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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:01 AM
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Lol “Autistic men suffer from societal wide loneliness because women are too virtuous.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 PM
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The next generation can be summed up in one picture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:27 PM
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I agree with you, unrealistic or unhealthy standards are created by the opposite group looking for those traits Women having an anorexia or youth problem is related to men wanting those things It’s like a short guy who wants limb lengthening surgery, a short guy doesn’t wanna be taller in a vacuum, it’s caused by living in a world where people let others know what traits are valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:24 PM
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There’s also the popular statistic that women tend to initiate divorces if they outearn their husbands Women claim men are insecure if they earn less than their partner, but women have proven with their actions that the amount of money a man makes is important to your dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:20 PM
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I’m sorry if this is cringe, but Star Wars considers both hate and love to be fueled by passion. When you love or hate something, all you do is think about that thing, apathy is the opposite of passion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:06 PM
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I guess both sexes prefer to be desired the same way they desire others Men desire women sexually, so we want to also be desired sexually Women aren’t inherently that sexual, and their desire for companionship is tied to emotional connection, and in turn, prefer to be desired emotionally Well thanks for telling me how you feel, but it would be really awesome if women in general can start caring about men’s feelings instead of shaming us when we admit we can’t help but feel the way we do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:51 PM
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Would women be happy to hear that their boyfriends/partners don’t actually physically desire them in a raw sexual way, but your personality more than makes up for it? That’s a good thing right? Women don’t wanna be sexually objectified, so finding out your boyfriend is with you for your personality, but doesn’t find you physically attractive should be a good thing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:22 PM
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I’m a 5’6 baby faced effeminate guy, women my own age never look at me I didn’t experience girls looking at me with raw visceral attraction until I finally decided to start hanging out with women ten years younger than me I don’t know how to explain it, but you’ll notice there really is something about the age difference that just makes younger women fall for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:15 PM
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Exactly, good looks opens the door for her to see if she likes your personality But if you don’t look good enough, then your personality doesn’t matter Therefore, looks are more important than personality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:32 PM
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Exactly, chubby women have more sexual market value than average men. When women complain about how shallow men are, they’re ignoring average men and actually complaining about how the top attractive men doesn’t want them When women complain about men’s sexual freedom, they’re ignoring average men and actually complaining about how the top attractive men get to sleep around When women complain about how many CEOs are men, they’re ignoring how most average men have shitty jobs like custodian, was…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:19 AM
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Normal mature healthy people consider the feelings of their partner and take it into consideration, even without having to consult them on how they feel Gas lighters will tell you that your feelings are based on paranoia and have no basis in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:38 PM
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Me and 99% of my friends are largely motivated to go to the gym for the sole purpose of looking good naked Very tiny percentage do it for sports, competition, fighting, or hobby. Almost no young person goes to the gym because they worry about their health The increased energy and nimbleness is just a byproduct of the gym life, but that’s not the primary reason young people go to the gym, it’s mostly about wanting to look good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:25 AM
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Do you vet for someone’s porn habits in the first few dates and try to find those pieces of info out in the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:54 PM
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Would you break up with a guy if you found he watched porn when he was single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:44 PM
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I have a handful of friends that are girls with rich parents that bought a house/property for their daughter and boyfriend when they were ready to move out So technically everything was bought by the girl’s parents, but the relationship doesn’t look like it revolves around money and they seem like for the most part, a normal and happy couple I never asked the guys how they felt about their girlfriend’s parents taking care of everything, but they seemed not insecure about it but they could also b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:51 AM
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Commitment is also risky, that is correct But your All or Nothing approach is still worse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:17 AM
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Compromise is optimal All or nothing is risky
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:50 AM
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You have no idea what misery is You’re spoiled and want a perfect life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:57 AM
