, but gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:04 AM
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Lol I wonder what my lawyer think of me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:23 AM
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makes sex into a good. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:13 AM
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A 30 year old guy looking exclusively for FWBs? Dude has some issues What's the problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:51 PM
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Since women are the ones using the term I would assume they have the most knowledge on what it means. Yeah, women can't dupe anyone, they wouldn't ever do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:46 PM
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That's not what is being promoted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:36 PM
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There might have been one incel-like guy at a typical very large high school. And he always had pretty severe autism AND loved like a toad. BOTH would have to hold true. Do you think things were easier when it comes to dating back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:49 AM
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Yeah, a woman would never be a bad person or act selfishly! 😔🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:34 PM
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it's the 4th date what are you expecting? Huh? You can be very attracted to someone since they first time you meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:15 PM
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men waste a hot woman's youth. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:13 PM
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Low libido women can be really fast to project their ways onto all womanhood in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:14 PM
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Also, I don’t think women feel the desire you are describing. Not in anywhere close to the same way. I think you're projecting some asexuality or low libido there...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:11 PM
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They can only be sexually attracted to Chad??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:10 PM
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I don't really think it's very few women that can be turned on by looks alone, but it's also not all women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:48 PM
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He wants women to not get into a relationship with some poor guy she's not attracted to. The guy doesn't necessarily needs to be particularly physically attractive, but she needs to find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:28 PM
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How much do you think men taking care of themselves will actually help with women being sexually attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:03 PM
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Lol this one is the full package, sounds like a troll almost. The 25 year old+ brain fully developed is the cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:37 AM
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Uh, why did you ignored the "younger women are hotter" part?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:36 AM
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Actually nobody seems that as charm lol it's just OP playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:28 AM
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Seems like you have unrealistic beauty standards for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:27 AM
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Is she hot or she just got her looksmatch? He doesn't seem to look terrible by ehat you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:28 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:13 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA good one kween 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:30 PM
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Why you glossed over the "anybody"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:22 PM
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She's really bad at communicating if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:10 PM
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Isn't that the same question?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:19 AM
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If men had to be physically attractive to be dateable, Women also don't have to be physically attractive to be dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:25 PM
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Long term single women are generally beautiful and successful and high value, while long term single men are weird incels with bad hygiene and no jobs whose only hobby is video games. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:56 AM
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Tate’s body is nothing special. I can walk into any gym any day and see men who look just like him. He is fairly tall, I’ll give you that. You can also see guy's Tate height just walking around. I don't get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:21 AM
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We know it's fine, just saying you might be wrong in that "fit people have super strict training and diet".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:14 AM
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You belive fuckzoned girls want a relationship with this guy she has bad sex with? Lol indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:41 PM
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And what should he have for the woman to be attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:19 PM
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And a lot of the ones who do only do for their money and status lol. We know that's not the case for Brady.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:34 AM
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Optimizing her unsatisfying dating life, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:06 AM
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You talk too much for an obese woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:44 AM
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I’m a 5’9 woman with blonde hair and know plenty of men who prefer short or petite brunettes. It's very unlikely these guys will reinforce these preferences as hard requirements, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:29 AM
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It's almost as if we were in a forum where people shared their experiences and knowledge. Did you identify with one of the betabuxx signs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:14 PM
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if she’s in a hurry to pin you down Why do you think this is a BB sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:00 PM
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they got the unicorn wife but simp for some tranny lookalike When did this happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:53 PM
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He was being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:14 AM
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You use the bench press motion when you push anything away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:59 PM
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How short do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:52 PM
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Like the top hottest women according to the standards mentioned above will get 20x the men hitting on her than any other women there, even if they're perfectly attractive just not "as" attractive. Eh, I don't see that. Of course men's approaches are not equally distributed but average women don't get that much less approached than attractive women when out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:31 AM
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for women grooming matters more than looks because grooming shows he's got self-discipline, self-preservation and self-awareness. An average looking super well-groomed guy doesn't get nearly as much attention as an attractive guy with basic grooming or even without it. The final product is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:54 AM
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The mental gymnastics on saying being settled to will give you a more safe relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:54 PM
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You know these women can have orgasms with other men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:03 PM
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Do you see this happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:42 AM
1

Was this in PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:29 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:27 AM
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Being lean will probably make a guy look better. There are guys with strong jawlines and prominent cheekbones out there hidden under chub, and I'm not talking only about obese guys. Going from ugly to handsome is unlikely, but most guys who are kinda chubby or fatter would probably look better if they got lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:32 PM
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pass/fail ratio 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:14 AM
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Yeah, they fade Sherlock. But before they fade they're extremely important to you and your dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:42 AM
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Lol educate yourself. He was scoring decisive goals in Champions League in 2016, 2017 and 2018 from 31 to 33 y/o.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:28 AM
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You're quite sensitive on the fat women topic for someone who's willing to tell it's your face not your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:13 AM
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No, he's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:20 AM
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You think most (young) men are mediocre, unattractive goons?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:11 AM
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Nice bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:48 AM
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Why do you hate sex so much, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:31 PM
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A relationship entails sex, usually. He's not exactly entitled to it, but he can just leave if he's not satisfied and she's not into satisfying him. Both genders actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:02 PM
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Yeah, just endure the dead bedroom and/or insatisfying sex life, bro. If you want to be satisfied in your monogamous sex life you only see your spouse as a fleshlight 🥴🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:00 PM
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Very few. Most are too fat in the middle to fit your description.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:07 PM
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WTF? Lol Who hates him? Not negotiating attraction makes someone shallow? So everybody's shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:02 PM
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Ask a skinny girl with small tits A lot, if she's kinda cute or better and/or have some curves on the hips and butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:56 PM
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I find it funny that you equate women's body to a men's income.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:09 AM
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Child support no, alimony yes. I can't get how the two are put in the same basket when they're completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:22 PM
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Okay, but are those good self improvement sources? Do women apply, in real life, what they read there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:35 PM
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Most of those actors aren't getting hot guy roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:18 AM
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I don't think he's going to do this rant in his personal life around women. Also, I don't see the problem with expecting your GF to initiate sex some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:40 AM
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You're the only assuming that. We're only vetting for a woman who's sexually attracted to us and is into sex. I don't know why this approach to dating distresses you so much to the point of arguing here about it. It's just a vetting process, no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:08 PM
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Any man can have his standards, even if he doesn't get a girl who meets it in real life. Why are you pressuring guys into a bad deal? Do you tell the same for women who prefer to be single than lowering their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:01 PM
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Why do we ignore the 90s and 00s when women didn't had to settle to a husband but sexlessness rates where much lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:22 PM
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you are bf material and you should accept that. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:22 AM
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Would you ever be OK with a dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:15 AM
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Would you prefer a below average looking guy or a piece of shit person over a dumb one?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:23 PM
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No one got what you meant in the replies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:16 PM
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I think the "you're not all women" is pretty valid, especially in situations where there is clear proof that a group of women think differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:54 PM
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Can't see the correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:39 PM
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Me: Did you tell her upfront that you just wanted to fuck? Why would he tell something that's not true? Often a guy wants or at least is open to a LTR, but he already wants to have sex with her and also vet for her sexual attraction to him. It's not like guys dream of getting into a LTR with a girl who had a Springbreak threesome but wants to wait with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:30 PM
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This average man you mean is an overweight, average faced guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:10 PM
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Do you think those percentages apply to young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:06 AM
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I’d say a vast majority of the men calling themselves “average” online are ugly. Interesting that you think that. What percentage of men out there do you think are ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:17 AM
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Yeah, same body fat percentage is quite different between sexes. But we are not talking about body fat percentage here, we are talking about being overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:12 AM
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Social anxiety is either from autism or from being unattractive Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:27 PM
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A woman might change her focus from good looks, charisma and exciting personality to comfort, good income and kindness. She might also not be able to get a relationship with one of the guys she finds attractive enough and have to settle. Desperation and (active or passive) peer pressure to get married and have kids are a thing too. I know ideally it goes how you said, but often things are not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:08 AM
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You want him to act like something that is bad doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:53 PM
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Those same women who would be like "meh" for a ONS with me would be almost no problem if it was a LTR thing. 😬 🏃🏽🏃🏽💨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:58 PM
1

That scale leaves out the most important factor, which is looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:30 PM
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He's got great hunter eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:23 AM
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Did you gave signals for those two guys that you wanted to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:40 AM
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Really? You think men should be cucked because it's better than them possibly lashing out?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:36 PM
1

Which surgery did you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:56 PM
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Yep. I was looking at Vindicta the other day and they call basic men's preferences as "fetishizing", putting it in a bad light.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:48 AM
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Do they lack integrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:46 AM
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Thanks for doing a textbook "I'm mad at you and don't agree with what you say you're incel waaaaag"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:43 AM
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I feel good as a guy with a solid beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:56 PM
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There are more middle-aged fat people than young fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:38 PM
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An average looking dude who is charming and funny and masculine in personality can quite easily win over a hot girl. I wouldn't say quite easily, but yeah he can. Visceral, visual attraction just doesn't exist for women like it does for men. We are literally incapable of knowing if we are attracted to a man until we've interacted with him and seen him in action. That's not true for a LOT of women and it's pretty obvious with a not big life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:58 PM
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It's funny how I am probably from a completely different part of the world than you, and had very similar observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:55 AM
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Even if I wanted to be promiscuous and have that overlooked, I can’t, I am not hot and socially (charming) to have it happen. Aren't you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:58 PM
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It basically turned lol Now I'm here questioning the dozens of makeouts on college and young people parties, the ONSs that happen, the memes about a hot guy, the girl who took my virginity 15 minutes after first talking to me, the girls who eyefucked me without having ever talked to me, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:31 PM
1

I don't think losing your virginity early necessarily leads to being a good sex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:27 PM
4

20-21 years old is not very young?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:14 PM
2

Porn sick fat men can just settle down anytime they want but I'm not so sure about my more accomplished brothers who seem to be a ton more pickier. Hearing you guys talk about women who make you wait for sex it's just something I never identified with. If a woman did make me wait for sex I would have to think she's better than all the sluts I got to fuck me on the first date for sure. Lol wtf was this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:44 AM
-1

The issue is that there are infinitely less men who are sexually arousing to women then there are women who are sexually arousing to men. And why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:34 AM
1

Poor you, the world should change so you don't feel gross and threatened by other people simply having their sexualities 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:15 AM
1

Tell some women here who say makeup doesn't make a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:11 AM
1

any woman Lol fucking no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:37 PM
2

The bar for men is truly in hell, yet they want us to lower our standards even more than they already are What makes you really think the bar for men is so low? Also, the vast majority of couples I see are quite looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:48 AM
2

using her through all this time (a relationship) Do you always say the person who end a relationship "used" the other one?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:19 AM
3

He's leveling up in the sense that is not as hard FOR HIM as it was before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:15 AM
1

"Tutorial" is about how easy one has it in their (dating) life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:12 AM
1

Basically a prostitute, but one you have to bet instead of the payment guaranteeing sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:25 AM
1

Brain harder. Less choices makes people less stuck up!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:26 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:55 PM
2

???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:25 AM
2

How did the bed not break?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:34 PM
0

A "hot man" (which is different for everyone in appearance) Nah, it doesn't vary that much, it's pretty predictable often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:47 AM
1

Yeah, just ask her "are you a freeloader?", if she's a freeloader she's obviously going to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:38 AM
1

That goes both ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:35 AM
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RPers are generally extremely ugly and sexually unachieving, hence turning to TRP in the first place. That's a nice revenge fantasy, but most guys at some point might go after dating advice. A guy might come across TRP after a breakup for example, where he had a relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:22 AM
2

Which study?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:55 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:16 AM
3

Yeah, but they shouldn't stop working out. Sounds like excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:10 AM
1

What's the problem with No More Mr. Nice Guy? It seems like general advice about assertiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:33 AM
1

