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You’re not even giving an example of “feminist revisionism”. And, men making laws against rape… 🙄… But there were certain requirements: What was she wearing? What was she doing? Was she drunk? Was she “asking for it”? Was she out when it was dark? Was she alone? Did she smile at the guy? Cuz, you know, that means she wanted it… IF the guy goes to jail.. it’s barely any time. Then he’s released to do it again. How about teaching guys to not rape? On other forums, guys tell me if there weren’t pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:02 PM
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Wow… okay. So, basically you decided to not really address everything I mentioned and responded in my post; and you have decided that all the history books were pretty much written by feminists. So there’s some conspiracy theory that women probably really run the world..? Rape doesn’t really exist? There is a difference between misandry and victimization. You’re not interested in having a discussion. You’re interested in defending yourself. A “womanizer” is still a nicer term than calling someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:41 PM
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I haven’t heard that most men are bad at sex. I’ve heard that there are men who don’t care if a woman has an orgasm. I think that is more the individual man’s problem versus all men. All men care about is sex, is not misandry. Misandry means, “hatred or contempt for men”. If you are saying that women hate men or have contempt towards men because all they think about is sex, then I would ask, why do men always think about sex? If you’re saying you don’t always think about sex, then that’s fine, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:42 AM
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And why are sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:34 AM
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Ultimately, my opinions don’t matter. I just wish women were given some respect and not name called, but even that is too much to ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:33 AM
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Men like tall women too… men want it all….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:12 AM
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I don’t even know why this conversation keeps being brought up. Women are still doing prostitution and women are still doing pornography. Feminism hasn’t taken those things away from you. Feminism is just allowing women to have our own bank accounts. Like , did you know women were not allowed to have our own bank accounts until the 1960s? https://www.spiral.us/blog/when-could-women-have-a-bank-account-a-short-history-of-financial-gender-equality-and-the-financial-road-ahead/ So, without feminism…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:11 AM
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I’ve read repeatedly that men want women with pretty faces AND great bodies. So, men pretty much want it ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:42 PM
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Why are women sluts? What misandry are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:47 PM
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Sounds like you have it figured out. Maybe run for office. You’re happy with herpes….? So should others be happy with herpes too..?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:28 PM
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That is horrible that you spoke to a woman using that type of language. I’ll say this. When I argue, I don’t name call. I read so many threads where I see name calling, and how men immediately call women those horrible names! Ugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:27 PM
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I don’t approve of prostitution or “pimps” or any of that shit. lol Men have given themselves these nice labels of “pimp” and “johns”, yet women are labeled “whores”, “sluts”, “hoes”, “bitches”—I hate it all. I think women working as prostitutes continues this tendency for men to automatically call women these horrible names whenever they get angry with women and it really bothers me. I just wish men would have a little respect for women and call women, women. And if we are jerks, call us jerks,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:59 PM
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So maybe all women should be prostitutes so there won’t be any rape? BUT how about the men who like them young…? How would you deal with them? There will always be those men you can’t please…. And how do we deal with the murder of women? Or the violence against women? You mentioned your prostitute friend getting a knife held against her. If a guy doesn’t have money, should he just get freebies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:48 PM
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I don’t know about that. I wouldn’t want to have sex with a guy that I knew someone had sex with, but maybe the women you know like to compare notes—I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:45 PM
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I guess I will explain something to you, or should I say "womansplain". Women are attacked/killed/raped every single day--not just prostitutes. https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/ending-violence-against-women/facts-and-figures https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2020/11/violence-against-women-femicide-census/ It's sad and it's not a new problem. Legalizing prostitution will not stop violence against women. Legalizing prostitution will not stop women from being murdered. Legalizing prostitution wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:24 PM
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Well then I can’t teach you a woman’s studies course. You think women have it great, so whatever I say would fall on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:49 PM
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You don’t know me. You don’t know how many men I’ve slept with. You don’t know anything about me. I’ve always felt sex is special, but I also think about everything that is involved with sex. This won’t sound sexy, but bodily fluids (internal and external fluids) are personal and when I hear people talking about sleeping around, I get nauseous. Men have been told that the more women they have slept with, the cooler they are, but I think that image should stop. It’s not healthy. But, that is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:32 PM
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Let me ask you a question. How do you think women are currently treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:20 PM
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I disagree with prostitution for different reasons that most people would probably find ridiculous. I think sex is special and when I hear men bragging about how many women they’ve slept with, I see it as a turn off. I also don’t see that women will be respected any time soon as long as prostitution is around. But these are just my thoughts; I know men want prostitutes, and they’ll get prostitutes, and I just stay away from it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:46 AM
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At the rate we’re growing, we’ll use all our resources by 2100. https://www.businessinsider.com/how-many-people-earth-can-hold-before-runs-out-resources-2018-7
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:21 PM
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You DISGUST me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:53 AM
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You obviously don’t read. The reason I made that comment, is because women have always been considered too “emotional”, so we have always been denied access to higher positions in government and corporations. https://www.usnews.com/news/politics/articles/2019-04-16/women-candidates-still-tagged-as-too-emotional-to-hold-office?context=amp So maybe if more men spoke up for women, we would see more equality in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:48 AM
