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the sex embodying the sin of sloth Based on... your feelings? Women spend WAY more on improving their physical appearance than men Women go to therapy much more often than men Women do more in relationships on average than men Sorry but facts don't care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:10 AM
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Pretty simple, men can change any/all of this but choose not to because men are by in large lazy and low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:43 PM
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All data suggests that redpill tactics are detrimental to long term relationships and most of the claims are just made up pop psychology. There are also thousands of posts and comments online of women lamenting that their boyfriends have gone down the 'redpill' pipeline and they now want to leave the relationship. Even divorce lawyers are starting to see divorces that started with the relationship becoming strained after the man starting getting into redpill content. Self improvement works for e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:36 PM
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Yes, couldn't find one there either. Mostly reformed sluts in their late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:47 AM
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Hence the manosphere has ruined dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:17 AM
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20-30
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:15 AM
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Ages of what men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:28 AM
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No heavy alcohol use, smoking or drug use Not massively underweight or obese Slept with less than 5 people and no porn use Kind and gentle (no bad temper) No personality disorders, ADHD, autism or serious mental illness No manosphere beliefs Basic interest in health, fitness and healthy living (e.g diet, exercise, sleep, etc) Pretty much all men fail at the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:01 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:38 AM
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This is nonsense, I've never even met a man who can meet my criteria and it's not even that picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:18 AM
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Do I give a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:42 AM
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Autist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:29 AM
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Not needing to follow a social script when interacting with other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:22 AM
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Being normal and treating women like individual people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:09 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:12 AM
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Yeah and I was even told this. LOL i love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:14 AM
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No but I'm pretty sure I've done this to every guy I've dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:59 AM
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Most women don't have a career and run a household?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:31 PM
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How is it possible for women to do both while men apparently will struggle to do both according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:40 PM
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Women somehow manage to do both but men can't even though it's so easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:02 PM
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Men do not benefit from doing “easy” things. Which is the mentality all over. You shouldn't do it because you 'benefit', you should do your fair share because well, it's FAIR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:38 PM
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Because it's immeasurable, just like his. Therefore, she should get nothing? The same ways that men take advantage of them. Which is to say it's either manipulation, force, or neither side is taking advantage and it's a fair trade. That's not an answer and my point is no it isn't a fair trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:30 PM
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If his wife will charge him to take care of his children, then she will be the same as their nanny. He would pay whoever he felt did the best job. Her contribution is being recognised and paid for, why is that SO deeply unreasonable? Welcome to the 21st century, take a gander around. Yes and women stopped being housewives precisely due to this reason. Men like and are attracted to women and are stupid and naive enough to think that their partner won't take advantage of them. Please explain how h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:23 AM
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Then if it's so easy, why don't men actually do it more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:22 AM
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Most women agree with me. You have manosphere brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:42 AM
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Please share this research.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:41 AM
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Women don't benefit from sleeping with one man either then. Better genetic diversity. that is why women push marriage and monogamy. No, young men now want marriage more than women. Men are not harmed by sleeping around. Women are. Men are harmed by sleeping around too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:41 AM
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Women ARE designed to at least cling to one male when she is pregnant and vulnerable. It is also in her biology to seek a stable male as it directly benefits her and her offspring if she is able to isolate his attention. Humans lived in tribes for most of history. If women were sleeping with multiple men, all the men of the tribe would protect the children, since they didn't know which ones were theirs. We have to be feeling generous and go against our own biological imperatives. It is technical…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:39 AM
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You cannot have a half monogamous species.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:31 AM
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What equality? When what benefits me? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:30 AM
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But women also take in that dna and taking creampies from many men DOES physically change her and probably future offspring too. Are you high? So why pressure men for marriage then? Social pressure, but young women want marriage less than men now. You do it because you want to secure his protection and resources. I don't want marriage, or protection or 'resources' You should have to choose men you know are likely to be loyal and stick around but there are no guarantees. If a man promised to be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:28 AM
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You just changed your entire comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:26 AM
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No it doesn't, that's literally a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:20 AM
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Cheating is one of the main reasons women divorce men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:15 AM
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If men aren't wired for monogamy then neither are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:15 AM
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So supervise multiple children of multiple ages while cooking, cleaning and doing everything else simultaneously?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:14 AM
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He missed out on years of being single, having his own freedom, time and hobbies and sleeping around though. So did she? And how is it a poor deal? When in the history of the earth has any being other than women been able to just not work? If you think it's a poor deal maybe don't do it? I have no intention of doing it ever and judging by the birth rates, most women agree. And she is working, just inside the home for free instead of outside of it for money. And so what if he cheats? Men are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:13 AM
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I can tell you don't have kids. The idea women at home with multiple children have time to sit and waste time watching TV shows is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:51 AM
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How is she living a 'posh life' she has basic accommodation, food and bills paid for. her to continued dividends when she chooses to end it. What if she doesn't end it? What if he cheats? Why would women choose such a poor deal? Why arent men entitled to continue having their house cleaned and their knobs slobbed for all that alimony? Because you didn't lose out on years of career progression and money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:44 AM
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Again, that doesn't negate the point in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:39 AM
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Men want children on average as much or more than women do. If a man has a stay at home wife that is 'lazy and entitled' then maybe he should tell her to go back to work and they should split housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:34 AM
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Every single year a woman was at home not working, she was losing out on salary, pension, savings, etc. Alimony is to acknowledge that contribution. It doesn't make her an indentured servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:33 AM
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Household workers get dismissal rights, a pension, a salary, holidays, sick days. They also get experience which they can carry to their next employer. You're making the case even stronger, housewives get treated like garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:30 AM
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Presumably the same thing that the man would feed and clothe himself with. A man who has building his career for years and years? Obviously with his salary. She won't have a salary if she's been at home looking after the kids. For childcare and household labor, they would go with nannies and maids. A man would rather pay an entire fleet of staff than just pay his own wife and the mother of those children? Men really hate the idea of giving their partner money that much? My point was that the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:53 AM
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So she'll feed and clothe herself with what? Good feelings? If you want to pretend that men and women are equal, then you have to treat them equally. If men would know the upfront cost of marriage, they would likely never get married, or instead choose to go with prostitutes. If men knew that women actually expect to be compensated for all the childcare and household labor they do, they'd go with prostitutes instead? That's a pretty incredible argument. If a woman should be compensated for poten…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:38 AM
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then the children will themselves reward the adults who invested in them. So if a woman gives up her career to look after her children and support her husband, the payout she should get is essentially gratitude and nothing else?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:13 AM
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soft-spoken man who attends therapy and opens up about his growth journey or the cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life? You know you can be both of these, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:50 PM
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Yeah he just drops the double standard and leaves lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:18 AM
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Out of wedlock? What are you talking about? That wasn't even mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:00 PM
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Again, how does this actually address the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:04 PM
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So now you've shifted the goalpost. Do women chase in the majority of situations or not? Do women enjoy chasing men or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:10 PM
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But the majority of women DON'T chase men. Are you living on a different planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:08 PM
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It’s not anecdotal when many men here report it Do you know what an anecdote is? And again, my ex tried this on me and I lost interest completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:02 PM
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You’re comparing a stupid animal to an advanced homo sapien… human are their own thing. and again it’s purely cultural objectively. So suddenly the entire animal kingdom is not valid when it comes to discussing human behaviour? These men were pursued and they were conventionally attractive aswell, I’ve witnessed this multiple times, and this goes back to the halo effect. These are anecdotes, most women aren't interested in being the 'pursuer' and will lose interest if they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:56 PM
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So out of 3000 species of mammal, only 3 have female animals pursuing males. In those 3 species, the females are bigger and more aggressive than the males. Chad will get chased and I’ve seen it before hand and even heard reliable stories. Giving a man attention is not the same as women liking being the 'pursuer' and especially if the man starts pulling away and acting cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:49 PM
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The chasing is what gives a clear signal that she is infatuated with him. I have NEVER 'chased' a man if he's pulled away from me other than to check if everything was ok because I was confused by the distance. In every single species of mammal apart from 3, male animals pursue female animals, not the reverse. There is more to why this is the ideal, it’s not purely a “thrill” thing. You essentially want to be treated like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:21 PM
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I WAS infatuated with him UNTIL he started pulling back and expecting me to chase him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:13 PM
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You're going to be citing sources as to why ignoring your partner to get attention is a good idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:25 PM
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You didn't explain, you just repeated the same thing and added a few more words.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:28 PM
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Literally what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:23 PM
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What has commitment got to do with this? I never said anything about commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:11 PM
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Did you completely miss this part: turn down a 'red pill' man who was trying to use 'dread game' to make me chase him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:06 PM
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How does that relate to anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:05 PM
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When did I say anything about being treated well?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:54 PM
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No, we really don't. Stop projecting what men are impressed by onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:24 AM
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LOL no we absolutely fucking don't. Talking utter shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:21 AM
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Well women can make all these points about men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:19 AM
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That wasn't the argument. If HE left after I asked for sex, would it still be his fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:03 AM
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You can’t always predict somebody changing, but it’s fairly easy to predict whether a man is going to be a deadbeat or not How? Married men turning into deadbeats and abandoning their children is rare. Most deadbeats stems from casual encounters and short term relationships Based on? It should be obvious, but the chances of a man who invested years into the relationship, bought you a ring, planned for the kid and is enthusiastic about the whole experience is far more likely to be involved than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:57 PM
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So the person who will propose the sex What since ultimately the sex only happens with the agreement not with the search for it. So if I seek out sex from a man, and he agrees but then abandons me, it's his fault for agreeing to the sex, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:48 PM
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It’s the nature of the process we are talking about Literally how? Your ideology is so bizarre and contradictory. According to you: If I date a man and 3 years into the relationship, he cheats on me, somehow it was my fault for 'choosing him' (implying I had some kind of prior knowledge he would cheat? or ability to find out easily?) And yet since men should have supreme authority over women's lives, it's men's fault for allowing women to freely choose who they date? Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:47 PM
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But their individuals actions can be automatically offloaded because 'a woman chose them' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:22 PM
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Are men responsible for anything in your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:38 PM
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… the single mothers CHOSE those uninvolved men. No one forced them to pick those particular men. They chose them because they valued their superficial and surface level traits over properly vetting them for character and values. You can't just get to know someone and predict their behaviour until the end of time. It's not a case of good/bad either. Some people can have a lot of good traits but struggle with responsibility and parenting. Doesn't make those people evil, it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:37 PM
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Hanging out with? Sure. Dating? Nope. No over 30s for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:31 AM
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Well I've met a lot of men who just expect me to 'forgive' their hoe phase in their early 20s because it 'doesn't mean anything' A lot of the redpillers are hypocrites because they support hook up culture, they're just angry they often don't get to participate because no one wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 05:06 PM
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Your comment had nothing to do with what I said, zero. I ask again, were you responding to the correct comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:23 AM
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Did you respond to the correct comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:06 AM
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If I wanted to be around older men, I'd seek them out on dating apps or IRL. I don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:08 AM
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And they actually do have an attraction for older looks Are you attracted to older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:36 AM
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Nope, younger men are just more attractive and appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:35 AM
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Not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:35 AM
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Because older men never stop bringing it up. I'd spend 0% of my time even acknowledging old men if they just fucked off and accepted that their attention and advances are unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 01:32 AM
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Oh no I find sluts disgusting and I feel no shame saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:46 AM
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Well if i say that most young women don't want older men and prefer men their own age, it's met with endless screeching from the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:40 AM
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Most women don't have delusional standards but men get their ideas on what women think from women hating podcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:26 AM
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Why should women have to do everything because men can't be bothered despite it being 'so easy' by your own admission?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:24 AM
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The stats are the best reflection of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:23 AM
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I'm a scientist, you've no idea how much you're barking up the wrong tree with this one pal. Every single man when I send a study responds with 'but muh 3 friends are different so is not truuu'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:59 AM
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I think it's best not to date anymore. Personally if I had the choice to go back, I never would've dated at all and focused on building platonic community instead. I don't see a way forward with the manosphere, it's just too widespread at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:44 AM
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Literally anything but just acknowledging this as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:30 AM
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I'm not arguing about the value of women's work. Women work both inside and outside the home and it's exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:06 AM
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Please stop gooning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:38 PM
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This is just weird now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:13 PM
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Well whatever, as long as I can walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:09 PM
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Then so is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:03 PM
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He's into me beating the shit out of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:55 PM
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In every relationship I've been in I've both earned more and done more in the house. Every man seemed to think it was normal and acceptable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:10 PM
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We do what’s necessary without making it our entire reason for existence. So do women. My lunch took 30 seconds to make today. Again if it's so easy, why aren't men doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:02 PM
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If it's so easy, why don't men do it more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:52 PM
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Most household labour isn't option- Cooking, admin, childcare, cleaning and tidying to at least a basic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:47 PM
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It's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:33 PM
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Not wanting to live in a roach infested shithole is due to differences in brain wiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:32 PM
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make the majority of physically demanding/dangerous jobs How does this relate to anything I've said?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:29 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:28 PM
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Yes it is true. Women do more household labour regardless of who is working and earning. men still largely out earn their female counterparts? Do woman really go 50/50 on all spending? Not as much as you'd think and a huge % of women are now breadwinners in their families. Plus working has benefits: More pay, pension, health benefits. Working at home has none. If not, then they found themselves a more traditional woman and then it’s not such a bad deal for men Working and doing all the work at h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:27 PM
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It's literally the opposite. Women and men now both work. And women are still doing most of the household labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:17 PM
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Why am I arguing over word meanings? I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:52 AM
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Autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:14 PM
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Yes, but it's not a sexual behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:13 PM
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Well no, it's more of a sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:43 PM
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describing a horrible person. You think she's a horrible person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:35 AM
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When did I say any of this was bad? Seriously, stop getting so emotional, no one cares if your feelings are hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:32 AM
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She lacks signs of most of those. Perhaps you should watch the documentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:30 AM
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Lack of emotional affect, crew members noticing her habits while filming her latest documentary, hyper-sexuality, lacking conventional expressions of emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:28 AM
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There's some clear evidence that she is, stop getting so emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:25 AM
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And yet, autistic people are also far more likely to be asexual as well. And? She's a hypersexual one. It’s less a “clear link” and more the fact that you’re scrutinizing autism and autistic people for a piece of data many people in and out of the spectrum have. Scrutinising autism...by pointing out a fact? but then this doesn’t mean there is a “clear link”, it just means that autistic people are more likely to fall on an extreme than the normal population You're arguing against a point I never …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:19 AM
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Because she is an autist and there's a clear link between autism and hypersexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:11 AM
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She's a creepy hypersexual autist, that's it. Most women are nothing like her and can't relate to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:05 AM
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nerdy computer programmer virgin This guy because if he tried to attack me I could probably win on VO2 max and muscle mass differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:03 AM
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I knew he was watching Andrew Tate. He also had a lot of the underlying beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:31 AM
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It's logical of him to lie and make me angrier? Can you see how not wanting to be a doormat can lead someone to the red pill tho? No, I've had weak boundaries before but that has never ended in me abusing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:17 AM
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Can you please explain how that is not the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:49 AM
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He practiced a known tactic that the red pill promotes but isn't red pill because... you say he isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:09 AM
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It honestly should kill your attraction if he makes it known that he's a red piller. lol He insisted he wasn't one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:03 AM
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It's literally one of the core tennets, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:46 PM
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He was in an abusive relationship a few years ago and had some issues around vulnerability. We were in an LDR and I wasn't able to move as quickly as I thought. I apologised for the delays and for how the distance was hurting him. begins to implement “dread” because he’s “insecure” (which defies one of the primary tenants of RP which is to have frame$ He didn't admit to being insecure, but I know he is. relationship that was happy gets worse but he continues. Because he assumed that me texting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:33 PM
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Because I was familiar with the manosphere and have been for years, I knew exactly what he was doing. When I confronted him, he admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:04 PM
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Well he kept doing it over and over again and I was becoming less and less and less interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:59 PM
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Because he was very very warm and loving and kind for the longest time, then suddenly started going cold and distant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:58 PM
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how would you even know? How would I know what? That he was doing this? this demonstrates precisely why RP is not for women in the least and they cannot speak on it. Not for me how? I can't speak on an abusive tactic used on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:52 PM
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One of the major tenets of RP is not getting turned into a beta bux by women and being the alpha guy they want to fuck. This is so beyond stupid I don't even know how to respond to it. RP philosophy almost entirely revolves around not being a doormat and making sure your partner is actually attracted to you and advocating for your own sexual needs. It destroyed my acctraction to him completely....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:51 PM
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Dread game is emotional abuse, my ex tried it on me because he was insecure. Went from planning on getting married to never speaking to him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:34 PM
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It means exactly what I said. Men who are in happy and healthy relationships don’t need to find the red pill because many of the dynamics are already inherent to the relationship they are in Men can be insecure at let that insecurity get to them. Men typically only search for the red pill when shit is going wrong in their relationships/dating lives. Otherwise, they wouldn’t give a shit. Again, if things aren't going right in the relationship, how is emotionally abusing the woman going to help th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:46 PM
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They either already know or haven’t gotten there yet (maybe a natural). Wtf does this mean If women are concerned about their dude finding the redpill, don’t give him a reason to go looking for it. Lol so I somehow CAUSED my ex to try and emotionally manipulate me with RP tactics?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:27 PM
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..... a study?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:22 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38629700/ "Sexism (hostile or benevolent) was linked with unstable, low‑commitment behaviors"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:02 PM
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Men who like and respect women less are more likely to have casual sex because they see women as disposable and things to use. Men who don't think like this are more likely to stay in a relationship with one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:56 PM
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My ex didn't go redpill because he 'didn't want to be a doormat' Red pill was just an easy option to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:45 PM