Every time there's a body positivity movement for men, men reject it. Ca you point an instance of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:03 PM
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being told I was cute or a great guy way more often than being told I was hot by girls flirting with me. How did this helped in blue pilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:31 AM
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I have a feeling you have a really easy time hading out "beautiful" to a lot of women and "ugly" to a lot of men. My point is that you have men that are ugly / old / fat / incredibly average with no attractive features getting on the cover of magazines and being called sexiest man alive. Going viral on social media and being thirsted after in public Well, I don't see that, but even if it happens it's only to celebrities, a really small group of people who lead much different lives than regular p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:08 AM
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Also women are way more forgiving of mens facial features. All through Hollywood women have to look the exact same and be beautiful whereas there’s plenty of average looking men who become mega stars. This happens in normal life too. I don't see how Hollywood acting is relevant to this discussion. We are talking about dating and attraction here. Also, I don't think women are more forgiving, they have to see a guy much more attractive to feel physically attracted than men have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:00 AM
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Women are also not measuring men’s backs where is that coming from ? Yeah, they're not measuring but... they're looking at and seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:45 AM
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I'm really curious to see these "average" men going viral on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:42 AM
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I’ve literally seen so many everyday average looking men go viral on Twitter / TikTok for being hot. You mean non-famous men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:32 AM
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Lol yes. Don't be so arrogant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:31 AM
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He was talking about muscles, obviously, not bone structure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:16 AM
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Eh, you're almost equating socially awkward men with sexual harassers. Are you the girl who masturbates to anime or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:07 PM
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Calm down, I don't think this is about approaching a woman on a sexual/romantic context.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:48 PM
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Instagram and dating apps amplified the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:50 PM
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The ones willing to show how they look will probably skew more attractive, tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:11 PM
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Thanks again for proofing that men only want the 10% of hot women This wasn't proved and I don't think it will ever be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:11 PM
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No, I wouldn't. The only good thing there is liking to go to the gym and maybe the daily routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:55 PM
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Eating in a caloric surplus maximizes muscle gain, which will come with a bit of fat. Too big of a calorie surplus can make you more fat than muscular, though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:09 PM
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Disagree on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:31 PM
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Sexual* attraction based on status
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:01 PM
7

CMV: Why do you make questions with false premises?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:44 PM
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Thanks for solidifying my "a girl should fuck me early" belief, man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:32 PM
1

The average Filipino man is 5'4", bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:15 PM
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I don't think guys are more likely to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:14 PM
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Ehhhh, if we are going the "this is just nature" route, there are some things human females aren't gonna really like, and it rhymes with "cape".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:32 PM
2

A planet with Tinder (and other dating apps)???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:55 AM
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If there was one person in the world who could do it, it would be you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:54 PM
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Eh, losing weight can hide obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:26 PM
2

but attractive women are supposed to be selfless and find value in ugly dudes trying to run up on them. You're the one who said that. Nice strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:18 PM
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A decade age gap, three decades lasting relationship and counting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:01 PM
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How tall is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:06 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:33 PM
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What about 24 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:16 PM
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Trolling?? 22 year olds are an adult for quite some time, that's a moderate age gap. Being attracted to a 22 year old is just natural, whatever your age
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:16 PM
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You're doing great at saying wanting a 22 year old girl is being a pedophile, bro keep at it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:12 PM
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Vaction with mom and dad, visiting my country's North. Drinking my twelvieth cup of beer, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:10 PM
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And? Also ahe actually said she wants to get with many guys in Turkey lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:42 AM
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Provided he didn't lie to her 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:24 PM
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They wouldn't notice the people who are talking to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:59 PM
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You want the male gaze applied to you, but from a woman. It's never going to happen It happens, just not from a big chunk of women, but it definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:00 PM
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I hate that I cannot look a direction because I don't want to give a wrong message by catching eyes. Can relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:47 AM
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How do these "very attractive" women look, OP? I have a feeling you're overestimating their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:06 AM
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When I look at new couples, I see they're pretty looksmatched most of the time. Not rarely the woman is more attractive, and also, a bit less common but not rare either, the guy is the more attractive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:45 AM
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That's masturbation for you. Women also stick inanimate objects into themselves, it doesn't really have to do with how much they value looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:36 AM
3

What's the deal with Dundee?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:05 AM
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More single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:54 PM
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Women are not face-ists to any important degree Dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:45 PM
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I love how you gatekeep what should be ignored and what shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:53 AM
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What about the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:48 AM
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You only understand if it's a race matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:38 AM
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Trans women who can really pass usually also have facial feminization surgery, reducing the prominence of the brow, the angularity of the jaw, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:12 AM
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What men on here really mean is they want attractive women to aggressively go after undesirable men. Speaking for myself, it would be nice if women approached men more instead of just waiting for him, preferably being aware of how attractive she is relative to the guy she's going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:54 AM
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You know she's an adult who consented to having sex with the guy and that she can stop seeing him at any point she decides, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:04 AM
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No? She can pursue and just not have sex with him. And if she wants to do it, she can and has to deal with the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:58 AM
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Yep and that's mostly enforced by other women!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:47 AM
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Why so sad and emotional? Wishing people good weekend in a sarcastic way? Are you fat and ugly as a female?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:07 AM
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Are these friends okay with it or are they bothered by these men not wanting anything serious with them? I've seen women trying to hold their friends in a slut shaming fashion while the friend is content with what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:57 AM
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What's the difference between approaching and throwing yourself on someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:48 AM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:43 PM
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Solid 8 in the first picture. 6/10 in the two pictures where he's older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:42 PM
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Isn't handsome more about the face instead of height, leanness and athleticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:39 PM
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Really? I have the impression women interpret almost everything aa flirting, while often it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:27 AM
1

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:13 AM
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In my mid-teens to, like, 22, I loved people thinking I was older and it would make my day. Now at 24 I want to stop and keep this look as long as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:02 PM
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Revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:56 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:43 AM
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Sounds self-righteous, but it's worth reflecting about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:02 AM
1

Do you look much younger than 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:28 AM
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Yeah, but we are not the "global population". You have to see how much of the demographic the guy is inserted in is on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:31 PM
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Can't you just talk to him in swimming attire?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:07 AM
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use for sex Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:31 AM
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I would say, like rivetcitymayor pointed out, the average person is fat and makes like, 36k/year. In the same logic the average Gen Z person has not very good social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:03 PM
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So yeah, crushing on crazy men is much worse than crushing on crazy women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:52 PM
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Wow, that sounds incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:45 AM
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OLD is not real life and means nothing OLD is the origin 40% of the couples here, in real life. Women ARE more attractive because they actually put time, effort and money into their appearance whereas men do not. Even if men put the same effort in their appearance it doesn't change the fact that men are more easily attracted to women for their appearance than the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:24 AM
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Sorry, can't change your view
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:46 PM
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I had a phase at 15 years old when I had a lot of attention, compliments and girls crushing on me that's hard to explain. After that I would say from 21 to now (24), as I got rid of cystic acne, got on another level fitness-wise, although I was fit and kinda muscular before, and became able to grow a full beard that shapes my face nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:19 PM
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Because the second one has a much, much higher chance of not being dishonest about what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:09 AM
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Chad is about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:42 AM
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Yeah, nobody with a good salary who's attractive can be on PPD 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:17 PM
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He's just describing his life to put things in perspective. Also, nobody here is trying to be attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:50 PM
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A lot of women don't have responsive sexualities and will make their moves when they see a giy hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:32 PM
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I’m a woman who is 5 and I’ve been asked out by a man You man you have only been asked out by one man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:02 PM
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Like you pointed out at first (but then kinda contradicted yourself) men are more democratic with the interest they show.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:59 PM
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Do you have only canned phrases or can you actually debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:34 PM
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They're saying the men who've asked you out sound like boring, ugly, old. Chad is a very physically attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:33 PM
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Does telling an incel he's not ugly count? 'Cause I did that yesterday. Here at Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:13 PM
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A couple weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:12 PM
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I can see your point. I would say though that often, when a woman approaches a guy, she still has the expectation that he will move things forward and at some point she will stop taking the lead, leaving the void for him to keep going from there if he wants. I think I never seen a woman who approached and then took all the steps (setting up a date, getting contact info, callinghim of his home) I don't think women who approach necessarily look desperate, they can look like they know what they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:22 AM
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Especially since IMO women that approach are putting themselves at a disadvantage unless they specifically are into shy guys. Why do you say they're putting themselves at a disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:15 PM
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The dates are already cheap to start
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:19 PM
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Why do you take solace in that? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:45 PM
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Not the point. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:45 PM
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You're trying to blame men based on a random hypothesis?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:45 PM
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I’m talking about the difference between the male and female numbers He's also talking about the difference between the female and male numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:43 PM
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You could say that to almost any societal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:46 PM
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I'm talking dudes who make like 30k/year and want an above average girl when they say she can't be overweight. If the guy's not overweight and is okay with a low earner, where's the problem/hypocrisy? You have to buy a non-overweight woman? dudes who are bottom tier in genetics (height, looks, intelligence, etc.) wanting a fit girl because they're fit. If the girl is also bottom tier in genetics aside from being fit, what's the problem? You seem to be unintentionally defending female hypergamy h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:42 PM
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People usually have sex with people in the same age bracket, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:29 PM
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Some studies have found that men are more likely than women to report nonpenetrative sex as sex. That would make it even worse for men. Not the gotcha some people herethink it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:36 PM
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An older guy had more time to have sex. A Chad in his 30s probably have a much higher count than a 19 year old Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:58 PM
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Huh, I don't really see those dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:28 PM
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Get with a guy you're actually really attracted to, or maybe an asexual guy idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:25 AM
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Lol what's wrong with wanting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:16 AM
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Lol you're fangirling hard here. Plenty of anonymous women more attractive than her out there, becoming a "national sex symbol" doesn't mean a woman is THAT attractive, just that she's famous and on the better looking than average side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:10 AM
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She's not obligated, but performing a more edgy sexual act with one and not other partner tells about her attraction to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:11 PM
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I have grown a full beard using minoxidil for two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:48 PM
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Women are like cats. If they like you, they'll come to you. Lol not really, most of the time for moat women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:31 AM
1

Would you say most women are like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:17 AM
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And how did you changed it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:58 AM
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they will realise that women make decisions about relationships and men on things that are far more "fair" and in their favour, such as personality, grooming, finances, interests etc Lol I can't see how that's more fair or in one's favour
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:28 PM
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"Rules" refers to the way a woman might approach dating in a more cautious, prudish, expecting to be treated like a queen way with a guy. Then throwing that out of the window for some other man she's more into. But she's still engaging the first guy in a dating sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:57 AM
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I think if it wasn't his too prominent pointy chin and round cheeks he would be a solid pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:49 PM
1

You think he's ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:55 PM
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You will get genuine feedback on a real date based on her subsequent actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:46 PM
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The difference between the treatment that Chad receives vs the average men is much bigger than the difference between Stacy and the average woman IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:27 PM
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Yeah, but shouldn't have a satisfying sex life after the honeymoon phase? Is that phase your only shot at sexual satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:40 PM
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That's bizarre take on bisexuality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:38 PM
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Will the wife seduce her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:05 PM
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No need to bring up the weight of an actual walrus when you know what he meant. Weight is very much an indicator of body composition, exceptions exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:48 PM
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We understand the difference. We just don't agree that one is right and the other is wrong. You can understand that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:40 PM
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Lol no Most couples are looksmatched, stop the bias
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:58 AM
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Maybe they became regulars at a given restaurant because they liked there the most. But maybe because they can't afford going to the restaurant they found better? Maybe they were banned from that restaurant which doesn't have an interest on seeing that customer again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:04 AM
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I don't see the guys here posturing in this Nice Guys way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:39 AM
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Yeah, it seems the men where you live aren't much into style and grooming. No, In literally every other species on Earth, males are decorative to attract females. Humans seem to have it backwards. This reverse behavior in humans is more than likely the result of women being cattle/property and making them more attractive to sale has been embedded in human culture. I find if funny that people often mention BiOloGy, but often ignore anything that doesn't feed into human cultural or social norms. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:55 AM
1