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Maybe it won’t even matter. The way we’re going, we will use up all of earths resources by 2100. https://geoawesomeness.com/earths-capacity-many-people-can-support/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:45 AM
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So, are you saying men are emotional???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:37 AM
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I admit, I am different. I was fat growing up. I was made fun of, by both boys and girls, so I grew a thick skin. I can’t blame men for being fat. I can’t blame men for not being pretty. So, what are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:35 AM
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I don’t understand why so many men want to base their self esteem off of women. Self esteem comes from within. When men base their self esteem off of women, that is when they turn into total assholes who hate women. I’m not pretty , which is what men always say is the number one thing they look for in a woman, and yet I have no problem knowing that my worth does not come from my looks. Guys spend too much time talking about women, whether it’s good or bad. Please don’t turn into these guys who o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:54 AM
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How old are you OP, that you refer to women as “pussies”? That doesn’t sound very mature either. It’s discouraging to see that kind of language coming from people who are supposed to be older. I see it being used by mostly men and it’s offensive. If you want to talk about women, why not just say women? Why must men refer to women in such a crude way as using the word “pussies”? Aren’t women more than vaginas? I’d hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:03 AM
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I still don’t like that terminology. I mean I don’t like women who behave that way and I don’t want people to hit women, but why call it a pussy pass? How about, “it sucks that society doesn’t approve of men hitting women”. I just think it’s too easy for people to refer to women as bitches or pussies. That’s the reason I’m addressing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:30 AM
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How about not referring to sleeping with women as getting “pussy” passes. When men refer to women as just “pussies”, it’s degrading. And have you ever thought that maybe those women drink to maybe give themselves courage because they know men want women who look like porn stars? It’s fine if you don’t like overweight women, we are all allowed our preferences. Maybe guys should stop sleeping around and only sleep with women they want to sleep with. Then you won’t have overweight women thinking th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:56 AM
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I did not say anything negative about the LGBTIQ community.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:42 PM
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I think a guys n count matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:33 PM
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Well, doesn’t matter anymore. Transgender women are taking sports and modeling contracts away from women, so it looks like the patriarchy has chosen. As soon as men figure out how to make incubators, you’ll just harvest our eggs and get rid of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:17 PM
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You’re young. You’re in a relationship but men your age are competing for women your age with pretty much men of all ages. So, the women who are left, who are single, they’re single mostly because men don’t want them. Women get older and then they’re pretty much unwanted by men because men then want women your age or younger. So, women being on dating apps at all is brave because you may think men want them, but if they’re over 25… men are usually looking for hookups. And that is what I see from…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:19 PM
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It’s not even the same situation. You just want to tell me to go away because I ask that men not refer to women as bitches….? That is an interesting response.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:08 PM
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It makes it even worse when women use those words. Sorry for thinking you were a man. I’m used to men using those words, but I don’t think it’s right for women to speak like that either. And calling men “pussies” to infer that their weak is ridiculous. “Pussies” belong to women. Women are not weak. “Pussies” is a crude word and if it’s “genitalia”, then why are you calling men “pussies”? And I don’t call women “bitch” or “chick”. If someone is rude or a jerk—I say they are being rude or they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:58 PM
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It makes it even worse when women use those words. Sorry for thinking you were a man. I’m used to men using those words, but I don’t think it’s right for women to speak like that either. And calling men “pussies” to infer that their weak is ridiculous. “Pussies” belong to women. Women are not weak. “Pussies” are not “GENITALIA”. It’s a crude word. And if it’s “genitalia”, then why are you calling men “pussies”? And I don’t call women “bitch” or “chick”. If someone is rude or a jerk—I say they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:55 PM
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Not all women are “queens”. We are human beings. Men like you tend to immediately refer to women as “bitches” first thing and that pisses me off. Why don’t you guys just say, “I didn’t like her”. No, you have to call her a “bitch”, a “chick”, a “slut”, a “whore”. It amazes me how men can’t just say, “woman”. I’m not asking for special treatment. I’m just asking for men to address women in a respectful manner. And I wish men would listen. Here is a woman saying something that, I think, all women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:58 PM
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I’m sure you think you sound so cool when you talk like that—you don’t. It’s not “white knighting” or whatever you want to call it. It’s called having a little respect. That is why the world is the way it is. People are so selfish and are always looking out for themselves. But the way men tend to insult women from the get-go is really a reflection of themselves. The hatred that I see from men towards women is amazing. Makes me wonder why you even want to be with women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:51 PM
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Ok. How about this. Stop referring to women as “frumpy bitches” and as “slumming it”. If you want a young girl—get one. But have a little respect when talking about women. You don’t need to belittle or degrade women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:37 PM
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Women are on dating apps. That means they are putting themselves out there. From other threads I’ve been on, guys have complained that women are too old, too fat, too picky, too something, or other. Maybe… you guys are upset because you don’t see enough of the 18 year old girls on the dating apps. I can’t help you there. It’s economics. Supply and demand. There are only so many 18 year olds available.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:49 PM
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It’s not “sins of the father”. It’s that women have more rights now. Women have choices now. You shouldn’t get defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:15 PM