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I know that’s not an argument That was an insult lol You’re so clueless Scroll up higher for the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:05 PM
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People who start losing the argument have a tendency to start nitpicking at someone else’s wording The fact that you’re focusing on the word Give and changing it to stating your opinions means you’re trying to hide behind verbiage instead of just continuing the argument You have nothing else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:01 PM
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You conflating thirst for desire for companionship That’s your first mistake That’s why you’re so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:58 PM
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I’m so glad you’re not in any real position to give advice to people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:56 PM
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No reason, but they choose not to So why can’t guys do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:54 PM
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Who hurt you? There’s nothing wrong with compromising for happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:53 PM
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Fine I’ll reword my comment If women can have casual sex without being told just see a sex worker Why can’t guys do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:52 PM
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Or you let people do whatever they want and you don’t police their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:50 PM
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Which goes back to the earlier point Just don’t bring up the past if you know it’ll bum you out, and you just compromise silently If you think your boyfriend’s porn preferences will make you depressed, then don’t bring it up If you think your girlfriend’s past will make you depressed, then don’t bring it up If you keep fighting for what you want, you’ll have way more people winding up more depressed and with nothing And whether you like it or not, more people are happy to have slightly fake comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:46 PM
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So it’s ok for women to lie about their sexual history But guys should keep their lies out of the dating market? I’m so tired of the double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:39 PM
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Imagine if you told a bunch of homeless people to reject the low menial jobs and they should only work at jobs that’ll make them proud and happy That sounds like nice advice until all the homeless people starve because they couldn’t find the job they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:38 PM
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Men on average don’t easily get sex Men have to lie and keep what we secretly think hidden so we can keep having sex You’re suggesting everyone should tell the truth and nobody should settle You’ll only ruin more lives that way, that’s why I told you to snap back to reality Compromise is important and not everyone gets what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:35 PM
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But apparently it’s only wrong when a guy says they don’t want a fat slut All of a sudden it’s being shallow and misogynistic But it’s alright for women to put their foot down and say they don’t wanna settle But it’s shallow for men to say that Agenda~
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:22 PM
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Ah thanks for admitting it You don’t share this post because you care about your community’s well being You share this post because you have an agenda Got cha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:20 PM
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You can’t have your cake and eat it too Not everyone can have their fairy tale happy ending, when it comes down to cold hard math, people have to learn how to compromise Life isn’t inherently happy and equal, telling kids that is how you get a bunch of babies whining when life gets a little unfair or they cry how much of an injustice it is that they aren’t happy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:19 PM
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What’s your solution to unwanted teenage pregnancy? Abstinence? Just don’t have sex in the first place? Good luck teaching that to everyone Again you gotta learn to live in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:16 PM
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Sorry but you have to grow up Reality isn’t what you think it should be, reality is simply reality “You can ignore reality but you cannot ignore the consequences of reality.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:14 PM
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What a surprise, women trying to normalize high sex counts because they don’t like feeling ashamed or lonely Just find a guy that wants or is cool with someone with a slutty past
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:00 PM
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Imagine a reality where women aren’t offended that their partners watch porn But unfortunately no matter how much I rationalize that it’s stupid for women to be jealous or angry at their boyfriends watching porn, we have enough common sense to know not to bring up something that’ll make your partner feel negative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:57 PM
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It’s easy to criticize sexlessness when you have sex Visit r/deadbedrooms and tell them that sex isn’t important and that they’re all immature for complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:38 AM
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No matter how many short guys you can find in relationships, I bet you can find way more taller guys in relationships No matter how many single tall guys you can find, I bet you can find way more single short guys This is what people don’t understand when we say women are attracted to height. We know it’s not absolute but at the same time you have to practically ignore reality to not agree with the statements above
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:58 PM