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That's not really the conclusion that you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:44 PM
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Well no, why should we reward horrible and abusive behaviour by becoming doormats?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:33 PM
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Which studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:27 PM
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Well no because even though they're bullshit, they can ruin good and happy relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:26 PM
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Women. Can't. Control. How. Men. Behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:22 PM
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'failed relationships and choices' Women can't control how men behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:45 PM
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You guys do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:48 AM
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girl i think i got a crush on you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:46 AM
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Nope, not that either. He just has a fearful avoidant attachment style.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:42 AM
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Love you for that hahaha 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:41 AM
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Nope, he wanted me to chase him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:37 AM
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Well I told my ex that I don't like cold and distant behaviour. He cut me off, and as predicted I lost interest. So it's true?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:23 AM
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Well guess I'm right too, what a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:00 AM
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After rejecting them? Do you think all men are attracted to all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:44 AM
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'observing actual things that happen' So if I've observed something totally different, does that prove my point of view true?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:41 AM
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You are making a claim with no evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:33 AM
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I've been doing this since like age 16.... Should've been putting 'leader' on my resumé....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:55 AM
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Or expressing care and closeness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:42 AM
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....leader? For what? Leader: Always responsible, does things without being asked to, excels at his job, holds you to your promises, plans things out thoroughly, never needs to be reminded to do anything This is just basic self sufficiency?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:40 AM
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'it's pretty obvious' it's proof of anything. Men always blame women when relationships don't work out, regardless of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:26 AM
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Women are shitty for being friends with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:26 AM
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You're honestly just sad, you only see physical contact as something sexual/romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:25 AM
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It's just not a thing that men are endlessly buying their female friends meals, sorry but you need to stop believing whatever bullshit you watch on podcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:01 AM
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so you're another woman who opposes equality BASED ON FUCKING WHAT?! 😂 I know you love your female privilege and you don't want equality, but what's coming is even worse than being treated like an equal. What do you think equality means? What do you think is coming? Are you able to answer any of these questions or just make weird vague comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:18 PM
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'Furthermore, evidence suggests that men are typically more predisposed to an avoidant attachment style' Especially a source that adjusts for the fact that women want avoidant men, so avoidant men are more likely to be in a relationship in the first place. No we certainly don't want avoidant men and by definition avoidant men are less likely to be in a relationships because they fear intimacy lol, are you just making shit up now or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:16 PM
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If you have a mental deficit/neurodivergence, this isn't something you can think your way out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:12 PM
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I'm pretty sure women aren't doing that most of the time and even so, it's pretty sad that men can't even cuddle their friends. I love cuddling my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:10 PM
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Not how it works at all. If you don't have social skills, there's something wrong with your brain. If a girl spends enough time around you, you'll eventually let the mask slip.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:07 PM
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You can't 'fix it' by learning a bunch of stupid lines and co ordinated body language, it's still fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:05 PM
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The point is, having to learn a scripted social 'script' is inherent proof you're defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:03 PM
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I never said any of that or claimed to be part of any ideology or anti ideology. Also didn't know I had a choice between 'feminist' or 'Anti feminist MRA' why do you think that women's rejection of equality is not going to backfire? I can't answer a question where you've already inferred an opinion and painted it as true, that's just dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:02 PM
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I'm not bitter about not being wanted. But yeah I'm angry about TRP ideology and the damage it does to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:42 PM
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You went genuinely insane over one guy. Please, get some help. When did I do that? The red pill is so much more than dread game, and it is a toolbox. Yeah yeah, amused mastery, peacocking and all the other stupid bullshit it teaches men who literally a guide to interact with the opposite sex because they're so defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:30 PM
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it's heading to men rejecting gender equality Ok, they can do what they like. unlike you obviously) And that's based on? and instead increasingly supporting guys like Tate. And it's probably going to get worse than Tate. Ok, if you want to follow and send your money to a chinless criminal I don't give a fuck. I'll just be single and making money lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:27 PM
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You use avoidant behaviour on an anxious person, you may well get results. This does not mean what you think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:25 PM
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Is there a study on this? Or just your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:24 PM
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It's just men gossiping about feelings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:23 PM
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'Literally seeing it work' isn't evidence. It's just your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:22 PM
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No TRP is making the claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:21 PM
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He wasn't 'new to TRP' He also didn't make dread game 'so fucking obvious' I didn't even realise what he was doing at first, but I just felt myself lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:21 PM
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Being friends with someone is faking interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:11 PM
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Based on...? I don't think you're going to like where this is heading. Where is this heading?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:57 PM
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There is no actual evidence behind these claims, that's the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:52 PM
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Men are much more likely to be avoidant in relationships compared to women but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:48 PM
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red pill has answers for them. Answer being lies and abuse tactics so they can feel in control. I guess it revolves around you and yours then? I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:44 PM
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If he lied and told her he wanted a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:41 PM
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Er men do this to women too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:34 PM
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We really are monsters lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:33 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:31 PM
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So have I and yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:27 PM
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These men are strangers, not friends. You can't stop shifting the goalposts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:26 PM
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Getting a cheap drink bought at a club is very different from male friends constantly buying their female friends free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:19 PM
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Yeah and literally not even my friend who is a model gets meals paid for by her friends, that would be extremely weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:10 PM
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Those bitter resentful fuckers deserve all the hate they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:07 PM
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Yeah exactly this is the weirdest claim ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:02 PM
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Pretty sure that's not true, just some podcast nonsense that you've lapped up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:59 PM
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false. I've both been the guy who takes a woman to dinner only to have her say she's calling it an evening and I've also been the guy to get the call after some poor guy has taken her out to dinner and she wants to come over for sex. It's better to be the second guy.\ This is an personal anecdote, this has no basis in reality or the general population. The world doesn't revolve around you and your feelings. Dishonest. When a woman tells a guy she's not looking to date and that you can still hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:53 PM
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Dual mating strategy isn't real and friend zoning is you thinking giving any woman attention means you're owed sex. You aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:47 PM
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No evidence of RP tactics actually working. They make the claim, burden of proof is on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:40 PM
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Can't wait to hear: I HAV BIG DIK AND MAKE LOTS OF MONEYYYY
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:34 PM
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And yet it does. I have seen it countless times IRL, both from my experience, and from watching it happen from the sidelines. Did you miss the caveat: it will probably lead anxiously attached women to the point of mental breakdowns though. If you're just gonna say "nope, this isn't true la la la" and stick your fingers in your ears this has no point. Goodbye. There was literally a study that showed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:32 PM
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If it was so overt you noticed Er what How was I supposed to 'not notice' him becoming more cold and distant? and your guy needed to do it better How could he have 'done it better?' Please tell lmao. And he sure as shit fucked up beyond belief at this point. He fucked up beyond belief the second he listened to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:30 PM
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As well as an unhealthy dose of narcissism, as well as some psychopathy. Nope, when controlling for confidence, those things disappear. The closest example would be "playing hot and cold". Setting someone's nervous system on edge with intermittent reinforcement does not yield results, it will probably lead anxiously attached women to the point of mental breakdowns though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:27 PM
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Oh you mean dread game? Literally a core part of 'RP' philosophy? Yeah no that 'but it wasn't the REAL redpill!' argument doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:25 PM
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Results being more and more women checking out of dating and focusing on other things instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:24 PM
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But all women react well to a "cocky funny" asshole type guy. Not negging, just push/pull. Wow women react to confidence and humour? Who would've guessed?! What is push/pull?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:19 PM
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An example from my personal experience with a redpill man: He deliberately acted cold/distant in the hopes that I would become more attracted to him and respect him more. I told him that I felt less attraction to him now but he said this 'wasn't true' since I was 'still talking to him' The confirmation bias was him thinking me talking to him was proof his tactic worked, he ignored the part where I told him I felt less attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:18 PM
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No, the redpill appeals to men with social deficits because it gives them a defined 'social script' to follow in a chaotic world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:16 PM
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There are a subgroup of women AND men that tend to be drawn in by toxic behaviour (Anxious attachment style) this is usually due to childhood trauma. It doesn't 'prove the red pill' it just teaches men (usually with severe social deficits) how to mimic an avoidant/disorganised attachment style which will attract anxious partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:14 PM
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Confirmation bias = Everything that supports your theory is proof, everything that goes against it is ignored. My ex made this exact mistake with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:04 PM
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Plenty of women have relationships with men and then end them after their boyfriend 'goes redpill' so this doesn't track. There are articles popping up about this constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:54 PM
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It just exposes female dating tactics. Being more informed prevents men from being abused by these tactics. What 'abusive tactics' are women using en masse?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:41 PM
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"Unless men are good little boys who sit still in their chairs and raise their hands to speak then they won't get what they want. How hard is that to understand?" No one said this, complete victim complex reframing. That's what this is. We don't believe it. Watch what women do, not what they say. Ok, if you watch what women do: - More men than women now want to get married - More men than women want to date - Most women don't want to remarry after divorcing/being widowed (and most don't) - More …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:40 PM
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Yeah echo chamber mixed with victim mentality mixed with entitlement and social media is a toxic combination here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:33 PM
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Because more and more men are listening to the manosphere and taking what they say seriously, with pretty disastrous consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:32 PM
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Because in our society, being a man is about meeting standards. All of them. You have to look a certain way, act a certain way, earn a certain amount, restrict your emotions, never ask for help, etc. etc. Ah yes because society expects literally none of these things from women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:25 PM
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You making unsubstantiated claims based on your 'feelings' just isn't evidence, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:05 PM
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Its the fact womans aproval and arousal are different things. And you get laid a lot more by being redpill, altho backfires in ltr. No, just no. You claiming something is true doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:03 PM
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Your feelings aren't reality no matter how much you believe them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:01 PM
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Yeah but a lot of women respond well to toxicity, so it works in some cases. Like theres a whole lot of dudes that bag way more women after being more nasty. This is just confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:59 PM
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Yeah 'it's so true idk' isn't really an argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:58 PM
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Are red pill manisphere bros inventing things which arent rooted in reality This one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:53 PM
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I actually think there is some form of 'male intrasexual competition' going on with the manosphere/TRP. There seem to be two 'types' of red pill men. The first are the complete undatables (Men with severe personality disorders, neurodivergence, very physically unattractive/handicapped, etc) who struggle for obvious reasons. These guys have usually never been in a relationship or none long term and have little to no interest from women. Then the second group are the 'burned' guys who have had rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:53 PM
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Oh you've totally got me, please don't dread game me!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:04 PM
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You ignored all of my points because you couldn't come up with a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:59 PM
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Then don't engage in a debate if you pussy out so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:56 PM
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Huh? What's wrong? My life not fit your 'men are the victim' narrative and now you don't know what else to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:54 PM
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You’re describing your working-class uncle as proof that gender doesn’t shape sacrifice. The fuck are you talking about? The fact that he kept working, providing, and swallowing dust without complaint, then got left out of your entire analysis, is the point. His labor stays invisible until it props up your narrative. He runs his own carpentry business (by choice) and his wife makes x2 as much as him as a university lecturer. He works because he's a very extroverted and creative guy, he genuinely…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:51 PM
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The entire thread is about male disposability, not generic labor value. Er no? OPs post was about the force doctrine, not male disposability. Gender is central because the system extracts service from men while treating their deaths as expected. The system (assuming you live in the West) is capitalism and it does this to everyone. It also doesn't 'extract' services, you aren't forced to work in the trades. You’re pretending your white-collar job gives you insight into this structure, when all yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:21 PM
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Now you’re mistaking your ability to spectate for relevance. I'm really not. This is a confession. You admit the system depends on men, yet frame their disposability as proof of your autonomy. That's not how capitalism works. What it actually reveals is a parasitic wish to entrap the very men who maintain infrastructure, tech, logistics, and defense into continued service, while you discredit, mock, and pathologize them into silence. No, gender has nothing to do with this. I work in a scientific…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:08 PM
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But the overwhelming majority of people who maintain physical infrastructure, energy grids, industrial systems, and national defense are still male. And? They are maintained by risk-tolerant, outcome-oriented men. When they stop operating the trade, the grid, or your lifestyle, there will be nothing left for you to moderate. This is the stupidest take I think I've ever read. These men do the job they do because they get paid, not because they're 'happy' or 'unhappy' with women. They also have fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:56 PM
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Most men aren't redpillers, a minority of bitter internet spergs and genetic trash aren't really a threat. critical infrastructure will continue to weaken until men won't need to reverse your rights. Thanks to entropy, your lights will go out automatically. LOL most manosphere men aren't working blue collar jobs and have some kind of monopoly on the trades lmao You guys do make me laugh at time though, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:42 PM
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Being good at sex has nothing to do with feeling different genitals, it's such a ridiculous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:08 PM
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Lol lots of women orgasm from casual sex. 'Women less likely to orgasm from casual sex: Study' Do I really need to list the reasons why having more sexual experience makes you better at sex as a guy? People in stable, long term relationships have the most sex. It is confidence building, at a basic level, when women generally respond well to you and you can take them to bed. If a woman wants to be in a relationship with you, you don't need to learn to 'take her to bed' this is weird language. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:04 PM
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Most people don't find it attractive if the person they are with has had more partners. Disease risk goes up, cheating risk goes up, casual sex is associated with every type of negative behaviour. It's also unnatural, you release oxytocin during sex to 'bond' you to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:52 PM
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Also yeah, I think casual sex is vile and any man who has a history of sleeping around is an instant no when it comes to dating. I don't think my mind would change if I decided to sleep around myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:16 PM
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Most women don't orgasm from one night stands, they are much more likely to orgasm when in relationships that are loving and committed. Why is a one night stand going to care about your enjoyment? So I ask again, how is using people for sex casually and never learning them or their bodies going to make you good at sex compared to having sex with one person consistently?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:15 PM
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Variety is vile and offputting. Who wants to think of their partner fucking someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:21 AM
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Being inside random people isn't going to make you good at sex like having consistent sex with one long term partner. Any other take is insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:56 AM
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How are you not getting this, could this be any more obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:33 AM
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I think perhaps you need to read my original comment: > being promiscous makes you good at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:03 AM
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Based on what? Where is the logic at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:52 PM
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How is having different partners going to assist with this? You're making no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:49 PM
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I'm sorry what Are you trying to say being promiscous makes you good at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:04 PM
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Most women give men advice based on what they like and what would work on them. This has certainly been true in my case. I gave my ex advice about women, he used that advice with me, it worked. But then he started using manosphere advice and I told him I was no longer interested. So I'd say between advice from other men and women, taking advice from women is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:04 PM
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This fails to consider that infidelity is one of the most common reasons for divorce. a huge % of gay men are in open marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:49 AM
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I never made any such argument, you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:56 AM
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Can you please send your evidence for "It rewires women to expect men to be protectors and providers, which is highly toxic for men" this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:37 PM
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No, 'romance novels' aren't a super stimulant. They have no impact on the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:23 PM
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I never said it's okay. I already said about 5 times that I don't read romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:15 PM
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Does it? Sounds like you've been reading a fair bit. And no, I don't think it's 'poisonous to women's brains' just because you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:08 PM
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The focus is romance, not just pure hedonistic sex I presume. Again, they don't destroy the brain like high speed internet porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:38 PM
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I don't know how else I can explain sexism, double standards and rp beliefs? Believing it's okay for men to sleep around but not women? Believing that women are largely motivated by 'hypergamous' instincts rather than genuinely liking a man? Why do you hold the belief that they have to have <5 partners? More than 5 partners doubles the risk of cheating, plus I think casual sex is vile and makes me lose interest and enthusiasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:07 PM
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Manosphere beliefs as in evolutionary psychology gendered bullshit, any red pill beliefs, sexism and double standards, Andrew Tate, etc. Being kind and gentle > Never raises voice or swear at me when angry, no violence or aggression towards me, I'm not sure how to further explain 'gentle'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:54 PM
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You literally just ignored half the points I made in my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:58 PM
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No I don't read romance books but even if I did, they don't have the same impact on the brain as porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:25 PM
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Hell, even I’m probably “overweight or obese” and I lift 3x a week and squat 405. You know that's obviously not what it means. It’s hard to use those metrics on individuals. It’s great to measure society, not so much individual people. Nope, it works on individuals too actually. And it’s one thing for guys to “regularly watch porn”, it’s another for it to be an addiction. I don’t have a problem with the standard, but a lot of the times they’ll stop when they fit into a relationship I don't care,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:24 PM
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Most men in the West are overweight or obese, 30% of men have a favourable view of Andrew Tate, and most men regularly watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:59 PM
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No heavy alcohol use, smoking or drug use Not massively underweight or obese Slept with less than 5 people and no porn use Kind and gentle (no bad temper) No personality disorders, ADHD, autism or serious mental illness No manosphere beliefs Basic interest in health, fitness and healthy living (e.g diet, exercise, sleep, etc) Pretty much all men fail at least one of these, so it's a non starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:42 PM
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I don't think I'd be able to find one that met my standards so, never?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:48 AM
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NO no and NO. That's an easy way to get used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:56 PM
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Not really. Closest I ever did to this was to turn down a 'red pill' man who was trying to use 'dread game' to make me chase him. I told him since he was such a prize, he should go for women who 'deserve' him and will give him the princess treatment he wants, never spoke to him again after this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:49 PM
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https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:18 PM
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Men value purity in women in a way women broadly don't value it in men. Completely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:25 AM
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I hear the same shit from high body count men. They just don't like feeling excluded from someones dating pool because of their past behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:24 AM
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Let's say society gets to the point where they put men in cages and women come to choose them as breeding stock. I'm sorry what
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:40 AM
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'They don't want a sugar daddy, they want a man in control of his finances' You realise, you said the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:26 PM
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Yes YES Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:19 AM
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I wish I could find one of those, gave up when I couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:17 AM
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Women often view men with decent body count as confident, socially skilled and desired. God no we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:15 AM
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If I work full time/very hard I'm a 'career driven feminist' who's neglecting my kids and husband for a paycheck. If I don't work and rely on a man financially I'm a 'gold digger/lazy' or god forbid I get divorced, then I'm 'stealing all my husbands money' If I try and balance working and housework I'll end up doing both because men rarely if ever contribute much to household labour. In all of these scenarios I've seen to have "lost value" by aging naturally and having children. Can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:06 PM
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Those aren't boundaries, that's not what that word means. "Rates of failure" in relationships aren't high because women have male friends or post revealing pictures online. There is however, a much higher rate of failure in relationships where one or both partners has an attachment style that isn't secure. If my partner posted shirtless pictures online, I wouldn't consider that "disrespect".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:52 PM
