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Fiveheadeat/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:49 PM
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There’s a major difference here. Most women aren’t unhealthily obsessed with their beauty to the point where it consumes their entire personality. But then again, most men aren’t Reddit incels. I need you guys to understand something. The 80/20 rule is bullshit. Absolute, unadulterated horse shit. It’s more like the 99/80 rule. 99% of women are sleeping with 80% of men. They might all want 20% of men, but they sexually settle. A lot. Plus, the top 20% of men isn’t set in stone. Every day men ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:04 PM
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Well, it’s also unfair and sexist that women can automatically start getting laid at 15, meanwhile men have to study, learn, and develop their sexuality. Women get the advantage early in life, which they usually take for granted, and men get the advantage later. Life isn’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:36 PM
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Y’all are pathetic. I hate to break it to you, but if you can’t get laid, you’re not average. You’re below average. I know dudes that are short, skinny, ugly, have no money, don’t drive and live with their parents and get laid. But they’re fun dudes to hang out with at the bar and have a good time. Your personality is what gets you laid. Women don’t care about looks as much as us. They care about how you make them FEEL. That’s it. That’s what determines whether you get sex or not. Tinder is shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:25 PM
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These comments are ridiculous. Of course men are way more likely to accept offers from sex, but an obese woman with facial deformities? The few matches she gets are gonna be dudes like… I don’t know, the monster from jeepers creepers? These very unattractive women that supposedly get more attention than the average men are getting the attention of scumbags. We all wanna get laid but not every offer is a good one. Average men can fucking get laid, but they have to self improve in specific areas a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:09 AM
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They wouldn’t like it, but they’d at least get some practice in, not feel like a total social reject, stop complaining on Reddit, and they’d work their way up. Meanwhile, the women might feel used. No one wants to be a practice girl. But hey, they can help themselves too! The only issue women have that would put them anywhere close to male incel status is obesity. Well, they can lose some weight. There’s not an in shape woman alive that can’t get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:04 PM
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Well, 10% less men are having sex. What percent increase of women are out earning their men in the same time period. That’s the question If it’s, say 20%, then yeah, some women would be dating down and attracted to the guy. I don’t know the exact stats. I gotta look it up. You raise an interesting point about how cultural changes might influence womens sexuality. Evo psyche hacks would argue it takes millions of years, but I suppose we’ll see. We’ve had feminism for 100 years and women are still…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:46 PM
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Hey, not everyone’s the same. There’s averages and then there’s real individual people. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:43 PM
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I hope you’re doing alright. The argument is usually when women have the money and power in a relationship, the develop resentment because they’re not attracted to their man anymore. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:22 PM
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I mean it’s supply and demand. It doesn’t really matter how the individual thinks it should be, it matters what the market demands of you. Most women don’t like emotional men and most men don’t wanna take a slut seriously. Maybe we’re all mass programmed and brainwashed, but on an individual level, you can’t tell someone what they have to like. It’s all preferences. The “easy chick” think is mostly about cheating though. Men and women are both more likely to cheat if they have a history, but for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:08 PM
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You’d think that it’s starting to change, but less men are having sex than ever before. Women are having sex at the same rate and like 10% less men are compared to 20 years ago. I don’t know if that’s linked to women earning more, but… I mean women are clearly still dating up. Give it time I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:06 PM
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You would have to be 600lbs or a burn victim to be a female incel. They exist but they’re almost statistically insignificant. 99.9% of women can get laid if they lower their standards. Probably 20-30% of men can’t get anyone, no matter how low their standards are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:30 PM
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There’s no such thing as an incel woman. They’re all volcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:15 PM
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Women tend to reward “toxic” masculine behavior with sex. So many guys say the same thing. “I used to be a nice guy and got walked on by women. Now I’m a dick and I get laid.” Obviously the best thing to do is to be a kind, strong good man, like the best of both worlds. But, for many of us, we’d rather be assholes than incels. The point is, men gravitate towards behavior that women are sexually interested in, whether it’s right or wrong. I’m not saying it’s our only motivation in life, but it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:12 PM
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It’s not just for sex. We actually want commitment and love too. We’re just low key about it. Kind of like how women want sex but they’re mysterious and incognito about it. Just sex is an oversimplification, and no, women aren’t the only reason we achieve in life. However, it’s a significant portion of the picture. Success with the opposite sex is a major motivating force in our lives, much more so than women understand. For straight dudes anyway. I realize not everyone’s straight. It would seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:03 PM
