FirefighterAnxious93 Archive

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-1	Are men who never had sex immoral? suck his dick harder bro. you seem like you’re gonna meet the same fate. again, i have friends. goodnight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 01:57 AM
-1	Are men who never had sex immoral? this is why you’re a virgin	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 01:53 AM
0	Are men who never had sex immoral? elliot rodger’s was a whiney baby who did nothing but sit around and bitch all day about how women and successful or attractive men have it too easy. he wasn’t bettering himself, and he wasn’t smart enough to draw the obvious conclusion that he is the issue. funny australia comment. it’s cute when you’re sassy. if you’re gonna ask women for their anecdotal experiences don’t get mad when we don’t say what you want us to say when we provide our anecdotal experiences. i have never seen it, meaning …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 01:50 AM
2	Question for women regarding online dating and too many matches never a “hey” or “hi” or “wyd” it helps if you can make a joke based off her bio. hopefully not the same on she’s gotten a million times before. you’ll have a waaaaaay higher success rate if you ask her a question, cause she’s gonna wanna know the answer you were thinking of. (example: “you know who you look like?” usually the guy will say “my next girlfriend”, but i occasionally get a celebrity comparison. a question that isn’t something like “how’s your day”) don’t be afraid to message again t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 01:19 AM
3	Are men who never had sex immoral? i don’t think this applies to nice men, or at least it doesn’t for reasonable women and i can’t answer for the illogical women, just as reasonable men usually can’t answer for the illogical men. i don’t and i have never seen another woman shame a man by calling him a virgin with no previous context of an argument or a rude comment from him. it’s not like if a guy asks a neutral and good faith question about women like “how do women do makeup in the car?” he’ll get a “shut up virgin” from normal …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 12:34 AM
3	Are men who never had sex immoral? honestly i don’t really have much to say on the first part. i don’t even consider men i wouldn’t potentially allow to father my children to have relationships with me (i’m not saying every boyfriend is someone i want kids with, i’m saying if i wouldn’t be at least “satisfied” with an outcome of my sons being like him or my daughter being taken to prom by a guy like him, i won’t do it) so i can’t relate to the women who are specifically attracted to these types of men as relationship material. i …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 12:24 AM
3	Are men who never had sex immoral? i do think it plays a large role, certainly there are other factors. i think we excuse certain behaviors by saying “he’s a guy, guys are dumb” and things like that instead of saying things like “some of the best thinkers ever have been male, they can’t be dumb by default. this behavior must be a result of a lack of understanding of women’s perspectives or a blatant disregard for women’s perspectives. both of which are things that can hopefully be taught” i think when we tell young men that men a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 11:24 PM
3	Are men who never had sex immoral? i empathize with those feelings and that’s why i try not to paint all men in complete generalities while i do wholeheartedly understand why many women do this and the reasoning behind it. i never say all men, i try to not even just say “men” but prefix it with “some” “a lot of” “the majority of”. you’re not getting disagreement from me there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 11:05 PM
1	Are men who never had sex immoral? intellectualizing your emotions is not the same as controlling them. you can feel angry about something, know you have no right to be angry, still feel angry, yet react in accordance with the knowledge you have no right to be angry. that is controlling your reaction and actions. trust me, i’ve been through enough therapy to know. you’re not teaching me much. and a lot of unattractive people are creeps. so are a lot of attractive people. the difference is attractive people have a redeemable quali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 11:01 PM
3	Are men who never had sex immoral? serial killers are fooling the police (whose literal job is finding clues and criminals) for usually years at a time and you think they’re not able to deceive their family and friends? it’s very believable and still happens although it’s also not the norm. also, in my experience it’s the opposite. i am surprised when a serial killer or murderer has lived a well adjusted life with a relationship because so often that it just not the case. there’s no statistics readily available to say what percen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 10:57 PM
4	Are men who never had sex immoral? you’re forgetting the primary rule of who gets sex. it’s who is hot. i never said women have no agency in their decision making, i recognized social conditioning and the affects it has on many women.in this same thread i brought up female child predators, do you actually in good faith believe i don’t think they’ve done anything wrong and are mere victims to their own actions? be serious. i also mentioned some women having weak moral compasses and a pathetic desperation for romantic validation, d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 10:34 PM
1	Are men who never had sex immoral? women are constantly told to ignore their intuition. intuition is not this mystical super power. it’s hypervigilance. look in these comments telling women they’re immoral for feeling like certain men are creepy. you can’t say women’s intuition is trash when you’re constantly undermining it and berating women for listening it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 10:21 PM
4	Are men who never had sex immoral? how do you explain the men who call teenage boys who are victims of rape or sexual assault by hot female teachers lucky or call them gay if they don’t enjoy it? there are people who think with their metaphorical dick everywhere but they’re not indicative of the vast majority of the population. there are many explanations. women are socialized to fix their partners and accept harmful behavior from male partners. immoral people are often great manipulators. some people just have weak moral compass…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 10:11 PM
6	Are men who never had sex immoral? that’s controlling your actions, not your emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 09:52 PM
2	Are men who never had sex immoral? no, but i will say a lot of us are rightfully weary of men who are older virgins because many of them let their insecurity and frustration fester until they hate women since they feel owed sex. that’s the basis for incel communities. example, elliot rodgers. he wasn’t a particularly unattractive man but he was unable to gain access to women he felt entitled to due to his absolutely shit personality and decided to murder women and the men who women chose to sleep with. this is not the vast majori…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/24 09:28 PM
–	What do women feel about the wives of famous athletes who exhibit narcissistic and attention seeking behavior? brittany is mildly annoying and pretty problematic for other reasons but her bikini photos are not something sane women care about. she works hard for her body. she works hard to maintain it, she works hard to get back into shape after each pregnancy, and she is allowed to be proud of the way she looks. we don’t care. she herself is an athlete (women’s soccer) and i find it no different than when nfl players post a picture to show off the body they work for. as for the children, i think everyone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 05:20 AM