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Most women aren't going to mind if you do these things. If you consider these things an awful violation of the relationship, then don't be in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:34 PM
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but it’s reasonable for people to have standards of behavior for their partners. That’s not controlling, it’s demanding respect. Sure, but most women aren't going to go for men with these 'standards of behaviour'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:25 PM
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She can post revealing photos on Instagram for validation from hundreds of other men. ^^ 'Revealing' is different to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:29 PM
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You said this: "By labelling a man's natural, protective setting of boundaries as "toxic,"" Right after you made the points about her having male friends and posting pictures online. So why do those things make you feel "protective"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:06 PM
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I am aware I likely have an anxious attachment style And this is where your feelings are likely coming from. I don't have an anxious attachment style and I have never or will never care if my partner has female friends, or talks to his exes, or posts pictures of himself online. I don't experience any of the 'heart racing, lump in the throat' feeling that people describe when they talk about being jealous, it just doesn't impact me at all. Even if your partner did none of those things, you will f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:04 PM
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Why would you feel the need to 'protect' your partner from her friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:58 PM
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But studies have shown the chances of romantic feelings existing between two friends who are possible romantic partners is high. Maybe if men had stronger friendships with other men, they wouldn't see a deep friendship with a woman as an automatic romantic thing since they've got many deep friendships? but maintaining strong connections to people who could be or were romantic partners in the past will affect their current relationship I'm curious how bisexual people fit into this in your mind, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:57 PM
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If you're getting jealous over stuff like this, it's likely you have an anxious attachment style, I've dated a guy with one of those, it was absolutely awful. Which I understand people will have different views on what's reasonable, but men by and large get shamed and vilified just for expressing any form. If you feel extremely uncomfortable with your partner having male friends or posting pictures online then you should express this at the start of a relationship. If she disagrees with this, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:51 PM
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It's universally agreed on that pretending to be a friend to have sex with someone is wrong. The fact one is wrong doesn't mean actively keeping those guys around cannot also be wrong. How is a woman supposed to know this? If I make it well known that I have a partner and someone befriends me with a hope we will break up, how am I supposed to know this? Men being able to post pictures online doesn't mean women seeking validation from hundreds of men is either okay or beyond reasonable judgement.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:48 PM
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A woman can maintain a roster of "male friends" who are just orbiters waiting for their shot. If her partner says, "This makes me uncomfortable," he's "controlling and insecure." So women are bad for having male friends, but men aren't bad for feigning a friendship even though they have ulterior motives? She can post revealing photos on Instagram for validation from hundreds of other men. If he expresses that it feels disrespectful to the relationship, he's the "toxic" one. Men can post pictures…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:35 PM
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I gave up because I couldn't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:52 AM
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Ok since you totally lack introspection (very common for females) LOL oh the irony. Intelligence aka IQ is highly correlated with earning capacity. In fact nothing is as predictive of future earning potential quite like intelligence. humor = a sign of intelligence. So congrats. You're choosing men on prehistoric signs of provider capacity. Just like I said. LOL oh dear not an 'everything you do is evo psych' bro. I've never dated a man who makes more than me, explain that? Also I like men with f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:32 PM
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Women use money in their own age group and toss them aside as well so I’m not sure the point you’re making here is lol No, normally they don't. Regardless of age group you have to be vetting women properly and not lead with money if you want something serious How exactly do you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:59 PM
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Personality banter is just "money and status" in disguise. As I already explained. I like men who have the same sense of humour, are intelligent, are interested in the same things. I could care less about how much he makes. Science simply disagrees with you. There are endless studies on male and female selection that point out that the resourcefulness of a male is a far bigger priority than the resourcefulness of a female. In poorer countries where women have no money and need to rely on a man f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:39 PM
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Yes I married a Ukrainian woman. We have 2 kids together. Cool? You got a mail order bride good for you. If I listened to people like you. I'd still be single. In fact I largely attribute my years of loneliness to the fact that I believed exactly what you are preaching right now. The fact that you have to buy a woman's affection from a much poorer country is beyond sad and pathetic to me, I'd honestly rather die alone and never have kids. You're not exactly lying. I 100% believe that this is HOW…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:14 PM
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Then I lived in Kyiv for 2 years. Saw so many Ogre + beauty couples. Realized that a lot of them are perfectly happy. Have children together. Have built a good home together. That this point of view is very reductive and more importantly simply inaccurate. HOW does this disprove the point? That physical appearance is the top priority for them just like men. But those aren't the type of women guys like that need to be targeting anyway. They are completely useless in that regard. No you should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:06 PM
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Are you going to pretend like no women do that? Yeah women who primarily value money over all else will get into relationships and fuck men for money. That's literally the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:54 PM
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The fact that you are comparing choosing a lartner to getting a job offer kinda proves the other guys point. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:53 PM
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Like I said before. You can't select on money and status if everyone around you is the same money and status as you. You can just look for older men with 'money and status' if you were into that. But no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:41 PM
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Saying she left an old man because it was awful confirms your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:36 PM
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25 year old woman dating a 35-40 year old man is very common in many parts of the world. Yeah, poorer parts where the women don't have money or a way to advance. Where the dating market reflects human nature a lot better than the abomination we have in the West. Women being poor and having less opportunity leads them to making choices based on human nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:32 PM
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How is a woman supposed to select on money and status when all the men around her are the same money and status as her? She will use the only other thing available.... looks. She could go for a man much older than her with much more money. If she doesn't need money, she'll go for what is ACTUALLY attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:31 PM
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Do old men like the idea of being used for money for a few years then tossed? Is that like a win to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:24 PM
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But it works just fine if the age difference is only 10-15 years. Nope, too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:19 PM
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Then why do men not give a shit? Why do men honestly rank a 5/10 as a 5/10 regardless if she works at Wendy's or is a surgeon. We're not brain dead we understand the benefits of dating a surgeon versus a fry cook. Because relationships aren't usually seen as a way to economically advance for men. For a large part of human history, marrying a rich older man was one of the only ways women could move up in the hierarchy. Age gap marriages are much more likely to end in divorce. This is just a diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:19 PM
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Ahha. But that is why they compared men and women. So? It's much less common for older women to look for younger male partners to support financially. They do the same thing with women. The women are 1000 times more likely to rank a guy who makes more $ as more attractive. Again, means to an end. Attractive as a wallet, not a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:04 PM
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They did blind ranking tests. Women were found to be ONE THOUSAND TIMES more responsive to salary information. Which proves absolutely nothing. A job that pays 100k a year vs 10k a year is much more attractive to me if i need the money, but that doesn't mean I'm going to like or enjoy the job. The job is merely a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:59 PM
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I've been in love before. I know how it feels to have a connection with someone so deep and so intense that you almost can't believe it's real. When this person is your best friend and someone you trust with your life and you can't imagine life without them and they feel the same about you. I also know what it feels like to go to a job I hate every day just because I need the money. Older men with younger women are delusional enough to believe they're getting the first, when they're actually get…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:28 PM
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"My dude" lmao that's just. I was responding to the 'redpill is scientific point' if you want to prove a RP claim is scientific, it's on you to do that and provide evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:08 PM
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go to the subreddit. There's your data Except all of their main 'claims' have zero scientific backing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:42 PM
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Which studies and data are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:23 PM
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The red pill is primarily concerned with being scientifically accurate Is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:10 PM
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Please please leave him, this won't end well for you.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/25 07:50 PM
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Yup that';s exactly what happened with my ex.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/25 07:20 PM
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Erotica existed before the internet, and prostitution before that. The internet just made it free and easily accessible, men didn't start wanting sex just because wi-fi arrived. Cave paintings and magazines don't impact the brain the way high speed internet porn does. Easy for them to say they don't, hard to know they don't. They wanted a partner who didn't watch it either. If you can just overcome hormones and neurochemicals with agency and free will, why does it matter if your grey matter is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:39 PM
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( without brunt of responsibility of household expenses or expectations needing to do that ) for men do 50-50 chores Most women work full time AND do most of the household labour too, it's men who aren't pulling their weight, not women. Traditional marriage was Man's access to woman's complete / exclusive women's sexuality and women's access to man's wealth ... Er no, it's not like women wanted to marry whores. But women now want to take way sexual access if / when they want not want it to be ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:36 AM
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Nothing wrong with that. If she wants to pursue Mr. Perfect for her entire life she is completely within her rights to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:26 AM
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No, issue is most men can't meet basic requirements so there's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:21 AM
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I hear ya. dating is lame. A few messages ago you claimed I wanted a perfect man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:21 AM
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Ohh it's english I just have sticky fingers .. and new phone's having autocorrect issues .. Right. Neither does it revolve around yours... I never made the argument that the world is essentially just whatever I've experienced personally. Doesn't matter, there shudnt be concept of one .... So women spend years working at home and should get nothing if they split from their husbands? Women shouldn't be housewives then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:04 AM
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I think you are going to run into problems with 3, 4 and 5. I don't care, they aren't unreasonable. 5 or more partners is pretty common, in my experience, and porn use is extremely common. Yep, sluts are common. No bad temper is extremely subjective, but behaviors below violence like yelling, becoming disinterested or argumentative are part and parcel of being a guy. No, yelling is not 'part of being a guy' it's part of being a manchild with no self control. You're in control of your own behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:53 PM
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Nope I thought the part where this is what's happening Yiu thought was disgusting not casual sex.. What is your native language? Seems like a common occurrence where i live along with misuse of alimony as well. marriage / divorce is a promiscuous woman's insurance plan in current day and age . The world doesn't revolve around your feelings. What percentage of women get alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:48 PM
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How ? You want me to explain how I find casual sex disgusting? When I have literally seen my friend's gf coming from conservative background make him wait for 6 years to do it after marriage only to fck a random guy on a trip before he did ( and I cudnt tell him as I am close to both ... ) and since I have lots of girl friends ( Not gf ) who have opened up to me seems like a common occurrence ... Keep a guy whipped for long term while they have their short term fun.. literally my own cousin did …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:23 PM
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So what exactly are you doing on this sub ? Because I'm getting really fucking sick of hearing the same 'wimmin only want 6ft millionaires' bullshit from men. Like REALLY sick of it now. Not that I don't believe you but if I had a nickel for every women I knew who said that to their future partners , ones I knew from college and knew how many one nighters they had one with randos... That's disgusting. Regardless, is there a sub dictionary for various colors pills it's becoming a ms paint now .. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:10 PM
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Usually to autistic american men on here it means approaching a complete stranger and asking them out on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:43 PM
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Not that I believe you because in your mind you aren't like that .. so you must have justified it as You knew him from school / college / forx years / had a crush since way.. No, just no. I grew up in a strict religious community, I think casual sex is absolutely disgusting and vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:41 PM
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You literally spend time in the same space and become friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:40 PM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:34 PM
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How does that make sense? How am I 'invisible' to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:45 PM
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The men who pass these standards are invisible to her I've never met a single man who meets these, not one. they don't pass her unmentioned standards (6ft+, etc etc). Please stop projecting your manosphere beliefs onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:45 PM
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How do I agree with the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:43 PM
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'I can't wait to go to the club tonight! Who knows, I might be lucky enough to meet the guy who makes me a single mother! Said no woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:42 PM
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Who said anything about 'approaching' Why do you have to make everything so fucking weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:39 PM
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"Among U.S. adults 18-35, about 87% of men and 28.5% of women view porn at least once a week" (Source) I'm not from the US. So 7/8 men fail the second-half of your third bullet point, and it's likely higher than 87% because some men lied on the survey. Might be as high as 95%, and maybe most of the other 5% have a low sex drive that would also make you unhappy. Yeah but I don't think it's an unreasonable standard at all so. You're going to have a hard time dating. Personally, I meet all of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:30 PM
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Does it make a difference if the person making you cum is drunk or not? I have zero interest in casual sex, I have even less interest in drunk casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:04 PM
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Yeah? You aren't disagreeing with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:55 PM
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With random drunk strangers? No, I'm not. What if you’re a good person? Then he may want more than sex Wow! If only I'd be so lucky for a man to not JUST want sex *eyeroll*
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:51 PM
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Well not everyone thinks that dancing in a sweaty, loud, crowded environment with intoxicated strangers is fun but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:48 PM
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I would assume any man who made an 'advance' on me at a club is purely looking for sexual stuff and it would be a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:47 PM
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first baby mama Right were together Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:40 PM
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Like any other mutual space? Work? Friends? Volunteering? Hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:34 PM
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Clubs are loud and packed, you can't even hear people talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:33 PM
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Sorry but who actually goes to clubs looking for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:27 PM
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Are you saying you'd be willing to share a man with other women? Because if not, then it is very much zero sum. No, I'd just go without one. I'm saying it's not as simple as 'a man who isn't a fat alcoholic slut is in high demand and therefore can demand massive inflated standards'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:15 PM
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If they were easy to meet you'd have found a man by now. They are easy to meet, but most men can't be bothered and don't seem to think they should be held to any kind of standard. If all women want these 7 traits, and only 20% of men meet them all, then you'd have to be in the top 20% of women to have a chance at nabbing such a man. It's not a zero sum game, that's really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:51 PM
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The people over at ADHD Partners would disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:18 PM
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The evo psych and the redpill manipulation tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:33 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:20 PM
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So it means your experience probably varies from a large amount of people? I don't know what you mean. 50 percent of ALL marriages end in divorce so I'm sure a lot of innocent groups could be pooled and you'd still find obscurities, that doesn't put own on ONE trait. ADHD is a huge risk factor in failed and unhappy relationships. Regardless, 60 or so percent is still not nearly fair enough to write off an entire group of people altogether. Especially if you haven't gotten to know them yet Yes it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:11 PM
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If they aren't bad people, are they just good people doing one thing wrong and could possibly change? I don't know about their character if I don't know them personally, but their opinions on sex are fundamentally incompatible with my views on sex and so a relationship is a no go. I don't think that is accurate Well your feelings aren't exactly good proof of that. isn't it only older people who were never treated for ADHD? No. filtering out something common with a wide range levels of severity l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:00 PM
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According to these guys, though they'd probably blame you for the cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:59 PM
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You say it's a choice, but how would you know? Because men somehow survived before high speed internet porn Because I've met men who don't watch it Because 'hormone levels' don't remove free will or agency. And if you did and became constantly horny, why would you restrain yourself from watching something that brings you pleasure, what would be the point? Because it destroys grey matter in the brain It decreases sexual satisfaction with a partner The industry is one of the biggest drivers of hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:45 PM
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Because the traits that are required to sustain a healthy relationship are impaired or mostly absent in people with neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:29 PM
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Because correlation is not causation? So it's just pure coincidence that the divorce rate is that high? Because ADHD is like autism where it's a BROAD spectrum with different sub groups? Okay? And?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:28 PM
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The divorce rate alone is 80%+ for autism and 66% for ADHD. It's one of the highest risk factors for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:27 PM
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Why is it 'pretty fucking shallow'? I never said people with ADHD aren't nice but it is a huge problem in relationships. The ADHD divorce rate is 66% for a reason. I've dated someone with ADHD and I've got people with ADHD in my family, it's been an absolute nightmare to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:19 PM
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I think the stats would be helpful: For men, mean occurrence rate of orgasm did not vary by sexual orientation: heterosexual men 85.5%, gay men 84.7% For women, however, mean occurrence rate of orgasm varied significantly by sexual orientation: heterosexual women 61.6%, lesbian women 74.7%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:13 PM
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Er, when did I say that? I don't want to date them personally, is that not okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:11 PM
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There has to be a reason and in my experience and the experience of my neurodivergent friends that is usually the given reason. Well maybe you shouldn't project your experiences onto people you don't know. What’s wrong with a little creative, outside the box thinking or a sense of humour that’s a bit different? Literally no one in this entire thread has said anything close to this, I have no idea where you're getting this from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:10 PM
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Almost every man with access to the internet watches porn, that's just a consequence of testosterone. No, it's a consequence of choice. Men choose to do this. Must have been a femosphere influencer that convinced you it was evil. Nope, I've dated a porn addict, it was awful. There are also studies that show watching porn shrinks grey matter in the brain. Thinking anyone who's slept with more than 5 people is a whore, is a manosphere level belief. No it isn't, I value intimacy, the manosphere thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:09 PM
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porn and a high body count = bad person I never said this. But no, they certainly won't be compatible with me and my beliefs. and the ADHD one is just weird No it isn't, ADHD has a 66% divorce rate in marriage for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:07 PM
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You think it's the woman's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:05 PM
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If you're not encountering a single person who meets those standards, then one or more of them isn't reasonable. There's a town in Russia where most of the men are heroin users/addicts Are the women in that town being unreasonable for not wanting a heroin addict? Is not wanting a heroin addict a high standard? If they were so normal and common then you would have crossed guys who have that combination of traits at least a few times. More like because degeneracy and hookup culture is so common no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:05 PM
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So now that's the woman's fault too? You realise most women can orgasm alone fairly easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:27 PM
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So a sizeable % of the female population not having orgasms with their male partner because the man cba is grounds for cheating. That's a pretty large percentage of women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:22 PM
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If the wife creates a dead bedroom situation and doesn't have sex with her husband for months and he cheats then that's her fault. So if the partner isn't being sexually satisfied, they can cheat, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:14 PM
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It’s pretty clear what the message is here. If it’s “undesirable” it is unwanted. To the (presumably neurotypical) people in this thread it is, so? No one ever called YOU lazy, stupid or crazy or even said this about ADHD people in general. How did you get from 'I prefer not to date people with ADHD' to 'People with ADHD including you are lazy, crazy and stupid'?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:12 PM
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If she was cheated on, how else do you want me to say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:09 PM
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Maybe in this scenario he should've picked a woman that was more okay with his infidelity?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:09 PM
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I don't know what the pills mean, I just had to pick one. I'm not a manosphere believer no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:08 PM
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Can you answer the question: If a woman gets married and is cheated on/abused and she divorces him, is she to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:01 PM
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No it doesn't 'send that message' People can not want to date someone for any number of reasons, you are the one who made up this conclusion in your own mind and responded as if it were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:57 PM
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Posted on other places but: I've always said I only have 7 strict relationship standards: No heavy alcohol use, smoking or drug use Not massively underweight or obese Slept with less than 5 people and no porn use Kind and gentle (no bad temper) No personality disorders, ADHD, autism or serious mental illness No manosphere beliefs Basic interest in health, fitness and healthy living (e.g diet, exercise, sleep, etc) Pretty much all men fail at the first hurdle. Yet I'm still told apparently only w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:56 PM
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No, she got cheated on and responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:55 PM
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I don't actually believe this, my question was a hypothetical in response to yours. Are you going to stop having a mantrum and actually engage with the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:51 PM
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If a man cheats and the woman divorces him under your scenario, it would still be 'her fault' and she'd be single for the rest of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:48 PM
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If she did it secretly and claimed widowhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:47 PM
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You really want a future in which everyone thinks, feels and behaves precisely the same way? Are you trying to say all neurotypical people think and feel and behave in precisely the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:42 PM
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I’m not lazy, stupid, or crazy No one ever said this. You're arguing against a point no one made.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:42 PM
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You were saying that you should commit murder to become a widow and I said I wouldn’t date a murderer. Okay I think I'm just going to give up because I'm not sure if you're actually able to get this. I never said 'YOU SHOULD COMMIT MURDER' I said if OP's scenario were true and an objective standard (It isn't) Then if women were wronged in a relationship by being cheated on, since she'd be left with the stigma of being divorced and wouldn't be eligible for a partner again, then logically she'd be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:40 PM
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Then the standards are too high. If a reasonable standard is rare in the population, that says more about the population than the standard. Meaning even if you encounter such a guy, I've yet to meet one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:37 PM
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Wait what? I literally said IF HE CHEATS while she's already married to him. They suggest murder over getting and staying married before you have kids. Where did you get this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:35 PM
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Any self respecting man wouldnt pass it. I don't want men who have beliefs that see women as inherently inferior, I don't think 'self respect' has anything to do with it. Yeah but as u all said I assumed that the and attractive part was silent. Well maybe work on not randomly making assumptions based on your pre existing beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:34 PM
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Oh but it makes all the difference, doesn't it? No? I can bench 405 but you don't see me making checklists for relationships. I don't care how much you can bench. And it's not a 'checklist' it's just a list of hard no's that I wouldn't consider for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:28 PM
1

