FishyPussyCuck Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
77	Why am I afraid to escalate?		FishyPussyCuck	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 10:51 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Why am I afraid to escalate? Nice Guy has been my conditioning for a very long time. I talk to myself about missing opportunities but for some reason It kinda seems like either I don't want to change, or change isn't happening fast enough or when I need it too. Maybe i'm taking everything way too seriously when it comes to women and dating?	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 11:50 AM
1	Why am I afraid to escalate? Are there any ways or tool-tips I can use to begin to fight my fear of rejection? I also don't know how to distinguish ASD. I may find what i'm looking for in the sidebar.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 11:48 AM
5	Why am I afraid to escalate? Now I'm getting somewhere. Now for how to over-come it.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 11:47 AM
3	Why am I afraid to escalate? Pedestal, probably not. But it seems like I tend to want things to work out the way they do in my head, then when one thing is thrown off, I go silent autistic.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 11:47 AM
2	Why am I afraid to escalate? I honestly have NOTHING to lose. I wouldn't care If I never saw this chick again, but for some reason and as some of the comments below have state, I'm beginning to believe I have the fear of rejection in my head. I'm almost certain I could've F closed if I'd atleast put in minimal effort instead of pussying out like I did. I may need to work on my mental game before I actually start pursuing.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 11:46 AM
4	Why am I afraid to escalate? Yeah, on my way out I kinda knew I fucked up somewhere and there was no going back. You don't gain experience unless you try. But at the time I don't think I was thinking logically.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 11:43 AM
6	Why am I afraid to escalate? I'm not a very good kisser myself, do you think that would've turned her off?	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 11:06 AM
15	Why am I afraid to escalate? Yeah, once she invited me in, I knew the cards were on the table, all i had to do was play my hand right, and since I've almost never been in a situation like that, I guess you could say I kinda "Froze up". I've been hearing things (Not just on this occasion) about just doing it, and when it's in your mind you kinda get intimidated or whatnot. Is there a way to train your mind to avoid these thoughts? Or is just "Jumping in balls deep" still the only legitimate answer?	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 11:05 AM