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Tell him you need him to stop being feminine and to initiate it like a man or you'll go find a real one
/r/RedPillWives08/08/24 07:40 AM

Honestly yes but when I say elsewhere I say to other women honestly. Women should just start dating women, we have enough semen in the sperm bank to withstand a generation of full-blown lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:43 PM
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Some of us did then got left after us 7 years. Not every single woman at 30 was a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:06 PM

they arent harming anyone. they deserve basic respect. murderers, rapists and pediphiles are the only people who deserve no basic human kindness. cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:12 AM

And you're like a bunch of rabid beasts that need to be f****** muzzled apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:28 AM

Men want a kinky virgin with looks over 8, no threatening ambition, doesn't argue or set boundaries, never leave the house, has no male friends, dresses modestly as well as never speaks unless spoken to. Women literally just want to be treated like humans, the trash taken out and pockets in our dresses and skirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:27 AM
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Chalk it up to reactionary abuse
/r/MensRights23/10/23 12:35 AM
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Why are teachers paid so low? why are the people who MOLD OUR CHILDREN academicaly the lowest paid people in America?
/r/MensRights16/10/23 01:47 PM
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No. The equivalent would be a trifling gold digger that bangs your best friend and maxes out your credit card then dips once you've been milked dry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:13 PM
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If a heavy older woman asked you to take her to dinner or got too close in an elevator and she smelled like ointment, would you react differently to a 23 year old volleyball player wifh ice blue eyes that smelled like cotton candy? Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:12 PM
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He wasn't breastfed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:10 PM
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Probably not. That sounds more like a trad wife to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:07 PM
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God I wish I could post a picture of my long term and me together lol debunkeddd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:40 AM
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Or...kobe bryant, Ryan Reynolds, Mathew McConaughey, John legend, Barack Obama Marriage is a gamble for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:39 AM
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youre the "nice guy"fasho. Hes more likely a "good man."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:19 PM
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wel, looks might not totally matter. not like they do for mens preference. Me personally I have a hard-on for patience. Just that level head, good man in a storm, "I got this." act of service kind of man. Abs dont do nearly as much for me as a guy that can handle my mini crisises
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:16 PM
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They dont comprehend hypergamy is not a choice. TRUST me i tried. I cant. you cant. NO WOMAN can lower her standards. not all of them anyway. we have to AT LEAST feel like he is out equal. we cannot stomach sex, or listening to him, we cant nurture him and be feminine because deep down we know we are smarter than him. The money isnt safe, he doesnt know what to do in a crisis, we cant stand his jokes which doesnt help us clean his nasty bathroom. But when we are with a man we genuinely respect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:13 PM
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I (30f)like it. Rather unbothered attitude has you ashing your cigar in this guy's mouth. It's sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:35 AM

