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Don't even have to not overeat, just not become morbidly obese. Like 70% of the us is overweight or obese, women slightly moreso then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:28 AM
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Or better yet, go ask the front desk to have someone take care of it because thats their fucking job 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:39 PM
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Yea I noticed that a not so insignificant number of women who talk about how important emotional intelligence is, will readily conflate empathy with sympathy and call men who aren't sympathetic to them unempathetic. I may have plenty of empathy (the ability to understand how you are feeling) while not having a drop of sympathy (feeling bad for you because of how you're feeling).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:39 PM
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I don’t think emotional immaturity is limited to any gender. This is obviously true. Some of the most emotionally immature people I've ever met were women who would rant about how emotionally immature all the other people were...not them though, no of course not 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:34 PM
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No just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:58 PM
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Yep. I have said this for a long time but usually phrased as: Women's advice doesn't work for men because when men ask "how do I get a woman interested in me?" women skip over that and answer the question "how do I be a good boyfriend?" The women just don't seem realize that what they're answering is useless to men if they never get an answer to the question they're actually asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:56 PM
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None of this makes any sense to me because none of the women I ever dated made me wait particularly long for sex and yet they were all women I was looking to date long term. There has never been a woman I've dated that made me wait longer than the second date (not counting my first where we were both not yet adults and waited about a month before we lost our virginity to eachother). I never viewed those women as low value, they were women who I liked, who liked me, why would either of us want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:40 PM
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That's me except I'm the one who is the bangmaid and we both paid for the down payment on our house. I do like getting to smoke weed all day but I did that even when I worked 16 hours a day. It's a lot more fun to be at home playing with the kiddo though...most of the time at least. He can be a real piece of work when he refuses to sleep 😅. I do also credit my involvement to just how far advanced he is so my wife and I see a lot of value in having a parent home so he gets plenty of one on one te…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:38 PM
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Yep: https://www.census.gov/library/publications/2025/demo/p60-285.html To find the data well need to do a tiny bit of math but if you look in the PDF from that link at Table 2 (page 10) we get: Custodial mothers Supposed to receive child support: 3,897,000 Received at least some payment: 3,030,000 (77.8%) Received no payment: 22.2% Custodial fathers Supposed to receive child support: 786,000 Received at least some payment: 504,000 (64.1%) Received no payment: 35.9% The "received no payment" per…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:34 PM
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39 states teach abstinence which then you know makes it really hard for young people to understand how to avoid pregnancies So being taught that sex causes pregnancy makes it hard for kids to understand how to avoid pregnancy? Lmfao. I had 0 issues with knowing how to prevent pregnancy. Don't have sex with someone you aren't interested in having kids with, problem solved, and I never had a kid with someone I didn't want to have a kid with. Wow that was soooooo hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:10 PM
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Women are actually more likely than men to have paid 0$ of their ordered child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:05 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:51 PM
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Most women will never understand that men can put tons of action into practice and still struggle. It's quite simply a lack of empathy because they're viewing your struggles through their lens. In their life the only reason they would be single is by not taking action on any of the numerous advanced they receive so rather than trying to understand the male experience they just map their own experience onto men. This causes them to decide that single men can't be doing all the right things and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:49 PM
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Yep my mom was like that. Makes it really hard for the people around you to accept how she treated us when they see an entirely different persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:47 PM
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I...there ain't no way that's your evidence 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:48 PM
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Whats your sample size for drawing these conclusions from?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:31 PM
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That's why more men should be SAHDs. Works pretty well for me, wife handles the bills, I handle parenting, homemaking, and maintenance. We need some more equality in stay at home parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:05 PM
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Anecdote is not the same thing as personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:20 PM
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I have lots of anecdotes of horrible men and women. Would you like examples or something? What's the point of your question? Do you just not believe there are lots of horrible women in the world of something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:49 PM
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Almost every anecdote I share that paints a woman in a bad light is dismissed as me lying. They never seem to do that when I say something that paints a man in a bad light though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:51 PM
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It's crazy just how widespread this misrepresentation of reality has become. Like those studies were just gobbled up as fact and most people have never once questioned them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:47 PM
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You realize that old data can skew the current picture right? I'll give a hypothetical example, yes I know this would never happen irl, it's a far more gradual process in reality, but this framing helps show the limitations of lifetime stats better. Let's say that the data starts with those 18 and older in 1940 and goes to present day. Now imagine a scenario where 60% of women were raped in 1940 because men of that time just went crazy raping everyone they could. Women now have a lifetime preval…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:29 PM
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You have a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:55 PM
