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By basically ignoring it. Treat her as if she is single and make sure you escalate, before you invest too much emotions in her. Don't be afraid of her talking about her boyfriend, but don't encourage either.
/r/seduction08/09/14 04:54 PM
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Texting is more personal, however at this stage it's somewhat irrelevant. If she actually wants to spend time with you, she will regardless whether you ask by text or Facebook. Also dinner may be too formal considering how casual your initial meet up was. Phrasing it as "a bite to eat" or simply coffee would be better. Ultimately I suggest you ask her a couple of days before the weekend, to join you somewhere.
/r/seduction01/09/14 11:25 AM
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You did fine, asking her out was good instead of waiting for her to be online forever. There are a couple of things you could improve on. "But chatting on Facebook is kinda boring! You like pizza? I'm free tomorrow, if you want to meet up. ;)" It would help to be more assertive e.g. "we should hang out" as opposed to "if you want to". Pizza is a reasonable suggestion, but you can always invite her to a cool event or restaraunt e.g. "Benny's has the most amazing pizza". If you know some of her li…
/r/seduction01/09/14 09:24 AM
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What makes you say it's things you can't change? And even if that's true, then can you improve in other areas? Can you get a better body? Can you dress better? Can you tell more interesting stories? etc
/r/seduction31/08/14 09:08 AM
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-As for the girl that added you, remind her of the interaction you had (reference to something funny, personal etc) then just ask her out -There aren't any major differences between short term and long term relationships. A first date is essentially the same. The only thing you may need to be mindful of is the girls expectations. Some girls will consider you a player if you escalate quickly, which can work against you (and of course it can be neutral or even positive).
/r/seduction30/08/14 11:59 PM
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Religious girls are more concious of being used for sex/intimacy so be aware of that. However you still need to convey that you are a sexual person, and not merely a platonic friend. Like any girl you have to find the balance between being sexual/forward with your intentions and conveying that you genuinely like them and won't use them. It seems like your problem is really that they don't find you an attractive person for whatever reason. Go through the dates in your head, and run through the us…
/r/seduction30/08/14 11:42 PM
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I'm mixed race and I've had some girls find me extremely attractive because of my tan skin, and others finding me too Asian. You just have to roll with it.
/r/seduction18/08/14 08:50 AM
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There could be many reasons a particular girl flakes. Most of the time though, it means she liked you enough to give you her number but not enough to see you again. Like with the grinding girl. Maybe that night she was extremely drunk and looking for fun. When she sobered up she didn't want the same thing, so you become disposable.
/r/seduction13/08/14 11:16 AM
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By practising and seeing what works. A girl might give you an opener, and you just need to create some kind of sexual comment around it.
/r/seduction10/08/14 10:23 AM
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Based on real life I'm above average looking (or least perform above average). On Tinder I do awful and it is a confidence killer when you swipe 100 girls and only get dribbles. I'm aware I need better photos but I can't see any way to go about that.
/r/seduction07/08/14 10:40 AM
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Take her on a date which costs minimal/no money, then just escalate. Alcohol, cafes etc are not necessary to date girls. My favourites are national parks, walks, botanic gardens or art exhibits.
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:23 AM
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There is no problem with attempting to 'date' both of them. Obviously if it's successful, at one point you will probably want to become monogamous with one. But you aren't at the point just yet, so just ask them out and see what happens.
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:22 AM
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I think it's pretty important to not smell bad, but not necessary to smell good. Also men can wear perfume, cologne is essentially a marketing gimmick.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:33 AM
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I've just skimmed this but it sounds like you come off very intimidating, and girls are letting you do weird things to them because they are afraid. It's no wonder you are getting no where when you basically rape them. Girls can be extremely passive, this does not mean because you can touch them, that they want you.
/r/seduction30/07/14 07:16 PM
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Go to every single social even you can. Seriously. College is the best time of your life to meet people, and that includes girl. You can easily meet dozens of new cute girls a week if you go to all the various clubs and social activities and parties.
/r/seduction30/07/14 09:52 AM
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Oh, you rock climb? That's cool except that I don't give a shit. Hang gliding? Unless you have a story that's interesting about it (and not just that you get to hear yourself talking about you hang gliding) I don't care. No one does. The rest of your post is spot on, that how you present is more important than the topic itself, but you have gone overboard here. People do care what hobbies you do. If you mention you dance, most girls are immediately more interested. If they happen to do dance the…
/r/seduction26/07/14 11:24 PM
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Kissing a girl is a relatively easy thing to do. If she never sees you again it means she ultimately didn't like you that much, the problem wasn't the kiss itself.