A gorgeous woman can be single if chooses so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:49 PM
1

by women’s standards they’re losers They who?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:10 PM
1

I think most men are unattractive, as most men don't put any effort into their physical appearance. Do you think that would change if men, in general, started to put great effort in their physical appearances (aside from plastic surgery as most can't afford)? Or don't you think that comes from a high threshold that women have to feel physical attraction from a man and they're limited mostly by their genetics? I mean, I don't see the young men around me when I go out, my friends and I being guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:56 PM
1

At his income he could also get a hair transplant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:36 PM
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Different people have different opinions, this sub is a shitshow all around and won't have a consensus. By the way, how old are you? When did your party phase took place?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:20 AM
1

It's regular looking, not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:17 AM
1

🤔 Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:16 AM
1

that dude that was sad that his gf had made some butt implant Which dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:58 AM
1

Wow, she must really be your type. She's like a 7 to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:13 AM
1

How old and how timid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:12 AM
1

You're open to all this and don't like wearing revealing clothes? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:08 AM
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Buthisface?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:48 PM
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Sex. It means sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:48 PM
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Basically women good 👍🏽 men bad 😞? What she deserves? An unsuspecting man to fulfill her marriage desire? No, she's not entitled to it It doesn't ring true at all to me, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:45 PM
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Hundreds of options = anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:56 PM
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He's agreeing with you, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:52 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:47 PM
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masculinity is more performative we ARE what we do, and being objectified means we are doing something right. I don't think so. The performances are often neutral or even bad, morally speaking, like tattooed guys with an edgy style expected to be criminal assholes, and also men are often put off with having to do the performative acts of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:54 AM
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I think he probably went after girls in a too intense, serious manner. Also, I'm not sure if this guy's rant is anything to take into account, but it highlights how shitty it is to be called "husband material", especially when your age is far from the average where people usually marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:25 PM
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You generalized up there lol You're proving his point of inconsistency
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:56 PM
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Isn't the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:56 PM
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Y'know, I expect to fuck the woman I get in love with. Sometimes a guy might want only sex, but other there's not this big wall between sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:36 PM
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Online dating does not necessarily means specifically dating apps, it might be general social media, chats, games, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:31 PM
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It might be a location thing. Tinder is not known exactly as a hookup app where I live, just a general dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:29 PM
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What the studies actually say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:14 PM
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Yeah that seems quite similar to men's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:55 PM
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Lol why did you put South America in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:58 PM
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Yeah, it's not a relationship. I don't think anyone claimed it is. The problem is dating without having sex and the reassurance that she's sexually attracted to you while she's fucking some other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:26 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:16 PM
5

Hi flapperfatale!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:14 PM
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All the women I had casual sex with seemed to have an easy time cumming, and I don't mean it as a brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:13 PM
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Look at Danny Devito. Horrible example considering the status, prestige and money of the guy, but I agree with your general point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:38 PM
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Many of the guys I see in person that I find attractive, I know that if I saw them on OLD I probably wouldn’t have swiped right on them. Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:02 PM
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What arousal pattern you think is more common among women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:13 PM
2

You want men to think you're a MtF trans without sex reassignment surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:53 PM
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You think it's creepy that men are attracted to neoteny and youthfulness? Petite is not even my primary type, so I don't have a horse in this race.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:50 PM
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He can definitely attract a low to mid earner with that salary. I love how this sub act as if UMC people are the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:47 PM
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You can't know. If you believe she's not fucking anyone you might be getting duped, so you just assume she's having sex or had early sex with other men before and vet for women who prove their sexual attraction for you pretty early. Makes total sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:21 AM
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I think Harry Styles is a prime example of how status and other non-physical traits can make a man more attractive. He doesn't look bad, but he doesn't really stand out among young men in looks to justify how much he's simped for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:09 AM
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So you think mid to late 20s women are more into muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:11 PM
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A bit older than what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:22 PM
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Aside from Smurf and the one with the purple flair they're all here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:20 PM
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I read the sub for a bit and that whole "extracting money from rich men for months without having sex with them" sounds quite unrealistic. It would take a really lonely and gullible old guy to do that, and a really beautiful and manipulator girl to pull it off. Sounds more like fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:45 PM
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I think the "spark" he meant is more of an emotional one, which doesn't have much to do with the desire to have sex or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:23 PM
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The women who engage in casual sex probably have an easier time having an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:45 PM
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Or maybe they just, y'know, have a libido, want sex and act on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:42 PM
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but her face looked like she had a mask on How did she looked like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:26 PM
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Why would you think he was trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:13 PM
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The thread was about a man wanting to wait before sex, not finding the woman unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:40 PM
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What's the problem with sleeping but not marrying a high n-count woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:57 PM
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The vas majority of women don't want to wait until marriage either, so the gendered response doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:38 AM
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Am I his first girlfriend? FUCK NO!!!!!! What's the problem with being a guy's first girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:23 AM
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How does he looks like? Do you think she's actually attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:10 AM
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Good thing you don't define what's feminine or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:24 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:15 PM
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You can get to know someone in a restaurant and then decide to have sex with them after. You can also go to the restaurant already knowing you want to have sex with the person you're going with and doing it after. She actually dates everything, out of her pay grade, in her pay grade, jobless. I think he meant out of her league, not literallly pay grade. Yeah, if all the guys go that way she probably shows a lot of sexual interest on the messages. Is she complaining about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:18 PM
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She's being paid. Are you against domestic workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:54 PM
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No I don't get hard for anything and wouldn't for a fat ugly woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:53 PM
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Nah, she just need to pay for her food
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:48 PM
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She said "can you not?". That's not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:59 PM
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You think that justifies men's preferences being bashed while women being free to talk about theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:54 PM
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I'm not the person you're asking to, but I would say his point is more about men being guilted about what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:24 PM
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Better than what? Dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:13 PM
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The nursing gome people probably would have given better advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:09 PM
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Yeah, the "casually dating for fun" and "no hookups" sounded contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:04 AM
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Yeah, that's obvious lol Your comment doesn't counteract his at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:52 AM
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When a straight guy have sex a woman has it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:50 AM
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just like supermodels are the "ideal" for men No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:15 PM
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The guy in Fight Club is Brad Pitt, and he's not much muscular in the film
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:10 PM
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It's like you're only one individual and in a minority while we are talking about general tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:29 PM
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anything that you say could be a problem i.e. face or awkwardness is worse for a shorter person Yes, obviously. But a negative (or more than one) might outweigh a guy being tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:43 AM
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I was my most attractive when I was 19. That's a pretty early looks peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:34 PM
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Peaking is about SMV, which includes other things besides looks, especially for men. I can give you that looks are the most important factor, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:32 PM
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Being a proficient MMA fighter can definitely help your dating prospects, nevermind a UFC champion with their money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:25 PM
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Why not? Would you say that to most plastic surgeries?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:06 PM
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affects how they treat/view you now vs how they treated/viewed women in the past What do you think changes in this aspect?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:46 PM
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Not being hot and rich doesn't mean one is poor and ugly, most people are at the middle. What about the non-women hating guys who are not hot and rich? Also, good luck for the vast majority of women on securing the commitment of a guy who's hot and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:23 PM
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????
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:33 AM
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The introverted homebody girls are looking for guys like them I'm not sure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:10 AM
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It shows a lot of couples meet online, not necessarily in dating apps, like Tinder, which have its statistics in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:07 AM
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She basically endorsed AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:58 AM
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I thought there was middle ground between Chad and loser/broke boy. I mean, even Chad can be a broke boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:54 AM
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Which men are scared of pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:21 AM
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🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:35 AM
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or talk to a girl outside of my circle of female friends Why do you become more misogynistic after this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:15 PM
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Less hookups and less relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:37 PM
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Great point, never thought about the parent's basement thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:25 PM
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Which thread is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:03 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:14 PM
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Does 25 years of marriage and divorcing at 50 years old count as starter wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:49 PM
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I also would like a guy to have higher social status than myself and his is lower, both school wise and economically. 😬 Wouldn't a guy having the same social status be okay for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:10 AM
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Which types of men like you and how do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:05 AM
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You wouldn't date someone who had plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:41 AM
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I would love to see these guys you consider ugly. I have a feeling they're mostly OK looking, just not particularly handsome, aside from a couple ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:36 AM
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It's very interesting to me how women are attracted to deep, developed charactersa and stories while for men it doesn't do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:14 AM
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Even the guy from ‘you’ had something about him in that first season and he is by no means traditionally good looking. You're saying Penn Badgley is nowhere close to traditionally good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:30 AM
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Most men here like women that I think are ugly Which women, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:41 AM
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Whenever I see similar cases I always ask myself how to detect and avoid marrying someone who is not that into me and question the meaning of marriage. Poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:42 PM
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Considering all ages or selecting an age bracket?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:05 PM
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Thanks, Sherlock. I'm talking about tendencies. In the instances a woman actively approaches a guy do you think he tends to be more attractive than her or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:01 PM
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Define "easy".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:57 PM
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When a girl approaches a guy, is he most probably more attractive than her? Or probably looksmatched?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:45 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:27 PM
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more to do with setting the tone for the relationship. Setting the tone for a subpar sex life where the woman is not that attracted to the guy? 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:46 AM
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That's not the premise of his question, I'm almost sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:27 AM
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No, there will just be more articles on respected news sources about the "lack of economically attractive men"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:21 AM
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You think this is toxic femininity? What about female competition, gossip, slut shaming, misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:15 AM
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Imagine a red pill guy spitting this lol he would be massacrated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:48 AM
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Nice. Why do you think that happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:43 AM
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I don't think the testosterone drop from 20s to mid 30s is significant whe it comes to building muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:23 AM
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Yep, sounds like some strawman of "men peak in their 30s, considering all factors that influence attraction and the dating market".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:18 AM
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Nobody's moving the goalposts, you're just running from the height matter. Read the OP it talks about being tall as well as fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:42 PM
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Yes, they are cute! 🦆
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:57 PM
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No, I'm not. Sounds like you're projecting the situation of someone close to you to feel better about it, honestly. Lots of men in their 40s who are fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:33 AM
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Attractive guy. Solid 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:30 AM
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There's no such thing as a girl too ugly to be fuckzoned There definitely is. Maybe not in collective, but for an individual guy, which is what we're talking here, there definitely are women he wouldn't fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:49 PM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:30 PM
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And men can't change idea or see they're sexually incompatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:19 PM
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Which examples you have of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:12 PM
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I don't know why you're asking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:11 PM
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It's more like: this is women's poison and this guy used it, as an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:23 PM
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How do you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:55 PM
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You think the only men that struggle are the ones who don't shave, shower and wear clean clothes? You're unironically doing the "just shower bro" meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:43 PM
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my question is why not ask out the unattractive girl?! Why even risk asking out someone with well to be blunt options. Because I'm not unattractive. Also, any not horrible looking woman have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:41 PM
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Calorie deficit?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:31 AM
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got downvoted by saying that a woman getting complacently unattractive at 30 in a marriage inspires against marriage 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:46 AM
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Eh, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:44 AM
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That's a completely different situation. You dated the girl and got into a relationship with her, that's preselection, even if she dumped you after. The situation we're talking about is being initially rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:44 AM
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It doesn't look like she gained mass only on one part of her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:58 AM
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She doesn't have to fulfill every sexual preference of his.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:30 AM
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stop linking stuff like this you will make me even more wary of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:09 AM
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Probably a bottom 20% or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:53 AM
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Did it happen recently? I remember you saying you've never been approached a few months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:17 PM
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I love how the answers change depending on their intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:31 AM
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The "married women and lesbians" argument is not a good one. Lesbians might be doing it for other women and married women might be doing it for their man or even other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:51 AM
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Read again. He's saying both genders can't empathize with each other. Wrap your head around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:45 AM
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I started uni reverso filtering height queens. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:31 AM
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How many heads to body is tall vs short? I dunno, but shorter men tend to have a bigger head compared to their total height whereas taller men will have a proportionally smaller one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:31 AM
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What was there? It got deleted 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:23 AM
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that visually women find men less attractive than men find other men. What do you mean? You're talking about gay men rating men or men in general assessing the attractiveness of their peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:44 AM
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There's this perk, but when the shoulders are clearly wider than the hips it doesn't look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:40 AM
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I don't think shoulders are a good indicator of height. Head to body ratio seems like a better predictor. By the way, which height would be the ideal for you and which height would be a deal breaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:29 AM
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The latter definitely knows something, how to get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:46 PM
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You must have good social skills and game, man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:16 PM
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Interesting. What age range you mean by dateable age?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:10 PM
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Nobody thinks ALL these men want to date her seriously, it would be really dumb to think that or even lift this possibility. She only needs one of these men to get what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:53 PM
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So, y'know, she can... interact, talk with these guys and get to know them and see if they're what she's looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:50 PM
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Why do you feel young women are naive? What are they naive about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:55 AM
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Yeah lol Some women, maybe the majority, truly aren't jealous, but it's not like the ones who are jealous are going to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:48 AM
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validation from creepy men Define "creepy"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:34 AM
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ALL the women here are saying they're not jealous. They're all being sincere? Do you think a jealous older woman will admit to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:33 AM
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It sucks being younger when men are not really men Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:24 AM
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Lol only men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:19 AM
1

