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| 15 | guys in their late 20's early 30's. How do you do with younger ladies?mid 20s and 22/3 ish is probably the lowest i can go. 19-22 just feels awfully young. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.Being multifaceted is a big point. Dont let one thing be you identity per se. Like if you love fitness and hitting the gym/eating healthy whatever, make than aside not your main thing. | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 02:29 PM |
| 2 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.you wont relate to what he said about dating black men unless you are one, but trust it's a real thing that you have to actively filter for especially with white women. Alot of them(especially the younger college-educated ones) have weird fetishes for black men. Also, just useful to know if I have to explain certain things that black women already know. It's a vague concept but it absolutely exists and I imagine in hispanic and maybe white families. | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 05:13 AM |
| 3 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.dont really struggle as a black man going for my type - mostly either black women or blondes/brunettes I dont think it's that different, but stuff that's helped: having a great high-income job in nyc, cleaning up nice with fit and elegant outfits, staying fit, being a big flirter lol and I guess being tall(6'2).A good place to start is just hitting the gym and getting in good shape while dressing well. that already gets you close. | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Home dates --- how to smoothly transition from cooking to sex?”get some wine, set the mood with some jazzy or rnb music. try small stuff like trying to feed her with some light touches. maintain eye contact. if she's ok with coming to your spot then you are halfway there. just dont be too eager because well she's also sick | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Did post gym stuff help?Absolutely helps, but you dont wanna come across as your main thing so dont have like 3 of those photos lmao. just one that blends into the surrounding. at the beach for instance. | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 03:47 AM |
| 2 | She is testing me. What would you do?cancelling the golf tee is being a pussy lmao | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How Meditation And Awareness Can Greatly Enhance Your Attractiveness And HappinessYup, cosign. I do it almost every other day and it helps. I'd add journaling as well. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 04:58 PM |
| 11 | Even though she is a smoking hot baddie that turn every head when she walks. Should I just approach?This should be pinned to the sub fr. This is how you stop pedestalizing women. And the value doesnt even have to come from wealth or appearance, you have value because of your lived experience, existence as a human, values etc. | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Even though she is a smoking hot baddie that turn every head when she walks. Should I just approach?you've already lost since you are putting her on a pedestal | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Have My Cake and Eat It Too?are you in the friend group? if so they definitely will talk about it lol so one of them will know | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I just breakup w my gf and get back to the gamewhole point of the game imo is to get someone solid to build something healthy and durable. dating pool got dookie in it lmao, you dont wanna be out here | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 03:03 AM |
| 6 | I need help to flirt with my supervisory'all mfs need to control your lust lmao | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Slid into her dms, now what?ask her out man, quit the texting | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 03:40 AM |
| 3 | My first cold approach (20M, college)good job, one thing that worked for me alot in college was to build it up gradually. go from hey to how was your weekend the next time you see her to have you done the hw yet to would you wanna work on it together(still keeping it fairly open) to would you wanna grab some food together. by the time you even get to working on hw, you'd have known if both of you have some chemistry you can build on. like just treat her as another person because that's literally all she is. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Become a Host (and Bang the Participants)Agree, good tip. Even better if you can learn how to make cocktails. You just gotta be more tactical with how you approach bc girls gossip alot lmao and you dont wanna ruin your rep | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Become a Host (and Bang the Participants)Interesting. If they liked your events, something must be truly off to not even get one or two | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?No they arent but I'm willing to bet this isnt a problem even with most ugly women. The extremes are loud but the average is definitely not. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:17 PM |
| 2 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?Sure, but the whole dangerous man has nothing do with whether they get laid. The simple point is yes the average woman does have more options, maybe less quality ones but they do have more options. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:50 PM |
| 0 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?It's not. That guy is being either intentionally disingenous or oblivious lol. Women dont even find most men attractive lol. If they cared about looks alot, most of them wouldnt be dating as much | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?They definitely dont index on looks as much as men do. That's literally the consensus. Heck even dating surveys have found that women dont find most men as attractive. The average woman doesnt care as much for looks as the average man does(for dating). Sex is a different thing where women actually care that you are hot | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?depends on what be with her means. Sex and hook up? Sure. A healthy, durable relationship? alot less likely. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Mixed signals after great dates, am I overthinking or was I gently rejected?Hard to read when there are no paragraphs, man | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:27 PM |
| 14 | Hmmm self respect or play the gameyea she wants the attention | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:23 PM |
| 35 | Hmmm self respect or play the gamesh knew exactly what she was doing and wants you to play along. i'd move on personally. did she offer to reschedule the date? | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Best way to approach a woman in public?my go to is just complimenting their outfit and getting a vibe check if she's interested with me continuing. | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 04:51 PM |
| 7 | Finally approachedI agree wholeheartedly, and this is a good move imo for even other settings where you'll probably see them with some frequency. Just slowly building up the chemistry and not coming across as impatient/desperate. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 11:18 PM |
| 0 | What was your experience hiring a dating coach?one of the dumbest things you can do. | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?to make sure you stil got it. always put up shots even when in a relationship | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Anyone go from "cute" to "cool" (or other "vibes") and did it change your game?why do you want the ABG types and not the ones you attract? More attractive or? | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 08:16 PM |
| 2 | The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributesthe list tracks forsure. | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 05:19 PM |
| 8 | How to keep her off the pedestalby finding other women. | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Do girls appreciate "non gym but sporty" physiques at all?some, yes. most probablty not | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Responding to DMs, but didn't follow me backShe sounds like the type of woman that cares about her follower-following count ratio, Trust me, there's plenty of dudes texting her lmao. Following you back definitely matters but I could also see why she wouldnt do it since she barely knows you. Def still fine texting her, but I wouldnt put her on a pedestal or anything. goodluck champ | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Responding to DMs, but didn't follow me backcmon man you know what the answer is lol. stop putitng her on a pedestal and keep putting other shots up. lots of fine latinas out here. | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 02:12 AM |