/r/seduction26/07/14 12:10 AM
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I disagree. The higher value person CAN show up later, but this doesn't mean they have to, or should do. As a guy I always get there on time, or a little bit early. I hate it when people waste my time, so I don't waste theirs.
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:53 AM
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I will dole out deliberately offensive humour to see if she has a sense of humour or confidence. If she is offended and says so, it's good. If she jokes back, it's great. If she just looks offended but says nothing it's bad.
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:51 AM
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Sounds like good advice. One of the mistakes I made with the Chinese girl was not doing this, I just left the date with a make out and a "see ya". Thanks mate.
/r/seduction23/07/14 08:15 AM
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Sounds like me. I'd like to hear about your experiences. I think a major contributor to my 'player' persona is that I rarely talk to girls outside of dates, e.g. I'd text/facebook once a week at most with a short conversation. I hate the idea of being needy so I only share myself in person. When girls see me as a player, and I only contact them to date, this would seem to solidify their opinion of me as someone who doesn't really want to invest in them.
/r/seduction22/07/14 07:49 AM
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I think my problem is I want to have my cake and eat it. I do want a long term relationship with a partner I respect, but that requires a few dates to ascertain and in the mean time I'm happy to fuck around with girls. P.S. I'm only half white devil, the other half is Asian.
/r/seduction22/07/14 07:46 AM
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Find something important or fun to do with your time. When you have nothing to do with your life, suddenly that one text from a girl becomes so much more important. Why are you chilling at home?
/r/seduction21/07/14 09:26 AM
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There is nothing wrong with conversing but keep in mind your goal is to meet her and solidifying the nature of your relationship.
/r/seduction21/07/14 09:25 AM
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If a girl reciprocates with long conversations and is engaged texting you, then it isn't a problem. The trouble is you can easily invest more in the conversation than the girl which comes off as unattractive.
/r/seduction21/07/14 09:02 AM
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I guess I'd say the following: -Don't text excessively in the first place. -Keep it light and funny. -If the person likes you, they will carry the conversation as well. If the person doesn't like you, its going to get dull. -Kill the conversation before it gets boring.
/r/seduction22/06/14 01:02 AM
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Write down a list of any hobby you've ever wanted to try and then work out the logistics of fitting as many as them into one week as you can. That might include things like salsa dancing, boxing, archery, horse riding, painting etc Many places will offer a first free lesson, or have meet up groups that participate, or talk about hobbies.
/r/seduction12/06/14 12:38 PM
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There's already a lot of good answers here so I'll just add/repeat. -Make sure you introduce the idea of sex or physical intimacy during the time you spend together. This can be dirty talk, flirting, making out, kino etc -When the date is coming to a close try to make sure there is some still some sexual chemistry there e.g. making out, hand holding -Ask her over to your place with an excuse, ideally something that builds on what you've talked about earlier. For instance maybe you mentioned you …
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:41 AM
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Negging has always seemed like a strange concept to me, why not simply tease them? Teasing is extremely effective.
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:37 AM
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I'm not sure how any reasonable person can say "Looks don't matter". To say so is to say that looks aren't a factor at all in getting laid, which is clearly complete bullshit. Looks do matter, when handsome guys have so much more options with girls, and find it easier to be successful with women. Does that mean looks are the only thing that matters, or even the most important thing? Of course not. Game is real, and very important but as an ugly guy you have a much bigger hurdle to overcome. Some…
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:34 AM
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If I'm actually working, or out with friends, I don't respond to social messages through Facebook, SMS etc. I have better things to do, like interact with real people or do my job. Obviously if the message has some priority like arranging a meet up, then I'll reply a lot faster. Most people work that way. I know there are more extreme examples with girls (and guys) who will take hours to respond to any message. But that's just what some people do. I know a girl who took 2 days to respond to a te…
/r/seduction09/06/14 09:04 PM
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Here are some examples: One girl who wants to date only has Sunday open, if that. Another girl I've dated is about to sit exams and is socially shutting down to study. In both cases I don't know how to balance creating opportunities for us to get together, without constantly asking them "I'm doing X, care to join me?".
/r/seduction09/06/14 04:32 AM
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"Hey, how's it going" usually works. Or use something in the environment as a topic, e.g. "Oh man these chips are amazing aren't they?".
/r/seduction08/06/14 02:53 AM
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Busy just now. Maybe this weekend or next week.
/r/seduction05/06/14 08:25 PM
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Nah but I have friends there.