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Plenty of younger women are doing this. Met my wife at 21, buddy of mine met his at 19, my brother met his at 18, brothers friend met his at 23. The reason people don't talk about young women who date intentionally as much is because those women are typically off the market quickly and thus not really part of the equation of single people, but if you actively look for them, rather than women who are looking for hookups, then they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:42 PM
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I did watch a round of love is blind with mine lol. It was ok, wouldn't watch it again but it wasn't the worst show I've ever seen. Wife and I like a lot of the same movies so it's not usually hard finding something we both like...something we are both in the mood for though? Yea that's a different story 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:39 AM
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Well that obviously depends on context, like if you spend 3 hours making a time intensive dish that nobody asked for and then complain about how long you spent cooking it then yes. You could have just thrown a chicken in the oven and done something else for those hours but you chose to do something extensive instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:33 PM
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The problem is in the subjective definition of what constitutes a clean home. The neat freak is not automatically correct because they think that any spec of dust makes a home unclean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:29 PM
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Trauma dumping on a first date = emotional intelligent...got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:23 AM
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The average man (77%) is more likely to be fat than the average woman (69%) is. Where do these stats come from
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:34 PM
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They probably only ever went to pornhub and then wondered why its primarily western porn lmao. Even there there's still plenty of porn from other countries. And yes JAV is huge so missing that is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:33 PM
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Because, women in your country india are not beautiful on average. This is true of basically everywhere though. Average people are not beautiful, they're average...🤯. Wild concept I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:29 PM
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Which study...link it so we know where you got this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:26 PM
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Yea I think a lot of women massively minimize how much a man has to fear from getting a woman pregnant. Yes they don't have to physically give birth but that's only 1 part in a decades long issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:45 PM
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Well at least you know you can physically get there, just gotta keep trying. My first ex was seemingly completely incapable of orgasm. She masturbated a lot for a woman but never even was able to get herself off. We were together for about 2 years and there wasn't a single orgasm for her in that time...and we both sure as shit tried 😂. She still enjoyed sexual activity so we did quite a lot of it but still no orgasms. My wife on the other hand orgasms almost every time we have sex. As long as sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:41 PM
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But it's not an act that necessarily advocates for a particular system. Disengaging at its simplest just says "I'll let the rest of society figure that out".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:33 AM
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Yea red pill back in the days when PUA was big had literally no discernable connection to politics. Then it slowly started to work its way in and all of the sudden people talk about it as if it has always gone hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:29 AM
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Well by process of elimination probably the average men because the above average women tend to end up with the above average men. Of course this leaves the below average women to the below average men. Clearly this isn't a black and white line so you will have scattered instances of mixed couples where one is closer to average than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:08 AM
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Definitely below average in writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:02 AM
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Certainly not beating the allegations with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:37 PM
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You didn't read the study did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:21 PM
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No it is actually changing and there's data to show that change. https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1lu4j31/the_millenial_shift_millennial_satrends_are/ The study is linked in there and there's data points referenced in the post. Basically men are getting better than they used to be and women are getting worse when it comes to various types of SA including against children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:38 PM
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No it is actually changing and there's data to show that change. https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1lu4j31/the_millenial_shift_millennial_satrends_are/ The study is linked in there and there's data points referenced in the post. Basically men are getting better than they used to be and women are getting worse when it comes to various types of SA including against children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:37 PM
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And what percent of profiles do you swipe on? Because you really can't say you "attract nothing but duds" if you only swipe on 1% of profiles, because that just means "I'm only attracted to duds" instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:08 PM
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Idk. Felt a lot like luck when I was dating. The only reason I met my wife was because I happened to expand my radius on the right day and swipe on her profile while she was busy procrastinating on her finals. I probably only showed up for her because she had just signed up for tinder that day after having deleted coffeemeetsbagel. And even after I showed up for her, it was still luck because she almost swiped no on me and then changed her mind just before she let go of her swipe so I almost dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:21 PM
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female bullies had a much higher correlation with dating success than male bullies did Females have more success in dating than males...amazing 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:11 PM
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All porn is not by definition a supernormal stimulus and some romance novels absolutely can be a supernormal stimulus. Like most things in life, it's not black and white so making definitive statements like that just makes you look like a fool. All a supernormal experience is, is: an artificial or exaggerated version of a natural stimulus that triggers a stronger, more hardwired behavioral response than the original