No it explains why yall are all a bunch of sissies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:28 AM
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I say dick size filter!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:26 AM
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Yall have a tell too. Check his feet. Posture. And direct buldge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:25 AM
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There are some weiners we won't consider either. No matter how it fits in the body. You understand that's why height matters. Like, it's dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:23 AM
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Change it from height to duck size and you got a DEAL. man that would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:21 AM
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Worrrrrd. Ask ANY woman in your life. They can tell you either the name of the Coach/family friend that harassed them or the first time they were cat called. I promise. It's younger than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:18 AM
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Idk I'm 30f and I like it. My dating pool went from an ocean to a manageable lake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:15 AM
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Move to Iran.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:14 AM
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Not how females operate. Sex isn't top priority
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:12 AM
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Honestly I'm 30f and this is "facts," as yall say. I feel the same about men who prefer younger women or have misogynist tendencies. They aren't in my life really. There are plenty of reasons for each gender to have indifference towards each other but RP takes it to another level. Like, you're scaring young women at this point. Go look at women subs. That will help you more than podcast bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:11 AM
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Yup. Man they are terrified. I've had to DM them and convince them not to hate men or shelter from them. Lile RP has really done a number on these kids. This one girl I was talking to was 19 and said she refuses to be used for her whomb and robbed of her dream (to be an architect) just to get left when she turns 30. I literally had to convince her that good men never ever ever come to these spaces and say these things. I told her she can use this exposure to misogynist platforms for good instead…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:06 AM
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Lol women are still desired at 30. See, that's the "creepy" we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:58 AM
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This is actually incredibly accurate. A good man as a father can protect his daughter and model what a man of substance behaves like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:56 AM
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Lol I'm imaging the look on my dad's face if I was 19 and brought "Jeff/paul" aged 37 to Thanksgiving haaaaaa. Oh man .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:55 AM
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No, no "gotchas." AND bro I'm from Jersey and I live in Texas now. I've had that situation at a bus stop. A woman asked two guys to stop kissing (lightly no tounge) in front of her child. I just said loudly "wow, are talking Obama, or the Bush administration?" She looked at me confused and goes "excuse me?" So I said slowly "the last time you got fucked. Was it the Obama administration or the Bush administration?" And she comes back with the classic southern "I WASNT TALKING TO YOU." so I came b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:53 AM
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Deal with it. Biracial couples don't feel the need for social acceptance neither do gay couples. They judt want the legal right to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:42 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:40 AM
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Happen to us 30(f) at this age too. Plus, I say millennials should not date each other lol go lower or higher but this generation is going through too much rn lol
/r/MensRights20/09/23 02:52 AM
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It's POSSIBLE you have low testosterone or depression but not a guarantee
/r/MensRights20/09/23 02:51 AM
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Then why is everybody so uptight?
/r/MensRights28/08/23 02:24 AM
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It's strong but still women's fires neurons in the brain that don't for men. The female orgasm is longer and stronger, we can have multiple and it can last for almost an hour. The prostate is absolutely something I think a lot of men should look into, especially if they're getting bored or whatever.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 01:22 PM
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I was team Jacob in twilight. One of my few green flags lol. And I read the BOOKS. the movies were an abomination
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:13 AM
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A little tiny sample spoon of what the patriarchy has been funnel feeding women has you this upset, you should try to flip the narrative and practice empathy and grace. Women cannot win. They are always doing something that men shame. Seriously, remove yourself from manhood and imagine. Now add the fact that you stand NO physical chance of defending yourself against the gender youre attracted to. Now, add the fact that they all want that very thing you get shamed for giving. NOW, add the fact th…
/r/MensRights27/08/23 10:04 AM
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human attraction has a visual structure but NO youre incorrect. research it. MEN are visual. women are mental/emotional/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:48 AM
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An important part of number one is smelling good. Remember women are not visual creatures. So things like posture and your scent are more important than your haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:36 AM
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Only if he did one too and it was anonymous and we wrote them without seeing ours first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:34 AM
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I can confirm this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:52 PM
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Women need to come to an understanding of one-sided polyamory and let their men have sexual relations outside of their marriage, however this can let them dictate and censor who they allow their husband to sleep with. Combine that with one year of government paid maternity leave or paternity leave, or you can split it 6 months and 6 months for every single income that exists. No one is making too much money to receive maternity or paternity leave, this would boost childbirth rates like crazy. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:02 PM
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Only if they are good fathers and don't constantly talk trash about the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:12 PM
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Yeah I don't think anyone at 60 should be having kids, you only get Max 25 years with the kid? So sure it can happen but I advise against it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:06 PM
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If the age got worked we wouldn't be single and 30, we'd be happily married to the man still, think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:25 AM
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So men that are sterile have no value? Women that are Barren have no value? Women that develop ovarian cancer and lose their uterus have no value? The rhetoric and the semantics are important here. You're talking about the worth of a human being and you're labeling it as a thumbs up or thumbs down. You guys are so annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:06 PM
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I see them in the flesh. You think they are 30. but they are late 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:38 PM
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Also your sperm count rapidly declines by age 50, some of y'all already have under 20 million and are going to have trouble having kids anyway so don't give me that fertility crap
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:20 AM
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It's not that women necessarily age worse, which I agree they do and that's mainly a hormone and collagen situation. But I'd say men are just more shallow than women, so it's not that you guys look better at 45 it's that we see past the wrinkles and you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:19 AM
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Yeah within 5 to 10 years though, as 18 to 21 year olds I promise that 45-year-old guy that won't leave us alone is never going to be as attractive as the 25 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:18 AM
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You know we're not born fertile right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:17 AM
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But it is more likely for a man to either glow up or hold on to his looks when he's older, but that doesn't mean that 20-year-olds are attracted to 40 year olds. I used to hate when my dad's golf buddies used to hit on me used to creep me out down to my spine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:14 AM
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It's a coin toss, but truthfully by the time women hit that age they don't really care about their sexual Marketplace value anymore. I'm 30 and I'm already getting sick of Sex and the attention, I undyed my hair red just to avoid the male gaze. Probably going to cut it short next week. It gets old, they got vibrators and there's always for babies instead of children or husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:14 AM
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All I'm going to say is he's not going to slow down for you, so if you decide to run the race with him and you're not by his side when he hits the finish line, don't be surprised when he leaves with a girl waiting fresh with a water and a towel at the finish line
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:36 AM
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4.....HAHAHA I'm dead
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:33 AM
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Depends on the woman. I know 50 year Olds that make 22 year old tik tok brats look like garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:32 AM
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MILF is still top three in p*** search categories of 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:27 AM
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If you're talking about something like gas lighting oftentimes they don't know they're doing it. They think that they're equally and rightfully defending their stance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:16 PM
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This is a good way to turn yourself into an entire a******
/r/MensRights12/08/23 11:51 AM
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And by the way abortions are like $600 so you'd still have to pay a small one-time fee because you be financially aborting yourself therefore just like she'd have to pay for the procedure you got to pay for the exemption
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:26 PM
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Nobody put a gun to your head and forced you to have unprotected sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:24 PM
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I don't have a whole lot against Financial abortions, but just understand that there's a restraining order that would have to go into place immediately after. I'm talking, prison time if you try to contact that child. And if that child finds you and contacts you and is knocking out your door you better shut that door immediately and call the cops. You do not get to know this person. You do not have a child you are a ghost and you will basically be as good as a dead father. You will not ever know…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:23 PM
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Btw those traits are unattractive in men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:05 AM
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Lol I sell solar. I'm definitely employed the world is ending and your electric bills are gonna double next summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:56 PM
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I wish men had their own version of support like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:56 PM
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Oooooo good point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:55 PM
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I actually don't hate that comment, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:34 AM
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There's a basic level of attraction that comes with any type of intimacy. But men hold visual Beauty as the foundation of their attraction with women, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:34 AM
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Lol I've never seen a man confess to being a Serial cheater or abandoning his child on a dating app LOL doesn't mean they're not doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:33 AM
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Because we aren't visual. So yeah, you have to offer a mental stimulation and acts of service. What do you think blow Jobs are? Lol why would we shave if qe didn't do stuff for you? Both genders have to become desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:41 AM
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You wouldn't be able to pick out a 30 year old in a line up of beautiful women. I promise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:40 AM
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No, low body count women are also on dating apps lol they are also 30 and over too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:39 AM
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I work door to door sales, I understand rejection is tough. But move on to the next
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:38 AM
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Jesus. Women can have children at 30. I'll say it again. WOMEN CAN HAVE HEALTHY NATURAL PREGNANCY AT 30. and before you rant about geriatric pregnancy, maybe go to the clinic and check your sperm count. Half of you (statisticly) are sterile or nearly sterile. All that pregnancy workout and alcohol lowers your chances of impregnation. Even to a 20 year old. If it's lower than 20 million, you probably don't stand a chance. Women can get pregnant until they hit menopause. If it bleeds it can birth.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:52 AM
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I mean technically so are HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:48 AM
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Lol dear God not in my case. I had a glow up. Im 30 and hotter m, fitter, sober, more compassionate and a better listener than I was 10 years ago. Women in their 30s are honestly not unappealing to most men.if they said they were 25 you'd believe them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:47 AM
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OK, also get an accurate sperm count too. Fertility issues are usually on the males side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:41 AM
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I promise red pill does not work like you think it does. In fact if you ask me I find it incredibly offensive and insulting to men, saying that they have no value until they achieve certain things and that they're all the same. You're not a monolith and quite frankly neither are women. They tell you exactly what the right women is supposed to look like, which could lead you to surpassing or pumping and dumping the right woman because she doesn't adhere to a certain set of standards that you've b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:31 AM
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Ugly doesn't mean he will treat you well. And nice guys aren't the same as good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:00 PM
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In a minute, I'm making one for your mom right now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:40 PM
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Yeah it is a cool story, I hope one day you get your own version
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:47 PM
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Empowerment is simply speaking Our Truth and what we believe to be the right thing. Empowerment doesn't mean pandering and kissing ass and having a hive mentality. Empowerment means not being told by a man what makes us special and deciding to think as an individual. And I don't completely campaign for women's empowerment, we got to slow that s*** down so y'all can catch up apparently. We're creating a generation of male thumb suckers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:41 PM
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Firstly, getting crushed at the extremes on a financial level isn't exactly a flex either. The fact that the one percent holds such a majority of wealth creates inequality inflation and economic instability that truly reflects the greed and self-involvement of men. I always say there are no kind billionaires. Sure I'm sure a lot of women still want marriage and husband but, they don't just want to settle for less of what they don't want LOL I think social media ruined men's mentality just as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:31 PM
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And that's why R Kelly is about to release his new single, oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:11 PM
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You asked for a reason not to pursue an age gap, and if you plan to either be the face of some sort of company or fit into a political sector that's a reason. There's reasons for both, and I get triggered by anyone calling anyone human waste. I can't tell if you were the bully in high school or if you were the person who was bullied. And your narcissist because you keep devaluing my points where I just calling me crazy and saying I'm triggered and invalidating everything as irrelevant when it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:56 AM
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Yeah I'd say the age of the youngest person in the relationship is going to matter a lot, even if it's a 22-year-old guy and a 42 year old woman it's weird, they get looks and it's weird unless she looks really really good LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:25 AM
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Hell you have like a whole fantasy in your head LOL it's not irrelevant when it's Society in general, everybody matters that's what you're not understanding and clearly we got to send you back to kindergarten where you have to learn to treat others as you want to be treated. You're not a high value man, high value man don't talk with this kind of vernacular. Trust me I was raised around them and buy one, you are very low on the food chain. The only human waste is the kind of person that actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:22 AM
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This is a fascinating line of thinking. So you think by not giving you sex that we will get exactly what we want, and we fall for Men's Grooming on purpose because we're so susceptible to the desire for an orgasm? Interesting. And consenting adult means legal, it doesn't mean moral and it doesn't mean socially acceptable, it means legal. Meaning you are not committing a crime you will not be thrown in jail and you will not have to answer to any government or military Authority about it. But, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:20 AM
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Exactly you don't think that you need to, for some reason women feel that they need to. I promise it's not a jealousy thing, it is a protective voice to guide them towards focusing on themselves instead of the 48-year-old guy with remote
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:17 AM
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Prefer it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:13 AM
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It's all based on physical attraction? So she got third degree burns all over her body or for some reason became incredibly overweight due to a thyroid issue you're just going to leave? And it's not irrelevant, it's a true depiction of how society as a whole would see a high status man in a great position of power making that decision as his wife. And yes I'm going to assume she's uneducated because she's literally 20 I don't understand how you graduate college that fast LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:00 AM
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No, women don't hate other women. Those women hate themselves. Women tend to have strong bonds with their best friends and truly you have to start surrounding yourself with more mature women if you believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:59 AM
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Well after 25 I honestly think it can't totally be deemed predatory, because you're almost 30 and it's likely you're not fresh out of high school. So you know a good man versus a bad one by your standards. I do also have to kind of relate to the relationship you have with your father, not in a degrading way but in a way that maybe he can fill those rules if you don't have them when it comes to someone wise and reliable that you needed. I'm best friends with my dad and he is 27 years older than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:58 AM
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Of course! That's the most valuable advice of all. And 18 is one year out of high school, in some States they're still in high school. That is not a lot of time to experience the world. 18 is young, and if you think it's not young then we all know you'd go 16 if it was legal. It's fine that you're standing up, just stop acting like you're standing tall
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:56 AM
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It's all dependent on the person. Let me ask you a hypothetical though, do you think a man can run for president if he is 49 and married to a 21-year-old Barista that got her GED and has never even finished a social studies class? I understand anyone can be elected president and anyone can run, what I'm asking is would the age Gap come up when talking about a president-elect and his character or his honor? It would likely be the opposing party sure, but you don't think they would bring up his 21…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:24 AM
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Okay I'm saying this nicely, in that regard all the cards go to the person that can dangle the carrot or financially starve the other one. So she's not going anywhere if she has no job experience, she's not finished her degree, and she has gained 30 lb from childbirth along with now being 27 to 30 years old. So basically the cards are in what what happened if he left, not why she wanted to stay. Because think about it, she hasn't been building a 401k she hasn't made career advancements and she h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:20 AM
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I think we all know it depends on the way the older woman looks. It's all so dependent when it comes to male or female age gaps that the youngest age in the relationship matters the most. So if we're talking under 25 it's literally always weird and it's always grooming, but if you're over 25 and you wanted 20 or h gap it's probably going to seem different. But if he's 22 and she's 50 it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:18 AM
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Yeah I can promise you there's a 7-year-old with a higher IQ than both of us, there's also likely a 10-year-old that can solve in a Rubik's Cube and has a photographic memory. What's your point? That doesn't qualify someone for life experience when it comes to social manipulation and deception. You can be intelligent intuitive and poised and still metaphorically have your soul ripped from your body
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:15 AM
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My issue isn't her interfering with my decisions my issue is you trying to interfere with either her education or career. Likely, men that spout this rhetoric want women to stay home or to be put second especially when it comes to education or career. And I don't see a whole lot of Genius 18-year-old women interfering with my decisions, because she knows that they are mine and mine alone I am not in the position of vulnerability in the situation but, I'm confused with your wording are you saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:49 AM
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We aren't in Mass denial LOL you're in Mass avoidance of the reason, we know the preference and we understand it. We just want you to admit the real reasons. Their looks, their lack of comparable experience, the naive trust they have in you, and the way you can mold them into what you want. It's grooming, it's not illegal as long as she's over 18, but we see through you. And age Gap doesn't matter as much if the woman is 35 and the man is 45, you're definitely both adults by then, but if she's 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:33 AM
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Yeah when we were your girlfriend's age LOL sure around 25 that all went away for sure LOL I can see how men with the younger preference think that all women are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:16 AM
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The workplace is a forced social situation much like school. That's not ever genuine, so I wouldn't base it on the two forced social situations you put women in
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:16 AM
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So honestly when it comes to consent yes, it is her consent to give but the reality is she doesn't understand the scope of what it means to give that consent until it's too late. I can still remember my dad's golf Buddies smelling like scotch and being at the house after they were on the course all day and I used to try to sneak into the kitchen around them to try to make a sandwich or get water and if one of them was inside or would hear me they were just different than when my dad was around. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:14 AM
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She's not old enough to own a rental car, she's not old enough to be considered for presidency and the government doesn't expect her to be adult enough to be on her own health insurance yet she's still on her parents. There is still a frontal cortex deficit that we're talking about. So you keep claiming she's an adult and she knows what she's doing, I'd love to meet you when you were 18 years old. I'd love to find out just how Maybe naive or Reckless that person was. Because at that age you're o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:12 AM
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That's not what guys think LOL never ever has a man thought so pragmatically or respectfully about any woman they see in any circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:33 AM
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Listen, women have a camaraderie that men will never understand. We protect young women twice as fiercely as any man could. We were that woman, and our daughters will be that woman. This isn't about jealousy, I know you have this Revenge fantasy that we're all competing for you and that older women are desperately crying at your window for attention but we're not. We're really really not. We're worried about the young women that are going to go through the same thing we went through, or that we …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:32 AM
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We like SLIGHTLY older. Within 5-10 years. Most women like guys more like 3 years older
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:28 AM
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Look, his boundary is deeply rooted on things that are not directly correlated with your ability to respect him. It's more likely that he feels threatened by competition and wants you to recognize that there shouldn't be any competition. I don't think you're in the wrong here, I think that men believing that women can't be friends with men are really shallow people that don't see women as people, they see them as potential sexual partners or wives. I'm going to get hate for this but I'm never th…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:45 AM
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To be fair she needs to learn to give out a fake number LOL cuz I admit yes giving out the phone number is not the best move. I used to get a text now number just to give guys a fake number
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:42 AM
1