What do you wish you had done?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:13 AM
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You will name it first?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:56 PM
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Celebrities job is not being attractive and plenty of them are average or unattractive. It's funny that you mixed in "men are into conformity" and also said that lol I agree Daniel Radcliffe is above average though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:31 PM
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That's not his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:26 AM
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I don't think girls are more physically attractive than guys, makeup aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:27 PM
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You know the hot girl might treat the guy right, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:52 PM
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If you marry a woman you attracted for your resources own it. How the fuck is he going to know this? Hae you hardof deception? Do you think the woman marrying for money or just because she's desperate for marriage and kids is going to tell that upright?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:45 PM
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Maybe he just wanted to fuck them or they weren't par for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:32 PM
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It has made it easier for me to get casual sex, but not real intimate relationships/companionship, which is what I long for. How did TRP made that? Which concepts you used that helped you in that regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:56 PM
2

never have women even used the terms alpha or beta. Never have men used the terms Madonna or Whore, but y'know they sure acted like it. Come on, think better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:46 PM
2

Why don't you pay your part in a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:39 AM
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Because she can't attract one of the limited high earners? Because she got attracted and in love with a man who's not a highe earner?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:30 AM
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Both can be framed as their current situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:11 PM
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Solid 7
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:36 PM
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You seem to live in a different world than do i Why do you say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:10 PM
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For some much more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:40 PM
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No. There should be solid sexual attraction based on looks and/or personality instead of just the convenience of financial and emotional support, though. That's the point. Also, you don't just fall into a relationship, you have to work to get one if you're single, and you won't get there by simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:39 PM
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Yeah, considering OP said these women get with hot broke guys on the down low is probably more about image than actual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:48 PM
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Men who needs a woman who earn more than them? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:46 PM
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You know a movie star is not necessarily attractive, right? I don't understand how anyone who is attracted to women could call her anything less than a 9 Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:01 PM
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Are you sure they're trapped by gender roles and not by their own (unfortunate) ability to feel or not feel attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:47 PM
1

I've been at the same barber for the last 10 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:33 PM
1

Why do you see sex in this adversarial way?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:52 PM
1

Choice can put the pounds on, but once they are on, they will not come off, and if they do, they come back. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:08 AM
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Scarred or scared? 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:51 AM
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How are these misandrist? Hmm, I dunno, maybe because they're bad to men, and directed at men for the condition of being men??? Maybe you're trolling like the other guy asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:44 AM
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Any examples of situations that can be considered sexual objectification and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:39 AM
3

Kinda sad you had to retort to personal, trope insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:08 AM
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Why marry? I mean, there's so much shit that might happen and terminate it, and marriage only makes it harder to end the relationship 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:10 PM
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With another 20 year old? That's not the original point. It's about getting women in general, and for many man that will be better at 30 than at 20 due to having his own place and car, better social skills/game and still retaining his looks provided he takes care of himself and doesn't have shitty genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:52 PM
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Partying doesn't guarantee having a good sex/dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:46 PM
1

I think you have a view that associates age with maturity evolution too much. After a certain age, people can be more or less mature without age being a bog factor into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:43 AM
2

You seem sad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:09 AM
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It's great we have your diagnosis about what a man in his 30s living his best life is!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:46 AM
1

So you think there's a determinist fate for guys who didn't have much success in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:55 AM
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Nah, it's actually time to do whatever the fuck one wants
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:49 AM
1

At equal rates they were fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:44 AM
1

LMAO do you just type random words? Reread?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:40 AM
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No, you didn't had that attention 14 years ago. Dating apps and social media were archaic and mostly unused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:31 AM
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I agree that the "you shouldn't care about looks because a half fucking century from now you and your partner will be old and wrinkly" is ridiculous, I mean you still live decades before you get there. I also think getting old as an excuse to get out of shape is bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:10 PM
2

How do we define incel statements? Why you're so sure she made one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:12 PM
3

2baloons is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:36 PM
2

Self select against low libido women, vibrator queens as well. Why do you say uncut dick selects against low libido women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:11 AM
2

What they have done to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:00 AM
1

I think MMA body types are pretty attractive to women, generally. But yeah pro bodybuilders will scare off most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:24 AM
1

Tell him to wear a bowtie and a jockstrap and that I like my meat medium rare 😏😋
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:04 PM
1

How did these thousands of guys behaved poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:04 AM
1

What is your advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:50 AM
1

Tell us more 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:32 AM
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Whatever they wanted they were cheated and duped which I don't think I need to say it's wrong. Your selective empathy is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:31 AM
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Flexing about being hit on is kinda douchey, but I can't see the problem with a 24 year old dating a 20 year old. You probably say you couldn't imagine dating one because you're a woman and prefers dating guys a bit older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:55 PM
1

Are you the girl who answered you look first at body, then face then height in another thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:36 AM
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He was on his prime. Quite some time he's far from 95th percentile attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:34 AM
1

sexually attractive but trashy af 🤤🤤🤤🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:11 AM
2

There are other ways to make other people uncomfortable including how you look, how stuck up they are, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:19 AM
2

If these guys were straight would they take as much care about their appearance as they do as gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:14 AM
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I can’t think of any pressures men face that women don’t Lol think harder
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:12 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:07 AM
1

He would have more body image issues but probably would have a better sex/dating life, unless the ugly guy works a lot on his financial success and game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:02 AM
1

Maybe because the vast majority of the time a man has to ask a woman out even if she's very into him?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:58 AM
1

You probably read everything in the comic book guy's voice...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:10 AM
1

You mean a cold approach? In which place was this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:53 PM
1

Is this some kind of automatic response that doesn't need to make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:01 PM
1

Every man doesn’t want a home maker. Actually many men on here state that they expect women to contribute financially. Yes, that only applies to the expectations of chivalry which is the topic at hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:23 PM
1

What do you mean by being proactive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:21 PM
1

Being "desired" by your money is much worse than being desired by your appearance. I agree being reduced to a single trait is bad, though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:12 PM
1

Maybe don't shotgun yourself in the foot with your pickiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:53 PM
1

Women are usually talking in this sub about how much they want relationships and not casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:50 PM
2

whole beta bux thing only applies to socially inept men Not true. These types are more vulnerable to it, but a well-socialized is susceptible to it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:42 AM
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Holy shit, just saw it now. Makes sense that it is a FDSer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:40 AM
3

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:55 AM
3

The supposed reasons are a stereotype. A bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:52 AM
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Nobody's saying you should the opposite. We are saying is hilariously incomplete and doesn't touch on things that will help the most
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:09 PM
2

Oh yeah, y'all have the Truth Monopoly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:02 PM
3

Go to PPD main page, click on the three dots and on "Change user flair" or smth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:56 PM
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Yeah, then you just gladly accept that and doesn't do anything to change it 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:44 PM
1

It’s pretty much average height for men around 30 in our country Netherlands? Montenegro?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:15 PM
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IRL, average women get far and away for approaches than beautiful women. Do they? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:02 PM
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My gut tells me it's about a woman's willingness to make herself uncomfortable for a man's attention, as well as the inability to run away. My gut tells me men bahd 😞 and I also make projections about height preference on men Heels accentuates women's butts and makes their legs look longer, along with making their walk sexier, it's nothing about making her look taller
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:00 AM
2

Yes, but do they receive more attention in that age compared to their young adult years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:52 AM
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There aren't. But women loooove fat guys, I mean they're clearly the ones doing the best in their sexual lives, generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:10 AM
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That's a weird interpretation. Complaining about something that you partly want is not more picky than having even higher standards for wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:02 AM
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As ironic as it was, most guys you see who are muscular (not just defined and slim) are in the "overweight" (25-30 BMI) category. They aren't the majority of overweight men, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:18 AM
2

Lol A few days ago some guy said I'm a dark version of Conor McGregor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:05 PM
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I'm not exactly a fan either but you didn't got my question. Do you think a singer who got hard during a dancer's presentation should be cancelled?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:45 PM
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Do you think he should be cancelled? Speaking about that, it's quite unlikely for him to get cancelled over this, since is not something really bad, he has a decades old fame and relevance and most people will not even get to know about this, I mean, I stumbled over a link to this news.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:32 PM
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https://contigo.uol.com.br/noticias/tv/chris-flores-da-opiniao-firme-sobre-erecao-de-bruno-no-palco-tem-que-saber.phtml Try this one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:29 PM
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I agree with points 1 and 4. On 2, social skills definitely matter, especially if you're not Chad. You better at least be able to carry a basic conversation with a girl and preferably be charming while doing it. On 3, being autistic or having personality disorders will still diminish your results even if you're Chad, but you still be able to have a solid dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:21 PM
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Brazilian singer supposedly got hard after a dancer's presentation and a TV show is debating whether it was harassment or not. https://contigo.uol.com.br/noticias/tv/chris-flores-da-opiniao-firme-sobre-erecao-de-bruno-no-palco-tem-que-saber.phtml PPD, your thoughts, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:08 PM
2

I don't really think the average high school girl is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:23 PM
1

Ok great, what about the 80 years of life people will have? Are they all alone too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:04 PM
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They communicate something, yeah, but aaying they're not looks is even worse than saying they're not communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:03 PM
2

Someone I call a 9, you might call a 2. There are small variations, but I don't think this one I quoted happens in good faith at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:55 PM
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January said, like a couple months ago, that she has never been approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:46 PM
1

Eh, no, average woman and the average man are in the same physical beauty level. It's just that men have lower standards for being attracted to women based solely on physical beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:25 PM
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a guy jumping through hoops to get his own wife attracted to him over and over again is kind of embarrassing This. Getting into a monogamous relationship and even then not being sexually satisfied, still dealing with an unbalance between your and the other part desires to have sex that needs to be compensated must be ultimately frustrating. I'm not saying he can't do anything to seduce her and spice it up, but it shouldn't be needed for a consistent sex life and it should also be mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:12 AM
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Do you guys think exhausted moms of 2 toddlers are aroused by just "a look" from their husbands? Why not? Is she sexually attracted to the man she married? that husband refuses to spend time with her without sex and makes her feel unloved That's bad, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:04 AM
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A 9/10 is much more than cute, more like the hottest woman he will be able to fuck in his life (without paying).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:48 AM
1