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:08 PM
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A certain type of woman yes. You probably don't want to date that type of woman...yes I know from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:53 PM
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30% of [noncustodial] fathers pay no child support. I assume you're talking about the stats showing percentage of fathers who are ordered to pay child support but fail to do so. If so, then 38% of noncustodial mothers pay no child support despite being ordered to do so. Breaking news, shitty parents are shitty parents 🤯.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:49 PM
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Dying is not dumping lmao...good try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:56 PM
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Up until last year I had never seen a trans person. Do you believe me saying that means I am stating that I do not believe trans people exist? You see the problem with your assumption right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:12 PM
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Yes...yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:08 PM
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Yeah, and l posted stats about how SAHMs work 61 hours per week when SAHDs only work 33 hours per week, implying that men are lazy, only do the bare minimum and do half of what the typical SAHM does. Could you source these stats for me? I'd like to see the research.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:55 AM
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They won't rethink it. They're too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:48 AM
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Yea my wife came back to my place after our first date. Didn't make any difference in how I felt about her. I bet its the womans personality driving them away
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:29 PM
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Yea you really gotta be damn specific when you have a wish like this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:47 AM
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Not really. It just proves they stayed together. Regardless only 17% of couples being content with their partner doesn't sound like most end up in that "lasting many years" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:16 AM
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Even hugging releases oxytocin, I'm well aware of this. Its nowhere near the same amount as actual sexual contact but it does happen. I just didn't feel the need to expound upon it to someone who was imo likely responding in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:50 AM
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Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:09 AM
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Well approximately 70% of couples break up within the first year so that's a massive portion right there. There was also a study that said only 17% of couples were truly content in their relationship. 95% might be a stretch but the number is definitely very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:47 PM
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That's a really short time to give up and accept the black pill. Took me over 2 years to get a single match that responded to me, 3 years to get a date and at 3.5 years I met my wife. Don't throw in the towel so early.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:36 PM
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Over what timeframe?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:21 PM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:36 AM
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You notice how they put the words in quotes? Yea that's because they're actually implying "stay at home parent" and "breadwinner". It's not because they think that only men or only women should be filling their respective roles. They're leaving room to accommodate men like me who take on the familial role of "women" aka "stay at home parent" while my wife takes on the role of "men" aka "breadwinner" to avoid exactly the harm they're talking about from being raised by underqualified, overburdened…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:55 AM
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I personally think this is partly well-meaning but maddening advice to not get too set on any specific plans, because life has a way of throwing curve balls, I think this explains the vast majority of it. Like take kids for example, he says his partner needs to want to have 3 kids but this assumes she will be able to. My wife and I wanted 3 kids, we have 1 and aren't able to try for more at the moment and might never be able to because of health issues. Would OP accept this and be flexible? Woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:39 AM
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Most of the single women I know haven't actually met any men that check all the boxes they want checked for a relationship. The boxes are just an amalgamation of various qualities from various men that they want the man of their dreams to have (or not have). That doesn't seem to stop them from having those boxes and crossing off potential partners that don't meet them all. Why should OP not hold out for the woman of his dreams? If he fails to find her he'll just have to decide whether he is will…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:27 AM
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Took me over 100k swipes in 3 years to pull just the stay at home dad card, and that wasn't even planned. We did both want 3 kids (well she wanted 4, I wanted 2 and we met in the middle), but she developed health problems and now it would be risky for her to get pregnant again without getting that under control so we are stuck at 1 kid. Maybe that's the kind of thing people are referencing when they say that things don't always go according to plan. Maybe they think you wouldn't be able to be fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:09 AM
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I think he's probably gonna have to trade enjoys sex. A smidge of bipolar, or maybe bpd, sounds like it'd just about do it. Be warned this may come back to bite him later when it causes her to lose the job he depends on to be the SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:59 AM
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“Advanced maternal age” is a term that describes anyone who is 35 or older and pregnant. This is the age when your chances of pregnancy complications increase. Some of these complications are higher rates of miscarriage and a greater chance of having a baby with a genetic disorder. Advanced maternal age is the newer and preferred name for a geriatric pregnancy. Whether or not the issue is with the eggs themselves doesn't mean that there's no increased risks for women of "advanced maternal age".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:27 PM
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But if not, how would we even go about knowing this for a fact? Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:22 PM
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Contrary to that, most threads I encounter, with men speaking about aforementioned bad stuff happening to them, the women in there are quite empathetic This is so completely antithetical to my experience. Every thread I've seen talking about male victims has lots of women chiming in about how women have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:41 PM