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I read that the future is going to be conservative because religious people procreate way more often than liberal/progressive people The majority of future generations are going to be the children of religious people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:33 AM
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I believe tiger woods said “the reason I cheated on my wife while the average man doesn’t, is because the average man doesn’t have a team of super models waiting for them at the finish line.” It’s much easier to diet if you’re too poor to buy junk food, it’s really easy to stay loyal if you have a hard time pulling in chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:43 AM
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Whenever women argue about how terrible men are, I think it’s safe to say +95% of male posters here don’t pump or dump or hit women or sexually assaulted or fit any of the characteristics that they supposedly claim all men act like But it doesn’t take much to make a generalization of women and then find ourselves describing a fraction of the female posters here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:27 AM
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Ok but you do understand you jumped in the middle of someone else’s argument? Tone down the attitude (and then you’ll say you aren’t putting up an attitude) Well whatever moving on, you can understand women don’t like being called gold diggers? But you can’t comprehend that men don’t like being called evil when we didn’t do anything evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:46 AM
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So in women’s point of view, women get to point at lonely men and say you deserve it because your lack of morals And if we point out that thugs, criminals, and fuck boys don’t have trouble getting women, then your argument switches to, well everyone doesn’t get what they deserve? I mean, do you at least somewhat understand where the frustration stems from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:40 AM
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Your reply has nothing to do with my comment Now you’re just being disingenuous on purpose… I can’t believe I wasted my time arguing with you… But you’re gonna reply anyways to have the last word. But I’m over this convo, feel free to put in the last thing you want to say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:22 AM
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Thank you for admitting it, women did nothing to earn the sympathy of men on behalf of women’s issues, but we gave it anyways This is what we mean when we said feminism didn’t care about equality, they wanted revenge. But everyone kept denying that. But now it’s apparent that women wanted revenge against men, the equality thing was BS for brownie points
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:18 AM
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No you’re trying to retroactively explain your lack of sympathy as someone else’s fault, when it was clear from the beginning you never had sympathy for male issues But yeh sure change the narrative, you guys are already pros at that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:02 AM
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Women generalize men, I’ve never gotten aggressive at a rejection or laid hands on a woman, yet I don’t throw a tantrum when women describe men that doesn’t fit me You should learn to not tie your personal ego into every argument and understand I’m talking about women in general, the same way that women talk about men in general Like why do women keep bringing up dealing with aggressive men when i have never ever gotten aggressive at a woman before? Women should learn to stop generalizing…. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:47 AM
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I noticed you like to put words into other people’s mouth to control the narrative of the argument People like you contribute to the reason there will never be unity between the sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:58 PM
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That’s what I mean, you can point at one person and say he deserves his loneliness because he’s immoral, but there’s clearly many horrible people in relationships, where your philosophical doctrine fails to explain for, and thats where your logic falls apart and we stop taking your point seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:32 PM
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How does one deserve loneliness? Is it based on his character? This is why men complain about how thugs and criminals don’t tend to have a problem with women, because women imply someone’s loneliness is based on some type of moral deficiency
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:02 PM
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You’re jumping ahead of the argument and you’re assuming the solution that you think I’m asking for I’m just first and foremost bringing this conversation up because many women seem to not even comprehend or even knew how men felt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:32 PM
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We can’t have a proper conversation or argument if you fundamentally don’t realize or agree that by and large, men actually do get shamed for their lack of sexual history and lack of validation from women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:03 PM
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Yes good for you, plus your peers will even support your stance. But your peers will be ready to shame a guy who gets no validation or attention from women So you can’t say men shouldn’t care while also shaming them for that problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:48 PM
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I mean the solution in my head was at least first and foremost, understanding and sympathy for an issue women don’t have to deal with. Women don’t deal with being shamed for lacking a dating/sexual history like men are, or a lack of confidence if they don’t get any attention or validation from the opposite gender, but then they shame men for a feeling they themselves don’t have to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:25 PM