What are your suggestions for this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:25 AM
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When a girl is truly into you from the start that's how it looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:47 PM
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Is it bad that I kind of think the other person was a transwoman? A bit bad, I mean, not all women fit the same mold. Also, I'm not sure if transwomen are more into gaming than ciswomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:15 PM
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If you’re interested in seriously dating her, you should be able to empathize with that without feeling inadequate Yikes, no. I want my future girlfriend to be viscerally sexually attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:09 PM
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Yeah, just be a weak cuck accepting of a woman who's not all that attracted to you as she was to past sexual partners! What could go wrong and how could you be dissatisfied in such situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:07 PM
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He's not talking about virgins. He's talking about waiting for sex with women who had it fastly with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:05 PM
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You see it wrong, big man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:03 PM
1

You know initial sex can and often does delve into a relationship, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:00 PM
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I think a person with a FWB tends to be better off than a sexless person, while having none of these things you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:50 PM
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Point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:46 PM
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Dudes who want to get fit, dress well, make good money, travel, enjoy the finer things. I don't think he's talking about self-improvement, which bring benefits primarily the person doing it, but about the early courting thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:45 PM
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I don't think anyone here thinks they will be in charge after a societal collapse. They just think they will be somewhat better than they're today, or just wanna see the world burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:46 PM
1

So the guys you actually date only have sex with you after a relationship is established? Do you have one night stands?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:43 PM
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but she'll also make you have her orgasm first. The sex will be on her terms So sex should be about women instead of both parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:48 PM
1

But the men you want to see again also got casual sex from you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:43 PM
2

I don't see this much here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:42 PM
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If the guys you want to wait ask if you had sex faster with other guys would you respond honestly to them so they can have an informed decision in their dating lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:52 PM
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Many women require trust and connection before going that step regardless of how hot he is. That's true, but I would say that even I, as a man (with some social anxiety), need a little trust and connection to have sex with a woman. It's just much less than a woman who's not into casual sex needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:05 PM
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Read again, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:51 PM
2

Why do so many people claim that most women are attractive? I can understand this. I can easily say that roughly 90% of women that I see are unattractive I don't think I've ever seen a woman that had both an attractive face and body. Now you lost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:56 PM
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Saw some posts about balding men shouldn't try to hide it/try to hold on to their hair. I think when a guy who's obviously balding uses a combover he's better just shaving it. But if you're like a Norwood 2 the advice is exaggerated and you can control it with the finasteride pill, minoxidil, etc. In the end, if it looks good and real then it is good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:52 PM
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This reminds the time I lost my virginity, as I was fumbling trying to insert my dick, and she asked "have you ever fucked a pussy" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:03 PM
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But if you’re virgin, do you date or have you dated much? We're assuming the virgin guy wants to date and stop being a virgin. He doesn't wanna stay that way. Obviously I would be curious if someone was a virgin after 20, but it’s mot that interesting. Again, we're talking about a virgin guy (not) being desired in a dating context.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:58 PM
1

Does he need to be hotter to compensate for this compared to other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:38 PM
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you’d be lucky if there was one chad- or stacylite in your city, Exaggerated. But I agree our generation is seeing more attractive people (via screens) than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:38 PM
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I think it's to prevent the "ince loser" retort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:15 PM
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They're not listening to politics, but as we already know some views on different topics tend to go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah, pussy is the virtue portal. If you haven't been through it you're definitely a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:50 PM
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We could say women are into dogs, horses ad cucumbers if we're gonna generalize weird sexual practices for a whole gender too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:48 PM
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Lol you just said "don't be mad when..." to him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:46 PM
1

Sounds unsexual and too outcome dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:46 PM
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''I'm sorry but I prefer someone who is fit/has a different body type'' Even this is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:26 PM
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Lol I meant more of a kinda angry, serious expression
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:03 AM
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He has an above average facial structure and eyes but the bowl hair and the caterpillars above his eyes harm him. Good for him those are easily fixed with good taste and a good barber.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:45 AM
1

This is vastly exaggerated in informal talks about fin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:36 AM
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If you need 10 years to look like you lift when you're shirtless you're doing something really wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:33 AM
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Sluttier women who are in an environment/social situation where they're more open to having sex tend to be more attracted to slightly angry, arrogant, less agreeable men. Yes or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:31 AM
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Do you think we already have a generation of young adults who were raised in this lack of socialization and are socially stunted?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:26 AM
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extra domestic labor Just noting this is way after the basic, early dating that's being talked here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:14 AM
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Weeks, months in social circle? Shit, sounds like disinterest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:08 AM
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a lot of men are really bad at reading the room, subtleties of first impressions and such. Wdym? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:58 AM
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He said he's open to LTRs and can stay in a country for years. Also, he's mostly looking for something between a hookup and a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:54 AM
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it’s also a means for fun so if a man’s not paying, wooing and overall trying What do these things have to do with fun? How the absence of these things, one of them being prostitution, impede fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:48 AM
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I don't know how these would influence male loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:13 PM
1

Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:15 PM
2

men who date younger women usually have younger mental ages Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:28 AM
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Finally it came up in a discussion does a person look better to you, overwhelmingly nearly all women said yes. This is something women literally know. This part is not clear to me. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:16 AM
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Women were never meant to date for looks for safety reasons How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:14 AM
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On the most active dating age (18-35) though the overweight rate is lower than the general population, although still pretty high. Also, women are not fond of fat men too, generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:13 AM
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But IMO there is a few near-universal Chads besides the contextual/type Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:09 AM
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Dude, you're being cucked. If they have these many options and none are good enough, most probably these women have inflated egos and cannot look themselves in the mirror. Oh wait, yeah, all these men are bad options for Plain Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:29 PM
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She was once a woman with a lot of options, before all the kids and marriages. Not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:25 PM
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If you see an attractive guy and then get to know he's a few years younger than you, you lose attraction for him? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:03 AM
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You always get emotionally imvested when the topic of problems that tend to come with middle age appears
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:12 AM
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If they're wider than the hips then it usually is. But they ca make the waist seem slimmer OTOH.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:28 PM
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The vast majority of women don't have that magnitude of attention but I get your point. Just switch "millions of followers" for hundreds/thousands and tens of comments instead of hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:26 PM
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Sounds more like the naive, low self-steem male orbiter trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:21 PM
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Preselection is huge in terms of having one (preferably attractive) woman demonstrating she's attracted to you and other women seeing it and taking notes that you're an attractive guy that can do well without their attention. I'm not sure how good it is for actually committed men, but it happens and attraction doesn't care to ethics (I'm not saying people should act on it though)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:16 PM
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Can you give specific examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:02 PM
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Asking the important questions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:49 PM
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It’s why none of the married women here never know what you guys are ever talking about What do guys here talk about that the married women here don't recognize?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:28 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:03 PM
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Well, there's more to it than calories in and out, but that's the most important and primary aspect of losing weight (or gaining). Sorry if it hurts your hardcore fitness mentality and makes you feel like a fool for being too hard on yourself 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:02 PM
2

Do you believe your average guy is living differently than the way he described?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:10 AM
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most women are married by the time they are 30. It makes sense for women to put in way less effort into their appearance at that point Yikes, sound like some bait and switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:07 AM
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Are you open to dating a guy who earns less than you (but still has his shit together)?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:02 AM
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I saw tons of them. I have a question... which percentage of men out there would you consider hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:49 AM
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Do the comments I see about 30 year old women being less attractive and undesirable reflect reality? On one hand, yeah, they're somewhat less attractive than girls in their early 20s, they're at an age where their prospects have somewhat diminished by the fact women tend to date a bit older and most men are already committed by then, if she wants to have kids and finds her self single she might hear the biological clock ticking. On the other hand, they are just at the start of a process of decli…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:45 AM
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I'm curious, what are your standards for a men, especially in the having his things together part?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:26 AM
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Did you read his comment? He said most women at that age get fat and/or have kids. If a woman is not fat, doesn't have kids and is nice she will not have any trouble dating. I know this. You know this. The red pill knows this. Yeah, doesn't negate what was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:37 AM
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Maybe people misrepresent what they want in a partner? Or even don't know what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:14 AM
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It's more like pity/contempt and knowing which type of people to avoid and red flags to look out for me by this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:02 AM
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Lol you had to chime in with this comment, to the point of saying it to a woman who has a trauma with other women Men behd always
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:10 AM
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Tyler Posey has a pretty obvious jaw and chin asymmetry and despite it he's still attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:38 PM
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Eh, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:50 PM
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I think she meant the amount of men who fit her standards and are not disgusted to look her way, those can be counted on one hand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:16 PM
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This a very well crafted bait, not gonna lie, gotta gove you that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:12 AM
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Yeah, we can see your logic hurts lol 🧠😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:10 AM
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Let's try using our brain capacity to reason better and not make sarcastic supertirades: -The guy might not want a relationship -The guy don't want a relationship with a girl who is substantially less attracted to him than to other men she had before
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:09 AM
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Try using the brain capacity that you have and realize that people have kids at different ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:01 AM
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Wait, so you said more than 1 out of every 3 thoughts before creating the rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:01 PM
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Username doesn't check out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:21 PM
1

i would have thought the opposite WAW effect it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:48 AM
1

The average person is like 5'7"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:32 AM
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How do you know all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:05 AM
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Do it if it doesn't compromise your budget
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:35 AM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:33 AM
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Tell this to yourself, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:28 AM
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So we are just gonna blatantly contradict ourselves in this sub now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:03 AM
2

Yeah, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:56 AM
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how all men need is a job, shower, teeth and they can find someone Yeah, that's true for women too or maybe they don't even need all that, and I'm talking relationships too. And it's not like the guy who only has these basics and nothing more is gonna find an amazing woman, so the bar is low for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:56 AM
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Your point changes all the time. First you ask if he would date a woman who didn't won the genetic lottery (described as the top 1% by him) and obviously the answer is yes. Then you asked if he would date a 5 if he was/is a 7. Now you're on some BS about online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:52 AM
0

If 70% of people shit on the floor it suddenly becomes a high standard to just ask for someone that doesn't shit on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:44 AM
0

You gotta use your brain right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:42 AM
3

just magnetically drawn to degenerate assholes How do this works, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:32 AM
1

Yes. We are very mixed in terms of race and color where I live and it wouldn't be a shock. Male, early to mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:57 AM
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It's not about who has more options. A man with options often has to say he's not ready for something serious and is wishy-washy about the future. A man with options has a great chance of being with women who will want to settle down with him but not reciprocating it, even though the women have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:41 AM
1

Licking the side of his lips
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:21 AM
1

Yeah, just keep married, even if you don't want to, that resumes society well-being
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:07 PM
1

many women want it too, Wow, such an argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:06 PM
1

Most of us will never meet a truly top 10-15% person You'll never meet someone who's a best in 7 people in society? Are you imprisoned in someone's basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:16 PM
1

She thinks men do the same, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:14 PM
1

Of he was a straight woman or a shovel he wouldn't want to date her and it wouldn't be a problem. Troll attempt failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:08 PM
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be who you are, and accept what the market will give you Yikes. No changing yourself? Social skills, fitness, grooming, game?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:34 PM
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I don't think there are many guys trying to twist that. Most know it's 30% sexless in a year which is not a very comforting data.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:26 PM
2

You're confusing sexlessness with virginity, and it's actually 30% if I remember well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:23 PM
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It's past 12 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:20 PM
3

I thought the brain fully developed thing at 25 died and became a meme, but no, it's still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:13 PM
1

“Struggling” in my opinion would be trying and failing at least 50 times a month. Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:54 PM
2

Why men over 30 specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:53 PM
0

How common are pickmes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:40 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:30 PM
1

When it got overused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:39 AM
1

