Firm-Break-641 Archive

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2	People want for relationships is strongly tied to what they have been taught and culture I think I was pretty direct, my points were: 1) It's not cultural, it's innate human behavior 2) The reasons it's innate, and has been the case for so long, is because romantic relationships provide social and survival value. 3) The reason you don't see the value in these relationships in modern human life is because of the system built by humans in the last 30-50 years more so, to compensate for the absence of a lifelong partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 03:24 PM
3	People want for relationships is strongly tied to what they have been taught and culture What I was trying to explain, in my humble opinion, a romantic relationship is way more than just emotional dependence, it's affecting almost every fabric of your personal life. That is also why people take partner choosing quite seriously. As you wrote, having a partner is having extra responsibilities from paying for shelter to driving someone to the doctor when they are dying, it's not just a cultural belief system, it's very much a survival and instinctual need.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 03:06 PM
2	People want for relationships is strongly tied to what they have been taught and culture That is again, coming from a place where you hope all these systems that make you a free individual that is content with their social liberal life are still set in place. Whether it's work, healthcare, mental care, even as small as daily social interactions. You have the privilege to say "I think people have to value a bit more being less dependent" today, this wasn't the case for thousands of years and might not be the case even in the future. Close relationships are an infinite value in human …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:56 PM
2	People want for relationships is strongly tied to what they have been taught and culture Friendship could be enough, however a romantic partnership is still considered much closer for most people that have friendships. Yes, it's social dependance. You also depends on all the systems built around you to make life easier. We can only be hopeful that they will continue operating normally as individuals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 12:36 PM
2	Men are more ethical, we don't sell our bodies First, men are probably the least ethical because they are not able to turn sex into a commodity due to low demands, high output. Gay men, bi men and straight men are way more willing to be dangerously promiscuous for free than Lesbians, bi women and straight women. Second, there are many gay (or straight, which some claim to be gay for pay) men who sell their bodies and are currently residing in Dubai for their rich down-low married men, they have tiktoks too. You hear less about it because tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 12:30 PM
1	People want for relationships is strongly tied to what they have been taught and culture If it's cultural in the sense that the culture is built around human nature, and in human nature you would rather be with someone than alone in your most critical moments, then yes. Even if younger people don't concern themselves much with how their lives will look like in 40 years, a lot of people get into and stay in relationships as some survival mechanism. In my opinion it is strongly tied to nurturing survival. If anything happens to you, if you need to call someone, if you need to share so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 12:20 PM
1	A guy swiped 2 million times on Tinder and only got one unsuccessful date from it. That tells us alot about dating. From the 2 million swipes i'd expect a lot more bots	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 06:15 PM
1	Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with it I would agree if it worked for the men and the foreign women, but "passport bros" is not really what it is made out to be. A lot of the men feel like they are getting scammed or used by these women, and despite them believing they will be shopping for a young docile beautiful woman, the women end up being even more "overbearing" and short tempered, considering the husband is seen as the financial support unit of her impoverished family. I fear for these women because they mistake western men for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 06:11 PM
0	A guy swiped 2 million times on Tinder and only got one unsuccessful date from it. That tells us alot about dating. That's a possibility, although I would think he would notice a pattern of speech by the bots by then, and not consider them a mutual conversation that is even worth answering. If the bots are anything like i've encountered before. If he didn't fall for one, he doesn't seem that stupid	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 05:59 PM
1	The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricature I see more so an issue of men having a difficulty with adapting to the reality of numerous women staying celibate and waiting longer to form relationships, either by choice or due to some personal issues. There's some lack of acknowledgement that women (as well as men) in general are becoming more reserved to the idea of relationships and flings in particular. The age of senseless hookups and easily impressionable teenagers is dying. Teenage pregnancy is at all time low, both women and men repor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 02:55 PM
3	A guy swiped 2 million times on Tinder and only got one unsuccessful date from it. That tells us alot about dating. It's important to mention that he ended up with over a 1000 conversations, so there's a lot to learn about how to approach women beyond the initial superficial impression of a dating profile, I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 02:28 PM
–	It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust. To be fair, for at least a decade and a half before this supposed shift, women were the butt of the joke in tolerating your future wife in most media. Getting married was getting 'chained' and 'imprisoned' for a man, 'bossy woman miserable husband' tropes, grumpy husband and sweet wife. That's without mentioning the romanticization of male obsession and domestic violence. Unfortunately, it seems to be associated with lack of sufficient emotional capacity from men in general due to social and per…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 02:08 PM