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Women admit they fundamentally don’t understand men and THEN suggest to men how they should feel or the correct way to feel No wonder we’ll never solve the male depression epidemic Women don’t actually care to solve the issue, they just want disgruntled men to just magically stop being an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:51 PM
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I’ve noticed lately that people use the word “preference” so that they don’t get called out for their standards. People forgot what the word “prefers” mean For example, if I said I prefer Coke over Sprite, that means I’ll still be happy with a Sprite if there’s no Coke But lately I’ve been seeing a lot of people saying they have a “racial preference” yet they don’t want to date any other race except the one they said they prefer, that means that is NOT a dating preference, that is a dating requi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:24 PM
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I like to live a quiet life with little stress I don’t hurt other people and I mind my own business But when people find out I’m not super ambitious in life, all of a sudden people get angry you’re satisfied with your life I can’t help but feel everyone is a crab in a bucket and they hate seeing anyone happier than them for any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:59 PM
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Kings don’t call themselves kings. They are recognized as kings by other people. That’s why everyone laughs at the term Short Kings, because nobody respects short guys and then they try to give themselves a label worthy of respect Now replace Short King with Fat Queen, nobody respects fat women, so they start compulsively calling themselves Queens to feel better about themselves Actual confident and attractive people don’t call themselves anything because they are comfortable in their own skin
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 12:02 AM
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One of the main differences between adults and children is that children are allowed to blame their issues on someone else while adults have to face the consequences of their actions Women are compared to children because every time they fuck up, it’s always conveniently someone else’s fault, they have no accountability for their actions or feelings, it’s always someone else made them feel like that or do that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:49 AM
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It’s as something as simple as women are attracted to height, many people still deny this If you tried to mention this 10 years ago, people would’ve looked at you like you just proposed the earth was flat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:27 AM
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I’m here because it’s annoying and exhausting to live among people who deny the black pill (reality) And I have this compulsion to argue with delusional people until they start to see the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:55 PM
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It’s funny when people say men are shallow and women are the empathetic gender and then they make comments that most men are ugly and that their ugliness is a burden on society
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:43 AM
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Men have definitely become much more empathetic towards women’s issues for the past few decades and loosening of male expectations for women Women have not granted the same level of compassion and mercy towards men And then we punish young boys for the sins of their father, and and we act like young boys today need to pay for the sins of men of prior generations whereas girls of modern generation barely experienced the plight of women long time ago But still act like boys owe girls something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:45 AM
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Many people rely on seeing how it develops but get bitter and angry when it doesn’t go as expected I know handful of girls who claim to get pumped and dumped, and when they tell me their story, the guy said nothing about implying a relationship after, women just automatically expected that some type of relationship should automatically happen after sex Same with friendzoned guys, they thought sex was supposed to automatically come with emotional intimacy and they get bitter and angry when that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:04 AM
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Statistics that show women are advantaged is a sign of progress, statistics that show men are advantaged is a sign of injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:31 AM
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Don’t take this offensively, but the way you worded your question makes it sound like you don’t really grasp the relationship between love and sex Replace the word love with hug, and pretend it’s about loving your parents, do hugs play a big role in loving your parents? Well not really But it says a lot when your own parents don’t wanna hug you and get annoyed when they get hugged by you, even if they take care of you To men, we see Sex as one of the strongest expressions of love, and without it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:18 PM
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The wage gap is usually used to paint a picture that women get paid less for doing the exact same jobs as men, when it’s because men typically work more dangerous jobs and clock majority of overtime. So in a way, mens biological propensity for higher strength drives higher average wages
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:41 PM
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There was a post of a study that showed men generally preferred to be atleast 3 inches taller than their partner Whereas women prefer their partner to be at least 8 inches taller than themselves Women don’t specifically care about 6ft, they care more about a giant height gap existing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:26 PM
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When women say they want to be best friends with their boyfriend, it means they want the guy they already like to treat them like their best friend But inexperienced guys assume this means they can befriend a girl and try and convert that friendship into a relationship Which leads to a bunch of angry guys left in the friend zone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:46 PM