You seem really pressed when people don't support cheating, boyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:28 AM
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Really? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:14 AM
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men only wanting hot models I love how you put "alleged" on women's standards, but just claimed this absurd quoted phrase. There's basically no men out there who just want hot models.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:09 PM
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Why so salty?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:32 PM
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I remember some girl here recently saying that porn is the cause of the dating market getting harder for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:55 PM
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This could have its own post. Generally, I agree. But sometimes harsher women, or women who are giving advice to the men in their family will go for a less beta approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:23 PM
0

Wow, hahahhahahahhaha soooooo funnyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:04 AM
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that’s the signs of a dude who is constantly getting flaked on by other girls and that’s NOT attractive at all. I understand it, but this is one of the toxic aspects of dating as a man. Don't show you're getting flaked, act as if you were not. Put on an act of being desired and having an abundance when it comes to women in your life. It can become tiring and feel fake to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:24 PM
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any tips for how I should go about leveling up and dating wealthy women in elite circles. I'm a beautiful, black cis lesbian in NYC and I am tired of paying my own bills lol. 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:24 AM
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Asian or African?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:15 AM
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Asian or African?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:12 AM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:04 PM
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A 7, I would say. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:01 PM
2

People like the one you're responding to take a general talking point and apply to individuals who never said said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:16 PM
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I think there's a big difference between a man passing the looks threshold and then behavioral and status factors starting to count and being necessary to garner attraction AND destroying the looks threshold and being in a position where the woman is already majorly attracted based on that and just not fucking up with behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:52 AM
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That's probably not gonna happen, why do you think super attractive guys are socially inept? Anyways they already surpassed the biggest hurdle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:13 AM
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I know preferences vary, but this is highly unlikely: a “9/10” to you might be a “1/10” to me and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:57 AM
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Yeah, but one of them is much harder to have. The hot guy just needs to not shoot himself on the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:34 AM
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I think a lot of guys struggling aren't even trying actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:48 AM
0

How is porn part of the reason for sexlessness? Isn't it symptom instead of a cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:41 AM
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How does consumption of porn makes the dating market worse for men? Can you actually explain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:35 AM
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Hell breaks loose
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:16 AM
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Because the premises are absurd too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:14 AM
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She said that once she and Nate are married, she will turn her "sexuality" back on and she will want to have sex every day Spoiler: It won't turn back on. At least not for Nate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:29 PM
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Gabriel Jesus Hope this guy does better at the World Cup than in the last one, since it's an almost sure thing that Tite is gonna cap him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:37 AM
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I agree with most of what you said and upvoted, but... Like imagine being in high school and liking fat chick's. Like really really really fat. Morbidly obese. What would happen if you show her to your friend group? I can't think bringing a very conventionally unattractive girl to a group of not very mature people (high school kids) is akin to an adult woman presenting their boyfriend to their friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:57 AM
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OP asked what a certain character/behavior trait is and you came up with pictures of attractive men lol It basically alludes to the idea that everything comes down to looks and personality is just how looks are perceived
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:35 AM
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Lmao Stand up for your first statement or at least have the sneakiness to delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:18 AM
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Why she wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:06 PM
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What's your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:54 PM
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Nice. But that's not the vast majority of cases
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:41 PM
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Huh, it still doesn't weed out the ones who would approach and pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:28 PM
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If you're in the US a 5'2" man is in the 0.65th percentile for height, which means only 1 in 154 are that short or shorter. I couldn't not notice how you said you couldn't date anyone short because they don't approach you, as if you couldn't approach them yourself. I'm not talking about this because of the "short" thing, just how you basically said you would have issues with dating a certain demographic because of that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:41 AM
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No, they aren't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:13 AM
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He can easily find a woman much, much more attractive than her. I can agree she's not bad looking tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:16 AM
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Never had it. I would get cheekbone fillers/implants. Hopefully it would make my eyes tighter too. Maybe a rhinoplasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:07 AM
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I think it goes down to: The positive correlation between having female friends and being successful in dating as a guy, so these guys who struggle have a higher chance of not being in women's social circle. There's probably a different definition of "struggling". I've seen a woman here say that any guy in a relationship is not struggling (without addressing if he's satisfied in it, how hard it was for him to get it when he was single, how he's going to be if he gets single again). They probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:57 AM
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Wait, guy no2 is very tall and very handsome and can't get women interested in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:48 AM
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And how do you think that translates into women not knowing any unsuccessful guys in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:47 AM
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Yeah, but does the settling, in height in this case, leads to resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:39 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:37 AM
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I dunno. I think they would probably be neggy, rude, avoidant guys towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:57 PM
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I dunno. I think they would probably be neggy, rude, avoidant guys towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:57 PM
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He is okay looking Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:36 PM
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all the men are hot 6’ white dudes that make 6 figures and have 🔥 personalities and hobbies. You're the only one saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:39 AM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:30 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:35 PM
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Where did the short guy hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:33 PM
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Being sarcastic and then saying something that doesn't negate what he said is not that much of a counter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:29 PM
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25 year old men are, on average, more physically attractive than 20 year old men/boys. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:32 PM
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The tendency for their potential mate pool to shrink as they themselves achieve higher social and financial status due to an in-built hypergamous nature. I will set a time to cry for these poor souls 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:06 PM
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Goalposts moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:02 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:53 PM
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Uhh... he's talking about a successful professional
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:29 PM
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Not really. It applies to average women and even below average women, sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:10 PM
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Men go younger because younger girl still don’t know their worth and don’t have high standards this is how they can exploit them. That's a nice way of dealing with not being as attractive as in your 20s. Tale a look on 30 women on social media and dating apps Lol where they are caked up with filters and makeup? Why not look at real life? Only high value men can afford them You must be talking about high-end prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:35 PM
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she used to date “hot” and now she doesn’t want that anymore. That’s called growing up. Is it? Or is it not being able do get in a LTR with "hot" and having the biological clock ticking? Many women don’t care about a guy being super hot nearly as much as men care about a woman being super hot. Yes, but many do. And all of them care to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:32 PM
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GenZ women make their own money and have their own independence. They don’t need a rich guy. I disagree. The economy is shit, it's hard to live on your own and young people are launching off later. It’s also just comforting for undesirable men in their 20s to think that things will get easier in their 30s. But the truth is, if you aren’t desirable in your 20s good chances are you won’t have better luck in your 30s. Which percentage of guys do you think are desirable, in general, in their 20s? An…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:27 PM
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you better pay for that, because nobody will hand out a college pussy to you for free. 🤔👀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:21 PM
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It applies to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:41 PM
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I’m sure there are some but usually you see that in someone’s mid 20s after they get some independence and start a career. What if they only get their independence in their early 30s and/or their career only get in a good position by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:21 PM
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It's almost as if men and women valued different things in their partners to different extents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:13 PM
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I disagree. 4 years at that age is a considerable age difference, it also gets bigger when you consider that men tend to go for women a bit younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:21 PM
1

???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:17 PM
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No. It's kinda telling that's how you chose to interpret.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:45 PM
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I would say behaviour can make a woman more attractive in the eyes of a man, it just can't change a "no" into a "yes" like men's behaviour can do for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:11 AM
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I partially disagree. I think Chad can do pretty well with only ONSs and FWBs who really recognize it as something casual, thanks. He won't be hungry in this situation. But in order to maximize his success, attract the most attractive women he can, keep FWBs who started catching feelings and wanting to go exclusive, some alluding or straight up lying would be required. Anecdotal: not sure if you have been close friends with a Chad, but there are women giving IOIs everywhere he goes, and some str…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:19 PM
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I think he's saying that there are younger men who want to settle down and have kids, but these men are not attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:16 AM
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tldr: women only respect men they're not attracted to if they're castrated. fuck women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:46 AM
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When people say to go for less attractive men so you get better treated I think it's usually in the context of having a bigger chance of getting a long-term, comitted relationship at first, not necessarily how one would be treated in such relationship. I notice that women often interpret dating subjects being talked about as happening inside a established relationship, while men are often referring to matters that happen before anything is established.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:56 PM
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Might not be all women, but it is a huge part of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:28 PM
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Those are not in the conversation, since the ones who want to have children are the ones being talked about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:13 PM
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Funny thing is you can live really well with 40k US dollars in my country and paired with being a 8/10 it would be a dream. So if that can be applied definitely 8/10 with 40k
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:58 PM
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One still might love a person's look at these conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:24 PM
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Lol that's pretty achievable natty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:23 PM
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Physical attractiveness peak? Probably. But that's not the whole subject here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:21 PM
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Part of the minority? Nobody's saying it doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:09 PM
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Men really seem not attracted to the vast majority of women including most women they date and/or sleep with. What gives you this impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:50 AM
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Have you considered cutting your balls off? Like literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:45 AM
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they also don't want their opposite sex equivalent. want a woman that is completely out of their league they don't want to be with women who look comparable to themselves. I don't think Stacy-chasing is as common of a problem as you make it out to be. A lot of average guys are having a hard time with their female counterparts. I can agree with the lack of disposition to put in effort though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:20 AM
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And that guarantees he doesn't struggle with dating, he will easily find another girl when they break up, as the bar is low s/ obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:21 AM
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You're coming with strawmans. I don't think anybody here says that most men can't get in relationships in their lives and are condemned to a life of loneliness. They're talking about how hard it is for the average man to have an abundant dating life. It doesn't take a genius to recognize that even though most men end up in relationships at some point that means it's easy or the bar is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:11 AM
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Lmao do you make a effort to have the shittiest takes here? People can't complain anymore because some girl was losing her legs and still smiling?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:38 AM
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Yep, all the time. Happened to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:02 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:59 PM
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Lmao at calling other people defeatist. Do you believe there's literally somebody for everybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:52 PM
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Lmao you dumbly assumed a literal expression was a slang
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:30 PM
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Bit why she was surprised at him wanting to continue the conversation as if it was some weird thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:25 PM
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Society can’t stand that some of its women grow so much more sexy over time. Huh... that's pretty rare unless over time you mean from ternage to their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:23 PM
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By 30 most women have established that they are easily capable of getting attention, casual sex and relationships from pretty much any guy, Just wanna point out that the vast majority of women under 30 (or over 30 for that matter) definitely can't "get relationships from pretty much any guy". Even casual sex has quite some limitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:21 PM
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Most people aren't finding their spouses on Tinder lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:51 PM
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I remember there was some info from a study out there that concluded something like "men do more effort to look at attractive women than women do to look at attractive men" but I can't find it. Does anyone knows about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:21 PM
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They're not attracted to most guys who aren't creepy or weird, still. Stop the just world fallacy. Pussy is not the portal of virtuosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:45 PM
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Do you think there's anything wrong with his comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:41 PM
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You're choosing only what you want to see. What about the guys here happily embracing the possibility of easy casual sex, of being desired and pursued? Having open relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:40 PM
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I don't disagree with everything you said here, just want to point out that male singers and athletes have hoards of groupies because women are hugely attracted to status, it's not like the guys could choose to have many women worshipping them or your average guy would choose it too. Female singers and athletes don't have it because men are not nearly as fazed by status. OTOH a regular, anonymous hot girl will have, proportionally, much more men attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:36 PM
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I feel like this deserves its own post, at least a Q4W in the Daily Chat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:37 PM
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aren’t women who are desired for their attractiveness beta as well?? Why would they be? They want to be desred based on what? i feel like applying alpha and beta on men kind of applies male sexuality onto women. Eh, no, women are attracted way too much to the "alpha" (attractive looks, personality and behaviour) for that to be true. That's female sexuality too. The guy who's desired on material provisioning and stability only is not usually much of a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:37 AM
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I don't think this is wrong at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:39 AM
1

