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I have come to the conclusion that while women have historically had legitimate grievances, and might yet have some today, feminism has never actually contained a structured philosophy that could act as vehicle for directional improvement for society. Instead it has only acted as a hostage situation, leveraging the future health of society for some vague idea of equality they can't even define, which allows women to justify any lifestyle they want, which has never been the standard for men. Men …
/r/MensRights19/05/26 06:34 AM
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Kinda. I think the main difference is that we mostly try to get along with each other whereas if we don't approve of a woman's behavior it is easier to just not interact with them. I can think of 3 men off the top of my head that I think are disgusting because of their sexual habits. I make a snide remark here and there, but it's mostly disguised as ribbing between guys. We work together. We have to be a little diplomatic about it. Those conversations wouldn't even happen if there was a woman pr…
/r/MensRights11/04/26 09:31 PM
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Interesting take, but giving bad social advice to other women usually means doing the opposite yourself. I do see that in some cases so maybe you're right. A lot of feminist writers, content creators, influencers, do advise other women in feminism from a position of marriage and motherhood that essentially makes it very hard for other women to marry. Maybe they consider themselves still in competition with other women even though they're married?
/r/MensRights25/03/26 01:02 PM
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Feminism is a gendered variant of Marxism. All Marxism should be condemned. Neither Marxism nor feminism has a monopoly on considering the welfare of women, the poor, or the oppressed and Marxism is considerably worse in execution.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 12:52 PM
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Medical research or medical?
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:31 PM
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I would say your right to not have your child killed a pretty big one
/r/MensRights15/03/26 02:30 PM
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Ah I see. So you were trying to make a point.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 02:18 PM
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Don't let some loser like him put you on the path to radicalization lol. I don't know if you said that as a joke or what but people like him are bad faith actors who are too stupid to realize the irony of taking the same position that women's rights are inherently misandrist. I don't follow this sub so I can't say how true the allegations are about this sub. I don't doubt there may be some of that but I highly doubt it would be fair to characterize the whole group that way. Any feminist group is…
/r/MensRights11/03/26 11:38 PM
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I saw a hilarious reel recently that pointed out that following "alphas" is definitionally what makes you a "beta"
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 02:41 AM
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This is why I'm against the draft. If the country isn't worth dying for, it deserves to die.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 04:59 AM
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RP's take on marriage has always confused me because it does seem like the solution for men and women cannot be reconciled. Men, don't marry, women, only marry. How can both be achieved simultaneously? I don't think my approach is that different than yours if you've suffered hardships in your relationship. Love is very multifaceted but within marriage it's also a promise in addition to a feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 05:19 PM
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I wouldn't call it infatuation. I do think it's love, it's just a very spontaneous and often transactional form of love, ie you do this for me and I feel this way for you, which is how relationships should be when they're functioning because it does require an exchange of duties, but inside marriage the relationship can fail to function normally and the failure of the marriage can still be prevented. When talking about marriage, the love you need to have is intentional unconditional love. You lo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 04:26 PM
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I also think it's useful to consider love in the same light. You can love someone and mean that you feel love for them and the next month you hate them and want to move on. When talking marriage, there's no point in talking about it unless you're talking a lifelong commitment. Any other commitment can last 5-10 years just as easily. A lifelong commitment isn't a commitment if you only keep it for a few years while it's easy and love is still strong and young. It's a commitment you make all thing…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 10:52 AM
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Instead, the definition of incel and femcel have evolved into some kind of trope of personality, each with its own gendered counterpart. You can be married and get called an incel for griping about women a certain way and when someone says femcel I immediately think man-hating bitter girl boss who will one day end up very lonely when her looks are gone. We all know what these words mean even if they no longer follow their original definition literally anymore. Calling men a waste of energy is a …
/r/MensRights16/04/24 05:04 PM
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The meaning of both have morphed beyond their literal definition. I don't think anyone is actually incapable of getting laid. It's just a matter of how low your standards can go. Many incels are truly volcels punching above their weight. Same goes for femcels. It's hard to truly qualify as a literal incel in such a sexually liberated culture.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 04:19 PM
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You don't need to move out of the US, just travel. Okcupid has a passport stack, where I met my wife. Tinder has airplane mode. The immigration process is just long, tedious and there are a number of fees but if you are in the Midwest, chances are you have some financial freedom at 30.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 01:12 PM
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Right, my point is that because so many people are dishonest or inconsistent with what they want, that's why it's so important that you act intentionally and portray an image of yourself that is consistent with what you want. Both men and women have dual dating strategies, as in they want to have their cake and eat it too. They want one type of woman for casual sex and one type of woman for marriage. Putting casual sex on their dating profile will deter potential wives. Women aren't any differen…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/24 11:41 AM
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I'm going to point out that the purpose of doing all that, keeping your body count low, not going to night clubs, not chasing after men of poor character, not acting aggressive and contentious. It's exactly the same as this guy who is saying he wants commitment and is serious about marriage and children but acts in contradiction. Your reaction to this guy is exactly the same reaction men have to women who say they want to settle down but have high body counts, maybe a baby daddy or two, still li…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/24 11:01 AM
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It might be influenced by RP school of thought but it's basically just mind games. It's a test, possibly as an excuse to ghost, since any reasonable person would expect a dinner date if a dinner date is planned. He is a pilot after all. What was the career of the other man, travel required also? HVM? Bit of a player? Maybe profile too curated? Some women have devised a test that if a man doesn't pay, he's disqualified as a suitor. Some women refuse to let a man pay because they feel like it's an…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 11:55 AM
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I knew you were smart. It seems you are keeping things in perspective. You aren't well acquainted enough for him to express many deeper compliments but he did express appreciation for you being a good friend and he complimented your smile which for me is maybe 10% physical. A nice smile is more about how a person smiles. Next time you see him, try asking him what he likes about your smile. I can guarantee you he won't say cute lips and nice teeth lol. Even eyes can be considered bright, warm and…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 02:17 PM
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I can't really say "orange flag" is unfair. Maybe a "yellow flag" but without anything else to go off it sounds like he's just really into you which is a fantastic thing to find if you can appreciate it. Do you like his compliments? That's the most important thing to ask yourself right now.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 01:57 PM
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I agree that it's a good idea to wait to tell him that until after you get to know each other a bit. No use leading with that before you even know you're a good match. Volunteering that information from the gate can come off as aggressive and give the impression that you don't take vetting into your own hands. Basically "anything you don't like, swipe left" as if it's not already implicit in the dating process. In some instances, that style of vetting can come off as impatient, entitled and bitt…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 01:41 PM
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It could be past experience making her think that, and also how people talk about love bombing online.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 11:57 AM
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To answer your question at face value, the answer is no. It's not inherently manipulative. I remember being in my early to mid 20's and not having a lot of dating experience that I wasn't as guarded about my compliments and gave many in good faith without even considering how doing so can create a power dynamic in a relationship with the wrong kind of girl or be perceived as manipulative by her. If you think the goal is to get you into bed faster, then don't let that happen. Let time be a tool t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 11:55 AM
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The funny thing is I define a situationship by two people with inherently different dating goals. You'd think it being a situationship in the first place would preclude the primary prerequisite for a real relationship which is wanting the same things and wanting them exclusively from each other.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 10:30 AM
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I think you're a very smart and practical woman but there's no way this relationship or whatever it is was going to go where you wanted it. I think you saw right away he's not ready to be seeing anyone. Back in the early days of dating apps, I thought okcupid's questions were really way better than anything else out at the time but it really opened my eyes to how irresponsible many women were by the kinds of answers they'd give to certain questions, especially thinking it's fine they're still hu…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 10:14 AM
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