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You’re projecting really hard at your own inability to befriend people of the opposite sex I’ve had friends of the opposite sex that we had no sexual tension between, go out of their way to celebrate the milestones in my life, they check up on me when I’m sad, and we spend time together and derive enjoyment from each other’s company, and we become familiar with each other, we learn each other’s dreams or insecurities, we care for each other’s well being, despite me not wanting to put my penis in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:01 AM
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I was raised that a gentleman needs to be well versed in many topics and fields, my dad made me study every subject because a gentleman should be prepared to be able to talk about any topic with anyone at anytime Changing high school and college into basically job training for your future career is going to create more close minded and ignorant people The path of education should be for the sake of education itself, not for the sake of an even more efficient economic framework
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:52 AM
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Have you seriously never made a genuine friend of the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:53 AM
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That’s what happens when a society focuses on making sure all men pass on their genes, it gets diluted and weakened because bad genes get sustained in the human race A species as a whole gets stronger or more attractive when undesirable males cannot pass on their genes, and bad traits get purged
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:24 AM
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If you offered women free money that would’ve otherwise have gone to a charity instead, most women would still take the free money, can we conclude women are also on some fundamental level, not that virtuous? Or have deep insatiable greed or gold digging tendencies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:19 AM
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If women want more genuine male friends, it’s that woman’s obligation to be more interesting and entertaining enough to carry a conversation with a guy that she rejected Why do people act like men are evil for not wanting to continue talking to a woman he was rejected by
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:50 PM
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As a straight man, it’s genuinely easy to be friends with women if you don’t find them sexually attractive, like you genuinely just want to talk about your hobbies and play video games with unattractive friends You seriously don’t even think about sex when you’re with chubby or conventionally unattractive female friends (unless I guess you absolutely get zero pussy)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:38 PM
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What do you want me to say? To give you permission that it’s ok to chase virgin girls? Bro if that is seriously that important to you, it is a free country, you can chase whoever you want Just don’t bitch and cry when you can’t get what you want if you’re being picky
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:18 AM
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That’s retroactive jealousy, you feel resentment or jealousy about someone’s past All you can do is go to therapy for that and work on that yourself As long as someone else is putting out enough common decency to not treat you worse than their exes, then whatever insecure feelings you have left is on your own to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:49 AM
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There was another post from a guy that got highly upvoted that explained he doesn’t care whether if his girlfriend has been with bigger or better men, but she better act like I’m the biggest and best boyfriend she’s ever had when she’s with me I’m pretty sure women wouldn’t wanna date a guy who subconsciously acts like he’s comparing her to his prettier exes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:33 PM
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I mean try to talk shit about men and women in public, see which one gets you cheered and which one gets you silenced Any statistics that show women are advantaged is a sign of progress, statistics that show Men are advantaged is seen as a sign of injustice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:31 PM
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Oh ok, sorry for going off on you I’m just so used to women always bitching and crying about how unfair mens standards are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:06 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uLjO3KOAAsQ Even cartoons make fun of this dynamic, women expect men to keep making money but get angry when men say they don’t want an ugly wife
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:04 PM
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It’s crazy how much mental gymnastics you girls go through to explain why men are shallow but women aren’t lol Men fall in love with a woman’s personality, but if she can’t upkeep her beauty, then she’s not holding up her end of what we mutually agree is what is important to a relationship, that physical attraction and finances are important (within reason, you can’t expect an old man to keep working forever and an old woman to stay beautiful forever)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:00 PM
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Oh ok good, we agree Feminists and women need to generally stop the whole propaganda that men are unfair and shallow or women have it so unfair when it comes to beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:53 PM
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Being aware of the importance of physical attraction =/= shallow and objectifying But women always complain about beauty standards or staying fit, it doesn’t matter how hard it is, either you do it or you don’t Just like men making money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:50 PM
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It’s funny how women get angry and try to explain how they aren’t gold diggers But go through so much mental gymnastics to explain why love must be predicated on money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:19 PM