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Patriarch means man in charge. Women don’t like the patriarchy but are still sexually attracted to patriarchs. I guess you can’t help what you’re attracted to. Men do things in life to get laid. Any man that tells you otherwise is a liar. Women, you have a choice to make. If you really want to smash the patriarchy, you gotta stop fucking alpha males. Men operate on sexual incentive. You ladies have more power than you’ll ever realize. Your sexual choices determine how society operates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:24 PM
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In other words, men lead because women LIKE it. That’s why they fuck leaders. Natural or cultural, this is how it works. We have a patriarchy because women like to fuck patriarchs. If tomorrow, we all woke up and all of the sudden, women were generally attracted to timid, weak, submissive men, then women would rule the world within 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:56 PM
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Cus you’re afraid of what people think? This is pathetic. Do it anyway. Eventually someone will bite. It’s no wonder you guys can’t get laid. You have no balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:47 PM
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Two reasons. Ten years is a long time. There’s a huge, huge, huge difference between late 20s and late 30s. This is generational, and I’m not going to sit here and blame women. The main reason so many young men can’t attract a woman is because they’re fucking PUSSIES. I can see having a dry spell. We’ve all had those. But still being a male virgin in your mid to late 20s? Unless it’s by choice, which is basically never, that’s fucking pathetic. You guys are a lost cause. MAN UP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:41 PM
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No, there’s really not. Women like to think everyone’s different. The vast majority of men are the same in this regard, in that they’d casually sleep with a hot female friend. We’re not really concerned about messing up the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:32 PM
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I hate to say this, but what you’re saying doesn’t add up. Basically the only logical explanation is that you’re ugly. Women who are 4s and up would not say this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:24 PM
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Being ripped is not doing nothing. Nobody gets ripped without effort. I don’t care how good your genes are. Every single ripped dude on the face of the earth had to bust his ass to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:21 PM
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They’re not born better. Becoming alpha takes hard work. The difference is, alphas put in the effort before they meet the woman. Betas put the effort in after.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:14 PM
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Even if it’s sociological, if the end result is the same, does it really matter? Mass social conditioning has every bit as strong a grip on society as nature, if not more so. The point is, women reinforce the standards of masculinity with their mate choices. Men are very motivated by this. Whether it’s natural or cultural is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:35 PM
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Your height and face matters, but life isn’t fair, and there are many, many things you can do as a man to improve your quality. I promise you there are 6’3” pretty boys who don’t get laid because they’re broke, have shitty clothes, no social skills, are either really skinny or obese, and are scared. You can always become more attractive as a man. Some people have to put in more work than others, but again, life isn’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:43 PM
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Always do a coffee date. Never take a woman to a restaurant first. If she’s too good for a coffee date, goodbye. Leave without even thinking twice. You gotta make sure you’re not getting hustled by these chicks. After you’ve gotten to know each other for a few weeks, then you go to dinner. Be smart fellas. There’s four billion women on earth. You can live without this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:37 PM
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Yeah cus your dad and brothers are probably decent dudes with options. We’re talking about bottom of the barrel men here, otherwise we wouldn’t be having this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:56 PM
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That’s not true. Attractive men do. Most men do not have nearly as much access to sex as you think. Men and women desire monogamy roughly equally, but women have much more access to sex. It only seems this way when women sleep with guys out of their league. Most men will gladly sleep down, but they won’t date down. It doesn’t matter. You’re not entitled to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:51 PM
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Luckily I’m not in a desperate position like that, but yeah, a lot of men would. Being a man that is unable to sexually attract a woman is a fate worse than death. Most men intentionally progress their lives in order to not be in that situation, but yeah, there’s plenty of dudes out here that would choose a toxic relationship over incel status
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:34 PM
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Oohhhhh you’re in the UK. Alright it must be different over there. The US is a train wreck 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:32 PM
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Because he doesn’t owe you shit, bro. Men aren’t entitled to sex, and women aren’t entitled to commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:07 PM
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It’s regional too. Sexuality is more equal in urban areas. In rural areas, women have 100% of the power because there’s just less people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:05 PM