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There are guys on 90 day fiancé… who should not have girlfriends—and they do! AND they CHEAT on their girlfriends! Seriously!! Watch the show. You’ll see. These guys treat the women like shit, yet they’re able to get more dates. I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:08 AM
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I think men have been superficial about Women’s looks for centuries and now women are getting a chance to be superficial about men’s looks. There’s this hook up culture and women are getting a chance to decide if they want to sleep with a guy for a night or two—or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:35 AM
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“Negging” is about playing games and being rude. I’ve had guys be rude with me on multiple occasions, but it wasn’t to flirt with me… lol. So, I guess it’s different if he smiles after insulting you..? I still don’t think I’d handle it well. Maybe it’s different if a man is only rude with you because he likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:27 AM
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How about not referring to women as “cunts”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:18 AM
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I’m a romantic at heart. I want all relationships to work out. When I meet couples, I like to ask about how they met and it’s nice to see them interact. I just hope there aren’t too many assholes out there…lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:09 AM
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I see. You should keep your hate for women to yourself. There is enough hate against women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:39 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:08 AM
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Thanks. I don’t know. I haven’t seen any women on here talking about not wanting to date. I think most women have been brave, putting themselves out there. Have you read anything to the contrary?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:35 AM
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Well it’s too late for me. I just want all guys to remember that all women are beautiful. Don’t look for women who look like these instagram models. They use filters and so much makeup. Don’t you want someone real? And I think all that porn out there is bs. Men may hate me for saying this, but please stop with the porn. It’s not healthy. It’s degrading towards women and it’s not realistic. I know I’m naive in my thinking about relationships but I truly think it’s possible for people to find happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:11 AM
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Ya. But you mentioned the bullet points. I mean… men want younger women. That hasn’t changed. Are they going to say something different to that? Or will they tell the “old maids” to not give up hope”? Honestly, I think the only problem here is that all men want the young women, so the problem is economics. There isn’t enough supply for all the demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:51 AM
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All I got out of this is that men want young women and it’s not worth getting married as a woman. Men only want beautiful women and they only marry women who are not beautiful because they decide to “settle”. So, if a woman wants to marry, she should marry at 25, to a 60 year old, because there’s a good chance he’ll die before he can get bored of her and divorce her. This article makes guys seem superficial and it’s telling women we should be desperate. I’d rather just stay on the sidelines. Acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:42 AM
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I just looked at this link: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2xiw7a/what_is_trp_theory/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf. It looks like the TRP guys aren’t supposed to care about women, they’re supposed to be about self improvement and showing that they don’t need women to survive. At least that was what I read. And I wish your post was more straight forward. So TRP is against the rape and pillage mentality but they wanted the monogamy? Do you not like monogamy? Becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:18 AM
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You know what? I’m not here to give you a history lesson. If you want to admire those men who raped and pillaged villages… that’s your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:38 AM
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Ya….I just hope people will take the time to read what OP is writing. For instance, the “Chad Tribe-Chief” who led the rape brigades—he sucked. “Sharing the spoils”… ya. The “spoils” are the “vagina”. Thanks for minimizing the rape and horrors that occurred. And men sharing the women… why was that necessary? Weren’t there enough women (and girls)? I mean they were attacking other tribes. Were they killing them off too quickly? Were too many dying during childbirth? Couldn’t have been that many g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:35 PM
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I honestly don’t know all the terminology with the blue and red and purple pill. I don’t even know why that kind of terminology even exists, but I guess I could say the same thing about why is there all this derogatory terminology for women. So if women are just a collection of body parts to these men, then why discuss women? What are women to these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:38 PM
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Even in African tribes they were concerned about inbreeding. They made sure to trade females to other tribes and when they fought with other tribes they new the “value” of females to produce babies. Throughout history females have served as vessels. Nothing more. They would die in child birth and they were replaceable. That is why even today, there haven’t really been any advancement in women’s healthcare and the US has one of the highest pregnancy deaths of any developed country. Females are re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:30 AM
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So you’re talking about rape. When men were raping women and forcing girls and women to have their babies as they killed the men in their villages so they could rape all the females? That is what you’re referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:22 AM
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Referring to women as “pussy” is offensive, gross, and immature. There is a human being attached to a vagina. The world is now overpopulated. Many animals have gone extinct, and more animals are on their way to becoming extinct. There are bigger issues in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:20 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:24 PM
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You sound really cool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:35 PM
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So… people will cheat no matter what… How about when you get into a committed relationship you actually stay committed. If you can’t do that, then break up. Sleeping around and cheating is gross on so many different levels. Have some self respect. And if you’re with a cheater, they’re not going to change for you. Once a cheater, always a cheater—and you’re just as gross as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:55 PM
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Wow. A butt with its own zip code. I’ve seen those on instagram. I don’t know how I’d feel about a relationship where I’d be told to turn around all the time….. lol. I think guys can get best of both worlds with pretty girls with great bodies. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:40 PM