Ditto, you're essentially signing up to be a lifetime carer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:25 PM
1

In my experience, religious men are just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:24 PM
1

Yes I did say that, the point being I only want from a man what I can offer and more than offer in myself. I don't need to tell you that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:16 PM
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How dense are you? I'm saying in this hypothetical scenario if a woman married a man and he cheated, she'd be better off 'being a widow'. How is she a murderer before she's killed someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:15 PM
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What are you talking about? Your response makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:10 PM
1

What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:09 PM
10

Because I don't actually think that women should kill their cheating husbands, I'm posing a hypothetical 'Well if what you say is true, then this would also be true' response which you don't seem to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:09 PM
2

I. Literally. Just. Said. I exceed every one of the standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:07 PM
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How? OP has said women are to blame for mens poor behaviour unless he dies. If we follow that premise to its logical end point, then women would be better off killing their cheating husbands and claiming widowhood instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:06 PM
2

I didn't mention that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:05 PM
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I haven't made the argument that women cheating is the fault of men, OP has made the opposite argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:04 PM
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This list reads like a femcel version of an incel checklist None of the standards on this list are crazy or hard to attain. This is far and away the most unrealistic one. Don't care, don't want whores. Does this describe yourself? It better. Obviously Does this describe yourself? It better. Obviously You're going to grill the dude until you uncover a belief that is manosphere adjacent, since 99% of men have beliefs that aren't all ultra feminist. If he believes in evo psych or red pill manipulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:04 PM
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Most people would consider 3 beers a day to be too much. Yeah? Alcohol is really bad for you and damages your body. So, what exactly can you offer that I couldn't get in a relationship with someone else who doesn't have an oppressive checklist? I exceed every one of the standards I listed but the point is, I'm not going to fight to prove myself for a binge drinker lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:01 PM
13

But in this scenario, she only becomes one if you cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:00 PM
2

LOL I never said a man had to be completely teetotal, I just said no heavy drinkers. I'm not going to try and 'prove' how much of a catch I am to stop a man being an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:34 AM
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which I wouldn't pass is 6. So you don't pass, point proven. They just don't pass your looks or height criteria (for example I'm just 5'9 ) I never said anything about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:33 AM
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The evo psych and red pill strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:33 AM
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Then you go on to have children that fails many of those , what would you do? What has that got to do with anything? What if you find out that you yourself fail some of those , or it’s not conceivable? I.... find out... that I'm obese? Or a secret chain smoker? What on earth do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:32 AM
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Well under you rules, that's the best thing she could do since she'll be blamed for him cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:29 AM
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So I guess women should just kill their cheating husband because then she'd be a widow, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:23 AM
2

I don't want to date women - guess that's also eugenics? You monster, how do you live with yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:20 AM
2

And the chances are she doesn't offer anything in return that would make a relationship with her worth it. Based on what? Your feelings say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:04 AM
2

How is the above criteria 'perfect'? I exceed all these standards, does that make me a perfect woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:04 AM
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Yes, that's not unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:03 AM
3

Please explain how they're 'too high'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:01 AM
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Yup, I exceed them all and yet men are having breakdowns saying no man can reach this because it's so unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:01 AM
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You have never once said whether or not you would qualify for your own standards. Actually I have, I exceed every single one by a large amount. and lie through their teeth if you were worth it. Why would they do that? They'd have no issue tricking me into a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:59 AM
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It's ironic because half the comments from men are saying they're completely impossible to meet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:55 AM
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Nah, 66% divorce rate for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:53 AM
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I've always said I only have 7 strict relationship standards: No heavy alcohol use, smoking or drug use Not massively underweight or obese Slept with less than 5 people and no porn use Kind and gentle (no bad temper) No personality disorders, ADHD, autism or serious mental illness No manosphere beliefs Basic interest in health, fitness and healthy living (e.g diet, exercise, sleep, etc) Pretty much all men fail at the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:11 AM
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I've always said I only have 7 strict relationship standards: No heavy alcohol use, smoking or drug use Not massively underweight or obese Slept with less than 5 people and no porn use Kind and gentle (no bad temper) No personality disorders, ADHD, autism or serious mental illness No manosphere beliefs Basic interest in health, fitness and healthy living (e.g diet, exercise, sleep, etc) Pretty much all men fail at the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:10 AM
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it’s inherently problematic if you’re settled for Well duh, I don't wanna be settled for and neither do most women. Just accept your being settled for Er no, I don't want to so I won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:19 PM
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You're making the assumption that I believe playing hard to get is good: I don't. Somehow, you still aren't getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:03 PM
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I never made any claim about that. I'm responding to OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:54 PM
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I don't think you're getting it. If the OPs premise is correct, that men will essentially take anyone, then it will follow that for a woman he really likes he would actually try a lot harder and go a lot further. I never said anything about ego boost, you just made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:50 PM
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Then women literally can't win and should avoid relationships with men all together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:45 PM
28

Then surely women should deliberately play hard to get to determine if the man has real interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:08 PM
1

How the fuck is that the conclusion from what I said? Did you even actually understand what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:41 PM
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In a nutshell? Autistic/neurodivergent men and men with fearful avoidant attachment styles being overly gullible and solipsistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:38 PM
1

So your own experience defines literally everything? You see literally nothing at all wrong with this train of logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:23 PM
1

Based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:51 PM
3

You missed the entire point of the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:47 AM
2

buyables? the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:44 AM
1

I live in the real world where men aren't cheated on in FIVE consecutive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:30 AM
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Should I hate men because I spent my teenage years being assaulted by boys? Why don't you actually answer her question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:26 AM
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What are you talking about? I'm saying that MEN are the ones doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:23 AM
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I honestly don't know how I can dumb this down for you more than I already have. I would be less misogynistic if women treated men better My point was that despite being treated poorly by men for years, I never became a misogynist. Since we invalidated the first part of your claim, the rest of your response can be discarded. Are you on the autism spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:38 AM
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I wasn't making a point about genetics. I was responding to this: I would be less misogynistic if women treated men better, especially men who just got unlucky with genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:27 AM
2

Still. Missing. The. Point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:23 AM
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It's not a valid comparison because you do not have bad genetics even though you are trying to convince yourself that you do. You don't know me? Is there some kind of universe standard for bad genetics? The fact that you either grew out of or corrected all of those things proves that you don't have bad genetics. I corrected them with surgery or medication? Again that wasn't the point. The point was I don't hate men because I was bullied by men for years due to my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:10 AM
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Weight loss wouldn't have helped, I was underweight. I can't tan either. My point wasn't about whether these things are fixable, my point was I don't hate men as a group for bullying and rejecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:07 AM
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Yeah but normal IRL men aren't like them for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:06 AM
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I had a chubby face too, plus i was very pale, I looked sick in half my photos. I really didn't look great at all. I worked on glowing up, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:04 AM
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I got 'unlucky with genetics' and had glasses (bad eyesight genetically), braces (crooked teeth genetically), and bad skin as a teenager. Boys my age were absolutely horrible to me, to the point of physically attacking me and making me cry. Then I got the braces off, my skin cleared up and I got laser eye surgery. Men treated me much better then. Am I angry at men for this? No of course not because I'm not unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:53 AM
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Then why would you need to enslave women? Why wouldn't they be willling?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:44 AM
2

Who is 'they'?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:26 AM
2

No, just no. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:24 AM
0

You know that's not how it works, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:03 AM
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I don't think i can link without being banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:00 AM
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Yeah I think that the number of mentally ill/neurodivergent men on here is massively understated. Some of the comments on here sometimes are so unhinged and out of touch with reality I do wonder if the person if writing from inside a psych ward.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:55 PM
1

Well that's extremely unlikely to happen so there's no point in you even proposing such a bizarre far out scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:36 PM
1

Wanting to be with someone and using deception to get it isn't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:35 PM
2

I'm a virgin and I don't want to get married ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:34 PM
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Women generally aren't interested in random promiscous sex with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:29 PM
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I certainly didn't, none of the women I know have ever done that. Men expect me to accept their whore phase though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:28 PM
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It literally says chatgpt in your link.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:27 PM
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It’s fascinating that feminists and butter obese bluepill women deny statistics that goes against their worldview Who's that? Red pill = science, math, probability and reality Oh really? Where are these stats then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:25 PM
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'source chatgpt'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:51 PM
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Yeah but ironically they then become the 'ready to settle down now' men which men complain about when the situation is reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:45 PM
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Where is that stat from? Also men are more likely to lie about their sexual history than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:42 PM
7

My sex life tells me something entirely different thoug "Muh personal experience"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:41 PM
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It's a privilege to be attracted to the sex that will happily use your body to masturbate into and likely not even care about your enjoyment? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:40 PM
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Second, women can have sex whenever they want. They just need to ask a guy and be genuine about it and the guy will accept more often than not. But they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:39 PM
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You are just generalizing your own opinion Meanwhile I personally know 3 women with triple body counts. I legit just laughed my ass off, I've never seen a better example than a man lacking self awareness in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:36 PM
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I’d say most women not married by 30 have gone through some phase where they “rode the CC” (whatever that means…) for about 3 months to 3 years at some point. Based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:33 PM
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Most women i know have/had a steady fwb while single It's actually fascinating that men can be shown all the stats in the world and will still respond with 'The women I PERSONALLY know'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:32 PM
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You made the statement, I'm asking you exactly what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:18 PM
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I'm sure you can manage in a way that doesn't resort to personal attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:09 PM
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Women want the authority and posturing of men, the responsibility and accountability of a child, yet keep whatever advantages women have over others. Can you give an example of what you mean here? Because this is very vague?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:05 PM
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I'm asking you what you think women are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:59 PM
7

So why do you think slavery is the best way to increase marriage rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:53 PM
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Women would either be my concubines or servants. I suppose they could also be priestesses. So your idea of collaborating with women is by forcing them into being your sexual or domestic slaves? This is how humanity functioned for thousands of years, it worked well. We flipped the system onto its head 50 years ago, and everything has gone to shit. I must've missed something, women have ALWAYS been mens domestic or sexual slaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:51 PM
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They do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:50 PM
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Seriously? That's all you got? You still don't see that it's fucked up to trick someone into being with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:29 PM
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Well I don't want people to lie to me and if they do I make it clear that there will be consequences. Love is no excuse for deliberately lying to someone. I wouldn't have to make it clear if there would be consequences if men like you didn't exist and would seemingly be willing to trick me into a relationship without my consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:25 PM
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but more so by the thing itself that she lied about. That's the thing, you're projecting your morality onto other people. You don't consider it a big deal to watch porn, so you justify lying about it, even if she does consider it a big deal. But then people can do the same thing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:02 PM
1

You're saying a scenario where a man was cheated on 5 times in a row is likely to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:51 PM
1

Or if she had HIV? Or had slept with 100 men before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:49 PM
1

So if your partner was born intersex, had XY chromosomes, had their testicles removed as a child and looked female. If you entered into a relationship with them and they just never told you, you'd be fine with that as long as it was out of love?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:40 PM
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I would NEVER lie to someone about relationship criteria ever. So if she lies and disrespects his consent, that's fine too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:22 PM
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if a man really loved a woman he would anything for her, which would include lying to her. How is he showing love by lying and disregarding her consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:10 PM
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There's a test for HPV only once you're infected and there's only a test for women. There's no cure. And it's a horrible death. But haha very funny, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:08 PM
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How does this look to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:30 AM
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A man who's slept with a prostitute is likely to have contracted a strain of HPV. HPV if passed to women, leads to cervical cancer. Your 'friends' are quite literally risking giving their wives cancer and they have no idea. Still think it's funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:23 AM
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Well why lie to trick someone into a relationship? That's an incredibly sick and cruel thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:20 AM
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What would you lie about? Do you watch porn too? Anything to fuck him over. It's a little funny sure. And why's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:12 AM
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I would never do anything dishonest in a relationship but if I ever found out he'd lied in order to get into a relationship and taken away my ability to decide who I want to be with, I'd do everything in my power to fuck him over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:10 AM
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These aren't low standards. They are easy to attain, so yes they are. Realistically, you will likely end up with a man who does watch porn, but either lies about not watching it, or stops watching it after he settles down with you. I'd let him know lying to me about it would have severe consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:57 AM
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It's basically just assumed that men watch porn, and the ones who don't do it are either gay or already in relationships. Nope, never had that problem. But you probably have other standards too which you didn't mention that would immediately disqualify a lot of men. Er no, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:49 AM
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all you will find is a man who is willing to lie about his porn use to get in your pants. And why would he do that? If he sets the standard that lying to your partner is okay if you get what you want out of it, then it's fair game that I can do the same. I know a lot of men that paid for sex, and are now married, and their wives have no idea lol. You think that's funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:43 AM
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Men don't even bring that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:42 AM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:39 AM
1

None of them were loyal meaning they all cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:46 AM
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I wouldn't even consider the guys appearance if he didn't meet those. That is the minimum threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:16 AM
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When did I tag a sermon onto it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:47 PM
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So this man was in 5 relationships for 2 years each, didn't propose to any of them, they all failed and he spent only 1 year staying single and possibly reflecting on what went wrong out of 14 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:19 PM
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is a man supposed to stay in a bad relationship to not be a "whore"? When did I even imply this? I don't know what's your preferred age range but let's say a 30yo man is likely going to have 5 or more relationships if he wasn't lucky to find a good woman. Then he wasn't dating seriously, he was dating casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:09 PM
1

So having any physical preference is bad now? I'm sure men have zero physical preferences for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:50 PM
1

And where did I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:48 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:41 PM
0

Believe what you want, I like short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:39 PM
1

you want answered because It's femcel ragebait. Nothing more. Nothing less. Nope, it's just a basic question and you keep avoiding it. "I want this to make you feel negatively". Nope, I'm pushing against the 'women only date rich models' bullshit that is echoed on here constantly. "lmao I wont fuck a guy who isn't a virgin chad" as some role-reversal. It's not clever, It's not cute, It's just kind of transparently sad. I want a guy who hasn't slept around because I'm a virgin, I want a guy who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:38 PM
1

I like short guys, I'm not super keen on bald ones at this age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:35 PM
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Are you an elected spokesperson?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:33 PM
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It’s not your fault it’s how men believe that they need to prove themselves worthy to women for validation or intercourse as primary initiators heterosexual of relationships. Is this what you think they're doing in the comments? Your standards aren’t low if most men aren’t them reaching by definition. They are easy achievable and therefore low. The fact that men aren't meeting them is more a testament to them than the standard. They just seem low but I can also say that most women aren’t virgins…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:33 PM
-1

Are these your preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:30 PM
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like to troll. How is trolling? She said it herself, "me stating a preference so openly is making you feel rejected even though you don't know me." I was literally responding to a guy saying this: Why do I have a knee jerk reaction to seeing women wanting men to watch no porn as being insecure? Can you answer the question: What is unreasonable about these standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:30 PM
1

Drinking isn't for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:25 PM
1

If the list was ragebait, why wouldn't I say something like 'Must be 6'5ft, a millionaire, PhD, etc? Ragebait would imply CRAZY standards that would make men angry, but I massively exceed every one of these standards so how exactly are they unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:22 PM
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Because it just doesn't matter that much It doesn't matter that much to YOU. Why would you take choice away from someone like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:13 PM
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It’s strange how you make up these arbitrary standards As opposed to? Getting my standards from someone else? watch men react, in a weird competitive way to prove themselves worthy. Prove themselves worthy? How am I doing this? I was making a point about general low standards and how despite this men still can't meet them. I hear all them time that women are shallow because we only want 'rich 7ft chads' but most men can't even meet the fairly basic standards that I have. when no one cares for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:11 PM
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I don’t see how that’s bad for your brain Of course you don't, you've done no research clearly. It shrinks the grey matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:05 PM
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I actually think you could fall for a guy even if he didn't meet your 5th, 6th and (unfortunately) 4th standards As soon as that became apparent, I'd be out the door. A lot of your physical attraction to a man is based on things within his control. Yup, physical attractive is meaningless if he can't meet these standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:00 PM
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You literally responded to a comment that I responded to about porn. Do you have a problem with my other preferences? Are they unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:54 PM
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So then you have a very small pool of men. I'm not criticizing, but is it worth it to you to put in the effort to find this unicorn? No it isn't, I'm not actively searching anymore. I found dating soul sucking, particularly if trying to find men who don't engage in behavior that the vast majority do. Yeah same, I massively exceed every standard I've listed so I don't think wanting them is unreasonable. If most men can't meet them, then I'm not really interested single the quality if men is so lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:53 PM
1

Ok? Well I have that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:50 PM
2

Wow you nailed it, couldn't have put it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:49 PM
1

"it's valuable because I value it" Porn fuels human trafficking, I don't want someone who chooses to watch it despite knowing that. Anyways not to scare u but if I'm super into someone who's anti porn like that, I'd definitely lie about it Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:38 PM
2

Er by spending time with them and talking to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:37 PM
2

No not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:36 PM
0

Yeah but I don't consider any of them optional so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:36 PM
-1

You think?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:22 PM
0

This is the coda for all the "women" on this subreddit, by the way, guys. Are you feeling okay? They think they're inflicting some emotional damage on you with whatever bullshit they're spewing, even if blatantly untrue (such as in this case) Are you saying I'm lying about porn being a dealbreaker for me? They'll say some outrageous thing to essentially try and ragebait you. Not wanting to date a man who watches porn is an outrageous thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:06 PM
1