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You really believe all empathy is performative? You do know that sympathy is different than empathy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:28 PM
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Not from what I've seen. You might call it a complaint but I consider it more of a rebuttal, at least in the context I see it most frequently. The dissolutioned will see a woman complaining about men not being compassionate and so they say something like "well women don't show men compassion so why would I show it to them?" That's not really complaining that women aren't compassionate, they've already accepted that women aren't (in their eyes), from their perspective they are just stating why th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:22 PM
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This is the worst place to be as a man. My wife has chronic health issues and has been in and out of the hospital this month. There's been tons of crying and fear and pain and it just sucks because the doctors can't even help her that much so the only thing I'm able to do is be there for support. It's a problem that might have a solution but I'm woefully unqualified to help and it kills me...pretty much the first major situation in my life where I've truly felt helpless to make any difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:25 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:10 AM
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Bruh 🫪 you need help man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:53 AM
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Nah you dodging hardcore but you're being too blatant about it so we can all tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:44 AM
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What a goalpost shift 👏...but no she won't because I'm not emotionally unavailable, and she thinks those women are nutjobs (either for marrying an emotionally unavailable man and staying with him but complaining or for complaining about a man who's perfectly fine so much that she's the one who made him emotionally unavailable in the first place, both have happened). I've heard about her tangles with women like that in her circle of aquaintances more than few times so I have a pretty good idea on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:35 AM
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Not smart to speak in absolutes. My wife did not marry me for money (I'm a SAHD because I don't make enough to offset the childcare cost enough to make it worth leaving kiddos with an underpaid daycare worker) and we still have as much sex as we have time for as busy parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:55 PM
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That one example has made millions billions of people believers fools for hundreds thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:32 PM
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Except there's an endless array of women out there openly complaining about the men they are dating who don't do this. Clearly showering isn't the thing keeping men from dating or women wouldn't have all these men in their lives to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:01 AM
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And websites is doing a lot of work here and honestly makes this stat quite pathetic. Basically says that less than half of mothers do any research at all into parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:33 AM
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Not been my experience. Maybe you gotta up your game. My wife and I still have sex at least twice a week which is about as many times as we have time for given we have a lot going on with the kiddos stuff. If time freed up we'd surely get it on more but such is the life of a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:51 PM
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If men are hypergamous when it comes to looks then why is it so common that men will cheat on their partner with a woman that's less attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:47 PM
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Did you escape from r/trueuglywomen or something? That might just be the place for you based on your mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:46 PM
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I had 20 real matches in 3 years with over 100k swiped yes on. No I don't count the bots deployed by sex workers selling their services as a match, I got tons of them. Of those 20, 10 unmatched before I could message, 5 didn't respond when i messaged them, 2 treated me like utter dogshit on the app so I never asked them out and 3 resulted in dates. One of those dates being my now wife, the other 2 being really just boring self-centered people that didn't ask me a single question about myself the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:40 PM
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Yep. I had no problem courting my wife who is definitely my looksmatch, assuming court isn't short for showering with tons of material items, the problem was finding any woman, looksmatch or not, who was willing to even give me the opportunity to court them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:37 PM
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Objective is like the exact opposite of the concept of beauty is in the eye of the beholder...what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:24 PM
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Yep I totally am lying. I definitely didn't just put my kiddo to bed. How are you so dang perceptive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:29 PM
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Except men search the entire desert (swiping yes on basically every profile) looking for even a little dirty water, anything really, while women search a tiny spot (swiping no on most every profile) see some dirty water and give up and decide that all water everywhere is dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:00 PM
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Wait you think that nobody who complains about dating difficulties is married? I spent 3 years swiping on over 100k profiles to get a total of 3 dates, one of which I married. Why am I not to be believed because I can commiserate with other men facing the same difficulties? Such fucking stupid logic 🤦‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:51 PM
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Do you actually think this sub is representative of the whole population?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:28 PM
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Its just a description of what is. I chose to see that as a positive because most people wont be the person for me, others choose to see that as a negative. Most women have an endless sea of options to choose from, do you think they view that as a positive or a negative? Right, that all depends on the specific woman. I have no control over how anyone perceives the dating landscape but whats true is that most men (particularly the ones who are struggling and need the advice we are talking about) …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:01 AM
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No, irl they largely go unnoticed unless you are able to gain the attention/intrigue/attraction of a woman in the first place. Thats the part most men struggle with, getting noticed at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:54 AM
