Fit_Association4224 Archive

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1	Love bombing vs feigning low interest Don't feign low interest. Seriously, this is such a bullshit strategy. Demonstrate your interest. Don't be afraid to like a girl. If she reciprocates, then you know that she likes you back. If she doesn't, then you know to stop talking to her because she's not as into you as you are into her. If she doesn't consistently text back pretty much immediately, sorry, bro, she's not into you. Don't lovebomb under any circumstances. Girls know that they're beautiful and are used to romantic gestures. Do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 02:27 AM
1	Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring? I just prefer it that way. It feels good. I've gone years without being approached, but it's almost always worth it because only the super hottest women have the confidence to do so. I have very rarely met a woman that I wanted to approach. The last time I saw one, another one approached me and turned out to be the better option. I guess I just have worse taste in women than they do in me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 05:29 PM
1	Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring? I get rejected because of my looks. I'm not objectively attractive, but somehow, I've had high success, at least when I was younger. I've coasted on the semblance of confidence I maintain from this period of my life, so I can afford to be a little more content being alone than the average man. But even I lost all my confidence for a number of years and started banging uglies. Recently, I started to have more success, though, bu I didn't take full advantage of it because I had devolved into this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 03:43 PM
1	Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring? Honestly, yes, why even try if what you say is true. But don't lose hope. I coasted on my success from when I was younger, but after pretty much a whole decade of never even coming close to replicating it, I lost hope and started giving uglies a chance. Then recently I started to have success again, but didn't fully take advantage of it because I wasn't ready. I became skinny, had no confidence, and basically had devolved into a loser. Now that I see that anything is possible again, I'm trying t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 03:31 PM
-1	Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring? Pretty much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 02:37 PM
-10	Aren’t the “it’s because he’s attractive” posts getting boring? Yes, this is incel logic and fds on the other side of the spectrum. Of course, it makes it easier, but if you were to go out into the real world, you'd find that there are many 'mismatches.' The reality is that 'leagues' only exist in the minds of dudes who have counted themselves out to justify not even trying. Confidence and not giving af makes you attractive no matter what you look like. Lack of it is what makes dudes unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 01:22 PM
–	Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be? Call me Papi.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 10:20 PM
2	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. Truth. Also, class comes into play. The more above social conformity you are, the more freedom from pressure you have when you pick a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 12:54 AM
1	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. I'm skinny and have below average social skills. I can still vibe with people just at more of an individual level. There are so many girls that prefer guys like this, and a lot of them are hot. I just recognize who to pursue and who not to so I don't enter situations in which my game isn't ideal. Being in shape honestly doesn't matter. It's just a form of procrastination for men, like building a career or buying nice things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 12:53 AM
1	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. No, you are thinking like a man. With women, it's all about feels, brother. Of course, they like hot guys too, but it's not as important as with men toward women. You're just justifying your null body count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 12:47 AM
1	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. Honestly, in my experience, they do. Maybe I'm underrating myself, but guys don't understand how insecure some women are. Some would rather be the hot one in the relationship. I'm not attractive enough to do the initiating, so it doesn't happen often, but I've definitely gotten 'super' hotties. When you're that hot of a girl, attraction isn't as important as say for a 7. They can choose what they want because there's no element of social climbing with whom they pick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 06:44 PM
0	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. I'm definitely not a Chad, but yes, women approach me. It's my reality. It doesn't happen often, but I'm not desperate, so I don't shit on myself and count myself out of the game like you. You're not invisible. Your shitty attitude just makes you that way. If you make yourself into a ghost and sit in your room inhaling cheeto dust because you're not some mythical Chad, then yeah, you're not going to get anywhere. I hold frame by not giving a fuck about what other people think about my existence.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 06:13 PM
1	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. There's honestly nothing special about me. I've only pulled a few dimes, and it was a surprise each time. Admittedly, I've gained some confidence from it. I never actively try to attract girls. I guess it's that poise, non-desperation, and self-confidence and respect that they like. Just telling guys who get down and start justifying to themselves that they're not worthy, that that's when you won't get with the women that you want. Leagues aren't really a thing, at least objectively. It's mostly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 06:04 PM
0	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. I don't pull them at all. They come to me. Just bad word usage, I guess. Seriously, though, have some self-respect and stop chasing women. The real ones will come to you. Don't be so self-defeating. I'm 5'11". Seriously, it's not all about your height or appearance. Once you stop thinking this way, you'll start having success. Don't care what women think. Even if they think we're all animals like you say, which isn't true, just don't care what they think. Men easily baited by negativity like you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 04:29 PM
-1	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. This is such incel thinking. Attraction is so subjective. I'm an average guy and pull dimes without trying because I don't count myself out just because I'm not objectively attractive. No girl wants to be with a guy who thinks that they're ugly. Your attitude is what makes you ugly and is what is preventing you from getting with attractive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 08:07 AM
4	Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be? Being nice is basic, but women will test you to see if you will defend yourself without fear of losing them. If you sacrifice your dignity or self-respect just to continue with them, then that's a turn-off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 06:19 AM
0	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. This is such a bullshit post. If you have standards, work so hard, and your deck is so well-stacked, then why do you care about guys picking up mids? Attraction is so subjective, and honestly, guys count themselves out even thinking about it. It's all about your character. Women want men. Part of being a man is confidence, believing in yourself, and taking initiative. Not having these qualities makes you ugly, no matter how attractive you are. Seriously, stop rating dudes. That's a woman's job. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 04:10 AM