/r/seduction03/06/14 10:14 AM
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These kind of questions tend to have high response rates, but do you close from them?
/r/seduction03/06/14 09:00 AM
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Really helpful post for me just now. Dealing with a girl that is acting hot and cold. Already identified two mistakes, so I may have to let her cold.
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:37 AM
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Some girls will react badly to the idea of you of being a player, since it implies you may simply use them.
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:30 AM
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There is no reason why you can't spend an hour a day learning basic Japanese conversation. Even a few sentences will make people extremely receptive.
/r/seduction28/05/14 08:43 PM
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Great advice. I have a quick question; should you go for a number close or exchange Facebook first?
/r/seduction28/05/14 08:23 PM
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Yep good learning lesson anon. I think it's best to lead the encounters and make it clear when you want to hang out. As opposed to waiting for the girl to tell you when.
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:52 PM
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Flaking happens a lot cus girls be crazy. It's important to make sure you maximised your attraction of course, since the more the girl likes you the less likely she is to flake. As for continue to invite, I'd keep her number in your phone as long as you deem it worthwhile. I wouldn't continue to ask out more than once a week, and if I know the girl through friends in real life I'd give it a three strike rule before it gets awkward.
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:51 PM
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Others seemed to have covered this but 'negging' is essential. It shows you haven't put the woman on a pedestal, that you're funny, confident and observant. Another way to look at negging would be 'teasing'. It's not really a foreign concept when you look at it that way. Obviously overusing negging is undesirable.
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:18 PM
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The seduction industry is build on the idea that seduction is a skill, which can overcome any physical boundry. Unfortunately that isn't true, and your genetics (height, skin colour, attractiveness) all play a strong role. That said I have friends that are 5'4 and can pull attractive woman. If you really are ugly you may not have a 100% success rate with the girls you want, but you can get some of them. So buck up buddy.
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:08 PM
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Sure. Currently my weekends are good.
/r/seduction02/04/14 09:58 PM
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Was thinking of making a similar topic myself. New here but been hanging out at uni social clubs. Still don't have the balls to day game, would love to meet up with like minded guys.
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:52 AM
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Its a rather long winded post OP, but you are correct in that approaching girls is a far more valuable experience than reading books, posts, watching videos etc.
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:30 AM
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"Is it weird that I like sucking dick?"
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:29 AM
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In my experience its to do with chemistry. When you meet a girl that gels with you, you don't need to second guess yourself ever, or try. Why? Because you can see that everything you say is gold, that she laughs and makes interesting conversation. I've met HB9s who I put less effort into HB6s.
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:27 AM
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I'm an introvert, need a lot of alone time. For me personally the best thing is to not force things and make sure I'm at my best for valuable social engagements. If I am not feeling social, and I go out, I will not perform my best whether it is hitting on girls or making friends with guys. I can feel how much effort it takes me, and how apathetic I am. In extreme cases, I will entirely shut down and become silent. On the other hand when my energy is up I'm extremely confident and charming. So ca…
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:24 AM
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A lot of great material here guys, thanks so much!
/r/seduction31/03/14 09:16 AM
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"Following your dick" works pretty well. Any time I feel like making out, or more, and I follow through it works. This is even when my brain is telling me otherwise.
/r/seduction31/03/14 09:15 AM
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I'm tempted to buy it but I'd really like to do it with a buddy.
/r/seduction28/03/14 03:22 AM
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Great suggestions guys. Any ideas for day time?
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:41 AM
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One thing that always strikes me is that some people can be amazing at picking up girls, but not actually be interesting people. They don't have any interesting life experiences outside picking up girls. And so once they spend extended time with one girl, the girl realises this and the spark fizzles. Is this in anyway applicable to you Taken?
/r/seduction06/03/14 05:03 AM
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I would disagree that online dating isn't worth the effort. I would say that its not worth putting a lot of effort into. If you are handsome, you can easily score dates with girls and you can use copy and pasted or short messages. I've dated several girls that way. It becomes a problem when you rely on them solely, and put a lot of effort into the sites, like crafting a perfect bio, messaging girls excessively.
/r/seduction03/03/14 04:59 AM
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The amount of confusion/hate for you pursuing after missing a first kiss attempt is ridiculous. Either way you got what you wanted, so good one you.
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:14 AM
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To clarify, you mean bringing Girl A somewhere else? This was definitely possible, though what would be my intentions? Too build more rapport? Go for a kiss? I'm kicking myself now, because we are both in the same city for the next 4 days and I could have at least gotten a number if I'd taken my phone.
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:11 AM
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