| 3 | How to communicate sexual desire with looking totally weird?not a big fan of coaches but lots of good stuff here I agree with. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you approach every random attractive woman you see? Why or why not?not tryna fuck every attractive woman isnt a game lmao. it's respecting yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Girl that I like has genital herpes. Is it worth continuing?I personally wouldnt. lots of women out here | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever tried tell something negative (i.e., diarrhea) about yourself to a hot girl?lmao this is interesting. how did it go? would be fun to try | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting annoyed with people "framing" Miami as advanced mode when it's basically a clone of Seattle's situation.i dont think any software engineer worth their salt is freaking over losing jobs to AI. A bigger concern is the offshoring, and lots of applicants. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Do you approach every random attractive woman you see? Why or why not?speak for yourself lmao. works for me. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 03:24 AM |
| 7 | How do youcreate a bed that women don't want to leave?^ and lots of pelvic muscle exercices that help you last longer and control when you orgasm. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:24 PM |
| 17 | How do youcreate a bed that women don't want to leave?this brother fucks. I'd add some black curtains to dim the room, and some fun light fixtures. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Got a Text Backwhat does new connections mean? did she not wanna go on a date? that's the main reason to ask for a number. if she doesnt want you, you keep it pushing and put up more shots with other women. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:08 PM |
| 41 | I'm getting annoyed with people "framing" Miami as advanced mode when it's basically a clone of Seattle's situation.That's a good point and I agree as a tech bro. I live in sf rn but was i seattle before and it's the same thing here as well. Miami, though, absolutely has prettier women. You cant say that about seattle. Sure the odds might not be good in miami or seattle but the goods are definitely odd in seattle. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Do you approach every random attractive woman you see? Why or why not?naw not all, gotta be more tactical. just like us, women hate it when you are too accessible, also just fucks up your rep. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 06:56 PM |
| 2 | To text her or not gameshe offerred to go dancing. seems like a signal to me that she' interested. Texting is pretty low effort, so I would say do it, keep it brief and use it as a way to plan another irl meetup. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 10:36 PM |
| 9 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?brother if you dont pull at 6'4, something's truly wrong. It's literally a night and day difference. Either you dont clean up well, or give off some pretty bad vibes. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?that's cope lmao | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 7 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?it is worth it if you are 6foot and above, look and clean up well and are a vibe. I am 6"3, dress nice and often have no issues pulling women, often dont even have to approach them. When I'm with my relatively shorter friends, I can definitely see the difference so I try to two or three man with them. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 7 | What are some subtle ways you can come off as needy without realizing it?ideally, yes but reality is often different. there was a time where I was indeed desparatebut still a horndog. Had to do what I had to do. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:48 PM |
| 10 | What are some subtle ways you can come off as needy without realizing it?2 and 3 make no sense. if all I want from her, and I get it, that's fine. Idc about how it comes across to her. now if i want something more, then sure that's desparate. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:33 PM |
| 2 | What are some subtle ways you can come off as needy without realizing it?not having any boundaries or if you do and she crosses them, not being firm about ending contact with her. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:32 PM |
| 0 | I think I'm deleting Tinderyea tinder is only for low beta men who cant approach irl, espeically worse if you are paying for premium or some bullshit | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you start a conversation with a stranger on Instagram and get a reply?oof that doesnt look good then. is it one of those accounts that have an absurdly low follower-following ratio? if so she's probably just farming for followers | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 10:14 PM |
| 6 | How do you start a conversation with a stranger on Instagram and get a reply?i personally prefer to reply to a story with some specific. could be her outfit or a place she's visiting, or you want to visit or some meme she's posted, then go from there. find that better than just reaching out cold w some awkward pick up line. and obviously keep putting shots up, and dont put her on a pedestal. if she's private, yea that's tough haha. maybe just request and if y'all have mutuals, she'll be more inclined to accept it. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 08:20 PM |
| 7 | You can become a "Good Guy" only AFTER you become attractiveyou are 100% right. Until a certain point where you are confident, you arent gonna get any play being honest lol. | /r/seduction | 15/12/25 09:56 PM |
| 21 | Tall girls are an untapped resourcepretty sure he meant relative to short women. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.idc buddy, gets me the same results | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.charge it to the game | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.i meant like on average youll probably have to meet more women to find one who's down for casual only vs leading them on you can do it with just the first one | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s?lol fair enough | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s?that's crazy lmao. im black and intentionally try to avoid hood women | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.read the title again lil bro | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.takes more work + less success rate. leading them on works better | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around."you can only" he didnt say that lmao. he just said the most effective way is by leading them on which is true | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.man the goal is the same, no one cares how you get there | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.or you could just leas them on lmao and arrive to the same goal | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.yea exactly lol. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:26 PM |
| 8 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.LOL op will be fine. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.i agree lmao. that upfront bs wont get you laid as often lol | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 06:21 PM |
| 9 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?Being honest significantly limits the pool of women to have sex with lol. The pool is already small and being hoenst just makes it even smaller. Call me an incel or whatever but it''s part of the game lol | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 05:19 PM |
| 3 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?avoiding dates makes it significantly harder especially in the US lol. Only thing that works is going on cheap dates and elading them on lol | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 05:18 PM |
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