Firm-Raspberry9181 Archive

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10	'I’ve invested too much time:' Reasons we stay in relationships longer than we should (The Sunk Cost Fallacy, among others) A LVX kept repeating “18 months! 18 months!” as he physically restrained me from leaving him after we had dated a year and a half. After putting up with his super-controlling ways for most of those 18 months, I finally broke up with him (that night, he had criticized some small purchases I had made, then wanted sex, and when I said I didn’t feel like it after he lectured me like a child about my spending [I make twice his income] - he went into a rage because “It’s BeEn TWO DaYs!” since sex) Thi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/21 11:48 AM
20	🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drives My red flag is men who “show off” or consider themselves “expert” drivers. LVX used to drive fast and loose in the snow! Anytime there was a snowstorm, he would drive FASTER, spin out on purpose (for fun), “test the brakes” by stopping short and skidding, etc etc. I was terrified. He’d do this with me and our children in the car. I’d plead with him to slow down and drive cautiously and he’d refer to his glory days as a young ski racer, and tell the same dumb story about the time he nearly went o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 12:33 PM