Absolute king
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:01 PM
2

Might I ask how old you are/what age range are you dating in? I'm Mid-late Twenties and I dated from early-late 20s. 3 is the stickler. In my 30s and of my single friends and I don't think I know a single guy who has slept with less than 5 people. Which is horrifying and an absolute no to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:53 PM
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Where did I say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:50 PM
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Are women who don’t think they are that attractive. Or are afraid that you will lust after other women. Or you have other types. Or that you aren’t even attracted to her. Or that you are settling for her. Nope, believe it or not women can be motivated by things other than insecurity and competition anxiety. https://www.justice.gov/usao-sdca/pr/twenty-year-sentence-girlsdoporn-sex-trafficking-conspiracy It’s a woman’s way of being territorial. Trying to control your thoughts and libido and lust i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:47 PM
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I have slept with more than 5 people (although not a lot more) and I do have some beliefs that correlate with manosphere Hell to the no. I think it's impossible that you find someone that fulfills 1,2,4,5,6,7 that is slept with less than 5 women, unless you go for a highschooler Which is exactly the point. God forbid I expect a man to have some self control and not be a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:38 PM
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Lmao, thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:33 PM
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Interestingly I've been okay with that part. In my experience, Slept with less than 5 people No personality disorders, ADHD, autism or serious mental illness No manosphere beliefs These were the hardest for sure. how come it's so important to you? My own values around sex and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:32 PM
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Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:25 PM
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Why do I have a knee jerk reaction to seeing women wanting men to watch no porn as being insecure? Because you likely watch it yourself and me stating a preference so openly is making you feel rejected even though you don't know me. I’ve dated women who have watched more porn than me. Your experiences with the women you've dated have nothing to do with me or my comment. Why no porn and not porn in moderation? Not everyone watching porn is addicted Because it's a superstimulant that rewires the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:23 PM
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I mean they can't meet all 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:19 PM
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I think it's more like 90% generally
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:17 PM
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I've always said that to be a top man to me he'd just have to have 7 things: No heavy alcohol use, smoking or drug use Not massively underweight or obese Slept with less than 5 people and no porn use Kind and gentle (no bad temper) No personality disorders, ADHD, autism or serious mental illness No manosphere beliefs Basic interest in health, fitness and healthy living (e.g diet, exercise, sleep, etc) Pretty much all men fail at the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:03 PM
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I almost pity them, imagine needing to hold onto a lie so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:45 PM
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Oh my god you're so dense, how can an eastern european be bigoted against.... eastern europeans? Had a fun time, but have better things to do than entertain someone so basic. Do however feel free to have the last word, I know you need it. Just gonna leave this here: I was a kissless virgin that saw everyone around me in relationships, and making out, and having sex. I knew I was broken. It wasn't that I was bad at the game, I couldn't even play it at all. It was like my peers talked in a languag…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:36 PM
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You see, when someone says something racist, or makes a sexist joke, it's extremely funny to pretend not to get it. The reaction is the same as yours. Something racist From Research gate: Although Eastern Europe is one of the top three regions of origin for marriage migrants, little is known about who chooses this type of marriage arrangement. This study describes demographic characteristics of Eastern European-U.S. international marriages using a nationally representative sample Spouses in East…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:13 PM
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Jesus fucking christ. YES. Do I have to be that direct or you default back into robot mode?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:47 PM
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I can't tell if you're trolling or not at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:39 PM
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I'm saying the majority of mail order brides are from eastern europe for a reason. - (Had to open wikipedia for this) Do you often struggle to understand metaphors? Slang?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:35 PM
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That IS the term lol, this is what I mean, you keep struggling to understand abstract language and common slang like a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:10 PM
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The mail order bride stereotype exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:08 PM
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"do I need to say it?" like it's glaringly obvious Because it is. If not seeing it makes me autistic, maybe I'm a bit autistic Have you been diagnosed? Always struggled with social situations/interactions with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:05 PM
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Can I ask one question first- Are you neurodivergent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:59 PM
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Do I really have to say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:56 PM
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Er, obviously? Different cultures are open to talking to strangers more than others? Are you actually going to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:46 PM
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Because her culture could've been a factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:32 PM
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Where was she from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:11 PM
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Why would I lie? Also I thought him being short and poor would disqualify him by red pill standards of what women find attractive? Yeah he's pretty normal looking as in he looked like any other guy you'd see on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:02 PM
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Er no, he was a pretty normal looking guy, pretty weak jaw and chin, had pretty nice hair. He was very smart and very funny, I started liking him after we became friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:54 PM
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Can you explain how 'Red pill tactics' will help you get a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:12 PM
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The first guy I ever liked was 5ft 5 and chubby. He also had no money, he literally had 5+ girls lusting after him (and he had a girlfriend)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:10 PM
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He's actually a blackpiller lmao, crazy how much this upsets you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:38 PM
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You didn't watch the video, he quotes the data IN HIS VIDEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:36 PM
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So why not just have sex with young ones who will commit to them? And why do women universally state men their own age as more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:35 PM
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That's interesting, do you see what RPM say as largely correct then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:34 PM
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LOL this is funny, I hope RPW prospers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:34 PM
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He's a simp for using data to state facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:33 PM
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They fuck them but NEVER COMMIT, GET IT NOW I REPEAT, OLD HOT MEN FUCK YOUNG WOMEN BUT NEVER COMMIT. DO YOU GET IT NOW? Even a toddler could understand. So... why exactly would a young woman go for an old men to be used for sex when they could get a young one for commitment? You're making less and less sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:25 PM
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That video was created by a man and if you actually watched the entire thing (I know you didn't) he explains that the 'women love older men' trope is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:24 PM
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Yeah because aging tends to decrease attractiveness for both men and women. I don't want to date older men, I find them much less attractive and most women prefer to marry men of the same age and rate same aged men as most attractive, so yeah my opinion is that of the majority. You keep attacking me over and over which clearly shows your misandry LOL what? When did I attack you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:22 PM
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Are you guys like, the red pill for women or do you agree with the things red pill men say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:20 PM
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So women have a clear documented preference for marrying men their own age and they also rate men their own age as most attractive. But somehow old men are also rejecting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:19 PM
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Why does that have anything to do with it? I haven't made any claims about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:17 PM
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....so now 'older hot men' are the ones rejecting women? Have you actually seen this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_KqKJkWDsbQ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:59 PM
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If young women are attracted to older men, why are they dating and marrying them? Are you now trying to claim that women are acting in complete opposite to their preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:43 PM
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The study is here cited in this article: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/08/15/a-growing-share-of-us-husbands-and-wives-are-roughly-the-same-age/ But there are heaps more if you'd like more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:38 PM
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Making up numbers? Sir this is objective fact, these are completely unbiased statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:17 PM
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It is a fact in your world, not objective reality Most women date men within 2 years of their age and 93% of women date men within 9 years of their age. Most women do not prefer a man their age. Yes we do, the proof is in the pudding. Most of us date men within 2 years of our age. I see what you are doing though, you are trying to save face and make women seem like these perfect little angels who are never shallow. Women can be shallow. Younger men look better than older ones and we overwhelming…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:06 PM
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But that is not true, you keep saying "most women don't want to date older men and don't find them attractive" That is a fact, I'm so sorry. I know it hurts your feelings to read, but it's true and you need to accept that. that is not true if the older men are hot! Most women would prefer a man their own age, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:02 PM
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You never said you did, but you did, lol the contradiction is real. What contradiction? I didn't say my opinion was objective reality, but most women don't want to date older men and don't find them attractive. Where is the contradiction here? I believe what I see with my eyes and my eyes see this: younger women are attracted to any man of any age as long as he is hot or rich You realise 'your eyes' are subject to bias and you're likely to notice anything that confirms your pre existing beliefs …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:55 AM
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But you do know your own opinion do not rerflect on objective reality, yeah? Like you know your opinion is not an ABSOLUTE TRUTH. I never said it did, but given that most young women won't date middle aged/old men, my opinion reflects the opinion of the majority of women. general truth is women are attarcted by older men if they are hot, that's it. OLDER women yes, younger women no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:45 AM
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Well I'm sure some middle aged men don't look awful but I'm not attracted to old men so based on that I'd say 100% are unattractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:35 AM
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'You women' Are we all part of some hivemind or something? If you think 99.99% of middle age men are ugly, then that means 99.99% of middle age women are also ugly, right? I never said 99.99% of middle aged men are ugly but I certainly wouldn't date one because I don't like old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:30 AM
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Irrelevant, we still don't wanna fuck old men because you don't like your age matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:16 AM
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just the old men that are hot You have sex with them then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:02 PM
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Ah yes you're basing this off of.... Three articles. Three.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:21 PM
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Sounds like you're the one who wants to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:47 PM
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That's not what that means. Most women take time off when they get married and have children, what it means is 30% of women remain higher earners even AFTER this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:16 PM
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Most young women still don't care, they'll lust after someone closer to their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:07 PM
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I love how in these examples you literally pick a top 0.000001% man who will have had personal trainers, makeup, perfect on screen lighting and every single anti aging treatment imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:58 PM
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No they don't. How about you stop speaking for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:20 PM
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Most women wanting those men would be a similar age, 20 year old women aren't lusting after middle aged men, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:13 PM
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Er no, no they don't. And you're naming top 0.001% celebrities that would've undergone every single anti aging treatment imaginable, this is somehow supposed to prove your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:09 PM
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This is because we are tribal animals and men with high status were typically very capable providers. Why do you think evolution suddenly stopped like 10,000 years ago? A lot of times when women say "he is so confident" what they are actually saying is "he displays traits of someone high on the social hierarchy". LMAO, you really don't have a clue how female sexuality works do you? Bless you I actually laughed out loud. This is why Passport Bro works so well. Just being a Westerner gives you a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:05 PM
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Because it's largely unreciprocated delusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:49 PM
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Females: Select on a combination of looks, money and status. I really wish this manosphere bullshit would just die already. What the fuck even is 'status' and what woman looks at a man and says 'check out the status on that one'?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:48 PM
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Based on what? Most women date within 2 years of their age, this is the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:41 PM
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Literally the entire manosphere? They never shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:16 PM
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Ha. That’s definitely the laughable part. Most women refuse to date a man that makes less than them. Money definitely matters. That must be why 30% of women outearn their partner. And no, it’s not just to filter out freeloaders. It’s an innate need to be with an equal or more ambitious man (that can show objective results). Wow, you know all about female sexuality huh? But I do agree that women also want looks and personality AND money. They want it all, because, why not? There are dozens of sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:16 PM
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then why do most women date a man of the same age?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:15 AM
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An 18yo is still a boy. The low end for prime for most physical disciplines is 25. Unless maybe you’re talking about sperm health or sexual prime. Laughable. The cut off for joining the UK regular army is 29, not the peak age, the MAXIMUM age. Minimum age is 18, based on this, 23-24 would be 'prime'. Agreed. A trait that provides an object. Something women value a great deal. When countries become more egalitarian, women marry men of the same age, making it obvious that women only go after men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:31 AM
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Men aren't more fit at 34 than 24. Peak male fitness is 18-25 (Some women lower the physical requirements for a man if he can make up for it with ambition.) Ambition is a character trait, money is an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:49 AM
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'Caring about money' isn't attraction, you still aren't getting it. Prime of 50 is actually insane, no one looks better at 50 vs 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:27 AM
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Earning potential doesn't increase raw attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:06 AM
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Who cares about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:04 AM
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Most young women are looking for men in their mid 30s with alot of money with a particular high class lifestyle. Noooope, we want age matched men, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:00 AM
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For example, a 42 year old man who works out and has his life together is far more sexually attractive than a 26 year old burnout. No no no and no. I'd definitely go for a 26 year old 'burnout' vs an old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:58 AM
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Not all women want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:57 AM
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First of all, you are being way too aggressive for a simple debate. I'm not actually 'being aggressive' at all, you're reading text on a screen and interpreting words with no tone as 'aggression' probably because you're hypersensitive. I was one of the few RPers that just did what the original sidebar said to do: Read the essential list, which were around 5 books, lift and focus on yourself. Yeah the 'original' red pill was just as dehumanising to women. I'm not saying that to glaze myself, I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:17 PM
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Having a higher education, more money or more hobbies does not put you in a higher league. When did I say this? Oftentimes it has more to do with the relative power that individual has in the dating game and how many options they have My first boyfriend has been single since I dumped him in 2018, I have had multiple relationships since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:12 PM
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There is no contradiction here at all, how slow are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:26 PM
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I'm struggle to understand what you're trying to say, your comments don't seem to form any kind of logical argument? What are you even trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:06 PM
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Agree to disagree. Let me guess, you've watched a few whatever podcast episodes where the women (largely onlyfans creators or sex workers) state they will only date men over 6ft or millionaires and now you've based your entire worldview around this? Because most people tend to say that when they refer to their closest people around them. Not strangers on the internet... I said people. That's horrible. I'm sorry. Just standard manosphere behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:03 PM
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....yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:00 PM
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Most women do, you're just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:58 PM
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Or it could be because women's egos have increased, which lead to them rather being single than not being a man they "perceive" to be in their league... Nope, it's definitely what I said. This is just manosphere horseshit. I interpreted this: Yes, that's the problem. Your interpretation of something that I never actually said. As your friends or families telling you that... They wouldn't be in my life if they told me that. Who else was saying that to you? The first boyfriend I ever had abused me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:55 PM
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My experience is absolutely NOT the exception. If anything, women largely deciding to abstain from dating and marriage is largely due to this. especially about your friends putting you down by devaluing your self-worth. I never said anything about friends putting me down, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:48 PM
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Funny because I've been told that I must've been 'aiming too high' when I ended up in bad relationships even though I had more than my partner across every metric imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:40 PM
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Yeah and interestingly if you try to use evo psych to debunk them, they lose their shit completely. They often try the 'Women desire promiscuous men but men don't desire promiscous women' argument But if I ask 'Why would women prefer promiscuous men when that would lead to an increased risk of disease, infertility, death and abandonment for the woman?' And it's just autistic screeching mixed with 'You're fat, you're a feminist, no one wants you' etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:45 PM
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Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:22 PM
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Well their conclusion is clearly wrong so yeah duh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:23 AM
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growing up playing video games thinking maxing one stat leaves less points for others. Wow this is useful, never thought of it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:41 PM
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Well, i took data from US which has higher population. Well duh, but obviously if you extrapolate out, the per capita will likely be similar. It does make sense. Please explain how. but why women like you make a huge deal out of it when pregnancy related deaths when we talk about women not having children when workplace death are roughly the same? They aren't 'roughly the same', you're talking out of your ass. 124 workers died in 2024-2025 in the workplace and 95% of those were men > 118 deaths …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:07 PM
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That makes no fucking sense at all. So most people in my country have accidents and die at work? The population of my country is almost 70 million. A few hundreds people dying at work each year in especially dangerous fields is hardly an national emergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:49 PM
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In my country, it's a few hundred. it's easy to disprove her claim that men aren't comparatively having words than women. what
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:39 PM
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Almost 90% of workplace death consists of men Yes but a TINY number of men actually die in the workplace so you're talking 90% of a few hundred.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:31 PM
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Which data?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:29 AM
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No, the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:08 AM
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women don't need men anymore, men give up trying because they are still expected to be men without being men What do you mean by this? but they want me to be a women, in a mans body, and thats not possible How are they expecting that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:13 AM
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To be fair it's the women ditching men. We all know the divorce stats. One of the biggest reasons women divorce men is due to the man cheating. There's also 'spousal abandonment' meaning the man leaves to be with someone else but leaves her to do the paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:12 AM
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Well why would women choose to invest in a relationship with a man when you get 'less valuable' to him over time? Plus there' not any safety net if he ditches you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:16 AM
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Because nobody gives af about older women. And because they are less sexually attractive. No one is rushing to provide or care about them or take interest in them. So you would hope a man who did when u were attractive and had value would take responsibility and stay with you through your uselessness years. And that’s just a smart gamble. Surely then it would make sense for women to just focus on building lasting wealth independent of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:15 AM
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Again, another guy doesn't walk into the room. We are already taking the average of all guys in the building. You still aren't getting it. And yes, even in your scenario another guy would drop down the hierarchy because introducing an extra guy changes the supply-demand ratio. This is so autistic it's actually hilarious. Mathematical approach absolutely works, but you need to understand math and logic to see it. Attraction doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:15 PM
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You still aren't getting it. This stupid autistic black and white mathematical approach to dating is NOT HOW IT WORKS. If a man is great a communication and another guy walks into the room who's even better at communication, the first guy doesn't drop down some kind of 'communication hierarchy'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:03 PM
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and experienced dating a sociopath Nope, he wasn't a sociopath, just insecure and wanted me to chase him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:05 AM
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Oh please, my ex went down the red pill pipe line Tried to "dread game" me because 'wimmin value a high value man who makes her chase' Well it backfired and he lost me forever. I don't need to be 'put in my place' I'm not some subordinate or slave, I'm a person deserving of equal respect and autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:17 AM
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A quick google search says most fillers don't even last 5 years, most are 6-12 months, the longest lasting ones are 2 years unless you go full silicone. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11620871/Ive-got-20-years-filler-stuck-face-meant-dissolve-MRI-scan-revealed-truth.html No. I also never argued in favour of fillers, I don't know what the actual fuck you're even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:29 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:40 AM
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You won't shut up about the gym, we get it gymbro. Just like makeup, fillers and plastic surgery are also temporary fixes, They aren't even slightly comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:34 AM
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I'm saying women spend time and money and effort to keep themselves looking as good as they can. I don't know how I can dumb this down any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:29 AM
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You don't even know what 'decent skin care' is ffs. Skincare and diet cannot fade pigmentation the way BBL and MOXI can. Skincare and diet does not use stem cells to repair skin damage or increase collagen production which naturally declines with age. You aren't a scientist, stop talking out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:18 AM
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I'm not the fucking representative for all women. It's only men on here I see openly disagreeing with stats because 'muh feelings'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:17 AM
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Yes but considering you don't even know what PRP and Exosomes are, you can't really comment can you? You can have a healthy lifestyle AND get cosmetic treatments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:59 AM
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Well as a scientist I'm very interested to know how exactly you can perform your own exosome or PRP treatment at home. I'm sure you're an expert on the topic, care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:26 AM
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It's usually either neurodivergence or fearful avoidant attachment style.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:47 PM
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No, I'm saying if he went to therapy he wouldn't have the paranoid obsession that his future wife was going to cuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:44 PM
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True, but even a hint of manosphere beliefs should be instadump.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:42 PM
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And now you're resorting to the same petty bullying that I was talking about. You talking about using a woman for sex in a demeaning way isn't bad, but me being glad that you can't makes you a bully? Congratulations. Not everyone is as perfect as you are. Most people don't want to attack people who don't find them attractive. I don't know why you're demonizing me for having a natural reaction to being mistreated. Revenge is a natural human response to being wronged. You think people not finding …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:03 PM
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As long as they stick around long enough for me to cum, that's all that matters. Thankfully that's not going to happen. Oh, so you're a licensed mental health expert? Pretty obvious there's more than a few screws lose by your comments. I'm tired of the world treating me like less than nothing over things I can't control. I was bullied in high school for having glasses/braces/acne, I never wanted to hurt anyone. I do frequently have dreams of doing things that I can't say on here. It's pretty obv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:58 PM
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They dislike me because of my looks. No women outside my family know my personality, so that's not it. Even if you looked good, no woman would stick around with the autism/psychopathy. It certainly is tempting. So let me get this straight- Me stating my honest preference would make you so angry and emotional that you'd violently attack me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:41 PM