This is the kind of guy that mistakes respect with obedience and you should absolutely leave
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:39 AM

It's not even respect it's literally a character defining evil trait to knowingly take a man from another woman because it's a different form of betrayal. You're doing this to another woman, you know pain like women no pain and you're inflicting it?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:37 AM
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Honey, keep your hands off what's not yours. I cannot stand women like you, you violate the camaraderie that should be stronger than ever in women. Go find another man and stop considering yourself worthy of a high value man when you're trying to go back to an ex which is like heating up old McDonald's. Clearly, you need to reevaluate your moral code
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:35 AM
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Not to mention I can't remember any guys over 6 in giving a single f*** about that. When all this stuff came out my partner was 6 ft 7 and beautiful, intellectual and what I would call a stallion in bed. I asked if that mattered to him and he gave me a very confused look and said why is that any of my business? He said he would never ask a woman something so disrespectful and quite frankly hypocritical LOL he then revealed he had a hundred plus body count. And he never asked me mine after he sai…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:33 AM
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He's free to ask for a STD rundown, and if you are getting close to marriage he's allowed to ask about sexual abuse or even maybe Kinks or fetishes. But no one is allowed to ask anyone how many people they've slept with, because it's really very shallow and no matter the number you give it's going to be too high. Don't lie about it just refuse to say the number because even if it's four, he's going to think about those four and he's going to evaluate four. Then he'll start doing Mental Math with…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:30 AM
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Listen to me carefully, there is absolutely no way for him to find out anything anyway. Men that obsess about body count are as logical as believing in Santa Claus except he's God. Tell no man ever. And not because that's a high number but because it is not their business and the question itself is honestly offensive
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:28 AM
1

Do you know how shame works? Men aren't shamed for that, they are collectively praised
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:27 AM
1