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“Very interesting”… aren’t people taught this stuff in school anymore? Rape and pillage has been used repeatedly to describe how men took women/girls and villages by force. That’s why the conquering men would kill all the men and boys and just keep the women and girls, so they could essentially breed them. I think that’s why it’s always disgusted me to read about all the heirs that were traced back to genghis khan. Or how Thomas Jefferson’s rape victim/slave Sally Hemings is sometimes referred t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:10 AM
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Wow. Do you know why she was unhappy? Because… now I’m just thinking relationships suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:34 PM
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So I have to find a guy who will call me pretty even though I’m not. Is that what you’re saying? Because… that is what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:45 AM
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I thought that they thought that women HAD to go out with them and that is why they would get so violent with women. And they felt such hatred towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:15 AM
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Then why don’t they just give up? Is that too negative of me to say? Because I know I can survive without a man. It’s like if I became diabetic, it would suck, but I can’t have sugar. Can’t incels be the same? Do they feel they’re owed a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:05 AM
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Does he call her beautiful? Does he only have eyes for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:02 AM
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No. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:54 AM
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I don’t know. That’s the problem. I WANT to be pretty. At least to the guy I’m with.. and that will never happen. Plus, I was overweight and my body isn’t firm. I work out and I have loose skin and I am not going to get surgery to cut off the loose skin… so I’ll never have a nice body either. So… It wouldn’t work out for me either way. You know? Or maybe you don’t. Like, I’m sure it would feel so nice to hear “my” guy refer to me as pretty or to just have eyes for me. However, because I’m not pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:39 AM
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Ya. I’m not going through any painful experience. I’ll never be good enough for a man and I will not put myself through any pain for any man. But if someone tells me there isn’t a procedure out there to be taller, and there is, I’ll share the information. It’s up to the person whether they’ll get the procedure or not. Women can get the procedure to gain height as well. There are so many cosmetic procedures men and women get nowadays and it’s up to them whether they want to take the risks involve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:26 AM
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I was just responding to the one guy who said I could have a full body nip and tuck surgery and breast implants and he said he wanted to be taller…. I wanted to show that there is a “solution” for his problem, just like there is a solution to mine. He had no problem with my getting a whole work up done. Have you seen how the women look and walk after they get all that surgery done?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:25 AM
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I think you’re someone who just wants to be a victim. I have come to terms with the fact that men don’t want me, yet that is not enough for you. You need to show that your life is “worse” than mine. You win. I think your life IS worse than mine. Like I said, I am not going to chase after men who don’t want me, I’d be making a fool of myself. I am not pretty and I don’t have a nice body. Those are the things that a man notices first. But I am always ready to strike up a conversation with men AND …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:21 PM
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But that’s the thing, I know I’m not what men want. Are the incels THAT sure that they are what women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:29 PM
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There is surgery that makes people taller. It’s also painful and expensive. https://www.insider.com/men-paying-for-limb-extending-surgery-to-be-tall-2020-1?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:02 PM
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I don’t think guys can ever get past not having a pretty face but it’s too late for me anyway. I messed up a long time ago. I used to be overweight. I lost it but I’m left with some loose skin and cellulite… and I’m sorry but I can’t do surgery. The pain scares me. I guess the lesson is… don’t ever be fat. lol Maybe technology will fix it so plastic surgery isn’t painful. But, like how do you fix your face so you look pretty without looking fake, you know? And then my breasts. I’d have to get im…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:51 PM
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I’ve never been asked out on a date. I tried online dating when I was younger and I wasn’t successful, so I gave up. I asked out a guy once and he turned me down. And I am not expecting a partner at all. I am not attractive and I know I am not attractive. I have never been in a relationship and a man has never shown any interest in me. Yet, I do not hate men. I’ve read so many threads where men complain about how easy it easy for women to get “laid”—as though that is a woman’s goal—and it actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:09 PM
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I honestly find it disgusting how I see the word “pussy” thrown around. I don’t know if guys feel cool just writing the word or what, but seeing guys bragging about how much they like “pussy” or how many “pussies” they’ve had.. I find that rude and offensive. Referring to women as chicks, sluts, bitches, whores… all that, is unnecessary. There are so many forums I’ve visited where I’ve seen men and women refer to women as chicks and bitches and it bothers me so much. Stop putting women down. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:02 AM
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Human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:31 AM
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Those words are NOT equivalent. When men want to insult women, they immediately call them slurs or whores. No one calls a man a “John”. There’s a double standard. If you weren’t aware, I’m not surprised. Men ignore most anything that doesn’t affect them. And, by the way, world is changing. Women have more options now and they’re choosing independence and financial freedom. So all those men who plan on “buying” their women… I know robots are our future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:34 AM
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I guess we have to teach these “men” how to be men….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:02 AM
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You should learn to respect women. If you see women as “whores”, that is just a reflection of what you are. “Men” who are so quick to call women names disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:56 AM
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Johns? Sounds like you’re the whore. If you have so little value for women, maybe you should play for the other team. We don’t need you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:45 AM
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I don’t think men are innocent. You end up leaving your wives for younger women anyways. I guess child support would get in the way of spending on your new girlfriends. Women lose their value for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:39 AM
1

