FirstInFourthPlace Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable Then what is a person aside from what they can provide? I think the large picture is how transactional is our society? And our relationships? There's no intrinsic foundation of acceptance. Is what I think these men protest. Anyone who is 21 and above, I would mostly agree with your statement, but below 21. I think romance, genuine connection, and unconditional love are much more founded. I would advise young people if they don't ever want to "settle" for someone and you want a genuine lifelong l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 08:40 PM
–	Why do men hate sex workers so much? Within my generation growing up as a teenager when social media was new. It was incredibly common to hear from other females that they were sent unsolicited pictures. I assume the same men who are hateful to sex workers are the same men who sent the unsolicited pictures. But that's merely a baseless assumption. Only the social media companies would really know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 10:54 AM
–	Why do men hate sex workers so much? I don't think they thought that far ahead, honestly. Society invented porn. With no real safe guard protecting young boys from accessing it. What we are seeing is the consequences of the invention and / or lack of safe guard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 10:14 AM
–	Why do men hate sex workers so much? Your comments on other Reddit posts... Pretty dark replies. Are you okay?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 09:44 AM
–	Why do men hate sex workers so much? It would always be at the back of their mind. Do people feel bad for these men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 06:34 AM
–	Why do men hate sex workers so much? But for OP. I don't think sex workers will help male loneliness... Instead, a woman who's a friend to a lonely male perhaps would. Hence, the phenomena of men paying for sex workers for the purpose of chatting... But a man addicted to porn or on OF likely couldn't maintain the boundaries required in an intersex friendship. Then again, I don't know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 06:17 AM
–	Why do men hate sex workers so much? Porn. Men asked for promiscuous women. Men got promiscous women. Men no longer want promiscous women. We have a whole generation of young girls who were sent unsolicited pics from strangers. These women now charge the strangers to send them. That's really all that's changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:38 AM
–	Getting upset over the word toxic masculinity is weird I really only have a problem with the word "toxic." It seems like a form of catastrophizing. To be toxic is to assume that everything about you is awful and that everything that comes in contact with you is less because of you. It also doesn't allow for any room for understanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 10:14 AM
1	Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle? Sympathy is a signal female's give to men they are attracted to. Men also perceive sympathy as a sign of a female being attracted to them. Also, society and women tend to only sympathise with men who are admirably in need of sympathy. Men must earn the sympathy of others. Which is harsh and almost contradictory. But I believe it to be true, although I don't want it to be. Whereas women can earn sympathy without much of a cost. Because merely being a woman is value in itself. Remember. Throughout…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 10:06 AM