Let's be completely transparent it is about making women feel bad, it's about making men feel good. I don't think you guys realize the effect this has on young women and it's honestly only going to make your lives harder when you meet someone you love and she feels just like this person
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:25 AM
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You can't do one without the other. You have to take care if yourself before you can. Take care of others.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:22 AM
1

Let's talk......positively.....lol
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:21 AM
1

I got to chime in on this one, I was afraid until I was 20, and when I met my 6 year relationship I had a body count too. I came from a nuclear family my parents are actually still married and my dad is a six-figure masculine Alpha and my mom stayed at home. Let me tell you, I am just as f** up as any other woman and I basically followed red pill before it existed to the tea. It doesn't matter who you were it matters what you do. And I mean no disrespect when I say this, but me and you have comp…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:16 AM
1

Its brainwashing. So many red pill arguments are based off social science and generalized vanity. You really REALLY do determine your own worth. Men can only dictate your value to themselves. Not your value to yourself and others. You haven't list the ability to love. Oxytocin is not a non renewable stock pile and it has no burn out. You can't change the past and you can't let someone tell you whp YOU are. Red pill men are very deeply hurt people. They don't actually have things or people in the…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 10:07 AM
1

I'm a lot of things but a snitch ain't one of them. People come on here for the truth so, unless I'm being threatened, or someone is conducting themselves illegally I'm not going to try to censor their words
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:46 AM
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No disrespect though like I understand different variations of healing I'm not judging I'm not arguing I'm just saying, she sounds pretty beat up from it and I would hate to see her take one more hit to her self-worth
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 04:38 AM
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Yeah but she's out of a bad relationship, so she wants a kind and honorable husband that will help her raise fully rounded kids. It's about quality not quantity
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 04:37 AM
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The best way she can do that is to probably not go on dates. LOL trust me just trust me. One bad date can rock her f****** world right now. Just one bad date and it's a very far fall and able to take her longer to climb back up from it. I say give yourself sometime to keep your cortisone levels and internal dialogue unpredictable. Who cares about single or in a relationship? It should be much more about happy versus miserable
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 04:32 AM
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It's true, current 30-year-old that was excited about the wall currently not even needing dating apps at this point kind of attractive. Why? Because I am authentically and confidently saying and mature. I don't feel intimidated by things as shallow as looks and money. Last guy dated was literally a mover. Like he moved people in the houses. And guess what? Freaking awesome. Best sex I've ever had in my life, if you want to talk to God, laugh like you did when you were a child, and sleep peaceful…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 04:16 AM
-3

Real love doesn't require turning into a smaller version of yourself to fit in someone's box. Not good advice
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 04:12 AM
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Okay this is a good example this guy mysterious Court mr.man-cjild 956, this is the one you avoid. Thank you so much dude you really helped her out
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 04:10 AM
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Okay, I'm 30 and I want you to listen to me. I had a 7-year breakup and hit the wall at 27. I won't go into the specifics but 3 months after we broke up he got engaged and married a 19 year old. She then got pregnant quite quickly after. Listen to me, I crawled back over that wall with the determination of never letting myself feel inferior to another woman again. Especially a woman that sleeps with somebody else's boyfriend, then body shames her and kicks her when she's down. You can compete. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 04:08 AM

I fail to see how my comment was more personal than the other comments you didn't react to but it's fine, this is your Turf I'll chill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:46 PM
2

Depends what kind you're talking about but I'm going to go ahead and guess that it's going to be malignant and covert. First of all covert much more common, I'm only going to give you three traits of each that I use to identify but there are I think nine traits of each? I don't know we have search engines on the same phone that you're using. Top three of a covert number one someone something or somewhere is to blame. They are actually unable to take any responsibility for mistakes or negative ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:06 AM

I don't know you're proving that sentence wrong right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:17 AM
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Okay, well it's an uneducated generalized observation with no logic or actual comprehensive thought behind it. So call it what you want, but please start Reading literature about narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:17 AM
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No I think it's idiotic to use narcissism as a baseline insult rather than actually reading the literature about it. You can be equal without being the same. If I have $10 what do you think of? Because it could be either a $10 bill, or 10 $1 bills. Both have equal value but they are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:52 AM

Modern men don't even understand the inner workings of empathy or personality disorders. Traditional men aren't dummies, I'd argue maybe they're a little naive or willfully ignorant but they're not dumb and they're not bad people. You sound incredibly self assured and convinced that you're intelligent. This is always the marking of a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:50 AM
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Modern Men are worse, you get manipulated by other men claiming to be Alphas but really they're extorting money from you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:50 AM
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Bro they put down their credit card and if you even reach for your purse they're literally dogmatic about it. She's not saying she's so great that she deserves it, she's saying men pay every time and if he handed her the black book maybe she would pay it but that never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:49 AM
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That's like saying angry and being homicidal go together LOL narcissism is an intensely complicated and incredibly covert personality disorder. A narcissist often does not show themselves to be a narcissist until well after the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:48 AM
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There's a difference between vanity selfishness and narcissism. A narcissist would actually pay for the date in order to make you believe that they are better than other women and love bomb you into submission. Then they would Gaslight you later and complain about how she's has to pay for the dates
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:46 AM
1

I don't use Amazon lol it's targeted
/r/MensRights27/07/23 06:15 AM
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Barring financial repercussions. Yes.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 01:07 AM
1

Misandry definition popped up. You do understand Google search results are targeted based on previous activity by the user
/r/MensRights27/07/23 12:27 AM
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To be fair you're talking about a very small minority of individuals that use feminism to oppress men. So there's bad apples on each side
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:31 AM
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They stay, but they don't stay faithful let's be real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:25 AM
1

That's kind of different, you can't survive off snuggling and patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:24 AM

He spelled powerful wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:23 AM
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Yeah but women age in dog years. So yeah you're 30, I'm 30 but that means I'm 50
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:20 AM
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Well, what are we supposed to do? The only support we can offer is emotional and social. Go lobby. I have never seen a March or any fundraising for men's rights. You're not doing anything yourself why should we do anything? You need a plan, you need leaders and you need to stop complaining and start doing something. Women may be the most privileged creatures on the planet but Men are actually the most powerful creatures on the planet. If they can organize, let's clear demands and take it to Cong…
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:19 AM
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I'd say that domesticated animals are the most privileged creatures LOL but humor aside they were sort of backed into a corner. Most the men did it to get votes, much like any politician does literally anything. Well I guess I can't say the supplies to when they won the right to vote LOL but it does apply to anything after. In that era going against women's rights was political suicide
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:17 AM
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I'm not sure you know what an oxymoron is LOL
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:04 AM
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I'm in minneapolis, moving to Oregon in 2 months
/r/MensRights25/07/23 10:31 PM
1

Lol I'm poly. Anyone who a tax polyamory doesn't have enough respect for their partner or self-worth to understand that people don't own other people's bodies, and loyalty is far bigger than sex
/r/MensRights25/07/23 07:39 PM
1

That's a hard one to answer, for starters I think he's a piece of s*** husband LOL he's currently married. But to the woman he cheated on me with so don't really feel bad about casually texting him because I owe her nothing. But he went from this gigantic incredible Monument of a man, to this little tiny thing that I can put in a box, take it out and put back in the box. I know that sounds weird but it's like he gave me the shield of Achilles by destroying my heart. He gave me unshakable self wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:11 PM
1

LOL I still talk to him occasionally, I can shoot you a Snapchat if you want. He has nothing but respect for me, I can't think of one X except like my first love when I was 19 that I'm not on good terms with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:02 PM

LOL no I wouldn't like that I don't drive pleasure from anyone suffering. I hope you find all the happiness, maybe without buying it would be cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:44 PM
1