Ok. Break it down then. How much does each parent make? How many kids? How much is child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:33 AM
9

You sound like those anti vaxxers who compare themselves to holocaust victims. Get over yourself. Please. You are NOT a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:25 AM
5

If you want to owe people money so badly… maybe you should just dine and dash. Or take out loans and default. Or declare bankruptcy… It just sounds like you want to impregnate me and I feel uncomfortable…..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:33 PM
5

lol This is an argument? I’ve been smiling the whole time. You crack me up. I can’t take you seriously. Anyway, you don’t need a woman. There are those robots nowadays. They don’t talk back or get pregnant. They’re perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:23 PM
6

I think you’ve given up on women. We don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:15 PM
9

Vasectomy or abstinence or homosexuality. Any of these options… no baby mamas. Your CHOICE.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:12 PM
11

You’re hilarious and a total loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:58 PM
1

Thanks… but I’m a woman. I was just saying IF I were a man. I don’t think women are emotional unless it comes to our kids. Unfortunately, not all women, but I know it’s most. It breaks my heart to see any child suffers and I can’t imagine how there are so many fathers who have turned their backs on their kids. I am happy when I see dads who stay for their kids, but I’m not going to applaud them—because that’s their job. I just wish more men could, not just feel that sense of responsibility, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:37 PM
23

I am curious about all those men who get “baby trapped”. Honestly, if I was a man, I’d get a vasectomy or practice abstinence. There is no way I would trust ANYONE with my sperm. I think every single guy takes a chance every single time he has sex. I mean, IF he’s practicing safe sex, he’s wearing a condom. BUT that is NOT enough. I would NEVER trust a thin piece of plastic to protect me from getting someone pregnant. So guys, IF you REALLY don’t want to get anyone pregnant, get a vasectomy or p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:24 PM
12

My father repeatedly went to jail for beating my mom when they were married and he still got us on the weekends. So I don’t know who these guys are hiring as lawyers. And my father was not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:17 PM
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It means a lot to the kids when their dads show up and say they want to see their kids. Why is it so easy for men to walk away from their children? If I didn’t have custody of my kids, I’d live as close as possible to my kids and let my ex know that I was available any time if needed. I would ask if I could drop the kids off at school in the mornings or pick them up in the afternoons—anything to be a part of their lives. I would think any parent would want their kids to know that they can count …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:02 AM
1

All these threads I see on here keep telling women to shoot lower, so I don’t know… I guess you’re just reading things directed towards men. I tend to read threads directed towards men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:38 AM
1