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When did i say it was a negative? I actually didnt, I'm simply pointing out that most women just dont experience this and thus are completely inequipped to help men with advice to overcome that struggle and so thats why their advice falls short for most men, it completely ignores a large portion of the problem that the man looking for advice is experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:51 AM
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Yep so they dont gain experience communicating that way even once they dont fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:25 PM
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I think its simpler than that, I think that most blue pill/woman's advice is simply directed at the wrong question. Men ask "how do i get a girlfriend?" and women actually answer the question "how do I be a good boyfriend?" These two questions, while similar on their face, come from two entirely different perspectives. Women just don't have the male experience of the endless sea of rejections that have to be persevered through to try to find someone willing to even give you the time of day to sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:39 PM
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Yep its the same as incel, the common usage and the definition dont match.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:46 PM
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And we are told false accusations are rare 🤔😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:44 PM
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The problem with this is that isnt how the word is used. People accuse men of wanting a bangmaid for basically anything that even remotely hangs onto traditional gender norms around here (here being reddit not this subreddit specifically). Its the same thing as incel, the actual definition is not how its used in practice most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:43 PM
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Yea when I got together with my wife she had no income. She's very intelligent though and that did eventually result in a high income that's more than mine, but if she wasn't making that I wouldn't be considering ending the relationship the way a lot of women do when their high income partner loses/gives up that high income. I forget the stats but when a man loses his job or takes a significant paycut there's a massive increase in chance of relationship ending that doesn't exist when a woman los…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:42 PM
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This is definitely not true 😂 most women have little to no ability to truly empathize with men, they look at men through a woman's lens, make claims that are so far off from reality that it's laughable and then claim they understand men. Their understanding of mens experiences is about as good as the men who claim that women should like catcalling because men wouldnt be bothered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:54 PM
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I assume he means the latter but I'd be curious to hear your answer to the former as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:34 PM
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Kink lol? Literally nothing about kink in my comment 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:32 PM
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Yea saying that orgasms are physical not mental for men is wild. No amount of physical stimulation is going to get me off if I'm stuck in my head stressing about something and if my stress is really bad I'm just not gonna even get hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:11 PM
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Do you just not believe there are women that orgasm a lot? My wife basically orgasms repeatedly all through intercourse, provided she has already orgasmed from her clit first, otherwise there's no orgasms during intercourse at all. My ex before I met my wife had never orgasmed at all, not from her own hand/toys or me or her previous boyfriends and there was no shortage of trying. My ex before that could only orgasm once from intercourse and only while her clit was being stimulated and then she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:10 PM
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literally no drawbacks to this This is delusional and completely devoid of empathy for men and their experiences. Youre just using your own lens to project your perspective onto them and then calling it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:54 PM
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Crazy that the pay gap is still being parroted this long after it's been debunked 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:47 PM
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Nobody said anything about morality in this comment chain except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:49 AM
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Yep lol. The whole 2 inches. I guess she figured it'd go from 2 to 3 not 2 to 7 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:37 AM
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Not every woman is the same size. Im 7" but I've been with a woman who I literally could not even get halfway inside before I was hitting her cervix. It wasn't pleasurable for me or her but 4.5" would still be more than enough for her. Like sure, unfortunately you're in a minority here, but that doesn't mean there aren't women who are also in a minority that would be a good fit sexually for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:23 AM
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Yea I'd guess you're right. I don't even have a small penis, I'm just a grower not a shower. A girl I was seeing saw me for the first time when I wasn't hard and she laughed me out of her room. Never had that problem before or since because usually I'm already full mast well before my pants are off lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:15 AM
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And what is it exactly that most women are into sexually that would cause men to become extremely violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:19 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:29 PM
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You could also look at the total numbers. Roughly 105 boys are born for every 100 girls yet there are more women than men in the population (US stats here). If men weren't dying from the sum of all causes at higher rates than women, men would make up roughly 51.2% of the population but instead they make up roughly 49.5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:11 AM
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I answered your question already you're just not intelligent enough to see that so I insulted you when you asked the second time despite the answer being right there if you had even the slightest reading comprehension ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:42 AM
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You're a moron if that's what you think happened here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:36 AM
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Are people who have had only one sexual encounter included in the data for people who have had at least one sexual encounter? Hmmmm I dunno man that's a tough question...🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:31 AM