1	If they love you, they don't need a ring on it. i never said otherwise about a ring. i said i dont model my relationships after people after homeless people (who are most likely together for survival and have trauma bonds) and that it doesn’t surprise me that these people living in poverty do not have the resources to have a ring. their love isn’t stronger or more selfless cause there’s no ring. they just can’t afford a ring. and marriage is not just a piece of paper. with that reductive reasoning, jail is just a room and a sentence is just a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 11:11 AM
2	If they love you, they don't need a ring on it. a homeless couple doesn’t have possession over a piece of jewelry typically worth thousands of dollars. and other news, fork found in kitchen. i don’t model my relationships after homeless people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 08:06 PM
0	Most Women are too trendy to trust their dating advice, so asking them is pointless read this post back to yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 06:00 PM
5	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... no evidence doesn’t convince me that it didn’t happen. most of the women i know that were raped or otherwise sexually assaulted didn’t go to the police or the hospital, especially when we were younger because that would’ve meant telling our parents and reliving it in front of multiple doctors, nurses, police officers, case workers, etc. not wanting to be with someone based on their reputation happens all the time whether the rumors are true or not. obviously rape is a lot different than a consen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:59 PM
5	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... that’s a hard question. within the first maybe 3 months it’s an absolute deal breaker, i don’t know him well enough to have even a fighting chance of knowing if he’s lying. it also depends on how forthcoming he is about the whole thing. if i hear about this 5 years into a relationship and he starts off saying he doesn’t even know her and then switches to “yeah we dated for a little but she’s crazy” then it’s over. if we’re talking about past loves gone wrong or our worst ex of all time a year in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:47 PM
11	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... if he were to rape me, the previous allegation very most likely wouldn’t be false and the conversation from the majority of red pill men would not be as empathetic as the response you’re giving right now. you say the “false” allegation would have no bearing whatsoever on my risk assessment, but unless i could verify that it absolutely wasn’t a credible allegation it absolutely would call my risk assessment skills into question by most people. men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:26 PM
9	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... i’m not really even sure. i think i’m prone to the fawn response in uncomfortable situations with men so i’d probably throw out a “that’s crazy” after hearing his version of events, try not to seem too shaken up for the rest of the date, and block him once i’m safely home. i don’t even know if i would send a text to tell him why before i blocked him. i know i probably should send a text, but i wouldn’t want to risk making him mad if the allegations are true. of course i would want to get up, tel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:11 PM
31	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... i’m automatically done. i have no reason to believe him (basically a stranger) over another stranger, and statistically it’s a lot more likely that what he’s saying isn’t true. i’ve been assaulted and so have the majority of my female friends. every assaulter denies it. even the ones who later had evidence come out against them. i understand there are cases of scorned women doing this, but statistically the men you’re most likely to be raped by are your romantic partners, family, or friends so t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 01:32 PM
1	Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive? if i’m dating a guy i often find him really cute but still slightly below me in looks. that’s what i usually go for. i’m still attracted, but the personality is what draws me in more. there still does need to be initial physical attraction, cause love can only trick me so much lol. i’ve been with guys i find earth shatteringly hot but they’re kind of intimidating. so short answer; yes but the attraction builds as trust and good conversation does. initial attraction is a necessity for me. i don’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 01:19 AM
1	Q4W: When/How to approach yes as long as you stop at the first sign of discomfort that you notice (like a dirty look, “mhm”, nervous laughter, disinterest in conversation, etc) and assuming you’re an average normal guy that will be easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 04:32 PM
3	Q4W: When/How to approach i mentioned in my comment that all women are different and what i find appropriate or inappropriate may be the total opposite for another woman. there are some guys i know who want their balls stomped on when fucking but most guys don’t 🤷🏻‍♀️ there are outliers to everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 03:10 PM
4	Q4W: When/How to approach open to being approached: doesn’t have headphones in, receptive to any attempts at eye contact or a smile if you do make eye contact, for the most part not having a resting bitch face. i’m guilty of this one by nature but i do for sure put on a bitchier face in public if i’m in an area of town where men get too friendly not open to being approached: waiting at a bus stop or on any public transit (cause we can’t walk away if we’re waiting for the train that takes us home that comes every hour or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 02:03 PM
2	q4w: In your opinion, without deflecting, is there anything a woman could do to lower her overall value in the dating market? if you’re specifically talking about child free by choice men then this wouldn’t apply. it would probably be a plus since you can’t compromise on kids and it’s a relief to know you agree. i was more so referring to the general population of men, because i think most men do want kids or would at least be hesitant to swear off the idea of kids entirely. there’s also a type of misogynist that believes kids are a woman’s sole purpose or that not wanting to be a mother makes a woman “defective” or co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 03:15 AM
4	q4w: In your opinion, without deflecting, is there anything a woman could do to lower her overall value in the dating market? wait why antidepressants? is that a common “not marriage material” marker? btw i saw your comment after commenting and we said a lot of the same stuff. great minds think alike 🫡	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 12:30 AM
3	q4w: In your opinion, without deflecting, is there anything a woman could do to lower her overall value in the dating market? yes, duh? i’m not even sure why this would be debatable. whether or not it’s a woman’s “fault” for being in these specific circumstances it is undeniable that it changes her “value” in a sexual market place. that’s just a fact -children out of wedlock -being in porn/having an OF -std’s -choosing to be childfree -refraining from adherence to the beauty standard (absolutely zero makeup, zero hair removal, being overweight, not wearing uncomfortable clothes or shoes that are seen as feminine or sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 12:29 AM