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Firm_Main/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:03 PM
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it’s a red flag when a guy needs you to be a fan of all his stuff but he huffs and rolls his eyes at anything you like. I encountered this so much while dating, adult (!) men needing their GFs to be into every show/game/song etc. I’ve also seen the dudes who need their women to follow their sports and love their Marvel movies too, but they’ll b*tch and moan if she wants to watch a foreign film or drama. I remember feeling really sad/kind of betrayed when I sat through hours of soccer games, even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:46 PM
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The ovulation thing is so true. Every time I get sad and hung up on my ex I check and yep - ovulating. Suddenly I forget all the bad stuff and the devil on my shoulder is telling me to screw my pride and text/call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:35 PM
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I'm someone that doesn't even like flowers (they're just such a faff - you have to get a vase and get the flower food and make sure they stay alive for ages until they die and rot in the bin then repeat). I find them a really annoying gift actually. I will never tell a man not to get me flowers or that I don't like them. One thing my mum taught me was to never tell a man 'it's ok, you don't have to do that for me :)'. He will take it very literally. Not only will he not do it, he'll not even thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:09 PM
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what does him being hard make it more or less likely he's into porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:49 PM
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Something I've found with men is that they always, always look out for each other's best interest as long as the only people who suffer collateral damage are women (and not other men). It's not in their mate's best interest to tell you him not paying is a red flag. In fact, if you are under the false illusion that it doesn't matter, the bar is lower overall and he can put in less effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:48 PM
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just as an FYI - it's not my gig but it definitely is for some - this is going both ways. FDS has advised that if you're getting super sexually frustrated waiting, then get a safe, discreet fuckbuddy in the meantime. The girl making him wait may have also been getting some release on the side. Unless they're exclusive, it's no harm no foul really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:19 AM
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Setting up an out from the start sounds good. Do you try bring the conversation anywhere in particular to help screen or is it mainly looking at if they can actually converse with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:31 PM
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It sounds like a great idea that I'd love to implement. How do you break the ice at the beginning of the call though? And then how do you use the conversation to help screen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:30 PM
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if a guy has less education but a good work ethic, sense of ambition and you can see a clear progression of his career in the future then he can be a HVM. In the same way, someone with a lot of education who is lazy, content with being mediocre and lacks motivation to make themselves better is most likely a LVM. Such a huge mismatch in your initial example would probably exclude him from being a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:58 PM
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have any of them responded after that? That's gold I might try it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 01:26 PM
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When this happens just don't write anything. After a few days if they are genuinely interested then they'll write. It's actually a decent screening since then you know they actually like/remember you enough vs just being opportunistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 01:25 PM
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they'll ask you to do something fairly innocuous - one of the big red pill websites gives the example of asking for her hand. If she complies, you show affection. You do this repeatedly to condition them, eventually asking for things that require her to go more out of her way (go get something for the guy, carry something for him, etc) and they'll also try to get you to the point where you do the initial request reflexively (instead of asking for your hand, they just hold theirs out and reward y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:57 PM
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More subtle indicators: Big into self-improvement. This doesn't mean he IS red pill, but red pillers call TRP self-improvement and claim that's what it's about, not being pricks to women. It's a flag, not a tell Compliance testing you Negs, particularly ones that are trying to prompt you to defend yourself Love bombing Quick physical escalation (kino) Honestly you're best to just get really into TRP yourself and learn it. Be aware that many of their tactics do work. You need to monitor your resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:03 PM
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lol I had a guy ask me to say 5 compliments since he was complimenting me too much and I hadn't given him anything thusfar. It's LVM behaviour. He should be secure in himself and be confident that he can perform in a way that warrants a compliment rather than asking for a cheap ego boost...if I had to ask for a compliment then it's not genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:11 AM
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