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You don't think that the people who had a singular sexual encounter in an entire year is "getting almost no attention from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:57 PM
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Not like it's not true though, it happens very rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:09 PM
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I love when people don't even realize the goomba fallacy they have walked themselves into...yes I mean you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:52 PM
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learn how to talk to women Ah yes the famously completely uncomplicated act of learning how to talk to women. are female friendships requiring more effort than male friendships? Yes significantly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:06 PM
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Explain how the process of attracting a woman is "very basic".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:20 PM
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The best way I've found to describe red pill advice vs women advice is that they're talking past each other because of a lack of empathy on both sides...women give you advice that rarely works because it's specifically tailored to answer how to be a good boyfriend not how to get a girlfriend, because 1) thats what they want and 2) they don't actually understand the struggles that men face in dating because they don't have those struggles. Red pill (or pua back in the day, they said a lot of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:19 PM
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The point is that if you think a bear is safer for women to be around than a man, then logically you should also believe that a world where every man becomes a bear would be safer for women than a world where every man stays a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:54 AM
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Yep. My wife was the first person to actually be communicative with me about sex. I tried with all my previous partners when it was obvious something wasn't clicking but they were just so passive theyd try to say it was good and don't worry and blah blah. Like I'm trying to improve our sex life and you're too scared to communicate with me about it? Unsurprisingly my wife and I have really good sex almost all of the time...that's because she helped me figure out her body just like I helped her fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:38 PM
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Do you believe that you (and allllll the other women in the world) would actually be safer in society if 100% of men were instantaneously turned into bears?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:22 PM
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Sooo cater to women's feelings (fear) and supress your own (anger). I feel like I've heard this advice somewhere before...I thought we had come to realize that men doing this was problematic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:10 PM
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Did you click the link at the top of the post and watch it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:00 PM
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Pua gave WAY more actionable steps than the platitudes given by women. I tried taking the advice I got from women for years before I found out about pua. Unsurprisingly I never had a successful date following the advice I got from women. And I had multiple, one of which resulted in me getting married, following the advice I got from men/pua.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:14 PM
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A surprising amount of women don't treat men as humans. They don't seem to have any issues dating because of it. Almost like men and women have different experiences in dating. Also the men women complain about "not treating them like humans" are the ones they are actually dating, not the ones that are invisible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:12 PM
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Yea it's basically like saying "anyone can go out and buy a Lambo right now." Like sure...if they can afford to, but hardly anybody can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:24 PM
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“That’s your purpose though! It’s what you’re made for! Your life will have no meaning!” This comes from women WAY more than it comes from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:43 AM
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I reject your definition of abuse. I only pointed out that the vast majority of people, men and women alike, are abusers by your definition. You don't just "engage in abusive behavior" without being an abuser, just like you don't engage in nonconsensual sex without being a rapist or engage in drunk driving without being a drunk driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:56 AM
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Oh so you are an abuser then, just like probably 99%+ of the world by your definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:36 PM
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Nope. People say mean things sometimes. You can't possibly expect me to believe that you have never, not a single time in your life, made a personal attacks, degradation, or accusation against someone. That is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:07 PM
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I guess every woman I've ever dated, every friend I've ever had (men or women), my entire family and countless other individuals I've met have been abusers then. This is the problem with labeling everything as abuse. You water it down for real victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:21 PM
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Barely any men actually do this, and women kill their husbands at pretty close rates. Roughly 1600 women and 1100 men are murdered by their intimate partner over the course of a year (US). This makes up approximately 0.001% of the population and the difference between men a women is a tiny rounding error. Almost nobody murders their partner and the few who do are split 60/40 between men/women. Generalization of 50% of the population because of the actions of less than 0.001% of the population is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:08 PM
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Go ahead and explain how, this should be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:49 PM
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Calling this abuse is fucking hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:51 PM
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They do but they don't. Women are a tax burden over the course of their lives. See figure 5, 16, 17: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2375926
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:16 AM
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Exactly lol. When I was younger I ended up in the cold approach club based solely on the fact that all the advice I had received from the numerous girls and women in my life had failed miserably. When I started following more of the advice from men I ended up having success. What I realized later is that all the female advice I had received were far better answers to the question "How can I be a good boyfriend?" than they were to the question "How can I get a girlfriend?". It's not useless infor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:04 PM
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