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MY WORLD does revolve around me. And that's all that matters. And you don't have the self awareness to see why women would dislike you. Yes. Because it confirms how much of an ugly loser I am. And this would cause you to become violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:35 PM
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Not in my experience. For fuck sake the world DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND YOU WHY DO MEN ALWAYS SAY SHIT LIKE THIS Some of them definitely would. I'm bald, so you've deeply offended me by saying that. So me truthfully telling my attraction makes you deeply offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:31 PM
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Of course it does. No....it... doesn't? If I'm in a room full of men I find attractive, they don't cease being attractive because a more attractive one walks into the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:26 PM
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Men are more likely to lie than women. Are you saying if I told a man I'm not attracted to bald men he'd kill me on the spot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:25 PM
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Don't date RP/Manosphere men is the best dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:57 PM
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What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:55 PM
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If they were honest, they'd be beaten, raped and killed by men on a much larger scale than they already are. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:48 PM
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I never claimed they did. But whether it's a single hookup, FWB, situationship, or whatever, you can bet if they landed a guy above their weight class, Based on? Why are you so hyperfocused on this ridiculous scenario you invented where women are getting marriage proposals at first site? What is this even supposed to prove? Because you said women are being approached and 'offered commitment' on a regular basis. Back to my actual point, if a woman's standards aren't high relative to themselves, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:44 PM
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Of course they don't, that would damage the ego too much. No, because it's autistic and asocial to think in the way you describe. If I like a man, I like him. If other people consider me more attractive or out of his league I don't care, I like him and that's what matters. If hypothetically, every woman in the West only based they're standards on men they were able to get commitment from and didn't include men they hooked up with, do you think there would be more single women or less? Most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:46 PM
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If she's at a point where she's considering the bald man because she doesn't have better options available, then that's likely her level. That makes no sense and women don't think about it like that. If her level was higher, she would be getting offered commitment from higher caliber men then. Do you go outside? Do women get approached on the street with marriage proposals?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:04 PM
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That's not how it works, it's not a zero sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:51 PM
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If Bob actually tried to improve himself and his life, he wouldn't be facing a lot of these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:23 PM
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How do you know whether a woman who isn't attracted to bald men 'qualifies' for a bald man on not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:20 PM
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That's ridiculous. Skin is the first place that shows aging and going to the gym won't help that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:06 PM
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Why don't you let him speak for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:35 PM
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Idk, some of the treatments yall be using is aging you faster. No, BBL, MOXI, PRP, SPF, etc will not age you faster. All the gen z women i know personally look older than their age by 3-5 years. Ah yes the classic male 'in my experience' line lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:32 PM
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You just said Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice When did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:28 PM
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Bullshit, women get actual skin treatments at a spa that don't come off. Women also wear SPF and take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:11 PM
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I'm responding to what the guy said Can you stop projecting your shit onto me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:10 PM
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Western women just aren't smart or wise enough to understand that they have created a prison for themselves by zeroing in on an extremely narrow view of male attractiveness. I don't think not wanting to fuck bald men is 'creating a prison for themselves'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:07 PM
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Oooh the men really aren't going to like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:26 AM
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I heard the same type of arguments from men towards me because I said I would only be with another virgin. SAME! They never seem okay with it when it's the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:45 AM
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LOL no, no it fucking isn't. Burn the whole thing to the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:23 PM
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Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:10 PM
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She probably has ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:05 PM
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Yeah, exactly. You have nothing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:55 PM
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They don't. A few articles don't prove women go on a fuck spree after divorce but men struggle to comprehend that a few anecdotal stories don't really mean anything. Anything that confirms their worldview and makes them feel a lot of emotions? The truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:52 PM
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Because you don't know what to respond with. What point are you making then exactly? I told you manosphere shit doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:45 PM
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You ignored half of my comment. Also: No one likes to compete, humans are lazy alot of the times. I gave you free game my sister
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:29 AM
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lol its understandable that you're mad. Mad? Who? Because I said it's bullshit you're assuming I'm raging now? No one likes to compete, humans are lazy alot of the times. I work extremely hard at everything I do, but I will never 'compete' for a man. If he wants me, great. If he doesn't? Cool, he can leave and be with someone else. I gave you free game Free... game? Telling me to compete for a man? No, no chance. It's just man!pulsation tactics I don't do manipulation tactics. Try to manipulate …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:26 PM
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And I'm sorry but that is complete and utter bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:13 PM
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LMAO bet he wasn't expecting that. These men are really pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:12 PM
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Yes exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:54 PM
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Yes and the thread I linked you to has many many comments that show women GENERALLY don't like feeling like they have to compete for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:46 PM
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Literally how? I tell you women don't like competition and now you say I'm being obtuse? We don't like competition with an attractive man either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:25 PM
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I never mentioned anything about people who are very attractive, you've just completely moved the goalpost. This was my original comment: despite what the manosphere thinks women don't like the idea of competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:22 PM
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Look at this thread: https://x.com/awesomedudeguy7/status/1968459904198361577 It's GENERALLY not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:49 PM
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because people in general tend to value things that are coveted. This is stupid 'one size fits all' psychology that doesn't apply in this situation. Competition also keeps women on their toes. I definitely don't feel 'on my toes' in this situation, I perceive a man entertaining another woman as lack of interest. Plus women don't like the thought of being pedestalized or feeling like they bring more value in the relationship Lmao, no not at all. Men never listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:00 PM
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Idk? Gay men tend to be very very promiscuous and despite what the manosphere thinks women don't like the idea of competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:27 AM
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I'm bi and I know a lot of women don't like that. Bi men seem a lot more emotionally healthy and have less toxic masculinity than straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:51 PM
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What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:37 PM
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Then women don't deserve men's attention. If 'women don't like it when men act passive and indifferent' is so horrifying and unjust to you that the entire human race should die out because of it then so be it. It's a fucking weird hill to die on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:18 AM
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"Men" plural? Most women have what is called a RESPONSIVE sexuality and libido, meaning we start feeling desire when we feel like we are liked and pursued. This is the case with most women, the fact that so many modern men have princess syndrome doesn't change this one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:49 AM
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I'd probably just have kids through IVF in a few years tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:23 AM
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Nope, I don't need any more money and sure I can travel but a family would be great. Men are the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:02 AM
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I would LOVE to be a mother, it's one of the biggest goals of my entire life. But men.... so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:11 PM
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When duh, it depends on why they're getting nowhere? Most men have nothing to offer and their standards for themselves are on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:28 PM
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Depends on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:34 PM
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I'm not usually one for gender roles but this just comes across as passive and disinterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:34 PM
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My ex decided to play this 'stop showing interest to increase attraction' game. He's my ex and will stay that way now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:26 PM
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Because men usually have a past but think that it doesn't matter for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:45 AM
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What divorce and custody rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:09 AM
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Which stats are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:31 PM
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Do you reckon you’re changing many minds about… anything… on here? Nope, but I have a 'Men being retarded' folder that a collect screenshots of, I get a lot of stuff from here lmao. Widely discussed observations and shared experiences that cross cultures all across the globe by millions (if not billions) of men aren’t feelings. If there's no study, they're anecdotes. There is a high likelihood that you are both of those things as well. Nope, try again. Yes absolutely. We are all animals and ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:15 AM
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I know right? One hell of a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:11 PM
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I asked you if the majority of drug users break into cars and you essentially said yes. You send me stats saying that people who have substance abuse disroders (which the same source says is different from substance use) are more like to commit theft generally. It mainly refers to opiate users. Your goalpost just keeps shifting. I don't care what you think of drugs or drug users, but the original point was you blaming women for not 'spotting' red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:02 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/mr8pfmuthdtf1.png?width=2198&format=png&auto=webp&s=93efd81ef7113da1ed17fd5fdb6ca3ee61c9fe15 I'm guessing you didn't bother to full read your own source.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:53 PM
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it’s not that hard to make it work with someone who is different from you. I'm struggling to understand this..... how?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:32 PM
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who is just beginning to build up his attractiveness. Sorry what What on earth does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:31 PM
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Caffeine is a drug too you realise? Are you guarding your car after the local people drink 3 cups of black coffee in the morning? Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:00 PM
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Research from 2017 revealed opioid users committed more crimes than non-users, both before and after using, with a higher propensity for non-serious crimes. Women were more likely to commit a crime than men when using opioids. Ahh, so opiates? Which I've never defended and are illegal, thanks for proving nothing. Well, I can tell now, based on the dumb things you say to excuse drug use and pretend that it's good and wholesome. It would be even easier in person. I never said drug use is good and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:41 PM
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I bet you all the money in the world that the 10% who did drugs recently are disproportionately likely to do so. Based on.... your fee fees? With my eyes and ears, my dear Watson. How would you have been able to tell with me then hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:16 PM
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"Facts" lol Almost 10% of people in my country have used drugs of some kind in the past months, have they all broken into cars? Same Good thing I wasn't replying on that to make my point. Yeah, and I dispute your claim that you can't. Go on Sherlock Holmes, tell me how would you would tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:03 PM
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Are you talking about yourself here? No, I'm talking about the actual facts. Do you want me to list all the "recreational drug users" that I know and the shit that they have pulled? No because your personal experience is irrelevant and I don't care. The whole point was you claiming to be able to 'identify' drug users by knowing them which I disputed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:12 PM
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!​!<You can tell fairly easily, and just knowing that the person is a drug user is enough reason to write them off as a potential partner. You know I doubt when men saw me making a lot of money, investing in my property and seemingly still having time to cook and be social would have written me off lmfao. Because I know more than one "recreational drug user" and I've had a few as my neighbors when I was a student. None of them were people whom I would ever want to be around for any prolonged len…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:50 PM
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No heavy alcohol use, smoking or drug use Yes? Literally how is that a contradiction? I wasn't dating when I was a heavy user and I was using STIMULANTS, not cocaine or heroin or the like. Your entire list here sounds like you just got out before you imploded your life. WTF are you downplaying and defending drug use as anything but a major red flag? This is idiotic. Oh? Please tell me how since you clearly know so much. Also we were originally arguing that you can't TELL if someone is a drug use…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:27 PM
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If you were doing so well using drugs, why did you possibly quit? 1- My mouth was really dry all the time and it was uncomfortable 2- I was taking a lot and became tolerant needing more and more and more over time to get the same effect 3- Long term stimulant use causes dry skin which I hated 4- It was fucking up my sleep really bad 5- I did what I set out to do and didn't need to use them as much why would you possibly not want to date a drug user now? After all, it's not a problem or a red fla…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:21 PM
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In this instance, the word 'fuck' was used as a general mark of frustration, hence I said can PEOPLE shut the the fuck up, rather than HIM specifically. Are you seriously nitpicking to this extent?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:41 PM
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Except it wasn't, was it? Allow me to jog your memory: How did any of these people seem good in the first place? How did the substance abuse guy seem like good boyfriend material? Did you ever interact with these guys? Did they seem like good men to you? Yeah, I've never seen a "recreational drug user" not end up a train wreck with a drug problem Your argument is that a drug user is inherently 'bad' would make a 'bad' partner and you can tell if someone is using by just interacting with them. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:36 PM
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When did I say otherwise? I never said anything like that. I said you can't always tell, which is true. I don't think I would've been a great partner when I was using.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:18 PM
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This is the 100% truth and was my experience with drug use.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:08 PM
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Well maybe you should try and broaden your perspective beyond your own field of view. Men are often victims of their own narrow and solipsistic thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:07 PM
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No seriously, you can laugh but it's true. Hence I know how easy it can be to hide things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:52 PM
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You know when I was a recreational drug user, not a single person could tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:40 PM
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His manosphere brain rot told him that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:16 PM
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Never, people don't approach strangers in my culture Rarely, people are reserved about this in my culture Yes but I'm not interested in a 'sexual partner' No, I have a fairly small but strict criteria and I've never met a single man who can actually pass all 7, most fail at the first hurdle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:16 PM
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You know people who are looking to date don't tend to 'broadcast' their bad traits right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:08 PM
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Are these affirmative statements based on anything other than your own feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:05 PM
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If you’re so frustrated, why do you even want to comment on here? Because I'm sick of red pill men and the stupid ideas they put out into the world. He said it because it’s the unspoken truth/rule. No it isn't, your 'feelings' aren't the unspoken truth. If you have some dude that looks like Wallace Shawn or Steve buscemi… you aren’t going to date him simply because he doesn’t jerk his dick to porn and is oblivious to the redpill. That’s utter bullshit. My first boyfriend was not physically attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:57 PM
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How was that not civil?! He keeps making shit up!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:53 PM
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3 + 6? And how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:29 AM
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Once again proving my point, and I'm sure you fail the same ones as the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:25 AM
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I updated it, must've been cut off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:28 PM
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Like 30k, and he was offering to essentially pay for all the expenses and then some and he has zero takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:39 PM
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From a man who can't even spell 'common' I'm tired, I'm so fucking tired of red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:27 PM
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where did I say anything about that? Can you people just shut the fuck up and stop making things up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:14 PM
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I do that too but sometimes I need a little inspiration. Funding human trafficking because 'you need a little inspiration' lmao cool. You can have a hardline about it but to me it seems a little unrealistic. Humans haven't had internet porn for 99% of history, now it's too unrealistic to abstain from it? lol okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:33 PM
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Another case of "I need proof of the sky being blue!" Lmao No, because you have zero proof of this. 90+% of custody, child support, and alimony is going to women Completely false. You have been "arguing" with these deflections, straw men, and snarky remarks for over a decade now, and where has it gotten you? Lol I've been doing that? You have no answers or alternatives, while the conservatives do Yeah I do actually, RP points have been debunked countless times. Yes Lmao How exactly are you plann…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:32 PM
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I would struggle with number 3. I’ve slept with more than 5 people. I enjoy porn when I’m single but if I’m actually seeing somebody, the porn gets shelved Thank you for proving my point. I’m not addicted to it but if I’m single, what are my other options? Er, masturbate without it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:13 PM
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Which is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:22 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:13 AM
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Is casual sex revolting when women have it? Yes. The manosphere isn’t necessarily sexist Bullshit. But I’ve dated feminists and I consider myself pretty red pilled. We didn’t always agree with each other but we still had chemistry and had fun together. And it didn't work out. I'm not interested in having random hedonistic 'fun' with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:10 AM
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No there aren't, most men are overweight and most watch porn. Even one of these standards (Number 3) rule out 80% of men right away. I fail points 3 and 6, but those are kinda weird standards. Why do you have them? 3- I find casual sex revolting and have no interest in a man who's done it. I also think watching porn is pure brain melting degeneracy. 6- I don't want to date a man with sexist beliefs who sees me a fundamentally less than human. Not really weird standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:03 AM
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No heavy alcohol use, smoking or drug use Not massively underweight or obese Slept with less than 5 people and no porn use Kind and gentle (no bad temper) No personality disorders, ADHD, autism or serious mental illness No manosphere beliefs Basic interest in health, fitness and healthy living (e.g diet, exercise, sleep, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:51 AM
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How many posts are just men complaining that women have standards. My ex told me my standards were unreasonable too, funny that it wasn't that hard for me to meet those standards in myself. I only have 7 strict standards in a man, I've never met a single man that meets all 7, EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:19 AM
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You best believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:16 AM
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Yet men are the ones trying stupid RP tactics and destroying their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:06 PM
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Well I feel sorry for them, must be very desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:02 PM
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No woman suggests acting like a weirdo to get a man to like them. I've never been on a dating app or read a dating book in my life, I just treat men like people and I've somehow managed to get into multiple back to back relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:56 PM
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Why can't men just be fucking normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:48 PM
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You should, he's pathetic and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:47 PM
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He's just a dlido with an STD, going to be single and childless for life now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:20 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:18 PM
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Best thing redpill did was identifying and shaming simps. Aka, men shaming other men who are being loving and affectionate towards women. AKA intrasexual competition, men cockblocking each other. Yeah no. simp behavior also repulse women. Unless they want to use the simp for money / validation, then its perfectly fine. My ex acted in a way that a lot of men would call 'simp' in the beginning. I fell in love with him and wanted to marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:12 PM
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Regardless, I don’t think one story online discredits anything I said And the hundreds of comments from the women? Most of them were very healthy women actually. Yet it didn't work. wanting a man to be clingy at the beginning is a bigger indicator she has baggage if anything imo Black and white thinking- A man doesn't have to choose between 'clingy' or 'distant'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:10 PM
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Keyword: you, not other women. Guys need to have broad appeal if they want to be successful in dating. Advice that is only applicable to appeal to one person is borderline useless or even harmful. The man is question was interested in ME. Not the entire fucking city. He followed my advice and guess what? I fell in love with him and wanted to marry him. He followed the retarded manosphere? Done. He can go find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:48 PM
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I’m referring to the talking stage, not relationships. Most single guys struggling with dating come on way too strong early — most women want the guy to match her energy. https://x.com/awesomedudeguy7/status/1968459904198361577 Yeaaaah, no. I can say from experience I had a lot more success with being a little distant instead of trying too hard, and most men will tell you the same thing. You're attracting anxiously attached women, not healthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:47 PM
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It's not done out of malice, it's done out of a lack of understanding. So if I notice what makes me feel excited and enthusiastic about a man, and I tell him, that's me not understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:39 PM
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Why would women give advice to men that will make them unattracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:34 PM
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That's retarded, she was seriously ill and had a couple years MAX. I also wasn't looking after her forever, just until I got her moved into a new house where she had less risk of falling. My ex also wanted to marry me and had already discussed having a family, he had secretly had feelings for me for years. I also had my own health problem (fixed after I had surgery) which made it even harder. But whatever, he played a retarded game and lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:33 PM
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Unfortunately, being distant over clingy consistently yields much better results for men in the current dating scene. Especially for the younger generation Wrong, most women aren't anxiously attached. In fact there was a post on twitter the other day where a guy claimed he acted non-chalantly to attract a girl he liked. It didn't work. Every single girl in the comments was calling him an idiot for believing that works. Even a lot of women who claim they want their man clingy don’t actually like …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:29 PM
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So let me get this straight: you were keeping your ex at arm's length and then it surprised you when he resorted to desperate measures to try to make it work. Men have needs too and don't want to be stuck in an LDR forever. My mother was extremely sick and had no one to look after her. I also didn't have a job in his city, how exactly was I supposed to just 'move' to another city? Doesn't sound like a mistake to me. Sounds like he finally grew a backbone and put himself first. He put himself fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:26 PM
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I would 100000% prefer clingy over distant, I always read distant as lacking interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:17 PM
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I've known about the red pill since Return of Kings was a thing. I've read every book, seen every podcast and video. You know absolutely fucking nothing about me. Also where are you from? Why is your English so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:14 PM
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Most guys get 0 women a year lol. This guy did way better than 90% of men. Fucking poor village girls in Slovakia who are desperate for a UK passport and contracting a lifelong STD isn't really a win is it? He's slowly becoming an alcoholic from depression, he simply cannot understand why he cannot find a tradwife who wants his degenerate ass. Such a win. Seems like we are only getting one side of the story. Guys who are happy in their relationships don't destroy them just because someone told t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:13 PM
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What are you talking about? You literally just typed a bunch of words that have zero meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:07 PM
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Some are. They all are. There are. Red pill ideas also promotes self-care and being not needy. You can have self care alone, no misogyny needed. If majority of red-pillers where basically porn addicted ugly basement dweller pyscho harasser manuplatiors, we wouldn't have this subreddit. Majority have fearful avoidant attachment styles, and give advice designed to attract anxiously attached women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:03 PM
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No, he got to 50+ over the course of almost 20 years. That's around 2.5 girls a year. He travelled all over Europe banging low class desperate women who were 'impressed' that he was from the UK. He contracted HSV2 and now has to deal with crusty sores on his genitals every time they randomly erupt. After age 35+ he then entered into his 'settle down' phase and has been seeking a nice Christian girl for marriage and children, slight problem with that though, no Christian woman wants a reformed sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:00 PM
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He's single, in his mid 30s and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:52 PM
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"Red pill" ideas are unorganized collective ideas coming from reasoned and unreasoned findings. They're anecdotal emotional abuse tactics designed to provoke a reaction from anxiously attached and mentally unstable women. They aren't good advice in any cricumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:52 PM
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How is this good 'generic' advice? It's horrible advice from men who've had horrible relationships and are both single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:50 PM
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This is just proving the red pill right, no? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:50 PM
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Why do men try and promote 'red pill' ideas to their friends? They just end up getting dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:39 PM
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Yeah I think male intrasexual competition is way more common and insidious than most men realise. A couple of my exes friends were telling him that he should be more cold and distant with me to 'increase my attraction' and 'make me respect him more' One of those friends is 50 and is offering to essentially pay a much younger fertile woman to have a child with him. The other is mid 30s, single, slept with over 50 women and is extremely angry and bitter, he's also been arrested twice. My ex is SHO…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:38 PM
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Because women are desperate for love and affection and have been taught since birth that marriage makes them valuable and a quality woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:23 PM
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I'd do the same if a man lied about his sexual history to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:47 PM
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I've never lied, I have had a guy try to downplay his sexual past so that I'd look past it and marry him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:28 PM
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What are you even talking about? Family and criminal courts are completely rigged in favor of women Source? It's silly to think that men are going to allow it So what? They force women into relationships and children?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:56 PM
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What are you even talking about? Family and criminal courts are completely rigged in favor of women Source? It's silly to think that men are going to allow it So what? They force women into relationships and children?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:56 PM
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We don't have to have casual sex with men, you know this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:54 PM
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Deeply questionable. Men who can't get sex don't get married, lol. Stats are clear, facts don't care about your feelings. That's a criteria you applied. Promiscous women are more likely to have mental health problems, are more likely to have been sexually abused as children, are more likely to have personality disorders, substance abuse issues, etc. Probably because you're deranged, man-hating feminist. Saying that promiscuity is bad for men and women makes me a deranged man hating feminist even…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:52 PM
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Getting married was almost like taking on the responsibility of caring for a child. Yeah because women had virtually no rights including the right to work and earn money freely. In exchange the woman had a roof over her head, someone to protect her and food on the table. Women can do that for themselves if men don't strip their rights away and force them to depend on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:44 PM
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Women hound men for marriage because they're taught since birth that marriage is what makes them valuable. Plus The red pill endlessly lies to men about women 'stealing their children and wealth' even though that by in large doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:41 PM
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You failed in multiple relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:34 PM
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Lol. Having sex with women doesn't destroy a man's brain, not having sex with women does. It fulfils their basic biological needs and boots their confidence. Yes it does, increases likelihood of cheating, divorce, decreases marital satisfaction, etc. Men who need to fuck random damaged women to gain 'confidence' are absolutely pathetic. I do. Because I'm right. You don't. Because you're wrong. All else being equal, women will choose a sexually experienced guy over a virgin guy almost every time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:31 PM
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Yes, it is. To which the male sexlessness rate is a testament to. No it isn't, you getting STDs and meaningless, hedonistic temporary pleasure which will destroy your brain in the long run, congrats. Nope, women do. What women find repulsive is virgin and inexperienced men, and men who can't get women to have sex with them. If women were repulsed by men who had lots of sex, those men probably wouldn't be having lots of sex. No we don't, you don't get to speak on our behalf. SLUTTY women are impr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:13 PM
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There are, positive consequences lol. Men consider it a compliment-- that they can get lots of women to have sex with them. Getting trashy women with childhood trauma and daddy issues to have casual meaningless sex with you is a compliment? Well okay, good for you! For it to mean anything, men would have to call other men sluts, and mean it, and those men being called sluts would have to care. That's how it works with women (or did, up until recently). You're just proving my point, only other me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:53 PM
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Well it does if there are consequences behind the insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:08 PM
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You can say whatever you want to justify your degenerate slut behaviour, makes zero difference, you're still a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:46 PM
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Yes they very much can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:31 PM
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It was funny tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:37 AM
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they're slandering and hate-mongering. wtf does that mean? There's plenty of debates between feminists & RP. And RP wins them all. It's you who doesn't accept it. RP is pseudoscience, end of story. pink-pill mean sickly toxic? Idk I just need to choose one to comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:58 PM
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You haven't had a successful long term relationship, you've had a string of failed ones. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:25 PM
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It’s short term flings and infatuations. Never had one of those and don't care to. If you don’t have a form of transportation and don’t live in a big walkable city you’re SOL for the most part. I feel sorry for how clueless you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:24 PM
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Okay so you clearly aren't getting this are you. How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:15 PM
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DUH. You missed the point didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:02 PM
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'LTRs'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:54 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:21 PM
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All of the manosphere theories about women only caring about money and physical strength and other alpha male bullshit. Again it's TOO BROAD without you narrowing it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:44 PM
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Again, you'll have to narrow it down, this is too broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:22 PM
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What part of mating science would you like to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:29 AM
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The claims of TRP are complete bullshit, but you'll have to narrow which one down specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:13 AM
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Source to what? You didn't make any specific claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:46 AM
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It's complete bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:18 AM
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married women are owned by their husbands. marriage is a sale of a women's reproductive ability This is exactly why I'd rather be dead than married. Marriage has no benefits for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:16 AM
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You're just changing the topic of conversation with every comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:15 AM
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10000% Chad alpha, how do I join the roster?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:27 AM
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Cool you can date one then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:22 AM
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Need to see that man use his legs or I'm out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:38 AM
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I'm not sure what this has to do with absolutely anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:05 PM
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Unless you had the vaccine at 11, you were more than likely already exposed to HPV. Also doesn't get rid of the impact on LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:51 PM
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Like a man who sleeps around?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:47 PM
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Ahh nothing funnier than men who are proud sluts Enjoy the HPV and chronic dissatisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:42 PM
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Perfect! Co bike riders!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:40 PM
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Agreed, I'm fine with you having him too as long as he has his BIKE
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:40 PM
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Well I'm sold, clearly a HVM that can provide for my offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:39 PM
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omg pls take me out on a date you alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:45 PM
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it is how it works, your professor to introduce the scientific method is probably crying somewhere. It is what separated the scientific method from faith based belief. Evidence and studies aren't true because red pill man on the internet claims a professor is crying somewhere. This seems legit. because they are. Why would a woman want to date a man who thinks like this? But they still love them, specially in true crime kind of things. Lol. I am sure you too. They still love them... because you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:45 PM
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FINALLY THE ONE THING I'VE ALWAYS SECRETLY WANTED
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:34 PM
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WHERE ARE ALL THE CHADZ WITH BIKES, NEED A MAN WITH A BIG, DIESEL GUZZLING DANGEROUS BIKE A-
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:29 PM
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You know the science is shit when you can disprove it with a simple test done by a random citizen. That's not how the world of evidence works, sorry. If smoking has been proven again and again to cause cancer, finding a person who smokes and doesn't have cancer doesn't disprove the science. Science is what is reproducible by everyone not what authority say it is lol. No just no, the world will never work like this. You may believe women are not interested in truth, and rather be lied to but I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:27 PM
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don’t have a bike Ngl this made me laugh my ass off. 'Oh my dream man, he's everything I've ever wanted.... BUT he doesn't have a bike so nah' 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:15 PM
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By whom? we do not believe in authority. There have been studies commissioned by various people, groups and institutes that test these theories, and they've been proven to be false. You don't believe in authority, you believe in 'muh feelings' and 'muh personal experiences' We just do everything ourselves. And everyone who tried, including the blue pills here, all agree it works, just disagree on how and why. 'Works' just means 'what you observe' but not actually what's happening. My ex was conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:57 PM
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You couldn't even stop yourself sperging out in a comment section, hence my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:43 PM
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unquestioning ideas or unverifiable results. TRP ideas have been actively disproven, but TRP followers just don't care. (The great majority the basic ideas about women ever since 330 BCE) Sexist ideas about women that advocate for subjugation and benefit men, gee I wonder why these ideas would be so popular? Hell, you can try it yourself, many lesbians and bi women not only agree with us, but use TRP themselves to get it sex with other women, women are still women even if not heterosexual. All y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:41 PM
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Being able to analyze reality in its entirety, talk about it with like minded individuals, strive for greatness and achieve success is exhilarating for people like us. Spoken just like a cult member.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:41 PM
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King's mistress.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:03 AM
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Considering you literally responded 'fuck you' to this comment, I think you're proving the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:04 AM
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So what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:27 AM
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Can women just be allowed to not want to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:10 AM
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Stealing this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:09 AM
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Human- Homo Sapien Autonomy- The ability to do something freely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:17 PM
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Creating words about a particular subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:17 PM
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Yeah that's what I thought lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:56 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:01 PM
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So acknowledging basic human autonomy is the red pill? How is it then that the red pill subreddit lists something completely different?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:00 PM
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TRP is just mating science for bros/dummies What 'mating science'?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:33 AM
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That could mean absolutely anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:33 AM
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What is a 'chad'?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:17 AM
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The "evidence" did not support your claims, I'm so sorry to have to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:09 AM
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How is that hand waving?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:03 AM
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1st line of my response: Right off the bat this is ridiculous because 'nice' is too broad to have a clear definition. Please explain how this was emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:01 AM
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What part of my reaction was emotional? Do you think I was hysterically sobbing while typing? None of your sources proved 'women don't like nice men' claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:58 PM
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You're talking about the 'Women like nice men' bullshit claim you made?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:36 PM
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I tried to link to TRP subreddit but it's blocking it for spam. They literally have a wall of claims but with no sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:31 PM
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Ah, now all of a sudden you aren't up to debate TRP claims. Interesting. How is it a straw man, is the claim wrong now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:28 PM
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So? You going to answer? Claim: All women prefer men with more sexual experience over less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:19 PM
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Subject: Women are not attracted to “nice” men. Right off the bat this is ridiculous because 'nice' is too broad to have a clear definition. Can you actually try and argue better? How about this: All women prefer men with more sexual experience over less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:16 PM
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I never made an argument about women being fat, what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:12 PM
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Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:08 PM
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Sure: AWALT. Off you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:06 PM
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So all your other comments were… pointless? No? But the last comment was me breaking down your evo psych claims and countering them and asking you to explain. I'm guessing you not having an answer is why you decided to tap out, right? Nah, just done my morning walk, onto the rest of the day, don’t have time to argue all day. Maybe another time 😘 Right, time to go be alpha and build that masculine frame, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:02 PM
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Have you heard of 'anxious attachment'? Maybe your boy was punching out his weight class I was willing to marry and have children with this man at what point, I called him my soulmate (which i've never called anyone), I would've done anything for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:01 PM
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Respectfully, I fundamentally disagree with nearly every point you’re making and have made and I don’t think I could convince you otherwise. Oh please do, I'd love to know how exactly you can counter prove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:53 PM
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LOL, so on the comment why I actually break down where your observations are wrong, you decide to tap out? I thought you were more of a masculine HVM tbh, I'm very disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:53 PM
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To be fair, this strategy is much better for either only the very beginning of a relationship We were at the very beginning of a relationship, and it completely killed it dead permanently. (and I assume that’s what you perceived him as such) No, I just perceived it as lack of interest/indifference and stopped caring. So, to a degree, I see what you’re saying here and yes, it is a strategy that doesn’t work well for the purpose of a LTR (except maybe at the beginning for a month or two). After th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:52 PM
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Beards… come… from… stubble… as in, you cannot have a beard, unless you have stubble first… and they both (being that they are the same thing — facial hair) are a product of DHT. The thing that leads to dominant and mature men I. don't. like. fucking. beards. I like ONLY stubble, light stubble, not heavy stubble. More thick facial hair = more DHT, so why wouldn't I prefer beards instead of light stubble or clean shaven? Also bald men tend to have higher DHT in their scalps, I think baldness in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:43 PM
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The millions of men who watch RP content, comment, share their experiences online, guys in real life who say the same shit without even knowing or having ever been exposed to what the RP is. Those men. This proves fuck all. Women do similar things, it means nothing without actual concrete data. Sexual strategy isn’t a yes/no or flat/round question though. There are exceptions and nuances. It’s about generalities not absolute truths like the fucking laws of physics or an either yes or no answer. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:29 PM
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“Men get facial hair due to androgen hormones, specifically dihydrotestosterone (DHT), which is a derivative of testosterone. This hormonal stimulation causes hair follicles on the face to grow thicker and darker hair after puberty. The evolutionary purpose of beards is thought to be linked to sexual selection, where beards may signal dominance, maturity, and attractiveness to potential mates, and they may have served a protective function by absorbing impact during fights.” You're about to feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:15 PM
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What 'set of facts' are you referring to? TRP is pure conjecture, it's men whining and crying and telling each other they're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:07 PM
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What millions? Have you spoken to millions of men? If the RP was cultural or false, how can you explain that? I'm not sure how to answer a question so stupid, if millions of people see the earth is flat, does that mean it is flat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:53 PM
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Which data?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:52 PM
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He was of too low of a baseline SMV to be using that kind of tactic and/or he was punching way too far above his weight; OR You think I would've found this behaviour attractive if he was what? Taller and had more money? Are you for real? To employ that tactic, you cannot just be cold and distant all the time, it has to be a mix of cold and distant with warm and charming — the sweet and sour approach. Yeah, that's exactly what he did. When he was warm, kind, charming and loving I became more attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:51 PM
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And she’s done it! Disproven a RP/EP theory by calling it retarded. This is scientifically sound and a brilliant take. Wow. You ignored what I said below it. Aren’t people on the left/feminists supposed to be against bullying/name-calling. Your hypocrisy is too funny🤣 I'm not a fucking leftist lmao, it's hilarious that you people think that anyone who disagrees with you is left wing. Access to resources = ability to provide for a child/pregnant woman. Most women work jobs now, I promise when I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:37 PM
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I've been reading RP Philosophy since Return of Kings was a thing, I'm well aware of what this community of spergs and psychopaths thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:25 PM
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Your research ain't worth shit if it doesn't line up with the real world. The world being... your personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:46 PM
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You just dont understand it. It’s not about weird anecdotal exceptions or your specific social circle. That's EXACTLY what it is because the data does not match up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:36 PM
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But TRP is mostly anecdotes and made up pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:34 PM
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What reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:34 PM
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Acting cold and distant deliberately to create attraction or chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:40 PM
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What are you talking about? You've completely ignored the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:56 PM
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What are you talking about? I said MORE egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:28 AM
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Tried to use 'dread game'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:23 AM
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This is a retarded black and white autistic way of thinking. 'Access to resources' is the weirdest way to say makes good money ever. In more egalitarian societies, women tend to go for men who make less vs those in unequal societies. Since women are still expected to do most of the labour and childcare, it's obvious why men end up earning more in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:15 AM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:01 AM
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Literally name any one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:01 AM
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Please explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:00 AM
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Almost every single theory TRP has about women and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:51 AM
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people have differing levels of talent regarding executing certain behaviors So now the behaviour isn't wrong or bad... just the execution?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:50 AM
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If it's an effective strategy then why would that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:19 AM
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Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:18 AM
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In my experience, TRP literally stopped my ex getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:57 AM
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If the red pill really is so weak when it comes to proof, then it should be comically easy for you to provide some counter proof and disprove it in a couple of mins and just settle the debate, right? Tons of people do, but redpillers just dismiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:44 AM
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That can mean anything, plus you don't know how many hours he works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:39 PM
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You're just making assumptions now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:25 PM
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Domestic work is like a full time job, sometimes more. She should do this plus a part time job?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:16 PM
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I think you missed this: 'when I'm at work she literally takes care of everything else as well as working part time.'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:49 PM
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No chance, let him go into the abyss.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/25 09:20 PM
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Honestly I don't have any tolerance for people who inherently hate me because of what I am. You don't exist to convince hateful, gullible men not to hate you.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/25 09:17 PM
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Because often men are demanding those things of women but don't have them to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:53 PM
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I told my ex that I was turned off by his promiscuity, he spent an hour making excuses and explaining why it was 'not fair' for me to expect him to have little/no sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:38 PM
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I don't know how or why you're struggling to grasp the points I'm making so clearly. How is decorating a couple times a year and renovating every 15 years in any way comparable to the amount of work that women typically do on a monthly basis when they cook and clean? How aren't you getting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:48 PM
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The story has changed again? My point was that pulling decor crap out of the attic is a (small) part of the total weekly workload of the house He decorates every week now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:34 PM
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If you're in the house with someone and you only have to pay let's say 35 or 40% of your share to enjoy the same access as the other person then you are being compensated for your work. Most women it's 50/50, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:04 PM
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yes until we move (why im fixing up the current one to sell) then ill be fixing the next houses problems/things we dont like. the bathtub wont be big enough, the closet will need to be redone, etc Doesn't matter, unless you buy and renovate a new house on a yearly basis, it still adds up to very little. that's one example Again, a task that needs to be done every 5 years at most adds up to a few minutes per month. i have a cleaning lady and take my clothes to the laundry/dry cleaning because iro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:00 PM
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Men are paid for the extra work they do, women aren't and they still have less leisure time than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:57 PM
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Dude seriously this is ridiculous. If it took him 16 hours (An entire day) every 15 years (that's a very short life for insulation, most insulation lasts decades) That would roughly translate to 0.76 minutes a week or 5.33 minutes per month of work if we divided it like that. 5.33 minutes a month vs cooking food which takes hours a day or at least 1 hour a day if you batch cook. The items he mentioned ARE infrequent afterthoughts when it comes to the who does more invisible labour debate because…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:57 PM
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Most women work as well as do labour in the house, so you're just side stepping the point again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:46 PM
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Gotta say I don’t really agree with you here. These tasks are definitely seasonal and one-offs but despite their optionality, they are household labor that the household has (jointly, I presume?) agreed to add to the list of things that must be done. We could just as easily argue about whether or not dusting or grass mowing needs to be done (or how often), but it’s pointless. For the sake of labor division it’s fair to just pool all of the agreed-upon tasks and treat them en masse. How does this…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:44 PM
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I'm making the point that wanting a partner with a healthy BMI, low body count and a partner that wants children is something women get actively criticised for yes. The amount of times I've heard that I have no right to expect a chaste man and a man who 'has the option to sleep around will and it's unreasonable to expect otherwise' is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:54 PM
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Not really?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:42 PM
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it's not an infrequent thing if you're a homeowner I am a homeowner, this is a ridiculous argument with no basis in reality. my garage has an insulation problem and fixing it is going to require moving all the shelves and all of my tools and her gardening stuff, lawn decor. thatll be a whole weekend day Even if it took AN ENTIRE WEEKEND, you're talking about an entire weekend once every 10-15 years+ assuming you get it done properly and don't attempt a half ass DIY job yourself. a month ago i ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:42 PM
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When you're not in work? Did I really have to specify that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:09 AM