LOL the birth and marriage rates are at a unprecedented decline, this is not a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:43 PM
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Women do look to each other for Change and support, there was a lot of unity in the feminist movement
/r/MensRights25/07/23 06:28 PM
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I don't even know what I'd be advocating for, get organized and then you can probably get supporters and I'm not just talking about me
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:14 PM
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Oh no not the swimming pool, that wipes off all the DNA from the chlorine God damn it I hate that for you I'm so sorry. I am the one in three women that has still not been raped or assaulted, but the harassment seems unavoidable it's for any woman. That's a three and three situation. And of course I respect your viewpoints, you're not personally attacking me or using the same tone as the men are. They don't hear anything a woman says if she's disagreeing with them as anything but combative and d…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:13 PM
1

Yeah absolutely, I agree. Never said that men are not oppressed never said that men don't deserve rights or that they're not human. It is incredibly hard to advocate for someone that is constantly attacking you and generalizing you, and not listening to you.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:07 PM
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I mean again, the third paragraph doesn't feel like women take the burden of fault on that one? I don't think men are inferior to women, I think that when they refuse to look amongst each other for Change and support rather than women is when that inferior and masculating feeling can happen for men. I respect men on site, but when they talk at me like this I start to dwindle in that respect because quite frankly it's not exactly solution based thinking to put everything on feminists and nothing …
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:05 PM
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I see no reason why you're worth advocating for. Nothing but hurdling insults and a lack of cognitive listening skills. I am not against you, I understand about the oppression of men in society. I don't know why anything but pandering and total agreement sounds like opposition?
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:02 PM

You're disdain for women due to previous encounters is evident, and it frankly probably ruining your life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:00 PM
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LOL so she should work a full-time job on line at home, while also taking care of a toddler or child maybe even multiple, keep the house clean keep your body fit, keep the b*** coming and keep her aggression down? All right, sounds like a plan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:59 PM
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I said we're in your corner but we're not going to put on the gloves and fight. We're on your side, but I'm starting to get desensitized.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 04:58 PM
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Okay, I love the intensity and it's awesome that they have you as an advocate because you have a really pragmatic way of thinking and I like that. A couple things though, I think there is a misconception between radical leftist extremists, and standard passive feminists. You are practicing feminism by expressing your opinion on a male platform, aggressively and without apology. And I love it, and you should love it. The men should love it too. But the leftist radical blue-haired psychos are not …
/r/MensRights25/07/23 04:57 PM

Okay do you really think that stay-at-home mom's sacrifice nothing? That's usually why you have to pay things like alimony. Because you're paying her for the time that she did not get to pursue a career or a degree. Some I would even say most women want to do more than watch Veggie Tales and clean up Cheerios from the carpet. Also you're not taking into consideration things like 401k and insurance. If you don't like it and you think it's such a life of leisure, plenty of women would love a stay-…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:55 PM

Okay I don't even know what to do for you anymore dude, you're the gender that created only fans and dating apps. You're the gender that actually has pick up artists in order to trick women into having sex with them. I promise if I wanted to manipulate you, I do it and with ease. I don't have a reason to manipulate you, you have nothing I value. You don't like what I'm saying so it's manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:43 PM
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LOL I mean I would consider death to be expired, but yeah I really hate that rhetoric especially because I see aging is a privilege. I see a woman who's 58 with the white hair and the smile lines and the wrinkly hands and I see somebody who has survived and thrived. Same with men, especially men because they tend to do more dangerous jobs and put themselves in the line of duty so older people in general are never to be disrespected. And it really sucks to think that men collectively believe that…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 03:41 PM
1

Okay, I don't totally follow the first part but I love the whole second half of that comment. I don't get how women are pressing men currently? And I'm really asking to be educated I don't want to be attacked on this one. Because the laws that you're protesting were not written by women, even if they benefit women they did not have a seat at the table when these decisions were made. No woman has ever drafted anybody at least in america, no woman wrote custody laws. It's true some women take adva…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 03:39 PM

See we are empowered in independent, then we get married and are asked to stay at home with the children to which of course we applied because we want to provide a happy house for our family. Then, when our looks Decline and the kids leave for college they trade Us in for a newer model. A prenup can be written however a couple wants. So you could write it to be incredibly favorable to the husband, or you could divide 50/50, it's up to you to write your own prenup. Everybody should have a prenup …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:36 PM
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This is not a good way to get women on your side. I think you could learn a thing or two from the tactics of feminism. They actually weren't focused on anti-male rhetoric, because they knew that they needed men on their side. The men's Rights Movement is incredibly disrespectful to women, it's also unorganized unclear and Lacks leadership. So maybe feminism has a few aspects you could learn from, so far I don't know why I would advocate for someone that barely sees me as human
/r/MensRights25/07/23 03:33 PM
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The reason their rights were withheld is also because of men LOL I get it trust me I know that there are men that fought for equality what I'm saying is, the leaders organizers and strength of the movement was women. Men need to organize and women will follow your lead. We're not even sure exactly what you want. There's no List of Demands there's no marches or movement there's just anger and blame
/r/MensRights25/07/23 03:30 PM
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We also wouldn't have had the oppression to begin with if it wasn't for the men. So I get what you're saying, I'm not trying to say we shouldn't advocate for them, but I'm saying the majority of the labor in a fight for equality usually lies with the oppressed. Yes Men did help the feminist movement, an incredible and beautiful ways. But the majority of the leaders organizers and Trailblazers were female.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 03:29 PM
1

Yeah of course, every social justice movement has radicals that tend to counter-produce what the messages. Men's rights have it too, do you know how many times I've been told I have no value and that I'm expired product? Because I'm literally 30 which is not technically old. Do you know how many times I've been called a w**** because I'm not married? Men actually dehumanize women so belittling men is of course wrong but I think that both sides have some work to do
/r/MensRights25/07/23 03:27 PM
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LOL because every guy in any feminist sub is a advocate for women's rights? You don't get to go through a fight for social justice without opposition or criticism. And I'm not opposing or criticizing you anyway I believe that there is a lot of unfairness towards men in the courts and in the draft. What I'm saying is, where in your corner but we're not going to fight the fight for you. We can only do so much this is your labor, it's your rights we're talking about
/r/MensRights25/07/23 03:25 PM

LOL yeah time through contracts so that when he does leave you for the younger woman and all his options while he's such a big awesome man in his prime, you at least have a house and some form of security. Because if you don't protect yourself, if you really lean in to his protection and provision you will be old alone and die with cats just like they say single women will. And a prenup can be written to whatever each couple wants so sometimes it's written that whoever files for divorce is the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:23 PM
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What? If it weren't for men we wouldn't be expected to be in the kitchen at all, so it's kind of a double entender but sure whatever you're right we should absolutely march to Congress right now and demand that men are oppressed and deserve every single thing they're asking for. In fact I think we should all quit our jobs that way men can get back ahead. Come on ladies, slow down so they can speed back up
/r/MensRights25/07/23 03:22 PM

You guys always use the term manipulation when women try to call you on your s***, manipulation sounds like everything you want to hear. It never sounds like opposition, it sounds like praise or gratitude but is masked in alternate motives and deception
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:20 PM
1

I felt like that was civil, but heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:21 PM
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Best we can do is not push back, listen to your demands, give support and not make it about us or belittle it
/r/MensRights25/07/23 11:52 AM
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Did the men advocate for ours? Some, yes. But a majority pushed back or stayed silent. This is your fight. We are in your corner but we aren't gonna throw on a pair of gloves and square up. I support anyone who takes action to change systematic injustice. But we had our battle, this one is yours.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 11:51 AM

You can show honor day to day, it's not always literally active duty. So close-minded
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:45 AM

Do you have a brother or son??? Cause I'd love to find someone with this mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:44 AM

LOL well Meanwhile your dick probably went down and
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:25 AM

Oh dear God I'm not Christian LOL I'm so embarrassed to think that I need to edit out some of my posts or something that's terrible. I'm spiritual but organized religion has absolutely destroyed Humanity, but I hear what you're saying. I truly just have no interest in marriage and if it was the gold standard divorce rates wouldn't be so high that's all I really feel
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:39 AM

Marriage, to me. And I have to say I'm not married I don't plan on getting married I think the whole idea sets both parties up for failure, but it's a promise. I would want to elope and say our vows in private. And really promise each other that we are friends to the end. And I will be your life partner, you will not die alone and you will be respected. This is why I will not get married, because I'm only doing it once and the man wants to divorce me that's fine let me know how and when you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:28 AM

I love me a single divorced father LOL they aren't wife hunting and they're not trying to impregnate everything they see
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:26 AM

Dude just go f*** a 20-year-old, nobody cares. Do you need me to send you some Tinder profiles? Should I start a subreddit for you? Let's help you get this over with so you can get out of our face about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:20 AM

I hope Opie can absorb this. This is called honor. This is what a good man sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:15 AM

No, they're bad men. You can be a good person and not be a good man. Good men have honor, I don't even think you know what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:14 AM

Yeah I gave six years of my Prime to someone who left me for a 19 year old when I was starting to drown and I needed him. Men are not capable of love. They can value you, possibly and rarely respect you, but they don't love. They just don't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:13 AM

Man what's it like to have no substance. Like seriously, I'm actually kind of jealous. Just absolutely no empathy and no depth. It must make things really easy for you. I bet the people around you are victims to knowing you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:11 AM

Yeah this is why women shouldn't sign a prenup LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:11 AM

I'm begging you, please don't procreate. Please never become a father I am truly asking you as a fellow human. You are a low quality human being, may you never have a moment's peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:10 AM
1

Damn that's too bad because my entire existence is valued based on your husband's opinion of me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:50 PM
1

Have fun with your sexless quest for respect and inevitable demise towards the pit of infidelity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:55 PM
1

OK but I'm talking recovery and rest lol
/r/MensRights24/07/23 05:53 PM
1

It takes ACTUAL trust. True and unwavering respect and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:11 PM
-1

Yeah, we are lucky. We have zero physical risk.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:10 PM
1

Love it, now just get organized and hopefully men can get the rights they deserve.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:09 PM
1

Japan has maternity and paternity leave each 6 months. Finland has lile a year. And women rip their vagina open during birth so yeah....we'll call that even.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:06 PM
2

Nature wasn't designed for anyone to survive. The social construct at least in America was founded on a patriarchy. Period. Is it still a patriarchy? Not sure, THATS debatable. But the systematic foundation of the western world was favorable to men
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:05 PM
1

Meaning women need to adapt to the patriarchy which, we have. It effects me from time to time but it's not impacting my life at all.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:01 PM
0

Lol so, what's the solution? All the top spokesmen for Men's rights are millionaires. Where are the marches? Lobbying?
/r/MensRights24/07/23 02:00 PM
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Okay there's a lack of homeless and domestic violence prevention shelters for everybody, there are ones that are centered towards women but it's not like they turn down men. A lot of them do take men. The divorce laws are likely avoidable with a prenup, and ratification. And mail General mutilation is taking it kind of far, I don't have an opinion on that and I don't think anybody but the parents should. There are reasons to do it and reasons not to do it if you're talking about circumcision tha…
/r/MensRights24/07/23 11:34 AM
1

No a man needs oxygen and food. No one's being forced
/r/MensRights24/07/23 11:31 AM
1

My path to polygamy started with losing my virginity at 20, then being broken up a year later with for lack of sex drive. Then I had a 6 year relationship, lost my mental stamina and sex drive again, lost him when he mercilessly cheated with a 19 year old. Married her 3 months later. Monogamy has been the only thing that broke my heart, and challenged my self worth. If my partner wants to have sex with someone else, I'd rather be involved in the conversation. I'd rather be respected and my bound…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:09 AM
1

For me, it's a saftey net to avoid infidelity and deception. I'm not stupid enough to think I'm the only woman he wants sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:03 AM
1

Someone like that? You mean someone different than you? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:02 AM
1

It's the saddest thing. They pride themselves on logic and fail to see when it's in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:58 AM
1

There are "nice guys" and there are good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:56 AM

Yes sometimes people need to be pushed towards what's best for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:55 AM
1

Open marriage. Let your partner have their needs met outside your relationship. There are rules, and boundaries that are different for every couple. But if he has the physical in others then you know that the only thing you need to give is love and support. I'd rather have a best friend and a life partner then a husband and a sex partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:53 AM
1

Aging is a privilege. Some people didn't live past 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:52 AM
1

Just get sex-bots already and leave us to our lesbian orgys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:51 AM
1

This had me laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:50 AM
1

Yeah, this is also why I am an advocate for open marriages. Let him have the physical with someone else so you can have the spiritual with him and it's not hindered by the inevitable aging you see in the mirror. I have no problem with my hypothetical husband not being attracted to me anymore, because he's my best friend and my life partner. He's got plenty of options out there to have sex with, I'll have the laundry folded and cookies made when he gets home
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:47 AM
4

I gained a solid 15 pounds just from taking Zoloft, people can also gain weight through the use of steroids for different kind of immune disorders. Sometimes you stop an addiction to drugs and that can make you gain weight, also you could become pregnant and usually losing weight after that is a whole new ball game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:46 AM
1

If you approach them about it, and they have a bad attitude and a refusal to work at it then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:45 AM
1

Women wouldn't leave a 6th house but they will leave a spouse that lost his job then lost all confidence and drive. But no, women wouldn't leave over an illness we have empathy, men have logic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:44 AM
1

Yeah you'd leave your wife if she got fat, just like we'd leave you if you lost your job gambled your money away and wouldn't stop drinking. It's all conditional, but if you think your wife is going to be fit and beautiful for the entire duration of her life you're out of your f****** mind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:42 AM
1

The fffffuuuuckkk hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:41 AM
1

You know you're not being forced either right? You could be a gardener if you wanted to. Or a florist.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 10:10 AM
0

Yeah kind of like how women are not granted exceptions for abortion when their consent is violated either, and any parental surrender shouldn't be demonized, no one should we forced into Parenthood. No one.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 10:01 AM
-1

Yeah you know they drafted nurses, any unmarried nurse between 20 years old and 40 years old were drafted into the military
/r/MensRights24/07/23 09:05 AM
0

0.08%. That's the chances of any American man being drafted
/r/MensRights24/07/23 09:02 AM
1

Didn't hear an answer. Just deflecting
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:57 AM
-2

Yeah well, men are welcome to stay at home if they like. Women want to work, and if they want to stay at home that's also perfectly fine. The issue is there wasn't a choice back in the day which is what systematically makes us a patriarchy
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:48 AM
-13

Wow look at that one more year before women got the right to safe and legal abortions. Women can't be drafted because that would end the species, if we run out of women we run out of people. It only takes one man to impregnate 100 women. If we're ever invaded I think it's common knowledge that's probably a suicide mission at this point they better come with nukes
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:47 AM
-14

