Fishing1980 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Exw using kids to manipulate in a new relationship Honestly, you probably need to be more forceful and straightforward with your kids. Father of three talking and all are currently teenagers. When your son commented about someone to love mommy, you should have straight forward said that you and mommy are divorced and no longer love each other. I know he seems too young at 7 years old but he isn’t. As far as the disrespect towards your current girlfriend, you should scold them loudly and demand they be respectful or give them consequences. They m…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/25 06:39 PM
1	Securing/protect assets after divorce Your will can state that a testamentary trust be setup at time of death for your children. You can have a professional trustee be named in the event your children are not adults.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/24 08:40 PM
3	Advise for Counseling/Therapy If you put your body into starvation mode, it will cause even more depression. I know people will roll their eyes, but a hard workout, shower, and some melatonin before bed will help you to actually sleep and that will help your state of mind as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 08:07 PM
2	Advise for Counseling/Therapy If you’re having a hard time eating, start taking a multivitamin with orange juice and drink protein shakes	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 07:58 PM
7	Just discovered long affair while on vacation He definitely needs to find out. This will be an extra kick in the nuts.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/24 07:07 PM
8	Update: Cheating wife - attorney consultation today Follow your lawyer’s advice and good luck going forward.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/24 04:56 AM
2	What do you do with yourself? Outdoor hobbies take up a lot of time and keep you in shape. Do you not hang out with your guy friends where it is just the guys hanging out from time to time?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/24 01:49 AM
3	Cheating playbook Maybe it’s time for a clean break. Divorce your wife and walk away from the young girl that isn’t your biological daughter and distance yourself from your judgement family. Move to a different state and start over. You are young and can do it.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 02:15 AM
2	Anyone ever feel like never wanting a relationship again? You are frustrated and don’t what to deal with it because you already dealt with it for a decade and in the end it wasn’t worth it. You dealt with it for that decade and at least got your kids out of the deal. Now you have no intention of having more children, so your instincts are telling you that the headaches that come with committed relationships are not worth it. Trust your instincts. You don’t have to end your current relationship, but you should maintain your 50/50 stance and your alone t…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/23 01:34 PM
2	She just does not know how to be happy That was the first thing I noticed as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/22 03:47 PM
4	Did you become persona non grata to other married men friends after Divorce? I don’t think they look down on you. I think they just know that the situation sucks for you but it’s not like they can do anything about it for you so they just talk about other things with you instead. Also, if you were the type of guy that had to ask permission from his wife, that sucked for you. I have some friends and a brother in marriages like that and I give them shit about it because I don’t play that game. Things are looking up for you. The divorce is almost done, you have begun better…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/22 08:37 PM