It just means you care what people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:36 AM
1

Women already know it’s the reason. Women already know men want beautiful women. It has been drilled into our heads that men are “visual”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:11 PM
2

OP’s obsession is about fake breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:17 PM
3

Ultimately, this is why I stay away from relationships. Men want a woman with a perfect body. I don’t have a perfect body. I don’t want to be rejected, so I’ll just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:32 PM
7

So are you saying fake breasts are “higher quality” compared to natural breasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:29 PM
1

Old men have been with beautiful young girls for centuries. Why should it matter now? It sounds like men competing with men. They all want the young girls with the hot bodies… but there aren’t too many of those, so what can men do to stand stand apart? Do they have to wait to turn 63? I’ve heard some threads where men just say they’ll share the same woman. Does that sound fair? I hear conflicting ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:43 PM
3

I don’t understand. If men want a woman with a nice body… then what’s wrong with just doing that? If you don’t like overweight women or feminists, then don’t date them. I don’t understand who is telling you that you’re wrong. I just read a thread about a 63 year old man sleeping with a 23 year old girl, so it still happens. So what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:31 AM
2

It’s true. I haven’t been in the situation of being cheated on and I don’t know everyone’s circumstances… it just seems so simple to not cheat! lol I live in my fantasy world. People aren’t perfect, I know, but I just ask that they choose to not be selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:29 PM
1

Very informative. Thanks. It still sucks that people cheat at all but you can’t control everyone. It’s interesting because I asked cheaters why they didn’t just divorce their spouses and I was told to “fuck off”, or “it’s complicated”. I don’t get it. Especially when there’s a chance you can bring a disease home to your spouse. And don’t get me started on the cheaters who have kids…. Talk about selfish. I appreciate your having an open discussion with me. I just wish more people could do the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:10 PM
2

Ya. Guys have never shown interest in me so I may not have anyone at my level of attractiveness. I mean this on the lower end, not like I’m attractive or something. But I see your point. Men and women want someone attractive. I just like seeing the success stories between couples and seeing all these posts about infidelity can be depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:45 PM
1

You’re right. I shouldn’t care what the bottom 20% of men on Reddit say about women, it’s just a common theme I see repeatedly on here and it’s hard to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:52 PM
1

Hmmm… there is still touching involved…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:36 PM
2

Yes. Saying I like guys with dark eyes and dark hair was me saying I agree that I do have a physical preference. I’m regards to cleanliness, I don’t like how many partners people have nowadays. People may call me naive or a prude, but there have been guys who I totally have lost interest in when I find out how many women they’ve been with. Sex is such a personal act and it disappoints me when I see people treat it as no big deal. That is just my opinion and that is another reason I’ll probably r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:35 PM
6

https://www.cnbc.com/2021/01/22/new-wharton-study-people-are-happier-when-they-earn-more-money.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:03 AM
0

Hmmm. I don’t know. I guess that’s been your experience. I will say I prefer guys with dark hair and dark eyes and I don’t like beards. But most importantly, he has to be clean. I’m actually afraid of what’s out there after reading Reddit and how people can be so nonchalant about sex. I just know that I’m not suitable for this world and I’m just staying out of the dating game. The disagreements between men and women can be pretty intense and I have to be careful with how I phrase my questions be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:55 AM
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I understand. And I’m glad that you’re not jaded anymore. I know men want good looking women. I don’t hate men at all. I understand why they would want an attractive woman. It’s just that I’ve noticed that is the first thing men say when they describe the woman they want. I know women want attractive men also, but I’ve seen most women mention personality before anything physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:38 AM
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No. Maybe it’s just me… but it disgusts me to know he’s had his penis in so many different places. I think sex is something to be taken seriously and I’m honestly shocked when I hear about 22 year old men who have already been with three women. People may think I’m a prude but I already think sex can be unsanitary and I know there are people who are not necessarily clean when it comes to their privates and that is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:28 AM
2

Two guys…. Gross. I don’t understand cheaters. I was on a cheater subreddit but I didn’t know it was for people who supported cheaters. I told people to not cheat or just get a divorce and they got so angry…. I was banned for like a day, but I didn’t want to be a part of those discussions. The crap people wrote made me nauseous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:55 AM
2

I think the number of people the guy has slept with matters. I’ve always felt this way. I don’t know about other women, but it’s a turn off to hear how many people a lot of guys have slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:50 AM
2