I always like seeing outsider people reacting to PPD lingo and concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:36 AM
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The less women stay in the dating market the bigger the competition for them will be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:34 AM
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not to mention dm'ing girls on instagram is better than dating apps if you have good social proof How to have good social proof on Insta?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:16 AM
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But 5'8" handsome guys are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:40 AM
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DMed you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:37 AM
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What about looking old? Your body breaking down health wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:37 AM
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Women do not always want casual sex all the time. Yeah, but nobody said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:06 AM
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But did they established they wanted a LTR only?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:06 AM
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It's wrong to have consensual sex with a woman? Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:05 AM
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This is not happening in the vast majority of the casual sex being had out there. Also, often two people have sex, go on dates and see where it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:53 AM
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They're already having their cake and eating it too. Lol how are they doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:47 AM
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My best friend is like this - attractive, fit, kind, caring, occassionally parties and is a fun time, but also is financially and emotionally responsible... Men are constantly trying to wife her. Well, that's obvious, she's the complete package if what you're saying is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:44 AM
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Interesting, most women seem to think the contrary. Why do you feel a man's body is more important than the face, personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:32 AM
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I dunno where you're from but that's not the standard body type in most places lol Seems like outdated US body standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:20 AM
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Being a classist, probably racist, piece of shit isn't the only way to being high-status, considering your story is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:05 AM
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That can be good if you have the head shape for it and a nice beard, as you seem to have. The problem is holding onto, like, a Norwood 4 without shaving or doing anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:52 AM
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Wait at least a year with each man could be a good advice 👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:30 PM
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If you think women don’t overlook the hot guy for the one with more money you’re mistaken. We don't want to be chosen by money. You also better have the personality to match this amazing look you have or else your looks mean nothing. Lol look around, that's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:11 PM
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If you don't have a job you don't deserve no pussy quite honestly. Lol what a cucked way of thinking. So teenagers and college students shouldn't have sex? Even an adult guy who's unemployed can't have casual sex or a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:10 PM
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that can provide stability and lead a household. That's convenient and even important for a marriage, I give you that. But that's not gonna sexually excite a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:05 PM
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Okay, but please stop being obsessed with the time part and observe how it is if one person is givng all the attention and the other is being aloof and glued to their phones. Do you think its is a good experience to the first person?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:58 PM
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Can you actually argue against what's being presented?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:14 PM
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There needs to be a 7 inches difference to be considered significantly taller? Geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:10 PM
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Status lead to genuine desire
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:43 PM
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This is not about established relationships. This is about the courting phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:06 AM
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Whatever. Do you think it is bad advice for a woman to try out what the other guy suggested?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:01 AM
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Well, they're not completely separated. Casual sex often lead to a relationship. People who just want to fuck each other, knowing it previously or not, will often go out on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:56 AM
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I don't know where you're from, but it's pretty damn common to people who are going on dates but still not comitted to have sex. Also FWBs are pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:54 AM
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I love how you complain about empathy but fail to have any about men's problems. Also the women who fucked men they were attracted to aren't victims, unless they were lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:52 AM
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Yeah, which has a good chance of it ending up in him being used, having his heart broken and then going to dark places or at least trying to not be desperate from the start, which is, after all, unappealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:24 AM
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Read again in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:19 AM
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Why not do it since you think having a husband is such a hassle? Or get some sperm donor so you can have biological children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:31 PM
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But the problem is wooing tends to be one-sided, and we know which side usually performs it. That's the reason of the complaint you've quoted. Are you incentivizing men to expect women that woo them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:18 PM
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By "X" you mean a person or an action?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:08 PM
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The people that think Chad can score on them on demand are delusional. By "them", do you mean Gigastacies or women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:07 PM
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Thing is cheating doesn't mean man didn't bond with his partner. This is why a lot of men are lucky that women prefer monogamy. Otherwise we all would do the harem thing and share Chad. Lol unattractive women wouldn't even be able to get a crumb of Chad in this scenario. Even average looking women would struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:43 PM
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Mostly, fucking different men for casual sex in ONS, FWB arrangements, flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:56 PM
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yet they are telling men to embody what women who are passed that are more likely to prefer than the younger women. What they're telling men to embody that harm their chamces with younger women? I mean, it's not like getting fit and lean will not help guy's chances with young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:41 PM
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😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:03 PM
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That's a cute shaming tactic. It works on insecure people if they adhere to your frame
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:03 PM
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men are video game playing, masurbating, waifu collecting man children Projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:47 PM
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It can definitely be. The amount of times a woman hit on me or on other guys and girls around shown clear interest signals to the guy that was hit on is just insane. It's very predictable. It's not guaranteed, but preselection is one of the biggest things to make a woman attracted to a guy she otherwise wouldn't have noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:28 PM
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Read again. Social proof is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:24 PM
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Lol it's pretty damn obvious that when a guy has a woman, preferably a hot one, showing she's attracted to him other women will take notice since, like, school days. I think you're talking about another concept when you say preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:18 PM
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The definition of marriage is a joint venture through life where assets, money, and property are equally owned by both people. If someone views things as "mine" or "Theirs" then they shouldn't be getting married. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:55 PM
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I agree completely. Wouldn't dispute that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:43 PM
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That's an endearing revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:33 AM
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However, men being “emotionally hurt” by strange women choosing to sleep around and then settling down with provider types? It's not just about a strange woman it's about being aware of a general trend. If the guy is a provider type or treated as one I don't think it's needed to say how it would hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:43 AM
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4/10 for 250k feels like a no brainer tbh A lot of people would still choose the 8/10 - 60k even if the 4/10 came with 250k.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:21 AM
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The first one, surely. I thought it was gonna be some fuck-you money to compensate from the abysm between 4 and 8/10, but 100k isn't even all that, and 60k is very livable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:20 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:54 PM
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Do you spam out random phrases unrelated to the topic in discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:30 PM
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Yes, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:31 PM
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the only thing the man has to do is stay hard for long enough, because I need a few minutes. Most men couldn’t even do that Were you finding your sexual partners in a retirement home?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:36 PM
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Considering that if a man cheats, he's less likely to have sexual opportunities in the future. Why? Doesn't make sense to throw away a consistent access to sex, for the one "off" rare occasion to have sex with another woman. The idea of cheating is keeping the consistent woman, not throwing her away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:06 PM
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Most men don’t get pussy thrown in their face for simply existing, while most women get dick thrown in their face for just breathing. I look at this statement and have the opposite conclusion of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:04 PM
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And? It doesn't change how much looks matter in the dating scene
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:46 PM
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I hope you're not calling two adults mutually agreeing upon casual sex as "a guy using a woman for sex". Paying for it defeats the purpose of being actively desired by a woman, and at that point it's better to just pay for an escort who looks the way one wants. The sex per money transaction is also disgusting 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:00 AM
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You could be a man and look like Chris Hemsworth but if you're broke, all you'll get is the occasional casual sex at best. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:03 AM
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You're not minimizing the sexual assault people suffered, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:33 AM
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Don't people your age and older hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:29 PM
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Yeah, whatever the semantics are, it takes people off the market, it keeps women occupied.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:29 PM
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Women chasing after a man are almost always demanding and reduce his activity levels, if not restrict him if he likes her enough, which always happens to passive men. Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:02 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:53 PM
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because you don’t want to hear that you have options from other men, it’s easier to hear it from women because you can reject it as is not understanding. Wdym? Which options are that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:42 AM
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Some people manage to do it 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:36 AM
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Yep, but you danced around after and said "well in their 30s", basically excluding early 30s, my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:53 AM
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like we don’t need a partner to have a baby, just sperm and it’s really not that hard to get. Huh, not the smartest decision. I mean it's a bit easier to raise a child and pay for it with a partner. This one sounds much more like a revenge fantasy as it must be really uncommon for a single woman decide to get pregnant alone, so yeah, the biological clock is pretty real 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:34 AM
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How does a man become a beta buxx within 6 months of dating. Your question doesn't make any sense. A man can be a beta buxx from the start, I don't know why are you inserting timeframes in it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:31 AM
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I think you're misunderstanding. What I see here is the frustration about not getting casual sex and having to "settle" to an LTR to have sex consistently or at all. Getting in a LTR with a girl that you're not attracted to is a huge lose-lose for the guy who wants casual. There's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:31 AM
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B-but women only get with men they find attractive!!1!! "You all start out as alphas for your SOs but lose it in the process 💅"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:10 AM
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Are you some kind of female black piller? I mean, y'know a guy can be attracted to a woman who's not "attractive", right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:03 PM
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N count is mutable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:06 PM
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Another: “women find 80% of men unattractive” (the infamous OKC study) Why is this one a male projection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:43 PM
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So you think women were weak, whinny and entitled and still are and men became all this too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:15 PM
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Which doesn't deny the analogy???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:01 PM
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This seems to be a big troll account
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:49 PM
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Y’all won’t understand this because you’re still thinking about female sexuality as the mirror of male sexuality. What do you mean, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:01 PM
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To be clearer: the guy's just trying to understand why the "incel/bad with women" attacks are so common. I mean, he might have already reported them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:55 PM
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Not the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:37 PM
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Again, males will fuck anything even women they aren't attracted to. No, we won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:48 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:41 AM
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Q4Women How would you feel if your SO treated you well, loved you, was thoughtful and romantic, but you somehow discovered he isn't as sexually attracted to you as to some past partner and other random women who have a hotter body, a sluttier aesthetic and a more confidently sexual attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:00 AM
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they all want to dress like sluts 😏😋🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:11 AM
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I think men usually have, in a way, a low self-steem in which they think they have to adapt to everything a woman wants and needs and not ditch her for having unrealistic or incompatible expectations. There's also the fear, real or not, that some of the standards and expectations are universal among women, so there's no point in not accepting this girl if the others are gonna be just like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:58 PM
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Most women here disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:09 PM
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I think that refers to all marriages, not only first marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:34 PM
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That's not what he meant as cheating the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:34 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:30 AM
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no one is supposed to know that we’re dating. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:24 AM
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You got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:21 AM
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Lol It's your own responsibility to decide to fuck a guy who haven't said if he wants to commit or not. Your post is ironically showing lack of personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:27 PM
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Based on what she wants to believe to feel better about herself. "The best are the ones who like me."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:17 PM
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Women that would give me a chance when I was chubby most stopped making advances or showing their interest in me as obvious as before. Why do you think that is? Insecurity on their part?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:47 PM
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Given the options presented, good body, slightly below average face. Male
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:07 AM
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Huh, try paying more attention whenever the 80/20 OKCupid study gets brought up. There's a group of beings saying that the women still messaged the guys they rated below average as some sort of consolation/dismissal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:57 PM
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I do not see the problems men bitch about in this sub Well, these problems are about men, so it's not surprising that you don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:18 PM
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So... what's the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:52 PM
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Obesity? Nah. Obesity in itself isn't desirable but obese people can still have attractive faces. It is rare for an obese person to have an attractive face since it changes it's proportions and makes the face wider and chubbier. It also makes people's bodies much less attractive in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:55 PM
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Huh, that's the OPs point, Walmart is full of older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:47 PM
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God, never let me fall in a relationship with a woman who would rate me a 1, 2 or even 3 in a scale of 1-5 in terms of physical attractiveness, amen. 😔🙌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:41 PM
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Is it happening on a large scale? I dunno. Was just questioning Lotus82 about if middling women only wanting highly attractive guys is a major thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:19 PM
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It’s not for me or anyone else to agree or not agree with it, it’s just the way things are. Well, so you agree. Who people like has nothing to do with you, so why can’t you just live and let live? This is a debate sub about the general state of dating not about any individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:10 PM
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I get cat-called less, and the men who do comment me on the street are so polite Interesting. Why do you think this happens? Maybe a higher socioeconomic class look attracts less crude sexual remarks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:30 AM
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Well, firstly a lot of men want to be with many women and not only find one. Secondly, if you want to find the one, you're better off having a good quantity to select from and go from there, as opposed to having to attach yourself to a scarce amount of women that will probably lead to nothing. To finish, while women are not a monolith, there's a lot of commonalities and things that the vast majority of women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:20 AM
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So you agree what he described happens in a large scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:09 AM
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because they're clearly all uninterested anyway! Do you mean this literally or you're imitating the guys here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:11 AM
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You're gonna post this copypasta everywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:02 AM
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the idea that only model-attractive men are in relationships Nobody says this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:58 AM
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Just because our priorities change as we get older does not mean we are settling, in fact women are going for exactly what they want What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:56 AM
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I'm curious. Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:08 AM
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That's why I tend to focus on young women while I can. Plenty of time to be with 30-somethings in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:57 PM
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The mental difference between a woman and a child may entail different reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:16 AM
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Huh... I had a fling with a girl whose girl friend was being kinda cock-blocky in the night. I've had made out with the girl in a party two days before and she approached me at another party and we started making out and dancing there. Ended up going to her home and spending the night there and had a short fling just before the pandemic started. She treated me very well the whole time. I think her friend was kinda jealous that my girl found a guy she's very into and vice-versa. I also felt some …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:06 AM
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This didn't remind you about the simple differences about the aforementioned groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:48 PM
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It doesn't need to fit into typical tropes to be a betabux situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:17 PM
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Nah, I don't think so. High anxiety men would like for women to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:55 PM
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I can't imagine myself being in that situation or anything remotely close to it. Thankfully my behavior patterns about dating don't lead to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:20 AM
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"Absolutely nobody thinks it’s “totally fine” for Leonardo DiCaprio to be dating as young as he does, bro." Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:04 AM
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You really think nothing would change if plain people got attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:28 PM
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We aren’t like men where we would smash anything and everything we can get just because we’re honey Am man and wouldn't smash anything just for being horny. Standards go down somewhat when I'm horny, yes, but it's far from fucking any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:09 PM
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Not about ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:57 PM
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Not about you. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:56 PM
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ROFLMAO yes you can. Do you understand this is not about you, but about women as a whole and many of them have different patterns than you? The vast majority of hookups are not between old friends
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:55 PM
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I know they would because they think that means they are desirable, but hookup guys aren’t really desirable, they are just convenient. Oftentimes the hookup guys are the ones a woman desires the most, I mean, many women in this thread say a guy being hot, or very hot is a pre-requisite for it. But I've seen the hookup guy being just convenient at the moment, and not particularly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:24 PM
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I admit I may be an outlier What makes you think that? How do you think most women operate? hook up skill set and others from husband skill set What's part of each skillset?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:33 PM
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media meant for women And what's this media meant for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:12 PM
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Yep, there's also "the personality is more important than sexual attraction for a boyfriend"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:51 PM
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us dude are supposed to be attracted to a girl being chill and nice, Are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:47 PM
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I think it pushes away the self-respecting dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:13 PM
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somewhat attractive to someone) don't get rejected and don't get cheated on. Ok. You believe men who are somewhat attractive are never rejected? They get everyone they approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:05 AM
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DM me pics 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:22 AM
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As a woman I can experience attraction immediately, Men feel immediate attraction even more prevalently than women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:10 AM
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LOL It's a good response that frames it in a way like she's interested, but it's very unlikely to have the calmness to do it in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:55 AM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:34 PM
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It doesn't make sense. Why the bottom 80% of men couldn't be attractive to some extent and get someone for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:04 PM
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Your sarcasm is kinda cute, you probably feel intelligent doing it and all, but no, expanding the atidy results to genwral dating will not lead to being extremely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:52 PM
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The guy being good-looking will attract a lot of women, having the possibility of hookups, like you admitted, or finding a woman who's okay with his other characteristics for a LTR with relative ease. A guy who's average looking or worse with a degree and who's not conservative will not attract as many women juat because of these traits, who act more as a way of sorting people out for LTRs than attracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:21 PM
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No, you don't. Women would never ever look at other guy in front of their partner!!! This can't happen at all!!1!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:48 PM
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If I ask someone out and they smirk or get weird when its for just a coffee I tell them I changed my mind Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:26 AM
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I think it's more about someone sending one text, time passing and the person feeling like they were ignored and desperately sending another to not lose attention. But your way of viewing it is very wholesome 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:54 AM
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Eh, a gender swap would make many women incel, looking at their pics in their post history...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:23 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:57 PM
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her be a stay at home gf Yeah, as I live with my parents I basically don't care about her income lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:51 PM
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The guy is hot. The advice was about matches that the girl isn't that interested and would get the ick from the guy's looks. No, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:31 PM
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What's the point of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:23 AM
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Are you a boomer or smth? Doesn't mean a person would be unfulfilled in a monogamous relationship with one of the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:10 PM
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Or maybe get off OLD and meet more matched women in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:13 PM
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Dude, cover Idris Elba's torso in this picture and imagine he's 5'5" and chubby lol It would be completely another person attractiveness-wise https://images.app.goo.gl/Fou5PD44PHeDZ2SF6
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:00 PM
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Everybody can do that by going where women are and socializing with them 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:41 PM
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His loss, your gain. It feels good to find a girl really hot and your friend being like "Huh, yeah, she's OK". Feels like less competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:23 AM
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There are plenty of anonymous people out there who are more attractive than famous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:21 AM
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It's interesting that you didn't say never coming up to approach in a dating context. And what's the problem with ppl not coming up to ask for directions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:58 PM
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I can get why guys who follow that stuff see him as attractive. Or you can just look at his pictures and see that he's obviously objectively attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:22 PM
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Yeah, I know, but calling all these men average just shows the passion in the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:20 PM
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The effort being made to not give a position lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:16 PM
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Dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:06 PM
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Oh yeah, bitterness and being a drag to be around, that's the cause of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:35 PM
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Y'know there's bad science being done out there, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:34 PM
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Yeah, I see women I wouldn't fuck even with your dick complaining about the attention they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:13 PM
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NPC
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:10 PM
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the vast majority of women aren't looking for a fling I think you're underestimating it, but maybe you have a different definition of "fling"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:51 PM
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I don't think that's the point he's trying to prove...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:07 PM
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What features are part of your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:07 AM
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Tell us more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:56 AM
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This thread feels really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:40 AM
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As i became fitter the quality of women i was able to date decreased massively. The quality decreased?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:38 AM
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I don't think that the majority of men struggle with dating. I disagree, but we probably don't have the same definition of "struggling". You also probably don't have much insight on what men have to do in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:19 PM
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Short for a woman is different than short for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:02 PM
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If he wanna date a woman out of his league then he does have requirements lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:00 PM
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If he wanna date a woman out of his league then he does have requirements lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:00 PM
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Women also fuck fruit, plastic objects and animals, if we are going to generalize peculiar behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:30 PM
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So you don't care much about how much a man makes, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:12 PM
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I think it's a matter of not having a bedroom to do it and a bathroom being the best private option available.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:52 AM
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i can get behind. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:21 AM
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Another night at my waiter gig at a party venue last night. PPD Highlights: -My friend is avoiding his FWB who occasionally works there because he got turned off by her fucking our boss in the bathroom in one of the parties. Oh, she also has a boyfriend. -I'm not still thinking about the skinny busty girl in a short red dress with curly hair braided at the side with a "bad girl" face. -Guy who started working there ditched his ex-wife to be with another woman who works there a couple years ago. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:17 AM
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Do you think the demeanor you're talking about is also present in Latino men, at least in the stereotype?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:31 AM
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I wouldn't call what most people are "Goldilocks" but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:12 PM
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men put you through hell for 2-3 years. Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:25 PM
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Don't worry, he will find a woman on his level and settle down. But there will be women who got involved with him and didn't get the commitment they want. I don't know why you assume he will never settle down and why you're bringing age into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:00 PM
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those are more fun anyway Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:27 PM
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No more exercise than the muscular guy with a layer of fat you said before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:33 PM
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What are you trying to accomplish in this sub? Are you some FDS sewer rat or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:14 AM
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Uh, that's not how it works for a lot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:22 AM
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Oh yeah, always the misogyny is the one to blame for the lack of success. It fits perfectly in a just world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:20 AM
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How does that relate to watching lesbian porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:36 PM
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Like if you actually go outside most men who are in relationships are very mediocre in terms or looks and income. What do you want to prove with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:29 PM
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Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:08 PM
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If you need hot or sex, buy it. We don’t have that option, whiners You actually have that option, you just don't need it. If you’re in a relationship, you’re not struggling What if it's a bad, unsatisfying relationship? What about the amount of rejection he had before that or how he would go if the relationship ended, as OP said?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:54 PM
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Woman no wonderful People, including women, (potentially) bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:50 PM
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You can search up research about the topic instead of denying obvious things in a new trolling account.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:40 PM
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Where do you live? Which factors do you think contribute to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:24 AM
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the chance is much more fewer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:00 AM
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Men are more physically attracted to the average woman than the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:39 AM
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What ever metric you pick, women will skew towards it. Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:58 PM
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Well, you have the right to be severely unknowledgeable in statistics and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:31 PM
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He's making fun of your advices. Just ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:07 PM
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What in the way you look makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:28 AM
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Would you like a woman who was first interested in casual sex with you changing herself to a "good girl" as soon as she discovers you have a good job/income? There are many guys who would love to transition to this zone but they are struggling with it I think it's very rare for a guy to have an easy time getting sexual with women but not being able to get in LTRs. Other struggles are much more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:00 AM
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I arrived late, post it again please 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:41 AM
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I think this is that BigBlackCat semitroll. Writing in minuscule and always using "dead bedroom" and "divorce rape" in quotations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:43 PM
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'beta brad' that can't keep his eyes off IG models or develop emotional maturity Eh, I don't think that's the problem with "beta Brad's" attractiveness. You make it sound as if it was about character flaws, just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:30 PM
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Yeah, and there are a good number of young guys who will message her there, both that she knows IRL and unknown men that she might follow/be followed by. She wouldn't get as much attention without social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:55 PM
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Why are you so obsessed about it being monetized? Do you have any counterpoints to the content? Also, you can find the content for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:11 PM
1