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Either they’re handsome studs, or they’re not choosing because they can’t. Men don’t have this freedom like you think they do. We’re just good liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:34 PM
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Oh boy. That’s the feminism talking right there. 99.9% of men would sleep around if they could. We are not the same. Most men can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:11 PM
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Actually the birth rate has been pretty consistent throughout the 20th century. The population boom is more caused by the declining death rate than anything. Modern medicine. We need to stop trying to “save everyone’s life.” Not enough people are dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:06 PM
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There’s a cognitive dissonance here. Men conform to traditional standards of masculinity in order to be sexually attractive to women. Women like to act like sex is an equal, natural exchange based on compatibility. They don’t think of it in terms of a “reward.” This is because they have passivity privilege. It’s easy to ignore the process when you don’t have to participate in it. Women participate in patriarchy with their sexual choices. I mean hey, you can’t help what you’re attracted to. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:49 PM
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That’s the rule, not the exception. 99% of dudes that can sleep around do. Dudes that don’t, can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:42 PM
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See, now you’re losing me again with the stubborn feminism. Your rights are built on modern society. If the world does end up like South Sudan, then you absolutely will become submissive baby makers again. Civilization is a beautiful thing, isn’t it. We’re only equal because the world has progressed to that point. You give a couple nothing but a spear and a fucked up forest, then you don’t have any rights. You do what the man says. I’m gonna agree to disagree with you here. I’m currently sipping…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:26 PM
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Yeah see, this is a good point. I don’t think therapy is a hoax, but many women are so quick to dismiss mens emotional needs because it’s not their problem. Men cater to women emotionally way more. The problem is, mens emotional and sexual needs often overlap, and women jump right to this meaning “ew, men act entitled to sex!” The bottom line is, men have to earn their happiness in this regard. Women in healthy relationships have no problem satisfying their man’s needs. But again, men have to ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:19 PM
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That is correct. There will be a lot of rape, and a lot of better people shooting and stabbing rapists. It will be a mess. Look, neither of us can accurately predict what’s going to happen, but it is very likely that womens rights will be severely impacted as the world economy deteriorates. For now, although it isn’t perfect, women in the western world are treated better than ever. I hope that continues for as long as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:10 PM
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I mean I hear you, but again, most people will not have access to this technology. And if the third world today is any indication, well humans are incredibly resilient. It’s not like everyone who falls through the economic cracks is just gonna die immediately. If that was the case, the African and south East Asian population would already be imploding. Abortion and contraceptives aren’t going to be available, and of course people will still have sex. You’re gonna see a lot of starving babies. I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:56 AM
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Ok, fair enough. I’m not saying this is what men “should do,” I’m saying many men are doing this. If your argument is that we need to do better, well, you have an argument 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:48 AM
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Not the point. I’m talking about the first world market of goods and services collapsing. I know it’s a hard pill to swallow, but feminism is built on first world luxuries. In 2080, the economy will be unrecognizable. Meat probably won’t exist. The earth will be 3 degrees Celsius hotter. Most coastal cities will be underwater. Every material resource we take for granted will be gone. No more Walmart. No more affordable cars. Nothing. Only the rich will have access to todays normal American life,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:44 AM
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I look at it like this. A good relationship is based on three things. Love/emotional intimacy, sex, and friendship. Female status like this helps in the friendship area. Like, “my girl is a badass and she’s cool because xyz.” Having a career like this is like being a metal head or having an interest in skydiving. It’s a cool attribute. It’s doesn’t matter sexually. Men aren’t aroused by female status. So, yeah it does matter, but not sexually. The problem arises when a woman earns six figures an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:29 AM
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Sure it won’t unindent anything, but the average person won’t have access to this technology. Most Americans will be living like African peasants by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:02 AM
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I said this in the context of “this is why men put up with cheating and other crap” Not “women owe men sex” Jesus Christ, the knee jerk reaction is strong here. “wE dOnT oWe yOu sHiT bRo” yeah, we know. We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:57 AM
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I wouldn’t say it justifies staying with a cheater, but yeah, it does matter. Being unable to attract a woman is like being unemployed or not having a drivers license. It is absolutely essential for men. It’s a failure of skill, basically. Women don’t need to try to attract a man, so you wouldn’t understand. It’s not the same thing. Also, men don’t have emotional outlets. There is zero support for us. Our only emotional vessel is a woman. I don’t think anyone should stay with a cheater, but we d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:04 AM