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I have these standards too and I've been attacked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:28 AM
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I have those preferences as well, I'm not sure they've considered evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:27 AM
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Then why don't you do more?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:40 AM
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On the other side, men often take on physical work or financial labor that isn’t always acknowledged as "helping," especially in households. Like what? Did I miss something? Is furniture being moved on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:38 AM
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Yeah pretty much this, I would've given my ex everything, I adored him because of who he was as a person. The moment he tried to 'game' me, I completely lost interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:43 AM
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I speak about delusional single feminists who want to work less or be paid for cleaning their own house, where they live alone or woth pets. No 'feminist' is demanding money for cleaning their own house, it's when they live with a man and he regularly trashes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:45 AM
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No, dumb are the huge amount of single women who scream unpaid labor for cleaning their own house. When I lived with my ex it was OUR house because we were renting and he regularly trashed it. If you have 2 people you have twice the amount of waste being create including twice the amount of dead skin, so you HAVE to clean more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:38 AM
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Are you dumb? You realise living with someone else equals more mess, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:21 AM
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No, they tend to do childcare and domestic labour which is.... unpaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:41 AM
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Women tend to disproportionately do what when they get into relationships with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:08 AM
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Well think about it carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:03 AM
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Well if we look at the marriage statistics of women earning more money than men, you definitely in the minority of 16%. (I didn’t look up those figures for dating). Are you too slow to understand why that might be? But the world thanks you sharing your financial wealth with these poor souls. Hopefully you helped them pull up their boot straps so they can better serve their girlfriends in the future. Nope, they're all still single manchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:42 AM
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Since 2019 now, he's reached out to me on every single social media, email address and phone number i had. 6 years and counting, he's now in his early-mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:37 PM
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From the man’s perspective he’s assuming since he’s bringing in more money into the relationship, than she should do more of the maternal domestic duties for our relationship. Every man I was with made less money than me and was a complete manchild that I did everything for. Only one was a higher earner and seemed to actually be capable of somewhat pulling his weight in the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:24 PM
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I don't think he would dare considering he brought absolutely nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:18 PM
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My first boyfriend has been single since I dumped him. He could've stayed with me if he didn't treat me like an actual slave, oh well, guess he's sorry now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:07 PM
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I have no idea what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:21 PM
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Most autistic men aren't Isaac Newton, I already said this. Most autistic men are unemployed and have very little romantic success.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:47 AM
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So? Literally what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:27 PM
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Ah you doing that thing where you speculate on a person after they die and you have no way to confirm? Also most autists aren't Isaac Newton, not even CLOSE lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:45 PM
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I hope not, those genes shouldn't be spreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:26 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:26 PM
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? I can't agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:25 PM
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I agree. I've honestly never seen a group of more entitled and narcissistic, arrogant people in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:22 PM
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Can you please post the evidence that young women find older men more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:14 PM
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Nope, women are upset by both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:44 AM
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Are you saying that a lot of women would be open to a situation where they can be physically polygamous but emotionally monogamous and their man is emotionally polygamous but physically monogamous? Yeah? Do you realize what that relationship would look like? The woman would be having sex with lots of men but not allowed to feel any emotions during that sex (it would be purely for pleasure). Do you think most women are capable of this? Either men and women are or neither of them are. The man woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:52 PM
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A lot of women would be down for the same but in reverse. Almost no one would be okay with 'polygamy for me, but not thee'
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:36 PM
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That's not at all what I meant but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:52 PM
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What makes you think women wouldn't also do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:10 PM
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Ask god about an idea that you've just made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:32 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:04 AM
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I didn't say prefer them, I said I've dated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:59 PM
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A person who believes in the ideology of the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:58 PM
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This is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:48 PM
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I had the chance to marry someone who was happy to pay for everything and makes much more money than me. I said no. I'd rather marry a man with nothing at all who isn't a manosphere believer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:42 PM
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How about if you own a business?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:35 PM
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I inherited a home from my mother. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:34 PM
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Weird how I've managed to date unemployed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:32 PM
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both are really comparable No they aren't. Both provide you resources for work and value you give them No, most romantic relationships aren't cold and transactional like this. both have measures you can take in case of abuse (family, police vs. HR, legal system) Not really. At work there's a union and I can get compensation if I'm treated unfairly. They can't really fire me without good reason or offering redundancy. And with years of experience, I'm seen as more valuable to my next employer. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:24 PM
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What was? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:37 AM
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Who the fuck cares about what 3rd world countries think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:13 AM
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https://www.psypost.org/new-research-finds-a-sexual-double-standard-against-male-but-not-female-promiscuity/ 'Commonly held belief' is exactly that, an assumption with no evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:40 AM
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No it isn't, this is just an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:37 AM
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You can check on retroactive jealousy, there are tons of them...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:50 PM
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Because they are lied to about what really attracts women. The only question here is are you just lying to me or are you also lying to yourself. What exactly would be the point in lying? Think about this logically. men who told them the truth. "The truth" being what exactly? And then when those men also start talking about even bullshit political stuff that really has nothing to do with gender relations necessarily, they are more apt to listen to that as well. So men are gullible and lack critic…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/25 10:53 AM
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If there was zero truth in it it wouldn't be as popular as it is. It's popular because of online echo chamber culture, relationships between men and women have never been worse than they are today and some women are just not dating at all anymore. Red pill says being clingy is unattractive to women. Some disinterest appeals more. You claim this is false? Have you heard of attachment styles? Also yeah, by in large this is ridiculous, why the fuck would I want a man who is disinterested in me? Go …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/25 06:59 AM
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There's no truth in it. I actually completely lost the man I loved because of this ideology, it doesn't make women desire men, it makes us lose interest.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/25 06:52 AM
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Do what you want, doesn't mean people want to date you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:34 AM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:09 AM
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No, it impacts every single part of your life and you're insane if you think otherwise. Dating isn't charity, no one has to 'give someone a chance' also autism in marriage has horrifically high divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:52 PM
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What on earth are you talking about? Autism IS a part of personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:56 PM
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And? In order to date you need people who are actually interested in dating you, that't not everyone else's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:48 PM
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Agreed. Gay people and brown people aren't out here arguing why they should have special privileges anyway so I don't know why you felt the need to make that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:45 PM
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Autistic men aren't owed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:32 PM
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Doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:43 PM
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Did you read the post? She literally said why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:42 PM
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The United Kingdom. You still don't seem to be able to answer my questions about why I haven't gotten back with my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:56 AM
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I'm not interested in dating and I haven't been on a single date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:19 AM
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No, I've told you dates are split 50/50 in this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:09 AM
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Women want to be provided for Why have almost all of my relationship been with men who make much less money than I do? woman it's not hard for you to find another provider. Then why have I made no attempt to get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:53 PM
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So I can find another man who makes more than twice the average salary of a man my age who will marry me and pay for everything within a few months? Again, why have I now been single for months and months? I could've just got back with my ex or jumped into a new relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:52 PM
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LOL I don't blame you at times. They really think this shit works. fearful avoidant men are a nightmare, honestly. My ex would rant at me in messages saying noone would want me since I'm a fat stupid old single mother. Ah deliberately trying to lower your self esteem so you stay with them, that old chestnut lmao. B) a year later after I'd started healing myself I started dating again, and I've been with my partner for 6 years. He's not made it past a few months with a woman yet. I don't blame th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:43 PM
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Well that's not a country but close enough I.... what? 'Yes, the United Kingdom is a sovereign country, officially known as the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland. It is an island country located off the coast of mainland Europe and comprises four constituent countries: England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland' Did you just attempt to explain the existence of my own country to me? 😂 Fucking hell no wonder the arabs hate you people 😂 Oh so you admit that I didn't' say that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:02 PM
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What country is it? Why do you people feel the need to be as vague as humanly possible? United Kingdom, calm down. Yes I am American, and you're made up european society has no bearing on my life. 'You're made up European society' being the country the makes up the majority of the genetics in America if you're white lmfao. Maybe you're too scared to say what the country is because we all would know you're lying. You think I'm making up living in a non existent country? Are you feeling okay? I ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:19 PM
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So my lived experience as a man who dates women is the manosphere and not the real world? It's a reflection of personal experience which will be a reflection of your country/town/city/neighbour, age, race, and a load of other things. That's why we don't go off 'personal feelings' when it comes to compiling any kind of data to enact policy change or make medications. Unless we have some way to objectively 'measure' something, then it's meaningless. Because all but one woman who I did not pay for …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:58 PM
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To probe even further: My ex is making good money still (I assume) and I'm currently working very very hard trying to get back into a good place financially. I'm pretty burnt out and exhausted, I'm working really long hours and doing a lot of different things. I haven't dated, or had any romantic interaction with any man since i last spoke to my ex. If I wanted, I could get back in touch and get back with my ex, we'd probably be married in a few months and he'd be paying for everything. My stres…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:44 PM
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I am though and my own experience affirms it. The data shows different, your own experience isn't a true reflection of the world. Your other comment was about your personal relationship which i can't comment on because i don't know you personally. You literally told me i turned down my exes offer because I thought i could find another simp but when I asked you to explain the logic behind that, you just didn't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:41 PM
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No that's the exact point, you AREN'T. but you just keep doubling down. I also note that you couldn't seem to come up with a response to my other comment, very predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:28 PM
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Honestly dude, you'd be so much happier if you just went to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:25 PM
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Great! You tell the women you're with that you think like that. Good luck with your BPD chicks lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:22 PM
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Well maybe you shouldn't be dating humans at all if you're so evolved and above all that. Better to just stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:20 PM
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It felt unnatural because you think you're better than men and shouldn't pursue them. Nope, i really looked up to and idealised this guy, I thought I wasn't good enough for him because of how smart he was. ts unnatural for men who are the prize to pursue women, all of whom bring the exact same thing to the table. It's 'unnatural' and yet that's exactly how it is in 'nature' lmfao. Seriously please try dating men, you'll be so much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:18 PM
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So lets look at the facts: I've never dated a man who makes more money than me until my last ex. He readily told me he was ready to marry and have kids with me and would pay for everything. At the time I was struggling financially and didn't have a great job situation, it would've made sense for me to take the deal he was offering me. I declined instead. You think this was somehow because despite never relying on a man finnacially in my life, I'd decided there was another 'simp' that I could tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:16 PM
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This is because men don't know they are the prize. I've had more success with women since I stopped pursuing them. Probably because they have an anxious-preoccupied attachment (these are the types that will endlessly blow up your phone, stalk your social media, get angry if you talk to another woman and often have BPD by the way) They think they are the prize and so they think they don't have to pursue men. How do you not see that you're proving my point m? 😂 Because you have an incredibly overl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:14 PM
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That's not answering the question at all. I had supposedly a great opportunity to endlessly be provided for by a religious man who wanted to marry me and who doesn't believe in divorce. Why didn't I take it? Financially it would've made sense since at the time i was struggling financially and under massive stress at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:10 PM
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He ended up being free to look for another woman. So he's now over 30 and single, every single relationship he's had in his 20s failed. And the woman he wanted to marry (me) is now no longer interested. Guess he won? Why would a man who is the prize pursue some woman? Because women have little/no interest in pursuing men because the dynamic doesn't turn them on. The only women who generally pursue men are women with extreme attachement issues and low self esteem. So it's either pursue the woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:08 PM
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That's the point. So you'll never know what men experience while dating women. In the part of the world that i'm from, it's generally a 50/50 model in relationships. You're just unable to understand that a world beyond your own head exists at all. \ They unfortunately do. It's just a matter of degrees. It almost seems like you want to believe this. Nope. I'm just making objective observations of women's behaviour. Can you please explain why I'm not married to my ex now then given I would financi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:06 PM
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Men don't need to refer themselves in such a way. They just have to know they are the prize and act accordingly. Like my ex did? How did that work out for him? Arrogance and a refusal to pursue in a man in a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:03 PM
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No they don't. Women get turned off and laugh at men who refer to themselves in such a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:58 PM
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I don't need to date women as a man, I AM a woman. Most women don't see men as a paycheck, it's just manosphere brainwashing. Let me guess, your past relationship didn't work out and you stumbled on the manosphere and it provides an easy explanation so you're now relying on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:57 PM
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Most of them, you are living in the manosphere not the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:54 PM
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Based on observations of women's behaviour. No, based on YOUR observations and FEELINGS about women's behaviour. Well, if true, that makes you the extreme minority among women. No it doesn't, my ex literally had a string of unsuccessful relationships because despite him being very tall, athletic and in a promising career field, none of that makes up for him being manipulative and believing he's the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:50 PM
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Right I'm just going to throw this out there- Have you considered actually trying to explore your sexuality and trying out men to see if you might like them more? Because this shit is gayer than actually being gay at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:48 PM
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Based on zero evidence, just your feelings. Also just to flip the script, my ex made pretty good money for his age. A few months before things ended between us, he told me he was happy for me to not work and support me financially, he was happy with us getting married quickly and me just having children and relaxing at home. I'd never dated a partner that made more money than me before this. It made absolutely no difference, I lost interest and don't care about how much money he has, he can shov…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:41 PM
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I'm saying if whatever man youre mildly interested in spent enough money on you and catered to you, chances are you'd give him what he wants. Do you think that is a reasonable assumption given you know absolutely nothing about me? Do you think that all women are essentially prostitutes/surrogates for hire with the right price?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:38 PM
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I've literally got no idea what you're talking about now. Are you saying that if my ex offered me money to carry his child then I'd take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:34 PM
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What are you talking about? Pay me for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:32 PM
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Uh what? I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:56 AM
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>There are many monogamous mammals are some even mate for life, even in those situations the male animal is still generally the pursuer and initiator. That's a classic straw man argument. I never claimed there are no monogamous mammals. I never claimed you claimed that. I made the point that even in situations where the male animal sticks around he tends to be the pursuer. By saying that women bring more to the relationship than men, you are exactly one of those people. It's an objective fact, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:23 AM
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When it comes to companionship, the situation is quite different: In many cases, the males ditch the females as soon as the deed is done. No. There are many monogamous mammals are some even mate for life, even in those situations the male animal is still generally the pursuer and initiator. That aside; I think we should stop calling people "the prize" (this means that women also need to take a hard look at themselves here). Women generally do bring more to relationships that men do, but i agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:09 AM
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Men are having more accidents because they are more reckless. Women are not good drivers because they are not involved in accidents. They are bad in a sense that they can’t reach the state to be part of an accident. Some exceptions are there, obviously. Men's behaviour while driving is considered such a risk that their insurance is often double. As you are so fixated on disregarding the male experience That's the point, again you missed it. This is not the 'male' experience, this is YOUR experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:07 AM
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Having studied statistics heavily in my undergrad, i know how the stats you are saying work. Oh really? Do tell. My personal experience is that women tend to be more emotional Here we go again, I literally JUST MADE this point on another comment. Men think that their personal experience trumps all available evidence. You tell a man that men are more likely to cause car accidents and be bad drivers and this is documented by car insurance companies. What do they say? 'Yes but the 6 men I know are …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:43 AM
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Well, maybe you're an animal but I'm not. I have a higher level of consciousness that allows me to act consciously, not like an animal. Most women aren't interested in pursuing men. Doesn't matter how 'conscious' they are. Dumb men and women, yes. I hate to break it to you, but that's almost everyone. Exactly. All that is required is payment, even when dealing with a woman who claims to not be a surrogate or prostitute. He can't afford all that or raise a child by himself logistically. I have so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:38 AM
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Women in general tend to be emotional rather than emotionally intelligent. False, women DO tend to be more emotionally intelligent and stats back it up. Men love women and women love the package the man brings cause women have a survival mentality. Also completely false, manosphere made up bullshit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:23 AM
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Yes, please do. My god alright, I'm not even sure if I can dumb this down further. Human men and women are animals, just like other animals. We can see certain patterns in animal behaviour that overlap with humans. Men are generally the ones that initiate and pursue women, this is more than likely a reflection of underlying biology. Also men tend to like the 'pursuer' role and women tend to like the feeling of being 'pursued' We can also see this in gay relationships. Men will very readily go ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:21 AM
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It's complete evo psych bullshit, literally none of it is true. And I know because i've had a man try it on me, I despise him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:04 AM
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Well, you got into a relationship with one so... He wasn't like that at first, duh! Well, i don't know about the men you date but I am not an animal and I don't live my life like one. Do I really have to spell out the point i was making because it went over your head the first time? I used to believe this but listening to women and watching their behaviour has changed my mind. Ironically, you're proving the point without even realising it. Men think that their personal experience trumps all avai…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:03 AM
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It has helped in some respects. No it definitely hasn't, men with low emotional intelligence thinks it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:56 AM
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Yeaaaah I cba honestly. It's funny because he genuinely thought I'd be blowing up his phone begging for the chance to prove my worth to him because he makes a slightly above average salary now. When I didn't do that, he messaged me after months of silence asking how I was and I ignored and blocked him. Guessing he tried out dating and it didn't work out so he hoped I might still entertain the idea of being with him lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:54 AM
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Yeah he was but the point stands, men with this mentality are beyond stupid. In EVERY single species of mammal (aside from 3) male animals are the ones courting and pursuing the female animals. Women are much more in demand than men and men are more desperate to be with women than women are to be with men. Women can do pretty much all the things that men can do and they often are, they can earn and pursue careers like men. Men still can't become pregnant and give birth. Women also tend to be mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:51 AM
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No, my ex started listening to manosphere podcasts and instead of communicating, decide to deploy 'dread game' because he thought it would make me respect him. He started making more money and suddenly had this 'earn me and prove your worth to me' mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:43 AM
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This delusional thinking ended my last relationship. The manosphere truly is a curse on this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:36 AM
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Wrong. Women work less hours than men because they do the bulk of the domestic, unpaid household labour. Also the childcare and elderly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:52 PM
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And why do you think this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:37 PM
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Use your brain, do you think there might be a reason for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:37 AM
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No he isn't, not at all. Women are overwhelmingly supported in society by men No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:55 AM
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This isn't making the point you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:47 AM
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Then stop speaking on what women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:03 PM
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I don't even know wtf you're talking about now. Did they teach you that line in hustlers university or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:49 PM
1

You don't even know what women like man, calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:21 PM
1

Wow, you sure showed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:15 PM
1

What did you JUST say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:07 PM
-5

LOL well most women aren't attracted to sluts, you're completely off the mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:53 PM
-1

What is an 'asshole'?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:44 PM
2

Domestic violence benefits women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:42 PM
2

As opposed to what? Force men into changing? Use violence to get what they want? Non violent resistance is effective and ethical and safe, isn't it obvious why they'd choose this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:42 PM
4

but women's assumptions are so objectively true they can see through any amount of time and space I never once made such a claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:11 PM
6

Are you a strong, independent women or uwu wittle brainwash victims who can't make your own decisions? A person can be financially independent and make their own decisions, and people are also heavily influenced by the culture and environment they grew up in. Most people with above lukewarm intelligence will realise there is no contradiction here. Also that was exactly the point I was making, women are desperate for marriage because the point has been reinforced for years that they're worthless …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:11 PM
5

Your feelings aren't a reflection of reality, I cannot believe how many men need this to be explained to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:12 PM
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