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Ask how many women would be turned on to date a man that makes less than her Stop putting the blame on men and take some accountability for your own feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:18 PM
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Life is unfair, that’s the first part of life you have to accept before you move forward, otherwise you’ll always be bitter because others have more than you. “Only check your neighbor’s bowl if you’re seeing if he has enough to eat, not to see if he has more than you.” Yeh some people are born on the finish line, does the existence of sexy male models mean I should just give up on trying to find love? Don’t let others who were born privileged stop you from trying to succeed, you just have to pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:40 PM
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I’m guessing you spend your free time either complaining about not being born rich or complaining about rich people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:10 AM
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They don’t want to be miserable, it’s like saying people want to be poor The point is that they are lazy and don’t wanna put in any effort
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:34 AM
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It’s like poor people complaining about being poor online. They don’t realize that being bitter and complaining does nothing for their bank accounts, and they rather choose to wallow in their misery with other poor people with the same problems as them because it’s easier than putting in the work to try and escape their situation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:25 AM
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I have a high school friend that’s been dating the same girl for almost a decade now And my sister and her fiancé have dated for nearly 7-8 years and they’re finally getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:17 AM
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These questions are stupid because nobody wants to make themselves look bad, so obviously the answers are going to be skewed towards women who say they don’t care Because all the women who do care will just keep quiet, otherwise they’ll get harassed online for voicing how they truly feel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:38 PM
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Same for guys, we fall for attractive women but ultimately we stay because we fell in love with their personality But then everyone says “notice how MOST women in relationships are skinny and beautiful?? Men are so shallow!!” And those same women don’t realize that their bitterness is why men won’t date them, not because they’re fat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:08 PM
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You have fat guys who’ll complain, but by and large, through different channels of the internet, we can see that a sizable portion of gym goers are men going for self improvement largely motivated by dating And we see much frequent patterns of women complaining about having to lose weight to look good and then die on that hill of an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:18 PM
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Fat guys understand that their loneliness is because they are fat, so they hit the gym Fat women understand that their loneliness is because they are fat, so they complain about how shallow men are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:49 AM
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I’ll try Google for it later and update this comment if I don’t feel lazy But I’ve seen posts of American guys with 2 or 3 wives, and it’s not religious, they’re just a modern polygamous couple, and everyone looks and acts normal And they were all attractive, and the women didn’t looked forced to be in it, they all looked happy Women would rather share a high value guy with other women than have a loser all to herself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:17 AM
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You have no idea how women date Do men publicize their porn search history to the women they want to date? Or do they keep that shit secret and show the best side of themselves? Women also rely on hiding their sexual past to attract the men they want, women subconsciously know men find it off-putting so they have a natural instinct to hide it, the same way that you don’t have to tell men to hide their porn search history
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:09 AM
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So it’s not really a male figure that’s important, mostly having the second income and having a second baby sitter that makes nuclear families seem more stable than single parent families? Korea currently has a population decline crisis, the korean government is giving new parents a monthly government allowance as well as free day care, and it’s still not improving the birth rate in korea or the quality of life for single moms I think the importance of the nuclear family has more to do than just…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:50 AM
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Women don’t experience loneliness at the same intensity men do, so they won’t ever get it They think companionship and intimacy is a bonus in life because it comes to them so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:49 AM
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That falls into the pitfalls of Paradox of Choice Have you ever heard of the saying, “less is more” There’s a psychological phenomenon that people regret their choice if given too much options For example, if there’s a Jean store with only ten jeans, then you’ll quickly pick out the best one, and if you find any flaw, you’ll blame the store, not yourself When you go into a store with a thousand different jeans, you’ll become paralyzed from the over abundance of choice, and try make sure you choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:56 AM
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It’s not that guys simply wish to be in a position to pick and choose, you make men sound like they have an issue with entitlement, men would be happy to just have a good companion, men are in a default state of constantly being ignored while having to listen to women complain about getting too much attention, and making it sound like they’re the biggest victims
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:36 AM
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Lack of sex is an umbrella term for companionship and relationships in general, because you’re typically not getting one without the other By that logic, we can solve society’s issue of angry sexless men if we just legalized and de-stigmatized prostitution, if the actual mechanical action of sex was all that mattered And no one here knows the exact answer to your question, that requires tons of data and research that can only be carried out by institutions or large groups of people However by lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:14 PM
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No it’s perfectly fine for women to have physical requirements when it comes to dating, stop changing the argument into something else women quietly filter for men based on physical attraction, so women have the plausible deniability that they didn’t reject someone based on their looks So men get the short end of the stick, and assumed that he’s single because of his personality, because the logic of that is, if his personality was genuinely good, he would’ve had a girlfriend by now, which is ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:17 AM
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So out of millions upon millions of lonely men, considering there has only been a tiny handful of killers, doesn’t that show that the chances of a lonely man turning into a killer being incredibly low? You and every single woman you know in your life is a millions times more likely to get killed by a car, than by an incel mass shooter. So you can rest easy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:08 AM
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If you ask women what kind of man they want, they’ll simply say someone they get along with, and quietly leave the physical standards out, which leads to men complaining about being friendzoned when they experience that women that they get along with or are friends with, would rather date a guy they don’t know as well, but looks more attractive than themselves And then imply that the reason a man is single is single-handedly because of his personality because “women aren’t shallow” Men are angry…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:00 AM
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If you actually visit forums of lonely men, the most common advice is everyone telling each other to hit the gym, so I don’t think this issue is centric to lonely guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:28 AM
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The problem with asking women what kind of man they want, is that despite having physical requirements, women quietly leave those out and quietly filter for it anyways And then men start complaining about the friendzone when the woman they thought they were getting along with starts dating another guy because he’s hotter or more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:23 AM
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Men don’t think women are sympathetic because women shame men for voicing their male-centric issues, instead of trying to imagine what it’s like being a man having those issues And when a woman tries to shame a man for acting the way he does, it’s apparent to large groups of men that the individual woman has no idea what being a man is like For example, as a guy, I can sympathize with woman the idea of wanting a partner to be taller or shorter than you, but when a guy says he wants a shorter or …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:29 AM
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Yeah sure if we have proof that meth made people’s lives better than yeah sure why not? But we have more evidence of the contrary, so the answer is obvious Nice try, but that was an incredibly weak argument
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:56 AM
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Jeff: marriage is a lie, how can two people promise that they’ll love each other forever? Shirley’s husband: marriage isn’t a promise you make once, it’s a promise you make everyday -episode of community
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:52 AM
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If you told a panel of doctors that “one of the ways” to cure depression from loneliness is with sex, then yes they might actually agree with you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:43 AM
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Ok fine answer me this question and we can finish up this argument If you told a panel of doctors and psychologists that sex isn’t related to emotional health, do you think most of them would agree with you? Yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:37 AM
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I didn’t, but in general men are more serious about sex being with someone you care about, and keeping sex within the marriage, and my earlier comment states women can’t understand the emotions men experience, yet you mock us without trying to understand us (whereas men try to understand women) women are less likely to think sex is related to emotions or intimacy, proof being that women are more likely to propose open or polyamourous relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:27 AM
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I felt that my partner and I deeply emotionally connected more during and after sex, you should try to see sex more than purely a physical act And yup men are the monogamous ones. We’re the ones that think sex should be kept sacred and within the marriage and with people you love Women think sex is whatever and has no inherent meaning, and doesn’t mean anything if you have it outside of marriage, and commonly propose open relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:57 AM
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Yes? Because I wouldn’t have sex with someone I don’t love? Have you ever felt more intimate and close to someone after having sex with them? It’s a wonderfully loving feeling I’m sad you never got to experience that, and ironically you’re the one telling me I have issues, Im starting to sense a pattern here lol That’s why I’m saying men are the romantic sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:51 AM