Name one right that women have that men don't, and please don't use the draft. No one is getting drafted, it's a moot point
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:26 AM
-1

What? LOL it's designed for men not designed to kill women.. what is with this black and white thing?
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:01 AM
-1

Never said it depressed women, I said it was systematically built for men and by men
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:54 AM
-21

This is fascinating. The patriarchy is the systematic Foundation to which a society has been built and runs. You guys claim that you created the roads and built all of the plumbing and fight all the wars yet there's no patriarchy? When women were not present in these major decisions for the country for the past 200 years? How is that not a patriarchy if there's not a woman sitting at the table? It's not headed towards the opposite, it's headed towards equal division of Rights and labor. If equal…
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:53 AM
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Yes, the only people that are going to say no are men. The idea is it's systematic so the system was set up for men. It's like saying that the world is not created for right-handed people when in reality, the world is designed for right-handed people. The only people that notice the design is Left-Handed people. So any man that says there's no patriarchy is a perfect example of such
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:51 AM
2

It's hard to insult a narcissist, fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:58 AM
1

His comment itself proves you will Any guy I met that says this or something like it is usually douchey and narcissistic. Which means he's probably unwilling 5o change his behavior or grow. He will just keep bouncing from girlfriend to girlfriend, all of them leaving him for the same reason that he denies
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 06:50 AM
2

It's important rhe young women see what you you are. Stay proud, stay loud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:42 AM
1

.....she's married......she contributed job loss....this is why I tell women to focus on themselves. No one wants to be house wives anymore. Happy cleaning.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 03:15 AM
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They don't want love they want respect. They think wenlose value with age and dont belive all women (old, fat, ugly ect) desrrve protection. They belive that our role is to follow not lead. Even if we know we are being let intlo quicksand. They prefer a sidekick rather than a teamamte. They feel entitled to a legacy but not giving it a strong foundation or model as a leader of honor. They LAUGH at a hearbroken woman and the idea of her dying alone. They over value money and undervalue honor abd …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:12 AM
19

Then don't date them. Singlehood is not a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:06 AM
3

It makes her feel good, sometimes it'll make her look prettier but at the end of the day it's about the ritual and about feeling good when you walk out the house. I'm also a non makeup lover but, I have two points to make. Number one I turn 30 and I don't think you'll be saying this exact same thing once you've hit your 30s or 40s, make up becomes your greatest ally. Number two I work sales so if I were no makeup and I don't straighten my hair it tends to make my numbers decrease, I know that so…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 03:05 AM
0

They'll always blame f*manism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:37 PM

Lmao at all the deleted comments
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:35 PM
1

What makes you think I don't care about men's rights? I'm saying the men's Right Movement needs leaders, real leaders. You have people that are pretending to care, giving lip service but not actually taking action. If you could hear my tone you'd hear that it's not sarcastic or condescending. It's an actual lack of resources for men's mental health and support
/r/MensRights18/07/23 05:24 PM
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There are nice guys and good men. The difference is good men aren't always nice. And nice guys aren't always good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:15 PM
0

It's not embarrassing to voice differing opinion, I don't know why you guys are incapable of speaking to not just women but anybody with respect. What happened?
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:02 PM
-1

Aw don't talk about him like that
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:01 PM
-14

i promise im not the biggot in this situation.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 08:36 AM
-14

The thought of someone else being empowered makes you feel inferior, that's on you. It's like men are saying, "slow down so I can speed up"
/r/MensRights18/07/23 07:55 AM
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That's why I said it's about time she didn't get to spend at work building a 401k receiving promotions receiving Healthcare and maintaining job experience. She still lost something leaving the career world
/r/MensRights18/07/23 06:40 AM
3

LOL no I've been single for 4 years after two very long-term relationships. And I'm also a female, but considerably attractive female that just hit 30 years old. I'm always used for my body but I've lucked out in a sense that I like being alone, I know my worth and don't feel the need to give my body to everyone, as well as I don't want children. So I guess I'm the exception so I shouldn't have even voiced my experience LOL I really only use sex medicinally and occasionally and it's almost alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:24 AM
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That's why I think all the gods above that I'm more of a sapiosexual than I am attracted to physical attributes. There has to be some level of physical attraction but, I'm more in conversation than I am looks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:06 AM
1

Women and children secure repopulation. That's why on the Titanic the women and children came first because first of all they were lighter so they could fit more of them onto the boats, second men were more likely to survive if left on the sinking Titanic because they are stronger and more likely able to swim in that time and day. The women were wearing corsets and huge heavy dresses and likely didn't know how to swim cuz it wasn't very common back then. Let's also not forget that it was rich wo…
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:37 AM
-4

Of course he did he was completely combative and Incredibly rude. But he spoke like a gentleman, saying nothing a gentleman would repeat.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:24 AM
-1

You should go to Chris Williamson instead he's not biased
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:24 AM
-2

Then they're not feminists, and the story
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:21 AM
-15

How do you know it's passive aggression when you can't hear the tone in voice? It's not a Supremacy movement LOL it's an equality movement and that doesn't mean exact equality, it means equal opportunity. Supremacy is more like if we wanted more money back in taxes, or free college or only having to press a percentage of rent. That's not what feminism is about
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:20 AM
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So if you're saying you're not a fan a feminism, why would you want equal rights for men? So the idea of men's rights does not take women into consideration at all? Because feminism and I'm not talking the radical kind, I'm talking second wave was designed with men in mind. Because they knew they couldn't get anything done unless they had the support of men
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:19 AM
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Well typically alimony is going to be given to the women if they have a child. Sometimes it's even in the prenup that if you have a child and she's out of work because of that you have to make up for that loss of retirement plan, missed promotion opportunities and missed income. So it's really important if you have a stay-at-home wife that you have some hard conversations.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:17 AM
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The current Generations have a very misinterpreted view on feminism. I didn't think I was a feminist until I literally had to take a quiz to find out if I was actually a feminist, and it turns out I'm a passive second wave feminist. Equality doesn't mean the same similar is not the same. If I have five $1 bills and a $5 bill they have the same value but they're not the same. So equality means more equal opportunity not men should be treated like women and women should be treated like men. It's t…
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:16 AM
13

Yeah post-glow-up girl here, it's less likely to lose weight while you're in a long-term relationship unless he's some kind of fitness trainer or nutritionist LOL I lost 62 lb after my long-term relationship and he even mentioned it when we reconnected, it's the ultimate Revenge I have to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:30 PM
0

Well from what I remember America was founded on religious freedom, if we want a patriarchy then that means we were either a matriarchy or we always had equal representations in power? Cuz I know we weren't a matriarchy, we didn't have equal weight when it came to things like voting or political office so I'm just confused as to how the founding of America was not a patriarchy and that the system is not still based on the foundation of a patriarchy? I'm not trying to argue please enlighten me
/r/MensRights17/07/23 04:05 AM
2

So here's the best way I've heard it explain, we live in a right-handed world. If you're right-handed things are kind of sort of made for you like a computer mouse. A left-handed person isn't necessarily unable to do the things the right handed person is doing but the system isn't designed with them in mind. So it's easy if you are a right-handed person to see nothing wrong with the system because it works for you, but at the left handed person there are things that you might notice that a right…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 04:03 AM
1

Then maybe the men should take it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:31 PM
1

S damned if you don't damned if you do basic mantra for all women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:29 PM
2

They know in their eyes they are attractive yes. But women are naturally selective because of our biological burden of production. If you knew you could possibly get pregnant and I mean actually pregnant I think you'd be more selective too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:22 AM
1