She didn’t say “raped”. And attraction is not just about looks—for women. I know men say the first thing they want is an attractive women. Women can see an attractive man, but if he’s a jerk, then she won’t want to stay with him. I don’t know about men, but women want someone who is considerate, kind, funny, smart, and open to communication. I know not all women are like that. Versus on Reddit, most men say they want a hot gf. That immediately takes a lot of women out of the running. A woman can…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:11 AM
1

So if monogamy doesn’t make sense… would be one alpha with many females and subordinate men by themselves? So women could sleep with as many alphas as possible and not have to deal with monogamy…?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:34 AM
1

Are you saying rape is when women have sex with ugly men…? Ted Bundy was considered good looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:30 AM
2

So if guys are fine with being used and they just want sex, do they ever have a desire to settle down..?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:11 AM
1

I never call any woman a slut or a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:13 PM
2

I was wondering. So since guys love sex and don’t need an emotional connection, does that mean that gay men are better off? I’m genuinely asking because I always read about guys issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:25 AM
1

You’re funny. You don’t make sense. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:28 PM
0

You said “highly doubt” that there are men on Only Fans out earning men. So I corrected you. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:55 PM
0

Wait. Men don’t have OnlyFans pages? https://www.wboc.com/story/44108083/the-biggest-male-onlyfans-creator-on-his-big-future-plans This guy made $3 million. That sounds like a lot to me….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:41 PM
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I’m saying women work harder because they actually have reasons for their weight fluctuations. It sucks. Women gain weight when they’re pregnant and it’s hard to lose weight when your body has gone through a traumatic event and you’re caring for a newborn. I don’t think people give women who have been pregnant much credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:02 AM
1

I misunderstood . I thought you were like not waiting for her to have lubrication…. You mean you don’t use a condom, right? In that case… it’s good you found someone compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:05 AM
1

I don’t trust people. I’ve read too many crime stories… people can be crazy and I try to avoid that drama. Honestly, that woman who attacked you, is insane. I’ve never felt the need to physically attack anyone, least of all a man who is not interested in me. I have a question. Did you have any idea she could be this way? I guess some people are good at hiding their true characters, but I always see actions or words slip through the cracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:33 AM
1

That is awesome. Congratulations for working hard and achieving your goal. It’s true, it takes commitment, but it is motivating when you see a big drop in weight in the beginning. I hope you’re talking about your success on other subs because I know people would be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:26 AM
3

Ok… how did you lose 40lbs in 3 weeks??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:05 AM
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Women also give birth. It’s sad that people don’t think about how hard it is for a woman to lose weight after dealing with a pregnancy. I do think it’s a lot easier for guys to lose weight compared with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:35 AM
2

Feminists and porn don’t go together. I wish people would cite legitimate sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:08 AM
-1

Omg…. I hope to God I never meet a guy that I’ll WANT to clean!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:23 AM
-1

I thought men had OnlyFan pages too..? Men want to see men too…. So those guys are probably out-earning a lot of guys also.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:07 AM
4

Question: are you aware that it is men working 9-5 who pay for these sites?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:05 AM
1

I’m not cleaning anyone. Either you’re a clean person or you’re not. That is a dealbreaker for me. Cleanliness is SO important and that shows the person has self respect. If a person respects themselves, they will respect others. Meanwhile, those who are physically and mentally dirty look for ways to hurt other people. I don’t need negativity in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:50 AM
2

Raw? That is asking for an infection. Just be aware that any bacteria that seeps into cuts can become septic. Think about your partners health-that is sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:10 PM
0

You’re funny. The article was written by a man. I am not interested in lesbian stuff, yet that is the number one thing women like? No thank you. If you’re getting your advice from articles written by men, then you’ll definitely lose out. Every woman is different but I will say that all that sexual stuff of anal sex and threesomes and extreme sex, not for me. It’s funny that you believed that article without doing more research or asking a real woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:08 PM
1

I guess it depends on what you consider minimum standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:55 PM
4

I don’t know who your friends are, but I’m American and I can say that I’ve seen guys who I thought were physically attractive but I am WAY more attracted to the guy after I get to know his personality. And I don’t think women look at physical attraction the same as men. Like I read on here how much guys are attracted to models with perfect bodies. Women don’t get distracted by a man’s body. Men’s bodies are nice and the connection on a mental and emotional level can actually magnify all those f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:24 PM
2

Grooming is a priority for me. Who wants a smelly disheveled guy?? I take showers and take care of myself, so I expect the same from the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:14 PM
2

I’ll say neither. Guy on the right is neither hot nor attractive. Sorry. But I also like guys with dark hair and dark eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:55 PM
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Men bond with women based on the more time and sex they have, before finding her attractive. So, how long after dating do men think it is time to have sex? If the man isn’t initially attracted to a woman, he would date her? To see if there’s an attraction on another level which will lead to a physical attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:51 PM
-1