What change in you lookswise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:48 PM
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Or maybe Hollywood is not just about looks and more about acting skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:46 PM
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I mean, she can lose the weight. Probably won't look as attractive as before, but she can improve from where she is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:33 PM
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Rich men are already a small minority and the ones who prefer fat women are a minority inside the minority. A huge percentage of women are overweight and almost all of them won't end up with a rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:39 AM
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Yeah, classic solispsism. When a man is called husband material and also not casual sex material, at least speaking by myself, he would probably feel like he's seen as a stable, safe, boring, unsexy, uninspiring guy, especially considering that if a woman is doing a casual sex assessment about the guy she's a casual sex haver herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:52 PM
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I concede that men don't see the bottom of the barrel girls when talking like this about women, but that's like the bottom 10-20% of girls. The average girl is definitely included when guys are speaking about women, is not just the Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:57 PM
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Got it. And also why women keep saying "husband material not casual sex material" and meaning it as a compliment not realising men... Do not. Being called husband material and casual sex material is great compliment IMO. But a woman specifying husband material and not casual sex material... yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:52 PM
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For a LTR? No. There are not enough Mr. Rights for most of these women, the few Mr. Rights out there are getting with attractive, interesting (and mentally sane) women and will rarely commit to a girl like this. It might happen tho. Unless you have a more humble definition of Mr. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:48 PM
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women have their own desires which we admittedly project onto men. Which desires women project on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:47 PM
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Congrats, man. I would just say your current experience is not only slightly above average, is much above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:04 PM
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That's not the young guys statistic, though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:48 PM
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That's an extreme example though, a featherweight pro fighter (who's a 155-170lbs guy who dehydrates himself to 145) could beat up the vast majority of untrained or amateur big guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:52 PM
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Eh, I don't anybody ever seriously said 23 yo is post-wall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:41 PM
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Really? Why she should care that her SO think of her and treat her as ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:23 PM
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Nah, women also have an advantage when it comes to more serious dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:25 AM
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Does he work for stranger companies that pay in dollar/euro?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:51 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:52 AM
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Seu amigo trabalha com o quê?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:49 PM
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Ih, rapaz
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:47 PM
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Do you really believe that or is more like an emotional rant? I'm not American btw, so I'm just watching in the sidelines
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:46 PM
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