Don't complain, find a way to give us an orgasm and don't be broke and get good at faking being in love with us because we know you never love us you only value US. That's the most brutally cold and shallow way I can put it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:21 AM
2

Furthermore, they don't want sex a lot. In fact they don't typically and start enjoying it until a few months if not years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:08 AM
1

Eh, it was semi by choice. I hit 18 by choice as a virgin. Then 19 happened, and all the sudden guys would kind of start breaking up with me when they found out I was a virgin or I became sort of used to being alone. And then 20 hit and it was on, it had to happen lol so yeah it's sort of by choice but sometimes men will break up with you because you're a virgin and you haven't given it up and it's been a couple months and they're impatient
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:06 AM
2

It's gonna be a bumpy ride but you have to remember you're worthwhile
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 05:24 PM
3

Here's what you do, start complimenting something other than his looks. His smell his laugh, find a quirk that you really like and complement it never ever tell him he's physically attractive cuz that's all he's ever hurt. I promise this is a real strategy, if dating somebody who is annoyingly hot, don't bring attention to it. They've heard it before it's all superficial, find something you really like that he does and bring up how cute you think it is. Or sarcastically joke about how ugly he is…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 05:04 PM
3

It's important to remember that men value looks, so it stands to reason that a very attractive guy will have had his fair share of very attractive girls. It gets to a point that he has to start making his dating strategy based on something other than looks. And you're probably gorgeous, especially if he likes your personality. Guys like that have so many options that they actually get to pick and choose so maybe you're just pretty enough and your personality pushes you over the edge. But yes I h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 04:48 PM
3

100% I'm saying, he is going outside his type because lets be totally transparent. A higher percentage of incredibly beautiful women can be pretty harsh.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 01:13 PM
-1

they burn out on the spolied bimbo vibes.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 01:11 PM
4

As a Mid that has been approached by men that look like Apollo the Sun God...i can confirm this. They've HAD the beautiful, rich, young baddie. Theyve had the steamy lawyer she-wolf with an extensive lingire collection. They usually go for the 4's and 5's once theyve finally grown sick of the spolied and vapid "pretty girl". I'm a goofball that gives off a state of low judgment.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 01:09 PM
1

Lol I actually end up being deflecting pretty guys. I just find no comfort in him looking like a Greek God. I like me a teddy bear or a Gumbie looking dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:03 AM
1

Nah lol my libido has been shot since Thanksgiving I have a lot going on for me right now. I'm just saying, maybe they just wanted the pickle?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:15 AM
1

Nah dude, that's exactly how I rolled before I turned into a butterfly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:14 AM
1

The fact that I had to tuck my hair into a beanie the other day to avoid the male gaze makes me question this comment. You guys look at every woman that's not your mother or sister let's be real, if she's got a booty your gays will find it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:26 AM
-1

Here's the thing, you've all been pretty lied to about the pair bonding and the body count. I had a body count of three when I was 27 LOL age is not directly correlated with body count especially when you're comparing Millennial women and gen Z women. My mom had me at 32 with no problems, women are not infertile at 30 this rhetoric has been debunked over and over again and you guys refuse to listen because you want to place your shallow preferences, which you have a right to, but you want to pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:21 AM
1

Everything they give you sex really quickly because they don't take you seriously either? Usually women of a certain age can sniff out a weenie no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:19 AM
0

OK have fun. Shes 40 pounds overweight, cries when she's drunk, doesn't like suckin dick, doesn't prioritize her family, wears too much make up and thinks the earth revolves around her. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:18 AM
0

100%, it's incredibly possible. I quit drinking and stop taking antidepressants. I also cured my insomnia and cut pork and I know the importance of hydration. Start taking collagen supplements abd vitamins and meditating. Wear sunscreen everyday and make sure to have as many orgasms as possible with a partner or by yourself. There are ways to stay attractive that aren't just exercising and makeup. I am much hotter than I was at 22, and they're going to say I'm the exception to the rule but the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:14 AM
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I love this. Because yes, its a known fact that men are surface level. But women have a receiving energy in that same regard. That's why we are attracted to money. I personally am not, I've had the rich dude and they just financially starve and spoil you. But sexual performance is my shallow preference. He can be the ugliest, broken bastard in the room but if he can make my legs shake then he gets the worship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:13 AM
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Agreed. I've had dime pieces hit on me, but they were either drinkers or way too muscular and it just wasn't my thing. Give me the underweight long haired stoner ANY DAY though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:10 AM
9

I believe Sir Mix ALOT contributed to the curve hype
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:08 AM
3

And btw, it's just as biological as men liking younger women who are fit. It's just a general visusl preference
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:06 AM
1

Yes women do have a hive mind. But men have a pack-like mentality. You are influenced by the alphas of each respective pack. It can even be compared to a sheep-like mindset. Men as a collective need a leader. Women move as a hive. Following the queen B.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:05 AM
1

Every citizen deserves that right. It's so sad yall haven't changed. How are you still talking like your great great grandfathers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:13 AM
1

I thought men "built society"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:31 AM
1

It's the misogynist males worst nightmare. Financial freedom and sexual empowerment all at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:30 AM
1

Then why do professional athletes age out of the game?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:10 AM
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I'm in all fairness there's rational second wave feminism LOL meaning basic rights like voting and equal opportunity. The radical feminists are a different story, they're beyond help. But you can't discredit all feminists because then that's any woman that believes that she has the right to work a job she's qualified for or to vote as a citizen LOL
/r/MensRights28/06/23 03:11 AM
3

Fine? you want real talk? of COURSE we only want 1 man. ITS HOW WE ARE WIRED. that isnt the problem. the problem is you assume women have high body counts due to age or outfits or wearing makeup. I was a virgin till i was 20 and lemme tell ya, thats when i was dancing on tables and going to NOLA with my girlfriends and behaving like a "304" I had a body count of 3 when I met my 7 year relationship and guess what THE RED PILL WAS RIGHT AGAIN, he left me for a 19 year old when we were 27 because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:59 PM
2

"Wow, just iike a man. Feelings arent facts." "Chose better women.There are consequences for your past." "All men are delusional" "Youre all 502's" "You're clearly living life on easy mode as a man." ​ Like, the red pill soapbox is so unflattering. if you had a more intelligent and organized delivery that spoke to your intended audience in a way that resonates with them, maybe your little "Movement" would hold weight. But to us, youre just fatherless men following the pack mentality. freethinkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:49 PM
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#7...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:43 PM
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#6...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:43 PM
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Heres #5...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:42 PM
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heres 4!...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:42 PM
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oh, and heres 3....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:41 PM
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heres 2...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:41 PM
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heres 1...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:40 PM
-4

It comes with orgasm and comfort
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/23 11:59 AM
-10

I'm not trying to be offensive or devalue the effort you've put in to make him happy, but I think you should let him have a hall pass. You love him and that's really clear in your post do you want to do anything you can to make him happy, and by doing that you are putting your body through something it doesn't want to be in. I know he's your husband I know you're doing it willingly but in a way this is a violation of consent. I think that people get caught up in the social Norm of monogamy so mu…
/r/RedPillWives12/06/23 06:34 AM
1

Girl, breathe. My mom had me at 32 without any trouble there's hormones there's tracking your ovulation you can always adopt. Don't let these guys scare you
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 11:24 PM
1

The wall isn't that bad lol compared to being with a lower? Pick the wall.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 01:01 AM
1

It's not all of them lol I'm 30. I can tell you without a doubt, in a year or so you'll learn how to sniff it out. That's why women of 24 don't attract them lol the wall will save you
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 04:24 AM
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