Definitely good picture. I’ve lost my interest in him because he LOOKS SO GOOD in a suit and he doesn’t wear them anymore! And he is always with a beard… which is not attractive to me. And in White Collar, it looks like they must have been dying his hair a darker brown because it’s not that dark anymore, it’s just brown, and that changes his look. I know I’m being superficial but I’ve never seen him in an interview, so I only have his acting to go off of. I saw him in Magic Mike and I didn’t see…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:06 AM
1

Matt Bomer is very good looking. I prefer him in White Collar. I like the suit on him. But after White Collar… he’s not as hot. I love the pic OP chose though. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:39 AM
0

I don’t think women dream of being on welfare. Sadly, many women have to pay for childcare and work—with childcare taking a big chunk of their earnings. Women still only make 70 cents for every dollar a man makes, so there is the added burden of not making as much as they could. It would be nice to see women having the opportunity to earn more and then they don’t have to rely on welfare. My mom was on welfare and she didn’t want to, but she needed it. And she didn’t get a lot of money. She had f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:28 AM
1

Abortion is not birth control. It’s painful too. What the..?? That shows a total disregard for what a woman has to go through. I’m pro choice but I honestly could never see myself ever having an abortion because, believe it or not, women don’t WANT to get abortions. Did you know there are cancers women are now susceptible for just because they were ever pregnant? People don’t think about consequences and there are consequences to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:24 AM
5

All these guys complaining about unwanted children.. first, if you’re a father, you’re what’s wrong with the world. Second, use a condom. Third, get a vasectomy. You have control over your body, so stop with the whining and bring up real issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:18 PM
1

So… does this mean you will just give up on women? If that’s the case, then you have to make choices that are best for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:58 AM
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I never had kids. I’m educated and single. Kids are a HUGE responsibility; but if we ignore that, let’s look at how women must go through 9 months pregnancy, feeling uncomfortable, and then your body getting split apart to give birth… that is SCARY. Plus, women have to miss work when they give birth and take a maternity leave, which can affect their chances for promotions and has really had an impact on the wage gap that exists. On top of all that, women are still responsible for the kids, the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:51 AM
3

I’ve always cared about body count with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:07 AM
2

I’m a “big girl” and I have standards. You obviously don’t know much about women.
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:44 AM
1

All these downvotes… you guys have issues with American women. I think if you don’t like American women… then find women from other countries. Stop complaining and take action. So why give me downvotes if at least I’m trying to give you solutions after I just read complaint after complaint…
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:08 PM
2

I have places to go. I’m not looking at every guy and giving them eye contact. Serves me no purpose unless I want or need to speak to them for something. It was definitely messed up how OP belittled the shit women have gone through. It’s fine that he clarified that he knows women do deal with bullshit from guys. Anyway, if guys are really sick of men who belittle and harass women, then speak up. The more men speak up against vulgar disrespectful men, the more you’ll see that those men will stop …
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:19 AM
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This thread is funny. These guys who have issues with American women should just leave or get a mail order bride….
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:14 AM
6

Sorry but saying you find a girl attractive immediately like that can be a little too much. First, guys should figure that the woman pretty much can conclude the guy probably found her attractive and that is why he approached her in the first place. Save telling her you find her pretty or like her smile for when you actually go out on a date. Secondly, I definitely think how you approached her was good and you appeared interested in her—until you told her she was attractive. You probably would h…
/r/seduction16/08/21 03:25 AM
1

You mentioned underaged girls in your post. That is what I’m referring to. All I can do is respond to what you have written. Anyway, the day game stuff sounds like a lesson in how to be rude to women and if men want to have a real relationship they should be themselves.
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:09 PM
6

I don’t know why you are mentioning the age gap law…. And just because you “feel” 21, doesn’t mean you should go after girls who were obviously under the age of 18, which is why you got in trouble in the first place. You should ask yourself why you are attracted to young girls? It’s a reflection of immaturity and insecurity. Do you women your age intimidate you?
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:45 PM
3

I don’t think that the problem is that he’s nervous. It seems he likes young girls. It’s really hard for girls already and to have some older man approaching them is definitely scary. And before people attack me for stating a fact, grown men approaching young girls and acting all “nervous”, actually makes girls nervous! OP needs to work on himself. Work on your self esteem, which does not include approaching women—or young girls. Find hobbies. Workout. Continue talking to your therapist. Men and…
/r/seduction13/08/21 01:39 PM
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