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Men need sex. Women don’t. Men and women enjoy it equally, but men cannot live happy fulfilled lives without sex. Women can. Women 👏 control 👏 access 👏 to 👏 sex 👏 Women reward toxic masculinity with sex. Men just do what works. Women set the pace and men react. The day women stop having sex with assholes is the day men will start acting right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:28 AM
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Only if you don’t care who the father is. You have your pick at 25. You don’t have as much choice in the matter at 35 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:24 AM
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You’re assuming technology is gonna continue to advance. We’re gonna be back to the Stone Age in a few generations. Every environmental and resource consumption metric is at a tipping point. I seriously hope you’re right, but realistically, society is not going to continue to evolve. We would need five earths to sustainably support 8 billion people living like western consumers. We need two in general. We’re gonna be hunting for cockroaches and contaminated tree stumps in 2100. Gender roles will…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:14 AM
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Yes. Men need sex. It’s not the same thing. Going without is not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:12 AM
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We’re in a unique time in history where there’s too many people, so mass quantities of women are choosing not to have kids, or at least not prioritizing it. That’s great. Get your bag girl. Assuming civilization still exists a few generations from now, the population will eventually peak and then plummet. Our luxurious first world will probably be severely reduced in quality, and people will revert back to their gender roles at that point. You can only be a feminist in a first world country. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:26 PM
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We’re in a unique time in history where there’s too many people, so mass quantities of women are choosing not to have kids, or at least not prioritizing it. That’s great. Get your bag girl. Assuming civilization still exists a few generations from now, the population will eventually peak and then plummet. Our luxurious first world will probably be severely reduced in quality, and people will revert back to their gender roles at that point. You can only be a feminist in a first world country. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:24 PM
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Yeah cus they all wanna fuck Chads until they’re 37. “Waaahh I’m not ready to stop being a slut waaaahhh”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:44 PM
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Yeah. Everyone’s hypergamous. Men take who we can get, women sleep with who they can get and risk getting left. That’s not the point anyway. The point is, while most dudes get laid occasionally, the dudes that have multiple regular sex partners are rare. Only the most attractive men can do this, and most of them have zero interest in monogamy. In other words, the dudes that all the women want, they want all the women. They don’t commit. Get a dude in the middle. One with some rizz but not too mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:51 PM
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I’m trying to be more moderate about this stuff. R** P*** theories are usually rooted in a shred of truth and exaggerated to ridiculous lengths. I’d compare male sexuality to car insurance. When you’re under 25, yeah, it’s more expensive. It’s more difficult. You should still find a way to drive though. After 25, if you can’t find a decent rate, that’s your problem. I’ve been trying to stay off the internet and go hang out with real people more. Of course it’s easier for women to get laid, but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:28 PM
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I almost gave up the gatekeeper theory Almost. Then I scrolled through some female dominated forums. They all complain about the same thing. The pump and dump. The lying about wanting commitment. The ghosting after sex. Oh my god, on and on and on. They act every bit as entitled to commitment and men do to sex. Men absolutely gatekeep commitment 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:42 PM
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Every man alive knows they do better in person. Women are more attracted to things that happen in real world, in person interaction. They like vibes. You have no vibe on an app. You have pictures and a bio. I’m reasonably attractive and a musician. I’ve done alright with women in person but have had jack shit from dating apps. They’re not like us. A handsome picture ain’t gonna cut it unless you’re Superman. They need to see how you are in real life to decide if they’re attracted to you. Women g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:22 AM
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I’ll bet the 30-35 range is doing the heavy lifting. I seriously doubt women under 30 are having less sex than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:14 AM
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Women don’t get it. Giving up on sex is not an option. Men need sex to have fulfilled satisfying lives, and it’s 100 times harder for us. Being a guy SUCKS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:47 AM
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Men raising their standards is not an option. Women say this all the time, like it’s a valid solution. They simply don’t understand how difficult it is for us to attract a woman. If we raised our standards, we would never get anyone. Blaming men for wanting sex is like blaming a heroin addict for buying heroin. Ok fine, it’s a choice. Women are the dealers. Men would rather blame the heroin dealers. I’m sorry, but women supply sex and men demand it. It doesn’t matter if women also want sex. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:43 AM
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