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Damn I feel sorry for your husband Im starting to realize women project everything, men are actually the loyal monogamous sex did you notice how most romantic songs and statue and paintings of romance are all from men directed at women? And how women’s romance is usually about multiple men chasing her Women claim men sexually objectify them. But always use a dildo. And claims that companionship and intimacy can be substituted with a flshlight, women are the true sexual objectifiers Unlike you, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:30 AM
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Lol visit r/deadbedrooms and tell all of them that their issues and reasons for being depressed are stupid If you think there’s nothing wrong with sexlessness, then be thankful that you’re a woman that doesn’t have to deal with those issues I know more men that attempt to try and empathize and sympathize with women’s issues WAY MORE than the other way around, I wish there would be more women who would at least try and see a perspective other than their own, instead women just shame men for feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:21 AM
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That’s why men have a worse version of loneliness compared to women, we also get shamed for our biology and have to deal with sexual frustration You guys cannot sympathize with our problem because you guys don’t get shamed for your libido or deal with sexual frustration, fortunately something women rarely experience, so be thankful you guys don’t have to deal with men’s issues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:13 AM
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There’s top men living awesome lives and the rest of the other men living shit lives Feminists are angry that majority of CEOs are men, while conveniently ignoring that majority of the bottom shittiest jobs are also taken up by men, but no matter what, feminists will claim they are fighting on behalf of men (while never ever talking about homelessness or suicide, since those problems disproportionately affect men) And women have the audacity to complain about loneliness, a problem that dispropor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:55 PM
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No one said I can’t say it, but it doesn’t get said enough While the other is always repeated
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:43 PM
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Sexually liberal men get shamed for saying they want a conservative woman It’s fair that sexually liberal women get called out for demanding a traditional man that can fulfill his traditional roles
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:36 PM
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It’s the same type of advice as saying Women should avoid dating Depressed men, because it’s a red flag for dating. Making a note of a red flag and wanting the best for yourself, isn’t the same as demonizing an entire group of people “Oh no!! Women are demonizing men with mental illnesses now!” That’s what you sound like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:57 PM
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The advice can go for both sides. Women can simply avoid men they don’t like but instead they complain about how they think men should act on behalf of women to make women happier Or women can just stop dating instead of saying how men should behave
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:45 PM
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Translation: Men cheat because men suck And women cheat because men suck Solution to infidelity: men need to be better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:42 AM
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The problem with advice for women during the digital age, is that they only work if men don’t also hear the advice that women are hearing. It’s like a coach telling their team the game plan while the other team are listening on what they’re planning, no matter how good the plan is, it’s useless if the other team knows your plan Men were never meant to find out how women actually think, it’s in a sense, the Pandora’s box, something we shouldn’t have opened, but now that it’s open, you can’t close…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:59 PM
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That’s a good point, and it’s tragic We like to think we are in the Age of Enlightenment, but very much constrained by gender roles We can’t change society or how others view us, we can only change how we view ourselves. European languages have gender suffixes, and I believe German for the word Bridge ends in a feminine suffix, while Spanish ends in a masculine suffix, and German people believe Bridges are feminine and believe bridges are meant to be “beautiful to look at” like a woman Whereas S…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:48 AM
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I forgot which philosopher said it But everything has value because it’s contingent on something else, but these these things hold value in itself just for existing -truth: we don’t need the truth for anything else, just simply knowing the truth has value in itself -goodness: the world’s resting position is inherently chaotic, goodness is orderly and has value for its own sake -beauty: admiring a beautiful landscape to admiring a beautiful body, you can admire beauty, it has ephemeral value deri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:30 AM
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“Only the winners say love isn’t a game.” - episode of Community If you feel that you have no problem getting love and romance, then you have the privilege to not have to think about love in terms of competition Reminds me how white people ask black people why they obsess over and keep talking about race, but not needing to think about or talk about race, is a privilege for the winning race
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:15 AM
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Let’s say someone has a resume with a giant gap that prevents them from getting hired They realize they have a had time getting hired It is immoral then, to make up a white lie about the gap in your resume, to get your foot in the door? Or should anyone who realize they’ve dug themselves in a hole, should just stay in the hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:31 AM
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