TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

FitCombination3545 Archive

View 0 posts and 38 comments by FitCombination3545 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
4

wtf man. Worst psychiatrist ever. You def deserved empathy and compassion in that situation.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/26 05:50 PM
1

Burritos
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/26 05:55 PM
3

You should get a clipboard tool to make this automated. I see it on a lot of threads and I can't say it's not a good reminder.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 11:06 PM
3

Can you tell me more about the logic and motivation for this? Why would you want to run up every line of credit?
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 09:45 PM
3

So the jewelers convinced you to give them another $XX,XXX even after you realized your first purchase had no resale value? Not hating, just want to make sure you see the scam. Perfectly fine if you want to keep playing the game. No hate.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/26 04:58 AM
3

It does not matter whose name it's in if it was purchased while you were married.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 06:39 PM
2

Yeah really whatever sounds best to you OP. Maybe movies or gaming or something that keeps your mind active/absorbed might be better than something like a hike which can leave you alone with your thoughts sometimes.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 04:08 PM
3

Or she lied about it hurting because she didn't want to have sex with you 😞
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 07:17 PM
3

Damn. She just did not give a fuck. That's brutal man. Sorry. Sounds like a super shitty person and I'm glad you're free of her.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 07:14 PM
2

What evidence did you find? I've seen this happen in a movie, I don't recall which one, but the wife left a condom wrapper for the husband to find. It didn't make sense to me. Is it because women are non-confrontational? They want you to know but they don't want to go through the trouble of telling you? So weird.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 05:04 PM
1

Yeah tell her she's not a real woman when she doesn't put out or keep the house spotless
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 12:04 AM
1

Yeah you don't want another 20 years of this... not that it would take that long.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 08:51 PM
1

I don't know you, but I know personally that I'm not a talker because I lack the ability to come up with something clever when I'm mad/agitated so I tend to get violent once I get exasperated. My point is: I understand the temptation to put him in his place. However, the right answer is usually, and probably definitely in this case, to not escalate things into an altercation that could potentially have very bad consequences for you and, by extension, your family.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/26 12:56 AM
5

I'm in the "I can do no right and she can do no wrong" club too! When we'd fight, she'd expect me to apologize for what I said wrong and she would not apologize for what she said wrong. Over and over. Wild.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 11:47 AM
2

Yeah, while they may understand this as adults, you'll come out of this looking like the bad guy. Model how to control your emotions and be the bigger man. I'd just avoid him altogether if I was you.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 08:45 PM
1

Yeah, I think what you're saying is that you understand how the ordeal could lead someone to snap violently, but it's never okay. And, that's the point. We shouldn't have a system that puts people basically through soul-tearing torture.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 12:38 AM
15

Yeah, what's with that? It really does seem like guys take that shit to heart and take it serious and women are just like "I'll stay until I'm not happy" or whatever. I'm not always happy either but a marriage is a commitment and you work on that shit. You don't destroy it when it's no longer fun or convenient or beneficial.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 07:43 PM
5

Dude. Can we talk about this? I am in the exact same situation. She uses threat of divorce as a weapon and I called her bluff. I don't even think this is what she really wants, but it appears she's going through with it because she's so damn stubborn and can't admit when she's wrong. Absolutely wild you'd destroy your marriage/family like this.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/26 01:12 PM
1

It's a holiday for other people to celebrate and appreciate the relationship they have with you, their father. It's not about you per se, but more about the relationship. I see your logic and side to this, but I think you may be selling yourself short and sending messages you don't intend to. I'm not saying you should make a big stink about it this year, but maybe be sure you get them on Father's Day next year. Maybe mention that to your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 02:40 PM
9

That was obviously intentional and a super shitty thing for her to do. Realize this. That she intentionally did something she knew would hurt you and send you into a tailspin. You don't want that kind of person in your life. That's your takeaway from this. Not that she's the person you want back in your life.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 11:42 AM
5

Yes, OP, unfortunately that's true and you're currently doing what's called "pick me" where, whether you realize it or not, you're trying to compete with the other guy and hoping that if you do the right things, she'll choose you over him. In reality, she has made her choice and she'll only come back to you if things don't work out with the asshole she cheated with. Don't let her use you that way.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 11:47 AM
11

Yeah it's odd how women will destroy the thing you devoted your life to protecting and then act like they didn't and you shouldn't care that they did.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 11:55 AM
2

You've already done the hard part by getting clean and sober. Now, you need to focus on maintaining that and making yourself happy and content so that you can attract the quality of woman you should be with.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 11:48 PM
1

Gotcha. Thanks for the info.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 11:34 PM
1

What do you mean when you say you won't want to co-parent with ex? What's the alternative?
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 10:15 PM
2

Yeah that's fucked up man. How are you doing? Don't let anyone make light of it. That's hardcore betrayal.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 09:53 PM
3

Yeah that's fucked up. Would have been my last session and might have just walked out. Total bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/26 05:08 PM
6

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 08:34 PM
1

Not saying you're wrong, but just trying to understand the legal implications here. Why should he take it down? Like how could this be used against him?
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 07:20 PM
5

Stay frosty man. Watch your back. She may have had other lines in the water than the good guy who told you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 06:50 PM
5

It sounds wrong, but I actually think this might be necessary for some people. Eventually you let go of the hate too, of course, but as a transitionary phase, I can't argue it's not effective. Not sure how healthy it is but staying attached to someone who doesn't love you isn't healthy either.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 03:55 PM
0

To be honest, it will probably never be what it should have been if I'd allowed myself to bond with him as a father while I was young. It did improve though, yes.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 10:43 PM
5

I am a child of divorce. I stayed pretty loyal to my bio dad and kind of refused to accept my step-dad as my father. Never called him dad, etc. I was 7 when my mom married him. It wasn't until I left for college that I realized my step-dad had been my father all along and my loyalty was misguided because I didn't have to choose - I had two fathers the whole time. I also recognized that my step-father was the one who was actually there for me and being fatherly. So, my point is: it may take some …
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 07:48 PM
7

Yeah, if she isn't pulling her weight I don't really see the issue with encouraging her to leave. Seems like she's just using OP for free rent. My ex tried to do the same.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 11:22 PM
13

Sounds like F is encouraging all of this. Terrible when a woman's "friend" fills her head with this kind of stuff based on one twisted side of the story. My stbxw has an F in her life. We probably would not be separated without her influence. But, if that's all it takes? Good riddance.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 04:38 PM
2

Man, sorry you went through that. It's crazy how attached and invested us men become and our ex's are out there saying "he didnt care about me."
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 04:50 PM
2

When you say you're not ready, what do you mean? What does it feel like? How do you know you're not ready? I see this advice constantly to wait to date. I am one month in and feel ready to date. I guess like OP, some attention from the opposite sex, and sex, would be wonderful. But, I've also read enough to know I should probably wait.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 02:31 PM
1

How did she get the house? What did you get? What state doesn't split marital assets 50/50?
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 07:46 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter